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The Truth About Cheating, Megan Thee Stallion, Klay Thompson, Joy Gets Real · Two Personal with Joy Taylor

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Speaker 1: I don't know anyone across the street in that building.
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Speaker 1: There's a building across the street. I could walk over
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Speaker 1: there and find someone to have sexual Hey, guys, welcome
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Speaker 1: it too personal. I'm Joy Taylor. Thanks so much for
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Speaker 1: joining us this week and hanging out. If you haven't already,
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Speaker 1: make sure you hit subscribe and follow us on social media.
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Speaker 1: At two personal shows. It's been a long couple of
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Speaker 1: days for me. I was on the road. I don't
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Speaker 1: know if you saw on my social but I have
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Speaker 1: a child now, just kidding. My best friend had a son,
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Speaker 1: so I went to meet him.
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Speaker 2: A lot of people are very.
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Speaker 1: Confused about that though.
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Speaker 2: If you can believe that specs, yeah, people do not.
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Speaker 2: They don't they don't.
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Speaker 1: Read the captions. I made it very clear that I
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Speaker 1: was just the auntie. But yeah, very excited new baby
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Speaker 1: in my life. And we also got some dramatic news
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Speaker 1: from one of our favorite girlies. Meg the Stallion has
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Speaker 1: ended her relationship with Klay Thompson, which absolutely swept the internet.
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Speaker 1: She accused him of cheating on her stories. So they
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Speaker 1: started dating in July of twenty twenty, at least according
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Speaker 1: to their hard launch, probably started a little bit before that,
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Speaker 1: but anyway, they hard launched in twenty twenty five, and
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Speaker 1: she posted on her stories that he was not faithful.
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Speaker 1: She eventually gave a formal statements as well. She accluded
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Speaker 1: him of cheating, saying that she was questioning if he
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Speaker 1: could be monogamous after they were playing house with his family,
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Speaker 1: that she stood by him and supported him through his
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Speaker 1: horrible mood swings and poor treatment during the NBA season,
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Speaker 1: only to be met with betrayal. And she said that trust, fidelity,
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Speaker 1: and respect are non negotiable for me. When those values
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Speaker 1: are compromised, there's no real path forward. She's taking a
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Speaker 1: real break to focus on herself and her upcoming projects,
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Speaker 1: and Clay has been pretty silent on everything. There's some
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Speaker 1: other drama swirling around it, but obviously cheating is the
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Speaker 1: big conversation around around the weekend and around these two
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Speaker 1: and her accusations towards his infidelity. So let's talk about it,
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Speaker 1: not about them, about cheating. So there's two things that
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Speaker 1: I want to get into on today's rants. Cheating is
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Speaker 1: one and romanticizing other people's relationships is two.
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Speaker 2: So here's my overall.
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Speaker 1: Philosophy, learned life motto and standpoints on cheating.
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Speaker 2: Don't.
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Speaker 1: Here's my overall philosophy learned life motto and you know,
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Speaker 1: standard of practice on other people's relationships and romanticizing it.
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Speaker 2: Don't. Okay, So now I'll elaborate on the first.
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Speaker 1: Cheating is obviously a conversation that I think absolutely consumes
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Speaker 1: the Internet whenever it comes up, and for good reason.
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Speaker 1: Cheating is attached to a lot of really terrible experiences
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Speaker 1: for people. It can be deadly, it can be dangerous
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Speaker 1: for your health. It obviously breaks a deep level of
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Speaker 1: trust and comfort and shatters realities for people. It breaks
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Speaker 1: up families. It changes the course of people's lives in
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Speaker 1: that they can be completely and utterly unaware of what
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Speaker 1: their partner is doing and it rips them apart. It
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Speaker 1: puts families against each other, breaks up friendships. It's really
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Speaker 1: something that when you get down to it is a
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Speaker 1: betrayal that can create just a ripple of consequences that
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Speaker 1: you could maybe never have even anticipated. I mean, when
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Speaker 1: we think of some of the biggest cheating scandals, they
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Speaker 1: change the course of history. When you talk about on
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Speaker 1: the political level, when you talk about on the you know,
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Speaker 1: the level of countries and wars like there's really endless
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Speaker 1: stories and endless consequences to what can happen when infidelity
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Speaker 1: is introduced to a situation. Now, I've been cheated on
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Speaker 1: in a variety of very creative ways. It's almost I'm
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Speaker 1: as so healed from it now that I can't even
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Speaker 1: take it seriously. I think I told this story once,
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Speaker 1: but I had an ex boyfriend who I was financially supporting,
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Speaker 1: and I gave him money to like go out and like,
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Speaker 1: you know, clear his mind and have a good time.
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Speaker 1: And he ended up giving that money to a stripper
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Speaker 1: and having sex with her in the strip.
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Speaker 2: Club with the money that I gave him.
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Speaker 1: So I thought that that was pretty creative. Oh, also,
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Speaker 1: I was paying of his bills, so he was he
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Speaker 1: was living in my house and I was paying his
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Speaker 1: bills when that happened. I think that's pretty high level audacity.
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Speaker 1: I could tell you stories for the next six hours
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Speaker 1: straight of the different ways that I have been cheated on,
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Speaker 1: and some were really really, really devastating. Some were you know,
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Speaker 1: almost kind of comical, like that situation. But my my
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Speaker 1: reaction to cheating has varied over the years. Sometimes it's
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Speaker 1: been a relief in a way, like it revealed who
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Speaker 1: that person was to me. Sometimes it absolutely destroyed me
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Speaker 1: and destroyed my comfort and my peace. Sometimes it made
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Speaker 1: me incredibly insecure, which I absolutely hate.
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Speaker 2: It caused me to.
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Speaker 1: Do things that were completely out of my character, going
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Speaker 1: through people's phones, going through people's computers, you know, asking
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Speaker 1: their friends questions. You know, once you are in that
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Speaker 1: spiral of not trusting someone, it can absolutely transform how
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Speaker 1: you behave which is why so often women are called crazy,
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Speaker 1: and they're really actually not. They were driven to behave
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Speaker 1: that way. Sometimes they are. But a lot of times
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Speaker 1: I see women acting well outside of how they should
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Speaker 1: be behaving or they normally would be behaving, and it's
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Speaker 1: because their trust has been so deeply shattered. And I
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Speaker 1: know there's going to be some people on the internet
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Speaker 1: who are like, well, like, who are you to talk
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Speaker 1: about this?
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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna sit here and be a hypocrite.
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Speaker 1: I have had situations in my past, not the ones
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Speaker 1: you're thinking about, where I have.
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Speaker 2: Not been faithful and then I immediately left. So does
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Speaker 2: that even count I don't know if that counts.
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Speaker 1: It's more revenge than it was actually not being faithful.
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Speaker 1: I'm sure the men will have a lot to say
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Speaker 1: about it, But outside of my baseline philosophy of don't cheat,
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Speaker 1: I find cheating to be a real challenge for people,
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Speaker 1: Like you have to do a lot to cheat on someone.
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Speaker 1: You have to lie extensively, you have to hide things
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Speaker 1: in your phone, you have to hope constantly that the
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Speaker 1: person that you're cheating with doesn't run and go tell
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Speaker 1: your partner. You have to make sure that you're turning
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Speaker 1: your location off, Like is it not exhausting for you?
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Speaker 2: And you could just be single? Just be single?
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Speaker 1: So what I find for a lot of people, and
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Speaker 1: I don't want to limit this to men, because there
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Speaker 1: are certainly women who cheat, and there are certainly women
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Speaker 1: who cheat and lie and manipulate. Obviously, in this situation,
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Speaker 1: we can just talk about men, because that's what it
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Speaker 1: has prompted this conversation with Megan Clay.
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Speaker 2: I think that the at this age.
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Speaker 1: In this chapter of my life, cheating is not even
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Speaker 1: something that I think about, Like it's not even something
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Speaker 1: that would cross my mind to do. It's also not
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Speaker 1: something that I would that I would ever tolerate. It
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Speaker 1: would be such an easy decision for me because, as
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Speaker 1: I said in last week's episode, Peace is the most
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Speaker 1: important thing in my life. So if you're disrupting my peace,
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Speaker 1: you got to go. And while I might be sad
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Speaker 1: about it, you've made it a very easy.
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Speaker 2: Choice for me.
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Speaker 1: And I think a lot of times when it comes
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Speaker 1: to cheating, it's it's obviously very selfish, it's obviously something
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Speaker 1: that you're not thinking long term about the consequences of.
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Speaker 2: But for me, I kind of.
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Speaker 1: Look at cheating as something that is it's like, you
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Speaker 1: want to have everything at the same time. You want
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Speaker 1: to have the benefits of a relationship. You want to
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Speaker 1: have the benefits of a partner, you want to have
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Speaker 1: the home, you want to have the ability to, you know,
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Speaker 1: be with someone that you feel comfortable around. You want
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Speaker 1: to play house, as Megan said, and you want to
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Speaker 1: you know, bring them around your family, but you also
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Speaker 1: still want the thrill of conquering and taking down other
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Speaker 1: people in the way. And like, you know, there's no
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Speaker 1: nicer way to say that, because unless you're just out
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Speaker 1: here maintaining you know, five or six relationships, which like
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Speaker 1: I don't know if you have some special space for
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Speaker 1: tex where you have extra time in the day, but
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Speaker 1: just seems like a really exhausting experience, you're probably just
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Speaker 1: cheating randomly with people and you're not really putting any
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Speaker 1: emotional depth into those other situations. So you just want
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Speaker 1: to be able to live like you're single and also
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Speaker 1: have a relationship. And it's just like you have to
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Speaker 1: make a choice.
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Speaker 2: You have to.
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Speaker 1: Decide if you're going to commit to the relationship, which
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Speaker 1: requires sacrifice, and if you find yourself not being able
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Speaker 1: to be monogamous, just be single. And you have to
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Speaker 1: either accept that about yourself that you're not capable of
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Speaker 1: being in a relationship, or you need to do the
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Speaker 1: work to fix whatever's in you that makes you constantly
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Speaker 1: want to be in these single behavior situations.
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Speaker 2: So yeah, I mean, I've seen.
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Speaker 1: The devastation that cheating can do and in so many
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Speaker 1: different situations in my life. And when I say that,
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Speaker 1: not even just related to me. I've seen it in friendships.
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Speaker 1: I've seen it in every close relationship that you can have.
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Speaker 1: I have seen it happen and what can come of
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Speaker 1: it and the lasting effects and the amounts of trauma
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Speaker 1: that it causes for so many people.
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Speaker 2: It's not just your partner.
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Speaker 1: And when it comes to being in a family, you're
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Speaker 1: really really taking it to another level because you're betraying
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Speaker 1: not just your partner, but other people that have invested
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Speaker 1: or supported, or are part of or are directly.
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Speaker 2: Affected by that relationship. So yeah, I.
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Speaker 1: Mean, just like, it's the best thing I can say,
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Speaker 1: just don't if you're gonna if you're thinking about cheating, don't.
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Speaker 1: And then if you can't help yourself, be a real
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Speaker 1: stand up adult and leave the relationship. Spare everyone the
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Speaker 1: trauma and the lies and the manipulation and the extra
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Speaker 1: heartbreak and fix yourself or do that, like there are no.
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Speaker 2: Loopholes to any of this.
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Speaker 1: And then the final thing I'll say on this is,
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Speaker 1: you know, I think that cheating has different chapters, right, Like,
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Speaker 1: if you are a young person, if you're like in
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Speaker 1: your early twenties and you're still learning how to be
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Speaker 1: in relationships. It doesn't make it any less traumatic for
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Speaker 1: the other person. But there are a lot of different
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Speaker 1: things that you're gonna experience in your life, and people
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Speaker 1: have to learn things the hard way. I think sometimes
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Speaker 1: and being able to reflect on what it is that
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Speaker 1: you want at a certain time and what is something
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Speaker 1: that you want to participate in is a big part
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Speaker 1: of maturing. So if you're a grown ass cheater. I
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Speaker 1: don't even know what to do with you. Like if
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Speaker 1: you're in your fifties and you're still cheating, like you're
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Speaker 1: you're just the most You're a completely unseerious person. Like
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Speaker 1: I said, there's so much more I can say on this,
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Speaker 1: and we will, I'm sure talk about this throughout the
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Speaker 1: season in different conversations. But that that is my core
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Speaker 1: philosophy on cheating, which is just don't do it. The
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Speaker 1: other part of it that I mentioned at the beginning
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Speaker 1: of this was romanticizing other people's relationships. So often when
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Speaker 1: it comes to celebrity relationships, we create these ideas in
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Speaker 1: our minds for what it is that they're experiencing.
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Speaker 2: We get into this loop.
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Speaker 1: Of like they're cute together, and we sort of become
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Speaker 1: invested in their journey. You know, they're hard launch seeing them,
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Speaker 1: you know, do their things together?
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Speaker 2: Get what gifts does he get her?
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Speaker 1: What does their engagement look like, What does their wedding
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Speaker 1: look like, what does their kid look like, what does
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Speaker 1: their house look like? You know, where are they going
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Speaker 1: on vacation as a family, And we become an sort
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Speaker 1: of an extension of their relationship public relationships to me
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Speaker 1: are an absolute nightmare. And it's why I've said since
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Speaker 1: I've started this podcast that I have no plans on
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Speaker 1: being in a public relationship again until I am married
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Speaker 1: if I choose to do that, and it's because of
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Speaker 1: situations like this. And I don't blame anybody at any level,
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Speaker 1: like a public figure or not, for sharing their happiness
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Speaker 1: and sharing their life, but you do invite a certain
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Speaker 1: energy into the situation when you do that, and it
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Speaker 1: does sort of prompt this responsibility to explain yourself all
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Speaker 1: the time. And romanticizing other people's relationships has become a
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Speaker 1: huge problem in dating. It's become a huge in how
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Speaker 1: people relate to each other, how people end up committing
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Speaker 1: to each other, cheating because we're seeing only the surface.
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Speaker 1: We're seeing only what people share, Right, Meg was never
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Speaker 1: sharing when her and Clay were allegedly fighting because or
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Speaker 1: going through things because he was moody. You don't get
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Speaker 1: that part of the relationship. So when we see these huge,
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Speaker 1: high profile relationships, you know, Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift,
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Speaker 1: Beyonce and jay Z, like we get we get so
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Speaker 1: hooked into their experiences and you just don't know these
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Speaker 1: people like, you don't know these people. You don't know
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Speaker 1: what they're going through, you don't know what their relationship is.
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Speaker 1: Really like, you're not getting the behind the scenes, you're
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Speaker 1: not getting the ups and downs.
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Speaker 2: You're not getting the.
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Speaker 1: Alleged you know, infidelity, You're not getting that experience. So
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Speaker 1: stop idealizing these relationships that you see on social media
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Speaker 1: that you see publicly Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston, Brad
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Speaker 1: Pitt and Angelina Jolie. Like the idea that just because
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Speaker 1: you're seeing these beautiful people together, these successful people together,
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Speaker 1: that they somehow have the ideal relationship.
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Speaker 2: It's it's nonsense. No one does.
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Speaker 1: Even people who have had great relationships through for many
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Speaker 1: decades have gone through things and they're not sharing them.
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Speaker 2: With the world.
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Speaker 1: And yeah, people have been asking me about this all weekends,
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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I.
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Speaker 2: Don't know these people. I don't know Mega.
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Speaker 1: Saliet, I don't know Klay Thompson. I don't know these people.
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Speaker 1: I don't know what they're going through. I don't know
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Speaker 1: what either side of them has to say. I know
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Speaker 1: what Meg said and I know what Clay hasn't. Does
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Speaker 1: it sound believable?
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Speaker 2: Sure?
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Speaker 1: Like based on life experience, I would say, yeah, it's
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Speaker 1: pretty believable. Does that mean that it's one hundred percent thro?
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Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know these people, and to be honest
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Speaker 1: with you, I don't care. I don't put celebrity relationships
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Speaker 1: up on a pedestal. I don't put anyone's relationship up
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Speaker 1: on a pedestal unless I actually know these people. I
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Speaker 1: put my sister and my sister, my sister, what do
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Speaker 1: you say, my sister and my brother in law. I
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Speaker 1: put their relationship up on a pedestal. I put my
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Speaker 1: brother and his wife. I put their relationship on a
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Speaker 1: pedestal because I see them. I know what happens behind
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Speaker 1: the scenes. I have firsthand experience with their ups and downs.
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Speaker 1: I know what they have gone through. I see how
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Speaker 1: they treat each other. And I still don't know certain
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Speaker 1: aspects of their relationship. But I certainly have a front
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Speaker 1: row seat to the good and the bad, so I
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Speaker 1: can say, if I want a relationship, I want it
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Speaker 1: to be like that. I don't know these people, so
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Speaker 1: I don't have an answer for what they should do
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Speaker 1: or what she should do.
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Speaker 2: I don't fucking know.
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Speaker 1: I don't know anything about them, and neither do you
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Speaker 1: and I neget it. Like people love gossip, people love drama.
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Speaker 1: People want to support people their fans of all I'm saying,
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Speaker 1: and you have every right to do that, like life.
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Speaker 1: But all I'm saying is when these things happen, don't
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Speaker 1: take it personally because you don't know these people, and
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Speaker 1: it's it's nonsense. Your life and what's happening around you
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Speaker 1: and the actual experiences that you have, if you have
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Speaker 1: parents that have a good relationship, if you have siblings
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Speaker 1: that have a good relationship, if your best friend has
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Speaker 1: a good relationship, like.
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Speaker 2: Idealize that. Am I saying that right?
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Speaker 1: Idolize idolize, idealize Maybe they're both words.
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Speaker 2: Idealize, Yeah, look up to that.
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Speaker 1: Make that a goal that you can go through things
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Speaker 1: and see things firsthand and apply that because putting these
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Speaker 1: celebrity relationships up on a pedestal it's just always been
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Speaker 1: so weird to me. I get people take it personally
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Speaker 1: because they're fans of people and they don't want them
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Speaker 1: to suffer. I get all that, but the reality is
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Speaker 1: you just you don't know these people, and I don't
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Speaker 1: know these people. I don't know anything about what's going on,
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Speaker 1: and I'm not pretending to I'm speaking on two abstract
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Speaker 1: ideas that I have pooled from this story, which is,
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Speaker 1: don't cheat and don't put other people's relationships up on
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Speaker 1: a pedestal if you don't know them personally.
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Speaker 2: Those are two things.
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Speaker 1: That I just I think you should absolutely apply to
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Speaker 1: your relationships. I feel like those are pretty obvious statements.
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Speaker 1: But all week and long, I've been having this conversation
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Speaker 1: about these two and I don't know how many people
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Speaker 1: have asked me, and I'm like, yeah, I don't know her,
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Speaker 1: I don't know him. I think it's sad if it's true,
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Speaker 1: because it's an awful thing to go through, and it
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Speaker 1: sucks to go through that publicly, and it sucks to
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Speaker 1: not be able to trust your partner, and it sucks
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Speaker 1: to be sucked up in romance and believe that you
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Speaker 1: have a future with someone and the whole while they
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Speaker 1: don't respect your boundaries. So yeah, if it is true,
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Speaker 1: which I don't know because I don't know these.
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Speaker 2: People, that's a really sad and hard thing to go through.
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Speaker 1: And the one final thing I will say before I
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Speaker 1: wrap this up seeing so much of this on the internet,
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Speaker 1: and yes, I have to make this about man. So
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Speaker 1: many people are like, well, what does she expect or
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Speaker 1: did she think that he was not gonna cheat on
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Speaker 1: her he's an athlete, or she should she should understands
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Speaker 1: that that's the lifestyle, and da da da. You have
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Speaker 1: every rights to have a boundary that cheating.
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Speaker 2: Is not acceptable for you.
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Speaker 1: And just because you're famous, or just because you're dating
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Speaker 1: another famous person, just because that person gets attention, as
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Speaker 1: if Megae Stallion doesn't get attention, you have every right
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Speaker 1: to say that that is non negotiable for you.
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Speaker 2: And listen, I don't give a fuck, and I don't
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Speaker 2: know how we ever got here where.
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Speaker 1: It's just like assumed that just because a man has options,
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Speaker 1: that he is going to cheat, or that he has
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Speaker 1: a right to cheat, or that if you're gonna date
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Speaker 1: that person, you have to accept that.
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Speaker 2: If he has said to you, I am not going.
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Speaker 1: To be faithful to you, but I do you want
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Speaker 1: to be in a relationship with you, and you choose
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Speaker 1: to be in a relationship with him, Yeah, that's your fault,
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Speaker 1: he told you. But if he has presented this life
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Speaker 1: before you, that he is going to be faithful to
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Speaker 1: you and he's not gonna care about these hoes, and
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Speaker 1: and by hose, I mean like just people, like they're
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Speaker 1: probably not hose.
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Speaker 2: I'm sure they're one full women. He's not gonna care
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Speaker 2: about these women.
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Speaker 1: And then proceeds to do that, then then that's that's
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Speaker 1: a lie and that's aception, and you've anyone has any
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Speaker 1: right to say I.
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Speaker 2: Don't want to live that lifestyle.
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Speaker 1: Like a lot of women do accept that lifestyle, and
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Speaker 1: that's cool too, like that's their prerogative. But this idea
20:38
Speaker 1: that she's just supposed to accept that shit, Like, what
20:40
Speaker 1: are we talking about? Get a fucking grip. Let me
20:44
Speaker 1: tell you this.
20:45
Speaker 2: I say this to.
20:45
Speaker 1: My male friends all the fucking time, and I again,
20:49
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm saying nothing but obvious shit. Just
20:52
Speaker 1: because women don't fuck doorknobs does not mean that we
20:57
Speaker 1: don't get attention.
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Speaker 2: It.
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Speaker 1: If I wanted to have sex in the next five
21:02
Speaker 1: to ten minutes, I feel one hundred percent confident I
21:05
Speaker 1: could walk across the street and make that.
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Speaker 2: Happen across the street. I don't know.
21:09
Speaker 1: Anyone across the street in that building. There's a building
21:11
Speaker 1: across the street. I could walk over there and find
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Speaker 1: someone to have sex with. I feel that confident in
21:16
Speaker 1: my abilities.
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Speaker 2: To do that.
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Speaker 1: Why because I'm a woman, Not because I have game,
21:21
Speaker 1: not because I'm famous, not because I have money, like literally,
21:24
Speaker 1: just because I happen to have a vagina. So stop
21:28
Speaker 1: this narrative that, like, men get so much attention and
21:31
Speaker 1: we just don't understand what it's like when women are
21:34
Speaker 1: throwing themselves at you. Dick is falling from the fucking sky.
21:38
Speaker 1: I have a dick umbrella, okay, that I carry around
21:40
Speaker 1: to keep these dicks from hitting me in the forehead.
21:43
Speaker 2: It is not hard to find dick.
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Speaker 1: It's the most surplus like thing on the planet. There's
21:50
Speaker 1: a surplus of dick, okay, it's it needs to be
21:54
Speaker 1: in storage. To shut the fuck up about women throwing
21:57
Speaker 1: themselves at men, and it's so hard. You don't understand.
22:02
Speaker 1: Are you telling me that? You're telling me I don't
22:05
Speaker 1: understand that. Shut the fuck up. I don't care how
22:08
Speaker 1: famous you are. I don't care how much money you have.
22:10
Speaker 1: I don't care how tall you are. I don't care
22:12
Speaker 1: how big your dick is. As a man, I don't
22:15
Speaker 1: fucking care. Any any regular woman would lap you fifteen
22:22
Speaker 1: times before you got to the first piece of pussy
22:24
Speaker 1: in the day. Okay, so just shut the fuck up.
22:26
Speaker 1: It is not an achievement. Stop doing that. Okay, I
22:30
Speaker 1: gotta get that. I had to get that out of
22:31
Speaker 1: my system anyway. Okay, it's time now for Never Too Personal.
22:35
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22:36
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22:50
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22:53
Speaker 1: this question is, what's the thing people assume about you
22:56
Speaker 1: because of how you care yourself? That couldn't be more wrong. Uh,
23:02
Speaker 1: it's kind of twofold. I think people assume that because
23:08
Speaker 1: I am a professional, and because I've worked in you know,
23:12
Speaker 1: media for a long time, and I have shit Toulouse,
23:17
Speaker 1: and you know, I'm like a tiny person despite the
23:23
Speaker 1: Internet saying that I'm overweight, and just you know that
23:27
Speaker 1: I you know, I'm I'm who I am, that I
23:32
Speaker 1: won't smack you right in your frock of mouth. And
23:36
Speaker 1: I think it's very crazy that people assume that. And
23:39
Speaker 1: I've said this many times that we need to bring
23:42
Speaker 1: back hand to hand violence.
23:43
Speaker 2: We need to do a weay with guns and bring
23:45
Speaker 2: back hand to hand violence.
23:47
Speaker 1: I I talk a lot about fighting, but it's really
23:51
Speaker 1: because I truly believe that if more people got bopped
23:56
Speaker 1: in the mouth, like some of you guys didn't have
23:58
Speaker 1: parents who beat you, and it's very obvious, but like
24:03
Speaker 1: your mom ever, just like Bop, Like I never talked
24:06
Speaker 1: back to my mom because I knew it was gonna
24:08
Speaker 1: be immediate pain. But some people couldn't help themselves. So
24:12
Speaker 1: like you just eat a little bop like Bop, like
24:15
Speaker 1: shut the fuck real quick, shut the fun one of those,
24:19
Speaker 1: or like getting your mouth washed out with soap or
24:21
Speaker 1: hot sauce. I know this all sounds like abuse, but
24:25
Speaker 1: it really does teach you fundamentally that you can't talk
24:29
Speaker 1: to people any type of way and you can't behave
24:31
Speaker 1: any type of way. So yeah, I mean, I may
24:34
Speaker 1: choose to not get in trouble over smacking someone, but
24:40
Speaker 1: I may not. That's up to them to decide. How,
24:45
Speaker 1: you know, it's like a pick your own adventure.
24:47
Speaker 2: That's what life is.
24:48
Speaker 1: Life is a pick your own adventure book, and maybe
24:50
Speaker 1: you shouldn't do that. The other thing that people assume
24:53
Speaker 1: about me that is not true on the complete other
24:56
Speaker 1: side of this, as I am a very binary person,
25:00
Speaker 1: I'm actually like a very sweet, loving person, and I
25:03
Speaker 1: don't get to be that like a be the soft
25:05
Speaker 1: girl all the time, because it's not safe in the
25:08
Speaker 1: world to do that for me. But yeah, the people
25:12
Speaker 1: that know me very well know that I am actually
25:16
Speaker 1: like very very kind and sweet and like a little
25:20
Speaker 1: lover girl. But I only let the people who have
25:24
Speaker 1: like absolutely earned that space with me get that. So
25:28
Speaker 1: I don't know if that makes any sense at all
25:30
Speaker 1: what I just said, because I just talked about smacking
25:31
Speaker 1: people in the face and I'm a lover girl. But
25:34
Speaker 1: we're complex, Okay, we're complex creatures. Okay, we have we
25:38
Speaker 1: have levels. So that's the answer to my question or
25:41
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