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- 0:00Speaker 1: Good morning, good evening, good afternoon, wherever you may be.
- 0:03Speaker 1: Welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name is Brian with
- 0:06Speaker 1: Alison and this is maintaining frame UK feminist declare war
- 0:11Speaker 1: on boys. Here's how we fight back to be looking
- 0:17Speaker 1: at the latest I guess you could say the latest
- 0:20Speaker 1: news really not all that unpredictable. We knew it was
- 0:25Speaker 1: coming ever for a while now, and apparently Jess Phillips
- 0:31Speaker 1: is leading the charge, of course, teach boys the difference
- 0:35Speaker 1: between real life and porn and other things to essentially
- 0:42Speaker 1: protect women. Yeah, that's what we're covering today. So before
- 0:47Speaker 1: we get into it, I guess I'll hand it off
- 0:49Speaker 1: to Alison to like do the other things.
- 0:52Speaker 2: No, I just want to point out that this is
- 0:54Speaker 2: everywhere now Australia. It's everything I misunderstood. I thought it
- 0:58Speaker 2: was in Japan too, but maybe it doesn't.
- 1:00Speaker 1: No, no, no, that the website was called Japan today,
- 1:04Speaker 1: but it wasn't a website about Japan per se.
- 1:08Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, that's fun, that's fine. I'll roll with it, Okay.
- 1:12Speaker 2: But it's it's everywhere. It's Australia, it's Canada. You're fighting
- 1:16Speaker 2: back against it in the us. It's probably in Europe,
- 1:21Speaker 2: but you know they're not English speaking, so who cares? Oh, man,
- 1:26Speaker 2: I don't. I'm just teasing, that's all. It's just just teasing.
- 1:31Speaker 2: You guys are wonderful. Don't understand you, but you're wonderful.
- 1:34Speaker 2: But okay, So it's like everywhere, these these people are
- 1:38Speaker 2: marching into younger and younger ages too, because this is
- 1:42Speaker 2: proposed that if necessary, they can target eleven year old
- 1:46Speaker 2: boys with this, so they can be exposing eleven year
- 1:51Speaker 2: old boys to a conversation around porn. That's definitely that,
- 1:56Speaker 2: you know, like it. When I was thinking about what
- 2:00Speaker 2: should happen in twenty twenty five giving women like Laura
- 2:04Speaker 2: Bates more access to primary school.
- 2:08Speaker 1: Students, it's not Laura Bates.
- 2:10Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, it's not Laura Bates. It's yours. Somebody
- 2:13Speaker 2: like Laura Bates is somewhere in this right, you know.
- 2:17Speaker 1: Probably I'm sure that she's a part of it.
- 2:20Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure she's got a snail trail all over
- 2:24Speaker 2: this somewhere. You know. But because if you don't know
- 2:27Speaker 2: who Laura Bates is, she she's a feminist who essentially
- 2:33Speaker 2: goes into goes into classes and talks to very young
- 2:39Speaker 2: boys about sexual assault and the way that if you
- 2:44Speaker 2: have ever listened to this woman talk, she sounds like
- 2:48Speaker 2: she could get a second job narrating, like being a
- 2:54Speaker 2: voice acting for Romanticy. She is that breathless, overwrought, and
- 3:02Speaker 2: at the point of some form of complete dishevelment at
- 3:06Speaker 2: every moment in her voice. But anyway, so women like
- 3:09Speaker 2: this are getting more access to younger and younger boys
- 3:13Speaker 2: to enforce this kind of abusive ideology on them. And
- 3:17Speaker 2: as always, we bring receipts. Right, you don't have to
- 3:19Speaker 2: just believe us. I did a lot of work to
- 3:22Speaker 2: find a whole bunch of evidence of what we are
- 3:26Speaker 2: going to talk about about, the arguments against what they're doing.
- 3:30Speaker 2: And if you're interested in helping me out with that
- 3:32Speaker 2: kind of stuff or having this evidence that you have
- 3:35Speaker 2: fingertips when you want to push back against these people,
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- 4:27Speaker 2: badger dot com slash support. So which which article? We
- 4:34Speaker 2: have two articles?
- 4:35Speaker 1: One we have and follows.
- 4:38Speaker 2: So we have a we have a oh you might
- 4:40Speaker 2: have found another one. There's a lot of this coming out.
- 4:42Speaker 1: No, no, no, it's everything that you sent through.
- 4:44Speaker 2: Okay. So on the third one is an actual It
- 4:49Speaker 2: is a study on misogyny and miss injury in online communities.
- 4:55Speaker 2: So I figured this would be really good because it's
- 4:57Speaker 2: the empirical grounding on what's happening on online communities and
- 5:02Speaker 2: who's doing it in terms of hate speech towards the
- 5:04Speaker 2: opposite gender. Some surprising findings, some that you may not
- 5:08Speaker 2: even know even if you have been part of the
- 5:11Speaker 2: quote unquote manage here and you know, treading in our
- 5:14Speaker 2: circles because they've been hiding it. But yeah, so we
- 5:18Speaker 2: have that. So look at the empirical foundation for the
- 5:21Speaker 2: panic over UK boy boys and whether or not it
- 5:24Speaker 2: actually exists. And then we also have two articles, the
- 5:27Speaker 2: BBC article and the Guardian. Did either one of them
- 5:30Speaker 2: pique your interest? I mean they're both ideological.
- 5:34Speaker 1: I mean they're both trash. I don't know, like the
- 5:40Speaker 1: let me just look, I mean there are they both
- 5:42Speaker 1: aren't they both basically saying the same thing.
- 5:45Speaker 2: Probably, so we can coin any meani miney moe.
- 5:51Speaker 1: I mean I have the BBC one open now, so.
- 5:53Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do it. Let's just go with convenience.
- 5:58Speaker 1: Do you want me to do it in a female voice?
- 6:05Speaker 2: Oh? Can you?
- 6:07Speaker 1: Well?
- 6:09Speaker 2: Are you able to emulate a female voice?
- 6:12Speaker 1: I can? I have I have an audio program that
- 6:16Speaker 1: will let me sure? Sure? Why? Yeah? I think let
- 6:20Speaker 1: me just up and see.
- 6:24Speaker 2: Okay, let's give that a try.
- 6:27Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, so let's see what this one sounds like.
- 6:36Speaker 1: We'll try, all right, can no? No, this is uh,
- 6:41Speaker 1: these are these are different, These are not the ones
- 6:43Speaker 1: I want? Sorry?
- 6:46Speaker 2: Yeah, and this might be h this might be a
- 6:48Speaker 2: little bit ambitious.
- 6:49Speaker 1: Why am I not? Oh no, no, no, no, it's
- 6:51Speaker 1: it's not a big deal. It's really not a big deal. Okay,
- 6:53Speaker 1: all right, not that big. All I gotta do is
- 6:55Speaker 1: increase the pitch.
- 6:57Speaker 3: Ah, that's awesome.
- 7:03Speaker 2: By the way, I gotta do some squishes in the cat.
- 7:06Speaker 4: Okay.
- 7:07Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, it sounds like you've been hopping some helium.
- 7:15Speaker 3: There is that too high?
- 7:20Speaker 2: It's perfect for this ideological go ahead. You probably should
- 7:32Speaker 2: start with the title, Oh my god, this is gonna
- 7:35Speaker 2: be hard, isn't it.
- 7:37Speaker 5: Boys to be sent on courses to tackle misogyny in schools.
- 7:49Speaker 2: Let's try the first paragraph.
- 7:51Speaker 5: Teachers will be given training to spot and tackle misogyny
- 7:54Speaker 5: in the classroom, while high risk pupils could be sent
- 7:57Speaker 5: on behavioral courses as part of the remains long awaited
- 8:01Speaker 5: strategy to have violence against women and girls in the
- 8:05Speaker 5: next decade.
- 8:06Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my god, that's perfect, Brian, that's perfect.
- 8:13Speaker 1: Oh man, Okay, So I can switch back when you know, like,
- 8:17Speaker 1: if I want to just we want to respond.
- 8:20Speaker 2: So are my cats having a hair ball attack? Now?
- 8:25Speaker 1: Wrong?
- 8:27Speaker 2: All right?
- 8:28Speaker 1: Wrong?
- 8:29Speaker 2: First of all these interventions are not actually proven to work,
- 8:35Speaker 2: Like when you look at the actual data on what
- 8:40Speaker 2: they're proposing, there's no empirical validity behind this first paragraph.
- 8:45Speaker 2: These things don't work. In fact, they do probably the opposite,
- 8:50Speaker 2: because what's happening is they go into schools, these feminists,
- 8:53Speaker 2: let's just call it what it is. These feminists go
- 8:55Speaker 2: into schools and they teach boys to take responsibility for
- 8:59Speaker 2: things that girls are also doing, which creates resentment and
- 9:04Speaker 2: hardens boy's opinions like their anti institutional opinions. And there's
- 9:09Speaker 2: no other way that they can deal with this when
- 9:13Speaker 2: you're being told by an institution that you need to
- 9:16Speaker 2: take responsibility for behavior. When boys are told this and
- 9:20Speaker 2: they see girls engaging in this behavior towards them, and
- 9:23Speaker 2: the girls don't have to take responsibility for their behavior,
- 9:26Speaker 2: it creates resentment because what is the alternative. The alternative
- 9:31Speaker 2: is to internalize your status as inferior, or to internalize
- 9:35Speaker 2: your status as criminal, or to internalize your status as
- 9:39Speaker 2: mentally ill, and not in like a a woke way
- 9:45Speaker 2: that you get to say, well, my mental illness entitles
- 9:49Speaker 2: me to do all kinds of impositions on other people. No,
- 9:52Speaker 2: it's like you are tainted by who you are, by
- 9:57Speaker 2: being a boy. So they either have to embrace that
- 10:00Speaker 2: or they have to harden themselves against the institution. And incidentally,
- 10:04Speaker 2: option one, embracing what the institution is telling them increases
- 10:08Speaker 2: their rate of poor mental health outcomes, their rate of
- 10:12Speaker 2: self destruction, shall we say, and their rate of depression.
- 10:17Speaker 2: So the institution is asking, or is demanding, that boys
- 10:21Speaker 2: either fight back. Well, usually what happens is they go silent,
- 10:27Speaker 2: or they troll. They troll their teachers by using Andrew
- 10:32Speaker 2: Tate things like things that Andrew Tata said, or they
- 10:37Speaker 2: internalize and suffer. And by suffer, I mean this ideology
- 10:43Speaker 2: has a body count. Okay, let's go to the next paragraph.
- 10:48Speaker 1: All right, next paragraph.
- 10:52Speaker 5: The plans for schools in England which focus on preventing
- 10:55Speaker 5: the radicalization of young men have been unveiled as part
- 10:58Speaker 5: of a wider strategy which had been delayed three times.
- 11:03Speaker 5: Teachers will get specialist training around issues such as consent
- 11:07Speaker 5: and the dangers of sharing intimate images.
- 11:13Speaker 1: What about girls?
- 11:15Speaker 2: No?
- 11:15Speaker 1: Uh no, what am I talking about? No?
- 11:18Speaker 2: Even though we do have studies that indicate that revenge
- 11:21Speaker 2: porn is something that women engage in and in fact,
- 11:26Speaker 2: I think we have evidence that they engage in it
- 11:28Speaker 2: more than men, although women tend to also be the
- 11:30Speaker 2: targets of it, so we're looking at a lot of
- 11:32Speaker 2: intersectual bullying between women. But no, it's just going to
- 11:36Speaker 2: be addressing supposedly boys harms because when you're dealing with
- 11:41Speaker 2: the situation where boys are already alienated from the institution
- 11:45Speaker 2: that you are a represented representative of, the best approach
- 11:51Speaker 2: is to alienate them further by treating them like second
- 11:55Speaker 2: class citizens. Right and again, these interventions don't work. They
- 12:02Speaker 2: don't They have absolutely no empirical validity. So right off
- 12:06Speaker 2: the top, these individuals are advocating for things that do
- 12:11Speaker 2: not work. They are functionally useless. So even if you're
- 12:15Speaker 2: not a boy being targeted in a school, if you're
- 12:18Speaker 2: a UK taxpayer, maybe you should care that a good
- 12:22Speaker 2: portion of your income is going to a bunch of
- 12:25Speaker 2: bureaucrats who do fuck and all.
- 12:30Speaker 1: Okay, next pairs, also, like these boys already are having
- 12:35Speaker 1: a terrible time, like not being able to, you know,
- 12:39Speaker 1: get a job because they're going to be put at
- 12:41Speaker 1: the back of the line because they're boys. And on
- 12:44Speaker 1: top of that, they got to deal with this in
- 12:47Speaker 1: school before they even like, what what good is it
- 12:50Speaker 1: even gonna do? And by the way, if there is,
- 12:53Speaker 1: let's just say hypothetically there is a problem with you know,
- 12:58Speaker 1: like I don't know reports of actual assault. You're not
- 13:02Speaker 1: going to get someone to not do it just by
- 13:06Speaker 1: teaching them. It's like teaching people not to steal or murder.
- 13:09Speaker 1: If they're like prone to doing it. It's not going
- 13:12Speaker 1: to be effective. You know, it's just not the boys
- 13:15Speaker 1: that are not going to do it. We're never going
- 13:17Speaker 1: to do it, and that's going to be the overwhelming
- 13:19Speaker 1: majority the ones that are. You're not going to be
- 13:22Speaker 1: able to deter them by saying, you know, you don't
- 13:25Speaker 1: seem to know the difference between porn and reality, so
- 13:30Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just as an aside, all right,
- 13:34Speaker 1: next paragraph, right yep.
- 13:38Speaker 5: Responding to the announcement, the Domestic Abuse Commissioner for England
- 13:42Speaker 5: and Wales, Dame Nicole Jacobs, said the commitments did not
- 13:47Speaker 5: go far enough. She said, while the strategy recognize the
- 13:51Speaker 5: scale of the challenge, the level of investment.
- 13:54Speaker 4: Falls seriously short.
- 13:58Speaker 5: The twenty million pound package. We'll also see teachers get
- 14:02Speaker 5: training around how to identify positive role models and how
- 14:06Speaker 5: to challenge unhealthy myths about women and relationships.
- 14:12Speaker 2: And again, you know what, maybe it's time to show
- 14:17Speaker 2: that study. Do you have it ready in one of
- 14:20Speaker 2: your tabs?
- 14:21Speaker 1: Is it the Express dot co dot uk?
- 14:25Speaker 2: No, it's the study. It's the one I don't have that.
- 14:28Speaker 1: You sent me three links. Oh, I see it now article.
- 14:34Speaker 2: No, it's not the BBC article.
- 14:35Speaker 1: I know. I'm looking at the links. It's study.
- 14:38Speaker 2: I don't have it, all right, cross miscommunication. I thought
- 14:45Speaker 2: you sent the yeah right here this one. I'll send
- 14:48Speaker 2: it to you again, but you sent it originally to me.
- 14:50Speaker 4: Maybe I should have been more clear, sorry.
- 14:52Speaker 2: Voydcat is being a little bit obstructionist.
- 14:56Speaker 1: Yes, women who hate men? Okay, oh yes, all right,
- 15:00Speaker 1: do you want to look at this now?
- 15:01Speaker 2: Sure, yes, yes, I've got my cat safely contained with
- 15:05Speaker 2: the squish all right. Yeah, so this is really interesting.
- 15:10Speaker 2: What it essentially found is that women's subreddits like feminist
- 15:18Speaker 2: subreddits let's be honest, let's let's call it what it is,
- 15:21Speaker 2: and gender critical subreddits, which is also a feminist subretit.
- 15:25Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure that is the trans exclusionary radical feminists.
- 15:29Speaker 2: So you got feminist subreddits and then you've got trans
- 15:32Speaker 2: exclusionary radical feminist subreddits. And they compared it to an
- 15:37Speaker 2: in cell subreddit and the reddit that I'm actually a
- 15:39Speaker 2: moderator of, which is our Men's Rights. And they looked
- 15:44Speaker 2: at the misogyny versus the miss injury in these various
- 15:48Speaker 2: creddits and they found something very interesting. They are roughly comparable,
- 15:53Speaker 2: at least on first blush. So, for example, the level
- 15:58Speaker 2: of hatred towards men is comparable to the level of
- 16:02Speaker 2: hatred towards women, at least in the in cell subreddit,
- 16:06Speaker 2: insofar as the way that they define these things, which
- 16:09Speaker 2: is something to look into because you always want to
- 16:11Speaker 2: make sure that we're speaking the same language. There may
- 16:14Speaker 2: interpretation of what hatred towards men looks like may differ
- 16:18Speaker 2: significantly from what they say hatred towards women looks like.
- 16:22Speaker 2: But let's take it on space value. Let's assume that
- 16:24Speaker 2: it was rigorous. They found that feministreddits had the same
- 16:30Speaker 2: level of hatred as in cell reddits. Okay, now, the
- 16:35Speaker 2: difference is that in cells are a reaction to a
- 16:39Speaker 2: overwhelming entrenched institutional ideology that frames the sexes between the
- 16:47Speaker 2: sexes as defined by oppression. In other words, men oppress women.
- 16:54Speaker 2: So these are not equivalents, right. The in cell reddits
- 16:58Speaker 2: are tiny on slaves, like the the the rebel base,
- 17:04Speaker 2: in the in the in the in the the icy
- 17:06Speaker 2: waste you remember that, Yeah, sure, yeah, I don't know
- 17:09Speaker 2: the specific name PAF, Yes, the rebel Yeah, and they're
- 17:16Speaker 2: like they have to travel on Tom Tom's and yeah,
- 17:19Speaker 2: extremely harsh, will.
- 17:21Speaker 1: Dive before it gets to the first marker. I'll see
- 17:23Speaker 1: you now.
- 17:25Speaker 2: Exactly. That's the in cells. They're just running around this
- 17:28Speaker 2: harsh waste and they're there because nobody else wants to
- 17:30Speaker 2: be and it's easy to hide, you know, riding Tom Toms. Meanwhile,
- 17:34Speaker 2: the the feminists are basically the evil Empire with freaking
- 17:39Speaker 2: with the demo sphere coming into view, gigantic, massive, institutionally privileged.
- 17:45Speaker 2: So these things are not comparable. But in terms of
- 17:49Speaker 2: the actual toxicity, feminists are and in cells are relatively
- 17:55Speaker 2: the same level of toxic. I have my doubts. I
- 18:00Speaker 2: think that one is one.
- 18:02Speaker 1: Is that's what the study finds.
- 18:04Speaker 2: That necessarily, Yeah, But here's the thing depends.
- 18:07Speaker 1: On how they're measuring that, right.
- 18:09Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, Like what I was.
- 18:11Speaker 1: Saying, like, how do you measure how toxic a man
- 18:15Speaker 1: is towards women versus how toxic what what we consider
- 18:18Speaker 1: toxic for the other way, because I think that our
- 18:21Speaker 1: tolerance for man bashing is extremely high, so like it
- 18:26Speaker 1: would have to be really really serious, like you know,
- 18:30Speaker 1: over the top, like like god, like just kill all
- 18:33Speaker 1: men type man bashing before they're like, well, we're going
- 18:36Speaker 1: to put that in the missingry category. Meanwhile, you know,
- 18:39Speaker 1: like a man who is like, you know, I think
- 18:41Speaker 1: women should have stop having so many kids without without
- 18:44Speaker 1: their fathers and like the father involved, And they call
- 18:47Speaker 1: that misogyny. So it's like, yeah, it depends on how
- 18:50Speaker 1: they're measuring it. So yeah, I have doubts too, but
- 18:52Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
- 18:53Speaker 2: What's really interesting is, even if there are methodological problems
- 18:58Speaker 2: for how they measured hatred, they did find something that
- 19:04Speaker 2: was announced nowhere and you'll won't see this anywhere in
- 19:09Speaker 2: media in the usual suspects the media usual suspects, they
- 19:15Speaker 2: found that feminists on an individual level are substantially more
- 19:22Speaker 2: hateful then most definitely men's rights the men's rights advocate
- 19:29Speaker 2: forum or Reddit, and also more hateful than the insuls
- 19:34Speaker 2: on an individual level. So basically, if you look at
- 19:36Speaker 2: the content the content generally classifies on like the men's
- 19:42Speaker 2: focused or subreddits. They if you just look at it
- 19:46Speaker 2: a content level, so you just do an analysis and
- 19:48Speaker 2: you slot things into hateful towards men hateful towards women. Generally,
- 19:54Speaker 2: the proportions are very similar, with maybe a little bit
- 19:58Speaker 2: more in the in cell community. But when you look
- 20:00Speaker 2: at the actual level of hatred of the individual members
- 20:04Speaker 2: of the community, the feminists are winning hands down. They
- 20:09Speaker 2: are absolutely toxic human beings. And you're not going to
- 20:14Speaker 2: see this recognized anywhere. Of course you aren't, because these
- 20:18Speaker 2: are feminist initiatives. These are feminist bureaucrats justifying their feminist
- 20:23Speaker 2: jobs to get their feminist salaries. So you're not going
- 20:26Speaker 2: to see any acknowledgment that feminism itself is a seething
- 20:31Speaker 2: cauldron of hatred that's inculcating young women into toxic hatred
- 20:42Speaker 2: of the opposite sex. And what would you expect. I mean,
- 20:45Speaker 2: right from the get go, right from the very start
- 20:48Speaker 2: of feminism, it says that men oppress women. Where do
- 20:51Speaker 2: you go from there? The only way you go logically
- 20:55Speaker 2: is hatred and resentment, and hatred and resentment that's absolutely
- 20:59Speaker 2: buttress by again a narrative that has never been proven.
- 21:03Speaker 2: There's no non ideological body of science that proves feminism's
- 21:08Speaker 2: premise correct. So what they do is they create the framework,
- 21:11Speaker 2: and they look through history and around the world and
- 21:13Speaker 2: they simply zero in on anything that supports their framework,
- 21:18Speaker 2: and then they use that as proof that the framework
- 21:21Speaker 2: is true. Well, that's not the way you do science,
- 21:23Speaker 2: that's not the way you determine what reality is. So
- 21:26Speaker 2: one hundred percent feminist framework is false. But what they're
- 21:31Speaker 2: handing to girls is this seething resentment and hatred towards
- 21:35Speaker 2: men and boys, buttressed by academic authority. So they appeal
- 21:40Speaker 2: to this and they say, oh, wow, this is just true.
- 21:43Speaker 2: It's not. It is a fundamental lie. Like if it
- 21:46Speaker 2: was just a misapprehension or misunderstanding, they misunderstood the data,
- 21:53Speaker 2: that's one thing, but they keep promoting it. They keep
- 21:56Speaker 2: At this point it's indistinguishable from legal malice. So it's like, Okay,
- 22:02Speaker 2: we have one side, which is a hateful narrative buttressed
- 22:07Speaker 2: by false academic credentials and huge institutional power, and on
- 22:14Speaker 2: the other side you have dudes who feel lonely being
- 22:23Speaker 2: upset on the internet. Yep, these are not comparable things.
- 22:29Speaker 2: These are not comparable problems. Okay, So I mean like
- 22:35Speaker 2: that's uh all right, So I'm I'm looking at this.
- 22:39Speaker 3: At the.
- 22:41Speaker 2: The Yeah, just throw up a graph and take a
- 22:47Speaker 2: look at it. That's always Yeah, isn't it amazing? Licked
- 22:53Speaker 2: it tastes like raisins. Sorry that was from when the
- 23:00Speaker 2: internet was actually cool. Okay, yeah, so there there you go,
- 23:07Speaker 2: online mithogy. Okay, this is actually a an estimate of
- 23:11Speaker 2: how much online misogyny versus online missonry is searched for.
- 23:18Speaker 2: So as you can see online missology, it's not just
- 23:23Speaker 2: search for, but academic articles on it, citations that kind
- 23:27Speaker 2: of thing. So online misogyny occupies a gigantic and yet
- 23:38Speaker 2: it is just as toxic in the granular detail. It's
- 23:42Speaker 2: just as toxic as online missionry. Right, so online missigry
- 23:49Speaker 2: is just as toxic. But we don't look at that.
- 23:51Speaker 2: And why is that because online missonry is the institutional position.
- 23:57Speaker 2: Let's be honest, like, no, miss injury is the institutional position,
- 24:02Speaker 2: and well we'll show you evidence of that as well
- 24:04Speaker 2: as we go. So anyway, I thought this was interesting.
- 24:07Speaker 2: Online Sorry, online misogyny huge occupies a huge space in
- 24:12Speaker 2: the literature. Online mys inry has almost no there's no
- 24:16Speaker 2: recognition of it in the literature. People don't talk about it,
- 24:20Speaker 2: they don't write articles on it, they don't do research
- 24:22Speaker 2: on it. And yet this research finally looking at online
- 24:27Speaker 2: myssonry in feminist spaces has actually found that they are
- 24:31Speaker 2: horribly toxic. I think this should surprise no one. Mm hmm.
- 24:38Speaker 1: I should know it, shouldn't You know? Online myssagry is
- 24:41Speaker 1: not good for business. Online misogyny is.
- 24:44Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Like I did a tweet cursed kirs starmer
- 24:49Speaker 2: uh said something about this, We're going to tackle the
- 24:52Speaker 2: violence against women by going into schools and doing fuck
- 24:55Speaker 2: and all. And I'm like, when you see a politician
- 24:59Speaker 2: talk about violence against women, check your pockets, hm, because
- 25:05Speaker 2: they're stealing your tax money. And that's exactly what they're doing.
- 25:08Speaker 2: Even looking at this completely neutrally, even if you really
- 25:11Speaker 2: care about violence against women and girls, what they're doing
- 25:16Speaker 2: is going to is not going to do anything. It's
- 25:18Speaker 2: just going to make a lot of bureaucratic jobs. And
- 25:21Speaker 2: they are not going to do anything. They are probably
- 25:23Speaker 2: going to make the problem worse, and then they're going
- 25:26Speaker 2: to blame men for that online influences for that, and
- 25:31Speaker 2: they're going to justify another twenty billion pounds of your
- 25:35Speaker 2: money going to them in order to deal with the
- 25:40Speaker 2: problem that they created. It's sell the sick or sorry,
- 25:43Speaker 2: create the disease, sell the cure. Create yeah, create the sickness,
- 25:50Speaker 2: sell the sickness, and then sell the sickness again. And
- 25:57Speaker 2: it is because people just their brains turn off off.
- 26:00Speaker 2: As soon as you talk about women and girls being
- 26:02Speaker 2: in trouble. Everybody just like turns into drooling zombies and
- 26:06Speaker 2: they just like, yes, we must do whatever this person
- 26:09Speaker 2: says without any critical thought droll or oll drool, And
- 26:13Speaker 2: it's it's a really difficult thing to oppose. But yeah,
- 26:17Speaker 2: that's where we're at. We're just gonna beat on boys
- 26:20Speaker 2: some more because surely that'll work this time. Okay, so
- 26:25Speaker 2: once again, before we go any further, feed the Badger
- 26:28Speaker 2: dot com slash just the tip, send your send your
- 26:30Speaker 2: super chousen. Also, marry call it Christmas. I can say Christmas, Yes,
- 26:34Speaker 2: Merry Christmas.
- 26:35Speaker 1: It's almost say Merry Christmas.
- 26:38Speaker 2: Yes, I shall.
- 26:40Speaker 1: I mean, if that's what you mean, like, if you
- 26:42Speaker 1: you know, if you're into hankah, then just say happy Honkah.
- 26:45Speaker 1: But if not say Merry Christmas.
- 26:47Speaker 2: Yeah, Merry Christmas. I'm supposed to be a Catholic, So
- 26:49Speaker 2: there you go.
- 26:50Speaker 1: Oh you don't have to you can say Merry Christmas
- 26:53Speaker 1: without being anything. Yeah, it's a cultural thing.
- 26:57Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I'm just thinking like, uh, you know, I
- 27:02Speaker 2: as a Catholic, you know, we get to have like
- 27:04Speaker 2: colored lights and trees and fun and presents. If you're
- 27:07Speaker 2: a Protestant, you know, I guess you can say Mary
- 27:11Speaker 2: black and whiteness.
- 27:13Speaker 1: No, they we all I don't know. Maybe maybe in
- 27:15Speaker 1: Canada it's like that.
- 27:16Speaker 2: I don't know, all right, the Protestants and their hatred
- 27:21Speaker 2: of ornamentation. Okay, just a.
- 27:24Speaker 1: Little bit like smoke machines and rock music concerts at
- 27:29Speaker 1: your churches.
- 27:30Speaker 4: So but okay, past that, all right?
- 27:34Speaker 1: Huh?
- 27:35Speaker 2: I said, maybe they've evolved past that.
- 27:37Speaker 1: Yeah, it depends on the when you go to Okay,
- 27:41Speaker 1: so am I going back to the article?
- 27:43Speaker 2: Yeah? They no longer have to sit on a steak
- 27:45Speaker 2: and eat turnips?
- 27:47Speaker 1: All right? Back to the article.
- 27:50Speaker 2: Yeah, go back to the article.
- 27:51Speaker 1: All right, So let me see what paragraph I left off. Okay, yeah,
- 27:59Speaker 1: so I think oh wait, oh.
- 28:02Speaker 2: Well, actually at the level of basic definition, there are parallel.
- 28:05Speaker 2: This is an analysis of how misogyny and miss injuries
- 28:08Speaker 2: is treated in that research that we just did. So
- 28:13Speaker 2: it just popped up here, so I can give you
- 28:15Speaker 2: an analysis of it at the level of basic definition
- 28:20Speaker 2: they are parallel, and how they are used and treated
- 28:23Speaker 2: they are not. So I'm guessing what we're going to
- 28:25Speaker 2: find from just looking at that one source of data
- 28:28Speaker 2: is that it's actually worse, like mis injury is actually worse,
- 28:31Speaker 2: substantially worse. This is what I'm predicting. But let's find
- 28:35Speaker 2: out because this is the analysis core definitions most reference
- 28:39Speaker 2: in clinical sources. Misogyny is defined as hatred, contempt, or
- 28:42Speaker 2: ingrained prejudice against women and girls on the basis of
- 28:45Speaker 2: their sex or perceived femininity. Miss Injury is the direct
- 28:48Speaker 2: counter part hatred, contempt or prejudice against men and boys
- 28:52Speaker 2: as a group often express their beliefs that air men
- 28:54Speaker 2: are inherently aggressive, dangerous, or morally inferior. I'm not exactly
- 28:58Speaker 2: sure how they don't notice that men suppressors. You know,
- 29:01Speaker 2: hits all of those, but you know, so as attitudes
- 29:05Speaker 2: hating men versus hating women, the definitions are directly comparable.
- 29:10Speaker 2: Where many an analysts draw distinction, a common move in
- 29:13Speaker 2: feminist and media writing is to say the key difference
- 29:16Speaker 2: is structural power not proven. Misogyny is backed by long
- 29:21Speaker 2: standing systems that privileged men over women, not proven, whereas
- 29:25Speaker 2: miss injury is often framed as reaction, resentment, or punching up,
- 29:29Speaker 2: thus treated as less severe. And again, they're appealing to
- 29:32Speaker 2: something that has never been proven, and where it has
- 29:35Speaker 2: even come cro close to being proven, it's been disproven.
- 29:38Speaker 2: So any science that's close to empirically sound regarding the
- 29:43Speaker 2: premises of feminism has disproven them or found them not
- 29:48Speaker 2: very good at predicted. Not without having any predictive power.
- 29:52Speaker 2: The only way feminism remains true is in a very
- 29:56Speaker 2: specific cherry picking framework. So feminism has to you pick
- 30:00Speaker 2: all of the evidence right before it feminism presents her
- 30:04Speaker 2: case for feminism to be true, and obviously that means
- 30:08Speaker 2: that feminism is not proven. Right, the feminist premises are
- 30:12Speaker 2: not proven, So they're justifying this bias against boys. It's
- 30:17Speaker 2: miss injury based on premises that are false. I'm not
- 30:22Speaker 2: just gonna say it, they're false.
- 30:24Speaker 1: Yep.
- 30:26Speaker 2: So as attitudes hating men versus hating women as definitions
- 30:30Speaker 2: are directly comparable, where many analysts draw distinction. Oh yeah,
- 30:36Speaker 2: though we already did that. In other words, the dictionary
- 30:38Speaker 2: sees them as parallel. A lot of contemporary theory treats
- 30:41Speaker 2: misogyny as structural and miss injury is derivative or excusable,
- 30:47Speaker 2: so in direct opposition with what's actually happening. You remember
- 30:52Speaker 2: how I described the manosphere or the insell forums as
- 30:57Speaker 2: the rebel base on HAWF and the feminists and all
- 31:01Speaker 2: of their institutional pals as the empire. Yeah, they're reversing that.
- 31:07Speaker 2: So apparently the menosphere is the empire and feminism.
- 31:11Speaker 1: Is the of course, of course, and god.
- 31:15Speaker 2: Knows the empire would never frame itself as the underdog
- 31:20Speaker 2: that never happens. Guys. In other words, the discred Okay,
- 31:25Speaker 2: what empirical work on actual hate speech shows. Okay. The
- 31:30Speaker 2: twenty twenty five Scientific Reports paper analyzing four extremist community
- 31:34Speaker 2: credit communities two misogynists are in self Okay, I really,
- 31:39Speaker 2: I really am like they right off the bat, they're
- 31:43Speaker 2: calling our men's rights misogynistic, and two miss feminism and
- 31:49Speaker 2: our gender critical found that the the text level misogynists
- 31:53Speaker 2: and miss interer spaces are both noxious communities with similar hate.
- 31:56Speaker 2: So that's basically what I talked about. At the user level,
- 31:59Speaker 2: the strongest hate peak in the whole data set appears
- 32:02Speaker 2: the strongest hate peak in the feminist subreddit. Misingdric communities
- 32:10Speaker 2: showed more negative sentiment than the misogynist ones, undercutting the
- 32:14Speaker 2: claim that missingry is trivial or quantitatively different as an
- 32:18Speaker 2: emotional posture. All right, So basically, yeah, this is their
- 32:32Speaker 2: focus on boys has no empirical foundation whatsoever, and new
- 32:38Speaker 2: evidence is showing just how morally bankrupt it is to
- 32:42Speaker 2: focus on boys. So let's continue with the article.
- 32:46Speaker 1: All right, going back to the article, already, have it up,
- 32:51Speaker 1: all right, let me just do the pitch.
- 32:54Speaker 5: The twenty million pound package. We'll also see teachers get
- 32:58Speaker 5: training around how to identify positive role models and how
- 33:01Speaker 5: to challenge unhealthy myths about women and relationships. It will
- 33:05Speaker 5: include a new helpline for teenagers to get support for
- 33:09Speaker 5: concerns about abuse in their own relationships. The government hopes
- 33:13Speaker 5: that by tackling the early roots of misogyny, it will
- 33:16Speaker 5: prevent young men from becoming violent abusers.
- 33:19Speaker 2: How do we go from how do we go from abuse?
- 33:22Speaker 2: Like the gender neutral abuse in a relationship and then
- 33:26Speaker 2: suddenly we're popped out on hmm, like, honestly, there's.
- 33:35Speaker 1: Not these problems.
- 33:37Speaker 2: No, no, not at all, because they make money off
- 33:40Speaker 2: of them. Brian, why would you why would you stop
- 33:42Speaker 2: the stream that turns your water wheel? Like, why would
- 33:47Speaker 2: you do that? In fact, why wouldn't you just shoot
- 33:50Speaker 2: the beavers that are gonna dam up your stream that
- 33:53Speaker 2: turns your water wheel. We're like the beavers in this,
- 33:56Speaker 2: you know.
- 33:56Speaker 1: Yeah, moving on, So, but.
- 34:02Speaker 2: You notice how they start with on the new plan,
- 34:05Speaker 2: schools will send high risk students to get extra care,
- 34:09Speaker 2: extra struggle, extra struggle sessions for these high risk students,
- 34:14Speaker 2: and of course they mean boys. That including behavioral classes
- 34:19Speaker 2: to tactical their prejudice against women and girls.
- 34:22Speaker 1: So they mean boys, yes, well, of course of course. Yeah.
- 34:28Speaker 2: But will it will include a new helpline for teenagers
- 34:31Speaker 2: to get support for concerns about abuse in their own relationships.
- 34:35Speaker 2: I'm guessing that helpline won't really help boys. And again
- 34:39Speaker 2: there's there's there is scholarship that shows that teenage girls
- 34:44Speaker 2: are performing a substantial amount of domestic violence in their
- 34:48Speaker 2: relationship with boys, like, if not most of it in fact,
- 34:52Speaker 2: I think teenage girls are some of the most violent
- 34:55Speaker 2: groups of people and teenage to young adult most violent
- 35:01Speaker 2: and most sexually violent too. Interestingly enough, another thing that
- 35:05Speaker 2: nobody wants to talk about.
- 35:07Speaker 1: Yep up.
- 35:08Speaker 2: And what's interesting like they start with something gender neutral
- 35:11Speaker 2: that sounds just fine, the helpline for teenagers to get help,
- 35:15Speaker 2: you know, with the domestic violence in the relationship, and
- 35:17Speaker 2: suddenly boom, like three steps and we're at a tackle
- 35:23Speaker 2: their prejudice against women and girls. Yeah, so it's just
- 35:29Speaker 2: gonna be this is gonna be completely one sided. And that,
- 35:32Speaker 2: of course is again gonna fix the alienation that boys
- 35:35Speaker 2: feel in schools. Of course, that's exactly. You know, we
- 35:40Speaker 2: have the ball kicking machine. Must continue to kick balls.
- 35:45Speaker 2: Surely that will fix the epidemic of kicked balls. Just
- 35:52Speaker 2: kick more, kick more, so nobody has the breast to complain,
- 35:56Speaker 2: and then everything is fine. Okay, yep, I want to
- 35:59Speaker 2: read some more.
- 36:00Speaker 1: All right, back to the article.
- 36:04Speaker 5: Under the new plans, schools will attend high risk students
- 36:10Speaker 5: though I'm sorry. Under new plans, schools will send high
- 36:13Speaker 5: risk students to get extra care and support, including behavioral courses,
- 36:18Speaker 5: to tackle their prejudice against women and girls. Conservative leader
- 36:22Speaker 5: Kemmy Badanok criticized the move, accusing the government of silly gimmicks.
- 36:28Speaker 5: It's not it's.
- 36:30Speaker 1: Not just silly gimmicks. It's straight up like targeted. It's
- 36:35Speaker 1: targeting boys. I think it's going to like really piss
- 36:38Speaker 1: people off. And again, if you're like, I don't know,
- 36:42Speaker 1: like if you if you want to harass people, you're
- 36:45Speaker 1: just gonna do it. I don't think this is going
- 36:47Speaker 1: to be a great deterrent. I think it's just going
- 36:49Speaker 1: to be punishing the innocent.
- 36:50Speaker 2: Mostly, Yeah, it looks like it was. So this was
- 36:57Speaker 2: code like the in that study, everything was coded equally,
- 37:01Speaker 2: so there was a bit more like a bit more
- 37:05Speaker 2: volume of general anti female statements or at least anti feminist.
- 37:10Speaker 2: I'm gonna find out if that was anti feminist or
- 37:12Speaker 2: anti female. But yeah, just continued Brian. I'm gonna I'm
- 37:16Speaker 2: going out on my rabbit hole, but I will I
- 37:18Speaker 2: will keep an ear out.
- 37:21Speaker 4: She told the BBC.
- 37:22Speaker 5: The plans were only being rolled out because the government
- 37:25Speaker 5: spent most of the summer watching Adolescents, the Netflix drama
- 37:28Speaker 5: that explored the impact of social media and influencers on
- 37:32Speaker 5: teenage boys She instead called for more police officers, saying, quote,
- 37:37Speaker 5: we need to remove people from our country who shouldn't
- 37:39Speaker 5: be here, especially those who come from cultures where women
- 37:42Speaker 5: are treated as third class citizens. That would be a
- 37:45Speaker 5: much smarter place to begin end quote.
- 37:50Speaker 4: I don't want to say anything about that, just like
- 37:55Speaker 4: I'm in my little rabbit hole.
- 37:56Speaker 2: I gotta I gotta extricate myself.
- 38:01Speaker 1: Well, yes, I'll say, is like, that's there. They don't
- 38:04Speaker 1: want to that. Even if that's true, they're not gonna
- 38:06Speaker 1: they're not gonna do that because they don't actually want
- 38:09Speaker 1: to address that problem.
- 38:12Speaker 2: Yeah, well, she she's she's not wrong, though, Oh.
- 38:16Speaker 1: She's not wrong. I mean I wouldn't call it. Let
- 38:19Speaker 1: me see, how does she call it? Oh, No, women
- 38:24Speaker 1: are treated as third class citizens. I wouldn't describe it
- 38:26Speaker 1: that way because I don't think that's true. I just
- 38:28Speaker 1: think they're different. But she's right.
- 38:30Speaker 2: The government spent most of the summer watching adolescence.
- 38:33Speaker 1: Yes, watching adolescents, yes.
- 38:35Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, and the Okay, so if you just do
- 38:40Speaker 2: an analysis of the various interventions that they're doing to
- 38:43Speaker 2: so quote unquote solve the problem of violence against women
- 38:47Speaker 2: and girls, none of them are particularly none of them
- 38:54Speaker 2: are particularly strong, like the the feminist interventions are the
- 39:02Speaker 2: worst of the lot. They probably make things worse because
- 39:05Speaker 2: they're essentially asking boys to internalize a double standard. And
- 39:12Speaker 2: you can't internalize a double standard without damaging yourself, right,
- 39:16Speaker 2: So they're asking boys to dam or they're demanding that
- 39:18Speaker 2: boys damage themselves or through self preservation, harden themselves and
- 39:24Speaker 2: alienate and distance themselves from the legitimacy of academia of education.
- 39:32Speaker 2: So that intervention is absolutely worthless, right, And there's some
- 39:39Speaker 2: particular features to it that are really interesting. Let me
- 39:43Speaker 2: just pull up the data pathologizing and medicalizing dissent. Nope,
- 39:53Speaker 2: that's not the right one second, okay, And the second
- 40:02Speaker 2: realm of interventions is more community oriented interventions, so mentorship,
- 40:09Speaker 2: non ideological, but about presenting conflict resolution and that kind
- 40:17Speaker 2: of thing, and those do better than feminist interventions. But
- 40:23Speaker 2: I'll just float this and see if Brian gets the
- 40:28Speaker 2: answer to this right off the bat. There's one thing
- 40:31Speaker 2: that you can do that blows all of this out
- 40:34Speaker 2: of the water and completely removes the necessity of any
- 40:38Speaker 2: of this, either feminist interventions or non feminist interventions that
- 40:43Speaker 2: are based on social conflict modeling and mentors. I'll just
- 40:49Speaker 2: leave it to Brian. Can you think you can guess
- 40:51Speaker 2: what that intervention is or what that benefit is, that
- 40:56Speaker 2: that potential social institution is that far more benefits children
- 41:02Speaker 2: who preventing them from being antisocial? Just up, maybe in
- 41:05Speaker 2: a word, can you get it?
- 41:07Speaker 1: Dad?
- 41:12Speaker 2: Like literally, these politicians and bureaucrats, well, that's.
- 41:16Speaker 1: The thing, that's the last thing they want.
- 41:18Speaker 2: But yeah, Dad, yeah, because Dad puts them all out
- 41:21Speaker 2: of business. They've constructed what is this twenty billion and
- 41:24Speaker 2: this is just a new outlay of funds. If you
- 41:27Speaker 2: look at the whole the whole child industrial complex, they're
- 41:33Speaker 2: probably looking at maybe even a trillion, twenty billion, maybe
- 41:37Speaker 2: a hundred billion, probably well more than a hundred billion.
- 41:40Speaker 2: If this is just like this twenty billion is a
- 41:43Speaker 2: drop in the bucket, and they're still asking for more.
- 41:45Speaker 2: So this is probably a substantial career opportunity for bureaucrats,
- 41:51Speaker 2: revenue opportunity, and almost no one insut we no oversight.
- 41:55Speaker 2: And if you enjoy psychologically torturing kids, you get a
- 41:59Speaker 2: bonus at the end of the day. You get to
- 42:01Speaker 2: do what you love, you know, So I mean, who
- 42:04Speaker 2: wouldn't want that. I'm being very sarcastic here, guys, I
- 42:07Speaker 2: hope you pick that up. Most normal human beings don't
- 42:09Speaker 2: want to psychologically torture children, you know, maybe a little
- 42:13Speaker 2: bit like stealing their nose or something, but not not
- 42:16Speaker 2: to this degree. And but you know, there's a huge
- 42:20Speaker 2: industry dealing with fatherless children. And if children had their fathers,
- 42:26Speaker 2: boy howdy, they'd lose their jobs. So this is a
- 42:30Speaker 2: whole bunch of like these these articles, there's a whole
- 42:32Speaker 2: bunch of of and these research, this research is a
- 42:37Speaker 2: whole bunch of bureaucrats saying, well, they'll take our gerbs
- 42:43Speaker 2: if we recognize the importance of they'll take our germs
- 42:46Speaker 2: those fathers.
- 42:47Speaker 1: Fathers are going to take your jobs.
- 42:49Speaker 2: That's right, Yeah, exactly. That's their entire stick. The fathers
- 42:53Speaker 2: are going to take their jobs. So what's really interesting
- 42:56Speaker 2: to me is the how things are coincid in uk
- 43:03Speaker 2: astan Like recently they have put into place policies that
- 43:09Speaker 2: take away the expectation that shared parenting is something that
- 43:13Speaker 2: you want to aim for as an outcome for children.
- 43:17Speaker 2: So now they're taking away the last protection for fathers
- 43:22Speaker 2: and their families, which is the assumption that a child
- 43:25Speaker 2: actually even needs their father, which is not an assumption
- 43:27Speaker 2: it is in sociology. There is there is fathers are
- 43:35Speaker 2: good for their children, like are really important in their
- 43:38Speaker 2: children's lives. And then there's the rest of sociology, which
- 43:43Speaker 2: all is utter bullshit, like it's all fails the replicated
- 43:47Speaker 2: it doesn't repleate, you can't replicate it, like you have
- 43:51Speaker 2: this one finding, this one finding in sociology that is
- 43:54Speaker 2: more robust than the entirety of the rest of it,
- 43:58Speaker 2: and they refuse to acknowledge it as true. They're just like, oh,
- 44:03Speaker 2: and then they put out Then they allow things like adolescents,
- 44:07Speaker 2: which implicates involved fatherhood as the reason why this boy
- 44:11Speaker 2: is so violent, Like they put that, and they start
- 44:15Speaker 2: to allow that to influence policy. And then suddenly we
- 44:18Speaker 2: do away with this expectation that maybe children get to
- 44:22Speaker 2: stay with the father that will probably protect them from
- 44:25Speaker 2: being a client in the child industrial complex. And we're like, oh, well,
- 44:28Speaker 2: we don't need that, And we're allowing bureaucrats to make
- 44:31Speaker 2: these decisions. And these bureaucrats are protecting their jobs. And
- 44:37Speaker 2: then they're also doing this. They're not because they took
- 44:42Speaker 2: fathers out of their children's lives. Now we have a
- 44:44Speaker 2: whole bunch of antisocial problems, and they're once again constructing
- 44:49Speaker 2: a twenty billion dollar gravy train for themselves to do
- 44:54Speaker 2: nothing to intercede with an ideology that the only thing
- 45:00Speaker 2: it's good at is blaming its failures on its victims.
- 45:06Speaker 2: It's like feminism is great at one thing, blaming its failures,
- 45:11Speaker 2: like blaming boys for the failures for failing to become
- 45:19Speaker 2: better as a result of feminist interventions. So that's the
- 45:22Speaker 2: one thing that feminism is good for, blaming its failures
- 45:25Speaker 2: on its victims.
- 45:27Speaker 1: Yep. Okay, and literally an adolescence do like they take
- 45:33Speaker 1: the one factor that's probably the one that's the going
- 45:37Speaker 1: to give you the best outcomes and make it the
- 45:39Speaker 1: cause of the problem. Yep, that's what they did. And
- 45:43Speaker 1: I and I know that wasn't an accident.
- 45:45Speaker 2: No, it wasn't that they need followless children.
- 45:49Speaker 1: Yes, they need fooless children exactly, easier to control, easier
- 45:54Speaker 1: to govern. That's that's what it's about.
- 45:57Speaker 2: Lots more justification for interventions in schools. Well, you know
- 46:02Speaker 2: how many new how many new feminist jobs are being
- 46:06Speaker 2: made right now with this twenty billion dollar grant and
- 46:10Speaker 2: also this new policy to get rid of fathers in
- 46:14Speaker 2: children's lives, thus leaving them father deficient and ripe for
- 46:19Speaker 2: the tender mercies of the child industrial complex in the UK.
- 46:24Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so let me see where I leave off.
- 46:29Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so here where I'm prime mint. Okay.
- 46:33Speaker 5: Prime Minister Sirkierre Starmer said he did not intend to
- 46:36Speaker 5: diminish the focus on the men that are the perpetrators
- 46:39Speaker 5: of this violence, but said the government must address the
- 46:42Speaker 5: misogyny and inequality.
- 46:45Speaker 4: That were the root cause.
- 46:47Speaker 5: He added part of that was showing a positive aspirational
- 46:51Speaker 5: vision for boys and men.
- 46:53Speaker 1: So he's saying that, actually, if we're going to fight
- 46:57Speaker 1: against violence against women we have to do is we
- 47:00Speaker 1: have to address inequality. Typical COMI gobbledegook, just saying and yeah,
- 47:10Speaker 1: that's part of it right there. So if we just
- 47:12Speaker 1: make women equal already with like they're not equal enough,
- 47:16Speaker 1: there's a lot more equality to go around, and women
- 47:18Speaker 1: have to get all of it and once they do,
- 47:21Speaker 1: then we can start talking about addressing misogyny. So it's crazy,
- 47:28Speaker 1: all right, anyway, keep.
- 47:30Speaker 5: Going Safeguarding Minister Jess Phillips described violence against women and
- 47:35Speaker 5: girls as a national emergency, adding the government's aim was
- 47:40Speaker 5: to be quote so ambitious that we.
- 47:42Speaker 4: Change culture end quote.
- 47:46Speaker 5: Liberal Democrats spokeswomen for Women and Equalities Marie Goldman, welcome
- 47:52Speaker 5: training for teachers, but said unless it was accompanied by
- 47:55Speaker 5: steps to properly moderate online content, she had no doubt
- 47:59Speaker 5: if would fail.
- 48:01Speaker 2: Well, there you go, UK, feminism is going to usher
- 48:04Speaker 2: in the pinopticon in your country. They'll all be under
- 48:09Speaker 2: the under the tender gaze of Big Mama.
- 48:13Speaker 1: Okay, so yeah, they're going to be They're going to
- 48:16Speaker 1: be monitoring. I mean, look, y'all don't live in a
- 48:18Speaker 1: free country. I hate to break it to you, but
- 48:21Speaker 1: it's going to be even less free. So they're going
- 48:24Speaker 1: to be monitoring online content. And I know this is
- 48:27Speaker 1: not going to be limited to children.
- 48:29Speaker 2: No, Well they already have instituted.
- 48:31Speaker 1: Yeah, I know they're already doing it.
- 48:33Speaker 2: Yeah, but I wanted to get into that, Jess Phillips
- 48:36Speaker 2: adding the government's aim was so ambitious that we change culture.
- 48:40Speaker 2: So this is basically the next step in feminism's long
- 48:45Speaker 2: march on sexuality and gender identity. All right, So what
- 48:52Speaker 2: they want to do is they want to teach boys
- 48:55Speaker 2: to be this black category. Like I mean, honestly, I
- 49:00Speaker 2: just want to teach boys guilt and shame and to
- 49:02Speaker 2: take responsibility for human ills that girls are equally responsible for.
- 49:07Speaker 2: So basically, like I said, put them in a black
- 49:09Speaker 2: category and teach them to submit to feminism. That's the
- 49:13Speaker 2: cultural change that she's talking about. Mm hmm, all right,
- 49:18Speaker 2: let's keep going, all right.
- 49:24Speaker 5: As part of the wider strategy, the Home Office also
- 49:27Speaker 5: announced a ban on newtification tools, which use generative AI
- 49:32Speaker 5: to turn images of real people into fake nude pictures
- 49:36Speaker 5: and videos without their permission.
- 49:38Speaker 4: Okay, this will work, has not fit made clear?
- 49:41Speaker 1: Can you imagine asking for permission? Hey? Can I take
- 49:43Speaker 1: this picture and make like a naked you know, deep
- 49:47Speaker 1: fake of you? Like who's gonna do that? And then
- 49:50Speaker 1: they're like, oh, yeah, sure, thanks for asking.
- 49:54Speaker 2: But here's the thing. Okay, we talk about deep fake
- 49:58Speaker 2: nudes and usually it's about women, right and creating like
- 50:02Speaker 2: revenge porn or whatever else. But they're like, have you
- 50:07Speaker 2: guys ever read what women are writing about on like
- 50:12Speaker 2: archive of our own or fanfic? Do you ever read
- 50:16Speaker 2: what they're writing about male celebrities? And this stuff is
- 50:22Speaker 2: really in many cases vile, like it's forced humiliation, sexual assault.
- 50:28Speaker 2: So they're writing these fantasies with actual male human beings,
- 50:32Speaker 2: and nobody stops and says, hey, maybe that's actually in
- 50:38Speaker 2: some ways worse than visual pornography, like taking a picture
- 50:42Speaker 2: of a supermodel and removing her clothes. And they don't
- 50:47Speaker 2: just write this stuff, they draw this stuff too, but
- 50:50Speaker 2: nobody cares because it's women exploiting men sexually, famous men sexually.
- 50:57Speaker 2: And you see in the language that's never even talked about.
- 51:00Speaker 2: Now that's the no online And the other thing is
- 51:02Speaker 2: that those those communities sharing that incredibly, like they have
- 51:09Speaker 2: a fascination with humiliating men, subjecting them to sexual assault,
- 51:15Speaker 2: taking away their right to consent, not treating it as
- 51:18Speaker 2: something that is important to address from a moral perspective,
- 51:23Speaker 2: you know, you know, torture, porn, cannibalistic porn, porn with
- 51:28Speaker 2: children like you will find all of that in these
- 51:30Speaker 2: communities for women, and nobody ever says, hmm, yeah, that's uh,
- 51:37Speaker 2: that's something we might want to police. No, it's always
- 51:40Speaker 2: just online pornography, and the men's stuff is pretty tame,
- 51:44Speaker 2: Like I dare you to spend a week looking through
- 51:48Speaker 2: the vowels of our kind of our own or why
- 51:52Speaker 2: gallery and not realize that women are like men are.
- 51:57Speaker 2: You know, they have their they have their things that
- 52:02Speaker 2: they like. Women are truly deprived, m like they're just
- 52:07Speaker 2: there's no hands down, there's no comparison like it. It's
- 52:11Speaker 2: it is hideous. And their behavior towards men as a
- 52:16Speaker 2: result of this kind of attitude, like that their pornography
- 52:19Speaker 2: and their art, their pornographic art had there's a good
- 52:24Speaker 2: portion of it that portrays an incredibly entitled and a
- 52:29Speaker 2: lack of understanding of men's consent or a recognition of
- 52:34Speaker 2: men's consent or a recognition of men's humanity at all.
- 52:37Speaker 2: So it's like the worst kind of snuff porn, torture porn,
- 52:42Speaker 2: forced humiliation porn, you know, uh, anal rape, porn, you
- 52:48Speaker 2: know that that that they can possibly target at men,
- 52:51Speaker 2: and it's right out there. They don't hide it. And
- 52:55Speaker 2: then people like this are like, oh, but we got
- 52:57Speaker 2: to worry about the actually sort of take things that
- 53:00Speaker 2: men do, like taking off a supermodel's bra or liking
- 53:07Speaker 2: a threesome with two women or any of that stuff.
- 53:10Speaker 2: It's like, yes, have you seen have you seen what
- 53:13Speaker 2: women are doing on the internet. And have you seen
- 53:16Speaker 2: that a lot of these communities when they actually get
- 53:19Speaker 2: their claws on live men, what they do to them,
- 53:25Speaker 2: like they don't have a sense of.
- 53:27Speaker 1: Oh yeah, for sure, they don't.
- 53:30Speaker 2: Respect men's men's bodily autonomy. And it comes out in
- 53:34Speaker 2: their fiction and it comes out in their behavior. But
- 53:36Speaker 2: nobody talks about that. Nobody, even though this conversation should
- 53:43Speaker 2: include that.
- 53:45Speaker 1: All right, all right, uh, here we go.
- 53:52Speaker 5: Phillips said the government would work with tech companies to
- 53:56Speaker 5: make it impossible for children to take view or share
- 53:59Speaker 5: new images through nudity detection filters. Schools to take part
- 54:06Speaker 5: in the teacher training pilot will be chosen next year,
- 54:09Speaker 5: while ministers will aim for all secondary schools to teach
- 54:12Speaker 5: healthy relationship sessions by the end of this parliament. The
- 54:17Speaker 5: taxpayer will put sixteen million pounds of the bill, while
- 54:21Speaker 5: the government says it's working closely with philanthropists and other
- 54:25Speaker 5: partners on an innovation fund for the remaining four million pounds.
- 54:30Speaker 5: The funding covers the three years spending review period. Nearly
- 54:34Speaker 5: forty percent of teenagers in relationships are victims of abuse.
- 54:38Speaker 5: Domestic Abuse charity Reducing the Risk has said so notice.
- 54:43Speaker 1: So notice they're saying nearly forty percent of teenagers in relationships.
- 54:48Speaker 1: They're not specifying it by gender. We're just supposed to
- 54:51Speaker 1: assume it's women. If you guys, notice that you caught that.
- 54:55Speaker 1: So like before it was like they were talking about women,
- 54:58Speaker 1: and then when they bring out the statistic, it's, oh,
- 55:01Speaker 1: it's just it's teenagers.
- 55:03Speaker 2: Yeah, so you got to know that men that boys
- 55:05Speaker 2: are a substantial portion of that. So again we're dealing
- 55:08Speaker 2: with a situation where women or girls are engaging in
- 55:11Speaker 2: it just as much as boys, and we see the toxicity.
- 55:16Speaker 2: We have now evidence of the toxicity. So I did
- 55:19Speaker 2: do a little bit of an investigation. The research that
- 55:23Speaker 2: looked into the misogyny versus the missonry online. It did
- 55:27Speaker 2: use the same framework, and while it did find a
- 55:32Speaker 2: greater volume of what it considered to be hateful content
- 55:38Speaker 2: on the male more male focused subreddits. But then I mean,
- 55:43Speaker 2: also you have to bear in mind that these places
- 55:47Speaker 2: are a lightning rod for a lot of stuff, right,
- 55:50Speaker 2: So I'm not sure how valid that is because you know,
- 55:53Speaker 2: there will be moderators on our men's rights leave stuff
- 55:56Speaker 2: up just because you know free speech, right, you know,
- 56:00Speaker 2: let them vent whatever, but we don't actually agree with it.
- 56:04Speaker 2: But when you look at how the users are engaging
- 56:08Speaker 2: with this content, it shows a completely different picture. Because
- 56:12Speaker 2: feminists are overt on a personal level as an individual,
- 56:18Speaker 2: they are more hateful. So while they may have less
- 56:23Speaker 2: overall hateful content, they are identifying it with it far
- 56:29Speaker 2: more strongly, right, So you get the difference. So you
- 56:34Speaker 2: don't how when you look at that, how much of
- 56:36Speaker 2: that is just churn in the men's rights subreddit Since
- 56:41Speaker 2: the men's rights in the Men's right subreddit, they're not
- 56:44Speaker 2: actually engaging with this hateful content to the same degree
- 56:47Speaker 2: as the feminists are engaging in these hape like like
- 56:50Speaker 2: confirming it, liking it, mentally masturbating over it. What you know,
- 56:55Speaker 2: like what we see feminists on Twitter doing. What I
- 56:58Speaker 2: see feminists on Twitter doing basically just marinating in their
- 57:02Speaker 2: hatred for men, and we see that. So they're actually
- 57:05Speaker 2: really engaging with this content, really eating it up, feasting
- 57:10Speaker 2: on it, whereas in the men's rights community that's not
- 57:13Speaker 2: what's happening. So more of it may sluice through, but
- 57:16Speaker 2: it sluices through you're not seeing the personal engagement with it.
- 57:20Speaker 2: In the men's rights community. So I mean that would
- 57:25Speaker 2: indicate that the situation is much worse for women. The
- 57:32Speaker 2: hatred of the opposite sex is much worse for women
- 57:35Speaker 2: if we look at it from an individual level, which
- 57:37Speaker 2: is what nobody has talked about in this study, and
- 57:41Speaker 2: that really is the level that matters. I mean, it
- 57:44Speaker 2: doesn't really matter how much toxicity is being sluiced through
- 57:49Speaker 2: a forum if nobody in it is paying, is like
- 57:52Speaker 2: really invested in it, and not like not emotionally invested
- 57:56Speaker 2: in it, you see what I mean, Like it's just bad,
- 57:58Speaker 2: just whatever, it's just noise, right, But if the people
- 58:01Speaker 2: in the community are lovingly stroking it, like my precious, precious,
- 58:07Speaker 2: precious mys injury, you know, and they're all like letting
- 58:11Speaker 2: it become part of themselves, that's a more serious problem.
- 58:15Speaker 2: And I think that's what they've found, and that's why
- 58:18Speaker 2: they're not talking about that because there's nobody there, very
- 58:23Speaker 2: few people are ready for the message that women's hatred
- 58:25Speaker 2: of men is substantially more worse than men's hatred of women.
- 58:33Speaker 2: And it's an real problem. It's an institutional problem.
- 58:37Speaker 1: It's super normalized, yeah, supernormalized, Like we don't we don't
- 58:41Speaker 1: even know when we see it. You know, we probably
- 58:44Speaker 1: see it too much like where it is and where
- 58:46Speaker 1: it doesn't exist.
- 58:48Speaker 2: Okay, so let's let's do the next paradox.
- 58:51Speaker 1: All right, let's do the next Huh.
- 58:53Speaker 2: You're gonna have lots to say on that.
- 58:56Speaker 1: All right, let me just see where we left off. Okay,
- 59:00Speaker 1: here we go.
- 59:03Speaker 5: Online influencers are partly blamed for feeding this, with nearly
- 59:07Speaker 5: one in five boys age thirteen to fifteen said to
- 59:10Speaker 5: hold a positive view of the self proclaimed misogynist Andrew Chait.
- 59:16Speaker 5: According to a Yuga poll, schools in England are already
- 59:20Speaker 5: required to identify and tackle misogyny, and some teachers said
- 59:24Speaker 5: schools were already doing the kind of work in the
- 59:27Speaker 5: new measures.
- 59:31Speaker 1: I don't want to know this poll this Yuga pole.
- 59:35Speaker 1: I'm curious.
- 59:37Speaker 2: Can you look, because I got some an outcome from
- 59:41Speaker 2: that study, so I finally got it to spit out
- 59:45Speaker 2: something and the core definitions and quantitative analysis. Miss inery
- 59:50Speaker 2: and misogynally are operationalized as parallel, but in the narrative
- 59:54Speaker 2: about the memosphere, appeals to miss injury and some anti
- 59:57Speaker 2: feminist framing are treated lessons straight forward evidence of hatred.
- 1:00:01Speaker 2: Towards men and more as a part of a misogynist
- 1:00:04Speaker 2: rhetorical move. So even this article, this this research is
- 1:00:10Speaker 2: not capturing the full scope of missingry because it's giving
- 1:00:14Speaker 2: it's giving messengers some softballs, because it's reframing men calling
- 1:00:19Speaker 2: out missingry as potential misogyny. Mm hmm. And yet even
- 1:00:26Speaker 2: with the softballs, feminists still the the the peak of hate.
- 1:00:31Speaker 2: Feminists still still are the ones who spike the hate
- 1:00:34Speaker 2: peak like they they're they're the ones who are who
- 1:00:37Speaker 2: are creating the hate tsunami, the the hat hosphear, the
- 1:00:42Speaker 2: hate mountain, you know on like Mars Olympic Mands of Mars.
- 1:00:47Speaker 2: That's that's the feminist hate pimple. The freaking solar system.
- 1:00:50Speaker 2: They constructed that out of their hate. So they're they're
- 1:00:53Speaker 2: leaving everybody in their shadow. But even even even even
- 1:00:57Speaker 2: with the softballs, they're still coming out on cop when
- 1:01:00Speaker 2: it comes to personal hatred and personal engagement with hatred,
- 1:01:06Speaker 2: it's really bad when even your ideological science is pointing
- 1:01:10Speaker 2: fingers back at you, so you can't even twist. It's
- 1:01:14Speaker 2: so bad they can't even manage to twist the science.
- 1:01:17Speaker 2: They can't even manage to p hack the science enough anymore.
- 1:01:22Speaker 1: Huh okay, all right, so let me see. Yeah, So,
- 1:01:29Speaker 1: like I looked at the Yugo. So the way they
- 1:01:31Speaker 1: do these polls, I mean, I couldn't find this specific one.
- 1:01:34Speaker 1: But it's like on a spectrum, right, so if you
- 1:01:37Speaker 1: say anything like other, like if you're neutral and Andrew Tate,
- 1:01:41Speaker 1: it probably counts as a positive view. So it's like,
- 1:01:45Speaker 1: you know, slightly negative, pretty negative, negative, very negative. And
- 1:01:50Speaker 1: then there's the other way, so if you're like anywhere
- 1:01:52Speaker 1: on this side, they count it as positive. Not that
- 1:01:55Speaker 1: it matters, Like I think people should you know, you
- 1:01:57Speaker 1: should be able to have an opinion on whoever you want,
- 1:02:00Speaker 1: positive or negative, and it shouldn't mean anything about your
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: character or your behavior, but you know whatever. So going
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: back to this, schools.
- 1:02:12Speaker 5: In England are already required to identify and tackle misogyny,
- 1:02:15Speaker 5: and some teachers said schools were already.
- 1:02:18Speaker 4: Doing the kind of work in the new measures.
- 1:02:21Speaker 5: So Caught Dami, principal at Beacon Hill Academy in Dudley,
- 1:02:26Speaker 5: said the challenge isn't starting from scratch, it's ensuring that
- 1:02:30Speaker 5: this twenty million pounds is spent.
- 1:02:34Speaker 4: Sorry, guys, twenty million pounds.
- 1:02:36Speaker 5: Yeah, is spent wisely and in partisanship, partnership with schools
- 1:02:41Speaker 5: already leading the way.
- 1:02:43Speaker 2: Does this feel like a bunch of goblins and they
- 1:02:46Speaker 2: they've captured a chicken and they're all just like running
- 1:02:50Speaker 2: around with it.
- 1:02:52Speaker 1: Or a hobbit or twenty million pounds?
- 1:02:55Speaker 2: Yeah, like the like these people are all just like salivate.
- 1:02:57Speaker 2: It's like, oh boy, I got to We've gotta make
- 1:03:00Speaker 2: sure you give some of that to me I can
- 1:03:04Speaker 2: make wisely.
- 1:03:07Speaker 1: I think that's definitely what it's about.
- 1:03:11Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about Andrew Tate. So essentially what's
- 1:03:17Speaker 2: happening is British school systems are subjecting boys to a
- 1:03:24Speaker 2: double standard, like a pernicious double standard. So they're expected
- 1:03:28Speaker 2: to take responsibility for things that girls also do and women.
- 1:03:32Speaker 2: Girls and women do not have to take responsibility for
- 1:03:34Speaker 2: these things, so they are expecting them to internalize this inferiority,
- 1:03:39Speaker 2: like you're less important than girls. Girls are allowed to
- 1:03:42Speaker 2: get away with this, and what Tate does is he
- 1:03:46Speaker 2: gives them a framework. So and the reason why you
- 1:03:50Speaker 2: carry a heavier burden is because you are superior to women,
- 1:03:55Speaker 2: which you know isn't far off because you know this,
- 1:03:58Speaker 2: this whole thing is basically these feminine telling men to
- 1:04:01Speaker 2: men up or boys to men up and be better.
- 1:04:05Speaker 2: But also women are better as good or better than
- 1:04:08Speaker 2: you are. Right, So it's like Andrew take gives these
- 1:04:13Speaker 2: boys a framework to navigate all of this without being
- 1:04:18Speaker 2: crushed by the double standard, the dismissal, and being treated
- 1:04:22Speaker 2: like they are expendable in this narrative. So of course,
- 1:04:28Speaker 2: doing more you know, kicking, using the ball kicking machine
- 1:04:34Speaker 2: to kick more boys balls is going to increase the
- 1:04:38Speaker 2: sales of the cod piece manufacturer, right that that's going
- 1:04:43Speaker 2: to increase the sales. And what we have is there
- 1:04:46Speaker 2: the feminists are like, well, we need more ball kicking
- 1:04:48Speaker 2: machine and somehow we need to stop boys from going
- 1:04:54Speaker 2: to the cod piece salesman to get something to protect
- 1:04:57Speaker 2: their balls from us. And then and they don't, well, see,
- 1:05:00Speaker 2: you are the one that is making You are the
- 1:05:03Speaker 2: one that is making the codpiece salesman a billionaire or
- 1:05:07Speaker 2: a millionaire, right, you are the one. Forced of course
- 1:05:10Speaker 2: they see that, and then they turn around and they
- 1:05:13Speaker 2: use the fact that boys are going to get cod
- 1:05:15Speaker 2: pieces as evidence that they need stronger ball kicking machines. Yeah,
- 1:05:24Speaker 2: and it is they're driving. And I have to actually
- 1:05:28Speaker 2: apologize to you, Brian, because a while back you said, well,
- 1:05:31Speaker 2: I would rather than listen to Andrew Tate that commit suicide,
- 1:05:34Speaker 2: and I was like, I don't know if I completely
- 1:05:36Speaker 2: agree with that that sort of choice, And now I
- 1:05:39Speaker 2: have to say I do, having looked at all of
- 1:05:41Speaker 2: the evidence of what the UK is doing right now,
- 1:05:45Speaker 2: I don't think that Andrew Tait is a great role
- 1:05:49Speaker 2: model okay at all.
- 1:05:53Speaker 1: Sure, but he is giving them.
- 1:05:56Speaker 2: Away to deal with this without killing themselves. He's giving them.
- 1:06:04Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, like, unfortunately, I think that these kids,
- 1:06:10Speaker 1: you know, and I don't think it's as many as
- 1:06:12Speaker 1: they say, but they're making a choice. It's rational, and yeah,
- 1:06:17Speaker 1: I think it's because at least I think at least
- 1:06:20Speaker 1: with Tate, they're getting some tools to, like you said,
- 1:06:24Speaker 1: be able to weather the storm till they like exactly
- 1:06:26Speaker 1: you know.
- 1:06:27Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's not it's it's like a personal
- 1:06:31Speaker 2: they're learning a personal kind of ability to to manage
- 1:06:36Speaker 2: the situation, right, they're not. So the message is basically,
- 1:06:43Speaker 2: you know, become stronger to grind through this, and it's
- 1:06:50Speaker 2: not face the actual institutional like that. Don't like not
- 1:06:55Speaker 2: face down the actual institutional problem and call it out
- 1:06:58Speaker 2: for what it is. It's just focus on yourself, which
- 1:07:01Speaker 2: is a fine message. Like you know, if that's if
- 1:07:05Speaker 2: that's what boys need to not commit suicide, You're right, Brian,
- 1:07:08Speaker 2: it's better than dead boys. I dare anyone to say
- 1:07:12Speaker 2: that they would prefer the dead boys to Andrew Tate.
- 1:07:15Speaker 2: Go ahead, tell me tell us that if that's the preference. Yeah,
- 1:07:20Speaker 2: just lay it out. Tell us that you would prefer
- 1:07:24Speaker 2: boys dead from suicide. Then listening to the message of
- 1:07:28Speaker 2: that Andrew Tate gives that regardless of what these people
- 1:07:32Speaker 2: do to you, you are strong enough to overcome it
- 1:07:36Speaker 2: and deal with it because you are a man, and
- 1:07:39Speaker 2: you are you have inherent strengths. Right now, again, I
- 1:07:45Speaker 2: have my own problems with his message, but I don't
- 1:07:48Speaker 2: have a problem with that part.
- 1:07:51Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
- 1:07:52Speaker 2: And I would not prefer the dead boys. Okay, let's go.
- 1:07:54Speaker 1: Let's read I Got a super child. Richard Bierre gave
- 1:07:57Speaker 1: us five dollars and said, the fact that to consider
- 1:08:01Speaker 1: is whether these women are these people as real people
- 1:08:04Speaker 1: versus just a character in their particular entertainment drama, slash,
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: romanticy novel or soap opera that they are just consuming
- 1:08:12Speaker 1: as entertainment and ignoring the actual humanity of the people
- 1:08:16Speaker 1: who they are fantasizing about.
- 1:08:18Speaker 2: Course.
- 1:08:19Speaker 1: Yeah, well a lot of the they do. They get
- 1:08:22Speaker 1: it in their head that you know, there is like
- 1:08:25Speaker 1: a let's say, a blurring of the lines of reality
- 1:08:28Speaker 1: and fantasy. I mean, remember, remember what was it, ray Loo?
- 1:08:33Speaker 1: Is that what they called it? Yeah, Raylo. That was
- 1:08:36Speaker 1: like with the Star Wars sequel trilogy, and they were
- 1:08:39Speaker 1: like shipping ray and Kylo Ren and it was like
- 1:08:41Speaker 1: a real thing. And when it turned out that those
- 1:08:44Speaker 1: two actors were not actually romantically involved, they like freaked
- 1:08:48Speaker 1: out about it because it was like in their head
- 1:08:50Speaker 1: canon it was real. So yeah, I mean this does
- 1:08:54Speaker 1: this does happen?
- 1:08:55Speaker 2: It does expect people.
- 1:08:56Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I guess I'm a misogynst you have we
- 1:09:00Speaker 1: have special people in our main chat. Now that's cool,
- 1:09:03Speaker 1: we do. Yeah, the worse.
- 1:09:08Speaker 2: Like special people in the main chat. They figured it out,
- 1:09:13Speaker 2: great job.
- 1:09:14Speaker 1: They made their way.
- 1:09:16Speaker 2: Yeah, what does that even mean? At this point?
- 1:09:18Speaker 1: What does what mean?
- 1:09:20Speaker 2: Misogynist doesn't mean anything, doesn't.
- 1:09:22Speaker 1: Mean us a word that people use to try to
- 1:09:24Speaker 1: get you to stop talking, that's all It is. It
- 1:09:27Speaker 1: doesn't mean anything, So thanks, thanks for nothing.
- 1:09:30Speaker 2: I guess who is called you a misogynist?
- 1:09:34Speaker 1: I you know I've been called it many times. Doesn't
- 1:09:38Speaker 1: mean anything to me?
- 1:09:40Speaker 2: What in in the the horizontal chat? I don't I
- 1:09:44Speaker 2: don't see the misogyny calling.
- 1:09:46Speaker 1: You don't see it. Go to the live make sure
- 1:09:49Speaker 1: you're not looking at top chat. You have looking at
- 1:09:52Speaker 1: live chat, you'll see it.
- 1:09:54Speaker 2: The change.
- 1:09:56Speaker 1: Yeah, apparently I'm a misogynist and this is a misogynist
- 1:09:58Speaker 1: radio show.
- 1:10:00Speaker 2: Okay, well that's cool. Why don't you give us some
- 1:10:03Speaker 2: evidence that counters what we're saying.
- 1:10:05Speaker 1: Yeah, just prove us wrong.
- 1:10:07Speaker 2: Yeah. What we're doing is we're citing actual studies. What
- 1:10:11Speaker 2: you're doing is citing your feels. Okay, let's let's keep going.
- 1:10:16Speaker 1: Okay, back to this.
- 1:10:22Speaker 5: Pressed pressed on BBC radio fours Today program, on which
- 1:10:27Speaker 5: measures were new, Philip said teachers currently did not have
- 1:10:31Speaker 5: anywhere specialist or targeted to send pupils who are showing
- 1:10:35Speaker 5: signs of sexually harmful behavior. The Department of for Education
- 1:10:40Speaker 5: the statutory Guidance already said secondary pupils should be taught
- 1:10:44Speaker 5: about consent the negative impacts of pornography on sexual relationships
- 1:10:48Speaker 5: that sharing.
- 1:10:49Speaker 2: Yes, okay, if boys are engaging in sexually inappropriate behavior,
- 1:10:57Speaker 2: that is a red flag for being a victim of
- 1:11:01Speaker 2: sexual abuse. Why are they being directed to feminists? What
- 1:11:12Speaker 2: do they expect to get? You know what? I'm getting
- 1:11:14Speaker 2: really freaking sick of this. This is how you get rapists, right,
- 1:11:21Speaker 2: This is how that happens. You have a boy or
- 1:11:26Speaker 2: a girl who is sexually abused, and they get treated
- 1:11:30Speaker 2: like this institutionally, right, instead of actually being treated like
- 1:11:36Speaker 2: a human being who has been experiencing an adverse childhood experience. Right,
- 1:11:44Speaker 2: this is sick. This is going to do the exact
- 1:11:48Speaker 2: opposite of reduce violence against women and girls. But of
- 1:11:52Speaker 2: course we know that because we actually care about violence
- 1:11:55Speaker 2: against women and girls here, at least I do. I'm
- 1:11:58Speaker 2: pretty sure that Brian does. It's just not our focus.
- 1:12:01Speaker 2: But strangely enough, I can call out when bureaucrats use
- 1:12:06Speaker 2: an ideology to promote things that put women in danger,
- 1:12:10Speaker 2: something that feminists seems to struggle with when it's their ideology,
- 1:12:15Speaker 2: And right here, this is feminists putting women in danger, okay,
- 1:12:20Speaker 2: And it says nothing to do with immigrants. They are
- 1:12:24Speaker 2: making it worse for boys who are sexually abused to
- 1:12:28Speaker 2: go on and heal, and that is the group of well,
- 1:12:31Speaker 2: actually it's not boys who are sexually abused. It's boys
- 1:12:34Speaker 2: who've been subject to multiple forms of childhood sexual adverse experiences,
- 1:12:40Speaker 2: childhood adverse experiences. Okay, those are the boys who are
- 1:12:44Speaker 2: more likely to be in any category of antisocial Why
- 1:12:48Speaker 2: are they being directed towards feminists who are going to
- 1:12:51Speaker 2: alienate them, inculcate them with shame and guilt, and if
- 1:12:56Speaker 2: they don't accept the shame and guilt, make them even
- 1:13:00Speaker 2: more suspicious of any kind of institutional intervention, right, make
- 1:13:05Speaker 2: them more suspicious of adults, more suspicious of authority. Surely,
- 1:13:10Speaker 2: surely pouring the gasoline on the fire will put it
- 1:13:13Speaker 2: out right, You have boys who need actual character.
- 1:13:19Speaker 4: Oh my god, what happened?
- 1:13:23Speaker 2: I've been struggling with my my, uh the my. I
- 1:13:30Speaker 2: have this thing that I put my elbow on. Yeah,
- 1:13:33Speaker 2: and she just strifed in like a freaking meteorite and
- 1:13:39Speaker 2: hit it and then lost her footing. And she decided
- 1:13:44Speaker 2: that she's gonna regain her footing on my arm. So
- 1:13:48Speaker 2: I'm in a slight amount of pain.
- 1:13:49Speaker 4: Right now at things.
- 1:13:51Speaker 2: Yeah, just cat things. She also got my leg on
- 1:13:55Speaker 2: the way down, and now she's licking her butt because
- 1:13:59Speaker 2: she feels embarrassed. She realizes that was not the most
- 1:14:02Speaker 2: graceful thing to have done. I doubt she cares about
- 1:14:05Speaker 2: you know me, But anyway, I'm sure she does on
- 1:14:08Speaker 2: some level. It's just I don't think cats are aware
- 1:14:12Speaker 2: of the damage they too. Correct me in the comments.
- 1:14:15Speaker 2: I'm sure many of you the very.
- 1:14:19Speaker 4: Solitary. Yeah, just say they think about yourself first.
- 1:14:25Speaker 2: Okay, So anyway, like what was I saying before that
- 1:14:28Speaker 2: gigantic distraction, can you help me out? Help me out?
- 1:14:36Speaker 1: You were you were basically talking about like how this
- 1:14:41Speaker 1: is really sick.
- 1:14:42Speaker 2: Yes, it is really sick because they're not they're not
- 1:14:49Speaker 2: protecting anyone. They're not protecting They say they're protecting women
- 1:14:53Speaker 2: and girls. They're not. They're promoting their ideology over protecting
- 1:14:56Speaker 2: women and girls. And that's actually the sick, fucked up
- 1:15:00Speaker 2: core of all of this. Yes, they target boys, but
- 1:15:06Speaker 2: they are also making the world worse for girls because
- 1:15:12Speaker 2: all they care about is the money. I mean, I
- 1:15:18Speaker 2: can't say that for sure because you can't entirely read
- 1:15:21Speaker 2: into people's intent, But the thing is that they understand
- 1:15:26Speaker 2: every part, and I'm going to lay out an argument
- 1:15:29Speaker 2: at the end, at the you know, towards the denimon
- 1:15:33Speaker 2: of this video. I'll lay out an argument. Try to
- 1:15:36Speaker 2: get through it pretty quick, and a possible way of
- 1:15:40Speaker 2: opposing this. For boys who are dealing with it, or
- 1:15:42Speaker 2: anyone who has a person, a young person who is
- 1:15:46Speaker 2: going through this situation, maybe give them some advice or
- 1:15:51Speaker 2: at least tell them that they're not insane. But yeah,
- 1:15:55Speaker 2: they don't care about women and girls. If they did,
- 1:15:59Speaker 2: they wouldn't contin you to promote interventions like this. They
- 1:16:02Speaker 2: wouldn't say, well, these boys are throwing red flags about
- 1:16:05Speaker 2: being antisocial, let's put them under the thumb of ideologues
- 1:16:09Speaker 2: who will treat them like second class citizens and make
- 1:16:13Speaker 2: their rage and resentment towards women worse. Surely nothing bad
- 1:16:17Speaker 2: will come of that.
- 1:16:20Speaker 6: Okay, thanks paragraph all right?
- 1:16:30Speaker 5: Uh preth uh wait wait yeah, preth them BBC for
- 1:16:34Speaker 5: Radio Today's program. On which measures were new, Philip said
- 1:16:37Speaker 5: teachers currently did not have anywhere specialist or targeted to
- 1:16:42Speaker 5: send pupils who are showing signs of sexually harmful behavior.
- 1:16:45Speaker 5: The Department of Education statutory guidance already said secondary pupils
- 1:16:49Speaker 5: should be taught about consent, the negative impacts of pornography
- 1:16:52Speaker 5: on sexual relationships, and that sharing and viewing of indecent
- 1:16:57Speaker 5: images of children is a crime. Updated guidance, due to
- 1:17:01Speaker 5: be rolled out from September, specifies that pupils should be
- 1:17:05Speaker 5: equipped to recognize misogyny as well as it's links the
- 1:17:08Speaker 5: violence against women and girls, and understand the importance of
- 1:17:13Speaker 5: challenging it.
- 1:17:14Speaker 1: They already probably know all you have to do is
- 1:17:17Speaker 1: but yeah, but are you going to go with their
- 1:17:19Speaker 1: definition of misogyny which is basically anything anything to feel uncomfortable?
- 1:17:27Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, Oh, good grief. Uh okay, yep so updated
- 1:17:35Speaker 2: guidance Yes.
- 1:17:37Speaker 5: Updated guidance, due to be rolled out from September, specifies
- 1:17:41Speaker 5: that pupils should be equipped to recognize misogyny as well
- 1:17:45Speaker 5: as its links the violence against women and girls, and
- 1:17:48Speaker 5: understand the importance of challenging it. Paul White, Viral, secretary
- 1:17:52Speaker 5: of School Leaders Union NAHT, said it was positive the
- 1:17:57Speaker 5: government was recognizing the importance of training and support for
- 1:18:01Speaker 5: school staff, but said schools were just part of the solution.
- 1:18:05Speaker 2: I'm telling you, I'm telling you, Brian, it's like a
- 1:18:08Speaker 2: bunch of goddamn goblins with the chicken, arguing over it.
- 1:18:12Speaker 2: Oh no, don't give it to the teachers. We got
- 1:18:14Speaker 2: to give it to the bureaucrats. You gotta give it
- 1:18:17Speaker 2: to the school counselors, you gotta give it to you.
- 1:18:21Speaker 2: Just give it to Sue, who just we don't even
- 1:18:25Speaker 2: know what she is. She just sits there and looks
- 1:18:28Speaker 2: very woke. But we know it's important, so we'll give
- 1:18:31Speaker 2: her some. It's like an argument over this fat chicken
- 1:18:34Speaker 2: that somebody found, and they're just like, I deserve some
- 1:18:38Speaker 2: of that. Oh grief, Okay.
- 1:18:43Speaker 1: All right.
- 1:18:45Speaker 5: Pepe di YAsO, General Secretary.
- 1:18:51Speaker 2: Waste of a Pepe.
- 1:18:54Speaker 5: That's a that's not a rare Pepe General Secretary of
- 1:18:57Speaker 5: the Association of School and College Leaders. And it was
- 1:19:00Speaker 5: essential the government introduced effective measures to prevent at source
- 1:19:05Speaker 5: the spread of online misogynistic content, which is served up
- 1:19:09Speaker 5: to young people by social media algorithms.
- 1:19:13Speaker 2: So more suppressing people like us. Basically, let's be honest, like,
- 1:19:18Speaker 2: we'll put us on another blacklist because we talk about
- 1:19:22Speaker 2: the things that these people won't and because we're a
- 1:19:25Speaker 2: bigger threat. Like ultimately, I think it's because we put
- 1:19:30Speaker 2: our finger right on what's going on. I'm not even
- 1:19:34Speaker 2: sure Tate. I don't think Tate does it. I think
- 1:19:36Speaker 2: we do it. We talk about the stuff that really
- 1:19:39Speaker 2: makes them scared, which is pointing out that this has
- 1:19:43Speaker 2: it doesn't even really, at the end of the day,
- 1:19:45Speaker 2: have anything to do with ideology. It has to do
- 1:19:48Speaker 2: with a whole gigantic grift, government, bureaucratic grift justifying itself.
- 1:19:59Speaker 2: The child and industrial complex must be fed. It's like
- 1:20:04Speaker 2: something out of Pink Floyd.
- 1:20:07Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, all right.
- 1:20:12Speaker 5: Nicola McLafferty pictured here forty two, a victim of domestic violence,
- 1:20:19Speaker 5: that survivors of domestic abuse, both men and women, should
- 1:20:23Speaker 5: go into school assemblies to speak to children about it and.
- 1:20:26Speaker 4: Share the lind experience.
- 1:20:28Speaker 2: Okay, how did you.
- 1:20:29Speaker 1: Cho small fee? Of course?
- 1:20:31Speaker 2: Yeah, but she is talking about male victims of domestic violence.
- 1:20:39Speaker 2: So once again we have male victims of domestic violence
- 1:20:42Speaker 2: being used as currency to justify this targeting voice like
- 1:20:48Speaker 2: you if you took this out of context, right, Oh,
- 1:20:52Speaker 2: that seems very fair and gender equitable. That's going to
- 1:20:55Speaker 2: bring in men who are victims of domestic Yes, you
- 1:20:58Speaker 2: go up like ten paragraphs and it's very explicit. We're
- 1:21:02Speaker 2: targeting boys for anti misogyny. So it's like, you use
- 1:21:10Speaker 2: the alleged prevalence of domestic violence against women to justify
- 1:21:17Speaker 2: targeting boys for misogyny, and here you are actually recognizing caping,
- 1:21:24Speaker 2: putting a fig leaf on what you're doing because it
- 1:21:27Speaker 2: isn't evolution. I'm like, the UK is difficult because all
- 1:21:31Speaker 2: of your statistics and domestic violence go through a feminist
- 1:21:35Speaker 2: orifice I should say office office, so or not a
- 1:21:38Speaker 2: feminist orifice. Maybe it is a feminist orifice. Anyway, it
- 1:21:45Speaker 2: goes through feminism. All of it's filtered through feminism, so
- 1:21:49Speaker 2: most of it is complete bullshit. This is the same
- 1:21:51Speaker 2: with Australia. But if you actually go to a real
- 1:21:55Speaker 2: country like the UK. In the United States, we do
- 1:21:59Speaker 2: get high powered community surveys that find parity in almost
- 1:22:05Speaker 2: all forms of domestic violence between men and women. If
- 1:22:07Speaker 2: you're looking at the last year numbers, which are the
- 1:22:10Speaker 2: ones that reduce memory errors in men most and you
- 1:22:13Speaker 2: look at specifically high powered community studies that arrange their
- 1:22:19Speaker 2: methodology and their questionnaire in such a way that they're
- 1:22:23Speaker 2: not pre selecting male victims out of it. Right. If
- 1:22:28Speaker 2: you find those studies, you will find parity, and there's
- 1:22:30Speaker 2: no ways that those studies found parity. And there is
- 1:22:34Speaker 2: actually significant asymmetry in domestic or sexual violence between men
- 1:22:38Speaker 2: and women. This is the thing that nobody wants to
- 1:22:40Speaker 2: talk about. Men and women are equally violent. Men are
- 1:22:47Speaker 2: bigger and stronger, so their violence has more consequences, but
- 1:22:52Speaker 2: they're equally violent, and nobody wants to talk about it.
- 1:22:56Speaker 2: I'm glad that this individual was put into this, but
- 1:23:01Speaker 2: she and even this like this figly for the violence
- 1:23:05Speaker 2: against men, it never gets to the point where they
- 1:23:09Speaker 2: allow it to inform their ideology. And that's the problem
- 1:23:11Speaker 2: because it's the ideology using this data which they never
- 1:23:16Speaker 2: update towards the most reliable data, that justifies targeting boys
- 1:23:24Speaker 2: for these initiatives. So while this is this is nice
- 1:23:29Speaker 2: to see, I know in this context, it's just it's
- 1:23:34Speaker 2: just it's just a figly for what they're actually doing.
- 1:23:38Speaker 1: All right, Well, I mean it's it's clear that it
- 1:23:42Speaker 1: really is just about targeting boys and trying to control
- 1:23:45Speaker 1: their behavior and control their I guess the way that
- 1:23:50Speaker 1: they spend their time online and all of that. And
- 1:23:53Speaker 1: they're they're bringing on somebody who has spoken about men
- 1:23:56Speaker 1: and women. But she's not going to be if if
- 1:23:59Speaker 1: if she's going to speaking on this as part of
- 1:24:01Speaker 1: this program, she is not going to be speaking about
- 1:24:04Speaker 1: male victims unless it's framed as like a toxic masculinity thing,
- 1:24:10Speaker 1: or if it's framed where they are male victims of
- 1:24:13Speaker 1: male perpetrators. I think that's like because at the end
- 1:24:17Speaker 1: of the day, there is a certain narrative that has
- 1:24:19Speaker 1: to be preserved, and the narrative is that men are
- 1:24:22Speaker 1: always the aggressors and women are always the victims. And
- 1:24:25Speaker 1: that's the only way you can look at this. And
- 1:24:27Speaker 1: if you like look at things honestly and find that
- 1:24:31Speaker 1: it's not that black and white, then they lose they
- 1:24:34Speaker 1: lose funding, they lose support, they lose control of the narrative.
- 1:24:37Speaker 1: And that's really what this comes down to.
- 1:24:40Speaker 6: So yeah, so the work that we do is absolutely
- 1:24:43Speaker 6: critical because I find I dig up all the all
- 1:24:46Speaker 6: the diamonds, all the gems, and Brian explains what the
- 1:24:50Speaker 6: hell I'm talking about.
- 1:24:52Speaker 1: I guess through it all right, So yeah, I mean
- 1:24:57Speaker 1: I can tell, like I said, they bring out this
- 1:24:59Speaker 1: one and this is at the end of the article
- 1:25:01Speaker 1: and she's like, oh, I'm a survivor. So first of all,
- 1:25:05Speaker 1: she's a survivor of domestic violence, so that could already
- 1:25:09Speaker 1: sort of paint her perspective unless she's like really stoic
- 1:25:13Speaker 1: and objective in how she pursues the data that she
- 1:25:16Speaker 1: then goes on to talk about. But if you like
- 1:25:18Speaker 1: brought on, say Aaron Pitsy, who like knows her shit
- 1:25:21Speaker 1: and understands, you know, like the that she has enough
- 1:25:25Speaker 1: experience with domestic violence as a concept and the people
- 1:25:30Speaker 1: who participate it and the cycles that it creates, then
- 1:25:33Speaker 1: you would be onto something. But they're not gonna do
- 1:25:35Speaker 1: that because Aaron Pitsy would shatter the narrative, and the
- 1:25:38Speaker 1: narrative is what's most important to preserve because it's what
- 1:25:42Speaker 1: keeps these people paid, it's what keeps them bankrolled, and
- 1:25:46Speaker 1: it's what keeps the government growing, so like and this
- 1:25:49Speaker 1: is what they want, so all right, yeah, let's do it.
- 1:25:57Speaker 5: The government has announced a raft of measures in its
- 1:26:00Speaker 5: overall VAWG strategy, including the introduction of specialist investigators to
- 1:26:07Speaker 5: every police force to oversee rape and sexual offense cases,
- 1:26:11Speaker 5: and the wider rollout of domestic abuse protection orders after
- 1:26:14Speaker 5: a trial.
- 1:26:15Speaker 2: This is ridiculous. The UK already has a conviction rate
- 1:26:20Speaker 2: for sexual assault. That's like double the rate of any
- 1:26:23Speaker 2: other violent crime. And they already have a problem with
- 1:26:28Speaker 2: prosecutor like police, withholding exculpatory evidence from the defense. So
- 1:26:35Speaker 2: they already have a problem with institutional corruption against boys
- 1:26:40Speaker 2: and men who are accused of sexual assault. They already
- 1:26:44Speaker 2: have a problem with this, and they're gonna make it
- 1:26:45Speaker 2: worse that you. What the hell are you doing? UK? Like,
- 1:26:49Speaker 2: I know that immigration is a problem, but at some
- 1:26:54Speaker 2: point you got to ask yourself, is Shari a lot
- 1:26:56Speaker 2: better than this? I'm just I'm just laying it out there.
- 1:27:02Speaker 2: I know that's a that's quite a controversial statement, but
- 1:27:06Speaker 2: at least at least men get a shake in it. Okay,
- 1:27:11Speaker 2: let's keep going.
- 1:27:15Speaker 5: These main individuals can be banned from contacting a victim,
- 1:27:19Speaker 5: visiting their home, or posting harmful content online.
- 1:27:23Speaker 1: Oh good lord, let's go after the mean people. Going
- 1:27:28Speaker 1: after the meanies.
- 1:27:30Speaker 2: You know that. And you remember the that place that
- 1:27:34Speaker 2: we spot We toked, we talked, we hoped, we hoped,
- 1:27:38Speaker 2: we talked about the Uh the county is, I don't know,
- 1:27:43Speaker 2: if it's a county, you probably have some really cute
- 1:27:45Speaker 2: name for it. If you're British, but the the municipal
- 1:27:48Speaker 2: area that had all of the trash strike basically Brighton
- 1:27:54Speaker 2: or Brighton something like that anyway, and they had a
- 1:27:56Speaker 2: trash strike because they tried to equalize.
- 1:27:59Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I remember.
- 1:28:00Speaker 2: That Burningham, Birmingham. I think they had a trash strike
- 1:28:04Speaker 2: because they tried to equalize the the pay structure between
- 1:28:09Speaker 2: the female dominated carrying and catering and you know, indoor
- 1:28:14Speaker 2: jobs that don't involve trash and the male dominated jobs
- 1:28:19Speaker 2: that do involve trash and being out in the elements.
- 1:28:22Speaker 2: And uh, then they got men that men didn't want
- 1:28:24Speaker 2: to work anymore, and then they got a trash strike,
- 1:28:27Speaker 2: and then they got huge amounts of garbage in the
- 1:28:28Speaker 2: street and rats. Well now they got a new thing.
- 1:28:31Speaker 2: Apparently they have some fa like some famous street that's
- 1:28:35Speaker 2: for Christmas shoppers and now they're putting up anti aggressive
- 1:28:40Speaker 2: vehicle pythons because of the raft of problems. Yeah, raft
- 1:28:49Speaker 2: of trucks of peace around the world.
- 1:28:55Speaker 1: Never address the actual problem, just try to find ways
- 1:28:59Speaker 1: to like address the symptom, or you know, just blame men. Yeah,
- 1:29:03Speaker 1: just blame them something that they're good at doing. Just
- 1:29:06Speaker 1: specific men from specific cultures or parts of the world
- 1:29:10Speaker 1: that are incompatible with your cultures. But just let you
- 1:29:13Speaker 1: know what, it's a lot easier because I don't want
- 1:29:15Speaker 1: to be called racist. Let's just blame all the men.
- 1:29:18Speaker 1: No one's going to take an issue with that, and
- 1:29:20Speaker 1: of course they're not wrong. If you just blame all men,
- 1:29:23Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, people are like not offended.
- 1:29:26Speaker 2: Yeah, it's astounding how that. It's like you can hide
- 1:29:29Speaker 2: anything in blaming all men, anything, any social problem. It's
- 1:29:34Speaker 2: almost like opposing that by blaming women could do a
- 1:29:41Speaker 2: lot to actually start solving these social problems that use
- 1:29:45Speaker 2: blaming men to hide themselves, or at least just question
- 1:29:51Speaker 2: blaming men every time. But you know, the reason why
- 1:29:54Speaker 2: I say we have to be able to blame women
- 1:29:56Speaker 2: is because when you say something like, well are men
- 1:29:58Speaker 2: really to blame? What do they say? What do they
- 1:30:02Speaker 2: immediately jump to, Well, are you blaming women?
- 1:30:06Speaker 1: Oh?
- 1:30:06Speaker 2: No, no, no, of course, no, of course not. Of
- 1:30:08Speaker 2: course men must be to blame. So if we are
- 1:30:12Speaker 2: ever to challenge the narrative of blaming men that hides
- 1:30:16Speaker 2: all of this political chicanery, right, we can't we can't
- 1:30:21Speaker 2: directly call out the men who are doing this because
- 1:30:24Speaker 2: that would be some kind of ism. So we'll just
- 1:30:26Speaker 2: blame all men. So that's that's how you that's how
- 1:30:29Speaker 2: you dilute focus and hide and cape for something. And
- 1:30:33Speaker 2: we will never be able to stop it until when
- 1:30:36Speaker 2: we say, you know what, I don't know if all
- 1:30:38Speaker 2: men are to blame here, and somebody says, are you
- 1:30:42Speaker 2: blaming women? You just say, yeah, maybe I am. That's
- 1:30:46Speaker 2: a possibility. Let's sit for it. Let's sit with it
- 1:30:49Speaker 2: for a while. Maybe there's some validity to it.
- 1:30:52Speaker 1: Let's just do that.
- 1:30:54Speaker 2: Let's just seit. Let's have some tea and think about it.
- 1:30:58Speaker 2: It could be we could be blamed women. We could
- 1:31:01Speaker 2: just be blaming men and women's interaction and some kind
- 1:31:04Speaker 2: of some kind of emergent property of how they interact
- 1:31:07Speaker 2: with each other. Or we could be blaming directly women.
- 1:31:10Speaker 2: Let's just let's cogitate on it. Let's let's just have
- 1:31:14Speaker 2: a cup of tea and some and some biscuits and
- 1:31:16Speaker 2: think about it instead of oh no, of course we
- 1:31:19Speaker 2: have to blame men. And then you hide the problem
- 1:31:22Speaker 2: once again. That's where they're hiding all these problems in
- 1:31:25Speaker 2: blaming men, and then you can't call it out because
- 1:31:29Speaker 2: if you say I don't think men are to blame,
- 1:31:31Speaker 2: you're immediately a misogynist. All right, let's keep going.
- 1:31:36Speaker 1: Okay, let's see.
- 1:31:41Speaker 5: I now I think the package in the Commons, Philip
- 1:31:44Speaker 5: said the strategy would deploy quote the full force of
- 1:31:47Speaker 5: the state end quote across local and national government to
- 1:31:51Speaker 5: prevent vogue.
- 1:31:53Speaker 4: You know what, ed.
- 1:31:55Speaker 2: The UK is blaming men and there, and that is
- 1:31:58Speaker 2: gonna be the thing that make some slide into the
- 1:32:01Speaker 2: Atlantic Ocean. We're just gonna slide like off this continental shelf.
- 1:32:05Speaker 2: It'll just be the sheer weight of how much they're
- 1:32:08Speaker 2: hiding by blaming them. Okay, sorry, I'm done, let's go,
- 1:32:13Speaker 2: let's keep going.
- 1:32:16Speaker 5: So the strategy was backed by one billion pounds funding
- 1:32:20Speaker 5: for victims support, including for safe housing. Other measures include
- 1:32:25Speaker 5: better NHS support for child and adult survivors of abuse,
- 1:32:29Speaker 5: and a funding boost for counsels to provide safe housing
- 1:32:32Speaker 5: for domestic abuse survivors.
- 1:32:34Speaker 2: Okay, what okay, can we go back to that end
- 1:32:40Speaker 2: bit because I'm still trying to figure out how it
- 1:32:42Speaker 2: relates to the rest. How does this how does this
- 1:32:47Speaker 2: lead to.
- 1:32:48Speaker 1: Spending more money? That's like, that's what you do?
- 1:32:51Speaker 2: So I really was right about the goblins with the chicken,
- 1:32:54Speaker 2: the fat chicken.
- 1:32:55Speaker 1: Well, it's mostly taxpayer money, so why not?
- 1:32:58Speaker 2: Yeah, why there are people more pissed at this because
- 1:33:01Speaker 2: if we just even look at, like take away all
- 1:33:03Speaker 2: the stuff happening to boys and realizing that maybe boys
- 1:33:08Speaker 2: don't need to be shamed more, like, can we stop
- 1:33:12Speaker 2: doing that? Like we've done this a lot and hasn't
- 1:33:14Speaker 2: really improved things. But let's just step away from that.
- 1:33:19Speaker 2: You guys are paying for like you guys in the UK,
- 1:33:21Speaker 2: you taxpayers in the UK are paying for interventions that
- 1:33:27Speaker 2: are proven not to work. So you're basically just throwing
- 1:33:31Speaker 2: money at bureaucrats. You know, if you ever watched Yes Minister,
- 1:33:34Speaker 2: you're basically just paying for a hospital that hasn't seen
- 1:33:38Speaker 2: a patient in eighteen months because they're not gonna do anything.
- 1:33:42Speaker 2: They're not going to approve the situation. They say they're
- 1:33:44Speaker 2: gonna have violence against women in like eighteen months. No,
- 1:33:49Speaker 2: not with these interventions. And when you look at the
- 1:33:51Speaker 2: language that they're using, it's all abstractions and theoreticals and
- 1:33:55Speaker 2: oh wait, this is a prime opportunity for an experiment.
- 1:33:59Speaker 2: So basically what they're gonna do is they're gonna give
- 1:34:04Speaker 2: already misundressed teachers. Let's face it, like they're already marking
- 1:34:08Speaker 2: boys down. They already treat boys as second classes. And
- 1:34:12Speaker 2: since they're gonna hand these teachers another weapon to stigmatize
- 1:34:18Speaker 2: boys with, because surely that will that will make boys
- 1:34:23Speaker 2: return to the fold. Like do you think these things through?
- 1:34:29Speaker 2: Like if you really want your daughters to be safe? Okay,
- 1:34:33Speaker 2: you don't. You don't believe anything I say. You don't
- 1:34:35Speaker 2: like me because I advocate for men and boys. You
- 1:34:38Speaker 2: think I'm gonna pick me or a handmaiden. But what
- 1:34:40Speaker 2: about your girls if you genuinely want them to be safer?
- 1:34:45Speaker 2: Think about this? Logically, you are handing. Like if a
- 1:34:49Speaker 2: boy throws a red flag, he he and he demonstrates
- 1:34:53Speaker 2: anti social behavior, probably as a result of two things.
- 1:34:57Speaker 2: There are genetic factors and abuse. So he's probably experienced
- 1:35:02Speaker 2: adverse childhood experiences. Right, So he's he's been neglected, he's
- 1:35:06Speaker 2: been sexually assaulted, he's been physically abused, he's subject to
- 1:35:09Speaker 2: emotional abuse, that kind of thing, right, And he's expressioning
- 1:35:14Speaker 2: antisocial personality behaviors. Okay, this system flags him and sends
- 1:35:23Speaker 2: him to a person who's going to teach him that
- 1:35:27Speaker 2: he is bad because he's a boy, not because of
- 1:35:31Speaker 2: the abuse he's suffered, and that he you know, he
- 1:35:34Speaker 2: needs therapy to or at least mentorship to overcome it
- 1:35:39Speaker 2: or to learn better coping strategies. No, they're going to
- 1:35:42Speaker 2: blame patriarchy, andrew tate being a boy, masculinity, any kind
- 1:35:48Speaker 2: of aspirational identity, and they're going to tell him that
- 1:35:53Speaker 2: he needs to suck up behavior from girls or through
- 1:35:57Speaker 2: their actions. You're not going to tell him directly because
- 1:35:58Speaker 2: they don't admit that girl's also engage in this behavior.
- 1:36:01Speaker 2: They're going to instill such a level of rage and
- 1:36:07Speaker 2: antagonism and distrust for the system that might actually be
- 1:36:11Speaker 2: able to turn them from the path of violent criminality.
- 1:36:15Speaker 2: In this boy, they are constructing rage monsters through this process.
- 1:36:21Speaker 2: They're making your girls less safe. And this is entirely
- 1:36:25Speaker 2: consistent with what they've done across the board with all
- 1:36:28Speaker 2: domestic violence interventions. Like no domestic violence interventions by feminists
- 1:36:35Speaker 2: based on rigorous studies are beneficial, some actually are negative.
- 1:36:40Speaker 2: They like a feminist goes in lectures to men who
- 1:36:44Speaker 2: are convicted of battering and more men are like yeah,
- 1:36:47Speaker 2: I think I'll do more of that because they've just
- 1:36:51Speaker 2: had to deal with weeks or months of a feminist
- 1:36:54Speaker 2: lecture on this like take responsibility for the patriarchy, but
- 1:36:58Speaker 2: when compared to acts based on iterative science. So in
- 1:37:03Speaker 2: other words, there are there are beleaguered researchers out there
- 1:37:07Speaker 2: who are researching these issues from a non feminist perspective.
- 1:37:11Speaker 2: So they're looking at it and they're saying, how do
- 1:37:14Speaker 2: we really reduce the rate of domestic violence, and in particular,
- 1:37:18Speaker 2: since the political will is here, how do we really
- 1:37:20Speaker 2: reduce the rate of domestic violence against women and girls?
- 1:37:24Speaker 1: Right?
- 1:37:24Speaker 2: And they're looking at it, and they're conjecturing interventions based
- 1:37:29Speaker 2: on psychology, based on understandings of why people become abusive.
- 1:37:34Speaker 1: Right.
- 1:37:34Speaker 2: And they've constructed this intervention after iterations of cognitive behavioral
- 1:37:38Speaker 2: therapy called ACTV. So it is I'm terrible with acronyms,
- 1:37:46Speaker 2: but it basically teaches batterers to try to get their
- 1:37:50Speaker 2: behavior consistent with their values. Right, So they say, they
- 1:37:54Speaker 2: identify values like you want to be you want to
- 1:37:56Speaker 2: be a good partner, you want to be a good husband,
- 1:37:59Speaker 2: you want to be protect and all this other stuff.
- 1:38:02Speaker 2: Try to get your behavior consistent with those values. So
- 1:38:05Speaker 2: it's an intervention that recognizes that maybe batterers don't batter
- 1:38:10Speaker 2: because they're mustache twirling villains. They do it because they've
- 1:38:15Speaker 2: learned poor coping strategies as children from those aforementioned averse
- 1:38:20Speaker 2: childhood experiences. And they find that these programs that have
- 1:38:25Speaker 2: been developed iteratively, because you can iterate outside of feminist science,
- 1:38:30Speaker 2: feminist science is static. It hasn't changed, Like their interventions
- 1:38:34Speaker 2: haven't changed since Duluth. They've managed to create interventions that
- 1:38:39Speaker 2: have something like a fifty percent reduction and recidivism, which
- 1:38:45Speaker 2: is like that is insanely high, and yet we are stuck,
- 1:38:51Speaker 2: like the political will remains with feminist interventions which do
- 1:38:56Speaker 2: nothing and sometimes make it worse. So if you really
- 1:39:01Speaker 2: care about your girls and women, you should be opposing
- 1:39:06Speaker 2: this because the track record of these people is they
- 1:39:10Speaker 2: make the problem worse or they do nothing, and you
- 1:39:14Speaker 2: are spending billions, like one of these initiatives is a
- 1:39:19Speaker 2: billion dollars, millions and billions of pounds on nothing. Nothing.
- 1:39:27Speaker 2: You probably you'd probably be better off throwing your money
- 1:39:31Speaker 2: at these boys directly as a solution. But that's not
- 1:39:36Speaker 2: what's happening. You're giving it to the child industrial complex
- 1:39:39Speaker 2: in the UK, and they're gonna spend it on well,
- 1:39:44Speaker 2: not doing what they're saying they're gonna do, like this thing. Oh,
- 1:39:47Speaker 2: they're gonna they're gonna have violence against women and girls
- 1:39:51Speaker 2: in eighty or what is it, ten years? I don't know. No,
- 1:39:53Speaker 2: they're not. None of their interventions have anywhere near the
- 1:39:58Speaker 2: power to do something thing like that. And nobody talks
- 1:40:02Speaker 2: about this in pure research, empirical logical terms. Are what
- 1:40:09Speaker 2: they are? They what they say they're going to deliver?
- 1:40:12Speaker 2: Can they deliver it? No, you're throwing your money away.
- 1:40:17Speaker 2: You're throwing it away, and you're going to most likely
- 1:40:20Speaker 2: make your girls less safe. I'm not even bringing up immigration. Yeah, okay,
- 1:40:29Speaker 2: let's keep going.
- 1:40:30Speaker 1: That's the end of the article.
- 1:40:31Speaker 2: Oh is it?
- 1:40:32Speaker 3: You know?
- 1:40:32Speaker 2: You're right, We're done. We're not done the show. We're
- 1:40:35Speaker 2: done the article. All right, so let's look at uh okay,
- 1:40:39Speaker 2: I'll read off my my analysis, my total analysis, and
- 1:40:43Speaker 2: then at the end at the the conclusions conclusion of
- 1:40:49Speaker 2: I'm gonna after that, thank you, Brian. After that, did
- 1:40:55Speaker 2: you want to add anything to this? Like I've been talking?
- 1:40:58Speaker 1: You know, I mean, I said, I said my piece.
- 1:41:01Speaker 1: I'm just looking at the chat and making sure I'm
- 1:41:03Speaker 1: not missing anything.
- 1:41:05Speaker 2: Well, if you want to jump on any of the
- 1:41:06Speaker 2: people in the chat, go ahead. Not really, it's all
- 1:41:11Speaker 2: good espresso, cappuccino, espresso, all right. So the main claim
- 1:41:19Speaker 2: the policy frames boys is a problem class. Let me
- 1:41:24Speaker 2: just expand this because I got my eyes. Are not
- 1:41:27Speaker 2: as young as you?
- 1:41:28Speaker 1: Have an idea on how to fight back?
- 1:41:31Speaker 2: Yeah? I do. I think that. I think. I think
- 1:41:36Speaker 2: Tate has an appeal, but there's something else that needs
- 1:41:39Speaker 2: to be done. The policy frames boys as problem class.
- 1:41:44Speaker 2: The new United Kingdom violence against women and girls, I
- 1:41:48Speaker 2: don't think is new strategy explicitly focuses on high risk
- 1:41:52Speaker 2: boys and young men in schools, training teachers to spot
- 1:41:55Speaker 2: early signs of misogyny and boys and sending flag boys
- 1:41:58Speaker 2: some as young as eleven, to be behavioral change schools.
- 1:42:01Speaker 1: All right.
- 1:42:02Speaker 2: What they're saying or red flags is basically antisocial behavior.
- 1:42:05Speaker 2: And what's interesting about men who batter is they are
- 1:42:09Speaker 2: actually aggressive to everyone. So you don't need to look
- 1:42:14Speaker 2: for misogyny and boys. That is a weasel word that
- 1:42:18Speaker 2: just mays basically means if he says something I don't like,
- 1:42:23Speaker 2: and you don't need to look for it specifically, because
- 1:42:26Speaker 2: all you have to look for is boys who are
- 1:42:29Speaker 2: physically bullying and aggressive right to everyone, and you could
- 1:42:34Speaker 2: probably look for that. In girls. It's a little bit
- 1:42:36Speaker 2: more covert because they're much more relational, and flag them
- 1:42:41Speaker 2: and get them to services that actually work. Like fathers.
- 1:42:46Speaker 2: High risk pupils are defined broadly. Informally, staff are told
- 1:42:50Speaker 2: to look for harmful behaviors and attitudes towards women and girls,
- 1:42:53Speaker 2: toxic ideas, sexually harmful behavior, harassment, sharing intimate images, and
- 1:42:58Speaker 2: strongly misogynistic or Andrew T eight influenced views. If we
- 1:43:02Speaker 2: didn't already have a problem with pedophiles, female pedophiles preying
- 1:43:07Speaker 2: on boys and schools, now you give them a tool
- 1:43:11Speaker 2: to get them alone because they have sexually harmful behavior.
- 1:43:15Speaker 2: As interpreted by Miss Sticky Fingers. There's no published objective
- 1:43:21Speaker 2: checklist or current clear evidentiary threshold. High risk is whatever
- 1:43:26Speaker 2: trained staff decides is worrying enough to justify referral, which
- 1:43:31Speaker 2: gives wide scope to subjective and ideological judgments about boys.
- 1:43:35Speaker 2: Policy and media framingly overwhelmingly present boys' as potential perpetrators
- 1:43:40Speaker 2: and girls as victims to be protected with no symmetrical
- 1:43:44Speaker 2: institutional machinery for miss injury, hatred of men, or for
- 1:43:47Speaker 2: the abuse of boys by girls. So this is entirely
- 1:43:51Speaker 2: one sided, no recognition of miss injury and girls or
- 1:43:55Speaker 2: abuse by girls. And there is substantial like, there's a
- 1:43:58Speaker 2: reason why they only said forty percent of teenagers. They
- 1:44:02Speaker 2: only hide. They only hide the percentage of girls when
- 1:44:06Speaker 2: it is equal or higher. Main claim too. Evidence does
- 1:44:11Speaker 2: not justify aggressive boy targeted anti misogyny courses. Evaluations of
- 1:44:17Speaker 2: school based gender norms and respectful relationship programs with adolescents
- 1:44:21Speaker 2: show some improvements and self reported attitudes, for example, agreement
- 1:44:25Speaker 2: with gender equality statements, but only a minority show clear
- 1:44:29Speaker 2: sustained reductions and actual abuse, coercion or dating violence. Do
- 1:44:33Speaker 2: you want me to share this so you have a
- 1:44:35Speaker 2: visual Brian.
- 1:44:37Speaker 1: Yeah, well if it has a visual component, otherwise I
- 1:44:40Speaker 1: can just Well it's if it's just text, I don't
- 1:44:43Speaker 1: really know if it matters.
- 1:44:45Speaker 2: Well, it's it's basically text. I don't know if people
- 1:44:47Speaker 2: want to read along, Like, I'm going to put this
- 1:44:50Speaker 2: in the resources and badger nation down online if you're interested,
- 1:44:53Speaker 2: and it's going to have all the sources for all
- 1:44:55Speaker 2: of this. So I have researched this quite a bit,
- 1:44:59Speaker 2: and I got a lot of sources, a lot of
- 1:45:03Speaker 2: things I've seen over the years. All Right, So these
- 1:45:06Speaker 2: studies frequently rely on short term self report attitude scales
- 1:45:10Speaker 2: with weak or no control groups, limited behavioral measures, and
- 1:45:13Speaker 2: short follow ups, which limits confidence in their claims. So
- 1:45:16Speaker 2: what the feminists are doing is they're using science that
- 1:45:19Speaker 2: doesn't really support their claims. It doesn't definitely doesn't support
- 1:45:24Speaker 2: the claim that they're going to reduce violence against women
- 1:45:26Speaker 2: and girls in however many months or years two half. Yeah,
- 1:45:31Speaker 2: that's not supported anywhere here. What they do show is
- 1:45:36Speaker 2: supposedly the attitudes of boys improve, but what they're actually
- 1:45:41Speaker 2: finding when they pair that with behavior is that it's
- 1:45:45Speaker 2: not like there's no there's no real behavioral improvement. It
- 1:45:50Speaker 2: may be transitory, like they might improve for a few months,
- 1:45:53Speaker 2: but what's actually happening is that they are lying. They
- 1:45:57Speaker 2: are learning to lie and give the party line on
- 1:46:00Speaker 2: these these courses, right, and when they look at behaviors
- 1:46:06Speaker 2: for a bit, the boys will report that they're doing better.
- 1:46:11Speaker 2: And this is all within the context of pathologization of
- 1:46:14Speaker 2: all boys, But so I reject that entirely. But within
- 1:46:17Speaker 2: that context, the boys report that they're doing better, but
- 1:46:20Speaker 2: after a certain amount of time they stop, which is
- 1:46:22Speaker 2: consistent with them also lying about what's going on in
- 1:46:27Speaker 2: order to protect each other, which is not a surprise
- 1:46:31Speaker 2: because all these interventions do is make boys suspicious of
- 1:46:36Speaker 2: the institutions that do them and make it harder to
- 1:46:42Speaker 2: identify and help boys who could use assistance with dealing
- 1:46:49Speaker 2: with poor conflict management skills, poor anger management skills because
- 1:46:54Speaker 2: they've experienced a verse childhood events. All right. Reviews of
- 1:46:59Speaker 2: staking the based bullying and gender violence programs explicitly warn
- 1:47:04Speaker 2: that social desirability and demand characteristics are major threats to ability.
- 1:47:08Speaker 2: That's basically just science ease for what I just said,
- 1:47:11Speaker 2: because adolescents quickly learn to learn the right answers, adults reward.
- 1:47:16Speaker 2: Most rigorous evaluations that include pure reports byspender bystander outcomes
- 1:47:21Speaker 2: and school discipline data or victimization perpetration measures find that
- 1:47:25Speaker 2: some programs reduced dating, violence or harassment, but effects are modest,
- 1:47:30Speaker 2: contact specific, and often fade with time. Basically what I
- 1:47:33Speaker 2: just said, and I just explained the mechanism. They lie
- 1:47:37Speaker 2: because there, you have no trust in the institution, and
- 1:47:42Speaker 2: they're never going to have trust in the institution unless
- 1:47:44Speaker 2: the institution recognizes the abuse the girls are doing, the
- 1:47:49Speaker 2: violence that girls are doing, the sexual violence that girls
- 1:47:52Speaker 2: are doing, the verbal abuse that girls are doing, the
- 1:47:54Speaker 2: bullying that girls are doing. Even adolescents had bullying by girls,
- 1:47:58Speaker 2: but somehow they made it the argument that if you
- 1:48:01Speaker 2: recognize the buying by girls as part of the problem,
- 1:48:06Speaker 2: you are engaging in misogyny. Is that astounding. But as
- 1:48:10Speaker 2: long as these interventions don't recognize women or girls' bad behavior,
- 1:48:16Speaker 2: boys will continue to be suspicious of them and the
- 1:48:19Speaker 2: institutions that promote them, because why wouldn't you be You're
- 1:48:23Speaker 2: expected to eat something that someone else gets away with
- 1:48:27Speaker 2: that's fundamentally unfair, And most of our sense of pro
- 1:48:31Speaker 2: social behavior is reliant on feeling like we're being treated
- 1:48:35Speaker 2: fairly while in behavior are observe okay. When behavior or
- 1:48:41Speaker 2: observed behavior data are used, games are generally smaller and
- 1:48:45Speaker 2: less consistent with attitude shifts, which is consistent with boys
- 1:48:48Speaker 2: performing compliance rather than undergoing deep moral change. Moral change
- 1:48:52Speaker 2: to what I mean here, I'm going to push back
- 1:48:54Speaker 2: moral change to what to recognizing that they are deserving
- 1:48:59Speaker 2: of the same protection than is their sisters. The United
- 1:49:04Speaker 2: king without actually saying, Hey, the reason why you're not
- 1:49:07Speaker 2: deserving of the same protections of your sisters is because
- 1:49:10Speaker 2: you're stronger as a boy. Are you willing to say that? No,
- 1:49:15Speaker 2: you just want to focus only on your girls without
- 1:49:18Speaker 2: even telling your boys, Oh, hey, that's because we think
- 1:49:22Speaker 2: you're stronger. That you won't even acknowledge that this might
- 1:49:27Speaker 2: be a result of some kind of unique value proposition
- 1:49:30Speaker 2: that boys bring in terms of strength. The United Kings.
- 1:49:35Speaker 2: You'll you'll just demand that boys carry more and if
- 1:49:39Speaker 2: they aren't, if they fail, it's not because you've asked
- 1:49:41Speaker 2: for more, it's because they're weak. The United Kingdom's school
- 1:49:45Speaker 2: strand of the VAT g G. I hate acronyms. This
- 1:49:51Speaker 2: one looks like a bug? What this one looks like
- 1:49:54Speaker 2: a bug? It bugs me?
- 1:49:56Speaker 1: V A w G. Yeah, violence against women and girl
- 1:50:00Speaker 1: that's what it stands for.
- 1:50:01Speaker 2: Strategy. I know, I just vog vog.
- 1:50:06Speaker 7: That's a good vog vogb vog have chicken strategy largely
- 1:50:12Speaker 7: leans on broad what works summaries and vague claims that
- 1:50:16Speaker 7: prevention and challenging attitudes help, rather than on direct evidence
- 1:50:20Speaker 7: that short, compulsory bright behavior change courses for flag boys
- 1:50:24Speaker 7: reduced later violence against women and girls.
- 1:50:26Speaker 2: Of course they don't. Feminist interventions don't actually change men
- 1:50:33Speaker 2: who engage in violence against women or boys. Most likely
- 1:50:36Speaker 2: they won't do that for boys either. They just in
- 1:50:39Speaker 2: trench already existing anger. Like you get a boy who's
- 1:50:44Speaker 2: acting out because he's been abused, you send him to
- 1:50:47Speaker 2: a feminist counselor, and what does she do? Abuses him?
- 1:50:53Speaker 2: Some more problem solved, no problem made worse. Official texts
- 1:51:01Speaker 2: reference pioneering research finding the most effective way to teach
- 1:51:06Speaker 2: and innovation funding to test approaches, which implicitly admits that
- 1:51:10Speaker 2: the precise model being rolled out is not empirically proven
- 1:51:14Speaker 2: in this context. So they don't even know what the
- 1:51:16Speaker 2: hell they're doing. They're just basically like, give us money, Yeah,
- 1:51:21Speaker 2: give us money, we'll figure it out. We'll figure it out,
- 1:51:25Speaker 2: and if it doesn't work, we'll blame your sons. This
- 1:51:32Speaker 2: is insane. Yep, oh claim three or sorry, argument three.
- 1:51:44Speaker 2: Feminist perpetrator models underperform non idiological models do better. I
- 1:51:49Speaker 2: covered this, but basically it just goes through the achieving
- 1:51:54Speaker 2: change through values based behavior and how non feminist interventions
- 1:51:59Speaker 2: work so much better than feminist interventions, in part because
- 1:52:04Speaker 2: they actually iterate them like feminists are just static. It's
- 1:52:08Speaker 2: like the Dlute model. Nothing changes, nothing's changed since the eighties.
- 1:52:12Speaker 2: The non feminist researchers, who are incredibly beleaguered and underfunded
- 1:52:15Speaker 2: and are the true heros of this. They iterate something
- 1:52:20Speaker 2: doesn't work, They go back to the drawing the drawing board.
- 1:52:24Speaker 2: They change things, They change this, they chant, they learn
- 1:52:26Speaker 2: more psychology, They do what they need to to make
- 1:52:29Speaker 2: it work. And their interventions because of that are effecative.
- 1:52:33Speaker 2: We don't use them because they're not ideologically convenient to feminists.
- 1:52:41Speaker 2: This pattern indicates that non ideological skills, trauma and behavior
- 1:52:45Speaker 2: focused interventions are more promising than static feminist models, which
- 1:52:49Speaker 2: have not substantively updated despite underwhelming results. Want you guys
- 1:52:54Speaker 2: to put a pin in this. Feminist models are underwhelming,
- 1:52:57Speaker 2: they don't work, and yet they keep consist instantly getting funding.
- 1:53:01Speaker 2: Why because they package themselves. Excuse me, they package themselves
- 1:53:10Speaker 2: in an appealing way. You're saving girls, you're saving you're
- 1:53:14Speaker 2: not doing any of the thing of the sort. Here's
- 1:53:17Speaker 2: here's a good rule of thumb. If you have a problem,
- 1:53:21Speaker 2: you don't throw out half the evidence and expect to
- 1:53:24Speaker 2: get a solution. That's what's happening here overall, And the
- 1:53:29Speaker 2: and the researchers who don't do that, guess what they're
- 1:53:33Speaker 2: finding solutions. Girls in feminist spaces are not uniquely innocent.
- 1:53:39Speaker 2: Miss injury is real. Scientific reports article Women who Hate
- 1:53:43Speaker 2: Men a comparative analysis across extremists reddit communities, and we've
- 1:53:47Speaker 2: covered this extensively. Misogynist communities show what somewhat higher toxicity scores,
- 1:53:52Speaker 2: but distributions are similar across communities. Both misogynists and misinterest
- 1:53:56Speaker 2: feminist spaces contain substantial toxic content at the user level.
- 1:54:02Speaker 2: Emotional perspective, the feminist community shows the highest peak of
- 1:54:07Speaker 2: hate sentiment, followed by the gender critical space and then
- 1:54:11Speaker 2: some men's right space, implying that misinterest and feminist aligned
- 1:54:14Speaker 2: communities can at least be at least as hate dance
- 1:54:17Speaker 2: as their misages. But honestly, the feminists are worse on
- 1:54:21Speaker 2: a personal level, so they're engaging personally more with the
- 1:54:25Speaker 2: hate content. That's what this means. The authors conclude that
- 1:54:29Speaker 2: when male to female and female to male hate are
- 1:54:32Speaker 2: examined together, there's no systemic differences in hate based on
- 1:54:35Speaker 2: perpetrator's gender, and that gendered hate speech is a common
- 1:54:38Speaker 2: factor of noxious communities. Broader work on online hate suggests
- 1:54:43Speaker 2: that men and women both experience considerable online hostility. Analyzes
- 1:54:48Speaker 2: that break down exposure sometimes find no major gender gaps
- 1:54:51Speaker 2: and experiencing cruel or hateful speech. Contrary to the narratives
- 1:54:55Speaker 2: that only women and girl girls are targeted. Again, women
- 1:54:59Speaker 2: in gills gills, they beat you just call them gills
- 1:55:03Speaker 2: from now on, okay, claim five boys defensive responses are
- 1:55:08Speaker 2: treated as pathology rather than as reactions to a double standard.
- 1:55:12Speaker 2: Qualitative research with teachers on gender based violence prevention in
- 1:55:17Speaker 2: England reports that boys often respond with defensiveness, mockery, or
- 1:55:21Speaker 2: silence when they feel that they're being framed as the
- 1:55:24Speaker 2: problem problem. Sex teachers themselves worry about boys reluctance to
- 1:55:29Speaker 2: engage under those conditions. So what feminists are doing is
- 1:55:32Speaker 2: they're saying, we're going to flag the antisocial boys, We're
- 1:55:36Speaker 2: going to subject them to group blaming and shaming that
- 1:55:39Speaker 2: they share with other boys. You realize that it's going
- 1:55:41Speaker 2: to create a block, right instead of recognizing that boys
- 1:55:48Speaker 2: that are antisocial as a result. And it's not like
- 1:55:52Speaker 2: when I say that adverse childhood experiences cause boys to
- 1:55:57Speaker 2: engage in antisocial behaviors, you will be surprised at the
- 1:56:02Speaker 2: percentage of boys who experience these behaviors who actually go
- 1:56:09Speaker 2: on to engage in and engage in any kind of
- 1:56:11Speaker 2: abuse towards others. I think it's like six percent. We
- 1:56:15Speaker 2: think about that these are abused boys, and only like
- 1:56:19Speaker 2: six percent of them, maybe ten percent in some categories
- 1:56:23Speaker 2: go on to abuse others. That's how good boys are.
- 1:56:27Speaker 2: They don't deserve prap all right. Studies on online misogyny
- 1:56:32Speaker 2: in schools show that some boys use references to influencers
- 1:56:36Speaker 2: like Andrew Tate and the atmosphere talking points to provoke
- 1:56:41Speaker 2: staff and peers, especially when they perceive adults as hostel
- 1:56:44Speaker 2: or one sided. So what's happening is these boys know
- 1:56:49Speaker 2: that these teachers and lecturers go bonkers when they mentioned
- 1:56:56Speaker 2: Andrew Tate. So what do they do? They troll them. Yes,
- 1:57:02Speaker 2: they consciously act in ways to troll these women who
- 1:57:09Speaker 2: are treating them like second, second class citizens. The problem
- 1:57:13Speaker 2: is that once they do that, it justifies more inter
- 1:57:16Speaker 2: inventions like these women get to say, well, this is
- 1:57:20Speaker 2: exactly why I need to be here.
- 1:57:22Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.
- 1:57:23Speaker 2: I need to control these boys. I need to make
- 1:57:27Speaker 2: sure that they feel shame for existing and for the
- 1:57:31Speaker 2: existence of the criminal behavior of boys in general. It's like,
- 1:57:37Speaker 2: why are you allowing these women anywhere near your sons? Anyway?
- 1:57:41Speaker 2: And then these boys get upset because as you do,
- 1:57:46Speaker 2: Like I mean, have you ever experienced the situation where
- 1:57:49Speaker 2: someone just zones in on some random biological feature that
- 1:57:54Speaker 2: you have that you have no control of and starts
- 1:57:56Speaker 2: telling you how you're a criminal based on it? Like
- 1:57:59Speaker 2: don't wouldn't you? Don't? Sud think that creates resentment. So
- 1:58:01Speaker 2: these boys are resentful over that, as any normal human
- 1:58:05Speaker 2: being would be, and they turn around and troll these women. Yeah, okay,
- 1:58:11Speaker 2: what is it? What is the purpose of any of
- 1:58:15Speaker 2: this psycho educational research on boys and gender role conflict
- 1:58:19Speaker 2: links acting out, withdrawal and oppositional stances to perceive unfairness, shame,
- 1:58:25Speaker 2: and being treated as defective not simply too toxic masculinity
- 1:58:29Speaker 2: in the abstract. So this what feminists are calling toxic
- 1:58:34Speaker 2: masculinity is I am going to screw this word up.
- 1:58:38Speaker 2: It's rato. You know, I'm not even bother. It's doctor
- 1:58:42Speaker 2: inflicted harm. Feminists are going in and inflicting the harm
- 1:58:46Speaker 2: that creates the natural response, which they then call toxic masculinity.
- 1:58:52Speaker 2: But if you punch someone in the face, they're gonna
- 1:58:55Speaker 2: get angry at you, and feminists call that toxic masculine.
- 1:59:00Speaker 2: Me literally, it is a movement to remove the legitimacy
- 1:59:05Speaker 2: of men establishing boundaries with feminists and with women who
- 1:59:10Speaker 2: are willing to use feminist talking points. And it does nothing.
- 1:59:17Speaker 2: It's doing it's just creating more of the problem. It's
- 1:59:20Speaker 2: alienating more boys, it's failing more boys with adverse childhood experiences. Like, Yeah,
- 1:59:27Speaker 2: there could be an arguments that it could be good
- 1:59:30Speaker 2: to flag these boys and in a way that doesn't
- 1:59:33Speaker 2: discriminate against them or make them like single them out
- 1:59:37Speaker 2: in the body of the student body, get the musicianal
- 1:59:42Speaker 2: help with conflict resolution, anger managements, and values based mentorship. Yeah,
- 1:59:48Speaker 2: that might be there's some there's a there's a kernel
- 1:59:51Speaker 2: truth they're same with with girls with this problem. Or
- 1:59:53Speaker 2: you could just give them their fathers. But you know,
- 1:59:56Speaker 2: we're not dealing with that universe yet. You know, there's
- 1:59:59Speaker 2: a kernel. But this is nothing. This is taking those
- 2:00:04Speaker 2: boys and weaponizing them further. It's like it's like taking
- 2:00:11Speaker 2: like uranium you pull and turning it into plutonium and
- 2:00:15Speaker 2: turning it into bomb grade plutonium. This is refining the
- 2:00:18Speaker 2: violence when boys.
- 2:00:21Speaker 1: It's on purpose though it's like your your I think
- 2:00:24Speaker 1: the hope is that it will create dysfunction, which could
- 2:00:29Speaker 1: lead to more you know, my crime or some social problem,
- 2:00:34Speaker 1: and then that that further justifies more dysfunction because it'll
- 2:00:38Speaker 1: never the blame will never go on like you know,
- 2:00:41Speaker 1: all of these measures that are being taken, right, It'll
- 2:00:44Speaker 1: just be on the biology of boys and men on
- 2:00:47Speaker 1: boys and men.
- 2:00:48Speaker 2: For their toxicity. So you need more, You need more
- 2:00:51Speaker 2: of this. That's the that's the great hiarny of this.
- 2:00:55Speaker 2: Then you just need more of it, like this is
- 2:00:56Speaker 2: the solution. Right, all of this is going to mass
- 2:00:59Speaker 2: This is my prediction. None of this is going to materialize.
- 2:01:03Speaker 2: This is all vague, unsupported language with no empirical science
- 2:01:08Speaker 2: behind it. They aren't going to be reducing violence against
- 2:01:11Speaker 2: women of girls at all. And I predict that it's
- 2:01:15Speaker 2: likely that it's going to increase. And in ten years
- 2:01:18Speaker 2: they're going to come back and say we need we
- 2:01:20Speaker 2: need a hundred billion now right to deal with the
- 2:01:24Speaker 2: problem because it's so much bigger. Really, it's so much bigger.
- 2:01:28Speaker 2: I wonder why boys are being asked to accept that
- 2:01:32Speaker 2: their sex is watched and corrected while similar or worse
- 2:01:35Speaker 2: behavior by girls goes largely unexamined. This daily double standard
- 2:01:40Speaker 2: is a plausible driver of what is then labeled boys
- 2:01:43Speaker 2: bad behavior. When boys react by arguing back, mocking, you know, patrolling,
- 2:01:54Speaker 2: or withdrawing. My cat's trolling me a little bit. Okay,
- 2:01:57Speaker 2: if you want to be here, you're gonna be squished,
- 2:02:00Speaker 2: those responses are folded back into risk labeling, resistance to
- 2:02:03Speaker 2: anti misogyny work, which justifies more surveillance and reinforces the
- 2:02:08Speaker 2: sense that self defense is pathologized. Yes, because you're subjecting
- 2:02:13Speaker 2: your boys to an ideology that believes they don't deserve
- 2:02:17Speaker 2: any boundaries. You wonder why the UK is as like
- 2:02:20Speaker 2: an absolute epidemic of female pedaphilets right now you teach
- 2:02:27Speaker 2: the boys that don't deserve boundaries. Maybe that's the problem.
- 2:02:31Speaker 2: Main Claim three six stigma heavy boy targeted interventions are
- 2:02:38Speaker 2: dangerous for boys' mental health. This is necessary to even
- 2:02:41Speaker 2: say this. Boys as a group already have higher suicide
- 2:02:45Speaker 2: rates and poor educational outcome and many high income contexts.
- 2:02:50Speaker 2: Yet VAWA bag vague, and gender based violence frameworks give
- 2:02:56Speaker 2: little attention to boys mental health risks, focusing instead on
- 2:02:58Speaker 2: their role as potential editors or perpetrators. Literature on stigma
- 2:03:03Speaker 2: and youth mental health shows that being labeled as a
- 2:03:06Speaker 2: problem group or high risk increases avoidance of services, withdrawal, hopelessness,
- 2:03:11Speaker 2: and shame, which are associated with worse mental health outcomes
- 2:03:15Speaker 2: and suicidality. I think I said that word right. Work
- 2:03:21Speaker 2: on suicidality, work on boys gender role conflict finds that
- 2:03:27Speaker 2: internalizing a narrative inherent dangerousness or defectiveness is linked to
- 2:03:31Speaker 2: higher depression, self loathing, and suicidality. That's right, do dig right.
- 2:03:37Speaker 2: That's one suicidality.
- 2:03:40Speaker 1: Yeah, suicidality improving.
- 2:03:42Speaker 2: Small, small baby steps. Okay. So the other thing that's
- 2:03:46Speaker 2: linked to suicidality and depression is feeling like you're burden.
- 2:03:50Speaker 2: And that's nineteen It's one hundred and fifty percent of
- 2:03:53Speaker 2: all feminist rhetoric directed at boys is that they are
- 2:03:57Speaker 2: an unfair burden on society and women and girls, targeting
- 2:04:01Speaker 2: only boys as high risk, while ignoring misery and abusive
- 2:04:05Speaker 2: boys forces boys into a destructive choice internalize an unfair
- 2:04:09Speaker 2: story and harm themselves or reject the institution and risk
- 2:04:14Speaker 2: further marginalization and punishment. We need a new Pink Floyd
- 2:04:21Speaker 2: album just for this nonsense.
- 2:04:28Speaker 1: Agree with this stuff?
- 2:04:30Speaker 2: Yeah? Probably, I should probably google that, but then I'd
- 2:04:37Speaker 2: be like, no, I know, okay. Argument seven. Whole school
- 2:04:44Speaker 2: gender inclusive approaches are available, but sidelined UNESCO and United
- 2:04:50Speaker 2: Nations Girls Education Initiatives. Whole school frameworks for school related
- 2:04:54Speaker 2: gender biased violence emphasize that both girls and boys can
- 2:04:57Speaker 2: perpetrate and experience violence, and recommend the behavior standards, reporting,
- 2:05:01Speaker 2: and protection apply equally across genders. I cannot believe. How
- 2:05:06Speaker 2: have you made the UN the good guy in all
- 2:05:08Speaker 2: of this?
- 2:05:09Speaker 1: UK?
- 2:05:10Speaker 2: How did you do this? Like, I mean it's relative,
- 2:05:15Speaker 2: of course, it's still you know, like give kids their
- 2:05:18Speaker 2: fathers back. But the UN is sounding like the voice
- 2:05:22Speaker 2: of reason. That's like crazy talk. I mean, I've fallen
- 2:05:26Speaker 2: into a rabbit hole and come into some weird, upside
- 2:05:28Speaker 2: down world. These frameworks advocate universal behavior focused policies, for example,
- 2:05:34Speaker 2: clear rules on harassment, image based abuse, and visual physical aggression,
- 2:05:38Speaker 2: staff training, parent engagement, student participation, and carefully designed targeted
- 2:05:43Speaker 2: support that avoids stigmatizing specific identity groups. I imagine boys
- 2:05:48Speaker 2: aren't involved in that, but reviews of effective interventions for
- 2:05:52Speaker 2: adolescent boys and young men stress that programs work better
- 2:05:55Speaker 2: when they are offered offered to the whole class rather
- 2:05:58Speaker 2: than only two problems boys. I guess it's always problem boys, huh,
- 2:06:02Speaker 2: No problem girls. There focus on practical relationship skills, emotional
- 2:06:06Speaker 2: literacy and conflict management, avoid shaming and accusatory language, and
- 2:06:12Speaker 2: position boys as allies and stakeholders, not as a threat block.
- 2:06:17Speaker 2: And I'm sure that's still feminist informed. It's like it's
- 2:06:20Speaker 2: like the same feminists. Like you know, there's still feminists,
- 2:06:24Speaker 2: still ideologically possessed, but still have the ability to realize
- 2:06:28Speaker 2: that they might be following an ideological line off a
- 2:06:32Speaker 2: cliff right, But then we're not going to do that. No,
- 2:06:38Speaker 2: it's just blaming and shaming that surely that will fix everything.
- 2:06:44Speaker 2: Argument seven. Given the evidence continuing this model is indistinguishable
- 2:06:49Speaker 2: from malicious disregard, policymakers and advocates in this area are
- 2:06:56Speaker 2: drawing on the same body of research that documents weak
- 2:07:00Speaker 2: and inconsistence violence reduction effects of many gender ideological interventions modest,
- 2:07:08Speaker 2: often fading impacts on behavior, serious stigma and mental health
- 2:07:13Speaker 2: risks of targeting boys as a problem group, and the
- 2:07:16Speaker 2: reality that girls in feminist spaces can also be deeply
- 2:07:20Speaker 2: hateful or abusive despite that they're expanding stigma heavy boy
- 2:07:26Speaker 2: targeted school programs with strong political rhetoric and moral certainty,
- 2:07:31Speaker 2: while leaving miss injery and the harms to boys mental
- 2:07:34Speaker 2: health and educational prospects largely unaddressed, largely completely unaddressed in
- 2:07:40Speaker 2: ethical and legal terms, persisting with an intervention model that
- 2:07:45Speaker 2: has weak evidence of benefit and foreseeable, well documented risks
- 2:07:49Speaker 2: for a vulnerable group that fits the pattern, fits the
- 2:07:52Speaker 2: pattern of reckless or malicious disregard the action. Actors may
- 2:07:58Speaker 2: not openly state a design to harm boys, but their
- 2:08:02Speaker 2: refusal to connect obvious dots is not distinguishable from malice
- 2:08:08Speaker 2: in practice when it comes to boys welfare, indistinctual, indistinguishable
- 2:08:15Speaker 2: from the legal definition of malice. This behavior is indistinguishable,
- 2:08:21Speaker 2: and the probability is that it's driven by a profit motive. Right,
- 2:08:28Speaker 2: So this did you have anything to say to that, Brian?
- 2:08:32Speaker 2: Did you want to add anything. Did you find anything
- 2:08:34Speaker 2: interesting that somebody said that you want to dress?
- 2:08:36Speaker 1: No, I'm good because I.
- 2:08:39Speaker 2: Think unfortunately my cat has like licked all my freaking
- 2:08:43Speaker 2: water containers like glasses and mugs, so I have no water.
- 2:08:52Speaker 2: It's shedding all over me, and I'm actually allergic to her. Yeah, persevere, guys,
- 2:09:00Speaker 2: all persevere. So I said that there is some advice
- 2:09:06Speaker 2: to fighting back, and basically it is just call it
- 2:09:10Speaker 2: what it is. Just call it what it is. So
- 2:09:14Speaker 2: for now, boys are trolling, trolling these women who are
- 2:09:19Speaker 2: doing this to them, who are victimizing them by using
- 2:09:21Speaker 2: Andrew t and quoting Andrew Tate. And they may not
- 2:09:25Speaker 2: even believe in what he has to say, but he
- 2:09:28Speaker 2: knows it infuriates them, but they know it infuriates the
- 2:09:31Speaker 2: feminists who are doing this to them, treating them like secondary,
- 2:09:34Speaker 2: second class citizens. And again, nothing is going to change
- 2:09:39Speaker 2: about men's or boys engagement in this until you recognize
- 2:09:44Speaker 2: that girls are abusive and that girls are also hateful
- 2:09:49Speaker 2: and treat this as a gender neutral problem, not a
- 2:09:52Speaker 2: gendered problem that boys are uniquely to blame for. But
- 2:09:56Speaker 2: here's the thing, So Andrew T gives them a way
- 2:09:58Speaker 2: to fight back basically, and he also gives them the
- 2:10:01Speaker 2: contacts to deal with this situation. And what the problem
- 2:10:10Speaker 2: that I have with that is it in taking responsibility
- 2:10:14Speaker 2: for this as a personal issue and turning it into
- 2:10:17Speaker 2: like a I'm strong enough to overcome it. There isn't
- 2:10:24Speaker 2: direct calling it out, direct calling out the institutional abuse
- 2:10:28Speaker 2: that this is or this is not. This is not
- 2:10:31Speaker 2: a wait boys should have to carry. Yes, they are
- 2:10:34Speaker 2: carrying it, and that is honestly like when I ask perplexity,
- 2:10:39Speaker 2: are men and boys angry enough about what they're dealing with?
- 2:10:44Speaker 2: And the answer is no, it is it just like
- 2:10:47Speaker 2: it's astounding that boys who are abused experience like multiple
- 2:10:52Speaker 2: forms of adverse childhood events, like only the smallest amount
- 2:10:58Speaker 2: of them go on to abuse. It's astounding that boys
- 2:11:02Speaker 2: are enduring and swallowing this in a culture where we
- 2:11:07Speaker 2: think that using the term male man or using man
- 2:11:15Speaker 2: in a profession will alienate girls from taking part. So
- 2:11:20Speaker 2: we believe the least amount of emotional friction will cause
- 2:11:27Speaker 2: women to faint and just be unable to deal with it.
- 2:11:31Speaker 2: And yet look at what we're doing with boys and
- 2:11:33Speaker 2: boys to continue to strive, they continue to work hard,
- 2:11:38Speaker 2: They continue to get employment, they continue to do the
- 2:11:41Speaker 2: jobs that support all of us in our comfortable reality.
- 2:11:46Speaker 2: They continue to be excellent, and there's very little actual
- 2:11:52Speaker 2: violence going on, considering there's very even angry push back
- 2:12:00Speaker 2: going on. So, I mean, I think entertain might have
- 2:12:04Speaker 2: a point when he says that boys are superior. We're
- 2:12:09Speaker 2: certainly expecting them to carry a hell of a lot
- 2:12:11Speaker 2: more So, what does that say to us that we're
- 2:12:14Speaker 2: expecting boys to carry way more than girls? So boys
- 2:12:17Speaker 2: have to carry the entire weight of guilt for patriarchy
- 2:12:22Speaker 2: and the sins of criminal men on their back and
- 2:12:26Speaker 2: everything else that we put on them. But if girls
- 2:12:30Speaker 2: are expected to even manage their own emotions when it
- 2:12:36Speaker 2: comes to I don't know, things being called a maleman
- 2:12:41Speaker 2: or a what are other male words? Congressmen? Right, all
- 2:12:46Speaker 2: that that's going to stop girls from going into like this,
- 2:12:51Speaker 2: Like just language is going to destroy girl's confidence. Seeing
- 2:12:56Speaker 2: an attractive woman in a bikini is going to destroy
- 2:12:58Speaker 2: girl's confidence. You know, saying anything negative about women ever,
- 2:13:05Speaker 2: is going to destroy girl's confidence. Barbie is saying bath
- 2:13:09Speaker 2: is hard is going to destroy girl's confidence. Meanwhile, you
- 2:13:13Speaker 2: are dumping this gigantic boulder of shame and blame group,
- 2:13:18Speaker 2: shoulme and blame on boys. Are you doing it? Why
- 2:13:24Speaker 2: do you think it's because boys deserve this or do
- 2:13:31Speaker 2: you think it's because they can carry it better? Because
- 2:13:34Speaker 2: expecting this group of people to carry more does suggest
- 2:13:36Speaker 2: you think they can. And Tate is tapping into that
- 2:13:41Speaker 2: you're being expected to carry more because you're stronger, And
- 2:13:45Speaker 2: obviously that's the real message if you think about it.
- 2:13:51Speaker 2: Boys have to carry the weight of sin. Girls can't
- 2:13:56Speaker 2: even carry the consequences of their own choices. This, right,
- 2:14:00Speaker 2: that is about what we think about boys strength versus
- 2:14:03Speaker 2: girl's strength, and boy's moral seriousness versus girl's moral seriousness.
- 2:14:08Speaker 2: So you're really feed like this whole narrative is really
- 2:14:11Speaker 2: feeding into Andrew Tate simply saying, well, you do this
- 2:14:14Speaker 2: because you're superior, and you stand up under the weight
- 2:14:17Speaker 2: because you're superior. It's because you are stronger, all right,
- 2:14:22Speaker 2: But it still doesn't call out what needs to be
- 2:14:25Speaker 2: called out and what needs to be called out. And
- 2:14:30Speaker 2: this is what I suggest, right, This is something that
- 2:14:33Speaker 2: I do myself. I find a target, a pivot point,
- 2:14:38Speaker 2: a keystone that I know is both critical and vulnerable
- 2:14:44Speaker 2: in terms of feminist rhetoric, Like one of the ones
- 2:14:47Speaker 2: that I use a lot is the statistics around sexual assault,
- 2:14:51Speaker 2: because sexual assault is a keystone rhetorical weapon that feminists used,
- 2:14:56Speaker 2: and they use it to justify how we discriminated against
- 2:15:01Speaker 2: boys and men and various programs. Because of course, everybody
- 2:15:06Speaker 2: knows that men and boys are more sexually well we
- 2:15:09Speaker 2: actually know we don't know that, because there's powerful evidence
- 2:15:14Speaker 2: that has come out in the last twenty years that
- 2:15:17Speaker 2: women and girls engage in the same amount of sexually
- 2:15:20Speaker 2: aggressive behavior as boys and men. And this evidence is
- 2:15:26Speaker 2: very powerful, Like it pretty much has put the question
- 2:15:30Speaker 2: to rest. Nobody talks about it except for me. I
- 2:15:34Speaker 2: bring it up everywhere because I know that this is
- 2:15:37Speaker 2: pivotal and it's weak, it's vulnerable. So you pound at
- 2:15:41Speaker 2: it and you just keep punching at it as many
- 2:15:45Speaker 2: times as you can. Every time they drop their guard,
- 2:15:48Speaker 2: a feminist drops their guard, and somebody sends me a
- 2:15:50Speaker 2: message bam rhetorically not physically right. You know, they start
- 2:15:56Speaker 2: posturing about how men are evil because I just draw
- 2:16:00Speaker 2: that over and over and over again. You hit the
- 2:16:04Speaker 2: target over and over and over again. It's like Bruce Lee,
- 2:16:08Speaker 2: I don't fear a man who's practiced one hundred or
- 2:16:11Speaker 2: a thousand techniques. I fear the man who's who's practiced
- 2:16:15Speaker 2: one technique a thousand times. That's what you do. You
- 2:16:18Speaker 2: punch it a thousand times. You just need to know
- 2:16:20Speaker 2: where and where for these ideologues. Is what this actually
- 2:16:28Speaker 2: is is identifying what they are actually doing and what
- 2:16:32Speaker 2: they are actually doing evidence points. The probability is is
- 2:16:38Speaker 2: they are sacrificing boys. They are sacrificing you and your
- 2:16:43Speaker 2: mates to make money. And they're not just stopping with
- 2:16:48Speaker 2: a sacrifice of boys. They're also sacrificing girls to make money,
- 2:16:54Speaker 2: to create make work projects that have no accountability. And
- 2:16:58Speaker 2: you can blame your victim or even blame the person
- 2:17:01Speaker 2: you're supposed to help for right if if you're if
- 2:17:04Speaker 2: any woman calls out and says, hey, wait, what are
- 2:17:06Speaker 2: you doing? This isn't you're a pick me, You're a handmaid.
- 2:17:09Speaker 2: You have internalized misogyny. So they what feminism excels at
- 2:17:15Speaker 2: is justifying and offloading blame for its failures. Right, hit that,
- 2:17:20Speaker 2: that's the target you need to hit with this. So
- 2:17:23Speaker 2: this is my recommendation instead of trolling with Andrew Tait,
- 2:17:28Speaker 2: tell these idea ideologues to their face that you know
- 2:17:34Speaker 2: they are abusing you and your mates in order to
- 2:17:40Speaker 2: make money, and that you have proof, and watch them
- 2:17:46Speaker 2: go white with terror. And of course they'll immediately, you know,
- 2:17:51Speaker 2: shock and jive and put the bureaucratic face on and
- 2:17:54Speaker 2: start problematizing who you are. But they'll do that no
- 2:17:57Speaker 2: matter what you do. But if you call out what
- 2:18:00Speaker 2: they're doing and why they're doing it, and that you
- 2:18:02Speaker 2: know you have the proof, they can't stand against that.
- 2:18:07Speaker 2: And if they do persecute you, like if a boy
- 2:18:10Speaker 2: does do that and actually precisely hits the target rhetorical
- 2:18:14Speaker 2: punch right to the target, and that administrator that's lecture
- 2:18:23Speaker 2: whatever they call themselves, prosecutes him for that. Other boys
- 2:18:28Speaker 2: will see it right, and you will. You will feel
- 2:18:33Speaker 2: the difference between trolling them with Andrew Tate, which makes
- 2:18:36Speaker 2: you a naughty boy, and trolling them with this not trolling,
- 2:18:39Speaker 2: but telling them the truth, which makes you dangerous, and
- 2:18:44Speaker 2: just keep hitting that target over and over and over
- 2:18:47Speaker 2: again because it is vulnerable. They are vulnerable to the truth.
- 2:18:52Speaker 2: It's like that the one Peter Cabaldi Cabaldi doctor who
- 2:19:00Speaker 2: Petereah the special that he did where he punched through
- 2:19:07Speaker 2: a wall of diamond by by dying over and over
- 2:19:13Speaker 2: and over again. And yeah, just I know it's a
- 2:19:18Speaker 2: lot of work, but it's just that you just have
- 2:19:21Speaker 2: to hit the target over and over again. And that's
- 2:19:24Speaker 2: how you become a machine. You find out the targets
- 2:19:27Speaker 2: you need to hit, You hit them, and you know
- 2:19:30Speaker 2: what you're talking about. You got the proof and they
- 2:19:34Speaker 2: can't stand up against it. Like you go from your
- 2:19:37Speaker 2: bringing up Andrew Taine and oh what a naughty boy
- 2:19:40Speaker 2: to complete silence and fury and terror. What did you
- 2:19:45Speaker 2: just say? What did you just expose? Because that's where
- 2:19:50Speaker 2: they really, that's where they're weak recognition of what they're
- 2:19:54Speaker 2: doing and stripping them from the moral authority, the moral
- 2:19:58Speaker 2: justifications for doing it.
- 2:20:00Speaker 1: All right, yep, I'm good.
- 2:20:03Speaker 2: Do you want to add anything to that?
- 2:20:05Speaker 1: No, I think we covered it. I think that's good.
- 2:20:08Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 2:20:09Speaker 1: I looked at the Guardian article in the meantime. It's
- 2:20:11Speaker 1: basically just saying the same thing the BBC one ded
- 2:20:13Speaker 1: In fact, the BBC article is probably a little better. Yeah,
- 2:20:16Speaker 1: I'm not saying something about the Guardian.
- 2:20:19Speaker 2: So all right, So once again, if you want to
- 2:20:22Speaker 2: send us a message at anytime. We get these messages,
- 2:20:25Speaker 2: they stay. They don't go anywhere like Superchows go somewhere.
- 2:20:29Speaker 2: I don't know where they go. Go to feed the
- 2:20:32Speaker 2: Badger dot calm slash just the tip. We will respond
- 2:20:35Speaker 2: to whatever commentary you give us at the next you know,
- 2:20:38Speaker 2: next show basically where we're both on and once again
- 2:20:43Speaker 2: feed the Badger dot com slash just the tip, and
- 2:20:45Speaker 2: if you want to support the show, feed the Badger
- 2:20:47Speaker 2: dot com slash support. We have nine days left and
- 2:20:52Speaker 2: about four four hundred ago, so I know it's pretty
- 2:20:57Speaker 2: slow during December. Appreciate it if you would take a
- 2:21:01Speaker 2: little bit of time to go and help us out.
- 2:21:04Speaker 2: I'm hoping we get a little over so we can
- 2:21:07Speaker 2: do what we did last year and I can kick
- 2:21:10Speaker 2: some more to Brian. So anyway, feed Thebadger dot com
- 2:21:14Speaker 2: slash support for that and I'll hand it back to
- 2:21:16Speaker 2: you Brian.
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