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Mandi B’s Polyamory Truth Bomb: “People Don’t Understand This Lifestyle” 😳 · The Baller Alert Show

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  Speaker 1: I'm a poly person poly pocket, I don't. I'm non
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  Speaker 1: monogamous ethically, so I'm an ethically non monogamous person.
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  Speaker 2: So my partners all know about each other.
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  Speaker 1: And they do now just to.
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  Speaker 3: I just look, I just broke up with one. You
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  Speaker 3: had three.
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  Speaker 2: I had three? Well, I had then one stepped up one,
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, yeah, okay, isn't that.
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  Speaker 3: A lot of time? That it's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I am actually so proud of Neo for the most
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  Speaker 1: recent way he explained and expressed finally himself.
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  Speaker 2: I think what show was he on. It was one
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  Speaker 2: of the daytime talk shows.
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  Speaker 1: And I feel bad for him because now every time
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  Speaker 1: he fucking sits down, he has to explain his relationship.
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  Speaker 3: I hate that.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like I didn't jump in quick enough to
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  Speaker 1: have them on my show because now I feel like
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  Speaker 1: it's just redundant.
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  Speaker 2: But I think, and it's what I've been saying.
• 0:52
  Speaker 1: I think the same way we have co hosts, uh
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  Speaker 1: two parents, maybe multiple siblings, multiple friends, I think it's
• 1:01
  Speaker 1: the same way we can have romantic partnerships. So the
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  Speaker 1: same way you juggle all your other relationships is the
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  Speaker 1: same way I choose to juggle my romantic.
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  Speaker 3: Be a lot sometimes though, right because you're dealing with more.
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  Speaker 1: It's only a lot. It's only a lot when you
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  Speaker 1: don't put your motherfucker foot down. So when when something
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  Speaker 1: no longer serves me or I feel like they're ruining
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  Speaker 1: my peace and this isn't fun anymore. Like I believe
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  Speaker 1: in creating memories and having a good time with my partners.
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  Speaker 1: So as soon as it starts feeling like a job
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  Speaker 1: or a chore to be around you, or I'm not
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  Speaker 1: happy have abby the same working for me, we could
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  Speaker 1: work on fixing it. But if you're not in even
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  Speaker 1: the space to do so or have the capacity to
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  Speaker 1: do so, I'm gonna let you go ruin somebody else life.
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  Speaker 2: You ain't gonna ruin mine.
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  Speaker 4: Push up in a Robbert with for Robert and you
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  Speaker 4: it's the Baller.
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  Speaker 3: Alert broadcasting live from Atlanta, Georgia, the nag Long Firm Studios.
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  Speaker 5: Welcome to the Baller Show. I go by the name
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  Speaker 5: for Simis, I go by the name you know, BT,
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  Speaker 5: and I go by the.
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  Speaker 3: Name Van d V.
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  Speaker 2: How you doing good, good, good day. I wasn't ready
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  Speaker 2: to be a part of it.
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  Speaker 3: Normally I don't jump.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I was trying to be respectful. I thought
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  Speaker 1: I was gonna get an introduction podcast Legend New York
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  Speaker 1: Times best seller radio. I was like, I don't get
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  Speaker 1: my introduct you already did it.
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  Speaker 3: I was, you just did it. It's okay. I didn't know.
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  Speaker 1: I thought y'all was gonna introduce me, not me introduce myself.
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  Speaker 3: I wanted you to feel part of the team.
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  Speaker 2: I am we having a threesome today.
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  Speaker 5: Y'all.
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  Speaker 3: You are just a ball of energy. You know, it's
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  Speaker 3: not dark energy. It's it's it's light energy. I hope.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm not a demon.
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  Speaker 2: I am a man eater, but not a demon.
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  Speaker 3: You know you are in a relationship now.
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  Speaker 2: I'm in multiple relationships.
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  Speaker 3: I have multiple.
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  Speaker 2: Partners, multiple Yes, can we not start this off?
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to like get the audience to be like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and I ain't listening to this bird ship.
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  Speaker 3: I'm a very thoughtful audience, you know audience, this type.
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  Speaker 3: It's a variety all the way to log You see
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  Speaker 3: the logos different. I mean it is very it's very corporate.
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  Speaker 3: So I don't know. I love it.
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  Speaker 5: I love it all logo behind us. That that means,
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  Speaker 5: that means the content be a little different.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not mad at that. I'm not mad at that.
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  Speaker 1: No, I'm I'm a poly person, pocket I don't I'm
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  Speaker 1: non monogamous ethically, so I'm an ethically non monogamous person.
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  Speaker 1: So my partners don't know about each other and they do.
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  Speaker 3: You have right now just to to just right now.
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  Speaker 2: I just I just broke up with one.
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  Speaker 3: You had three?
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  Speaker 2: I had three? Well I had then one stepped up
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  Speaker 2: one and I was like, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, isn't that a lot of time? Know it's crazy.
• 4:12
  Speaker 1: I am actually so proud of Neo for the most
• 4:15
  Speaker 1: recent way he explained and expressed finally himself.
• 4:19
  Speaker 2: I think what show was he on? It was one
• 4:21
  Speaker 2: of the daytime talk shows.
• 4:22
  Speaker 1: And I feel bad for him because now every time
• 4:24
  Speaker 1: he fucking sits down, he has to explain his relationship.
• 4:27
  Speaker 3: I hate that.
• 4:28
  Speaker 1: I feel like I didn't jump in quick enough to
• 4:29
  Speaker 1: have them on my show because now I feel like
• 4:30
  Speaker 1: it's just redundant. But I think, and it's what I've
• 4:34
  Speaker 1: been saying. I think the same way we have co hosts,
• 4:38
  Speaker 1: two parents, maybe multiple siblings, multiple friends, I think it's
• 4:43
  Speaker 1: the same way we can have romantic partnerships. So the
• 4:45
  Speaker 1: same way you juggle all your other relationships is the
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  Speaker 1: same way I choose to juggle my romances.
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  Speaker 3: Because you're dealing with it's only a lot.
• 4:54
  Speaker 2: It's only a lot when you don't put your motherfucker
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  Speaker 2: foot down.
• 4:56
  Speaker 1: So when when something no longer serves me or I
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  Speaker 1: feel like they're my.
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  Speaker 2: Peace and this isn't fun anymore.
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  Speaker 1: Like I believe in creating memories and having a good
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  Speaker 1: time with my partners. So as soon as it starts
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  Speaker 1: feeling like a job or a chore to be around you,
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  Speaker 1: or I'm not happy have eby the same working for me.
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  Speaker 2: We could work on fixing it.
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  Speaker 1: But if you're not in even the space to do
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  Speaker 1: so or have the capacity to do so, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: let you go rum with somebody else.
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  Speaker 2: Life you ain't gonna room mine.
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  Speaker 3: So this is the polyamorous lifestyle of a.
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  Speaker 1: Woman who also isn't looking for a man to come
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  Speaker 1: in and fucking save me, Like, I'm not a woman
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  Speaker 1: who needs a man to.
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  Speaker 2: Like both.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, so, but I don't date women. I have fun
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  Speaker 1: with women, but.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know women. Yeah, god damn. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I like eating a little coochie from time to time. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't date them. It's not like I, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't.
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  Speaker 3: But you're in a relationship with two.
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  Speaker 1: Guys men, yes, and yeah, yeah there aware when I'm
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  Speaker 1: with one, the other nose on with them.
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  Speaker 3: Do you have a favorite?
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  Speaker 5: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: You know, dang, I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Just I mean to me the same way like I
• 6:11
  Speaker 1: have eleven best friends.
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  Speaker 3: Even I do it's to stop stop you. I have
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  Speaker 3: eleven best friends associates. You, No, I I have eleven
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  Speaker 3: best friends.
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  Speaker 2: And when I say best friends, it's friends who have
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  Speaker 2: been in my life.
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  Speaker 1: That we traveled, that we've met each other's parents, kids,
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  Speaker 1: that we support and showed for each other. They've all
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  Speaker 1: been my friend for ten years plus, outside of two,
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  Speaker 1: two of them are more recent still five years. But
• 6:42
  Speaker 1: these these women and two men, have been in my
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  Speaker 1: life for over a decade.
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  Speaker 3: So you're you're good with juggling personalities.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I feel like everybody on the spectrum and I
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  Speaker 1: pick up on its like you know what I mean
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  Speaker 1: it is like, and I allow them to be themselves.
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  Speaker 1: I create a safe space and we've really genuinely show
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  Speaker 1: up and care.
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  Speaker 3: About each other. I'm the complete opposite. I believe you.
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  Speaker 3: I gotta be one woman.
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  Speaker 2: And how many friends you got?
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  Speaker 3: My cousins and and then like maybe a couple have
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  Speaker 3: a lot of friends either. And I only have one girl, homegirl, solo.
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  Speaker 5: Girl.
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  Speaker 3: I'm super cool with okay and her and my wife.
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  Speaker 3: I had to make sure that they got along before.
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  Speaker 2: That's that's very important.
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  Speaker 1: Because you kind of need you need to have that happen.
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  Speaker 1: I mean maybe I just maybe I'm good at juggling.
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  Speaker 2: Then I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I you're good multiple personalities. I likes I got five kids.
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  Speaker 2: Oh see, I got a cat. I would never have kids.
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  Speaker 3: So you have kids like people? No?
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  Speaker 1: No, you having five kids is like having an additional
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  Speaker 1: ten people in your life.
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  Speaker 3: Not only the way that I mean I grew up.
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  Speaker 1: In a house full of women, but to me, kids
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  Speaker 1: you're dealing with the constant like change of them. Also,
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  Speaker 1: they're like roommates that don't pay rent ghetto, and then
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  Speaker 1: you got to feed them, Like that's difficult, and you
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  Speaker 1: actually gotta love them no matter what, like.
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  Speaker 3: Don't want no matter what, like what if they suck?
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  Speaker 1: What if their personalities is like, hey, little nigga, I
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  Speaker 1: actually like you if you weren't my son, Like and
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  Speaker 1: I know you can't admit to thinking that, but sometimes
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't.
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  Speaker 3: It's just you just don't think that. Parent.
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  Speaker 1: You can't say it out loud, but you absolutely have
• 8:21
  Speaker 1: been Like, man, if I was in school, you wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: be my type of person I would have hung out
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  Speaker 1: with growing up, Like, you can't say it out I
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  Speaker 1: thought of that. But they're still humans, right, and so
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  Speaker 1: they have their little personality trace their quirks.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe they're into anime.
• 8:37
  Speaker 1: Maybe you, growing up was into sports, so you would
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  Speaker 1: have thought your own child was a square ass nigga
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  Speaker 1: that you wasn't gonna hang it shot stop.
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  Speaker 3: Sometimes this is a good thing, right, This is why
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  Speaker 3: you gotta be careful about who you pro create with,
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  Speaker 3: because your kids turn out to become who you. It's
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  Speaker 3: so funny looking at my kids because I can look
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  Speaker 3: at some mannerisms that are just like me. Okay, right,
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  Speaker 3: and then some of them would be just like their mom.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm over here like, oh this is cool. And
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  Speaker 3: I got two baby mamas, so you know, I can
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  Speaker 3: literally look at little probably too. I'm not no, no, no,
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  Speaker 3: I just was. I was irresponsible.
• 9:12
  Speaker 1: Are both are both are both? Hold on, I'm gonna
• 9:15
  Speaker 1: tell you how you are? Are both moms alive? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so then you have to navigate co parenting with two
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  Speaker 1: different women.
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  Speaker 3: This is a good thing. They're older, so I don't
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  Speaker 3: really have to do the cold parenting that much because
• 9:28
  Speaker 3: my daughter is seventh, my oldest, My oldest is twenty two,
• 9:30
  Speaker 3: my second oldest seventh. I am you you that forty?
• 9:34
  Speaker 3: I would have never you started earthing outside? Oh from Florida?
• 9:37
  Speaker 1: Man, oh so am I I know it's embarrassing. I'm
• 9:42
  Speaker 1: I'm a baby, hey, baby born and raised and I'd
• 9:45
  Speaker 1: be like from Florida, Orlando fall seven chap the city, but.
• 9:49
  Speaker 3: Cats inside of the family from Tampa and I live
• 9:54
  Speaker 3: in Orlando for a little bit.
• 9:55
  Speaker 1: Okay, West brom Beaches, Oh yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Very Caribbean. My dad's Jamaican.
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  Speaker 2: My mom's Hey, my mom my dad's Jamaican.
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  Speaker 3: I mean Orlando is I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't actually remember growing up around many African Americans.
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  Speaker 1: Like when you go to school, everyone speak English, right,
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  Speaker 1: But then when it's parents teacher conference or we got
• 10:16
  Speaker 1: a basketball game or a track meet and you meeting
• 10:18
  Speaker 1: the parents, they for a generation, they.
• 10:20
  Speaker 3: Said, I say, you know what I mean, like all
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  Speaker 3: of it.
• 10:24
  Speaker 1: And then when you have like the the the games
• 10:29
  Speaker 1: or the pep rallies, Oh, it's everyone bringing their flags. Sure,
• 10:32
  Speaker 1: no one, no one that I remember, like any of
• 10:34
  Speaker 1: my schools unless I went to a school that was
• 10:36
  Speaker 1: like more white, Like I went to this school called
• 10:38
  Speaker 1: Doctor Phillips you had, but I went I graduated from
• 10:42
  Speaker 1: Evans and went to Oak Ridge. So those are both
• 10:45
  Speaker 1: black schools. Yeah, like predominantly black schools. There's three and yeah,
• 10:49
  Speaker 1: so to me, you're.
• 10:51
  Speaker 2: Not gonna why because I'm bi racial, You ain't.
• 10:53
  Speaker 3: No, I went to.
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  Speaker 5: You know, crazy, I don't know about can't moving moving
• 11:01
  Speaker 5: to Atlanta, beef Being from Arkansas, I've never seen as
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  Speaker 5: many black people like all together.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, used to we see it too many black people
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  Speaker 3: like you in the hood. And yeah, no.
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  Speaker 1: I mean all of my schools were predominantly black because
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  Speaker 1: of the areas I grew up in, so that's all
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  Speaker 1: I kind of know. But like I said, it was
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  Speaker 1: different because it's not American black.
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  Speaker 2: It was Caribbean, which is oh yeah, see everybody black.
• 11:29
  Speaker 2: That's funny.
• 11:30
  Speaker 3: You know, are you black or you white?
• 11:32
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, you'll be You'll be dating a guy
• 11:34
  Speaker 1: and then he called his mom and he's speaking French
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  Speaker 1: like you don't even.
• 11:37
  Speaker 3: Know, like.
• 11:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like so yeah, it was.
• 11:41
  Speaker 3: It was interesting. So it was probably in your growing up.
• 11:46
  Speaker 3: Did you know your parents like that?
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  Speaker 1: No, I mean I grew up in a single parent household.
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  Speaker 2: Just my mom.
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  Speaker 3: Uh.
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  Speaker 2: My daddy showed up when he wanted to. He paid
• 11:56
  Speaker 2: his child support you know.
• 11:58
  Speaker 1: Uh we had to do DNA tests so he make
• 12:00
  Speaker 1: sure he was paying what he needed to pay for,
• 12:01
  Speaker 1: which it was.
• 12:02
  Speaker 2: It was you know.
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  Speaker 1: For me, honestly, I think I got introduced to all
• 12:09
  Speaker 1: the things. I mean, I guess early I felt like
• 12:12
  Speaker 1: like niggas cheat. So like early on I was dealing
• 12:17
  Speaker 1: with married men, so I didn't feel like many people
• 12:19
  Speaker 1: were monogamous. And then my friends were bisexual, so we
• 12:23
  Speaker 1: were having groups set like early and then moving to
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: New York, getting away from like the South. I feel
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: like it was a privilege, like because I wasn't pressured
• 12:33
  Speaker 1: to have kids or find a husband or do all
• 12:37
  Speaker 1: the settling down that you learn in the Church and
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: the Deep South.
• 12:40
  Speaker 2: It was but you just got to find a way.
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: To pay your bills and and get away from roommates,
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean.
• 12:46
  Speaker 2: And so for me, I just got.
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: To explore and live for me more in New York
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: than I think most people get to.
• 12:53
  Speaker 3: You want kids, still don't.
• 12:56
  Speaker 5: And New York gives you that hustle mentality or New
• 12:58
  Speaker 5: York year around people in their thirties and forties with
• 13:01
  Speaker 5: no kids like it.
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: So it's not seen as like even a negative thing.
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: You're with people who in their thirties have roommates and
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: it's not a bad thing in their thirties and forties
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: with no car, But in New York you don't, so
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: like a lot of those things. In New York, it's
• 13:16
  Speaker 1: just about a hustle and that's kind of it. And
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: so you kind of just get to live for you
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  Speaker 1: without a lot of the societal pressures and you just
• 13:24
  Speaker 1: figure in life out. It's fucking hard, which is why
• 13:27
  Speaker 1: I like now I get why they say, like, if you.
• 13:29
  Speaker 3: Can make it here, you can make it anywhere.
• 13:31
  Speaker 1: Life everywhere else seems so easy and it can be,
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: but like in New York, it wasn't. So I lived
• 13:36
  Speaker 1: there for thirteen years and twenty one to thirty five.
• 13:39
  Speaker 3: Soy four, you are arguably a part of one of
• 13:44
  Speaker 3: the biggest podcasts in the world. Country and horrible decisions
• 13:50
  Speaker 3: Now decisions decisions, no decisions. We rebranded, but we did
• 13:54
  Speaker 3: why my money niggas?
• 13:56
  Speaker 5: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, hello, simple? Is that? I mean? I mean that?
• 14:00
  Speaker 5: Wait?
• 14:00
  Speaker 3: Wait wait wait yeah, So how did that podcast start?
• 14:04
  Speaker 3: Where'd you meet? Weezy?
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: So she's from Florida too.
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: We met Actually, funny story, we met in Orlando.
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  Speaker 2: Uh we used to beef on.
• 14:14
  Speaker 3: My Space beef.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, our first time seeing each other in person.
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: We fought in the teen club. They was they was
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: they was throwing her her ponytail across the club like
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: we fought. So I dated her ex boyfriend and she
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: made it hell like girl, he'd have moved on with
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: me now, and so we like beef. We literally she
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: went to a whole nother school. I used to call
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: her new New so because again I went to oak Ridge,
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: that side of town. She had a movie theater and
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: chandelier in her house. She was new, new like she
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: liked to deal with the with the game bangers, drug dealers,
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: but she went to it. She drove a Jaguar in
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: high school. Okay, oh yeah, she had a jag in
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: high school. So we ended up. So we ended up.
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: We ended up fighting in the club, and it was
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: so dumb, but Orlando big but all so small. Everyone
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: we had a lot of mutual friends, and they just
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: always used to say, man, I think.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: Y'all would really like each other.
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: Y'all hung out, or y'all talk like, y'all are so
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: much alike, Like I really think that y'all would fuck
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: with each other. So I ended up one day, I
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: don't even know how we got on the phone, but
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: got on the phone with her. Ended up spending like
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: a weekend with her, and we became like really close
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: friends in high school. And then we did fall out
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: again at like twenty twenty one, and then she ended
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: up moving to New York, and again everyone was like, well,
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: y'all are in two different spaces in your life now,
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: maybe y'all can you know, come back together, and we did,
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: and within like a month of rekindling, she went on
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: a podcast with one of the guys she worked with
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: at work and he was like, you're really good at this.
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: You should start a podcast, and I immediately came to mind.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: She wanted to share whole stories, which is what she
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: was doing on her.
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: Pot at the time. It's what I did on the
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: internet and Twitter.
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: And from there we had a dinner, came up with
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: the segments, came up with the name, and the rest
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: was history.
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: That's fine. Yeah, Like by.
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: Episode three, I remember we used to record out of
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: a studio with this guy named Preach and he brought
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: a King in, a king who is now like my
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: producer and is on Black Effect. So at the time
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: he was a part of Loudspeaker. So Preach hit up
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: a King and was like, man, you got to come
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: check these girls out. This is episode three of our podcast.
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: No money, no no, we coming in there.
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: We're paying fifty thousand hours, just audio only, no video.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: It didn't matter back then. This is twenty seventeen. So
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: he comes in, he's like, oh, yeah, they're good, and
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: literally they were like, okay, well, let's see if they
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: make it nine months from now.
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: We kept to it.
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: He brought us over to Chris Morrow, who brought us
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: to Charlemagne. They brought us on to Brilliant Idiots and
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: was like, let's just see what they do. Literally, with
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: that one episode, our listens went from like eight thousand
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: a week, which was a lot even at the time,
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: eight thousand a week to forty wow. And we ended
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: up keeping a lot of the that Brilliant Idiot's crowd,
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: which is now so different because of you know, Andrew Schulten.
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: The Flagrant crowd is a lot different. But yeah, we
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: ended up keeping it. We signed a loud speaker, and
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: then Charlemagne has been an advocate to, you know, keeping
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: us moving forward this whole time.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: So next year makes ten years that we've been doing this.
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: Congratulations. You know it's hard to stay consistentasting.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: We barely missed a week ever. Ever, we'll bulk record
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: like we got to take a break. Yeah, yeah, but
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: I mean it's dating and relationships. He ain't got to
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: talk current events if we're talking about the landscape of
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: dating and fucking relationships and six and things like that,
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: and our own personal stories. But yeah, it's and here
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: we are, so yeah, and then from there we got
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: the book. We both have branched out to our own shows, studios,
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: all the things.
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: So yeah, that's amazing.
• 17:59
  Speaker 5: It's good and not know at the time, like y'all
• 18:02
  Speaker 5: like that's when podcasts first started booming.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: Too, black pots, like yeah, yeah, yeah, sorry, the white people.
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: Been around, They've been talking, they've been talking, you know
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: what I mean, Like that's what is it? AM Radio
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: and Ship Howard and that's podcasting. Yeah.
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: But us so you have brilliant idiots.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: You have the read you have Deesus sa Merrow uh,
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: Joe Budden with with all the renditions of his show,
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: like yeah, luckily we started wanting to hear.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: People talk and I love it.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: But yeah, that was that was when you didn't have
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: to come out with a full video team.
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: And it's expensive now. It's expensive now.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: Like so when people are like anyone can start a podcast.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: Baby, you got an extra minimum two thousand a month
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: to invest in.
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: What it takes to and you got put it on YouTube.
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: Then you gotta grow. Everybody starts, but everybody is very
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: very you start seeing you start seeing oh wait, this
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: is a job. Yeah, and you got to manage it.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: And wait, and you're managing the co host that you're with,
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: you're managing the team behind it, the clippers, the clippers,
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: the video, the audio, like, or you're figuring out that damn,
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: I don't really have the money to pay this. So
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: now you're putting yourself back through YouTube University because now
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: you have to teach yourself how to edit audio.
• 19:23
  Speaker 5: Like.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: People don't know that when you become a podcaster, you
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: might also have to become an audio engineer and videos like.
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
• 19:30
  Speaker 5: And you also might have to become a producer and
• 19:33
  Speaker 5: decide like these angles that I like this, I didn't
• 19:36
  Speaker 5: like how I looked in this episode, and it just like.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: Not only the producer. You come in with a partner.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: Three months in you realize they only want to show
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: up and don't want to do shit. So now you
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: are we anyone who has started a podcast with another
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: person or multiple other people have went through that.
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: We've went through different changes.
• 19:57
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and it's a business like and that's that's so
• 20:00
  Speaker 5: that's what people don't understand. It's like being an artist, right,
• 20:03
  Speaker 5: A great artist is a great business person.
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: Yep, you know what I'm saying.
• 20:07
  Speaker 5: We got to make business decisions outside of this to
• 20:09
  Speaker 5: continue growing it.
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: Or you have to bring on a team that knows
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: how to run the business like that is.
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: Make adjustment within the team, and it's hard.
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: And that's the thing too write Like I talk about
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: in terms of us talking about the big bursts of
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: black podcasts, a lot of us don't have entrepreneurial parents
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: and things like that, you know what I mean, So
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: coming in navigating a business without knowing what the fuck
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: that looked like because all we did was apply, interview
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: and got hired. Yeah, yeah, that's what we would. That's
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: what we know how to do. That's what our parents did.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: I don't like not many of my friends had entrepreneurial parents.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: My parents weren't entrepreneurs. My mom worked in healthcare and
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: my dad did construction. Blue collar parents. So coming into
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: a space where I'm growing my own business to hire fire,
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: get taxes, get trademarks, and do all this, no one
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: teaches you how to do that.
• 20:59
  Speaker 5: Shit. Yeah, nobody teaches you how to do that. And
• 21:02
  Speaker 5: on top of that, it's really difficult building a brand.
• 21:06
  Speaker 3: It is.
• 21:07
  Speaker 5: Building a brand is like probably the most sleepness, like
• 21:13
  Speaker 5: you get sleep deprive thing because you're always constantly thinking
• 21:15
  Speaker 5: like how can I be better?
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: How can I push the brand better? How can I
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: put us in certain spaces and stuff like that and.
• 21:21
  Speaker 5: That shit that people that when people ask me advice
• 21:23
  Speaker 5: about podcasting, I'll be like, bro, that's like destribe it.
• 21:25
  Speaker 5: That's like asking a damn I don't know, that's like
• 21:29
  Speaker 5: asking somebody how to shoot a rocket.
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: No, it's because it's like, yeah, I'm to the point
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: now where I'm just like, bro, y'all, ain't getting ours
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: out of me of explaining podcasts just for you to
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: never start it right. But I think when we think
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: of building a brand, like a lot of brands are
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: successful because they solve problems.
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: Yep.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: So you have Kleenex, which you use if you got
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: to blow your nose.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: You got certain brands that catapult, Like even what I'm drinking, Okay,
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: someone wants.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: Something flavored that might have a little look at it.
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: In terms of a brand of a person that'smpletely different.
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: What problem are you solving?
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: Not really, you're just hoping that people like you. I
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: want to hear your opinion, Like, making yourself the brand
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: is so harder than creating a product.
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: Is not a day.
• 22:11
  Speaker 5: And it's like also on the podcast level, you're trying
• 22:14
  Speaker 5: to you're trying to make people enjoy the content that
• 22:16
  Speaker 5: you're making because people on the internet are very judgmental.
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: So you just got to.
• 22:21
  Speaker 5: Watch something wrong and they're like, that's you the You're like,
• 22:24
  Speaker 5: they could watch one piece of content and you could
• 22:27
  Speaker 5: do a three hour podcast and that one clip.
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, judge you from that one clip.
• 22:35
  Speaker 5: You know.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: And I just learned that people a little stupid, that
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: a little slow.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: They all got like I said, no, they all got
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: their own traumas that they fighting. So I'm to the
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: point where if who I'm for is who I'm for,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: I'm probably not for a lot of people.
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: And that's fine.
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: But that's the thing too. It takes courage to get.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: On the mic and a form your own opinion and
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: not just regurgitate what the fuck you're reading on Twitter
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: or whatever. Like having your own thoughts and processes is
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: a thing. And then, like I said, yeah, getting people
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: to actually want to hear your opinion on things, because
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: also people do want to listen to people that differ
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: from them.
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: We're not a monolist. A lot of us have different experiences.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: So I think as long as you're emotionally intelligent, you
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: can listen to people with differences of vans.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: For the people who want to hop into comments and
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: be like.
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: This bird ass, whole ass bitch deserves to be lonely.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: Them niggas just projecting their own probably intel ass lifestyles.
• 23:24
  Speaker 5: Yeah, a lot of people, a lot of people projecting
• 23:26
  Speaker 5: their jobs that they don't want to be in.
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: Relationships they don't want they don't want to be in
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: this one. You know, the algorithm will put you in
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: what you engage in. So if you on some bird
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: ship are not gonna you engage in, that's gonna come
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: up in your timeline.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: I'm curious, can we do a fun little game here?
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: What you're about to ask? Can we look at people's
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: explore pains?
• 23:49
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, you know, I'm good.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: So what we're gonna do is we're all gonna switch
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: phones and you're gonna look at page.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna look at your explorers.
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: It's okay. We're gonna watches. We did this already and
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: we talked minus watches. I love watching in sports, minus cats.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: Sports bitches. Listen, food make no sense we're gonna go ahead.
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: That's as don't make no sense. And then and food, food,
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: and watches. I will watch a rolex being being put together.
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: This is the most manly married nigga Explore page I've
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: ever seen married.
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: No no, no, I married.
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: I say married because there are no women on here.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: Like I engaged with that content I see, like, you
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: don't even I don't even like people pictures on Instagram.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: You like white women.
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: Like no, no, no, no, that don't even. That's what
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: I'm say.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: How is there not one black woman on your explore page?
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: Like not even Jada wait and everybody watching her right
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: now because of the bullshit.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: You don't have not one black woman on.
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: Your You look at this type of content that I
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: look up. How do I know about the otter? We're
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: off the otter.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: I'm talking about that.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: What I'm saying, you didn't stay on it long enough,
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: Like that's how algorithms works.
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: It's what I would. Literally look at this I'm saying,
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: and you read you look at the things. It looks
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: like your nails are broken. But we're going to do this.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: Why do we have to do this?
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: They're not broken I just got them done at my
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: nails the line, and I am a thoughtful, considerate woman.
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: When you tell someone you're getting your nails done, you
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: I need these too short? Yes? Do they ever ask
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: you why?
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: Of course they do? And you say what And I say,
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: because I'm a pleaser and I'm considerate.
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: Let me see, y'all nail let me see. I consider it, y'all.
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: Are you very considerate?
• 25:58
  Speaker 5: Bro?
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: No, but that's what I'm saying, So you consider it.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: I get my nails done though.
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: I love that because you consider it.
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: But that ain't it ain't it ain't for that.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: It's just you don't finger bitches. Yeah, okay, that's you
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: being considerate. If you let them grow long, you can't
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: be Edward scissor hands and a girl.
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, you feel me like men.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: With long nails are dirty nails.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: I'm like, there's no way you're putting that nearrow woman, Like,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: I think that a part of even just men showing
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: that they they care about the women that they're even
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: engaging with. Y'all should take care of your hands. Like
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: hands go a lot of places, especially when you're intimate.
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: So like it.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: If a man has dirty or long fingernails, it shows
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: that he really don't give a fuck about pleasing the
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: woman he's with. And maybe he doing the bending, I
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: don't know, but there's no fingers going in anywhere if
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: they're dirty and long.
• 26:49
  Speaker 5: Well, I think a lot of times that I meant
• 26:52
  Speaker 5: thought of that. You ain't never thought about niggas having
• 26:55
  Speaker 5: dirty fingers.
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: I've seen dirty fingers.
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: Like imagine a woman you could never put that look
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: at a man's hands and it's not and it's not
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: to see if y'all are gay or getting like. It
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: says a lot about a man who takes care of
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: their hygiene. And I think nails are a huge part
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: if you if you care about wiping your ass and
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: you know, getting it waxed or shaved or manscaping or
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: whatever you do. If you care that much about down there,
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: you should care about this people the same way you
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: you said what.
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: Some people haven't been taught properly how to do anything
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: as adults, I know, and they full grown adults, full
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: grown Well, I think a lot of people don't give
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: a fuck which is you have. That's crazy.
• 27:37
  Speaker 5: It's something that you like, you have to care about
• 27:40
  Speaker 5: hygiene as a man, because everything that I do is
• 27:43
  Speaker 5: I'm I'm doing it, like breathing, like waving up, brushing
• 27:47
  Speaker 5: my t f like floss in, like doing all the
• 27:50
  Speaker 5: things that I'm like, this is normal.
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: But not only that. It's hard enough for y'all to
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: get pussy.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: Let hygiene not step in the way of that too,
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: Like there's already so many other obstacles you'll have to
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: leap over and hop over to even get the attention
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: of a woman.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: I'll be damn, do you get all the way to
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: the bedroom? She smell a little?
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: Now you ain't even getting no pussy because you're saying
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: because you didn't know how to wipe your ass, right,
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like or or now I
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: thought you were really attractive, but I saw that dirt
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: other fingernail, and now you ain't never getting this, Like
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: there's already a I've.
• 28:24
  Speaker 5: Been saying this trend on on TikTok is there is
• 28:27
  Speaker 5: it a thing that men aren't approaching women anymore.
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: I did just see that we got the same type
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: of algorithm.
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: I did just see that, and that was crazy because.
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: That was a black woman. I did just you missed that.
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: I did just see that. I think there's two things happening.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: I think that you have men who still don't know
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: how to accept projection, and so I think there there's
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: just a fear based approach to approaching women. But then
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: I think women are also watching these dumb ass podcasts
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: and these clickbait shit that automatically makes a woman feel
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: like they need their bills paid because they had a
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: conversations with a conversation with you. Right, So, if a
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: man isn't in the best financial space right now, if
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: a man isn't secure enough or can't handle rejection, the
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: idea of approaching a woman who's not only going to
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: ask for a conversation but also ask for their bills paid,
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: we're just creating where it's a magnet that's pushing us
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: away from just having conversation.
• 29:32
  Speaker 5: Well, here's my opinion, and I'm gonna let you go wrong.
• 29:35
  Speaker 5: But I think that I think that that that is
• 29:38
  Speaker 5: the part. But I also think that a man should
• 29:40
  Speaker 5: be should be financially focused on what he's trying to
• 29:44
  Speaker 5: do before he's trying to, you know, give a woman
• 29:46
  Speaker 5: his time.
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not saying the nigga gotta be rich.
• 29:53
  Speaker 5: What I'm saying is that you got to be able
• 29:55
  Speaker 5: to take care of yourself as a man before you
• 29:57
  Speaker 5: be trying to You know.
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: What's the dollar amount y'all do this to women?
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: What's the dollar amount that a man should make to
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: be comfortable in order to pursue a woman.
• 30:05
  Speaker 5: I don't think it's a dollar amount. I think it
• 30:06
  Speaker 5: depends on how you like to live in your lifestyle.
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: So then it's all subjective.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: Then, so then any man who feels comfortable enough in
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: this situation.
• 30:14
  Speaker 5: If you can't go to the bar and buy a
• 30:15
  Speaker 5: girl of drink, you don't. You don't need to be.
• 30:17
  Speaker 5: You don't need to be.
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: I'm the bar because it's an icebreaker, right.
• 30:21
  Speaker 5: It's like, if you a man, the easiest icebreaker would
• 30:24
  Speaker 5: be to approach a woman.
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: I love that, I love you. Yeah, how old are you?
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: Thirty one?
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: Okay? Okay, you're still kind of there. I will say
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: that's missing.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: Men will approach you and then try to have a
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: full blown conversation and not even offer a drink?
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: Was time?
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: I agree?
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: Like? What are we doing? Why are you? Like? Because
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: be a gentleman. It's not like it's a class though.
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: What do you mean it's not like it's a taught
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: behavior you know that's per man to son or grandfather.
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: It's a movie thing. That's how we learned.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: Like men aren't teaching their sons.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: Hey, son, when you go to a club, make sure
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: you buy a woman to drink before you, you know,
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: start a conversation. No, a lot of these things that
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: we learned are from movies and film and television. Unfortunately,
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: like a lot of ways our parents dated, especially if
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: we grew up in single parent households, they figured shit
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: out too.
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: We in our.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: Thirties sometimes forty is still figuring out this dating dynamic.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: But there's a lot of children made in the same.
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: Time of course, where a woman and a man.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: Can't teach their children how to date or do things
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: the right way when they're still trying to figure out
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: what works for them, and a lot of it don't
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: be working for them.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: That's why they single parents.
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: So that's why I said, it's not like it's taught. Yeah,
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: it's not taught. So how would you know how to
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: start the conversation? And it should be explained that the.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: Watch hit, watch the movie hit, there we go.
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: Can we bring mentors back? Can we make mentors there.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: There, but it's not it's not no, it's not considered
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: the mentors unfortunately right now are the male podcasters who
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: make up words like in collector and sit.
• 32:04
  Speaker 5: Prospect mentors ask you to buy the courses I'm talking
• 32:06
  Speaker 5: about the.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: Real I'm saying men are looking up to men that
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: they perceive to be high value men. If we so,
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: they're looking up to the Joe Budden's, the Cam Newton,
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: the Shannon Sharps. There there they are the perception of
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: what men look like.
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: That's the that's the there. There is no etiquette taught content.
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: Where would you see someone say this is how you
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: would approach another adult, whether it be a man or
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: a female. Where is that content for it? It's on YouTube?
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: Where is the what I'm telling you, I actually really
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: like you? How can I make a good gesture to
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: impress you enough for us to have a conversation to
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: see if we like each other?
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: So this is where I kind of agree with him.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: What's crazy is then you have those dating and life
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: coaches ten thousand dollars to teach you how to talk
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: to a woman.
• 33:02
  Speaker 5: These niggas courses in the club every night right I'm
• 33:07
  Speaker 5: around people all day. Okay, so I'm around different personalities,
• 33:11
  Speaker 5: men and women, right, And I've been doing this for
• 33:14
  Speaker 5: over ten years, hosting coast and nightclubs, and I've seen
• 33:16
  Speaker 5: the trajectory of the change that happened. Right back then,
• 33:21
  Speaker 5: a man would get a section and he would be
• 33:23
  Speaker 5: excited to walk in with girls or.
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: To invite women to the table. That doesn't happen.
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: Exactly, Yeah, but I saw, I saw the change.
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: When did the change happen?
• 33:32
  Speaker 5: Is it?
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: Because I would say it's you would say it's because
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: of the the money, Like yes, we're like scamming stops scamming.
• 33:40
  Speaker 5: Up the money drive up and these niggas they have
• 33:45
  Speaker 5: a real careers, they won't have a real job.
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: Let's put on it twenty You're right, Yeah, that COVID
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: happened was because you was outside to it outside. Atlanta
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: was outside, and Atlanta opened up and everybody came to
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: So I want.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: To go a little bit before pandemic where it kind
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: of started slowing down, because I even started seeing staple
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: clubs in New York shut down, like Greenhouse and all
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: these places started shutting down, and a lot of it
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: was too If we removed pandemic PPP. Before that, you
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: had like the tax frauds, scams, drugs. When marijuana also
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: became legalized, like that took the street money out.
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: Then you have.
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: Again where irs and those little like check fraud shits
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: and all that, it became harder to do that.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: So the scams that worked for a.
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: Lot of people.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: Mind you, I also lived in Miami, like two thousand
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: and nine twenty ten primetime.
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: Right at lit That was a good time too. That
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: was a great time.
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: And so mind you, I worked in the clubs for
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: seven years, so I saw people coming in throwing money
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: literally buying bottles to pour it on the ground, and
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: bottle wars and all those things.
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: That ended when the scams slowed down.
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: But then also yeah, started getting federally indicted.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: At that part, that part they was getting caught, and
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: so you had that element of things and then the
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: pandemic happened.
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: You keep in mind, that's a lot of people who
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: in especially in Atlanta, that got caught up in that.
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: They're out of jail now. So this is like two
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: because two thousand and Atlanta was crazy too. Hell is
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: that especially the strip club.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: But then you have to realize too, that's our era, right,
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: So then you have society telling you that thirty five
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: and up you might be too old to be in
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: the clubs. So right now you have the Wayians. The
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: younger coaches would like to go out them and then
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: when they go out, they don't drink, so you don't
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: have sections. Everyone's at the bar, maybe getting a drink,
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: but no them niggas doing bake pins and and.
• 35:43
  Speaker 5: But you know what a lot of Wayians should do.
• 35:45
  Speaker 5: They should sign up for the military. And I'm gonna
• 35:48
  Speaker 5: tell you, because you like killing people that you can
• 35:52
  Speaker 5: do for free in the military and not go to prison.
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: I'll come back over here. You still they'll still come back, yeah, charger.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: Not they could come back with a charger, you know
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: what you see what I mean? I thought you were
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: really gonna go deep here, and then you said they
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: could come back with.
• 36:09
  Speaker 5: A charger because I got to simplified. You know, if
• 36:11
  Speaker 5: we talked to intelligence, gonna go over their heads.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: But niggas don't want to have to go live seven
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: years in the Middle East, Uh like, with none of
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: the cool stuff.
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: You just say, hey, brother, I'm trying to keep y'all
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: out of prison.
• 36:26
  Speaker 5: I want all my black Waiians to be prosperous, stay
• 36:30
  Speaker 5: alive and be old enough.
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: Don't sound like they might. That's not a good idea either.
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: They will come that fucked up too. Yeah, use you
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: know them folks that come over back home already we are.
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: But then you do want the Iraq and kill a
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: hundred people? You coming back into regular society? What the
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: hell are you finna do? Wait?
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: And then you only got a certain amount of time
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: to sign up for all your benefits and if you don't,
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: you fuck.
• 37:00
  Speaker 3: But what's happening now? I mean I get it.
• 37:03
  Speaker 5: I'm just trying to give an alternative route because nobody's
• 37:05
  Speaker 5: giving these Yans alternative I mean, how about go to school?
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: And that just sucks too, because the way the government
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: working now is it's tricky.
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: We ain't never heard say I'm excited to go to school.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: I don't know what yan is you talking to because
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: I talked to Wayians? Maybe baby studious.
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: You talked to Wayans like you like them?
• 37:22
  Speaker 5: Oh?
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: I love young men, I love I actually love them.
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: I like first off, legal legal Okay, So so so
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: here's here's like, here's like my thought process right so
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: Awayian to me is twenty eight and under, okay, gen
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: z and then I like to go like forty five
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: and up. And it's because I feel like a lot
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: of men in my age range, the millennial men are
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: products of the epidemic. We're not getting not getting to
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: for the autistic spectrum that they probably are. They also
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: don't believe in talking to the lady in therapy because
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: it's not seen as cool. And they got it figured out.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: And then it's in the era where bitches ain't ship
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: but holes and tricks. So the way that they view
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: women and do you know I mean, and so there's
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: a lot of unlearning that millennial men. I feel like
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: I have to do in order to be good partners.
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: I will say. And so for me, I don't deal
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: with it, I will say. And BT can can attest
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: because he's been my friend for ten years. I'm about ten.
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: I'm ten years old in BT, so I did the man.
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: Ye're both problematic one.
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: But I had to go to therapy. I was all
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: over the place. I learned that he was a little bro,
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: but he was like super Whan. But I was Wyyan
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: still before Yan was even a thing. When I'm when
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: I'm what thirty he's.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: No ten years ago. We just had the twenty sixteen
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: on the internet. Like, twenty sixteen doesn't seem like ten
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: years ago. Crazy, that was ten years ago. I'm outside.
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: That's twenty sixteen outside when outside was actually fun.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and imagine you were twenty one, he was in
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: his that's your prime. At thirty one, you might you're
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: making a little bit more money, you know a few
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: more people, you have access outside in.
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: Prime, and that's when you in Atlanta. I feel like
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: now in Atlanta, that's probably gonna spark another one. But
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: I feel like now in Atlanta, you don't have to
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: go outside to be.
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: How do I how do you identify outside?
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: What do you mean by that?
• 39:35
  Speaker 3: Like, you don't have to go hit a whole bunch
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: of clubs and be out in the Who's Who club
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: life to be in the culture. You can literally be
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: on the algorithm, not on his but yes, you could
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: literally be in the algorithm in a whole different way
• 39:53
  Speaker 3: and still be a part of the culture. I just
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: I remember a time in Atlanta where to be in
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: the culture in Atlanta you had to be in the clubs. Yeah, yeah,
• 40:02
  Speaker 3: you had to be in the clubs. We'll go out
• 40:04
  Speaker 3: to something similar or close to it.
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: I mean outside of the culture. That's that that was,
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: But even dating is the same way. You literally don't
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: have to leave your house because you can scroll to
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: death and tender seeking wherever you want to go and
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: find a person.
• 40:19
  Speaker 5: But yeah, like, but that's but that's that's also a
• 40:22
  Speaker 5: part of why men aren't approaching women because they don't
• 40:25
  Speaker 5: have to anymore.
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: Think about it.
• 40:27
  Speaker 5: A man could get on tender, he can get out
• 40:30
  Speaker 5: of work double where he working.
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't do the dating ass Swipe left,
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: swipe right, and then you find who matches with you. Yeah.
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: I got a homeboy to do that every city he
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: goes to, and.
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: I have homegirls that do it too. They'll have a
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: lunch date and a dinner date set up same.
• 40:47
  Speaker 5: Day, so my home So my homeboy says, why, because
• 40:51
  Speaker 5: I said.
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: So, why don't men approach women anymore?
• 40:54
  Speaker 5: He said, because why would I be subjective to all
• 40:57
  Speaker 5: the things that she's looking at on social media when
• 41:01
  Speaker 5: I could just find somebody that's gonna match with me
• 41:03
  Speaker 5: and like the things that I like.
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: Sounds a little vibrational, but yeah, sure, like.
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: To me, that's the other thing too. We we show
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: up as and when I say we's just people because
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: it ain't me a bitch. I'm who you're gonna see
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: online and who you're gonna get in person. But there's
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: a lot of people say rare because most people don't.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: Most people don't and whether it's a job, like people
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: meant lie to about their heights, their their careers on social.
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: Media, all of it. But I mean the same with
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: same with women.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: You might like her online, see her in person, it's like,
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: hold on, wait one minute, and so like I think
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: in person though you remove all those things, you get
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: to just catch that vibe in person.
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: I'm still a very much in person person.
• 41:51
  Speaker 5: I like, I like, I like uh in person too,
• 41:55
  Speaker 5: because motherfuckers be weird.
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: Weird people talk good on the internet.
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: Hold on, the word is not weird. They're undiagnosed.
• 42:03
  Speaker 5: Here you go, because look, you haven't had a good
• 42:08
  Speaker 5: conversation with somebody on the internet that.
• 42:18
  Speaker 3: I forgot what it's called.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: Uh huh yeah, performing there we go.
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: They're undiagnosed, that's all.
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: They're definitely undiagnosed. The motherfuckers. They got no social skills, normal, nothing.
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: But also you got to think about to going back
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: to the pandemic. Niggas was in their house, and you
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: can talk about even the younger generation. Right now, everything
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: is online, it's not in person.
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: Listen, my daughter didn't graduate from high school like everybody else.
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: He ship was one graduated to go to graduation.
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: So imagine that no prom, no graduation, didn't you didn't
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: get to go to the movies with friends of the mall.
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: There was a whole like year and a half where
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: years everything was aline.
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: Junior and senior year, no problem. Didn't go outside Junior year,
• 43:07
  Speaker 3: didn't go to the movies and hang out with friends.
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: And now imagine they're thrown into a society where we
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: got an orange cheeto running the office. We're in a
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: recession that they refuse to kind of admit eggs is
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: thirty eight dollars sessions. But they don't know any other lives.
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: So they done got dropped into fucking hell. We could
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: go back and think of meeting a nigga who might
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: drop twenty grand in a club. That's not happening right
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: now that you mean.
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: To the club. Right. People don't want to go out guys.
• 43:38
  Speaker 5: Hey.
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: People want to get separate times for anything, for.
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: Ever everything like it's it's it's a different world, but
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: they don't know no different, you know. So I think
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: it's interesting that we're in a place too where we
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: just keep seeing all these shifts and it's crazy.
• 43:51
  Speaker 3: But it's like it's happening like this.
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: But like for a person your daughter's age, they don't
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: even know what.
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: They missed out on main So look, I say it
• 44:00
  Speaker 3: all the time. I was like, boy, because she she's
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: a she's a great kid. She goes to work, comes home,
• 44:05
  Speaker 3: but she still lives with us. I was like, when
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: I was twenty two, I was never home. Let's I
• 44:11
  Speaker 3: have my eye place for my cousin wiling the fuck out.
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: I left home two days after graduating.
• 44:17
  Speaker 3: High school too, and I never came back. That was
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: how long visit only? Yeah, it is not the same now.
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: It was wild. But you have to like, you can't
• 44:26
  Speaker 3: even afford that you came off. But I lived. I lived.
• 44:30
  Speaker 3: I lived here.
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: I moved here after graduating high school two thousand and nine.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: I had a two bedroom, two bath over on North
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: Side Drive. It was seven nineties. Oh I know, is
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: me and my roommate both paid three nine four fifty.
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: Be like that now, oh, you gotta have about five
• 44:48
  Speaker 3: in that same spot.
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: Sure, and so it's just like you can't afford it.
• 44:54
  Speaker 5: And that's what people aren't talking about that we we
• 44:58
  Speaker 5: really are in this recession that nobody wants to talk about.
• 45:00
  Speaker 3: It's bad. It's bad.
• 45:01
  Speaker 5: Like you, you can't be eighteen and say, man, I'm
• 45:04
  Speaker 5: gonna go work a little part time job and then
• 45:06
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna get my own apartment and you don't have.
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: But that's what But that's where we're in Delulu.
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: And when I say we am now talking about women,
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: you know how difficult it is for you to pay
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: your bills, but now you're expecting to go meet a
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: man who's in the same economy as we are.
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: You expect him to know to be able to pay.
• 45:23
  Speaker 3: And I hear the same budget show.
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: My friend this all the time when she wants to
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: go on dates or when she's looking to pursue somebody.
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: She's like, well, I just want somebody like I.
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: Want to be able to go to dinner and like
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: go out at least once a week. And I said, well, girl,
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: dinner and hookah on a good night. I was like
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: three hundred dollars for two people. I said, so you're
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: expecting someone to have an extra twelve hundred dollars a
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: month for leisure with you to go out and do
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: hookah once a week?
• 45:49
  Speaker 3: How much money to do? That's why I'm how much
• 45:51
  Speaker 3: money do y'all think men? Men make a man average
• 45:57
  Speaker 3: how much women? On let's say, on social media.
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: That's why they say he gotta make at least six figures.
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: So many we went viral about four or five months ago,
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: and I said, did you guys notice that in this
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: society and this economy, most people work to multiple jobs
• 46:16
  Speaker 3: and a side hustle. Do you know how much time
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: that takes away from interpersonal like relationships or marriage, or
• 46:23
  Speaker 3: relationship or fatherhood, motherhood, brotherhood. I can't even tell you
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: the last time I hung out with my friends, like
• 46:30
  Speaker 3: on some chill shit. We gotta do it while we
• 46:32
  Speaker 3: work type shit. You know what I'm saying, Because if
• 46:35
  Speaker 3: I ain't making no money, I'm gonna take my ass
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: to the house and enjoying my mortgage.
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: That's it. And watch all these streaming apps we pay.
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: Folk, And that's a whole nother thing. Like yeah, nigga,
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: the NFL bro Why watching an NFL game on Peacock
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: on Amazon on.
• 46:51
  Speaker 5: Bro.
• 46:52
  Speaker 3: The ship used to be on Channel three H channels.
• 46:56
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: Charles Berkley just complained about that, like, niggas don't see
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: us talking enough. It's been half a season and we
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: don't even get to see Charles and.
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: Yo flicks just went up again about this. Yeah, the
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: NFL And just so you know, the NFL is taking
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: over Christmas.
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: That was crazy. I didn't like that.
• 47:18
  Speaker 5: They're like, don't forget about forget basketball. This is the
• 47:22
  Speaker 5: priest super Bowl show and that had performances.
• 47:25
  Speaker 3: Ye performed that she started it off. Yeah that channel
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: from Beyonce.
• 47:35
  Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, we ain't watching basketball.
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: You know, it's crazy.
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: So what I wanted to say, I just wanted to
• 47:43
  Speaker 3: tell you I want to give your flowers first and
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: foremore what you have built for yourself, even you and
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: your co hosts. Man, you guys have added to the
• 47:51
  Speaker 3: culture in a way that I feel like even me
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: and b BT can gravit, gravitate towards and say Okay,
• 47:56
  Speaker 3: I like how they did that. That's something that we
• 47:58
  Speaker 3: need to work on with our content and ship like that.
• 48:01
  Speaker 3: So I just want to tell you, man, you're doing
• 48:03
  Speaker 3: an excellent job. And I saw you up post personal
• 48:06
  Speaker 3: for the first time when you guys hosted the Black
• 48:09
  Speaker 3: Effect podcast. Yes, yes, yes, I think that's when we are.
• 48:12
  Speaker 3: I was yeah, I was like, damn man, that energy
• 48:14
  Speaker 3: is cool because you never know when you because people.
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: Who have you met, like we're doing radio with doing
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: the show, who have you met where it's been like
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: they never gonna get my support again.
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: I've met a lot of people. I can't even my god,
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: it's so many bro like even in.
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: Terms of interviewing and energy where you're like, yeah, I'm
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: good never seeing them again.
• 48:43
  Speaker 5: I remember we interviewed a guest and she arrived like
• 48:46
  Speaker 5: an hour late. She fell off, but.
• 48:52
  Speaker 3: Who you remember her name?
• 48:55
  Speaker 5: Now?
• 48:55
  Speaker 3: I remember it was a guest. She showed up an
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: hour late, and she had an attitude with us and
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: the in interview was.
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: So bad didn't go out. Yeah still oh wow, okay, okay, okay.
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: Fans were mad at her too, though, like why are
• 49:11
  Speaker 3: you acting that in this interview? Oh wow? I don't like.
• 49:14
  Speaker 5: I don't like when entertainers or guests don't want to
• 49:18
  Speaker 5: do something and then they're forced to do it because
• 49:20
  Speaker 5: you have to do content.
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: Now okay, well.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: Let me make this then a little bit more positive.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: Who did you meet in person that you thought was
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: gonna be and you were genuinely surprised with how good
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: their energy was.
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: I have someone ahead Cash all okay, oh oh my god.
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: But just because she's been on the internet for so
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: long and you know, people talk about her lying about
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: her age and you know, I never really also saw
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: her with the other girls, got to got to meet her.
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: I was like, whatever she put out on the support
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: her and Monalalea actually.
• 49:54
  Speaker 3: Like actually like now good energy.
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: And again especially the women tricky, the women.
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: Being a little tricky, especially with other women. It's just tricky.
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: But yeah, Cash taw was, I was like, bitch, whatever
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: you put out on the sun.
• 50:13
  Speaker 3: We're also on the radio, so we interview so many people,
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: and people suck. It's why I lean into this. And
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: we've had some sucky interviews. But it doesn't say only
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: because the person is like, uh, they're not good in
• 50:23
  Speaker 3: meaty like okay, so they're just gonna have a crappy
• 50:27
  Speaker 3: interview because they.
• 50:28
  Speaker 5: Just have to protect some of the artists, because some
• 50:32
  Speaker 5: big artists really don't know how to know more.
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: More artists needs to be like fucking Bryce and Tyler
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: and Les.
• 50:37
  Speaker 3: Literally just my favorite artist, my favorite person, one of
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: my one of my favorite people to talk to. His Davy, though.
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: I love talking to though.
• 50:44
  Speaker 2: Okay, I hear his name pronounced different.
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: He says you said, he says you can say or whatever,
• 50:50
  Speaker 3: and we interviewed before he can say, it's not da
• 50:53
  Speaker 3: vido David. His name is David. I was born here
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: in Atlanta. Yea from Atlanta, Nigeria. That's just his name.
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: He has a very long name. Okay, so it's not David,
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: So it ain't David.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, but okay, I can see, Okay.
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: But he's always definitely super positive and and so cool
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: to talk to and and opens up and gives us
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: extra information and breaks the internet with us. T is
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: another one with us. I like Booz. He's definitely a
• 51:29
  Speaker 3: fun interview.
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: I'm sure he's fun. He's a fun interview.
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: You ever interviewed him? I don't care to, Okay, you don't.
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: I don't like his.
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: Views on things.
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's too homophobic for me to actually want to
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: sit across from. Like, I think he's overly ignorant to
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: where I would.
• 51:50
  Speaker 3: I think you should talk to him. I think not.
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: You also dated my friends, so I'm going.
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: You know you like you know, like when you uh,
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: when when uh.
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: Somebody dates somebody and they really like and it's just like, girl,
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: well if you like it, I love it.
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: It was that and then just everything after jail and
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: when he got out, just the things.
• 52:13
  Speaker 3: That he's to see the.
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: Real not really no, because again I wasn't.
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: I didn't date him, so no, So to me, my
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: perception is based on like what what I've heard him say,
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: and it's just like.
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: Not to be someone that wants to Here's the thing.
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: I'm cool with me and someone else having a disagreement
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: or not seeing life the same way, but the same way.
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: Like I wouldn't platform and Andrew Tate or like them
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: niggas from Fresh and Fit.
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: That's the kind of way I see him.
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: Like that rhetoric is you think he's more like a
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: shock not even shock.
• 52:56
  Speaker 3: I just think his.
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: Rhetoric on on parenting, on sexuality is dangerous. Like also
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: a nigga, you paid for prostitutes for your underage children,
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: Like what those kids now have to endures as adult
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: men is now going to trickle down into society, like
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: you don't like gay women, but you have a lesbian daughter,
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: and like the things that you say about like homosexuality,
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: I just I just can't rock with it. Also as
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: somebody who is like and I know, like he just
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: sat with Jason Lee on Hollywood and Locke.
• 53:33
  Speaker 3: And he was like, man, I didn't even know you
• 53:35
  Speaker 3: was gay. Hood Like I'm just you know what I think.
• 53:38
  Speaker 5: Like I think for me, like being a radio personality
• 53:44
  Speaker 5: is like I'm always separating the artists from the music,
• 53:50
  Speaker 5: right because the problem is is like we'll become a
• 53:53
  Speaker 5: fan of somebody's music and then we see like.
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: So I do that too, But coming into the media
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: space fully in control of my creative bitch, ain't gotta
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: sit down with everybody.
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: Like I could just sit.
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: Down and literally talk to just my co host and
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: do numbers without a celebrity.
• 54:11
  Speaker 3: So like the idea of you.
• 54:13
  Speaker 5: Think these people be characters, not the control, but you
• 54:15
  Speaker 5: don't think these people I be feeling like this shit
• 54:18
  Speaker 5: everything on the internet is just created now because when
• 54:22
  Speaker 5: I see certain people on the Internet and then I
• 54:24
  Speaker 5: interview and I'll be like you seem like two different people.
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: But their music you could be a fan of Like,
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: if you don't see them engaging or interacting with people,
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: you're not gonna really know who they are.
• 54:35
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: It's funny because no, you said, do you think they're characters?
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna characters, weird, undiagnosed, all the same shit, Like
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: I think that they are socially awkward. And unfortunately, you
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: have to understand when you're thrown into celebrity, you don't
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: get to be a human anymore either, So now you
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: have to figure out how to relate to people. You
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: could wake up and be having a miserable day.
• 55:01
  Speaker 3: You could be.
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: Cramping on your period. A nigga could have just like
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: broke your heart. You find out your mama stole money
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: from you. Now you got to come onto a goddamn
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: radio show and be jolly and happy, like the way
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: that celebrities even sometimes have to interact the same we
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: do as you know, radio hosts and podcasters. We remove
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: the element of humanity and just being a person a
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: lot of times when we have to do this because
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: a lot of times if you don't want to do it,
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: you still have to because it's not your job.
• 55:34
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it is interesting that talking becomes a job when
• 55:40
  Speaker 5: you go to work, Like when I get to the station,
• 55:43
  Speaker 5: I kind of nerve my personal life and you know, family,
• 55:47
  Speaker 5: and I really don't like if I have family and
• 55:50
  Speaker 5: friends text me.
• 55:51
  Speaker 3: I gotta nerve that because I gotta.
• 55:53
  Speaker 5: Focus on this, right because at the end of the day,
• 55:56
  Speaker 5: this is helping all of us, of.
• 55:57
  Speaker 2: Course, because it's a job. That's what I'm saying, Like
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: I can.
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: If you wake up one day and you really sick,
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: or you don't feel well, or you got a lot
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: of time, you got PTO, you got you know, paid
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: time off, you could take a day off, you could.
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: Go for bereathing all the things.
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: Like in my case, sometimes I don't have the option.
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: We don't put it on the schedule. We got a
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: whole team that has to come in. We done booked guests.
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: You if you woke up in a bad mood that morning, bitch,
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: you gotta get it together. And again, sometimes that becomes
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: hard for people. And so you know, sometimes I try
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: not to hold something over someone. But like I said,
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: even back to go see like I don't heard him
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: say enough stuff. He believes it and I'm not here
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: to change your mind. But I also don't want to
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: platform some of that rhetoric.
• 56:42
  Speaker 3: No, I completely understand.
• 56:44
  Speaker 5: I just like I said, it's even when I like,
• 56:47
  Speaker 5: you will see an artist like soldier boy, right okay,
• 56:49
  Speaker 5: and then you will see him yell and scream till
• 56:52
  Speaker 5: the top of this person, yes, and then you'll talk
• 56:55
  Speaker 5: to him in person.
• 56:57
  Speaker 3: And he's like the chillest guy ever.
• 56:58
  Speaker 5: So I'm like, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, are we
• 57:01
  Speaker 5: like is this like the movies, Like, is this like okay, Denzel,
• 57:06
  Speaker 5: We're watching him in the movie theaters and then we
• 57:08
  Speaker 5: see him in person.
• 57:09
  Speaker 3: Now he's actually like, well, okay.
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: So here's my question only because I know it's a
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: current topic right now in terms of if we're talking performative, right,
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: we just watched for the last two three years, Kai
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: Sanat be the most funny, goofy, bubbly guy ever, not
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: a nigga over in fashion week, not smiling, dressing all black,
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: like looking like an artist.
• 57:32
  Speaker 2: Because now he's dropping.
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: This line and now he's reading books, and there becomes
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: a part of where, yeah, we question if we've seen
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: you one way for all this time, and then with
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: the flip of a squid a switch because the bitch
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: broke your heart. Now you don't smile. Like to me,
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: that's the thing. I think that some people lean into
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: performing things. But also we don't know these people. Yeah,
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: so when I'm seeing people question the performative nature of
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: a Kai Sanat, I'm like, hmm, maybe he's growing, but also, bitch,
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: he only twenty two, not much growth there.
• 58:00
  Speaker 2: He got a long way to go to really like mature.
• 58:03
  Speaker 3: I don't know, it's interesting.
• 58:04
  Speaker 5: I think I think, first of all, I love everything
• 58:06
  Speaker 5: that Constannet has accomplished in a short period of time.
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
• 58:10
  Speaker 5: I think with Constanette, I think he just blew up
• 58:12
  Speaker 5: too fast man.
• 58:13
  Speaker 3: For his age.
• 58:14
  Speaker 5: I think, yeah, he's accomplished things that people have been
• 58:19
  Speaker 5: in this business for twenty thirty years and he's accomplished
• 58:22
  Speaker 5: that five years.
• 58:24
  Speaker 2: If that less than that? That's why I said less
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: than that.
• 58:26
  Speaker 3: Like I'm over here, like, bro, you got Lebron James,
• 58:29
  Speaker 3: Like you.
• 58:29
  Speaker 5: Have money, af Yeah, you got the money, you got
• 58:31
  Speaker 5: the fame, you got the research access access.
• 58:34
  Speaker 3: So it's like at some point you're going to burn out.
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: Which I think that's what we're seeing too.
• 58:40
  Speaker 5: Imagine if we had to do this for twenty how
• 58:43
  Speaker 5: long they stream twelve hours done?
• 58:44
  Speaker 2: He did like twenty four hours a day for days
• 58:46
  Speaker 2: on it.
• 58:47
  Speaker 5: Imagine if we did this for twenty four hours and
• 58:49
  Speaker 5: no social life.
• 58:50
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't I wouldn't like that will be.
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: A little bit more lipt though, because that's more no
• 58:56
  Speaker 3: the streaming.
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: The streaming right now, like we're gonna see it told
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: that's taken on people the same way they're still studying
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: CTE with these football players. It's the same thing that
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: we're going to see the impact of the pandemic of streaming,
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: of this culture where now people are in school. They
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: don't want to be doctors, lawyers, accountant. They want to
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: be podcasters and streamers.
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: Somebody still got you know what I mean, just another
• 59:21
  Speaker 3: occupation that once never existed, because I'll never forget. In
• 59:24
  Speaker 3: sixth grade, my teacher told me that this wasn't a
• 59:26
  Speaker 3: real job. Wait, radio wasn't a real job. I always
• 59:29
  Speaker 3: wanted to be on the radio since I was a kid.
• 59:31
  Speaker 3: I dreamed about being on the radio. I looked up.
• 59:33
  Speaker 3: I love listening to the radio. I can listen to
• 59:35
  Speaker 3: radio all the time. Right anytime we go to another city,
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: I love to turn onto the radio station in that
• 59:40
  Speaker 3: city so I can hear what's going on there, right.
• 59:43
  Speaker 3: I've been like that since I was a kid, and
• 59:45
  Speaker 3: my teacher told me that wasn't a real job.
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: You know what's crazy about radio and sixth grade. It's
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: also because at one point they were well still kind
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: of nout celebrities, right, So it would be like a
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: black boy saying, I want to be like Michael Jordan,
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: I want to be a basketball player. I think that
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: in radio, people stay for so long that people don't
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: see that there's an opportunity to fit in, because it's
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be Steve Harvey, it's gonna be you know,
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be Ricky Smiley, it's gonna be all these
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: people that have been there for twenty thirty years. The
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: people that were on the radio when I was going
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: to daycare are still on radio today.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 3: I moved to Atlanta because I was in high school
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 3: and I came to Atlanta for a summer and I
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 3: was like, Oh, there are black people that make money
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 3: and we live amongst each other and no one robs
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 3: each other.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 5: Hmm.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 3: I saw and I saw a guy that was as
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 3: young as me at the time in a ferrari, and
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 3: I just thought that that was the craziest shit. I
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 3: was like, Wow, it's like one thing I thought. I
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 3: think it's dope about Atlanta. We have people that make
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 3: beats that are multi millionaires. Yep. Making beats Yep. I'm
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 3: not saying that that's a simple job, but you can
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 3: make millions of dollars producing songs, not just rapping them
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 3: and writing them or making beats is just like something
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 3: that just is fascinating to me.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm curious to know what. I mean, it's interesting.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: I know they're talking about the need to teach financial literacy,
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: they're talking about the removal of critical race theory. But
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: I do wonder if options like that are being presented
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: in schools with the difference of careers.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 2: That's available to I think, hey, I need to be taught.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: Like, there's a lot of things that I just wonder
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: if educationally they're keeping up with the time, because now
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: there's still no sex education.
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 3: No, they're not keeping with the sex education is required
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 3: in college though it's just crazy by the kids, they
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 3: fucking by it. They already they is already it's too late.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 3: I had already looking at us that we're going over time.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 3: But I had my first sex education situation when I
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 3: saw this girl get pregnant in sixth grade. Oh yeah,
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 3: there was a.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 2: Daycare in my high school.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 3: Damn ev evan.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: In my high school, there was a daycare. So that's
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's too late for sex.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 3: Education, dude, this girl got pregnant in sixth grade.
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 2: There's still men that don't know where blood comes out
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: of a vagina.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 3: Her son is twelve, they be horny. I think the
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 3: blood come out of pe hole. So like, bro, the
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 3: girl who had the baby son is your age or
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 3: maybe a couple of years younger than you. We followed
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 3: you on Instagram. Damn she had in sixth grade. I
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 3: was that's crazy old, thirteen crazy maybe twelve, but yeah,
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna be forty three. So yeah, that's crazy sixth
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 3: grade bro. And I said, oh no, no.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, it's crazy.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 3: And she had to Yeah, she had to take care
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 3: of that kid too.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, her parents did, because she can't even get a
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: job till she's fifteen.
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 2: Her parents had to take that on.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 3: But she was like, she didn't go to prom, like
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 3: in high school, she didn't go to none of that shit.
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 3: I didn't go to prom either, what I was fighting.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 3: I was stunning.
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  Speaker 2: Damn, that's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I want to problem every year except for my senior
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  Speaker 1: year because my boyfriend was too old.
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  Speaker 5: That's why, that's why, that's why you can't hang out
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  Speaker 5: with the wrong people. Man, I ain't go to prom
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  Speaker 5: for fighting in school.
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  Speaker 3: Well, we didn't do a segment, and we need to
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  Speaker 3: do a segment with you. It's the mental health checking.
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  Speaker 3: How does Mandy, oh great take care never better?
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  Speaker 1: How do I take care of my mental health? First off,
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  Speaker 1: I talked to the lady, so I do have a therapist.
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  Speaker 1: Shout out to Serena. I've been in therapy for five
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  Speaker 1: you know.
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  Speaker 3: She goes you know her name. But yeah, I've.
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  Speaker 2: Been going for since twenty twenty one.
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  Speaker 1: That's good and never never better. Well, I'm even so good.
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  Speaker 1: I now moved it to bi weekly. I was going
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  Speaker 1: weekly for weekness, but now I go by weekly now
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  Speaker 1: and I'm great. I have a great way of talking
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  Speaker 1: with my friends, my partners, my business partners. Now Like
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  Speaker 1: I'm in the best space I've been in a long time.
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  Speaker 3: I like this. Yeah, I'm getting to the lady.
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  Speaker 2: I talk to the lady.
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  Speaker 3: To the lady, man, lady gonna get you right, man, and.
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  Speaker 2: It might be able to diagnose you. It's never too.
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  Speaker 5: Late, never because you don't you don't know how crazy
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  Speaker 5: you are to you gotta talk to a therapist.
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  Speaker 3: That part, because you.
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  Speaker 2: Have you're you got to be honest with your therapy.
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  Speaker 3: You have to be honest and accountable. That's it. You
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  Speaker 3: have to unpack. You have everything. You don't say. It's
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  Speaker 3: uncomfortable though.
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  Speaker 5: It's uncomfortable because when you unpack that childhood trauma and
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 5: mirrorhead comes out and you have to explain that so
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  Speaker 5: they can really do a deep dive in your life.
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  Speaker 3: That ship could get dark, but gets dark. Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 3: and it's part of the stage that you have to
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  Speaker 3: go through. It's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: You'll see the light. The ladies get you a man
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  Speaker 1: that with the therapy.
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  Speaker 3: Fact man or in it go together to that that
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  Speaker 3: that I wouldn't recommend it if you're not strong together. Yeah, boy,
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  Speaker 3: you go together and it'll break you up.
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  Speaker 5: It could break you up, break because it could be
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 5: get broken finger pointing this person.
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  Speaker 3: I can also be unpacking some things that you probably
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 3: like you didn't know about. You think like that? Do
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 3: you think like that? I love it? Yeah, listen, you
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 3: gotta come back.
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  Speaker 1: No, listen, I ain't gonna talk about y'all on y'all show,
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: but yeah, you know, have me back. Just keep keep
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: to the date that you booked before and not reschedule.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 3: It everypo we got in trouble. We got in trouble.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: It was like talking about yesterday. It was it was
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 3: the day that we were supposed to remember last week,
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 3: and we got in trouble that day.
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  Speaker 2: Damn.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I got in trouble radio. You get in.
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  Speaker 5: Trouble a lot rules yeahs because you know we're on
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 5: the radio right now. Yeah, wait for real, because that's
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 5: why he had to kis some things going on.
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  Speaker 3: I'll tell you when the camera crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, But thank y'all for having me.
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  Speaker 3: I'll come again. I'll come again. What you you thought
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 3: we canceled you for?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, I just meant to cancel
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: on y'all today, and I waited too late, so I
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I guess I could come back. I
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: wanted to be a bitch and not give a funk
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: about y'all schedule, and I planned to cancel on y'all today,
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: but I forgot.
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  Speaker 3: So look, I definitely apologize for that because when listen,
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 3: that's crazy. That's when it happened to me, and this
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 3: nigga was not in the mood. I was like, yeah, this,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 3: it wouldn't have been again.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's okay. It's happened three times, not just
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: that one time, but it's okay.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, look.
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  Speaker 2: Right, oh it's been like like three times.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry around the holidays last year. All Right, guys,
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: thank y'all for having me. I'll come back again hopefully.
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: Everyone in the in the baller alert area they like me.
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 3: He no, they love thank you guys listening. If you're
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 3: gonna do well, they gonna be like, bring her back.
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 3: You say that in the comment.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, y'all can't afford me, but see you guys.
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  Speaker 3: Son, Yeah we broke boby
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  Speaker 5: M okay