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Tinder Let Down · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: Where'll they go on a second date or will must
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  Speaker 1: be the last time they ever talked?
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  Speaker 2: And kiss?
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  Speaker 3: In the morning Second Date Update, I'm kiss ninety seven.
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  Speaker 4: All right, Well it is time for second date Update
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  Speaker 4: and we're going to South Windsor this morning. Brittany's on
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  Speaker 4: the line and apparently is getting ghosted after a first date.
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  Speaker 3: Good morning, Brittany, Hey, good morning. Oh, welcome to the show.
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  Speaker 4: I hope you can get some answers, but obviously you
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  Speaker 4: need to tell us about this first date you had
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  Speaker 4: with a guy named Bobby.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, we went out for a happy hour and it
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  Speaker 5: was awesome. Okay, I feel like we had a ton
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  Speaker 5: of chemistry and I don't know, just a lot in common.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: He even asked, like at the end of the date
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  Speaker 5: if I wanted to go back to his place for cocktails,
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  Speaker 5: But like I I really liked this guy and I
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  Speaker 5: didn't want to, you know, go like home with him
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  Speaker 5: the first date, so I said no, and yeah, and
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  Speaker 5: then I said on the hexts like the next day,
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  Speaker 5: thanking him for a great date and kind of hinting
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  Speaker 5: it getting together again.
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  Speaker 3: And you're getting ghost no response.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, So yeah, it actually sounds like you guys had
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  Speaker 4: a lot of chemistry. I mean for the date to
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  Speaker 4: go that well, and then he said, come on back
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  Speaker 4: to my place. We'll have more drinks and hang out
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  Speaker 4: and chat. Sounds like you guys had a lot of chemistry.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Do you usually avoid sex on a first date? Jef?
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  Speaker 1: What I mean? Why else would a guy invite a
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  Speaker 1: girl back to his place? Courtney? Let's be honest.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, all right, but especially not if I really
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  Speaker 5: like him?
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  Speaker 1: Gotcha?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, right, Like you could see it, you could see
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  Speaker 4: like second date and a third date, and like you can't.
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  Speaker 3: Just Jeff like rush into it like that. All right,
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  Speaker 3: And I'm going to ask because I just want to
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  Speaker 3: get the obvious out.
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  Speaker 5: Of the way.
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  Speaker 3: Nobody drank too much, nobody got a little too tipsy. No, okay,
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  Speaker 3: I'm just gonna ask because you know, sometimes things over all, right,
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  Speaker 3: So I'm gonna put you on hold.
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  Speaker 4: You're going to be listening in at any point if
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  Speaker 4: you want to jump in, jump in, okay, Okay, all right,
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  Speaker 4: let's call Bobby.
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  Speaker 3: Invited her back to his place?
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  Speaker 1: Seriously? What nothing? If you can't figure it out, I
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  Speaker 1: shouldn't have to tell you.
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  Speaker 2: Hi.
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  Speaker 3: Is Bobby there? Hey Bobby, it's Courtney.
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  Speaker 1: Bobby, it's Walmart. Jeff.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven.
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  Speaker 4: You're on the radio this morning, Bobby.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, good morning, Rise, Rise and shine.
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  Speaker 4: Listen, Bobby, you are on something we do called second
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  Speaker 4: date Update. If somebody goes on a first date, they
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  Speaker 4: think it's fantastic, but then they get ghosted after that
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  Speaker 4: and they want answers, they call us, and so that's
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  Speaker 4: why you're on the radio this morning.
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  Speaker 2: Oh all right, Oh okay, Well, in.
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  Speaker 4: The event that you go on lots of first dates,
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  Speaker 4: I'm going to exactly let's see. Her name's Brittany. She
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  Speaker 4: called us. I'll refresh your memory. You guys went out
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  Speaker 4: for cocktails. Apparently the chemistry was through the roof. You
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  Speaker 4: guys have a lot in common. She's reached out to
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  Speaker 4: you to suggest maybe a second date, and you're completely
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  Speaker 4: ghosting her. Do you remember this date?
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  Speaker 3: Bobby?
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, So why are you ghosting her?
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  Speaker 3: What what's happening?
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  Speaker 2: Chemists through the Rif the date was I mean to
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  Speaker 2: be honest with you, the date was average and I
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  Speaker 2: ended up spending more money than I wanted to.
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  Speaker 4: Well, okay, wait a minute, so spending more money on
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  Speaker 4: like cocktails, like I don't understand it was average and
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  Speaker 4: was it a very expensive place or you just weren't
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  Speaker 4: going to spend money.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I just wasn't there to spend money. I mean, like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: we we met on Tinder, Like the purpose of that
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  Speaker 2: is not to you know, and go out and spend money.
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  Speaker 2: It's it's the hook up. And uh and she didn't
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  Speaker 2: even want to come back to my house. I mean
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  Speaker 2: we met on Tinder and she declined, you know, going
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  Speaker 2: to my crib. I mean, I can.
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  Speaker 1: See how that could be bothersome. Yeah, no I can't.
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  Speaker 3: Bobby.
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  Speaker 4: Wait, Bobby, you're telling me you're ghosting her because you
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  Speaker 4: met on Tinder. And Tinder's a place, you think where
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  Speaker 4: you just meet people to hook up, and she wouldn't
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  Speaker 4: hook up with you.
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  Speaker 3: Is that what you're saying?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, not what Tinder is for anymore. I mean it's
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  Speaker 5: for dates. Like maybe at one point it was for hookups,
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  Speaker 5: but you should have been really clear about that. And
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  Speaker 5: I thought this was a date. And now what we
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  Speaker 5: had cocktails and it was too much money for.
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  Speaker 2: You, you know, I'm just I was just there for
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  Speaker 2: then on tender for a minute, it's been all hookups.
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  Speaker 2: I mean it's everywhere I've been understood the.
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  Speaker 5: Start of the date, because we had a whole date,
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  Speaker 5: and then just because you're invited me to your house,
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  Speaker 5: like I thought that was you know, like I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't think it would be a deal breaker if
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  Speaker 5: I turned you down.
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  Speaker 3: So at no point did you, guys ever discuss like
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  Speaker 3: what are you looking for? Like you want this to
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  Speaker 3: be casual? Like are you looking for? Like I feel
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  Speaker 3: like that's a conversation you're supposed to have.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I have a tender profile. It says that
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  Speaker 2: it should just automatically. It's the implication.
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  Speaker 1: I get you.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I sure, okay. Just because you think Tinder
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  Speaker 5: is only for hookups, a lot of people are on
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  Speaker 5: there for something more serious. I know a couple who
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  Speaker 5: got married and they met on Tinder. So I told
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  Speaker 5: you that I was looking for a serious relationship at
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  Speaker 5: some point.
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  Speaker 2: I can't imagine getting married off some off a tender hookup.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, first off, that's just wild. But yeah, at
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  Speaker 2: no point we even we discussed relationship for a future
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  Speaker 2: is about tonight. Man.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm guessing. So, Bobby, you are just wanting hookups.
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  Speaker 4: I'm guessing even if I offer to pay for it,
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  Speaker 4: I'm not even gonna offer to pay for a second
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  Speaker 4: day because I don't even want Brittany to go out
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  Speaker 4: with you, Bobby, because you just want.
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  Speaker 3: A hook up.
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  Speaker 2: Don't swipe right if you're not going to go to
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  Speaker 2: the crab man.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, Well, listen, I think you've got your answer, Brittany.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I'm just I'm embarrassed andn't see it.
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  Speaker 3: That's all right.
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  Speaker 4: I don't think Tinders just for hookups, like Bobby says,
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  Speaker 4: But if in the event it is, then maybe try
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  Speaker 4: try try a different try a different dating app. I
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  Speaker 4: don't know, Bobby. Listen, I just at least at least
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  Speaker 4: you were honest today with us.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I mean that's been the answer the whole time.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
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  Speaker 4: Well, good luck with those hookups on Tinder, and Brittany
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  Speaker 4: keep us posted, okay.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah,