Latest / Johnjay & Rich On Demand / Hannah was USED in a RELATIONSHIP TEST
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hi, Hannah, thanks for holding Hi. What's going on?
- 0:05Speaker 2: My situationship?
- 0:07Speaker 1: Go on?
- 0:09Speaker 3: So, the man who has told me repeatedly that he's
- 0:12Speaker 3: not ready for a relationship just introduced me to his
- 0:16Speaker 3: mom and like, not some poppin' quick FaceTime or whatever,
- 0:22Speaker 3: like just a full sit down dinner at her house.
- 0:26Speaker 2: She hugged me and like asked me how he and
- 0:30Speaker 2: I met, and showed me his baby pictures and I
- 0:33Speaker 2: was like, ma'am, I don't even know your.
- 0:35Speaker 3: Son's middle name. Like he told me that was too
- 0:37Speaker 3: serious for me to know.
- 0:40Speaker 4: So what's about that?
- 0:40Speaker 2: How does he explain that the intro?
- 0:43Speaker 4: I agree?
- 0:45Speaker 2: I just like what was going on?
- 0:47Speaker 4: And then after all that.
- 0:48Speaker 2: He dropped me off and he goes, okay, just so
- 0:50Speaker 2: we're all the same page.
- 0:52Speaker 1: I'm not looking for anything serious.
- 0:54Speaker 4: I'm like, sir, h well, so I mean her mom like,
- 0:58Speaker 4: is that a casual Tuesday?
- 1:00Speaker 1: What?
- 1:01Speaker 4: Maybe mom didn't get the note that this was just
- 1:03Speaker 4: a casual situationship and she was just you know, approaching you,
- 1:07Speaker 4: like if you came around the house, then he must
- 1:09Speaker 4: be serious about you.
- 1:10Speaker 3: I feel like you shouldn't bring your casual situationship to
- 1:13Speaker 3: meet your mom home anywhere.
- 1:14Speaker 4: Let me tell you.
- 1:16Speaker 1: Listen, let me tell you as a guy that I
- 1:17Speaker 1: never introduced to anybody to my mom. So this is
- 1:20Speaker 1: what I think that he's doing. So he's like, Mom,
- 1:23Speaker 1: I really like this girl. I want to bring her by.
- 1:26Speaker 1: I want you to meet her. Okay. Then he's telling
- 1:29Speaker 1: you I don't want anything. I don't want a relationship,
- 1:33Speaker 1: but you know we're casually dating. Then he wants to
- 1:35Speaker 1: see what mom says, and if Mom says you're amazing,
- 1:40Speaker 1: then he will follow up and be like, oh, wow,
- 1:42Speaker 1: hey this is great. But instead it sounds like Mom
- 1:45Speaker 1: didn't like you.
- 1:46Speaker 3: Wow.
- 1:47Speaker 2: I was thinking a totally different route. I was thinking, like,
- 1:50Speaker 2: his mom's been pressuring him to have someone in his life,
- 1:54Speaker 2: and he's saying, I do I do. She doesn't believe him.
- 1:56Speaker 2: She's like, let me meet her. Right that he brings
- 2:00Speaker 2: about to satisfied mom, but then reminds you, hey, this
- 2:02Speaker 2: is just appeasing my mom.
- 2:03Speaker 4: Okay.
- 2:03Speaker 1: So what's interesting about the two different dilemmas yours and
- 2:06Speaker 1: mine is mine? I think comes from the perspective of
- 2:08Speaker 1: a very close relationship with mom. I want my mom
- 2:11Speaker 1: to see this girl to tell me if you like her.
- 2:13Speaker 3: Or not.
- 2:13Speaker 1: The other way is kind of like you're lying the mom.
- 2:15Speaker 2: You're lying them all right, yeah, because mom's put too
- 2:18Speaker 2: much tresh off.
- 2:18Speaker 1: Mine's coming from a really good place relationship with my
- 2:21Speaker 1: mom where I want my mom to check this girl out,
- 2:22Speaker 1: what do you think? And I'm telling the girl I'm
- 2:23Speaker 1: keeping her arm's length in case my mom says.
- 2:26Speaker 4: Ah, she's disgusting, she's grossed.
- 2:27Speaker 1: My god, Billy slept but the five times and I'd
- 2:29Speaker 1: be like, oh, hey, because then what did he say
- 2:32Speaker 1: to you.
- 2:32Speaker 2: At the end, just so we're clear and on the
- 2:34Speaker 2: same stage, I'm not looking.
- 2:36Speaker 3: For Mom gave him the whole like that totally sucks
- 2:40Speaker 3: for Hannah because even if Mom didn't like her, now
- 2:43Speaker 3: she's under the impression that, oh, I just met your mom,
- 2:46Speaker 3: Like that's mixed signals.
- 2:47Speaker 1: But he's not because he said he also said, just
- 2:50Speaker 1: so we're clear. So he was very clear with just
- 2:53Speaker 1: so we're clear.
- 2:54Speaker 3: Say that before you go meet mom and let her
- 2:56Speaker 3: have the offiction. I think that he sent her up
- 2:59Speaker 3: for failure either way, whether Mom liked.
- 3:01Speaker 4: Her or did it.
- 3:01Speaker 1: There's lots of relationship tests that people put each other through.
- 3:05Speaker 1: I remember back in the day it used to be
- 3:07Speaker 1: unlocking the door. You let a girl in the car,
- 3:10Speaker 1: you open the door for her, and she's supposed to
- 3:12Speaker 1: unlock your door. If she does that, you're like, this
- 3:14Speaker 1: is a good girl.
- 3:15Speaker 4: Meet your dog. If the dog doesn't like you, then
- 3:17Speaker 4: you're out all kinds of texts. This is a mom
- 3:19Speaker 4: test test.
- 3:21Speaker 3: There you go.
- 3:21Speaker 1: Sorry, we'll find you a new guy.
- 3:23Speaker 3: Okay, I know I'm a catch. It's all good.
- 3:26Speaker 4: I know you are.
- 3:27Speaker 1: Thanks, Hannah. If you have a relationship test, text us
- 3:30Speaker 1: text JJR whatever that test is, and we'll put you
- 3:33Speaker 1: on there. We'll go through it. It's John Jay and
- 3:35Speaker 1: Rich TFM text JJR whatever that test is. To nine
- 3:38Speaker 1: six eight ninety three