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385 La verdadera Masculinidad parte 2 · Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez

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  Podcast number three hundred eighty- five, as promised in the previous podcast.
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  We will talk today about masculinity in order to inculcate the values that God wants
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  to achieve male man and eye I am not being redundant. You can be
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  male because you can be male and not male. The false masculinity that is
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  promoted so much today in the society in which we live. Understand that masculinity
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  in society changes according to culture, according to the region and the time.
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  There are regions where man' s masculinity is measured by the ability to father
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  children and have wives. In some cultures, man can be male and maintained
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  by his wife. She works as he plays dominoes after him and that'
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  s what they call a male man. Masculinity is not hardness. This must
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  be told to some men not to be rude. Effect, chapter number five.
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  The lord reminds men not to be rude. Ask someone in society to
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  describe what masculinity is and show you the prototype of a sweaty muscular man,
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  with a grown beard and evident features of hardness. That' s just an
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  image, and even if it can be true, it just is. It
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  is only in a small aspect, because you can have that appearance and be
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  tender delicate and loving and not lose masculinity. There are men to tell tenderness
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  is not weakness. I' ll tell you again. Tenderness is not colecian
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  weakness. Chapter number three, verse number nineteen. Says husbands love their wives
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  and don' t be hard on them. It adds the extension and don
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  ' t be hard on them, because the tendency of a man who wants
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  to be masculine is to behave harshly. Another aspect of masculinity is sensitivity.
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  Peter' s first. Chapter number three, verse number seven. The apostle
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  Peter similarly says you husbands be understanding in your Conjugal life. Each one treats
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  his wife with respect, since as more delicate women and both are heirs of
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  the pleasant where life will thus not interfere with your prayers. So male men
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  have a high degree of sensitivity. Sensitivity to know what needs a family has.
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  Understanding an eye woman I didn' t say I understood, I said
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  understanding that it' s not the same as understanding, because you should understand
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  her. Even if I don' t understand it. I don' t
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  know if I' m making myself understood. When I do not understand Jasmith,
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  I must understand that God did so, that God did not command me
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  to understand her, but to love her. So understand the words of the
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  one who died on the cross. The verse reminds us that the woman is
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  more delicate. More delicate does not mean weaker or less valuable. It just
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  means she' s more delicate to deal with. There are men to remind
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  you that you' re not dealing with your male friend Machote on the street.
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  If we treat wives with sensitivity, the prayers will not be very difficult.
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  In other words, God soyed to husbands who treat with caution, respect
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  and decorum wives, to others, to those who are crude ordinary insensible roughs.
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  God does not hear them because He looks at them from afar. There
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  are men whom God has not heard for days because he bears witness to the
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  way in which he treats his wives by making mistakes in true masculinity. Another
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  aspect of masculinity is not superiority. You don' t earn more value in
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  the meantime be more masculine. That' s what grandmothers thought. He is
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  the male of the house and he has a higher value than the others.
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  There were even women in the past who thought having a daughter was a loss.
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  In India it was estimated that having daughters was a kind of curse,
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  so they abandoned them since they were babies. At Galatas. The apostle Paul
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  gives equal value to the woman and the man Galats three. Chapter number twenty
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  - eight. He says there is no longer a Jew or a slave Jew,
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  neither free man nor woman, but you are all one in Christ Jesus,
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  so we have the same value. And, for example, there are
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  no labors that diminish or devalue masculinity, also if it is masculine with the
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  apron, since the cloth washing the slab tea dignifies the broom sends a good
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  message to the family. There is no work however humble it seems that a
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  male man cannot perform in his home. There are men who, unfortunately,
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  believe that certain tasks discredit them in their manhood. Please, today, when
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  you get home from work, come home and put on your apron. Masculinity
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  itself is a form of service. Most men, upon arriving at the house,
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  end their journey in the generality of their behavior. Not women, when
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  they arrive at the house, feel that they are just starting that journey.
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  Social media and content platforms are killing relationships. Every member of the family is
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  imbuing themselves in them. Men spend a lot of time there. Then it
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  is necessary for man to be included in domestic challenges and upbringing. When you
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  get home tonight there will be dishes to wash children to help them with their
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  homework, folding clothes and food to prepare, put on the apron and don
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  ' t hesitate. That' ll make you more masculine. Well, I
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  thought I could finish all the points I' ve developed about masculinity, manhood,
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  and legacy, and it hasn' t. I think I' m
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  gonna need a new chapter of this podcast, so for men, the number
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  three hundred eighty- six will come. Recapitulate all that you have heard in
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  this in this podcast puts into practice all the advice that the word of God
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  gives you simply here. What I do is to replicate what God has always
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  said about true men. Here the podcast ends three hundred eighty- five,
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  but there are three hundred eighty- four more waiting for you in José Ordoñez
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  Cristiano, com and as always remember that there you find all the articles,
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  devotional studies for marriages for young people, for children. Anyway, for now,
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  dear men, I want you to have a nice day and your behavior
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  to be according to what the scriptures show of what it means to be a
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  true man and throw away the ideas that society has about how you should behave
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  that God bless you.