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She texted him 58 times after he GHOSTED her! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Ampa Bay's best music is Magic Jadge.
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  Speaker 2: And welcome to another episode of Scotti and Abby Unfiltered.
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  Speaker 2: I'm excited for this conversation because Abby, you literally just
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  Speaker 2: brought in our special guest. I have no idea where
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  Speaker 2: the conversation is going to go, but I will have
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  Speaker 2: my popcorn. I am leaned in.
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  Speaker 3: I know we are bringing in Miranda, who I affectionately
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  Speaker 3: call Miranda, just like Steve from Sex and the City.
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  Speaker 3: But Miranda eersly graduate from the University of Florida. I
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  Speaker 3: go freaking gay ors and she's twenty two, young, fresh,
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  Speaker 3: newly single. I was like, girl, you you have to
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  Speaker 3: come talk about this on the podcast because Scott and
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  Speaker 3: I are old and crusty like Scott, Scott's practically married
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  Speaker 3: men won't talk to me, and the men love Miranda
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  Speaker 3: like I went out with her to Lower Deck, which
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  Speaker 3: is the young, cool, twenty three year old.
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  Speaker 1: Bar, and the men were all over Miranda.
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  Speaker 3: And you recently broke up with your boyfriend a week
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  Speaker 3: or two ago, yes, like two weeks ago, two weeks ago,
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  Speaker 3: your long term boyfriend from college, and you have lived
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  Speaker 3: so much life in those two years, and the saga
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  Speaker 3: that I have been incredibly invested in is a man
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  Speaker 3: that you've been talking to?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, and you think you scared him off.
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  Speaker 4: I totally scared him off, like it's not even a thought, Like.
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  Speaker 1: She spammed his text messages. She sent sixty messages one night.
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  Speaker 3: But I want, Miranda, I want you to start from
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  Speaker 3: wherever you're comfortable starting off.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, where the heck are we?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, so obviously I'm freshly single, so I have like
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  Speaker 4: no riz obviously because you send sixty messages and one
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  Speaker 4: night she has so much RIZ.
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  Speaker 1: So wait, what's your bit that you do when we
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  Speaker 1: were at lower Deck?
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  Speaker 4: How you approach my pickup line? Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Her pickup line?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, So my pickup line is I go up to
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  Speaker 4: a random guy and I'll just be like, there you
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  Speaker 4: are and pretend like I already met them, and then
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  Speaker 4: sometimes they do believe it, and then it gets the conversation, ohing,
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  Speaker 4: So I did there you are this man when I
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  Speaker 4: met him?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, hey there you are. That is so smart
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  Speaker 2: because like so now like yeah, like we're like, oh yeah,
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  Speaker 2: pretty girl, Hello.
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  Speaker 1: You did meet him at some point, be like, O look, god,
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  Speaker 1: it's so good.
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  Speaker 4: To see you again. Yeah, exactly. You just gaslight them
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  Speaker 4: and like it gets the conversation flowing. So me and
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  Speaker 4: my friends, there you are this man just as a joke,
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  Speaker 4: like we're never really serious, like we never really think
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  Speaker 4: something's gonna come out of it. We there you are him?
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  Speaker 4: And then me and him start talking, like I get
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  Speaker 4: his number. We're like texting a lot. He's like planning
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  Speaker 4: to take me on all these dates, like crazy dates,
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  Speaker 4: Like he's planning to take me to the giraffe sanctuary
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  Speaker 4: I love. He wants to feed the giraffes, he wants
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  Speaker 4: to go to tarp and Spring. So I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 4: this is my new boyfriend, right, Like this is gonna
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  Speaker 4: be my new boyfriend. And he was older, which not
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  Speaker 4: like super old, like twenty five yeah, and I'm twenty two,
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  Speaker 4: but like okay, that's like perfect for me, like a
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  Speaker 4: little bit more mature than like freshly graduated college guy.
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  Speaker 4: And so I'm like, wow, he's really like into me, right,
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  Speaker 4: Like am I crazy for thinking that? I don't think.
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  Speaker 3: So I want to know how did he pitch the
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  Speaker 3: drafts sanctuary because that's like objectively not a sexy date.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm just picturing you two in this moody bar
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  Speaker 1: and him being like.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, girl, it's so long.
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  Speaker 4: I want to take you to the zoo. He like
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  Speaker 4: just texted me a whole paragraph about how he used
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  Speaker 4: to volunteer at the Draft Sanctuary and he wants to
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  Speaker 4: go there. And it's like far though, So it's gonna
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  Speaker 4: be like a whole day date for like our first date.
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  Speaker 4: Like we didn't go on a date.
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  Speaker 2: You literally just met at Lower Deck and now he's
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  Speaker 2: talking about taking you to go see your ass.
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  Speaker 4: We actually met at Red Dog. Oh, it's even better,
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  Speaker 4: even better.
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  Speaker 1: Red Dog is kind of like a divy Yeah, a
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  Speaker 1: divy bar, divish diver.
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  Speaker 4: It's very diver.
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  Speaker 2: Now do you like that kind of approach because in
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  Speaker 2: my head, I go that seems a little love bomby
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  Speaker 2: at first, just saying.
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  Speaker 3: Well, it's funny because when me and you were talking,
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, this is just the perfect
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  Speaker 3: example of the difference of dating before twenty five and
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  Speaker 3: after twenty five because I'm I'm a proponent of the
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  Speaker 3: frontal lobe rule, Like one your brain is gonna go
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  Speaker 3: and you're just gonna you're gonna be a little bit
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  Speaker 3: too sentient, and it just reminds you that, like you
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  Speaker 3: think your brain is fully cooked, and then one day
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  Speaker 3: you wake up and you start seeing things differently, Like
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  Speaker 3: for me, at twenty two, I would have thought that
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  Speaker 3: was very like sweet and thoughtful and like, oh he
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  Speaker 3: wants to take me on all these dates, And then
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  Speaker 3: at twenty nine, I'm like, what are you doing? Okay,
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  Speaker 3: so you do not have other women interested in you?
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  Speaker 3: Like what's going on? Why you have so much time?
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  Speaker 3: We are you invested in me? Like I'm just too jaded?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you look at it a little differently.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and he definitely knew like we probably weren't gonna
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  Speaker 4: actually date, but I was down to go to the Giraffes.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, like I'm excited to see the drafts. So yeah,
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  Speaker 4: definitely got some like love bombing signs for sure.
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  Speaker 3: But it's still fun and it's nice, I know when
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  Speaker 3: your heart broken to have something to distract you.
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  Speaker 1: This guy's cute.
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  Speaker 3: We've been calling him superman like cant He also went
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  Speaker 3: to Florida, Like you got a good thing.
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  Speaker 4: We have a few things in commons.
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  Speaker 2: We're smart and handsome. Jesus, guys handle.
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  Speaker 1: He has an affinity for draft He.
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  Speaker 2: Loves animals, God, he sounds perfect.
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  Speaker 4: Superman's perfect. So then I'm in Vero this past weekend
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  Speaker 4: for like a girl's weekend.
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  Speaker 2: And Vero, Yeah, I grew up.
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  Speaker 4: Really.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: We were at the Grind and Grape.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I used to get so turned grinding. That's where
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  Speaker 2: like literally everybody in my high school goes and turns
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  Speaker 2: up if they still live there.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, happened at the Grind and Grape.
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  Speaker 2: Well, it's exactly how the name sounds. It's a lot
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  Speaker 2: of grind and it's a lot of grapes.
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  Speaker 4: And we've read a lot of underaged kids, lots of
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  Speaker 4: underaged men, so we couldn't flirt with them. That's inappropriate,
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  Speaker 4: that's that's.
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  Speaker 2: Not a good representation, that representation of my hometown. But
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  Speaker 2: I'm glad you got to experience it.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, So we were tearing up the Grind and Grape
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  Speaker 4: and Superman. On Friday, he's being very texty. He's like,
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  Speaker 4: how's the girls trip? Texting me while I'm out, and
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  Speaker 4: then he's telling me that he's gonna, you know, get
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  Speaker 4: this dog on Saturday, Foster, this dog named Jim. So
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  Speaker 4: I love Jim. He's sending me Jim and I'm like, wow,
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  Speaker 4: Jim's so cute. So we had our first day actually
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  Speaker 4: planned for Sunday night when I was back from Vo.
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  Speaker 4: We were going to do something. So while we were
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  Speaker 4: texting on Friday, was like, so, what are we going
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  Speaker 4: to do Sunday because you know, I'm a little tipsy,
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  Speaker 4: so I'm like fearless of course, and he's like, We're
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  Speaker 4: going to take Jim to like a dog restaurant, like
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  Speaker 4: a dog friendly restaurant, like to a dog park. So
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, we're getting a dog, We're getting Jim.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, you guys are now adopting Yeah, now.
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  Speaker 4: We're adopting Jim. So I'm like, okay, I'm in, Like
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  Speaker 4: I'm so in. And then the last text I ever
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  Speaker 4: received from him was Friday at two am when I
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  Speaker 4: got home from the grinding crape and he sent me
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  Speaker 4: a TikTok of Jim and he's like, look at this TikTok.
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  Speaker 4: Jim is so cute, Like I can't wait to meet
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  Speaker 4: and tomorrow. So like I'm like wow, Like that was
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  Speaker 4: the last text still to this day that I ever
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  Speaker 4: received from him. So then the next morning I text
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  Speaker 4: him back because I was asleep, and I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 4: Jim is so cute, like I love Jim, like whatever,
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  Speaker 4: just like because I'm like I didn't know I was
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  Speaker 4: getting ghosted, Like how do I know what?
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  Speaker 2: You're just like I'm responding, yeah, Like.
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  Speaker 4: How would I know that? So it's nine am and
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  Speaker 4: I'm like okay. Then it's two pm and I'm like
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  Speaker 4: I still haven't heard back, so I'm like I want
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  Speaker 4: to see photos of Jim. So I'm like, did you
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  Speaker 4: get Jim? And he doesn't answer again. And then it's
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  Speaker 4: seven PM and me and my friends had like a
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  Speaker 4: cute little dinner party Martini's and Weenies, so we were
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  Speaker 4: so cute.
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  Speaker 2: Guys are so cuy.
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  Speaker 4: We were cooking, we were drinking, taking photos, and I'm like, shit,
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  Speaker 4: like Superman hasn't texted me. And I really wasn't that
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  Speaker 4: worried about it all day because I was like with
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  Speaker 4: my girls, I was like whatever, But like now I'm cute,
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  Speaker 4: Like I'm drinking, I'm like, where's Superman? So I start
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  Speaker 4: like texting him and just no response, and so then
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  Speaker 4: we're starting to drink more, we're like going out, We're
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  Speaker 4: back at the grind and grape and I keep texting him,
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  Speaker 4: but I would delete the text off my phone, so
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  Speaker 4: like I wouldn't see his name when I went on
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  Speaker 4: my phone, but then I would keep typing and adding more,
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  Speaker 4: so I had no idea how many I actually sent.
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  Speaker 3: I love for us to live vicariously through me from yesterday,
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  Speaker 3: and I would love for you to read the transcript
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  Speaker 3: of all the text messages that you read or that
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  Speaker 3: you sent, because it is a trip and a half.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, I'm buckled in.
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  Speaker 3: So he texted you Friday night and you guys are
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  Speaker 3: talking about maybe fostering gym there the fosters.
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  Speaker 4: Dog, like we're getting a dog. Like, I'm so confused. Wait,
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  Speaker 4: I'm just gonna show you like a little so this is.
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  Speaker 2: So she's scrolling on her phone right now and it's
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  Speaker 2: literally just swipe after swipe after swipe of just messages
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  Speaker 2: that you have said, Miranda.
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  Speaker 1: It's like a CBS receipt.
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  Speaker 3: I just.
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  Speaker 4: So bad. And the worst part is in the morning,
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  Speaker 4: I was like talking to my friends, I was like,
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  Speaker 4: I think I texted him a lot, but I deleted everything,
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  Speaker 4: so I have to wait till I get home and
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  Speaker 4: go on my laptop to see like how many I said,
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  Speaker 4: And they're like, no, you can recover the messages. So
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  Speaker 4: we recover that, and I'm counting, and they thought I said,
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  Speaker 4: maybe like twenty, like that's fine.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if that's fine, but I guess we
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  Speaker 2: could go with that for now fifty eight.
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  Speaker 4: Fifty eight to be exact, like, it makes you.
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  Speaker 3: Wonder after like text thirty, did you think maybe he's
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  Speaker 3: probably not text me back?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you're like, maybe after text fifty six, I'll
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  Speaker 2: finally get a ding.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I was really optimistic. So I'll read the highlights,
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  Speaker 4: please do. Yeah, I don't know if we have time
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  Speaker 4: for all fifty eight. And there's a lot of repetition.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, Randon, this is a podcast. There's no time limiting.
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  Speaker 2: Wait and tell me what the heck did you send Superman?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, so I'll start from the morning good. So I
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  Speaker 4: said we need to get him. Maybe I shouldn't have
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  Speaker 4: said we need to get him.
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  Speaker 1: But the only so for context.
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  Speaker 3: After I read through all of them and I was
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  Speaker 3: trying to figure out where did he maybe get freaked out,
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  Speaker 3: I said, we might have the context of oh, he
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  Speaker 3: thinks that maybe you guys are getting it together and
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  Speaker 3: this is becoming like a couple of thing.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm like a very sarcastic person. We've like
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  Speaker 4: talked on the phone, like we've like called we facetimed,
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  Speaker 4: so like he knows, like yeah, so like this is
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  Speaker 4: my boyfriend, but he knows how I talk. I'm very sarcastic,
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  Speaker 4: very like funny. Yeah. So I feel like if you
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  Speaker 4: knew me, you would know that I'm kidding.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like that should be lighthearted. If I'm looking at
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  Speaker 2: it and I'm messaging a girl and she's like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: we should like I thought, that's just fun. She's just
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  Speaker 2: having fun.
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  Speaker 1: Flirty, fun and flirty. Yeah, that was my only hypothesis.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, maybe he started to kind of feel like
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  Speaker 3: this is my girlfriend now I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, this is going on.
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  Speaker 4: You asked me to see the giraffes, That's true. It's
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  Speaker 4: just like I don't feel like I'm not crazy.
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  Speaker 1: So you want to marry me? Essentially?
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  Speaker 2: You mean, yeah, you're going to take me to the
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  Speaker 2: draft and ask me the question. Okay.
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  Speaker 4: So then at two pm, I said, did you get
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  Speaker 4: a dog? Okay? Then four thirty pm, can you make
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  Speaker 4: a plan for tomorrow?
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  Speaker 2: Boy? Okay?
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  Speaker 4: All right, it's a little embarrassing.
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  Speaker 2: We're going to get a dog. Did you get the dog?
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  Speaker 2: Could we do?
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  Speaker 1: You also want to give the context of where he
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  Speaker 1: is right now?
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  Speaker 4: Or okay, yes, but not too many details. Y, Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: he was visiting his family has a sick family member.
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  Speaker 4: So then I had a hypothesis that potentially maybe something
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  Speaker 4: bad happen. And then like then you have me like
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  Speaker 4: texting you fifty eight times.
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  Speaker 3: You imagine that's the worst day of your life, and
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  Speaker 3: you just keep getting hit up by Miranda being like,
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  Speaker 3: so when are we getting the dog?
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  Speaker 1: Where are the drafts?
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  Speaker 3: Oh?
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  Speaker 1: Wait, continue with the transcript.
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  Speaker 4: No, yeah, but that I did feel bad about that.
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  Speaker 2: That's actually that's.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm thinking that maybe I'm not fully the problem.
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  Speaker 2: You know what, Keep reading the transcript. That's fine.
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  Speaker 4: Out together, Okay, So Saturday, I'll give you the time,
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  Speaker 4: Samsu because I do feel like it's important, Like how
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  Speaker 4: much time I spaced out, because it wasn't like fifty
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  Speaker 4: eight all at once, of course, yeah, of course not.
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  Speaker 2: Of course that's so crazy.
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  Speaker 4: Seven.
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  Speaker 1: This is normal.
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  Speaker 4: This is normal. I space it out, okay, seven twelve.
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  Speaker 4: I'm so sad. I'm getting ghosted. Seven.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's just calling it like it is.
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  Speaker 4: I'm very fearless. I love that you know what to
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  Speaker 4: be fair.
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  Speaker 3: Even if he was if he was currently with some
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  Speaker 3: and they were they were ailing or something was happening
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  Speaker 3: or something maybe went wrong, he could have easily sent
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  Speaker 3: a text him be like hey, I can't talk right now,
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  Speaker 3: let's touch back, like let's touch base tomorrow, right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I like to ease my mind a little bit.
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  Speaker 4: Right because I felt like we were texting a lot,
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  Speaker 4: like I knew what was going on in his personal life,
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  Speaker 4: like I was asking about it on Friday. So it's
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  Speaker 4: like I feel like we were there where he could
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  Speaker 4: have just like seven one texts.
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  Speaker 2: I agree. I definitely agree. I think he I'd never
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  Speaker 2: agree with ghosting one. But I could also see how
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  Speaker 2: he's like now thirty deep and he's like I don't
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  Speaker 2: know how I even recover that, go ahead, proceed. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: And another thing is I I like to just be
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  Speaker 4: how I am with dating. So it's like I don't
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  Speaker 4: try to play it cool because I'm not cool, Like
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  Speaker 4: I want you to like text me back and stuff,
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  Speaker 4: so like if you're not going to do that, like yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I'd rather just know. That's why I was also very fearless,
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  Speaker 4: Like I mean I'm never going to do this again,
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  Speaker 4: not fifty eight for sure. Yeah, I might just be
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  Speaker 4: it next time. Yeah, I might just put the phone
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  Speaker 4: down next time.
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  Speaker 2: That's good though, That's growth, Miranda. That's why we look
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  Speaker 2: at it and be like, you know what, I'm growing
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  Speaker 2: from these moments. Yeah, I have crazy moments, by the way,
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  Speaker 2: Like if anybody's listening thinking like, how could she stop it?
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  Speaker 1: No, we've all been there where the crazy switch gets flipped.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm not calling you crazy, by the way, No, No,
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  Speaker 3: I'm just saying I have also done things where I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: that was a little crazy. And it's because like when
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  Speaker 3: your source of dopamine just all of a sudden like
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  Speaker 3: goes away, you start getting a little crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So it continued with the transcript because it is kind
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  Speaker 1: of funny.
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  Speaker 4: It's very funny. Okay, i'd have been twenty three am.
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  Speaker 4: I never gonna see you again, Dot dot dot I
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  Speaker 4: love I love an ellipses, very honous, funny, very honest.
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  Speaker 4: I see you again, okay, seven forty one. You're very
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  Speaker 4: hard to get a hold of. Dot dot dot. I'm
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  Speaker 4: not gonna text anymore, dot dot dot seven forty six,
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  Speaker 4: ug I'm sad and drunk, so you hate me? So
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  Speaker 4: that was five minutes eight oh five. If you're ghosting,
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  Speaker 4: can you tell me so I can block you? Eight
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  Speaker 4: oh nine, four minutes ug, I'm sad. I need my
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  Speaker 4: phone taken.
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  Speaker 2: Then at eight.
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  Speaker 4: Sixteen, I decided to send two photos from the dinner party.
• 14:01
  Speaker 4: One one of the spread, one where I look really cute.
• 14:04
  Speaker 4: This is my friend's favorite one dinner party. Since I'm
• 14:07
  Speaker 4: getting ghosted. Eight twenty five, can you answer? I'm worried
• 14:12
  Speaker 4: about my friend? Eight forty two no date tomorrow, dot
• 14:16
  Speaker 4: dot dot. I'm sad and worried.
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: I know I was sad, I would be sad to
• 14:22
  Speaker 2: I'm literally sad listening to this person.
• 14:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because this is not I'm not being crazy. None
• 14:26
  Speaker 4: of these texts are like fuck you, fuck you, like.
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you're not blowing up.
• 14:29
  Speaker 3: No, it's kind of funny, like the she's literally sent
• 14:32
  Speaker 3: photos of her dinner party and she's like, huhuh having
• 14:35
  Speaker 3: a dinner party because you're ghosting meeting.
• 14:36
  Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, so let's get this time time. Nine oh nine. Wait,
• 14:40
  Speaker 4: I'm maybe mostly worried that you're not okay, Okay, I'm drunk,
• 14:44
  Speaker 4: really phone must go away, but I'm worried and I
• 14:47
  Speaker 4: still want to see you and I'm sad. Nine twelve
• 14:49
  Speaker 4: Three minutes later, are you still interested in me? I'm sad? Okay?
• 14:53
  Speaker 4: Then I took a break. Ten twelve, Shit, I hate
• 14:57
  Speaker 4: being ghosted? Can you not? Ten fifty three, I'm so
• 15:00
  Speaker 4: sad okay? Eleven thirty six. Hi, I'm sad I'm getting
• 15:04
  Speaker 4: ghosted TVH twelve thirty two. I feel so sad. I
• 15:08
  Speaker 4: wanted to go on our date. Can we still? Five
• 15:11
  Speaker 4: minutes later, I'm just like, how did I get ghosted
• 15:13
  Speaker 4: for twenty four hours? Twelve fifty four? Can you text me?
• 15:16
  Speaker 4: I'm sad? Thought we were getting Jim. I'm sad? Wait?
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: Could I ask?
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: So?
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: At this mote like you're probably tipsy tipsy?
• 15:22
  Speaker 4: Right? Like tipsy tipsy?
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because I could definitely see that. That's the vibe.
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: You're like sitting here with my phone and when you drink,
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: you just get more and more sad in your thoughts.
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: How many shots of rumplements did you have at the so?
• 15:33
  Speaker 4: Actually, the grinding grape does not have rumplements. I was
• 15:36
  Speaker 4: a pissed.
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: This is something you need to know about.
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: Miranda is that her favorite shot is a rumple a rumplements.
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: Oh oh god, that just made my stomach turn.
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: I have seen her first hand take a shot of
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: rumplements and then drink it tekuila soda right afterwards. And
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: the nausea that radiated from my belly after I saw that,
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: I'm like, this girl's built different.
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: I was like, that's the difference though, like abby Our
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: age versus Miranda's age, Like it shows right now.
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: Yes, I know. I was really sad that the grind
• 16:02
  Speaker 4: and grape did not serve rumples.
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: All right, you're calmer over there.
• 16:06
  Speaker 4: I was really sad, but maybe that was for the better.
• 16:09
  Speaker 4: I can't even absolutely for the better. Oh my god,
• 16:11
  Speaker 4: I can't even imagine what would have happened if I
• 16:14
  Speaker 4: had rumplements.
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: What are friends doing at this time? Too? Like are
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: they seeing you? Text?
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: So they had no idea, And we were actually we
• 16:20
  Speaker 4: were doing some antics. We were we were having a competition.
• 16:24
  Speaker 4: I can't really get into it, but like we were busy.
• 16:26
  Speaker 4: I was busy and so like I think Superman should
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: be flattered that I was even pulling out my phone
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: to text him because I was busy. We were playing games.
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: Yes, and I can only imagine in a place that's popping,
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: like grinding grape.
• 16:39
  Speaker 4: Yes, we were playing, so he should be flattered, Superman,
• 16:44
  Speaker 4: if you're listening, you should be flattered.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: Actually, you know what, You're welcome for these messages.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: What was the final message you sent to Superman?
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: So the final one is at two thirty four? Oh
• 16:55
  Speaker 4: my god, am I am so sad? Like are you okay?
• 16:58
  Speaker 4: Can you at least text me that you hate me?
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: That's so dramatic.
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: I love it, But to be fair, I've been in
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: that position before where it's like, honestly, just any literally,
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: just tell me you don't want to date me anymore,
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: and then I can't go.
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: But the fact that.
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: You're leaving me on Red is sending me into psychosis.
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: No.
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and he definitely thinks I went to full psychosis
• 17:16
  Speaker 4: this night.
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because it does. I mean, you know, fifty
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: eight messages will do that. You know what's kind of
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: fun about this is you have a hell of a
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: story and now he has a hell of a story too.
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: He's like, guys, isn't that.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: What dating's all about?
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: Yes, it's all about didn't you say to him at
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: one point that somebody stole your phone.
• 17:34
  Speaker 4: Yes. So the next morning, when I finally revealed this
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: to my friends, they were like, we need to save
• 17:39
  Speaker 4: you somehow. And me and my friends we get up
• 17:42
  Speaker 4: to some crazy antics, like we we have like fake
• 17:44
  Speaker 4: number apps, like we'll text people off fake numbers, like
• 17:47
  Speaker 4: we'll text random guys we meet at the bar fake
• 17:50
  Speaker 4: from our fake number so they don't have our real number,
• 17:52
  Speaker 4: you know.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: But it's just like, well, yeah, it makes sense.
• 17:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's safe. We're safe girls.
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're just looking out for each other.
• 17:57
  Speaker 4: So in the morning, I said, I'm so sorry a
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: cat ran across my keyboard and then I think my
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: phone got stolen last night. None of those were me, lol,
• 18:06
  Speaker 4: but I'm looking forward to dinner tonight.
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: Damn still stuck with the dates.
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: And didn't you didn't one of your friends text him
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: from a different number from.
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: The fake number app, and he said, I stole this
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: girl's phone last night, Like, I feel really bad. I
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: spammed everyone in her contacts. I think I ruined something.
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: Good Bye ran this.
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: Not only do you have fifty eight messages deeply, now
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: have other messages going to him from your friends. This
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: man is sixty messages on his phone. He probably hasn't
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: even looked at his phone in the past.
• 18:35
  Speaker 4: Four hopefully his family's okay, Well, yeah, I hope, I hope.
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: So to guy, it's like I have this smallest bit
• 18:43
  Speaker 4: of hope that maybe he'll text me, but I don't
• 18:46
  Speaker 4: think so anymore.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: I think after message fifty four he was probably like, yeah,
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna let this girl alone.
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: Do you think he was planning to ghost me before
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: I started spamming, like at seven pm? That's what I
• 18:58
  Speaker 4: can't figure out, because like he had all day to
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: text normal like the night before. He's sending me Jim
• 19:04
  Speaker 4: Like he's sending me what we're going to do on
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: our date and he's allegedly home with his family, so
• 19:08
  Speaker 4: it's not like he met another check. So it's like,
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: I'm like, was this really all? Because to me, like
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: I know that that's crazy, Like I know the fifty
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: eight Like that's crazy.
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: Ye, Like it's funny if you laugh about it.
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you didn't have heard that decision was made
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: before I started spamming.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: If I had been with you on Saturday and it
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: was like what three pm is that when you sent
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: the first message being.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: Like wait, what's going on Yeah, I would have. I
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: would have told you to give it twenty four hours, Yeah,
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: because I think that would have been really telling, because
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: give somebody a day, they wake up, they check their
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: messages and they're like, oh my god.
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: If got Maranda texting me, I was so busy yesterday
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: at the hospital or whatever, then text you. If he
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: had ghosted you by noon the next day, I would
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: have said, Okay, you're getting ghosted.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's very fair. Yes, especially like even if you
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: are going through it, because again, someone that's been through
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: some storms, he could at least at least take a
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: second to respond, say he's going through something, he'll talk
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: to you, and he can. Yeah, like that's the mature
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: thing to do. But at the same time, I don't
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: know what he's going through. So at the same time,
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: maybe he didn't even have his phone.
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: By the look of your previous messages though, and I
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: have a pretty good radar for this, is he didn't
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: give I'm about to.
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: Ghost you like it.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: It looked like he was very invested, like he's sending
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: like paragraphs.
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I mean maybe somebody else came back into
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: the picture. I mean, I've literally gotten ghosted twice by
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: like you know, one like an X pops back up
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: my two dudes, and the same thing happens where you're like, oh,
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: this is so great, they're so invested, and then they
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: just go in my Yeah. Yeah.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: It really is like how many times have you been
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: ghosted in the past, Like you know, yeah, that's sadly,
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: it's going to happen probably a handful of times.
• 20:39
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not going to be the last time.
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: Unfortunately.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: Here's the great thing is you're probably going to go
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: somebody too.
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: It's the beauty of ghosting. It's like an exchange system.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: People are going to ghost you. You can also ghost people.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: Women typically do it, I think for better reasons, whereas
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: men I think you're just like, oh I met this other.
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: Girl and then they start backward reasons like I've ghosted
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: in a way that's it's like, all right, we go
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: on a date, there's definitely nothing there, and then I
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: just never respond again and then I've been called out
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: for it. That's the part that I had to learn.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: But I was like, I was I don't know, twenty
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: four and I was like, Okay, I'll never do that
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: again because that was shitty to do to someone because
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: they're like, uh, hello, you could tell me if there's
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: nothing here. I was like, okay, there's nothing here.
• 21:18
  Speaker 4: Sorry, yeah, and that's what I wanted from Superman. But
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: it didn't seem like there was nothing there.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: No. I am confused why he would have just gone
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: MI I A. I just wonder if maybe because of
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: the context of where he was. I do wonder if
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: maybe something happened.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, probably he.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: Might have just been preoccupied or I really don't know.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: But now are so many days and he hasn't responded
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: at all since. Yeah, now's it's too But.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: Here's the thing.
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: They always come back like, yeah, you're probably gonna hear
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: from him in like three months, and he's gonna be like, hey, say.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: Sorry, I was in the shower something like that. Like, well,
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: I'm not.
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: Saying this is the last time you'll ever hear from him,
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: because he might go completely at my A, but you
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: might see him out.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: He might be at Red Dog again.
• 21:56
  Speaker 4: You don't know. Yeah, well, the plot thickened.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: Shut not the plot thickening.
• 22:01
  Speaker 4: So I looked up if Jim got adopted. Obviously, because
• 22:06
  Speaker 4: I'm a girl, I'm an investigator.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: That's the boy brand didn't even think of that. I
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: was like, well that forgot.
• 22:12
  Speaker 4: Well because then I'm like, obviously I'm not getting ghosts,
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: like obviously something happened to Superman, like is Superman alive?
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: Like I'm like, there's no way I'm getting ghosted. Obviously
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: he maybe.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: Took a trip around like Mars, like Bezos is trying
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: to do exactly.
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: So I look it up. Sunday night, Jim is still available? Okay,
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: last night a check. Jim is no longer available. He
• 22:32
  Speaker 4: got adopted. You got a Superman? I DM the Animal Rescue.
• 22:35
  Speaker 4: I say, I saw your TikTok of Jim. I really
• 22:38
  Speaker 4: loved him, as he's still available. They say, no, he
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: got adopted. Oh my gosh, I say, darn it. When
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: So I'm still waiting for a response back from the shelter,
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: but they did send me Jim's sister, Angela, So me
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: and my roommate potentially thought we should get Angela. Well
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: but no, no, no, no.
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: No, okay, good, I'm glad we're on the same BASI.
• 23:00
  Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, it was just my roommate just goes
• 23:03
  Speaker 4: into my antics. But no, no, no, we're not getting Angela.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: Not just going to adopt the dog out of Spie. No, no, no.
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: Can you imagine if you adopt Angela and you just
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: start sending Superman photos of Angela and sister.
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: I have.
• 23:16
  Speaker 4: Straining order.
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: If you were truly committed to the bit, you would
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: adopt Angela like I.
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: Was going to go to the shelter and see Jim,
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: like I was committed. But Jim's gone.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: Now are they allowed to say who adopted the dog?
• 23:29
  Speaker 4: I don't know. And then they usually sometimes post when
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: they get adopted and they're like my new home. So
• 23:33
  Speaker 4: I haven't seen that of Jim yet. Yeah, so I'm
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: like hoping that that content comes soon.
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: There might be like a hippologue against it or something.
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: You're right, and usually they do put it up on Instagram.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: But look at the new family.
• 23:45
  Speaker 4: But Superman also doesn't have any social media. Like I
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: told flag, he doesn't have not even a LinkedIn.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: That's even a bigger red flag because he's twenty five, right,
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: what does he do for work?
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: All twenty five year old men have LinkedIn.
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: Whether they use it or not, that's a different story.
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: When I asked him and why he didn't have a LinkedIn,
• 24:01
  Speaker 4: he said he was at a point where he didn't
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: need a LinkedIn.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: Well, I guess I got that because I didn't have
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: one for a long time. I had one, but I
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: didn't like use it when I was twenty five because
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm here, what the heck do I
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: need a LinkedIn for?
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: But he doesn't have anything else. He doesn't have a TikTok,
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: a Snapchat, a Facebook, and Instagram. Okay, now, okay, I'm
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: gonna say it's a red flag even though I have
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: like really close friends that don't have those, but they're
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: also way older than twenty five.
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: Right, Like you're so young, you're still.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: How young and dating? And he doesn't have an Instagram?
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: Have you done the on? Okay, well, he might listen
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: to this, so do what you want.
• 24:33
  Speaker 4: But he probably won't listen because he doesn't have any
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: social media. He doesn't know this exists.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: Well, popular podcast random everyone listens, but I.
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: Will say, you'd be surprised, Like I'll start talking about
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: somebody and then I'll hear about it. They'll like slide
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: in my damns, like why'd you share that story? Like
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: why are you listening?
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: Like how did you even know we have this podcast?
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: If you're listening to my podcast more than you're texting
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: me we have a problem.
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: Well, maybe this will be how I get his attention back.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: Superman, the hell are you have? You did the deep
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: dive on him, like on the internet, like.
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: Who you can't find anything?
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: You know what? Honestly, this is probably the blessing that
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: you need. Like sometimes people get removed from our lives
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: and we think of it like what the hell did
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: that happen? And then it's like a little bit later
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: you're like, oh, that was a blessed.
• 25:12
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we're gonna see like a news headline of Superman
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: doing something bad.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: Well, what's that site that you found abby on Instagram?
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: It's like mugshots of Tampa.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he.
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: Could be on mugshots of Tampa or even worse, are
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: we dating the same guy Tampa?
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: What if you posted on there?
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: Maybe?
• 25:27
  Speaker 4: Well I was even convinced that I didn't even know
• 25:29
  Speaker 4: his real name, but probably not. But when I was
• 25:33
  Speaker 4: at Red Dog, he gave me his card to get Rumple,
• 25:36
  Speaker 4: and then he also had his ID, So I looked
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: at the ID and his card and.
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: It just met. So this is the first time you met.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: He gave you his card? Yes, you could just take
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: in that suck a ran.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: What kind of card? Was it? A good one?
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: It's a purple one. What is it that?
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, the purple purple elephant. I have no idea. That
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: doesn't sound like a real card. He gave you a
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: fake card?
• 25:57
  Speaker 4: Well, I got the rumple.
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: Thank god his his Bank of America debit card work
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: to get to the MP.
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: So chances on this guy ever responding, I'm gonna say
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: one percent. There's a one percent chance that he actually
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: ever gets back to you. You'll never hear from the Samanna. No,
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: I think you might see him. I think you'll definitely
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: run into him again. Now the question becomes, do you
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: say anything to him? Is it worth a conversation?
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: I think she's said enough. I've reached my word, Colt.
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: I think if you do see him, you just give
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: him like a very cordial hey, and then if he
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: comes over then like, yeah.
• 26:29
  Speaker 4: But he can be the cat and I'll be the mouse.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 26:32
  Speaker 4: I've been the cat enough.
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, hellow is there anybody else that you're actually talking
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: to that's responding?
• 26:39
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I have a little roster going You.
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: Already a roster.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: But she's been single seven.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: Days thirty six hours.
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: Well, it's on the roster. They are all people that
• 26:49
  Speaker 4: don't live in Tampa, which is which I like because
• 26:53
  Speaker 4: I don't think I'm actually ready to, like seriously date.
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: It's just fun to have like people to just like
• 26:58
  Speaker 4: text and like talk to Who are you?
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: Who are these people?
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: How do you know them? One is like from high school?
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: Did you reach out to these people or did they
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: reach out to you?
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: I reached out to most of them, mostly saying there
• 27:10
  Speaker 4: you are. Honestly, that's such a good lie.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: He's got one good line and it works well.
• 27:15
  Speaker 4: I will slide into random people's GMS and say there
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: you are, there.
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: You are, and somebody we won't say his name, somebody
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: slid into your DMS.
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: Yes that you guys know.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: Did I think I told you about this?
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: Damn it? I don't remember that.
• 27:26
  Speaker 4: And he is from Tampa but totally getting the ick
• 27:29
  Speaker 4: from him. Are you still talking to him?
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: No?
• 27:31
  Speaker 4: He like was I like? I complimented one of his reels.
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: I was like, oh, I like your real and he
• 27:37
  Speaker 4: was like you didn't even like it? And I was
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: like sorry and he was like, this is why I
• 27:41
  Speaker 4: didn't follow you back. And I was like Okay, so
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: I'm done with him?
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: Yeahs saying it in a funny way. I'm hoping. I'm
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: really hoping. I'm trying to give them. I don't even know.
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: I don't know. He seemed really mad that I didn't
• 27:54
  Speaker 4: like it.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: Pull it up, let me see it.
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: The text are the real?
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: The text trash, because mate, he was probably trying to
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: just like hard time flirt with you or you.
• 28:05
  Speaker 4: Know, Okay, I mean I said, nice, insurreal love it?
• 28:09
  Speaker 4: He said, which one I did to today? I said,
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: the one with your friends? He said, didn't even like it,
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: laughing face. This is why I don't follow people back,
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: I said, ellipses, that's a little like sexy.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: Are you trying to flirt with him? No, okay, that's.
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: Flurri for the other people in your roster, are you, like,
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: are you now doing the traveling to them? Are they
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: doing the traveling to you?
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: I'm not traveling and nobody's traveling. Oh, it's entertainment. It's
• 28:31
  Speaker 4: just a ross or like just to chat, just to check. Yeah,
• 28:36
  Speaker 4: I'm not traveling.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: You want any of the apps? Are you going to
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: do any of the apps stuff?
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: No?
• 28:39
  Speaker 4: I don't like the apps.
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: Good for you?
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm a very in person girl.
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, line works very well in person, exactly on the app.
• 28:47
  Speaker 4: I think it delivers better in person. There you are, Yeah, no,
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: just you can catch me at Lower Deck or Red
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: Dog if you're interested, if you meet a girl there you.
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: Are, or just me hit up Miranda in the DM
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: for real, everybody.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: I'll kidding, Yeah, I know. Honestly, I'm glad that you
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: could call out our cringey behavior at times, but I'm
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: absolutely happy that we could laugh about it too. Yes, yes,
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: because those are exactly the things that you should be
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: doing right now.
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I also think, you know, like, have a
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: fun flirty year, Like you've just had three years and
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: you spent your last years in college with a boyfriend,
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: which I know you guys have good feelings for each other.
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah all, but like, just be sexy and fun for
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: a year.
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: Yea more martinis and Weeni's nights with the girls. Yes, yeah,
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: ye that will go a lot farther than like, I
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: don't know, just some random fling that goes on for
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: way too long.
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, No, have like a three month situation ship, but
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: that's it. You know those are damaging though, Yeah, I
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: guess Superman could have been a He definitely had all
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: of the makings of a three month situationship.
• 29:47
  Speaker 4: That's kind of what I was thinking. And then I
• 29:49
  Speaker 4: was like, when this ends, i'll be more sad.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what we need.
• 29:53
  Speaker 4: But now it's just really funny. Yeah, it's a good story. Yeah,
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: I think it honestly ended the best way possible.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I'm suer opt to miss it.
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: I like thet You're set up for success. You've got
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: a roster, You're in the DMS already. I mean, you're
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: already fifteen steps.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: Ahead of most people.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: So yeah, are all your friends single in the area?
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: Are you like hanging out with a bunch of other singles?
• 30:13
  Speaker 4: It's like half and half.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: That's good, Okay, yeah that sounds it seems like how
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: do you find the scene so far as somebody that
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: cause you moved to Tampa.
• 30:21
  Speaker 4: Correct, I'm from Tampa. Okay, I'm South Tampa. Yeah, I'm
• 30:24
  Speaker 4: from Southampa.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: Did you go to Plant?
• 30:26
  Speaker 4: Do we go over there? I went to Plant?
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Gotcha Plant.
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: If you're unfamiliar, Plant is like the high school to
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: go to when you live in South Tampa, which South
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: Tampa is like the central part of Tampa, and when
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: I went to college and joined Greek life at Florida,
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: it's like everybody went to plant Like all of Florida
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: Greek life is planned.
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: Damn.
• 30:45
  Speaker 4: Okay, Well, yeah, so there are a lot of people
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: in the area.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: How is the dating scene since you stepped into it?
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: I mean, like obviously just getting around and she's the.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: Dazing she's flirting with twenty two year olds at Red Dog.
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: I know, but that's what I kind of compare it to. Like,
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: I think it's interesting because versus like twenty two versus
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: I have they're thirty two. Wow, what a different world.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: Like you might say, it's great. So it's been two weeks.
• 31:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's been two weeks.
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: But I don't I feel like I don't really like
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: flirt that you were very flirty, but in like a
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: good way, like in a natural way, and like a
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: natural because that's what it's that's what you do when
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: you go out.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: It's fun to.
• 31:16
  Speaker 3: Meet people and flirt and and all the things. Also,
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: I know you have headshots, so I don't.
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: Want to keep you too.
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I gotta go.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: Mog.
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: Well, thanks for mogging on our podcast. As the Kids
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: The Kids say.
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: Yes, and if I ever get a reply from Superman,
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: I will deaf update. My friends think that I should
• 31:33
  Speaker 4: send him the link to this podcast.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: Oh I don't think.
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: I don't think that I should get our listeners up,
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: but actually to all your friends to listen and then
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: just post it everywhere like.
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah that you probably will.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: You should put it on your instant story and be like,
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: if you see this, this one's for you, and just
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: leave it very vague so all your followers listen. Yeah, okay,
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to get numbers here for a boss.
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: I mean, she's got a roster at this point, like
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: anybody could be super like anybody in your user's like,
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: oh my god.
• 32:01
  Speaker 4: I'm Superman.
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: I the one. Oh Branda, thanks for sharing anytime you
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: have something to happen, like you were more than welcome
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: we come up in here.
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah us up to five the people are invested in
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: the Superman saga.
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll have to update if it ever happens.
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: Maybe next time we can just call him. You know,
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: you texted him enough, we'll just call him on the podcast.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, just joking. I get fired for that. Miranda.
• 32:21
  Speaker 4: Thank you, of course, thank you, and thanks for listening.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: To the podcast. We'll have another episode coming out this week,
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: especially if you got to see the live show, all
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: the updates from that, and make sure to like, subscribe, comment,
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: especially if anything that Miranda said connected with something that
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: you've done in your past as well