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When Life Changes In A Blink, Resilience Begins | Episode 410 · Voices for Voices®

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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Hey everyone, it's Justin here, Voices for Voices.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Thank you so much for joining us on this in every episode, over 400 episodes.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Uh really close.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: I believe this actually might be episode 410.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: So we're uh first week on the second week in January 2026, and like I said, we're we're not taking our foot off the gas, we're uh continuing to uh share content, share stories, uh, and uh help as many people as possible if you're able to.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Uh if you could reach out to 25 of your closest friends, our followers, and let them know about the voices for voices, TV show and podcasts, that would be greatly appreciated.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: It's something that's free to do, just like following us on our social media and subscribing and liking and following and all that great stuff, our uh voices for voices podcast and and TV show.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: We are uh officially, as we have done, over uh a hundred countries and provinces and over a thousand cities, and we are in the challenge now uh because we know we can do it.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Um there's no reason we can't reach uh 300 countries and territories and 3,000 cities worldwide.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Uh it's because you were here and and we know that we can continue to reach more and more people on that uh on that road to helping 3 billion people over the course of my lifetime and beyond.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Uh we really hope that you're uh you're you're enjoying the episodes, and and so uh again that this is your first show.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: We have over 400 uh and 410 episodes.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: So there's at least maybe 30 or 40 episodes at the very least that uh uh really would you know talk to you uh as far as I guess and topic.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Um we we just recommend that if uh you want to check this out if you're gonna come running.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Uh you can watch us on Rumble on YouTube, and you can listen to us everywhere uh we're gonna we're gonna jump into uh we we we do try into uh as uh in the foundation of voices for voices, uh with her guest David Sullivan, and we have on uh multiple times uh talking about multiple topics.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: And the topic today is uh David will be explaining logistics in a little context.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: He's gonna be talking about his mental health and how that relates to uh an injury, uh an ice cream um that uh has happened, and so he's gonna talk from you know what that is, what the healing process is, how it's it's affected his mental health, and really to be again an inspiration as he always is on our show.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: So, David, welcome again to the show, and uh thank you for joining us and feel free to take the floor.
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David Solomon: Thank you, Justin.
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David Solomon: Um let me say this has been a life-changing, altering event.
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David Solomon: Um you can hear my voice probably.
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David Solomon: One moment you can you can see and you can write and you can work, and you can do the things that you normally can do, and then the the the second that's taken from you, you you can't do that anymore, and you don't realize what you have until it's gone.
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David Solomon: And that's that's kind of where we're at.
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David Solomon: And um thanks to my wife, um, she's really uh she's really helped out that way with uh with trying to make me see that you know you're gonna make it through this.
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David Solomon: And um, she herself has battled a diagnosis of ADHD, which is attention deficit disorder, and she has been looking at um how to better help herself, and it's really opened my eyes as to how to help me, and we've been battling that.
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David Solomon: Um and when this happened, um, it was an accident and Christmas, and um it just happened overnight, and one moment you can see, and you can look at light, and you can write, and you can watch TV, and you can look at your kids, and and you can eat, and you can you can do all these things normally, and then within a split second, everything is just taken from you, it's just ripped from you.
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David Solomon: All of it, just ripped.
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David Solomon: And that's what has happened now, is it's been ripped, and it's just been um it's been life-changing and and heartbreaking.
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David Solomon: The pain that I've endured is non-stop.
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David Solomon: The triggers that trigger the pain are non-stop.
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David Solomon: The emotional distress of not being able to write for a very long time is non-stop.
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David Solomon: And it's it's just so hard on the body.
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David Solomon: We we take for granted, we take for granted the the things of life, like being able to see.
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David Solomon: We don't think of how that affects us.
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David Solomon: It affects us in life because you you gotta see in order to live.
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David Solomon: There are blind people out there, don't get me wrong, there are, but you have to see in order to live a normal life.
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David Solomon: You have to watch TV, you have to read, you have to write, you have to cook, you have to clean, you have to help out, and you can't do these things if you can't see and that's been life-changing and life altering, and it hurts.
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David Solomon: The pain that I've been in there It's fifty times worse than I've ever been in my life.
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David Solomon: Any light your whole side of your face pulsates and it's just been eye-opening that you you get everything taken from you just like that.
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David Solomon: How this happened was an accident.
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David Solomon: I'm not gonna say everything because it's not my place.
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David Solomon: But I'm gonna say let this be a lesson to some people, because part of it was my fault, but another part was someone's anger getting out of hand and not thinking about the consequences of what happens next.
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David Solomon: That's what I'll say to that.
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David Solomon: Actions have consequences.
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David Solomon: A week ago I was watching the New Year's, you know, show and my eye was hurting.
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David Solomon: It didn't start hurting right away, started gradually getting worse, and vision started blurring, and on New Year's Day it, you know, that's when reality hit in that you you woke up to a hell.
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David Solomon: So it's not fair.
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David Solomon: It's not easy.
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David Solomon: You start looking at the little things in life that you've done to make a difference.
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David Solomon: You look at all the people that you may have wronged in life, or maybe they wronged you.
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David Solomon: We're in a a lawsuit for stupid reasons.
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David Solomon: You you sit back in your bed, you close your eyes because it burns to open them.
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David Solomon: You have a lot of time to think.
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David Solomon: What a waste of time.
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David Solomon: What a waste of life.
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David Solomon: Life is so precious.
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David Solomon: Why are we wasting time in this?
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David Solomon: Just eight days ago, I was writing a book in San Bernardino County.
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David Solomon: It was based on San Bernardino County.
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David Solomon: And I'd been there with my mom.
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David Solomon: And out of nowhere.
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David Solomon: The next day you can't see to do it.
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David Solomon: It's been so emotionally draining to go backwards as a writer and as a creator, and as a father and as a husband, and to watch yourself decline before you get better.
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David Solomon: This type of injury takes a long time to heal.
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David Solomon: So I don't know when I will write again.
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David Solomon: Thankfully I will.
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David Solomon: It takes a lot of treatment.
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David Solomon: A lot of rehab.
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David Solomon: It's so hard to think.
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David Solomon: All these people so much hate on me, like for being a survivor of human trafficking and then this happened and just close your eyes and take for granted the little things in life.
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David Solomon: I was talking to an old friend today.
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David Solomon: Known him since I was a kid.
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David Solomon: He reminded me of why I write.
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David Solomon: And why I'm in a lawsuit with the people that took me and the people that continue to take others.
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David Solomon: Why I'm ridiculed.
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David Solomon: Why others are ridiculed for telling their story because it makes someone uncomfortable, because it makes a difference, because it starts a revolution.
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David Solomon: It starts a movement.
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David Solomon: All night as the pain got worse.
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David Solomon: No sleep.
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David Solomon: Then you start to forgive your enemies.
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David Solomon: Stephen Reimers number one.
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David Solomon: Brian Davis number two Mindy Davis number three.
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David Solomon: Scott Minor, number four.
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David Solomon: We start going over your woes of what could I do better and when I get my sight back, what can I do to improve?
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David Solomon: What can I do to make a better life for my family?
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David Solomon: And not fail them.
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David Solomon: It's hard.
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David Solomon: But you have a lot of time to think.
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David Solomon: So you can take your eyesight away, but they can't take your brain away.
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David Solomon: It doesn't hurt to think, it just hurts to see.
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David Solomon: Or to move.
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David Solomon: Or to walk.
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David Solomon: Because you get dizzy and you fall.
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David Solomon: But it's been an eye opener.
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David Solomon: It's hurt.
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David Solomon: It's also made me stronger to appreciate things.
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David Solomon: Appreciate precious little things in life.
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David Solomon: Appreciate where people are coming from.
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David Solomon: We don't think about that.
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David Solomon: We are so blessed to live in the United States and not Africa.
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David Solomon: Where they're scrounging for a banana for dinner right now.
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David Solomon: Kids are they're doing it.
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David Solomon: So bless Don't take for granted your life.
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David Solomon: You never know when you're gonna lose it.
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David Solomon: It can happen in the blink of an eye.
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David Solomon: Look at me.
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David Solomon: Now I can't even put a word on the paper.
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David Solomon: And all I know how to do is write.
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David Solomon: So it's very hard.
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David Solomon: It reminds me of when I came back from being trafficked.
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David Solomon: Wasn't it?
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David Solomon: Car accident.
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David Solomon: It isn't I have my family now, but back then it was just my mom.
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David Solomon: Nobody visited me in the hospital there for a long time.
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David Solomon: I had to learn how to do things over.
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David Solomon: I had to learn how to read again to write again.
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David Solomon: I had a lot happen to me.
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David Solomon: It was so hard.
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David Solomon: This feels like a repeat of history.
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David Solomon: Mental health awareness, number one.
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David Solomon: Another thing.
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David Solomon: Don't be hard on yourself.
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David Solomon: That's something I've had to learn.
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David Solomon: I blame myself for everything.
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David Solomon: And like talking to God and just thinking, learned a lot.
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David Solomon: My wife has really opened me up.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: You're robotic now.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Whatever you did.
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David Solomon: Podcast and diagnose.
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David Solomon: My wife, um, she's been helping me understand her diagnosis with ADHD as this eye happens, and I've been learning so much about myself because I have ADHD and I have Asperger, which is a form of autism, which is why I write so fast.
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David Solomon: I write so fast because my brain is hyper-focused.
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David Solomon: I I'm too smart for my own good.
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David Solomon: So life has changed.
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David Solomon: Seasons change, seasons come and go.
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David Solomon: It's like that song I wrote.
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David Solomon: Um it's called Birds.
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David Solomon: You know, it goes, seasons come and change, seasons come and go.
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David Solomon: Life will never die, die, die.
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David Solomon: Anyway, I wrote it.
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David Solomon: Um it talks about death is always temporary, and sometimes you have to let go in order to fly.
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David Solomon: And then I know that we will make it.
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David Solomon: I know that it's not easy, but we have to make the change.
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David Solomon: And as the seasons change, life changes with it.
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David Solomon: And it will get better.
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David Solomon: I wrote that.
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David Solomon: I wrote that when I knew my mom wasn't gonna make it.
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David Solomon: It's by Imagine Dragons.
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David Solomon: It kinda reminds me of now.
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David Solomon: You don't know where you're gonna go in in so many circumstances I've been in where you just find yourself and you don't know where you're gonna go from here.
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David Solomon: That's where I'm at.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Sure, no problem.
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David Solomon: Justin, you can ill uh reelierate what you uh what you think of mental health for a minute.
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David Solomon: Give me one.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Yeah.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Uh yeah, I don't want to uh interrupt because you were you're definitely getting into the mechanics and how one minute we have something, another minute we don't, and having something similar, not entirely exactly the the same of what you're going to about twenty years ago.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Uh I had something again similar, uh not not exactly the same, but I I remember the same feeling.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: I didn't have the I didn't have the same appreciation for the mental health uh at that time, but I did have uh afterwards the appreciation of being able to begin this like David said, just do regular to us regular things.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: And when when it's there, we take it for granted sometimes like oh well that just that's just how things are, and and we go at it at that route, and then when it is taken, whatever that is, um I had uh again a similar a similar but not the exact same that David uh has and and is and will be going through for a while.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Um it's it really it really does.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: It just teaches you like one one day you could have something, and the next day it could just be gone, just like a snap of a finger.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: And it's uh it's very hard, it's it's tough, it's hard to explain to some people uh who haven't gone through something similar, not that it has to be the specific part of the body, uh, but when there are certain faculties that are taken, whether it is permanent, uh, because there are, as we know, there are individuals we we do know that it is permanent, that they uh won't be haven't been and won't be able to see.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: And so we're we're just automatically thrust into that area, and it's like, oh my gosh, there's people that are living like this every single day, and I've just been taking it for granted that whenever I wake up, like my eyes are gonna open, and I am going to do what I'm whatever I'm gonna do.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Um and and to have that gone for any period of time uh is so hard.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: And and now with my mental health journey, uh I can I can now fully appreciate my situation when again 20 years ago, something very very similar where one day had it and next day didn't, and it it took a a good long while for for it to um for it to heal, and there were.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: There's so much there was pain, there's awkwardness, and uh it's uh it's a true testament of being a human being and and deciding okay, I'm I'm gonna get through this at some point.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: I don't know when it's gonna be, but I'm gonna get through this, and I'm one day closer to getting through this than I was yesterday.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: And so when I started, I forget the where I heard that or who actually said it.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Uh so I I I would give credit where where credit is due for that quote, but I I don't I'm it's not coming to me at the this this this moment.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Uh but it's it's so true.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: It's like we can look at things like, well, I'm one day closer, I'm one hour closer to being back to whatever normal is for me, or I can look at it and go, oh, it's it's another not not so uh not so great day.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Uh so David, I uh uh well not knowing exactly how you're feeling having a similar life-altering event, uh again, and and for me the same thing.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Half of it was my fault, and half of it was wasn't it was it it it was it it's just crazy to to to look back at that and then and then to see how similar we are as as human beings that uh we're not infallible.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: We're we're we're just human beings.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: And so you can finish this out, dude.
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David Solomon: I mean it's really opened my eyes.
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David Solomon: Um literally when you can't open one eye, it just It blows the mind what you do You live in the dark and you you pray to God that you can write again It's not easy It's just not easy I would encourage you to not take anything for granted that you have your eyesight or maybe you can walk.
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David Solomon: Let's not take that for granted.
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David Solomon: Let's be thankful that we can walk and not be paralyzed because you never know what happens tomorrow.
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David Solomon: My mom once said Is this the story of how you live and die?
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David Solomon: Or how you die and live's work from the wise word I'm trying to live by those quite the journey And I will I will overcome this because you can overcome all things through Christ who strengthens you.
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David Solomon: It's not easy and it's a lot of pain.
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David Solomon: Thank you.
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David Solomon: And a lot of hurt You you learn a lot.
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David Solomon: So thank you, Justin, for letting me uh come on.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: You're welcome.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Yeah, you're you're a day closer to getting back.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: We don't know when that day will be.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Uh but again, yeah, wise words by your mom.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: And it's that that type of that type of thinking that's that's needed to help us get through every day and always have a spot to be able to share, especially when you know it when we were talking straight up about mental health, and it can't get more mental health than than than than this story.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: So it you know remain strong and wish as uh the healing goes that um you're just kinda at the beginning of of that.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Um but you know better days are to are to come and and to our viewers and listeners, hopefully you know this touches somebody.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: We know it will.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Um we just we say hopefully just because we're not God, we don't know a hundred percent of uh what what will, what won't, and when it will, and if it's right when we drop the episode, or if it's a week or a month or a year later.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Uh but we uh we know that this is gonna help uh and help people all over the world, and and that that can't be closer to the truth of what we are with voices for voices with our podcast TV show.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: If you catch uh any of our TikTok lives, and the same with mythical creatures around the world, which we acquired uh just still under uh will still remain under David's leadership.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Uh we did that towards the uh the the tail end of calendar 2025, and uh we'll be back as soon as humanly possible uh with with posts, but we would invite you to uh yeah, the the Facebook group Mythical Creatures Around the World, uh take a look at some of our most recent posts, uh, and you'll see some of the great work that uh has been completed uh in 2025, and then going into 2026.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: So that was part of uh the strategy that David and and I were looking at uh because it's uh it's a it's a uh a great entity in when people knowingly or unknowingly use your name, your organization without getting credit, and that's happened unfortunately just too many times to too many people, not just not just David and and us, uh, but it happens to to too many people where they don't get the credit, they don't get the royalties, and and so that's why we we we come out transparent and we talk about the issues that are happening as they happen, uh, because that's the organization we are.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: So as soon as we learn about things, we uh come out and we address them because that's that's who we are, that's how we we handle things.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: That's how a business, we are a nonprofit, but that's how any business handles things.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: We could either wait and wait and wait months and months and years, or we can come and we can talk about it right now when we're in the developing phases, so people know darn well that you can't use mythical creatures around the world without David's blessing and our blessing, uh, and especially not giving credit where credit is due.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: So uh yeah, you're you're gonna see a lot of voices for voices, a lot of mythical mythical creatures around the world.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Uh here in 2026, yep, we're we are a little bit of a hitch um uh with with with David's injury.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Uh but uh don't don't blink too too long because uh not trying to use that as an analogy or anything, but uh don't look away too long uh because uh you might miss something.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: So all our viewers and listeners here in the United States, across the world, help us reach 300 countries, 3,000 cities.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: We're currently at 100 countries, 1,000 and three cities across the world, and I know we can do it.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: And if you reach out to some of your uh some of your followers, some of your friends, and just just let them know about voices for voices, it's all free to do.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Just get a group chat going or make a a post and tag voices for voices, uh, because we're on all the the main social media channels.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: So until next time, we want to thank David Solomon uh for his intense mental health and physical health um strength that he he has and uh and and learning as as we do over time when when certain events happen, um and we uh you know pray for his speedy recovery and anybody else who is going through something similar, or even if you're not, we're still praying for you, praying for us, or praying for the the whole world, whether you're uh a follower, whether you're our enemies.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Um we're all human beings, and and and so we uh we pray for everybody every night, pray for ourselves, our families, and in the whole world.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: So until next time, this is Justin Alan Hayes with David Solomon, uh with uh the Voices for Voices podcast and TV show.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Until next time, please be a voice for you or somebody in need.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: Bye bye.
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Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices: We'll see you next time.