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Get It Out, Girl! · Untraditionally Lala

• 0:05
  Speaker 1: Today's episode will be interesting. We're recording this at like
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  Speaker 1: it feels like the crack of dawn.
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  Speaker 2: It's seven am.
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  Speaker 3: I watched really the sunrise as I drove over here
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  Speaker 3: this morning.
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  Speaker 2: This is early for me.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I feel like ocean sleeps in now that's good.
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  Speaker 1: So now my schedule has adjusted. By the way, Good morning,
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  Speaker 1: my loves. Welcome to the Give Them La La podcast.
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  Speaker 1: My voice is still waking up.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning everyone.
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  Speaker 3: I kind of like this though, because I feel like
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  Speaker 3: we get a lot of dms that are like, I
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  Speaker 3: listen to this on my drive to work, and surely
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  Speaker 3: their drive to work has to be some people's drive
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  Speaker 3: to work has to be like probably seven.
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  Speaker 2: Am, eight am.
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  Speaker 3: So totally we're there with you this morning.
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  Speaker 2: I also feel like I'm burning the candle at both ends. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you've been working NonStop.
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  Speaker 1: We've and working NonStop. I feel like I cannot catch
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  Speaker 1: a break. And then the second I get a little
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  Speaker 1: bit of free time, like this morning, I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I can't wait to sleep in tomorrow.
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  Speaker 2: Bam. How to get the podcast done? Yeah, yeah, we can't.
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  Speaker 3: I guess go into detail on your schedule, but Lala
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  Speaker 3: basically works seven days a week and anytime she gets
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  Speaker 3: quote unquote off is with Miss Ocean Kent. So it's
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  Speaker 3: just your going, going going.
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  Speaker 1: I know it feels good, though, I like me, you're busy.
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  Speaker 1: If I have too much time to think, that's bad
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  Speaker 1: for everyone around me.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Speaking of Miss Ocean Kent, I took her diaper off
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  Speaker 1: the other day.
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  Speaker 2: And I just wanted to let her roam around.
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  Speaker 1: Well, nothing feels better than being naked, and imagine being
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  Speaker 1: stuck in a diaper like.
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  Speaker 2: All the time.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so you take the diaper off and you gotta
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  Speaker 1: put a new one on. So I was like letting
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  Speaker 1: her walk around. She goes missing. All the gates are closed,
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  Speaker 1: so I know she is not trying to She's so brave.
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  Speaker 2: She goes missing.
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  Speaker 1: She goes missing, but like in an open area. But
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  Speaker 1: it's like, where'd she go?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? I see her in the corner taking a dom
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  Speaker 2: the floor. Stop, no diaper? Just was she squatting? Just
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  Speaker 2: poopy squatting, full on squat pooping on the floor. What
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  Speaker 2: did you do?
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  Speaker 3: Like?
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, no, I said, get it out, girl,
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  Speaker 2: you did? Yeah, Mama will clean it up. And the
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  Speaker 2: dog Lily's watching her. Lily's watching her. Dead stair as
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  Speaker 2: it falls out, and I'm.
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  Speaker 3: Like, Lily's probably like, you're supposed to do that outside, honey,
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  Speaker 3: you're supposed to do that outside.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: It was so funny and I I did clean it up,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, but it was just so funny to see
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  Speaker 1: her face because she does any thing where it's like
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  Speaker 1: where she pushes.
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  Speaker 2: And her eyes kind of start to water. Get it out, girls,
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  Speaker 2: Get it out girls. So that happened. It was amazing.
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  Speaker 1: There's like a few things that I I also wanted
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  Speaker 1: Okay to like, so I had asked, you know, because
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  Speaker 1: Ocean has started hitting again, and when they're that young,
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  Speaker 1: like they don't understand when you're when you tell them
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  Speaker 1: not to do something, maybe they do. She definitely doesn't
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  Speaker 1: listen to me. But we talked about about it on
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  Speaker 1: the podcast and this woman sent me a DM and
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  Speaker 1: she said when Ocean hits, rather than tell her don't hit,
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  Speaker 1: use positive reinforcement and say are you trying to love me?
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  Speaker 2: And it fucking worked. Stop that worked. It totally worked.
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  Speaker 2: Do you remember this woman's name so we can? I
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  Speaker 2: so wish I did. What do you mean, like, tell
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  Speaker 2: me an example.
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  Speaker 1: So ocean will go in to hit me, or the
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  Speaker 1: other day she had a fist full of hair ripping,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, are you trying?
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  Speaker 2: She should love me? Are you loving me? Ripping?
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  Speaker 3: Just like.
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  Speaker 2: Are you your teeth? That's what it was. And then
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  Speaker 2: when she do go and put her head down on
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  Speaker 2: my on my shoulder.
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  Speaker 3: Baby, See, she's so sweet that I know she's not
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  Speaker 3: and you know this too. Obviously she's not trying to
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  Speaker 3: be mean. She's just I bet, like we've talked about before,
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  Speaker 3: she probably gets laughs elsewhere, and so to her it's like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna make mommy laugh too.
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  Speaker 2: Well, it don't make mommy laugh, it makes mommy a
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  Speaker 2: rill ups. I do not like being splashed touched in
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  Speaker 2: the face.
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  Speaker 1: And my child's like the Incredible Hulk. She's strong, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: she's very strong, and her hits Like when she was
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  Speaker 1: death gripping my hair, all I could think about was
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  Speaker 1: all the split ends that she was creating.
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  Speaker 2: Oh but it worked, it did work.
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  Speaker 3: Sorry, you guys were back at the kind of o
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  Speaker 3: G place where at La.
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  Speaker 2: La Now I could not a seven in the morning
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  Speaker 2: get to the office.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry this so it might be echo wey oh,
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  Speaker 1: here comes mom, Good morning.
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  Speaker 2: Lisa Bella, the whole family is away. Yeah, we have
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  Speaker 2: a big long It is way too early.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know what I'm saying, so apologies on
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  Speaker 1: this podcast.
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  Speaker 2: But what were we talking about. We were talking so
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  Speaker 2: sexy baby, so good this morning. The positive reinforcement.
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  Speaker 1: She also when she hits, she then when I tell
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  Speaker 1: her not to, and I like, now I use positive reinforcement.
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  Speaker 1: But before and I would sad feast, Yeah it hurts, mama.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she'd hit herself like it doesn't hurt that bad.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, no, do that. She's like showing you. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it's all good. It's silly.
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  Speaker 3: It's silly, mom, she's so smart. There was a sticker
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  Speaker 3: on the floor and I was just watching her. You
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  Speaker 3: and your mom were talking. I was watching her, and
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  Speaker 3: she walked over the sticker, like stepped on it on purpose,
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  Speaker 3: and then looked behind her and saw the sticker was gone.
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  Speaker 3: So then she sat down and she lifted up the
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  Speaker 3: bottom of her foot and unstuck it like like she
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  Speaker 3: was processing, like, Okay, stepped on the sticker and it's
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  Speaker 3: not there anymore. So it's obviously on the bottom of
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  Speaker 3: my shoe.
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  Speaker 2: Did that really happen?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, it was an Amazon stickery she's doing might Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I love it.
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  Speaker 1: So I want to talk about this because I saw
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  Speaker 1: this on Instagram that that Pete Davidson broke into Kim
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  Speaker 1: Kardashian's house and bit Northwest. It's not real. That can't
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  Speaker 1: be real, right, No, okay? So I have learned that,
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  Speaker 1: like in any legitimate publication, people have to be extremely
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  Speaker 1: careful about what they write, right. Yeah, you can't just
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  Speaker 1: put anything out there now, So how the fuck can
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  Speaker 1: these people on Instagram with millions of followers, by the way,
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  Speaker 1: these little gossip things write a full caption about how
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  Speaker 1: Pete Davidson rolled into Kim Kay's house and bit her kid.
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  Speaker 2: You know what. They're like, he's fully lost it. He's
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  Speaker 2: biding Northwest now what her stuff? No, that didn't happen.
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  Speaker 3: Second, I have learned that if there's and this is
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  Speaker 3: so annoying, if there's a slight bit of truth to
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  Speaker 3: a story, other people like like, they won't sue this
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  Speaker 3: Instagram publication because they're like, Okay, there's a slight bit
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  Speaker 3: of truth. So for example, when Kim and Pete were together,
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  Speaker 3: who knows, but like North was playing and then her
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  Speaker 3: arm hit Pete's teeth and there was like a little
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  Speaker 3: teethmark and then they just take that and run. Who knows,
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  Speaker 3: but like it's insane what people can do.
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  Speaker 1: So they glombed onto the fact that yes, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if that's even true.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just saying if it was in their length the
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  Speaker 3: caption was in length really and it like described it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but it just didn't seem real.
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  Speaker 3: If that's real, if that comes out that it's real,
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  Speaker 3: I will I don't know what's real anymore.
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  Speaker 1: No, Well, remember we were at the grocery store. The
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  Speaker 1: National Inquirer was in there, and they was like hoarders
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  Speaker 1: behind the scenes of these stars hell holes and it
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  Speaker 1: like shows Chloe Kardashian and like mounds of trash.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, she's like, can they print this?
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  Speaker 3: Well, the National Inquirer at this point is just like
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  Speaker 3: it's a joke, Like it's I mean, it's.
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  Speaker 2: Always been a joke, I think, has it? Yes?
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  Speaker 3: People just like, no, it's almost it's reading fiction, that's true.
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  Speaker 3: They're like, oh, let's see what they made up this week.
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  Speaker 3: Because Chloe Kardashian is one of the most organized people.
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  Speaker 3: She has like she has like she's admittedly so, or
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  Speaker 3: she has like a form of OCD about it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, didn't they have to do do some thing with
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  Speaker 1: her where they like moved things around.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, they had like an OCD or whatever a person
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  Speaker 3: come in and like try and help help her, like.
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  Speaker 1: If things are out of place. Yeah it's okay. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like it's more of a control thing.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because totally.
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  Speaker 1: Like obviously OCD is a real thing and a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people struggle with it. But if you live in
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  Speaker 1: a world where you have like virtually no control of
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  Speaker 1: your life, because you know, Kardashians are prime examples of this.
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  Speaker 1: All the money and power in the world. Yeah, but
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  Speaker 1: they are like caged animals because.
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  Speaker 3: They can't go anywhere without being chased down, as that
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  Speaker 3: what you mean, kind of chase down.
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  Speaker 2: Their every move is watched.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, like I have the luxury of going
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  Speaker 1: to the grove and yeah, maybe a couple people recognize
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  Speaker 1: me or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Who cares if I look a hot mess? Prove it, bitch,
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  Speaker 2: prove it, you know, right, Kardashians can literally go nowhere.
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  Speaker 2: They're like animals in a cage.
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  Speaker 3: Cut to twenty four hours from now A photo of
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  Speaker 3: you in your robe at the Grove.
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  Speaker 2: Someone proved it. They send it and they're like, too,
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  Speaker 2: they don't even do I will. You just look at
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  Speaker 2: my Instagram you can see it there.
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  Speaker 4: I know.
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  Speaker 2: No, I couldn't do it. I'd go crazy. I would
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  Speaker 2: go crazy too.
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  Speaker 3: That's why I give them so much credit. Every little
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  Speaker 3: thing scrutinized. I'm like, Nope, couldn't do it.
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 1: I the other day said that I had pegged someone Because.
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  Speaker 2: It's two words.
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  Speaker 3: It means like, oh I, I Oh, I pegged you
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  Speaker 3: for being a golf player or something, but he's really
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  Speaker 3: a football player.
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  Speaker 2: Correct. Yeah, that's what I thought it was. Who would
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  Speaker 2: you say it to? I said it to a.
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  Speaker 1: Group of friends, and someone in the group yeah, was
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  Speaker 1: like if you pegged some much. I was like, like,
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  Speaker 1: pegged them for who they really are? And she said
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  Speaker 1: that means you put a strap on on and put
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  Speaker 1: it in their ass, right?
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  Speaker 2: Is that what it means?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, That's how I learned it from Broad City because
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  Speaker 3: Abby the show Broad City. Because in the show Abby
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  Speaker 3: meets this dream guy but then he wants her. He's
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  Speaker 3: like perfect, but he wants her to peg him. Jeremy's
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  Speaker 3: his name, and she's like oh, and she has to
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  Speaker 3: basically deal with the fact that he's perfect, but she
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  Speaker 3: doesn't know if she wants to peg him. Yeah, like
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  Speaker 3: he's perfect, but she doesn't know. I can't believe you
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  Speaker 3: didn't know what pegging meant. I joke about I joke
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  Speaker 3: about it all the time.
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  Speaker 2: Well, now I feel like I need to, like StEB
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  Speaker 2: my game up. That's so funny.
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  Speaker 3: I as a female me who has a lot of
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  Speaker 3: like masculine traits as far as like control, and that's
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  Speaker 3: just how I am.
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  Speaker 2: I know myself.
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  Speaker 3: I've got a lot of like emotionally masculine traits, and
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  Speaker 3: I can like hide my emotion when they need to
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  Speaker 3: be hidden, and when something serious happens, I immediately go calm.
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  Speaker 3: That is the last thing I would ever do because
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  Speaker 3: like in the bedroom, it's like all feminine for me.
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  Speaker 3: Me too, yeah one, because outside of the bedroom, it's
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  Speaker 3: like mostly masculine.
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  Speaker 2: You know what, though, I do the same thing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah I can. I can walk out into the world
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  Speaker 1: and I would say I have more masculine and yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I'm kind of I would say so too. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I have the soft sides of a female and obviously
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  Speaker 1: a mother.
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  Speaker 2: But in the bedroom. I am all feminine.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I always like I play like the what if
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  Speaker 3: with Kyle.
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  Speaker 2: Because is it only pegging? Wait?
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  Speaker 4: No?
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  Speaker 2: And then I just don't want to forget that.
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  Speaker 3: No, No, ask the question because were you going to say,
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  Speaker 3: is that only pegging if a woman does it to
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  Speaker 3: a man?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? No? Or is it only pegging? I was actually
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  Speaker 2: gonna say, is it only pegging if it's strap on?
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  Speaker 3: I think so, yeah, it's only pegging if it's a
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  Speaker 3: strap on. So I've like asked Kyle. I'm like, what
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  Speaker 3: if I wanted you to peg me? And he's like what,
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, it just like you met me and I
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  Speaker 3: was perfect in every way, but I wanted you to
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  Speaker 3: peg me And I was like, but not with your
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  Speaker 3: penis with like a strap on. He's like, no, that'd
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  Speaker 3: be so weird because I like always say these situations
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  Speaker 3: or I'm like he's like, no, I thank god neither of.
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  Speaker 2: Us like butt stuff. Ugh.
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  Speaker 3: If I met a man who liked butt stuff, I'd
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  Speaker 3: be like, I'm so sorry I'm not the one.
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  Speaker 2: My friends are always shocked when I tell them I've
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  Speaker 2: never done anal.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well you have to try it to make sure
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  Speaker 3: you don't like it.
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  Speaker 2: I know a dude try it for you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, it like slipped out and went into the
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  Speaker 1: wrong area and it was antful.
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  Speaker 3: That's like unexpected. I feel like it's almost like a
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  Speaker 3: high school slush college thing. It's like for me and
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  Speaker 3: my friends, it was something we all tried when with
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  Speaker 3: like our long term boyfriends.
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  Speaker 2: My friend can really only get off when she does
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  Speaker 2: it the other way.
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  Speaker 3: Some women can. I think it has to do with
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  Speaker 3: like how it feels to me. It feels absolutely repulsive.
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  Speaker 2: I just know what comes out of mine poop.
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  Speaker 3: Spoiler alert, it's poop poop.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm like, to each their own in the bedroom. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like, just get your rocks off.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, anyone, Because, like I know women who
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  Speaker 3: have sex with women, I think pegging happens a lot.
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  Speaker 3: I have a friend who is a lesbian and she
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  Speaker 3: loves it, loves women, would never date a man, but
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  Speaker 3: loves pegging yeah, with her partners. So I'm like, oh, interesting,
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  Speaker 3: do you boo?
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  Speaker 1: I just literally thought that it meant like there was
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  Speaker 1: one meaning, and it's like I know exactly who you are.
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  Speaker 2: Right, pegged you? Well, I've pegged him so and they're
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  Speaker 2: like what.
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  Speaker 1: Speaking of pegging and just being humans. I also saw
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  Speaker 1: another thing on ig that I wanted to get your
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  Speaker 1: opinion on.
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  Speaker 2: Hah.
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  Speaker 1: So this happened a few days ago, but is their name?
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  Speaker 1: Willow Smith came out defending will saying that people's humanness
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  Speaker 1: is not easily accepted. Okay, and again, like there are
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  Speaker 1: some there are things on Instagram that I sometimes want
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  Speaker 1: to comment on because you know, I love a good opinion,
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  Speaker 1: and opinions are like assholes everyone else? Right, Yeah, we see,
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  Speaker 1: That's why it was a full circle with the asshole moment, right,
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  Speaker 1: But like I just I get so worried about what's
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  Speaker 1: going to get picked up on right right, Like I
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  Speaker 1: just don't want to get involved.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, unless they offer me a check for it, right,
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  Speaker 2: then I'll get involved. Then you'll get involved.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you think? What did you think about
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  Speaker 3: that statement? That We've talked about this a million times
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  Speaker 3: on the podcast. I'm like, I don't think that putting
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  Speaker 3: your hands on someone is humanness humanness.
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  Speaker 2: I know it seems more.
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  Speaker 1: Like animalistic, not that animals have hands, but it's just like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that type of energy just doesn't seem like we're evolved, right, right,
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  Speaker 1: like use your words when you're.
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  Speaker 3: Upset, and I mean, especially here's I don't know. I
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  Speaker 3: have to see what she was talking about, because I
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  Speaker 3: didn't see that. I wonder if.
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  Speaker 1: She met at the headline you did, which is why
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  Speaker 1: I do that all the time.
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  Speaker 2: And then I've got the whole story figured out.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I do that too. And Kyle's like, did
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  Speaker 3: you even read I might? I say the whole story,
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  Speaker 3: I say, and this is what she said. And He's like,
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  Speaker 3: is it actually what she said? And I said, well,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, but I bet it's something like that.
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  Speaker 3: But here's what I think. If I wonder if Willow Smith,
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  Speaker 3: and I don't know if she goes by like Willow
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  Speaker 3: Smith or just Willow, but I wonder if she was
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  Speaker 3: coming out saying that, because will Smith actually came out
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  Speaker 3: with a very sincere, in my opinion, apology video, and
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  Speaker 3: I wonder if he got kind of dragged for that
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  Speaker 3: apology video.
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: And then she said she very well could have done that,
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: because in that case, I would agree with her.
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: Where it's like will kind of disappeared for a couple
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: months or however long ago.
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: It was a while.
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: It seems like he's done the work and he realizes.
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: I mean, in that apology video, he says, like I
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: was close to Chris Rock's parents, like I let them down.
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: It seems like he's done the work, and who am
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: I or who are we to be like not good enough?
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: Like that to me is cancel culture. It's like you
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: do something wrong and then you do the work, and
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: you're doing the work to work on it, and you
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: realize you did it wrong and then everyone's like, nope,
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: too late. That I don't agree with No, I don't
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: agree with it either. So I don't know what she meant,
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: but I do think obviously what he did was wrong.
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: And then I think that his apology video seemed very
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: genuine in my opinion, and I was like, hell, yeah,
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: Will Smith, you do the work, You do your thing.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: And another thing he said, too, which was very telling,
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: is he said you could tell he's like working on
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: this in therapy, or at least seems that way. He said,
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: disappointing people is my I don't know what the phrase
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: he used, and I don't want to mess it up,
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: but basically that's like his that's like his trigger, it
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: seems is like disappointing people and that means family, fans, everyone,
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: so into my mind.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: I go, oh, that's his trigger.
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, in that moment he laughs for a second at
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: Chris Rock's joke. He looks at his wife, who then
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: looks disappointed, and it triggered him. Not that any what
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: he did was good at all, but.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think people, yeah, should be allowed grace
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: after an apology, Like he gave.
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: Yes totally, and it seems like he's done the work.
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: He didn't just like do some quick little you know
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: nobler months. Yeah, he threw up on Instagram. You can
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: tell he's been doing the work.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: So I and if he rolls up on anyone and
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: hits him again, then we can reevaluate that. Then we
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: can say, well, I mean he's Will Smith. He's been
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: nothing but an incredible talent and just from what I've
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: seen a human being.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: The thing is is cancel culture is the outside world
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: weighing in on someone who has a platform, and it's like, well,
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: why don't we dig into your past? Why do we
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: put a camera on you and see how you're living
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: your life?
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: Exactly as someone said the other day, it wasn't the
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: other day. It was like a few months ago, I'm
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: sure this has been said a million times, but you've
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: already done what you would get canceled for. And that
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: made me think like, yeah, that's true. There are plenty
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: people out there who are like, they've already done it.
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: But fortunately for them, eighty percent of people out there
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: don't have the cameras on them and don't have the
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: people looking into their past being like, oh look, so yeah,
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: I just think that I think he did the work
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: in my opinion.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: That's just my That's.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Probably what she meant. One side is not accepted. Maybe
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: she was referring to to the apology that maybe wasn't
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: accepted by everybody.
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe I read the full thing. I do that
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: all the time. No, I do that all the time.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: I need to start reading full things because there are
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: times where I see headlines.
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: Of the perfect example.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: With my book, there were so many stories that I
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: had put in really wanting to share why I got sober,
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: because when I got sober, there were a lot of
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: people around me that didn't understand why. So in the
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: book I told stories that were you know, I guess
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: if you read them you could laugh.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: But Bird's eye view not funny.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: Not funny Okay, so I'm talking to some publication doing
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: press and you know, really deep diving into the things
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: that I did that led me to get sober. And
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: the headline was that I put a toothbrush in my.
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: Butt, right, that happened so many times? Right, And I'm like,
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: come on, right, like I understand.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: Definitely headline worthy, Definitely going to get some clicks, Definitely
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: going to get a lot of judgment, but like, let's
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: look at the bigger picture. I'm not telling this story
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: because I think that it's I mean now I think
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: it's fucking hysterical, but yeah, grand scheme of things like
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: not funny, like you were.
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: Telling the reasons you got sober, Like, oh, maybe you
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: didn't see it out in public, but here are the
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: things I did that right, I felt we're crossing the
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: line at the time or whatever.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and then they take that like.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: Let's look behind the scenes, yes, peak behind the curtain
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: as to why I am where I am today.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and that was the fucking headline. It's like so insane.
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: I know, so I should know not. I'll read articles
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, eugh, judging and it's.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: Like, bitch, what are you doing? Bitch? Fall in line. Okay,
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: I want to listen to some voice small. Do we
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: have any Yes? Do we do?
• 22:01
  Speaker 4: Hey? Laala, this is a kiss from Atlanta listening to your
• 22:05
  Speaker 4: episode with your brother, and it's so funny. I love
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: your relations I love regularly you yelling at him and
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: he exactly's doing something crazy. So I have to ask,
• 22:14
  Speaker 4: as the older sister, do you think you are more
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: protective of your brother? Do you think that when if
• 22:21
  Speaker 4: you were to find a girlfriend, you would like really
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: screen her for him, or what do you think you're
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: going to be like when he starts dating or finding
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: someone serious. Thanks? Love, you have a great rest of
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: your day.
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: Bye.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: The family episode was still one of my most favorite episodes.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: I know that was so fun.
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: We've got to get them back on and we have
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: to get live and said.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because I spent like the whole weekend in Newport
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: with them.
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we wanted to get them but there was too much,
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: too much to be done.
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: Too much to be done.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: But I'm going to get them on because I think
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: they have really funny stories. I've known them since I
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: was born. I know with Easton, you know Easton twenty nine,
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: so he's I call him my little brother, but he's
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: like a grown up. Yes, yeah, and he's dated here
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: and there, but he's he's not like I remember wanting
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: to bring him out to La and he comes often.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: But my friend was like.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna take him out. We're gonna find him,
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: you know, hot bitches. And my brother is like so sweet.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: He's like, I don't really want to find hot bitches.
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm just.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: Gonna like crack it Trullee on the couch and like
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: watch them Seinfeld, you know. Yeah, And he's brought really
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: cute girls around. He's just like such a gentleman, Like
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: he's not sitting here like, oh I got a fuck.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: As you know, when he was on not the Family
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: episode but before it was a few months back, but
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: we did it in there, so it wasn't too long ago.
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: He said he was going he was practicing celibacy at
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: the moment.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think it worked out well.
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: Okay, but but that shows you that he's not all
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: about just like sticking his penis in the next thing.
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: No, he's definitely not. And I'm very protective of him.
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: He had a girlfriend for a really long time and
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: she was so cute. We loved her. I felt like
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: she fit right in. But then she kind of started
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: messing with him and making him like every other day.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: He was on edge thinking that she was going to
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: break up with him, and I was in Utah and
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: I took his phone and I basically broke up with her.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: Really yeah, thinking that he was okay with this because
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: I was like, give me your phone, I'm going to
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: do it, you know, because he was in turmoil. I
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: can tell it was his first like real relationship, and
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: you know, I dealt with dudes toying with my heart before.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: It's not a great feeling, but like I shake it off.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: When you see your sibling dealing with it, you want
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: to tell them how to maneuver. You know, Oh it's
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: not worth it, call it a day.
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, now you want to get in there and
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: take a phone and send a text.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: What the texts say you? Basically, I'm going to make
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: your job really easy right now. I'm done.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Have a great life. And he was really upset about
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: it later, like thinking about it that I that I
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: did that, because he's like, I really didn't want that
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: to happen, and you forced me to do it. You
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: took my phone, and I believe they ended up getting
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: back together and then finally he called it quits again. Yeah,
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: but yeah, I think I'll do background checks. I want
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: to know what their motive is.
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and he is so like Easton again, I'll say this,
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: I pride myself on reading people. Yes, at this point
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: in time, I have to admit I've been wrong a
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: couple times, but maybe two to three times in my
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: life tops. And when you meet someone and I'm like,
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: this is a good person. Easton though, Like he just
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: has a big heart and he cares. Easton is one
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: of the sweetest people I've ever met, And so I
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: do think when he eventually finds someone that he's like,
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: this is it, this is her. I think that you
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: guys are going to click because I think, no matter
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: what I think, it's not even going to be like,
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: sure you could background checker, but I think he'll bring
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: around and he'll be like, this is my person. And
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: he's got such a good heart. I don't see him
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: not being with someone who he's serious about who isn't
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: just as like good as him, don't you think.
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I don't think he would want me
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: to do a background check.
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: I don't mean, you know, he probably you'd have to
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: do it, probably secretly.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: But then if I found something and I went to him,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: I feel like he'd feel a little betrayed.
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: The trade.
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm also I'm also a little wounded. People scare me.
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well, people are scary. People are scary. Do you
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: think it's different with men and women. Do you think
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: that as a woman you should do more background checks
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: and maybe as like a man. I'm just asking because
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: I know that's like some people are like, yeah, Well,
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: as a woman, you have to because in most situations,
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: not all, but most, you can't physically defend yourself against
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: a man, usually unless you have like pepper spray or something,
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: if it's like like body to body, but.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: The other way around.
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: Most of the time a man could physically defend himself
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: or you know, absolutely So, do you think it's maybe
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: not as pressing to do background checks like for your brother?
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: No, I think, well, let's just look at it for
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: what it is.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: Most of the time when shit happens, a man is responsible.
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: I was watching a show on Netflix and it said
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: that eight thousand people are murdered in the United States.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: I think it's each year, and less than ten percent
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: of those are women, females doing it. I know that
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: there's crazy bitches out there, you know, Yeah, but there's
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: something about men just maneuver differently, they think differently than women.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: They don't have for the most part, they don't have
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: that like sensitive side. They're kind of a one track mind.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: And there are a lot of great men. I mean
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: my best friend Olivia who we spent time with in Newport, Like,
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: her husband is like, you marry that dude, right?
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: She did's he's so sweet Lance right? Her?
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: No, Lance is her brother, her husband, okay is His
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: name's Chris, and he's just like the sweetest, most amazing
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: human being in the world.
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: You can see it in his eyes. See.
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: That's what I think it is when I say, oh,
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: I can read people. I pride myself on reading people.
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: I know within the first few seconds if they're a
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: good person or not.
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: Right, Like, there's many people who I used to know
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: that I think back looking into their eyes and being.
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: Like they were so vacant. I should have known just
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: off the eyes, right.
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: And Easton's got the sweetest he's just got He's like
• 28:56
  Speaker 3: one of the ones it's like looking into your eyes
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: or your mom's eyes or oh can size just the
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: sweetest soul, the sweetest soul.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: And whoever ends up with Easton?
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: I think that's why I'm so protective of him, because
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: he is such a little treasure.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: He's a treasure, you know, the way he treats my mom,
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: the way he treats.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: Me, and he's so funny, Like you're gonna laugh your
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: ass off with Easton hilarious.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: I feel like people only saw it.
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: People are like, he was so funny on the Family episode,
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: but he's like, that's just the tip of the iceberg.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: I know the Family episode, he was really upset because
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: he did get a call from his work that said
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: we do need you back tomorrow and we were in
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: LA and he was thinking he could stay through the weekend.
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: Yes, but they needed him and.
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: He was like kind of bummed out and he was
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: still hilarious and he was still funny. People love the
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: laugh is everything. I understand being protective though, like the
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: rest of my siblings I love. But like mister Bubbs,
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: the first guy he brings home, I'm gonna be like, ahha,
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna be like, you know, just asking him all
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: the questions, what are your intentions with mister Bubbs.
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: Well, mister Bubbs is a gem. He's a gem. He
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: is a gem.
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and this will be the first time that he's
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: like the first person you ever meet. Yeah, well, you know,
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: because he came out to your family, Like how long
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: ago it.
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: Was probably I think two years ago at this point.
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: And has he ever brought home a girl? No, I
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: never brought home a guy. No, he never brought home
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: a girl or a guy.
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: But growing up, it was like, yeah, he'd bring He's
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: like his group of five girlfriends would come spend the night.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: So it was like that vibe. Everyone loves girl time,
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: I know. And that's what like.
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: Mister Bubbs is like, like, my sister's getting married, and
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: he's like like asking my sister, please don't make me
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: go to the bachelor party.
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: Please let me.
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: And she's like, you're coming to the bachelorette party.
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: He's like, oh, thank god, that is so cute. Wait,
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: is he a groomsman?
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: He's a groomsman. Yes, she's getting married in September. He's
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: a groomsman. Actually, I need to clarify because he might
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: I don't know which side he's standing on. If it
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: were up to mister Bubb's he'd be with the ladies,
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: but he might he support you know, of course he
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: supports my sister's fiance too, but so. But my point
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: in saying that was he brought quote unquote brought home girls,
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: but it was more like mom and dad, the girls
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: are coming, and it'd be like five best friends.
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: I love that, no love interests.
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: So yes, when he brings he had one guy that
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: he was talking to that he it seemed like it
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: might be something. And then mister Bubbs is also picky
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: and bougie. We know that and we love that about him.
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: So I don't think it worked out because of his bouchiness.
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: But eventually, when he brings home a guy, I'm going
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: to be so protective, so protective, I'll probably do a
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: background check, I'll hire.
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: A well I know somebody, I know, I know somebody.
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: I know somethe real good too, I know no, I
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: I mean mister Bubbs loves girl time. I love girl timey.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: My goal is to buy a large home once we're
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: out of this lease, fill it with chicks. Love you
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: know me the mom of a spot for Easton Obviously
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: my gaze and then like my girlfriends, who are you know,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: kind of just like figuring life out. Yeah, well, I'll
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: obviously have our own rooms. If you would like to
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: bring a boy home, you are most welcome. Set my
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: mom she cannot.
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: Sorry, they She'll have a vibrator in the drawer.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: This is all you need, bitch. I'm funny about that.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: So many people have asked me how I feel about
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: my mom dating. I think I'm getting I think I'm
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: softening up on the idea. I mean, she tells me
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: she doesn't want to find anybody because men.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: Are a lot of work. Like they want to say,
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: we're a lot of work.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: I mean if I'm not boinking you every night and
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: kicking you a good meal, and even then you still
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: may straight And.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: I don't want a deal right now. You're a sloppy ass.
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: You know, toilet seats lift up? Yeah, what do you do?
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: I know, the more people talk about men, I'm like,
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: I've got a good one.
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: You have a great one. He's cleaner than I am. No,
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: you have a great one. Kyle's amazing. He's a good one.
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: But yes, men are a lot of work. But are
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: you warming up to the idea? If one day your
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: mom was like, I met this really great guy.
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: That's so I would for sure background check that I'm motherfucker.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: Of course, one hundred percent. Of course he would be
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: background checked.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: But and it wasn't too long ago that anytime someone
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: would bring it up, it would It's like a very
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: simple thing to bring up. Right, my dad's been gone
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: for four years. Someone's saying, what about your mom dating?
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: I would start sobbing, and.
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: Then they would say, well, my mom, and I'm like.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: Your parents got divorced. Very different, yes, very different. Yes,
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: if my mom had gotten divorced, I would be helping
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: her find somebody, right, I'd be helping my dad find somebody.
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: Right. Maybe not. I like to think i'd be like that,
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: But I'm.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: Like, I go into my mind goes a thousand steps ahead.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: If she finds someone, that guy could be holding my kid.
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: You're telling me that there's this guy who's gonna be
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: holding my kid when my own father hasn't held my kid.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: There exactly what's fucking happening? Look at me, I'm getting
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: into my moat. I'm like, I got my fingers pointed.
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: Well, it breaks me out.
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: I couldn't imagine I mean, I couldn't imagine what you
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: went through and have gone through having a baby, and
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: you're you know, and your sweet dad never I mean,
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: let's be honest. Your dad's here all the time, we
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: know it. Your dad's around ocean. Your dad is seen
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: but in like human form, being able to hold right.
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: And so I'm sure, like you said, your mind goes
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: a million steps ahead and you go, oh no, no, no, no, man,
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: besides my dad.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, going to be And then I also I also
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: selfishly think, well, what if hurt finding a dude?
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: What does that mean for me?
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: Like I need my mom, so is gonna step in
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: here and be like my mom's gonna say.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: I can't come tonight. Joe wants a burger and I
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: got a grill. No, that's not what we do right right,
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: Tell Joe it's a fucking boys night.
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: It's yeah, go hang with your boys, Joe. I don't
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: think it's anything either of you have to stress over.
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: I think when and if the time ever came, I
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: think it would be a little more simple and seamless
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: than you either of you.
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: Think my mom's gonna hear this right now, and she'll
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: probably chime in. But I did notice she felt a
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: little bit neglected and betrayed when I told her I
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: had sex.
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: Please listen, I get it. She claims it's because I
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: told her I couldn't drive to Newport. Yeah, this was
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: like obviously a while ago. Yeah, and that she would
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: have to go by herself because I had to work. Yeah.
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: I was like, no, you got funny when I dropped
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: the sex card.
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: She did, there's something about sex and you know what
• 35:41
  Speaker 3: I did hear that this is it sixties.
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: I say this all that every year. I'm like going
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: up in age. But I'm like, I.
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: Heard, like fifties or sixties are the new, like thirties
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: and forties. Like women's sex drive doesn't even be like Spikes.
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: It's like it's Spikes mid thirties and then it goes
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: down and then Spike's mid forties, then mid fifties, mid sixties.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: We'll look at Sonia Morgan. Tell me Sonia Morgan's sex
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: drive is like nothing I've ever seen.
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: Same with lou Anne. How old is Sonia? Do we know?
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: And I'm just basing this off of the show. By
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: the way, I think they're in their fifties, Okay, yeah, see.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: And they're like ready to fucking rumble and Sonya the
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: second she stepped onto Real Housewives talked about the importance
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: of having sex right, which then makes me feel bad.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: I'm like, Mom, if you need to, like go do
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: your thing, got it, But like, look at all of
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: these vibrators you did.
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: You did get a lot.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: I got a gifts. I got a lot of vibrators
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: for gifts because they were good. And you should have seen.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: Like my sister in law came to visit for Christmas,
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: she was going through I have a whole.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: The whole cabinet. Your mom gave me one. I think
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: it's like, thank you, Lese. Yeah. Yeah.
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: Sexual health is important well.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: By the way, even if you have a dude, like
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: people like I don't masturbate, I have a man.
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: I'm like, but still it's like it's way different to me.
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: It is different, and it's much quicker.
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: It's quicker, and it's like it's almost like the vibrators
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: for health.
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: This is for me.
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: The vibrators just for sexual health. The man is for
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: a connection. It's for the human to human connection.
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: By the way, a vibrator on a man's.
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: Penis falls falls, oh stop is something to explore.
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: Something to explore. Never know that I don't may or
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: may not have done this before. I may. Yeah, it's
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: good to know. That's a tip for all your little
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: mouth action with the vibrator to the Yeah, ladies and men,
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: men and women tips, but again, ask your partner.
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: I learned that from when we did the podcast sex
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: with Emily. She's got like an insane podcast, yes, and
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: she was talking about how men and women should communicate
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: about because like, there's a purpose to having sex probviously, right, Yes,
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: we want to feel good, we want to have fun.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: So what's the point of doing it if you're not
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: doing this? So you have to communicate with your partner.
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: And everyone's purpose might be different. Well probably it's different.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: Yes, Like what's going to happen for you and what
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: gets you off may not get your partner off.
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: And the last dude that I hooked up with, it
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: was so crazy because he like, wow, we're getting into death,
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: you know.
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: And I just realized too, we're talking about sex and
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: it came from a question about your brother.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, we're like.
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: But anyway, keep going, Well, these are the tangent you're
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: talking about.
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: I know, But he like made sure I was happy
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: before he started doing his thing to make himself.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: And you know what's wild.
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: I was like, that's never happened to me, That is
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: what's wild. You told me that, And I was like,
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: I felt so sad for you that you've never been
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: with a partner who like that was never And men
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: and women, if you're listening and you've never been with
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: a partner who make sure you're feeling satisfied and you
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: you are feeling good before he or she's feeling good,
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: I think that you need to revisit maybe and have
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: a conversation because well.
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: I can't believe you were so shocked by that. I
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: thought that that was just like a common thing that
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: like dudes come in, they get in, get out, you know,
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: and you're left Like that was fun.
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: But like for like one to me, even for like
• 39:28
  Speaker 3: one night's stand stuff that I've had, I've been like
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: who wha, whoa hold on, We're good. No, no, no, I'm
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: not not there yet. Take it because I know it's
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: going to be one night stand. So I'm like, what
• 39:38
  Speaker 3: am I just doing this for your fun?
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: No, that's true, we're both in this. No, that is
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: so true.
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not just a little you know here for you.
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so that happened and I was excited about them,
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: all right, that's very important saying that.
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: The conversation went from are you protective of Easton? To
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: like sex.
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: Vibraiders out in guys balls mom having sex.
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: Oh, I have another voicemail.
• 40:02
  Speaker 5: I love that. I am such a huge fan. I
• 40:05
  Speaker 5: have been following you ever since you got on Vanner
• 40:07
  Speaker 5: Pump and I absolutely adore you, your lip kits, everything.
• 40:13
  Speaker 5: I am a fan. So my question for you is,
• 40:17
  Speaker 5: my boyfriend and I are moving in together after four years.
• 40:21
  Speaker 5: Very excited, more excitement than nervous. But but that being said,
• 40:25
  Speaker 5: that's a lot of change. We're both very independent people,
• 40:29
  Speaker 5: and I would just love to hear kind of what
• 40:31
  Speaker 5: your advice is on, you know, cohabitating in the same
• 40:36
  Speaker 5: space and living with a male.
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 40:40
  Speaker 5: I'd like forward to hearing from you, and hopefully you
• 40:42
  Speaker 5: and your podcast will come to Chicago because we definitely
• 40:45
  Speaker 5: want to see you. Thanks guys, but bye ooh.
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: I love this question because I had never lived with
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: a dude before. My last one was like and by
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: the way, it was absolutely horrific, Like saying, god, he
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: had a housekey where they came three days a week,
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: because I think I would have lost my mind. I
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: was just like repulsive, disgusting. I didn't know that people
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: lived that way, you know, yes, And it would stay
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: that way had the housekeeper not come. And I'm neat
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: and tidy, Like I can get messy when my day
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: is crazy, but I have even an organized mess you know.
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: But like there's a difference between dirty, yes and messy Yeah, Okay,
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: huge difference. I think the best advice obviously you're going
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: to move in, You're gonna see how things flow, You're
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: gonna see things that aren't working. Then you got to
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: have a meeting, a coming of the minds. Is that
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: how you say it? Coming up a meeting of the
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: minds and say this is the way I like to
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: do things. He's gonna tell you this is the way
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: he likes to do things. That's when compromise comes into play.
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: But I think, you know, something as simple as it
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: bothers me. When there's clothes on the ground, here's the hamper.
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: This is gonna be how we do it. Maybe it's
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: a his and hers. I've always been the type of
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: when people tell me, like they do their laundry separately.
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: All I go into is like, oh my gosh, what
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: a waste of water and supplies one hundred thousands, Like
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: do the fucking laundry together? Can?
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe switch off. Maybe his job is doing the dishes,
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: you do the laundry. But there's got to be like
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: compromise involved. I mean, what do you think, how do
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: you and Kyle do things? I relied on a housekeeper.
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: Yes, so we keep up on it.
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so we know that during the week he has
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: more flexible schedule because he does fitness training and he
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: creates his schedule with his clients.
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: I'm more so gone.
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: So we know that I give Margot walks in the
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: mornings before I come to work. He sort of I
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: mean and like, I appreciate this. I understand not a
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: lot of partners do this, but I'll just say it.
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: He keeps the house clean, and he kind of like
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: does laundry and does all the dishes throughout the week,
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: and then knowing on the weekend that I will I
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: sort of do like a big clean. So I'm like Saturday,
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: from like whatever, nine thirty two noon, I'm doing like
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: a big clean and we're.
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: Doing it together so much.
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: So yeah, I mean it's literally just what you said,
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: it's dividing up the chores.
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, right now, I call my mom my wife, yes,
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: because like she does the cooking, the cleaning. Yeah, when
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: I have to go and work, she takes care of ocean.
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: Oh, it's got to stop. I love you so much.
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: And then I go out and work and you know, yeah,
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: or a living because my wife too.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, which, by the way, it could be very well.
• 43:39
  Speaker 3: I'm an all household, yes, And I'm just being silly
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: because like obviously there's no gender to that.
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: There's no such thing as gender role role. Yeah, it
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: doesn't exist.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: Yes, I just call her the wife because I think
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: it's cute and I think it's exactly you know, it's
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: just like silly, but there's no such thing. I mean,
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: I'm a woman and I'm out on these streets trying
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: to hustle my ass off exactly to make it.
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: Like many men and women are doing.
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: And there's so many women out there who work full
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: time and could have more than one job and are
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: single mothers, and it's a lot of work, and we
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: struggle with the guilt of it. You know, we have
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: these beautiful babies, and we want to be so a
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: part of their lives, but we know we got to
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: put food on the table. So I have such a
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: soft spot for mamas who are doing.
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: It all same.
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know how, Like even with Kyle, I'm like, damn,
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: it's quite a it's quite a thing to have both
• 44:36
  Speaker 3: of us have a job and keep up with the
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: house chores. Single moms, I'm like, wait, but how do
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: they actually do it with what?
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: No? Single moms?
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: And I before we sign off of this podcast, if
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: you're a single mama, I want you to know that
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: I really sorry.
• 44:57
  Speaker 6: I see you, and I feel for you. It's been
• 45:01
  Speaker 6: a lot. I have to I've been working NonStop. Yeah
• 45:05
  Speaker 6: you might try to, you know, see my baby as
• 45:07
  Speaker 6: much as I.
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: Can, which I do.
• 45:09
  Speaker 6: I see her a lot. I'm very grateful. But I
• 45:12
  Speaker 6: just want my mamas to see that you're doing it
• 45:16
  Speaker 6: all right. And our kids are going to grow up
• 45:20
  Speaker 6: and watch us hustle and create lives for them and
• 45:24
  Speaker 6: they're going to be proud.
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: Sorry, that was such a weird moment.
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: They are going to be proud.
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: Maybe I'm just tired. Maybe I'm going to start my.
• 45:29
  Speaker 3: Period, you're literally doing the thing. I mean, you're you're
• 45:33
  Speaker 3: a single mom who works. This is what people need
• 45:36
  Speaker 3: to hear. You've been working NonStop and maybe it's coming
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: out right now.
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: Well, I just keep thinking about there's you know, I
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: want to get Ocean into a nice home. I want
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: her to have a backyard to plan if she decides
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: one day, like I would really like to go to college.
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: I have to make sure that I can do that
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: for her. So I see my single mamas. I see
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: all my mamas. Yeah, the ones that get to spend
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: all day every day and maybe the guy is out
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: working or the dad.
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: Is home, Like just being a parent is something else. Yeah,
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: you always wonder if you're doing it right. Give you
• 46:12
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• 46:15
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  Speaker 1: sure is like, does it sound a little gravelly?
• 46:25
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