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Heaven is Luxury: Embrace Your Divine Authority as Faith-Driven CEOs · Rise and Thrive with Dr. J. Nicole Podcast

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  Good morning, good morning and welcome to Rise and Thrive with
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  Doctor J Nicole, where we are rising in faith and thriving in
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  purpose. Today's episode is going to be
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  with Alicia Bradley. Alicia Bradley is a mental
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  health expert and a premium brand strategist.
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  As a Kingdom brand architect and mental health specialist trained
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  in clinical psychology, her work equips high achieving, faith
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  driven women to refine their authority, elevate their pricing
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  and confidently walk in their divine market dominion.
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  Welcome Alicia. Yes.
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  Thank you so much for having me. It's such an honor to be here.
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  Yes, I'm so glad to have you here, and I'm glad I showed up
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  on your FYP or however you found me.
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  Yes, however that happens. And I am so glad that you're
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  here and that you can help the audience.
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  And I know your primary target is women.
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  I'm pretty sure you might have some things that men could
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  benefit from too, because we do have some men that are in the
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  Rise and Thrive community. So our conversation today is
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  going to be faith centered as well as empowering and we want
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  to inspire our listeners to also reflect and take bold action and
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  align with God's vision for their business and lives.
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  So. Amen.
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  Let's. Start here.
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  Well, Alicia, tell the folks a little bit about yourself before
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  we just dive right in. A little bit about myself.
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  Well, as you mentioned, I used to be in clinical psychology, so
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  I used to be a therapist. I worked in community mental
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  health, domestic violence. I used to be a teacher as well.
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  And then I realized, you know what, I want to be a coach.
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  I enjoy clinical psychology. I enjoyed that realm.
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  But when it came to diagnosing and, and then referring to
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  psychiatrist for medication, I just had a lot of inner
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  conflicts with that, with my faith especially.
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  So I decided to kind of do my own thing and help guide people
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  through healing in my own way. So I did that for a while and I
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  mean, I stumbled my way through that.
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  That was about 15 years ago. So I've pivoted about 15 times.
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  Every year I pivoted more and more.
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  So from there, from a more therapeutic approach to life
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  coaching. Now I have kind of somersaulted
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  my way into being a Kingdom mindset coach.
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  And now I specifically help women of faith who are CE OS,
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  help them #1 refine their brand and #2 create and sell high
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  ticket premium offers. So 10,000 to $100,000 offers.
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  I really help them curate offers that feel like there's an
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  integrity there and then they can sell them confidently.
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  Long story short, that's about me.
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  I love that though, and what I know about God is no season is
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  wasted. So even though people might have
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  thought you were hopping around, you were getting different
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  skills and all the things that you need to be able to like read
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  people and to help them to be able to do these things and to
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  coach so. So true, so true.
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  That's how he works. I've also done my share of
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  pivots because I worked in higher Ed first before becoming
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  a therapist and moving into purpose coaching, right?
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  So I could see how we could collaborate a lot in the future
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  as well. And also having the mental
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  health background. OK, so yes, you say you refer to
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  heaven as luxury, right? Can you unpack what that means
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  and how it shapes your work? Yes, I know a lot of people ask
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  that because luxury in the traditional worldly sense is
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  completely different than what I'm trying to redefine as this
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  heavenly luxury that we can all embody in our brands no matter
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  what we do. And what I mean by heaven is
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  luxury is heaven likes nothing. There's no scarcity, there's no
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  need for anything. Like it's perfection.
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  It's clear, right? Like there's, there's such
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  clarity in truth and in light in heaven and it's refined.
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  And ultimately, again, there's nothing that is lacking at all.
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  And so also there's beauty and there's order.
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  So I love that piece of it where spiritually that's how it feels,
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  but I also love how the Bible talks about heaven, like in a
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  tangible sense, like it talks about the materials, at least
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  the new heavens and the new earth, right?
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  In the new world, it talks about what heaven on earth actually
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  materially looks like. And the streets are gold and
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  there's all types of jewels and gems and stones all over the
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  place. It's clear glass everywhere.
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  I mean, it's, let me pull it up, Revelation.
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  It's Revelation 2118 to 20. Revelation 2118 to 21, it says
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  the wall was built of Jasper while the city was pure gold,
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  like clear glass. The 12 gates were 12 pearls and
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  the street of the city was pure gold, like transparent glass.
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  And it just, it dawned on me and I'm like, heaven is lavish.
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  How long like God likes lavishness, right?
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  Yeah, you know what I would like to do?
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  Put that verse in ChatGPT and tell it to make a image, to see
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  a visual of that 'cause I think that does something when we can
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  hear it, right? But like my brain, I say I hear
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  in color 'cause it, it creates pictures, but just see, see what
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  that looks like, right? I think that can bring something
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  completely different to help people understand that, right?
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  Like, and if we're in alignment with God, it's OK 'cause you
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  know, I think lavish or luxury and like Christianity, people
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  think can't coexist. Yes, absolutely.
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  I believe they can. I believe they can.
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  And it's really and truly is not about that money is evil because
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  they'll try to use the scripture, right, that says that
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  money is the root of all evil, that statement, when really, no,
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  it's what you're willing to do to get it.
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  It's about the character I positions people to be good
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  stewards, right? Like we there there is talk
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  about money in the Bible, the Proverbs 31 woman and all the
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  things she had and then also the other verses.
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  And I can't remember off top of my head where it is where it
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  talks about us having like 7 to 8 income streams, right, and how
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  we basically need to diversify our monies.
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  So it's like there is direction about money in the Bible, but
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  people pick on pick out the ones and usually how they want to.
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  Yes, yes they do, and that's religion.
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  I mean religious people for since I don't know how far back
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  totally distort what the Bible says about not only heaven but
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  luxury money, like you said, financial stewardship.
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  And I'm ahead of you because I've absolutely put in these
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  verses about heaven into ChatGPT, Bing image creator
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  specifically, and it created the most beautiful images.
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  I've made YouTube videos about them.
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  And. So I would love to share that
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  with you because yes, it's like you said, I need to see it.
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  It's one thing to hear it. I want to see what could this
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  actually look like. And it's, it's the most like,
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  it's like going to Dubai with all the gold everywhere but on
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  10,000. Listen, and I love Dubai.
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  And then, you know, the way that our brains work, when you see
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  the visual, it really can truly program you.
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  And then you see that that does something on the inside of you
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  to say, I'm getting there. I'm going to heaven, I'm going
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  to the streets of gold, and I'm going to see the pearly gates of
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  things, right? And then every piper of your
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  being goes along with it. It's like it's going to guide
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  all of your actions. Yeah, absolutely.
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  Yeah. And even though that does talk
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  about the end times and that's not something that's happening
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  in this current moment, it just gives us an idea of how God
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  thinks about what his children can access.
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  So I believe it's, it's not time limited.
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  We can access something kind of close to that now.
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  And we can create businesses that align with this experience
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  of luxury, maybe not exactly like that in Revelation, but
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  again, the experience of clarity, of refinement, of
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  purity, just all the things that God represents.
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  Our inheritance. Yes, yes.
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  Yeah. So what does divine market
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  dominion look like for women CE OS today?
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  Yes. So that divine market dominion
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  simply means when you're walking in authority with Christ, right?
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  And you know, God has appointed you, assigned you, anointed you
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  to be in this very specific industry at this time.
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  It just means walking in that authority, in Christ, not in our
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  own authority, but knowing that again, we've inherited, like you
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  said, we are inheritors and we're Co heirs to Christ.
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  And so if God gives us a business idea and gives us a
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  business plan, he doesn't give it to us so that we can just be
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  second best, 50th best. He doesn't give it to us so we
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  can be subpar. He gives it to us in order to
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  actually believe, in order to take dominion, subdue the earth
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  and be fruitful and multiply through that business, which was
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  his first. We think about it, that was his
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  first commandment to the first humans ever in Genesis 126, I
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  think says subdue the earth, take dominion, multiply, period.
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  Yeah. So if he gives us a business
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  idea, we need to do the same thing.
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  And there there's a way we can do it.
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  We can have silent dominion in the marketplace.
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  It doesn't necessarily mean we have to go viral and be all out
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  there and everybody's face. There are different ways.
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  I believe that God is calling his children to to have dominion
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  and their very specific sphere that they're working in, in all
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  different types of unique ways. Yeah, that's so, so good.
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  Like I'm just like, yes, I'm here for all of it because I
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  will do that. This podcast where you are right
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  now is one of those things, the mental, the, the, the business
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  God gave me out of which I, I served clients do therapy, we're
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  growing, we're going to expand into doing retreats and doing
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  mission work as well. Like God gave me all of that and
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  like fast, fast. And even after the podcast came
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  together from the idea in February to recording in March,
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  releasing in April, like. Wait, do you just started this
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  in February? Uh huh.
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  See that's. What I'm talking about?
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  You literally are. In Dominion.
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  Yes. And that's why I'm sharing it,
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  because that's how he moves. Like my mom is like, do you
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  sleep? And I'm like, yeah, like I'm
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  doing a lot of stuff, but it's like when you're operating in
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  purpose. And I was telling my brother one
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  day I was like, it's just being a Trinity over here creating.
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  Like, I cannot explain how all the things are coming out of me
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  at the rate at which they're coming out of me.
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  As if I don't have like enough. Like with the practice, right?
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  Like with with being a business owner, entrepreneur, God just
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  keeps giving me stuff and I do it.
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  But like he also has had me in a season where I'm inside like I
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  did, I did my toe out and I'll go play and, you know, show up
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  at this event or that. But like I'm at home, I'm at
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  church. He just pouring so much out of
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  me. He's really shifted me from
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  being a consumer to being a creator.
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  And I've always been a creative person.
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  And honestly, we're all created to be creatives in some sort of
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  way because we're made in God's image.
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  And in the beginning, God did what he created, right?
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  So if we're listening to it, that first verse is a clue.
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  We all have dominion over something.
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  And I also really love how you are opening up that viewpoint of
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  be fruitful and multiply because a lot of people do take that
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  literal to mean procreation. And God is a creative God and so
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  are we. And he's given us all something.
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  And we know this from the story of talents, right?
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  Like in the Bible, like we're all supposed to do something.
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  We're all put here to create, to do and so and to try to navigate
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  the earth, the systems and all the things that can really stunt
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  our purpose. And I had a thought today.
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  I was like, tensions are great, but sometimes they stunt purpose
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  because we can be more committed to a job, the retirement
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  package, than purpose. And so true.
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  We need, we need, we need the means to help get people like
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  into purpose so that they can live freely, like and really be
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  free, indeed, and not tied to these systems so that God is
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  their boss and not me. Yeah.
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  So good. So good.
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  And I love your point about that be fruitful and multiply and how
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  it's not literal. I mean, yeah, make babies.
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  But it's like when you were explaining how you just have
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  this supernatural sense of energy and how you just have
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  this creative creativity. You just continually just
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  pouring out, pouring out more creative ideas, more stuff that
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  to me looks like he, he gives, he, he, Yeah.
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  He helps us be fruitful and multiply at a speed that is
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  superhuman. It really feels like, how am I
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  doing this? And then getting a good sleep
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  and then skin is still clear and like, listen, like I'm doing OK.
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  I'm not falling apart. This is why I'm very much on my
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  do it, God do it, God do it, God do it, let him do it right, Like
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  I am allowing God to do it. And I asked him, I said, God
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  allow my life to be the proof that you are real.
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  So I'll let him do all the things.
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  That's so good. Thing, yes.
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  OK, so Speaking of like dominion, there may be some
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  women who need help shifting out of shrinking and shifting into
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  dominion. So what are some of those signs
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  of a woman who was shrinking in her identity to fit in rather
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  than walking fully in her authority?
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  Yes, there's. I used to be this woman.
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  Oh yeah, me too. Yeah, yeah.
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  Definitely. So I'll speak in the context of
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  how I actually help women because I'm very niche down at
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  this point and I help them price with purpose and I call it
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  prophetic pricing. So one of the major signs in
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  that realm is that they're under charging.
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  They're under charging for their services.
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  And it's one thing to have offers that are low ticket.
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  I, we call them low ticket in this this coaching realm and
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  that's OK. But if everything that you offer
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  is low ticket and low ticket can be under, we'll say $1000.
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  If everything that you have that you offer is just in that
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  bracket, then that's a sign that you haven't yet understood that
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  there's more value I can bring that I can sell for premium.
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  I have a $10,000 solution for somebody.
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  I have a $50,000 solution. I have $100,000 solution that I
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  could offer somebody, not because it's my solution, it's
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  God's solution and I'm the vessel that he's moving through
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  to then bring the solution to people.
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  So the biggest set back I see in that area is that women get in
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  the way and they think they're pricing according to their
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  value, according to their credentials, according to what
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  they think they can do and what they can offer versus pricing
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  according to the big solution that God gave them that they've
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  now packaged in a product or service, right?
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  So, and we can't put a price on God, but if we can try to
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  calculate what type of God breathes breakthrough or
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  transformation can come through this product or service, that's
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  how we price that. So that's the major setbacks.
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  Another another common denominator that I see is women
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  just forget who they are in Christ or they were never told
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  maybe no. One that identity crisis is
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  real. It's so real.
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  It's so real, and it's so the devil is so nasty, number one,
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  But he's not smarter than any of us with the Holy Spirit.
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  But he's nasty because he will try to.
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  He blames us, he accuses us. And so he will make us feel like
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  we can't grow, we can't expand, we can't elevate because of what
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  we've done, right? So guilt, shame that women are
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  harboring and he'll give us spiritual amnesia.
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  I mean, he will literally try to invoke an amnesia in our spirit.
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  Come on, that makes us forget the lineage that we're a part
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  of, the royal lineage that we're a part of.
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  We are in, we're heirs. We have an inheritance that we
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  get to take by force. But again, that's that's the
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  biggest thing I the set back I see is women just either they
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  never knew or maybe they knew one day and then all of a sudden
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  they forgot. And that's the devil at work.
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  It really is. So do you ever do work in
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  helping them with the identity? I know you're working with them
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  on the price part, but some people need that poor again.
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  Yeah, no. So I lead with the price because
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  that's what women, that's what's on women's minds.
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  Everything we do is identity. It really has nothing to do with
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  the price. It's I'm just, I've given the
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  secret out. But obviously we we definitely
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  do the logistical curation of an offer and I help them sell it.
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  So I help them understand sales psychology.
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  I help them understand spirit to spirit sales.
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  I like to call it versus manipulative tactics.
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  Tactics. What'd you say?
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  I say because Spirit's tough. Yeah, definitely so.
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  But it's all identity work. Every single piece of the things
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  that I do with women is all based on who are you and who did
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  you forget you are. And let's come into agreement
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  with who God said you are. Come on.
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  And then let's price from that place.
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  Yeah, Come on, Alicia. I'm into agreement with who God
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  says you are. Yeah, that's yes.
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  OK, that was good. Yeah, that's good.
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  That's good. And it's just sinking in on so
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  many levels, right. And like, yeah, I'm here
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  interviewing you, but my brain is like soaking it up all at the
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  same time. So like, you're seeing it like,
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  sinking. And I'm like, yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  this is good. I'm like, Alicia, we might need
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  to have a different locale. Little, little, let's talk,
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  Let's talk. See, girl, hey, so Speaking of
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  that, let's transition a little bit into how you can help them
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  raise their prices but still maintain their peace, Right?
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  But again, I get what you're saying to identity is attached
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  to that. So you teach them to do this
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  with peace. What mindset shifts are required
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  to really embody that? So again, the majority of it is
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  identity work. So within that identity, certain
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  mindset shifts are. I'm a Christian, so I should
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  give everything away for free. Mindset shift.
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  That's an identity thing, right? It's like like obviously we
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  serve. Everything is based from service
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  and service alone. So it's all foundationally based
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  there. But there are different types of
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  service. There's different levels of
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  service and there's different levels of access that people
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  should have to you. And so God never told us to
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  overextend ourselves. He never told us to bend over
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  backwards and be walked over by people without being compensated
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  for it. It's a scripture in there.
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  A worker should be paid wages for their work.
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  And if you don't work, you don't eat?
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  Essentially, yeah. Yeah, right.
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  So we get to be compensated. So that's one of the that's a
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  mindset shift is you don't have to give everything away for
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  free. It's not evil to ask for money.
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  It's actually stewardship and it's actually obedience.
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  So 1 of this, the mindset shifts, is redefining what
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  obedience looks like, again, based on God's word.
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  Because if God has called us and assigned us to something and
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  he's given us a business strategy for that, then we need
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  to stay obedient to those instructions, even if it feels
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  uncomfortable. So God would never, I don't
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  believe God would ever send somebody out to work and create
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  a business and then have no strategy for them to be
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  compensated and to take care of their children, their family,
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  their home, and then be generous sores and give.
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  I mean, he also has called us to be generous.
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  So how can we outpour and give to people that need it if we
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  can't even take care of our homes, right.
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  So, yeah. So it's, I think, OK, to sum it
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  up, the mindset shifts is all about what it looks like to be a
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  woman of faith-based off what the church said or based off of
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  what religion said. And what does it really look
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  like to be a woman of faith-based off of what God
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  said? The word says yeah.
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  Yeah, yeah. And, and I'm not a Bible
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  connoisseur. Like I'm not a Bible scholar at
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  all. I'm learning.
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  Neither am I, Right. I'm working on it.
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  I'm going through Bible in a year.
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  This year for real for the first time.
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  Yeah. And I'm doing it.
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  I listen because I, I, I know I can get through things faster
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  when I listen. So I'm doing it the first time
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  in a year. And there's some things that
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  just aren't hitting. Like I'll be sitting in church
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  and I'm like, I already went through that book.
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  I don't remember the scripture hitting like this, you know,
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  when I, when I was listening to it, you know what I mean?
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  So, but different times. But that's why they say there is
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  nothing under the sun, that the Bible is not able to give you
• 22:44
  guidance on everything. It's in there.
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  All you have to do is just go and look and figure out the
• 22:50
  application. But you also have to be in that
• 22:52
  space where you've really opened your spirit up to God.
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  Those who have ears, let them hear, you know what I mean?
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  So you have to really be in that space spiritually to to be able
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  to do that. And that mindset shift is huge.
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  And even as you're saying God's not going to give you this
• 23:10
  business, this business plan and not take care of you.
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  We saw that model with with what happened with Jesus and the
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  apostles. Their ministry was funded.
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  Think about that. They left jobs and went with
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  Jesus. They never went hungry.
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  They fed the 5000 with, you know, loaf, a couple loafs and a
• 23:30
  few fish, right? Like so God provides and it
• 23:34
  doesn't make sense. And I experienced a version of
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  that where I'm just like, where is this even coming from?
• 23:40
  Where it's just like, this should have been gone or I
• 23:43
  remember one of the first times I was really truly faithful with
• 23:47
  my tithing. And it's like somehow I started
• 23:51
  tithing. It's the same amount of money.
• 23:54
  But before I was tithing, I was struggling.
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  And then out of nowhere I was able to do everything I wanted
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  to do like, and it's like, it does not make sense.
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  Oh. That's so good.
• 24:07
  It does not make sense. And I've lived that.
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  And so I'm like, I'm with you, God and that generosity.
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  And it's not always money. So if there are people that are
• 24:18
  listening or watching this right now, it's your talents, it's
• 24:21
  your gifts, it's your skills, like because those are the
• 24:24
  things that can bring the money, right?
• 24:26
  And sometimes it can. I know what I said earlier about
• 24:29
  pension and retirement, right? And so if there's someone's
• 24:34
  listening, that's just like, oh, she's crazy.
• 24:36
  I'm not quitting my job. I'm not telling anybody to quit
• 24:38
  their job. What I'm saying is that we have
• 24:41
  to remember that the job is just a resource to fund your purpose.
• 24:48
  And a lot of times they think that has become their purpose
• 24:51
  because again, it's an identity thing.
• 24:54
  So now what they do has become their identity rather than what
• 24:58
  God has said about them. It's so true.
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  It's so true. And I work with I've worked with
• 25:04
  multiple women who have full time jobs and that's another
• 25:07
  mindset shift. What you said exactly is
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  shifting from this job is my purpose, knowing darn well is
• 25:14
  not to Oh my gosh, this is my purpose.
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  So it's it shifts everything and strategy changes and motivation
• 25:23
  changes. It's it's so beautiful to see
• 25:25
  the transition from full time job to then leaving that job and
• 25:29
  fully being in your purpose while being funded
• 25:33
  appropriately. Yep.
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  It's such a beautiful thing. And it requires surrender.
• 25:38
  And I think that's really a part that and depending on people's
• 25:42
  lived experiences, right, like it takes a lot to undo that
• 25:46
  scarcity mindset or whatever attachment it is with Job and
• 25:50
  the identity that comes from that.
• 25:52
  And you know, families being proud.
• 25:54
  Oh, that's my daughter, that's the lawyer, but then she don't
• 25:57
  practice no more, right? Like, and then that can become a
• 25:59
  whole thing like so there's somebody I know that's listening
• 26:05
  that this is resonating for. And it's just like we just want
• 26:08
  to give you that freedom and to really tap into what God truly
• 26:13
  created you to do and who he truly created you to be so.
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  Amen to that. Yeah, how can women?
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  So how can whoever's listening, right?
• 26:23
  But like, but how can they really overcome the guilt or
• 26:27
  fear of being too expensive? So it boils down to this.
• 26:31
  This was the shift that really helped me understand OK and get
• 26:35
  out of that. Sounds like you bet I would put.
• 26:37
  Us on. Some serious game right now.
• 26:41
  I even, I just, I already said it, but we're going to dive even
• 26:44
  deeper into it. The thing that we're selling.
• 26:50
  So like you said, it could be a talent, a skill, it could be
• 26:52
  something you didn't even know you could monetize.
• 26:56
  Whatever it is, it's not yours. It's not yours to begin with.
• 27:00
  It's a God's right. Yeah.
• 27:04
  So if you, because we will all, we will never feel good enough
• 27:07
  because we're not deserving. Like we're not.
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  I mean like we are, but we're not, you know what I mean?
• 27:15
  And so if we were to try to put a value, put a price on
• 27:20
  something that we've produced, it will never feel right.
• 27:25
  But if we can understand that it was God that did this through
• 27:29
  me, it's not even me. It's not personal.
• 27:32
  It's not I'm not putting value on myself.
• 27:34
  I'm not pricing myself. I'm not pricing my knowledge.
• 27:37
  Because we're never going to feel smart enough.
• 27:39
  We're never going to feel experienced enough.
• 27:41
  We're just not because we're human.
• 27:43
  We're constantly evolving, learning, growing, and failing
• 27:47
  all at the same time. So we're never going to feel
• 27:50
  good enough. So my anchor isn't, how great do
• 27:53
  I feel today to charge $10,000, right?
• 27:56
  My anchor is what level breakthrough can God do through
• 28:01
  me through this service or product?
• 28:04
  That's that's what we're pricing.
• 28:05
  We're pricing the breakthrough that can happen as the Holy
• 28:09
  Spirit moves through that product or service that he
• 28:12
  gifted you with. And so that's that's how we can
• 28:15
  because we get it. We get out of our own way by
• 28:19
  taking ourselves out of the picture.
• 28:21
  We're just the vessel, we're just the instrument, but we're
• 28:24
  not the thing. Does that make sense?
• 28:27
  Like, we're not it. So yeah, that really helped me
• 28:31
  get out of the way. OK, OK, that's good.
• 28:35
  That's a that's a major, major shift.
• 28:41
  And it seems simple, but I'm like that's that's deep.
• 28:44
  That has layers. Because as you were talking, I
• 28:45
  was like, how long do you work with people to get these mindset
• 28:49
  shifts to click? This is to be connected to some
• 28:54
  really, really deep thing. Oof.
• 28:58
  But the power of the Holy Spirit, again, it's not even me
• 29:02
  helping them. It's like when I work, I try to
• 29:04
  leave myself out of it and I pray before every session and I
• 29:09
  say, Holy Spirit, just work through me, talk for me.
• 29:11
  I'm going to try as much as possible to let go of my biases,
• 29:15
  my my opinions and my words. Just do it, please.
• 29:19
  Because I know if he does it, it can happen instantaneously.
• 29:23
  That program that was embedded in that person's subconscious
• 29:27
  mind into their soul for since they were conceived in their
• 29:30
  mama's womb can be released and removed instantaneously.
• 29:36
  And so these conversations I've noticed over time as a coach,
• 29:40
  when, when I'm listening for the root of the issue that created
• 29:45
  that mindset in the mindset in the 1st place, we just pull it
• 29:49
  out from the root. And you'd be surprised at how
• 29:52
  quickly women can shift. It's, it's mind boggling, truly,
• 29:57
  how quickly the Holy Spirit can shift somebody out of a lie.
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  And that's what the Bible says. The darkness cannot endure the
• 30:04
  light. So the darkness cannot continue
• 30:07
  to remain there. And the darkness are the lies,
• 30:11
  right? The lies in our belief system
• 30:13
  that's telling us what we can't do, what we shouldn't do, what's
• 30:16
  not right. If we can shine a light at the
• 30:19
  root of that lie, it's drowned out and then boom, it's a pivot.
• 30:24
  It's a pivot in mindset, it's a pivot in identity, and it's a
• 30:27
  pivot in authority in how they carry themselves in their
• 30:30
  business. That's good, and it really does
• 30:34
  require people to be spiritually attuned to do this.
• 30:40
  It really does. It does it like you said, I
• 30:44
  think the the word is surrender. You just have to, you have to be
• 30:48
  open to surrender. And that's a lot of the work
• 30:51
  that I do is to help women. And, you know, everybody's in a
• 30:54
  different place. But all the women that do hire
• 30:58
  me, they hit a point where they, I, I have to have them make an
• 31:03
  agreement. I said even write out a
• 31:04
  contract. Write out a contract with God if
• 31:06
  you need to and agree with him and tell him, yeah, like make
• 31:10
  and sign it. And it's a legally binding
• 31:13
  contract that you will surrender to him.
• 31:16
  And every day you'll, you'll try to surrender more and more.
• 31:18
  And so I think it's it's, they don't even need to be fully
• 31:21
  spiritually attuned or equipped to handle it.
• 31:25
  I feel like that's why God has hired me as the vessel who help
• 31:29
  help attune them or guide them to attunement.
• 31:32
  But it's more I just need them to be willing.
• 31:34
  Yeah, I was going to say they need a open spirit.
• 31:37
  And if you have an open spirit and if you're thirsty and you're
• 31:40
  hungry, you will be filled. Right?
• 31:42
  So that that definitely aligns with that.
• 31:45
  OK, So what advice would you give to that CEO?
• 31:49
  That's her. I can't afford you.
• 31:52
  And then they're feeling like that pressure to like lower
• 31:55
  their price, lower their standards.
• 31:56
  That goes against what God has told them, showed them,
• 31:59
  downloaded to them, gave them in a dream, whatever.
• 32:02
  You know, However, Guy sent the message because, you know, he
• 32:04
  talks to us all in how we need to see it here at feel it and so
• 32:08
  on. Yeah, yeah, it comes up a lot.
• 32:11
  It comes up a lot because my prices are high and they want a
• 32:14
  higher B so they can have higher prices.
• 32:16
  So I mean, it's a whole process and the sales psychology is a
• 32:19
  whole thing as well. And so this is a part of that
• 32:21
  sales psychology process. It's called an objection, right?
• 32:24
  If they have an objection like, oh, can't afford you, sorry,
• 32:27
  bye. And because I've built a
• 32:29
  rapport, I've tried, I try to build enough rapport with them
• 32:32
  to where they're open enough to answer some of my questions.
• 32:35
  Then I go into a series of questions about where is that no
• 32:38
  coming from? Where is that I don't have
• 32:40
  enough actually coming from? So we start looking for the
• 32:43
  route. We're going to pick up that
• 32:45
  route. Because if there's any route of
• 32:47
  a lie of scarcity or lack, God didn't give it to you.
• 32:51
  So let's look at it, right? And more times than not, women
• 32:55
  shift into you know what? I will invest in you because or
• 33:00
  not even you again, I'll invest in your work.
• 33:03
  So yeah, it's usually a lie of lack scarcity.
• 33:06
  I don't have enough or I can't. I can't show up for this right
• 33:10
  now. I don't have the time and you
• 33:12
  made the most amazing point. I have to then redirect them to
• 33:16
  so we spot the lie 1st and then we redirect them to but what a
• 33:20
  guy show you is for you now like let's connect back with that
• 33:25
  because you got amnesia. Demons are real and they will
• 33:29
  make you forget the call because there's a money, there's a money
• 33:34
  thing there. So we're going to clear out that
• 33:37
  love for money. I mean, that's honestly, if you
• 33:39
  really look at it, it's a love for money.
• 33:42
  It may not be a love for greed, but if we fall into we have such
• 33:46
  a close connection with money that it makes us anxious when we
• 33:49
  think about spending it. That's that's an attachment
• 33:53
  that's a little too tight. God doesn't want us to have any.
• 33:56
  Yeah, the. Lips.
• 33:59
  Perkins. Yes, because people always think
• 34:02
  about having too much versus the people who don't want to turn it
• 34:07
  loose. But there's scripture about
• 34:08
  that. And it's not it's not popping up
• 34:10
  in his brain, but there's scripture about, oh, shoot, I
• 34:15
  just had a flash of it where basically he will make it.
• 34:18
  So it's almost like, is it sand in your hand or?
• 34:24
  Oh yes. Yeah, basically you'll never be
• 34:28
  able to keep it. I can't remember where that
• 34:30
  scripture is, but it's a really good scripture.
• 34:32
  OK, There's a really good scripture that speaks to that.
• 34:37
  We are commanded to be generous, and people always talk about
• 34:40
  greed in the worst way or just like money in the worst way when
• 34:43
  people have lots of it. But they don't talk about the
• 34:46
  people who are just like super duper stingy.
• 34:48
  And it goes against generosity. Proverbs 11/24 One person gives
• 34:53
  freely, yet gains even more. Another person with holds unduly
• 34:57
  and they come to poverty. Right.
• 34:59
  So that that's one. I mean, there's so many, but I
• 35:01
  can't. I know exactly what you're
• 35:03
  talking about. Yeah, and I tried to type and it
• 35:06
  was all misspelled. So it's probably like, what did
• 35:08
  you just ask me? Yes, yes, but.
• 35:13
  Yes and and it there's another there's a love for money as if
• 35:19
  money is an idol too, right, Because if we look at money as
• 35:23
  if it's our lifeline, then we're going against the scripture that
• 35:27
  tells us don't worry about you're going to eat, what you're
• 35:29
  going to wear, what you know where you're going to live.
• 35:31
  Like, don't worry, I got you, I got you.
• 35:34
  And so, so that comes up. I don't, I don't try to throw
• 35:37
  scripture at people when they're having these money blocks.
• 35:40
  I really do try to help them navigate where is it coming
• 35:43
  from. And more times than not, they
• 35:46
  have access to it. So then I help women understand
• 35:50
  if you don't have the liquid assets in your bank account,
• 35:52
  because most people don't, there's creative financing
• 35:55
  solutions that you can find to finance this next step.
• 36:00
  And then it comes up, well, I don't want to take out a loan
• 36:03
  because debt. God doesn't want me in debt.
• 36:05
  I'm, I'm the lender and not the borrower.
• 36:08
  And I get that too. But I also believe that God has
• 36:11
  to build us into being a lender, like most lenders leveraged
• 36:15
  other people's money as a stepping stone to then be able
• 36:19
  to generate the revenue and get the cash inject so that they can
• 36:24
  eventually be a generous lender. So those are tangents.
• 36:27
  But that's what comes up. And most times it works.
• 36:30
  Yeah. And sometimes if I can sense
• 36:32
  that a woman truly like her credit is horrible because I've
• 36:37
  been her like credit, she won't get approved for anything or she
• 36:41
  just really, it would harm her. I'm not in the business of
• 36:44
  harming anybody financially. So if we really find out that,
• 36:47
  yeah, this is beyond a mindset thing, this is more like you
• 36:51
  really cannot. And sometimes God calls me to
• 36:54
  work with women like that, and sometimes to generously give
• 36:59
  services at no cost. It just depends on what the Holy
• 37:02
  Spirit's leading me to do. Absolutely.
• 37:04
  So, you know, we jumped right in and with you saying this,
• 37:08
  you're, you know, there's little sprinkles about you.
• 37:11
  How did you come to me in this position to be be to be used at
• 37:17
  the vessel in this way? Yeah, yeah, that's OK.
• 37:21
  So it's such a long story, but I'm going to try to sum it up
• 37:26
  real. Fast.
• 37:29
  Because I always loved Jesus. I was always a Christian, but I
• 37:34
  wasn't like a born again Christian, right?
• 37:36
  Like I wasn't fully saved in the way that I got saved.
• 37:42
  So it was Easter 2022 and during this time I had pivoted one of
• 37:48
  my 10,000 different pivots in my business as a coach.
• 37:52
  I was a manifestation coach and I had leaned into some new age
• 37:57
  stuff that I didn't even know was new age.
• 37:59
  Like I did not know this was against God's order and what He
• 38:04
  needed me to do. So I was getting a little too
• 38:07
  free with this, having way too much fun.
• 38:09
  And I was making, I was making good money, but God needed to
• 38:12
  wake me up. He needed to wake me up.
• 38:14
  And so it was Easter 2022. My son got baptized.
• 38:17
  I have two sons, by the way. They're 11 and 13.
• 38:20
  Yeah. My youngest got baptized at my
• 38:22
  mom's church. When we got back, I was in the
• 38:27
  shower praying because I was so elated.
• 38:29
  Like, he just changed. He he even said after his
• 38:33
  baptism, he was like, mom, I see colors differently.
• 38:36
  Like he said that it's like I see.
• 38:39
  Color. I said it's new, like right, He
• 38:43
  says we are new. Oh, He will pour a new spirit
• 38:45
  into you. A whole new creation that's I
• 38:48
  saw it. It was so stark and I'm like,
• 38:52
  wow. And so I sometimes get in the
• 38:54
  shower and I just pray and I'll pray in tongues and I'll just
• 38:56
  praise and pray and praise and pray during this shower
• 39:00
  experience, I kid you not, Jesus came like Jesus came and visited
• 39:04
  me tangibly. He popped out of my marble tile
• 39:10
  on my in my shower while I was sitting there, and he took me
• 39:13
  through a whole thing. I wrote a book about it and
• 39:15
  everything because it was crazy. He took me through a whole
• 39:20
  thing. So to sum up what he took me
• 39:22
  through, he just showed me. He showed me #1 You're veering
• 39:25
  off a little bit. I need you to come back #2 This
• 39:30
  is why I need you to help #3 do it now.
• 39:36
  It wasn't like you have a little bit of time.
• 39:40
  It wasn't that. It was like, do it now.
• 39:42
  Yeah. And then he said, write a book
• 39:44
  about it. And so I did all of those
• 39:46
  things. I did all those things.
• 39:49
  But that, that encounter with Jesus was so it was just so
• 39:52
  supernatural. It was like 10 years had went
• 39:54
  by. And he took me through this
• 39:55
  journey of his experience, his resurrection experience and his
• 40:00
  crucifixion. So he took me.
• 40:03
  Through his life, his death and his rebirth.
• 40:07
  But during this time he was man. It was like he was traveling me
• 40:12
  around the world and showing me all of the places where people
• 40:16
  are suffering and in pain. And I just felt gut wrenching
• 40:19
  sadness. I mean, the grief that I felt, I
• 40:23
  had never felt anything like that before.
• 40:25
  And he would just pop, pop me in somebody's room and show them me
• 40:28
  what was going on. Then he popped me.
• 40:30
  I remember I was in somebody's prison cell.
• 40:32
  And I don't want to cry because it was it was it still?
• 40:34
  It was like, how many years ago was this?
• 40:36
  Three years? It was so horrible.
• 40:38
  This man was in his prison cell and he was witnessing his friend
• 40:42
  getting stabbed and dying and he couldn't do anything about it.
• 40:46
  And the guards didn't care. It looked like a setup.
• 40:48
  So it was like the guy was just sitting there with pain and
• 40:51
  anger and he could do nothing. And I just saw just death and
• 40:55
  destruction and sadness, children being hurt.
• 40:57
  I saw troves of children being trafficked.
• 41:00
  So Long story short, I was like wow, like this is crazy.
• 41:05
  And then after that I wanted to end it.
• 41:07
  I thought it was demonic. I was like this, this feels
• 41:10
  demonic because this don't feel like Jesus.
• 41:11
  Jesus is happier than this. I don't like this.
• 41:14
  So I tried to get up. I couldn't get up out of the
• 41:16
  shower. And so I was like forced to sit
• 41:19
  down. And ultimately after there was
• 41:22
  like this silence, I saw Jesus die in front of me.
• 41:25
  And then there was even more grief.
• 41:27
  And then I felt this life surging through my veins as if I
• 41:31
  was levitating. But I wasn't levitating.
• 41:32
  That didn't happen. But it was his rebirth.
• 41:35
  He just took me through it. He took me through all of these
• 41:38
  things and I'm still trying to grapple all of the different
• 41:41
  parts of it, but ultimately he showed me he's real.
• 41:45
  Yeah, he. Showed me he's real.
• 41:47
  As you're talking, I know you see my mind.
• 41:49
  I'm like, and I'll see it's processing, right.
• 41:53
  So when you said that he took you through his life, his death,
• 41:57
  the burial, the resurrection, I was just like, it was almost
• 42:01
  like he needed you to see because like you said, you were
• 42:04
  you doing the manifestation coaching and you were going too
• 42:07
  far. He's reminding you this is what
• 42:10
  I did for you to put it in perspective.
• 42:14
  That's what I'm hearing. That's how I interpret that.
• 42:17
  Right. Like that.
• 42:18
  Yeah. Needed you to see.
• 42:20
  You said you always loved Jesus. Bet I'm a had Jesus pull upon
• 42:24
  you. That's how God works.
• 42:25
  Like I think God, he does what you need and it won't make sense
• 42:30
  to anyone else. Yeah.
• 42:32
  He's showing you there's work to be done 'cause at the end of the
• 42:38
  day, there are people struggling and like when you read like let
• 42:43
  me slow down because I used to be like rainbows and bubble gum
• 42:48
  Bibles, right? And just one good things.
• 42:51
  But when you really look and listen like the Bible opens,
• 42:56
  there's chaos all in it. Like we have our first murder in
• 43:00
  the first book of the Bible. Like we have jealousy, we have
• 43:05
  the like betrayal, them going against God, like deception,
• 43:09
  like all of these things show up early.
• 43:12
  So I think from like with me, I needed that packaging to see
• 43:18
  things through like the Rose colored glasses because God knew
• 43:22
  I couldn't take that. That would have broken my spirit
• 43:24
  with everything that I had like lived through because we don't
• 43:27
  have choices about parents and all the other things that happen
• 43:31
  to us or we have to live through environments and things like
• 43:34
  that as children. Last year, I asked God to allow
• 43:38
  me to see like things and people as they are and not how I want
• 43:42
  to because I needed to see them in a way to preserve meat,
• 43:47
  right? And so I said, and God had me
• 43:50
  bubble wrapped and so I asked him to take the bubble wrapping
• 43:54
  off and he supported me in it. And I'm just like, wow.
• 43:58
  So like your son, he was like, he sees, he sees colors
• 44:02
  differently. I started to see things
• 44:04
  differently. I started to really be able to
• 44:06
  understand and digest the Bible in a different way.
• 44:09
  And he would do that for you. But you have to be a willing
• 44:14
  vessel. And so him bringing me back, it
• 44:18
  sounds awful, right? He's showing you there's work to
• 44:23
  be done. It wouldn't surprise me if he
• 44:25
  showed you all of that. You might supposed to be doing
• 44:29
  some real global humanitarian type stuff.
• 44:32
  And I saw you perk up when I talked about mission work.
• 44:36
  Yeah, yeah. Yep.
• 44:38
  Yeah. OK.
• 44:40
  And so that's so that's the call.
• 44:43
  So that was in 2022. And ever since then, it's just
• 44:45
  been, you know, more, more messages, more revelations.
• 44:47
  Like you said, the Bible is interpreted completely
• 44:50
  differently now. The words jump out at me when
• 44:52
  before they just stayed flat on the page.
• 44:55
  And so now I'm I'm just a vessel.
• 44:57
  I said, you know what, it kind of shook me.
• 45:00
  That experience shook me to the point where, yeah, it shook me
• 45:06
  hard because I didn't know things could just pop up out of
• 45:08
  my shower like that. Like I didn't know.
• 45:10
  And it felt, again, it felt demonic, but it wasn't, you
• 45:13
  know, so it was, it was kind of scary, I'm not going to lie.
• 45:15
  And that was probably the enemy wanting you to see it as demonic
• 45:19
  so that you wouldn't receive it. Yes.
• 45:23
  Father of lies, right? Like he's the father of lies.
• 45:26
  So he's going to try to talk you out of he OK.
• 45:30
  Yeah, Yep, he did, he tried. He was talking the whole time,
• 45:33
  like ended, ended is demonic. This is bad.
• 45:36
  This is dark. Like I kept hearing that.
• 45:37
  So I was like, OK, but thank God, God didn't let me get up.
• 45:42
  But yeah, so. So when you said mission work,
• 45:45
  that's it. And that's why I have such a
• 45:46
  surge for wealth and for helping women grow wealth and scale fast
• 45:52
  and their businesses. And I believe premium pricing is
• 45:54
  one of the easiest ways to scale fast because we need the capital
• 46:01
  to fund missions. So it's not, I don't want to get
• 46:03
  rich to live a lavish life. I mean, I want lavishness too.
• 46:06
  I mean, there's nothing wrong with.
• 46:07
  That I'm with you. Nothing.
• 46:09
  Wrong with that. But yes, we there's so many
• 46:12
  people that need us. There's just, it's too it's,
• 46:15
  it's crazy. It's just, I'm in Chicago right
• 46:17
  now and just even in this city alone, there's so many people
• 46:21
  that I want to help if I need the capital to do it.
• 46:24
  Yeah, absolutely, absolutely. OK.
• 46:27
  OK, so now let's shift more over to back to the bubble gums and
• 46:33
  rainbow parts and things, right? So we're going to shift the
• 46:38
  focus a little bit more on thriving without striving by
• 46:40
  refining what already works. OK, so how does your mental
• 46:45
  health background in training and clinical psychology
• 46:48
  influence how you coach Kingdom CEO?
• 46:53
  Yeah, well, like I've talked about before, just the thoughts,
• 46:57
  the the clinical training has helped me so much just identify
• 47:01
  thoughts like cognitive behavioral therapy, right, And
• 47:05
  the automatic thought stopping technique.
• 47:07
  That's one of my favorites. And I, I'm not legally
• 47:10
  conducting therapy, but I'm taking those different
• 47:13
  therapeutic modalities and kind of morphing them in a way that
• 47:18
  allows me to identify things that we can just stop.
• 47:22
  So one of the biggest is those automatic thoughts that just
• 47:25
  come through by default. I'm not enough.
• 47:28
  There's not enough, God's not enough.
• 47:31
  I need to shrink myself. I need to lower my prices.
• 47:34
  I need to be accessible and affordable.
• 47:36
  I need to give everything away for like boom, boom, boom, boom,
• 47:38
  right all the time. I really am very thankful and
• 47:43
  blessed that I have that psychology training because I
• 47:46
  can just help intercede, intercept those quickly, like
• 47:50
  you said. What you said What?
• 47:53
  Say that out loud again? Does it make sense?
• 47:55
  Yep, right. Doesn't line up with God's word.
• 47:57
  Or what are you saying about God with what you're bad?
• 48:00
  Like what are you saying about God?
• 48:03
  Right. And that it automatically just
• 48:06
  helps them say, Oh my goodness, no, I don't, I don't actually
• 48:09
  believe that. So that's just one way that I
• 48:13
  think it's, it's very needed to understand behavior, the mind,
• 48:18
  how the brain works and just yeah, how we work so that I can
• 48:24
  then support them in this identity work.
• 48:26
  Because what the most of what I do is not as much pricing, more
• 48:31
  identity, internal belief systems, and all the things that
• 48:34
  psychology teaches you. Yeah, I'm here for it, using it
• 48:39
  for good to shift them. Yeah, that's good.
• 48:43
  What identity wounds or mental health blacks do you commonly
• 48:48
  see in these high achieving women leaders and CEO?
• 48:52
  'S yeah. And it's so funny because the
• 48:58
  people I attract are just former versions of me, so I can totally
• 49:02
  relate, right? Like I'm not above anybody in
• 49:05
  any of this. I was her.
• 49:07
  And so there's a theme of women that are high achieving, highly
• 49:12
  creative, highly called these mental blocks.
• 49:18
  Again, it can be the demonic lies that they're not who they
• 49:21
  think they are, They're not who they're not who God says they
• 49:25
  are in his word. The lies that you need to be
• 49:33
  doing it the world's way in order to succeed and get ahead.
• 49:36
  That's a big lie because I'll come across women that are just
• 49:40
  burnt out. I mean, not fully burnt out, but
• 49:43
  they're doing things that will eventually burn them out because
• 49:46
  they think, OK, I got to do it this way because this coach told
• 49:48
  me this. But it's all secular coaches.
• 49:51
  It's all worldly advice. And even though some worldly
• 49:54
  advice is very helpful, yeah, a lot of it can run us to the
• 49:58
  ground. Right, you got to run it through
• 50:00
  your creator. Absolutely, yes.
• 50:04
  So yeah. And yes.
• 50:06
  Another big mental block is I have to carry it all all the
• 50:09
  time. You said the word surrender
• 50:11
  before and that just that's it. That's it.
• 50:13
  If you. Oh, man, when I finally shifted,
• 50:16
  what was I reading? Was it Malachi?
• 50:18
  I don't remember. I don't remember.
• 50:20
  But it was about God betrothing the harlot.
• 50:23
  He betrothed the harlot and he made himself her husband.
• 50:29
  And it hit me and I was like, God's my father.
• 50:32
  God's my husband. I'm a single mother.
• 50:34
  So also God's my, my baby daddy. But my husband, like in my
• 50:39
  house, it's not all on me, right?
• 50:42
  I, I can actually be feminine and I can submit to his
• 50:46
  leadership. I don't have to be a man in my
• 50:48
  house. I don't have to be all of the
• 50:50
  things that I think and I don't have to carry it all.
• 50:54
  And so once I learned that, Oh my God.
• 50:56
  And I just, I love helping women get back soft and feminine so
• 51:00
  they can actually release all the tension.
• 51:02
  It changes everything. When you see I'm over here, nod
• 51:05
  and I'm like. I see you.
• 51:07
  It's all of the alignment because I've shared with clients
• 51:10
  like about dating, right? Like in where they're going
• 51:14
  through a breakup or they're in a toxic situation.
• 51:18
  And I know I asked someone before, do you like have this
• 51:25
  same type of desire and energy for God as you do this man?
• 51:30
  And she was like, don't. And I was like, and it's not
• 51:35
  like judgment. That's because I'm like, what?
• 51:38
  God is not going to allow you to put anyone, anything before him.
• 51:44
  He will strip it all away. And if you RIP it down hanging
• 51:48
  on, he's going to make sure you're forced to.
• 51:51
  And I went through a version of that.
• 51:52
  I did a whole YouTube series on it called God said let Him go,
• 51:56
  right? Because God told me audibly let
• 51:59
  him go. I was in the mirror.
• 52:01
  I did not ask God for I was like, well, he got this.
• 52:04
  This is like I figured like he these are so many of the things
• 52:07
  I prayed for. Surely he's the one and didn't
• 52:10
  really consult God, not even let me take really out didn't
• 52:13
  consult God. I went forward with it even when
• 52:16
  there might have been signs. I was just like, we're still
• 52:21
  going forward. But that was like my own stuff,
• 52:23
  but not to get too far off base, but like, and then I've told
• 52:28
  clients, I've told men and women clients, it's like God wants to
• 52:31
  be your man, your best friend, your your daddy, everything
• 52:35
  first. Put him in that position and
• 52:38
  everything will line up. And that scarcity mindset, not
• 52:42
  only does it show up in business, it shows up in every
• 52:45
  other area of our life where people that bill take, whatever
• 52:49
  that spirit of desperation is what goes across all of those
• 52:53
  that desperation. And so they'll be desperate in
• 52:56
  jobs and then you're back in the same type of toxic negative
• 52:59
  environment again, the same way people repeat toxic negative
• 53:03
  relationships. They're dating the same people,
• 53:06
  working for the same people over and over again because they
• 53:11
  haven't changed. They are not waking up.
• 53:13
  And God keeps allowing it to wake them up.
• 53:16
  And if we would surrender, we don't have to be hurt so bad,
• 53:22
  right? To get to where we need to be.
• 53:24
  God allowed me to get hurt real bad, and I got that lesson and
• 53:28
  ain't gonna never do it again. And I'm helping other people to
• 53:31
  not make those same mistakes. Yeah, yeah, we could totally
• 53:35
  skip over that part, but. But you know, I hear you and
• 53:40
  you're so right. Yeah.
• 53:42
  The way. Yeah.
• 53:42
  The spirit of desperation that is big, that is so big.
• 53:46
  And like you said, he'll strip you.
• 53:48
  That's. I don't remember the book or the
• 53:50
  chapter, but it was the harlot who had a sister and they would
• 53:54
  to men to buy them gifts and to give them things and take care
• 53:58
  of them. And this is what we do as women.
• 54:01
  And it doesn't mean we're like, you know.
• 54:04
  It's just like he's talking about them prostituting
• 54:06
  themselves. He was, Yes.
• 54:09
  Yep. I think I was not listening to
• 54:11
  this like 2 weeks ago. I think I really was.
• 54:15
  Yes, this is. Like has it.
• 54:19
  Right. But like you said, strip, he
• 54:21
  took her through a process. He stripped her of everything.
• 54:26
  He stripped her of everything. And I related to her because I
• 54:31
  followed modern culture when it came to dating and I was
• 54:37
  stripped and I was the harlot. I mean, I can I can say it with
• 54:41
  full humility. I was her.
• 54:43
  I wasn't like a prostitute, you know, but I was it lined up.
• 54:46
  It lined up like there was some connections there.
• 54:49
  And then he said, I'm a strip you and and I'm gonna make you
• 54:54
  suffer a little bit or no, I'm going to allow you to sit in
• 54:58
  that for a little bit. But then after that, I'm going
• 55:00
  to betrothe you. And then after that, I'm going
• 55:02
  to clothe you and I'm going to feed you and I'm going to bring
• 55:06
  you everything back as my daughter, as my wife.
• 55:09
  And that's what he does. So what you're talking about is
• 55:13
  just so good. So, so good.
• 55:15
  And there was one other thing you said.
• 55:16
  I said, let me write this down before I forget.
• 55:18
  So you talked about all those different lives and pivots.
• 55:21
  You met you. You had.
• 55:24
  Yeah. God did that so that you could
• 55:26
  see these women so you can judge them.
• 55:30
  It's hard to really judge yourself, right?
• 55:32
  Like you can empathize because I was there, I was delivered, I
• 55:37
  was betrothed. And so because of that, like
• 55:43
  they are able to see themselves and you and you and them.
• 55:46
  And that's how it works. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 55:51
  It's so true. You're right.
• 55:52
  Yeah. There's no looking down.
• 55:54
  There's no condemnation here at all.
• 55:57
  Yep, that's a big and you're right.
• 55:59
  Thank you for that, for that mirror, because that that's.
• 56:02
  Yeah, because people see where you are now, and then they might
• 56:05
  feel less than and feel like maybe they don't belong in your
• 56:09
  presence, your company or the services that you're offering to
• 56:12
  try to, you know, to lift them up and raise them up.
• 56:15
  And you're really just being a vessel.
• 56:17
  But God, he did that on purpose so that you have a testimony
• 56:20
  like, wow, hurt and pain is not just meant for hurt and pain.
• 56:25
  God uses everything. And one of my previous guests,
• 56:29
  my good friend, she was just saying everything is spiritual
• 56:32
  compost. Everything is spiritual compost
• 56:38
  and so. Yeah, OK.
• 56:39
  We will reuse it so God will use that to what looks like dirt and
• 56:43
  make it soil. And then you can grow and thrive
• 56:46
  and be nourished. And it's it's what he needs it
• 56:49
  to be. I like that I can't post smells
• 56:52
  and that's what it like. It smells and that's another
• 56:55
  part it be selling bad. Yes, but it's it's it's useful.
• 57:01
  I love that. Yeah, I love that.
• 57:03
  And it and it transforms into something beautiful.
• 57:05
  That's I've never heard that. That's that's the take away.
• 57:09
  Yeah. OK.
• 57:11
  So I think we we've already started to kind of like go into
• 57:14
  this next part, this next question, right.
• 57:16
  So you talk about refinement over starting from scratch,
• 57:20
  right? Like what does refinement look
• 57:23
  like in life? Like in real life?
• 57:27
  In life, so refinement, it's just surrender.
• 57:32
  I'm back to that word surrender. Yeah, that's all it is.
• 57:36
  It's surrender with a heart for obedience because if you
• 57:42
  surrender, but then you, you anchor yourself in, OK, God, but
• 57:46
  I want to be obedient to you. I don't just want to surrender
• 57:49
  today because surrender can be fleeting, like feelings, you
• 57:53
  know, you feel good. Let me surrender.
• 57:55
  You know, it's like meditation. No, like this is a lifestyle of
• 57:58
  surrender and a lifestyle of obedience knowing that I'm not
• 58:01
  going to be perfect, but I'm going to anchor myself back into
• 58:05
  this agreement of obedience. So that's one of the covenants I
• 58:07
  made with God. I mean, this is, I feel like I
• 58:10
  can share that. Yeah.
• 58:11
  Like I signed a contract with God and I said I'm going to live
• 58:14
  a life of obedience from this point forward.
• 58:16
  And it was when I saw Jesus, like I was shook because I
• 58:20
  couldn't believe it. And that's when I stopped
• 58:24
  engaging in all sexual activity. That's when I stopped dating.
• 58:29
  Like I think I've been on like 1 date since.
• 58:31
  But it was so, it was so PG was so cute and I was just like
• 58:34
  little jazz club and that was it.
• 58:36
  But it was one time I knew very clearly discerned like Nope,
• 58:40
  this isn't who God wants for me. I've been in the house.
• 58:43
  I stopped smoking weed since then because I used.
• 58:46
  I was a very I was highly creative and I loved marijuana
• 58:50
  to take me there, but I cut. Every of the lives of the enemy.
• 58:56
  Oh, Alicia, remember I started and I said no, I was like, oh, I
• 59:01
  just thought that's so good. One of the lies of the enemy.
• 59:03
  Because you hear that all the time that people, they smoke
• 59:06
  weed to be creative, right? You were created by the creator
• 59:11
  to be creative because you're made in his image.
• 59:14
  You do not need marijuana. That is a lie of the enemy.
• 59:20
  It's such a lie. It's.
• 59:21
  Such that just unlocked right here in this moment right now,
• 59:25
  which you like the number of people who struggle with that to
• 59:29
  give it up. Also, you know this, this is how
• 59:32
  you know that they're not taking on the peace of God.
• 59:34
  Because if when you have the peace of God, you don't need
• 59:38
  those things. And even if you you drink right,
• 59:43
  because people drink wine, why don't they talk about it all
• 59:45
  throughout the Bible? Your tolerance, your appetite,
• 59:49
  it goes down for those things when you really are surrendering
• 59:53
  and you allow the peace of God to come into you.
• 59:56
  You don't need those things. And I appreciate you really like
• 1:00:00
  telling your story. And just like how God has been
• 1:00:04
  working and the things He's like delivered you from.
• 1:00:07
  Yeah, I mean, you're good at you're you're good at what you
• 1:00:09
  do because I I divulge things I might have end this.
• 1:00:12
  Like, did I say that? Did I say I was a harlot?
• 1:00:16
  I say, I say the things, I say the things.
• 1:00:18
  It just depends. I mean, I told my business
• 1:00:21
  already. That's the thing I told my
• 1:00:23
  business already on earlier series and then it might spill
• 1:00:28
  out in another series, right? It just there's.
• 1:00:31
  Nothing to hide because you have that peace, right?
• 1:00:33
  The peace of God. You're an open door.
• 1:00:35
  Like there's honestly nothing to hide.
• 1:00:38
  Like no one can have anything on me.
• 1:00:39
  No one can publicly expose me if anything, because I've already
• 1:00:44
  said it. But but back to that, back to
• 1:00:46
  that weed lie. I know it's kind of a tangent,
• 1:00:48
  but it's so true because the Holy Spirit has me high.
• 1:00:53
  Like that's the best type of high come on I've ever
• 1:00:57
  experienced. And in the creativity and
• 1:01:00
  anybody that goes against that has never experienced.
• 1:01:06
  I have never. And I get it right, like a,
• 1:01:09
  there's nothing to explain everything for me that's pouring
• 1:01:13
  out of me. That's not substantiated where
• 1:01:16
  yes, I probably had time. I'm like, oh, I was so creative
• 1:01:19
  or like, I remember just like writing papers and I'm like, I'm
• 1:01:22
  gonna, I remember I had a friend, She was also in a PhD
• 1:01:25
  program. She was like, we get together on
• 1:01:27
  Wednesdays. We, we drink wine and we write
• 1:01:29
  and we work on our dissertation, right?
• 1:01:31
  Like and they, you know, it's flowing and not saying that's a
• 1:01:34
  bad thing per SE, but it's also one of the those things then
• 1:01:37
  your brain develops this connection or I write well when
• 1:01:40
  I drink wine. Yes, when all you got to do is
• 1:01:43
  be like, all right, Father God, Holy Spirit now.
• 1:01:45
  And I tell you that dissertation probably would have been done a
• 1:01:47
  lot sooner if I just really allowed God to come into that
• 1:01:49
  process. That was what I was still before
• 1:01:52
  I was soft when I was still on my I got to make it happen.
• 1:01:56
  It's on me and God repairs those relationships like that came out
• 1:02:03
  of hyper independence. That came out of survival mode
• 1:02:06
  that I need it and right. So like you talked early about,
• 1:02:09
  sometimes people aren't taught right.
• 1:02:12
  Like I read the Bible, but I didn't get it.
• 1:02:15
  Get it and so just really knowing and have that poured
• 1:02:22
  into me and then really seeing the things that are in me that I
• 1:02:25
  didn't want to be in me that weren't like Christ and I'm
• 1:02:29
  like, just remove these things for me.
• 1:02:31
  Just fill me with your love and like if I knew what it was I
• 1:02:35
  wanted it to be replaced with or what made sense, right?
• 1:02:38
  Like I would say that and I write my stuff.
• 1:02:40
  So I've been doing contracts I keep with God and didn't realize
• 1:02:44
  it. This was a big part of my
• 1:02:46
  journey. My shift was started with me
• 1:02:48
  writing an apology letter to God, physically writing and all
• 1:02:52
  the things that I say to him and talk to him about like in
• 1:02:57
  agreement with him every day, right?
• 1:03:00
  Wow, that's beautiful. It is, it really is.
• 1:03:03
  And there's somebody who's just like, probably like that sounds
• 1:03:06
  unappealing, but again, it's because you've not been here and
• 1:03:10
  you probably, you keep on going and you're going to find that
• 1:03:13
  moment, you're going to have that moment when there's nothing
• 1:03:16
  or no one but God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit to come through.
• 1:03:20
  And this will make sense to you. Yeah.
• 1:03:23
  But like that's, that's really and truly like how he works.
• 1:03:27
  And it's, it's amazing. So that agreement, that contract
• 1:03:31
  you signed is essential. And there is a piece that comes
• 1:03:36
  with that because it's like I'm a daddy's girl and I never
• 1:03:39
  experienced that in the earthly. Me neither.
• 1:03:42
  Never. But that's but again, so from
• 1:03:45
  the beginning. But I'm going too deep and too
• 1:03:47
  far off tangent, right? That's how the enemy keeps gets
• 1:03:53
  you to be like the women in Malachi, right, because you have
• 1:03:56
  the deficit. And really what it is is that
• 1:03:59
  you're chasing a relationship with the father, but it's really
• 1:04:02
  the heavenly father. And if it's not bottled for you
• 1:04:04
  and if you're not really directed there in a way that
• 1:04:07
  makes sense for you or you don't see that alignment that like,
• 1:04:13
  you know, everything is spiritual.
• 1:04:14
  We're we're stuck in the body, which is where the enemy wants
• 1:04:18
  us and our mind are that logic that keeps people from thinking
• 1:04:24
  higher, from thinking spiritually.
• 1:04:26
  Right. It's that orphan and that's what
• 1:04:29
  was driving me cuz I was like a serial monogamist and I just, I
• 1:04:34
  was in love with the concept of love.
• 1:04:38
  So I wasn't out here in the streets like that, but it was
• 1:04:41
  more like I just loved being in a solid relationship.
• 1:04:45
  But I still, it was still harlotry honestly.
• 1:04:48
  Like it still was not lined up with how God said it because God
• 1:04:51
  didn't tell me to do that. So, so yeah, I, it's everything
• 1:04:55
  you said 100%. I just say that because I want.
• 1:04:57
  To keep that it's, it's a thing, OK, so brand activation through
• 1:05:02
  prophetic alignment. So I wanted to give you an
• 1:05:06
  opportunity to talk a little bit more about like what is going on
• 1:05:11
  now, what you how you're helping women.
• 1:05:13
  So what inspired you to create the Price Like a Princess
• 1:05:17
  challenge? Oh yes, that's so.
• 1:05:22
  That's my best training so far, I believe.
• 1:05:27
  So what? Again, it was very spiritual
• 1:05:29
  what led me to create that because I got a vision in the
• 1:05:32
  shower again while I was praying and God showed me his daughters,
• 1:05:37
  it's time. This is the season for his
• 1:05:39
  daughter. So I'm thinking season to him
• 1:05:42
  being 2025 to 2026 like these next two years is our season to
• 1:05:48
  take dominion in the digital marketplace.
• 1:05:51
  To. Take Dominion yes, to scale and
• 1:05:55
  get high level cash injections in our lives, in our business.
• 1:06:00
  And so I don't I was not I never thought of selling.
• 1:06:05
  I mean, teaching women how to sell and create high ticket
• 1:06:08
  offers like that was never on my agenda ever.
• 1:06:11
  But God said you've been doing it.
• 1:06:14
  You know how to do it. You're great at it.
• 1:06:17
  You've truly tried to master the sales psychology conversation.
• 1:06:21
  You've mastered selling high ticket and not mastered right,
• 1:06:25
  but I've I've dedicated my yeah, that's been a goal is to master.
• 1:06:30
  So I'm like researching constantly experimenting trial
• 1:06:33
  and error. So ultimately, that's what I
• 1:06:36
  felt the Holy Spirit was like creative training because other
• 1:06:38
  women, this can be their, their Ave. or their the channel to
• 1:06:44
  help them scale in a way that I'm calling my daughters to
• 1:06:47
  scale in the season and take to take digital dominion.
• 1:06:50
  And it doesn't mean go viral. It just means you are generating
• 1:06:54
  so much cash in your business that you now have the capital to
• 1:06:58
  be able to make moves in a way like a woman who has dominion
• 1:07:02
  and authority makes moves, not struggling, not surviving in
• 1:07:06
  your business. So that's that's why I created
• 1:07:08
  price like a Princess. It's my training.
• 1:07:10
  It's only $47. By the way, not everything
• 1:07:12
  Ioffer is high ticket. This is something that I know
• 1:07:15
  God said make it. Make it away so that people can
• 1:07:21
  can access it. Not make it fully accessible,
• 1:07:24
  but so that they can access it your work and then learn from it
• 1:07:29
  and then possibly just skyrocket their business from it.
• 1:07:31
  And then when you're not possibly it's whatever he wants,
• 1:07:34
  right to happen from it, yes, and that's, and he's going to
• 1:07:39
  reward you from that. So some people they're black
• 1:07:42
  would be like, that's, you know, if you, if you I'm slow down, if
• 1:07:48
  they're wanting to price it and God is like, no, give it away
• 1:07:52
  for free. Or if God is like, no, give it
• 1:07:55
  away for whatever, you know what I mean?
• 1:07:57
  And then that scarcity mindset, logical mindset might say, well,
• 1:08:03
  that's $50 walking out the door with every single one of those,
• 1:08:08
  right? And it's like, sometimes you
• 1:08:09
  have to do the things that don't make sense because you don't
• 1:08:13
  even know what God is about to do.
• 1:08:15
  But if you're literally like, it has to be like hand to mouth,
• 1:08:19
  like always a constant exchange, right?
• 1:08:22
  Like, and you just can't just like give, be generous sometimes
• 1:08:25
  like you stop it. Like you're in the, it stays
• 1:08:29
  with you. Like generosity is an energy, it
• 1:08:32
  stays with you then, and it's meant to be given.
• 1:08:35
  And we know you reap what you sow What you give is what you
• 1:08:39
  get. So if you stingy like nothing's
• 1:08:42
  coming your way, really. Either it's not.
• 1:08:45
  But when you're giving the things, they just flow.
• 1:08:48
  They just flow. And so you offering, I liked
• 1:08:53
  when you said that at the beginning too, you have price
• 1:08:56
  points for everyone because there are people and so many
• 1:09:00
  different levels of their lives professionally and spiritually
• 1:09:03
  where they need to be reached. Or they're like, I don't want
• 1:09:06
  anything that's $47 because in their mind they need something
• 1:09:11
  different. And you are likely, you know,
• 1:09:13
  offering them something completely different in that
• 1:09:16
  way. Generosity is a business
• 1:09:20
  development strategy. It is like if your business is
• 1:09:24
  grounded in generosity because God tells us to be generous so
• 1:09:28
  much throughout the Bible, like it's one of his top priorities.
• 1:09:32
  And by the way, he talks about finances more than he talks
• 1:09:35
  about heaven and hell combined in the Bible.
• 1:09:38
  So generosity and financial stewardship and wealth are top
• 1:09:43
  of mind for God. So that's just a huge take away
• 1:09:47
  that I now really try to ground the women I work with in is if
• 1:09:51
  you can't be generous in your business, then you're you're
• 1:09:56
  hurting yourself. Like you said, when you
• 1:09:57
  withhold, it will be withheld from you.
• 1:09:59
  Yep, that's it. That's a great.
• 1:10:01
  Point OK, So what type of shifts, whether they're
• 1:10:07
  spiritual, emotional or strategic, do you hold
• 1:10:09
  participants gain from the price like a Princess challenge?
• 1:10:14
  Identity shift, I talk a lot of about identity in that training,
• 1:10:20
  a shift in clarity on what types of offers you can even offer
• 1:10:24
  because some people may come in and not really have an idea of a
• 1:10:28
  product or service that they'd want to sell for high ticket.
• 1:10:31
  So you get an idea. I don't delve too, too deep in
• 1:10:35
  that, but you will have much more clarity on what you can
• 1:10:39
  offer and how you can communicate that offer to people
• 1:10:42
  in a way that's premium because there is premium branding,
• 1:10:45
  there's premium language. It's a whole relationship that's
• 1:10:48
  different from like affordable, discounted, cheap services,
• 1:10:54
  right? It's different.
• 1:10:55
  It's a different type of conversation.
• 1:10:57
  So women will take away from that as well.
• 1:10:59
  The types of conversations you can have and the way that you
• 1:11:02
  can position your offer so that it magnetizes the premium buyer.
• 1:11:09
  Yeah, because. Premium buyers are looking for
• 1:11:11
  something different than discount shoppers are.
• 1:11:15
  Right, totally different. And there's like everyone has
• 1:11:18
  their place, right? And that reminds me of something
• 1:11:20
  I've heard a couple people. My I think it was Myron Golden
• 1:11:26
  and so much right. Myron, he the same.
• 1:11:30
  Yeah. And he was on somebody else's
• 1:11:32
  podcast and I think Myron had mentored him and they were
• 1:11:35
  talking about taking free, like don't use the word free in
• 1:11:41
  association with your name or your businesses, your services,
• 1:11:45
  anything. Nothing is free.
• 1:11:48
  And So what I love that Myron Golden said is that it's going
• 1:11:52
  to cost you. It's going to cost you your time
• 1:11:54
  and your attention. And these days we know that's
• 1:11:56
  the going currency, like highest rate.
• 1:12:00
  And so he's like nothing is ever free.
• 1:12:02
  He said. Well, also I just think of it as
• 1:12:05
  community service. These things that I'm doing,
• 1:12:08
  it's not free. It's I'm doing service being
• 1:12:11
  generous. That is so fun, yes.
• 1:12:12
  Yeah. Like I literally just posted the
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  video you're talking about while he was speaking.
• 1:12:17
  I don't know, I posted all my stories yesterday.
• 1:12:19
  Talk about it a couple of times, but.
• 1:12:22
  Yeah, he said that. And he was the one that helped
• 1:12:25
  me really understand that Genesis, the, you know, we were
• 1:12:28
  created to create. And then he that made me look a
• 1:12:34
  little more into just the power of our words too.
• 1:12:37
  I always talk about that, right? Like with CDT.
• 1:12:39
  But yeah, Genesis one and three, God said, let there be light.
• 1:12:46
  And there was, which means we speak it.
• 1:12:49
  It happens. It might not happen in Godspeed,
• 1:12:53
  but it happens. We have that authority to speak
• 1:12:56
  it and that's what it becomes. So what I'm learning is the
• 1:12:59
  deeper that I get into the word, that there really isn't that
• 1:13:03
  much disconnect between mental health and the Bible, which
• 1:13:06
  obviously makes sense because God's our creator, right?
• 1:13:09
  And if that's and, that's the manual.
• 1:13:14
  Yes. So.
• 1:13:16
  It really is. Yes, OK.
• 1:13:20
  So good. I know I'm like just so much
• 1:13:23
  this stuff. God is just one of the things
• 1:13:25
  and normally I pray, but because we were having all the technical
• 1:13:28
  difficulties before, like would have prayed before, like God has
• 1:13:32
  already blessed the space. He already knew what was
• 1:13:34
  happening. How does alignment with Holy
• 1:13:38
  Spirit create heaven backed business ecosystems that
• 1:13:43
  multiply impact not just revenue?
• 1:13:49
  How does the Holy Spirit provide heaven backed business
• 1:13:53
  ecosystems? That multiply.
• 1:13:55
  That creates impact, multiply. Yeah, impact, not just revenue.
• 1:14:00
  Yeah. Yeah.
• 1:14:06
  How does the Holy Spirit do it? This is how he's done it for me.
• 1:14:10
  I read the Word, He gives me a strategy, and then I just
• 1:14:15
  implement the strategy. Yeah.
• 1:14:17
  And that's just it. So, so that's kind of how he
• 1:14:20
  does it to sum up, is he does it through his word.
• 1:14:23
  That's what I've learned from me personally.
• 1:14:26
  So when I come up on a roadblock in my business where I'm like, I
• 1:14:30
  don't know the strategy now. God, like that strategy didn't
• 1:14:32
  work, not the way it needed to. I mean it was great, but I need
• 1:14:36
  a new strategy and I need it quickly.
• 1:14:39
  Please help me. Like you said, not just make
• 1:14:41
  money but create impact because I know you called me to do that.
• 1:14:44
  Please help me God and He will literally just highlight
• 1:14:48
  something in the Bible. The last time I asked for
• 1:14:50
  strategy, it was the widow with the two sons.
• 1:14:54
  Her husband died, she needed money, she had a debt, her
• 1:14:58
  husband had a debt and they were coming for the debt.
• 1:15:01
  The first kings. First kings.
• 1:15:02
  Is this the one where the oil with the oil?
• 1:15:08
  The vessels in the oil, the vessels in the oil and I, I
• 1:15:12
  could probably pull it out somewhere, but I won't.
• 1:15:13
  And I read, I've read that story so many times, but on that day,
• 1:15:17
  the Holy Spirit downloaded a strategy from that story and he
• 1:15:22
  said, get out a piece of paper and and graph it out or diagram
• 1:15:26
  it out so you understand what's next.
• 1:15:29
  Yeah. And that's what I did.
• 1:15:31
  Yeah. And that's what I did.
• 1:15:33
  And so that was it. And I can't get through the
• 1:15:35
  entire strategy cuz we'd be here all day, but it was so clear.
• 1:15:40
  You and God and the Holy Spirit. Some things are just.
• 1:15:42
  Absolutely for you. And the Trinity, yes. 100% I
• 1:15:48
  wanted to say that, but I said it nicely, like we'll have all
• 1:15:51
  day, but that's really why because it's not supposed to be
• 1:15:53
  shared. So thank you for calling that
• 1:15:55
  out. Absolutely.
• 1:15:56
  I had to learn that there are times where a guy is giving me
• 1:15:59
  just goodness and I want to call and talk to somebody.
• 1:16:02
  Nobody picks up. Nobody picks up.
• 1:16:06
  And I was like, and I got it. You want me to talk to you?
• 1:16:09
  This is for me. This is just for me, for my own
• 1:16:13
  idiots, and I'm one to share a lot of things with people.
• 1:16:16
  And he said no, no, no, daughter, they didn't earn this.
• 1:16:19
  This ain't for them. They ain't.
• 1:16:20
  Even. Right.
• 1:16:21
  Right, right, right, right. Yeah.
• 1:16:24
  So good. So true.
• 1:16:25
  Yeah. So that's how I go for God's
• 1:16:28
  strategy. God breathed heaven breathed
• 1:16:31
  heaven back strategy where I know I'm in alignment with God's
• 1:16:34
  will and God's order. I just take it to the word.
• 1:16:37
  That's that's all I do. I used to look at all of these
• 1:16:41
  different YouTube videos and try to get the tutorials and try to
• 1:16:44
  learn, but I my mind would be so overcrowded and I get headaches.
• 1:16:49
  It's just so much more simple with the Holy Spirit.
• 1:16:51
  Absolutely, because that that's confusion, because then you're
• 1:16:54
  going to hear all these things, the conflicting things.
• 1:16:56
  So naturally we go to learn. We've been programmed to learn,
• 1:16:59
  but we've been programmed to go everywhere instead of the book.
• 1:17:02
  And so I love that your answer was so simple for such a big
• 1:17:07
  question. And that's really what it is.
• 1:17:10
  And like when again, that gets that speaks back to surrender
• 1:17:13
  the simplicity like this thing with God.
• 1:17:15
  It's not trickery. It's not, it's not that hard
• 1:17:19
  like, and he tells us like he's not going to give you more than
• 1:17:23
  you can bear. If you're tempted, turn away.
• 1:17:26
  Like he provides an out for you. If you're tempted, he will
• 1:17:29
  provide an out for you. And if you don't know what it
• 1:17:32
  is, ask for help. He will give it to you.
• 1:17:35
  And I've heard you consistently talk about asking for help.
• 1:17:39
  And I think that's so important for anybody like to learn to ask
• 1:17:44
  for help from God because on earth we're taught.
• 1:17:48
  Don't be begging, act like you have, you know, all these
• 1:17:52
  things, all this shame and then you have not because you ask not
• 1:17:56
  we've been programmed all these things that go against the word
• 1:18:00
  of God. And so now I'm like I've heard.
• 1:18:03
  I'm. Telling you when these these
• 1:18:07
  seeds have been in me, but they weren't being water, weren't
• 1:18:13
  being water, they weren't being fertilized and nurtured because
• 1:18:16
  it's in here. So good.
• 1:18:19
  It's like now This is why people see stuff and it's coming.
• 1:18:23
  Like what it that's I think it's in Proverbs 31, right?
• 1:18:27
  Like God is within her, she cannot feel.
• 1:18:30
  Yes. And anybody watching, listening,
• 1:18:34
  right? But you have to believe that.
• 1:18:37
  So it's like you have to replace those thoughts, like thinking
• 1:18:40
  about CBT. You have to replace all those
• 1:18:42
  thoughts with what the Bible says about who we are, whose we
• 1:18:47
  are, what we have access to, the authority.
• 1:18:50
  And I love how you talked about the silent authority that we
• 1:18:53
  also possess and how God gives us divine strategy.
• 1:18:59
  It doesn't have to be hard. It's hard because we're trying
• 1:19:02
  to do it on our own. We're trying to do it the way
• 1:19:06
  that the world tells us or we're doing this.
• 1:19:09
  We're looking at what everybody else is doing, and God has
• 1:19:11
  something right for each and every one of them.
• 1:19:16
  It's so true. It's so true.
• 1:19:18
  And your point around simplicity that like it's, it needs to be
• 1:19:25
  simple because life can be chaotic.
• 1:19:29
  So when it comes to these big things, I truly believe God
• 1:19:31
  wants it to be as simple as possible and clear.
• 1:19:34
  And that links back to luxury because when you think about
• 1:19:38
  luxury in the worldly sense, minimalism is a big thing in the
• 1:19:42
  luxury space, luxury design space, simplicity and
• 1:19:46
  minimalism. And so that echoes the type of
• 1:19:49
  luxury that heaven is and the type of luxury that that God is.
• 1:19:53
  That echoes with how the Holy Spirit wants to move through US.
• 1:19:57
  And that to me is the epitome of luxury.
• 1:19:59
  It's just minimalism with God makes things so much easier.
• 1:20:05
  It does and fun I. Don't.
• 1:20:09
  It's a. If you know, you know.
• 1:20:12
  Yeah. If you know, you know.
• 1:20:15
  But people can see it on you and there's no explanation.
• 1:20:19
  So this is one of the reason why I said God let my life be the
• 1:20:23
  proof. So he's doing the work inside.
• 1:20:25
  It's like I'm a fountain and the things are pouring out and then
• 1:20:29
  it's about to be crazy. I said, godfather, I'm ready,
• 1:20:32
  open the floodgates. Before I would have drowned and
• 1:20:34
  would have been like, it's too much.
• 1:20:38
  No, Father, get just rain down on please, please.
• 1:20:45
  Yeah, that's why I'm. Here for us.
• 1:20:47
  I'm telling. You this is the season.
• 1:20:49
  I feel it. I feel it for us, for us who are
• 1:20:54
  again, have a heartfrob who have made the decision, because
• 1:20:57
  that's another thing. You don't need to be
• 1:20:58
  spiritually, you know, like high level spiritual.
• 1:21:02
  You don't need to know the Bible like the back of your hand.
• 1:21:05
  You don't have to. I have a client right now and
• 1:21:07
  she's just determined. Every time I, I try to pull out
• 1:21:10
  something, a mirror back of a thought that she said that
• 1:21:13
  doesn't line up with God, she will then put work on herself
• 1:21:16
  and say, OK, I'm going to go and I'm going to reprogram myself
• 1:21:19
  and I'll be back. You know, she's into like all
• 1:21:21
  the neuro stuff and I'm like, you don't have to do any of
• 1:21:24
  that. Like all you have to do is make
• 1:21:26
  a choice, make a decision, just make a decision.
• 1:21:30
  And your decision is yes, God, I'm surrender to you.
• 1:21:34
  That's it. And then from there, the
• 1:21:36
  simplicity of God and the potency of the Holy Spirit will
• 1:21:40
  wash away any of that programming on your behalf
• 1:21:43
  because he's, he's our advocate. So I think we just give us
• 1:21:47
  ourselves way too much work when it's just based in a decision.
• 1:21:52
  You don't got to go to church every Sunday and, and feel like
• 1:21:55
  a Christian. Just make a decision and then
• 1:21:58
  watch God work. Watch him.
• 1:22:01
  Watch him. Yeah.
• 1:22:02
  And there was one last thing before I take us out with the
• 1:22:05
  signature question, what you were saying about this being a
• 1:22:08
  season like for particular women.
• 1:22:11
  And I was talking with a client recently about she was like,
• 1:22:15
  it's like so many people are breaking up and like so many
• 1:22:18
  people going through these things.
• 1:22:19
  I was like, cuz there's an untethering that's happening
• 1:22:21
  that people have gotten in relationships that were not
• 1:22:24
  sanctioned by God, that we're not ordained by God,
• 1:22:28
  orchestrated by God, when God's like, yeah, that's enough.
• 1:22:31
  I have work for you to do. The number of women and even
• 1:22:35
  some men who are being subdued by who they're partnered with
• 1:22:40
  and how that's being used to keep them out of purpose, it's
• 1:22:45
  crazy. God is only going to allow that
• 1:22:46
  for so long. Right.
• 1:22:49
  He's only going to. That's a great.
• 1:22:50
  Point. The untethering.
• 1:22:53
  I love that. Yes.
• 1:22:54
  So it needs to happen and that's why you got your call.
• 1:22:58
  You were woken up in 2022. Well, I was Jarred.
• 1:23:05
  And then doing. 43 and then really surrendered in 2024.
• 1:23:11
  That is is gossipy. It's like you blink and he's
• 1:23:17
  established it. And so and the more that you are
• 1:23:20
  in that relationship with him, the more like you say, he'll
• 1:23:22
  take you into the word. And I really believe, and I
• 1:23:25
  think this shows with the work that you do, is it's an exodus
• 1:23:30
  somewhere, but commit your plans to the Lord and He will
• 1:23:33
  establish. Yes.
• 1:23:36
  And so failure is not allowed to.
• 1:23:38
  Give you all the steps. He will give you all the steps.
• 1:23:42
  OK, so then, Alicia, if you could leave the audience with
• 1:23:45
  one powerful truth to help them to rise in faith and thrive in
• 1:23:50
  purpose, what would it be? One powerful truth.
• 1:23:53
  It's like this, like spotlight, like that's just like so much
• 1:23:57
  pressure. One powerful truth.
• 1:23:59
  I mean, you've already given plenty.
• 1:24:02
  I have, yeah. But I'm, I'm trying to really
• 1:24:05
  lean in to what the Holy Spirit wants me to say right now
• 1:24:09
  because I don't want it to be just for me saying, oh, you
• 1:24:12
  know, I really want it to be an on time word for the women, men
• 1:24:18
  watching this right now. And I really, yeah.
• 1:24:22
  What's coming up is your royalty.
• 1:24:27
  That's it. When you're saved, you are part
• 1:24:30
  of a royal lineage, which means you're not like them.
• 1:24:35
  So stop trying to be like them, stop trying to fit in like them,
• 1:24:41
  and just own the radiance that is on you.
• 1:24:46
  Stop shrinking it, stop apologizing for it, stop trying
• 1:24:50
  to whisper it. Just be.
• 1:24:53
  Just be royalty. It's OK.
• 1:24:55
  It's OK. You're going to get pushed back.
• 1:24:57
  You're going to get negative criticism, and that doesn't
• 1:25:01
  matter your royalty. Period.
• 1:25:04
  Period. That's first Peter 29 low key.
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  Hi, Keith. Yes, come on.
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  A royal priesthood. Peculiar people.
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  Yes, OK, very. Peculiar, yes, very peculiar
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  individual. Yes, Alicia was been an absolute
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  pleasure. I'm glad we were able to connect
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  and to do this. Me too.
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  And you know, you just never know what guy might pick up.
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  We might see Alicia back here again another time in the near
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  future. Yes, and it was such an honor.
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  It was such a pleasure, and I just love talking to you.
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  This flowed so amazingly. I felt the Holy Spirit here just
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  pouring into this conversation. So thank you for having me here.
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  And before we close up, I do want to share a couple things
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  that are coming up, if you don't mind.
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  Oh yes, come on. So September 24th, there is a
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  free online symposium called the Millionaire Momentum Global
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  Symposium where I'll be interviewing over 20 experts
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  that will teach us strategy on how to breakthrough to that
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  first $1,000,000. So this is a big project I'm
• 1:26:11
  working on. I'm very excited about it and
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  it's free. God said make it free.
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  We're not going to. I know somewhere.
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  Yeah, I want to say it'll cost you time as it is.
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  It is an investment because if you imagine every day we'll be
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  dropping that guest of the expert interview in your e-mail
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  and there's over 20. So you will need to dedicate
• 1:26:36
  over 20 days of your time and each interview is like 30
• 1:26:41
  minutes. That's easy deal.
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  That's why I work. It is light work, but like you
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  said, it's not free of your time and investment.
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  Absolutely. So thank you for that
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  correction. However, this is about to be big
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  again. This is me being obedient to
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  what God showed us. He said people are scaling and
• 1:26:58
  they're going to bust through into 7 figures, 8 figures, 910
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  figures. But strategy is necessary.
• 1:27:05
  And you said that's coming up September 20.
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  I don't. Know where y'all about
• 1:27:09
  September? I'm about to scale and bust
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  through. OK, that's when we start.
• 1:27:13
  Until then, by the time we get into October scaled and bust
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  through OK. Yes.
• 1:27:20
  And the conversation is how can you make a million by the end of
• 1:27:22
  2025? Bam, so there.
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  Yeah, big faith, big faith type talk.
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  So join us there. Millionaire momentum.net is
• 1:27:32
  where you can register. Millionaire momentum.net, Yes.
• 1:27:38
  All right, OK, well, I'll say that.
• 1:27:43
  So audience, we're going to shift to you.
• 1:27:46
  This is where you're going to get your your call to action.
• 1:27:49
  So I want you to first reflect where am I shrinking my
• 1:27:53
  authority instead of walking boldly and my God-given
• 1:27:57
  dominion? And then next, I want you to
• 1:27:59
  take action. Well, you just got one action
• 1:28:01
  item, so you're going to go sign up for that millionaire
• 1:28:04
  symposium. Tell them one more time where
• 1:28:05
  they can do that. Millionairemomentum.net.
• 1:28:08
  All right, and then also you're going to join the price like a
• 1:28:12
  Princess challenge if you feel mood that the Holy Spirit is
• 1:28:16
  stirring for you to do that and Alicia has been so gracious and
• 1:28:21
  generous to make this even easier for you.
• 1:28:24
  This is normally available for $47.
• 1:28:26
  She is making it available for just $7.00 and it's exclusive to
• 1:28:32
  you all that are listening here on Rise and Thrive with Doctor J
• 1:28:35
  Nicole and you can get that at me www.aliciabradley.com/price
• 1:28:42
  like a Princess. So yes, it might be.
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  A printless code, Yes. You can use the promo code
• 1:28:49
  Princess promo code Princess to get it for $7.00 just for you
• 1:28:53
  all. I'm not, it's not going to be
• 1:28:55
  listed as $7.00, but just for you put in that promo code
• 1:28:59
  Princess and you got it. OK.
• 1:29:02
  And I will help you and know it will help you scale in ways and
• 1:29:05
  just help you breakthrough in ways that you haven't before.
• 1:29:09
  Love that and I love that when God he gives those things, it's
• 1:29:12
  the thing and then finally we're going to leave you affirmed.
• 1:29:16
  I have divine permission to walk in my God-given authority,
• 1:29:21
  multiply my impact, and build a legacy of excellence.
• 1:29:27
  All right. Well, Alicia, it's been a
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  pleasure having you here today on Rise and Thrive for Doctor J
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  Nicole. Yes.
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  Thank you so much. And listeners, I want you to
• 1:29:39
  know you can find rice and fried for Doctor J Nicole pretty much
• 1:29:42
  anywhere that you list. And God has expanded our
• 1:29:45
  territory. So we are now available on
• 1:29:48
  Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio.
• 1:29:53
  By the time you hear this, we'll be on sub stack if we're not
• 1:29:56
  already on sub stack as well, in addition to already Spotify,
• 1:30:00
  YouTube and Apple podcast. So God is doing things the
• 1:30:04
  merges of available. So Speaking of surges, I'll be
• 1:30:08
  at Life Surge DC and you can look down in the description and
• 1:30:12
  this is going to be a faith filled day and it's aligns
• 1:30:16
  exactly with what Alicia is talking about, how to scale your
• 1:30:19
  Kingdom businesses and your your Kingdom purpose.
• 1:30:23
  And so join me. It's taking place in October.
• 1:30:26
  I'm going to link some information down below with a
• 1:30:28
  special promo code for you all to attend that conference too.
• 1:30:32
  It's going to be here in the Washington, DC region.
• 1:30:35
  So thank you for joining us and we will see you next time on
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  Rising 5 for Doctor J Nicole.