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Toyosi Begged Me Not To Leave Her - Daniel Etim-Effiong · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to the episode of Bansit Lorenzi.
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  How are you all doing? If you're doing great for
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  today's episode, I want to bring you updates on our favourite
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  couples, the 18-F Young's family.
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  Now Daniel and his wife Toyosi are back in the news.
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  We're just in the minding our business.
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  Toyosi posted a video of herself and Daniel in this romantic
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  settings. Oh, I think she wanted to make
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  it like look like a romantic setting and she was literally
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  begging for a kiss and that did not happen.
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  Let me just play that video for you to see.
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  Now this couple this video went viral because people said
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  Danielle you kiss every breathing walking thing in
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  skirts and your wife is literally begging for a kiss and
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  you couldn't even give her a kiss.
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  Now to your silly I posted a video where Danielle obviously
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  later leaned in to to kiss her, but this particular clip already
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  went viral. Now, people have always talked
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  about the weird chemistry between Daniel and his wife
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  Toyosi. Daniel had also come out to talk
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  about, you know, he being in a relationship before Toyosi and
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  the person he wanted to get married to rejected him, so he
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  met Toyosi. He felt that Toyosi was the kind
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  of person that he would build a home with.
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  So it wasn't really love. It was more of a business
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  arrangement. And Danielle himself has said
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  that several times. Now to your sit on 40.
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  It was a very beautiful celebration.
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  And then they went to church for Thanksgiving.
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  She shared beautiful pictures. You know, she's a beautiful
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  woman. Now.
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  Danielle was kind of trying to give accolades to his wife.
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  And then let me just play that video for you to for you to hear
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  from Daniel. Because you know, when we talk
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  about these things, it looks like we are the ones trying to
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  throw them under the bus. But when we actually show you
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  the videos, you would believe for yourself the.
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  Time we're going to break up before we got married.
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  But anyways, I'm truly grateful for you to your see you have.
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  I just saw that headline now. Oh, also, also, you know, people
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  say, people say, people say we talk too much.
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  Oh, Daniel, you talk too much. You overshare.
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  But listen, you know, in the Bible, whenever there was a
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  miracle, the people just couldn't keep their mouths shut.
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  They went out and they cried. Come and see what the Lord has
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  done in my life. That's that's my story.
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  Honestly, I cannot but testify of this blessing that God has
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  gifted me. I'm truly grateful for you
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  because I wouldn't have been here without you.
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  You're my greatest win. Now this is Daniel celebrating
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  his wife's 40th birthday. Now, for some of you who didn't
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  catch what he said, he said Toyos, he wanted to break up
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  with Toyosi and Toyosi said no, Toyosi bet Daniel, you know, a
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  lot of This is why people had always talked about the
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  chemistry between the two of them.
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  And Toyosi had said that she would give Daniel a pass, that
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  cheating is not a deal breaker in her relationship.
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  And people had said that there there was this, you know, rumour
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  that went around that Daniel had gotten somebody pregnant and
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  Toyosi found out. They talked about it.
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  The lady allegedly ended up not, you know, keeping the child.
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  So they are try their way in therapy, trying to fix their
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  marriage and all those kind of things.
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  And I think that their marriage was going through a lot until
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  the movie that Daniel directed Heard who got nominated for like
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  9MM AM VCA awards. I don't even know how many
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  awards they won that night, but I think that brought them back
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  together because Toyoci made a video talking about, you know,
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  her husband, her man, her man, her man, her man, her man.
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  So sometimes she didn't post about it.
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  So people started, you know, attacking her on her page.
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  And then she made a video because at that point, they were
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  still trying to fix things together.
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  Now Daniel is coming out with his full chest to say, listen, I
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  tried to break up with this lady and she she she said no.
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  And you could see Toyocy saying, you know, she could see the
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  headlines. You know, the headline is going
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  to be, you know, I begged you to stay and all those kind of
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  things, which is what it is. I think Danielle is a very
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  honest person, which makes it very difficult for Toyocy or
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  Toyocy, somebody Toyocy situation who really wants her
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  marriage, who really want, who loves her man because from every
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  indication she chose him. She wanted him to stay in that
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  relationship and he is literally rubbing it in her face.
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  Now, let me just play another video where they were talking
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  about breaking of trust. You know, Danielle was asking or
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  she was asking Danielle, did she ever break his trust?
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  I think this was where they were, they were still trying to
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  figure out, they were still in therapy, trying to figure out
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  whether this marriage is going to go ahead and all those kind
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  of things. Let me just play that video for
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  you to see. So how do you break trust?
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  How do people break trust? How can someone break?
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  Have I ever broken your trust? Have you ever broken mine?
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  So you can answer that for yourself, but have you broken my
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  trust? Yes, you've.
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  Broken trust? No.
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  Have I broken your trust in me? Yes.
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  I have no case Yes. And I'd say this is only because
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  you're human and it is a human thing to.
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  You come in saying I trust that this person has my best interest
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  at heart, but you're also aware that this person is human and
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  this person is going to break heart not.
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  Is going to. Come, oh guys, it's going to for
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  everybody. Is there any marriage where
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  trust would never be broken? Now this is Teresa and Daniel.
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  At this point, we are just going to sit down and watch these two
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  people because obviously they are, they are, listen, they are
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  in this together. Daniel has said that this is a
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  business relationship, but this is a business arrangement and
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  they are ready to stick it out. I mean, they've built a whole
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  lot together. Toyosi is striving, Daniel is
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  striving, but as a as an actor and as a movie producer.
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  So they they've built something worth protecting and I think
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  they are really working hard to protect that.
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  Yes, some people will say, oh, stay out of it, it's not your
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  business. These are public figures and
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  we're going to talk about it. I think if people are more
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  honest about their relationship and their marriage or what they
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  are going through in relationship and marriages, it's
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  not all that rosy. It's never going to be all that
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  rosy. Sometimes they say love is not
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  enough. Yes, love is not enough.
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  If you marry somebody solely because you love them without
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  considering are you friends, how do we build this family?
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  Does our dream align? Do we, You know, there are so
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  many other things involved, which I think maybe Daniel sat
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  down, considered all those things and felt that Toyosi was
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  the person he could build those things with.
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  So regardless of whether he is going outside, definitely every,
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  you know Vijayjay that he could find and possibly in pregnancy
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  people, it does not matter because these two people are
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  meant for each other. They're made in heaven.
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  They are the perfect match and I wish them all the best.
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  It is beautiful to watch and we are here for it.
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  We are here give us content, Daniel and Toyosi give us
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  content. We're here for it.
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  Let me know what you think. Do you think that sometimes it
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  is very, it is more helpful to be honest and just talk about
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  what it is, you know, You know, men ask women, what do you bring
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  to the table? You could see that Daniel knows
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  exactly what to see brings to the table and he is willing to
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  accept everything that she brings to the table.
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  And she is willing to accept that this man, this film, God,
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  as she calls him, you know, he brings everything that she
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  wants, but she knows that she is not able to give him everything
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  that he wants from a woman. So she is willing to let him go
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  out there. If you're getting married, would
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  you agree to such arrangements? Or are you happy to just keep
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  lying to yourselves? You see your husband cheating,
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  You turn blind eyes. You see your wife, you know, you
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  marry somebody who is not up to par.
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  But you're like, OK, yeah, let me just manage.
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  Are you going to manage? Are you going to manage as a
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  business or as you know, a love affair?
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  Let me know what you think. Thank you very much for watching
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