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Why some narcissists get into personal development and work on themselves · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  What is going on? Beautiful people.
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  Welcome to another episode or deed Narciso, damn near favor
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  self-aware narcissus mr. Lee hammock better known as
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  mental illness of growth across all social media platform.
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  This your first time seeing my face or hear my voice.
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  I'm a clinically diagnosed Narcissus and he's my platform
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  on social media to raise awareness for MPD.
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  Get more people into therapy and also validate the victims,
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  survivors and thrivers asset disorder.
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  Said, talk to people to talk to traits.
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  Today's episode is going to be about why something the house of
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  narcissistic people. Actually do work on themselves
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  out, why some narcissist get into personal development, maybe
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  not therapy, but some of them will absolutely get into
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  personal development. So before you have in today's
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  episode, I want to shout out the brand-new Audi.
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  I love me. The self-love brand this is from
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  my shop or whatever. Y'all IMA wear the symbol stands
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  for. I love me.
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  I'm aware, I'm aware of what I'm aware of Darcy's.
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  I'm aware a person. I'm aware of what you're doing.
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  I see you. You know, I see you and I hope
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  that you see me. But yeah, the link is in the
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  comments. Tune in every video I do.
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  Yeah. But yes, yes, yeah, yes yeah
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  yes. Yes Lord yes.
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  Some narcissistic people will absolutely 100% become obsessed
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  with personal development. IE me before I got into the
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  therapy. Oh so y'all know my story.
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  I've been in therapy since October 2017.
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  Right. But I've been doing personal
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  development since I was like 20 21 years old working at
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  Blockbuster video. When a guy named Joseph Neal's
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  came in there and then put me on And way Global, you know, Amber
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  Global them, they pitch, they started doing the, they do a lot
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  of personal development. Network marketing companies, do
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  a lot of personal development. They pretty much show books that
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  you throw tell you, reread this book, Think and Grow Rich, read
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  this j-jim wrong Tony Robbins. So I became obsessed with this
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  stuff. Yo, and I think I became
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  obsessed with like because you feel like you're doing better by
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  reading those books. You feel like my reading those
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  books by getting into personal development, you feel like
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  you're elevating your life even though even if you're not taking
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  the action, even just reading those books.
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  Is like damn near getting a college degree.
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  You can say it makes you feel like you're elevated.
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  And I know I see a lot of narcissistic people that are
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  also into personal development because it makes you feel better
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  about yourself makes you feel like you're not being stagnant,
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  listening to Tony Robbins, I became obsessed with Tony
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  Robbins for a long time and it's my goal to meet him one day but
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  also to like go to one of his like date with Destiny's and
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  just be in the front row and just hey I'm narcy.
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  Yo just I it was a you have a member this.
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  Y'all remember if y'all Watch this video, y'all hear me say
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  that? You're well, damn, yeah.
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  But some narcissistic people, this is my mindset.
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  When I was getting the person development.
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  I knew that I was lacking something in my life.
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  I knew that something was going into going on inside my head
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  which a lot of narcissists. Yo, a lot of narcissist know
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  that something's going on, you know, me a lot of narcissist I
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  don't I wouldn't necessarily say I wouldn't necessarily you know
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  that something is going on. I would answer say did
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  narcissist know that there are narcissists but Narcissistic
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  people, the diagnosis was in the undiagnosed without spoken to
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  they will openly acknowledge that something is going on
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  inside of their head. They will say they like most of
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  them that I talked to most of them that I know.
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  Oh Polly say that something is going on the side of their head.
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  They just can't put it. They just don't know what it is.
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  Like I know something's going on but I don't know what it is in
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  the you were here. A lot of them say that because
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  yeah it's a it's a problem. It's an internal problem that we
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  have with ourselves that we know something's going on, but we
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  can't just put it. We can't put our finger on it,
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  right? So it In order to get rid of
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  that, feeling some narcissist throw themselves into something,
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  like a lot of narcissistic people have addictive
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  personalities, right? Well, nurses like myself, who
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  are especially interested in trying to better themselves
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  would be better than everybody else.
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  We get addicted to self-betterment self-help and
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  things like that self-help. We don't want anybody else
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  helping us right? We can't we are too proud and
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  our ego is too high to reach out for our ego is reaching out.
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  Our ego is too big for us. They're actually reach out for
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  help for somebody else from somebody else, because we want
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  to do, we're going to do self-help, we're gonna do
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  personal development. Listen to a personal self,
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  personal things that I can do myself, I don't need, I don't
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  need to rely on you or anybody else, even though I'm relying on
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  Tony Robbins on Zig Ziglar or are timers less brown people
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  like that Gary vaynerchuk, people like that.
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  I became obsessed with it. Y'all like seriously and that's
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  how I got here. Honestly, Gary, they near Chuck.
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  Is the reason I do Tick Tock was really.
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  The reason I thought of my Tick Tock which is how I'm here.
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  So I actually send him a message saying, Gary vaynerchuk a
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  message thanking him and he responded to me, he's like a
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  proud of you Leo. But yeah, that's how it goes
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  though. You did with a lot.
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  I doing a lot of narcissistic people who are in the person
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  development because we know we lack something.
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  So we try to throw ourselves into be better.
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  And like I said, some nurses The people get get super prion
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  himself, high and mighty get super pretentious because they
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  read books because they do personal development, or maybe
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  because they go actually go to school and get a degree who
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  knows. But they think that they are
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  better than you. That's the mindset meet because
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  I read Tony Robbins. I'm better than you because I
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  read some Zig Ziglar books. I better than you because I
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  read, I've listened to Simon sinek.
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  I'm better than you, you something, because I listened to
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  dr. Joe dispenza, I better than you,
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  but that's how the mind goes get in the personal development.
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  Are they getting the personal development?
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  Because we know we feel like we're underdeveloped.
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  We feel like, we could be better.
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  We feel like we're always Nothing in life.
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  Is enough for us, we're never content.
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  We're never happy to are always trying to Pile in something
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  else. So I threw myself into personal
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  development because it made me feel like I'm doing more, even
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  though I wasn't taking necessary steps shots about some of the
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  stuff. I was just listening to and not
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  doing anything like not doing any actions.
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  I just had the knowledge base, you know, but it's funny how I
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  use a lot of their stuff that I learned and what I talk about
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  now. Which is kind of funny how it
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  all ended in the end, how it all is the working out.
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  But back in the day I damn sure did like I wasn't dude I was
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  reading those books and I thought I was high and mighty
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  you know you can you can tell me anything when I read Think and
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  Grow Rich. I would like to be rich.
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  I'm already I'm already rich mentally.
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  I'm better than all the outcome already rich mentally,
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  collaborate thanking you a rich. But it's the inner workings of a
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  lot of narcissistic people's minds out, we automatically
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  Elevate ourselves. We do something minor, your
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  person developing definitely minor about person to be Love it
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  because, you know, if you put into working to be a better
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  person, but when you elevate yourself, just because you read
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  a book, there's other people haven't read just because you
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  took a course that other people haven't taken their because, you
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  know, went to a seminar to other people have me went to you
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  automatically Elevate yourself, think you're better than other
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  people and that's the narcissistic Minds that you see
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  I'm saying doing more personal development, throwing yourself
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  into this. This type of stuff does make you
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  feel better. It makes you feel like you're
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  accomplishing, something makes you feel like you're doing a lot
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  of good stuff you they make you feel like you're more qualified.
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  For your life, then what you actually are, you know me, but
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  it happens quite a bit. Yeah.
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  If you're just one of those things like person development,
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  a lot of nurses, just do get in the person development.
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  So if you actually have a narcissistic partner, that's got
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  obsessed with somebody like like Eric Thomas or Jim Rome or any
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  of the like seat. It's not just person telling me
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  how it's like you idolize. These people, it's not just
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  getting the person metal but it's not.
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  It's like you idolize these people.
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  You find somebody there's doing better than you and you you
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  idolize that you want to damn near beat them.
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  Like a lot of people, a lot of toxic narcissistic ass people
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  will jump into the like they get into the red pill stuff or to
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  get into like the get into the red, pill misogynistic type of
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  stuff, they think they're better than you and because there are
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  men and stuff like there, I was, yeah, you say it like you see a
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  lot of people who get it, who talked to follow the and Route a
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  stuff, because they automatically feel like they're
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  better than you because our man, I'm a man, I'm better than you
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  because you're a woman. I don't care if you had degrees.
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  I don't care if you you got this, I'm better than you
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  because you're a woman. That's the mindset of a lot of
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  those people. Let's say all of them but a lot
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  of them they a lot of narcissistic people will
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  gravitate towards and you take one of my my old good friends.
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  He's an Andrew take. Like two of them to my old.
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  Good friends both highly narcissistic toxic gas man.
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  Both love this and Route 80. Sharing is sharing his shit all
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  the time. I'm like, yeah, what you mean?
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  But it doesn't surprise me because that's a dish.
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  Their mindset. They won't people.
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  They share this type of stuff to make you feel like they're
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  better than you. I'm better than you because I
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  sure did stuff. I'm better than you because I
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  have this mindset and not it's not like say That's a that's a
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  like a very volatile example but you get that Dynamic with a lot
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  of people Kevin saying is and people like that you have some
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  people on the female side of the spectrum as well who do who do
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  very similar things like you get the sprinkle sprinkle sprinkle
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  sprinkle woman she does some something very kind of similar
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  to that where she kind of building a community of people
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  to take to take advantage of it. Other people he's gonna say but
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  you see a type of dynamic and the doctor type of stuff that
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  happens quite a bit. So it's not just one or two.
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  It's a community of people. People who do it on all sides of
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  it, but you get people who find it who idolize these people and
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  they want to beat them. So they sort of act like that.
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  Like I just got into the good person development like Tony
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  Robbins and em. I got into that and they helped
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  me be a better person overall y'all.
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