Latest / Beauty In Positivity / Your reminder WHY your manifestation is already on the way
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- 0:00SPEAKER_00: Hello and welcome back to the Beauty and Positivity podcast.
- 0:04SPEAKER_00: My name is Alyssa Skinner.
- 0:06SPEAKER_00: I'm a multi-six-figure entrepreneur in the beauty and personal development industry.
- 0:11SPEAKER_00: And after learning how to achieve my dream life, I reached such a level of joy.
- 0:17SPEAKER_00: I found passion in helping others achieve their dream.
- 0:21SPEAKER_00: The exact same way I did, using all the practices and exercises.
- 0:25SPEAKER_00: I'm sharing the mindset and perspective shifts I've done and things I still currently do to maintain and even expand my dream life now.
- 0:36SPEAKER_00: So with that being said, I want you to think about something that you currently have that you used to want so bad.
- 0:44SPEAKER_00: You used to dream and pray and wish you could finally have this thing, whether that be a person, a thing, an experience, maybe it was a vacation or a promotion, a certain amount of money, a dream partner, your fitness, your house, car, friend group, family.
- 1:06SPEAKER_00: It can be absolutely anything.
- 1:08SPEAKER_00: Something you used to wish for that you now have.
- 1:12SPEAKER_00: And if you currently have it, that means your past self always had it in this timeline and in this life.
- 1:22SPEAKER_00: Your past self was always going to get it.
- 1:25SPEAKER_00: Because think back to the version of you sitting there hoping and dreaming and wishing for this thing that you now have.
- 1:33SPEAKER_00: If you could go back in time and sit down with your past self, wouldn't you just look at her and smile thinking, you have no idea?
- 1:41SPEAKER_00: It comes.
- 1:42SPEAKER_00: And it just becomes your new normal.
- 1:44SPEAKER_00: So I want you to find that certainty that you wish you could give your past self in that moment.
- 1:51SPEAKER_00: You wish you could show your past self.
- 1:53SPEAKER_00: Relax, it eventually comes.
- 1:54SPEAKER_00: Stop worrying, stop stressing, stop working so hard, stop running in circles.
- 2:00SPEAKER_00: And it know that it comes in a way you never would have guessed.
- 2:05SPEAKER_00: And you're just sitting here and looking at her, wishing you could give her the certainty because you know the future.
- 2:12SPEAKER_00: I want you to give that certainty to yourself right now about whatever it is you're trying to manifest currently.
- 2:19SPEAKER_00: Because right now you are your past self.
- 2:22SPEAKER_00: Whatever you desire, whatever you're trying to manifest is already in your future.
- 2:28SPEAKER_00: You already have it, and your future self is looking back, smiling at you right now as your past self, thinking you have no idea how fucking good it gets.
- 2:40SPEAKER_00: And eventually all your desires become your new normal.
- 2:46SPEAKER_00: Maybe sometimes you forget that you now have this thing that you used to dream of because it's just your everyday life now.
- 2:54SPEAKER_00: It's your new normal.
- 2:56SPEAKER_00: That is exactly however, whatever you're trying to manifest right now, that's how that's gonna feel again.
- 3:04SPEAKER_00: You will achieve it, you will attain it, and it's gonna go right back to normal.
- 3:10SPEAKER_00: It's gonna be a shoulder show.
- 3:11SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I'm so proud of it.
- 3:12SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I have it, I did it, I got it.
- 3:15SPEAKER_00: That excitement will fade, and it's just be it's just gonna be your new normal again.
- 3:20SPEAKER_00: And maybe you would even tell your past self who was dreaming and wishing for this thing you now have, it doesn't change anything.
- 3:28SPEAKER_00: It doesn't fix anything.
- 3:30SPEAKER_00: You achieve everything you ever wanted, and yet you still want more.
- 3:35SPEAKER_00: You still feel like it's not enough.
- 3:37SPEAKER_00: You still feel like it didn't change your identity the way you thought it would.
- 3:41SPEAKER_00: You just got the thing, but you're still you.
- 3:44SPEAKER_00: Of course, there's growth with everything.
- 3:47SPEAKER_00: We're constantly expanding as humans.
- 3:50SPEAKER_00: But most of the time we want something because we think it will give us a feeling.
- 3:56SPEAKER_00: It will make us feel different, it will make us feel better, it will solve all of our emotions that we're feeling right now that we don't want to feel, the emotions that we wish we could release.
- 4:08SPEAKER_00: If you are wanting more money, you wish you could release the feeling of never having enough, the feeling of lack.
- 4:16SPEAKER_00: If you are trying to manifest your dream partner, it's because you want to get rid of this feeling of loneliness.
- 4:22SPEAKER_00: You just want to feel love instead.
- 4:25SPEAKER_00: And temporarily, there's always the high, there's always the excitement and the fun, but it does not remove low vibrational emotions permanently.
- 4:36SPEAKER_00: It only brings temporary excitement.
- 4:39SPEAKER_00: And in the moment it does feel life-changing, but after the high fades, after the excitement fades, you are wanting something better, you're wanting something more, you're wanting the next thing.
- 4:52SPEAKER_00: And you are always you.
- 4:54SPEAKER_00: Wherever you go, there you are.
- 4:57SPEAKER_00: You will bring yourself with you with every desire you manifest, with every vacation destination you make it to, with every friend you meet, you are still you.
- 5:09SPEAKER_00: And so it's important that you find joy right now in everything you have.
- 5:14SPEAKER_00: Literally, you are in the good old days right now.
- 5:17SPEAKER_00: Soak up every single moment, every single person.
- 5:21SPEAKER_00: I know it's cliche, but you will look back on this version of you with a soft heart.
- 5:28SPEAKER_00: And if you watch my vlogs online, you know my morning routine is very similar each day, and yet I've somehow romanticized it every single morning.
- 5:41SPEAKER_00: That is a choice.
- 5:42SPEAKER_00: I wake up, I open my eyes, I look at the sun out my window, and I smile, and I affirm in my head I just woke up in the best timeline possible.
- 5:52SPEAKER_00: Every single morning, every single morning.
- 5:54SPEAKER_00: That is my routine.
- 5:56SPEAKER_00: I have trained my brain to think that first thing when I wake up.
- 6:01SPEAKER_00: I am literally looking for joy from the moment my eyes open.
- 6:06SPEAKER_00: I am excited to live throughout my day the second my eyes open.
- 6:11SPEAKER_00: It is absolutely a choice.
- 6:14SPEAKER_00: And my morning routine brings me peace of mind, it regulates my nervous system.
- 6:19SPEAKER_00: It is slow, it is peaceful, it's quiet, it's alone time, and it's my definition of success.
- 6:27SPEAKER_00: My definition of success was always a slow morning.
- 6:31SPEAKER_00: It's what I journaled for six years.
- 6:34SPEAKER_00: I journaled my idea of success, my dream morning for six years.
- 6:40SPEAKER_00: Exactly the morning I live out right now.
- 6:42SPEAKER_00: And I journaled it for six years before it was my reality.
- 6:46SPEAKER_00: And you know what?
- 6:48SPEAKER_00: I do think that's a big qualification for me to be able to teach personal development because I was willing to keep trying for six years.
- 6:57SPEAKER_00: I never gave up, I never stopped believing.
- 6:59SPEAKER_00: I always knew I deserved that life.
- 7:02SPEAKER_00: I always kept trying.
- 7:05SPEAKER_00: Literally.
- 7:06SPEAKER_00: Go listen to my other episode, the difference between successful people and people who don't get what they want, something like that.
- 7:14SPEAKER_00: It is literally the only difference is the successful people tried.
- 7:20SPEAKER_00: They literally kept trying.
- 7:22SPEAKER_00: So I'm human.
- 7:23SPEAKER_00: I had doubt.
- 7:24SPEAKER_00: I wasn't sure if it was actually gonna happen at times, but that is never a reason to stop visualizing or stop journaling or stop hoping.
- 7:33SPEAKER_00: Never ever ever.
- 7:34SPEAKER_00: There's no reason to ever stop.
- 7:37SPEAKER_00: There's never a reason to stop because only when you stop you don't get what you want.
- 7:42SPEAKER_00: That's the only time you will not receive your manifestation, is when you stop and you decide it's not happening.
- 7:49SPEAKER_00: You make a decision.
- 7:51SPEAKER_00: Therefore, you've manifested the outcome you always assumed you would get.
- 7:55SPEAKER_00: You are always manifesting.
- 7:58SPEAKER_00: You have not failed if you're still in the process of trying because you didn't quit.
- 8:04SPEAKER_00: You only failed at manifesting whatever it is you want when you decide it doesn't work and it never will work.
- 8:10SPEAKER_00: So please let my life be an example.
- 8:12SPEAKER_00: It works.
- 8:14SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it takes a certain amount of time for us to believe it's possible.
- 8:19SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it takes six years of deconditioning your brain and what you've been taught.
- 8:24SPEAKER_00: I believed everyone had to wake up, pour their coffee, and get out the door in the car, sit in traffic and go to work.
- 8:32SPEAKER_00: I believed that was the normal.
- 8:33SPEAKER_00: So how it took six years to believe I didn't have to fucking do that if I didn't want to, and I could manifest something else.
- 8:42SPEAKER_00: But it was ingrained in me.
- 8:45SPEAKER_00: That's what a responsible person does, that's what a hardworking person does.
- 8:48SPEAKER_00: They get up, pour their coffee, get in the car, sit in traffic, and go to work.
- 8:52SPEAKER_00: It took me six years to rewire that.
- 8:55SPEAKER_00: So it is possible.
- 8:58SPEAKER_00: And I knew I was worthy of it, and I needed to make sure I believed it could happen.
- 9:06SPEAKER_00: And I didn't know the how.
- 9:08SPEAKER_00: I just needed to know to keep going.
- 9:11SPEAKER_00: That's it.
- 9:11SPEAKER_00: Allow the universe to unfold your reality in its own way.
- 9:16SPEAKER_00: It's always a surprise, and that's why manifesting feels so exciting because it's a surprise.
- 9:23SPEAKER_00: It's when you least expect it.
- 9:25SPEAKER_00: And you don't have to plan or structure everything logistically.
- 9:30SPEAKER_00: You only have to sit back and relax and trust the universe because your duty is to have faith.
- 9:35SPEAKER_00: I think every religion says that.
- 9:38SPEAKER_00: And so that is literally your only duty with you and God, with you and source, with you and the universe.
- 9:44SPEAKER_00: You just trust it is given.
- 9:48SPEAKER_00: And we are human.
- 9:49SPEAKER_00: We don't need to control the whole outcome.
- 9:52SPEAKER_00: We only have to believe and put effort into believing it.
- 9:56SPEAKER_00: Believing it's coming, believing it will happen.
- 9:59SPEAKER_00: So take a look at everything you've achieved up until this point, everything hard that you've gotten through that is building your resilience.
- 10:08SPEAKER_00: Your resilience gives you a larger capacity in life, a larger capacity to keep going and never give up until you reach the destination.
- 10:18SPEAKER_00: You are dreaming of a big dream, a small dream, it doesn't matter.
- 10:26SPEAKER_00: You are, we all have a capacity to give up or to keep going.
- 10:32SPEAKER_00: So everything you have gotten through up until this point has built your resilience capacity, which means you can keep going because you have gotten this far.
- 10:42SPEAKER_00: And when you achieve the manifestation you're going after right now, that capacity of resilience and faith and belief of your power, your co-creation, gets even bigger.
- 10:54SPEAKER_00: Every single time you manifest, that capacity expands.
- 10:58SPEAKER_00: So listen to this on repeat every morning if you need the reminder because we all need the push, we all need the motivation every morning when we wake up so that we don't fall back into yesterday.
- 11:09SPEAKER_00: And if you want to do the identity work that I did, my Enlightened Babe Academy is always linked on my social media.
- 11:16SPEAKER_00: I am sending you so much love and success.
- 11:18SPEAKER_00: Bye.