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INTERVIEW: T.K. Kirkland Talks New Series 'Lot Patrol', Fatherhood, Modern Dating, Upcoming Shows + More · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Don't every day up weak, click your ass up. The
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  Speaker 1: breakfast club.
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  Speaker 2: You don't finish for y'all done.
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  Speaker 1: Morning.
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  Speaker 3: Everybody is dj n V, jess hilarious, chelamage, the God.
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  Speaker 3: We are the breakfast club. Long the roses here as well.
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  Speaker 3: We got a special guest in the building, one.
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  Speaker 2: Of my old Jesus.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, good to see y'all man, My brother Love Love
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  Speaker 1: waiting for the flowers. I'm talking you welcome.
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  Speaker 3: T K was up five to the motherfucking K five
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  Speaker 3: thirty every morning.
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  Speaker 2: T K is in the gym working out take out,
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  Speaker 2: you know, sixty six, sixty six years old.
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  Speaker 3: This morning he was on live working out five thirty
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  Speaker 3: the morning and I was on my way dropping.
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  Speaker 1: T K was working and he was showing.
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  Speaker 3: He was like, look, I want you to know he's
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  Speaker 3: just twenty five pounds and you don't need all that
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  Speaker 3: heavy waiting to right.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't live heavy anymore. I just stay consistent.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I don't think I benched press two thirty
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  Speaker 1: and about fifteen years as long as I stay consistent.
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  Speaker 2: You look good, though, brother, you think you sir.
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  Speaker 4: And the reason I bring that up is because you
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  Speaker 4: wearing jay Z on your shirt. And one thing I
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  Speaker 4: think that he showed us, and your career has shown
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  Speaker 4: us it ain't about being the white hot person because
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  Speaker 4: you're only gonna be that once. Yes, yes, but you
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  Speaker 4: have a career that is consistent.
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  Speaker 2: That's the key, yep.
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  Speaker 4: And you can still do the things that he did
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  Speaker 4: this weekend and the things that you're doing after fact.
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  Speaker 1: Because when I saw that, you know, because I opened
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  Speaker 1: for jay Z on a Heart Life tour.
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  Speaker 2: Oh wow. Yeah. And it all started because we threw
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  Speaker 2: a party.
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  Speaker 1: Me Chaz well, you know, all the hustlers zipping all
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  Speaker 1: of us, and we threw a party and they hired
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  Speaker 1: jay Z.
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  Speaker 2: And I remember.
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  Speaker 1: Paying on fifteen hundred dollars, you know, and I tell
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  Speaker 1: the story and I tell he took my money and
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  Speaker 1: flipped it, and that's how you came a billions.
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  Speaker 2: Took me.
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  Speaker 1: That was that was a seed money. You know what
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  Speaker 1: was so cool about it. They came back around and
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  Speaker 1: got me and took me on the Hard Knocked Life tour.
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  Speaker 1: And from that that's how I hooked up with babying
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  Speaker 1: them from cash money. Because when we was down there,
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  Speaker 1: Baby walked up on me and said, yo, whatever all
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  Speaker 1: they he said, I'm doing this movie called Ball of
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  Speaker 1: Blocking and I want you to and then that's how
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  Speaker 1: hooked up with the Rough Riders, and.
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  Speaker 2: Let's talk about a lot of patrol. Though, who are
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  Speaker 2: you playing?
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  Speaker 1: I'm playing a young man named mister Cox, and I
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  Speaker 1: would describe it. I know everybody started laughing, so listen, listen.
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  Speaker 1: I took it as me playing the role like Ari
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  Speaker 1: Gold from Entourage, because I'm the boss of the lot
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  Speaker 1: and I have all these security guys just really doing
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  Speaker 1: all these shenanigans. But every comic could come on here
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  Speaker 1: or any interview will say it's their TV show. That's
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  Speaker 1: the great thing about That's the funny thing about comedian.
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  Speaker 1: A comedians gonna say, yeah, go watch my show. But
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  Speaker 1: it's all about shows. And it's just a great situation,
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  Speaker 1: especially for me because I never really cared about TV
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  Speaker 1: or doing movies back in the day.
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  Speaker 5: You know.
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  Speaker 1: I've always like, let me go get the money because
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  Speaker 1: that was real for me and being on the road,
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  Speaker 1: and then it paid off at my age.
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  Speaker 4: And it shot like a like a like a documentary,
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  Speaker 4: but they call it a documentary, Yeah, documentary, How does
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  Speaker 4: that change how you do your your comedy versus like
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  Speaker 4: a scripted thing.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I have to be honest with you. I'm the
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  Speaker 1: worst when it comes to studying.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 1: When they set me the script, I actually I was
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  Speaker 1: really studying on the plane and I really thought I
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  Speaker 1: was that guy. And when I landed, I didn't comprehend nothing,
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  Speaker 1: like nothing stayed in my head. But when we was
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  Speaker 1: on the set, Manny, who knew my stand up, was like, Yo,
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  Speaker 1: this is TK. He know this stuff better than all
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  Speaker 1: of us. So I was able to just look at
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  Speaker 1: the stuff and just wing it. And they said that
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  Speaker 1: I had did a great job, and I didn't believe
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  Speaker 1: on the same way you was not believing me, Like
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  Speaker 1: the way you was acting, That's the way I was
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  Speaker 1: acting to them. No, when they were saying K was good,
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  Speaker 1: Like the same energy was doing when you said get
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  Speaker 1: out of here. I swear I had the same energy
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  Speaker 1: to them. So I'm looking at you like, Yo, that's
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  Speaker 1: the same way I was acting when they just talking
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  Speaker 1: about my show, and I just thought that was from now.
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  Speaker 1: I said, I was getting ready ask you what you
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  Speaker 1: there when they asked me that question. Yeah, so that's
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  Speaker 1: the way, and we pulled it off, and as a
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  Speaker 1: matter of fact, I think we got picked up for
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  Speaker 1: another season already.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think we have to call the other
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  Speaker 2: day about that.
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  Speaker 5: So did you do security before, like kind of no, no,
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  Speaker 5: in a movie or like like, well, I don't want
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  Speaker 5: to say security, but you've been I guess the muscle
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  Speaker 5: for some other comedians.
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  Speaker 1: You kept up, You've kept people off other comedians before. No, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: that's that's never been my thing.
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  Speaker 2: My thing is.
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  Speaker 1: I'm older than mostly everybody. My thing has always been,
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  Speaker 1: and I stay out the way. I let the young
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  Speaker 1: kids do what they do. I don't get involved because
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  Speaker 1: my reputation is not the greatest reputation, right, So what
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  Speaker 1: I try to do is make sure that I keep
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  Speaker 1: honest and peaceful light as I go through life, and
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  Speaker 1: I stay away from anything that can bring me trouble.
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  Speaker 1: You know it's important to me because I mean, we know.
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  Speaker 4: But that's one thing I've heard people say, whether you
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  Speaker 4: realize it or not, that TK, even with the reputation,
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  Speaker 4: you've kept some people out of trouble, whether you know
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  Speaker 4: ye yeah, yah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: We do what we gotta do. You know, it doesn't
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  Speaker 1: come down the fights. It's coming to a phone call.
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  Speaker 1: Because you're well respected people will respect your word and
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  Speaker 1: you keep it moving, that's all.
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  Speaker 2: How important to you?
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  Speaker 3: And I know you work out every day.
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  Speaker 2: But I've been seeing like a lot.
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  Speaker 3: Of comedians sick recently.
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  Speaker 2: Right, I seen what compons Luther Compons shout out to
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  Speaker 2: compone a bunch of other comedians.
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  Speaker 3: How important is that? Because you guys live a tough life, right,
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  Speaker 3: you're always in the club. It's a lot of times
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  Speaker 3: a lot of comedians drink a lot because it gets
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  Speaker 3: them started cigarettes a lot.
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  Speaker 2: So how important is health?
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  Speaker 1: Health has always been important to me. It starts since
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  Speaker 1: I was a kid because I ran track, I ran
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  Speaker 1: I played football. And the key to success to me
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  Speaker 1: is disciplined. Right, you got to have that discipline. I
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  Speaker 1: go to bed like nine ten o'clock. I'm up like
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  Speaker 1: two three in the morning. I make sure I hit
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  Speaker 1: the gym and put my you know, two three hours
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  Speaker 1: in and then I go for a walk and do
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  Speaker 1: like about sometimes six miles sometimes nine and one day
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  Speaker 1: and then I start my day and I just keep
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  Speaker 1: it going. But it's disciplined. But you got to start young.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people start at forty and forty five.
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  Speaker 1: To me, that's too late. I think people got to
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  Speaker 1: eat well young. People got to work out young that
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  Speaker 1: your bodies used to. I've seen a lot of people
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  Speaker 1: did drugs at a young age and they start working
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  Speaker 1: out later and they never made it. I think you
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  Speaker 1: damage your body at a young age, and once it's damage,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think you can really could repair it. You know,
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  Speaker 1: like you've seen people get on crack and even though
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  Speaker 1: they stop, they still look horrible and my right wrong,
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  Speaker 1: like yo, such and such as some crack butt you
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  Speaker 1: know cigarette on crack, Yeah, yeah, on crack, but they
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  Speaker 1: still look horrible. So I don't think it's no coming
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  Speaker 1: back from that. You got to start young, and we
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  Speaker 1: was taught so many different ways to eat right. Eating
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  Speaker 1: three times a day was the wrong information, and we're
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  Speaker 1: really supposed to eat one time a day. People don't
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  Speaker 1: understand about their cortisolt. People don't understand about those type
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  Speaker 1: of things with your blood pressure and all that. They
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  Speaker 1: tell you that sugar is the culprit, but it's really
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  Speaker 1: I mean, they say they tell you sugar is the culprit,
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  Speaker 1: but they say salt is the culporate to give you
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  Speaker 1: hig blood pressure. But salt is really good for you.
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  Speaker 1: It's the sugar that's bad for you. And a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people don't know that sugar in your eyes is
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  Speaker 1: called glacoma, sugar in your bones is called arthritis. Sugar,
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  Speaker 1: and a child is called ADHD. So all that comes
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  Speaker 1: from sugar. And I had somebody actually argue with me
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  Speaker 1: on Facebook saying that you can't get that from sugar,
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  Speaker 1: and I just tell people just the Google stuff. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: it's right there. The sugar is really serious. But they
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  Speaker 1: have lobbyists in DC that protects these people and they
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  Speaker 1: push out the narrative to the world and people bite
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  Speaker 1: on it. And it's been taught since we was kids,
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  Speaker 1: and we all of us is everybody in this room
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  Speaker 1: was pre diabetic, if you want to go that way,
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  Speaker 1: because all our parents had a five pound Domino bag
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  Speaker 1: of sugar sitting on the counter when we was kids,
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  Speaker 1: and you took four pounds and put it in the
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  Speaker 1: kool aid to stir it up until you saw snow
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  Speaker 1: and you taste it. It's not streenough you put the
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  Speaker 1: other pounds, so you get old five pounds of the
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  Speaker 1: kool aid and the sugar in the kool aid. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: it's crazy, but that's important. It's very important. To stay healthy.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, now trending things with you.
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  Speaker 7: So I was watching an interview on Club Okay. The
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  Speaker 7: headline that they put and you just mentioned your reputation.
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  Speaker 7: The headline that they put is T K. Kirklan talks
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  Speaker 7: about when he robbed Diddy, which we know is like
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  Speaker 7: this old story about.
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  Speaker 1: The old story.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, so why do when you go to places like
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  Speaker 7: why talk about stuff like that? Then if you you
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  Speaker 7: just mentioned you didn't want to talk about the protecting people.
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  Speaker 1: That's true, and it's always the time to start. So
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna start now, We're not gonna talk about it.
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  Speaker 8: Don't do us platform.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a big platform.
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  Speaker 1: And that was your first and the first time on
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  Speaker 1: the Yeah, I've been here a hundred times.
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  Speaker 7: I was just wondering because when when he mentioned the
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  Speaker 7: protecting people thing, and I was like, oh, he don't
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  Speaker 7: really want to go into that stuff.
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  Speaker 6: But then when I watched that interview, I was like why.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it was because of that and he
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  Speaker 1: board it up and it caught me slipping. But I
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  Speaker 1: if you ever noticed my interviews, I never lie anybody
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  Speaker 1: getting me be caught up in messiness.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I always pivot out.
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  Speaker 1: Of the messiness, and now that things have truly changed
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  Speaker 1: even more, there's certain things I probably won't ever talk
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  Speaker 1: about ever again.
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  Speaker 7: Have you you know, you know, have you had to
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  Speaker 7: learn to navigate those type of things because business was
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  Speaker 7: was messing up for you too, when.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, I'm always in money.
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  Speaker 1: Guys here tell you that I was always got the bread.
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  Speaker 1: The thing with me is as you get older, you
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  Speaker 1: just want to be respected.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, the goal is respecting us about relationships and you
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  Speaker 1: know you get to be my age. You just want
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  Speaker 1: good things to happen. Good things are happening.
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  Speaker 7: Do you think that there is a because even on
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  Speaker 7: a lot of patrol right, like you're working with like
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  Speaker 7: the skeek carters and people that are coming up in
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  Speaker 7: this where being viral is a thing for them. But
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  Speaker 7: at the same time, like you said, there's a respect
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  Speaker 7: that also keeps business and relationships. Yes, what do you
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  Speaker 7: tell people like him or like the younger comedians that
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  Speaker 7: are coming up when they're navigating that space.
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  Speaker 1: I explained to him to be friends with everybody, you know,
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  Speaker 1: don't make don't have a clique, don't get caught up.
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  Speaker 1: And he said, she said, stuff that's important because you
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  Speaker 1: never know who's going to make it, so you treat
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  Speaker 1: everybody well because you never know who's going to be
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  Speaker 1: that person to take off. And you want and never
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  Speaker 1: burn the headliner. You know, when he was coming up,
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  Speaker 1: it felt good to destroy somebody behind the head little name,
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  Speaker 1: and then they really blow up, blow up. They never
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  Speaker 1: look out for you no more because they know what
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  Speaker 1: you done to them.
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  Speaker 2: And it's no recovery from that, one of your comedians.
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  Speaker 7: So petty, Yeah, I was about to say, because if
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  Speaker 7: you come on and you just better, what are you
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  Speaker 7: supposed to do about that?
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  Speaker 1: Nobody wants to be outshine. I think I can't explain it.
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  Speaker 1: I just stay away from all that. I'm glad my
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  Speaker 1: name now is on the Marquee. You know, I'm glad
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  Speaker 1: that I get a majority of the door. I picked
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  Speaker 1: who I want on the show, and I just really
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  Speaker 1: stay out the way and just get my little change
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  Speaker 1: and keep it moving, because like you said earlier, it's
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  Speaker 1: about consistency forty years, like Jay been doing it thirty
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  Speaker 1: and I was doing it ten years before him. So
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  Speaker 1: you know, I got forty years, and I think on
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  Speaker 1: the forty one what.
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  Speaker 3: It's always difficult though, like if you look at DJing
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  Speaker 3: or artists, right, I remember JA were talking about Jay
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  Speaker 3: telling the story about when DMX got on before him
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  Speaker 3: and Redman and meth Man making this show so active
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  Speaker 3: and flying through the stage that he had to increase
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  Speaker 3: what he did on stage and make his show better
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  Speaker 3: because he was coming behind them.
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  Speaker 2: You know, yes, DJs do that.
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  Speaker 3: Comedians do that, like you don't want nobody to be
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  Speaker 3: laughing crazy and when you get there this.
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  Speaker 2: Like, that's so true.
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  Speaker 1: You have to But that's up to the promoters as well,
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  Speaker 1: they say, But it's.
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  Speaker 6: People putting the show together that know what you're coming with.
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  Speaker 2: Though, no, no, no, no, it doesn't go like that.
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  Speaker 1: Promoters put asses in the seats, so their job is
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  Speaker 1: to get the money. And what artists don't do is
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  Speaker 1: that we don't talk to each other. Meaning in comedy
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  Speaker 1: we should have this thing called comedy IQ. If all
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  Speaker 1: of us about to perform, we should all be in
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  Speaker 1: the green room talking what you're gonna talk about the night,
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: but you're gonna talk about the night, So that way
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  Speaker 1: we don't talk about the same exact thing. Because if
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  Speaker 1: you're sitting in the audience and people hear the same
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  Speaker 1: topic they like yo, then you hear he just said
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  Speaker 1: the same thing. Now the joke might be different, but
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  Speaker 1: you got this. It's the same topic. And that's what
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  Speaker 1: I think comedians should do amongst each other.
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  Speaker 2: You have, you said you have those conversations a lot.
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  Speaker 1: I have when I'm on my on my shows, you know,
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  Speaker 1: and sometimes I believe it or not. You can't curse
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  Speaker 1: on my show, really really can't curse on my show.
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  Speaker 1: But it's two things. Because you know, I'm just like
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  Speaker 1: trying to teach so in my day, you want a
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  Speaker 1: comedian to learn and be comfortable doing a clean set,
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  Speaker 1: because if you want to work for the rest of
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  Speaker 1: your life, you're gonna have to learn how to do
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  Speaker 1: clean material. Young comics, all they know how to do
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  Speaker 1: is P jokes, D jokes and profanity. No one has
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  Speaker 1: taught them to do a clean set. And if you
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  Speaker 1: really want to work in Brussels like I do, you
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  Speaker 1: don't even work in Paris like I do. You want
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  Speaker 1: to work in all these different places, you're gonna have
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  Speaker 1: to learn how to do clean material. And it's best
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  Speaker 1: to start writing this small comedy club or somewhere in
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  Speaker 1: the States. If you taking this comedy game, seriously.
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  Speaker 2: So you don't say teacher the mother and ga no.
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  Speaker 1: No, I still say it, but I'll say it all
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  Speaker 1: shows my shows. Now I talk about being president of
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  Speaker 1: the Home Owns Association, you know, stuff like that's hilarious.
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  Speaker 1: You laugh because you're on a home. When I see
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  Speaker 1: people don't laugh, Oh, you must not own home. But
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  Speaker 1: when people own a home and understand the community, they
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  Speaker 1: understand it. And I explained to being president of homeowner Association.
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  Speaker 1: I'm privileged to certain things like when women husbands die,
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  Speaker 1: I know, so I opened my home up for comfort,
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  Speaker 1: you know, three four o'clock in the morning, you know,
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  Speaker 1: and over the years has gotten and over the years
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  Speaker 1: has gotten so bad. I wound up getting my money.
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  Speaker 1: And now I bought a fly spot over at Assistant Living.
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  Speaker 1: So now all of them got signed at the front desks,
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  Speaker 1: you know.
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  Speaker 2: And when we was hustles.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we bought women diamonds and all that and
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  Speaker 1: just fly. But it's different when you're senior citizen. I
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  Speaker 1: just bought miss Williams a scooter and you are take
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  Speaker 1: me you can yeah, yeah, it's a discount. Is serious, dog,
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  Speaker 1: They don't believe you. The coldest thing is that I Hop.
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  Speaker 1: I went to I Hop and I got to Senior
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  Speaker 1: citizen meal. You know, you your head never seen the
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: scends the meal. It's hash browns, black coffee too, peg.
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: It's very tasty, very delicious.
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: You know you gotta show your watch where I'm going, watch,
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: You're I'm going with this wace. So I left and
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: I realized they didn't apply my ID, So I busted.
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: You turn right back to Eye Hot and you know
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: there's always a white girl who's cashyer, who thinks she's
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: wants to be managing one day and when I walked in,
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: she said, sir, is there something wrong? Was it something
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: wrong with delicious hot pancakes and your hand dress? I
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: don't want to talk to you. I don't want to
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: talk to people who make decisions. The manager comes out,
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: he said service. They probably says, yes, I'm gonna send
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: your citizen. They didn't apply my discount. He said, sir,
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: you're not a senior citizen. I said, sir, yes I am.
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: Here's my ID.
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: He looked at my ID.
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: He said, oh my god, you look good for your age.
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: I said, yep, twenty percent. I don't care about the compment.
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: Twenty percent Now it was only seventeen cent, but it
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: is not the point I lived for seventeen in my discount,
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: I'm gonn say says I want everything coming to mass course,
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: you want to get back, that's right. I'm going to
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: get my seventeen cent.
• 16:07
  Speaker 4: I don't blame you, that's right. You've seen the new
• 16:09
  Speaker 4: Netflix show called The Polygamist.
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: I started to watch it and I didn't like.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: The actor, which one the guy that's doing all the
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: sex stuff and cheating.
• 16:21
  Speaker 6: I started and it triggered.
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't think he was smooth enough to
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: pull that off.
• 16:26
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because it's based on Africa about a man seeking
• 16:29
  Speaker 4: out wealthy women and marrying him and he got a
• 16:30
  Speaker 4: bunch of wives.
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah. One of your thoughts on.
• 16:33
  Speaker 4: Just that premise, though, one just on polygamy in that way.
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: It happens, you know, it depends on how good you
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: are to get away with it, and do I recommend
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: I just believe men just stay say.
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: I know you guys are marrying.
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: Half the world is married, and I'm happy for y'all
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: because I know when y'all was young and y'all was
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: out there doing what I used to do, you know,
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: and how you guys settled down and got a family,
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: and you know, because why.
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: Are you for something else? When he was young?
• 17:04
  Speaker 6: You get him back.
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: I don't remember t K used to say, and the
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: set TK used to say. You don't want no girl
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: that don't ask you for nothing?
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, you want to find somebody that don't need
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: to be taken care of and then take care of him.
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: There you go, Okay, why can't you?
• 17:20
  Speaker 6: What's wrong girls that asks you for stuff?
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: So here's the thing about what women don't understand. Young
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: girls like you just don't get it. It's it's psychology.
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: Even when it comes to men. A man wants to
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: feel that he wants to help you.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: But as you get older.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: And you understand life, and we all have bills. So
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: if I meet you and you are another bill, the
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: goal in life is to get rid of your bills
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: every month like what like you bill?
• 17:53
  Speaker 5: You know?
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: And just because when you text me, you call you
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: have sex for me, I was supposed to continue paying
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: your bill. My thing is your parents sent you into
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: the world unprepared. And when men wake up and they
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: understand it, it bothers them because they want someone who's thoughtful,
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: who's considerate who's not complaining all the time.
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: And some our women just don't get it.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: They'll go back and forth in conversation. And some guys
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: stay in it, you know. But when they asked me,
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: I'll tell him leave.
• 18:27
  Speaker 6: You said, they'll go back on for front conversations.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: They'll stay in a relationship. I believe break it off.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: I believe you protect your piece at all courts. Break
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: it off and met somebody knew.
• 18:38
  Speaker 6: The girl's asking for things not enough.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: She asks me that she's complaining. Giving is out of
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: your heart. If you're feeling someone and you're really feeling
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: her and she's thankful, like and then I'll get you flowers.
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: But if you don't text and say thank your call, okay,
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: I'm glad you let me off the hook because I
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: see that you and raised right because a man to me,
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: a man wants a phone call. If I get you
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: flowers called me and said, oh my god, thank you.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: I don't care if you're may I buy a woman
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: flowers that's married, but married, call me. I need a
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: phone call.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: You know why? He makes sense because what some women
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: have such a sense of entitlement, then you go expect things.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's but you know, I don't have to get
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: you no flowers?
• 19:23
  Speaker 7: Do you have daughters to get? Okay, all you have daughters.
• 19:26
  Speaker 7: So what do you guys teach your daughters about the entitlement?
• 19:29
  Speaker 7: Where entitlement sometimes it's a boundary that women set up
• 19:32
  Speaker 7: to make sure that they're not getting less than they deserve.
• 19:35
  Speaker 7: How do you guys teach them to navigate that?
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: So here's what you're saying. You're talking about parents that
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: don't raise their kids.
• 19:40
  Speaker 6: No, I'm asking you raise their kids.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: You paid.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: No, men who raise their children their daughters don't go
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: around thinking like that because we take care of our children.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: That's what her father.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: Shut up?
• 19:54
  Speaker 6: Shut up?
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: See when when when a father don't take care of
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: his daughters, that's the results that you get is what entitlement.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: You feel like he's supposed to get certain things. But
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: when a man takes care of his daughters, she's not
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: looking for nothing man, because she got a dad. She'll
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: never come to another man and expect anything because all
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: our lives, we took care of our daughters so much
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: that they don't even process that thinking.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: And don't let daddy have be touching some paper.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: Daddy were touching some paper exactly. Yeah, daughters don't daughters
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: who've been raised by good dads.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: That ain't coming out of their mouth though.
• 20:34
  Speaker 7: So my question, then, is what I was trying to
• 20:36
  Speaker 7: ask is I'm trying to ask it is because you
• 20:43
  Speaker 7: guys are like that, what are you doing and what
• 20:45
  Speaker 7: are your teeth like? What should the girls who are
• 20:47
  Speaker 7: the opposite be learning from your daughters?
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: They can't learn from us? Is everything starts in the home.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: We could sit here and explain this all day. It's
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: already in the DNA because of their parents. That's the
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: reason why we have the confusion that we have out
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: here in this country. Everybody has a platform to give
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: knowledge and gain nobody's paying attention. Your mother, your father
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: has to teach you this, and they don't say thank you,
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: and they don't open the door when women feel or
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: using profanity and talking any kind of way. A real
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: man when he see that, he didn't want to deal
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: with that.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: You know what's interesting, Lauren don't curse a lot.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: And I.
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: Don't know how you are in relationships, but she is
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: very she has a lot of gratitude.
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: No, she's I could tell about her personality.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: I watch you on this thing a lot, and I'm
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: good at discernment. Very nice woman. But the great thing
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: about you, you're beautiful on the outside, but you're also
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: beautiful on the inside. And it comes quite looking like that,
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: thank you.
• 21:59
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean jokes.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no, when she.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: Was looking like something was coming like because.
• 22:06
  Speaker 6: When he started off the niceness, it's like, all right,
• 22:08
  Speaker 6: what are.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: You No, no, no, every man moves differently.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: I compliment. If I can't give comment, I'm gonna say nothing.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: I think you're a beautiful sister. I think you are
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: very intelligent.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: And it comes across on the screen. We know how
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: she is. We don't know how she has a relationship that's.
• 22:27
  Speaker 7: True relationships until it gets to the point where I
• 22:32
  Speaker 7: shouldn't be.
• 22:33
  Speaker 8: She cares, she rides.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: You take your man.
• 22:37
  Speaker 6: I love taking care of my man. If he's taking care.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: Here's the thing about it all, So you take him
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: to because.
• 22:43
  Speaker 7: First of all, stop playing with my man that has
• 22:44
  Speaker 7: a grown as six, beautiful, beautiful chocolate man. But if
• 22:49
  Speaker 7: I am in a relationship that I feel like I'm
• 22:53
  Speaker 7: he's treating me great, I have no like that's what like,
• 22:56
  Speaker 7: that's bare minimum, okay, because it's not about financial things either.
• 23:00
  Speaker 7: I mean, like a lot of times, what I encounter
• 23:02
  Speaker 7: with him is that it's simple things like you said,
• 23:04
  Speaker 7: like a thank you were like a thoughtful or like.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: You can get him a card and put it under
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: the pillow. He will swore you brought him a Bentley.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: That's how little things to men are, you know what
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: I mean. You give them cute tests. You can buy socks,
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: and I always tell gentlemen to wear pajamas around the house.
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: Now, you guys are successfully you know. So here's the
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: thing about pajamas. Just my opinion. I think pajamas gives
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: an edge to you, for you to practice mentally about success.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: That makes you feel a certain way. And I think
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: that especially when you open your door mailman, FedEx or whatever.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: I just think, to that person's looking at you, you
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: look like you got your stuff together. With rich pajamas
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: you can just get. Let me tell you I wed
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: nice pajamas. But you know, I went to Walmart the
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: other day and Walmart has stepped they game up.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: I was walking room.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: And I saw some pajamas look for nineteen dollars and
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: dog people, don't it don't have to be expensive as
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: long as the material feels good on you, right right,
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: And I'm not saying where pajamas the bed as a
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: presentation walking through you ho especially men who have horrible bodies.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: You got a horrible body, you should will roll in pajamas.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: You got like your feet of horrible, like your nails
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: is yellow, and you got cracked ink on heels slippers
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: because your woman will find you attractive.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: Now, when you get under the under cover, you.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Take things so slowly, and it's underneath there that's a
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: different ball game. But when you walk through the house,
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: do you want eye? It's presentation like, oh, my man
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: looks good.
• 24:51
  Speaker 7: What about women? Because y'all love women in certain type
• 24:54
  Speaker 7: of pajamas.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: No women have fallen off bad talk about that. You'll
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: come to bed looking any kind of way. And I
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: always say, when you're the ladyship, you gotta be prepared
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: for love making twenty four seven. You got to always
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: take a shower, You got to always take your wig,
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: and women should take their wigs off and eyelashes at
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: least once a month so the man.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: Can know who they are.
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: Because as you get older, things happen.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: You know, you can.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: You can fall down the stairs. You can be in
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: a car accident. And if that man comes to the hospital,
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: you say, doc, my wife is here. Where she Oh,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: she's in fourteen B And you walk in, like doc,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: I thought you said my wife was here.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: That's her right there. I ain't recognize you.
• 25:38
  Speaker 6: Ain't no woman taking her wig off around you.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: You got me jokes, But that's my point.
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: A man should know what his woman look like. That's real,
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: A man, I think it's horrible that you go out
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: and the women had the eyelashes on the long hair,
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: and that's not how she looks. And when you take
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: it off eventually one day and the eyelass of and
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: the guy looking at you out of his peripheral, what
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: the hell is that? WHOA? She looked horrible?
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: Have you done? You did eighty Pops off show?
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah?
• 26:13
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: You never did poor Minds podcast? No?
• 26:17
  Speaker 4: No, I don't think so poor did they? Under the
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: eighty Pops out on Brother? They were black Effect.
• 26:22
  Speaker 6: Too, But they recently did club. I was okay.
• 26:27
  Speaker 7: So they recently did club and they talked about a
• 26:29
  Speaker 7: couple of things. First thing was, you know, Daphanie Jory
• 26:31
  Speaker 7: the girl, the girl that was dating did.
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: He that was with her?
• 26:35
  Speaker 7: So they said that a black woman would never be
• 26:37
  Speaker 7: able to be on a press woman run about a
• 26:39
  Speaker 7: sexual encounter like that. How she's been like she did
• 26:41
  Speaker 7: Kim Newton. After all of that, she's saying, people calling
• 26:44
  Speaker 7: her the new Kim Kardashian the sex tape drive Yeah, drop,
• 26:47
  Speaker 7: and they're saying, if it was a black woman like
• 26:48
  Speaker 7: Meg the Stallion or ain't Daphite black?
• 26:52
  Speaker 6: No, She's like, she's like Philippine Filipino.
• 26:55
  Speaker 7: Yeah, but basically saying because she's not black, people are
• 26:57
  Speaker 7: melting at her. When if it was a black to
• 27:00
  Speaker 7: be like, ooh, that's the girl from the sex.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: We live in the world that it is what it
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: is now.
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: It ain't no secret, no more like the world don't
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: rock with black people, and it's bad to say it,
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: no matter how much we achieved, no matter I mean,
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: we were our black women and some of the most
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: gorgeous women in the world, some of the most natural butts,
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: natural breasts.
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: That you can imagine.
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: And what I've seen in my lifetime is in thirty years,
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: the decline of common sense and education and it just
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: truly went downhill and women started getting more surgeries because
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: of the Kadashians on the big lips and our beautiful
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: black women have been this way since the beginning of time.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: Even when you go back when they had the black
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: girl with the big buck in the zoo and.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: They was in awe of her, you know what I mean.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: But you know she died a syphilis right, so even
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: though they was talking about her, men were still having
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: sex with the behind closed doors.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: So what can we do about it? Guys, There's nothing.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: All we can do is just really complain. If Daphnie
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: is doing it. The best way to handle things like
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: that is wish her well. If that's what she's doing,
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: wishing well. I'm still tripping how Puff gave the girl
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: Castay thirty million and she came to court like I'm
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: a street hustler. I gave you thirty million, you came
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: to court like you're supposed to disappear. I remember catching
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: case out here with the crew in ninety three. We
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: gave a girl eleven thousand to leave the country.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: She's still going.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: Over eleven thousand dogs three dang, she's still going off
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: eleven bands.
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: If you want to see hold on, we are more
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: asking about the split the build thing that they were
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: talking about.
• 29:01
  Speaker 7: So they said that there, let me get the verbatim.
• 29:05
  Speaker 7: They were talking about okay, splitting the bill or grown
• 29:07
  Speaker 7: with someone. It was the debate between are you okay
• 29:10
  Speaker 7: with doing the this person doesn't have fifty fifty or
• 29:14
  Speaker 7: you come into a person's life and I don't want
• 29:15
  Speaker 7: to build you like I want you to?
• 29:17
  Speaker 4: Is it women not splitting the bout?
• 29:20
  Speaker 7: So from what I took from it, I took from
• 29:23
  Speaker 7: the conversation that they were saying, we're at a point
• 29:25
  Speaker 7: in our lives where we want you to come to
• 29:27
  Speaker 7: the table with something to put on the table, like
• 29:29
  Speaker 7: I don't want to have to like start you from
• 29:30
  Speaker 7: zerom too old for that. You talked about roommates and
• 29:33
  Speaker 7: how they they dated people with roommates before, but at
• 29:35
  Speaker 7: this point all that.
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: So here's what I'd been doing for years.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: I've been telling men before they even start dating to
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: have their money together, because you don't have to be rich.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: But a woman want to go to a movie, you
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: want to take a nice little trip, but you what's
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: my main thing? Stay low key flex occasionally meaning you
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: stay lowky, get your money up. You work hard, and
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: as you roll together, you pick two three times a year.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: When you can flex right, you can flex full. Then
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: you max to goard American thrests and you pay that
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: bill later on because who we are if we took
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: a woman on a date or why she ain't paying
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: the bill because that's who we are, right. But everybody
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: don't have the kind of change we have, right, So
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: it depends on the female that you're with. Some girls,
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: well don't mind paying half. Some women don't even mind
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: picking up. I had a beautiful lady who tried to
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: pick me up on the date. I say, you ain't
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: picking me up because that's the kind of guyum. And
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: even when we leave the restaurant, you ain't dropping me
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: off unless you staying with me because I'm not the female.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: I take that very seriously. But I tell men, get
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: their money up and you should pay enough ax of
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: woman to leave a tip or anything like that. That's
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: part of the game. But go to places that you
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: go anyway because the girl is not there to benefit you,
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: like I'm doing this with you or without you. This
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: is how I eat, this is what I do all
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: the time. You're just here to keep me company and
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: always go out with someone that you like, because you know,
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: it's a horrible feeling to take someone to a good
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: restaurant you don't like her. I'm not trying to say
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: you have sex with anything of that, nha. I mean,
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: you just don't like her getting good and drinking good
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: and you're looking at her. I remember in the nineties,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: Houston's on him Park Avenue, just when texting and all
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: that stuff started coming out.
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: You know, that's how long I've been around. And what
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: if the woman asked you out and she got people
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: like a lot of people I've had that.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: I actually had a woman really pay me one thousand
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: dollars a month.
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: She was doing She just loved me that much.
• 31:46
  Speaker 6: But like, what were you?
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: I wasn't doing nothing. She just loved me.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: Like sometimes she would send me money, cash app just
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: say by lunch and all that kind of stuff. But
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: it got to a point I had to stop it
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: because I felt like the female. I felt like I
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: didn't want to get bored, you know what I mean.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: So I was always taught with a female gives you money,
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: you hung out with a few times. My mom always said,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: don't ever give it back. That's for your time. My
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: mom gave me that game. My mom said, that's.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: For your time.
• 32:18
  Speaker 7: Dads be saying, then y'all be mad at them. Girls
• 32:21
  Speaker 7: with the dad's be saying that too, and then y'all
• 32:23
  Speaker 7: be mad.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I told you.
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: I told you.
• 32:26
  Speaker 7: Girls without the dads first of all. And I'm the
• 32:28
  Speaker 7: complete opposite of what y'all think. Like, I'm not just
• 32:31
  Speaker 7: out here like give me, give me, give me.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: We know you're not like that.
• 32:34
  Speaker 6: They don't know.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: Maybe trust me. I'm looking at you.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: If if I was a little younger, I tried to
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: holler that shit, you know what I mean.
• 32:40
  Speaker 4: And also I've seen her a few years ago and
• 32:42
  Speaker 4: she ain't had no people, so I know if she
• 32:44
  Speaker 4: wasn't asking nobody for.
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: Right right right right?
• 32:46
  Speaker 6: Yeah, playing with me.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: I see the little thing, your little next year. Yeah,
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: you see, you've been a nice person. When I first
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: met you, you I could tell you struggling. Wow. No,
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: I could tell her Scott was dry. She didn't have
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: the moist in her hair like she got.
• 33:04
  Speaker 6: I don't even know what hairst I had.
• 33:06
  Speaker 7: Oh no, I had the bob and it was flowing
• 33:09
  Speaker 7: at But that's.
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: Horrible that's true. I'm sorry you did.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: And you look extremely beautiful now. But when you first
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: came on the show, let me say, look like.
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: Hand not how he met me. Now, you didn't look I.
• 33:25
  Speaker 6: Had a bob.
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: I'm looking at that. I don't around.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: Like they paid you good.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: You look amazing.
• 33:35
  Speaker 7: Now you're actually making the same thing now that I
• 33:37
  Speaker 7: was making. That kicked in a little bit.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, what you do. What you're doing, and you
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: got you got the wonderful person that gonna marry. You
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: know he's gonna mary. No, no, no, don't say you
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: know I do. No, No, listen to listen to you.
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: O g never soon that that's going on happen.
• 34:00
  Speaker 6: But if that's what he's.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: Saying, listen to what I'm telling you. Never assume that's
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: going to happen. Because life just takes turns. Life is unpredictable.
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: You hope that he keeps his word. You hope that
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: he doesn't meet.
• 34:21
  Speaker 6: I don't even like that.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: Listen to your old hope.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, listen to me, because you girls go through life
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: with this fairy tale.
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to tell you the truth.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: The Lord sent me here to deliver this message.
• 34:33
  Speaker 6: I'm not really like a fairy tale type though.
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, it's not about you being fairy tale.
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: Ask call that call ten women, nine of them been
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: lied to. Yeah, that's my point. So just because this
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: guy says he's going to marry you, it's not definitely sweetie.
• 34:50
  Speaker 6: The ring there.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not worried.
• 34:52
  Speaker 6: I'm gone.
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: It happens, it happens. But how long you have been together?
• 34:57
  Speaker 6: Two years now?
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't bush. Yeah, I see this enybody the end
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: of the year.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: Jesus, I see it. I see it. I don't see it.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: I don't see it going past November. Pas. No, remember, man,
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry at me.
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: Now.
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: When I come back, You're like, how did you?
• 35:23
  Speaker 6: When you come back, I'm gonna.
• 35:24
  Speaker 8: Call out Philly, Boston July, Yeah, Pittsburgh July twenty fifth,
• 35:33
  Speaker 8: in Chicago or six.
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: You got two shows in New York on July last
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: night this Sunday coming.
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: Up City Winery City Wander gets the take your tickets
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: a sap.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: Yes, and and and Wednesday and Philadelphia. Make sure you
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: get your tickets to see the O. G. T. K.
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: Chirricter.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: And just like this beautiful lady, I told the truth
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: and she's a little offended. But but that's what I'm
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: gonna do on my show. I'm gonna tell you the truth.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: I'm either going to intimidate you or inspiring. We hope
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: that she gets married. We pray that you get married.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: But if you don't, But if you don't, I need
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: his number. If he doesn't marry you, I might to
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: have a conversation with him because I'm going to be
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: mad that he led you on.
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: Because you can see the glow around you.
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: You know, you really are praying that this happens, you know,
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: and I think that you'll be devastated if he said
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: that it was over. I think you, like, I don't
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: know what you're doing, kind of nervous. I don't know
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: what you'll do. I think you might go back to
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: that hairstyle I think you might have. I think you
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: might go back club morning love y'all, Love y'all. If
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: he drives you back to the head man, I don't
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: want you to go back mane oh my god, every
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: day click yours up the breakfast club you don't finish
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: for y'all done,