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Ep 36 | Critical Thinking in a World That Rewards Certainty · Amazing Life Breakthrough

• 0:06
  SPEAKER_00: Have you noticed how confident everyone sounds lately?
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  SPEAKER_00: Not confident as in calm and grounded, confident as in certain, certain they're right, certain they've got the full story, certain the other side is clueless, certain the facts are on their side, even when they haven't actually looked.
• 0:24
  SPEAKER_00: And that's what I want to talk about today, because I think one of the biggest things we're missing in our day and age is critical thinking.
• 0:33
  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to Amazing Life Breakthrough.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm Steve Klein, and today is a short episode, but it might save you a lot of frustration, and honestly, it might save you some relationships too.
• 0:47
  SPEAKER_00: Let me start with something simple.
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  SPEAKER_00: Critical thinking isn't a personality trait, it's a discipline.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's the ability to say, before I adopt this belief, before I repeat this claim, before I take a strong stance, I'm going to slow down and ask, what do I actually know?
• 1:05
  SPEAKER_00: How do I know it?
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  SPEAKER_00: And what would change my mind?
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm not saying this from a distance.
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  SPEAKER_00: My career was in high tech.
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  SPEAKER_00: And in that world, critical thinking isn't optional, it's survival.
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  SPEAKER_00: In tech, you don't get to feel your way into reality.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can't just say, Well, I'm pretty sure this is how it works, because the system will prove you wrong immediately.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when I was working in the medical field in high tech, the stakes were even higher.
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  SPEAKER_00: Lives were literally connected to whether systems worked correctly.
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  SPEAKER_00: You had to know what was true, and you had to know it now.
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  SPEAKER_00: You had to keep learning.
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  SPEAKER_00: New tools, new processes, new methods year after year.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes 40 hours of training a year, sometimes closer to 100 when you add the real on-the-job learning.
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  SPEAKER_00: That experience trains something into me.
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  SPEAKER_00: Reality doesn't bend to my certainty.
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  SPEAKER_00: Facts don't care how strongly I feel.
• 2:00
  SPEAKER_00: Now zoom out to everyday life.
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  SPEAKER_00: What do we see?
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  SPEAKER_00: We see people arguing passionately about things they don't really understand.
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  SPEAKER_00: We see people repeating headlines instead of reading details.
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  SPEAKER_00: We see the modern version of this, someone holding a sign, protesting something.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you ask a couple basic questions, what's the issue specifically?
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  SPEAKER_00: What does this policy actually say?
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  SPEAKER_00: What are you hoping changes?
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  SPEAKER_00: And sometimes they can't answer.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not always, but often enough that it's worth noticing.
• 2:30
  SPEAKER_00: And here's another thing we're seeing more and more.
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  SPEAKER_00: When someone has shown they're wrong, they don't adjust, they double down.
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  SPEAKER_00: There used to be a phrase, not even that long ago, people called it fessing up.
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  SPEAKER_00: It meant you could look down a little embarrassed and say, Well, I guess you're right, or wow, I didn't know that.
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  SPEAKER_00: You just opened my eyes.
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  SPEAKER_00: That moment right there is integrity.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not perfection, integrity.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because integrity is when you care more about what's true than about winning.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I think one reason critical thinking is disappearing is because being wrong feels socially dangerous.
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  SPEAKER_00: People feel like if I admit I'm wrong, I lose status, I lose face, I lose credibility.
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  SPEAKER_00: But the opposite is actually true.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you can admit you're wrong, you gain credibility.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because you signal something rare, my identity isn't trapped inside this opinion.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let me offer a simple breakthrough for today.
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  SPEAKER_00: Critical thinking is humility in motion.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's the willingness to update your beliefs when the facts don't support your argument.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if the facts aren't supportive, then the honest response isn't to bury your head in the sand and pretend those facts aren't true.
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  SPEAKER_00: The honest response is to say, okay, I need a new perspective.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, I want to make this practical because this can easily turn into a rant, and I don't want that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Here are three small shifts you can start using immediately.
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  SPEAKER_00: First, separate I heard from I know.
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  SPEAKER_00: A lot of confusion comes from treating secondhand information like firsthand knowledge.
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  SPEAKER_00: So before you repeat something, try saying, even to yourself, do I know this or did I hear this?
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  SPEAKER_00: That one question lowers the temperature and raises your accuracy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Second, ask one honest question before you take a strong stance.
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  SPEAKER_00: You don't need a PhD to think critically.
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  SPEAKER_00: You just need one honest question like, what's the source?
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  SPEAKER_00: What's the counterpoint?
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  SPEAKER_00: What would prove me wrong?
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  SPEAKER_00: What am I missing?
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  SPEAKER_00: That question doesn't make you weak, it makes you wise.
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  SPEAKER_00: Third, practice the lost art of fessing up.
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  SPEAKER_00: Make it normal in your own life to say, I was wrong.
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  SPEAKER_00: I didn't know that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Thanks for correcting me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm changing my mind.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you do that, you become the kind of person others can trust because they know you're not performing.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're learning.
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  SPEAKER_00: And here's something I've noticed.
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  SPEAKER_00: Closed-mindedness usually isn't an intelligence issue.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's an ego issue.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's the fear that being wrong means being less valuable.
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  SPEAKER_00: But being wrong is just part of being human.
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  SPEAKER_00: The real question is, are you the kind of person who can learn?
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  SPEAKER_00: So here's your simple listener challenge today.
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  SPEAKER_00: Pick one topic you felt emotionally charged about lately.
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  SPEAKER_00: Doesn't matter what it is.
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  SPEAKER_00: Before you talk about it again, do a two-minute critical thinking check.
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  SPEAKER_00: What do I actually know for sure?
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  SPEAKER_00: What's my best source?
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  SPEAKER_00: And what's one detail that I might not know yet?
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you discover you were off just a little, practice the strongest sentence a person can say, I was wrong.
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  SPEAKER_00: Thanks for helping me see it.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's not losing, not at all.
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  SPEAKER_00: In fact, that shows you're growing.
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• 5:54
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• 6:02
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• 6:15
  SPEAKER_00: And I want to say thanks for spending this time with me on Amazing Life Breakthrough.
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  SPEAKER_00: And remember to live life to the fullest.