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- 0:00Speaker 1: Welcome to the Trauma Theapists podcast. My name is Gymickferson.
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- 0:15Speaker 1: So five four, three, two and one, our folks, welcome
- 0:20Speaker 1: back to the podcast. Very excited to have as my
- 0:23Speaker 1: guest today, Doctor Ishan Shivenon. Ishan, welcome, Thank you so
- 0:28Speaker 1: much for having me. You're welcome. So. Doctor Schivenon was
- 0:32Speaker 1: born into an ancient lineage of yogi's is spanning twenty
- 0:35Speaker 1: one generations, and spent the first twenty years of his
- 0:38Speaker 1: life in a Himalayan monastery. He's a spiritual innovator, coach,
- 0:42Speaker 1: and founder of Yoga of Immortals, a modern practice grounded
- 0:46Speaker 1: in authentic Yogic tradition. You combine science, storytelling, and spirituality
- 0:52Speaker 1: to help individuals and organizations manage burnout, enhance performance, and
- 0:56Speaker 1: cultivate inner balance. His work spans wellness, corporate training, Plan three,
- 1:02Speaker 1: and global community building with a mission to uplift millions
- 1:05Speaker 1: through compassionate practical spirituality. Yishan, Welcome to the podcast. Before
- 1:11Speaker 1: we get going share with our listeners where you're from
- 1:14Speaker 1: originally and where you are currently.
- 1:18Speaker 2: So presently I'm in Texas, Austin. I had to do
- 1:24Speaker 2: some work in training and educating people on the benefits
- 1:29Speaker 2: of meditation and how we can use technological support to
- 1:33Speaker 2: enhance the quality of meditation. So we were working on
- 1:37Speaker 2: some things on that.
- 1:38Speaker 3: And originally I grew up in India in the monastery.
- 1:43Speaker 3: It's in Rajasthan, so it would be the western part
- 1:48Speaker 3: of India.
- 1:49Speaker 2: And then I moved to Mauritius, which is Africa. So
- 1:54Speaker 2: I spent about seven years there and after reach in
- 1:59Speaker 2: twenty I moved to the United States for conducting research
- 2:04Speaker 2: on mental health.
- 2:07Speaker 1: Okay, that's kind of a good segue here, So how
- 2:10Speaker 1: does all this start for you? I mean in terms
- 2:14Speaker 1: of growing up in a monastery, living in a monastery,
- 2:21Speaker 1: and getting to the point where you're in Austin, Texas,
- 2:25Speaker 1: teaching educating people about the benefits of yoga and meditation. Simply,
- 2:32Speaker 1: how did that start for you?
- 2:37Speaker 2: So when I was in the monastery, I got to
- 2:43Speaker 2: help a certain type of people. These people were very
- 2:47Speaker 2: self motivated. So if you come seeking out a monastery
- 2:50Speaker 2: and you want to learn. Then half of the battle
- 2:55Speaker 2: is already done. You have already resolved most of your traumas,
- 2:58Speaker 2: your issues, and now you are just looking for a way.
- 3:03Speaker 2: And such a person you provide a nudge and they
- 3:07Speaker 2: end up finding inner peace. They were ready, they were thirsty,
- 3:12Speaker 2: looking for water. And then when I came out of
- 3:16Speaker 2: the monastery, I started to meet normal people, so to speak.
- 3:22Speaker 2: I realized that so much of the world were in
- 3:26Speaker 2: denial about the problem being their own mental health, and
- 3:33Speaker 2: even when I tried to teach them, it was very
- 3:35Speaker 2: difficult to reach to them with whatever modality I was offering.
- 3:43Speaker 2: So I realized, I must do something that can take
- 3:46Speaker 2: away the friction that comes between the merrytator and the
- 3:53Speaker 2: meditator meditation guide. Until that friction is removed, help cannot
- 4:01Speaker 2: be provided. And at the same time, I wanted to
- 4:04Speaker 2: see what is the extent of benefits that these ancient
- 4:10Speaker 2: yogic modalities can provide to the world, Because every time
- 4:17Speaker 2: I would see somebody from West would come and just
- 4:20Speaker 2: take a very small aspect, very small aspect of Asian traditions,
- 4:26Speaker 2: the healing modalities, and then somehow they would become huge
- 4:32Speaker 2: in the world when they will be presented in a
- 4:35Speaker 2: certain manner, and that make me really appreciate these Asian
- 4:40Speaker 2: healing modalities, the native medicines, the Indian knowledge systems, because
- 4:44Speaker 2: I started to see there is not just the personal
- 4:48Speaker 2: benefit value in it. Maybe there is value enough that
- 4:54Speaker 2: there can be nation building with these modalities, and that
- 4:59Speaker 2: was what excited me on the prospect of research number one,
- 5:05Speaker 2: how to breach the gap between the patient and the
- 5:10Speaker 2: care facilitator, and second to see the extent of benefits
- 5:16Speaker 2: that can be provided to the world based on these
- 5:20Speaker 2: integative health care modalities.
- 5:24Speaker 1: Thank you for that. So initially you said when you
- 5:27Speaker 1: were in the monastery, you were experiencing people coming to
- 5:35Speaker 1: you or the monastery, and you said they had done
- 5:39Speaker 1: a lot of most of the work. Explain that why
- 5:44Speaker 1: had it been that those people coming had done most
- 5:47Speaker 1: of the work understanding their own traumas For example.
- 5:54Speaker 2: There is a cycle when it comes to trauma. Times
- 6:01Speaker 2: people will take that situation and build over it, not
- 6:10Speaker 2: realizing that the foundation of the structure that we have
- 6:13Speaker 2: built there is some rot. Insight, but human beings are
- 6:19Speaker 2: very resilient. They learn to live with disabilities, may be
- 6:27Speaker 2: physiological or emotional or mental and many times they become
- 6:34Speaker 2: at ease with the situation they are in. I have
- 6:39Speaker 2: seen people be at ease in a toxic relationship, people
- 6:44Speaker 2: be at ease with their own inability to form meaningful
- 6:50Speaker 2: relations I have seen people in a comfort zone. But
- 6:55Speaker 2: then something changes inside and that is the biggest change.
- 7:01Speaker 2: I call it the Eureka movement. When the thought starts
- 7:04Speaker 2: to come I deserve better. A person can live a
- 7:09Speaker 2: lifetime and such a thought may not come inside them.
- 7:14Speaker 2: And this thought that I deserve better, it makes us
- 7:17Speaker 2: do wonderful things. And we need to believe this. We
- 7:21Speaker 2: need to accept this I deserve better. If it is
- 7:24Speaker 2: just superficial that thought, then I won't take an action.
- 7:31Speaker 2: But these people, they have sat with this thought that
- 7:34Speaker 2: I deserve better. That thought has made them go on
- 7:37Speaker 2: a quest. And when they go on that external quest
- 7:42Speaker 2: looking for something, they are almost always ready to go
- 7:46Speaker 2: on an internal quest. And this small thought can take lifetimes.
- 7:56Speaker 2: And that's why I'm saying. Those people who have come,
- 7:59Speaker 2: they've all to come with that self respect. They've already
- 8:03Speaker 2: come with that thought that yes, I deserve something. I
- 8:07Speaker 2: want something, and in my mind I have it. Now
- 8:11Speaker 2: I just need to find a path to it, so
- 8:14Speaker 2: that generally looking for a path, so they have that
- 8:18Speaker 2: mental resilience because just taking that step, mister guy, and
- 8:23Speaker 2: going somewhere like this, it requires extreme courage. And if
- 8:31Speaker 2: they can present it, then they are ready. Yes, agree
- 8:36Speaker 2: that saying that when the student is ready, the master appears.
- 8:41Speaker 2: What it actually saying is it is only when the
- 8:44Speaker 2: student is ready really search for the master. Say that again,
- 8:51Speaker 2: when the student is ready, only then he will open
- 8:55Speaker 2: his eyes to the master. Search the master. Otherwise who cares?
- 9:01Speaker 1: How how did someone like yourselfishad, who was in a
- 9:06Speaker 1: monastery for twenty years? How do you? How do you
- 9:10Speaker 1: get out? How do you leave? When? When is the
- 9:13Speaker 1: time to leave?
- 9:17Speaker 2: So with me, there were fantastical incidences that occurred if
- 9:23Speaker 2: I look at the previous generations. So my father, he
- 9:28Speaker 2: wasn't born in the monast He was chosen as an
- 9:34Speaker 2: eight year old, so he was a child was growing
- 9:38Speaker 2: up in being impoverished in an India that was broken
- 9:44Speaker 2: and dividing and still coming out from the traumas and
- 9:48Speaker 2: wounds of colonial rule. So at that time he was
- 9:52Speaker 2: the eighth son, the youngest of a widow. So at
- 9:58Speaker 2: that time monks could come and recruit boys into the order.
- 10:06Speaker 2: So my father was chosen. But this lineage, in this lineage,
- 10:13Speaker 2: you can be a family man, a householder, provided your
- 10:17Speaker 2: whole family becomes part of the order and starts to practice.
- 10:24Speaker 2: So when the time came, my father did marry, and
- 10:28Speaker 2: he chose to raise a family in the monastery. And
- 10:32Speaker 2: if things would have happened in a perfect world, I
- 10:38Speaker 2: would never have had exposure of the outside world. I
- 10:41Speaker 2: would never have come out. I was so happy. I
- 10:44Speaker 2: was content, Or you could say I did not know
- 10:49Speaker 2: any better, because how can I seek that which I
- 10:52Speaker 2: do not know? So in the book, I talk about
- 10:56Speaker 2: a sequence of events that happened. First, my father took
- 11:02Speaker 2: a choice that he was ready to teach the ways
- 11:05Speaker 2: of the monastery to outsiders, something that has not done
- 11:09Speaker 2: been done for hundreds of years. And those outside elders
- 11:13Speaker 2: would come. I would listen to stories of the world,
- 11:18Speaker 2: and to a young boy, those stories create desire because
- 11:23Speaker 2: they would talk about simple things, maybe for a normal person,
- 11:28Speaker 2: but to meet you know, the first time I remember
- 11:30Speaker 2: somebody said that there is a sixteen wheeler tuck or
- 11:35Speaker 2: some multiple wheels, and I was dumbfounded. How can something
- 11:41Speaker 2: had so many wheels because in my head the maximum
- 11:44Speaker 2: I could conjure is a four wheeler, a two wheeler,
- 11:47Speaker 2: sixteen wheels, and I dad dreamed for weeks thinking how
- 11:54Speaker 2: that thing would look like. So these stories inspired me.
- 11:58Speaker 2: And then there was a cataclysm flood that destroyed the monastery,
- 12:03Speaker 2: which made us all relocate to the boundaries of a city.
- 12:12Speaker 2: So then I got to see more things, and not
- 12:16Speaker 2: always there was all. There was disgust, and there was love,
- 12:21Speaker 2: and there was ownership. After some time that okay, the
- 12:24Speaker 2: world is much bigger than the small place, and like
- 12:27Speaker 2: you have ownership towards the monastery, and you want to
- 12:30Speaker 2: make pretty flowers, pretty trees, make it your own. Then
- 12:34Speaker 2: the desire started to come. This world is mine and
- 12:38Speaker 2: I must make it better. So, yes, the sequence of
- 12:42Speaker 2: event does happen. Some things are in your control. And
- 12:46Speaker 2: then sometimes it is Destiny who wings and nods and says,
- 12:52Speaker 2: let me see what I can do with his life.
- 12:54Speaker 2: So I would say I'm a product of both free
- 12:57Speaker 2: will and the universe having a good day.
- 13:01Speaker 1: Let me just remind everyone I'm speaking with Ishan Shivanan.
- 13:05Speaker 1: His book is called the Practice of Immortality Amongst God
- 13:08Speaker 1: to discovering your unlimited potential for health, happiness and positivity. Shan,
- 13:15Speaker 1: I want to get a little more clarity on I mean,
- 13:18Speaker 1: not every monk writes a book. Not every monk comes
- 13:22Speaker 1: to the West and shares their wisdom and educates. What
- 13:29Speaker 1: was it about you? What did you feel? What did
- 13:32Speaker 1: you see where you're like, I want to start sharing this.
- 13:35Speaker 1: I want to start maybe helping other people. What was that?
- 13:38Speaker 1: Talk to us about that?
- 13:42Speaker 2: So as a monk, you provide theological services like a clergy.
- 13:49Speaker 2: So in the Eastern traditions, your life is intertwined with
- 13:56Speaker 2: a sense of spirituality. So the Sanatan culture from where
- 14:01Speaker 2: I come from, there is birth a very important time.
- 14:05Speaker 2: Then there are sixteen times in your life and a
- 14:08Speaker 2: child is born, when you buy a house, when you die.
- 14:13Speaker 2: That is when you have that monk in your life
- 14:20Speaker 2: and they help you in theology and not just that.
- 14:22Speaker 2: There are other practices also that the monk teaches. There
- 14:26Speaker 2: are so you have to understand India being a culture
- 14:33Speaker 2: that is thousands of years old, certain traditions act like
- 14:39Speaker 2: cognitive behavioral therapist or psychologist or psychiatrists to the population.
- 14:46Speaker 2: So I come from such a tradition that believed in
- 14:52Speaker 2: health education and my job, the job that I was
- 14:58Speaker 2: doing as the monk was prati presso so trauma release.
- 15:02Speaker 2: Pati pressor is a certain technique, a modality where you
- 15:07Speaker 2: go through your own emotions, and it's the most important
- 15:11Speaker 2: modality that you have to do. It's Buddha did it,
- 15:14Speaker 2: he called it, and he talked about it as Jata Katayan.
- 15:19Speaker 2: The great monk Mahabi did it. He called it Jati's
- 15:22Speaker 2: muran and the same as Pati presser. That you can't
- 15:25Speaker 2: live with that trauma. And it's important because imagine if
- 15:28Speaker 2: you're going into a marriage, then the monk says you
- 15:32Speaker 2: must do preti pressa because you can't go in a
- 15:34Speaker 2: marriage with old baggage. Or if you're having a kid,
- 15:37Speaker 2: you must meditate because if you are carrying the generational traumas,
- 15:41Speaker 2: then it's going to be hard. So that was my job.
- 15:44Speaker 2: I would do parti pressor for all the people of
- 15:47Speaker 2: the order, and I would teach them and I would
- 15:50Speaker 2: do things with them. But I was very localized. I
- 15:53Speaker 2: was talking to people who look like me. I was
- 15:55Speaker 2: talking to people who work of the same faith, of
- 15:58Speaker 2: the same culture, and just doing it as something that
- 16:03Speaker 2: need to be done. But it was around twenty fifteen
- 16:07Speaker 2: when I moved to Africa, and in Mauritious Africa, it
- 16:13Speaker 2: is like United States but a bit better, as in
- 16:18Speaker 2: it is probably one of the only cultures where so
- 16:23Speaker 2: many groups have assimilated together. So there is the Creole population,
- 16:28Speaker 2: the Caucasian population, the South Asian population, the Asian population,
- 16:33Speaker 2: every single demographic on one island. They have a very
- 16:38Speaker 2: strong and robust economy. They have things like universal healthcare,
- 16:43Speaker 2: and the crime rates are extremely low, so it's very
- 16:49Speaker 2: It's like utopia heaven on earth. And I was there
- 16:54Speaker 2: and at the same time this place being such a
- 16:57Speaker 2: magnificent place, the government being wrong and the people being
- 17:03Speaker 2: having everything, there was still an rising issue of cases
- 17:10Speaker 2: of mental health problems with the youth. So it was
- 17:15Speaker 2: at that time that I myself had a son, and
- 17:18Speaker 2: because I had a son, I wasn't traveling much, so
- 17:21Speaker 2: I couldn't do my work as the clergy, as the
- 17:24Speaker 2: chaplain of my community because I'm in this new place.
- 17:28Speaker 2: And then it was at that time the Education Department
- 17:32Speaker 2: approached me. They had these radical ideas which are not
- 17:37Speaker 2: radical now. In fact, they were pioneers at that time
- 17:40Speaker 2: that they want to bring integrative health care to the youth,
- 17:45Speaker 2: where they want to use ancient modalities like yoga meditation
- 17:49Speaker 2: so that the root cause of mental health problems can
- 17:54Speaker 2: be sorted out. And they understood that at least the
- 17:58Speaker 2: people that I was dealing with at that time, they
- 18:00Speaker 2: were highly educated and they saw the value in it
- 18:03Speaker 2: that we need to change the lifestyles of these kids.
- 18:08Speaker 2: So when I went into the room these schools that
- 18:11Speaker 2: were given to me, these universities, I found a very
- 18:14Speaker 2: mixed up of various children, demographics, cultural backgrounds, religious backgrounds, languages,
- 18:24Speaker 2: and I found that I was not at all prepared
- 18:27Speaker 2: for the challenge. These are all new people. And as
- 18:30Speaker 2: I said, I was used to dealing with a certain
- 18:33Speaker 2: group of people that were just so happy to be
- 18:36Speaker 2: in my presence and just teach what I have to
- 18:38Speaker 2: set And I was like the Guru, and there were flowers,
- 18:41Speaker 2: and I was elated by just breathing. You know, I
- 18:46Speaker 2: just had to show up and there would be people
- 18:50Speaker 2: falling over me. And here I am sitting with lousy
- 18:53Speaker 2: teenagers who are ready to throw at me rotten tomatoes.
- 18:57Speaker 2: So it was a very good experience, and I really
- 19:00Speaker 2: had to dig deep to reach their hearts, and that
- 19:06Speaker 2: was a challenge I was willing to accept. And over
- 19:10Speaker 2: periods of time, years upon years, university after university, school
- 19:14Speaker 2: system after school system, you realize that there is this
- 19:19Speaker 2: change that are coming in children who practice such modalities
- 19:24Speaker 2: versus the children who do not practice or do not
- 19:27Speaker 2: have access to that. And then it became a matter
- 19:30Speaker 2: of we need to research on what that tangible will change.
- 19:34Speaker 2: Is that if there is a benefit to that student,
- 19:37Speaker 2: that benefit cannot just be the teachers being happy that, oh,
- 19:39Speaker 2: the student is doing so well, or the child we have,
- 19:42Speaker 2: oh I am doing so well, or it just cannot
- 19:45Speaker 2: be the numbers that they are getting in their examinations.
- 19:48Speaker 2: There needs to be a proper study and such a
- 19:51Speaker 2: document needs to be presented to the various education systems
- 19:55Speaker 2: around the world that we are failing and we must
- 19:58Speaker 2: provide more tools to the children who go to the
- 20:01Speaker 2: education systems. And it is for that reason then that
- 20:06Speaker 2: escalated to now let us start to collect heart evidence,
- 20:11Speaker 2: tangible evidence on the real benefits of these modalities in
- 20:16Speaker 2: a person's life. From there it became all about research.
- 20:21Speaker 2: So progressively things changed and the thought patterns changed, the
- 20:26Speaker 2: thoughts change in a manner that the goal has always
- 20:30Speaker 2: been the same to help people, But it is just
- 20:36Speaker 2: I keep on finding new paths to reach to my goal,
- 20:41Speaker 2: and I would believe more efficient paths than the paths
- 20:45Speaker 2: I was exposed to as a child in the monastery.
- 20:50Speaker 1: Let's talk about your book, The Practice of Immortality Amongst God,
- 20:55Speaker 1: Discovering your Unlimited potential for health, happiness and positivity. Why
- 21:00Speaker 1: did you write the book.
- 21:04Speaker 2: I wrote the book because I would be presenting papers
- 21:08Speaker 2: in various universities in North America, and a lot of
- 21:11Speaker 2: the times people will ask these protocols that you talk about,
- 21:17Speaker 2: how can we practice them? How can we bring the
- 21:20Speaker 2: same magnificent results in our own life? What is the practice?
- 21:26Speaker 2: And also, people were very curious about my story because
- 21:31Speaker 2: when I was researching with a group of physicians, or
- 21:37Speaker 2: I would be working with multidisciplinary doctors, I would be
- 21:41Speaker 2: the odd one out in the room, and they would
- 21:46Speaker 2: be very curious that how you came to be. Where
- 21:51Speaker 2: do these modalities come from? Because when we talk about yoga,
- 21:57Speaker 2: every American thinks they know yoga. But if we take
- 22:01Speaker 2: that same yoga that American thinks is yoga back to
- 22:05Speaker 2: the monasteries in India, the monks will scratch their head
- 22:08Speaker 2: and say, what the hell is this? So in their head,
- 22:14Speaker 2: the American is doing something very ancient and exotic, and
- 22:22Speaker 2: you know, something that raises the Kundalini and whatnot that,
- 22:26Speaker 2: but I don't know what it is. It's is something new.
- 22:30Speaker 2: It's like it's like cuisine. You know, when you are
- 22:33Speaker 2: eating a pizza in Italy versus a piasa in New
- 22:37Speaker 2: York versus a pizza in somewhere else. It's they have
- 22:40Speaker 2: their own flavor to it. And at what point does
- 22:45Speaker 2: the pizza stop being a piecea and it becomes something
- 22:48Speaker 2: completely different, like a calzone. So what calzone is to
- 22:53Speaker 2: a pizza is what American yoga is to yoga. It
- 22:58Speaker 2: is something something that has some ingredients, but I don't
- 23:03Speaker 2: know what it is. So when I would make people
- 23:05Speaker 2: do protocols and I would call them yog but there
- 23:07Speaker 2: would be nothing like the yogu in the studios, then
- 23:11Speaker 2: people would get curious. People are curious and curious in
- 23:14Speaker 2: a good way. So that's why I wanted to write
- 23:18Speaker 2: a book. Because number one, so that they know the story,
- 23:22Speaker 2: they know some background, and they can learn my life
- 23:26Speaker 2: lessons that I learned. Plus I have an interesting life,
- 23:29Speaker 2: so I wanted to share that. But more than anything,
- 23:33Speaker 2: I wanted to share the structure in which meditation is
- 23:40Speaker 2: taught in these ancient practices, and the structure in such
- 23:45Speaker 2: a manner that it can easily be integrated with anyone
- 23:50Speaker 2: who is living a modern life. So when I wrote
- 23:53Speaker 2: the chapters of the book, after each chapter, I have
- 23:57Speaker 2: a system on a person how they can progressively start
- 24:02Speaker 2: to merit it. So my promise is that anybody who
- 24:05Speaker 2: reads the book, or anyone who has the desire to meditate,
- 24:09Speaker 2: and this is the last book you ever read on meditation,
- 24:12Speaker 2: forget the story, forget the fun, forget my satire that
- 24:16Speaker 2: I put in the book. If you just focus on
- 24:18Speaker 2: the instructions that are there after each chapter, then this
- 24:22Speaker 2: is a very powerful course. And sometimes when I travel
- 24:28Speaker 2: America and I see that, you know, there are the
- 24:31Speaker 2: small courses that people teach, and they chart thousands and
- 24:34Speaker 2: thousands of dollars for it, and then even I'm thinking
- 24:38Speaker 2: I should have done that, But I didn't do that.
- 24:40Speaker 2: I just made a book, and inside that book I
- 24:43Speaker 2: put in all those systems, and that was the objective
- 24:48Speaker 2: that nobody should suffer and everybody should benefit and move
- 24:53Speaker 2: towards the higher plane of consciousness.
- 24:58Speaker 1: Obviously there are many types and for meditation, what type
- 25:02Speaker 1: of meditation are you speaking about here or teaching?
- 25:07Speaker 2: I'm talking about the foundation of meditation. When we look
- 25:13Speaker 2: at meditation, then we look at the Himalian traditions as
- 25:17Speaker 2: pioneers and why their systems are so unique because they
- 25:25Speaker 2: have had time, generations eon civilizations to practice and to
- 25:32Speaker 2: master the art, even some things as beautiful as vishad vishadiyog.
- 25:43Speaker 2: So vishadijog is this concept that this tradition has that
- 25:49Speaker 2: sorrow has the greatest power because it can lead you
- 25:55Speaker 2: to enlightenment, and the enlightenment that comes from sorrow the
- 26:01Speaker 2: process is called vishad yog. So the monks they say
- 26:06Speaker 2: that if sadness has come to your life, this is
- 26:09Speaker 2: not something to cry about, but this is something to
- 26:16Speaker 2: celebrate because in that state of sadness, the wail of
- 26:22Speaker 2: illusion in which you are living, that is broken, and
- 26:26Speaker 2: suddenly you are at this precipice, at a point of
- 26:30Speaker 2: great change and transformation. If that sadness would not have come,
- 26:37Speaker 2: this opportunity of growth would not have come. So then
- 26:41Speaker 2: the whole meditation system is that, Yes, it is sad
- 26:45Speaker 2: and unfortunate that we had to go through these sequence
- 26:50Speaker 2: of events, but it is also glorious because now that
- 26:55Speaker 2: it has happened, let us see what best we can
- 26:59Speaker 2: do with it. So these meditation systems they rely if
- 27:04Speaker 2: I just look at the structure of them, they rely
- 27:08Speaker 2: a lot on visualization, affirmation, mantra, breath work. So on
- 27:17Speaker 2: the surface you will see this awareness and this together
- 27:24Speaker 2: forms the physical structure of that meditation. But when we
- 27:31Speaker 2: start to go internal to the subtle beauty of these meditations,
- 27:37Speaker 2: they are much more profound and difficult to express in words.
- 27:43Speaker 2: It is something that a person must feel an experience
- 27:46Speaker 2: on their own.
- 27:48Speaker 1: Yes, you've talked a lot about you mentioned frequently mental
- 27:53Speaker 1: health in this interview. Here do by definition, is a
- 28:00Speaker 1: monk yourself, maybe someone who also or similarly has mental
- 28:10Speaker 1: health issues but understands how to deal with it or
- 28:17Speaker 1: manage it. Or obviously you're human beings, right among a
- 28:22Speaker 1: human being? You're not? Are you free from mental health issues?
- 28:28Speaker 2: No? Definitely not. In fact, when I would study the
- 28:32Speaker 2: history of previous monks, then there are these great monks,
- 28:40Speaker 2: and when you listen to their stories, a psychiatrist would
- 28:45Speaker 2: definitely diagnose them. There are the monk called Mirabi who
- 28:53Speaker 2: just fell in love with the concept of divinity and
- 28:56Speaker 2: devotion so much so that she could hear the divine
- 29:02Speaker 2: voices something like John of Arc but less violent. So
- 29:08Speaker 2: psychiatrists would say, this is his ophenia and just just
- 29:14Speaker 2: take all the poetry out of that story. A lot
- 29:18Speaker 2: of the monks that I lived with, the I could
- 29:23Speaker 2: say they had OCD. And they were very particular about
- 29:27Speaker 2: their practice, very particular about their discipline. So the common
- 29:36Speaker 2: world is looking at them and thinking that this is
- 29:39Speaker 2: what discipline looks like, this is what austerity looks like.
- 29:44Speaker 2: But easily this is what OCD also looks like. And
- 29:50Speaker 2: again I can look at the great test greatness of
- 29:55Speaker 2: a monk and I could make it redundant with the
- 29:59Speaker 2: diet no stick. But I believe where the monks thrive
- 30:04Speaker 2: is that they have issues, but rather than seeing that
- 30:10Speaker 2: issue as a deabilitating burden that they have to carry
- 30:16Speaker 2: somehow they have learned to make their own issue their superpowerful.
- 30:22Speaker 2: That they are different, they understand it. They are far
- 30:26Speaker 2: removed from what is considered normal in society and there
- 30:31Speaker 2: is a point that comes in the monk's life that
- 30:34Speaker 2: he sees that, Okay, I am not like everyone else.
- 30:39Speaker 2: What is it that makes me different? Now? What is
- 30:41Speaker 2: it that makes me difference? I can either live my
- 30:43Speaker 2: life crying about it, being sad about it, medicating myself
- 30:48Speaker 2: about it, or I can look at ancient systems and
- 30:55Speaker 2: traditions of people who went through the same thing and
- 30:58Speaker 2: utilize that that problem as a superpower, as a gift
- 31:06Speaker 2: from the universe. And I see this that OCD, which
- 31:10Speaker 2: would have crippled a person in the modern world, is
- 31:14Speaker 2: now making them thrive in the spiritual world so much
- 31:19Speaker 2: so that now I cannot even call it a disorder.
- 31:22Speaker 2: It is a superpower. And I think that is the
- 31:25Speaker 2: lesson that we have to learn from these people who
- 31:29Speaker 2: who choose to treat their body and mind like a temple,
- 31:34Speaker 2: and who have this love affair with themselves. And I
- 31:40Speaker 2: think that is very very important. But to answer your question, yes,
- 31:45Speaker 2: there are mental health issues, and this is the beauty
- 31:49Speaker 2: that I talked about, But there is also a dark
- 31:51Speaker 2: side about being a monk and having mental health issues
- 31:55Speaker 2: because if not given the correct teaching. Because I come
- 32:02Speaker 2: from a meditative tradition, So I had it easy. It
- 32:06Speaker 2: was all about self growth, self development and raising your consciousness.
- 32:11Speaker 2: But what if you are a monk in a religious
- 32:13Speaker 2: background and religion teaches you shame. Religion teaches you that
- 32:19Speaker 2: any problem that you're going through, it is a punishment
- 32:22Speaker 2: from the Almighty. So there has been some lack in
- 32:25Speaker 2: your prayer that you are suffering from this. So that
- 32:29Speaker 2: cycle of guilt and shame can also lead to some
- 32:33Speaker 2: form of self medication. And I see this when I
- 32:36Speaker 2: work with clergy from other faiths, that substance abuse is
- 32:40Speaker 2: a big problem because what you do with your mental
- 32:44Speaker 2: health and what you do and your own faith is
- 32:47Speaker 2: not enough. And that is where I feel that without
- 32:52Speaker 2: the meditative modalities and the wisdom that East can bring
- 32:56Speaker 2: to the table, and if it is just religion that
- 32:58Speaker 2: we are relying upon theological concepts and philosophies, then that
- 33:06Speaker 2: can spiral the mental health also to a very very
- 33:09Speaker 2: dark place.
- 33:11Speaker 1: So yes, both both the spectrums fascinating. Ishan. Again, the
- 33:17Speaker 1: book is called The Practice of Immortality. Amongst guid to
- 33:20Speaker 1: discovering your unlimited potential for health, happiness and positivity is
- 33:24Speaker 1: Sean How do people learn more about you and your book.
- 33:28Speaker 1: It's the best way.
- 33:30Speaker 2: So the book is available wherever books are available. I
- 33:36Speaker 2: was elited to know that the book is a national
- 33:38Speaker 2: bestseller now, so people around the world are enjoying the practices.
- 33:44Speaker 2: So maybe from Amazon, maybe from your local bookstore.
- 33:50Speaker 1: Can I just say that on Amazon it has almost
- 33:53Speaker 1: fifteen hundred five star ratings.
- 33:58Speaker 2: I did not know that.
- 34:00Speaker 1: Amazing anyway, so go ahead.
- 34:03Speaker 2: Yes. So if you really want to know me and
- 34:07Speaker 2: my work, practice the teachings in the book, and if
- 34:11Speaker 2: you feel you benefit and you want to reach out
- 34:15Speaker 2: to me to give gratitude or to learn more, then
- 34:18Speaker 2: you can find me on LinkedIn as well under Ishan Shewan.
- 34:23Speaker 1: Okay, we'll have all that linked up here at the
- 34:26Speaker 1: show notes page at the Trauma Therapist podcast dot com.
- 34:30Speaker 1: Is Shan amazing. You're welcome back anytime. Thank you so
- 34:34Speaker 1: much for being here.
- 34:35Speaker 2: Thank you, mister guy. It was a pleasure. In my
- 34:38Speaker 2: regards to all your listeners, Thank you.