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The One Where Lala Goes To The Emergency Room · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hella La La La La La La La La La
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  Speaker 1: La La La La La La La La La la La.
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  Speaker 1: Motherfucking can't welcome back to the Give Them La La Podcast?
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  Speaker 1: Did you like what you deserved? Jeff? That was so beautiful?
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  Speaker 1: A little nasally, but it's okay, I'm gonna do what
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  Speaker 1: every girl who can't sing says when they have to perform,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sick. It's like, no, bitch, you can't sing? What
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  Speaker 1: are you just always sick?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, you're annoying because you can sing. And when someone
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  Speaker 2: like you says every girl who can't sing, and then
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  Speaker 2: people like me who really fucking can't sing, it's like,
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  Speaker 2: hold on a time.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know that I can sing. I can carry
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  Speaker 1: a tune.
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  Speaker 2: I think, no, you can sing, But what did you
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  Speaker 2: sing before? Even when you're joking, you can just tell
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  Speaker 2: because I lived in Nashville and I lived with five
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  Speaker 2: girl roommates who some can sing and some couldn't, And
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  Speaker 2: you can tell even when they're joking. You're like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: you have a good voice under there.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, that is so nice. Just keep feeding my ego please.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, I've been locked up. This is the
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  Speaker 1: first time I've come out of the house since Thursday.
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  Speaker 1: Mm hmm, keep in mind today's Monday. So Ocean. I
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  Speaker 1: put her down Wednesday night, put her down to go
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  Speaker 1: to sleep. I get in the bed, I'm watching TV.
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  Speaker 1: I hear her upset, and I always say, like a
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  Speaker 1: lot of people ask did you sleep train Ocean, and
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  Speaker 1: I did, because I feel like, you know their cries
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  Speaker 1: when you have a baby, You're like, I know that
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  Speaker 1: crime means they're hungry. I know that crime means something
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  Speaker 1: is wrong. I know that they've woken up and they
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  Speaker 1: need to self soothe. This cry on Wednesday night was
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  Speaker 1: like something's wrong. So I go in and she is
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  Speaker 1: gasping for air, like she cannot breathe, and every time
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  Speaker 1: she lets out. Here's the thing. I didn't know she
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  Speaker 1: was okay, but it was a good sign for me
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  Speaker 1: that she was screw because if she weren't screaming and
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  Speaker 1: she really couldn't breathe, I don't know that that would
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  Speaker 1: have been possible. I'm no fucking doctor, but that put
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  Speaker 1: my mind to ease a little bit. So I was
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  Speaker 1: keeping an eye on her what seemed like an hour,
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  Speaker 1: which was really maybe five minutes, before I decided we're
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  Speaker 1: going to the emergency room like something's off. Because I
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  Speaker 1: was watching her. I tried to lay down. I was
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  Speaker 1: steaming up the shower while it was steaming. I put
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  Speaker 1: her on my chest, laid in the bed, and just
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  Speaker 1: the way she was sounding, you could tell she was
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  Speaker 1: having trouble breathing. Now I'm not fucking around. We're getting
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  Speaker 1: in the car. We're going to Cedars. So I'm checking
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  Speaker 1: in and she lets out this cry and then a cough,
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  Speaker 1: and this nurse overhears her and says, how long has
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  Speaker 1: that baby been doing that? I said, I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: because I just got her back. I share custody right now.
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  Speaker 1: I got her at seven, put her down. This is
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  Speaker 1: what I have now. And you know, she was okay
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  Speaker 1: when I picked her up. She seemed a little lethargic.
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  Speaker 1: But I just figured, you know, maybe she had a
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  Speaker 1: long night, maybe shouldn't sleep well the night before. Her
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  Speaker 1: nose was runny. But I was told that my baby
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  Speaker 1: was doing great when she was at the other house. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: they push her into a room immediately, which, by the way,
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  Speaker 1: the er is filled to the brim right now, and
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  Speaker 1: I think that they look at each patient and go,
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  Speaker 1: how serious is this? They obviously thought Ocean is a child,
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  Speaker 1: it needs to be seen immediately. She ended up having croup,
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  Speaker 1: which when they're infants is very, very scary. Luckily, Ocean's
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  Speaker 1: lungs are developed, so it is something that if you
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  Speaker 1: catch it quickly, is very treatable. They gave her a
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  Speaker 1: steroid to relief relief release the airway because it's where
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  Speaker 1: they get swollen and they have a hard time breathing,
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  Speaker 1: and she was having an attack at this point, so
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  Speaker 1: what she needed was steam or cool air. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling you, Jess, they take me back and before you know,
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  Speaker 1: they get her into a room and the nurse is
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  Speaker 1: checking her out doing the temperature. I'm standing on because
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  Speaker 1: she didn't want to go with the nurse to weigh her,
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  Speaker 1: so I get on the scale and get off, and
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  Speaker 1: I like, even talking about it now, it was like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, this is so scary. Yeah. Yeah, Like
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  Speaker 1: I asked the nurse and is my baby gonna wake
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  Speaker 1: up tomorrow? Yeah? I'm freaking out. And she was so sweet.
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  Speaker 1: She took me into this side room with Ocean. She
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  Speaker 1: was like, your baby's fine. If I didn't think your
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  Speaker 1: baby would wake up tomorrow, do you think that I
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  Speaker 1: would be moving this way right now. That's true, everything
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  Speaker 1: is gonna be fine. But I was like in hysterics,
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  Speaker 1: which obviously was not helping the situation. I'm a new mom.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck is going on. All
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  Speaker 1: I know is like my baby woke up and was
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  Speaker 1: having a hard time breathing. I'm so sorry.
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  Speaker 2: No, this is that is probably one of the most,
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  Speaker 2: if not the most terrifying, terrifying things to happen to
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  Speaker 2: as your child is sick, and especially with breathing. That's
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not even a parent, and it makes
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  Speaker 2: my stomach sick. I have a couple questions. One was
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  Speaker 2: Gigi with you.
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  Speaker 1: Thank God, my mom. She was gonna she was going
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  Speaker 1: to change her flight to come back the next day. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because she wanted to stay in Utah longer. And she
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  Speaker 1: was like, you know what, I just feel I just
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  Speaker 1: want to I'm just gonna come back. I miss you,
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  Speaker 1: I miss Ocean. Thank God she was there because you know,
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  Speaker 1: she rode in the back with Ocean so she could
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  Speaker 1: watch her and keep an eye on her. Like granted,
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  Speaker 1: I have that mirror, but I just like having another
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  Speaker 1: person when I pulled up to the er, like she
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  Speaker 1: dealt with the car. I went inside, think, God, my
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  Speaker 1: mom was there. That's to keep me calm as well,
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  Speaker 1: because I was losing my fucking mind.
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  Speaker 2: Of course, No, that's incredible, I say. You had texted me.
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  Speaker 2: I think it was at like one am, and you
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  Speaker 2: were texting me about the next day because we had
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  Speaker 2: an appointment for the next day that you had asked
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  Speaker 2: me to cancel. But I put my phone on do
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  Speaker 2: not disturb, which I guess probably isn't the smartest thing
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  Speaker 2: as an assistant. But at night, I love my family,
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  Speaker 2: but they live in New York and at three am,
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  Speaker 2: it's six am there and they'll text and call me,
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  Speaker 2: and I just like it wakes me up, right. So
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  Speaker 2: I woke up that morning to a text and you said,
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  Speaker 2: can we cancel this appointment? I'm in the er with Ocean,
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  Speaker 2: And of course my heart dropped, and you said, so
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  Speaker 2: I didn't freak out. You said, you know, she is
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  Speaker 2: a cough or something. But my first thought was like,
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  Speaker 2: oh my god, Oh my god. I hope Gig flew home.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Gg flew home. She did, And no, you should
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  Speaker 1: keep here. The only reason I texted you so late
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  Speaker 1: was because I know you're an early riser, like, let's
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  Speaker 1: cancel this, yeah, second you wake up, cancel it so
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  Speaker 1: that we're not leaving them hanging.
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  Speaker 2: No only reason, no, I know, but also like I
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  Speaker 2: would I mean, if it were me, I would text
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  Speaker 2: I just I'm just so glad Gigu is there. And
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  Speaker 2: my next question because I don't really know. So you
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  Speaker 2: told me she had croup and to me, I hear
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  Speaker 2: that and I'm like, what is that? Because I know
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  Speaker 2: it's some sort.
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  Speaker 1: Of cough, but me, let me look up exactly what
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  Speaker 1: it is.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, just for the not parents who might not know
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  Speaker 2: what it is, because I hear it, and I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: in some cases it can be really dangerous and in
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  Speaker 2: others it's really light.
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  Speaker 1: Right, So it's like it's an upper airway infection that
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  Speaker 1: blocks breathing and has a distinctive barking cough. So that
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  Speaker 1: is literally And when the doctor came in, he said,
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  Speaker 1: I've had two babies that literally just left with this,
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  Speaker 1: and the baby next door has it right now as well.
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  Speaker 1: So croup and RSV are going around. Okay, just like
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  Speaker 1: be careful, Yeah, wash your hands, if you're feeling sick again,
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  Speaker 1: stay home the next morning or I guess that morning,
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  Speaker 1: I woke up feeling like I had swallowed needles. Right,
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  Speaker 1: And we still get COVID tested for vander Pump, I know,
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  Speaker 1: And literally anytime I go to do someone else's podcast,
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  Speaker 1: it's like I feel like being COVID tested twenty seven
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  Speaker 1: times a week. Yeah, so I knew it wasn't COVID,
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  Speaker 1: but I was like, I'm gonna test again just to
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  Speaker 1: make sure it's not COVID.
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  Speaker 2: But we were.
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  Speaker 1: The whole house was like down for the count Ocean.
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  Speaker 1: After the steroid they gave her.
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  Speaker 2: She was good, she was on a roll.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, well, this kid, I actually felt bad
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  Speaker 1: because I couldn't explain to her why we weren't like
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  Speaker 1: leaving the house, right.
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  Speaker 2: I saw that on your Instagram story. You guys were
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  Speaker 2: hanging out in the house and she would get excited.
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  Speaker 1: At the outside, hands in the air.
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  Speaker 2: It was so sad, But you know what, everything you
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  Speaker 2: did was obviously good because I saw her this morning
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  Speaker 2: and she looks like a new baby.
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  Speaker 1: We went to the pediatrician just to like make sure
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  Speaker 1: everything was good. Ally was good. The biggest bummer was
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  Speaker 1: that we didn't get to go to Teddy Wolfe's birthday party,
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  Speaker 1: which is Pandora's son's firstborn son, firstborn baby. He turned one,
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  Speaker 1: and we didn't get to go because you know, we
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  Speaker 1: were obviously all sick, but it looked fat and it
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  Speaker 1: just would have been I love having Ocean engage with
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  Speaker 1: young kids. It's just really sweet. So I was really
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  Speaker 1: sad that we had to miss that. But you know what, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all is good.
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  Speaker 2: And she's healthy and you're healthy and Gigi's healthy, and
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry you had to go through that. But what
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  Speaker 2: a terrifying thing it was. I cannot imagine.
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  Speaker 1: Don't even like, let's just say this. That night, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Ocean slept in my bed with me, and I did
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  Speaker 1: not sleep. I was literally up staring at her most
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  Speaker 1: of the night because I was horrified. I can't. She
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  Speaker 1: slept like a little angel baby.
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  Speaker 2: But still, holy moly. Well, it is the season too,
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  Speaker 2: so like you said, wash your hands because I mean,
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  Speaker 2: I guess nowadays, yeah, and vitamins nowadays, it's kind of
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  Speaker 2: always the season. I swear, I've never been more sick.
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  Speaker 2: I told you this, Lole. I've never been more sick
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  Speaker 2: in my life than I have probably this past year
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  Speaker 2: year now.
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  Speaker 1: Tired. Yeah, but I also think it's because there was
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  Speaker 1: that period of time that we all remember where we
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  Speaker 1: were on lockdown, and I think our immune systems are
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  Speaker 1: just they're shot because we haven't had any interaction to
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  Speaker 1: like build it up, you know, right. And again, that's
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  Speaker 1: just what I've been reading. I follow or I look
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  Speaker 1: up a lot of integrative medicine that practices Eastern and Western.
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  Speaker 1: I just love the combination of the two. And that's
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  Speaker 1: what a lot of doctors that practice that type of
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  Speaker 1: medicine are saying, we've been locked down. You're not, you know,
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  Speaker 1: inner we weren't interacting with anybody. Our immune systems were
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  Speaker 1: like sitting there going like we don't have to work
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  Speaker 1: at all, and you know, we're just sitting in a
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  Speaker 1: house all day.
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  Speaker 2: And then we all join the public again, and it's
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  Speaker 2: like everything all at once.
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  Speaker 1: Because I don't think I've been this sick really ever.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I used to go around sick people. People
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  Speaker 1: would tell me I'm sick, and I'm like, I don't
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  Speaker 1: give a shit. My immune system is so on point yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And it never got sick me too.
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  Speaker 2: I even was telling people because I get COVID for
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  Speaker 2: so long, I was like, ah, you know, it's me,
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  Speaker 2: I'm probably immune. And then I got it, you know,
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  Speaker 2: after everyone I had already gotten it.
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  Speaker 1: So it's just it is what it is. You know,
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  Speaker 1: you don't need to twist my arm to stay in
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  Speaker 1: my house. Right from morning until night, I watched a
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  Speaker 1: lot of reality TV, which is my favorite thing to
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  Speaker 1: do because you guys know, I'm Bravo obsessed. At one
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  Speaker 1: point my mom was like, should we maybe like watch
• 11:28
  Speaker 1: something else? And I was like, twenty twenty. She was like,
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  Speaker 1: that works. So if it's not Bravo, it's something about murder. Right,
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  Speaker 1: But the new episode comes out tonight of Real House
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  Speaker 1: so I was of Salt Lake and I saw the preview.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just gonning. Okay, let's talk about the episode that
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  Speaker 1: aired last week. Okay, so there's this woman named Angie.
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  Speaker 1: I think they're like somewhat trying to introduce her as
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  Speaker 1: a new housewife because right now she's just like this
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  Speaker 1: random like woman that pops up, but she's stirring up
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  Speaker 1: some drama, so maybe this is like the soft intro
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  Speaker 1: for her. But her husband Chris started a finsta, which,
• 12:06
  Speaker 1: by the way, I just learned what finsta was like
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  Speaker 1: when she shot Hey, no, why would I have a Finsta? Well,
• 12:13
  Speaker 1: I need a fake insida. If I need to stock you,
• 12:14
  Speaker 1: I'm stocking you La La can't pay bitch Obihiah. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I'll just have my friend do it. But he created
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  Speaker 1: a fake Instagram account and he like admits this right
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  Speaker 1: at a dinner table. It's Chris Harrington, his wife Angie,
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  Speaker 1: and then like Meredith Marx and her husband. And I
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  Speaker 1: was judging him so hard.
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  Speaker 2: Why because he like he admitted to creating it to
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  Speaker 2: what to stock people or.
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  Speaker 1: To have friends to out people to. He needed to
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  Speaker 1: defend his wife. And I'm like, so, number one, you're
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  Speaker 1: too big of a pussy to just do it on
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  Speaker 1: your own. Yeah, this is if that were me, this
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  Speaker 1: is where I'd be like, and here's the divorce papers.
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  Speaker 1: There wasn't a box that said you create Finsta accounts
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  Speaker 1: And I ain't down. So in reconcilable difference sights or
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  Speaker 1: whatever that fucking word is, he reconcilably something hard, something
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  Speaker 1: fucking hard that I don't need to know because I'm
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  Speaker 1: never getting married, so I'll never be served divorce papers
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  Speaker 1: or serve them. But I was judging him. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: what are you doing. I want to crawl in a
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  Speaker 1: hole for you, and like Meredith and her husband were
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  Speaker 1: both also judging him but trying to be nice. But
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  Speaker 1: then their judgment and me co signing on them went
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  Speaker 1: out the window when they showed the preview for tonight's
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  Speaker 1: episode of Meredith and her husband in a bath together, Housewives, Housewives,
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  Speaker 1: Reality TV Personalities. I'm begging you, I am begging you
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  Speaker 1: stop bathing together. We don't want to see it, okay,
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  Speaker 1: and you can sit here.
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  Speaker 2: I'm begging you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm fucking begging you on my knees, stop baiting together.
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  Speaker 1: No one wants to see it. It's not natural, okay,
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  Speaker 1: and even if it were, I don't want to see it.
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  Speaker 1: It's similar to how I feel because there's been many
• 14:10
  Speaker 1: seasons where producers have been like, well, maybe we can
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: come with you to therapy, or maybe we can we
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: can come with you while you meet your sponsor. First
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: of all, anonymous program, my supponsor's not coming on here.
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  Speaker 1: Number two, you're sitting here saying we're filming your real life.
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  Speaker 1: In real life, I don't invite anyone into my therapy session,
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  Speaker 1: let alone millions of people exactly. So no, you're not
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  Speaker 1: coming in where like I'm bathing with my husband, which, no,
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  Speaker 1: you don't do. You don't fill up a bubble bath,
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  Speaker 1: be like, want to talk shit with me husband in
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  Speaker 1: the bubble bath with some wine? Because this is normal.
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  Speaker 2: I love that you say this because I've never I
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  Speaker 2: have dated guys. Thank god, Kyle's like, bath, what are
• 14:52
  Speaker 2: you talking about? Absolutely not never I have I'll take
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  Speaker 2: a bath alone. But I've dated guys who like, like, oh,
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: let's hop in the bath, and I'm always like, what,
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: First off, if we're gonna do that shower, first, you
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: have to take at least a ten minute shower if
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: you're a man. Second, no, because I'm uncomfortable. I can't relax.
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  Speaker 2: You're like penis and balls are just like floating in
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  Speaker 2: the water.
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  Speaker 1: It's all just so unnatural.
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  Speaker 2: You don't do that. Oh my god, that's so funny.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on, Jess, the COVID tester just texted me and said,
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: I just arrived for testing. You. Are you ready to
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: test right now? Can you please text them and say
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: it was supposed to be twelve forty five? Can you
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: please come to the office. Yes? What is there? Ban
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: are pump rules? This is real life.
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  Speaker 2: This is real life.
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  Speaker 1: I'm on TV.
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  Speaker 2: We could keep it on if he comes here. Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 2: so you are uncomfortable with that? Is that like a
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  Speaker 2: thing they do. I don't see it a lot husbands
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  Speaker 2: and wives bathing together.
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  Speaker 1: It came a thing after Tamra Judge did it with Eddie,
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  Speaker 1: which back then, can I tell you? It's like that
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  Speaker 1: was the og? And by the way, Eddie's hot? So
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: is Tamra Like they hadn't seen anything, like they made
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  Speaker 1: it a thing before. Like I am convinced they actually
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  Speaker 1: really do bathe together. Okay, she had just divorced her
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  Speaker 1: husband and they were bathing together and like they were
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  Speaker 1: the first of the housewives, so like whatever. Okay, Now
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  Speaker 1: people are like trying to recreate it and it's just
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  Speaker 1: it ain't hitten. Please stop. It's like the one thing
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  Speaker 1: I'll the only time I'll ever beg for anything.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, stop it. I've wondered too about therapy. That's interesting.
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  Speaker 2: So you have the choice if you want the cameras in,
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  Speaker 2: because I'm assumings have a choice. Okay, yes, I'm assuming.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: Look if I'm watching a reality show and they bring
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: me into therapy with them, I'm all in anytime.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: A cast member tries to blame production. They cannot legally
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: force you to do anything.
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, got it.
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: They can suggest things you don't have to do, anything
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: that you don't want to do.
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, especially with you guys, because I haven't I've only
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: been on the set of one other like reality based show,
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: which was American Idol. But with vander Pump, I'm like, damn,
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: the cameras just pop in and you guys do your
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: thing like it's very much Obviously, American Idol was a
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: bit different because we just had to be structured. It's
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: a competition show if you don't like about their lives necessarily.
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: But with you guys, it's like, and I know I've
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: said this before, but it's like the cameras show up,
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: and I mean all you really know is like where
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: you're gonna be.
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the bathing is just like cringey. Yeah, I'm fast
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: forwarding because it's just like I don't link the therapy
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: scenes like, no judgment if you want to film your
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: therapy session. I'm sure there's a lot of people who
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: find it very helpful. I personally am bored. I'm fast forwarding.
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: Are you a bather with any of your past relationships,
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: did you ever bathe with them?
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: I had one relationship where it was like, if we
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: both wanted to take a bath, it was like, well
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: then move the fuck over because I'm getting into it.
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: It wasn't like a sensual realm, not at all.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: Now, if we're showering together, I'm trying to hang on
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: to the head of a shower. Boom ba boom ba boom. Right,
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: we're showering together. It's about a gold But the bathison is.
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: The bath is just like I'm not a corny person.
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: I feel like a soup when if I'm in there
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: with someone else, just that we're just like a stew and.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: By the way, like I know my bathing habits. So
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: when I get into a bath, you know how most
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: people are like baths are gross because you're sitting in
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: your own filth. It's like, no, because I know how
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: many times a day I bathe. Yes, so I'm just
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: sitting in goodness, I don't know what the fuck you do.
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: So I'm trying to take a shower. I'm not trying
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: to bathe in your filths.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: No, that's what I'm saying.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So there's that. There's my two sents. Also what
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: I've noticed, and I love Real Housewives of Salt Lake. Yeah, okay,
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: Like I think they are amazing. However, there's there's an
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: art all right too, when a camera sitting there watching
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: you do your thing before, like your friend comes over
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: and you start like unpacking the night before whatever it
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: may be. They haven't conquered that art yet making something
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: seem natural. Yeah, like when they're just sitting at home right,
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: like you feel like, okay, they know that there's a
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: camera in your house and it's a little weird, right.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: Is this how you feel about all of the housewives
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: are just salt Lake?
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: Just salt Lake right now? Because I feel like it's
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: the newest. Unfortunately for me, I haven't watched you By yet,
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: and I think that is like the newest of the housewives.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: But everything else with Salt Lake, I mean I just
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: co sign on all of it because number one, I'm
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: from there, so like they can do no wrong in
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: my eyes. That part, I I you can just tell
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: it's new.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I have to say I did, because I see
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: clips like I tell you on social media, and I
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: saw your skin product give them a less skin in
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: one of the store Oh yeah.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: In the episode Heather Gay pulls together her staff meeting
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: for beauty lab. Yeah, and they're right in the background
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: while she's talking is give them a La skin with
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: our gorgeous green zen packaging.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: It was beautiful. I did see that, and I was like,
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: oh my god, look, I know how cool? Was that awesome?
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: No, that was awesome. I've been watching so my mom
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: has never seen throwback Real Housewives before. Okay, so I
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: started her on Beverly Hills first season. Yes, and you
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: watch Camille Grammar, who, by the way, first season, I
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: think she would even admit she's insufferable. It's so bad, right,
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: she divorces that person who maybe she was exhausted by it.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: Sometimes when you cut the fat, you become who you
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: really are, right right, or you watch yourself because reality
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: TV really is the ultimate mirror, going. Oh, I don't
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: like what I'm seeing at all, but this franchise and
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: what it has done for these women. Yeah, who the
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: fuck is Kelsey Grammar? I don't know. I know, we
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: all know Camille though after Real Housewives.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: Right, hold on, you're saying Kelsey Grammar's related to Camille.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: That was her husband, she maybe leaves her on the
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: show Season one.
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: Kelsey Grammer, the actor Yes Freezer, are you Yes?
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: And the whole reason she would talk about like doing
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: the show and how Kelsey wanted her to like come
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: into her own come out in my shadow, like show
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: yourself off and what you do on a daily basis.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: And I was just sitting there going, Wow, the Real
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: Housewives franchise really has just like done wonders for these women.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: They're the stars. Yeah, their husbands may have been like
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: the quote unquote rich ones providing these lifestyles, and then
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: these women who are shown like holding it down. They're gorgeous,
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: their mom and now they're starting brands and it's like
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: these husbands are little bitch boys now following them around,
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: and I personally love it. I shouldn't call them bitch
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: boys because it's actually really sweet to watch these husbands
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: be so supportive and not well some of.
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: Them, some of them, because I've seen a couple where
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: I've been like, I would never allow my husband to
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: be on a reality TV show if he acted this way.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: I'm not. It shouldn't be a blanketed stem. And I
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: mean Chris Harrington, who's like just shy of a real
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: Housewives husband creating fins does I don't co sign embarrassing.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: I would have never admitted that, Chris. You should have
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: gone to the grave with that one.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, gone to the grave with his wife just like
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: shocked or do you think she already issues?
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: It was like him admitting to creeping around. Yeah, it
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: was like looking at him, like admitting a problem is
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: the first step, you know.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: I say this time, but I need to watch Housewives.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: I need to just like I need to watch it,
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: Like I watched Kardashians religiously because every time I see clips,
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: I'm like, this is the best show.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: And by the way, it's the clips yeah of Housewives. Yeah,
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: the episode is just as good. I have seen so
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: many clips of Kardashian stuff and I'm like, this looks amazing,
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: great season. I made it through maybe three minutes of
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: the first episode and turns it off. I was like,
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: I'm not interested a lot of the highlights.
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: So you could see clips of Kardashians and be like,
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: oh my god, this is incredible, let's watch it, and
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: then you watch the episode and you're like, oh, but.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: I'm sure the Kardashians don't give one fuck if I'm watching,
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: because for me not watching, they have a million others
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: fill in from my lack of watching.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: COVID tester just arrived. Should I have him? Should I?
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Go grab him? Well okay, yes, for.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: The listeners, COVID tester said that he was told twelve fifteen.
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: We were told twelve forty five. So let's say I'm
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: going through the text right now to see who is right. Okay,
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: h I just want to give you the heads up
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: that we're testing Monday at twelve forty five. Is what
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: Kurt said. So it looks like, Kurt, we love you,
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: but thank you have a good one.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: So you know what behind the scenes is like a
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: reality TV show. Just a classic case of miscommunication, Just.
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: A classic case of miscommunication. Kurt, I would like to
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: know if you're listening to this. Ooh, this is a
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: good test to CEV listens to your podcast. Kurt is
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: a producer on Vendor Pump Roles. Kurt, you better come correct,
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: You better come correct, and I'll see me after this. Kurt,
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: let us know. Was it you're bad for telling us
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: twelve forty five or was it the tester's bad? I
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: guess TBD either.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: Way, we got it done. We had some questions, yeah
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: leak in. Oh what a.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: Here's a trickle trickle in lead in?
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: Uh from people that listen to the podcast. Yeah, here
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: should we talk about some of them?
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, here's the tea on the questions and comments. You guys, like,
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: I've told you about my personal so my personal Instagram,
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: I don't look at my DM requests a lot. But
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: when I do, if it seems mean, I won't even
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: click on it. If it seems nice, like I'll click
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: on it and respond.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: So I haven't.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: I'm backed up in messages, I know, Like I looked
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: at a message on Sunday where someone gave me a
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: compliment and then like three days later was like, well
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: forget it. Then if you're not going to respond, and
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I just don't look at them a lot.
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: So with the podcast, I try and look at those more.
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: So if I don't, if me or Lala don't respond,
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: it's only because there's there's a lot, so I go like,
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: for instance, we might read some comments about the Beard
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: episode and yeah that's where we're at. So thank you
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: guys for dming the podcast. I look as much as
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: I can, you guys, are the greatest with all of
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: these like awesome, nice messages, and sometimes we'll have episodes
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: like this where we can just respond.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: I think you're right on theme with the podcast, which
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: is Tangents.
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: Okay, let's see so okay, this is from Danielle. I'm
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: just gonna say their first name in case they don't
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: want to be hurt.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: I like that idea.
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: But Hi, Lala and Jess, Hi Danielle getting caught up
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: on podcasts and I'm listening to it, blah blah blah.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: I can tell you that I went to a dermatologist
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: because my chin flash around my lips was always irritated.
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: She asked if my husband had a beard, and he does,
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: and I'm telling you I limit kissing him on the
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: lips now. Lol. I haven't had any irritation since.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: Oh no, this is so bad because I love the
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: usual hair is so much. It's the beard.
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: I wonder if there's a message in here that says.
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: By the way, I've curtailed my making out. Yeah, and
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: my skin around my mouth is completely clearing up, like
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: I won't even lie.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, really yes, yeah, and actually I can see it. However,
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: I didn't see that it was breaking out. But when
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: you said it's breaking out, I didn't see it, but
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: it doesn't mean it wasn't there.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: And I always know that it's something sketch, yeah, because
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: I did back in the day. Have to get accutained.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: It's something different. Now it's called something different, But like
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: if you watch season four and five, my skin is
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: so bad, really so bad, and I couldn't get it
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: under control, and I thought it was like my diet.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: I thought it was this, that and the other, to
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: the point where I was like, I'm going to a dermatologist.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: They got to fix me, like something is off inside,
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: and then they put me on the medication and it
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: cleared up. So when I have a breakout, I'm like,
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: we it's more topical rather than like the deep deep
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: not saying I never get those anymore, but it's not
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: like uncontrollable, right, That's why I knew. Yeah, I'm like,
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: it's got to be the freaking beard because this is irritation.
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's definitely yeah. Okay, Gina says, Hi, any
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: chance you will ever restock the merch dying for a
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: brand new hoodie?
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: That's an amazing question. And yes, we are. We are
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: one restocking. I actually just got a bunch of the
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: restocked goods. Restocking goods. I think we'll restock during the
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: holiday season and we'll have more merch.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Black Friday and heads up you guys. If Lala
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: ever has another pop up pop up again like she
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: did in New York City with Shopify, that is also
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: where you'll get your hands on last pop up we
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: did limited edition. We did like no one had ever
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: seen it before. Brand new hoodies.
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, my merch is so bomb. Okay, I know
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: that it's mine, So I sit here and I tooted.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: It's torn all day. The quality of my merch versus
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: other people's march. I mean, I'm not trying to shit
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: on anyone else's march, like do your thing, boo, but
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: I'm super proud of.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: No yours is the brand new hoodie I have. I
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: have the pink one. I it's very few pieces of
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: clothing that I will wear and sit at home and comfy,
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: cozy like I wear the uncomfortable hoodies out because they
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: look cute, but the super comfortable hoodies I wear like
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: at home. And that's what I do with the brand
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: new hoodie.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: So you just wear it at home for no one
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: to see.
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: I wear it at home and I wear it out too.
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: But it's one of those things where like you get
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: home from work and you want to put on something
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: cozy and sit on the couch.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: It's my brand new hoodie, all right, Well I wear
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: mine out and about you do? Okay, Well, obviously start
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: doing my egotistical ass. You catch me in that brand
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: new hoodie? Like, is that all she wears? Probably you'll
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: see it on this upcoming season. I'm sure he's so vague.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: You know that this motherfucking song is about me, about me?
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: See you when I tell you about this.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: I'm in such a good mood. It's rainy, gloomy. I'm
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: on a hundred today.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: Lala loves the gloomy days.
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: Me sad. But I looked up to the sky today
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: and I was like, why what all freaking weekend that
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: I've been inside? You give me sunshine? A glorious morning
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: makes me sick type day? And then I gotta go
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: out and about to work on a Monday, and you're
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: gonna give me this fabulous weather. Shake in my hate.
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: It's kimmick. Glorious morning makes me sick type day.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: That's so funny.
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna start saying this. Okay, Gary as a man
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: with a beard, Yes, I wash mine lol, And I
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: use face wash, shampoo and conditioner.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: Yo, he got a good beard, face wash, shampoo and conditioner.
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: But I'm also gay, so I do the most. Oh
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: care bear, we love you.
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: But I'm also gay, so I do the most.
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: So I do the most.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: I love him so much. Well, the straight men should
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: take note. Yeah, the straight man.
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: Should take note. Have you seen that TikTok going around
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: of the straight men? Tell me you've seen it everyone
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: who's listening, just.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: Because you have to sign me into TikTok because literally
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: people send me tiktoks And I'm like, well, if I
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: had Jessica's phone, I could look. I don't, it's not
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: on my phone.
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: About the straight men, their partners are like asking them
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: if they wash their butt crack with soap, and they're like, what.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: Do you mean?
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: Hold on, no, no, no, and they go and they're
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: like what do you mean and they're like, wash your
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: Like how do you wash your butt cracked? You spread
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: the cheeks to you and they're like, no.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: You're telling me that a lot and straight men are
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: not washing where beces comes out.
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: They said, a lot of them are like they're the
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: girls or guys. Their partners are like, how do you
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: wash it? And they're like, I let the water whatever.
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: I'm disgusted, I know, I asked Kyle, and thank god,
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: he was like, that's disgusting.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: What do you mean? Of course, like it's like the
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: fucking La River down there.
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: He's like, of course I watched, but a lot of yeah,
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: it's like a new trend going around and the women
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: are like, yeah, it's wild.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: And another reason why I don't ever want a male companion. Yeah,
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: I just want tricks around me and a vibrator. I'm
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: good and you're good to go.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, this is I belieze. Okay, Lah and Jess
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: don't know if you will see this, but wanted to
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: say some things first, probably one of like fifty guys
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: and the one percent straight lmfaol that listen, and I
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: gotta say these episodes hit. Oh that's funny, Oh that's
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: so nice. You and Jess are fucking vibe. That last
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: episode with you in the Bostix was fire Explosion Emoji,
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: where it's so good and insightful. Also, just wanted to say,
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: perfect opportunity, La La, for you to create a beard
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: oil for your ladies who like their guys with beards.
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: With your skin line. Wait, we totally should do that.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: I need to start looking into ingredients that are like
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: bomb to bring that on. Apparently I need male butt
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: crack wash as well. I'm so grossed out. I can't
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: get my mind.
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: No, it's wild. He also goes just on to say
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: I grew up in a household of all women and
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: just why're different. It's so crazy to hear some stories
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: about some of these douche lords that were given space
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: on Earth. I think he's talking about men, which we
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: you know, feel you And then he said keep kicking ass. Also,
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: can you get Easton on like a monthly gig to
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: answer some of your guy follower questions? And girl, I
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: the love I couldnot agree with them.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: One super super exciting news about that stop he will
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: be a regular guest very very soon, and I'm yeah,
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: so excited about it because you know what he is.
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: He's everybody. Yeah does that make sense? Yeah, someone said
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: that to me the other day. Your brother is me Like,
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: he's in the world, but he's an outsider and he's
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: like sitting at brav Ocon and he's like, who the
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: fuck are these people? But he's like got his eyes
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: open because he's a man with eyes, and like he's
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: spilling all the tea.
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: He's hilarious.
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: He is hilarious, So he's the best.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: He brightens the podcast episodes. He brightens my day.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: No one made me happier than Easton.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: Do we know if he will eventually because everybody knows
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: now he lives in Utah. Will he eventually ever be
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: living here? Or is that not his vibe?
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: This is my game plan. Okay, let's hear because again
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: we've spoken about this. We are a very tight knit family. Okay.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: My goal is by the summertime, get me and my
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: family into a house Easton moves out to LA. I
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: want to live with my family all right, and until
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: that changes where I feel like it's time to start
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: dating or whatever it may be, because right now I'm
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: taking it day by day. And by the way, this
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: could also change what I would like at this point
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: in time. Get a nice house for me and my family,
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: a yard for ocean, us all be living together, and Easton,
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: you know, being a co host on the podcast. I
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: love that just because I why the hell not.
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: He's hilarious, funny, and like you said, he's kind of
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: the every person Like we're both women, which is great.
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: But I think a lot of men who listen to
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: your podcast, whether gay or straight, I think that perspective
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: is appreciated.
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: It is, And yeah, we're both chicks. But Easton is
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: very I mean he's so sweet, right, I know. And
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: he grew up around my dad who treated women amazing,
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: my older brother who is like very sweet when it
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: comes to women and what they want in life, like
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: they just uplift women. So Easton is a man who
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: obviously has a male perspective.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but everyone.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: You could throw him in a room with anybody, all
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: walks of life and everyone is gonna leave going I
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: fuck with that kid. Oh my god.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like Kyle asks all the time, how is he?
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: Because he spent most of Ocean's birthday talking to Easton.
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: He's like, I love that guy. I'm like, yeah, he's
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: the shit. Everyone loves him.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: Everyone loves him, Everyone loves him.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: Oh my god. This just gave me an idea. Tell me,
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: how fun would it be if when Easton moves here,
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: we make a little psa to all of the single
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: women living Okay, this could be, we could do it
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: over the podcast. All of the single women living in
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: this area has to be within like an hour and
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: a half of LA tops. And we have them apply
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: okay to go out on a date with Easton, and
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: you and I go through applications. No hard feelings, but
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: we have a specific application with a specific questions and stuff. Yes,
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: we don't tell him, we tell him it's happening about
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: check as well. Yes, we go through. We pick like
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: ten ladies okay, and we document the journey on the podcast.
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, let's do that, and then we set
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: them up with dates and then see if any of
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: them hit the girl.
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: Also, yes, because if it becomes something, they have to
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: be okay with living with us. Because at some point,
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: or I'm just in my mind, I know that this
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: is going to happen. At some point, I'm going to
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: be able to go out and afford like an amazing
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: home with wings and guest homes and shit. So there's
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: gonna be like a Burningham compound as there should be.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: And you know what, whether you become my partner, my
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: mother's partner, Eason's partner, you're gonna have to be down
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: to all live together. Yeah, you'll have your separate area
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: to like go do your thing. If you don't want
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: to see us, you don't have to. But like I
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: need to be in like walking or maybe yelling distance. Yeah,
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: at all times.
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: That would be so fucking fun. I'll be I'll be in.
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: There's ocean's best friend, best the ocean, invite me in.
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're we're like a pot of orcas. All right,
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: we're swimming together till the death.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, that'd be so fun. Okay, so TBD
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: on that.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: A lot.
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: I've already gone through six of you asking what the
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: Sugar Baby documentary. Here's the thing I was asked.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: I never saw it, so I was.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: Asked this on my personal I mentioned it last right.
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: I was asked this on my personal page pay Instagram
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: DMS a couple days ago, and I looked and searched
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: because this was this was before the pandemic, you guys,
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: this was like years ago. But I will say so,
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: I searched and searched, and I cannot find it. I
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: don't know if it was on like Roku or like
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: you too. I don't know what it was. I remember
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: watching it with Kyle, and he tried to find it.
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: But I do know this, if you search for it,
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: I'm still looking for it, and I'll let you know
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: as soon as I know. It wasn't It was episodic,
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: but there was only one episode on the sugar Babies.
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: It was one of those shows that was like ten
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: episodes in one season, but each episode.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: Was something about something different.
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: So the episode on sugar Babies was like episode three
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: to five. It was one of those, but it was
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: just one. So it was just I'll try and find out.
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: I've been looking like crazy. We can't find it, but
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: I'll let you know because I know a lot of
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: you have been asking and I can't mind it.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: I don't know, we're all I'm very intrigued. I know
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: I got a I mean, even getting that message.
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: I was like, you're like, WHOA, Yeah, I know, okay.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: I didn't know that was the thing, the sugar babies.
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: I learned about sugar babies when I was being called
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: a sugar baby.
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: Really, it's interesting. I think I knew it was a thing,
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: and this is like no offense to anyone. I ended
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: up finding out about it was a thing because when
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: I was in high school. I used to be obsessed with,
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: not saying these are sugar babies at all, but the
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: Playboy girls. I used to be like the bunny. I
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: would I had the necklace, I had a purse with
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: little Bunny. My parents once they found out what it was,
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: they took all that shit away, but for a little
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: while I was able to wear it because they just
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: thought it was a cute one.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: I know, I know we all did, yes, right old
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: age of fourteen rocking the Playboy Bunny necklace from Claire's.
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: And I remember watching Girls next Door So Good, not knowing,
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: not putting two and two together that they dated Hugh Hefner,
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: and then I saw them kiss and I was.
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: Like, yeah, shocking, what is going on? But it was
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: amazing back then, and then cut to where we are
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: today and you find out not so amazing.
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so their feedback from the ladies.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: Well just like what it was like behind closed doors.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: I know, you know, I know does something to your
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: mental state. And I, yeah, haven't done a lot of research.
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: I just have seen again headlines and things like that,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: and I just think if a chick says even something
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: is simple as I felt uncomfortable.
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm listening to you of course, Yes, of course,
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: And just because I know we'll get DMS on this,
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: Yes I have. I do know that Holly and Bridget
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: Holly and Bridget, Yes, have a podcast out and that
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: it's called Girls Next Level, And I think the first
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: two episodes they really dive into like uncomfortable moments and
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: stuff like that. So it's really good.
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: I feel like it's so important for women to voice
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: how they've been affected by certain people, Yeah, because there
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: are so many women who feel so alone and like
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: they can't share, and again, that does something to your
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: mental state. Right, So when you hear someone like Holly Madison,
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: who was like at the top, right, Yeah, everyone knew
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: who she was. She looked like she lived this glamorous
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: life and she was, you know, like comfortable with her sexuality.
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: When you hear her and her trauma, just there's something
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: about not feeling alone sounds so cheesy.
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: No, it doesn't sound cheesy at all.
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: When you feel like you're not by yourself on an island. Yeah,
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: that's powerful.
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: The amount of times they say that, and they say
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: like because at the time, there wasn't a lot of
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: I'm talking about Bridget and Holly is, there wasn't social media.
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: So when they learned about when their show came out,
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: Girls next Door and they found the message boards on
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: the e website, Holly said she thought they were She
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: was like, oh, they were getting so much hate, and
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: she was like, oh my god, we are the only
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: people hate us. She had no idea any other She's like,
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: I didn't know celebrities and people on other TV shows
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: got hate because we didn't see that online. So literally
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: all I saw was us getting hate, and I thought
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: we were like the most hated girls of the world.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, oh my god, I I did the
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: horrific move of whenever. By the way, so on my
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: own Instagram page, like if I if I click on comments,
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: there's maybe two or three that aren't very nice and
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: the rest are just really positive. Because a normal person
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: follows you because they like you, Yeah, because they want
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: to hate on you. If I see someone else has
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: posted me, avoid the comment section. Because I clicked on
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: the comment section and people were being so unkind about me,
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: and I had to number one. I prayed yeah after
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: like because it was festering in me and I was like, God,
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: I need you to like take like release me from
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: the bondage of self, right, And I had to tap
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: into like this is what every person in the public
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: I go through. It's not just you, all right, So
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: shake it off, bitchy, Yeah, shake it off.
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: We won't go in it again. Although we got I
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: just went through multiple dms that were like we loved you.
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: Going in on Pam, I was like, for a second,
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: I was like, who's Pam.
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: Oh, Pam? Yeah? Yeah, I was like I did go
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: in on Pam.
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: And by the way, I want to make a correction
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: because I was like, call me when you're driving a
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: Rolls Royce and live in Beverly Hills. Even that, all right,
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: even that because at some point, like I just know
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: that I'm gonna be able to go and do those things. Yeah,
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: this is what I really want to say. Call me
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: when you're living on Venus taking a spaceship. That impresses me.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: I don't know one one bitch, not one bitch who's
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: flying around in a spaceship going to their home in Venus.
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: That's true, right, But on that same note, if you're
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: still acting the way you are, Pam, I'm not fucking impressed.
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: Maybe Laala's impressed. You could. You could own on in
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: the moon, you could literally.
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: Make your own You're still ming all right, and you're.
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: Still being an asshole.
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: Fuck off me, little old me from vander Pump Rules.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: Thanks for watching, Pam God tune in next season season ten.
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: La LA's back at it again.
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: Good Lord, Like you have said in the past, you
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: appreciate all of your pair.
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: Can I tell you what I learned? Well, I do
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: appreciate all my fans. Yeah, before we sign off, Yes,
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: I'd like to start doing a segment in this podcast
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: where each episode, at the end, I talk about what
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: I learned this week. Oh, this week, so I celebrated
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: my fourth birthday for sobriety, and what happens. So I
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: have little groups of like little sober sisters, and what
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: happens is sometimes you go to a meeting and you
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: get more than one cake, right, Like I'll go to
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: a meeting here and like, my sponsor will give me
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: a cake. And then one of my friends who's also sober,
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: is like, do you want to go to this meeting?
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: I want to give you a cake tonight. So I
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: met up with one of my friends. I won't say
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: her name because it's anonymous, but she's just like brilliant, Okay,
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: the way that she practices her program, she has what
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: I want. So I went with her, and what happened
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: during my sobriety. I practice a twelve step pro I
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: a few years ago was on the ninth step, and
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: my steps I take a while because there's just a
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: lot to unpack. And there was a moment in July
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: of twenty twenty where I realized that I was attacking
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: my partner at the time a lot verbally, and I
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: then realized I have resentment that I have to work through. Okay,
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: so we went back to my fourth step. I've been
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: on it ever since because the pile up of resentments
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: just kept happening. Cut to where we are today. I
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: have more resentments than I've ever had, and I don't
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: even know where to start on this step because I've
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: said to my sponsor, right now, it just has to
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: be enough for me to not drink, because I'm not
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: ready to like go like it's going to be pretend,
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: and then that could jeopardize my sobriety.
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: Sorry.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: So I was having a conversation with my friend before
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: this meeting and a few other people who are in sobriety,
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: and I explain this to her, and she said to me,
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: you now have the luxury, Lalla, of not having to
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: take on his shit. It's his, it's his true. You
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: now get to say I'm done with all of this,
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: it's not mine anymore.
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And you don't get to choose how God holds
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: people accountable. So she said, that's where you start, she said,
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: And if you think that your God isn't going to
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: hold someone accountable, you need to find a bigger God.
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: So go back to the drawing board. What does because
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: that's what we practice an AA. You walk in and
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: sometimes it doesn't hit right for people because there's a
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: lot of talk about God. What you won't hear, So
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: open your ears when you're in the room. You get
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: to create your own. It looks different for everybody. What
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: is greater than yourself and everything else that exists on
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: the planet? Right? Yeah, So I've started working through my resentments.
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: She sent me an amazing I want to tell you, guys,
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: if you're struggling to download this app, which I just downloaded.
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: I can't even believe I've been sober for four years
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: and didn't know about this freaking app. It's called twenty
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: four hours, and they give you AA thought of the day,
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: meditation for the day, prayer for the day, and guess
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: what today's was all about? Resentments? WHOA?
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: I know, how strange is it just for people in AA?
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: Correct the app?
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: You know what? I feel like the AA program, even
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: though it's alcoholics anonymous, the program in itself is really
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: just becoming a better human being. I think everyone could
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: benefit from, like reading the AA book, the Big Book.
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: So that was really nice. That was a huge step
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: in my program because my life when I go to
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: work on a reality television show, yeah, is not quite
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: in alignment with my program. It's my livelihood and what
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: you're seeing with We actually did an episode for the doctors,
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: doctor Daniel Poor and doctor Laky. They asked, what we
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: see on TV is at who you are? It absolutely
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: is who I am when you put me in that situation.
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: Just like if I were to put anyone with someone
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: they didn't connect with in a room, what would it
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: be like? Guess what in real life if I don't
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: fuck with someone, I certainly am not going to a
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: dinner party with you exactly, I'm not coming. Yeah, I
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: don't want to be around you, So you're not gonna
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: see that side of me for vander Pump. You are
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: seeing who I am in a situation. So when people
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: say I met Lala last night, she's totally different than
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: what I see on TV. She's so nice, it's like, yeah,
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: what you think I'm just I'm gonna roll up on
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: you and call you a fucking bitch. Yeah no, because
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: I'm a normal person. It may not seem like it
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: all the time.
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: And like you've said, you said a couple episodes ago,
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: it's a ten to fifteen to twenty episode season and
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: you you film for months. So the stuff they pick
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: and choose, everything that makes it on the show is
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: the most emotionally heightened thing, whether or not it's anger
• 50:23
  Speaker 2: or you know, it's sadness or this and this and
• 50:27
  Speaker 2: that and like, so it could make one look like,
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: oh my god, she's screaming one day and the next
• 50:32
  Speaker 2: day she's breaking down, Like this chick is emotionally unstable
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: or whatever. I'm not saying that's how it looks, but
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: you know, I'll watch reality shows and see that and
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: be like damn. But it's like they're picking and choosing
• 50:44
  Speaker 2: all of the most entertaining quote unquote great moments. Yeah,
• 50:48
  Speaker 2: they filmed you for months, so then you meet you
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: in person and yeah, you're chill, You're like cool, you're
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: behind I like you. Yeah, you're just like a nice
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: You're hilarious, which I always wish they show more of
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: how funny you.
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: Are, but that's another story.
• 51:04
  Speaker 2: So yeah, that's amazing though. I love that you have
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  Speaker 2: those people in your life. And what would you tell
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: someone struggling with Maybe they're not ready to go to AA,
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: but they they're just in this. I mean, what's the
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: next step do you have to get yourself ready? I
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: personally have a family member who I was just talking
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: to about this and they said, I'm not ready to go.
• 51:24
  Speaker 2: They struggle with alcohol, and they said, but I'm not
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: ready to give it up. I can't give it up.
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: Well, then at that point in time, there's nothing you
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: can do because there's nobody that can get you sober,
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: and there's no one that can keep you sober. That
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: is something that you have to want desperately. And that's
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: what I've found with most people in AA is you
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: hear about all of their rock bottoms looking very different,
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: but at the end of each person's story. This person
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: was begging to be sober. For the most part. There's
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: actually a lot of people who went to AA on
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: a court order. And like a woman I heard last
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: night court order she was in a custody battle and
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: they said, you better freaking get sober, you better go
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: to a twelve step program. And thirty eight years of sobriety.
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: Wow, that's InCred eight years. Yeah, but that shows me
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: that deep down or somewhere inside of her, she did
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: want to.
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: She wanted it. She went into those rooms and she
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: was willing to hear the message. I love the program.
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: I think it's awesome, and you're gonna have meetings that
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: you love and meetings that you're like. I didn't connect
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: with that, But don't blanket all of them into one
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: because they're all different, so fine ones that hit. If
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: you're not ready to go in the room, get on Amazon,
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: order the big book. Just start reading, highlight what resonates
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: with you, and you're gonna know when you're ready. But
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: I will say, sobriety is the biggest gift you could
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: give yourself. So there's my tangent of that I'm working.
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: I've officially decided I am ready to work through my resentments.
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: How funny. Four years sober and I'm working on step
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: for you.
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: That's amazing.
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: Before I met can you where's just the number?
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: Can you skip steps? I don't know really? Okay, so
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: you have to. You could be on one step for
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: years sometimes.
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: I've been on Step four since July of twenty twenty.
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: Okay, so you can so.
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's everyone's program is different. That's what's so
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: great about it. Find a sponsor who works the program
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: the way it it. It's tailored to you. Right, So
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: I personally would not skip steps. That's just me. It's
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: a lot of work.
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, because rats, I know I've said it these
• 53:34
  Speaker 2: past three episodes now, but it's I mean, it's incredible.
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: And we didn't even get to the messages. I'm sorry
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: about all of you.
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: Sorry I went on.
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: No, No, I get to the messages about people just
• 53:44
  Speaker 2: praising you for your sobriety and saying thank you for
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: how much you've helped to them. So I know you
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: get them a lot, but it's one day I'll print
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: them out and give them all to you because they're
• 53:54
  Speaker 2: really sweet.
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: Well, I would love to like have a little like
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: even just a book of messages about sobriety because it's
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: the best thing that's ever happened to me, the best
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: gift I've ever given myself. And just to see people
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: opening up to me about something that is like you're
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: in your most vulnerable state when you're admitting that you
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: have a problem, right, So it's humbling. It's humbling to
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: know each birthday, even just each day that passes. I'm proud,
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: but I'm humbled because the work never stops. You cannot
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: cure an addiction. So it's like we hit four years
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: and we got until the grave to go. Like that's
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: a humbling fact.
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: Right, and which could be to me that could seem
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: sometimes unbearable, but you always say one day at a time,
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: one minute at a time. Yes, yeah, So I think
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: that's incredible. Oh and we do want to do I
• 54:51
  Speaker 2: know a lot of people have asked you and which
• 54:53
  Speaker 2: you can do when you're ready, but they want to
• 54:55
  Speaker 2: hear your sobriety story again. So when you're ready, we
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: can do an episode of you just saying how you
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: got there, talking about because a lot of people have
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: said we'd love her to do a sobriety episode where
• 55:05
  Speaker 2: she just talks about it all.
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: Oh I love that.
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, let's do it.
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: You guys, I want to thank you so much for
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: listening to another episode of the Give Them La La Podcast.
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: I love you all very much. Happy hump Day, and
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: I will catch you next week