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Will Compton Tackles SOLO PARENTING 😤 & Importance of Communication with the Wifey | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 1: Papa Team six. Welcome to another episode of four the Dads.
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  Speaker 1: Look boys, we're we're yeah good. Look over at chirum
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  Speaker 1: shirt right now. Good wife left town five days. She's
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  Speaker 1: in Portland, Oregon, doing an owner's summit with Bar three
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  Speaker 1: and their entire headquarters, their national team.
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  Speaker 2: All the owners are out there for like a five
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  Speaker 2: day event.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what they're doing. They're probably learning some stuff.
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  Speaker 1: But your boy, I know what your boy's doing. And
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  Speaker 1: your boys in the trenches right now. Back at home,
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  Speaker 1: I'm being a father. Back at home, solo dad rocking
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  Speaker 1: with two kiddos.
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  Speaker 3: Good good. Nanny's out of town. Also goood. Rue doesn't
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  Speaker 3: want to sleep in her own bed.
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  Speaker 2: If my mama's gone, good good.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, Scotty's crying.
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  Speaker 1: Rue's crying because she misses mama. I gotta soothe Rue.
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  Speaker 1: Scotty's in the crib crying because it's bottle time and
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  Speaker 1: she's ready for a bottle to go to bed.
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  Speaker 2: But Rue doesn't want me to let her go to bed.
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  Speaker 2: Rue wants to go to bed first. Dad that you
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  Speaker 2: do bedtime first. Don't do Scottie good good.
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  Speaker 3: Because Scotty can put herself down. But she's only wait
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  Speaker 3: eight months.
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  Speaker 2: She's ten months. Tim can't put herself.
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  Speaker 3: She can put herself down. I love for his logic.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, oh yeah, Roo, I'm pointing at Scotty in
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  Speaker 2: the crib.
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  Speaker 3: Look at Scotty.
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  Speaker 2: She's she's.
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  Speaker 1: This kid is Michael Parson's on the third down. She's
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  Speaker 1: hanging on the rail and she's looking at me like,
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  Speaker 1: rou look at Scotty that that has to put it out.
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  Speaker 1: I promise I'm gonna put her down as fast as possible.
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  Speaker 3: It's your three backs. Crosby over there, she got in
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  Speaker 3: the water bowl. She's destroyed the pantry.
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  Speaker 1: But the pantry I've built it like the foundation I
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  Speaker 1: have in the pantry, solid water bowl, dog bowl, the
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  Speaker 1: matt and everything's on top of the on top of
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  Speaker 1: the counter. She's just rummaging through all the snacks of
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  Speaker 1: roof snacks. She's like, you know, she's gotta like throw
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  Speaker 1: everything out. Yeah, it's not like the play. It's not
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  Speaker 1: to open and try to eat. However, she did get
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  Speaker 1: her hands on some puffs and some figured out a
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  Speaker 1: way to open the top. I walk in, there's puffs
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  Speaker 1: all over the floor as she's eating them with a
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  Speaker 1: little grin.
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  Speaker 3: On her face. I go, Scotty, pick her up.
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  Speaker 2: She's like trying to grab She's trying to grabs me
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  Speaker 2: puffs as possible. Want picking her up.
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  Speaker 1: But I hope everybody's doing well. I hope the dads
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  Speaker 1: out they are doing well. I hope other dads are moms.
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  Speaker 1: You guys are sitting there laughing, having a good old time.
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  Speaker 1: As Willie tells that story, Yep, we're in it right now.
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  Speaker 1: But it's the life. It's the life I have chosen.
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  Speaker 1: It's the life we live. I have an ambitious woman
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  Speaker 1: who is an owner of our three studios here in Nashville.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, who wants to She wants to be a grinder.
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  Speaker 1: There's times where I'm at home and I'm like, sweetheart,
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  Speaker 1: you know you ain't gotta you ain't gotta do nothing.
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  Speaker 3: You don't laugh to you don't want to.
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  Speaker 2: But I know she does and she loves it. And
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  Speaker 2: it's just it's a grind between between us trying to
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  Speaker 2: raise these two little demons.
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  Speaker 3: Bro. Yeah, I have a story for you too.
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  Speaker 1: As I continue to kick this off, everybody, we have
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  Speaker 1: a que cars, we have comments everywhere.
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  Speaker 2: We actually we also have an update with Chuck.
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  Speaker 1: You know, if you guys have been following this podcast,
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  Speaker 1: and a couple weeks ago, we've cried basically on every episode,
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  Speaker 1: but a couple episodes ago Chuck talked about his his
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  Speaker 1: wife rupturing and everything else. We actually have an update
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  Speaker 1: from Chuck that we will hit you guys with. But
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  Speaker 1: this show is for the intentional dads. If you're looking
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  Speaker 1: to be more intentional. We have a lot of fans, dude,
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  Speaker 1: that just enjoy the podcast. They're not even fathers yet.
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  Speaker 1: People tell me I can't wait to be a dad
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  Speaker 1: one day. Like I'm like a sitting duck. I was
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  Speaker 1: telling you this. I was at the nearby park the
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  Speaker 1: other day with the wife before she flew out, and
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  Speaker 1: we were hanging with the kiddos. She was hanging with Rue,
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  Speaker 1: Scotty was napping, and I'm sitting there on the bench
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  Speaker 1: as Scotty's napping and the PT.
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  Speaker 2: Sixers are out, Bro, they're out.
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  Speaker 3: I'm talking.
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  Speaker 1: There's a Hawkeye fan talking to me about the you
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  Speaker 1: know where the program's at right now. They need to
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  Speaker 1: be expecting more wins for their football team. It's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: here we go. We don't have much of a quarterback
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna be eight nine win team again. We're having
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  Speaker 1: a great conversation ended really well. Told him I loved him,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, Hey, I'm saying stuff
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  Speaker 1: about the Hawk, but I do like I respect you guys,
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  Speaker 1: and you guys have had our number Tennessee fan. Basically,
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  Speaker 1: Chef Jack this is in like, this is like thirty
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  Speaker 1: five forty year old Chef Jack girl.
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  Speaker 2: Dad. He sits down next to me.
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  Speaker 3: How are you.
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  Speaker 1: Feeling about the balls in Georgia? I love the Dad podcast.
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  Speaker 1: He sits down next to me. Yeah, like we've just
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  Speaker 1: been friends for years and it felt that way. We
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  Speaker 1: had a great conversation. Fortunately Scotty didn't wake up. But
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  Speaker 1: the PT sixers are out there. So this love all
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  Speaker 1: the feedback from the show. Continue to leave comments, drop
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  Speaker 1: We love reading the comments. We love engaging with you guys. Instagram, Twitter, TikTok,
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  Speaker 1: the Amazon you tube, the Amazon one makes sure you're
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  Speaker 1: subscribed and following all channels. It is football season, so
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  Speaker 1: I know everybody's busy trying to consume as much football
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  Speaker 1: as possible. I try to consume as much football as
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  Speaker 1: possible until Ru's like, hey, let's go throw the frisbee outside,
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  Speaker 1: and I look at her and give it like a
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  Speaker 1: long five seconds stare like the game in my head.
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  Speaker 1: Will you're a dad, You're an intentional fother? You have
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  Speaker 1: a podcast for the dad. It's like, what would this
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  Speaker 1: dad do? Is he gonna say, sweetheart, let's finish this
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  Speaker 1: two minute drill? Or is he gonna get up and
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  Speaker 1: go play frisbee? And then just turn the game on
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  Speaker 1: on the phone and just play it on audio so
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  Speaker 1: I can hear it Walla playing frisbee. I'll get up,
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  Speaker 1: all right, let's go outside it. Let's go outside and
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  Speaker 1: play frisbee with a huge smile on my face.
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  Speaker 2: Let's do it.
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  Speaker 1: You're not gonna get this time back shirm. She's not
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  Speaker 1: gonna want to play frisbee. Listening all the time, I'll
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  Speaker 1: learn how to throw it. But nothing gets this more
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  Speaker 2: It's starting to drive people crazy. I've seen a couple
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  Speaker 2: of comments.
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  Speaker 1: this is for the dads, man.
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  Speaker 3: This is for the dads and for anybody that's like, man,
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  Speaker 3: Will's juiced up. I do want to remind you it
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  Speaker 3: is Busting Ball Week and where this isn't a football podcast,
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  Speaker 3: not a football it's a dad podcast. But it is
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  Speaker 3: Busting Ball Week. Please keep that in mind during this episode.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a lot of juice. There's a lot of juice,
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  Speaker 2: wife left ur in Busting Bowl Week.
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  Speaker 3: Birthday Week. It's birthday week. It's Will Compton's birthday week.
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  Speaker 2: And birthday Week's not gonna count if we lose this game.
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  Speaker 3: And that's hey, that's okay, because we'll have a birthday
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  Speaker 3: next year that won't happen. But I'm just saying, there
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  Speaker 3: is a birthday next year.
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  Speaker 1: The Huskers are in position to rewrite this last decade,
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  Speaker 1: decade and a half. Yeah, however long it's been since
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  Speaker 1: we've had success in a season. Last year we had
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  Speaker 1: our first winning season that just to taste, can't win
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  Speaker 1: the big games and one score games where it's the records.
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  Speaker 2: Are not good.
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  Speaker 1: We we gritted out a one score game against Cincinnati. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: now you're going against a real football team. Yeah, Price
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  Speaker 1: Underwood superstar. He's going to be a superstar. He's going
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  Speaker 1: to be, in my opinion, a number one overall pick.
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  Speaker 1: If like the kids eighteen years old and he looks good,
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  Speaker 1: they can run the football.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So this is a fist fight this week.
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  Speaker 1: This is a dad's podcast, But we got a fist
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  Speaker 1: fight in our hands this weekend, and there's an opportunity.
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  Speaker 2: For Huskers, for the Huskers.
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  Speaker 1: Matt Rule year three era, Like, there's an opportunity in
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  Speaker 1: front of us.
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  Speaker 3: Talk about generational dad, by the way, Matt Rule, generational father,
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  Speaker 3: Matt Rule.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I'll be going on this podcast House Rules later today.
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  Speaker 2: Really Yeah, that I'll drop this week as well.
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  Speaker 1: We'll be talking some fatherhood check that out. Yeah, the
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  Speaker 1: football journey of the old old Willie Husker back.
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  Speaker 2: In the day, So check that out.
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  Speaker 1: But we're in a position as a football team, as
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  Speaker 1: a fan base, as a state to start turning the
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  Speaker 1: page to greener pastures.
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  Speaker 2: And it's this weekend.
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  Speaker 1: This weekend also happens to be the bust and Bowl,
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  Speaker 1: a rivalry between myself and Taylor, So that's one. It's like,
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  Speaker 1: on a personal level, you want to win that game
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  Speaker 1: just for the bragging rights. Yeah, they've beat us the
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  Speaker 1: last four times we've played. We have a beat a
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  Speaker 1: top twenty five team in the last like twenty three
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  Speaker 1: twenty four consecutive times we've been in the game against
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  Speaker 1: a top twenty five opponent.
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  Speaker 2: This game is huge, man, this is a That's podcast.
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  Speaker 3: This and just a reminder, this isn't That's by the guys.
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  Speaker 3: We are not professionals. But this is a huge week
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  Speaker 3: for Nebraska. And if you want to send some love
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  Speaker 3: to our boy, willye see because look at him.
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  Speaker 1: I recruited Mike Eckler from the University of Tennessee to
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  Speaker 1: take over special teams for the University of Nebraska. Yeah
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  Speaker 1: on pff, you know we're in Nebraska's ranked right now
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  Speaker 1: in special teams.
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  Speaker 3: Oh gotta be top three one, come on one, like
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  Speaker 3: we're all in.
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  Speaker 2: Man.
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  Speaker 1: If I didn't have a mic in front of me,
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  Speaker 1: I'd have a whistle hanging for my neck and I'd
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  Speaker 1: be at the University of Nebraska.
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  Speaker 3: That's God honest truth. Yeah, God, I believe that. So
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  Speaker 3: guys leave some gbrs down in the comments for all
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  Speaker 3: Willie C leave some gvrs down in the comments. The
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  Speaker 3: boy needs it, he needs the jews. It's a big week,
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  Speaker 3: coulda be tough game.
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  Speaker 1: I like our ball club, Yeah, and it's all it's
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  Speaker 1: it's about not feeling the lights, not feeling the stage, yep.
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  Speaker 1: And Memorial Stadium being an electric factory all game, all game.
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  Speaker 1: I was there two years ago. They drive it down
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  Speaker 1: fourteen play drive put it in for seven. We come out,
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  Speaker 1: ball gets tipped, they pick it off. Place was dead
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  Speaker 1: after that. I was disappointed in Memorial Stadium because it
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  Speaker 1: was third and one in a red zone and you
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  Speaker 1: needed the juice because they had coorm they had a
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  Speaker 1: Joe more offensive line.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you needed the juice.
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  Speaker 2: Juice was nowhere to be found.
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  Speaker 1: They ended up beating her ass, you know, forty something
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  Speaker 1: to three or seven.
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  Speaker 3: It was bad.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm out there at the second quarter or whatever,
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  Speaker 1: We're down like three scores, maybe like, hey, will you
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  Speaker 1: want to do the T shirt? Cannon picked the stadium
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  Speaker 1: up a little. It ain't no saving. What's me and
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  Speaker 1: a T shirt cannon gonna do, mister Compton.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm out there just faking until I make it,
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  Speaker 2: just you know, face going, T shirts flying, screaming, yelling,
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  Speaker 2: knowing we're getting mocked right now?
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  Speaker 3: What do we got? We our first comment first comment
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  Speaker 3: concert Gabrielle dot Fobio from Instagram. Hey, y'all, daughter listener here?
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  Speaker 3: Can we get a name for the daughter listeners? Dof
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  Speaker 3: Team six, daughter of a father, Dad Team six, Daughter
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  Speaker 3: of a dad. I'm willing to workshop it. I just
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  Speaker 3: wanted to reach out and say I'm a Day one,
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  Speaker 3: Episode one listener. I started listening because I'm a longtime
• 11:29
  Speaker 3: fan of Will Insure and from Bustin'. But I keep
• 11:31
  Speaker 3: listening because it was truly giving me standards to look
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  Speaker 3: for and a husband and future father of my children.
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  Speaker 3: Besides my own dad, of course, he is amazing. You
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  Speaker 3: are both wonderful examples for me as a twenty one
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  Speaker 3: year old girl trying to figure out life and boys.
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  Speaker 3: I truly mean it when I say I look forward
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  Speaker 3: to this every week, and although I am not a dad, lol,
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  Speaker 3: I am taking lessons with me while laughing and joining
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  Speaker 3: the episode good as an adult daughter now who is
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  Speaker 3: best friends with her dad. I am so excited for
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  Speaker 3: your journeys as girl dads because it is truly an
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  Speaker 3: amazing bond. You are in for a treat all, miss
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  Speaker 3: rebel student Hotty Toddy.
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  Speaker 2: Damn you are you starting to hear up?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 2: I think you know what the fuck?
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  Speaker 3: No? It is.
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  Speaker 2: Uh, that's special, dude.
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  Speaker 1: It's really cool that that daughters are chiming in and
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  Speaker 1: letting us know how much.
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  Speaker 2: Their dad rips.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, dude.
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  Speaker 1: And if I get emotional, I'm emotional because there's just
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  Speaker 1: there's too much going on in my body, in my
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  Speaker 1: head right now, yeah, giving fatherhood, giving the huskers, Like,
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  Speaker 1: there's too much going on in my system right now
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  Speaker 1: to just be stable whatsoever.
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  Speaker 3: We just talked about for a two quarter routing for Michigan,
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  Speaker 3: and I just read a comment from a twenty one
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  Speaker 3: year old girl and I started crying. Do we go? Uh?
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  Speaker 2: D like daddy girl six Daddy girl sixers.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't see why not. I mean, I'm like
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  Speaker 3: running it through my head, like why wouldn't.
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  Speaker 1: That We can work shop and we can let the
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: audience like your daddy daughters out there. Yeah, you're a
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  Speaker 1: daddy's girl. Any daughter's out there, yeah, DG six And
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  Speaker 1: then just shoot it. Text your mom, Hey Mom, I
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  Speaker 1: love you too. I just this this pod rips.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 1: I love dad as well, but I want you to
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  Speaker 1: know you're you got a really special place in my heart.
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  Speaker 3: That is sick. I do want to say. I don't
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  Speaker 3: know why I'm saying this, but Derek does pick out
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  Speaker 3: these comments. Derek picks out these comments and thank you
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  Speaker 3: for picking up that comment. You're welcome.
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  Speaker 4: She had sent that and then I said, hey, this
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  Speaker 4: is great, like I planned on it, and she said,
• 13:42
  Speaker 4: can you make sure Will and Churm see this comment?
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  Speaker 4: Was her next direct message, just yes, they throw it
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  Speaker 4: in there, so I definitely wanted to get in front
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  Speaker 4: of it. I don't know if the next thing you're
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  Speaker 4: about to say is good or bad.
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  Speaker 3: No, I don't know what you know. I just Derek
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  Speaker 3: picked this comment. What does that mean? It's a great thing.
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  Speaker 3: I just admit that I didn't. I didn't read that
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  Speaker 3: and go, oh, I'm definitely reading that about me on
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  Speaker 3: the podcast. That's all I meant by it.
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  Speaker 4: I picked it because of the impact that you guys
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  Speaker 4: have on people that writing off they're not your demographic.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, you're saying you're not picking that about you.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, Oh, I just didn't want you.
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  Speaker 2: You're in your own head.
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  Speaker 3: I'm in my own head. Okay, Okay, I'm in my
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  Speaker 3: own head.
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  Speaker 1: Even I sit there and like like slowly looked over Derek.
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, what, what's what's behind what?
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  Speaker 3: He's crushing it? Yeah, And I love that he picked
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  Speaker 3: that comment because if I had seen, like, if this
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  Speaker 3: had been sent to me personally, I would not have
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  Speaker 3: read it on the podcast. And there are really nice
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  Speaker 3: things like what Gabrielle sin yeah, that we like get
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  Speaker 3: in the d MS.
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  Speaker 1: Sure we can confidently tell you Shuram does not handpick
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  Speaker 1: these comments. This would be a good one for me
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  Speaker 1: to muster up some tears, some.
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  Speaker 2: Moral highgro Yes, sum does not do that.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you. Yeah. I don't even know why I needed
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  Speaker 3: to preface that, but I don't know. I'm so in
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  Speaker 3: my head and I'm so glad you picked that comment, dude,
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  Speaker 3: that was that was awesome.
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  Speaker 2: Dude, you're you're you're a stud, Sir, you are a stud.
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  Speaker 3: You're not You're not.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, you're not doing that.
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  Speaker 3: No, I don't.
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  Speaker 2: Nobody thought that. I just want you to know.
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  Speaker 3: Chef was thinking it. No, it's great. Other than that.
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  Speaker 1: I got one from Ryan Delaney on Instagram. A O
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  Speaker 1: one Chef Papa Teams AO one Cheff Papa Team six
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  Speaker 1: here soon to be the soon as missus missus I'm assuming,
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  Speaker 1: he says, missus m I S s U S missus
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: missus missus waters just broke. He yeah, the missus because
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: there's no periods, there's no there's no grammar whatsoever. It's
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: this is all basically one line. AO one, sheholl Papa
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  Speaker 1: Team six here, soon to be the Missus Water broke,
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: Water just broke as she's induced sipping on a night
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: nitrous oxide cocktail as she goes through hell Secure my girl,
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: dad hat on thirty hours and no sleep. Good love
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: you guys, keep killing it. Delaney, congrat or Ryan, congratulations.
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: Bro The trenches are just starting and a new found
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: love is just beginning as well.
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: Truly, I love that nitrous oxide cocktail. Yeah, maybe he
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: was just ripping.
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: Like again, thirty hours, no sleep, you can't expect perfection.
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, with sentence structure there.
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: That's incredible. Add Daniel six, I'm four to two zero dash.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: Oh what's up? Fellas? Shout out Derek and chef. My
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: name is Daniel and one to say. I had a
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: similar interaction with my son as Will had on Sunday
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: Night football? Is that correct? Sunny night football? Last weekend
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: was the first football game my boy Kayden two sat
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: down and was engaged and watching the game with me.
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: I think the best thing was we came up with
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: our own touchdown dance and now every time I yell touchdown,
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: we do it. Grip it and rip it. Fellas have
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: a badass week.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: Let's go.
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: And that came from YouTube. That came from you.
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: Shut out YouTube comments. And by the way, quick time out.
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: That last comment is on me missus? Is that is
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: the correct spelling for missus? I'm used to just seeing.
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: Mrs Yeah, you know what I mean, Mrs missus.
• 17:29
  Speaker 5: Yeah, And that's that's a very normal way to think
• 17:33
  Speaker 5: of it. I think he probably thirty hours he was
• 17:35
  Speaker 5: just ao one shelf.
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: We're letting it rip.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, he did spell it correctly.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: M I SSUs es was in my head and then
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking to myself, that's like missus, you missed the shot.
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: Let me type this in and figure it out. Figure
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: it out. That one's on me, so I should have
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: done a better I did.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: I did not know that. That's truly. I love that,
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: the spelling of missus.
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I love it too.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: Brittany Underwood sixteen Willie one shelf in Fat Stafford No kids,
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: but I'm such a fan of this. These last few
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: episodes have had my eyes feeling so spicy.
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: They're tearing up.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: Oh no, I lost my dad at fourteen, but he
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: was the absolute best girl dad and hearing your stories
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: of being girl dads always makes me smile and sometimes
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: cry and remind me of him. Shout out, no free,
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: shout out to to the girl dad's keep the content coming.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: It's not a good week for me. Man.
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: Hey, I just want to say this is a really
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: cool podcast and those comments that's crazy and it is
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: a joy to wake up and like know that we
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: were going to record today, Like I feel it too,
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: I do, and comments like that, Damn, dude.
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: I know and there's no laughing about any of that.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: It's just thought the all of the emotions that are happening,
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: the way we've started off this podcast, everything else, and
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: how we've cried every week with these comments when I'm
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: driving over here, because it's like, you know, you're in
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: the trenches at the house, getting the kiddos up, which
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: I got to talk about Ruth sleeping with Dad the
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: last three nights, and I'm setting a bad I'm setting
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: a bad habit right now. I'm sitting a bad tone
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: because Dad is weak and I can't say no.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: To my little girl. Oh but you're sitting there scrambling, get.
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: The kiddo's ready, to get Rue ready for school, get
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: Scottie ready, make sure she's make sure she can't crawl
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: around anywhere, so I make sure she is confined in
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: a space, like I get her up on the on
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: the island. I'm feeding her, I'm feeding the kiddos. We're
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: getting lunches ready, getting myself ready. Trying to think about, Oh,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: we got for the dads today. We got the team meeting,
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: we got the k Adams Show, we got the Rules podcast.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: We got to do the second part before the dads
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: driving over here. What my point I was gonna make
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: is driving over here. It's like, I get excited to
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: do this podcast because I feel like it's such a
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: break from everything else going on.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: They you just get to talk about fatherhood.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: I get to laugh with a good buddy of mine,
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: you gentlemen in the back, as well as Chef and Derek.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: I feel like we have a good crew and it
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: it always fires me up thinking like I wonder what
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: the comments are going to be, Like, I wonder what
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: we'll see today. I wonder how much you'll get the
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: laugh of PT six, how much we might cry with
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: PT six because they just send in comments like this
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: that just tug on your heartstrings because of how real
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: shit is, especially with stuff that happened last week. Just everything, man,
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: everything is just very precious. And to see everybody taking
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: their time, taking the time to write to us and
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: tell us and be vulnerable with us, whether it's encouraging words,
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: whether it's hey, I lost my dad at fourteen and
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: he was incredible, whether you're talking about situations that are
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: personal to you and your wife and you're going through
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: something at the hospital, it's all it's I really do
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: appreciate it.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: I know, we both do.
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we do. They like it is a pleasure to
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: read these comments. There's like no part of us that's
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: sitting in a think corporate think tank. That's like, you'll
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: get more listeners to your podcast if you read the
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: comments at the beginning of it, like it. We truly
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: just love reading these comments. Yeah, I also selfish shout out.
• 21:06
  Speaker 3: Just want to shout out everybody in the comments, to
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: everybody that is DM me about my dad loss. Last episode.
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: That was the last episode.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: I think it was a couple episodes ago. You're talking
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: about the big one.
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: We're the big one.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, flying home the Baylor game, yes,
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: or after the week off yes, yeah, just because you
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: felt very uneasy after that after that episode.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I knew that it was going. The only
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: thing I was uneasy about is I checked in with
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: you and was like that I overshared there and you
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: were like, I didn't think so at all. And then
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: in my head I was like, did I overshare there
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: with Jill? Told her everything I yeah, and she was like, yeah, no,
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: not at all. Yeah.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: It's a weird game that doing the podcast, Like you
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: have yeah in your head on stuff at home, like,
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: am I oversharing?
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: Reason I loved it? The reason I loved it so much,
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: which I'm glad that you're getting a bunch of.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: Feedback from, is because I feel like that it's like
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: a real situation that you you break down.
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: And again, this is not some expert show.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: This is like us talking about real life experiences in
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: our lives that I feel like is relatable to everybody
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: because everybody goes through situations that we've both gone through,
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: especially with yours. In that situation where you're like, man,
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: am I oversharing? Am I seeming like like a bad
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: husband or a bad dad with that one? It's like, bro,
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: all of us have bad moments, So that fires me up.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: That you've gotten a lot of feedback from that.
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah. And I remember telling you because we both started
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: laughing when I was telling you. The day after that
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: episode dropped, I had a DM of some guy that
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: was like, sure, I'm so glad you told that story
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: because literally this last week, same thing happened. And hearing
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: you say that made me feel so much better because
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: I consider you a good dad and it makes me
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: feel that much better. And I told Will, I'm so
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: glad that guy DM because hearing that, he also, yeah, okay,
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: I'm not the one that we're both feeling the same
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: thing with the good and idea of that back, I
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: was like, bro, I hate that that happened, but I'm
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: you know, we're in this.
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, in this. Hey, and Brittany, by the way, thank
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: you for sharing this comment. Thank you for sharing this.
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: Yes, thank you. Brittany from YouTube Hambonious, Rex Right's wife
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: thirty three weeks pregnant, just screamed yes about the wives
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: designing an MT six shirt. People are serious about it, will.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: I did see a couple of the ladies being like
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: they love the idea of the wives designing a milk
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: Team six just having something come to us.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: It's from the women that they would be yes fired
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: up about.
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: I think that could be a fun little that's a
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: fun little bonding thing for our wives too. That could
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: be like a hey, you guys have fun, Yeah, leverage.
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: Our podcasts and brand to do a bonding thing.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: Hope you'll hope you'll have some fun designing this ship.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, Chef, can you turn the camera on while
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: we do.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: And start rolling? Start rolling? Oh, y'all like each other?
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: All right?
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: Chef cut it, so you know, we gotta go.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: Huskers are kicking off here in ten minutes, we got
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: the bonding moments.
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: Do we get it perfect? Oh?
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: I got one here from from Logan and I'm sitting
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: at the top that this is a real one.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: I need this podcast today.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: I also took a huge dat l last night and
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: got into a big fight with my fiance and listening
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: to Shran be so vulnerable and open about the struggles
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: of finding that balance between work, family and me time,
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: I had to shut it off and take a take
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: a minute to take my own accountability and let her
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: know that I was being a fuck up to So
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: shout out to Fat Stafford for being that example. That
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: being that example that me, as a younger man needed today.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: Shout out Willy one Shelf Chef and Ball's Deep Derek.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: He put the hammer for Willy One's shelf, He put
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: the little chef emoji for chef, and he put the
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: cherries for balls Deep Derek, et six till I die
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Pepperoni's forever Logan, thank you for this comment, man hey,
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: And just like just like that, we were just talking
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: about you a couple of weeks ago, and they're.
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: Ye and shout out everybody that was commenting Peppinoni's YouTube
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: that made me smile. Uh. This one comes from via email.
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: This comes from Jonathan McMahon. Uh, that's six on one
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: of the dads at gmail dot com. Correct, okay, excuse me.
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: Jonathan McMahon writes, sure, Will and Chef three absolute goats.
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: I would say four, with Derek veteran goon Bray captain
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: checking in honorably discharge. After finding my own Jilly Bean
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: slash Charro, I'm now proud girl dad to Ivy three
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: and Ila five, and now a fully pledged Papa Team
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: six member. This is huge. My name is Johnny and
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: I'm from Dublin, Ireland, a rare college football NFL fan
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: over here, and I've been riding the bet. I've been
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: writing with Busting with the Boys since the beginning, which
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: obviously deployed me over to your podcast without question. As
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: I sit here listening to the latest episode, I'm buzzing
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: that the international listeners can now interact. Just wanted to
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: send some love. This podcast is the real deal. It's raw,
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: it's relatable, and it's exactly the kind of authentic content
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: Dad Slash Future Dad's need and goom berets. It sounds
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: like no need for a reply. Just wanted to say
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: you genuinely make my Wednesdays better. Keep doing what you're
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: doing and I will rep the four the dad's merch
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: over here and spread the word. Johnny you said, Johnny,
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: Jonathan McMahon.
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: Johnny, thank you for the comment. Bro.
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: That's a great message. Ireland too and an NFLCFB sick though.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah. International for the dads is international, man, Oh that's
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: congress to them. We see is a girl dad three and.
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: Five three and five Ilah and Island Ivy also shout
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: out Island Ivy.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: Shout out Island Ivy. I had that age right there too.
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: Is one that again love stay present in the moments
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: now because Scotty at ten months old is an absolute blast.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: I sit there and mess with Scottie and play with
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: Scotty dude and her personality, her crawling all over the place,
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: her like unbothered this and just happy. She's just a
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: happy little girl. Oh yeah, Rue is too, but she's
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: a three year olds.
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: The emotions like, she's very intense with their emotions right now.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: Rue is an absolute sweetheart as well.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: But Scotty, like I play with her at ten months,
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: I always think about you because I'm like, man, sure's
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: really gonna love when he gets to these moments. And
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: then I quickly I'm like, he's also, he's got it.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: He's gotta love, he's gotta love the ones that he's
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: in right now. But at three and five, I'm excited
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: for those ages for Scotty and Rue. Ru's three, so
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: it'll be like six and three to where they can
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: play with each other, they can teach each other. You know,
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: ruill be teaching her a lot of stuff. They'll be
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: getting any each other's way, pissing each other off. I'm
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: very excited for that when Scotty gets to be three
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: where Ru is right now, and you know.
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: They'll be like best friends. That is truly. I'm so looking.
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: Forward to that because Ru is so good with Scotty now,
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: not now like she wasn't, but she's always been and
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: it's always like a work in progress, right Like if
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: Scotty's up on the couch and trying to pull the
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: blanket or doing something that Rue doesn't want, you got
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: to catch her and continue to remind her, Hey.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: She's just a baby. She does not know what you're saying, like,
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: every time I say no to her, what does Scotty do?
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: She continues to do what she's doing. She has no clue.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: She's just a baby. We have to learn to be sweet.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: We have to learn to be kind to her. If
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: she's doing something you don't want to do either, you
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: know how to disarm the situation, like if she's getting
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: in something she knows, like grab her legs and pull
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: her back if it's on a sliding surface.
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: I gotta see a video of that.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: And she did it one time when Scotty was on
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: the bottom stair and so Scotty kind of hit her
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: face a little bit. It wasn't bad. Yeah, Scotty was crying,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: and that was like a teaching moment of Hey, if
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: Scotty's on a step, you go up and just wrap
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: your arms around her, like around her chest, and just
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: hold her there. If she cries, that's okay, Dad, mom
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: or Dada, I'll come over and help. But you just
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: wrap your arms around there and hold her. Because unless
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: you feel confident like picking her up and moving her,
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: which I don't think she doesn't right now, yeah, you
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: just sit there and hold her. And the other day
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: she was literally, I hat Dad, Dad, Scotty's Scotty's on
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: the stairs.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: I didn't have the barricade up.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: I didn't have jumbo package out there the goal line defense,
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: or I barricaded the stairs. And for people are like, oh,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: why don't you just get a gate. We do have
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: a gate, but it's at the top of the stairs
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: because Rue, if you remember, in the first episode, she
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: went crashing down the stairs, so we got a gate
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: for the top of the stairs. Rue didn't have a
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: whole lot of an issue with like always wanting to
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: climb the stairs, the stairs. Scottie always wants.
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: To climb the stairs.
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: She's scott Zilla, true.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: She's scott Zilla. And Willie one shelf has him put
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: a gate in on the bottom.
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: So I have this.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: Barricade that I put up at the bottom of the stairs.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: But Rue's holding her.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: She's like dad a, Scotty's trying to climb the stairs
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: and Scotty's crying and fuss and Rue's just sitting there
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: holding her and kind of got like a smile on
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: her face because she knows she's doing the right thing.
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: But that's kind of the stage we're in now, and
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: I'm really excited for and Scotty gets to be like
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: Ru's age and they can actually play together.
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I and I too, to like reiterate what you're
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: saying about how excited I'll be. Uh, it goes into
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: my dad win, so I don't want to spoil it,
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: but I am very excited as well.
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: Okay, we'll hold on that win. You can always tell
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: your stories and just say, hey, this is the Dad win.
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: That is true. But we'll hold it. We'll hold We
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: already said it. I got got three minutes.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my wife has a dress like dad them day
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: at work coming up, She'll be wearing my PT six shirt.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: No brainer. This is from Turtle nineteen xx. Thank you
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: for the Thank you for the comment, Turtle, and I
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: am fired up that she'll be rocking a PT six shirt.
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: I got one from Kim Hickey for one six Kim
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: Hickey Tier one.
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: She Kim Hickey is a very much a Tier one.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: Shout out Kim.
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: Hickey, shout he's been.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: She's been rocking with Bus with the boys for quite
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: a long time, maybe since the beginning.
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: Yes, and a Mama Team sixer. Yeah, well this episode
• 30:54
  Speaker 3: had me from start to finish. I saved the pod
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: to listen to it at work, and it had me bawling.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: Good.
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: Everyone was asking me if I was okay, and I
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: would tell them about the pod. Red eyes everywhere now, good.
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: Keep up the great work, boys, and sure I felt
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: everything you said. You were one step ahead of some
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: You shared your experience and understood your part in it.
• 31:16
  Speaker 3: Those days will happen as long as you learn from them,
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: you will figure it out. Thank you, Kim. That's a
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: really sweet comment.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's an awesome comic, Kim, Thank you, m you
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: Are you done?
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: I'm done. I have two left that we can rip here.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: This one's from mister Highway zero forty morning, gentlemen, soon
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: to be BET six or Team minus three weeks. It
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: feels like DDA or Normandy Beach where heading up the
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: shore on our boats. Don't worry, I'm not the one puking.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: I'm feeling good. I feel like Fat Stafford and really
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: one shouff with me in these final weeks of life
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: as I know it.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: Good.
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: I have my PT six shir ready for the hospital
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: and can't wait to share a pick with me in
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: it with my baby boy leaving the hospital.
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: Good.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: Thank you guys. So much for the weekly podcast. It
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: has helped ease the jitters of becoming a father, and
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: it's helped me prepare for wife on the pup list.
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: Go Big Red, Go Big Red, and then this final one.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: Here's the update from Chuck.
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: So if you guys remember Chuck sent in a comment
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: a couple weeks ago talking about how his wife ruptured.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: There wasn't a whole lot of context. I assumed the
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: worst that happened, but this is a great update from Chuck.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: It up zero four three days ago. Boys, I wanted
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: to thank you for the advice about my fiance who ruptured.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Mama and baby girl, Charlie are being strong as ever.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: Plan is to be admitted to the University of Michigan
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: Shout out Taylor the hospital in two weeks to monitor
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: for premature birth as they have the highest level nick
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: you around. Going to be an absolute battle, but I
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: know both my girls got it. Thanks for just being
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: there means a ton. The community has been a life saving.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: Fatherhood is a blessing. Chuck Man, you are in our
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: thoughts and prayers.
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: Bro. I would love if you update us.
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: I completely understand if you don't want to update us,
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: like again, I know I rus in the nick you
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: for seven days, but it wasn't premature. Like that's a
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: world that I'm not as familiar with. I know it
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: can be I know it can be dangerous. I know
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: that it's it's a weird pocket to be in of
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: optimism and hope trying to you know, not think about
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: what the downside could be.
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: I hope everything goes well.
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: Man. Again, the rougher thing a couple of weeks ago,
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: my brain saw that and.
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: Just assumed the worst.
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: So so my fault for misleading that comment. And I
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: am very fired up to hear that you guys are
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: are being strong right now, and that you guys are
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: good right now, and that you guys will be at
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: the hospital here to monitor for premature birth. Hopefully all
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: goes well.
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: Man. Please update us if you want to, but thank
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: you for the update.
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry I fell silent. I connected the dots that
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: the daughter's name was Charlie and his name's Chuck, so
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: she's named after him. I just think that's really cool.
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: So sorry, I'm so sorry, but like, oh my god,
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: you know you're right.
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: I'm more so laughing just here in German.
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: That's so cool. You're right. That is a.
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah man. Shout out Charles and shout out Charlie.
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: They got this.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: They got this. Prayer prayers up for Chuck in the
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: in the chat. Okay, buddy, what the heck? I know
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: these comments wreck us man.
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: It's it was the Collins that used to wreca and
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: now it's the it's the comments. Se what in the
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: world I need Kleenex. Cleenex, please shout out there, we
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: shout out. We can get guys.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: Thank you for sending in comments sincerely like it is
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: really it is really cool to be part of this community.
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you guys are amazing.
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: Yes, and Chuck, thank you, Terry, thank you, Uh, Chuck
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: so stoked, so excited and wishing the best for y'all. Yeah,
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: and thank you for sharing.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know we can uh number one, so you
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: can get yourself together. We do have a team meeting
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: on the bus and with the boys side in the shop.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: We'll take a quick break and we will be back
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: to talk about talk about our weekends, talk about our
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: last week in fatherhood. I guess so quick, potty break,
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: quick body break, and we will be we will be back.
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  Speaker 3: We're one of those for date night and she's talking
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  Speaker 3: PT. Sixers, welcome back. We just got done with the
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: ad Reids. However, I did want to do an additional
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: shout out to Wayfair. You see the Memorial Stadium plaque
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: behind will Compton that came from our friends at Wayfair.
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: They give us a two hundred and fifty dollars gift card.
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  Speaker 2: Will that's juicy.
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  Speaker 1: That was one of our some interesting facts of the
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  Speaker 1: Nebraska cornerscer industry.
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  Speaker 3: I won't again.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: This is a Dad Chow Dad show, so I won't
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: bore you with those. But some good bullet points up there.
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: They're great bullet points. I bought a sign that I
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: thought was much smaller, but it's actually a really uh
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: pretty good sized sign of Baylor. It's like weathered wood.
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: It's fun, dude. They got all types of things. That's
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  Speaker 3: thank you. We We do have our Wayfair giveaway winner
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  Speaker 3: that we will do at the end of the episode.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry to tease it, that's on me to tease it,
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: but we will read out our winner of the Wayfair
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  Speaker 3: giveaway at the end of the episode. And Derek said,
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  Speaker 3: a pretty fire video submission from this guy. Do we
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  Speaker 3: even want to play it at the end as well? Derek,
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  Speaker 3: is it worth putting on the pod? A potential A potential,
• 40:02
  Speaker 3: A potential. A we'll see.
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: Let's get into our let's get into our highs and
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: lows of the week.
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: Love it.
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: We got our hot line six on one.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: The dads come on, we'll talk voicemails. We'll round it
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: off with a lesson quote coming from you.
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: I have a quote, real, Yeah, it's hard to kick
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: to kind.
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: Of find quotes with the the chaos over the weekend.
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: Oh I know, dude, my quote actually came from a
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: like in person conversation. Didn't hang out with the Jill
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: step dat. It's on there in town for Jill's birthday,
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: and he's just he's full of one liners.
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: Dude, Like, I got to write him down, Dad, one liners.
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: You got to put it in the notes app and
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: you gotta start jotting him down whenever you hear from
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: the generation above us, because they have some gold.
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: He was telling me about a fight he got in
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: way back in the day. He is down because we're
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: watching the Monday night football game. We're talking about Houston.
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: He said, Man, last time I was in Houston, this
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: big old guys walked through the parking garage. Somebody's cat
• 40:59
  Speaker 3: calling and his wife. He thinks it's me and our
• 41:02
  Speaker 3: group of guys and he comes barreling over. I just
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: looked at my friend. I said, this is gonna fucking hurt. Incredible.
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: But the guy missed the punch and hit the car
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: like uh, the actual car, Fraim and broke his hand.
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: So Cody got out unscathed. Oh, I know they do.
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: He's a legend, blue collar type. He's owned towing businesses,
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: butcher shops, like all different types of stuff. He's a
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: cool cat. I'll talk about it more later.
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, getting into my weekend with the girls.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: So my dad loss is more of a dad heartbreaker
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: than anything else. So, as I've already told you, I've
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: been solo with the kiddos. We're solo with the kiddos
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: until you're listening to this on Wednesday, So tonight the
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: wife gets home tonight, okay, but been sold with the
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: kiddos on Saturday. And dude, nothing breaks your heart more
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: than your little girl or you're I always assuming the
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: little boys are like this too, especially if mama's gone
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: being little Mama's boys. But seeing your little girl, miss
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: Mama being gone, and that happened over the weekend.
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: It was night too.
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: So the first night Rue and I had a sleepover.
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: We had a little slumber party where she slept in
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: my bed. We usually do it like once every now
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: and then, maybe once a weekend, maybe every other weekend.
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: Just every now and then we hit a little sleepover
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: where we can sleep with mama and dead dead.
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: So we did a sleepover on night one on Saturday
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: to just to keep her hype about something because mom
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: was leaving.
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: We're dropping her off at the airport. You could see
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: the her thinging like how many sleeps until you get home?
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: And like oh dang, like Mama's leaving. We're dropping her
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: off at the airport. It's like, oh, we get to
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: do is sleepover tonight? We could do this and that
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: and getting her excited to hers she's not fully going
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: down that emotional rabbit hole of mom being gone. Yeah,
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: night too comes. So it's Sunday night and it was
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: a it was a great afternoon. Called over reinforcements, talk
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: about operation in laws, had them over to help with
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: the kiddos and Lola open Lola. They're playing with Rue,
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: keeping her busy. Lola's holding Scottie. Daddy gets to watch
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: a little bit of ball. I'm watching ball with my
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: father in law, and we're having a good time. It
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: was a great afternoon. They leave around five. Rue's so
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: tired she ends up sleeping a little bit on the couch.
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: I wake her up because it's like, hey, I don't
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: want you to sleep too long, you know, we need
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: you tire for bedtime. And we're gonna eat dinner, and
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: she's having a hard time like getting over to the
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: dinner table, yeah, and eating dinner.
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: And I just end up like, sweetheart, like what's going on?
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: Like why is this? Why is this? You've been so
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: good today, You've been you've been so patient, you've listened
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: really well, You've had a lot of fun with Lola
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: and Opa.
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: And she just says, I miss mama and starts kind
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: of crying, and I'm like, oh man, and so I'm
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: hugging her, and so we get through the dinner and
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: where I have to you know, I'm just like talking
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: her through the dinner and everything else, and then we
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: get to bedtime, and this.
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: Is where it really goes.
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: This is the.
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: Real heartbreak moment.
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And I'm trying. So my operation when I'm in
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: my two minute drill with bedtime is seven o'clock rolls around.
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: I get Scottie down, hopefully within thirty minutes feet of
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: the bottle rocker, read reader a little nighttime book and
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: get her down, and then I usually, like Rui'll just
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: be hanging out. She might get a TV coupon, depends
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: on where she's at with the TV coupons, but.
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: She'll hang out.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: She'll play for ten She'll do things like either in
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: her room or hang out downstairs while I'm putting Scotty down,
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: And Rude does a great job, like, hey, you want
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: to help that out?
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: Can you get in your pjs while I'm putting Scottie
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: down and kind of challenge her on like being a
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: big girl. And I can I know I can trust you,
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: Like I can trust that when I walk out of
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: this room, you're gonna be in your pj's, You're going
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: to be in your pull up.
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: She does that. Yeah, And I'm trying to get Scottie
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: ready for bed. I'm putting her PJS on, I'm getting
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: in her sleepsack. I'm like set in the.
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: Room, set in the mood, the same operation we have
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: every night.
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: And as I get Scotty in the sleepsack, Ruth's just
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: crying like really starting to pick up, like a tantrum,
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: like breaking down.
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: And I got there, sweetheart, what's going on?
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: I put Scotty in the crib and then I walk
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: out into the hallway and I'm like, hey, sweetheart, what's
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: going on? And she's just crying. She's like, I miss mama,
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: I miss mamma. Can you put me to bed first?
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: Like I don't want you to put Scotty to bed first?
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: Can you put me to bed first?
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, sweetheart, like I have to get Scotty
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: needs it's her bottle time.
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: I gotta put Scotty down. I gotta get her to bed.
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: I promise, I'm gonna go as fast as I can
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: so then I can spend it. It's just gonna be
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: me and you tonight and I'll spend time with you.
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: I'll read you three books, I'll read you the story.
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: We'll do all the stuff, like we'll do all the things.
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: And she's struggling, like she's breaking down, having a tantwer.
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: I'm just like I'm starting to get stressed. I'm just like, gosh,
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: damn it, man, like I need please, like get a
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: hold of your emotions. I'm like saying this in my
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: head as I'm trying to soothe rough Scottie. Micah Parson's
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: on third down Demon's that's when she's on top of
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: the crib like and she's crying, and I'm like, sweetheart,
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: look at Scotty, like I just just please let me
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: put Scotty.
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: I promise I'm gonna go fast. She's say, no, you're not.
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: You're not gonna go fast. You're not gonna put Scotty.
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: Down, like I want you to put me down first,
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: and a whole thing's going on. I'm like, hey, Sweeter,
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: I know you miss Mama. I miss Mama too, Like
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: Mama's the best person in the world. Mama is Dadad's
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: favorite person.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: I love her. I love her and miss her as
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: much as you do right now. And I know it's hard.
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: I know it's hard. I'm like, but if you can
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: just help me for a moment, like just you can
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: go lay anywhere you want to. You can go lay
• 46:18
  Speaker 2: in your bed, you can go lay down on the
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: couch if you want to, because I know she's tired.
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: She was like trying to take that nap and everything else.
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: You can go lay in our bed if you miss mama.
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: Lay on her side. Go lay it anywhere you want to.
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: I promise, I'm gonna get this done as fast as
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: I can. Just you look at Scotty, Jojo. I gotta
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: go help the little one out right now. And so
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: she's sobbing and she ends up like walking away and
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: her shoulders are down. I just feel bad because I'm like,
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: I don't know how else do. I'm like, you can
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: come sit in the room with me and Scotty, but
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: you can't. You can't be making loud noises because it'll
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: keep Scotty awake. Yeah, but whatever you want to do, sweetheart,
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: go lay with anywhere you want to. So I go
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: in to put Scotty down feet of the bottle, and
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: Scotty was pretty smooth. I get her down like within
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: thirty minutes. And as I'm feeding her the bottle, I'm
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: just hearing rue the echoes of her cries from downstairs,
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: and the cries are like, I miss you so much,
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: I love you so much, Mama, like she's talking to
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: mom and it was just a heartbreaker, bro. And I'm
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: just like checking the bottle and I'm like, she's dozing off.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: I hope she goes asleep because I need to put
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: her down. I need to go down and really get
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: with Rue. Yeah, so I get Scottie down. Dude, I
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: go downstairs because I'm hearing the cries. I'm like, I
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: gotta go get to her. And I walk downstairs. She's
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: not on the couch. So I walk into my room.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, she's probably laying on the bed. I
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: walk in my room, bro, make a left and look
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: down on the floor. Rue is laying down on the
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: floor and she's holding our family photo just yelling that
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: I miss you so much.
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: I love you so much, Mama. I love you so much, mama.
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: And it was the saddest thing in the world.
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: B dude, it was so sad.
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: It was like a it's just a heartbreaker, man. And
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: Charles checking in, how's everything going on? My g It
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: ain't like Rue struggling right now. And she's like, oh,
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: does she miss me? And I'm like, she misses you badly,
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: Like she's like she's like hurting, she missed you so much.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: So orre like you know, I get on face that
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: we're getting on FaceTime with her and we're talking to her.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: You can just tell Rue sad. And then I'm like Hey,
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: do you want to sleep with dad ad tonight again? Like,
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: you can sleep in the bed, you can sleep in
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: mama's spot. I'll put the photo right here by you.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: We'll FaceTime with mom. I'll read you some stories. I'll
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: show her some Mama videos on Instagram. Oh yeah, and
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: that calmed her down.
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: We get her to sleep. But that's kind of like
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: my dad heartbreaker.
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: Like not it's not a loss, but it's like my
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: heartbreaker of the week, Like that was so sad.
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: Such a heartbreaker and such a dad win too though
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: of like God, she loves y'all. That's yeah, awesome.
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like I know, like as I'm telling Charles
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: how everything's going down there, it's breaking her heart that
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: I'm telling her the story. And I know as a
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: dad on the receiving end of some of the Hey,
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: she's missing you. She wants you to call back, this,
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: that the other. Just like when you're removed and far
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: away and you can't be there, it just makes you
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: sad because you know you're going to be coming home
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: and they just can't wrap their mind like everything's okay.
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: Now, Mama's right here.
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: Look, you're talking to her like she's just she's just
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: somewhere else right now. Yeah, but anytime we want to
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: call her, we can. I can show you videos. I
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: know you miss her and like, you know, you're giving
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: them hugs. But you know, the mom guilt for my
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: wife is kicking in, like as all this stuff's going on,
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: because it's just a heartbreaker to be away from the kiddos,
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: especially when they're struggling.
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: They just don't they just don't like get it.
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: And what a cheet code face time is. Yeah, thank
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: god for face what a cheek code. Jill has a
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: little nephew that I mean, she's face timed with maybe
• 49:26
  Speaker 3: five thousand times, has hung out in person over the
• 49:29
  Speaker 3: last year with maybe twice. But Jill is still one
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: of his favorite people that he instantly like sparks up
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: when she walks in the room because he's face timing.
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: Her every night.
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah gg I'm like, that's crazy that even over face
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: time they can like make those connections.
• 49:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, but that was a heartbreaker, man.
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: And the bad the habit that I've that I was
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: alluding to is last night, some Monday night. Yeah, I'm
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: sitting there and I'm like, Okay, I can't do three
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: days in a row with her in the bed with me.
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: Because you're just starting to create, you're getting in a
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: different you're you're starting to starting to dip your toe
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: in different waters that you don't want to set.
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: This standard fee.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, you need to sleep in your bed. Roose upstairs.
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: She crushes it with bedtime. I put Scottie down. I
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: walk in her room. She's got all the peach she
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: got to pull up on, the pj's on, she's playing
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: for tend. She's got her little princess crown on. She's
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: got her purse strap over her shoulder. She's got all
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: this stuff on her body. And she's like, you know,
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: plaining imagination. And I walk in the room and I
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: have all I brought up her stuffed animals and sound
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: machine and toothbrush and toothpaste, hair brush, brought all that.
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: Back upstairs, like into her room.
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And I set it all down, and I go
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: downstairs to get the monitor for Scottie. And as I
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: go downstairs, grab the monitor for Scotty, go back upstairs
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: and put Rude out for bedtime.
• 50:48
  Speaker 2: I walk in the room. Ruse got all the stuffed
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: animals in her arms, and the hair brush and the
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: toothpaste and the toothbrush, and I was like, sweetheart, let's
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: get to bed.
• 50:57
  Speaker 3: What are we doing?
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: And she was like, I want sleep upstairs with you?
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, baby, this is this bed is for
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: you to sleep in, like we got to start doing
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: We don't want to create a bad habit like that.
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: We don't get to do this all the time, like
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: you got to sleep in your bed and dad sleeps
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: in his bed.
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: And she's like, but I want to sleep with you.
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: And I just looked down at her and she's looking
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: up at me, and I'm just like, okay, let's go downstairs.
• 51:23
  Speaker 3: Dude. How do you say no to that?
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: You can't? You can't we go downstairs?
• 51:28
  Speaker 3: She gets them.
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, do you need me to help you.
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: I'm like carrying all this stuff back downstairs, plugging it
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: in in my room, setting up shopping my room because
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking to myself, like I tell my wife and
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: she's like, babe, you're going to create a bad habit.
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I know, I know, but I did
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: tell her. I said, hey, when Mama comes home, you
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: sleep in your bed, like this bed is for rude
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: to sleep in. Yeah, the bed downstairs for mom and
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: dadad as sleeping when mom comes home. You can't sleep
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: with us, do you understand? And she says yes, But dude,
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: I'm a I can't say no. And I love it too, Like, yeah,
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: I love little Ruthe sleeping with me when I when
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: I go out, because I'm like, all right, Dad is
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: gonna go out and sit in the living room watch
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: him like study up for tomorrow, watching TV show.
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: You're gonna watch football on yet Dad is gonna watch
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: some football.
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: But Dad's gonna be here in the cuddle you whenever,
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: you know, whenever I get done.
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and just to come in and snuggle up next
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: to Rue, Like it's so awesome. I love it more
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: than she does.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: And so when my wife is like, you're kind of
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: I'm like, sweetheart, I know, but I also.
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: Enjoy it too.
• 52:28
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh yeah, So.
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: We got one brew and I think it'll be I
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: think we'll be sleeping together. I think she'll be in
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: my bed every night until mom comes home.
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: Hey, if that, if that's what it turns into, Like,
• 52:40
  Speaker 3: let's say worst case scenario is that when Mom's out
• 52:44
  Speaker 3: of town and you know, Scotty, whenever she gets that yeah, whatever,
• 52:50
  Speaker 3: sleep with dad. I don't think that's that big of
• 52:53
  Speaker 3: a deal. And maybe not. Maybe some people. Are you
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: sure you gotta hold your boy accountable. He's doing bad
• 52:59
  Speaker 3: habits that's going on. If I saw little Rue holding
• 53:04
  Speaker 3: Teddy Bears, bro, I'm telling you stuff.
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: Her arms were like this fool with the She had
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: the hairbrush in her hands, she had her like five
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: stuffed animals that she wanted to bring down. She didn't
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: have the sound machine.
• 53:16
  Speaker 3: And then she was like.
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: Holding her toothbrush and no toothpaste. And I was like,
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: what's what's going on here?
• 53:20
  Speaker 3: And she was like, we'll go downstairs, no shot.
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: Sleep in your bed. I want to sleep downstairs with you,
• 53:28
  Speaker 2: no shot, no shot.
• 53:29
  Speaker 3: Answer is yes, immedia.
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: And there's just you know, we talk about being in
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: this timeframe, she's gonna get bigger. There's gonna be you know,
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: there's gonna come a time to where she doesn't want
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: anything to do with sleeping next to.
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: Dad ad or being around dad ad. Oh yeah, and
• 53:44
  Speaker 2: I love it. But I am just a sucker, bro,
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: I said, but what.
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: Can you do? Man? I don't blame you. What can
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: you do? I don't blame you.
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: So that's going on that's happening.
• 53:56
  Speaker 3: Uh, that's a really good dad loss. Like I know,
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: we joke around, we say good a lot, but like
• 54:02
  Speaker 3: that is a good dad loss. Or you know, whatever
• 54:06
  Speaker 3: your low was of the week, Like.
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: The importance will be when Mom saw them or we're
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: both of them because whenever mom gets home, I gotta
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: fly out Wednesday night to New York for ESPN.
• 54:14
  Speaker 3: Oh and then.
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: I'll be out Thursday night for the Thursday night football
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: stream whenever bedtime's happening.
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: So I think the big thing is like she might
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: want to sleep with.
• 54:26
  Speaker 3: Sleep with Mama's on Wednesday.
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: Night, but it's when bod chairs are there.
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: It's like we gotta hey, hey, no, no, no, you
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: gotta sleep in your bed.
• 54:34
  Speaker 3: Uh huh, Well you can do some kind of incentivizing
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: of that. You'll come up with something.
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: I had to come up with something on Spot last night.
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: I was like, hey, sweet Art, let's brush your hair.
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: And she's gotten into this new I want to read
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: a book before I brush my hair, and it's like,
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: you don't want to sit down and turn the lights
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: off read a book. Then you going to brushing their hair.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: Then she wants to read another book. Then you do
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: brushing your teeth. It's like, I want to brush your hair.
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: We read the books while you're drinking your milk, then
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: we go in and brush your teeth. Yeah, And and
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: she was down in the in my room.
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: She's like, no, I want to read a book first,
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: I said, sweetheart, you're in Dadad's room.
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: That means you you go by Dadad's rules. Oh, Dadd
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: wants to we can brush your after a book. But
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: if we brush your hair after a book, we're going
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: to do it up in your room. So we can
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: brush your hair now and you can sleep with Dadad,
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: or we can go upstairs read a book and brush
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: your hair. And then she just sat there and like
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: stared at me and kind of was saying about it
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: for a second.
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: Then she just walked over handed me the brush. Yeah. Yeah,
• 55:21
  Speaker 2: this is one win.
• 55:22
  Speaker 3: I can like, hey, there you go. You chalked it up.
• 55:27
  Speaker 3: I dude, there's not a chance. I'm just trying to
• 55:30
  Speaker 3: like run any situation through my head of just where
• 55:33
  Speaker 3: I could sit there and be like no, no, no, especially
• 55:35
  Speaker 3: at that age, at that age.
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's all right, especially uh see, especially at that age.
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: But when they're just in a really good mood or
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: when they're very much cooperative, because again, three years old,
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: the three year old era, they're very intense with their emotions,
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: which I think is ultimately a good thing. You want
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: them to feel their emotions. You want them like working
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: through their emotions and anything else and kind of guide
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: them through their emotions.
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: But the three year three year old era is very
• 56:02
  Speaker 2: much like very intense emotions.
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: If something kind of goes sideways, I hang on a second,
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: what are we doing here?
• 56:08
  Speaker 2: Here? Is all you have to say.
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: I gotta catch myself arguing with her, you know what
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: I mean, because she might like lose it or get
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: into the whiny voice or something, and I'll just basically
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: say out loud how she should be talking to me.
• 56:21
  Speaker 2: Like let's just say, for example, she did I want
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: to I want to pouch?
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: I wanna I want She's whining about a pouch, and like, hey, sweet,
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: that DA doesn't accept the way you're talking to me.
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: And then she might she might keep let's just say
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: she keeps whinding, but I'll go and get the pouch.
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: If it's like snack time er, like, hey, yes, she
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: should have a pouch right now, I'll go hand to
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: the pouch. Hey, hey, dad, d could I have a
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: pouch right now for a snack? And then when I
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: hand you the pouch, you say thank you, Like that's
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: all you need to say. I were on the same team.
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: You don't need to whine. You don't need to get
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: in all this like emotional state of like not getting something.
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: All you gotta say is, hey dad, hey, dadda, can
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: I have a pouch please? And then I might say yes,
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: I might say no, but either way that's how you
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: need to be talking to dead and like show you know,
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: their minds are kind of like going and thinking about
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: it because sometimes, bro, when they get in that whining phase,
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: it's like I just boil, Like, bro, what are you doing?
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: What are you doing right now? You don't have to
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: sit here and whine, but you gotta try. I'm like, okay,
• 57:19
  Speaker 2: she's three, the emotions, the brain, that development happening right now.
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: Something just you know, she lost her sticker.
• 57:24
  Speaker 3: It's almost like what you said earlier about like how
• 57:27
  Speaker 3: you have to tell rue sometimes, like hey, you can't
• 57:31
  Speaker 3: you can't be talking to Scotti like that because Scotti's
• 57:33
  Speaker 3: just a baby. Yeah, Like you're having to tell yourself,
• 57:36
  Speaker 3: you know, you know, I gotta teach Rue how to
• 57:40
  Speaker 3: how to talk like an adult because the Roue isn't.
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: There yet, right, they don't understand. Yeah, and you're kind
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: of showing them. They're very very observant, like they are smart. Yeah,
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: they're thinking through a lot of things. They just need
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: to know what it looks like and how it's done.
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: Because a lot of times, like where I connect with
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: Rue on a lot of levels is I just always
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: bring up a past experience to match where whatever experience
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: she's having. Like again, I brought up like losing a sticker.
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: If she lost a sticker, it's like me just making
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: up a story about me losing stickers all the time.
• 58:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: So that way you can like get on their level
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: and they start listening to you, like, oh that it
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: goes through stuff like this, or like Scotty and I
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: gotta tell her, dude, how many times I gotta tell
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: Scotty not to go do that, not to go do this?
• 58:17
  Speaker 2: Oh, Scotty, jojo, don't do that.
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: Or you know when we get frustrated when Scotty gets
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: into X, Y and Z.
• 58:23
  Speaker 2: But what do we gotta do?
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: We just go over there, Hey, Scotty, know we don't
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: do that, and we we just bring her back over to.
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: The mat, like you have to be patient with their sweetheart. Yeah,
• 58:30
  Speaker 2: and she they're listening.
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just getting through that barrier of those like
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: reactive moments as a parent on like wanting to immediately
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: correct them because you're upset by the way they're talking
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: to you.
• 58:43
  Speaker 3: Oh, big time, big time. I'll I'll have to bite
• 58:45
  Speaker 3: my lip or bite my tongue on that for sure,
• 58:48
  Speaker 3: because I and very quick to you know, jump on
• 58:52
  Speaker 3: something that I don't like, especially with the dogs. Like
• 58:55
  Speaker 3: I'm very big on like the I you know, real
• 58:57
  Speaker 3: loud and like kind of nip it. Yeah, dude, And
• 59:01
  Speaker 3: I just the patience will be some you know, something
• 59:04
  Speaker 3: that I'll have to dive into. But I love the
• 59:06
  Speaker 3: story aspect of it because just thinking of like my
• 59:09
  Speaker 3: dad was big on that as you were telling that story,
• 59:12
  Speaker 3: I was just thinking of myself of like my dad
• 59:14
  Speaker 3: did that a lot now that I think about it,
• 59:16
  Speaker 3: and it does work. Did what a lot?
• 59:19
  Speaker 2: Just just like leveling with you with.
• 59:22
  Speaker 3: You or like hey, like I wouldn't do that. Here's
• 59:26
  Speaker 3: why when I was, you know, fourteen, I did that.
• 59:29
  Speaker 3: It turned out like this just want to let you know.
• 59:32
  Speaker 3: And then I'm sitting there going okay, like that awesome
• 59:36
  Speaker 3: that one like Dad, you know, kind of told me
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: something personal or whatever. But two, yeah, that does sound
• 59:42
  Speaker 3: like something I wouldn't want to do, so I'll take
• 59:45
  Speaker 3: his word for it. Yeah, I was.
• 59:47
  Speaker 2: One thing you'll learn too is how you are with
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: the dog in front of your kid. Oh really, yeah,
• 59:55
  Speaker 2: because like you know, Waffle, she's a bulldog, English bulldog,
• 59:58
  Speaker 2: lover her Yeah, stubborn.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I got my taste when I was on
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 3: the beanback chair. Yeah.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, to you know, I can like lose my cool
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: with Waffle. She's not like listening to me. Well, whether
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: it's get her off the couch, there's like a challenge
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: moment going on with the dog. And to where pre rue,
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: it's like I'm you know, more reactive with Waffle, yeah,
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: or like pushing her off the couch or like doing
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: something to get her off. And then if she snaps
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: at me, it's like we're both kind of posturing over
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: and I'm like standing over with my fists.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 3: He does that. He that is not to be funny
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 3: on the show. I have seen it with Woffle was
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 3: like getting on me and was like man handling me. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 3: pulled her off and he started just standing over and
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 3: Waffle's looking up and going, yeah, Wills, what are you
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 3: gonna do? What are you gonna do?
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: Man?
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 3: Waffle?
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: Waffle, get off the couch, move and to where I'll
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: see Rue start trying to be snappy at times with Water.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: I'm just thinking, oh, no, no, no, this is this
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: is because of me. This is because I've been the
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: example for it in front of Waffle. She thinks this
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: is how you have to handle the dog. And I've
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: been a very poor example in front of my daughter.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: But that's one thing you like, learn to balance however
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: you you are with uh.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 3: You know, your animals.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying like if you're like an abusive person,
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: but I'm saying, like, the times that you do react
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: to the dog because patience is low and it's just
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: you guys at the house when you do have kids,
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: then you see it coming out, you know, flashes and
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: the kids, and I'm thinking, Okay, I have to change
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: my style with my dog in front of Rue, because
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: Ruth's just mimicking the way that I will be with Waffle.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 2: Because Waffle is stubborn. Bro like Waffle. It's like she'll
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: be on the couch and she tries to get to
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 2: the highest point. She thinks she's the alpha. So what
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: these dogs try to do?
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it gets the highest point, lay on the highest
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: coashin and she just looks like a beanbag sitting on
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: top of the on top of the cushions.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 3: I love it.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: And yeah, dude, I love she's She's an awesome dog.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: She loves love. She wants to cut on. Oh yes,
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: And I'll be like, Waffle, can you get off the couch?
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: And like, as I'm walking over to Waffle, you just
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: kind of see the you know, the growling start happening
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: because they're very again, they're just stubborn, bro.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: And if Ru's sitting there, I have to completely like
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 2: rewire my thinking because if Ruth's not there, I'm thinking, Okay,
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 2: you want to you want to shot at the title
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 2: right now?
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah? Here here we go again.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: What do you owe for? Who's undefeated in this match?
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: But Waffle like won't move, you know what I mean?
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: Where you gotta now? I just go out, like walk
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: in the pantry bag, Waffle want to treat and then
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: shake the tree.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 2: She comes running. I'm like, all right, I got you, Yeah,
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 2: who who's the dumb one now?
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 3: By big one? And I was gonna ask you too,
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 3: what Waffle thinks about scott Zilla just tearing up her
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 3: water bowl. But my big one right now is when
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 3: guests come over. Uh, we've really implemented, especially with Scarlett
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 3: now in the house, and it's funny you bring up dogs.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 3: That's actually my dad loss. We have a baby gate.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 3: They stay downstairs whenever we have guests over, and they're
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 3: really yippie behind the baby gate, but they do a
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 3: good job of listening to Dad. I just got to
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 3: show a little bit of force, and so I will
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 3: literally to my house guests. I'll go, guys, I'm so sorry.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 3: I'm just gonna be laded just one time. But they
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 3: will not bark for you know, the foreseeable future. If
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 3: I do this walk over to the baby gate away
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 3: in the house guests, I just go hi, and they
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 3: sit and they're silent for the rest of the night.
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 3: Not bad, I.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 2: Don't know, I don't think so.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 5: The same issue we're all yell when I go to
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 5: Knoxville to see Alex, We're all got she don't yell
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 5: at them, And I'm like, look, she's not moving anymore.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 3: She stopped. He can't wait for him to be a dad,
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 3: by the way, cannot wait in a good way, like
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 3: I'm preparing such a good dad, dude, he is. I
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 3: I just love the impersonation of Alex.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 5: You don't yell at us, Oh, she'll get at me,
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 5: And I'm just something about it bubbles in me where
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 5: I'm like, it's an immediate but it works where you
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 5: get it. It's like a snap gets their attention because
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 5: if you go, hey, Scottie, Scott but Alex's dogs named
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 5: Scotti and hey, come over here, and she she'll nicest
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 5: dog ever, but she'll kind of wander over or maybe
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 5: won't listen to you, but then you know, eventually it'll
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 5: be a Scotty works like a charm Yeah every time.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, those.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: Are like it's like, it's like two things that I've
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: changed with Waffle is one, instead of diving into that
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: altercation with her on the couch, it's going like, hey, Waffle,
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: do you want to treat and she comes back. And
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: the second one is you know, when you have you
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: have your kids, it's like people say, hey, you love
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: your dog. I'm taking photos of Waffle. I'm doing all
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: these things with Waffle before the kids come, and I'm
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: telling Waffle like you'll never beat my number two.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: But the moment your kids come, it's a different story.
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: They go down the totem pole, they do. They feel
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: it as well. The dog feels as well. And what
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: I had to switch with Waffle on the second note
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: is like, say she's over in the area around the
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: kids or with the kids, or potentially bothering the kids,
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: instead of like getting on Waffle and moving her out
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: of the situation, because they're going through there the little
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: dog goes.
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 3: They're going through their.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: Own little process too of just being sad that they're
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: not the thing anymore. But instead of like removing Waffle
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: from the situation or getting on Waffle for kind of
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: being in that being in their space, it's been more
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: so teaching the kids how to be sweet to Waffle
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: and be kind and hey, she just sniff and she
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: just wants she's just curious, she wants to play. She
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: sees you playing with the thing, You're having a lot
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: of fun. And the way she senses everything she uses
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: her nose. So you just got a pattern. If you
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: don't wonder there just mom or Dad, can you please?
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: Can you please move Waffle? And then in a sweet way,
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: it's like we'll get Waffle away. But those have been
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: the two things that I've had to kind of check
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: myself on as a dog owner, being an example in
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: front of my kids is the altercation moment on the couch,
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: like getting her off the couch, and then when they're
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: in when Waffle just kind of mosy's over and she's
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: kind of in their space and they start like when
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: r will start like snapping and yelling, and I think
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: to myself, she's just she's mimicking Dad right now, and
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: I've got to change something up because she's got to
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: like learn that, hey, Waffle doesn't know either, you know
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: how Scotty doesn't know. Waffle doesn't know she's a dumb
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: little dog. Oh, she doesn't get it, and you kind
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: of like softly remove them. It's kind of rekindled something
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: between me and Waffle as well, because there's been moments
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: where I've had to like look in the mirror and
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: be like, yeah, she does.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 2: She's not getting a lot of love from Dad right now.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 5: I also kind of just reiterate just to clarify too,
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 5: I don't scream at my dogs a lot.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 3: It's just more to get their attention. Gotta be careful
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 3: with the parent that dog parents because as soon as
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 3: Scotty comes up, Hey, come here, girl, come here. Oh,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 3: it's so.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 5: Cute, positive reinforcement immediately. It's more just to get their attention. Yeah,
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 5: before people just come in, I promise you.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: We got we got PT sixers sixers and you got
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: some some dog team sixers in here.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 3: You got some dog parents.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: In here like this will kind of just challenge Waffle
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: at all times and swing on her. I've had to
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: check myself in some situations, but those have been the
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: learning curves in parenthood with your animal.
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 3: Couldn't have asked for a better segue into my dad
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 3: loss this week. And also for any PT sickos, I'm
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 3: seeing the PT six echoes on the internet. By the way,
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 3: I'm loving it so the PT sickos that are also
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 3: Chef sichos. Look out on socials for our USF unboxing video.
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 3: Chef absolutely killed this unboxing video. I can't wait for
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 3: you to see it.
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 2: I'm excited to see it too. We got another box
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 2: from USF.
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 3: We did We got a whole package from USF. Shout
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 3: out bulls, Shout out the bulls from their equipment manager for.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: The Dad's POD's gonna it's the unboxing. So we're gonna
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: be like Coach Cruden over here in the dad work. Truly,
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: people just teams are just gonna start sending in boxes
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: for for dad culture.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 3: I'll sport it. I picked up one of those USF
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 3: shirts so fast, it was so soft.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: Don't do it the some of the siccos in that audience,
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: they'll say, you're copying.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, oh love to be careful already still agree? Yeah,
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 3: yeah do we not? What are we supposed to just
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 3: throw the box away? Yeah? Yoh free close, damn got
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 3: throw it away? Uh no, go ahead, chep oh.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 5: I was just gonna say, shout out to USEF and yeah,
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 5: we don't want to copy Coach Gruden, but this is
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 5: we did shout out all the equipment managers out. Yeah,
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 5: and they want to show love, so we want to
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 5: reiterate that. But yeah, shout out USF and Arkansas for sending.
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 2: Us inspired by coach Yes, inspired by inspired by Gruden?
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, which is that such a cry?
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: I don't forget where he was before Barcelon that was
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: coaching your boy. Hey, come on ouh, my dad who's
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: got the Grooden grinder shirt hanging in his closet. Week
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: won twenty sixteen season.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 3: People forget about that. People forget and you were You
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 3: were like top twenty five hottest player in twenty sixteen.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 3: I think I was number seven. Some are saying I
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 3: summer saying, Derek, if you google it, it's the best
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 3: Google of all time, it's the best google.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 2: Like the most attractive players I was like on the
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 2: list was just pre veneers.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: Yes, oh yeah, but that's I don't have a smile
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: going on in the photo, Like I'm just kind of
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: sitting there. And then, you know, whenever I was promoting,
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: whenever I was like having fun with it back in
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: twenty fifteen or sixteen, whenever that was people are talking about,
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: you know, the teeth.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 2: And everything else.
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: Because Julian Ellman's on it, I might have been higher
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: than Julian.
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 3: You were.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 2: Joe Flacco was number one.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 3: You were higher than some some NFL some times hotties,
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 3: some hotties. Yeah, you were up there.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 4: Uh, there's not an article that says we're referring to
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 4: actual looks fanatics dock Coomas Compotle list of the most
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 4: attractive teams, The Redskins ranked third, and then the very
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 4: next paragraph, linebacker Will Coompton was voted the most attractive
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 4: player on the Skins and the fifth best looking in
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 4: the league.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 3: Top five. I didn't know your top five.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: Buddy, and I shared a locker room with U, with
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: Ryan Kerrigan, who's a specimen of a human being.
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 3: A piece of meat. You will a piece of meat
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 3: into a human meat missile. Yeah, as they say, Compton,
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 3: look at Derek holding up. I love that we have
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 3: the producer camp fifth in the league, fifth in the
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 3: league away from me. That's what the five and then
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 3: take your tenth year. But they can't take fifth best
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 3: looking in the NFL. The five and fifty one. They
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 3: don't know it does mean top.
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 2: Five to top five type shit?
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 3: Tight shit?
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 2: Uh my dad lost kicking your dog?
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 3: Go ahead, I can't go again. No, Dad loss was
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 3: forgetting the dogs, is exactly what you were talking about.
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 3: We had a great night on that would have been
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 3: Sunday night where we did or no, it was Saturday.
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 3: I'm so sorry because college football was going on and
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 3: I was grilling up a bunch of steaks. I was
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 3: grilling up chicken. We had some Halipino poppers. Fantastic night,
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 3: And honestly I was in my dad uh as far
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 3: as like spending a ton of time with Scarlett pouring
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 3: into Jill. We're coming off of a bad weekend. This
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 3: is like a makeup game. This is like a week
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 3: gotta lock in, This is a we know what this
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 3: program was built on, and I'm just hitting everything full force,
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 3: killing it as a dad in my own brain got
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 3: too cocky, got way too cocky, because what did I
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 3: forget to do walk the dogs? What did I also
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 3: forget to do that night? Put that new baby gate
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 3: up that we've implemented. So Goose, who Goose is very
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 3: attached to me. He was a rescue, he was tied
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 3: to a pole behind a liquor store during COVID. Yes,
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 3: he's our little schnauzerdoodle. He's a little schnoodle. He got
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 3: very attached to me because Mom's favorite is Wriggly and
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 3: it's very well known in the house. Jill loves Goose.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 3: Jill loves Goose.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 2: Like Goose is what? Like Goose and Wriggly are watching
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 2: the episode right now.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 3: Yeh yah, yeah, yeah yeah. Jill loves Goosey, Goosey. Mom
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 3: loves you, Mama loves you. But Dad kind of has
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 3: to step in there and be a surrogate love factory
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 3: for Goose because he doesn't always get it from Mom.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 3: So anyways, I digress. He's a little jealous of Scarlet,
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 3: and Dad does in Scarlet, And uh, do you want
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 3: to tell the listeners what gift you got Jill and
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 3: I or y'all's family got Jill and I for Scarlet?
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 2: Do you remember I've got you a couple? You have
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 2: got it?
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 3: This one's in our nursery. Oh the rocking chair. The
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 3: rocking chair. It's a good chair, isn't it.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: I think about it every night when I'm sitting her
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: rocking and I hear, you know, maybe a squeak at
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: the end or at the far back, and I just
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: think to myself, I wonder if sure he's rocking right
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: now too.
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 3: Every freaking night Jill and I are in that chair.
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 3: We love that chair. And Goose knows that that's the
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 3: chair that Dada sits with Scarlet and tells him no
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 3: whenever he's trying to get up and get his pets.
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 3: And there was a massive mark on top of the
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 3: He jumped on the chair and just gave it up.
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 3: Mark the top of it like where your back would
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 3: go as like a fu. You forgot to walk me,
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 3: You didn't put the gate up. So I'm gonna show you.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 3: This is goose territory. This is a goose house.
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 2: Do we have a standoff?
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 3: I was livid, pissed. I swallowed it because I was
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 3: like the right thing to because they forget after they
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 3: do it, like I you know, I've heard with dogs
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 3: like if you catch them in the act of something. Yeah,
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 3: if you catch them in the act, you can, you know,
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 3: correct the behavior. But I mean, I'm waking up the
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 3: next morning and we're finding the huge piece staying on
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 3: the rocky chair. Oh you didn't see until the next morning. Yes,
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 3: this was at night because we had gone to bed
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 3: and I forgot to walk the because we stayed up
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 3: late grilling and we're doing scarscar tuckns and ep on
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 3: the chair.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: Yes, dude, he went in there. That's the one thing
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: I was scared of when I got that color.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 3: I know, in the middle of the night.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: That's the one thing I was scared of when it's
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: a white white jumped up on. It was the one
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: that had to get ordered too, and there was you know,
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: it didn't get there right in time for.
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 3: This ordered this very nice chair. Now, however, I was thinking,
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 3: do you want the white get dicey just so you
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 3: feel good and everybody at home, if you're on you
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 3: know the edge of your seat. Stain did come out.
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 3: We got some think God, yes, stan did come out.
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 3: We do have some utensils and stuff and steamers and
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 3: whatever that like, we're good. But it was a good
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 3: reminder of don't don't forget about the dogs. We got
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 3: a love on the dogs.
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 2: It's a hard reminder, bro a hard one.
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 3: And I was so mad at goose, but I understood.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 3: And it's also hilarious how the dog brain works. If
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 3: he's like Dad has totally forgotten about me, this little
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 3: crying thing all the time. He's obsessed with it.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, this dog, this this still thing. Can't sit, he
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 2: sits spin, can't do it, can't stand and dance for
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 2: retreat and.
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 3: He's getting this thing's getting treats every three hours.
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't let this thing. How you got to
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: change them all the time. You just let me outside
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: and he.
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 3: Sits in that chair all proud with his new little thing.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 3: He's given it treats all the time in that chair.
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 3: I'll fucking show him.
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, where's that thing's dog collar?
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 3: Just imagine, imagine just him going directly to that chair
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 3: in the middle of the night. Showed him and then
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 3: went back and crawled underneath our bed because they sleep
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 3: underneath our bed. Yeah, but that was my dad loss.
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 2: It's a it's a quick Did you lose it on
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 2: him the next morning?
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 3: Is if it just happened? No, just because like with
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 3: they are doing a really good job with the new
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 3: system that we set up of like the baby gate.
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 3: You guys sleep here, you eat it, these times, you
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 3: do walks it, these times. The accidents in the house
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 3: are completely gone pretty much. I mean, like we've really
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 3: cracked down on the dogs and they've been doing a
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 3: great job. So I really didn't want to hold it
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 3: against him, to be honest. Also, another dad loss, this
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 3: goes with forgetting about the dogs. We hadn't given him
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 3: a haircut in decades, and he's a shnoodle, so he's
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 3: all matted up and after the accident, then the next morning,
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 3: I'm you know, kind of rubbing on him and stuff.
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 3: I'm looking at his matts. I'm like, I've completely forgotten
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 3: about it, you dude. I spent four hours on Sunday.
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 3: Remember when we were trying to connect and get together.
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 3: I was like, Hey, I don't think it's gonna work well.
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 3: We have this.
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: We were trying to put together a little dad day.
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: It's like, hey, bring Scarlett over, let's do something the
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: words to the dad's watching the kids.
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 3: It didn't work out, and it would have been epic, dude,
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 3: And I've gotten two separate dms of people saying, Sherman,
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 3: is Scarlet potentially gonna become Scarzilla if she becomes friends
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 3: with scott Zilla, And I'm like, I would love I
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 3: would love it too, bro. If she matched that energy
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 3: and they became two little peas in a pod, I
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 3: wouldn't hate it.
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: Scarzvilla, we're just both there, like making him play fetch
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: with stuff.
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 3: You see.
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 2: You saw the videos with the marker over the weekend.
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 3: Go get it, go on Scarlet and she just Scarlet
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 3: beats out. Scotty will just leaves the room.
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: You can't snap on him. They're young, They're not gonna
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: get it. So yeah, you got to remove yourself from
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: the room.
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 3: Scotty, you're eight months older than What are you doing?
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 3: What are you doing? That would break me? Oh? Yeah, yeah,
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 3: but yeah that was that was my dad loss.
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 2: Do Where were even at right now?
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 3: Crack a cold one? Yes, we'd love to crack a
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 3: cold one. I got a little ad read that goes
• 1:17:41
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• 1:17:43
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• 1:17:51
  Speaker 3: summer is coming to an end, but we are in
• 1:17:54
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• 1:17:58
  Speaker 3: in Nashville.
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 2: It's a nineties this week. You got a couple of
• 1:18:01
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• 1:18:02
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• 1:18:05
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• 1:18:09
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because you also might like forget to stay hydrated
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• 1:18:20
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• 1:18:22
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  Speaker 1: you're not taking care of yourself. Great way to fill
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• 1:18:35
  Speaker 3: a little peckish, I like, had a little snack. But
• 1:18:37
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• 1:18:40
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• 1:18:43
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  Speaker 2: Great read.
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 3: I wanted that fly so bad, dude.
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 2: I know it's rough. By the way, we didn't even
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 2: talk about.
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 3: These Let's talk about it.
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 2: Let's talk about I was gonna say the fly landed
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 2: on this good one or the four of the dads
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 2: when I wanted to pop it but I couldn't get it.
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 2: But we had gifts come in.
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 3: We had some major gifts come in. And if people
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 3: remember from one episode, I thought this was just next
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 3: level performance. I quoted King Thaden of Rohan from Lord
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 3: of the Rings, Return of the King. You did and
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 3: he printed out this mug you printed on a lot,
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 3: printed it out. Is it Justin? This is this is uh?
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 3: This is Justin Klarner.
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 2: Justin Clarner. Thank you for the gifts.
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: Thank you for the little gift package, bro, with all
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: of these different little.
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 3: I don't even know what you call these little diss Yeah,
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 3: they're drink coasters. There we go, this coasters. There were six.
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 1: Got to keep it under an hour, which, by the way,
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: we do need to keep this episode under an hour.
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 3: Look at the Nebraska one day you've printed out for you.
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 2: That's why that one's propped up. That's hard bussing week.
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 3: Hard a big week for house, not a football podcast,
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 3: not a fool, big week for ness, big week for Nebraska. Also,
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 3: Justin wrote us a letter. Do we want to read
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 3: that very quickly sure read the letter two before the
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 3: Dad's podcast. Hope you enjoyed these coasters I made for
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 3: you guys during my paternity leave. Congratulations. Justin apologies if
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 3: I went overboard, but my quality control and R and
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 3: D team my wife have me create multiple variations of
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 3: the designs. They are all three D printed and I
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 3: designed all of them, except for the college plaques I
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 3: found online. I found you guys shortly before the birth
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 3: of my daughter and was instantly hooked. The first episode
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 3: I listened to was episode four. I had it on
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 3: while I was out doing yard work, and I kept
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 3: stopping inside to replay bits for my wife. We both
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 3: love the show. So now every Wednesday, my wife, my
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 3: one month old daughter, and I watch it together. I
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 3: love it that I get to follow Scherm as he
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 3: goes through his journey through the PT six ranks a
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 3: couple of weeks ahead of me. Love the show. Please
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 3: do not keep it under an hour. All the best
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 3: from Justin, Michelle and Little Emerson Klarner. Let's go Shout
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 3: out the fam. Shout out the Fam. He's good.
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 1: PT six unit over there, good PT six one one?
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 1: Con I heard in that note.
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 3: What's going on.
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 2: He started with episode four. I want to know if
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 2: he's went back and went one through three.
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 3: Printing off these many drink coasters.
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 2: I guarantee it because I know that there are new PT.
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 3: Six.
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 2: It ohs like you'll be seeing people. I went all
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 2: the way back and I'm called all the way up
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 2: from episode one.
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 3: I had some body dmy just the other night about that.
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 3: I sent him a little voice message back.
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 2: I love that you sent Yeah, you sent them. Oh
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 2: my gosh, what happened.
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking of a voice message I had to send
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 1: for this dude's birthday on September third. Oh no, I
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: responded to the gallon everything and said, I'll have this
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 1: video cooked up for you.
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 3: Oh.
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: It was like late at night when I was like, uh,
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 1: it was like when I was putting the kid, when
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: I was putt skytie down. I kind of going through
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: some dms because you're trying to keep up with everything, everything,
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: and I'll try and click on the ones that seem
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: longer to where like, you know, if they're sharing something
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: with you, try to hit him back with a message,
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 1: and gosh, dang.
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 3: It is he GBR? If he's GBR, I think the
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 3: make good is on House Rules give a little belated
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 3: birthday shout out.
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 2: I'm scared I won't be able to find.
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 3: It because if I was GBR and Will Compton is
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 3: on Matt Rules podcast and he goes, oh, by the way,
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 3: happy belated Cameron, I would lose my mind. I don't
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 3: even care if it's four months after my birthday. I'm
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 3: going nuts. But Yeah, the DM that I got was
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 3: a guy basically saying, Hey, I'm so glad that I
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 3: found you guys at like episode eight, because I'm still
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 3: to the point where I don't have to wait till
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 3: the next week for like a new episode. And I
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 3: hit him back in the voice message. I said, that's
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 3: crazy that you say that, because I got onto Game
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 3: of Thrones in like season four, season five, and that's
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 3: how I felt about Game of Thrones. So the fact
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 3: that you feel that way about the show that we're
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 3: doing tells me everything I need to know about.
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 2: How nice reference too with the Game of Thrones.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, And I was like, what an honor to
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 3: like be that for some listener that they're like, yes,
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 3: I don't have to wait another week, Because that's a
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 3: good feeling.
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 1: To the gal I'm supposed to send a video note
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: to please for the love of God, DM me back
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 1: so it gets to the top of the inbox.
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 2: I was just trying to scroll through to find it.
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 1: I'm on mic, I got anxiety right now that I
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 1: didn't get back to her and did' send that video.
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 3: That's okay, ugh damn to make him feel better. I
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 3: will also brag on Will over the weekend. I think
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 3: I shared this with you briefly. Somebody came to our
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 3: table at Jill's birthday dinner and UH basically just said, Hey,
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 3: I just want to let you know Love Busting Love
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 3: the brand. UH just want to shout out Will really
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 3: quick because I reached out to him when I was
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 3: going through a rough time and the words they had
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 3: for me via DM we're going back and forth. It
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 3: really helped me out a lot. I was like, dude,
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 3: what a cool thing to like hear about your boss
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 3: makes you really happy of the place that you work at.
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 2: I appreciate the words of information in a time of need.
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 2: Right now, Yeah, I feel like I let I let this,
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 2: I let this couple down right here.
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 3: Dude, you have so many of those types of things
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 3: come in your way that if you missed one. Nobody's perfect, dude. Yeah,
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 3: and maybe I'm going too easy on will you might
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 3: be ru can sleep in the bed. It's okay to
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 3: miss the birthday shout outs. But I feel that way. Yeah,
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 3: I feel that way.
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 2: I gotta find it. I gotta I gotta make that right.
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 2: I gotta make that right.
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 1: Crack a cold one, crack a segment, my crack a
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 1: cold one, and will you give.
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 3: Me a liquid? IV? I would actually love to make
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 3: a little liquid.
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 2: Would you like, uh, firecracker, the popsicle or would you
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 2: like the I'll do the popsicle, the mango passion fruit.
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 3: I do like mango passion fruit, but I'll do popsicle.
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 2: Nope, And it's my shot. And somebody giving a little
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 2: honk to the little pt Sico.
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 3: This one is firecracker. They're like the bottle.
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 1: So my crack a cold one. This week is going
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 1: to be getting that alone time with your kids. As
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 1: a parent, I think it's it's always like you're you're
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 1: in the trenches when your partner is not with you
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 1: and they're doing their thing, you know, out for a
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 1: work thing, like I'm out a lot of the times,
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 1: like at least once a week to where Charles handling
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 1: bedtime duty and you're doing the d You're doing all
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 1: things with the kids.
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 2: I get the kiddos there.
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 1: It's a it's a full time gig, but it's like
• 1:26:02
  Speaker 1: having those solo times that you do with the kids
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 1: because you just build your relations your personal relationship with
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 1: them a lot more. I feel like with Rue, there's
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 1: a lot more of those one on one teaching moments
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 1: that happen because it is just you there. So when
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 1: chaos is kind of breaking out or something's happening, and
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 1: you know, it's just you, like nobody's coming to save you.
• 1:26:21
  Speaker 1: It's it's been a favorite quote of mine forever. Nobody's
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 1: coming to save you. Nobody cares, work harder. It's like
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 1: stuff like that that you get reminded of in those
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 1: moments to where you have more intentional time getting to
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 1: sleep with there, to do the sleepovers at nighttime, her
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 1: feeling like, you know, calling her, I'm just saying little
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 1: things like you you're my best friend, You're like my
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 1: my favorite little heart beat in the world right now,
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 1: And just like stuff like that, to where you're connecting
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 1: with them a lot and they're like, you know, you're
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 1: just you're you're giving them words of information, like when
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 1: they're being a good teammate and telling her, hey, we're
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 1: on the same team.
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 2: It's just me and you here, Like we got to
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 2: do a good job with Scotty. We gotta do a
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 2: good job of waffle. We gotta do a good job
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 2: of picking up stuff, picking up after ourselves. But so, Mike,
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 2: crack of cold one is like having those solo times
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 2: with the kiddos, because it is it's like, Oh, I'm.
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 1: In the trenches right now. I really wish wife, he
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 1: was home. I wish there was some help here. But
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 1: when you grab that perspective of hey, nobody's here, nobody,
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 1: this is you, or those moments where it's like I
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 1: would rather wat, but my three year old wants to
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 1: play right now, I need to go. I need to
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 1: play with her because there's gonna be a data where
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 1: she doesn't want to play.
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 2: With me anymore.
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, moments like that, And I'll also say another crack
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 1: of cold one is operating while your wife is out
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 1: of town, like being I take pride in like being
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 1: the partner for my wife to where I'm not hitting
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 1: her up about stuff I know, like she she probably
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 1: doesn't like consciously think about that, but I'm sure I
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 1: know she has perspective on you know, if she talks
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 1: to her friends or when their husband's hitting them, hitting
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 1: them up all the time about needing someone or where's
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 1: this or where's that? Or how do I do X,
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 1: Y and Z, Like you kind of leave them on
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 1: an island and they need help, like while the mom
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 1: and while the wife is gone. I take a lot
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 1: of pride in not being that to Charro, like, hey,
• 1:27:59
  Speaker 1: I trust me. I know you're gonna have a lot
• 1:28:01
  Speaker 1: of guilt. I know you're gonna miss the kiddh. She
• 1:28:02
  Speaker 1: doesn't travel near as much as I do. She has
• 1:28:05
  Speaker 1: a lot of that mom guilt. But I'm like, dude,
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 1: you need to go have your own time. You need
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 1: to go sleep in the hotel room and know like,
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 1: oh it's ten o'clock and I can go to bed
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 1: and I don't have any responsibility, like we'll do the
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 1: face times and everything else. But dude, you go take
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 1: like whatever time you need. I will handle this at home.
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 1: I will operate at home. I know everything to do. Yep,
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 1: you to wur you don't have to worry about that.
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 1: I feel like that's a big crachnical one. And to
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 1: the PT sixers out there, And if your wife is
• 1:28:30
  Speaker 1: sitting there watching this episode and thinking, hey, Mama needs
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 1: to take a trip, needs it, Mama needs the Vegas.
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 1: I forget the call in or whatever the wind was
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 1: like episodes ago. Yeah, the Robin like where you might
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 1: need a Rodman trip, like the wife, he needs a
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 1: Rodman trip too, or they need to go do things.
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 1: Your boy has been able to operate. There's a nine
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 1: day Italy trip, yep, Dad had it on lock. A
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 1: few day Arizona trip, and Phoenix for another work thing.
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 1: They'll with their friends. The Arizona work thing. Daddy had
• 1:29:03
  Speaker 1: it on lock. And this one too is another one
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 1: to where it's like, yes, it is stressful. I do
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 1: get tired at times because we have all the shows
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 1: that we got to do in the week, and like
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 1: you're just again when you're at home, you're solo with
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 1: the kiddos. But another krackical one to the to the
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 1: Papa team sixers out there, that man the ship whenever
• 1:29:20
  Speaker 1: mom or wife he's out of town to where you
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 1: don't Mom doesn't have to worry. They might worry on
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 1: their own because that's just the nature of the beast.
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 1: But to where they know, like, oh, Dad, Pete Siko,
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 1: he's got it. Back home, he's got he's dial he's
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 1: dial right now, back home.
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 3: And to your success, you have a chance to as
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 3: a mentor to help a boy out. Because there is
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 3: a Bachelor Rat party that Jill will be attending first
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 3: weekend of October that we we can talk about it.
• 1:29:53
  Speaker 3: You know, we going into that episode to make it
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 3: a big thing. But there's already some talks and Jill's
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 3: probably going here this, so I'm glad she she's hearing
• 1:30:01
  Speaker 3: this as well. We do we need to get a
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 3: night nurse on Saturday for you. Do you think you'll
• 1:30:06
  Speaker 3: be able to wake up and you'll be able to,
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 3: you know, do all this stuff because Scarlet's make it
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 3: and you.
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 1: Look her in the eyes and say, don't ever disrespect
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 1: me like that again.
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 3: I stood I Jill, Jill Anne Young? Did I not?
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 3: And I went now now her mom her mom was there,
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 3: so I was very sweet about it. So well, maybe,
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 3: well we'll talk about it when we get closer to
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 3: the Yeah, we could talk about maybe that is a
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 3: good idea, but I'm in my head I got this.
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 2: You got this, bro, You're built for this.
• 1:30:35
  Speaker 1: Let me don't and selfishly, these are opportunities for the
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 1: dads to get on the scoreboard when those opportunities come up,
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 1: like I don't say the nine day Italy trip, the
• 1:30:43
  Speaker 1: three day Arizona trip, the five day Portland, Oregon trip
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 1: to like you know, flex my stats and run up
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 1: the score a little bit. But all to say is like,
• 1:30:52
  Speaker 1: these are opportunities to where if you stay downed and
• 1:30:55
  Speaker 1: you do it right and you handle the correct way.
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 1: There's also some some scoreboards from pet six and start
• 1:30:59
  Speaker 1: to back up.
• 1:31:00
  Speaker 3: I'm going to six flags.
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, guarantee, guaranteed seasons past season, season past. It's the
• 1:31:07
  Speaker 1: fast pass too, baby, Yes, sir, I'm right up the
• 1:31:12
  Speaker 1: front of the line.
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 3: Come on taking me through the back door. Maybe you
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 3: know you do it? Wait, didn't we just see you?
• 1:31:18
  Speaker 3: What are you doing back up here? Fast past? Yeah? Sorry, sorry,
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 3: but no, I want to want to prove myself. I'm
• 1:31:24
  Speaker 3: like a part of me is sitting there and I
• 1:31:27
  Speaker 3: appreciate them with the night Urs stuff because we're talking
• 1:31:29
  Speaker 3: about Scarlet. I mean, this is precious cargo. But in
• 1:31:32
  Speaker 3: the same breath, I'm like man. I want it to
• 1:31:34
  Speaker 3: be synonymous when you talk about, you know, Sherman being
• 1:31:39
  Speaker 3: home alone with Scarlet, that that also in your brain,
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 3: he's got it, he's got it.
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 1: When you get those opportunities, this is no different than
• 1:31:47
  Speaker 1: an opportunity that the Huskers have this weekend, Like this
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 1: is a big game opportunity when the PT sixers have
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 1: the chance to man the ship for the weekend, for
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 1: a few days, whatever it is. And you almost challenge
• 1:31:58
  Speaker 1: your wife back to where, Hey, I don't want to
• 1:32:00
  Speaker 1: hear from you if you're if you have anxiety and
• 1:32:02
  Speaker 1: your stresses high, like I just want you to know
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 1: that's gonna be on you because I'm gonna take care
• 1:32:06
  Speaker 1: of business back home.
• 1:32:07
  Speaker 3: And the line for this Nebraska Lot of Football podcast,
• 1:32:10
  Speaker 3: But the line for this Nebraska game is plus one
• 1:32:13
  Speaker 3: and a half. And what'd your boy do?
• 1:32:15
  Speaker 1: You move the line minus thirteen and a half Nebraska
• 1:32:18
  Speaker 1: Cornhers Bekers and you put a bomb on it.
• 1:32:20
  Speaker 3: Responsibly, responsibly, And that's what I want to do with this.
• 1:32:25
  Speaker 3: I note that the lines are right here, and that
• 1:32:27
  Speaker 3: if you know, if I just do the bare minimum
• 1:32:30
  Speaker 3: and we do yes, Hey, that's what they expect. Yes
• 1:32:35
  Speaker 3: and night nurse comes in and night nurse, you know,
• 1:32:37
  Speaker 3: leaves great notes and all that, and Sherman did great
• 1:32:40
  Speaker 3: during the day. Blah blah blah. Yeah, I'm gonna get
• 1:32:42
  Speaker 3: Pats on the back. I'm get you won the game.
• 1:32:45
  Speaker 3: You did great, Sherman, but if I solo it, and yeah, honey,
• 1:32:49
  Speaker 3: I did get you know, a total of nine hours
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 3: of sleep over the weekend. But you know what, I
• 1:32:53
  Speaker 3: loved every fucking second of it. And I'm ready to
• 1:32:56
  Speaker 3: go into the work week. I feel juiced.
• 1:32:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, don't let her like, hey, put me on an island.
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 1: I don't need chip or help. I know this past
• 1:33:03
  Speaker 1: roaster is nice. Yeah, but slide away from me. I'll
• 1:33:07
  Speaker 1: handle them one on one. You don't need to put
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 1: a tight end there. You don't need a running back
• 1:33:10
  Speaker 1: to chip them coming out of the backfield.
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 3: I want when when they're running a crossing route. I
• 1:33:15
  Speaker 3: want her to be able to switch and know I
• 1:33:17
  Speaker 3: got it.
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I got trust your guy in that zone defense.
• 1:33:20
  Speaker 3: She doesn't even have to yell switch because she already
• 1:33:22
  Speaker 3: knows Griven's got it. Yeah, we're switching here.
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 1: And what an opportunity to because your wife, it's like,
• 1:33:28
  Speaker 1: I know when Wednesday comes, she's gonna come in and
• 1:33:31
  Speaker 1: this house is gonna be the way.
• 1:33:33
  Speaker 3: She left it. Probably better.
• 1:33:35
  Speaker 1: Oh, it's gonna be better to where they come in
• 1:33:37
  Speaker 1: in the house because women, they hate clutter in the house.
• 1:33:40
  Speaker 1: They hate clutter like men can kind of live a
• 1:33:43
  Speaker 1: dorm room life at times, like Okay, that's kind of
• 1:33:45
  Speaker 1: organized chaos that I got going on around the house.
• 1:33:48
  Speaker 1: They come in and the clutter's gone. That's what that's
• 1:33:52
  Speaker 1: what the wife you really want, Hey, you handled your
• 1:33:54
  Speaker 1: business back home. They walk into a decluttered house, a
• 1:33:56
  Speaker 1: clean house, yep, to where when they put their luggage in,
• 1:33:59
  Speaker 1: it's just on them getting their laundry out and everything else.
• 1:34:01
  Speaker 1: But they're not worried about the boxes sitting over there,
• 1:34:03
  Speaker 1: and not worried about dish's sitting on the counter. They're
• 1:34:05
  Speaker 1: not worried about whatever male stacks are saying. Kind of,
• 1:34:07
  Speaker 1: I do still have some mail stax up on the count, bro,
• 1:34:10
  Speaker 1: those will be gone.
• 1:34:11
  Speaker 3: You you came over to our house one time when
• 1:34:13
  Speaker 3: she was out of town, but I'm pretty sure the
• 1:34:15
  Speaker 3: house was like neatly put together. But Jill runs a
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 3: tight ship. And what an opportunity, What an opportunity every
• 1:34:22
  Speaker 3: Saturday and Sunday, we're cleaning the house. On top of
• 1:34:25
  Speaker 3: she hires cleaners to come on once a month for
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 3: the deep clean, deep clean, because a clean house is
• 1:34:32
  Speaker 3: like that is it for Jill if she can have.
• 1:34:35
  Speaker 2: I think that's it for women out there.
• 1:34:38
  Speaker 3: And dude, if she if I rock that weekend and
• 1:34:41
  Speaker 3: she comes home and the hardwoods just wreek a fabuloso
• 1:34:45
  Speaker 3: and the counters.
• 1:34:46
  Speaker 2: Are clean, Daddy's gonna mount you tonight.
• 1:34:51
  Speaker 1: That's when they can walk in the house and you're
• 1:34:52
  Speaker 1: just at the top stair, no clothes on. I just
• 1:34:59
  Speaker 1: picked Jill, and you're just standing in the stair naked,
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 1: looking down. It's Daddy's time.
• 1:35:08
  Speaker 3: Riding shockwave. Hands up the whole road. Right.
• 1:35:13
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, where were we?
• 1:35:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah? Where were we? Crack a cold one. I'll go quick.
• 1:35:19
  Speaker 3: We have a couple of friends here. He was the
• 1:35:21
  Speaker 3: best man at my wedding, Brian Cox. He's also one
• 1:35:24
  Speaker 3: of my best friends from high school. And I'm so
• 1:35:26
  Speaker 3: lucky that he lives here in Nashville with his wife Hillary.
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 3: Brian and Hillary came over not the last Wednesday, and dude,
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 3: it was just awesome. We had Scarlet fully operating, had
• 1:35:42
  Speaker 3: her in bed, fed by like seven point thirty. They
• 1:35:45
  Speaker 3: come rolling in at seven thirty. I smoked like four
• 1:35:48
  Speaker 3: chickens on the Rectex smoker and we had a dinner
• 1:35:51
  Speaker 3: and we were kind of holding Scarlet at the table
• 1:35:54
  Speaker 3: and she's doing great, and she falls asleep and then
• 1:35:56
  Speaker 3: Jill ghost puts her in the crib. She doesn't make
• 1:35:59
  Speaker 3: up peep, and it's like we're living life. We're talking
• 1:36:03
  Speaker 3: with Brian and Hillary and we got the little monitor
• 1:36:06
  Speaker 3: going and we're laughing and Jill like it's just beaming
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 3: the whole dinner. The dinner setup was beautiful. We're just
• 1:36:13
  Speaker 3: making fun of shirm, off of his dad loss, of
• 1:36:16
  Speaker 3: that week, of how what a shit show I was
• 1:36:19
  Speaker 3: to my wife Jill and Hillary. Brian's wife is just
• 1:36:24
  Speaker 3: dying laughing at the story because she knows she's known
• 1:36:27
  Speaker 3: me for a while and she's like, I'm shocked. We
• 1:36:30
  Speaker 3: were too, We were too. And we're like laughing and
• 1:36:33
  Speaker 3: there's great banter. They're telling a couple stories of oh,
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 3: well Sherman, you think that's bad, Brian did this? You know.
• 1:36:39
  Speaker 3: Me and Brian are sitting over there at the table
• 1:36:41
  Speaker 3: just taking it, taking it, and they're they're laughing. I
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 3: mean it was so much fun, dude. It was just
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 3: a great reminder of like, yes, we are in the trenches.
• 1:36:50
  Speaker 3: Yes it's hard, but God, you can still live life
• 1:36:54
  Speaker 3: and you can still do the things that you want
• 1:36:56
  Speaker 3: to do. You can still have those friendships. And it
• 1:36:58
  Speaker 3: was sick, dude. I love that. Man, a good ketch up.
• 1:37:02
  Speaker 3: It was a great catch up.
• 1:37:03
  Speaker 1: And it also reminds you of a couple two to
• 1:37:05
  Speaker 1: where it's like, we have to be intentional with our
• 1:37:07
  Speaker 1: social life.
• 1:37:08
  Speaker 3: I have to dude. Getting to talk with Brian is truly,
• 1:37:13
  Speaker 3: like I'm sure it's like with you and Nick, like
• 1:37:15
  Speaker 3: when you got on the phone with him for his birthday. Yeah,
• 1:37:18
  Speaker 3: waltzed off for fifteen minutes with my phone. That's how
• 1:37:21
  Speaker 3: it is. Every single time I talked to Brian. We're
• 1:37:24
  Speaker 3: speaking our own language almost, We're not even like and
• 1:37:27
  Speaker 3: it's dude, that is so cathartic in itself and kind
• 1:37:31
  Speaker 3: of what I've been talking with with my therapist of
• 1:37:34
  Speaker 3: just like, you gotta hit all those poles, man, You
• 1:37:36
  Speaker 3: got to you gotta hit every single one of them,
• 1:37:38
  Speaker 3: all those pillars, because they're important. And that was just
• 1:37:42
  Speaker 3: a great reminder of that.
• 1:37:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and if something's going on, it's like you checking
• 1:37:46
  Speaker 1: in on what these pillars are?
• 1:37:47
  Speaker 2: Like, where have I not filled the cup up?
• 1:37:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I love that.
• 1:37:51
  Speaker 2: Man. That's a good crack, A cold one.
• 1:37:52
  Speaker 3: It was a good one. It was a good one.
• 1:37:55
  Speaker 3: I have a great what are the odds this week?
• 1:37:57
  Speaker 3: If you want me to jump into that, go ahead, Okay,
• 1:38:00
  Speaker 3: what are the odds? Now? This one is a more
• 1:38:03
  Speaker 3: serious one, and I don't mean that in a bad way.
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 3: I just mean that it carries like a heavier topic.
• 1:38:09
  Speaker 3: But this one came in from Instagram. He did say
• 1:38:11
  Speaker 3: that we could use his name. His name's Ethan Lawn. So,
• 1:38:15
  Speaker 3: first off, thank you for dming me Ethan. Secondly, he said, sure,
• 1:38:20
  Speaker 3: I need some help. I'm already the loving father to
• 1:38:24
  Speaker 3: a beautiful four year old girl and a two year
• 1:38:26
  Speaker 3: old boy. Congrats, Ethan. Both of my children have been
• 1:38:30
  Speaker 3: born by sea section, the first medically required and the
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 3: second nine. My wife and I have been struggling to
• 1:38:37
  Speaker 3: conceive our third child for the past year, and we
• 1:38:40
  Speaker 3: recently discovered that we are pregnant with our third Let's go,
• 1:38:44
  Speaker 3: come on. We are still very early in what I
• 1:38:47
  Speaker 3: consider the anxious phase. However, for this third kiddo, my
• 1:38:51
  Speaker 3: wife wants to undergo a vaginal birth. So and this
• 1:38:55
  Speaker 3: is after two SEA sections, So after two C sections,
• 1:39:00
  Speaker 3: I need some help from you guys and the community.
• 1:39:03
  Speaker 3: How do I best support her? What do I need
• 1:39:05
  Speaker 3: to know? What do I need to ask our provider?
• 1:39:09
  Speaker 3: I'll admit thus far I have not done a great
• 1:39:11
  Speaker 3: job supporting her wishes because he's probably a little nervous,
• 1:39:14
  Speaker 3: and I get that, but I want to do better.
• 1:39:18
  Speaker 3: If you could shoot this out to Papa Team six
• 1:39:20
  Speaker 3: and MIL Team six community, I would greatly appreciate it.
• 1:39:23
  Speaker 3: Cannot wait for the next episode to drop, so to
• 1:39:28
  Speaker 3: get bring this into what are the odds? Shout out
• 1:39:31
  Speaker 3: FanDuel and I'll start with this and then we can
• 1:39:33
  Speaker 3: break down however we want to answer this. There are
• 1:39:37
  Speaker 3: sixty to seventy five percent successful vaginal verse And when
• 1:39:42
  Speaker 3: I mean successful, I don't mean unsuccessful like the bad unsuccessful.
• 1:39:47
  Speaker 3: I just mean that they had to go to a
• 1:39:49
  Speaker 3: C section. But they're sixty to seventy five percent of
• 1:39:53
  Speaker 3: females that have had two C sections that their third
• 1:39:56
  Speaker 3: one is a vaginal birth, So the chances are are high.
• 1:40:01
  Speaker 3: It's something that can be done. So I just want
• 1:40:04
  Speaker 3: to start with that and lay that out and then
• 1:40:06
  Speaker 3: we can answer this question. However, so will what what
• 1:40:10
  Speaker 3: would we say to to our friend Ethan as far
• 1:40:13
  Speaker 3: as just like that support side of things, because we
• 1:40:16
  Speaker 3: are no medical experts at all on this matter.
• 1:40:19
  Speaker 2: Where did you find the data and the research? You
• 1:40:22
  Speaker 2: just kind of google and.
• 1:40:24
  Speaker 3: Through chat GBT and they cited.
• 1:40:27
  Speaker 2: Right the links that you can click onus.
• 1:40:30
  Speaker 3: Number one.
• 1:40:30
  Speaker 1: I think that's a good pool. It's like if that
• 1:40:32
  Speaker 1: was going on with me and I was nervous and
• 1:40:34
  Speaker 1: I was worried, I would very much be diving into
• 1:40:37
  Speaker 1: those WebMD rabbit holes on what this could look like.
• 1:40:41
  Speaker 1: I would say number one, again, express your concern to
• 1:40:45
  Speaker 1: your wife. Not concerned in a way to where you're
• 1:40:47
  Speaker 1: resistive to it, but just say, hey, I'm down to
• 1:40:50
  Speaker 1: support you. I'm down to do whatever you want to do.
• 1:40:52
  Speaker 2: Sweetheart.
• 1:40:53
  Speaker 1: If a vaginal birth is what is something that you
• 1:40:55
  Speaker 1: want to do, Listen, I'm on board. Here's where I
• 1:40:58
  Speaker 1: get nervous. But again, maybe it's my ignorance. I don't
• 1:41:01
  Speaker 1: know a whole lot of data on it. I'm just
• 1:41:02
  Speaker 1: nervous that since we had to do a medical one first,
• 1:41:05
  Speaker 1: we did it the second we did a C section.
• 1:41:07
  Speaker 1: The second time, I'm just nervous about what that looks like.
• 1:41:09
  Speaker 1: And maybe I just need to do a better job
• 1:41:11
  Speaker 1: of diving in the information. Maybe wife already has right
• 1:41:15
  Speaker 1: to where she feels comfortable enough to do it, And
• 1:41:17
  Speaker 1: I think what the stuff that you pulled to is
• 1:41:20
  Speaker 1: is good data as well. To me, it's always going
• 1:41:23
  Speaker 1: to come down fellas every couple and everybody knows this,
• 1:41:28
  Speaker 1: but it's always going to come down to communication.
• 1:41:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know.
• 1:41:31
  Speaker 1: How to support, Like, if you're on board, you're going
• 1:41:33
  Speaker 1: to know how to support what you get on board.
• 1:41:35
  Speaker 1: The thing that you don't want to do is you're
• 1:41:38
  Speaker 1: just figuring out a way to support get on board
• 1:41:41
  Speaker 1: by suppressing whatever your worries and concerns are in anxiety.
• 1:41:46
  Speaker 1: So the first big thing for me would be like, hey,
• 1:41:49
  Speaker 1: you feel comfortable to express in a very in a
• 1:41:54
  Speaker 1: very like constructive way, like how you're feeling about the
• 1:41:58
  Speaker 1: whole thing because you're you know, the men if you listen,
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  Speaker 1: if you have a good marriage going on, Dad's men,
• 1:42:03
  Speaker 1: you guys are part of the equation too.
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  Speaker 3: It's coming from a place of love. Is coming from.
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  Speaker 1: Love, Yeah, absolutely, So that would be more so if
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  Speaker 1: I had, like, you know, non expert advice. Is I
• 1:42:16
  Speaker 1: love that you're on board, get fully on board, you
• 1:42:18
  Speaker 1: know how to support it. Sounds like you know how
• 1:42:19
  Speaker 1: to support how to get on board, but don't do
• 1:42:21
  Speaker 1: it at the expense of suppressing whatever your worries and
• 1:42:24
  Speaker 1: anxieties are, because I would say, Hey, whatever you're feeling like, bro,
• 1:42:27
  Speaker 1: share it with your wife.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure she'd love to have.
• 1:42:29
  Speaker 1: A conversation with She might be nervous too. Maybe she
• 1:42:32
  Speaker 1: in her mind's thinking I've done a couple of C
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  Speaker 1: sections in a row.
• 1:42:35
  Speaker 2: Who knows whatever outside noise or outside.
• 1:42:37
  Speaker 1: Influences that she could be subconsciously putting on herself to
• 1:42:42
  Speaker 1: feel like she has to do a vaginal birth. Yeah,
• 1:42:44
  Speaker 1: maybe it's something she fully wants to do and is
• 1:42:48
  Speaker 1: on board about it and doesn't have to think twice.
• 1:42:49
  Speaker 1: But maybe she's also nervous and just feels like this
• 1:42:53
  Speaker 1: is the route she has to do. You have no
• 1:42:54
  Speaker 1: clue unless you communicate with your wife.
• 1:42:56
  Speaker 3: It's a great point, and to speak on it because
• 1:43:00
  Speaker 3: we are not professionals. We're not telling the wife or
• 1:43:03
  Speaker 3: Ethan either way to go on this right with like
• 1:43:07
  Speaker 3: they are doing whatever they're gonna do. What we can
• 1:43:10
  Speaker 3: say to Ethan because he did say in the DM recently,
• 1:43:13
  Speaker 3: I've done a poor job of supporting her in this.
• 1:43:18
  Speaker 3: If you have done a poor job, Ethan, and maybe
• 1:43:20
  Speaker 3: there were some hurt feelings on wife's end of things
• 1:43:23
  Speaker 3: of he's not supportive, I would also with the communication
• 1:43:28
  Speaker 3: try to show her that, hey, maybe I didn't communicate
• 1:43:31
  Speaker 3: it well, but just to know that those words were
• 1:43:34
  Speaker 3: coming from a place of love and worry for my
• 1:43:37
  Speaker 3: wife's health and safety, my baby's health and safety. I
• 1:43:40
  Speaker 3: love you to death, and I'm team wife, I'm team baby,
• 1:43:44
  Speaker 3: and let's let's get this thing whatever.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, to do absolutely no, that's a great that's a
• 1:43:48
  Speaker 1: great opinion on it. That's great perspective on it too,
• 1:43:51
  Speaker 1: because if it's like I've done a poor job, all
• 1:43:53
  Speaker 1: we can do is assume yes, on what this conversation is. Yes,
• 1:43:57
  Speaker 1: if you assume that there's been a poor job, how
• 1:43:59
  Speaker 1: do I sup poor? Then my assumption would be the
• 1:44:03
  Speaker 1: conversation probably came up and you guys got into a
• 1:44:06
  Speaker 1: conversation or debate or whatever it was, to where it
• 1:44:09
  Speaker 1: feels like you're sitting on opposite sides of the table,
• 1:44:12
  Speaker 1: whereas yeah, kerfuffle to where you want her to know
• 1:44:14
  Speaker 1: this is coming from a place of love to do that.
• 1:44:16
  Speaker 1: It's like, how do you go from sitting on opposite
• 1:44:18
  Speaker 1: sides of the table to sitting next to her on
• 1:44:21
  Speaker 1: the table and hurt with you as well? Yeah, cause
• 1:44:24
  Speaker 1: again I I don't know. All I can do is
• 1:44:26
  Speaker 1: assume like she could have fears as well. I don't
• 1:44:29
  Speaker 1: know that she's not communicating.
• 1:44:31
  Speaker 3: And dude, after you're done having that conversation, slipper, slipper
• 1:44:36
  Speaker 3: some cold hard cash. Enough with the venmos slipper, some
• 1:44:39
  Speaker 3: cold hard cash, and say, hey, the two little guys,
• 1:44:43
  Speaker 3: I got him for the next how many ever hours?
• 1:44:46
  Speaker 3: Have fun? Yeah, go get your go, get your nails done,
• 1:44:49
  Speaker 3: go get your hair done, do whatever. And just in
• 1:44:52
  Speaker 3: that conversation with that and just be like, I love you,
• 1:44:56
  Speaker 3: I support you, and if I hurt you, wasn't my attention.
• 1:45:00
  Speaker 3: And also treat yourself.
• 1:45:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, not if I hurt you.
• 1:45:06
  Speaker 3: Not if I hurt you, that's a good call.
• 1:45:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can see I hurt you and that was
• 1:45:10
  Speaker 1: not my intention at all. The best thing you can
• 1:45:12
  Speaker 1: do leading into a conversation like that is completely anchor
• 1:45:16
  Speaker 1: where you were wrong and like exactly like you can
• 1:45:20
  Speaker 1: even go into an exaggeration mode of I've truly I've
• 1:45:23
  Speaker 1: done a very poor job of communicating this topic and conversation.
• 1:45:26
  Speaker 1: Thank you for saying like I've done brutal. My egos
• 1:45:28
  Speaker 1: got in the way when you brought this up. My
• 1:45:30
  Speaker 1: worried side came out and I more so lashed out
• 1:45:33
  Speaker 1: at you on why it shouldn't be happening, but we
• 1:45:36
  Speaker 1: need to be sitting next to each other. And I
• 1:45:38
  Speaker 1: honestly I did a very bad job because I can
• 1:45:40
  Speaker 1: see that how I came off it could have hurt
• 1:45:42
  Speaker 1: your feelings. Again, I don't know what their conversation was,
• 1:45:45
  Speaker 1: I can see that it hurt your feelings. And then
• 1:45:47
  Speaker 1: I did an even poor job because I'm getting my
• 1:45:49
  Speaker 1: heels in the sand even more in the ground, even
• 1:45:51
  Speaker 1: more on defending like what I want to see when
• 1:45:54
  Speaker 1: I need to this needs to be we're on the
• 1:45:56
  Speaker 1: same team.
• 1:45:56
  Speaker 3: We're on the same team. And that is a good
• 1:45:59
  Speaker 3: reminder too, because we talked about like what a full
• 1:46:01
  Speaker 3: hearted apology looks like, and it's so true.
• 1:46:05
  Speaker 2: Don't ruin an apology with an excuse.
• 1:46:07
  Speaker 3: Don't and the I'm sorry I made you feel. I
• 1:46:11
  Speaker 3: know we're rehashing something, but oh man, it sucks to
• 1:46:14
  Speaker 3: hear that. I'm sorry if I made you.
• 1:46:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yikes, Yeah, you just completely own it. Go into
• 1:46:21
  Speaker 1: full accountability mode.
• 1:46:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:46:23
  Speaker 1: Uh, should we get to should we get to the
• 1:46:25
  Speaker 1: call ins? We do have a survival Kitten Dad Dad hack.
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  Speaker 1: to go to uh Kwiko.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it does need to go to Kiwik. Yeah, we
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  Speaker 3: little panda bear here. His name's Poppy. Does that one
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  Speaker 3: has a name.
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  Speaker 2: But let me open them up.
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  Speaker 3: Let's feel how soft these things are. No name, This
• 1:49:42
  Speaker 3: one comes nameless. But what was that one? You said?
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  Speaker 3: This one right here look like the wind play lab.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we got another episode before the Dad's coming out tomorrow,
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  Speaker 1: and we're just playing with this wind play lab.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, y'all go ahead, y'all, go ahead. We can't
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  Speaker 3: figure out this wind tunnel. This one's from zero to
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  Speaker 3: two months. This one's called Let's bond You got your
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  Speaker 3: little tummy time. Scarlett is just past two months, so
• 1:51:19
  Speaker 3: this is gonna be perfect for her. Looks like a
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  Speaker 3: lot of different things that she can kind of like
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  Speaker 3: explore and learn with her hands. I know Jill's super
• 1:51:27
  Speaker 3: big on that. We're starting to take the mittens off
• 1:51:29
  Speaker 3: of Scarlet, letting her touch and feel and let's see
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  Speaker 3: I thought that was super sick.
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  Speaker 2: the weekend, we're gonna actually week I'm gonna get her
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  Speaker 2: operating on this twelve plus months. We're gonna start problem solving.
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  Speaker 3: That's gonna be. It's gonna be problems. This was all
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• 1:53:13
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  Speaker 1: Let's get back to the episode. Go shop kiwik Let's
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  Speaker 2: Gotta keep it under Uh.
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  Speaker 3: I went to one and I think one. I think chocolate.
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  Speaker 2: Obviously we want to get into doing more.
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  Speaker 1: But I think we had a lot of comments at
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  Speaker 1: the top of the episode two that we touched on.
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  Speaker 1: The dads, you want to be featured on the show, obviously,
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  Speaker 6: Okay, mister white Chocolate, Will Sarm. This is Tier one,
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  Speaker 6: mister white Chocolate speaking. Today is my daughter's birthday. She
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  Speaker 6: is now a teenager. It's gonna be some rough and
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  Speaker 6: tough years coming for you boys, coming up soon, so
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  Speaker 6: please pray for me. My question for you, guys is
• 1:54:36
  Speaker 6: what are you two looking forward to most when your
• 1:54:40
  Speaker 6: daughters become teenagers. Love you guys, can't wait to see this.
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  Speaker 1: White mister white Chocolate. Thank you for calling in. Man,
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  Speaker 1: what a question, Ruse three. Right now, I feel like
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  Speaker 1: I don't have to think about it for another ten years,
• 1:54:57
  Speaker 1: cause those are like it's like, those are scary. I
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  Speaker 1: think of all the moments that I'm having with my
• 1:55:01
  Speaker 1: little girls right now, and it's.
• 1:55:03
  Speaker 3: Like, what if.
• 1:55:05
  Speaker 1: What if this is just the relationship for the rest
• 1:55:08
  Speaker 1: of time and there won't be those tough teenager moments
• 1:55:11
  Speaker 1: of where they don't want that anymore? But I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe I am number one.
• 1:55:17
  Speaker 1: Maybe I will be number one her entire life, over
• 1:55:20
  Speaker 1: her friends, over the you know, her love interests that
• 1:55:23
  Speaker 1: are out there.
• 1:55:24
  Speaker 3: I have my answer, what is if you? Like Jill
• 1:55:27
  Speaker 3: and I were joking about this that I was saying,
• 1:55:30
  Speaker 3: I'm actually looking forward to you those days where I
• 1:55:33
  Speaker 3: picked Scarlett up from school and there's some friend group
• 1:55:36
  Speaker 3: drama and there's no advice that dad can give her
• 1:55:39
  Speaker 3: other than just listen. Emily said, what, Oh my gosh,
• 1:55:44
  Speaker 3: And how did Rebecca respond to that? Oh? Okay, yeah, yeah,
• 1:55:49
  Speaker 3: well that makes sense because Rebecca doesn't like that. Yeah,
• 1:55:52
  Speaker 3: you can't have that no, can't have that. Oh good,
• 1:55:55
  Speaker 3: you hugged her and you told her that you loved
• 1:55:57
  Speaker 3: her and you want to be your best friend, Scarlett.
• 1:55:59
  Speaker 3: I think you can nailed that.
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  Speaker 1: Just like matter of fact, you should invite them over
• 1:56:03
  Speaker 1: for Pizza Friday. They can do a sleepover.
• 1:56:05
  Speaker 2: You guys can stay in the room, will lock the doors.
• 1:56:07
  Speaker 2: You don't have to go anywhere at nighttime Pizza Friday.
• 1:56:11
  Speaker 3: I'm thirteen. I break my heart, dude, I know we don't. No,
• 1:56:17
  Speaker 3: she will, and I'm sorry, I'm sorry I even joked
• 1:56:21
  Speaker 3: about it. Way they could come. I am looking forward
• 1:56:24
  Speaker 3: to those little like teenage girls scuffles and just trying
• 1:56:28
  Speaker 3: to trying to navigate it. And I won't know what
• 1:56:31
  Speaker 3: to do other than just listen, just listen to her
• 1:56:34
  Speaker 3: and make her feel heard and like, those are very
• 1:56:37
  Speaker 3: important stories that I need to and just learning all
• 1:56:41
  Speaker 3: the nuances of her friends so that I can be
• 1:56:44
  Speaker 3: a good wall for her to just bounce her thoughts
• 1:56:47
  Speaker 3: and emotions and stuff off of. And Jill and I
• 1:56:50
  Speaker 3: were just kind of joking about that, of like, and
• 1:56:52
  Speaker 3: Jill has no drama queen at all. She you know,
• 1:56:56
  Speaker 3: she'll tell you that, like any friend group just like,
• 1:56:59
  Speaker 3: guys have an equal amount of drama, but we're both
• 1:57:02
  Speaker 3: pretty drama free. So whenever it does come down the
• 1:57:05
  Speaker 3: pipe where I was like, oh, it's kind of some
• 1:57:08
  Speaker 3: juicya what's going on, I can get on board with that.
• 1:57:11
  Speaker 1: I feel like, as you're saying that, I feel like
• 1:57:13
  Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to the debriefs in the breakdowns with
• 1:57:18
  Speaker 1: my wife, like when you know the kiddos are, you know,
• 1:57:20
  Speaker 1: when the girls are in bed and you're kind of
• 1:57:22
  Speaker 1: talking about what you might have heard and what advice
• 1:57:25
  Speaker 1: you were given, how should we do this. I'm hearing
• 1:57:26
  Speaker 1: there's some stuff going on at school, like the debriefs
• 1:57:29
  Speaker 1: in the preparation with your wife of how you might
• 1:57:31
  Speaker 1: handle these situations. Cause it's gonna be like I feel like,
• 1:57:36
  Speaker 1: in the parents out there with teenagers or adults that
• 1:57:38
  Speaker 1: live through the teenage years, I'm sure that they'll have
• 1:57:40
  Speaker 1: some good comments about this, but I feel like it's
• 1:57:42
  Speaker 1: going to be like it's an art form in motion
• 1:57:46
  Speaker 1: when trying to prepare for whatever these conversations are, because
• 1:57:49
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm weirdly, you know, when my daughter starts to
• 1:57:53
  Speaker 1: have crushes and relationships, I'm like, you know, what what
• 1:57:57
  Speaker 1: could be knocking on my door on some of these
• 1:58:00
  Speaker 1: evenings coming up.
• 1:58:01
  Speaker 2: Oh, what young boys are gonna be asking?
• 1:58:04
  Speaker 1: Oh you'll be asking permission to take my daughter on
• 1:58:08
  Speaker 1: a date, Yes, sir, and keeping that standard tour, it
• 1:58:11
  Speaker 1: doesn't create the friction with your girl, with your daughter.
• 1:58:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a song and dance.
• 1:58:15
  Speaker 1: I'm like, uh, weirdly like looking forward to like which
• 1:58:20
  Speaker 1: one of these? Well, and our dad which one of
• 1:58:22
  Speaker 1: these slappies?
• 1:58:23
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, our dad brains. It's gonna be like you're
• 1:58:26
  Speaker 3: gonna go up to Charlie, you know, how's blah blah blah.
• 1:58:29
  Speaker 3: She seemed upset. Well, Lindsay borrowed another one of Ruth's
• 1:58:32
  Speaker 3: tops and she hasn't given it back yet. Oh, well,
• 1:58:36
  Speaker 3: is she gonna call Lindsay and get it back?
• 1:58:38
  Speaker 2: No?
• 1:58:38
  Speaker 3: Will, She can't do that because Ruth got cheer Captain
• 1:58:41
  Speaker 3: Lindsay Dinnitt. She's upset about that. Oh okay, yeah, you're right. Yeah,
• 1:58:45
  Speaker 3: that's a good I'll call Steve right now. Don't get
• 1:58:50
  Speaker 3: that popped up back. No you can't.
• 1:58:52
  Speaker 2: You can't go over her, you can't go around her.
• 1:58:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't do that because then Lindsay's gonna do
• 1:58:57
  Speaker 3: this because Lindsay has a crush on Brian. You know,
• 1:59:00
  Speaker 3: Brian has a crush on Rue, And it's just the
• 1:59:01
  Speaker 3: whole thing.
• 1:59:02
  Speaker 2: Does Ru have a crush on Brian?
• 1:59:04
  Speaker 3: Well, you know whenever I bring up Brian, she gets
• 1:59:07
  Speaker 3: a little bashroom and gets a little red in the cheeks.
• 1:59:09
  Speaker 2: But I don't know, that's it, sticky, That's what I
• 1:59:14
  Speaker 2: don't feel prepared for stuff like that.
• 1:59:16
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. I'm gonna have zero click. That's
• 1:59:19
  Speaker 3: just where Dad shuts up and just sits back and
• 1:59:22
  Speaker 3: watches gold.
• 1:59:23
  Speaker 1: Number one needs to be how do we how do
• 1:59:24
  Speaker 1: we get this friendship aligned? Because that's potential problems just
• 1:59:28
  Speaker 1: waiting and stewing, and.
• 1:59:29
  Speaker 3: My brain goes exactly where you are of like have
• 1:59:32
  Speaker 3: her over for pizza Friday. But they used to love
• 1:59:35
  Speaker 3: that when they were kids.
• 1:59:38
  Speaker 5: Will you need to start working on your dad?
• 1:59:41
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 1:59:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 1:59:42
  Speaker 5: When you don't and you know, it's like this is
• 1:59:45
  Speaker 5: gone out of your wheelhouse, you go.
• 1:59:47
  Speaker 2: Huh, it's gonna be a good looks.
• 1:59:53
  Speaker 3: And you let me know because I want to help, honey,
• 1:59:55
  Speaker 3: you just let me know what I need to do.
• 1:59:57
  Speaker 3: I'm on standbio.
• 1:59:58
  Speaker 1: So you're telling me Rue who is upset because she
• 2:00:01
  Speaker 1: didn't get invited to the movies.
• 2:00:03
  Speaker 3: Well, yeah, so it's Lindsay, it's Rachel, it's Chelsea, it's
• 2:00:07
  Speaker 3: that all that group of girls that she went to
• 2:00:09
  Speaker 3: summer camp with and they've just been hanging out a
• 2:00:11
  Speaker 3: whole lot and they, I don't know, real didn't get
• 2:00:14
  Speaker 3: the invite.
• 2:00:15
  Speaker 2: We could do pizza Friday at the house.
• 2:00:18
  Speaker 3: Well it doesn't work like that.
• 2:00:21
  Speaker 2: You're telling me she's upset that Charlie won't go with
• 2:00:25
  Speaker 2: her to the dance and she's torb about that. Is
• 2:00:28
  Speaker 2: she seeing the status that Charlie's putting up on Friday nights?
• 2:00:31
  Speaker 2: He's the backup, running.
• 2:00:32
  Speaker 3: Back pulled this Charlie kid up. Does he have one
• 2:00:35
  Speaker 3: of those Facebook? No, they don't have Facebook. He has
• 2:00:37
  Speaker 3: TikTok bro he has eighty thousand followers. Well he's kind
• 2:00:40
  Speaker 3: of viral.
• 2:00:41
  Speaker 2: He might have an eight thousand followers.
• 2:00:43
  Speaker 3: But he can't. He can't.
• 2:00:44
  Speaker 1: He can't have a four yard run to save his life.
• 2:00:49
  Speaker 1: She'll just have her.
• 2:00:50
  Speaker 2: We're just watching film a so you're in love with
• 2:00:52
  Speaker 2: this Charlie guy.
• 2:00:54
  Speaker 3: You're breaking down film with the love interest. Let's see
• 2:00:57
  Speaker 3: how Let's see how you think Charlie's a tough guy.
• 2:00:59
  Speaker 1: Let's see how he responds in the A gap here.
• 2:01:03
  Speaker 1: This is the guy you want to you want to
• 2:01:05
  Speaker 1: attach your attached the wagon to.
• 2:01:07
  Speaker 3: You see the third and long blitz there, Honey, you
• 2:01:09
  Speaker 3: see how he looks like he's in a blender. He's
• 2:01:12
  Speaker 3: bouncing around.
• 2:01:13
  Speaker 1: Let me talk to you about Tony over here, the quarterback.
• 2:01:15
  Speaker 1: I mean, he's get some looks from from D one schools.
• 2:01:18
  Speaker 1: He's only a sophomore.
• 2:01:19
  Speaker 3: Oh, dad, Tony's not hot. He may not be hot,
• 2:01:22
  Speaker 3: by honey. It's about the heart. Yeah, it's about the heart.
• 2:01:26
  Speaker 3: But dude, I'm stoked for that type of stuff once
• 2:01:29
  Speaker 3: they're like developing that socio you know, like uh whatever,
• 2:01:36
  Speaker 3: like just those friend groups and navigating it and.
• 2:01:40
  Speaker 1: The One Tree Hill drama. Yes, dude, the One Tree Hills, Smallville.
• 2:01:45
  Speaker 3: I rock them all.
• 2:01:46
  Speaker 2: Dude.
• 2:01:47
  Speaker 3: The drama in those TV shows. And I'm not saying
• 2:01:49
  Speaker 3: every girl is girl live teenage girl thing is drama filled.
• 2:01:54
  Speaker 3: I hope it doesn't sound that way, but I just
• 2:01:56
  Speaker 3: know that like in their world it is though, yeah,
• 2:02:00
  Speaker 3: and it is important and it's like a big deal
• 2:02:02
  Speaker 3: to them. And I remember when my dad would get
• 2:02:06
  Speaker 3: a friend's name wrong, dude. Oh, that used to bug me,
• 2:02:10
  Speaker 3: Like I have this best friend named James, and I
• 2:02:14
  Speaker 3: couldn't tell if he was like doing it to me
• 2:02:16
  Speaker 3: on purpose to like mess with Meania, when's Josh coming over? Dad, James,
• 2:02:21
  Speaker 3: James is coming over.
• 2:02:23
  Speaker 6: I know that.
• 2:02:24
  Speaker 3: I know that there's a guy at our high school
• 2:02:27
  Speaker 3: named Cole Lofton and he always called them Cole Laughlin.
• 2:02:31
  Speaker 3: Drove me nuts, drove me nuts, And so I'm like
• 2:02:35
  Speaker 3: in my brain, you got name right. I gotta get
• 2:02:37
  Speaker 3: all of her girlfriend's names right, I got you.
• 2:02:40
  Speaker 2: Know, I'm ready to do like the.
• 2:02:44
  Speaker 1: Like the dumb dad step over the line stuff like, Hey,
• 2:02:48
  Speaker 1: what's going on?
• 2:02:49
  Speaker 2: Is it something? Are you doing? The is this? You
• 2:02:53
  Speaker 2: get the period now?
• 2:03:03
  Speaker 3: Mom told me something's going on this. Mom told me
• 2:03:09
  Speaker 3: something's going on this week. I just want you to
• 2:03:12
  Speaker 3: it's just making no eye contact. Yeah, just once. You know,
• 2:03:15
  Speaker 3: if you need ice cream, if you need extra movie time,
• 2:03:21
  Speaker 3: you can do that. Actually, I gotta go downstairs in
• 2:03:24
  Speaker 3: their privacy. Doctor.
• 2:03:25
  Speaker 1: Mama, you kind of have one of the milestone deals
• 2:03:27
  Speaker 1: in your life. You know, I'm not too familiar with
• 2:03:30
  Speaker 1: that stuff. I'm sure Mom tells you a lot of
• 2:03:31
  Speaker 1: good things. You know, whatever you need from me, just
• 2:03:34
  Speaker 1: let me know.
• 2:03:35
  Speaker 3: I'm here for you, you beautiful young lady, just like
• 2:03:38
  Speaker 3: your mom. I don't know if that's what you want
• 2:03:40
  Speaker 3: to I don't know, honey. I love you, I love you.
• 2:03:44
  Speaker 3: I'll see you tomorrow.
• 2:03:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I can tell I'm saying a little too much
• 2:03:48
  Speaker 1: right now. I feel stupid, like just forget everything.
• 2:03:49
  Speaker 2: We just said right there.
• 2:03:50
  Speaker 3: Okay, what are we gonna do? I don't know. Man,
• 2:03:54
  Speaker 3: Oh the great question by mister white Chocolate.
• 2:03:59
  Speaker 2: You already know that's gonna be a reaction when we're frustrated.
• 2:04:01
  Speaker 3: Is this that time of the month for you right now?
• 2:04:03
  Speaker 3: Silent treatment for a week? Y oh yeah, Ruth's gonna
• 2:04:13
  Speaker 3: be like you're done, You're done. Yeah, man, scary hours, dude.
• 2:04:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's all like coming through my head right now,
• 2:04:23
  Speaker 1: like shit, and we.
• 2:04:25
  Speaker 3: Got that coming down the pipe. But the good news is,
• 2:04:28
  Speaker 3: and you you've kind of been talking about this like
• 2:04:30
  Speaker 3: all podcasts. I feel like a good lesson for us
• 2:04:35
  Speaker 3: dads is we are learning too as they are learning,
• 2:04:38
  Speaker 3: and as Rue is learning to communicate, as with Scotti
• 2:04:42
  Speaker 3: or Ruth's learning how to deal with like mom being
• 2:04:45
  Speaker 3: out of town, like Will is also learning how to
• 2:04:48
  Speaker 3: deal with Ru while mom's out of town and also
• 2:04:50
  Speaker 3: dealing how to tell Ru how to communicate with the
• 2:04:53
  Speaker 3: dog in Scotty. And same with me. I'm learning how
• 2:04:57
  Speaker 3: to show Jill that I am capable of her being
• 2:05:01
  Speaker 3: out of town. Yeah, and so yes, that stuff scares
• 2:05:04
  Speaker 3: the shit out of me. But I'm also like this
• 2:05:07
  Speaker 3: old dog can learn new tricks. I'm learning and maybe, hey,
• 2:05:11
  Speaker 3: it does, you know, take me to go crazy and
• 2:05:16
  Speaker 3: you know, make a mistake here or whatever and like
• 2:05:19
  Speaker 3: to learn a lesson. But we're gonna be fine because
• 2:05:22
  Speaker 3: you care. Because you care, and you want to be intentional.
• 2:05:26
  Speaker 1: You don't want to be the guy who kind of
• 2:05:27
  Speaker 1: steps off, you know, fades into the fades into.
• 2:05:31
  Speaker 2: The shadows, falls back. You want to be on the
• 2:05:32
  Speaker 2: front lines with your wife.
• 2:05:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, learning and immersing yourself into stuff, because I can
• 2:05:37
  Speaker 1: only hope we're sitting here ten years later, and I'm like, boys,
• 2:05:45
  Speaker 1: pop a Team six My daughter just turned thirteen, and
• 2:05:51
  Speaker 1: here's the situation, and I gotta be careful because my
• 2:05:55
  Speaker 1: roo could listen to this stuff. Oh yeah, but I
• 2:05:57
  Speaker 1: gotta tell you I got a relationship with the PT
• 2:05:59
  Speaker 1: sixers out there community, and I'm gonna.
• 2:06:01
  Speaker 2: Need some help.
• 2:06:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, honey, you don't. You don't want me talking about
• 2:06:06
  Speaker 3: you making the cheer team. I won't talk about making
• 2:06:08
  Speaker 3: the cheer team. I'm brody. I just love you and
• 2:06:12
  Speaker 3: your mama was a cheerleader. You're a cheerleader. I love it.
• 2:06:16
  Speaker 3: You start crying. Yeah, you're always crying, Dad quick crying
• 2:06:20
  Speaker 3: on the podcast. My friends keep pulling it up. Yeah, gole, Yeah,
• 2:06:26
  Speaker 3: I know it's gonna be interesting.
• 2:06:28
  Speaker 2: All these moments on the Internet that they will have
• 2:06:30
  Speaker 2: access to.
• 2:06:33
  Speaker 3: He's just gonna make you a legend. If anything.
• 2:06:37
  Speaker 1: Should imagine the first time my daughter comes across me
• 2:06:41
  Speaker 1: with my pants off doing a case race.
• 2:06:45
  Speaker 3: As Darth mauls with Darth Maul face paint, and honey,
• 2:06:51
  Speaker 3: there's this great talking about I just want to shake
• 2:06:53
  Speaker 3: the uber guy's hand. I just want to shake his hand. Honey.
• 2:06:56
  Speaker 3: There's this burner account on Twitter. It's called Will Compton's
• 2:06:59
  Speaker 3: Bowl gen It's actually in reference to that moment. Yeah,
• 2:07:03
  Speaker 3: he's a great fault.
• 2:07:04
  Speaker 2: You know it's not your father, but you were going
• 2:07:07
  Speaker 2: to see some stuff on the internet.
• 2:07:10
  Speaker 3: By then, AI will be so crazy you can kind
• 2:07:12
  Speaker 3: of might spins on it. Are they making those with something?
• 2:07:18
  Speaker 3: Are they making those about your dad again? I can't believe.
• 2:07:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah was a real honey, Yeah, hey die like yeah, hey,
• 2:07:28
  Speaker 3: that touchdown the ice scord as a wide receiver in
• 2:07:30
  Speaker 3: the NFL. That's real.
• 2:07:31
  Speaker 2: That's yeah.
• 2:07:34
  Speaker 3: Great call in. Did you have a lesson or a quote?
• 2:07:38
  Speaker 3: I do?
• 2:07:39
  Speaker 1: If not, go ahead, okay, cool, Like I could muster
• 2:07:43
  Speaker 1: one up, I can, I could find one. But dude,
• 2:07:45
  Speaker 1: take the floor. Bro, this is We've been going for.
• 2:07:47
  Speaker 3: A good amount.
• 2:07:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, a good amount.
• 2:07:49
  Speaker 3: Okay, So going into this quote, I've always had a
• 2:07:54
  Speaker 3: good relationship with Will's stepdad Cody, but him coming in
• 2:07:59
  Speaker 3: town for Jill's birthday, it has been incredible. The girls
• 2:08:04
  Speaker 3: went out and left the house last night, her mom
• 2:08:07
  Speaker 3: and Jill to go to Home Goods, Shout out Home Goods,
• 2:08:11
  Speaker 3: and baby scarscar was by herself with the boys, Me
• 2:08:15
  Speaker 3: and Cody. We got to watch Baker Mayfield perform a
• 2:08:19
  Speaker 3: miraculous comeback on Monday night football, and Cody and I
• 2:08:23
  Speaker 3: are jumping up, we're standing up, we're clapping, We're like
• 2:08:27
  Speaker 3: we browed out. It was really kind of the first
• 2:08:29
  Speaker 3: time of us browing out so much fun to brag
• 2:08:33
  Speaker 3: on him. Super interesting guy, very interesting guy, doesn't have
• 2:08:38
  Speaker 3: like the college education that most have of like, you're
• 2:08:42
  Speaker 3: no business savvy entrepreneurs, but he's a self made man,
• 2:08:45
  Speaker 3: blue collar man, owns a ton of companies, have sold
• 2:08:49
  Speaker 3: a ton of companies. And I feel like every single
• 2:08:52
  Speaker 3: time I'm around him, I'm learning something new, but he's
• 2:08:55
  Speaker 3: never trying to teach me anything. Jill has his surprise
• 2:08:58
  Speaker 3: birthday part or not surprise birthday, has a thirtieth birthday
• 2:09:01
  Speaker 3: party coming up, and it's kind of last second. We're
• 2:09:04
  Speaker 3: throwing stuff together. We're trying to figure out how to
• 2:09:06
  Speaker 3: do it in the front yard, and Cody's like, oh, sureman,
• 2:09:10
  Speaker 3: I'll go to home depot and get a couple two
• 2:09:12
  Speaker 3: by tens and some two by fours. I'll set up
• 2:09:14
  Speaker 3: two pillars. We'll get the twinkle lights going from that
• 2:09:18
  Speaker 3: oak tree y'all got in the front yard, throw some
• 2:09:20
  Speaker 3: duct tape on it, kind of get it right there.
• 2:09:23
  Speaker 3: It's just all those little, like nuanced moments. I'm like, dude,
• 2:09:26
  Speaker 3: you're such a legend. So just getting to know him
• 2:09:29
  Speaker 3: better and getting to learn stuff from him has been fun.
• 2:09:31
  Speaker 3: This was my favorite quote that came from dinner. We
• 2:09:35
  Speaker 3: were talking about things that we wanted to instill in Scarlet.
• 2:09:39
  Speaker 3: And I'm sitting there going, oh, I want her to
• 2:09:41
  Speaker 3: have a part time job in high school. My parents
• 2:09:43
  Speaker 3: were big on that. I want her to have that,
• 2:09:46
  Speaker 3: and I want, you know, really want to try to
• 2:09:48
  Speaker 3: do this, try to do that. And he came in
• 2:09:50
  Speaker 3: with this and said, it took me a while to
• 2:09:52
  Speaker 3: learn this as a parent, but it ain't about fixing
• 2:09:55
  Speaker 3: the shit that was wrong with you and your childhood.
• 2:09:58
  Speaker 3: That's a different human or sorry, it ain't about fixing
• 2:10:02
  Speaker 3: the shit that was wrong with you and your kid.
• 2:10:07
  Speaker 3: That's a different human, that's a different story. Be better
• 2:10:11
  Speaker 3: than what came before you, like your parenting and right
• 2:10:16
  Speaker 3: whatever parenting wrongs were done to you, but don't try
• 2:10:19
  Speaker 3: and force your kid to be someone that they're not.
• 2:10:22
  Speaker 3: And I just thought that that was a banger little
• 2:10:24
  Speaker 3: lesson from Cody of like, tell me the first ten
• 2:10:28
  Speaker 3: years he was just everything that he saw wrong in
• 2:10:31
  Speaker 3: himself and didn't want his son to you know, do
• 2:10:34
  Speaker 3: he just riding them, riding them, riding them. And he
• 2:10:36
  Speaker 3: was like, yes, he's my son, he's my namesake, but
• 2:10:41
  Speaker 3: he's not me, and he's not gonna automatically want to
• 2:10:45
  Speaker 3: lean towards these mistakes and blah blah blah. I just
• 2:10:49
  Speaker 3: thought that that was a cool message. Yeah, I love that.
• 2:10:52
  Speaker 1: I feel like I come across quotes like that on
• 2:10:55
  Speaker 1: Instagram where it's like the fears and the insecurities that
• 2:10:58
  Speaker 1: you have will show up in your kids' life if
• 2:11:00
  Speaker 1: you're not, you know, looking at yourself and fixing yourself.
• 2:11:03
  Speaker 3: But you're right.
• 2:11:03
  Speaker 2: I love that quote. Yeah, I love that quote.
• 2:11:06
  Speaker 1: I feel like it's going to be that's such a
• 2:11:08
  Speaker 1: song and dance for parents, because again, it's like all
• 2:11:11
  Speaker 1: you know is your experiences and what you have done
• 2:11:13
  Speaker 1: in the past and things that you might have hated
• 2:11:16
  Speaker 1: that you might be lashing You might not know it,
• 2:11:18
  Speaker 1: but you might be lashing out and doing certain things
• 2:11:20
  Speaker 1: and setting certain examples to where Yeah, I feel like
• 2:11:23
  Speaker 1: if you don't check yourself and ask like, what's the
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  Speaker 1: principle behind this? Like, what's the actual goal is it?
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  Speaker 1: No matter what I'm going to they're going to have
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  Speaker 1: a responsibility, like a part time job in high school.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like on paper that sounds amazing. It's like,
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  Speaker 1: but I have no clue what life is going to
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  Speaker 1: look like when she is a teenager when she is
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  Speaker 1: at that age. Yes, because you feel like it's a
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  Speaker 1: good responsibility and it's a great principle to teach at
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  Speaker 1: a young age, but making sure you're doing it through
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  Speaker 1: the right lessons and teaching the right things and guiding
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  Speaker 1: them that way to put that responsibility on them instead
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  Speaker 1: of like, you know, you're just saying, this is how
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  Speaker 1: it's going to be, and as long as you're under
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  Speaker 1: my roof, you go by my rules, you have a
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  Speaker 1: job because you're it's like you're just saying that because
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  Speaker 1: there's not a lot of context or teaching or lessons
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  Speaker 1: that you're trying to give them through what you learned
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  Speaker 1: by addressing whatever your insecurities or fears.
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  Speaker 3: Are and whatever learning lesson you're trying to instill in
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  Speaker 3: them with the part that just for example, that's example,
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  Speaker 3: will hang on, Yeah it is. Maybe Scarlett is a
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  Speaker 3: thespian and takes theater super serious. An actress in stage theater,
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  Speaker 3: it's like musicals and stuff, and she's taking that super serious,
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  Speaker 3: and she's traveling and doing these shows and like the
• 2:12:35
  Speaker 3: hard work and dedication that she's doing to like memorizing
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  Speaker 3: her lines, showing up early to rehearsals, being the last
• 2:12:42
  Speaker 3: one to leave from rehearsals. Like, that's the same thing
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  Speaker 3: as what the part time job would instill, right, yeah, Like, hey,
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  Speaker 3: you are being held accountable. People are relying on you
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  Speaker 3: to perform at a high level, and you're doing everything
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  Speaker 3: to prepare for it. And I'm so proud of you.
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  Speaker 3: You're doing such a great job with like and yes,
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  Speaker 3: it's not a part time job. She's in you know,
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  Speaker 3: the musical whatever. Yeah, but it's the same thing.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like that's really good man, yestly, I think
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  Speaker 1: that's really good because to me, like what it comes
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  Speaker 1: down to is uh commitment, Like what are you going
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  Speaker 1: to be committed to beyond going to school from eight
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  Speaker 1: in the morning to three in the afternoon. Yeah, and
• 2:13:25
  Speaker 1: whatever that is, I don't that's again as you observe
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  Speaker 1: and see your kid and see your teenage or whatever
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  Speaker 1: that is. I know, like in my mind, it's just like, uh,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna have a commitment to to excellence somewhere whatever
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  Speaker 1: that might be.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe it's in the arts, maybe it's in.
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  Speaker 3: Athletics, it's video games, yeah, yeah, streaming. Imagine with this
• 2:13:51
  Speaker 3: day and age, I'm like it could it could truly
• 2:13:53
  Speaker 3: be anything.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah if you look at.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you look at when you listen to Nick Merch's story,
• 2:13:57
  Speaker 1: I'm busting with the boys. Yeah, because that it's like
• 2:13:59
  Speaker 1: a wrestling family. So I see like whit dad was
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  Speaker 1: the way he was. My dad was kind of the
• 2:14:04
  Speaker 1: same way with me, And I can imagine the friction
• 2:14:06
  Speaker 1: that'd come up if like, hey, I want to be
• 2:14:07
  Speaker 1: a video gamer and everything else. But to me, it's like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: what is your what's the commitment looking like.
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  Speaker 2: For your kid?
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  Speaker 1: Because again, you want them committed to something because at
• 2:14:19
  Speaker 1: one point or another, man it's like mom and Dad's
• 2:14:21
  Speaker 1: not going to be there forever. Yep, Mom and Dad's
• 2:14:24
  Speaker 1: not going to be there. If you go to college, Mom, dad's.
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  Speaker 3: Not going to be there.
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  Speaker 1: When you're in the real world and making your own decisions,
• 2:14:29
  Speaker 1: and it's like, what fundamentals and what principles and lessons
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  Speaker 1: are you leaning on that we taught you at a
• 2:14:34
  Speaker 1: young age, whether it's a part time job, whether it's
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  Speaker 1: you taking theater very seriously like you, I want my
• 2:14:40
  Speaker 1: kid to understand what commitment looks like so that way
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  Speaker 1: you're not surprised and caught off guard when life doesn't
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  Speaker 1: go your way one day, because it's not going to
• 2:14:47
  Speaker 1: life's not going to go your way.
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  Speaker 3: And what powerful lessons on the theater example of not
• 2:14:55
  Speaker 3: memorizing your lines. You're on stage in front of hundreds
• 2:14:58
  Speaker 3: of people and you don't know your lines. You froze
• 2:15:01
  Speaker 3: in front of everybody. You'll never want to feel that again.
• 2:15:04
  Speaker 3: And like being able to then in those moments in
• 2:15:07
  Speaker 3: their world who they are be able to find those
• 2:15:11
  Speaker 3: learning lessons of Hey, we'll get it right. We're gonna
• 2:15:15
  Speaker 3: go through your lines again. Let's practice your lines here
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  Speaker 3: at home. We're gonna get this thing straightened out.
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  Speaker 2: In the personal story, hey you don't think your old
• 2:15:21
  Speaker 2: man was embarrassed, Like, let me show you Thanksgiving game.
• 2:15:23
  Speaker 1: Dallas Cowboys twenty and sixteen two misstackles on Ezekiel Elliott.
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  Speaker 3: They go down to.
• 2:15:28
  Speaker 1: School right in my face, like sweet, I, yeah, we
• 2:15:33
  Speaker 1: know what embarrassment looks like. And it's like pulling those
• 2:15:34
  Speaker 1: stories to level with them and just you know, let
• 2:15:36
  Speaker 1: them know, Hey, this isn't gonna be the first time
• 2:15:38
  Speaker 1: you're embarrassed. It's not gonna be the last time you're embarrassed.
• 2:15:40
  Speaker 1: What matters is how you respond to how you're feeling
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  Speaker 1: right now.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, that's so great. And I showed them the uh
• 2:15:48
  Speaker 3: for listeners from last week. I showed them the bar
• 2:15:51
  Speaker 3: soap clip and he goes, yeah, man, hell yeah, man.
• 2:15:56
  Speaker 3: Only way to teach them that fire hurts is let
• 2:15:58
  Speaker 3: them put their hand in there. Yeah, I've told you
• 2:16:00
  Speaker 3: not put your damn hand in there.
• 2:16:02
  Speaker 1: And so we ran the We ran the campfire clip. Yeah,
• 2:16:05
  Speaker 1: oh I love that. Yeah, it's a good clip.
• 2:16:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we played the clip. I'm pretty sure love it
• 2:16:10
  Speaker 3: or we if it hasn't gone out yet, it will,
• 2:16:13
  Speaker 3: you know how the brain's fleeting.
• 2:16:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, great episode. Hope you guys all enjoyed it.
• 2:16:18
  Speaker 1: Pop a team six. Keep doing your thing, man, keep
• 2:16:20
  Speaker 1: leading from the front, keep asking question, just keep engaging
• 2:16:23
  Speaker 1: with us. This community is incredible. We truly love it
• 2:16:25
  Speaker 1: and we are We're grateful. Man, this has been awesome.
• 2:16:29
  Speaker 1: Bet six out, make sure the trash is taken out,
• 2:16:31
  Speaker 1: and let's have a hell of a weekend.
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  Speaker 2: Go big Red, Go big Red.
• 2:16:34
  Speaker 1: Before we go, I'm sorry, we're not We're not gone yet, Durem.
• 2:16:37
  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, so sorry.
• 2:16:39
  Speaker 3: No, and you're totally fine. I apologize because this has
• 2:16:41
  Speaker 3: been sitting by me. I teased it earlier. This is
• 2:16:44
  Speaker 3: our Wayfair giveaway. Derek did a great job going through
• 2:16:48
  Speaker 3: all the submissions that we have for the two hundred
• 2:16:50
  Speaker 3: and fifty dollars gift card from Wayfair. If I could
• 2:16:53
  Speaker 3: get a quick drum roll, please, it will be going
• 2:16:58
  Speaker 3: to Gauge. Shot out Gauge, Gauge bombing dude. Tons of
• 2:17:04
  Speaker 3: cool stuff on Wayfair. We already talked about the memorial
• 2:17:08
  Speaker 3: plaque over there. We got the Baylor thing hanging up
• 2:17:11
  Speaker 3: above me. A ton of tailgate of Central guys. We're
• 2:17:14
  Speaker 3: talking full on grills on wayfair dot com. They have
• 2:17:18
  Speaker 3: everything from grills, memorabilia, anything for game day. They got sofas,
• 2:17:24
  Speaker 3: they got lamps, they got all types of stuff.
• 2:17:28
  Speaker 2: Wayfair's got it, baby, Wayfairs got it. Shout out Gauge.
• 2:17:30
  Speaker 1: Congratulations brother, they're a great job going through, sort through everybody.
• 2:17:34
  Speaker 2: We'll have more giveaways in the future.
• 2:17:36
  Speaker 3: That's for the dads, for you. Take out the trash.