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Self-Discipline Unleashed: Push Yourself to Achieve Unbelievable Success · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: When you make the decision to do what you want
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  Speaker 1: to do with your life, just know this, because the
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  Speaker 1: family and the friends in your life do not share
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  Speaker 1: your vision. In most cases, they will be the first
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  Speaker 1: person to try and talk you out of what you
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  Speaker 1: want to.
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  Speaker 2: Do with your life. But know this, only those.
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  Speaker 1: That can see the invisible can do the impossible.
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  Speaker 3: You have time, you have the knowledge, and the will
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  Speaker 3: power and the discipline to get it done.
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  Speaker 4: See, sometimes we can't say I can do that, But
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  Speaker 4: what we can say that it is possible that I
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  Speaker 4: can have my cream as we run to order, as
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  Speaker 4: we work on it day in and day out.
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  Speaker 5: Why is it that we don't believe in ourselves?
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  Speaker 2: As soon as.
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  Speaker 6: Things get tough in our life, we start doubting ourselves.
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  Speaker 1: We start thinking that we're not gonna make it, stressing, worrying, imagining.
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  Speaker 5: Things that may go wrong in the future.
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  Speaker 4: We need to understand the human mind is the most
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  Speaker 4: powerful tool we own, but it can also be the
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  Speaker 4: most distructive, and.
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  Speaker 7: We need to learn how to take control of the direction.
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  Speaker 5: Of our mind and our emotions.
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  Speaker 6: How bad do you want You've got to prove it
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  Speaker 6: to yourself like you want it bad.
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  Speaker 7: Enough it's gonna hurt you, not get it, and that's
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  Speaker 7: when you're gonna learn to conquer your mind.
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  Speaker 1: Your mind will no longer be able to see though,
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  Speaker 1: because you're in a heart and mine are aligned and
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  Speaker 1: now nothing can suck you.
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  Speaker 2: Heart made gemmen, And I was facing financial difficulties in
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  Speaker 2: my own life.
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  Speaker 8: I was behind on my bills and my brave and
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  Speaker 8: I'm taking them.
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  Speaker 4: You can live your pave mid.
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  Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen.
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  Speaker 5: Because it's very difficult.
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  Speaker 6: To pick myself up each day believing and I could
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  Speaker 6: do it.
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  Speaker 4: That was time that I doubted myself.
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  Speaker 2: I said, God, why is this happening to me?
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  Speaker 7: It was very hard.
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  Speaker 4: Here's what I want to say to you, for those
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  Speaker 4: of you that have experienced some hardships, don't give up
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  Speaker 4: on your dream.
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  Speaker 3: Your dream, there's a fight right around the corner.
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  Speaker 2: Just wait, and you've been.
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  Speaker 5: Alone out fight.
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  Speaker 9: It's about what you're saying to yourself.
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  Speaker 2: But it also because of work.
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  Speaker 9: So whenever I was getting beat down physically, mentally, spirits,
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  Speaker 9: whatever else going through, just saying you know, I.
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  Speaker 10: Would put you know. You can't hurt me.
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  Speaker 9: If you want to be great, you want to be bad.
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  Speaker 9: Mother Ever at which you do. You can be misunderstood
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  Speaker 9: by everybody because you're gonna be so fucking obsessed and
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  Speaker 9: so driven to get there.
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  Speaker 10: That's what it takes.
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  Speaker 2: That's true.
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  Speaker 10: It takes every second of your life. Anybody says balance, Yeah,
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  Speaker 10: balance is important for a lot of people.
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  Speaker 2: It is.
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  Speaker 10: But if you want to go to that edge where
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  Speaker 10: people do not like you, don't understand, you question everything
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  Speaker 10: you can do. You've arrived when you are misunderstood to
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  Speaker 10: the point where when people think your psycho and your
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  Speaker 10: nuts and you're this and that. Why are you in
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  Speaker 10: the fucking gym at.
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  Speaker 7: One o'clock in the good morning?
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  Speaker 10: You's got through doing an op for thirteen fourteen hours
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  Speaker 10: after ranging your school man at the gym.
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  Speaker 7: Who's wrong?
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  Speaker 9: You will never understand what is wrong with me?
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  Speaker 10: And that's why I'm so I'm glad you don't, because
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  Speaker 10: I'm in a right spot when people don't understand you anymore.
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  Speaker 10: You're in that spot of obsession and drive. But people
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  Speaker 10: have the fuse Ronald, this guy, I don't want to
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  Speaker 10: talk to you, man, because you're not gonna get it.
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  Speaker 10: Once we achieve something, we celebrate for a long years.
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  Speaker 7: Through time, and we wonder why don't I have drive anymore?
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  Speaker 7: Where's it all at?
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  Speaker 10: If you don't develop a routine of suffering, and suffering
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  Speaker 10: is not like go out and kill yourself every day.
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  Speaker 7: It's being uncomfortable that keeps you hungry every day. If
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  Speaker 7: you live in your victories for so long.
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  Speaker 10: It's saying I'm gonna go challenge myself for thirty days
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  Speaker 10: or for two weeks, or run this one marathon and
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  Speaker 10: it ends.
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  Speaker 7: I did one marathon.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 11: That's why it leaves you. It leaves you because you
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  Speaker 11: haven't set up the next obstacle. Obstacles is how you grow.
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  Speaker 11: You must continue to have friction. Friction is where growth
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  Speaker 11: is at, and no friction, there's no growth.
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  Speaker 10: You have to call yourself out. If you're fat and
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  Speaker 10: you're I want to hear that. I don't want to
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  Speaker 10: hear you tap dancing an oscar and a lot of
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  Speaker 10: people don't want to go there. They don't want to
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  Speaker 10: talk about the childhood, they don't want to talk about
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  Speaker 10: their past. They're gonna get to rout the problems and
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  Speaker 10: then they go, why are not getting better?
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  Speaker 7: Because there's a lot of shit in there.
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  Speaker 2: You haven't dealt with.
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  Speaker 10: Brother, You know, people go to the gym, like, for instance,
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  Speaker 10: going through any kind of special operation school. These people
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  Speaker 10: go to the gym, they get big, they get jacked,
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  Speaker 10: they can run fast, all that shit.
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  Speaker 7: But the only thing they're doing is they're coding over
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  Speaker 7: the mind.
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  Speaker 10: All you're doing is building a.
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  Speaker 7: Bigger, stronger quitter.
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  Speaker 10: Your mind hasn't gotten any stronger because you haven't gone
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  Speaker 10: back in there and dealt with shit. So a second
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  Speaker 10: adversity comes, like, my god, I'm so fucking fit.
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  Speaker 2: What's wrong?
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  Speaker 10: Your mind is still soft.
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  Speaker 5: You can't live very long without being injured, going through
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  Speaker 5: hurts and pains. Sometimes the wound heals up and there's
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  Speaker 5: no sign that it ever happen. But there are certain
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  Speaker 5: wounds that are so severe, a cut so deep, they
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  Speaker 5: heal up, the pain goes away, but they leave a scar.
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  Speaker 5: Scars from falling off a bike as a child, Scars
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  Speaker 5: from the surgery to remove the illness, Scars from the accident.
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  Speaker 5: There are physical scars, scars that we can see, but
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  Speaker 5: there are also invisible scars, scars that come from inner wombs,
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  Speaker 5: scarred by the divorce, scarred by what somebody said, scarred
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  Speaker 5: by mistakes that we made. So often we try to
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  Speaker 5: hide our scars. We don't see anything positive about. It
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  Speaker 5: reminds us of the hurt, the sickness, the betrayal. We
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  Speaker 5: wish they'd go away. But we need to see our
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  Speaker 5: scars in a new light.
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  Speaker 6: And that comes from just accepting yourself and actually instead
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  Speaker 6: of cursing the pain, because when you curse the pain
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  Speaker 6: and get angry at it, you just you get angry.
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  Speaker 6: Every cell of your being goes through that say angry.
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  Speaker 6: And what you want to do is just get to
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  Speaker 6: that peaceful place within yourself where you say, you know
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  Speaker 6: when you're trusting yourself. When you're trusting yourself, you're really
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  Speaker 6: trusting in the wisdom that created you. You know, and
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  Speaker 6: the wisdom that created you is infinite and it's formless,
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  Speaker 6: and so your thoughts are in that same category.
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  Speaker 2: Have thoughts that are.
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  Speaker 6: Aligned with that divine that that divine presence.
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  Speaker 2: We become what we think about.
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  Speaker 4: Focus on what you want rather than focusing on what
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  Speaker 4: you don't want.
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  Speaker 2: Who do you want to be? Why you here on
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  Speaker 2: this planet?
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  Speaker 4: You live according to the principles of love, compassion, appreciative joy,
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  Speaker 4: celebrating other people's successes. But how do you overcome hatred?
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  Speaker 4: And confusion and just having a good heart.
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  Speaker 2: Then I think that's what happened to me.
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  Speaker 4: Then I start to get clear about what I'd like
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  Speaker 4: to do and how I can be of service, how
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  Speaker 4: can I help other peoples.
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  Speaker 2: That we were wired for success. But it's how we
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  Speaker 2: relate to our experience that determines.
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  Speaker 4: Whether we're chipping away or where you know, kind of
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  Speaker 4: burying that sense of wholeness that we that we're going with.
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  Speaker 2: It's just that we forget it. We don't look inside,
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  Speaker 2: we're looking outside.
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  Speaker 4: And so unless we're still and we think about it
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  Speaker 4: and we understand that I was born with this masterpiece
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  Speaker 4: and no one can give it to me or take
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  Speaker 4: it away.
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  Speaker 2: It's an inside job. And so if I look at.
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  Speaker 4: What's right, it's it makes it makes a lot of sense.
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  Speaker 4: So it's whether you're coming from a place of scarcity
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  Speaker 4: or I would say survival mode or coming from growth mode,
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  Speaker 4: which has to do with it. Yes, I can yes
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  Speaker 4: to life, and I have the capacity and the responsibility
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  Speaker 4: to make it different or to make it make it better.
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  Speaker 4: Having that faith, that vulnerability to just see things that
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  Speaker 4: are hard to see. Got to get comfortable being uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 4: So can you handle the truth. It's a question and
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  Speaker 4: if you can't, then you if you see that, then
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  Speaker 4: you can say, well, if i'm gonna change, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 4: have to figure out how to deal with that discomfort
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  Speaker 4: until the point that I can see what I need
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  Speaker 4: to see, then I can change it. So it's the
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  Speaker 4: persistence of continuing to do something and that you can
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  Speaker 4: do it is most of the works just continuing to
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  Speaker 4: make mistakes, learn from mistakes. But the mistakes are you
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  Speaker 4: as feedback, not as I'm a failure. It's just an
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  Speaker 4: event now who we are, So.
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  Speaker 2: That error correction is really important.
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  Speaker 4: And when you can see, when you attribute it to
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  Speaker 4: something you can learn or change. Now you've got faith
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  Speaker 4: and confidence to do it, versus if you're seeing it
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  Speaker 4: like oh, I'm just not strong enough, I'm not tall enough,
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  Speaker 4: and all of that. That's just that's what I call
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  Speaker 4: a negative committee telling you you can't do anything, rather
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  Speaker 4: than saying, well, let me see when I can do
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  Speaker 4: So it's like a child learn how to walk, right,
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  Speaker 4: same thing.
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  Speaker 7: It doesn't matter how far you might rise.
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  Speaker 12: At some point you are bound to stumble because if
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  Speaker 12: you're constantly doing what we do, raising the bar if
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  Speaker 12: you are constantly pushing yourself higher higher.
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  Speaker 7: The law of averages, not to mention in the myth
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  Speaker 7: the vicarous.
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  Speaker 12: Predicts that you will at some point fall, And when
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  Speaker 12: you do, I want you to know this.
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  Speaker 7: Remember this. There is no such thing as failure.
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  Speaker 12: Failure is just life trying to move us in another direction. Now,
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  Speaker 12: when you're down there in a hole, it looks like failure.
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  Speaker 12: So this past year I had to spoon feed those
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  Speaker 12: words to myself.
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  Speaker 7: And when you're down in the hole, when that moment comes, it's.
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  Speaker 12: Really okay to feel bad for a little while, give
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  Speaker 12: yourself time to mourn what you think you may have lost.
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  Speaker 7: But then here's the key.
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  Speaker 12: Learn from every mistake, because every experience encounter, and particularly
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  Speaker 12: your mistakes, are there to teat you and force you
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  Speaker 12: and to be more of who you are.
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  Speaker 8: You know, Silicon Valley tends to be liberal. Everyone knows that,
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  Speaker 8: and the reason for that is that there's a tremendous
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  Speaker 8: number of entrepreneurs there. And entrepreneurs tend to be high
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  Speaker 8: in openness and lowering conscientiousness, so they're creative, but they're
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  Speaker 8: also willing to break rules, you know, which you kind
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  Speaker 8: of have to do often hopefully not to a criminal extent,
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  Speaker 8: but you have to well, you know, it's tricky when
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  Speaker 8: you're trying to establish something new because look at a
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  Speaker 8: company like Uber, you know, they had to bend the
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  Speaker 8: rules to be successful. And those companies that have rented
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  Speaker 8: those scooters out and put them on the streets everywhere,
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  Speaker 8: you know, they just kind of went ahead and did it.
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  Speaker 8: It's not something an orderly person would do because they'd
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  Speaker 8: ask for permission. Whereas the people who started these scooter
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  Speaker 8: rental companies just said, well, what will happen if we
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  Speaker 8: put them everywhere? And the answer was that seemed to work.
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  Speaker 8: But you know, you have to have a rule breaking
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  Speaker 8: proclivity in order to manage that. Us.
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  Speaker 13: Tree is brewal is Tree is Brual who dare to
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  Speaker 13: imagine the impossible are the ones who break all the.
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  Speaker 2: Human limitations.
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  Speaker 13: In your for a field of human and the work,
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  Speaker 13: whether science, medicine, sports, arts and technology. The names of
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  Speaker 13: the people just now I listed some of the names.
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  Speaker 13: The names of the people imagine the impossible are engraved
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  Speaker 13: in our history. By breaking the ghibits of their imagination,
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  Speaker 13: by breaking their limits of their imagine, they change. They
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  Speaker 13: change the world. You take Seed, you take Newton, you
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  Speaker 13: take Angstin, you take chand Saga. By breaking the limits
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  Speaker 13: of their imagine imagination, they change the world.