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Your Attitude Is Everything: Overcome Negative Thinking & Dominate Life · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Most people go so far in life and then they park,
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  Speaker 1: they stop dead and attracts Why because they take some hits.
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  Speaker 1: When you have a goal and dream, think it not
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  Speaker 1: strange that you face the fiery furnaces of this world.
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  Speaker 1: You will have tribulations. Things are going to happen to you.
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  Speaker 2: Life tries to convince us that we're average.
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  Speaker 3: There's nothing special about us.
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  Speaker 4: We have too many obstacles.
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  Speaker 5: We'll never accomplish our dreams.
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  Speaker 2: We've made too many mistakes, we'll never leave our mar
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  Speaker 2: We don't realize who we are.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe you have doubt in your life. Maybe you don't
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  Speaker 4: know for sure what's going to be happening in the future,
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  Speaker 4: and it scares you. Maybe about Maybe you're worried about
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  Speaker 4: what people think of you, what people say about you.
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  Speaker 4: Is that fear paralyzes you? And I just want to
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  Speaker 4: ask you today.
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  Speaker 6: Do you think you have move?
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  Speaker 1: Somebody said that life is like an onion. You have
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  Speaker 1: to peel it one leer at a time, and sometimes
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  Speaker 1: you cry. Life's gonna happen to you. When you have
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  Speaker 1: a dream, You're gonna get slapped around. And don't take
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  Speaker 1: it personal. Don't ask why did this have to happen
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  Speaker 1: to me? Why not you?
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  Speaker 5: Who would you suggest?
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  Speaker 1: You want to give us some name, some email addresses
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  Speaker 1: and don't tell everybody? Eighty percent don't care and twenty
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  Speaker 1: percent glad as you.
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  Speaker 4: I want to ask you, what are you gonna believe?
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  Speaker 4: Are you gonna believe in yourself? You're gonna believe everybody
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  Speaker 4: else's judgment on you? Are you gonna believe people when
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  Speaker 4: they say that you're a failure of it? All really
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  Speaker 4: likes you, don't really cares about you.
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  Speaker 1: It's called life.
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  Speaker 7: Suck it up and move on, get over.
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  Speaker 1: It, turn it on itself and ask yourself, what am
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  Speaker 1: I afraid of?
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  Speaker 8: I'm afraid of that.
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  Speaker 5: I gotta be more afraid.
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  Speaker 1: Of what I'm gonna miss out on, missing out on
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  Speaker 1: the mission, missing out who I'm supposed to be listening.
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  Speaker 1: In other words, if you do not get rid of fear,
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  Speaker 1: then use there use fear or it uses you.
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  Speaker 5: It's that simple.
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  Speaker 1: You are not like everybody else. You're can walk outside
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  Speaker 1: and find pigeons, but if you're looking for eagles, it's
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  Speaker 1: gonna take you a minute. You are different. It's lonely
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  Speaker 1: at the top. How many of you know it's longly
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  Speaker 1: at the top.
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  Speaker 5: He's lonely at the top.
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  Speaker 4: But you eat better, and it's not the end until
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  Speaker 4: you've given up. And just the fact that you're here
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  Speaker 4: should persuade you that you have another chance to get
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  Speaker 4: back up.
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  Speaker 6: They're still pop.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not here today to tell you that I understand
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  Speaker 4: your opinion. I don't know how it feels to be abused.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know how it feels to feel quote fat
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  Speaker 4: and you've got an eating disorder. I don't know how
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  Speaker 4: it first have a broken home. I don't know how
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  Speaker 4: it feels. I don't know how it feels to have
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  Speaker 4: a broken heart, and I know how it feels to
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  Speaker 4: be alone. And I want you to know that I
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  Speaker 4: found my strength in Jesus Christ, and you're gonna find
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  Speaker 4: your strength whatever you find to do. I just want
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  Speaker 4: you to know that it's not it matters how you're
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  Speaker 4: going to finish. Are you going to finish strong? You
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  Speaker 4: will find that strength to get back up Black Das.
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  Speaker 8: Your present or past results have absolutely.
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  Speaker 5: Nothing to do with what's going.
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  Speaker 8: To happen from this point forward. Now, that was the
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  Speaker 8: point that race Stand for A drilled into my head.
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  Speaker 8: You see, I kept thinking, well, gee, it's such a
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  Speaker 8: mess up. You know, I've done everything wrong up till now.
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  Speaker 8: I'm twenty six. I'm not happy. Everything was wrong, he said, Bob,
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  Speaker 8: that's all in the past. He said, every moment.
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  Speaker 3: Is a new moment. We shouldn't condemn ourselves. And he said,
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  Speaker 3: what you were yesterday, you paid for what you are
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  Speaker 3: today you decide upon That's exactly what troewords say. This
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  Speaker 3: power in no way is limited by precedent. Even in
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  Speaker 3: a creative state. We sometimes don't understand that. Do you
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  Speaker 3: know why airplanes right up to today almost have wings
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  Speaker 3: on them because birds have wings. Birds fly, they have wings.
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  Speaker 3: You're going to get a plane to fly, you got
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  Speaker 3: to put wings on it. Do you know we've got
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  Speaker 3: planes flyings that wings today. You know why I never
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  Speaker 3: did need wings. But you see, the thinking was to
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  Speaker 3: a degree limited by precedent. Birds fly with wings, Planes
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  Speaker 3: have to have wings. Planes do not have to have wings.
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  Speaker 3: You're creative. If you can visualize it, you can do it. It
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  Speaker 3: doesn't matter what it is. That's what he'll said. Anything
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  Speaker 3: in mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.
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  Speaker 7: There is no more effective way of operating in the
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  Speaker 7: world than to conceptualize the highest good that you can
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  Speaker 7: and then strive to attain it. There's no more practical
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  Speaker 7: pathway to the kind of success that you could have
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  Speaker 7: if you actually knew what success was. The world shifts
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  Speaker 7: itself around your aim because you're a creature that has
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  Speaker 7: an aim. You have to have an aim in order
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  Speaker 7: to do something. You're an aiming creature. You look at
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  Speaker 7: a point and you move towards it. It's built right
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  Speaker 7: into you, and so you have an aim. Well, let's
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  Speaker 7: say your aim is the highest possible aim. Well, then
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  Speaker 7: so that sets up the world around you. It organizes
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  Speaker 7: all of your perceptions, It organizes what you see and
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  Speaker 7: you don't see. It organizes your emotions and your motivations.
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  Speaker 7: So you organize yourself around that aim. And then what
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  Speaker 7: happens is the day manifests itself as a set of
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  Speaker 7: challenges and problems, and if you solve them properly, then
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  Speaker 7: you stay on the pathway towards that aim, and you
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  Speaker 7: can concentrate on the on the on the day, and
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  Speaker 7: so that way you get to have your cake and
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  Speaker 7: eat it too. Because you can you can point into
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  Speaker 7: the distance, the far distance, and you can live in
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  Speaker 7: the day and it seems to me that that's that
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  Speaker 7: makes every moment of the day supercharged with meaning. That
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  Speaker 7: that's because if everything that you're doing every day is
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  Speaker 7: related to the highest pausible aim that you can conceptualize, well,
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  Speaker 7: that's the very definition of the meaning that would sustain
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  Speaker 7: you in your life.
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  Speaker 5: I believe that those rules can be obliged to almost
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  Speaker 5: anyone and everyone. If you want to excel in whatever
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  Speaker 5: you do, those rules are for you. It's that simple.
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  Speaker 5: So my first rule is find your vision and follow it.
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  Speaker 5: You see, I think it's the most important thing that
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  Speaker 5: we have a very clear vision of where we go,
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  Speaker 5: a goal we go. Because you can have the best
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  Speaker 5: ship in the world, you can have the best cruise lineup,
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  Speaker 5: but if the captain does not know where to go,
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  Speaker 5: that ship will drift around the world and out there
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  Speaker 5: at sea and would never end up anywhere. And this
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  Speaker 5: is exactly the way it is in real life. If
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  Speaker 5: you don't have a goal, if you don't have a vision,
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  Speaker 5: you just drift around. You're not going to be happy.
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  Speaker 5: The simple truth is, if you don't have a vision,
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  Speaker 5: if you don't have a goal, if you don't see
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  Speaker 5: a future laid out in front of you. You're just
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  Speaker 5: floating around without a purpose. And I think that the
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  Speaker 5: numbers speak for themselves. This is why so many people
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  Speaker 5: around the world are unhappy with their jobs. I mean,
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  Speaker 5: in America, seventy four percent of the people hate their
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  Speaker 5: job and would like to change jobs. To think about that,
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  Speaker 5: that means that only a quarter of the Americans love
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  Speaker 5: their life's work. I mean, that is a very depressing statistic.
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  Speaker 5: I always smile when I work, no matter how hard
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  Speaker 5: I worked, I always had a great time no matter
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  Speaker 5: what I did. It didn't matter what was in bodybuilding,
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  Speaker 5: or it was in the movies, or it was as governor.
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  Speaker 5: I remember in the pumping iron days, people ask me
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  Speaker 5: in the gym all the time, why are you smiling
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  Speaker 5: all the time? Why are you so happy? You have
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  Speaker 5: to lift fifty tons of weights, you have to train
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  Speaker 5: five hours a day. I mean, I look at the
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  Speaker 5: other bodybuildings faces and lift us faces, and they look
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  Speaker 5: kind of depressing. They look sour, They're miserable that they
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  Speaker 5: have to lift weights. You don't look miserable. You look happy.
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  Speaker 5: And I tell them always they say, I smile because
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  Speaker 5: I know exactly that every rep that I do, that
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  Speaker 5: every set that I do every weight that I live,
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  Speaker 5: they get one step closer to turning that vision of
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  Speaker 5: mine into reality and becoming that mister universe. I could
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  Speaker 5: not wait to lift another five hundred pounds in the squads.
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  Speaker 5: I could not wait to do another thousand sit ups.
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  Speaker 5: I could not wait to do bench prayers, more bench pras,
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  Speaker 5: and more curls until I couldn't move my arms anymore,
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  Speaker 5: because I knew that every rep got me closer to
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  Speaker 5: standing on that stage as a champion. As a matter
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  Speaker 5: of fact, when I lifted weights, I didn't really feel
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  Speaker 5: like I was lifting weights. I felt like I was
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  Speaker 5: lifting a trophy open my head each time I lifted,
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  Speaker 5: and to have all those bodybuilders around me and thousands
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  Speaker 5: of people screaming. And I tell you that this vision
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  Speaker 5: didn't just help me in bodybuilding, It helped me in everything.
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  Speaker 6: Like I said, focus is the most important quality for success.
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  Speaker 6: If you can focus, you can do anything. If you
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  Speaker 6: can't focus, you must always work for someone else who
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  Speaker 6: will make you focus. Now wonderfully enough, Focusing is like
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  Speaker 6: learning how to ride a bicycle or type with a keyboard.
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  Speaker 6: It's a learnable skill. You can learn to focus by
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  Speaker 6: practicing focus until it becomes automatic. One of the most
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  Speaker 6: valuable exercises you can engage in when setting goals is
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  Speaker 6: to ask yourself, what is my limit step? What is
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  Speaker 6: the one factor that determines the speed at which I
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  Speaker 6: achieve my goal or whether I achieve it at all?
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  Speaker 6: Throughout my personal development? Your ability to identify your limiting
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  Speaker 6: step is one of the best demonstrations of your intelligence
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  Speaker 6: and a step toward building self confidence. Your capacity to
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  Speaker 6: eliminate this limiting step is one of the best demonstrations
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  Speaker 6: of your overall competence in achieving anything you want. In
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  Speaker 6: studying everything that has been written or said about personal
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  Speaker 6: development and success, the conclusion I came to was that
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  Speaker 6: your level of self confidence is probably the critical factor
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  Speaker 6: in everything you accomplish. When you have enough self confidence,
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  Speaker 6: you will try almost anything. Because success is largely a
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  Speaker 6: matter of averages or probabilities, the more things you try,
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  Speaker 6: the more likely it is that you will achieve greatly.
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  Speaker 6: The same is true for you. By setting goals, trying
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  Speaker 6: more things, engaging in more activities, and exploring more opportunities,
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  Speaker 6: your probabilities of success increased dramatically. The only real limiting
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  Speaker 6: step that you might have is your level of self confidence.
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  Speaker 6: When you reach the point at which you believe in
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  Speaker 6: yourself absolutely, the barriers that exist in your external world
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  Speaker 6: will not stop you.
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  Speaker 2: If you want to be a better leader, understand and
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  Speaker 2: then practice these three eyes. Number one inspiration. The job
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  Speaker 2: of a leader really is to inspire other people. If
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  Speaker 2: you look at Steve Jobs, you look at Elon Musk,
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  Speaker 2: you look at Nelson Mandela, you look at Sir Gabrin
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  Speaker 2: of Google. You'll look at a Rembrandt or a Picasso.
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  Speaker 2: These people were incredibly inspired. They were not only incredibly inspired,
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  Speaker 2: they were inspirational to other people. I mean, there's that
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  Speaker 2: incredible story of Steve Jobs, and a lot of people
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  Speaker 2: say Steve Jobs wasn't a nice person. And yet if
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  Speaker 2: you were to pull the former employees of Apple, they
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  Speaker 2: would say, my years at Apple working with Steve Jobs
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  Speaker 2: were the single best years off my entire career. And
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  Speaker 2: you say why, and they say, because he was inspirational.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, when Steve Jobs was a young man or
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  Speaker 2: a young kid, you know, his father said go out
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  Speaker 2: and paint the fence outside of their house, and Steve
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  Speaker 2: Jobs said, no problem. He went out and he started
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  Speaker 2: painting the outside of the fence. A few hours later,
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  Speaker 2: his father comes out and says, Steve, did you paint
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  Speaker 2: the fence. Steve says, I did that. Steve Jobs's father
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  Speaker 2: inspects the fence and he says, Steve, you did a
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  Speaker 2: great job painting the outside of the fence, but you
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  Speaker 2: didn't paint the inside of the fence. And Steve Jobs
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  Speaker 2: looks up at his father and says, but dad, no
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  Speaker 2: one's going to see the inside of the fence. And
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  Speaker 2: his father looks at him and says, but son, we will.
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  Speaker 2: Now it's many decades later and Steve Jobs is running
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  Speaker 2: Apple and they're ready to launch, or ready to develop,
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  Speaker 2: rather the first Apple Macintosh. And he looked at his
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  Speaker 2: design team and he said, here's your deliverable. I want
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  Speaker 2: the outside of the computer to look so simple and
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  Speaker 2: so elegant, like a piece of art. But here's the
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  Speaker 2: real mission. Make the inside so beautiful that it'll bring
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  Speaker 2: tears to our eyes. And his design team looked at
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  Speaker 2: him and said, but Steve, no one's going to see
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  Speaker 2: the inside of the Apple Macintosh. And Steve Jobs looked
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  Speaker 2: at his team and said, but we will. That's inspiration