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Episode #266: Self Check-in to Maintain Your Energy · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, Welcome to tea time with Amy and BEV.
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Speaker 1: Good day again for a third time in a row.
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Speaker 2: It's nice. There's always different things to talk about. I suppose.
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Speaker 1: You know, there's so much to talk about about life,
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Speaker 1: and one thing is just listening to other people's conversations.
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Speaker 1: I was fortunate enough to go see my mom for
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Speaker 1: her birthday and her seventy fifth birthday on Mother's Day,
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Speaker 1: so I was like, oh, yeah, I gotta go to
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Speaker 1: that one. So and so I got to be around
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Speaker 1: to other family, and you know, I gauge myself with
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Speaker 1: the person I used to be. I'm super proud of
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Speaker 1: myself where I'm at and excited of where I'm going.
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Speaker 1: But when I'm listening to other people's conversations, especially when
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Speaker 1: you're in a tight knit area and you're with them
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Speaker 1: for hours and hours, who you can tell what resonates,
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Speaker 1: what doesn't resonate, arguing for their limitations, yeah but yeah,
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Speaker 1: but yeah, but offering up, you know, information that could
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Speaker 1: be beneficial for changing what they're they're what they don't like,
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Speaker 1: uh and looking at you like you have three heads,
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Speaker 1: they can't hear me what I was saying. Man, a
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Speaker 1: spy sometimes for me, just being in a space like
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Speaker 1: that for a good amount of time really makes me
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Speaker 1: do some self reflection. And then when I come back
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Speaker 1: into my own environment, my own whatever comfort zone, my
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Speaker 1: own life. Ah, I've noticed a shift in my self
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Speaker 1: because I was around, because it was it was heavy.
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Speaker 1: It's like complaining and negative energy and just a lot
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Speaker 1: of I would say, just mainly the main focus is
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Speaker 1: a lot of complaining, and I'm like, my head was spinning.
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Speaker 1: I just had enough. So when it would start, I
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Speaker 1: would just leave the room and go outside, do something
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Speaker 1: to remove myself from the space. And I was like, Okay,
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Speaker 1: if I'm feeling like this about their conversation, then I
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Speaker 1: want to be mindful about the conversations I'm having when
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Speaker 1: I'm in the presence of other people. And so just
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Speaker 1: gives me a self check, right, just to check in
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Speaker 1: to say, how have you been showing up? Sister? Sometimes
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Speaker 1: I don't like the answer I give myself, so.
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Speaker 2: You know, it's funny.
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Speaker 3: Esther Hicks, I remember hearing a story about her. She
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Speaker 3: was giving the story and she talked about sitting at
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Speaker 3: the table. Don't they're at a restaurant. I'm pretty sure
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Speaker 3: they're at a restaurant and then they'd come out there
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Speaker 3: and they'd start talking about something that she just wasn't
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Speaker 3: resonating with and it was just kind of similar to
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Speaker 3: what you're saying. And so she'd get up, she's like,
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go to the restroom, and she'd go to
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Speaker 3: the restroom and take her time, and she come back
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Speaker 3: and maybe still talking, and she's like, I'm gonna go
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Speaker 3: over here and do she'd go do whatever. And my
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Speaker 3: mind had to process that because it's like, are we
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Speaker 3: in avoidance? Are we you know, what, what are we
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Speaker 3: doing when.
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Speaker 2: We're doing that?
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Speaker 3: But it's like on the other side, we can't. It's
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Speaker 3: like being in a problem and then trying to find solutions,
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Speaker 3: but you're too focused on the problem. And so there
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Speaker 3: is those solutions.
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Speaker 2: When you're focused on the problem, You're there, really isn't.
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Speaker 3: You've you've cut the you've slammed the door, you've cut
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Speaker 3: yourself off from the flow. All these things have happened,
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Speaker 3: and during that moment, in that exact moment, and so
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Speaker 3: it's like, it is to honor self, it is to
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Speaker 3: have those healthy boundaries and know that because we only
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Speaker 3: need to separate ourselves from that if we can't maintain
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Speaker 3: our own vibrational frequency, right, and I'm not saying anything
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Speaker 3: about that. Besides, I can't sometimes maintain my vibrational frequency.
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Speaker 3: I have been it doesn't matter if it's around family
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Speaker 3: or friends or sometimes it's just it's heavy like that.
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Speaker 2: And the only thing that I would do, and the
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Speaker 2: same is walk out.
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Speaker 3: Then I can go set my intentions, or I could
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Speaker 3: do my intentions ahead of time, like man, this is
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Speaker 3: gonna flow so smoothly today, we're gonna get along so great,
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Speaker 3: We're gonna do all these things.
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Speaker 2: But I don't always do that. I don't always do that.
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Speaker 2: Am I running around? Do I not have enough time
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Speaker 2: for myself?
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Speaker 3: Because in those moments then I resort back to the
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Speaker 3: autopilot And now I'm just reacting or sometimes hopefully responding
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Speaker 3: to all the things that's going on in front of
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Speaker 3: me and reflecting and taking myself like Esther's stepping out
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Speaker 3: of the space for a second, laughing and taking the
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Speaker 3: lighter because it's really my peace, my heaven is so
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Speaker 3: much more important than all that stuff. And that's something
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Speaker 3: I've noticed recently, is to be like no, no, no,
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Speaker 3: that's affecting my peace that's affecting my heaven on Earth
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Speaker 3: right now. I don't have to stay in that space
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Speaker 3: because that doesn't that's not bringing me joy, and it's
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Speaker 3: not bringing me passion.
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Speaker 2: It's not it's not helping. It's not filling me up.
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Speaker 2: It's not filling my joy cup up. It's not happening.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. And I and I I was writing it as
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Speaker 1: you were saying it. I'm like, okay, is it is
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Speaker 1: it avoidance or is it maintaining your energy? And and
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Speaker 1: I was looking at it as maintaining your energy because
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Speaker 1: she goes through her teachings, her own teachings that when
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Speaker 1: you're in that space of heavy energy, you're complaining or
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Speaker 1: for anger, all this stuff, that that's that's like our
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Speaker 1: main emotion, is our main point of attraction. And and
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Speaker 1: Esther was like, Nope, I'm keeping my vibration high because
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Speaker 1: I want to attract good things to myself. Yes, just
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Speaker 1: having that reminder right that you know, let people, let
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Speaker 1: people be people. People are people, and they're going to
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Speaker 1: show up the way they know how to show up.
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Speaker 1: But if I have the information and knowledge and awareness
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Speaker 1: that that's what's going to contribute. If I give my
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Speaker 1: emotional state into their drama, into their sadness, into their
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Speaker 1: depression or whatever it is. I got that choice, do
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Speaker 1: I want to stay in this energy or do I
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Speaker 1: want to go keep my vibration a little higher? Now?
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Speaker 1: Did I stay? Yeah? I stayed because I knew I
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Speaker 1: could offer up some information that would be beneficial. But
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Speaker 1: that was on day one. On day two, I was
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Speaker 1: like not saying as much because they weren't hearing me.
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Speaker 1: They weren't going being interested in what I was saying.
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Speaker 1: So by the third day, I was just like, I'm
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Speaker 1: not participating in this conversation. I need to go in
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Speaker 1: a different direction while they sift in this and keep
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Speaker 1: sifting in it. And I want to make sure that
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Speaker 1: I keep my spirits up because I know also that
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Speaker 1: when I keep my energy up and maintaining my energy
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Speaker 1: at the vibrational frequency that I would much rather enjoy
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Speaker 1: that that also can contribute to and affect what those
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Speaker 1: conversations are being had. It will affect that in a
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Speaker 1: different way, It will help shift it and change it.
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Speaker 1: But to sit there, could I do that while they're
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Speaker 1: having those conversations. I could still practicing though, right, So
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Speaker 1: the practice for me is I need to remove myself,
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Speaker 1: go shift and maintain myself my energy to help shift
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Speaker 1: and change their energy. The option would be I could
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Speaker 1: have sat there and just focused on love and sending
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Speaker 1: that higher vibrational frequency into the room, into the space
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Speaker 1: to each one of them, But there was too much chatter,
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Speaker 1: too much noise, and I was like, no, I got
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Speaker 1: to remove myself. So it's just it's on an individual basis, right,
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Speaker 1: It's just what feels good to you and what works
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Speaker 1: for you exactly.
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Speaker 3: And sometimes it's the best thing is to separate, because
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Speaker 3: then sometimes we can't separate our energies.
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Speaker 2: From their energies, you know what I mean.
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Speaker 3: And so a lot of things lately, emotions might come
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Speaker 3: up and I'm even doing the going out route too,
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Speaker 3: it's like is this my energy? Just reminding myself is
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Speaker 3: this my energy? Because there's been a few times recently
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Speaker 3: even with my emotions recognizing it's not my energy. So
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Speaker 3: it's for me at that time to find out what's
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Speaker 3: the best way for me to pass that on.
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Speaker 2: And even like energies.
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Speaker 3: I noticed, even like with my grandkids staying the night
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Speaker 3: and stuff like that, the first time they stayed the night,
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Speaker 3: I picked up so much angst and energy, anxiousness and
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Speaker 3: all this stuff, all these emotions and it's like for
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Speaker 3: me at that moment, and it's not all the time.
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Speaker 3: I knew that I was making energy off of him
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Speaker 3: because I know how to process that energy so I
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Speaker 3: can help clear their energy and not from a people
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Speaker 3: pleasing because he didn't know the difference. He just know
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Speaker 3: that when he woke up the next morning, God, I
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Speaker 3: slept so good. I feel so great, like life is
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Speaker 3: great after I, you know, stay up the night processing
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Speaker 3: all these emotions that I'm picking up that arn't mind
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Speaker 3: and processing through all that stuff and giving it to
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Speaker 3: God and transmuting it to love and light, or I
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Speaker 3: just transmitted it to love and life because I've got
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Speaker 3: what God withinside of me, so we do it together.
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Speaker 2: So it's like this whole process. But I'm learning all
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Speaker 2: these things, right, It's.
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Speaker 3: Just but like you said, being in a group like that,
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Speaker 3: I would find for me, I would I would have
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Speaker 3: to step aside. Right now, I don't think that I'm
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Speaker 3: in that space to always if I'm in the mindset
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Speaker 3: to be a high vibing, but I know at some
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Speaker 3: point there's a possibility that I may have to Okay,
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Speaker 3: I'll be back.
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Speaker 2: I'm going to go to the bathroom and then I'll
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Speaker 2: come back in after I refreshed.
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Speaker 3: However that looks, maybe it's walking to the bathroom and
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Speaker 3: it's washing the water up your arms, or just clearing
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Speaker 3: the energy that way, or you know, there's just so
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Speaker 3: many different ways and people just have to find what
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Speaker 3: works best for them.
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Speaker 2: Except some people like it to even do the dog
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Speaker 2: shake thing.
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Speaker 3: I think you brought that up where they shake their
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Speaker 3: whole body like a freaking dog, because dogs will reset
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Speaker 3: themselves doing the same exact thing.
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Speaker 1: Yep. I had a conversation with a girl. She's very
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Speaker 1: new to me and and but she's she is also
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Speaker 1: she's also new to like spirituality and energy and frequency,
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Speaker 1: vibration and all the things. Right, so she's aware of
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Speaker 1: that stuff, you know, mindset, emotional energy and all that.
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Speaker 1: So she she we can have a conversation and she
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Speaker 1: understands what I'm talking about. But this one day I
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Speaker 1: went to hug her, and I like to hug heart
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Speaker 1: to heart. I don't care her you are. I like
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Speaker 1: to hug heart to heart now and so I so
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Speaker 1: she went to hug me the way that the most
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Speaker 1: used way of hugging is used, and I kind of
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Speaker 1: guided her differently and I said hard to heart and
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Speaker 1: she's like, oh yeah, I can't do that with everybody,
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Speaker 1: so you're special and to start going into the story,
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Speaker 1: and I was like, what her concern was as she
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Speaker 1: was talking was if you hug heart to heart, you
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Speaker 1: can take on somebody's negative energy. And I was like,
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Speaker 1: then what you're telling me is you don't know how
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Speaker 1: to maintain your own energy and that that heart to
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Speaker 1: heart maybe somebody needs that. And what if when you're
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Speaker 1: hugging somebody hard to heart, you get to share that
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Speaker 1: love with them instead of thinking you need to block
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Speaker 1: them right energetically block them? And so it was just
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Speaker 1: an interesting conversation. But she was kind of standing strong
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Speaker 1: in no, there's only certain people I can hug heart
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Speaker 1: to heart and I was like, okay, So it just
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Speaker 1: comes back to that mindset, like perspective, how are you
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Speaker 1: viewing this, because whatever you're going to give your focus
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Speaker 1: to is what is going to be true for you
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Speaker 1: And she has every right to have that belief, and
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Speaker 1: for me, with her belief didn't feel good. I was like,
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Speaker 1: doesn't feel good to me because I feel like anybody
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Speaker 1: even somebody who has some negative energy or heavy energy.
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Speaker 1: They're somebody who would probably benefit from a heart to
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Speaker 1: heart hug, to feel that love, to feel that connection.
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Speaker 1: And who am I to deny that to them? Unless
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Speaker 1: I don't know how to maintain myself. Yeah, but I
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Speaker 1: could just be in the vicinity of somebody and if
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Speaker 1: I'm not maintaining my energy, I'm going to pick up
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Speaker 1: on their energy. So it doesn't to me. It's like
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Speaker 1: that doesn't make sense.
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Speaker 3: Like, and even if you do, maybe you're a person
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Speaker 3: that transmutes things. Yeah, And so then it's to be
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Speaker 3: in the question to be in that space of Okay,
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Speaker 3: I feel this, I feel this energy on me.
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Speaker 2: How can I transmute it for the person? Because they can't.
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Speaker 2: They don't know how. They can't deal with their emotions.
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Speaker 2: Maybe you took a little bit of.
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Speaker 3: Their pain away, right, you know, maybe you took a
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Speaker 3: little bit of their sadness away. It's like, not that
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Speaker 3: it's our job, but I feel like when we pick
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Speaker 3: up on stuff, instead of being like, ooh, you got
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Speaker 3: your cooties on me, it's like, no, how can I
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Speaker 3: handle your cooties? Well, I can give your cooties lots
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Speaker 3: of love and light and then I can send it
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Speaker 3: right back to you.
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Speaker 2: I don't have we don't have to keep it.
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Speaker 3: Maybe that'll maybe that little nugget's going to help that
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Speaker 3: person through the rest of that day and maybe move
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Speaker 3: them past some emotional decisions they might have made prior
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Speaker 3: to that without having that connection. Yeah, so energy, I
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Speaker 3: mean holding back, and I understand boundaries because we have
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Speaker 3: boundaries in place because we can't manage the energy.
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Speaker 2: So the boundaries are.
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Speaker 3: There for our own safety, right until she gets past
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Speaker 3: that person gets past that emotional those feelings of having
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Speaker 3: the block. But when someone hugs you and they're feeling
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Speaker 3: like they got to block things, that's that can be
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Speaker 3: We can feel that when we're giving that person a
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Speaker 3: hug too, it's a block. But recognizing that it's not
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Speaker 3: ours and so there's just so many different things. When
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Speaker 3: you don't know that and you're giving someone that's a
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Speaker 3: hug that's block, it's like.
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Speaker 2: Something doesn't feel right.
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Speaker 1: You know.
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Speaker 2: Then you start deciphering, did I do something wrong? There's
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Speaker 2: a something you know.
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Speaker 3: You can start going through a little process on the
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Speaker 3: other side of it. But it's not even necessary. It's
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Speaker 3: just recognizing is this my energy and then for me
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Speaker 3: when because I've done it, It's happened a few times,
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Speaker 3: so I do believe that I do.
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Speaker 2: It's because I can, because I can transmute it.
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Speaker 3: I have an awareness of it that I have that
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Speaker 3: energy and I can transmute it. I can do something
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Speaker 3: with it, because I've been around people that can't. Like
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Speaker 3: I've had people with clients leave and it's like I
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Speaker 3: might cry after they left because it was just because
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Speaker 3: I could release that, because I could cry because they
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Speaker 3: were trying to hold it all in and they couldn't.
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Speaker 3: I understand that I had to protect myself for many
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Speaker 3: years and I felt like I couldn't cry in front
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Speaker 3: of people. So it's like someone could have been doing
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Speaker 3: the same thing for me this whole time, and I
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Speaker 3: never even knew they could give me the houg. You
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Speaker 3: can walk away and process that and then send me prayers.
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Speaker 1: Yeap energy is a big deal. It's huge.
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Speaker 2: It's everything. I'm sitting outside last.
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Speaker 3: Night and I'm seeing I'm like, is it raining?
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Speaker 2: It's not raining.
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Speaker 3: I get up and I walk out because it was
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Speaker 3: like there was still light. It was getting you know
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Speaker 3: that the sun was going down. But it's like I
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Speaker 3: could see it looked like there was rain coming down,
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Speaker 3: and it wasn't. I went out, there was no rain.
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Speaker 3: So I'm watching it and I'm watching energy. But then
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Speaker 3: I thought, aren't we always watching energy? I'm watching energy
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Speaker 3: right now. I can see myself in the mirror. I'm
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Speaker 3: watching energy. I'm looking out outside, and I see all
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Speaker 3: the desert and stuff. I'm watching energy. It's all the
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Speaker 3: same thing. It's all interchangeable. But it's like recognizing that we're.
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Speaker 2: It's just energy.
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Speaker 3: But I could see the energy going down, almost as
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Speaker 3: if it was raining down.
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Speaker 2: Then I could see it going sideways. I could see
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Speaker 2: it doing all kinds of different stuff, And I thought, hmm,
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Speaker 2: I wonder if I this just came up last night.
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Speaker 2: So I don't know if this is I've seen it
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Speaker 2: with my eyes closed.
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Speaker 3: If I can be out in the sun and closing
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Speaker 3: my eyes and letting the sun just hit the face,
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Speaker 3: if I just sit there, I can start noticing there's
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Speaker 3: a flow. I could see the flow coming towards me,
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Speaker 3: I can see it going outside of me.
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Speaker 2: And so then I start paying attention.
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Speaker 3: Where are my thoughts? Am I am I receiving information?
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Speaker 3: So I go through this whole journey. But that's what
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Speaker 3: I was noticing last night, and I thought this is cool.
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Speaker 3: So then I come in the house and I start
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Speaker 3: looking around. Can I see it inside the house? And
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Speaker 3: I start seeing that kind of movement around the house,
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Speaker 3: So it's like the flow. I had a friend a
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Speaker 3: long time ago, she's a massage therapist.
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Speaker 2: She told me that she could see energy.
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Speaker 3: She could be in a restaurant and there could be
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Speaker 3: a couple sitting there, the man could be whatever, The
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Speaker 3: man or the woman could have their attention directed on
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Speaker 3: to something else, whatever that's something else is, and she
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Speaker 3: could see where everything where the energy was going from
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Speaker 3: that person to that person or to that art or
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Speaker 3: whatever into this person. Like you could see all that,
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Speaker 3: And I'm starting to recognize we can.
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Speaker 2: We can.
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Speaker 3: There's so much more things that we can do. But
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Speaker 3: without all the stuff this is a video three. Without
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Speaker 3: all the stuff that's happened in my life recently, I
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Speaker 3: wouldn't have slowed down enough to notice it. It's always
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Speaker 3: been there, So it's just so that part is fun.
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Speaker 1: And everything all energy, And the other thing about it
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Speaker 1: is too, is is you might see energy different than
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Speaker 1: I see energy because we're in a place with ourselves.
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Speaker 3: Simply just that you might even see your shirt might
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Speaker 3: look glue to you, and someone else might say it
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Speaker 3: looks like it's a deep purple or you know, not
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Speaker 3: saying that it does in any way, shape or form.
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Speaker 3: But I'm just saying we I always thought everyone saw
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Speaker 3: things exactly the same, like we saw the same colors
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Speaker 3: we saw.
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Speaker 2: It's not even true.
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Speaker 1: Right, right, And so it's just I would say a
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Speaker 1: couple of considerations that one how physically and actually my
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Speaker 1: eyes operate, and two, how I resonate with the energy
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Speaker 1: around me is how I'm going to see it. So
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Speaker 1: we could each look at a landscape even and I'm
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Speaker 1: going to see something different than you, yea, and vice versa. Right,
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Speaker 1: And so if we are two people of billions, all
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Speaker 1: of us are in that same predicament, like we're all
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Speaker 1: seeing things and they're not only Now, when you think
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Speaker 1: about that, then you go, Okay, if everything's energy, and
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Speaker 1: then I'm a witness to something, If there's ten of
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Speaker 1: us that are witnesses, then no reason there's makes sense
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Speaker 1: that there would be ten different stories on how it
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Speaker 1: was perceived. So yeah, it's so so to me is
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Speaker 1: so fascinating when you really start thinking about the intricacies
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Speaker 1: of all of it. So, yeah, it is exciting.
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Speaker 3: I remember because I used to work in the gael environment,
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Speaker 3: so I worked as a detention officer for a while.
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Speaker 3: I remember as going through training and it's like they
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Speaker 3: would say, and it's the same thing you just said.
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Speaker 3: There could be ten people at an accident site and
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Speaker 3: everybody's going to have a different story because we have
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Speaker 3: a different filtration system.
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Speaker 2: Each one of us have grown up differently.
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Speaker 3: You could take a twins, probably from the same family
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Speaker 3: and take them and they're gonna have they're going to
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Speaker 3: see their parents probably different, or they're going to see
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Speaker 3: some of their experiences different than the other person because
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Speaker 3: we're that's that's the uniqueness.
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Speaker 2: That's the part of the.
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Speaker 3: The experience that we need to come here and feel
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Speaker 3: separate and not also connected and then find our ways
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Speaker 3: back into connection.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and uh, like the word you use, the filtration system.
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Speaker 1: Our filtering system is what allows us to see what
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Speaker 1: we see or observe what we observe or witness what
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Speaker 1: we witness, how we process it because of our own
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Speaker 1: filtering system. And now that goes into your history, your
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Speaker 1: traumas and dramas, your emotional state, your mental state, your mindset,
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Speaker 1: the energy, how you're resonating with the vibrational frequency of
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Speaker 1: what's happening. So yeah, we all, all of us have
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Speaker 1: a filtering system that we're processing through, which means all
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Speaker 1: of us, as in an individual, are processing things differently.
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Speaker 1: We might have similar experiences, but we're going to process
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Speaker 1: it different. And so that's why I feel like it's
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Speaker 1: important when Bev and I come in here and we
20:39
Speaker 1: have these conversations to share with you that we're two
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Speaker 1: people of billions that are sharing how we're having these experiences,
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Speaker 1: how we're perceiving them, and what we're doing as we
20:51
Speaker 1: move through them, especially if they're heavy experiences. So that's
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Speaker 1: why Bev and I. Another reason, it's also our own
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Speaker 1: therapy sessions. But yeah, there's that that this is the
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Speaker 1: way we want to share with the masses on what
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Speaker 1: we are going through.
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Speaker 3: So yeah, and then I wanted to add to all
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Speaker 3: that that you added, for you know what, we're grabbing
21:16
Speaker 3: all of our tools from our caretakers. Our caretakers did
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Speaker 3: the best they could when they were raising us, but
21:22
Speaker 3: it's like they had their own emotional things that if
21:24
Speaker 3: they had.
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Speaker 2: If I could use.
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Speaker 3: My mom as an example, if my mom felt like
21:28
Speaker 3: my dad was always cheating on her, there was that
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Speaker 3: energy I'm going to pick up.
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Speaker 2: You know, it's not the Stova's hot, don't touch it.
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Speaker 3: It's because we would see that our parents would do
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Speaker 3: these things, and then that was the reaction or the
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Speaker 3: template they decided to use their filtration system.
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Speaker 2: We're using their filtration system.
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Speaker 3: With all the traumas, I keep thinking, one thing that's
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Speaker 3: set with me or it really hit me hard, was
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Speaker 3: or not hard, but really brought.
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Speaker 2: To light to my growth growing up. Was my mom
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Speaker 2: was seventeen. She was a child. Got it?
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Speaker 3: When I think about me being seventeen years old, I
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Speaker 3: had What kind of a nurturing, loving person.
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Speaker 2: Could I have possibly been? Because I was still a child.
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Speaker 1: You know what I mean.
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Speaker 3: When you're trying to escape your environment at whatever cost
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Speaker 3: it is, and you did you bring a child in
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Speaker 3: and that now becomes your I always say your rubiks cube.
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Speaker 3: The universe gave you a rubiksque to keep you occupied,
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Speaker 3: so you don't look outside of this.
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Speaker 2: It's going to keep you busy all the time. You're
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Speaker 2: never gonna you don't have time to go for spiritual
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Speaker 2: growth because.
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Speaker 3: It doesn't exist. And now it's like, well it does exist.
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Speaker 3: Now you see parents and you see other people. They
22:35
Speaker 3: could be having their podcast, they could be doing meetings,
22:37
Speaker 3: and they'll have their children that will be active in
22:40
Speaker 3: that environment. They're moving around because and what are their
22:43
Speaker 3: kids learning a different way to handle things? Because we're
22:47
Speaker 3: always learning. It wasn't one and done. We didn't learn
22:50
Speaker 3: oh yeah, you just don't touch the stove and that's it.
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Speaker 3: Now there's a million other things, but we had to
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Speaker 3: go through the process. I even watch my youngest daughters
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Speaker 3: with her youngest son and like telling him things, and
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Speaker 3: it's like he she'll tell him, like that's hot, and
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Speaker 3: he'll walk over and put his hand right on it
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Speaker 3: because he wants to.
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Speaker 2: Know what you're saying is hot.
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Speaker 3: He's Maybe what's hitting my mind right now is maybe
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Speaker 3: he's not going to be the person that's gonna follow
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Speaker 3: along with all that stuff, and he's gonna have to
23:18
Speaker 3: like you said that, I'm not going to put this
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Speaker 3: into my bag of tricks right here.
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Speaker 2: For the rest of my life just because you said it.
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to go.
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Speaker 3: Over here and explore it, and so there's so much
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Speaker 3: learning that happens with kids around us.
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Speaker 2: It really does.
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Speaker 3: It helps us to really become in the now, really present,
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Speaker 3: which is awesome because that's all we have.
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Speaker 1: And they'll by doing that, they're learning to question mainstream,
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Speaker 1: question it instead of just believing it. So that's gonna
23:49
Speaker 1: be a very valuable tool as they get older.
23:52
Speaker 3: So yeah, because they come back to the energy, they
23:55
Speaker 3: come through on that same energy as maybe your parents.
23:58
Speaker 2: Maybe your parents were in a space fear.
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Speaker 3: Now you're listening to someone else's in the space of
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Speaker 3: fear that's guiding you from a space of fear, and
24:04
Speaker 3: you're like, oh, yeah, I got we got to do
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Speaker 3: all this stuff instead of exploring outside of that or
24:09
Speaker 3: I would say, turn off the TV or turn off
24:11
Speaker 3: the volume and then watch it again and notice things
24:14
Speaker 3: are a lot different than you thought they were when
24:16
Speaker 3: you first started watching it. You know, just like watching
24:18
Speaker 3: the animal stuff with the sad, sad song on there
24:21
Speaker 3: just to really get you.
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Speaker 2: I could cry during some of those commercials.
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Speaker 3: But if you stop and just look at it, I mean,
24:28
Speaker 3: if you look at it from a different perspective, look
24:30
Speaker 3: at all those amazing animals and if they do get euthanized,
24:32
Speaker 3: well then they just got set free so they can
24:34
Speaker 3: jump into another body. Maybe they're going to go into
24:36
Speaker 3: a home and that family is going to learn.
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Speaker 2: Lots of love because of that animal. So it's like that.
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Speaker 3: It's just different perspectives, right, It's just different ways of
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Speaker 3: looking at all of it, and not from a victim's standpoint.
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Speaker 1: Yep. And here's where we want to move from is
24:51
Speaker 1: being a victim to our circumstances to a student of
24:54
Speaker 1: our life. So sure to go back and listen to
24:57
Speaker 1: this video so you can get some of that information
25:00
Speaker 1: and implement whatever resonates with you and practice practice, practice,
25:05
Speaker 1: because I will guarantee you one thing. Life gives us
25:08
Speaker 1: plenty of opportunity to practice the tools that we learn,
25:13
Speaker 1: and it's just remembering to tap into those tools. So
25:16
Speaker 1: we appreciate you watching tea time with Amy and Bev
25:19
Speaker 1: and know that you can have these conversations with other people,
25:23
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25:28
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25:42
Speaker 1: share influencers that you're listening to with your friends, family,
25:48
Speaker 1: and coworkers and anybody else you can think of. So
25:51
Speaker 1: because you know, out of the many people on this planet,
25:55
Speaker 1: there are a lot of people, even myself still included,
25:58
Speaker 1: who are seeking information to find or be lighter in
26:03
Speaker 1: life and embrace it more with the joys instead of
26:06
Speaker 1: the heaviness. Do you have any final words, Bev?
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Speaker 2: Be the best version of yourself.
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Speaker 1: Keep practicing.
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Speaker 3: It's always an opportunity, right, all everything is an opportunity
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Speaker 3: in our lives, really, every day, every fricking day.
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Speaker 1: All right, friends, thanks for hanging out with us. Time
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Speaker 1: with amen BEV, and well we will see you next time. Bye.