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The Male Experience Vs The Female Experience · So Shameless

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  Speaker 1: they know everything. You know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, damn, they were explaining the shit, though.
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  Speaker 1: The shit?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, the high rocks thing.
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  Speaker 1: Precious nigga. All right, y'all ready to get started? Get
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it was pretty bad.
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  Speaker 2: Huh?
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  Speaker 1: The shit, right? Yeah, it was bad.
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  Speaker 2: It's a lot.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome back to So Shameless. Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Part two commences. How y'all feeling? Y'all all right? Anybody
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  Speaker 1: need anything?
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  Speaker 2: I'm chilling.
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  Speaker 2: Great.
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  Speaker 4: Phenomenal. Phenomenal.
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  Speaker 1: I have a video that I want to start this
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  Speaker 1: the road. It's going to be a lot of bullshit,
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  Speaker 1: but it's going to be fun. Okay. Y'all excited? Let's
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  Speaker 1: do it. Let's do it. All right, let's see.
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  Speaker 5: If you know a man who wakes up before his
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  Speaker 5: alarm every single morning, that's not discipline. That's a man
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  Speaker 5: whose mind won't let him rest, even when his body
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  Speaker 5: begs for it. He's not up early because he's motivated.
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  Speaker 5: He's up because the weight of what he's carrying won't.
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  Speaker 4: Let him sleep past five. The bills, the plan, the
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  Speaker 4: people depending on him.
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  Speaker 5: While everybody else in the house is dreaming, he's already
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  Speaker 5: solving tomorrow's problems. That's not an early riser. That's a
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  Speaker 5: man who hasn't had a peace of mind in years.
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  Speaker 4: If you know a man who wakes up.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, why'd you say that yesterday?
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  Speaker 2: Because I'm like, I always wake up a full mile long,
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  Speaker 2: but I didn't think it was that.
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  Speaker 4: I thought it was muscle memory.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I didn't do that science. It ain't just that.
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  Speaker 3: You know, she just made a blanket statement.
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  Speaker 1: That supposedly applies to everyone. That was A.I.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's like.
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  Speaker 1: That's definitely A.I.
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  Speaker 4: I was about to ask you, where you be getting
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  Speaker 4: this stuff from?
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  Speaker 1: Me?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Facebook.
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  Speaker 2: It's usually real people.
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  Speaker 1: I take a seat and then I plan a bigger one.
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  Speaker 1: All right.
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  Speaker 4: You rabbit hole this.
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  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 1: I am at it. Now, y'all might not agree, but
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  Speaker 1: that's a real thing for some people.
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  Speaker 4: 1,000%.
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  Speaker 1: My ADHD barely lets me sleep like that. And the
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  Speaker 1: fact that I'm in control of all of these different things,
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  Speaker 1: I'm definitely overthinking. I'm always in hustle mode. Prem, can
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  Speaker 1: you relate? No, I.
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  Speaker 6: I don't have a consistent lifestyle, right? So I sleep
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  Speaker 6: whenever I want usually. But whenever I have something important
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  Speaker 6: to do and I set the alarm, I wake up
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  Speaker 6: before the alarm. It's the weirdest thing. Like I have
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  Speaker 6: my daughter two weeks on, two weeks off. On the
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  Speaker 6: two weeks off, I'm waking up 11, 10, 11 the latest, 10, 9, whatever.
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  Speaker 6: When I have my daughter for those two weeks, 5.55,
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  Speaker 6: I'm up, and the alarm is set for 6 o'clock,
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  Speaker 6: so it's weird.
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  Speaker 1: Your body just says, yo. I never understood it.
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  Speaker 6: It's like my body. I don't know if she's specifically right.
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  Speaker 6: You know what I mean? But it is a thing, though.
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  Speaker 6: That is a thing that I can't explain.
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  Speaker 1: It's will.
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  Speaker 4: It's muscle memory. It's responsibility. And I don't think it's
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  Speaker 4: exclusive only to men.
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  Speaker 2: I knew it.
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  Speaker 4: Literally the other day, I was trying to meal prep
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  Speaker 4: and cook a potato. It was taking mad freaking long.
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  Speaker 4: And then once it was ready, I put it in
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  Speaker 4: the fridge in the glass container. I went to sleep
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  Speaker 4: because I was exhausted, bro. I could not sleep because
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, yo, is the glass container going to explode?
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  Speaker 4: Let me just get up. And I literally got, I
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  Speaker 4: could not sleep. I tried to ignore it and I
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  Speaker 4: had to get up on my bed and take the
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  Speaker 4: lid off. Was it real? Was it going to explode?
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. But my brain was telling me that. So,
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  Speaker 4: you know, that's a blanket statement. But yeah, none of
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  Speaker 4: us can sleep when there's so much on your mind.
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  Speaker 1: What? I don't like women.
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  Speaker 4: Oh.
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  Speaker 1: Today. Okay.
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  Speaker 4: Do you don't like me?
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  Speaker 2: I need more points.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like what they do. No, you got to
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  Speaker 1: get to that faster. This is what I'm saying. I
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  Speaker 1: don't like what they do. We can speak about, and
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  Speaker 1: it's funny because this happens to me often. You know
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  Speaker 1: I love women. I love women.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But the way that they discount men's experience. Oh, I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 1: And then include themselves. But they discount it by saying
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  Speaker 1: what they go through as well. Okay. Right? And it's like,
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  Speaker 1: what you just said ain't what we were talking about.
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  Speaker 4: I hear you, but I felt like that was just
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  Speaker 4: a blanket statement.
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  Speaker 1: It was, it was, it was.
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  Speaker 4: Because it was a blanket statement, I didn't feel like
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  Speaker 4: it was mutually exclusive to men. That's why I asked
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  Speaker 4: you where you got that content from. But I don't
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  Speaker 4: exclude men's experience because I do believe, even when we
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  Speaker 4: were talking about you and the cash app or paying
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  Speaker 4: for the guy behind you. there's so many things that
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  Speaker 4: go on in your minds in terms of how you
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  Speaker 4: guys socialize, your hierarchy. It's not about cleaning it.
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  Speaker 2: Up.
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  Speaker 4: There is not a space for your feelings to be
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  Speaker 4: validated or for their safe place to explain your feelings
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  Speaker 4: without it being invalidated. So I completely agree with you.
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  Speaker 1: I do.
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  Speaker 4: But I understand what you're saying.
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  Speaker 1: No, I, so that does happen often.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like, yeah, in certain situations, I think because sometimes,
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  Speaker 4: like I said earlier, it's people be like, it's this
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  Speaker 4: or that when it can just be both. We're all
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  Speaker 4: living human existence and human experience for the first time,
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  Speaker 4: you know, but you're right. I think a lot of
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  Speaker 4: people tend to invalidate emotions, period. Instead of listening, they
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  Speaker 4: want to include themselves in the emotion.
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  Speaker 1: But it's like women don't want to see men as
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  Speaker 1: human beings.
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  Speaker 4: I think women saying that is a blanket statement. I
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  Speaker 4: think it's a type of woman.
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  Speaker 1: On social media.
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  Speaker 4: But social media is a type of algorithm depending on
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  Speaker 4: what you see.
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  Speaker 1: But you never know who you're talking to on social media.
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  Speaker 1: You might be talking to a bot.
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  Speaker 7: 1,000%.
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  Speaker 1: You might be talking to a bitch that's got no
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  Speaker 1: male friends and she's being rejected by all men. She's
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  Speaker 1: the ugly friend in the pack. So she just always
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  Speaker 1: got the most negative shit to say while the other
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  Speaker 1: women that she hang around don't have that same experience.
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  Speaker 1: So that's why I say social media is funny because
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  Speaker 1: you always got to think about why has this person
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  Speaker 1: got 7,000 followers online? This person has been saying some
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  Speaker 1: shit that a lot of other bum ass people can
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  Speaker 1: align to.
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  Speaker 4: But that's algorithm.
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  Speaker 1: Check it out. This person says, not to be a
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  Speaker 1: pick me, but sometimes I genuinely think being a man
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  Speaker 1: must be so damn hard and we don't talk about
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  Speaker 1: it enough. There are good men who spend their entire
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  Speaker 1: lives carrying the weight of their families, working themselves to exhaustion,
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  Speaker 1: sacrificing their own needs and quietly carrying responsibilities they were
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  Speaker 1: never taught how to talk about. Sometimes it feels like
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  Speaker 1: they all asking for in return is a little validation.
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  Speaker 1: They're human to the pressure to provide, to be successful,
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  Speaker 1: to always have it together. And the way a man's
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  Speaker 1: work can so easily become tied to what he earns
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  Speaker 1: is heartbreaking. It reminds me of blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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  Speaker 1: How quickly somebody can stop being seen as a worthy
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  Speaker 1: once they can no longer serve the purpose expected of them.
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  Speaker 1: The comments.
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  Speaker 4: In response to her?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: They let her have it. I already know they did.
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  Speaker 1: What does any of this have to do with being
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  Speaker 1: a man? My single working mother went through the same thing.
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  Speaker 1: What the fuck is the way to the family when
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  Speaker 1: you don't cook, clean, do laundry, groceries, take kids to school,
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  Speaker 1: and appointments, give birth, buy clothes for everyone, remember what
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  Speaker 1: matters to them, spend time with them. No man has
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  Speaker 1: empathy for a woman like this, by the way. And
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  Speaker 1: who set that system up? It's like, yo.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think the rebuttal is unnecessary, but I think
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  Speaker 4: that's in response to the blanket statement.
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  Speaker 2: No, but That rebuttal is also.
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  Speaker 4: In response to what the person said.
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  Speaker 6: No, the rebuttal in response to what the person said
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  Speaker 6: is also 100% normal on social media.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, because people thrive in negativity and clickbait. And honestly, listen,
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  Speaker 4: I'm going to be real with you, right? Social media
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  Speaker 4: is very much indicative of what you interact with. You
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  Speaker 4: can clean your algorithm. You're absolutely right. There are stuff
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  Speaker 4: out there. But I can look at one person's algorithm
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  Speaker 4: versus my algorithm. And it's like, damn, you on the
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  Speaker 4: other side of the rainbow, my guy. I don't know
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  Speaker 4: what the hell is happening over here. So, you know,
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  Speaker 4: it really does depend on what you consume, but what
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  Speaker 4: you consume will take you over. And you're right. There
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  Speaker 4: are a lot of miserable, negative people on social media
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  Speaker 4: that don't want to validate anybody's emotions, let alone men. And,
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  Speaker 4: you know, we do need to have the conversations and
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  Speaker 4: have that space to have it open. But like, you're right.
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  Speaker 4: There's a new wave of what's going on where we
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  Speaker 4: just want to respond. We don't want to listen.
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  Speaker 1: Hmm.
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  Speaker 4: And I'm not going to say blanket statement all women.
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  Speaker 4: What do you mean? I don't like the blanket statement
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  Speaker 4: of all women, all men. But I will say the
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  Speaker 4: current generation of what's going on because of whatever they concluded,
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  Speaker 4: they're reactionary to something that doesn't exist. I don't think
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  Speaker 4: it's all women. Just the way I say it, it's
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  Speaker 4: not all men.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like I've been sitting here with you for
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  Speaker 1: an hour.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you have been.
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  Speaker 2: And some change, right?
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  Speaker 6: And I feel like I can tell that you're extremely intelligent.
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  Speaker 6: And for that reason, I want to separate the genders
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  Speaker 6: and ask you, do you believe that women on social
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  Speaker 6: media go there with the sole purpose of tearing men down?
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: Do I feel there are women that exist that do that? Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
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  Speaker 4: Absolutely. And I'm not invalidating anything that you guys are saying,
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  Speaker 4: but it is interaction. You told me something about even
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  Speaker 4: the followers on here. Honestly, there's a lot of things
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  Speaker 4: that changed. Women aren't as feminine as they used to be,
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  Speaker 4: and men aren't masculine as they used to be. Because
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  Speaker 4: in the same breath that you feel that women aren't
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  Speaker 4: as feminine and are attacking and invalidating, I'm starting to
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  Speaker 4: see that a lot from men, and I'm very surprised.
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  Speaker 1: Of it.
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  Speaker 4: You know, so the thing about it is everything is changing.
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  Speaker 4: It's not one or the other. But are there miserable
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  Speaker 4: freaking people? Abso-fucking-lutely in every walk of life. On social
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  Speaker 4: media specifically because they're Twitter finger thugs. You can't grab
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  Speaker 4: them through the screen. They never fucked around and found out.
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  Speaker 1: Yo, Pri, let me ask you a question. Yeah. You
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  Speaker 1: think it's only women that's doing that? Because, my nigga,
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  Speaker 1: the niggas are crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Let me explain that to you.
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  Speaker 1: And you got to know, the way she's saying ain't
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  Speaker 1: all women, it's niggas like me, you, all of us
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  Speaker 1: had motion, we being around. Our social circles don't allow
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  Speaker 1: us to be clowned out. We can't even do it.
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  Speaker 1: Niggas are going to look at you like you crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Some of these niggas ain't do nothing but play Call
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  Speaker 1: of Duty all their life. And they are sad and
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  Speaker 1: miserable souls. So go ahead. What were you going to say?
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  Speaker 2: I will say this.
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  Speaker 6: I think a higher percent, if we were to break
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  Speaker 6: it down to genders, I think a higher percent of
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  Speaker 6: women have that safety net that if all goes wrong
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  Speaker 6: in a conversation, let's just go to, yeah, you hate
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  Speaker 6: black women. You guys hate black women anyway. I feel
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  Speaker 6: like that's the baseline to, or that's the end goal to,
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  Speaker 6: that's the go-to to.
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  Speaker 4: A miserable, uneducated person. It's like calling someone.
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  Speaker 1: So you're not part of that percentage.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 2: And maybe you don't represent that.
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  Speaker 6: Like I said, I only been here an hour and I'm,
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  Speaker 6: I'm sure a lot of people can see it because
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  Speaker 6: it's basically more in the way you speak where somebody.
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  Speaker 2: Could see that.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Look, I like how she put that together.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: All right, cool.
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  Speaker 6: But just because, you know, You're the exception to the rule.
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  Speaker 6: Doesn't change the rule.
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  Speaker 4: I will say women are naturally more petty. Do women
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  Speaker 4: naturally revert to a level of pettiness more than a man? Absolutely.
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  Speaker 4: Because I will say that women just operate different socially.
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  Speaker 4: So there is a different social construct amongst women that
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  Speaker 4: don't exist for men. Okay. So yes, I will say that.
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  Speaker 4: But let me tell you something. We don't talk percentages. Again,
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  Speaker 4: things have changed. Right now, there's at least 50% of
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  Speaker 4: men that have never asked a woman out on a
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  Speaker 4: date in person. OK, you guys come from the school
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  Speaker 4: of all you did was pick up women in person.
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  Speaker 4: You've got to realize there's Tinder, there's Internet. Men do
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  Speaker 4: not know how to talk to women because they've never
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  Speaker 4: spoken to one. A woman has spoken to all types
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  Speaker 4: of men. So, again, we're talking about a different social
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  Speaker 4: construct here. So again, not all women, just like there's
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  Speaker 4: not all men, you know, but again, depending on your
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  Speaker 4: level of healing, your level of intelligence, what you revert
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  Speaker 4: to shows very much about your world less than what
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  Speaker 4: you're not exposed to. Can I agree that that is
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  Speaker 4: a woman's natural trait? But the internet have gave everybody
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  Speaker 4: that trait because you don't know who's behind those figures
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  Speaker 4: because you got men pretending to be women on social
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  Speaker 4: media just so they can bitch out on people and
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  Speaker 4: not be accused of not being manly.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
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  Speaker 4: So the reality of it is the data is conflicting,
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  Speaker 4: but it still exists. Now, do we expect women to
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  Speaker 4: do it? Absolutely.
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  Speaker 2: Do we expect men to do it?
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  Speaker 4: No, we don't. But it still exists.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, somebody cut that fire down.
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  Speaker 6: She is doing exactly what she can because of how,
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  Speaker 6: like I said, intelligent she is.
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  Speaker 2: I asked one question. She answered the question, then ran off.
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  Speaker 4: Because nothing's black and white.
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  Speaker 2: No, yes, it is black and white. No, it's not.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, it is.
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  Speaker 6: Certain things are black and white. And I feel like
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  Speaker 6: in this case, you made amazing points. And at face value,
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  Speaker 6: I can look at those points and be like, wow,
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  Speaker 6: you're absolutely right about that. But then I got to
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  Speaker 6: separate it and say that kind of doesn't have, you
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  Speaker 6: just made that point about 50% of men never ask
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  Speaker 6: the woman out.
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  Speaker 4: But I did that to prove a social construct.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, that is so, I never thought about that.
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  Speaker 2: And it's cool. But that's a conversation to be had
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  Speaker 2: on its own.
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  Speaker 1: It is.
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  Speaker 4: But just like how you make a metaphor, that was
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  Speaker 4: my metaphor to get you to understand my point of view.
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  Speaker 4: Because if you cannot see with the data that I have,
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  Speaker 4: you can't form an opinion based on what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 4: So I was giving you data based on personality traits
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  Speaker 4: because you're saying that's a woman's personality trait, which may
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  Speaker 4: be inherently true. But at the same time, to say
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  Speaker 4: that it's a majority percentage of women is not fair
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  Speaker 4: in the times that are changing based on the way
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  Speaker 4: men interact with women based on their feelings. So you
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  Speaker 4: being a real ass nigga, you can't relate to that.
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  Speaker 4: That's why you can't fathom it happening.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, but that I've been told more, more times than
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  Speaker 6: I can bear that.
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  Speaker 2: That I don't love black women, right?
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  Speaker 4: That's fucked up.
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  Speaker 2: And it's never literally said to me.
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  Speaker 6: But when I say I've been told that, it's somebody
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  Speaker 6: makes these videos or makes these posts or whatever. And
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  Speaker 6: it's always, you know, what happened to men? They don't
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  Speaker 6: love black women anymore.
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  Speaker 4: It's a blanket statement.
• 14:52
  Speaker 2: They hate women. They hate this. They hate that. Or
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: you talk to somebody and... Because I love comment fighting.
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: It's my thing.
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: You like the controversy.
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm one of those.
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: If you go, you'll see my.
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: Everybody knows me for that, right? You're going to have
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: a time.
• 15:07
  Speaker 6: I love comment fighting, right? And when you get into
• 15:11
  Speaker 6: one of those with women.
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: At the end of it all, it's always... Look at
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: your sassy ass on the internet arguing with women in
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: some way. Now I got sassy because I'm winning? Now
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: I'm sassy and I'm arguing with women? The girl put
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: up a post.
• 15:32
  Speaker 6: Bashing a business and She was complaining about the price
• 15:36
  Speaker 6: throughout the whole thing. I said, yo, if you don't
• 15:38
  Speaker 6: like the price, just say you don't like the price.
• 15:40
  Speaker 6: Maybe it's not for you. Everything doesn't have to be
• 15:43
  Speaker 6: put in mind with you in mind. You get what
• 15:45
  Speaker 6: I'm saying? Bro, she just ran. She got crazy. And
• 15:49
  Speaker 6: then it turned into, look at your sassy ass.
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: On the internet arguing with women.
• 15:55
  Speaker 4: It's lunacy.
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: It was lunacy until 14 more girls jumped in the
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: comment with her. I said, yo, you know what? I
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: know when to roll them. I know when to fold them, bro.
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: Y'all got it.
• 16:07
  Speaker 4: Y'all got it. But what I'm saying is that's not
• 16:09
  Speaker 4: a mutually exclusive experience. That's a lack of intelligence. Not
• 16:12
  Speaker 4: male or female. Because let me tell you something. I
• 16:14
  Speaker 4: made a comment about a package. I had to look
• 16:16
  Speaker 4: and see what I read because I was getting cursed
• 16:17
  Speaker 4: out by 10,000 people.
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: Men? Yes.
• 16:20
  Speaker 4: And I was being called 304s, hoes, all types of stuff.
• 16:24
  Speaker 4: And the thing about it is.
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: Because of something that happened on here?
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: No, but I've seen it. These niggas be nuts. I
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: can't even believe some of the shit niggas be saying.
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: But it's lunacy. So you're not wrong for saying what
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: you're saying.
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: But again.
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: when someone reverts to calling you names, that's them already
• 16:39
  Speaker 4: acknowledging that they lost. So we're not talking about women.
• 16:42
  Speaker 4: We're talking about idiots. We're talking about people who can't
• 16:45
  Speaker 4: form a sentence or a thought. And it's like, like, bro, chill,
• 16:50
  Speaker 4: you know, but you're, you're right. You know what I'm saying?
• 16:52
  Speaker 4: In terms of what's going on now, it's just, it's
• 16:55
  Speaker 4: messed up. People are living to be mean because let's
• 16:58
  Speaker 4: be honest, there's a lot of famous nobodies out here
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: and there's a lot of people that are living behind
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: a veil of clout chasing and whatever and you know what?
• 17:06
  Speaker 4: Misery loves company.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: And they gonna be on them things tweeting, typing their
• 17:11
  Speaker 4: life away because their life ain't looking like your life
• 17:14
  Speaker 4: so I'm gonna do anything I can to take you
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: out your shine.
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: It's that but it's also social media. The internet is
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: the best and worst thing to ever happen. In my opinion. Like,
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: Women are comparing stories and trauma bonding. And I know
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: there's different meanings of trauma bond. But when it's like,
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: because she went through it or something. Now I feel
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: a way towards men.
• 17:38
  Speaker 4: They're bandwagoning.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: They're bandwagoning. And the attention that they're getting from social media.
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: The negative attention that gets them this dopamine rush so
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: they do it more. Then you incorporate what you put
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: out there. The energy you take in, that shit becomes
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: a part of you.
• 17:54
  Speaker 4: You ever heard of mob mentality?
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: Mob mentality?
• 17:57
  Speaker 4: That's what it is. It's mob mentality. It's like it's
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: a disease. You know what I'm saying? It's like they
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: all cling together because it's like I find strength in numbers.
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: You know, it's honestly, it's literally insane. You can get
• 18:08
  Speaker 4: a mob to do anything if they just kind of
• 18:10
  Speaker 4: slightly agree.
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: The biggest.
• 18:12
  Speaker 6: The biggest example of mob mentality is y'all really thinking
• 18:17
  Speaker 6: Jordan is the GOAT, bro.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: That's the biggest example of mob mentality, bro. Oh, he's cooking.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: He's cooking right now. I didn't know he was cooking
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: like that.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: So who is the GOAT to you? What are you doing?
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: His name is LeBron James, man. You don't think there's
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: an argument for either one? No, no, no.
• 18:38
  Speaker 6: I asked my... Let me see. Chris was born in 1987.
• 18:42
  Speaker 6: That means his son is born in 2014, and we
• 18:46
  Speaker 6: were having a conversation about basketball, and his son born
• 18:50
  Speaker 6: in 2014 looked at me and.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: Said, what, Michael Jordan is the GOAT? He's born in 2014.
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: That's how old his son is, bro. That's how his son's,
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: 14 is what? That means he's 12.
• 19:03
  Speaker 6: He's 12, bro. He's 12 telling me Michael Jordan's the GOAT.
• 19:07
  Speaker 6: It's mob mentality, bro. He's one person.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: And it's a fact. He's 14 years old. It's a fact.
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: I mean, he's 12 years old. He doesn't have enough
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: information in his tiny brain to make that statement.
• 19:23
  Speaker 7: Why not?
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: If I said Muhammad Ali is the greatest boxer of
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: all time, I've seen him box.
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: I wasn't from my generation.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: I'm 50.
• 19:29
  Speaker 6: No, it's not about you seeing him box live. It's
• 19:32
  Speaker 6: about you actually being able to do the research.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: This 12-year-old.
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: Yo, what did Cam come on here to do? What
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: did he come on here to do?
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: Cam, he is cooking right now.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Khalil cannot tell me Michael Jordan is the GOAT.
• 19:47
  Speaker 5: Khalil?
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Khalil? Yo, why you... You just arguing with a 12-year-old?
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: This shit made you feel... You made you feel what?
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: You was like, come get your son. Yo. He saw
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: the multitude of people wearing the sneakers and saying it,
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: and he's just... Carrying on. You got grown men. You
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: got grown men doing the same thing. The multitude of
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: people that believe this, that doesn't do nothing for you.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: It becomes a mob because we believed it. We seen it.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: We were there. We experienced it. I was there. I
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: experienced it. When he did this and this and then
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: he came around and he did that, I went and
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: shoveled the snow off the ground up the block and
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: went and did the same thing. Okay.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: Okay, so what the part?
• 20:30
  Speaker 6: You're just explaining to me what moves is your son,
• 20:33
  Speaker 6: what moves did y'all do that LeBron do?
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: That's it.
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: Yo, listen, I'm not getting into the Jordan versus LeBron conversation.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: I'm getting into it. I'm getting into it because what
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: is the argument? Mob mentality. Just because you're in the
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: front of the mob doesn't mean that you're not part
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: of the mob.
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: You're just in the front.
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: You're leading it. You know what I'm saying? You and
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: your generation is leading it. And you know what? Maybe
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: you're right. You're right, right? But enough of you were right.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: That's what created the mob.
• 21:08
  Speaker 6: And therefore, my 12-year-old godson can look me in the
• 21:12
  Speaker 6: face and tell me Michael Jordan's a goat when I
• 21:15
  Speaker 6: know for a fact, a thousand percent fact, he hasn't
• 21:19
  Speaker 6: watched five Michael Jordan games.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: What's up, Sean? What's up? Just grieve it, man. I
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: did not know y'all was doing this today. I'm not
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: doing it either. We done. We done.
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: I was just talking mob mentality.
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: That was it.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: Mob mentality. iPhone versus Android is a lot easier because
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: the iPhone's a mob. We was talking about that too
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: before the show. We a mob. Oh, I'm in the
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: back of that mob. I'm not a leader in that mob. Oh,
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: you got an Android and an iPhone. No, no, no.
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: I have an iPhone, but I understand that something is
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: wrong with them. Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely. They got me.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: They got me. Bro, they got me, bro. I'm got.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: They got him. They got him. We're got. And anybody
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: that went and bought that iPhone, the phone. Oh, they
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: got you. It wasn't nothing when Samson had it. I'm
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: about to tell you, niggas, I hate it.
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: I hate it.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: And I had to convince myself that there's a reason
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: why I'm going. As soon as I seen it unfolding,
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: you could watch a game on each side. I said, oh,
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: I like it now. I'm going. I'm going. Me too.
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: You getting a phone?
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: Oh, absolutely.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: I'm in the back of the mob with that one, bro.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: I know I'm buggered. I know they got me programmed.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: Me too, bro.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: Bro, I have the MacBook, the headphones, the.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: That's funny. The watch. But I'm going to tell you what.
• 22:30
  Speaker 4: Because it all works together.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: But I'm going to tell you what. You niggas that
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: got the space goggles is in the front. Yeah, yeah.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: You niggas that got the... Walking around the street.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: That's Randy.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Randy got the... Y'all niggas is in the front.
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: What?
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: Because there's no way. Were you ever going to buy that? $ 2, 000.
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: Huh?
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: $ 2, 000. $ 2, 000.
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: Chris. What? You was buying the iPhone goggles? You know
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: what I'm talking about? With the big black screen on
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: the front?
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: See, I got a little different, like, I don't really
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: be too into it. I be into it, but then
• 23:02
  Speaker 4: it's like I be like a little cautious about certain things.
• 23:04
  Speaker 4: I don't need everything. I don't need to show everything.
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: I know my phone is being watched and listened to,
• 23:10
  Speaker 4: but that don't mean I need to be forgetting and
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: showing them everything.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: Nigga looking at the moon all day. Y'all ready? We're
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: going to do men, women for another 45, 50 minutes
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: and then we out of here. Y'all ready?
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: Let's do it.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: I don't know who this is for right now. I
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: don't know if this is men's or women's. Okay. Either way,
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: I'm going to blame women. Let me see. Oh.
• 23:32
  Speaker 8: When a man's workday ends, he gets to clock out.
• 23:35
  Speaker 8: But when a woman's workday ends, it's like her second
• 23:38
  Speaker 8: shift starts. But nobody talks about that, right? Like I
• 23:40
  Speaker 8: could spend an entire day running a business, making decisions,
• 23:44
  Speaker 8: leading people, solving problems, carrying the mental weight of everything
• 23:48
  Speaker 8: that comes with building something. And then the moment I
• 23:50
  Speaker 8: walk through the door, it's like my brain don't get
• 23:52
  Speaker 8: to rest. It switches immediately. Like what are the kids eating?
• 23:56
  Speaker 8: Did they finish what they needed to finish? What do
• 23:58
  Speaker 8: they need for tomorrow? Like, are they okay emotionally, you know?
• 24:01
  Speaker 8: What needs to be watched? What needs to be packed?
• 24:03
  Speaker 8: What needs to be scheduled? What needs to be booked?
• 24:05
  Speaker 8: What needs to be handled, you know? And then it's
• 24:08
  Speaker 8: a marriage that needs attention too. A husband who also
• 24:10
  Speaker 8: had a long day. to pause just because you're exhausted.
• 24:15
  Speaker 8: And I'm not saying that men don't carry weight.
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: They do, right?
• 24:19
  Speaker 8: But a lot of men, when they come home, they
• 24:21
  Speaker 8: can check out for a few hours, watch the game,
• 24:23
  Speaker 8: sit on the couch, you know, decompress.
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: But for a lot of women, it's no version of that.
• 24:27
  Speaker 8: There's no moment where nobody needs something from you, okay?
• 24:31
  Speaker 8: The workday ends and it's like your second job immediately begins.
• 24:34
  Speaker 8: And The second job doesn't have a clock out time.
• 24:36
  Speaker 8: It doesn't have no weekends. It doesn't have no PTO.
• 24:38
  Speaker 8: And I think that two things can be true at
• 24:40
  Speaker 8: the same time, right? Like I can love being a
• 24:42
  Speaker 8: mother and still admit that I never get a break.
• 24:45
  Speaker 8: I can be grateful for my family, but still acknowledge
• 24:48
  Speaker 8: that the weight of carrying things can be exhausting. Seeing
• 24:52
  Speaker 8: that it's hard. It's not saying that I regret it.
• 24:54
  Speaker 8: It's just telling the truth and regretting. Women deserve the
• 24:57
  Speaker 8: space to tell the whole truth without being said that
• 25:01
  Speaker 8: they have ingratitude.
• 25:03
  Speaker 7: You know?
• 25:03
  Speaker 4: She's not complaining. She's caring.
• 25:05
  Speaker 8: And the least I think that people can do is
• 25:07
  Speaker 8: stop pretending that she's not.
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: When a man's working.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: I'm very sorry. Why are you laughing so hard?
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: You all right?
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: Yo, yesterday's weak. Yesterday's weak.
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: I don't know where you be getting this stuff from,
• 25:23
  Speaker 4: but okay.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Uh.
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: I personally look at that as indicative of the partner
• 25:28
  Speaker 4: you choose and the communication level that you have. Cause
• 25:33
  Speaker 4: why are you picking someone that doesn't help you? Why
• 25:36
  Speaker 4: are you picking someone that doesn't notice that you're tired too?
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: I'm an entrepreneur. So every hour of my day, I'm
• 25:43
  Speaker 4: literally working, you know, and to pick a partner where
• 25:46
  Speaker 4: you're at the same speed, you know, it's like, why
• 25:50
  Speaker 4: can't we just make more money and hire someone to clean?
• 25:52
  Speaker 4: Why can't we just make more money and hire someone
• 25:54
  Speaker 4: to watch these kids? Why can't we just make more
• 25:56
  Speaker 4: money to live the life that we enjoy? Again, to
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: say my job doesn't finish, it's like, okay, yeah. But
• 26:04
  Speaker 4: you also know what kind of partner you have and
• 26:06
  Speaker 4: what you're dealing with. And also communication exists. Therapy exists
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: if you want things to change. Yeah, Breen, go ahead.
• 26:14
  Speaker 4: I can't really.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: Go ahead, I see him. You can fight. Go ahead, fight.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: Please.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: Yo, Chris. We need it. I heard everything you said,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: like Cream said. You made a lot of valid points.
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: I hate using this word, right? But I think it's
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: just going to be, it's a good way for people
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: to understand what I'm saying. Okay. You're an alpha woman.
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: Uh-huh.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: I called you the boss earlier, right?
• 26:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: So I know, yeah, you'll be able to turn off
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: and let a man do until, until, because you're not
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: just going to, Women's brains are like, there's like so
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: many different facets of a woman's brain. I'm in the
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: car with Shorty. The map, the fucking ways is on
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: the thing. I'm following the ways. She going to say,
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: why you ain't go that way? Somehow she better than
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: the ways. She's examining everything. And that's how she does
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: everything all the time. If I got the kids and
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: I fed the kids, she going to be like, but
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: why didn't you? And then what time? And then what
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: do you, it's always something, right? And that's because that's
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: the way y'all are wired. So why, why, why is
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: this woman? on here complaining about her natural way of
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: living life.
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: Okay this is just who you are it's who.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: Y'all all are y'all scan y'all pay attention to the
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: intricate details of every single thing micromanage and the kid
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: never do when he say micromanage it's because when he
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: try here you come that's not i'm seasoning here she
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: come over my shoulder You ain't put enough parsley. You
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: ain't get... Why didn't you put the butterscotch pepper jack
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: on it? You can't... Yo, here, man. Here! Because I'm
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: trying to help, but it ain't. You're going to scan
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: and you're going to micromanage. You're going to have something
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: to say. And this ain't about me not doing anything.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: This is about the fact that your brains don't turn off.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: I feel you.
• 28:18
  Speaker 4: I can't relate to that.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: Waze is messing up that dish. Hello, speak on it.
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: And you don't use enough season.
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: Yo, you believe in gender roles?
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: I don't have no.
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: Problem with gender roles, but I also believe everything you
• 28:42
  Speaker 4: want in life, nothing is cookie cutter. Again, maybe my
• 28:45
  Speaker 4: outlook is different. I grew up with men. I have
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: four brothers. My dad raised me. My grandfather raised me. I,
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: it might be pick me ish, but I just have
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: a different outlook on life when it comes to roles.
• 29:00
  Speaker 4: I believe in letting a man lead. I believe in
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: not correcting him in front of people. I believe in
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: not fighting in public. I believe in, you know, if
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: I'm going to be with you, I'm going to trust you,
• 29:09
  Speaker 4: you know? And obviously me being who I am, I
• 29:11
  Speaker 4: might suggest things. I'm like, like, Nagging isn't necessarily in
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: what I do because, again, growing up with men, watching
• 29:19
  Speaker 4: my dad be like a serial womanizer in certain things,
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: you pick up on certain things and it's like, I
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: don't want to use this word, but I guess I'm
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: conditioned because of my environment. So certain things don't necessarily
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: trigger me. I'm not saying what she said isn't true
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: for her or other women. But when I look at
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: these type of posts, I'm sorry, I look at them
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: as panoply. for a certain reaction to elicit an emotion.
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: So this is actually bringing up an emotion for women
• 29:47
  Speaker 4: for them to talk about, for them to release. Maybe
• 29:49
  Speaker 4: certain things need to be said, even when we talk
• 29:51
  Speaker 4: about things on this podcast. Certain things that are said
• 29:53
  Speaker 4: bring up ideas in people that would never have thought
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: about it otherwise. So I'm not saying that experience isn't
• 29:58
  Speaker 4: real for people, but I'm a solution based person. You
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: called me a boss, right? I'm a boss because I
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: find solutions. I don't want to live in misery. So
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: if I find that this isn't working for me, I'm
• 30:08
  Speaker 4: a lever too. You know what I'm saying? I didn't
• 30:11
  Speaker 4: change my number and moved and be like, yo, I'm
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: good with this. I don't spin the block. So again,
• 30:15
  Speaker 4: I can't, I don't discredit anybody's journey or what they
• 30:19
  Speaker 4: go through. But for me, I'm living this current life
• 30:22
  Speaker 4: one time and I want to make sure my life
• 30:24
  Speaker 4: looks exactly the way that I want to look, want
• 30:26
  Speaker 4: it to look like. And I'm going to make those
• 30:28
  Speaker 4: choices based on that, a partner, a conversation, whatever, because
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: I am severely invested in how I want my life
• 30:35
  Speaker 4: to look like. So no knocking anybody in their roles
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: or what they do, but everything is a trajectory of choices.
• 30:44
  Speaker 6: Generally speaking, if I begged you to agree or disagree
• 30:48
  Speaker 6: with her, which would you do?
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: We have in general. We know everybody.
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: Well, I don't I'm not black and white. Do I
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: agree with that being some people's lives that they don't
• 30:58
  Speaker 4: speak up for?
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: OK, better question. Do you think she's right or wrong?
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: That's two different questions.
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: Do I think it's right for her life that that
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: she feels that way? Feelings are only real to the
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: person that's experiencing it.
• 31:12
  Speaker 7: Oh, sure.
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: Listen let me piggyback on that one thing I learned
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: from therapy is this most often there is no right
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: or wrong and a very important thing that Chris said
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: what she complained about is specific to her relationship that's
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: your issue in your relationship and your partnership and if
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: other women are having the same issue in their relationship
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: that's a relationship issue in their dynamic you have to
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: have a partner that is balancing whatever you bring to
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: the table and the gender roles or lack thereof need
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: to be addressed and communicated in your relationship in your
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: partnership you can't speak for other women like if she's
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: clearly talking about what she's going through or projecting other
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: people's comments and stuff like that so it's like that
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: is not an issue unless you allow it to be
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: an issue in your own personal relationship that's like i
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: don't even understand why you even bringing this up because
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: this is a one-on-one conversation between you and your partner.
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: And another thing real quick that I find strange is
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: this is just the humor in all of this. Is
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: she even on a podcast or is she just by herself?
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: She's by herself talking.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: There ain't nobody talking to her. I just want to say.
• 32:29
  Speaker 4: One statement though because just to support everything, right? The
• 32:32
  Speaker 4: problem here is too many people are rushing towards marriage
• 32:35
  Speaker 4: like it's a goal and not for the perfect partner.
• 32:38
  Speaker 4: And sometimes when you're rushing towards marriage just to win
• 32:41
  Speaker 4: the race of having the ring and having the wedding,
• 32:43
  Speaker 4: you end up with the partner that you didn't think
• 32:45
  Speaker 4: you were having because you were too busy romanticizing and
• 32:47
  Speaker 4: fantasizing of what the outcome was and not what the
• 32:50
  Speaker 4: life would look like.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: Do you think that such a thing is a perfect partner?
• 32:53
  Speaker 4: A perfect partner for you. There is no such thing
• 32:56
  Speaker 4: as perfect, but you have to do the work within
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: yourself to understand what you need, what you're capable of,
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: what you're not capable of, because you are what you attract.
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: And I'm fully like believe in that, because when you're low,
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: you're going to attract low. When you're high, you're going
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: to vibrate and attract high. And but you also have
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: to have discernment. Is that true for her and other women? Absolutely.
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: But the silver lining of this conversation should be it
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: doesn't have to stay that way.
• 33:20
  Speaker 6: Yeah, but just to answer you, though, when you say
• 33:23
  Speaker 6: it's a one-on-one thing, I feel like I can generally
• 33:26
  Speaker 6: agree or disagree or say that she's right or wrong
• 33:29
  Speaker 6: because she's speaking generally, bro. She's saying most women. She
• 33:32
  Speaker 6: didn't say I and my husband. She's speaking generally, bro.
• 33:36
  Speaker 6: If you listen to that again, she's speaking generally, and
• 33:39
  Speaker 6: I'm going to generally disagree with her. I feel like
• 33:41
  Speaker 6: a lot of women are happy.
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: In that role.
• 33:44
  Speaker 6: I feel like a lot are women, a lot, that
• 33:47
  Speaker 6: role that she's complaining about, I feel a lot of
• 33:49
  Speaker 6: women are.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: Happy in that role. And they want to cater and
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: they want to raise their kids. They want to be
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: the perfect example.
• 34:00
  Speaker 6: I have the best co-parenting situation you could ever ask
• 34:05
  Speaker 6: for in life. I would be happy if she never
• 34:09
  Speaker 6: put another outfit on my child. ever in life, bro.
• 34:12
  Speaker 6: I want to dress my daughter up every day she wakes.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: Every day she's.
• 34:16
  Speaker 6: Stepping out the door, I want to be the one
• 34:17
  Speaker 6: to dress her up. And for that reason, I want
• 34:19
  Speaker 6: to buy all her clothes and do... Of course, her
• 34:22
  Speaker 6: mom would never let that happen. And I shouldn't be
• 34:26
  Speaker 6: so judgmental of her style. You get what I'm saying?
• 34:28
  Speaker 6: She wants my daughter to dress like a kid. And
• 34:32
  Speaker 6: I want my daughter to dress like She's on a
• 34:34
  Speaker 6: Zara runway every day. There's a difference there, you know?
• 34:38
  Speaker 6: And we can meet in the middle. I have to
• 34:40
  Speaker 6: understand that I can't be that. But I would be happy.
• 34:44
  Speaker 6: Say we did live together. I would be happy to
• 34:46
  Speaker 6: be solely responsible of shopping for and.
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: Outfit choosing when it came to my daughter. And that's
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: just one aspect.
• 34:55
  Speaker 6: And I only said that to bring back the point
• 34:58
  Speaker 6: that I think a lot of women are happy in
• 35:00
  Speaker 6: that role, which we now tag in Chris and say,
• 35:04
  Speaker 6: you get what you look for.
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: Find what you want. What if there's a lot of
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: women that are happy in that role? In the role
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: of being the house person and being the nag or
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: whatever we want to call that role. What if a
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: lot of them... feel like the men just aren't helping
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: when it comes to certain shit and they would love
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: to help. We're talking about, I think the women, see
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: Chris is, I think a lot of us are from,
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: I don't want to say more privileged, but we're in
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: a way better space than a lot of other people.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: We are, I think the conglomerate here are in a
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: way better space than a lot of other people. So
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: there are women out there that's juggling multiple kids and
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: the dad isn't making enough to even put them in
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: a better situation, and he come home and he sit
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: on the couch when she is at work, then she
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: come home and she got to do the, and he
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: ain't even think about it. He ain't even think about
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: trying to help. See, for instance, right? Matter of fact, babe,
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: I got you a new shower curtain. Let's take that
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: shit down right there because I bought one the other day,
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: but it was too short. So now this shit not
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: sticking to the side of the tub. So I want
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: another one, babe. I got it. I'm bringing it tonight,
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: but niggas not doing that. Niggas is just not thinking
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: about the other things that's going on in the house.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: And although it might not be like, woe is me,
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: it's also like, yo, you really just going to let
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: this be like this? You just going to leave this here?
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: You just like, whatever, the cat shitted on the floor, whatever.
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: You just going to step over the shit? You know
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying?
• 36:49
  Speaker 6: Let me show you the power of communication, bro, and
• 36:52
  Speaker 6: why you shouldn't generalize things, right?
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: I made a statement.
• 36:54
  Speaker 6: I said, yo, a lot of women are happy in
• 36:56
  Speaker 6: that role, right? And you took that statement and added
• 37:00
  Speaker 6: one little thing that's making me see something in a
• 37:04
  Speaker 6: light that I never thought of before. I am financially stable, right?
• 37:08
  Speaker 6: And I feel like, like you said, when you're not
• 37:12
  Speaker 6: in a space where you can help in your household financially,
• 37:16
  Speaker 6: and a woman is the... Yo, without love, listen, without love,
• 37:20
  Speaker 6: I'm going to say that first, capital letters, without love,
• 37:24
  Speaker 6: a woman being a breadwinner in a household is like
• 37:26
  Speaker 6: the recipe for disaster.
• 37:27
  Speaker 4: You said that, without love, without love.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: 100% real love, bro.
• 37:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah, without love.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: For sure. A woman being a breadwinner in a household is... Because, bro,
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: let's just call it what it is. It's fine.
• 37:37
  Speaker 6: Women make their own money. They make a lot of it.
• 37:39
  Speaker 6: They don't want to spend their own money, though. That's
• 37:40
  Speaker 6: just a fact of life. If you haven't figured that
• 37:43
  Speaker 6: out yet, you're behind. They don't want to spend their
• 37:45
  Speaker 6: own money.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: They are happy to make it. They want to make
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: the most of it.
• 37:50
  Speaker 6: A woman would be happy to be a CEO and
• 37:53
  Speaker 6: still go home and say, I don't want to buy
• 37:54
  Speaker 6: the food tonight.
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: Or whatever.
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: I don't want to pay for dinner.
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: Whatever. You get what I'm saying?
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: So.
• 38:00
  Speaker 6: Without love, a woman being a breadwinner in a household,
• 38:02
  Speaker 6: when you know you're not the breadwinner in a household, yes,
• 38:06
  Speaker 6: you better. Listen, you don't got to do the dishes,
• 38:09
  Speaker 6: but buy the dishwasher and fill it up and put
• 38:12
  Speaker 6: the pot in.
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: Put the clothes in the hamper. Don't throw it on
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: the floor.
• 38:17
  Speaker 6: I'm going to my crib. I'm sitting on the couch,
• 38:20
  Speaker 6: leaving my shirt wherever I want to leave it because
• 38:21
  Speaker 6: it is what it is. I'm handling everything else. I'm
• 38:25
  Speaker 6: going shopping when it's time. I'm bringing the groceries in,
• 38:27
  Speaker 6: but you can't. not pay for the groceries, and don't
• 38:30
  Speaker 6: bring them in the house?
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: You can't do that. You can't do that. You can't
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: do that.
• 38:38
  Speaker 4: You have self-awareness, though. A lot of people don't have self-awareness.
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: But that's where we get them type of videos from.
• 38:45
  Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying? So she didn't make that
• 38:47
  Speaker 6: video because of what she's doing. There's a disconnect in
• 38:51
  Speaker 6: her household somewhere.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: But the niggas gotta listen, even if they listening to
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: you right now. Because there's a nigga... that heard you
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: just now, and his wife walked, just closed the door,
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: she done put the bag in front of the door,
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: and she went back downstairs to get the other shit,
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: and he was sitting there watching Giants recap. Get your
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: ass up, go downstairs, help her, give her a hug,
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: grab the shit, yo, I got that, don't worry about it.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: Bring the shit in, and help her put the shit away,
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: even though I know you don't know where nothing's at.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: That's a fact. Where nothing goes, because you've never done
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: it before. And this is just little shit, bro.
• 39:25
  Speaker 6: Living in a house where the woman has, the good
• 39:28
  Speaker 6: things about it that you can't even put on paper sometimes.
• 39:32
  Speaker 6: Just a small thing. I'm the type of person to
• 39:35
  Speaker 6: put this down right here, right? I own a hundred
• 39:37
  Speaker 6: of these blitz decks. But I never can find one.
• 39:40
  Speaker 6: That's why I own them. And as soon as my... Bro,
• 39:44
  Speaker 6: I applaud this probably seven times since.
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: We've been shooting.
• 39:46
  Speaker 4: That shit got crack in it.
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: As soon as I need to find it, Baby, you
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: know where the blitz deck's at? She's going to know where.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: All 13 of them is at. Because that's a woman.
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Where my keys at?
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: On the dresser, under the towel that you left there
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: when you came out the bathroom, even though I asked
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: you not to do that.
• 40:01
  Speaker 6: But if you're handling business, it'll be all right. And
• 40:04
  Speaker 6: handling business is not just financial.
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: No, no, no, no.
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: But that's very important. It's very important. It's important, too, though.
• 40:12
  Speaker 4: But at the end of the day, I agree with you.
• 40:13
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying? But it all comes down
• 40:15
  Speaker 4: to communication. We can all lose ourselves. We can all
• 40:18
  Speaker 4: be forgetful. We can all take people for granted, but
• 40:20
  Speaker 4: it's communication. But also with the communication, it's how we
• 40:23
  Speaker 4: communicate with each other. We can't communicate in an emotional state.
• 40:26
  Speaker 4: We can't communicate out of frustration. And I'm going to
• 40:28
  Speaker 4: be honest, like I said, growing up with my brothers,
• 40:31
  Speaker 4: growing up with my dad, it gave me so much
• 40:34
  Speaker 4: insight on when to talk, when not to talk. And
• 40:36
  Speaker 4: I know a lot of women don't like to say
• 40:38
  Speaker 4: that because it makes them feel trained into certain things, but... Women,
• 40:41
  Speaker 4: we think so layered and tiered and complicated, and we
• 40:45
  Speaker 4: think past, backwards, forwards. You can't bring that to a man.
• 40:50
  Speaker 4: And I've tried, and I was told, I don't know
• 40:53
  Speaker 4: what you're talking about. And you realize, unfortunately, communication is strategy.
• 40:59
  Speaker 4: You know, you have to know when and how to
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: say things. So again, when you want the things that
• 41:06
  Speaker 4: you want, just like you want that degree, you study
• 41:08
  Speaker 4: for that test. You want a good relationship. You have
• 41:10
  Speaker 4: to study your relationship and figure out how can if
• 41:13
  Speaker 4: you want it to survive. How do I put the
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: pieces together? How do I call it quits? Because the
• 41:18
  Speaker 4: thing about it is a spade is a spade at
• 41:20
  Speaker 4: the end of the day. You know, you can change
• 41:23
  Speaker 4: your outcome by communication or evaluating if this is where
• 41:26
  Speaker 4: you even be because it's okay. People grow apart. But
• 41:29
  Speaker 4: communication and strategy.
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: I have one more. No, on this topic, because Prem
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: said a few things about finances. White people tend to agree.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I think men should always pay for everything.
• 41:46
  Speaker 9: I could not agree more, and I always do. And
• 41:49
  Speaker 9: by the way, you're talking about signaling. I swear to God,
• 41:52
  Speaker 9: I've never done this because I was signaling. I only
• 41:56
  Speaker 9: did this because I was a lucky person, worked for
• 41:59
  Speaker 9: a generous network, and as I said on your other podcast,
• 42:03
  Speaker 9: I have no expensive hobbies or tastes, so I've accumulated
• 42:06
  Speaker 9: enough money that I can tip really well. And when
• 42:11
  Speaker 9: girls see you tip... With 50s and 100s to doormen
• 42:15
  Speaker 9: and valets and waitresses.
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: It's very impressive.
• 42:19
  Speaker 10: A woman's fertility window is about 25 years. A man's
• 42:23
  Speaker 10: is 55 years. Her time is more valuable. Also, it's
• 42:27
  Speaker 10: not paying for her. It's compensating. Because for her to
• 42:30
  Speaker 10: walk in the door cost her 300 bucks between Sephora...
• 42:34
  Speaker 10: and waxing and the clothes she has to buy. In addition,
• 42:37
  Speaker 10: the downside of sex, which most men are hoping is
• 42:39
  Speaker 10: part of the dating process, is much greater for women
• 42:42
  Speaker 10: than for men.
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: Her time is more valuable. It costs her more to
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: show up.
• 42:45
  Speaker 10: I've said to my son, my 18-year-old son, who's just
• 42:47
  Speaker 10: started dating, he's like, dad, that's so boomer. I'm like,
• 42:50
  Speaker 10: you pay for everything when you're in the company of
• 42:52
  Speaker 10: a woman.
• 42:53
  Speaker 4: And he's like, that's so boomer.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, just know this.
• 42:55
  Speaker 10: I don't care what, we're going to get shit for this.
• 42:57
  Speaker 10: I don't care what any woman says. Don't ever expect
• 43:01
  Speaker 10: to kiss anyone who you let pay.
• 43:04
  Speaker 9: I could not agree more. And it should be that way.
• 43:06
  Speaker 9: And I'll tell you why it should be that way.
• 43:09
  Speaker 9: I'll tell you why that is actually intellectually defensible and appropriate.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: You should pay.
• 43:14
  Speaker 9: Because there's much higher chance that the person in this
• 43:18
  Speaker 9: relationship who's going to be a.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: Rat is the man.
• 43:23
  Speaker 9: The person in this relationship who's going to be a scumbag,
• 43:26
  Speaker 9: it could be the woman, but it's much more likely
• 43:29
  Speaker 9: going to be the man.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: And that's why the men should pay.
• 43:33
  Speaker 10: So you're apologizing up front?
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: I'm not apologizing.
• 43:36
  Speaker 9: I'm just stating a fact that is absolutely a fact.
• 43:39
  Speaker 9: when they had Ashley Madison, the cheater website, it was
• 43:44
  Speaker 9: like 12,000 women and 28 million men. Men do worse
• 43:48
  Speaker 9: things to women than women do to men. In the aggregate,
• 43:51
  Speaker 9: they just do. So I am not against the fact
• 43:55
  Speaker 9: that men should pay. And again, it just is, it's
• 44:00
  Speaker 9: human nature. Don't make a political mess out of everything.
• 44:04
  Speaker 9: It just is, get on with the next thing.
• 44:06
  Speaker 6: Yeah, and if a woman asks a man out and you,
• 44:09
  Speaker 6: I agree with everything that was said except the end.
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: He started losing me at the end.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: As far as men being a piece of shit in
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: a relationship?
• 44:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: Bro, women cold, bro.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: You know women cold. Women cold, bro. But most times
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: we don't find out. So if we don't find out,
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: is it cold?
• 44:28
  Speaker 6: She said things are changing, man. Especially when it comes
• 44:31
  Speaker 6: to gender. You keep playing like your girl can't get
• 44:35
  Speaker 6: any niggas. who say, yo, I know my girl won't
• 44:37
  Speaker 6: cheat on me, already lost her.
• 44:39
  Speaker 4: She can DM a celebrity.
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: Already lost her.
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: He already lost her.
• 44:43
  Speaker 6: I'm just telling you, if a nigga think his girl
• 44:45
  Speaker 6: won't step out on him, he's not going to do
• 44:50
  Speaker 6: the things that require.
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: Her to stay there, bro.
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: I disagree.
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: Listen, look, look, look. You can know the relationship you
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: have with your girl enough to know that that's not
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: the space that she's in where you can feel confident.
• 45:01
  Speaker 9: Now.
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: Never.
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: Being... Being oblivious to the idea that somebody can snipe
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: your chick is different than knowing whether your girl will
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: cheat on you or not. You can be oblivious that
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: you can lose your chick to another nigga if you
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: don't play your part right.
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: Let me just ask the question. Black and white, so
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: I can understand.
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: Do you think... My girl would cheat on me.
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: No, not your girl.
• 45:26
  Speaker 4: Oh, come on, bro.
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: What's up? Do I think another nigga could slide if
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: I don't play my part? Yeah.
• 45:32
  Speaker 6: Do you think that there are women out there.
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, bro.
• 45:38
  Speaker 6: No, but do you think that a large amount of
• 45:42
  Speaker 6: women out there will not cheat on their man?
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: Is that what you're telling me? You believe that?
• 45:47
  Speaker 4: I believe that because trauma exists, right? And I say that,
• 45:50
  Speaker 4: you know, again, everything is not atypical, but I am
• 45:54
  Speaker 4: scared to death of being unalived by a man for cheating.
• 45:59
  Speaker 4: Both my parents got stabbed for cheating.
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: Jesus.
• 46:02
  Speaker 4: So for me, it's a little bit of like, nah,
• 46:05
  Speaker 4: I could die and they could take me out.
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, the exception to the rule doesn't change the rule.
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: I gotta keep on saying.
• 46:09
  Speaker 3: That to you.
• 46:10
  Speaker 4: But what I'm saying is.
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: And you seem to be the exception to every rule today.
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: I think that 80%, 85% of women.
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: Will cheat on their nigga or leave him if he's
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: not treating her right. I agree. Depending on the situation.
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: 98%.
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: It just went up to 98%. Well, you got chicks
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: that will just stay in a bad situation and cry
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: and don't do nothing.
• 46:37
  Speaker 4: But it's also different. The women have been letting it
• 46:39
  Speaker 4: known that it's a free-for-all now because a lot of
• 46:42
  Speaker 4: things are happening. He said 98%. You know, I will
• 46:45
  Speaker 4: say it's a higher percentage today amongst what's happening. It's
• 46:49
  Speaker 4: almost like promiscuity is revenge to a certain extent. So
• 46:54
  Speaker 4: I don't like what's going on and everything else. And
• 46:56
  Speaker 4: it makes everything seem so far fetched. But, you know, again,
• 46:59
  Speaker 4: that's beliefs. We're talking about feminism, you know, versus sacred.
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 47:05
  Speaker 4: And everybody in between. So will women cheat if things
• 47:09
  Speaker 4: aren't right? probably you know facts the same way men
• 47:12
  Speaker 4: will cheat for a fact if they're not happy or
• 47:15
  Speaker 4: anything else.
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: You know um i will cheat because it's thursday.
• 47:19
  Speaker 11: Exactly you know comparatively men are more likely to be
• 47:24
  Speaker 11: a piece of shit in a relationship and what does
• 47:27
  Speaker 11: that mean though so we made a good point like
• 47:29
  Speaker 11: we don't know like women hold it down more so
• 47:32
  Speaker 11: we we don't know the dirt that they're doing right
• 47:34
  Speaker 11: as compared to men be sloppy but So, you know,
• 47:38
  Speaker 11: we all have a lot of platonic relationships with both sexes, right?
• 47:41
  Speaker 3: So, you know, I know how my platonic homegirls get down.
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: I know how my homies get down. The niggas is
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: always more pieces of shit. And all the war stories,
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying? So it's like, you know, just,
• 47:55
  Speaker 3: you know, getting the comparative studies, my own personal research
• 47:59
  Speaker 3: is more likely that the niggas is the ones that's
• 48:01
  Speaker 3: fucking relationships up.
• 48:03
  Speaker 4: Mariah Carey sued her ex-boyfriend for $ 10 million for waste
• 48:06
  Speaker 4: of time and she won. She actually sued him for 30,
• 48:09
  Speaker 4: got 10. Mariah Carey. She sued her billionaire ex-boyfriend for
• 48:13
  Speaker 4: waste of time. Well, she was a fiance at the time,
• 48:16
  Speaker 4: you know? And the thing about it is what these
• 48:18
  Speaker 4: guys said was true. When you're talking about value and
• 48:22
  Speaker 4: the way, because the thing about it is men, I
• 48:24
  Speaker 4: give it up to y'all. I'm a little jealous. Y'all
• 48:26
  Speaker 4: can live forever. Y'all are legends. You know what I'm saying?
• 48:28
  Speaker 4: Y'all can reinvent yourselves. Y'all can have babies. Y'all can
• 48:31
  Speaker 4: date any type of woman. You know what I'm saying?
• 48:32
  Speaker 4: And the reality of it is it's really mismanagement of
• 48:35
  Speaker 4: box when it comes to women. I'm going to keep
• 48:37
  Speaker 4: it real. You know what I'm saying? Because the reality
• 48:39
  Speaker 4: of it is if you know that you have a
• 48:40
  Speaker 4: finite time, you're the hottest you'll ever be at 25
• 48:43
  Speaker 4: years old. And then everything else is slowly declining. But again,
• 48:47
  Speaker 4: there was another woman. Her name is Sarah something. But
• 48:50
  Speaker 4: she said, you know, women leave men when they don't
• 48:52
  Speaker 4: have any money. But then that should give the man
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: the right to leave you when you're fat. You know,
• 48:56
  Speaker 4: we all have our values, you know. So the thing
• 48:58
  Speaker 4: about it is enter the race you're willing to win. Damn.
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: She's she's.
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she's on fire.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: She's on fire.
• 49:06
  Speaker 6: She's on fire. We ran away from the beginning part
• 49:09
  Speaker 6: of the video. Which is why I agree with that
• 49:11
  Speaker 6: as well. That men should pay for everything. Why should
• 49:13
  Speaker 6: men always pay?
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: Always is.
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: Come on.
• 49:17
  Speaker 6: If your girl want to take you out for your
• 49:19
  Speaker 6: birthday whatever. I never, no girl never paid. I never
• 49:22
  Speaker 6: took no girl out to eat and a woman paid.
• 49:24
  Speaker 4: Men pay for convenience. They pay so that they can
• 49:27
  Speaker 4: absolve themselves at the end of the day. I don't
• 49:29
  Speaker 4: like that one.
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: You've been with me, I've been with you all day.
• 49:33
  Speaker 4: No, let me finish though. You know what I'm saying?
• 49:34
  Speaker 4: The reality of it is money is power. You know
• 49:37
  Speaker 4: what I'm saying? You can choose any situation, whatever, when
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: you're the most powerful person in the relationship, and sometimes
• 49:42
  Speaker 4: money dictates that. And I don't remember where I heard
• 49:45
  Speaker 4: this from, but men say they don't pay prostitutes for sex.
• 49:50
  Speaker 4: They pay them to leave. So by paying for everything
• 49:53
  Speaker 4: to a certain extent of a man of that higher
• 49:55
  Speaker 4: echelon with that level of privilege, because we're talking about
• 49:57
  Speaker 4: two white men here, okay? So let's talk about that,
• 50:00
  Speaker 4: because when you're talking about everybody else, women seem to
• 50:02
  Speaker 4: forget that there's brackets and levels to this. You know
• 50:04
  Speaker 4: what I'm saying? But in their ideology of paying for everything,
• 50:08
  Speaker 4: I'm paying for everything to go away. Because if I
• 50:10
  Speaker 4: take care of everything, you really ain't got nothing to
• 50:11
  Speaker 4: complain about. You ain't going to come at me. You
• 50:13
  Speaker 4: ain't going to go against me.
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: There's a problem with that. I got a problem with that.
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: Hold on, Preem. I got a problem with that. Okay.
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: And I'll let y'all slide. No, no, no.
• 50:18
  Speaker 7: Go ahead, please.
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: If the comfort that you're getting from me is just
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: because I'm paying for things, that leaves me super open
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: to attack. Absolutely. Because that means another nigga could come
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: and just pay more.
• 50:31
  Speaker 4: But I don't think those men care.
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: Well, they don't, but we're talking about us. We're just
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: talking about us. We're talking about men should, and it's
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: based off of the things that you just said. I
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: don't like that. I'll do that for mine. I think
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: it does something for my ego to know that my
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: people's taken care of. But yeah, but that's not a
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: blanket statement.
• 50:48
  Speaker 2: I agree.
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: That shit just make me feel like whatever. If you
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: shit on that, if you slide on that, if you
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: go cheat on that, bitch, that's your.
• 50:55
  Speaker 4: Agreed.
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: Fuck it, because it ain't going to change nothing to me,
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: because I know that's how I give it up. If
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: you dirt, like you really did that, I don't even
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: think it's because I paid for everything that's going to
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: really hurt me like that. It's because, oh, I thought
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: you was the one I could do that for.
• 51:08
  Speaker 4: I agree with you, Tahoe, because again, there's levels and
• 51:11
  Speaker 4: there's brackets. But again, why do the same women circulate
• 51:16
  Speaker 4: in the same circles, right? Why are they all getting
• 51:18
  Speaker 4: screwed and loose and all that other stuff? Because the
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: thing is, it's convenient. You're right. But I think when
• 51:24
  Speaker 4: you're talking about spending money, it's discernment. You guys have
• 51:26
  Speaker 4: the power on who you can spend money on and
• 51:27
  Speaker 4: who you don't have to. If you want to spend
• 51:29
  Speaker 4: money on everything walking, that's your lifestyle. If you're a
• 51:32
  Speaker 4: man who only gives... A certain type of woman or
• 51:34
  Speaker 4: your woman or whatever, then that's your lifestyle. But again,
• 51:39
  Speaker 4: it depends on what type of woman you're entertaining.
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.
• 51:42
  Speaker 6: So while I like everything you're saying, a lot of
• 51:45
  Speaker 6: it is sounding transactional. And I want to ask, do
• 51:47
  Speaker 6: you believe that there are men who just pay for
• 51:49
  Speaker 6: everything because they're gentlemen?
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: Do you believe in that?
• 51:53
  Speaker 4: Do I believe that there's some that do, but those
• 51:55
  Speaker 4: are the ones that get taken advantage of and I
• 51:57
  Speaker 4: don't think it's right. I do believe some men.
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: I don't think I get taken advantage of. I think I.
• 52:01
  Speaker 4: Because you.
• 52:02
  Speaker 7: No, no, no.
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: I pay for everything because I'm a gentleman. You're like,
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: I'm defensive.
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: I pay for everything.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: Well, okay.
• 52:07
  Speaker 6: It did sound defensive without context. I asked you the
• 52:10
  Speaker 6: question because I think I pay for everything for none
• 52:14
  Speaker 6: of those reasons, though.
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: Not even the reasons you said. I think I'm just
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: a gentleman, bro. That's what my mom's like, bro. I pay.
• 52:19
  Speaker 6: When I go out to eat, it could be, let's
• 52:20
  Speaker 6: start with my family. Whatever the case may be, I'm
• 52:23
  Speaker 6: paying for everything.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: Your pops is around you? No.
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: I was raised by my mom.
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: When did you start taking care of your mom?
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: Well, my mom is up, so, you know, I would
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: never be able.
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: To, like, do... Take care of her.
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? Like, really take care of her.
• 52:37
  Speaker 6: But I started, like, as soon as I was making
• 52:40
  Speaker 6: good money, it made me go to sleep happy, you know?
• 52:43
  Speaker 6: Because my mom is always going to look at the car.
• 52:45
  Speaker 6: I mean, send a car. She won't even do... I
• 52:47
  Speaker 6: could take us all out to eat right now. Invite
• 52:50
  Speaker 6: my family, my mom. She's still going to slide me
• 52:52
  Speaker 6: the card under the table. She just like that.
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: My mom's like that.
• 52:56
  Speaker 4: But that's why you're like that.
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: It's cool to be like that.
• 52:58
  Speaker 4: That's why you're like that.
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: That's why I went to your parenting. Maybe it's my
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: mom's thing. You think that it makes you feel good,
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: but you don't realize that you're emulating what you saw.
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: You're emulating. And look how you talk about your mother.
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: You talk about her like she's like a matriarch. You're
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: still chasing, not chasing, but you want to impress that
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: version of greatness in you. So that's what you imprint
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: on other people.
• 53:21
  Speaker 4: But I do feel like, gentlemen, but that's what I
• 53:23
  Speaker 4: said to you guys earlier. This is a different class
• 53:26
  Speaker 4: of people. You know what I'm saying? I used to
• 53:28
  Speaker 4: hang out with the gentlemen. So like I said, we
• 53:31
  Speaker 4: used to be outside. It was just a way of life.
• 53:33
  Speaker 4: It was just a certain way and things that were expected,
• 53:35
  Speaker 4: especially when you have certain company around you. So I
• 53:38
  Speaker 4: do believe that exists. But again, you know I'm not
• 53:39
  Speaker 4: a blanket statement person. You know what I'm saying? I
• 53:42
  Speaker 4: believe all things exist in some.
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: Way, shape, or form. I want to change up a
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: little bit. Tron, how you doing over there? I'm doing great.
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: You all right?
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: Fantastic.
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: You was here with me last week.
• 53:51
  Speaker 7: Yes.
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: With Dash. Yep. Towards the end of the episode. Were
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: you still here towards the end of the episode? Yes,
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: you was. Yeah, yeah, yeah. The moose cake? No, that
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: was the first one. I'm talking about telling you that
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: I felt a way. I felt a way. I told
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: my daughter... We were talking. She was saying how a
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: dude that she was talking to was going to take
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: her to Sephora. I was like, I'll take you to Sephora. Right?
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: I'll take you. It was Sephora on the low. I
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: didn't want to blow it up. I didn't want anyone
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: to listen to hear it. My bad. But it's part
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: of the story. In any case, I got on her pod.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: She pods here sometimes. So I got in there and
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: pressed her like, yo, you're going to tell me no?
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: to some nigga you just met. You could've went with
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: me and then went with him too. Why I had
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: to be one trip? Like you gonna tell me no?
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: She's like, oh, I didn't mean it that way. It's
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: just you got mad kids. You know what I'm saying? Yo,
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: I got it on tape. I got it on tape.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: I didn't put the tape in the Discord. But, you know,
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: you got mad kids. There's other things I might want
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: to ask you for. I told you I wanted to
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: go to Tokyo. Like, there's other things I would ask
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: you for. I didn't want to press you about that
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: one thing. You know what I mean?
• 55:04
  Speaker 4: She's like, nah, we're saving that for the big shit.
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: She's like, I'm going to say you, but to the
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: other niggas, whatever. So I was like, whatever. We going
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: to bed, Matt and me on, and we going to
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: tomorrow or today. i didn't know oh oh yeah.
• 55:19
  Speaker 4: It's quick rack up real quick rack up real.
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: Quick nine years old bro nine years i.
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: Didn't know what it's over yeah by the time we
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: left bat bath i was already past a tray yeah
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: i thought it was gonna be 478 or something like
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: the whole day bro i would pass 1500 yeah yeah
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: for the Dizzy. Yeah. Bad Baffin' Beyond?
• 55:41
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: And Sephora. Sephora was nuts. Everything at Sephora is $ 42, $ 39, $ 44.
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: They give you the basket. You need the soap. You
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: need the bath oil. You need the scrub.
• 55:57
  Speaker 2: You need the exfoliator.
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: You need the serum. You need the face toner.
• 56:01
  Speaker 4: The moisturizer, the sunblock.
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: I'm sitting there, every time she reaches for something, the
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: price is right there, 44, 39. I'm like this, and
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: she's like, oh, you should get something. Wifey, you didn't get,
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: because I tried to get the bath and body work shit.
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: My daughter was like, that's that cheap soap. Don't get that.
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: Get the real stuff from Sephora. Got him.
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: Cracked.
• 56:24
  Speaker 4: She's like, what you doing? She taught you a lesson?
• 56:28
  Speaker 4: What'd you learn?
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: I like taking care of my kid, but whoever, nigga,
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: he took her. He took her. But no, I like
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: taking care of my kid. I like taking care of
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: my daughter. And the thing is, is that I know
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: my girl is frugal. She's frugal. She's going to Bath
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: and Body Works. So the fact is, I got a
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: couple more.
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: You kept saying Bed Bath and Beyond.
• 56:47
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: Bath and Body Works. Bath and Body Works. That's why
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: we got the three.
• 56:49
  Speaker 4: The white and blue.
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: You see, we got the candles and shit. You know
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying? We got the three wicks, but... If
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: I get a chance to show up, you know what
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: I mean? Go to Sephora, get her some shit, because
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: I know she'd never buy that shit. So, fuck it.
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: I hope she's using that shit, because I'm coming over
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: here tonight. I'm going to bust your ass.
• 57:05
  Speaker 2: This is the same daughter from school?
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I got three daughters.
• 57:10
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: No boys?
• 57:11
  Speaker 4: Huh?
• 57:12
  Speaker 2: No boys?
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: Twin boys. Twin boys, three daughters. I want one more kid.
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: I got two girls. I want one more girl. Oh,
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: you don't want no boys?
• 57:19
  Speaker 2: Nah, I'm good. Why not? My mom did everything she
• 57:23
  Speaker 2: was supposed to do, bro.
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: Everything. Everything.
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: Private school.
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: I was in church.
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: Three times a week. My mom did everything.
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: Manners.
• 57:31
  Speaker 6: I got manners. Education, everything. She still was on that
• 57:35
  Speaker 6: plane coming to see me in Cali, locked up. You
• 57:38
  Speaker 6: know what I'm saying? She's still been in court 100,
• 57:41
  Speaker 6: 200 times.
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: Boys, man.
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: Different.
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: Girls, I believe. You know, niggas get scared of having
• 57:48
  Speaker 2: girls because they.
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: Feel, oh, I don't want to have a whole daughter.
• 57:51
  Speaker 6: Like, I take a gangster son over a whole daughter. Nah, man,
• 57:54
  Speaker 6: I think, like, go back to that communication, man. I'm
• 57:57
  Speaker 6: comfortable in my daughter. I'm comfortable right now, man.
• 58:00
  Speaker 2: I'm comfortable.
• 58:00
  Speaker 6: Because like you said, nigga going to have a hard
• 58:03
  Speaker 6: time with my daughter. Like, she been everywhere. Her passport
• 58:06
  Speaker 6: stamped up. We just went to Tokyo, by the way.
• 58:10
  Speaker 6: My daughter's passport stamped up. A nigga's not going to
• 58:14
  Speaker 6: get my daughter taken out of Miami. I'm not saying
• 58:16
  Speaker 6: some nigga's not going to break my daughter's heart.
• 58:19
  Speaker 2: It's going to happen. But it ain't going to be
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: because he took her to Miami. She's been there a
• 58:23
  Speaker 2: million times. She's nine years old. It ain't going to
• 58:25
  Speaker 2: be because he got a Rolex. It ain't going to
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: be because he drive a Benz. You know what I'm saying?
• 58:30
  Speaker 4: I love that you said that, Preem. Because a father
• 58:33
  Speaker 4: in your life is so freaking important. And I love
• 58:36
  Speaker 4: my daddy. My daddy's my best friend. And let me
• 58:38
  Speaker 4: tell you something. My dad, when I was a kid, young,
• 58:41
  Speaker 4: He used to take me out to dinners. I used
• 58:42
  Speaker 4: to get dressed up. He would buy me roses. He
• 58:44
  Speaker 4: would take me to plays. He would be upset with
• 58:46
  Speaker 4: me if I bit my fork. Don't eat like that.
• 58:48
  Speaker 4: You're a lady. And let me tell you something. And
• 58:51
  Speaker 4: he said to me, and he would say, he's like,
• 58:52
  Speaker 4: I want you to know why I'm doing this for you.
• 58:54
  Speaker 4: I want you to know I'm doing this for you
• 58:55
  Speaker 4: because when you grow up, this is the bare minimum
• 58:59
  Speaker 4: of expectations before you allow anybody near you. Can't nobody
• 59:04
  Speaker 4: dupe you with less because you was born with more.
• 59:07
  Speaker 4: And let me tell you something.
• 59:09
  Speaker 3: Sure.
• 59:10
  Speaker 4: Straight and narrow like i don't accept anything less and
• 59:12
  Speaker 4: it's not because of judgment or elitism or anything like
• 59:16
  Speaker 4: that it's just like that's the bare minimum.
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: You want to hear a joke i had to talk
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: my daughter off the ledge Listen.
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: What did I ask you for when I was on
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: my way here?
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: I was early. Why did I get here after... What'd
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: you say? Salsa?
• 59:29
  Speaker 2: I was looking for sparkling water.
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: Salsa water.
• 59:31
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 59:31
  Speaker 6: My daughter went out with a group of people and
• 59:34
  Speaker 6: they brought the tap water. She said, do you guys
• 59:36
  Speaker 6: have sparkling water?
• 59:37
  Speaker 7: Facts.
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: She gets that from me. I don't drink sparkling water.
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: I said, baby, that's not for everyone. Don't do that
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: when you're with daddy. You know what I'm saying?
• 59:45
  Speaker 2: But yeah, my daughter, she on that.
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: Flips, all them.
• 59:48
  Speaker 2: This is regular to her.
• 59:50
  Speaker 4: Culture, babe.
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: I have... Couple more videos. I love these videos. I
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: love these combos, period. You guys are smoking. Yesterday, how
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: are you feeling? Feeling good. Feeling good? I don't have...
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: I'm going to do two more. We only got 15
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: minutes left. This one I'm only doing because you brought
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: it up. Or somebody brought it up. The next one
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: is about men. I feel it's going to be good.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: Let's just.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 8: One thing I never understood is that when a man cheats,
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 8: a woman will say, I'm about to get my payback.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 4: So she'll go out there and give her coochie away.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 4: How the fuck is that getting payback?
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 7: How is getting fucked getting payback?
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 4: He already done fucked the girl.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 8: You had all the choices to walk away, but you
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 8: decided to say, yeah, I went out there and gave
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 8: my coochie away.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 4: Here's the evidence. Bitches, you dumb or slow.
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 8: You just risk yourself to get STDs for what?
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: Giving your body away for what?
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 8: Like, damn, y'all bitches is slow as fuck. Like, really,
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 8: really fucking think about what the fuck you be doing.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 4: That shit don't make any sense. Not a lie was told.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 2: Hurt people hurt people.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 3: I would say, I don't think it's about, I think
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 3: it's more about making the nigga feel the certain pain.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 3: They know how to hurt a man and reduce his
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 3: feelings and all that that's what that's about.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: It is obviously she's not.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 3: Gaining nothing by fucking another dude but she know that's
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 3: gonna hurt him yeah.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 4: It ain't about the other dude it's not about the
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 4: other dude but you gave up your body to hurt
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 4: someone that hurt you i get hurt people hurt people
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 4: and listen i don't know maybe i'm old school But
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 4: sex shouldn't be given so cavalier. You know what I'm saying?
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 4: It's a lock and key at the end of the day.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying? A key that opens many
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 4: locks is a master key. But a lock that can
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 4: be opened by any key is worthless. So at the
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 4: end of the day, we can say what's right, what's wrong. Yeah,
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 4: you might want to hurt someone. But why would you
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 4: want to hurt someone that hurt you? Let me tell
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 4: you something. I've hurt some men, and I've hurt them
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 4: by them never hearing from me again. And it was
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 4: the best revenge. I'm talking about like 10 years later,
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 4: still stalking me because they ain't never heard my voice.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 4: That's hurt. Hurt is never being able to explain yourself.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 4: Hurt is never being able to get that last word in.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 4: You gave your body up.
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: They don't get that. Never spoke to you again after
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: you found out some shit.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 4: I mean, it's not about the finding out. It's about
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 4: being done enough to where your boundaries are crossed and saying,
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 4: you know what, I'm leaving. You know what I'm saying?
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 4: But again, leaving is an option rather than fucking another.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 4: Because now you're going to go back to your man.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 4: Y'all both hurt. And now he can't get that out
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 4: of his mind because men don't operate the same way
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 4: as women. We're conditioned to forgive. Y'all ain't.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: No, we stand on our shit.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: We stand on our shit.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 7: Y'all ain't.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: Yo, a nigga's a stand on their square. You can
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: tell you what you want, but a nigga not going
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: for just anything. It's very rare. I be wanting to
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: take a page out of y'all book. Women will mold
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: themselves around the way a nigga is. A nigga can't
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: do it. What you talking about? I can't do it.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: That's why I never hit a woman, though, because of
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: what she said.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 6: I never hit a woman in my life, bro, because
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 6: walking out or walking away just does so, especially for
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 6: a woman.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: It's so emotional.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 4: Especially when they want to get a reaction out of you.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 6: Period. My little sister is probably the... And we look alike.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 6: That's the first person I feel like I'm molded, bro.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 6: My little sister. If somebody trying to get a reaction
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 6: out of you, yo, that's when you... overcompensate on making
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 6: sure you don't give them yo when i see you
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 6: trying to get a reaction out of me but you'd.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: Be in the comments comment fighting that's all you want
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: to do is get a reaction out of you i.
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 6: Wouldn't comment fight with for instance the first one you
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 6: played about the one uh when she said uh when
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 6: a woman's day ends blah blah when a man i
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 6: wouldn't say she's lost she's done that like i wouldn't
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 6: comment fight with somebody like that i My thing is,
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 6: I'm not going to lie. When I'm in the comments,
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 6: I be wanting to make people feel small, bro. It's
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 6: a more condescending tone.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 4: You do it for fun.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fun. It's condescending. You know what I mean?
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 2: I get happy when I meet my match.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 6: I met somebody the other day who let me have
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 6: it back, and I congratulated them at the end.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 4: Steel sharpens steel.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: How can I get better? I swear you can find
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: the post somewhere, man. I congratulated them. What if you
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: want to stay in the relationship? I think if you
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: find out your nigga cheated on you, I don't think
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: it's a bad idea.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 4: I don't think cheating is a deal breaker.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: I think the only way to see yourself, I think
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: the only way for a woman to not treat that
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: nigga like shit is for her to go do dirt
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: and him find out about that too. Then they can
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: meet at the same, then they can meet in the
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: middle of the field. Like, yeah, you ready to stop?
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: I'm ready to stop. You agree?
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's only for gangsters. He's crazy. Everybody's not a gangster.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: I can't even sleep at night. Yo, bro, listen, listen.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 4: Grabbing your chest.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: If one of my side joints, listen, if I find
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: out one of my side joints, I just don't want
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: to know. I don't want to know. That's what I'm saying.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: If I know, though, I can't live with that, bro.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: My short, my girl. You done.
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying, my girl, yeah, I can't.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: I thought we already established that men can't handle it
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: the same way.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 2: It's not the same.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: Men be staying sometimes, bro.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 7: Bruh.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: You might not be able to do it. Men be
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: staying sometimes.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but the effect is.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 2: Is relationship long, bro. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That has a
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 2: relationship long effect on you. To know your girl cheating.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 6: Your bro was watching Ozark the other day. And the
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 6: nigga got seen a video of her cheating.
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: In the episode.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 6: And then he tried to do it and she turned
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 6: around like, why did you do that just now?
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: What are you doing?
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 4: He's crazy. Oh, nah, you right. When he slapped her ass, right?
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 10: Yo.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: You got to remember, he was watching her shit. He
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: was in the Ozark and he had the video of
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: her cheating. He had the video of her cheating, bro.
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: And he did the shit from the video. You remember that?
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 2: Bro, he was watching the cheating videos like just randomly.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: And trying to mimic.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 2: Remember she would come in the room, he would close
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 2: the laptop up. Like, yo, what you doing?
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 6: Bro, she broke into her laptop and he told her
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 6: how many times he watched the video.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: Nah, I'm good, bro. I can't do that.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 4: Nah, it's definitely different.
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: Yo, bro, I seen one of my.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: Yo, listen. I had this joint, right? I had this joint, right?
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 2: Long time ago.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: Long, long, long, long. Eons ago.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 2: Hit the Eon bell.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: Eons ago. Hit the Eon bell. I had this joint.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 6: Yo, bro, to this day, I never told her. I
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 6: seen her in another nigga's section, bro. Just in another
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 6: nigga's section in the club, bro.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: And I know how that made me feel that day, bro.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: Just that.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: Just that. Just that.
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 6: No, because she lied, too, though. The lie mixed with
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 6: the act is... That's why I try not to lie.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 6: It's not so much that I'm just this honest guy.
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 6: It's just that feeling when you get caught and you
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 6: got to look at the person.
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 2: Like, yeah, I'm a liar. Bro, that shit, I can't
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 2: deal with it. I'd just rather not.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: Lie, bro. I'm good.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 4: I'm a horrible liar.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'd just rather not lie.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 4: I'd be like, yeah.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 2: That's tough, though. That's tough.
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 6: You could stay with your girl? You think you could
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 6: stay with your girl? She cheats back on some cheat
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 6: back shit? No, I'm only asking because you brought it up,
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 6: by the way.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: Cheat back, probably. Cheat back.
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 2: Cheat back.
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: Because I already know that that's what I pushed you to.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: I've gotten to a place where I can say.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 4: You're accountable.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can say, all right. Especially if I want
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: to be with you. Your personality, the life that we created, whatever.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: Whatever I did, whatever we went through, I went and
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: did some shit. And then you just couldn't take it, whatever.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: You trying to stay, but whatever. I don't know. I
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: can't call it because it never happened, but if this
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: is the person I want to be with, I can
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: see me.
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 2: Being like, yo, we got you guys. How do you.
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 6: how do you function afterwards thinking what is that relationship now?
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: You know that. Me and sex have a weird relationship.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 4: Have you guys ever seen.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: It's more about the emotional connection and the vindictiveness of
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: you doing it to me. You wanted to do that
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: to me. So that's probably what hurt me the most.
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 4: But... See, that's the thing. I can't rock with someone
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 4: who wants to hurt me on purpose. That's kind of like,
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 4: that's a different thing. But you guys have ever seen
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 4: a movie, Indecent Proposal?
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: It's an old movie.
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying? And it shows you the
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 4: social construct of the way women and men think. You
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 4: know what I'm saying? And that was just for money. Like, yo,
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 4: we doing this. We going to get up. We going
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 4: to figure this out.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: We agreeance.
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 4: And he just could not forget it. He couldn't get
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 4: it out of his mind. And also now... She's been
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 4: introduced to something different. So cheating back could introduce you
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 4: to something you didn't know existed. So now regardless, it's ruined.
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 4: The trust is ruined. Your experience is ruined, which how
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 4: you look at each other. And bottom line, I can't
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 4: rock with someone that purposely hurts me. You know what
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 4: I'm saying? Like again, cheating happens, things happen, but realistically
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 4: it's your intent behind it.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: Man, if you know what you do, listen, and I'm
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: going to change the topic because we got to get
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: out of here. I'm going to tell you, explain something.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: I know what I'm doing in the bedroom. I'm not
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: saying I'm the best. It's obviously other niggas. But the
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: chances of a woman just going to knock a nigga
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: down and he that much better is very low. Women
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: have a lot of bum sex. Niggas don't really have
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: bum sex. I don't know. We can get some pussy.
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: And we do what we want. He might be, I
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: don't know.
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 2: Certain things I never did.
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: In the bedroom. Sometimes.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 4: The universe answers.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: A call but then the emotional connection I don't know
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: let's leave let's not.
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 4: Let's not even put that in my brains let's.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: Leave you know what I'm saying cause I remember me
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: and wife we had the open relationship right swing it
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: swing it I seen the nigga that she had like
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: liked on Hinge This nigga was like Adonis. This nigga
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: was Adonis. I killed the open relationship right there. This
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: nigga had the full beard down in here. This nigga
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: was mad tall. He had the arms out and shit
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: like that. I was like, yo, no, no, no, hold on.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: You went out with him? She's like, no, we just
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: be talking. All right, hold on, hold on, hold on.
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 2: Let's rethink this.
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: It's not. I don't like this no more. It doesn't
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: feel good. Interestingly enough, The next video is titled, That's
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: the Bitch in You.
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 7: I was about 35 years old when I realized the
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 7: bitch that was in me.
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: Mad, get mad quick, wanna fight quick about some shit.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: That's that bitch in you.
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 7: You out having a good time, all these women, and
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 7: you in the club, and somebody step on your shoe,
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 7: and you mad? I remember seeing in the club the
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 7: DJ probably write a song, and the niggas, Southside, Southside, Northside,
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 7: and they in the club, and they ready to just
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 7: fight the niggas from across town because of a song.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: That's that woman in us, man.
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 7: That's that seeing our mama cuss, yell, argue, fuss, Tell you,
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 7: make you feel guilty when you do wrong or when
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 7: you a child.
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: Look what I gave up for y'all.
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 7: I ain't had this for y'all. For y'all. So as
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 7: black men that grow up without that father figure or
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 7: that male figure in their life, they lack emotional intelligence
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 7: and they crash out very easy. Because they've never been critiqued. See,
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 7: a father critiques you. Sit your ass down, boy. Hey, girl,
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 7: sit your ass down. You can't wear that. Don't go
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 7: out of the house like that. But when you're a thug,
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 7: a gay man, or a thot bitch, what's the criteria?
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: Ain't it easy to be that? All you got to
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: do is act.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 7: You can wake up tomorrow. Me and you can start
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 7: right now.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: Hi, Ty, if we want to.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 7: And when somebody clip this up, they'll think it's two
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 7: gay men talking.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: Because we acting, right? Or we can, nigga, fuck you.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: I'll get on your ass tomorrow. Before I'm going to
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: get on your ass and be in Alabama tomorrow. People
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: think we thugs.
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  Speaker 7: There's no standard. There's no litmus test for it. And
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 7: to act like a bitch. So what happens is, They
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 7: act just alike because they have to crash out. So
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 7: when a thug, a gay man, or a chick crash out,
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 7: they have to crash out because they're acting. If you
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 7: step on my shoe and I don't crash out or wild.
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: Out, you ain't going to believe I'm a thug.
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 7: If the gay man walk in and louder, somebody says,
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 7: excuse me, we're doing the test here.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: And he don't say, hold on now.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 7: No, no, no, no, no. You ain't going to believe
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 7: he gay. You ain't never seen a gay man say, oh,
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 7: I'm sorry. My bad for being too loud, sir. You
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 7: ain't never seen a bitch not wild out when it's
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 7: time to wild out. So that comes from not having
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 7: male figures around, being critiqued, being told. You know, if
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 7: you was an athlete, man, I said I missed two
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 7: free throws in a game, second round of the state championship.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 7: Next day at school, you lost the game. You lost
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 7: the game. In my mind, I'm like, shit, we wouldn't
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 7: have been there if it weren't for me. But you
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 7: know what I couldn't do? I couldn't wild out and
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 7: fight nobody. So I know there's some emotional intelligence connected
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 7: when a man can say, you know what?
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck that was about.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 4: It made a couple of different turns.
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 2: You don't know what it's about because you don't agree?
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: No, I do agree. I was talking about the end.
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: The end, it just ended. It just ended. I was like,
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: where was the story? Where was the story going? But
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: the lack of fathers in the crib, do y'all agree?
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: That the boys are lacking emotional intelligence. That's why they
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: become thugs. That's why they run to the streets. That
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: was supposed to be under the Dirt Convo. We wanted
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: to leave the Dirt Convo early. What do y'all think
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: about this? I want to hear Preen. I want to
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: hear Preen. He's a street representative here today. Let me tell.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 6: You, the lack of fathers in the crib definitely, or
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 6: let me even take that out. Emotional intelligence is definitely
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 6: an undervalued quality, right? And people who don't have it
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 6: don't even know that that's what they're looking for. They
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 6: don't know that that's what they're missing. Emotional intelligence, right?
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 6: I know it more from relationships I know that my
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 6: lack of emotional intelligence in relationships are the reasons why
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 6: some of them turn out the way they turn out, right?
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 2: But at least I know. Knowing matters.
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 6: And with a lot of kids today, especially when you
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 6: don't have a father or you have too much mother,
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 6: because that exists. You know what I'm saying? You have
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 6: too much mother. You got a mother, aunt, sister. And
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 6: your mother be mothering. And you know what I'm saying?
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 6: Your aunt be mothering. And your sister be mothering.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? When you don't have all that, yeah.
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 6: The lack of emotional intelligence definitely plays a part in
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 6: a lot of people being in situations that they didn't
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 6: have to be in, i.e. going crazy because a nigga
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 6: stepped on your foot. Because it's like, you can look
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 6: at a man.
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: We men.
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 2: I can step on your foot and you can look
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 2: at me and say, yo, my.
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: Bad, my bad. And you can know, he for real
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: with it. Do you have siblings?
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I got a lot of siblings. Or you can
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 6: look at somebody, you step on somebody and be like, what? yo,
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 6: it's my fault, man.
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: Like, oh, what? You get what I'm saying?
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 6: So it's like, you know how to, you know, have discernment,
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 6: as you said earlier, when you got that emotional intelligence.
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 6: And I think it comes from, like you said, a
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 6: lack of any parent. It's mostly fathers, though. And that
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 6: turns into mothers being too much mother or having too
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 6: much mother.
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 2: That exists, bro. That exists.
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 6: So, yeah, I could see that. I could see that.
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 6: I don't think it, It's as black and white as
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 6: he tried to make it. No, I don't think it's
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 6: just that. Because my mother did a pretty good job
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 6: on her own. You know what I mean? And she
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 6: was really on her own.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: And what? And you still think that because you wound
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: up in the system that that was, it had something
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: to do with the job that she did? No.
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 2: I think it does not.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: Right, right, right.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 2: I think it does not.
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 4: She prepped you with emotional intelligence.
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 2: That's just a product of, you know. My environment.
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: I think that's just math.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 2: My own decisions that I made.
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: That's just math. I think you was just doing math
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: in your head. Like, what am I going to do
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: over there when I can do this? But the discernment
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: wasn't there.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 2: Exactly.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: The consequences. Or even if I.
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 6: There was a point in my life, like, if I
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 6: could go back, I would go back to that very point. Like,
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 6: I got to that fork in the road where I
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 6: could have... My life could have been everything. And I
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 6: could have glorified the streets based on what I would
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 6: have been able to do today if I made the
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 6: right decision at that point. That was my chance to...
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 6: to get out and I doubled back, you know what
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 6: I'm saying? I doubled back, bro.
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 2: Let me explain.
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: Can I say a little story?
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, of course.
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you remember, but I was about
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: to move to Cali. I had the range, I had
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: the business, everything. Only thing is I was at war.
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: So I was in the middle of a war. So
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: I got on a plane. I just went to Cali.
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: My uncle lived in Cali. $ 10 million crib on the
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: side of a hill in Hollywood Heights and all that.
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: So whatever happened, I'm just out there. I'm not hiding,
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: but I'm just getting my mind right because I know
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: what I'm going through back home, getting my mind right.
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: And he's convincing me. He's like, yo, just stay here.
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I can't. I got the business there.
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: I got the range there. I at least got to
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: go close up shop, whatever. But what I was telling
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: people last week on the show is the drug addicts
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: are addicted, but the dealers are addicted too. Of course.
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 4: Of course.
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: I'm just as addicted. So I had a whole plan.
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: He's going to get me a crib in Pasadena. I
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: was about to leave. I was like, I'm just going.
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: Let me close up shop. I'm going to sell the shop.
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: I'm going to grab my, ship my truck, whatever. And
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: I came back out here. Right back to the street.
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: A month later, I caught my first case. A month
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: later after that, I caught my second case. A month
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: after that, I caught attempted murder charge. Damn. And a
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: couple months later, I was in jail.
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 2: Yo, bro, I'm telling you. Just like that.
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 6: When you get to that point in your mind, and
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 6: if I could tell a young kid anything, but when, yo, the, the,
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 6: Making the money stops being important. When the money come
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 6: like that, it don't even be about the money. It
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 6: just be about the pride and putting the plays together, bro.
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 6: Seeing the play come through, I don't even care how
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 6: much the play is worth. It's like, yo, I did that.
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 6: I put that play together and it came through.
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 2: It's a power you.
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 4: Can't pay for, bro.
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: It's such a rush.
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah, man.
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: You're still doing it to this day.
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, legally.
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 4: In other areas.
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 2: Not illegally.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 4: But that was a skill that you didn't know that
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 4: you were cultivating. And everything that we participate in, legal, illegal,
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 4: those are all skills. Skills that you can hone in.
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 4: And street learning is the best learning you can get.
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 4: It really is. You learn quick because everything is live
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 4: or die.
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: It is.
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 2: That's the thing, bro.
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: I think that's changed my life forever, selling drugs. I
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: just couldn't believe I was making that much money that fast.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: It'd be fake. It'd be fake.
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 2: It'd be fake.
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: It's breaking you out of the matrix because while I'm
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: standing there, people is walking back and forth to their
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: jobs and shit like that. They're trying to figure out
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: how to pay if they was buying some weed. They're
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: trying to figure out if I got $ 9 and shit.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: I got, man, I made $ 900 today. It's different perspective
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: on life. You know what I'm saying? So it just
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 1: warps your perspective. But it also, if you can get out, i.e.
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: where Preem was at, whatever happened with him, you have
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: a different understanding of money, economics, business. You really can
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: change and go somewhere else. Either way, yeah, I do
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: think not having a dad, because your dad can help
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: you with a lot of that shit too. And he's
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: been through it.
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 3: Like Preem pointed out, not having a parent, a dad
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 3: or a woman, because it's like, you think about it,
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 3: you got two people, and typically the way a good,
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 3: healthy relationship works is two people that kind of complement
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 3: each other. So you got two different personalities. If you
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 3: take one out of the equation, that's 50% of the
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 3: equation that's missing. You're not seeing the balance of how
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 3: somebody can raise you, and you're not... you're not balanced
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 3: with who you're emulating. You're only emulating one side now.
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 3: So you're missing something. So whether it's, you know, like
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 3: you said, preem is typically the man that's missing. So
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 3: you're missing those typical male dynamics. And so, you know,
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 3: men that are raised, boys that are raised by primarily
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 3: women are going to be missing something. But the same
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 3: thing would happen, right? The same thing would happen if
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 3: you were missing your mom. I was a girly little nigga.
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 3: I was a girly little nigga. That's why I needed
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 3: the streets. That's why I needed the streets, bro.
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: Because I grew up, and the uncles was nowhere to
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 1: be found. My dad was nowhere to be found. So
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: I would like cry, or I would like, whatever my
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: mom did, I would do. Whatever my aunt did. And
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: we grew up in the same crib. Right? So I
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 1: took on the characteristics of the people around me, not
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: realizing that men... present differently you know i never knew
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: until i got straight niggas was like yo why you
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: act like that why you keep crying you bitching about everything.
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 4: But you know what i mean you know what's crazy
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 4: i love hearing this you know like i grew up
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 4: so differently like i'm a daddy's girl you know i
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 4: wasn't raised by my mom i was raised by my
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 4: dad and i didn't realize till later growing up i
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 4: was really missing some fundamental female attributes you know because
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 4: even it makes.
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: Sense no no no and I mean.
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 6: That so respectfully sorry to cut you but you just
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 6: brought the show together for me like.
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: To completion like nah that makes sense but no it's.
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 4: True like you need both parents or you need emotionally
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 4: mature parents you know what I'm saying because you can
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 4: get both from one but again we're all living the
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 4: human existence and experience for the first time you know
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 4: our parents are trying to figure it out live life
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 4: going through their own things trying to find love You know,
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 4: so there's a lot of things that they forget, you know,
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 4: because a child isn't an accessory. You know, just feeding
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 4: them isn't enough. Clothing them isn't enough. They have to
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 4: be taught both sides. And, you know, what you're saying
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 4: as far as like a little boy growing up with
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 4: mostly women, that is going to change your perspective and
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 4: how you treat women and how you think. And even
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 4: us having these conversations, obviously a lot of my thought
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 4: processes are male dominant, right? Because I remember one time
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 4: my dad was screaming at me and I'm just looking
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 4: at him cold and he's like, why won't you fucking cry?
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 4: And I'm like. And I'm a gangster emotionally, you know
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 4: what I'm saying? So there's certain things that are a
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 4: disconnect because all I had was hard around me, you know?
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 4: So it's the same. You cannot get everything from one parent,
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 4: but it is your responsibility because a lot of us
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 4: like to hold on to old trauma and say, when
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 4: I was a kid, this happened and that happened. It's
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 4: your responsibility to say, you know what? I don't really
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 4: like the way that I act. I'm not really cool
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 4: with this trajectory. You got to want to be better.
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 4: And I challenge myself every day to be better.
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 6: My daughter's mom and I, I brought up the clothes
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 6: and the outfits already, but the biggest contentious thing we
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 6: went through as far as raising my daughter went was
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 6: how to deal with when she cries.
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 2: My daughter is like a baby cryer. Like a faucet, bro. Anything.
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 2: She comes in.
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 6: Let's say she was to come in right now and
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 6: we were recording and everybody was like, shh. And she
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 6: realized she might go on the back and cry, right?
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 6: And I'm not with that.
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: And she knew that.
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 6: And today at nine years old. Because her mother is pro-cry. Like,
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 6: if you feel it, let it out. And daddy's like,
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 6: what are you crying for? This is not worth your tears.
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 2: Like, stop.
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: Don't even.
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 2: You know what?
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 1: You're not going.
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 2: Outside no more. When your face is dry, then you.
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 1: Whatever, right?
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 6: But today, at nine years old, I feel she's at
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 6: the perfect space. Like, I seen her in a situation
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 6: the other day with kids her age. And I just
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 6: watched it develop.
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 2: And she ain't let.
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 1: Nobody play with her. Because.
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 6: some kid did something wrong cheated and the adults just
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 6: like wanted to end that quarrel and continue to the
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 6: next round she's like no if that's the case i'm
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 6: not playing you can't allow somebody to cheat me and
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 6: then say it's okay that's something she would have cried
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 6: about she's still in tune enough with her emotions that
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 6: you know i have a little sister her little sister
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 6: is with a different mom and that situation is a
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 6: little different so You know, her mom called me the
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 6: other day. I went to pick up her little sister,
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 6: and I just stopped by to see her with them,
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 6: and we took a little walk, and she went upstairs
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 6: and told her mom, oh, I don't like that.
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 2: It's like this.
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 1: I wish I could just.
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 2: Live with her, blah, blah, blah, whatever, right? But she
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 2: cried about it.
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 6: They had their whole little cry, cry thing, and it
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 6: just reminded me the weekend before that happened, and then
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 6: now they're in the crib like, Having both parents is
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 6: like doing exactly what it's supposed to do.
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's balanced.
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 2: In that situation.
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 2: With the tears, as far as the tears go.
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that makes sense.
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 1: This has been such, first of all, we was all
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 1: over the place. Everywhere.
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 2: Fire.
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 1: We scorched the earth today.
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 2: Fire though.
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 1: Chris, what the fuck is you on though?
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know.
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 1: I was happy.
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 4: Happy pill.
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 1: Yo, I am extremely impressed and I'm thankful to have
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: such an intelligent, I appreciate you. Friend. For real. I've
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 1: known Chris for, I want to say, what, 15, 18 years?
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 4: Since the pineapples.
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 1: Since then?
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 4: Since the pineapples.
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 1: So it's got to be 15.
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 3: 15.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, 15 years. Something like that. Old Brooklyn Bridge Park. Yep. Crazy.
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 1: That was nuts.
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 4: And tequila fests and all that.
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 1: No, I know. I just can't. I'm sorry. One more time, Chris.
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 1: Tell these people where the fuck you find you, what
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 1: you got going on.
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 4: Chris Little, why? Don't ask me why. C-H-R-Y-S.
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  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 4: Childs. On everything. And I have a lot of things
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 4: going on. I am a multi-hyphenated just explorer. I'm going
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 4: to figure out my life. It might change, but I'm
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 4: going to figure out my life. And if y'all want
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 4: to join the journey.
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 1: Pull up. Pull up.
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 2: I'm going to follow you. Definitely.
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 4: I'm going to follow you too.
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 2: Lucky me.
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 1: Tell these people where to find you. What you got
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 1: going on?
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 6: I'm Prina Prez, P-R-E-M-E, P-R-E-M-E, D-A-P-R-E-Z. I'm one member of
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 6: the Rich Flex gang. This Columbus weekend, we taking our
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 6: talents to South Beach. We just going to tear the
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 6: city up the New York way, you know what I'm saying?
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 6: We going out there and turn up Miami. We got boats,
• 1:26:02
  Speaker 6: R & B parties. We doing the whole Miami thing, man.
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 6: Y'all need to come out, enjoy yourselves. We Everything is
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 6: priced appropriately since we're traveling and it's short notice. Miami's
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 6: the sixth borough, man.
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 1: The fifth. That's a fact.
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 2: If we leave out Staten Island, it's the fifth borough.
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 6: Y'all come out, man. Tau, I really appreciate the invite.
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 6: It's my pleasure, man. I came in here thinking we
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 6: was going to.
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 2: I had questions.
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 6: I mean, I had answers ready for questions I thought
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 6: was coming and this was way better. No, I thought
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 6: it was going to be like an interview type. No,
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 6: this was way better, man. I hope you enjoyed it.
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 6: I really, really enjoyed myself.
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 2: Thank you, man.
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 1: Both of y'all, obviously. You're more talkative when I watch
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 1: the pod, man. He let me run wild today, man.
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? I appreciate that as well, man.
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 1: No doubt, man.
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 2: No doubt.
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 4: It's definitely family in a room. I'm glad we got
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 4: to have the conversations and the discussions and learning.
• 1:26:57
  Speaker 1: So thank you. Yesterday, how you feel over there? I'm chilling, bro.
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 1: You're tired. You're tired back there. You're just tired. You're
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 1: just looking at the screen trying to see where's the
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 1: action out.
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 2: Of the screen, bro.
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 1: You're doing that for three hours. All right, bro. We
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 1: can get up out of here. For those of y'all
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 1: that want to come to the live show, pay attention.
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 1: First of all, if you're not in the Patreon, it's
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 1: going to take you a minute before you get the
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 1: ticket link. So Patreons come first. After that, Dodgers friends, guests,
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 1: shit like that. Guests have been on the show. And
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 1: if you're looking for general admission tickets, pay attention to
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 1: our Instagram. The email list will go out to the
• 1:27:33
  Speaker 1: people that's part of our email chain. Besides that, so shameless.
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 1: That is November 14th. So shameless. So shameless. So shameless.
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 1: Thank y'all all. We'll see y'all next week.
• 1:27:44
  Speaker 2: Dope. That was fun.
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 4: That was fun.
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 1: Where's 705s at?