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A Wet Appetite · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya Radd, an iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two-time People's Choice Award-winning podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, everybody.
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  Speaker 3: We are scrubbing in.
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  Speaker 2: Why'd you take my line?
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  Speaker 3: I just wanted to say it with you. Just wanted
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  Speaker 3: to throw you off. Whoa, she did not like that.
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  Speaker 2: I like routine. Sometimes I gotta throw you off.
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  Speaker 3: Because sometimes life is unpredictable.
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  Speaker 4: Well, let me tell you, while we're there, some people
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  Speaker 4: are saying that they missed my old little jingle.
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  Speaker 2: And I just want to say, me too.
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't against that.
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  Speaker 3: I don't need the attitude with that because I was
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  Speaker 3: never against your rub-a-dub-dub.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not saying that you were. But many people were.
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  Speaker 4: And I got some messages of people saying they missed it.
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  Speaker 4: And so it just makes me feel good.
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  Speaker 3: You should bring it back.
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  Speaker 2: No, I'm a people person. I'm a person of the people.
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  Speaker 2: And if our scrubbers don't want it, I'm fine with this.
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  Speaker 2: They don't get it.
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  Speaker 3: Well, thank you for sharing.
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  Speaker 4: Happy Thursday, October 15th, everybody. We will not be sharing
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  Speaker 4: our thoughts on Dancing with the Stars this week. In fact,
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  Speaker 4: we track this on Monday. Well, we actually prefer. We
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  Speaker 4: prefer to wait until Mondays.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: We're so stunned by what happened.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, what a show.
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  Speaker 4: We need three more days to digest before we divulge
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  Speaker 4: our thoughts.
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  Speaker 2: So we will share that on Monday.
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  Speaker 3: We signed an NDA. Yeah. We can't talk about anything
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  Speaker 3: till Monday. Correct. But we do have Dear Banya's today.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and we had like a cute time.
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  Speaker 3: What I can say is we had an amazing time.
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  Speaker 2: What I can say is the same.
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  Speaker 3: And the ballroom was electric. Electric. And I cannot believe
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  Speaker 3: who we got to meet.
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  Speaker 2: Same. But we'll save that for Monday. Because today is about.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, we're going to play the Don't Say the Same
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  Speaker 4: Thing Again game.
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  Speaker 1: Yep, we are.
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  Speaker 3: And that's genuine excitement, even though we just talked about it.
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  Speaker 1: And we're going to play Tower of Music.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm very excited about Tower of Music.
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  Speaker 1: It's going to be great.
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  Speaker 3: But please don't give her an easy one like it
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  Speaker 3: starts with S.
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  Speaker 4: No. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Easton and I worked this out. We feel good about it. Okay, great.
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  Speaker 3: All right. My bangs haven't grown at all. Thank you
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  Speaker 3: for asking.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I wouldn't think that they would grow that fast.
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  Speaker 5: Are you taking your niacin?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm taking everything.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, you should get rosemary oil. Is it rosemary oil?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's okay. My hair will grow. Shall
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  Speaker 3: we just get into the Dear Bonnias since we have
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  Speaker 3: so much to go? You kind of look more like
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  Speaker 3: your mom. Oh my God, yeah. Which I love. I
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  Speaker 3: love that I look like my mom. But I want
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  Speaker 3: them to grow. It's more like the maintenance is just...
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  Speaker 3: And I don't even mind styling my hair. I like
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  Speaker 3: doing my hair.
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  Speaker 4: Whenever I consider bangs, I'm like, I can't even... get
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  Speaker 4: myself to, like, do my own hair once a week.
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  Speaker 3: It's still your own hair, the bangs. Right. As it is,
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  Speaker 3: you mean.
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  Speaker 2: But, like, the bangs, you have to do.
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  Speaker 4: Like, my own hair, when I have my hair like this,
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  Speaker 4: I can get away with not doing it. Whereas, like,
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  Speaker 4: if I had bangs, I'd have to do them.
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  Speaker 3: Which I was excited about. But I can't figure out
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  Speaker 3: how to do them the way I want them to look.
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  Speaker 3: It's enough of bang talk. It's enough bang talk.
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  Speaker 2: We're done bang maxing, okay? Okay?
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  Speaker 3: Enough bang-maxing, and we're moving on to Banya-maxing.
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  Speaker 1: Dear Banya and Meeston, I got engaged this summer. We're
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  Speaker 1: hoping to have most of the planning done by Thanksgiving.
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  Speaker 1: Our issue is the guest list. Since it'll be a
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  Speaker 1: couple more months before the dates go out, we've told
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  Speaker 1: a few people what the date is. We've texted some
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  Speaker 1: friends in other states. However, twice now, I've had people
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  Speaker 1: basically invite themselves. They'll say, how's the planning going? Do
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  Speaker 1: you have a date? Do you have a venue? And
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  Speaker 1: when I say yes, they whip out their phone and say,
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  Speaker 1: I'll put it in my calendar now. We've never even
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  Speaker 1: hung out with these people one-on-one. I've heard it said
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  Speaker 1: that if you wouldn't spend $ 100 on a person on
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  Speaker 1: a night out to dinner, they should not be at
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  Speaker 1: your wedding. Now, I'm scared to make friends, grow closer
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  Speaker 1: to someone, or even meet friends of friends over this
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  Speaker 1: next year in the fear that people will feel entitled
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  Speaker 1: to an invitation. How do you navigate this? Do I
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  Speaker 1: just invite this person and her husband?
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 1: Do I ignore it? Do I not make any new
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  Speaker 1: friends in the next year to avoid this situation? Sincerely,
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  Speaker 1: a people-pleasing scrubber who doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
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  Speaker 2: Does it happen with this?
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: And it happens so much more than you realize. And
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  Speaker 2: it is awkward. But like, I would always just kind
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  Speaker 2: of like skirt around it. Like I would.
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  Speaker 4: If somebody said something like that to me, I'd be like,
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  Speaker 4: oh my gosh, I know we can't wait. And then
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  Speaker 4: I will pivot or like talk to somebody else. Like
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  Speaker 4: I would just try and get out of the conversation
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  Speaker 4: as quickly as possible. I did not feel obligated to
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  Speaker 4: invite those people. I felt nothing of the sort. And
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  Speaker 4: I think like that's where you have to come from
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  Speaker 4: a place of, of like, you're going to invite who
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  Speaker 4: you want to invite. It is your wedding. Do not
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  Speaker 4: feel pressured or guilty or anything into inviting anybody that
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  Speaker 4: you don't want to be there, especially new friends.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I agree. I'm nervous about the guest list thing because
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  Speaker 3: I also think like just in general, I think we
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  Speaker 3: want a smaller wedding. And so it's going to be
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  Speaker 3: it's going to be a tight list. But I'm nervous
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  Speaker 3: about being around like I have people that are in
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  Speaker 3: a family who like haven't met. My thing is like
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  Speaker 3: if you haven't met Haley or asked about her in
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  Speaker 3: the last year. You're not coming to the wedding, respectfully.
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  Speaker 2: We have that rule, too.
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  Speaker 3: I think Southern, like, culture, it's very, like, you invite everybody,
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  Speaker 3: you know? It's like you just invite the whole family.
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  Speaker 3: And it's like, I want it to be very intentional
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  Speaker 3: about who's at our wedding. And so I think it's,
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  Speaker 3: you know, this person... I don't think you need to
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  Speaker 3: invite them if they weren't originally on the list just
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  Speaker 3: because they put it in their calendar. That was very
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  Speaker 3: presumptuous of them to assume that because you told them
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  Speaker 3: the date that they should put it in their calendar.
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  Speaker 2: This is more a PSA to just like the general
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  Speaker 2: human public.
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  Speaker 3: Don't do that.
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  Speaker 2: Don't do that.
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  Speaker 4: Like, it's so weird to me that people do that.
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  Speaker 4: But like, it happens more often than you think.
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  Speaker 2: Like, people just assume.
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  Speaker 4: And also, I think before you make decisions of like
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  Speaker 4: where you're having your wedding, I think people just assume
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  Speaker 4: that we were having it in L.A.
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  Speaker 2: And so it was just like, oh, yeah, like.
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  Speaker 3: Of course, like.
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  Speaker 2: Really?
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  Speaker 3: No. Yeah. We'll be there.
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  Speaker 2: Go to Mexico. See ya.
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  Speaker 3: We have to go really far. Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I may have talked about this on the podcast before,
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  Speaker 5: but someone that we used to work with got married
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  Speaker 5: recently and I am on her close friends on Instagram
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  Speaker 5: and I did not get invited to the wedding, which
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  Speaker 5: is fine. Again, you know, you can invite whoever you want.
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  Speaker 1: Who is it?
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  Speaker 5: I'll tell you later.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: And she was posting about the wedding on close friends.
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  Speaker 5: And it was like, she said, um, by the way,
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  Speaker 5: if you haven't RSVP yet and like, you're getting down
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  Speaker 5: to it. Okay. And I was like, kind of wild
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  Speaker 5: to post this on close friends when not everyone, something
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  Speaker 5: like this, when not everyone is invited, IE me, that's
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  Speaker 5: what I, that's what I said. Maybe that was rude
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  Speaker 5: of me. And she said, LOL, what if this was
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  Speaker 5: your invite? And I said, is it? And then she
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  Speaker 5: didn't respond.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I thought I was going to get taken off close
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  Speaker 5: friends at that point. I'm still on, baby.
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  Speaker 2: Whoa.
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  Speaker 5: But that's wild, right? Or was I out of line?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, you were a little out of line. Respectfully.
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  Speaker 5: Taken.
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  Speaker 3: I think there's people on my close friends list that
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  Speaker 3: might not get invited. My close friends list is for...
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  Speaker 3: I haven't even updated. I don't even know who's on
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  Speaker 3: my close friends list right now.
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  Speaker 2: It's time to update the close friends list, Rob.
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  Speaker 3: I don't ever post on close friends. I only posted
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  Speaker 3: on it when Hayley and I weren't public. You're like,
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  Speaker 3: I post on it all the time and I'm not
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  Speaker 3: on there.
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  Speaker 2: No, Robby's not on my close friends.
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  Speaker 5: Allison wasn't on mine for a long time.
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  Speaker 2: He's like, why am I not on your close friends?
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, I literally haven't touched my close friends since
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  Speaker 4: we broke up.
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  Speaker 2: Like, when we broke up. Like, that's why I got
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  Speaker 2: a close friends when we broke up. And then.
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  Speaker 4: We got back together and haven't posted on it in
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  Speaker 4: like however many years.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm like, why would I add you now?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Respectfully. I might bring it back, my close friends posting.
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  Speaker 5: Why?
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  Speaker 3: Probably won't. I don't even post publicly that much. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: who wants that? I barely post as is. I can't
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  Speaker 3: be separating them.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, if you follow me, you're my close friend.
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  Speaker 5: Well do an ad on close friends no what do
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  Speaker 5: you like a sponsored post on.
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  Speaker 3: If y'all are my close friend go engage with.
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  Speaker 2: My ad please click this link that's actually brilliant.
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  Speaker 3: Some people do that and i always do i always
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  Speaker 3: go every time i see it i'm like you you
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  Speaker 3: got it um basically yeah um People pleaser scrubber, I
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  Speaker 3: would not invite anyone who you don't feel needs to
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  Speaker 3: be at your wedding. And for the general public, if
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  Speaker 3: someone's getting married, just wait for the invite. And if
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  Speaker 3: you don't get invited, then.
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  Speaker 3: Either take it personally or just know that they had
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  Speaker 3: a limit and you didn't make it.
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  Speaker 4: I'm actually excited for you to do the guest list
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  Speaker 4: because it does bring up, like, a lot of, like, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: That's, like, my biggest hurdle that I think I'm going
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  Speaker 3: to have to get over.
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  Speaker 2: And, like, there were couples that we were, like.
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  Speaker 4: teetering on um and we're like well like i'd be
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  Speaker 4: like oh we're not like so close to them but
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  Speaker 4: like i'd love to be closer with them you know
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  Speaker 4: and robbie's like we're not inviting people because we'd love
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  Speaker 4: to be closer this is not the weekend to get
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  Speaker 4: no correct he's like no yeah No, I'm a little.
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  Speaker 3: That's one of the bigger things about wedding planning. You
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  Speaker 3: know what? This is kind of off subject, but I've
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  Speaker 3: been on my TikTok. I always see like WLW weddings or,
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  Speaker 3: you know, queer weddings. And it'll be like either elopements
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  Speaker 3: and they're just beautiful photos or they're weddings. But it's
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  Speaker 3: a very small crowd, you know? And obviously... What do
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  Speaker 3: you call that? Attendance? Audience?
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  Speaker 2: Friends and guests.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: It's a very small guest list. And I always think...
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I know there's... obviously with like financial reasoning
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  Speaker 3: and whatnot, it gets very expensive. So you limit like
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  Speaker 3: how many people come. But I was thinking it's it's
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  Speaker 3: so often like queer couples and I'm always thinking like, oh, it's.
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  Speaker 3: It's probably because it's so limited who you feel safe
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  Speaker 3: having at your wedding that you're choosing to spend your
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  Speaker 3: life with someone and who you want to be there.
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  Speaker 3: It's so specific of who's been supportive, who's shown up
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  Speaker 3: for you, who checks in on you. And it made
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  Speaker 3: me like, oh, it's so sad. But beautiful that you
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  Speaker 3: get to choose so specifically who's there based on that.
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  Speaker 3: But it was just something I noticed.
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  Speaker 2: What number are you guys looking at?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean, just Hailey's list alone, it
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  Speaker 3: feels huge.
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  Speaker 4: Really?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: She'll be like, and I wrote, I'm like, we cannot
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  Speaker 3: invite people that you wrote songs with 20 years, like
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  Speaker 3: 15 years ago.
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, love them. Grateful for them. But we got
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  Speaker 3: to be, we got to tighten it up.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: But I don't know. I would think like, I loved them.
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  Speaker 3: Dean and Kaylin's was like a really good amount.
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  Speaker 2: I felt like 60.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: But that feels small.
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  Speaker 1: I know.
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  Speaker 3: How many did y'all have?
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  Speaker 1: We did a hundred.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all had a hundred?
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  Speaker 2: We had like a little over a hundred.
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  Speaker 3: That was a good size too. It was spaced well.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Your space was good.
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  Speaker 2: It didn't feel like too many people, right? But it
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  Speaker 2: also didn't feel small. Did it feel small?
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  Speaker 3: No, no.
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  Speaker 5: I was just thinking about how it didn't feel small,
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  Speaker 5: but it felt like, it felt like all my friends
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  Speaker 5: were there.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: It was cool.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Like it felt intimate still.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Like I felt like I, as a guest, knew everybody there.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: And I think everyone else felt the same way.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Okay. We have a relationship question.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And who better to give advice on relationships than us?
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  Speaker 4: Facts.
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  Speaker 3: So we're going to take a break and we'll be
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  Speaker 3: right back. We're back.
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  Speaker 1: This is from Jasmine. Hi, Becca and Tanya. My boyfriend
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  Speaker 1: and I just had our one-year anniversary. I'm 33, he's 34.
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  Speaker 1: And during our trip together, the topic of his weed
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  Speaker 1: use came up in a real way. He smokes. I don't.
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  Speaker 1: And it's not that I'm judging him for it. It's
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  Speaker 1: more that I'm trying to figure out where my own
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  Speaker 1: line is and how to hold it without turning into
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  Speaker 1: someone keeping score. We actually worked out a kind of
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  Speaker 1: compromise together, which felt like real progress. But since then,
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  Speaker 1: he went back to his hometown... And it didn't fully
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  Speaker 1: stick to what we'd agreed on. It wasn't a blow up,
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  Speaker 1: but it left me quite worried. Becca, I know you
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  Speaker 1: smoke yourself. Rebuttal?
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  Speaker 3: I don't smoke.
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  Speaker 1: You chew the gummy gills.
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  Speaker 3: I take edibles.
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  Speaker 2: But nonetheless, you get high.
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  Speaker 1: Right. Is it something you and your partner share or
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  Speaker 1: navigate differently? Tanya, since you don't, I'd love your perspective.
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  Speaker 1: How do you approach it when it's not your thing,
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  Speaker 1: but it's part of someone else's life? How do you
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  Speaker 1: two handle it when your circles or habits pull you
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  Speaker 1: in different directions? I'm wondering if this is something that
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  Speaker 1: could quietly become a long-term deal-breaker. This past year with
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  Speaker 1: him has been amazing, though. I've never met someone like him.
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  Speaker 1: He's never once wanted to avoid this topic, and he
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  Speaker 1: never gets defensive.
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  Speaker 2: That's huge.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I used to be so anti-weed, and I literally
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  Speaker 3: was so... I mean, I was anti-everything. I was very judgmental.
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  Speaker 3: And I think until I did it myself, I realized, like,
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  Speaker 3: I mean... I don't know how much he's smoking, but
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  Speaker 3: I don't really need weed. I'm not like dependent on weed.
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  Speaker 3: I just take it as like extracurricular. It would be
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  Speaker 3: like someone having a glass of wine at night. If
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  Speaker 3: you do that, I would say if, but not every night.
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  Speaker 3: So anyways, I don't know if I'm like in the
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  Speaker 3: same situation as this, but Haley and I both do
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  Speaker 3: it equally. So there's not like a you need to,
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  Speaker 3: you know, limit your amount. We both do it occasionally
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  Speaker 3: to decompress and, and we really just get like giggly
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  Speaker 3: and eat snacks. That's really the extent of it.
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  Speaker 4: I do think though that if you do have a
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  Speaker 4: different like need or want for it, I do think
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  Speaker 4: that will ultimately cause some sort of friction because like,
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  Speaker 4: I'm not a weed, like I don't, I'm not like
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  Speaker 4: drug early and I don't really like weed. I think
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  Speaker 4: I've like maybe tried like a piece of an edible
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  Speaker 4: once in my life.
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  Speaker 2: Like it's not my thing.
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  Speaker 4: And I don't, Robbie wasn't necessarily anti, but I think
• 14:43
  Speaker 4: because he was dating, like he dates me, like he
• 14:46
  Speaker 4: doesn't really, we just don't, it's not like a thing
• 14:48
  Speaker 4: that we do together. And so we drink together. Let's
• 14:51
  Speaker 4: say like that was, that's like our thing. We would
• 14:53
  Speaker 4: drink kind of like the same, you know, we went out,
• 14:55
  Speaker 4: we would drink a martini. Ever since I've been trying
• 14:59
  Speaker 4: to conceive, I've cut back on my drinking significantly. And
• 15:02
  Speaker 4: so has he. And so it's like we kind of
• 15:04
  Speaker 4: do stuff in tandem. And I think that that works
• 15:07
  Speaker 4: in a relationship. But I think like and not that
• 15:09
  Speaker 4: I'm sitting here telling him that you can't drink like
• 15:11
  Speaker 4: he will. It's not like he I barely drink and
• 15:14
  Speaker 4: he'll maybe have like a drink a month or, you know,
• 15:16
  Speaker 4: it's like it's very rare, but he still drinks. All
• 15:19
  Speaker 4: I'm saying is I think that there would be some
• 15:21
  Speaker 4: sort of tension for me personally if he was like
• 15:24
  Speaker 4: taking an edible every night or smoking every night. Like
• 15:27
  Speaker 4: I do think it would make me feel a certain
• 15:28
  Speaker 4: type of way.
• 15:29
  Speaker 3: I agree. I think if I wasn't doing anything and
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: my partner was, whatever the vice is, they were doing
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: it so often and it altered their personality. I didn't
• 15:41
  Speaker 3: feel like we were actually spending time together because we
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: were on two very different wavelengths. I think that naturally
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: forms kind of like a.
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: Friction.
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: But I also think... I don't know if like Jasmine,
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: I don't know if you're totally sober or if you
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: just don't smoke weed. But I also think that makes
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: a difference because it would be like if he was like, hey,
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: I'm going to smoke and you're like, OK, I'm gonna
• 16:06
  Speaker 3: have a glass of wine. But I think if you're
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: sober and not doing anything and your partner's doing stuff,
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: I think that's hard.
• 16:13
  Speaker 4: And I mean, not to get too ahead of yourself, Jasmine,
• 16:15
  Speaker 4: but like when you're trying to conceive, the weed smoking's
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: got to go.
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: We know nothing about Jasmine, but good to know.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: Slows down your swimmers significantly.
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: Mark, Easton, how do y'all feel about it? Because neither
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: of y'all drink or smoke that I know of, unfortunately.
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: For the bond.
• 16:33
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Easton's like, I rip a bong every night before
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: I go to bed.
• 16:36
  Speaker 5: I do. And I got some Quaaludes left over from
• 16:39
  Speaker 5: the 80s that I like to hit every now and then.
• 16:41
  Speaker 5: But no, I've never drank. I've never smoked. I've never done.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: Any of that stuff.
• 16:46
  Speaker 5: I'm very pure.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: But.
• 16:48
  Speaker 5: I, uh, Alison will drink a glass of wine. God,
• 16:52
  Speaker 5: these days it feels like every six months it's like
• 16:54
  Speaker 5: so infrequent. Um, and that's not because of me. Like I,
• 16:59
  Speaker 5: I've never said like, I don't want you to do that.
• 17:01
  Speaker 5: You know, that, that, that doesn't bother me at all. Um,
• 17:03
  Speaker 5: if she was someone who liked to party that way,
• 17:06
  Speaker 5: I probably wouldn't have started dating her because that's not
• 17:10
  Speaker 5: what I like to do. Right. Um, and, uh, it's
• 17:14
  Speaker 5: just funny cause like, I think before we started dating,
• 17:17
  Speaker 5: she would she would drink at like a party or
• 17:20
  Speaker 5: something or a dinner. And especially since we've been married,
• 17:23
  Speaker 5: like she never, ever gets anything. Like if we go
• 17:27
  Speaker 5: to a really nice Mexican restaurant, she got a margarita,
• 17:29
  Speaker 5: but like, that's it. And I just think it's just
• 17:31
  Speaker 5: because we're on the same kind of rhythm.
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 17:35
  Speaker 5: But yeah, I mean, it's just about, it's just about
• 17:37
  Speaker 5: being in sync with the other person.
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: I agree.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: I think that's, that's the, I think that I don't
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: abstain from drinking because I'm anti-alcohol. If I was, that
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: would be a different situation. But I just don't do
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: it because it's not my thing. Anybody else who wants
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: to do it, my wife, anybody, any of our friends,
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: go for it. Have fun. It's just not my thing.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: So I don't care if anybody does it around me.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: It doesn't bother me. I don't feel like it creates
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: any tension, any friction, any barrier. I don't feel that.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: I've never felt that.
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: Maybe, Jasmine, maybe you need to ask yourself what it
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: is about it. Is it because it alters his personality?
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: Do you not like the smell of it?
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: Because smoking weed is very different.
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: Than taking an edible.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: Or is it that you just feel like he's dependent
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: on it to either be in a good mood or,
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: you know, sleep, whatever.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, let's get to the root of the why. Why
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: is it bothering you?
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: I think if it's bothering you because you feel like
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: he's having fun and he's more relaxed than you without you,
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: or if you're just like, you were taught that it
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: was wrong. So therefore you've carried that on. Cause I
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: dealt with that for a long time with alcohol and,
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: and weed. But I think it's more so figuring out what,
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: what is it that bothers you about it? Is it
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: like you wanting to have control over what he's doing?
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: You know, I think it's not kind of navigating why it,
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: why it bothers you.
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: Excellent advice. Really glad we got there.
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: I respect y'all's purity.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: Thank you.
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: Not yours. You drink. I'm talking about there.
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: I barely drink anymore.
• 19:08
  Speaker 5: I pointed my body in many other ways. So, uh,
• 19:10
  Speaker 5: you know, it's all balanced.
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: When I, for instance, I'll, I'll have a drink. Like
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: if we go to a restaurant or something and they
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: have what the cocktails look good, I'll have a drink,
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: but I always get a soda.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah.
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: Like I, I will have three drinks. I'll have water,
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: a soda and a cocktail.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: Because when my food comes, like before, if we're having
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: appetizers and stuff, I like to sip on the alcohol,
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: like the cocktail. But then I like when my actual
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: meal comes, I want soda.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: And when does the water happen?
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: Just like it.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: Throughout.
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: Okay. Sipped on, yeah. Sure.
• 19:40
  Speaker 5: And is it always a Dr.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: Pepper?
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: Well, not everywhere has Dr.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Pepper. That's true.
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: So I vary. But yeah, it's the three drink rule
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: for me. Three drink minimum in a different way. Okay,
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: we're going to take a break and then it's game time, baby!
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: Game time, baby!
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: We're back.
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: It's game time. It's a new game. Do we start
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: with the don't say the same word?
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: I think we end with that.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: No, I want to do it first, please.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: Does it get you in the spirit?
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: All right, fine.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: So much for that idea.
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: I got 10 things here. The goal is to not
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: say the same thing at the same time.
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: Ready?
• 20:40
  Speaker 5: Yes.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: Tanya's grinning ear to ear. Becca's ready. Here we go.
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: Becca is ready.
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: Here we go. Movie genre. Three, two, one.
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: Comedy.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: Types of weather. Three, two, one. Brand of shoe. Three, two, one.
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: Naked wolf.
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: What'd you say?
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: Naked wolf.
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: Whoa, that's so random.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: See, that's the problem with this game is you could
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: just say random things that don't fit together.
• 21:10
  Speaker 5: Look it up.
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that one's legit.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: It is, right?
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: Suit in a deck of cards. Three, two, one.
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: Diamond.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: Oh, what? I said queen.
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: I said queen.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: What'd you say?
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: A suit. The suit.
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: That's not the character.
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: Oh.
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: So what do we do now? Do we replace that one? Yeah, replace.
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: You gotta throw it out because we can't do it again.
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: Right, okay.
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: Do we not, we all just lose? No. Oh.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: With all due respect, Mark didn't set it up properly.
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: I think he did. Out of the four.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: Suits in the deck, which suit should you pick?
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: It's not a paragraph.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: Out of the four options. Okay. That's okay. Move on, Mark.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Can we move on or do I
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: have to find a new category? All right. I'll think
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: of a new category.
• 21:58
  Speaker 5: Dog breeds.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: We already did that one.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: We did? I don't think we did that one, Mark.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: Well, I can't do it now, because you'll think about it.
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Easton.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Back at it, although this
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: is already tainted.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: That's not the attitude.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: Utensil, three, two, one.
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: Spoon.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: Spork.
• 22:16
  Speaker 5: Wow, she cracked the code.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: Dairy product, three, two, one.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: Cornish cheese.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: Wow. Condiment, three, two, one.
• 22:28
  Speaker 5: Marshmallish.
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: Marshmallish.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: Planet, three, two, one.
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: Jupiter.
• 22:36
  Speaker 5: Shape, three, two, one.
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: Circle. Diamond.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: Direction, three, two, one.
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: East.
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: Why didn't we say northeast?
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: You were doing the niche ones. I was needing you
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: to go. Shoot.
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: Southwest. Anything but the war. That's my strategy. Like don't
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: do the basic ones.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: All right. Here's how the tower of music works. They
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: will each have a category that bands would fit into.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: Like artists that begin with letter S. Artists from Russia,
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: whatever it is.
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: Oh my God, Russia.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: Could be obscure. You never know.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: Do not give us that one.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: So they guess back and forth bands. Once they have
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: four correct, they can guess the category. Whoever gets the
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: category first wins.
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: They each have their category. And the way that you
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: play it is, can I get? For whatever reason, you say,
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: can I get this artist?
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: A celebrity name.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: And one more clue.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: Wait, I didn't get a celebrity.
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: No.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: That's the category. You're going to guess the category. So
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: one more thing. Make sure you don't just focus on
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: one type of artist. You want as broad, old, new, middle,
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: different genres. Make sure you go wide with it. Okay.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: It'll be more fun.
• 23:48
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: Here we go. Why don't you go first, Becca? Because
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: Tanya doesn't seem to know how this goes. Okay.
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: Can I get Miley Cyrus?
• 24:01
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: You can get Miley Cyrus.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: She can?
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: No.
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: She can?
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: I can see through that.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: Oh, you saw it?
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: I didn't see it, but I'm just saying I can
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: see whatever the writing is.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: No, she can't.
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: Oh, you can't.
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: I can't have, okay. No. Okay. Yikes. This could be
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: a disaster. Yeah, this could be.
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: I don't want to tell you what I think because
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: I don't want to give it away, but, um, I'll
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: save that for after. Okay.
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: Can I get Billy Joel?
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: No.
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: Can I get Dolly Parton? Yes.
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: Oh my God. Maybe Mark answer me.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: I guess.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: Uh, I mean, if he's struggling, okay.
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: All right, fine. You can have Dolly Parton.
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: You can have Dolly Parton.
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: Okay. That doesn't make me feel confident, you guys.
• 25:03
  Speaker 4: Maybe put a question mark next to Dolly.
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: Can I have Snoop Dogg? No.
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: Can I have Willie Nelson? No.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: Can I have Ella Langley?
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: No. Can I have Shania Twain?
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: I'm going to say yes.
• 25:28
  Speaker 5: You're serving as her counsel.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: Can I get Goo Goo Dolls?
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: No. Can I get Faith Hill?
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: Oh, my God. Can I get Madonna?
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: Yes. Can I get Ella Langley?
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: Nope.
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: Can I get Britney Spears?
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: No.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: No?
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: I get one yes, and I'm like, no?
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: Can I get Carrie Underwood? No. No.
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: Can I get Black Eyed Peas?
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: No. Can I get Martina McBride?
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: Yes, you can. Can I get Sarah McLachlan?
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: No.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: So, I mean, you technically have four.
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: I do?
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: Becca, you could guess the theme if you wanted to.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: I think only three really are solid.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: Or you can keep playing.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: I'm going to get one more to fill. Dolly's got
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: me shooken up a little bit. Can I get Tim McGraw?
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you can. Can I get Charlie XCX?
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: No. Can I get Kenny Chesney?
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: No.
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: No.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: Ha ha. Can I get, okay, Madonna, Madonna. Can I
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: get Rihanna?
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: Yes. Mm.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: I think you can get Kenny Chesney, by the way.
• 27:26
  Speaker 4: God.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: But I think you're being led down a bad path.
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: Oh, really?
• 27:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: Can I get Taylor Swift?
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Nope.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: Can I get Adela?
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Okay, I got a guess now. But you threw
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: me off with... I know mine! I was going to
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: guess pop country or 90s country.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: Well, both would be wrong.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: Oh. Mark? Okay, it's kind of wrong. One is more
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: wrong than the other.
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: Which one would you like to pick?
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: 90s? Country?
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: No, that is incorrect.
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: It's incorrect.
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: Is my theme artist with one name?
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: You have to get one more before you can guess.
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: Why?
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: That's the rule. You have to get four.
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: She got four. She did.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: I got Madonna, Rihanna, and Adele.
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: Oh, so I have one more guess.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you got one more guess.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: Okay, well, am I? Hold on, I gotta go again.
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: Go ahead. Prince?
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: Can I get Prince?
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: Am I top country?
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: Nope.
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: Am I artist with one word?
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah. One name?
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: Yes, you are.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: Wait, what was mine? Just 90s artists.
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: 90s artists.
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: Oh.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: No country. The problem is, Shania Twain, Faith Hill, Martina McBride,
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: Tim McGraw. They're all nineties artists.
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: So it kind of set you down the wrong path.
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: You should have said like Goo Goo Dolls, Third Eye Black.
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: I know. I couldn't. I was left on a country path.
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: Good job, Tanya.
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: Thank you. I love this game. I thought I was
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: screwed after Black Eyed Peas. I thought I had it.
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: What'd you think it was?
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: Um, Super Bowl?
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: Super Bowl.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: I did consider that.
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: And then I thought maybe like Coachella performers, like Madonna
• 29:18
  Speaker 4: came out this year.
• 29:19
  Speaker 3: That's a good game. I like that one.
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: It's all right. It's no Family Feud.
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: Well, next week, I'll tell you what. Next week, we'll
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: do a special October Halloween-themed Family Feud.
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: Wow.
• 29:31
  Speaker 4: Now that's going to get people coming back next Thursday.
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: Let me tell you, that is gonna get the scrubbers
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: back next Thursday with the wet appetite what's that.
• 29:42
  Speaker 5: We just lost him.
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna lick that poo and get my rod ta
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: ta ta got me going crazy for that poo na
• 29:49
  Speaker 4: na na they.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: Came and they went I love it I love that
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: you think that a wet appetite is actually wet.
• 29:56
  Speaker 5: Wet from saliva yeah.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: I fear I'm confused now.
• 30:03
  Speaker 5: That H is going to sneak up on you.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: It really is.
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: That H?
• 30:08
  Speaker 5: Go ahead. I don't want to mansplain you.
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: I don't either.
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: I know.
• 30:12
  Speaker 5: When you say wet your appetite, it's not W-E-T, it's W-H-E-T,
• 30:17
  Speaker 5: and it's a completely different word than the state of
• 30:19
  Speaker 5: being wet.
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: Oh, I had no idea.
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: It's wet.
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: You knew that?
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: No, I just stay quiet. Sometimes staying quiet is the
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: way to appear intelligent. Guess what, though?
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: Not afraid to look dumb. Because a lot of people
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: are out there.
• 30:36
  Speaker 5: It also means to sharpen a blade or a tool.
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: Sharpen or stimulate. Yeah, that's what it means.
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: Oh, I thought it.
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: Was because your mouth gets wet when you see something yummy.
• 30:48
  Speaker 5: When I see something yummy, I say I'm getting so wet.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: Same.
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: Wow, I've been using it wrong my whole life. The
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: more you know.
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: All we are here to do is learn and teach
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: the others.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: And with that being said, we're going to end on
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: that note.
• 31:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: Not because you're embarrassed.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: No, because we're wet for next week.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: Wet or what? Wet. All right. Have a wonderful weekend.
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: We love you so much. Love you. Bye.
• 31:21
  Speaker 5: Bye.