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- 0:37Have
- 0:37you
- 0:37ever
- 0:38noticed
- 0:38this?
- 0:38You
- 0:39finally
- 0:39get
- 0:39that
- 0:39raise.
- 0:40Or
- 0:40maybe
- 0:40it's
- 0:41that
- 0:41bonus,
- 0:41or
- 0:41it's
- 0:41that
- 0:42new
- 0:42client.
- 0:43And
- 0:43for
- 0:43a
- 0:43minute,
- 0:44you
- 0:44feel
- 0:44relief.
- 0:45You're
- 0:45like,
- 0:45oh,
- 0:45this
- 0:45has
- 0:46worked.
- 0:46Think,
- 0:47okay,
- 0:47can
- 0:47breathe
- 0:48again.
- 0:49But
- 0:49then
- 0:50that
- 0:50feeling
- 0:51fades,
- 0:51doesn't
- 0:51it?
- 0:52And
- 0:52your
- 0:52mind
- 0:53starts
- 0:53whispering
- 0:53again.
- 0:54Okay,
- 0:55now
- 0:55I
- 0:55just
- 0:55need
- 0:55a
- 0:55little
- 0:56bit
- 0:56more.
- 0:57Maybe
- 0:57for
- 0:57you
- 0:58it's
- 0:58a
- 0:58little
- 0:58more
- 0:58money
- 0:59or
- 0:59a
- 0:59little
- 0:59more
- 1:00margin
- 1:00or
- 1:00maybe
- 1:00just
- 1:01a
- 1:01little
- 1:01more
- 1:01security.
- 1:03But,
- 1:03friend,
- 1:04that
- 1:04little
- 1:04more
- 1:04is
- 1:05a
- 1:05lie.
- 1:06And
- 1:06it
- 1:07never
- 1:07ends.
- 1:08And
- 1:08it
- 1:09doesn't
- 1:09bring
- 1:09you
- 1:09peace.
- 1:10So
- 1:10if
- 1:11you've
- 1:11been
- 1:11feeling
- 1:11that
- 1:11pressure,
- 1:12I
- 1:12want
- 1:13you
- 1:13to
- 1:13hear
- 1:13this
- 1:13right
- 1:13now.
- 1:14Nothing
- 1:14is
- 1:14wrong
- 1:14with
- 1:15you.
- 1:15You're
- 1:15not
- 1:16greedy.
- 1:16You're
- 1:16not
- 1:17broken.
- 1:17You've
- 1:18just
- 1:18been
- 1:18trained
- 1:18by
- 1:18a
- 1:19loud
- 1:19world.
- 1:21So
- 1:21here's
- 1:21the
- 1:21question
- 1:21you
- 1:22and
- 1:22I
- 1:22are
- 1:22answering
- 1:23today.
- 1:24Why
- 1:24doesn't
- 1:25more
- 1:25ever
- 1:25satisfy
- 1:26us?
- 1:27And
- 1:27I
- 1:28want
- 1:28to
- 1:28gently
- 1:28expose
- 1:29what
- 1:29lie
- 1:29does
- 1:30to
- 1:30your
- 1:30heart
- 1:30and
- 1:31how
- 1:31God
- 1:31leads
- 1:31you
- 1:32into
- 1:32real
- 1:32contentment.
- 1:33Because,
- 1:33friend,
- 1:33you.
- 1:34You
- 1:34were
- 1:34not
- 1:34created
- 1:34to
- 1:35chase
- 1:35a
- 1:35finish
- 1:35line
- 1:36that
- 1:36keeps
- 1:36moving.
- 1:37You
- 1:37were
- 1:37created
- 1:38for
- 1:38peace.
- 2:00Hey,
- 2:00friend.
- 2:00Ralph
- 2:01Estep
- 2:01Jr.
- 2:02Here.
- 2:02Welcome
- 2:02to
- 2:02Financially
- 2:03Confident
- 2:03Christian,
- 2:04where
- 2:04we
- 2:04learn
- 2:05how
- 2:05to
- 2:05walk
- 2:05through
- 2:05life
- 2:05and
- 2:06money
- 2:06with
- 2:06wisdom,
- 2:07with
- 2:07peace,
- 2:08and
- 2:08with
- 2:08a
- 2:09heart
- 2:09anchored
- 2:09in
- 2:09God's
- 2:10truth.
- 2:11My
- 2:11mission
- 2:11is
- 2:12simple.
- 2:12I
- 2:12want
- 2:12to
- 2:13help
- 2:13you
- 2:13break
- 2:13that
- 2:13cycle
- 2:14of
- 2:14financial
- 2:14shame
- 2:15and
- 2:15build
- 2:15steady
- 2:15habits
- 2:16rooted
- 2:16in
- 2:16faith,
- 2:17and
- 2:17truly
- 2:18become
- 2:18a
- 2:19financially
- 2:19confident
- 2:20Christian.
- 2:21And
- 2:21I'm
- 2:21so
- 2:21glad
- 2:21you're
- 2:22here
- 2:22today.
- 2:23Yesterday,
- 2:23you
- 2:23and
- 2:23I
- 2:24talked
- 2:24about
- 2:24scarcity
- 2:25versus
- 2:25abundance
- 2:26and
- 2:26how
- 2:27that
- 2:27mindset
- 2:28truly
- 2:28shapes
- 2:28your
- 2:29money
- 2:29habits.
- 2:30Today,
- 2:30we're
- 2:30going
- 2:30to
- 2:31go
- 2:31one
- 2:31layer
- 2:31even
- 2:32deeper.
- 2:32Yes,
- 2:32believe
- 2:32it
- 2:32or
- 2:33not,
- 2:33we
- 2:33can
- 2:33even
- 2:33go
- 2:33deeper.
- 2:34Because
- 2:34one
- 2:35of
- 2:35the
- 2:35biggest
- 2:35mindset
- 2:36traps
- 2:37in
- 2:37our
- 2:37culture
- 2:38is
- 2:38this.
- 2:39Happiness
- 2:40equals
- 2:41more.
- 2:42Think
- 2:42about
- 2:42what
- 2:43culture
- 2:43says
- 2:43to
- 2:43us.
- 2:44More
- 2:45money.
- 2:45It'll
- 2:46make
- 2:46you
- 2:46happy.
- 2:47More
- 2:47stuff
- 2:48we're
- 2:48all
- 2:48guilty
- 2:49of
- 2:49that
- 2:49make
- 2:49you
- 2:49happy.
- 2:50More
- 2:50upgrades.
- 2:52More.
- 2:52Finally,
- 2:53I've
- 2:53made
- 2:53it.
- 2:55And
- 2:55the
- 2:56problem
- 2:56is,
- 2:56this
- 2:56is
- 2:56the
- 2:56scary
- 2:57part.
- 2:57It
- 2:57doesn't
- 2:58just
- 2:58affect
- 2:58what
- 2:58you
- 2:59buy.
- 2:59It
- 3:00affects
- 3:00what
- 3:00you
- 3:00believe.
- 3:01It'd
- 3:01be
- 3:01all
- 3:01right
- 3:01if
- 3:01it
- 3:01just
- 3:02affected
- 3:02what
- 3:02you
- 3:02bought,
- 3:03but
- 3:04it
- 3:04affects
- 3:04what
- 3:04you
- 3:04believe.
- 3:05It
- 3:06can
- 3:06teach
- 3:06you
- 3:06to
- 3:06think
- 3:07terrible
- 3:07things.
- 3:07Like,
- 3:08I
- 3:08can't
- 3:08relax
- 3:09yet.
- 3:10Can't
- 3:10be
- 3:10okay
- 3:11yet.
- 3:11I
- 3:11can't
- 3:12feel
- 3:12peace
- 3:12yet.
- 3:13So,
- 3:13friend,
- 3:13if
- 3:14that's
- 3:14been
- 3:14you,
- 3:15I
- 3:15am
- 3:15so
- 3:15glad
- 3:16you're
- 3:16here
- 3:16today.
- 3:17Here's
- 3:17today's
- 3:18listener
- 3:18question.
- 3:19Ralph,
- 3:19why
- 3:20do
- 3:20I
- 3:20always
- 3:20feel
- 3:21like
- 3:21I'm
- 3:21just
- 3:21one
- 3:21step
- 3:22away
- 3:22from
- 3:22being
- 3:22okay?
- 3:24Like,
- 3:24if
- 3:24I
- 3:24just
- 3:24had
- 3:25a
- 3:25little
- 3:25more,
- 3:25made
- 3:25a
- 3:26little
- 3:26bit
- 3:26more
- 3:26money,
- 3:26or
- 3:27got
- 3:27A
- 3:27little
- 3:27more
- 3:27saved,
- 3:28then
- 3:28I'd
- 3:28finally
- 3:29be
- 3:29able
- 3:29to
- 3:29relax.
- 3:31But
- 3:31I
- 3:31never
- 3:31do.
- 3:32Ralph,
- 3:33what's
- 3:33wrong
- 3:33with
- 3:34me?
- 3:35And
- 3:35that
- 3:35broke
- 3:36my
- 3:36heart
- 3:36when
- 3:36I
- 3:36read
- 3:36that.
- 3:37Because
- 3:38first
- 3:38of
- 3:38all,
- 3:38friend,
- 3:39nothing
- 3:39is
- 3:39wrong
- 3:39with
- 3:40you.
- 3:40You've
- 3:41just
- 3:41been
- 3:41trained
- 3:41by
- 3:42a
- 3:42loud
- 3:42world
- 3:42that
- 3:42keeps
- 3:43shouting
- 3:43lies
- 3:44at
- 3:44you.
- 3:44And
- 3:45the
- 3:45world
- 3:45is
- 3:45really
- 3:45good
- 3:46at
- 3:46keeping
- 3:46you
- 3:46chasing.
- 3:47That's
- 3:47the
- 3:47whole
- 3:47point
- 3:48of
- 3:48it.
- 3:49But
- 3:49God
- 3:49is
- 3:50really
- 3:50good
- 3:50at
- 3:50teaching
- 3:50you
- 3:51to
- 3:51rest.
- 3:52So
- 3:52if
- 3:53you've
- 3:53been
- 3:53living
- 3:53under
- 3:53that
- 3:54pressure,
- 3:54it
- 3:55can
- 3:55feel
- 3:55like
- 3:55you're
- 3:55chasing
- 3:56a
- 3:56finish
- 3:56line.
- 3:56It
- 3:56just
- 3:57keeps
- 3:57moving.
- 3:58You
- 3:58hit
- 3:58that
- 3:58goal
- 3:59and
- 3:59immediately
- 4:00moves
- 4:00forward
- 4:01again.
- 4:01You
- 4:01start
- 4:01feeling
- 4:02behind
- 4:02again.
- 4:02Maybe
- 4:03it's
- 4:03in
- 4:03debt.
- 4:03You
- 4:04pay
- 4:04something
- 4:04off
- 4:04and
- 4:05something
- 4:05else
- 4:05takes
- 4:06its
- 4:06place.
- 4:06Or
- 4:07you
- 4:07buy
- 4:07that
- 4:07thing,
- 4:07oh,
- 4:08this
- 4:08was
- 4:08going
- 4:08to
- 4:08solve
- 4:09everything.
- 4:09I
- 4:09was
- 4:10going
- 4:10to
- 4:10feel
- 4:10so
- 4:10great.
- 4:12But
- 4:12then
- 4:12you
- 4:12feel
- 4:12that
- 4:13emptiness
- 4:13afterwards.
- 4:15And
- 4:15the
- 4:16worst
- 4:16part
- 4:16is
- 4:16this,
- 4:18you
- 4:18start
- 4:18believing
- 4:19a
- 4:19lie
- 4:19that
- 4:19peace
- 4:20is
- 4:20always
- 4:20later.
- 4:21Yeah,
- 4:22I
- 4:22have
- 4:22peace
- 4:22when
- 4:22I
- 4:23earn
- 4:23more.
- 4:23I
- 4:24have
- 4:24peace
- 4:24when
- 4:24I
- 4:24save
- 4:25more
- 4:25or
- 4:25when
- 4:26life
- 4:26is
- 4:26easier.
- 4:27Life
- 4:28doesn't
- 4:28get
- 4:28any
- 4:28easier.
- 4:30But
- 4:30friend,
- 4:30hear
- 4:30this
- 4:31on
- 4:31this.
- 4:31Peace
- 4:32isn't
- 4:32a
- 4:33number.
- 4:33Peace
- 4:34is
- 4:34a
- 4:34person.
- 4:35And
- 4:36you
- 4:36don't
- 4:36have
- 4:36to
- 4:36wait
- 4:36until
- 4:37everything
- 4:37is
- 4:37perfect
- 4:38to
- 4:38truly
- 4:38experience
- 4:39it.
- 4:40Let's
- 4:40talk
- 4:40about
- 4:40what
- 4:41culture
- 4:41says.
- 4:41Culture
- 4:42tells
- 4:42us
- 4:42this
- 4:43lie.
- 4:43If
- 4:43you
- 4:43get
- 4:44more,
- 4:44you're
- 4:44going
- 4:44to
- 4:45be
- 4:45happier.
- 4:46All
- 4:46around
- 4:47us,
- 4:47social
- 4:47media,
- 4:48everything
- 4:48we
- 4:48say
- 4:48get
- 4:49more.
- 4:49Get
- 4:49this
- 4:49stuff.
- 4:50You
- 4:50got
- 4:50to
- 4:50have
- 4:50this.
- 4:50It'll
- 4:50make
- 4:51you
- 4:51feel
- 4:51fantastic.
- 4:51Big
- 4:52smiles
- 4:52on
- 4:52everybody's
- 4:53faces
- 4:53as
- 4:53they're
- 4:54buying
- 4:54stuff
- 4:54they
- 4:54don't
- 4:55want
- 4:55or
- 4:55need.
- 4:56But
- 4:57reality
- 4:57says
- 4:58something
- 4:58different.
- 5:00Enough
- 5:00never
- 5:01feels
- 5:01like
- 5:01enough
- 5:01when
- 5:02your
- 5:02heart
- 5:02is
- 5:02hungry
- 5:03for
- 5:03security.
- 5:05We
- 5:05mentioned
- 5:05this
- 5:06yesterday.
- 5:06Money
- 5:06can
- 5:07solve
- 5:07problems.
- 5:08Yes,
- 5:08it
- 5:08can
- 5:09make
- 5:09you
- 5:09feel
- 5:09comfortable,
- 5:10but
- 5:10it
- 5:10will
- 5:11never
- 5:11satisfy
- 5:12your
- 5:12soul.
- 5:13Yeah,
- 5:13money
- 5:14can
- 5:14buy
- 5:14comfort,
- 5:15but
- 5:15it
- 5:16can't
- 5:16buy
- 5:16contentment.
- 5:17Money
- 5:18can
- 5:18buy
- 5:18distraction.
- 5:19How
- 5:19many
- 5:19of
- 5:19us
- 5:19spend
- 5:20our
- 5:20lives
- 5:21buying
- 5:21distraction.
- 5:23But
- 5:23it
- 5:23can't
- 5:24buy
- 5:24you
- 5:24peace.
- 5:25And
- 5:26that's
- 5:26why
- 5:26you
- 5:26can
- 5:26have
- 5:26plenty
- 5:27and
- 5:27still
- 5:27feel
- 5:27empty.
- 5:28Let
- 5:28me
- 5:28tell
- 5:28you
- 5:28a
- 5:28personal
- 5:29story.
- 5:30I've
- 5:30lived
- 5:30in
- 5:31seasons
- 5:31of
- 5:31plenty,
- 5:32and
- 5:33I
- 5:33felt
- 5:33emptier
- 5:34than
- 5:34ever.
- 5:35See,
- 5:35you
- 5:35can
- 5:36still
- 5:36have
- 5:36little
- 5:37and
- 5:37still
- 5:38have
- 5:38joy.
- 5:38That's
- 5:38the
- 5:38other
- 5:39side
- 5:39of
- 5:39this.
- 5:40The
- 5:40difference
- 5:40isn't
- 5:41the
- 5:41amount.
- 5:41It's
- 5:42what
- 5:42you're
- 5:42trusting.
- 5:44And,
- 5:44friend,
- 5:44today
- 5:45you
- 5:45can
- 5:45shift
- 5:45that
- 5:46trust.
- 5:48I'm
- 5:48Ralph
- 5:48Estepp
- 5:49Jr.
- 5:49I'm
- 5:49an
- 5:49accountant.
- 5:49I
- 5:50deal
- 5:50with
- 5:50numbers
- 5:50and
- 5:51money
- 5:51all
- 5:51day
- 5:52long.
- 5:52So
- 5:52I've
- 5:53watched
- 5:53this
- 5:53from
- 5:53the
- 5:54front
- 5:54row.
- 5:54I've
- 5:55seen
- 5:55people
- 5:55climb
- 5:55income
- 5:56ladders.
- 5:56They
- 5:57that
- 5:57were
- 5:57amazing.
- 5:57You're
- 5:58like
- 5:58Ralph,
- 5:58they've
- 5:58arrived.
- 5:59They
- 5:59had
- 5:59it
- 5:59all.
- 6:01I
- 6:01was
- 6:02one
- 6:02of
- 6:02those
- 6:02people,
- 6:03but
- 6:04guess
- 6:04what?
- 6:04I
- 6:04still
- 6:05felt
- 6:05anxious.
- 6:07But
- 6:07at
- 6:07the
- 6:07same
- 6:07time,
- 6:08I've
- 6:08seen
- 6:09simple
- 6:09people
- 6:10who
- 6:10just
- 6:10have
- 6:11a
- 6:11little
- 6:11bit.
- 6:11And,
- 6:12man,
- 6:12they
- 6:12live
- 6:12lives
- 6:13that
- 6:13are
- 6:13incredible.
- 6:14They
- 6:14sleep
- 6:14deeply.
- 6:15They
- 6:15have
- 6:15peace
- 6:15in
- 6:16their
- 6:16lives.
- 6:17Because
- 6:17here's
- 6:17the
- 6:18culture
- 6:18lie.
- 6:18I
- 6:18want
- 6:18to
- 6:18turn
- 6:19on
- 6:19its
- 6:19head
- 6:19right
- 6:19now.
- 6:19More
- 6:20doesn't
- 6:20quiet
- 6:21the
- 6:21fear.
- 6:21Only
- 6:22trust
- 6:22does.
- 6:22And.
- 6:23And,
- 6:23friend,
- 6:23trust
- 6:24is
- 6:24something
- 6:24you
- 6:24can
- 6:24learn.
- 6:25Yes,
- 6:25you
- 6:25heard
- 6:25me
- 6:25right.
- 6:26You
- 6:26can
- 6:26learn
- 6:27to
- 6:27trust.
- 6:29I've
- 6:29had
- 6:29people
- 6:29tell
- 6:30me
- 6:30this,
- 6:30Ralph.
- 6:30When
- 6:30I
- 6:31hit
- 6:31this
- 6:31number,
- 6:31then
- 6:32I'm
- 6:32finally
- 6:32going
- 6:32to
- 6:33feel
- 6:33okay.
- 6:34And
- 6:34then
- 6:34they
- 6:35reach
- 6:35that
- 6:35number,
- 6:36and
- 6:36for
- 6:37a
- 6:37moment,
- 6:37like
- 6:37they
- 6:38do
- 6:38feel
- 6:38okay.
- 6:39But
- 6:40then
- 6:40something
- 6:40happens.
- 6:41They
- 6:41go
- 6:41on
- 6:42social
- 6:42media,
- 6:42and
- 6:42it's
- 6:42a
- 6:42new
- 6:43comparison.
- 6:43Look
- 6:43at
- 6:43this
- 6:43new
- 6:44car.
- 6:44I
- 6:44got
- 6:44to
- 6:44get
- 6:44this.
- 6:45Or
- 6:46it's
- 6:46a
- 6:46new
- 6:46expense.
- 6:46It's
- 6:47a
- 6:47subscription
- 6:47they
- 6:48got
- 6:48to
- 6:48have.
- 6:49Or
- 6:50maybe
- 6:50it's
- 6:50a
- 6:50health
- 6:50worry,
- 6:51something
- 6:51weren't
- 6:52expecting
- 6:53for
- 6:54so
- 6:54many
- 6:54of
- 6:54us,
- 6:55it's
- 6:55just
- 6:55a
- 6:55new
- 6:55goalpost.
- 6:57We
- 6:57saw
- 6:57that
- 6:57finish
- 6:58line,
- 6:58and
- 6:58then
- 6:58it
- 6:58moved
- 6:59forward.
- 7:00And
- 7:00then
- 7:00they
- 7:01realized
- 7:01something.
- 7:02The
- 7:03problem
- 7:03wasn't
- 7:03the
- 7:03number.
- 7:05The
- 7:05problem
- 7:05was
- 7:05expecting
- 7:06the
- 7:06number
- 7:06to
- 7:07do
- 7:07what
- 7:07only
- 7:07God
- 7:08can
- 7:08do.
- 7:10Friend,
- 7:10if
- 7:10you've
- 7:10done
- 7:11that,
- 7:12you're
- 7:12not
- 7:12dumb.
- 7:13You're
- 7:13just
- 7:13hungry
- 7:14for
- 7:14peace.
- 7:14All
- 7:15of
- 7:15us
- 7:15are
- 7:15hungry
- 7:15for
- 7:15peace.
- 7:16And
- 7:16God
- 7:16doesn't
- 7:17want
- 7:17to
- 7:17shame
- 7:17you
- 7:17for
- 7:17that.
- 7:18He
- 7:18just
- 7:18invites
- 7:19you
- 7:19to
- 7:19come
- 7:19closer.
- 7:21So
- 7:22here's
- 7:22the
- 7:22real
- 7:22question
- 7:23today.
- 7:24What
- 7:25are
- 7:25you
- 7:25expecting
- 7:26money
- 7:26to
- 7:26give
- 7:26you
- 7:27that
- 7:27it
- 7:27was
- 7:27never
- 7:28designed
- 7:28to
- 7:28give?
- 7:30And
- 7:30what
- 7:30if
- 7:30the
- 7:30thing
- 7:31you're
- 7:31chasing
- 7:31is
- 7:32actually
- 7:32found
- 7:33somewhere
- 7:33else
- 7:33completely?
- 7:35But
- 7:35we
- 7:35got
- 7:36to
- 7:36start
- 7:36by
- 7:36acknowledging
- 7:37the
- 7:37more
- 7:37a
- 7:38lie
- 7:38keeps
- 7:38moving
- 7:38the
- 7:39target
- 7:39on
- 7:39you.
- 7:41See,
- 7:41more
- 7:42never
- 7:42has
- 7:42a
- 7:42finish
- 7:43line.
- 7:43More
- 7:43doesn't
- 7:43have
- 7:43an
- 7:44end
- 7:44point,
- 7:45because
- 7:45the
- 7:46moment
- 7:46you
- 7:46get
- 7:46it,
- 7:46guess
- 7:47what
- 7:47happens?
- 7:47Your
- 7:47mind
- 7:47adjusts.
- 7:48That's
- 7:48what
- 7:48we
- 7:48do
- 7:48as
- 7:48human
- 7:49beings.
- 7:49We're
- 7:49flesh.
- 7:50And
- 7:51that
- 7:51more
- 7:51becomes
- 7:52your
- 7:52new
- 7:52normal.
- 7:53And
- 7:53then
- 7:54the
- 7:54more
- 7:54becomes
- 7:54more,
- 7:55and
- 7:55the
- 7:55more
- 7:55and
- 7:55the
- 7:56more
- 7:56and
- 7:56the
- 7:56more.
- 7:57And
- 7:57then
- 7:57that
- 7:58normal
- 7:59doesn't
- 7:59feel
- 7:59exciting
- 8:00anymore.
- 8:01So
- 8:01what
- 8:01happens?
- 8:01You
- 8:01start
- 8:02chasing
- 8:02again.
- 8:03So,
- 8:03friend,
- 8:04if
- 8:04you've
- 8:04ever
- 8:04felt
- 8:04that
- 8:05treadmill,
- 8:05it's
- 8:06not
- 8:06because
- 8:06you
- 8:06lack
- 8:06gratitude.
- 8:07A
- 8:07lot
- 8:07of
- 8:07people
- 8:07say,
- 8:07well,
- 8:08you're
- 8:08just
- 8:08not
- 8:08grateful.
- 8:08I
- 8:09hear
- 8:09knuckleheads
- 8:09in
- 8:09church
- 8:10say
- 8:10this
- 8:10all
- 8:10the
- 8:10time.
- 8:10You're
- 8:10just
- 8:11not
- 8:11grateful
- 8:11enough.
- 8:13No,
- 8:13it's
- 8:13because
- 8:13more
- 8:14is
- 8:14designed
- 8:14to
- 8:14keep
- 8:15you
- 8:15running.
- 8:16That's
- 8:16what
- 8:17culture's
- 8:17trying
- 8:17to
- 8:17do,
- 8:17trying
- 8:18to
- 8:18keep
- 8:18you
- 8:18on
- 8:18that
- 8:18treadmill,
- 8:19running
- 8:19and
- 8:19running.
- 8:20And
- 8:20you've
- 8:20got
- 8:20to
- 8:20hear
- 8:21this,
- 8:21the
- 8:21more
- 8:22lie
- 8:22is
- 8:22fueled
- 8:23by
- 8:23comparison.
- 8:24I
- 8:24talk
- 8:24about
- 8:24this
- 8:24on
- 8:24the
- 8:24show
- 8:25all
- 8:25the
- 8:25time.
- 8:25Comparison
- 8:26is
- 8:27gasoline
- 8:27on
- 8:28dissatisfaction.
- 8:29You
- 8:30don't
- 8:30even
- 8:30want
- 8:30that
- 8:31thing
- 8:31until
- 8:31you
- 8:32saw
- 8:32someone
- 8:32else
- 8:32with
- 8:32it.
- 8:33You
- 8:33were
- 8:33on
- 8:33Facebook
- 8:34or
- 8:34Instagram
- 8:35or
- 8:35TikTok.
- 8:35Oh,
- 8:36I
- 8:36got
- 8:36to
- 8:36have
- 8:36this.
- 8:36You
- 8:37had
- 8:37no
- 8:37idea
- 8:37what
- 8:37it
- 8:37was
- 8:38before
- 8:38you
- 8:38saw
- 8:38the
- 8:38stupid
- 8:39thing.
- 8:40You
- 8:40were
- 8:40content,
- 8:40then
- 8:41you
- 8:41scrolled
- 8:42and
- 8:42suddenly
- 8:43you
- 8:43feel
- 8:43your
- 8:44life
- 8:44feels
- 8:44smaller
- 8:45even
- 8:45though
- 8:45nothing
- 8:46has
- 8:46changed.
- 8:47Friend,
- 8:47that's
- 8:48not
- 8:48wisdom,
- 8:48that's
- 8:49noise.
- 8:49That's
- 8:49the
- 8:49noise
- 8:50I'm
- 8:50talking
- 8:50about.
- 8:51But
- 8:51you
- 8:51don't
- 8:51have
- 8:51to
- 8:52let
- 8:52that
- 8:52noise
- 8:52break
- 8:53the
- 8:53story
- 8:53for
- 8:53the
- 8:53rest
- 8:54of
- 8:54your
- 8:54life.
- 8:55And
- 8:55of
- 8:55course,
- 8:56more
- 8:56money
- 8:56can
- 8:56increase
- 8:57your
- 8:57options.
- 8:57I'd
- 8:58be
- 8:58lying
- 8:58to
- 8:58you
- 8:58if
- 8:58I
- 8:59told
- 8:59you
- 8:59it
- 8:59couldn't.
- 9:00But
- 9:00more
- 9:00money
- 9:01is
- 9:01never
- 9:01going
- 9:01to
- 9:01give
- 9:02you
- 9:02peace.
- 9:03Yes,
- 9:03money
- 9:04can
- 9:04increase
- 9:04your
- 9:04choices.
- 9:05It
- 9:05gives
- 9:05you
- 9:06options.
- 9:06It
- 9:07can
- 9:07create
- 9:07flexibility.
- 9:08It
- 9:08can
- 9:08remove
- 9:09some
- 9:09day
- 9:09to
- 9:09day
- 9:09stress.
- 9:11But
- 9:11it
- 9:12can
- 9:12never
- 9:12remove
- 9:12the
- 9:13deepest
- 9:13fear
- 9:13of
- 9:14all
- 9:14human
- 9:14beings.
- 9:16What
- 9:16if
- 9:16I'm
- 9:16not
- 9:17safe?
- 9:18Because
- 9:18safety
- 9:19isn't
- 9:19found
- 9:19in
- 9:19what
- 9:20you
- 9:20can
- 9:20control.
- 9:21It's
- 9:22found
- 9:22in
- 9:22who
- 9:22holds
- 9:23you.
- 9:23And
- 9:24friend,
- 9:25God
- 9:25holds
- 9:26you.
- 9:26God
- 9:27holds
- 9:27you
- 9:27even
- 9:27when
- 9:28the
- 9:28numbers
- 9:28feel
- 9:28tight,
- 9:29Even
- 9:29when
- 9:29the
- 9:29future
- 9:30feels
- 9:30unclear.
- 9:31Hear
- 9:31me
- 9:31on
- 9:32this.
- 9:33Enough
- 9:33isn't
- 9:34a
- 9:34number.
- 9:35It's
- 9:35a
- 9:35decision
- 9:35that
- 9:36you
- 9:36get
- 9:36to
- 9:36make.
- 9:38And
- 9:38this
- 9:38is
- 9:38big.
- 9:38You
- 9:39don't
- 9:39stumble
- 9:39into
- 9:40contentment.
- 9:40You
- 9:41choose
- 9:41it.
- 9:41See,
- 9:42a
- 9:42lot
- 9:42of
- 9:42people
- 9:42think,
- 9:42well,
- 9:42I'm
- 9:43going
- 9:43to
- 9:43get
- 9:43to
- 9:43contentment.
- 9:43I'm
- 9:43going
- 9:44to
- 9:44arrive
- 9:44there.
- 9:44No,
- 9:44guess
- 9:45what?
- 9:45You've
- 9:46been
- 9:46lied
- 9:46to.
- 9:46You
- 9:47choose
- 9:47contentment.
- 9:49See,
- 9:49contentment
- 9:50says
- 9:50this.
- 9:50I
- 9:50will
- 9:50be
- 9:51grateful
- 9:51here
- 9:52while
- 9:52I
- 9:53grow
- 9:53that.
- 9:54This
- 9:54isn't
- 9:54about
- 9:54being
- 9:55complacent.
- 9:55It's
- 9:56not
- 9:56about
- 9:56being
- 9:56lazy.
- 9:57It's
- 9:57just
- 9:57being
- 9:58grounded.
- 9:58So
- 9:59you
- 9:59can
- 9:59pursue
- 9:59goals
- 10:00without
- 10:00being
- 10:01owned
- 10:01by
- 10:01those
- 10:01goals.
- 10:03And
- 10:03friend,
- 10:03you
- 10:04can
- 10:04grow
- 10:04without
- 10:04grinding
- 10:05your
- 10:05soul
- 10:06down.
- 10:07Just
- 10:07remember,
- 10:08contentment
- 10:09doesn't
- 10:09mean
- 10:09you
- 10:09don't
- 10:09want
- 10:09things.
- 10:10It's
- 10:10okay
- 10:11to
- 10:11want
- 10:11things.
- 10:13Contentment
- 10:14doesn't
- 10:14mean
- 10:14you
- 10:15never
- 10:15desire.
- 10:15Guess
- 10:15what?
- 10:16You're
- 10:16going
- 10:16to
- 10:16desire
- 10:17things.
- 10:18But
- 10:18what
- 10:18it
- 10:18does
- 10:18mean
- 10:19is
- 10:19you
- 10:19don't
- 10:19demand
- 10:20those
- 10:20things.
- 10:20It
- 10:21means
- 10:21you
- 10:21don't
- 10:21say,
- 10:22I
- 10:22can't
- 10:22have
- 10:22peace
- 10:23until
- 10:23I
- 10:23have
- 10:23those
- 10:24things.
- 10:25You
- 10:25can
- 10:26want
- 10:26more
- 10:26margin.
- 10:27You
- 10:27can
- 10:27want
- 10:27to
- 10:27grow
- 10:28your
- 10:28income,
- 10:28you
- 10:28can
- 10:29want
- 10:29to
- 10:29grow
- 10:29your
- 10:29balance.
- 10:31But
- 10:31you
- 10:31don't
- 10:31attach
- 10:32your
- 10:32worth
- 10:32to
- 10:32the
- 10:32outcome.
- 10:34Because,
- 10:34friend,
- 10:34your
- 10:34worth
- 10:35has
- 10:35already
- 10:35been
- 10:35settled.
- 10:37Because
- 10:37here's
- 10:37the
- 10:38truth.
- 10:38True
- 10:38contentment
- 10:39is
- 10:39rooted
- 10:40in
- 10:40Christ
- 10:40alone.
- 10:41See,
- 10:41that's
- 10:41the
- 10:41heart
- 10:42of
- 10:42it.
- 10:42If
- 10:42your
- 10:42heart
- 10:43is
- 10:43trying
- 10:43to
- 10:43be
- 10:43filled
- 10:44by
- 10:44money,
- 10:44you
- 10:44are
- 10:45always
- 10:45going
- 10:45to
- 10:45come
- 10:46up
- 10:46empty.
- 10:46If
- 10:46that's
- 10:47what
- 10:47your
- 10:47goal
- 10:47is.
- 10:47You
- 10:47will
- 10:48always
- 10:48be
- 10:48empty.
- 10:50But
- 10:50when
- 10:50Christ
- 10:50is
- 10:51your
- 10:51anchor,
- 10:52money
- 10:52becomes
- 10:52a
- 10:53tool
- 10:53and
- 10:53not
- 10:54a
- 10:54master.
- 10:55And
- 10:55see,
- 10:55our
- 10:55tools
- 10:56don't
- 10:56control
- 10:56us.
- 10:56They
- 10:57don't
- 10:57control
- 10:57you.
- 10:58Don't
- 10:58they
- 10:58serve
- 10:58you?
- 10:59Because,
- 11:00friend,
- 11:00God
- 11:00wants
- 11:01you
- 11:01to
- 11:01be
- 11:01free.
- 11:02He
- 11:02truly
- 11:03does.
- 11:03He
- 11:03doesn't
- 11:03want
- 11:03you
- 11:04obsessed.
- 11:04He
- 11:04doesn't
- 11:05want
- 11:05you
- 11:05anxious.
- 11:06And
- 11:06he
- 11:06doesn't
- 11:06want
- 11:07you
- 11:07chasing.
- 11:07He
- 11:08wants
- 11:08you
- 11:08free.
- 11:09Let's
- 11:09look
- 11:09at
- 11:09first
- 11:09Timothy
- 11:106.
- 11:106.
- 11:11But
- 11:11godliness
- 11:12with
- 11:12contentment
- 11:12is
- 11:13great
- 11:14gain.
- 11:14What
- 11:14are
- 11:14we
- 11:14talking
- 11:15about
- 11:15here?
- 11:16It's
- 11:16a
- 11:16different
- 11:17scoreboard.
- 11:18The
- 11:18world
- 11:19calls
- 11:19gain.
- 11:19More
- 11:20money,
- 11:20more
- 11:20stuff,
- 11:21more
- 11:21status,
- 11:22more
- 11:22comparison
- 11:23garbage.
- 11:24But
- 11:25what
- 11:25does
- 11:25God
- 11:25call
- 11:25gain?
- 11:27A
- 11:27heart
- 11:28at
- 11:28rest.
- 11:29A
- 11:30heart
- 11:30that
- 11:30can
- 11:30breathe.
- 11:31A
- 11:31heart
- 11:31that
- 11:31can
- 11:31say,
- 11:32I
- 11:32have
- 11:32enough.
- 11:32Because
- 11:33guess
- 11:33what?
- 11:34I
- 11:34have
- 11:35him.
- 11:35And
- 11:36friend,
- 11:36you
- 11:36can
- 11:36live
- 11:36from
- 11:37that
- 11:37place
- 11:37today.
- 11:39So
- 11:39here's
- 11:39your
- 11:39action
- 11:39step.
- 11:40I
- 11:40want
- 11:40you
- 11:40to
- 11:40write
- 11:41down
- 11:41one
- 11:41area
- 11:42where
- 11:42you
- 11:42will
- 11:42practice
- 11:43contentment
- 11:43this
- 11:43very
- 11:44week.
- 11:44Just
- 11:44one.
- 11:45Doesn't
- 11:45have
- 11:46to
- 11:46be
- 11:46this
- 11:46big,
- 11:46long
- 11:46list.
- 11:47Maybe
- 11:47it's
- 11:47this
- 11:48contentment
- 11:48with
- 11:48your
- 11:48car.
- 11:49I
- 11:49hate
- 11:49this
- 11:49car.
- 11:50This
- 11:50car
- 11:50is
- 11:50a
- 11:51piece
- 11:51of
- 11:51garbage.
- 11:51It's
- 11:52always
- 11:52got
- 11:52problems
- 11:52with
- 11:53it.
- 11:53But
- 11:53you
- 11:53know
- 11:53what?
- 11:53I'm
- 11:54going
- 11:54to
- 11:54make
- 11:54a
- 11:54decision.
- 11:54I
- 11:55am
- 11:55going
- 11:55to
- 11:55have
- 11:55contentment
- 11:56with
- 11:56my
- 11:56car.
- 11:57Or
- 11:57maybe
- 11:58for
- 11:58you,
- 11:58it's
- 11:58your
- 11:58home.
- 11:58This
- 11:59home
- 11:59is
- 11:59too
- 11:59small.
- 12:00It's
- 12:00too
- 12:00old.
- 12:01It
- 12:01needs
- 12:01this,
- 12:01it
- 12:02needs
- 12:02that.
- 12:02But
- 12:02today
- 12:02I'm
- 12:03going
- 12:03to
- 12:03make
- 12:03a
- 12:03decision.
- 12:04I'm
- 12:04going
- 12:04to
- 12:04live
- 12:04in
- 12:05contentment
- 12:05with
- 12:05my
- 12:05home.
- 12:06Here's
- 12:07a
- 12:07great
- 12:07one.
- 12:08Maybe
- 12:08you
- 12:08need
- 12:08to
- 12:08make
- 12:09a
- 12:09decision
- 12:09to
- 12:09live
- 12:09in
- 12:10contentment
- 12:10with
- 12:10your
- 12:10income
- 12:11right
- 12:11now.
- 12:11That
- 12:11doesn't
- 12:12mean
- 12:12you
- 12:12never
- 12:12aspire
- 12:13for
- 12:13more.
- 12:14It
- 12:14doesn't
- 12:14mean
- 12:14you
- 12:15don't
- 12:15work
- 12:15towards
- 12:15that.
- 12:15But
- 12:16right
- 12:16now,
- 12:17I'm
- 12:17going
- 12:17to
- 12:17live
- 12:17in
- 12:17a
- 12:17peace
- 12:18that
- 12:18says
- 12:19my
- 12:19income
- 12:20right
- 12:20now
- 12:20is
- 12:21okay.
- 12:22And
- 12:23maybe
- 12:23for
- 12:23you,
- 12:23it's
- 12:24contentment
- 12:24with
- 12:24your
- 12:24pace.
- 12:25Maybe
- 12:26you
- 12:26feel
- 12:26like,
- 12:26you
- 12:26know,
- 12:27I'm
- 12:27just
- 12:27not
- 12:27getting
- 12:27anywhere,
- 12:27Ralph.
- 12:28I
- 12:28feel
- 12:28like
- 12:28I
- 12:28should
- 12:29be
- 12:29farther
- 12:29along.
- 12:30But
- 12:30you
- 12:30know
- 12:30what?
- 12:31Today
- 12:31I'm
- 12:31going
- 12:31to
- 12:31make
- 12:31a
- 12:31decision.
- 12:32I'm
- 12:33going
- 12:33to
- 12:33live
- 12:33in
- 12:33contentment
- 12:34with
- 12:34the
- 12:34pace
- 12:35that
- 12:35I'm
- 12:35in.
- 12:36And
- 12:36then
- 12:37say
- 12:37this
- 12:37simple
- 12:37sentence.
- 12:38Lord,
- 12:39help
- 12:39me
- 12:39be
- 12:39grateful
- 12:40here
- 12:41while
- 12:41I
- 12:41grow.
- 12:42See,
- 12:42this
- 12:43is
- 12:43contentment
- 12:44with
- 12:44movement.
- 12:44This
- 12:45is
- 12:45you
- 12:45growing
- 12:45without
- 12:46being
- 12:46driven
- 12:46by
- 12:47fear.
- 12:48Let's
- 12:49pray
- 12:49together.
- 12:50Lord,
- 12:50thank
- 12:50you
- 12:51for
- 12:51teaching
- 12:51us
- 12:51true
- 12:52contentment.
- 12:53Help
- 12:53us
- 12:53reject
- 12:54that
- 12:54lie
- 12:54of
- 12:54more
- 12:55that's
- 12:55all
- 12:55around
- 12:55us,
- 12:55that
- 12:56noise
- 12:56of
- 12:56culture
- 12:56all
- 12:57around
- 12:57us
- 12:57and
- 12:57give
- 12:58us
- 12:58joy
- 12:58in
- 12:58what
- 12:59we
- 12:59have
- 12:59and
- 12:59peace
- 13:00in
- 13:00your
- 13:00provision.
- 13:01Teach
- 13:02us
- 13:02to
- 13:02hold
- 13:02goals
- 13:03with
- 13:03open
- 13:03hands
- 13:04and
- 13:04keep
- 13:04our
- 13:05hearts
- 13:05deeply
- 13:06anchored
- 13:06in
- 13:06you.
- 13:06And
- 13:07we
- 13:07ask
- 13:07this
- 13:07in
- 13:07Jesus
- 13:08name.
- 13:09Amen.
- 13:10Friend,
- 13:10if
- 13:11you've
- 13:11been
- 13:11living
- 13:11under
- 13:12pressure,
- 13:12if
- 13:13you've
- 13:13been
- 13:13living
- 13:13always
- 13:13to
- 13:14chase
- 13:14more,
- 13:15you
- 13:15don't
- 13:15have
- 13:15to
- 13:15carry
- 13:16that
- 13:16alone
- 13:16anymore.
- 13:16I
- 13:16want
- 13:17you
- 13:17to
- 13:17join
- 13:17us
- 13:18in
- 13:18our
- 13:18community
- 13:19at
- 13:19financiallyconfidentchristian.com/join
- 13:22again.
- 13:23That's
- 13:23financiallyconfidentchristian.com/join.
- 13:26This
- 13:26is
- 13:27a
- 13:27place
- 13:27where
- 13:27you
- 13:27can
- 13:27learn
- 13:28to
- 13:28walk
- 13:28in
- 13:28wisdom,
- 13:29walk
- 13:29without
- 13:29shame,
- 13:30and
- 13:30walk
- 13:30with
- 13:31a
- 13:31heart
- 13:31anchored
- 13:31in
- 13:32God's
- 13:32truth.
- 13:32And
- 13:32friend,
- 13:33you
- 13:33belong
- 13:34with
- 13:34us.
- 13:35See,
- 13:35more
- 13:36doesn't
- 13:36always
- 13:36mean
- 13:37better.
- 13:37Just
- 13:37want
- 13:37you
- 13:37to
- 13:37hear
- 13:38that
- 13:38loud
- 13:38and
- 13:38clear.
- 13:38More
- 13:39does
- 13:39not
- 13:39always
- 13:40mean
- 13:40better.
- 13:40And
- 13:41just
- 13:41a
- 13:41little
- 13:41more
- 13:42will
- 13:42never
- 13:43finally
- 13:44be
- 13:44enough.
- 13:45But
- 13:46true
- 13:46contentment
- 13:47in
- 13:47Christ,
- 13:48that's
- 13:48a
- 13:48kind
- 13:48of
- 13:48wealth
- 13:49that
- 13:49nobody
- 13:49could
- 13:49ever
- 13:50take
- 13:50away
- 13:50from
- 13:50you.
- 13:51Now,
- 13:51tomorrow,
- 13:52we're
- 13:52going
- 13:52to
- 13:52talk
- 13:52about
- 13:52how
- 13:53you
- 13:53can
- 13:53break
- 13:53the
- 13:53cycle
- 13:54of
- 13:54financial
- 13:54fear
- 13:54once
- 13:55and
- 13:55for
- 13:55all.
- 13:55Yes,
- 13:55we're
- 13:55leading
- 13:56up
- 13:56to
- 13:56something,
- 13:56aren't
- 13:56we?
- 13:57So,
- 13:58friend,
- 13:58if
- 13:58today's
- 13:59show
- 13:59has
- 13:59made
- 14:00you
- 14:00think
- 14:00about
- 14:00somebody
- 14:01who,
- 14:01you
- 14:01know
- 14:01who
- 14:01is
- 14:01chasing
- 14:02more
- 14:02right
- 14:02now,
- 14:03I
- 14:03want
- 14:03to
- 14:03encourage
- 14:03you,
- 14:04share
- 14:04this
- 14:04show
- 14:04with
- 14:05them.
- 14:05Help
- 14:05them
- 14:05understand
- 14:06that
- 14:06there's
- 14:06something
- 14:07bigger
- 14:07and
- 14:08deeper
- 14:08and
- 14:08better
- 14:09than
- 14:09that.
- 14:10Because
- 14:10this
- 14:10show
- 14:10is
- 14:10not
- 14:11about
- 14:11financial
- 14:11shame.
- 14:12It's
- 14:12about
- 14:12walking
- 14:13in
- 14:13wisdom
- 14:13and
- 14:14staying
- 14:14financially
- 14:15savvy.
- 14:16So
- 14:16as
- 14:16I
- 14:16close
- 14:16today,
- 14:17go
- 14:17out
- 14:17there
- 14:17today
- 14:17and
- 14:18be
- 14:18a
- 14:18financially
- 14:19confident
- 14:19Christian.
- 14:20You
- 14:20can
- 14:20do
- 14:20this.
- 14:21I
- 14:21have
- 14:21confidence
- 14:22in
- 14:22you.
- 14:22God
- 14:22bless
- 14:23you.
- 14:23And
- 14:23you
- 14:23have
- 14:23a
- 14:23great
- 14:24day
- 14:24today.