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The Choice Making The Choice To Leave Social Media Plus Call 25 To 30 Old · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: your exploration when it's extremely difficult to make up your mind,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, having the power of choice can actually weaken
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  Speaker 1: a person's heart. On this episode, we're going to explore
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  Speaker 1: our choice to stay with social media or move plus.
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  Speaker 1: Why does so many people make the choice to call
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  Speaker 1: twenty five to thirty years in age old, my name
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  Speaker 1: is Arrow. Life is a series of choices. Who decides
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  Speaker 1: when you're not making the right choice, and is it
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  Speaker 1: a fear of going wrong? The greatest lessons in life
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  Speaker 1: it's time to reopen your heart. Having that power of
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  Speaker 1: choice is actually your daily gift. On this highway, we're
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  Speaker 1: going to learn to trust mirages. What is the choice?
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  Speaker 1: How about that choice to drop your social media persona
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  Speaker 1: and just come out being you with your true colors.
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  Speaker 1: The journey or decision to make such an authentic or
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  Speaker 1: transparent move sounds pretty simple, right, Actually it's more psychological
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  Speaker 1: because it's a matter of totally shifting a person's life
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  Speaker 1: and style. A social media persona isn't a lie or fake,
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  Speaker 1: but it's curated into a version of you. It's been
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  Speaker 1: shaped by a ten feedback as well as rewards, and
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  Speaker 1: over time that starts to feel more like a performance
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  Speaker 1: and less about being you. So therefore you still have
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  Speaker 1: to maintain it because of popularity. The tough walk of
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  Speaker 1: leaving it all behind is facing the people that see
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  Speaker 1: you more for your social media presence than your real self.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there's a gap and it's very uncomfortable. That
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  Speaker 1: means your relationships are going to change. People need to
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  Speaker 1: see the more real you and not this social media
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  Speaker 1: driven performance. So instead of asking will this perform well,
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  Speaker 1: the new question every day should be is this actually me?
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  Speaker 1: What part of your social media is actually you? And
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  Speaker 1: what part of that performance is accepted or rested? It
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  Speaker 1: is a matter of choice. Hey, coming up next, why
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  Speaker 1: do so many people that are twenty five to thirty?
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  Speaker 1: Why do they call it i'm Why do they say
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  Speaker 1: I'm old? Hey, welcome back to the choice. Why do
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  Speaker 1: so many people make the choice to look at themselves
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  Speaker 1: in the mirror at twenty five or thirty and say,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm old? Whoa whoa? Whoa whoa. First
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  Speaker 1: of all, the term old is relative. People are using
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  Speaker 1: the word one hundred percent wrong. They're relying on old
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  Speaker 1: as being more of a feeling or social comparison. Old
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  Speaker 1: is a perspective. Just because you feel old at twenty
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  Speaker 1: five or thirty or even forty, you aren't even old yet.
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  Speaker 1: It's our culture that compresses youth, culture which glorifies teens
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  Speaker 1: in early twenties. It is completely natural to be your
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  Speaker 1: age and feel expectations. I mean, your career has been established,
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  Speaker 1: marriage is on your heart, and financial stability. Well, that
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  Speaker 1: sounds like something that an old person would do, not
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  Speaker 1: somebody that's twenty five to thirty years old. So therefore
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  Speaker 1: it's looked upon as being nothing more than just the
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  Speaker 1: checkpoint the cold hard facts of reality. Twenty five to
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  Speaker 1: thirty years old is still seen as being early adulthood.
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  Speaker 1: Your brain hasn't even fully matured yet. Redefining your path
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  Speaker 1: is every day, and physically you start to feel that
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  Speaker 1: moment of ooh, my god, I think I'm peeking. When
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  Speaker 1: you called twenty five years old old, it's actually very
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  Speaker 1: revealing to the people around you. It's saying I am insecure. Ooh,
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  Speaker 1: and that is your choice. I'm marro Ow and that's
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  Speaker 1: what I was writing while the sun was waking up
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  Speaker 1: on a brilliant new day.