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- 0:03Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
- 0:06Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
- 0:10Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives of Atlanta, New Jersey,
- 0:13Speaker 1: and my own creation, the Love and Marriage franchise and
- 0:17Speaker 1: Bell Collective. Every episode, we recap reality television from the
- 0:23Speaker 1: Real Housewives franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset. in
- 0:27Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
- 0:31Speaker 1: scripted as well. All raindrops. This is the episode of
- 0:38Speaker 1: all episodes. Alexis Jansen and I are back to recap.
- 0:42Speaker 1: The Real Housewives of Orange County season 20. This is
- 0:46Speaker 1: the episode that we have been waiting on. And guess what?
- 0:50Speaker 1: We're so blessed. Not only is it my birthday, we
- 0:54Speaker 1: also get a special gift. We get two parts of
- 0:56Speaker 1: Alexis in next week's episode. Oh, good God.
- 1:00Speaker 2: Carlos, first of all, we'll never forget your birthday and
- 1:03Speaker 2: my anniversary because my anniversary is tomorrow for one year.
- 1:05Speaker 1: I know.
- 1:06Speaker 3: So that's exciting.
- 1:07Speaker 2: So this is actually a celebratory event. Although it's not,
- 1:11Speaker 2: but it's a celebratory podcast today.
- 1:14Speaker 1: So yay.
- 1:15Speaker 2: Yay to Carlos. Happy birthday. I'm glad you're turning 29.
- 1:17Speaker 2: Next year, we'll celebrate your 30th. Thank you.
- 1:20Speaker 1: Thank you. Thank you. And I can't wait to celebrate
- 1:23Speaker 1: 100 years of you and John's wedding.
- 1:26Speaker 2: But God, I don't want to make it to 100 years.
- 1:28Speaker 2: I do not want to be 149.
- 1:31Speaker 4: I mean, listen, listen, that's how long the housewives would
- 1:35Speaker 4: be on.
- 1:35Speaker 1: So we need somebody.
- 1:37Speaker 2: Well, as long as I can get facelifts and Botox,
- 1:40Speaker 2: I think I'm good. I think I can, you know,
- 1:43Speaker 2: preserve the face.
- 1:44Speaker 3: I just don't know if my organs are going to sustain.
- 1:47Speaker 1: Okay.
- 1:47Speaker 2: So this podcast, Carlos, is going to be really hard
- 1:50Speaker 2: for me because if you would have told me, you know,
- 1:52Speaker 2: any time in my life, I'd be podcasting about.
- 1:54Speaker 3: A show that I was on.
- 1:55Speaker 2: I would like a podcasting about myself because I have
- 1:58Speaker 2: to be very objective when I'm with you.
- 2:00Speaker 3: And now I just watch it and now I'm like,
- 2:01Speaker 3: this is just.
- 2:02Speaker 2: Going to be hard. But I don't know if I
- 2:05Speaker 2: can be objective about myself because it's me. So it's like,
- 2:08Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you my feelings and how I
- 2:09Speaker 2: feel and the truth behind the scene.
- 2:12Speaker 1: Okay. Yeah. No. And I think, listen, I just watched
- 2:17Speaker 1: it because I like to watch it right before we
- 2:20Speaker 1: recap because I like to make sure it's fresh and
- 2:22Speaker 1: I have all the emotions and the feelings. And yeah.
- 2:26Speaker 1: I have a lot of questions. I have a lot
- 2:29Speaker 1: of questions for you. Yeah. And the fact that this
- 2:36Speaker 1: is just a piece of what we're going to see
- 2:40Speaker 1: next week. But obviously, Raindrops, because Alexis is a professional,
- 2:44Speaker 1: we are only going to talk about what we saw
- 2:47Speaker 1: this week so that next week, okay, she can give
- 2:51Speaker 1: us the additional parts of the story based on the scene.
- 2:54Speaker 2: So, Well, and there's no reason... There's no reason.
- 2:57Speaker 3: Oh, go ahead.
- 2:58Speaker 1: Sorry. No, no, please.
- 3:01Speaker 2: There's no reason to talk about anything next week because
- 3:02Speaker 2: we don't know what they're going to air. You don't
- 3:04Speaker 2: know what's going to air of the 25 minutes of
- 3:07Speaker 2: the rest of the party or 30 or an hour.
- 3:08Speaker 2: I don't even know how long was left that I
- 3:10Speaker 2: was there. You don't know what they're going to air.
- 3:12Speaker 2: So that's why we can't even talk about next week
- 3:14Speaker 2: because we don't know.
- 3:15Speaker 1: Yeah. But I would love to get in your headspace
- 3:19Speaker 1: just based on what happened between you and Heather and
- 3:21Speaker 1: Tamara because as a producer... I have a feeling, because guys,
- 3:27Speaker 1: Alexis and I don't talk before we hit record. We
- 3:29Speaker 1: literally be like, save it for the pod. Save it
- 3:32Speaker 1: for the pod. So as a producer, there's tons of
- 3:37Speaker 1: questions I have, but also theories that I have based
- 3:42Speaker 1: on your commentary to Tamara. So again, stay tuned for that, Raindrops.
- 3:47Speaker 1: Before we get into the recap, today's my birthday. Tomorrow
- 3:52Speaker 1: is Alexis' anniversary with John. But today is also the
- 3:56Speaker 1: day they are taping the Real Housewives of Orange County reunion. Okay.
- 4:03Speaker 1: So what we have, Alexis, as we look into, look.
- 4:12Speaker 2: I'm going into my feed of like what I've gotten
- 4:14Speaker 2: sent to me today.
- 4:15Speaker 3: And I'm hoping you're going where I'm going.
- 4:17Speaker 1: Yes. Okay. So we are going to talk about the
- 4:21Speaker 1: seating chart of the show. And first chair belongs to
- 4:28Speaker 1: Vicky and Tamara.
- 4:30Speaker 2: Yeah. I was going to ask you what you thought
- 4:34Speaker 2: about this if you didn't go there.
- 4:37Speaker 1: What do you think? Makes sense to me. I think....
- 4:44Speaker 2: I think the entire seating chart is okay, except the fact,
- 4:46Speaker 2: which I shouldn't be speaking so low.
- 4:48Speaker 1: Let me, do you want me to, well, let me
- 4:50Speaker 1: tell the raindrops in case they haven't seen.
- 4:52Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
- 4:52Speaker 1: Yeah. Yes. Let me tell them the entire seating chart then. Okay.
- 4:55Speaker 1: So here is the.
- 4:58Speaker 2: Entire screen so that they can see it and then
- 5:01Speaker 2: you can talk about it.
- 5:02Speaker 1: So if they're watching for audio listeners. Okay. So Andy's
- 5:06Speaker 1: left Vicky's first chair next to Vicky is Shannon. Then
- 5:10Speaker 1: it's Gina and, And end of the couch is Emily.
- 5:16Speaker 1: On the other side, first chair is Tamara. Then it's Heather.
- 5:21Speaker 1: Then it's Jen. And last chair is Carmella. Alexis, go first.
- 5:27Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on this current seating chart?
- 5:29Speaker 2: I mean, you can go first too. What do you think?
- 5:40Speaker 1: What do I think? Okay. What do you think? I
- 5:44Speaker 1: think the sitting chart makes sense. I think the sitting
- 5:48Speaker 1: chart makes sense. Vicky and Tamara, to me, deserves first chair. Vicky, listen.
- 5:56Speaker 1: Love her or hate her, this season would be a
- 5:58Speaker 1: doll without Vicky. And I think we can all admit that.
- 6:02Speaker 1: Without Vicky, this season would not be what it is.
- 6:05Speaker 1: Whether you love her, whether you hate her, she's the
- 6:07Speaker 1: reason for this season. Okay. So with that being said, Additionally,
- 6:13Speaker 1: when it comes to Vicky's side of the couch, look,
- 6:18Speaker 1: to me, it also makes sense. Shannon next to Vicky
- 6:22Speaker 1: makes sense. They're friends. Look, Gina had some great scenes.
- 6:34Speaker 1: Although I will say this, I will say this. I
- 6:36Speaker 1: may would have put Emily next to Shannon. Emily's scenes
- 6:40Speaker 1: with Shane, she's giving way more interesting personal story than Gina.
- 6:45Speaker 1: So if I had to make a change, I would
- 6:47Speaker 1: have swapped Gina and Emily, right? If that was me.
- 6:51Speaker 1: But I'm not mad at the current position, but I
- 6:55Speaker 1: do feel like Emily's personal storylines were stronger. Now to
- 6:59Speaker 1: Tamara's couch, look, I understand because Carmella's a newbie that
- 7:04Speaker 1: you're going to stick her in the end, but I
- 7:07Speaker 1: would have swapped her and Gina. That's me.
- 7:13Speaker 2: Okay.
- 7:13Speaker 1: Okay.
- 7:13Speaker 2: So you would have gone on Tamara's side, it would
- 7:16Speaker 2: go on Andy, Tamara, Heather, Camilla, Jen.
- 7:22Speaker 1: Correct. Okay.
- 7:25Speaker 2: So what I think it should have been is I
- 7:29Speaker 2: think Carmella and Shannon should have switched places and Jen
- 7:36Speaker 2: and Heather should have switched places.
- 7:37Speaker 3: So I think Carmela should have been next to Vicki. Well,
- 7:41Speaker 3: oh no, they're not friends.
- 7:41Speaker 2: Okay, so let's just say, let's say Heather and Carmela
- 7:45Speaker 2: should have switched. It should have gone Tamara, Carmela, Jen,
- 7:48Speaker 2: Heather to me.
- 7:50Speaker 1: Oh, okay.
- 7:53Speaker 3: Or maybe Jen at the end and Heather next.
- 7:54Speaker 2: I feel like Carmella should have been either next to
- 7:57Speaker 2: Vicky or to Tamara because Carmella brought more than any
- 8:00Speaker 2: of the other rest of the girls that were there,
- 8:02Speaker 2: like as far as freshness, which is hard for me
- 8:04Speaker 2: to say being objective after she just bashed me without
- 8:07Speaker 2: knowing me and I've been sticking up for her the
- 8:08Speaker 2: whole season.
- 8:09Speaker 1: Who bashed you?
- 8:11Speaker 3: Oh, Carmella on this episode. You did not hear that?
- 8:15Speaker 2: Oh, she goes, oh, I'm loyal to Shannon through and through.
- 8:17Speaker 2: I will drop kick a house, old housewife if I
- 8:19Speaker 2: have to. I'm like, I get it. She doesn't know me.
- 8:22Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 8:23Speaker 2: She doesn't know I've been sticking up with her this
- 8:25Speaker 2: whole time and that I adore her and all that.
- 8:27Speaker 1: Yeah, and that was shot before we even did the podcast.
- 8:31Speaker 1: So yeah.
- 8:32Speaker 2: Well, yeah, and also she's being brainwashed by a couple
- 8:34Speaker 2: of people that don't like me in this world when
- 8:36Speaker 2: most of them do.
- 8:36Speaker 1: So I don't know.
- 8:37Speaker 3: It's like, whatever.
- 8:38Speaker 2: But that's, I just feel like Carmela got this short
- 8:41Speaker 2: end of the stick because she is new.
- 8:43Speaker 3: I get that she has to be on the end.
- 8:45Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah.
- 8:48Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. We both agreed on that. Okay.
- 8:52Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 8:54Speaker 1: There you go. I'm expecting a great reunion and I
- 8:59Speaker 1: really want it to be good. I want it to
- 9:03Speaker 1: be good. And I feel like with Tamara having first chair,
- 9:08Speaker 1: she's going to make sure that it's good because Tamara
- 9:11Speaker 1: is the best. when it comes to reunions. So I'm
- 9:15Speaker 1: definitely looking forward to that. Let's get into this episode.
- 9:19Speaker 1: One of the scenes that opened up was Heather and Terry.
- 9:25Speaker 1: So in this scene, we learn that Terry's mom, who
- 9:31Speaker 1: is 92 years old and suffering through Alzheimer's, which of
- 9:35Speaker 1: course is very difficult for any child to have to
- 9:38Speaker 1: have a parent dealing with that. She doesn't like where
- 9:41Speaker 1: she's living. And obviously, it's, you know, it's bothering Terry
- 9:47Speaker 1: to a degree because he is somebody that loves his
- 9:51Speaker 1: mom and want to make sure she's good. But he's
- 9:53Speaker 1: also aware that, look, she's not in her right state
- 9:57Speaker 1: of mind. In this scene, we also find... out from Heather,
- 10:02Speaker 1: she emotes on how she was raised by parents who
- 10:05Speaker 1: would ridicule her if she even cried while watching a
- 10:09Speaker 1: movie and that she wasn't really raised to be all
- 10:12Speaker 1: warm and fuzzy. That's just how she is. And that
- 10:15Speaker 1: showed us shape who she is. What I will say
- 10:17Speaker 1: is this, One thing that I love about when people
- 10:22Speaker 1: on reality television bring their parents on or talk about
- 10:26Speaker 1: their parents, to me, it always sheds light on who
- 10:30Speaker 1: they are as adults. And the thing with Heather, I
- 10:33Speaker 1: find Heather to be very cold, right? I find her
- 10:38Speaker 1: to be a cold person. There's nothing warm and fuzzy
- 10:42Speaker 1: about her. She, to me, is an ice queen. And
- 10:46Speaker 1: she's very... hard when it comes to her heart, right?
- 10:51Speaker 1: That's my opinion based on me watching the show. I
- 10:53Speaker 1: don't know her personally. Was she brought up on how
- 10:57Speaker 1: she was raised? I said, okay, now I have a
- 11:00Speaker 1: greater understanding on how you were raised. And unfortunately, that
- 11:05Speaker 1: shaped who you are today. So I appreciated that because
- 11:11Speaker 1: I know I'm hard on Heather, but this did shed
- 11:15Speaker 1: light on her to me. What do you think? Million percent.
- 11:19Speaker 3: I got choked up on that scene a little bit.
- 11:21Speaker 2: I didn't cry or anything, but I did get like,
- 11:23Speaker 2: you know, I lost both of my parents and I
- 11:24Speaker 2: went through one with cancer and one with some brain disease.
- 11:27Speaker 3: We don't even know yet. They still have her brain.
- 11:29Speaker 3: Hopefully they'll figure it out one day.
- 11:31Speaker 2: But anyway, it's like I had to be that sandwich
- 11:36Speaker 2: that Heather was talking about. And I related so much
- 11:38Speaker 2: because it's like you are a parent to your kids
- 11:40Speaker 2: and now you're being a parent to your parent who
- 11:41Speaker 2: parented you. It's the weirdest start like stage of life
- 11:45Speaker 2: to be in. But I thought both her and Terry are, like,
- 11:50Speaker 2: really handling it well. And thank God they have each other.
- 11:53Speaker 2: And it is so freaking hard. And I loved that
- 11:56Speaker 2: they opened up to that. Neither of them had to.
- 11:58Speaker 2: But I see Heather, like, her mom in her. Like,
- 12:03Speaker 2: she thinks she's all– she's like, I'm such a warm person.
- 12:05Speaker 3: And I'm like, are you?
- 12:07Speaker 2: Like, I don't feel like that from her either. So
- 12:12Speaker 2: maybe other people in America do. Maybe other cast members do.
- 12:14Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 12:15Speaker 2: But I do think she's, you know, her mom did,
- 12:18Speaker 2: you know, create her and make her who she was.
- 12:21Speaker 2: And it would really stink to be, have your feelings
- 12:24Speaker 2: suppressed as a kid, right? You can't cry at a
- 12:27Speaker 2: movie or whatever.
- 12:28Speaker 3: That would be a really, if I was that kid,
- 12:31Speaker 3: I don't know what that would have done to me.
- 12:33Speaker 2: You know, I mean, I needed, my mom was all
- 12:35Speaker 2: free and spirit and everything, you know, spirit, like, you know,
- 12:38Speaker 2: hippie kind of like love, just everyone love.
- 12:40Speaker 3: It doesn't matter what you love. I don't know what
- 12:45Speaker 3: I'd be if my mom would have been.
- 12:46Speaker 2: Like, stop crying. Is that a tear? Grow up.
- 12:48Speaker 1: Yeah. Get a muscle. No, my mom was the same way.
- 12:52Speaker 1: My mother, listen, my mother was somebody that was, she was,
- 13:00Speaker 1: to me, the definition of love, right? Oh, and by
- 13:03Speaker 1: the way, our poll from last week about women.
- 13:06Speaker 2: Yes.
- 13:09Speaker 1: 100% said if they had a choice, they would be
- 13:13Speaker 1: a stay-at-home mom.
- 13:15Speaker 2: No, they did not.
- 13:16Speaker 1: 100%. 100%.
- 13:19Speaker 2: So if we had 49 comments, all 49 said yes.
- 13:22Speaker 1: Said yes.
- 13:25Speaker 2: Carlos, that is baffling to me because I have friends
- 13:27Speaker 2: who would kind of make fun of me and be like,
- 13:31Speaker 2: I would never be a stay-at-home mom. I could not
- 13:34Speaker 2: handle what you do. So I can't even believe that.
- 13:36Speaker 2: That's incredible.
- 13:37Speaker 1: Because I do think this. Listen, I'm a feminist and
- 13:42Speaker 1: I want every woman to live their best life and
- 13:44Speaker 1: to be everything God created them to be. I do think, though,
- 13:47Speaker 1: and the reason why I know this is because I've
- 13:50Speaker 1: worked with Housewives. I've worked with other reality stars. My
- 13:55Speaker 1: business is ran by women, and some have children, some don't.
- 14:00Speaker 1: And what I will say is I've always been told this.
- 14:04Speaker 1: My friends who were raised by their moms or their grandmothers,
- 14:08Speaker 1: to be better than them and to be this working woman...
- 14:13Speaker 1: They all said, Carlos, I woke up and I was
- 14:16Speaker 1: 40 years old with no kids. And that's my biggest
- 14:19Speaker 1: regret in life because I was chasing my career. And
- 14:23Speaker 1: then for my friends who are career mothers, they have
- 14:29Speaker 1: said to me, if I didn't have to work to
- 14:33Speaker 1: take care of my family, I would be a stay-at-home mom.
- 14:40Speaker 1: So I think, I think, I think, listen, and I'm
- 14:43Speaker 1: not saying let's go backwards or I'm not even saying
- 14:45Speaker 1: that that's going backwards. Right. I think it's your own
- 14:47Speaker 1: individual choice. But what I, what I am saying is
- 14:51Speaker 1: I think a lot of women, if, if, if given
- 14:55Speaker 1: the choice at a certain age, I, I, I think
- 14:59Speaker 1: you'll be surprised. And I was surprised. They all said, yes.
- 15:02Speaker 3: I wish America would take that poll.
- 15:04Speaker 2: Not just us. I mean, we got, you know, we
- 15:06Speaker 2: have what, 2 million listeners. It's like, we're a little
- 15:08Speaker 2: pee over the pot of everybody, but like, you know,
- 15:10Speaker 2: I'm not a feminist. I'm not a manist. I'm an equalist.
- 15:13Speaker 3: I want to, I think everything should be equality.
- 15:14Speaker 2: It doesn't matter if you're a man or whatever, but
- 15:17Speaker 2: I cannot believe that, that I cannot believe that poll.
- 15:22Speaker 1: I'm baffled.
- 15:23Speaker 2: I'm also loving it because I'm also thinking, you know,
- 15:26Speaker 2: the pendulum always swings one way or the other.
- 15:28Speaker 3: And, and so we.
- 15:29Speaker 2: Went through this heavy feminist move where, Oh.
- 15:31Speaker 3: Women should be working.
- 15:32Speaker 2: They should never be. Maybe now everyone's like waking up
- 15:35Speaker 2: and going, Oh, well, We do like the stay at
- 15:37Speaker 2: home mom idea. Maybe, you know, it's not that a
- 15:39Speaker 2: man's better than a woman, but a man can be
- 15:41Speaker 2: a breadwinner and the woman can stay at home and
- 15:43Speaker 2: everyone's still, you know, that's.
- 15:45Speaker 1: That's how I feel. That's honestly how I feel.
- 15:49Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 15:50Speaker 2: Stay at home mom is a hard fricking job. I'm sorry.
- 15:52Speaker 2: It is hard. You wake up, you, you, you never
- 15:55Speaker 2: get off the clock out. You're on a day to
- 15:57Speaker 2: day job. You can clock out nine to five. You're done.
- 15:58Speaker 2: Put your clock out and you're done. You don't get
- 16:01Speaker 2: a day off or any moment off. You don't have
- 16:03Speaker 2: time to be sick. You don't have time to do
- 16:04Speaker 2: anything because you're doing all of it all day long
- 16:06Speaker 2: with the kids.
- 16:07Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. No, I agree with you 1000%. So I
- 16:11Speaker 1: wanted to share that. But no, even when Heather said
- 16:17Speaker 1: to Terry that she did not think she was smart
- 16:22Speaker 1: until she met him and how Terry made her feel
- 16:26Speaker 1: smart from their first date and growing up, Heather was
- 16:33Speaker 1: coined as the talented one while her sister was known
- 16:37Speaker 1: as the smart one. And because they had those divine archetypes,
- 16:41Speaker 1: their parents wanted their careers to be based on that.
- 16:45Speaker 1: And she made a comment saying that, you know, there's
- 16:49Speaker 1: this old saying that you marry your unfinished business. So
- 16:53Speaker 1: I want to ask you about that. Do you agree
- 16:56Speaker 1: with that, that you marry your unfinished business?
- 16:59Speaker 2: Wonder I can't even place myself at my first marriage
- 17:02Speaker 2: like with Jim I was too young to even you
- 17:04Speaker 2: know and got married way too fast with my first
- 17:07Speaker 2: little one-year blip but um for Jim I don't even
- 17:10Speaker 2: know but with John I definitely don't feel he's my
- 17:13Speaker 2: unfinished business I feel like I married him because first
- 17:16Speaker 2: of all we just kind of completed each other but
- 17:18Speaker 2: we have such similar stories that it was like it
- 17:22Speaker 2: wasn't that we we you know completed each other's business
- 17:26Speaker 2: it's almost more like no one can understand everything I've
- 17:29Speaker 2: been through as much as him because.
- 17:30Speaker 3: He kind of went through the same. It's almost like
- 17:32Speaker 3: we were.
- 17:33Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 17:34Speaker 3: So I don't know.
- 17:35Speaker 2: I do. I can see though in a marriage where
- 17:37Speaker 2: you do marry your unfinished business. I totally, when Heather
- 17:40Speaker 2: said that it was like a light bulb. I'm like,
- 17:41Speaker 2: that could be a thing that totally, because it draws
- 17:45Speaker 2: you to, because you're getting from that person, what you
- 17:47Speaker 2: didn't get from your parent, you know, but John and I,
- 17:50Speaker 2: John gives me a lot of what my mom would
- 17:51Speaker 2: have gave me. John gives me a lot of everything,
- 17:54Speaker 2: like the support I need.
- 17:56Speaker 3: So I don't know.
- 17:57Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 17:57Speaker 2: For me, that's the case.
- 17:59Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it's so interesting. It's funny because I would
- 18:04Speaker 1: say that one of the things that my sisters would say,
- 18:10Speaker 1: I have three sisters, and they all said we did
- 18:14Speaker 1: marry someone like our dad. Like, there's a little bit
- 18:19Speaker 1: of characteristic that that is, and I thought it was
- 18:24Speaker 1: so interesting that that was that.
- 18:28Speaker 2: But does that mean, but if they married somebody like
- 18:31Speaker 2: their dad, it means they respected their dad. They were
- 18:32Speaker 2: looking for someone like their dad. But does that mean
- 18:35Speaker 2: that's unfinished business?
- 18:37Speaker 1: I know that's the thing. That's the thing. That's why
- 18:39Speaker 1: the unfinished business I'm not too sure about. I've never
- 18:42Speaker 1: heard that personally.
- 18:43Speaker 2: I get it. In Terry and Heather and Terry's situation,
- 18:46Speaker 2: I can totally see how they were each other's unfinished business.
- 18:49Speaker 3: And also they got married very young, right?
- 18:51Speaker 2: But so I just don't know about like for your sister's,
- 18:55Speaker 2: And my son did not marry unfinished business.
- 18:57Speaker 3: He married someone very much like me. I mean, she
- 19:00Speaker 3: is like me.
- 19:01Speaker 2: Like you? Oh my gosh.
- 19:03Speaker 3: She is so much like me.
- 19:04Speaker 2: Very headstrong, very driven, can watch out she's going to
- 19:08Speaker 2: run the shit.
- 19:10Speaker 3: I was so impressed just watching her wedding.
- 19:12Speaker 2: I really got to see so much more of her.
- 19:15Speaker 2: She was a kid when I met her. She was 15.
- 19:17Speaker 2: And I'm just like, You married your mom, honey. She's
- 19:20Speaker 2: going to take care of you, and she's got it.
- 19:23Speaker 3: That's good.
- 19:25Speaker 1: That's good. No, I love that. I love that. I
- 19:26Speaker 1: love that. I also think that's how it should be,
- 19:28Speaker 1: to be honest with you. This is Reality with the King,
- 19:33Speaker 1: and I'm Carlos King. Let's get back into the show.
- 19:38Speaker 1: I thought this scene was special because I felt like
- 19:40Speaker 1: I got a chance to know Heather a little bit more,
- 19:43Speaker 1: and as a viewer, I always appreciate these personal story scenes, so...
- 19:47Speaker 1: I wanted to make sure I said that. So the
- 19:50Speaker 1: ladies are at an event. And honey, Vicky and Tamara. OK.
- 19:59Speaker 1: So Vicky went to the doctor and got an exam.
- 20:06Speaker 1: And there's white spots floating around in her brain via
- 20:09Speaker 1: the x-ray. She does tell Tamara, don't tell anybody. Right?
- 20:16Speaker 1: Tamara then... Tamara, I love you, dot, dot, dot. But, Tamara,
- 20:23Speaker 1: you were wrong.
- 20:24Speaker 2: She don't even care that you say that.
- 20:25Speaker 1: Yeah, like, Tamara, I love you. You were absolutely wrong.
- 20:29Speaker 1: If someone tells you not to say anything... I know
- 20:32Speaker 1: you're trying to defend her, but you said it. And
- 20:34Speaker 1: to me, this is very black and white. Tamara should
- 20:36Speaker 1: not have repeated what she was told in confidence by Vicky.
- 20:41Speaker 1: Full stop, that's my opinion and my Tamara voice. So
- 20:45Speaker 1: Vicky made a joke to Tamara like, oh my gosh,
- 20:48Speaker 1: I'm brain damaged, right? Because you know Vicky, Vicky over-exaggerates.
- 20:52Speaker 1: So she's like, oh my gosh, I'm brain damaged. Tamara
- 20:55Speaker 1: tells the girls that, how she's going through something serious,
- 21:00Speaker 1: all these things. and reveals it to the girls. Emily
- 21:05Speaker 1: does tell Tamara that Vicky said their friendship is toxic.
- 21:10Speaker 1: And then we flash back to a moment where Vicky
- 21:12Speaker 1: did just say she doesn't voluntarily walk into toxic friendships.
- 21:19Speaker 1: And with Tamara, Tamara has done things to her that
- 21:22Speaker 1: she felt was toxic. But in my opinion, I thought
- 21:26Speaker 1: she was talking about the past, not the present. But
- 21:30Speaker 1: Emily told her that Tamara gets upset and says that
- 21:34Speaker 1: Vicky did things to her. And in her confessional, Tamara
- 21:37Speaker 1: does say that Vicky is not a good person. And
- 21:42Speaker 1: how Vicky is the one who pretty much said on
- 21:46Speaker 1: her own podcast that she's a bad mother because she
- 21:50Speaker 1: chose fame over her daughter. Um, Very harsh words. I
- 21:59Speaker 1: think Vicky was wrong for saying that too. I think
- 22:02Speaker 1: these are two incidents, in my opinion, that were both
- 22:05Speaker 1: in the past. And that's why it's hard to... And
- 22:09Speaker 1: when I say both incidents, I mean what Vicky said
- 22:14Speaker 1: about Tamara being toxic. I thought that was in the
- 22:17Speaker 1: past tense. And what Vicky did to Tamara was in
- 22:20Speaker 1: the past. That's why when it comes to these situations,
- 22:24Speaker 1: you have to find a way to get past it
- 22:26Speaker 1: or it will unearth again. But more importantly, Tamara was 1000%
- 22:31Speaker 1: wrong to me for telling the girls what Vicky said
- 22:35Speaker 1: not to repeat.
- 22:37Speaker 3: Okay, so here's another way to look at it, though.
- 22:39Speaker 2: The one thing I know about Tamara is because of
- 22:42Speaker 2: everything she knows about me and we filmed season 18 together.
- 22:44Speaker 2: If you say don't say anything to Tamara and it
- 22:47Speaker 2: has not been on camera. done on camera, like this
- 22:50Speaker 2: brain scan was on national television. Vicki gave the approval
- 22:53Speaker 2: to do it on national television. It's going to be shown.
- 22:56Speaker 3: If it hadn't been, and they'd done it in private,
- 22:58Speaker 3: Tamara would never have said a word.
- 23:00Speaker 2: I know Tamara because I, she has information, a lot
- 23:03Speaker 2: of information that has never been disclosed even to this day.
- 23:06Speaker 2: And she's still filming a show and my name is
- 23:07Speaker 2: still getting brought up and she does not say anything
- 23:09Speaker 2: about it. She has many opportunities too, but because they
- 23:13Speaker 2: did this on national television, filming it on the show,
- 23:15Speaker 2: I think Tamara said, even though Vicky was, I don't know.
- 23:18Speaker 2: I have not talked to Tamara about this. Please let
- 23:21Speaker 2: me preface with that. But in my mind, I'm sitting
- 23:23Speaker 2: there going, they did it. So it's going to be
- 23:26Speaker 2: aired in about four months. So what's it matter if
- 23:30Speaker 2: I bring it up with the girls, even though Vicky said,
- 23:32Speaker 2: don't tell anyone because why would Vicky have even done
- 23:34Speaker 2: it if she didn't want it to be aired?
- 23:36Speaker 3: But you're right.
- 23:37Speaker 2: Even though Vicky did say that and she did do
- 23:39Speaker 2: it on national television, she should, Tamara should not have
- 23:41Speaker 2: still said it. But that was just what went through
- 23:43Speaker 2: my mind when this all played out. The other thing is, yes,
- 23:47Speaker 2: Vicky flubbed up and should never have said those things
- 23:49Speaker 2: about Tamara. Like, and everyone thinks they know the story
- 23:54Speaker 2: between Tamara and her daughter and they don't really know it.
- 23:57Speaker 2: So yeah, definitely off limits there.
- 24:01Speaker 1: You're right. Yeah, and I also just think when it
- 24:03Speaker 1: comes to, here's the thing. Yes, if it's said on camera,
- 24:12Speaker 1: then there is a school of thought of, But it
- 24:16Speaker 1: happened on camera. So it's not a secret. I know,
- 24:19Speaker 1: I know. But I also think, hear me out. I
- 24:24Speaker 1: do also think that's why Vicky told her, don't say
- 24:27Speaker 1: anything because I know it's on camera and I know
- 24:30Speaker 1: what your rule is. You see what I'm saying? I
- 24:35Speaker 1: think that's why Vicky said it on camera. Like, I
- 24:37Speaker 1: know you. Because this is on camera, you feel the
- 24:41Speaker 1: need to tell people. But I'm asking you, don't tell people.
- 24:46Speaker 1: And I am on Vicky's side when it comes to
- 24:50Speaker 1: anything medical. Because Vicky's kind of a hypochondriac. You know
- 24:55Speaker 1: what I mean? I feel like she's... And I have... Listen,
- 24:59Speaker 1: the reason why I will say that is because I
- 25:01Speaker 1: recognize it. I have a little bit of that too.
- 25:03Speaker 2: If I.
- 25:05Speaker 1: I would say that. Yeah. I'm like, oh my gosh.
- 25:09Speaker 2: And I'm so not a hypochondriac. I'll go around with
- 25:12Speaker 2: my pinky dangling off.
- 25:13Speaker 1: I'll be like, oh no.
- 25:14Speaker 2: Your finger needs sewed back on.
- 25:15Speaker 3: Life's going to be like, oh really?
- 25:16Speaker 2: No.
- 25:17Speaker 1: Okay. Oh no, girl. Girl, I overdid it with pushups.
- 25:22Speaker 1: And girlfriend, I thought I was like in dire need
- 25:27Speaker 1: of a blood transfusion. I'm like, what is happening? Yeah.
- 25:32Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my God.
- 25:34Speaker 3: Call it up all your concierge doctors and IV people.
- 25:37Speaker 2: Bring me the IV. Oh, concierge doctor, I think I
- 25:39Speaker 2: tore my muscle. No, no, I broke my bite. I
- 25:41Speaker 2: broke my check pack.
- 25:42Speaker 1: I didn't. What's happening to me? I literally Googled it.
- 25:47Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm a hypochondriac. So that's why I get
- 25:50Speaker 1: Vicky like, I think Vicky saw that shit and said, Tamara,
- 25:55Speaker 1: you bitch. Don't say anything because I don't need this
- 25:58Speaker 1: fucking cast to use that against me. When they're trying
- 26:03Speaker 1: to shade me. Got it.
- 26:05Speaker 2: How many, first of all, how many weeks before you
- 26:07Speaker 2: did pushups again?
- 26:09Speaker 1: Oh, first of all, you want to laugh some more?
- 26:11Speaker 1: This happened Monday.
- 26:13Speaker 2: On your birthday week, you farted.
- 26:19Speaker 1: Yes.
- 26:19Speaker 2: Here I go.
- 26:23Speaker 1: It's just size. I'm getting old.
- 26:24Speaker 2: It's God reminding you. It is your birthday, Carlos. You
- 26:29Speaker 2: got to change a couple things of it. You know,
- 26:30Speaker 2: you got to eat less sugar. You got to drink
- 26:32Speaker 2: one less cocktail a week. You got to do one
- 26:34Speaker 2: less workout a week.
- 26:36Speaker 1: Oh, God. Getting old. My girl, I just, I need
- 26:39Speaker 1: some help. And I'm like, please, please, whatever you do,
- 26:41Speaker 1: help me. So, but I did feel that. But the
- 26:45Speaker 1: good thing is this. Tamara did approach Vicky and say,
- 26:49Speaker 1: let's talk. Because Vicky was avoiding her all night. And
- 26:54Speaker 1: Vicky got emotional and she's like, look, I don't want
- 27:00Speaker 1: you to say anything about my medical issues to anybody. Like,
- 27:04Speaker 1: I just I just don't want that. I don't need
- 27:06Speaker 1: that in my life. Look, I could barely walk down
- 27:08Speaker 1: the stairs. My knee hurts. You know what I mean? Like.
- 27:11Speaker 2: Let's focus on my knee, not my brain.
- 27:14Speaker 1: Exactly. Like, I don't mind people knowing that because I'm
- 27:16Speaker 1: in a wheelchair half the damn time. Or a fucking scooter. Hey,
- 27:21Speaker 1: Kim Zosiac. But the thing is, she's visibly upset about this.
- 27:28Speaker 1: And I get it. And I understand it. But I
- 27:33Speaker 1: do appreciate Tamra apologizing. Yeah. Saying, like, I get it.
- 27:40Speaker 1: And I'm sorry. Yeah.
- 27:42Speaker 3: And that's what you have to do.
- 27:43Speaker 1: That's what you have to do.
- 27:44Speaker 2: You have to make an excuse that she just said,
- 27:46Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
- 27:47Speaker 3: Shouldn't have done it.
- 27:48Speaker 1: Yeah. My bad, girl. Won't do it again.
- 27:50Speaker 2: All good. So I wish she would have said, though,
- 27:55Speaker 2: but Vicky, you should have done this with me off camera.
- 27:58Speaker 2: Then if you don't want it because it was going
- 27:59Speaker 2: to be.
- 28:01Speaker 1: Yes. No, exactly. Exactly. So I appreciate that from Tamara.
- 28:07Speaker 1: Now we got to get to Emily and Shane scene.
- 28:13Speaker 1: Oh boy. So at this party, Shane left early to
- 28:21Speaker 1: take care of the kids. And what we have learned
- 28:24Speaker 1: this season is Shane takes care of the kids. And
- 28:29Speaker 1: this is going to be a very interesting topic for
- 28:31Speaker 1: you and I to discuss because you, a stay-at-home mom
- 28:36Speaker 1: that was also a full-time reality star. And No one
- 28:41Speaker 1: to me can speak on this but you because you
- 28:44Speaker 1: lived this with young children when you started on the show. Shane,
- 28:52Speaker 1: and I'm saying this based on the scenes with Emily present.
- 28:55Speaker 1: So I'm not saying anything to mom Shane. I'm not
- 28:57Speaker 1: mom shaming. Emily has agreed that Shane takes on most
- 29:03Speaker 1: of the bulk of the work when it comes to
- 29:05Speaker 1: the children, right? She admits to that. He left the
- 29:09Speaker 1: party early. I got the kids. You hang out. Which translation?
- 29:14Speaker 1: You film. You're the housewife.
- 29:16Speaker 2: I'm not.
- 29:17Speaker 1: I'm letting you work. Which is why I did not
- 29:19Speaker 1: understand why Emily was being such a hard ass to Shane.
- 29:25Speaker 1: Because I felt like what Shane was saying to her is,
- 29:29Speaker 1: I've accepted that this is your job. And I've accepted
- 29:33Speaker 1: that this is a full-time job you love. You love it.
- 29:37Speaker 1: Let me take on some of the slack when it
- 29:39Speaker 1: comes to the kids. And I think when it comes
- 29:41Speaker 1: to Emily, I think Emily feels guilty because she's not
- 29:46Speaker 1: there and how that will make her look. And because
- 29:51Speaker 1: Shane isn't giving her attitude in some weird way, No, Emily,
- 29:58Speaker 1: Shane is not the one sitting in the complaining as
- 30:02Speaker 1: a martyr. That's you. You want him to yell at you.
- 30:06Speaker 1: You want him to be upset. You want him to
- 30:09Speaker 1: give you reason to stop. And he's not doing it
- 30:13Speaker 1: because he's accepted this dynamic now that you're a housewife.
- 30:16Speaker 1: And I feel like Shane is such a sweetheart to
- 30:20Speaker 1: do that because I don't know many husbands who would
- 30:23Speaker 1: take on the slack. But he does it without complaint.
- 30:26Speaker 1: And she takes it like, you're just not saying anything.
- 30:29Speaker 1: And I want you to talk to me. He's not
- 30:31Speaker 1: trying to argue with you because he's accepted it. He
- 30:34Speaker 1: doesn't mind doing it. But you want him to argue.
- 30:38Speaker 1: And I felt like what Emily was doing in that
- 30:40Speaker 1: scene was trying to flip how she feels. Yes. You
- 30:47Speaker 1: feel guilty as a mother. So right.
- 30:50Speaker 2: I didn't think of it that way. But when you
- 30:52Speaker 2: think back to that scene.
- 30:55Speaker 2: You're so right.
- 30:56Speaker 3: She's portraying or projecting.
- 31:00Speaker 1: Projecting.
- 31:00Speaker 2: Projecting is the word. Because I totally didn't look at
- 31:04Speaker 2: it that way. What I looked at it is she
- 31:06Speaker 2: has resting bitch face.
- 31:07Speaker 3: She's never happy. She doesn't like her marriage. She doesn't
- 31:09Speaker 3: like her job.
- 31:09Speaker 2: She doesn't like anything. That's how I took it. But
- 31:12Speaker 2: it's not that. You're right. She is projecting on him
- 31:15Speaker 2: because she feels guilty and she wants to somehow turn
- 31:19Speaker 2: it back on him. That is.
- 31:21Speaker 1: Wow. Wow.
- 31:23Speaker 2: She wants to somehow be like, oh, no, it's you, Shane.
- 31:25Speaker 3: You're the problem. When really, all of it's.
- 31:27Speaker 2: Internal in her.
- 31:28Speaker 1: Yes.
- 31:29Speaker 2: Yes. She got a new body. And now what?
- 31:34Speaker 3: Do you want a new husband? Like, is that what
- 31:35Speaker 3: you're trying to shoot him out the door?
- 31:36Speaker 1: I don't know. Can we talk? Okay. I do think
- 31:44Speaker 1: she wants a new husband. Well... Wow.
- 31:49Speaker 2: I was just kind of saying that because I was
- 31:50Speaker 2: like going down the list of things. I'm like, well,
- 31:52Speaker 2: she's got all these things going for her. Why is
- 31:54Speaker 2: she picking on him? Okay, hold on. You know what
- 31:55Speaker 2: she said about me? You know what she said about
- 31:57Speaker 2: me that was brought onto this?
- 31:59Speaker 1: Hold on.
- 32:00Speaker 3: She goes, every pot needs a lid or something like that.
- 32:04Speaker 1: No, no, no. I got it, girls. I wrote it down.
- 32:06Speaker 1: Every trash can needs a lid.
- 32:10Speaker 3: Every girl wants a trust fund kid.
- 32:12Speaker 2: She found Shane and now it's backfiring on her.
- 32:14Speaker 1: Oh!
- 32:19Speaker 3: If you think she wants a new husband... Oh, my God.
- 32:22Speaker 3: Carlos left the scene.
- 32:23Speaker 1: Oh, God.
- 32:24Speaker 3: The podcast's over.
- 32:25Speaker 2: What?
- 32:25Speaker 3: What are you.
- 32:28Speaker 2: Well, I'm just saying, like, I can't even believe you
- 32:30Speaker 2: thought that. What are you doing? I do not know
- 32:33Speaker 2: what you're doing, but you're freaking me out right now.
- 32:35Speaker 3: Please sit down.
- 32:37Speaker 1: You... That's called a dance because, baby, you are stepping
- 32:43Speaker 1: all over the floor with that.
- 32:44Speaker 2: I mean... But why? I can't believe it. I mean,
- 32:49Speaker 2: why is she putting so much anger towards him when
- 32:51Speaker 2: he does seem like he's just literally picking up the
- 32:53Speaker 2: pieces and trying to do the best he can and
- 32:55Speaker 2: gave up his career to help?
- 32:57Speaker 3: What's that?
- 32:58Speaker 1: What does that mean? Tie me in when you're ready. Okay, go. Yes.
- 33:01Speaker 4: Okay, Carlos, go.
- 33:02Speaker 1: Okay. Emily wants a new husband and she wants Shane
- 33:07Speaker 1: to yell at her on camera so that when she
- 33:10Speaker 1: files for divorce, she has evidence because she's a lawyer
- 33:13Speaker 1: and And she needs proof and evidence as a lawyer
- 33:16Speaker 1: to present her case to the judge and to the audience,
- 33:20Speaker 1: which are the court of public opinion and the court
- 33:25Speaker 1: of law that I'm divorcing my husband because you see
- 33:28Speaker 1: that he yells at me and he resents me from working.
- 33:31Speaker 1: And that's a storyline she needs to have in order
- 33:33Speaker 1: to feel comfortable filing the divorce papers so that she
- 33:37Speaker 1: can show people in her life this is why i'm
- 33:41Speaker 1: doing it and shane isn't falling for the okie doke
- 33:44Speaker 1: because he's smarter than you now granted he passed the
- 33:47Speaker 1: bar after 10 times of trying it but he he
- 33:51Speaker 1: he knows what you're doing and he's not falling for
- 33:53Speaker 1: your trick that's why he's like answer the door you
- 33:56Speaker 1: want to talk to them instead of like dealing with this.
- 34:00Speaker 2: Oh my god i cannot even if emily wants a
- 34:04Speaker 2: divorce if you.
- 34:08Speaker 3: Okay i'm sorry america.
- 34:09Speaker 2: I don't i never knew you thought this or this
- 34:14Speaker 2: was going here and i didn't see listen i am
- 34:17Speaker 2: in no you're right that's.
- 34:20Speaker 1: Why you're my favorite the thing is this alexis jansen
- 34:24Speaker 1: what it's been bubbling up my thoughts of this like
- 34:29Speaker 1: You're so mean to this guy. Like, what is it?
- 34:34Speaker 2: And his family's paying for you, girlfriend. Your job ain't
- 34:37Speaker 2: paying a ton.
- 34:37Speaker 3: It's his mom and dad taking care of y'all.
- 34:40Speaker 2: Why are you being mean to the guy that's putting
- 34:42Speaker 2: the bread on your table?
- 34:43Speaker 1: Okay, Vicky, you got the wrong bitch. It's not Terry
- 34:47Speaker 1: Dubrow that's a trust funder. It's fucking Emily Simpson.
- 34:52Speaker 2: No, it's Shane.
- 34:53Speaker 3: It's not Emily.
- 34:54Speaker 2: Well, no, courtesy, Vicky.
- 34:56Speaker 1: It's Shane. Shane is a trust fund, baby, not Terry.
- 35:00Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 35:04Speaker 1: And Emily Simpson is a conduit of it. Let me
- 35:08Speaker 1: tell you something. I see right through Emily Simpson. Emily,
- 35:14Speaker 1: because it's so typical of some, not all, some reality stars.
- 35:22Speaker 1: When Emily started the show, she looks extremely different than
- 35:25Speaker 1: she does now.
- 35:29Speaker 2: But she still wasn't happy then either. And she's still
- 35:31Speaker 2: not happy now. So nothing changed.
- 35:35Speaker 1: Well, things changed. Physically. It's because the.
- 35:41Speaker 2: Inside needs work. She needs to go get a facelift inside, okay?
- 35:44Speaker 2: It's got to go into your core. Jesus Christ in
- 35:48Speaker 2: your life.
- 35:51Speaker 1: We need to see if there's white cells floating around
- 35:53Speaker 1: that brain.
- 35:56Speaker 2: Well, probably mine too, okay? My mom had a brain disease.
- 36:02Speaker 2: I don't even want to go get that scan because
- 36:03Speaker 2: if I've got anything my mom had, I'm going to
- 36:05Speaker 2: be taking a bottle of Ambien night-night. Y'all love y'all.
- 36:08Speaker 2: Do not go through what my mom went through.
- 36:10Speaker 3: I don't want you to watch what happened to my
- 36:11Speaker 3: mom happen to me.
- 36:12Speaker 1: Yes, yes. All jokes aside, I think because Emily looks
- 36:18Speaker 1: like a different person, I think her confidence is... I
- 36:26Speaker 1: think her confidence feels like she can do better than Shane.
- 36:32Speaker 3: So sad.
- 36:32Speaker 1: I know. You know what, Carlos?
- 36:35Speaker 2: Thinking about this on an outsider, They haven't ever... I
- 36:39Speaker 2: said this last week or the week before. They haven't
- 36:41Speaker 2: ever really had that lovey-dovey kind of... Neither of them.
- 36:46Speaker 2: I'm sure Shane doesn't want to lose his kids. No
- 36:49Speaker 2: one wants a divorce. I feel really bad going there
- 36:52Speaker 2: about that, but you're the one.
- 36:53Speaker 1: No, I went there.
- 36:54Speaker 2: I know, but I feel bad because I come from that.
- 36:56Speaker 2: I had to share my kids 50% for a year
- 36:58Speaker 2: of my life, and it was the worst fucking year
- 37:00Speaker 2: of my life. Sorry I said the F-bomb, but I
- 37:02Speaker 2: will drop the F-bomb for something like that.
- 37:04Speaker 3: It was the worst year ever.
- 37:05Speaker 1: But I....
- 37:08Speaker 2: I just don't think he would want to go there
- 37:11Speaker 2: and I would never wish this upon them. I hope
- 37:14Speaker 2: that this isn't the case. And maybe they were just
- 37:16Speaker 2: trying to make good TV and it flopped because Carlos
- 37:18Speaker 2: King read right through it.
- 37:20Speaker 1: But I don't know. I'm just saying, she's so mean
- 37:27Speaker 1: to him that everybody in America is sort of like,
- 37:32Speaker 1: I'm trying to find out what he did to deserve it.
- 37:34Speaker 1: We're all kind of confused.
- 37:36Speaker 2: Like, right.
- 37:37Speaker 1: I don't get it. We don't know a lot of
- 37:40Speaker 1: husbands who don't mind taking the slack and is telling
- 37:44Speaker 1: you without saying to you, you have to film. It's okay.
- 37:49Speaker 1: I'll go stay in work this. So that's how I felt.
- 37:54Speaker 2: By the way, Carlos, no husband, mark my words for
- 37:58Speaker 2: when we get to the scene with John and I,
- 37:59Speaker 2: no husband really wants to be there.
- 38:01Speaker 3: They are doing it for their wife.
- 38:02Speaker 2: So Shane actually went home.
- 38:04Speaker 1: Besides Terry Dubrow.
- 38:06Speaker 2: No, I don't even, I think he even, he likes
- 38:07Speaker 2: the camera. Yeah, but I even think he, I mean,
- 38:09Speaker 2: they walk away. Anytime the cameras come on, the women talking,
- 38:12Speaker 2: all the husbands scatter like ants.
- 38:14Speaker 3: Like they're like, bye.
- 38:15Speaker 2: You know, but I don't think Shane was like, oh gosh,
- 38:18Speaker 2: I have to go home and leave the party.
- 38:20Speaker 3: I think he was probably like, God, thank God I
- 38:21Speaker 3: get to go home.
- 38:22Speaker 2: You know, like.
- 38:22Speaker 1: Yes, yes.
- 38:24Speaker 2: I don't want to.
- 38:24Speaker 3: You're the one on TV, not me.
- 38:25Speaker 2: You're filming. I'm not, you know, kind of thing. So
- 38:28Speaker 2: he's a good guy.
- 38:30Speaker 3: I like Shane. And I think he's funny and witty.
- 38:32Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 38:32Speaker 3: I've always.
- 38:33Speaker 1: I like him, too. And the thing is this. I've
- 38:35Speaker 1: always liked him because I always got his sarcasm. Uh-huh.
- 38:39Speaker 3: I think you have to be able to do that, though.
- 38:41Speaker 2: You have to be able to do sarcasm. It's dry.
- 38:43Speaker 2: It's dry humor.
- 38:43Speaker 1: It's dry.
- 38:44Speaker 2: And not everybody can understand that.
- 38:46Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay. So... Tamara has a party to celebrate the
- 38:55Speaker 1: new product of her line.
- 38:56Speaker 2: Are we not going to say one word about Emily
- 38:59Speaker 2: Simpson's husband's parents' party? And the $ 120, 000 at least they
- 39:04Speaker 2: spent on that party?
- 39:05Speaker 3: I did the math.
- 39:07Speaker 1: Let's talk about it.
- 39:08Speaker 2: No, we don't have to. We don't have to waste
- 39:09Speaker 2: the time. But I'm just saying, I just wanted to
- 39:11Speaker 2: give the parents props. That was at least a $ 120, 000 party.
- 39:15Speaker 2: The champagne girl alone, because I had a champagne tower
- 39:17Speaker 2: at my 40th. And the champagne tower, I don't know
- 39:19Speaker 2: what you have to pay to have one twirling around
- 39:22Speaker 2: in a diamond, but my champagne tower was like 15,000
- 39:24Speaker 2: to have the girl come stand and you have the champagne,
- 39:27Speaker 2: they should pour the champagne. And it's like this huge
- 39:29Speaker 2: arch or whatever, 10, maybe 10,000. I don't something around there.
- 39:31Speaker 1: It was a lot.
- 39:33Speaker 3: So I did the.
- 39:33Speaker 2: Math of this party and they dropped a hundred thousand plus.
- 39:39Speaker 3: And it was gorgeous. Was that party not insane?
- 39:42Speaker 1: It was absolutely stunning. And listen, it just goes to
- 39:46Speaker 1: show you that, Hey, They absolutely did something right. I'm
- 39:59Speaker 1: all for it. I'm all for it. I love it.
- 40:01Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. I love it. So
- 40:03Speaker 1: there you go. There you go. Okay. So Tamara's party.
- 40:12Speaker 1: It was a reunion of sorts. You know, we got
- 40:15Speaker 1: a chance to see a lot of former housewives show up.
- 40:18Speaker 1: We got Joe. Elizabeth Vargas is there. It was a
- 40:24Speaker 1: lot of people that, you know, we know and love
- 40:28Speaker 1: that showed up.
- 40:29Speaker 2: Like 20. It was like a lot. I mean, Fernanda.
- 40:34Speaker 2: There's a lot.
- 40:34Speaker 3: There's a lot of women.
- 40:36Speaker 1: Yes, a lot of women. And look, we're celebrating 20 seasons.
- 40:40Speaker 1: And I thought this was a great show. opportunity to
- 40:44Speaker 1: show all of the former housewives to celebrate Tamra, who
- 40:49Speaker 1: is our season three OG. Alexis.
- 40:54Speaker 3: With a couple of resting years, but yeah.
- 40:57Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 40:58Speaker 1: You know, two, but who's counting? Alexis shows up with
- 41:05Speaker 1: her husband, John. I'm talking about you like you're not
- 41:09Speaker 1: even here.
- 41:11Speaker 2: Well, this is where it's going to get weird, guys.
- 41:13Speaker 2: You got to forgive me and stay with me on
- 41:15Speaker 2: this because I've never podcast.
- 41:16Speaker 3: About one of my own episodes before.
- 41:18Speaker 2: So I don't know how this is going to play out.
- 41:21Speaker 2: I don't, I don't know.
- 41:22Speaker 3: Just God be with me. Lord have mercy.
- 41:25Speaker 1: So Alexis is there and you look gorgeous. You with John.
- 41:32Speaker 1: He looks handsome. You, you know, you're talking to Tamara.
- 41:37Speaker 1: Tamara's like, did you not speak to Heather? And you're like,
- 41:42Speaker 1: what are you talking about? Like, I gave kisses. You know,
- 41:45Speaker 1: I gave kisses. And the cameras flashed back to you
- 41:49Speaker 1: giving kisses, you know, when Heather waved and said hi
- 41:52Speaker 1: to you from a distance.
- 41:54Speaker 2: But what did you see at first when the cameras
- 41:57Speaker 2: were on me when they showed Heather and then they
- 41:59Speaker 2: showed me?
- 42:00Speaker 3: What did you see?
- 42:01Speaker 1: So when they first showed you and they showed Heather,
- 42:06Speaker 1: it did appear that you did not speak.
- 42:11Speaker 2: So what happened at that moment is I was getting
- 42:14Speaker 2: ready to walk and production behind the camera was like,
- 42:18Speaker 2: one of the producers was like, you guys have to wait.
- 42:20Speaker 2: You're in hold right now.
- 42:21Speaker 3: You're in the holding.
- 42:22Speaker 2: You know the proper term for that. So then I
- 42:24Speaker 2: go like this and I back up and I'm like, okay.
- 42:26Speaker 2: And I'm like, okay, so I'm.
- 42:26Speaker 3: Not walking now.
- 42:27Speaker 2: So in my mind, by the way, Carlos, I want
- 42:30Speaker 2: to preface this entire segment of the podcast with, I
- 42:35Speaker 2: was nervous as hell to go to that party. I
- 42:37Speaker 2: did not want to go because of what had happened
- 42:39Speaker 2: with what was shown on season 18. So I didn't
- 42:43Speaker 2: want it to happen again where it wasn't a full
- 42:45Speaker 2: scene shown. I didn't even mic up Carlos. I walked
- 42:49Speaker 2: into that party and I signed the waiver, which was
- 42:52Speaker 2: my mistake. I should not have signed it. I signed
- 42:54Speaker 2: the waiver and then they go, okay, Alexis, come over here.
- 42:56Speaker 3: We're going to mic you. We're so excited to see you.
- 42:57Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
- 42:57Speaker 3: I go, I'm not going to mic up guys. I'm
- 42:59Speaker 3: just here for Tamara. I'm not going to mic up.
- 43:01Speaker 2: I did not even put a mic on because I
- 43:03Speaker 2: was there to support Tamara. I'm fine if I'm in
- 43:05Speaker 2: the background waving. I'm fine. So then they follow me
- 43:08Speaker 2: the entire effing time with a boom. And I was like, okay,
- 43:12Speaker 2: this is really annoying. Like, why are you, I'm not
- 43:14Speaker 2: here to be any spectacle. I'm not a paid cast member.
- 43:18Speaker 2: I'm just here to support my girlfriend and her job.
- 43:20Speaker 2: And I almost backed out. three times from coming to
- 43:23Speaker 2: the party and Tamara begged me to come. So let's
- 43:25Speaker 2: preface it with that. So then we're there and we're
- 43:28Speaker 2: getting ready to walk up and I see everybody coming
- 43:30Speaker 2: out and I'm seeing the carpet that I have to
- 43:32Speaker 2: go be a part of. And as we're walking, they
- 43:35Speaker 2: then go, oh no, no, hold on, Lex, hold on
- 43:36Speaker 2: for a second.
- 43:36Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh, okay.
- 43:37Speaker 2: So then I back up and then I get closer
- 43:39Speaker 2: to John and move this way because I'm supposed to stop.
- 43:41Speaker 2: That was what you see when I kind of look down.
- 43:44Speaker 2: Then when I regain myself and everything's there, that's when
- 43:47Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, hi everybody. Okay, yeah, like I'll be
- 43:49Speaker 2: down in a second. Like I'm coming, they have me holding.
- 43:52Speaker 2: There you go.
- 43:54Speaker 3: Continue with your questions.
- 43:57Speaker 1: Okay. Let me ask you this first. Why were you
- 44:00Speaker 1: reluctant in showing up to this event?
- 44:05Speaker 2: Because of, well, first of all, it's like, you know,
- 44:08Speaker 2: I knew all the cast were going to be there.
- 44:10Speaker 2: And I'm friends with 95 of 100 of the people
- 44:13Speaker 2: at that party. There's 100 people at that party. 95
- 44:14Speaker 2: of them I get along with. There's a couple that
- 44:17Speaker 2: are obviously friends. anti me from season 18 or team
- 44:21Speaker 2: Shannon or whatever it is, which I don't even understand it.
- 44:23Speaker 2: You don't have to be team anybody at 50 years old.
- 44:25Speaker 3: We can just be happy with.
- 44:27Speaker 2: Whoever we like. But, um, so I was just like, Tamara,
- 44:30Speaker 2: I don't want to cause a scene there. I don't want,
- 44:32Speaker 2: I know, you know, Shannon's going to muffle under her breath.
- 44:34Speaker 3: Of course, like she did.
- 44:36Speaker 2: I'm like, we're old. I've been married a year now.
- 44:38Speaker 2: I are, you know, I've been married seven months at
- 44:40Speaker 2: that point, six months. I don't want to make anything
- 44:42Speaker 2: of your party about me coming in.
- 44:44Speaker 3: I just don't.
- 44:45Speaker 2: And she was like, no, no, no, no, no. So
- 44:46Speaker 2: in my mind, when we're going there in the Uber,
- 44:48Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm just not going.
- 44:50Speaker 3: To mic up, babe.
- 44:52Speaker 2: And we'll just be there and we'll just have fun.
- 44:53Speaker 2: And we'll just be there to support Tamara. They can
- 44:55Speaker 2: show me you in the background. I won't mic up
- 44:58Speaker 2: because I don't want to be involved in any of
- 44:59Speaker 2: the drama. So now continue and you'll understand more as
- 45:02Speaker 2: we progress.
- 45:04Speaker 1: Okay. So after they flash back to that, they do
- 45:09Speaker 1: cut to... They cut to Tamara then telling Heather... Are
- 45:18Speaker 1: you mad at Alexis? What's going on? And she's like,
- 45:24Speaker 1: what are you talking about? And Tamara's like, you should
- 45:28Speaker 1: go talk to her. So then, no, no, no, I'm sorry,
- 45:33Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I went too far. Before that, Tamara is
- 45:36Speaker 1: trying to ask you, what's happening? And you say, Tamara,
- 45:42Speaker 1: I'm not doing this. I'm not doing this. And then
- 45:46Speaker 1: you proceed to leave. Talk to us about that. Because
- 45:50Speaker 1: as a producer, what I got from that moment was...
- 45:54Speaker 1: And listen, let's be honest here. And this is no
- 45:57Speaker 1: shade to Tamara. I do feel like you probably felt
- 46:01Speaker 1: in that moment, Tamara, don't try to give this moment
- 46:05Speaker 1: a scene. I'm not here to work. I'm not getting
- 46:08Speaker 1: paid to be here. I'm not a housewife. I'm here
- 46:11Speaker 1: to support you. I don't even have a microphone on. Like,
- 46:15Speaker 1: don't do this. Do not make this a moment to
- 46:17Speaker 1: where there's drama at my expense.
- 46:20Speaker 2: A million percent. And because I was already so nervous
- 46:23Speaker 2: to go at the beginning, I just, the minute that
- 46:25Speaker 2: that happened, I'd literally only been there for, so what
- 46:28Speaker 2: you didn't see is, which I'll post next week. They
- 46:31Speaker 2: have this little red carpet when you first get there.
- 46:32Speaker 2: And so you go and you do a little drink
- 46:34Speaker 2: from the can. There's nothing in there, by the way.
- 46:35Speaker 2: I never had one drop of her THC. God, I
- 46:38Speaker 2: wish I would have, because maybe I wouldn't have cried.
- 46:40Speaker 2: but I didn't have one drop of it. They give
- 46:42Speaker 2: you the can to act like you're drinking and it's
- 46:43Speaker 2: all for promo, right?
- 46:44Speaker 3: It's all for fun.
- 46:45Speaker 2: And so I did the red carpet, had a bunch
- 46:46Speaker 2: of fun, had a lot of laughs, talked a lot.
- 46:49Speaker 2: And then I'm back to holding up spot number two. Okay.
- 46:52Speaker 1: That's it.
- 46:52Speaker 2: Holding spot number two is where Tamara comes to me
- 46:54Speaker 2: and goes, did you give Heather a dirty look? And
- 46:56Speaker 2: I said, I am not doing this. And that's when
- 46:59Speaker 2: I looked at, in my mind, I was like, I
- 47:01Speaker 2: instantly almost tears came because I was like, here we are.
- 47:04Speaker 3: I didn't mic up.
- 47:05Speaker 2: I didn't want to come to have any kind of
- 47:07Speaker 2: national television spotting just other than a high in the
- 47:10Speaker 2: background like I'm in the I'm like a fly on
- 47:12Speaker 2: the wall kind of thing and so that's when I
- 47:14Speaker 2: tap Jim and I or John excuse me before I
- 47:16Speaker 2: didn't sleep I tap John and say honey I'm out
- 47:20Speaker 2: I'm done and he you know he he was calm
- 47:23Speaker 2: cool and collected of course but like I was already
- 47:25Speaker 2: spiraling at that point because I was like I never
- 47:27Speaker 2: should have come I knew it my gut told me
- 47:29Speaker 2: in the car always listen to your gut and I
- 47:32Speaker 2: knew I shouldn't have gone And so that's why, yeah.
- 47:34Speaker 2: So that's where that happens. And you're absolutely right about it.
- 47:37Speaker 2: Everything you said, I didn't want to give a moment.
- 47:40Speaker 2: I didn't want to have any light drawn to that.
- 47:42Speaker 2: If I gave her a dirty look or not, who
- 47:43Speaker 2: cares if I would have fucking flipped her off?
- 47:45Speaker 3: Like, I don't care.
- 47:46Speaker 2: Just don't, I don't want to have a part of this,
- 47:48Speaker 2: any of the scenery. I don't want to be, I
- 47:50Speaker 2: shouldn't have gone is the bottom line. So I'll take
- 47:52Speaker 2: responsibility for it.
- 47:56Speaker 1: When you saw Tamra, go talk to Heather and tell Heather,
- 48:02Speaker 1: because at this point you left and you're visibly upset, right?
- 48:08Speaker 1: You're getting emotional. Then we see Tamara tell Heather while
- 48:12Speaker 1: she's around Shannon, where Shannon left a comment about the
- 48:16Speaker 1: trash can comment, which by the way, when you heard
- 48:22Speaker 1: what Shannon said about you, did that piss you off?
- 48:26Speaker 2: Well, Emily's the one that made the comment about the
- 48:29Speaker 2: trash can. But I was just laughing about Shannon because
- 48:31Speaker 2: it's like, oh, my God, I'm married to him. Like,
- 48:33Speaker 2: I know you don't have a boyfriend, but get over us. Like,
- 48:36Speaker 2: just stop talking about it. Like, so I kind of
- 48:38Speaker 2: chuckled at that scene because I'm like, oh, my God,
- 48:40Speaker 2: she's still. First of all, why are they even talking
- 48:42Speaker 2: about me in the car ride? Like, Heather had it
- 48:44Speaker 2: out for me from the beginning in the car. She's
- 48:46Speaker 2: telling Terry, oh, Alexis is going to show up. Maybe
- 48:50Speaker 2: Alexis is gone. And she's like, I was like, you know.
- 48:52Speaker 2: She must have had this already in her mind that
- 48:55Speaker 2: she was going to make something about me. But by
- 48:58Speaker 2: the way, Carlos, I didn't know filming that, that this
- 49:00Speaker 2: was going to be a boring season and that she
- 49:02Speaker 2: needed something to, someone to kick while they're all, you know,
- 49:04Speaker 2: like to kick to make it a better season. So
- 49:06Speaker 2: then I got it and I was like, oh, you're welcome, everybody.
- 49:08Speaker 2: You should be glad I showed up. You're welcome for
- 49:11Speaker 2: the ratings and for the fact that I was a
- 49:12Speaker 2: total train wreck because I didn't want to be a
- 49:15Speaker 2: part of it. But I didn't see, I didn't see
- 49:20Speaker 2: Tamara go talk to Heather. I just went outside and
- 49:22Speaker 2: John and I were in the process of calling an Uber.
- 49:24Speaker 2: Cause when you're not a castmate, you don't get a
- 49:25Speaker 2: car to bring you to the event. Right.
- 49:27Speaker 3: So we had to Uber ourselves, a black car. So
- 49:30Speaker 3: I was trying to black.
- 49:31Speaker 2: Car as home.
- 49:32Speaker 3: And then, you know, that's when Heather came back outside.
- 49:36Speaker 3: So that's when you.
- 49:38Speaker 1: Yeah. So then Heather, Well, I do know the audience
- 49:42Speaker 1: wants me to ask you this first before I proceed
- 49:44Speaker 1: to what happened outside. When you saw Tamara encourage Heather
- 49:51Speaker 1: to talk to you, did you feel that Tamara was
- 49:58Speaker 1: trying to make a moment happen between the two of you?
- 50:01Speaker 2: No, I think, and I haven't talked to Tamara about this,
- 50:03Speaker 2: by the way. They're filming the reunion today and I
- 50:05Speaker 2: just watched the episode last night, so I haven't talked
- 50:07Speaker 2: to her, but We texted a little bit last night,
- 50:09Speaker 2: but I know she's in a mental place. So I
- 50:10Speaker 2: didn't want to call her and ask her about any
- 50:12Speaker 2: of the scene. But I took it as Tamara was
- 50:16Speaker 2: really literally trying to get Heather because Tamara knew or
- 50:18Speaker 2: thought that Heather and I are somewhat amicable and we
- 50:21Speaker 2: could like work it through. I think she was just like,
- 50:23Speaker 2: just go out and tell Alexis. Don't I don't want
- 50:25Speaker 2: Alexis to leave. Just go get her and tell her
- 50:26Speaker 2: to come back in. It was Heather's the way she
- 50:29Speaker 2: handled it that I then, you know, reacted even more
- 50:34Speaker 2: about it.
- 50:35Speaker 1: So. So what happened was Heather comes out and in
- 50:45Speaker 1: this moment, which is so interesting because you're visibly upset
- 50:52Speaker 1: and Heather did make a comment and I do want
- 50:56Speaker 1: to get your thoughts on this because I was curious
- 50:59Speaker 1: if you felt that Heather was trying to do a
- 51:04Speaker 1: dig And this is what you guys exchange was about, okay?
- 51:10Speaker 1: So you say that, so Heather's like, you didn't speak
- 51:18Speaker 1: to me. Alexis says, you're so caught up in your
- 51:21Speaker 1: world that you, and before you could finish, Heather interrupts
- 51:27Speaker 1: you and says, and spins it out in the press.
- 51:32Speaker 1: And then you're like, you know what, girl? What did
- 51:36Speaker 1: Heather mean by that? What comment is she referring to
- 51:39Speaker 1: that she feels you take on the press?
- 51:41Speaker 2: She will remember when they were back inside. I'm not
- 51:45Speaker 2: sure because I don't talk to Heather. Obviously, you know,
- 51:46Speaker 2: we were not made up. But she back inside, she said, oh, well,
- 51:52Speaker 2: Alexis got mad at.
- 51:52Speaker 3: Me because I'll watch what happens live.
- 51:54Speaker 2: I said it was a hard I'm trying to remember everything.
- 51:57Speaker 2: So forgive me if I don't have it perfect. It
- 51:59Speaker 2: was a hard it was a hard invite that she
- 52:01Speaker 2: gave me for the wedding. because I'm friends with Shannon and, and, and,
- 52:05Speaker 2: and what she left out of that is on watch
- 52:07Speaker 2: what happens live. Not only did she say it's a
- 52:09Speaker 2: hard invite, she also said at another time, well, John
- 52:12Speaker 2: and Alexis, we're not really, Terry and I aren't really
- 52:14Speaker 2: friends with John and Alexis. Although I have videos and
- 52:18Speaker 2: as a couple, what the hell does that even mean?
- 52:20Speaker 2: Like we, we had been out many times, not work related,
- 52:23Speaker 2: but just out in settings. So whatever. I obviously was
- 52:27Speaker 2: very wrong about thinking that Heather was ever my friend.
- 52:30Speaker 2: And I want.
- 52:31Speaker 1: To say for the record, you invited her to your wedding.
- 52:35Speaker 2: But also when I got married, she only started not
- 52:38Speaker 2: liking me when the audience started not liking me. Like
- 52:40Speaker 2: we were very close even during filming. We were, you know,
- 52:44Speaker 2: she was trying to be there. We were on the
- 52:46Speaker 2: phone nonstop. The reason she had information that she disclosed
- 52:49Speaker 2: she never should have is because we were on the
- 52:51Speaker 2: phone as friends with John and I with her talking
- 52:54Speaker 2: about things and she had private information. And so, you know,
- 52:59Speaker 2: all of it's kind of just really effed up because
- 53:01Speaker 2: of the fact that she's inside and she says those
- 53:03Speaker 2: things on Watch What Happens Live. And then she goes,
- 53:05Speaker 2: so Alexis decides to go on a press tour and
- 53:08Speaker 2: call me feckless. And I'm like, OK, I didn't go
- 53:11Speaker 2: on a press tour and I'm not looking for fame.
- 53:14Speaker 3: Maybe that's projection.
- 53:15Speaker 2: But I went on Tamara's podcast. I simply went on
- 53:18Speaker 2: one podcast. Who's my good friend and had a podcast
- 53:21Speaker 2: and her name got brought up. And that's a world
- 53:24Speaker 2: tour of, of press tour. No, sweetheart.
- 53:27Speaker 3: I didn't go to page six KTLA.
- 53:29Speaker 2: I didn't do the whole thing that Bravo sets you
- 53:31Speaker 2: up for. I went on one podcast, said something that's
- 53:34Speaker 2: somewhat true about you.
- 53:35Speaker 3: You didn't like it.
- 53:36Speaker 2: So now you're really going to hate me even more
- 53:38Speaker 2: and go after me because you have the platform, whatever.
- 53:40Speaker 2: So when I was outside, I'm sitting there going, Oh,
- 53:43Speaker 2: you're going to take that one little podcast.
- 53:46Speaker 3: I'd already heard.
- 53:46Speaker 2: She thought I was on a press tour because she
- 53:48Speaker 2: said it before another. And I'm like, okay, you, you're,
- 53:52Speaker 2: completely senile at this point. Like there's nothing about me
- 53:55Speaker 2: doing a press tour. I simply called her feckless on
- 53:57Speaker 2: one thing, meaning she lacks initiative, like character, like a
- 54:01Speaker 2: little bit of character. Um, because of the fact that
- 54:03Speaker 2: she couldn't just say, why can't you be friends and
- 54:06Speaker 2: go to a wedding?
- 54:07Speaker 3: Even though you're friends with Shannon, I'm like, we're 50
- 54:09Speaker 3: year old women. We are, I'm sorry.
- 54:11Speaker 1: She's older.
- 54:12Speaker 2: We are over 50 year old women. Why the hell
- 54:15Speaker 2: are we still worried about whose wedding we go to?
- 54:17Speaker 2: And if it's okay, if another friend, if any friend
- 54:19Speaker 2: tells me who I can and cannot be friends with,
- 54:21Speaker 2: there's the door.
- 54:23Speaker 1: Okay.
- 54:23Speaker 2: Like I said to Shannon, but door, there's the door.
- 54:26Speaker 2: If you want to tell me who my friends are
- 54:27Speaker 2: going to be. So I don't know. I'm baffled by
- 54:31Speaker 2: the whole scene. It really ticked me off. I was
- 54:34Speaker 2: bad then. And what's funny is watching it back. I'm
- 54:36Speaker 2: just as mad now.
- 54:37Speaker 3: Cause it is true.
- 54:38Speaker 2: It's like, why, why do I owe you an excuse?
- 54:40Speaker 2: Why do I owe you anything?
- 54:41Speaker 3: When she walks outside like, oh, why did you not
- 54:43Speaker 3: tell me?
- 54:43Speaker 2: Did you give me? If you would have just done this,
- 54:46Speaker 2: then it would have been OK.
- 54:48Speaker 1: Well, I'm sorry.
- 54:48Speaker 3: You are not Mary of Jesus. I'm sorry.
- 54:50Speaker 2: It's like I don't owe you anything. You thought I
- 54:53Speaker 2: gave you a dirty look. Well, I think you're being
- 54:54Speaker 2: mean to me right now. And I think you were
- 55:01Speaker 2: just using me for a plot. Do you want me
- 55:03Speaker 2: to say that? I think you were just using me.
- 55:05Speaker 2: I'm another guinea pig. I'm not a cast member. It
- 55:07Speaker 2: makes you, it's easy for you to just use me
- 55:10Speaker 2: and John because, oh, we're there and oh, we're stirring
- 55:12Speaker 2: it up. And by the way, my husband didn't even
- 55:15Speaker 2: want to go. I had to pay him under the
- 55:16Speaker 2: table to go.
- 55:17Speaker 1: We're in favor.
- 55:24Speaker 3: Literally under the table.
- 55:30Speaker 1: And that's why you're celebrating your anniversary tomorrow.
- 55:33Speaker 2: And we are on our anniversary.
- 55:37Speaker 1: Okay. Cause you know how to keep a man happy, honey. Yes.
- 55:42Speaker 1: I will say this cause you raise a good point.
- 55:44Speaker 1: You raise a good point. And this is why I
- 55:46Speaker 1: love not just having you to talk about, you know,
- 55:49Speaker 1: this show, but, But particularly this scene, because I don't
- 55:55Speaker 1: think the audience understands that when you see one thing,
- 55:59Speaker 1: it means more than what meets the eye. I'm glad
- 56:01Speaker 1: you brought the fact that in the car, Heather brought
- 56:03Speaker 1: your name up. Well, you know, Alexis is going to
- 56:06Speaker 1: be there because I want you guys to really understand
- 56:10Speaker 1: what Alexis is saying. She's saying is, I'm not a
- 56:13Speaker 1: cast member. I'm not a storyline this season. I'm just
- 56:18Speaker 1: going to support Tamra. Heather took her opportunity with cameras
- 56:22Speaker 1: in the car to bring up Alexis and, oh my gosh,
- 56:26Speaker 1: I'm going to see her and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah,
- 56:29Speaker 1: which sets up what's to come. And I need you
- 56:33Speaker 1: guys to put on your producer hat. What Heather was
- 56:36Speaker 1: doing in the car was setting up a potential moment
- 56:41Speaker 1: between her and Alexis. And that's why, guys, when Alexis
- 56:46Speaker 1: told Tamara... I'm not doing this. I see what's about
- 56:52Speaker 1: to happen. I can't even go and enjoy a fucking
- 56:56Speaker 1: hors d'oeuvre. I can't even like enjoy a fucking chicken
- 56:59Speaker 1: skewer without you guys wanting this moment between me and
- 57:06Speaker 1: Heather where Heather and I live in the same coast.
- 57:09Speaker 1: Whether she's here filming and she goes back to her
- 57:11Speaker 1: penthouse in Beverly Hills, she's not calling me. I'm not
- 57:14Speaker 1: calling her. So you mean to tell me I'm showing
- 57:17Speaker 1: up And I have to deal with an argument as
- 57:22Speaker 1: a non-paid housewife? I understood it instantly.
- 57:27Speaker 2: So I was excited. I'm like, okay, John, we're out.
- 57:29Speaker 2: Now we're going to go down to the montage and
- 57:30Speaker 2: listen to the piano bar and have a cocktail and
- 57:32Speaker 2: have a real meal.
- 57:33Speaker 1: Like, hello.
- 57:33Speaker 2: I mean, I don't get to try my friend's 10...
- 57:36Speaker 2: THC during VN, which I'm sure is amazing. But we'll
- 57:40Speaker 2: just go down to the montage because we look hot
- 57:42Speaker 2: as fuck right now. Y'all did.
- 57:44Speaker 1: Y'all actually did. Y'all look good.
- 57:47Speaker 3: And by the way, we own that tux, just so
- 57:49Speaker 3: everyone knows. Because Shannon's like, well, I had to rent
- 57:50Speaker 3: him one.
- 57:51Speaker 2: Bitch, you had to borrow facelift money. You didn't need
- 57:53Speaker 2: to rent him anything. He could have afforded himself.
- 57:56Speaker 3: He owns a tux.
- 57:57Speaker 1: He owns two. But okay.
- 58:00Speaker 2: So let's clear that record up too. Since everyone wanted
- 58:04Speaker 2: to do it. Mention it all, Alexis. He has four
- 58:07Speaker 2: pair of Ferragamo's, not just the one.
- 58:09Speaker 3: Mention it all, Alexis.
- 58:10Speaker 2: It's like everybody just.
- 58:18Speaker 2: By the way, he owns other shoe brands. It's not
- 58:20Speaker 2: just that brand.
- 58:21Speaker 4: I know, when she says he went to Ferragamo, I
- 58:23Speaker 4: thought to myself, I'm not counting John's money. But I
- 58:28Speaker 4: think it's safe to assume he can afford more than
- 58:31Speaker 4: one pair of shoes.
- 58:32Speaker 2: All of a sudden, just hand you over $ 60, 000 for
- 58:35Speaker 2: your facelift, which, by the way, after I got mine,
- 58:37Speaker 2: I'm like, how'd she get that so cheap?
- 58:38Speaker 3: I don't know.
- 58:38Speaker 1: What did she do?
- 58:39Speaker 3: But anyway, good job.
- 58:41Speaker 2: But if he can just hand you over the $ 60, 000,
- 58:44Speaker 2: you think your little tux you rented him one time
- 58:46Speaker 2: or the hotel you helped buy one time or the
- 58:48Speaker 2: shoe you bought him mattered?
- 58:52Speaker 3: Oh, America. Get the reality.
- 59:00Speaker 1: So Alexis, without giving too much away, what are we
- 59:07Speaker 1: in store for in the next episode? Because only, listen,
- 59:12Speaker 1: I know you don't like me saying this to you.
- 59:14Speaker 1: So let me say it and you just sit there, okay?
- 59:20Speaker 1: Alexis is that girl because of the fact that Alexis
- 59:24Speaker 1: Jansen showed up for two seconds and was the episode
- 59:28Speaker 1: ender and the cliffhanger. To not respect her impact will
- 59:34Speaker 1: never not make sense to me. Because let's be clear,
- 59:39Speaker 1: Elizabeth Vargas was there, and she has a lot to
- 59:42Speaker 1: say on her podcast or YouTube channel, and nothing happened.
- 59:46Speaker 1: The OG Joe was there, nothing happened. All these other
- 59:50Speaker 1: people were there. Alexa Jansen could not even get past
- 59:53Speaker 1: the step and repeat.
- 59:56Speaker 2: And she's... Well, Carlos, in all due respect, none of
- 1:00:02Speaker 2: them married the guy that dumped another cast member.
- 1:00:05Speaker 1: So... But! That was... But!
- 1:00:08Speaker 2: No, no, no.
- 1:00:09Speaker 1: No, no, no, no. No. Let's not act like Gretchen
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: didn't marry a housewife's husband. You see what I'm saying? Well, Gretchen.
- 1:00:19Speaker 2: Oh, Slade and Joe were never married.
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: They were engaged.
- 1:00:23Speaker 3: They were engaged.
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: Yeah, and Gretchen and Slade didn't marry.
- 1:00:26Speaker 3: By the way, we found out it was a fake diamond.
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: But anyway.
- 1:00:29Speaker 2: Does that count as an engagement?
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 1:00:30Speaker 2: But anyway, um, so no, but, um, I know.
- 1:00:35Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:00:35Speaker 2: But if Gretchen would have been there, there probably would
- 1:00:37Speaker 2: have been some kind of drama.
- 1:00:38Speaker 3: Maybe they would have.
- 1:00:40Speaker 1: It's just, so my point is, and that's why I
- 1:00:42Speaker 1: love Alexa because she's so humble, but I wanted the
- 1:00:44Speaker 1: audience to understand my girl was the cliffhanger. The fucking cliffhanger.
- 1:00:52Speaker 2: You know how bad I wished I would have just
- 1:00:53Speaker 2: not gone at all? Because I'm like, they get two
- 1:00:55Speaker 2: episodes out of me and I made this and all.
- 1:00:58Speaker 3: I get is more hate.
- 1:00:59Speaker 1: Perfect.
- 1:01:00Speaker 3: You're welcome, Bravo.
- 1:01:01Speaker 2: You're welcome, Housewives. I'm glad that I brought a little
- 1:01:03Speaker 2: bit for you. Now, can I please just go back
- 1:01:05Speaker 2: to my normal life of podcasting with Carlos about other
- 1:01:08Speaker 2: people's scenes? Life's much easier when you're talking about other
- 1:01:14Speaker 2: people's scenes and what you're saying.
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: It's much easier. It really is. Okay. Without giving too
- 1:01:21Speaker 1: much away. And listen, like you said, you don't know
- 1:01:23Speaker 1: what they're going to show. Is there more to come? Yes.
- 1:01:29Speaker 2: And I'm hoping they don't show it, but I've heard
- 1:01:32Speaker 2: they probably are. So we will have a very interesting
- 1:01:37Speaker 2: podcast next week also.
- 1:01:40Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:01:41Speaker 3: The real, real behind the camera.
- 1:01:45Speaker 1: Is it more dramatic than what we saw last night?
- 1:01:49Speaker 2: You know, I don't know because now you've already seen
- 1:01:51Speaker 2: me cry and that I did get really choked up
- 1:01:54Speaker 2: and how I literally, it's so weird, Carlos, because I
- 1:01:57Speaker 2: can usually keep my, especially being on a television show,
- 1:01:59Speaker 2: like I did Fox 5 News, you have to be
- 1:02:01Speaker 2: on and ready to go. Like, you know, I've done
- 1:02:03Speaker 2: things where you can contain your emotions. It went from
- 1:02:07Speaker 2: zero to a hundred just from Tamara going, did you
- 1:02:10Speaker 2: give Heather a dirty look?
- 1:02:11Speaker 3: Because I knew what was happening.
- 1:02:14Speaker 2: Um, so I don't really know on the next, they,
- 1:02:18Speaker 2: they do talk me into going back in.
- 1:02:19Speaker 3: I'll give this little teaser, which is good.
- 1:02:21Speaker 2: They do. My husband included, um, Tamara, Joe, and my
- 1:02:24Speaker 2: husband all talked me into going back in and just said, look,
- 1:02:27Speaker 2: you can't even tell I had such good makeup. I mean,
- 1:02:29Speaker 2: she must've sprayed that, that stuff on really well. Cause not,
- 1:02:31Speaker 2: not a tear penetrated my makeup. They're like, you can't
- 1:02:34Speaker 2: even tell you cried. Let's just go back in. Don't,
- 1:02:36Speaker 2: you don't, don't, you know, don't show these housewives that
- 1:02:38Speaker 2: like go back in. Cause there's a hundred people that
- 1:02:40Speaker 2: are friends with 95 of them. So four, three or
- 1:02:42Speaker 2: four or five of them don't kind of are iffy
- 1:02:44Speaker 2: and Carla Carmela doesn't know me. And you know, so whatever.
- 1:02:47Speaker 3: So I was like, you're right.
- 1:02:48Speaker 2: I have a lot of friends in there.
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: Okay.
- 1:02:49Speaker 2: Especially my husband, like John was just like, babe, why
- 1:02:53Speaker 2: are you letting this affect you so much? I don't
- 1:02:55Speaker 2: get it.
- 1:02:55Speaker 3: You're not even like this. Like what is going on?
- 1:02:57Speaker 2: And I think he kind of knew deep down, but
- 1:02:59Speaker 2: then he just squeezed my hand.
- 1:03:01Speaker 3: He's like, let's just go.
- 1:03:01Speaker 1: Come on.
- 1:03:02Speaker 3: We got this. And so then I go back in
- 1:03:04Speaker 3: and just wait. That's all I'll say.
- 1:03:08Speaker 1: So I'm leaving you.
- 1:03:08Speaker 2: Hey, guess what? Bravo ain't the only people that can
- 1:03:11Speaker 2: do a cliffhanger. Alexis Jansen can too, baby.
- 1:03:17Speaker 1: Yes, yes. And we thank you for your services. Okay.
- 1:03:21Speaker 1: So raindrops. We will watch.
- 1:03:25Speaker 2: Oh, and Johnny. Oh, by the way, Johnny has a moment.
- 1:03:28Speaker 2: Which he didn't even want to go. And he didn't
- 1:03:30Speaker 2: even mean to. And he wasn't mic'd up.
- 1:03:32Speaker 3: They didn't mic you up.
- 1:03:33Speaker 2: Did you mic up?
- 1:03:34Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
- 1:03:35Speaker 2: Okay. Oh, I was like, I don't even remember. He
- 1:03:37Speaker 2: says something and he doesn't even realize.
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: Oh, my God. It's the funniest thing.
- 1:03:42Speaker 3: I can't tell you.
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: John has a moment too?
- 1:03:47Speaker 2: Well, it's because he was just walking by and said something.
- 1:03:51Speaker 2: And then it was the funniest thing.
- 1:03:53Speaker 1: Just wait. It's just funny.
- 1:03:55Speaker 2: And I was just now thinking, was he mic'd up?
- 1:03:57Speaker 2: Did they catch that? I know that they did catch it.
- 1:04:00Speaker 2: But yeah, they followed us.
- 1:04:02Speaker 3: Everywhere with a boom.
- 1:04:03Speaker 2: I should have just put it there.
- 1:04:04Speaker 1: Of course they did. You're Alexis fucking Jansen. Let me
- 1:04:07Speaker 1: say it. You ain't got to say it. You're Alexis
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: fucking Jansen. Of course they said, we're not going to
- 1:04:12Speaker 1: have this bitch in the party without getting some audio.
- 1:04:15Speaker 1: And they're like this. So the guys, the boom is
- 1:04:17Speaker 1: like this. And they... Their arms had.
- 1:04:21Speaker 2: To hurt because they were following me everywhere.
- 1:04:22Speaker 1: Yeah. And to the point where they have to like
- 1:04:26Speaker 1: do this sometimes. Like... Yes. It's tough. It's fucking tough. So... Alexis...
- 1:04:35Speaker 1: Thank you for bringing the drama. Unexpected. We can't wait
- 1:04:41Speaker 1: to see you next week. So, Raindrops, let us know
- 1:04:44Speaker 1: in the comments your thoughts, and we will see you
- 1:04:48Speaker 1: guys next week.
- 1:04:49Speaker 3: I would like them to tell you this. Paul, I
- 1:04:51Speaker 3: want to start with this next week.
- 1:04:52Speaker 2: If I'm overstepping my bounds because it's not my podcast.
- 1:04:55Speaker 1: No, please.
- 1:04:57Speaker 2: If we could ask them, what do they really think
- 1:04:59Speaker 2: about the whole Heather and me thing? Not whose side
- 1:05:02Speaker 2: are you on because it's not really about the sides.
- 1:05:04Speaker 2: It's just What is, I don't know, what would be
- 1:05:06Speaker 2: a better question of how to say that?
- 1:05:07Speaker 1: Oh, in terms of, okay. Raindrops. Answer this question, Spotify comments,
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: tweet us, leave a message. When it comes to Heather
- 1:05:18Speaker 1: and Alexis, okay. Do you think that Alexis gave Heather
- 1:05:27Speaker 1: a look? Okay. Let me know that based on what
- 1:05:31Speaker 1: you saw. And do you think Heather wanted a moment.
- 1:05:37Speaker 1: From the moment she was in the car talking about
- 1:05:39Speaker 1: Alexis to what happened, do you guys think Heather wanted
- 1:05:44Speaker 1: a moment, was looking for a moment with Alexis? Is
- 1:05:48Speaker 1: that a good poll?
- 1:05:48Speaker 2: Love it.
- 1:05:51Speaker 1: Let us know. Spotify comments. We do read them, as
- 1:05:54Speaker 1: you know. Alexis, enjoy your husband.
- 1:05:59Speaker 2: We're going to go have some fun. Say hi, honey.
- 1:06:03Speaker 3: We used all the chairs.
- 1:06:04Speaker 2: Look, everything is set up. Look at this podcast.
- 1:06:08Speaker 1: I called room service.
- 1:06:09Speaker 2: I'm like, when you bring our breakfast, can you please
- 1:06:11Speaker 2: leave the cart? Like I need the cart for my setup.
- 1:06:13Speaker 2: And they're like, oh, we don't have carts here. Let
- 1:06:15Speaker 2: me see what we can do. I'll see.
- 1:06:16Speaker 3: The management calls me and they're like, well, I'll try
- 1:06:18Speaker 3: to find you a table.
- 1:06:19Speaker 2: We can move in there.
- 1:06:19Speaker 3: I'm like, don't worry. My husband figured it out. We're
- 1:06:22Speaker 3: using luggage.
- 1:06:22Speaker 1: We're using every chair in the room. I love it.
- 1:06:25Speaker 1: Love it. No, this was worth the whole rearrange-a-rook. So
- 1:06:31Speaker 1: have a great anniversary. I love you, girl. Love you,
- 1:06:34Speaker 1: John Hart.
- 1:06:34Speaker 2: Happy birthday. Can't wait to hear about your birthday next week.
- 1:06:37Speaker 1: Okay. And I'll see you next week, baby.
- 1:06:38Speaker 2: Bye, raindrops.
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