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Unlock Your Dream Life Before It’s Too Late · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: You have to start to make good words familiar. If
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  Speaker 1: you want to change your life on a dime, make
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  Speaker 1: self praise familiar, and make criticizing yourself I'm familiar. Move
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  Speaker 1: away from that. I'm an idiot. I got rocks to brains.
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  Speaker 2: I mess everything up.
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  Speaker 1: You can change your life so quickly by making praise
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  Speaker 1: and self belief familiar by constantly doing it. And meanwhile,
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  Speaker 1: I make criticism I unfamiliar. So your mind can't go
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  Speaker 1: in two lanes. The mind cannot hold conflicting beliefs. I'm good,
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  Speaker 1: I'm nervous, I'm smart, I'm anxious. I'm a good student.
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  Speaker 2: I've got a terrible memory. People like me, but I'm
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  Speaker 2: scared of rejection.
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  Speaker 1: That really messes up your mind because it wants to
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  Speaker 1: go into one lane or the other, but it can't
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  Speaker 1: go into both. It all comes back to two things,
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  Speaker 1: the pictures you make in your head and the words
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  Speaker 1: you say to yourself, which you are free to change
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  Speaker 1: the way you feel about everything. Our mind loves loves,
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  Speaker 1: loves what is familiar, and really hates what is unfamiliar.
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  Speaker 1: If your mind loves what is familiar, all you've got
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  Speaker 1: to do is make good stuff familiar and one of
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  Speaker 1: the things you can do to make familiar that will
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  Speaker 1: change your entire life is to make self praise familiar.
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  Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm smart, I'm kind, I'm nice, I'm interesting.
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  Speaker 1: This is what is so important about your mind. It
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  Speaker 1: doesn't know and it doesn't care if what you tell
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  Speaker 1: it is good or bad, useful or pointless, beneficial or not.
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  Speaker 1: Your mind doesn't know and it doesn't care because your
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  Speaker 1: mind makes your thoughts real every minute of every day.
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  Speaker 1: Your mind makes your thoughts real. And if your mind
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  Speaker 1: makes your thoughts real, you better learn to make better thoughts.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, imagine if we talk it to that at five.
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  Speaker 1: Your mind's job is making your thoughts real, and your
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  Speaker 1: job is think better thoughts. So when you understand the
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  Speaker 1: workings of your mind, point one is, your mind does.
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  Speaker 2: What it thinks you want. And if I don't want
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  Speaker 2: to be rejected, I don't want to be dumped, I
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  Speaker 2: don't want to fail. I don't want to get it wrong.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't want to go to school on Wednesday and
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  Speaker 1: take that exam. Your mind goes okay, I'm tuning in.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to go to school on Wednesday. Why
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  Speaker 2: don't I give you a raging.
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  Speaker 1: Headache, chronic diarrhea. I don't really care. I just understand, give.
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  Speaker 2: You what you want. The mind is not logical. It
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  Speaker 2: just tunes.
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  Speaker 1: Into what you think, and when you think better thoughts,
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  Speaker 1: you change your life.
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  Speaker 2: So we want to be the CEO of our own mind.
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  Speaker 2: How do we do that? Well? It really is very easy.
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  Speaker 2: Don't complicate it. It all comes back to how do
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  Speaker 2: you talk to you.
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  Speaker 1: I've been working with teenagers or my adult life, and
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  Speaker 1: I never cease to be horrified by how that describes that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm an idiot. I'm a piece of you know what.
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  Speaker 1: I have rocks for brains. I'm not very good. My
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  Speaker 1: dad never sees me, so I guess I'm worthless, and
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  Speaker 1: I always teach them. Look, the most important word you
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  Speaker 1: will ever hear to yourself in your whole life, or
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  Speaker 1: not for some hot girl or some hot guy, or
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  Speaker 1: even a teacher saying, gosh, you're smart.
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  Speaker 2: You are the best kid I've.
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  Speaker 1: Ever had in my class, even a parent saying wow,
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  Speaker 1: parroding you is the joy of my life. No, the
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  Speaker 1: most important words you will ever hear in your whole
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  Speaker 1: life come from you.
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  Speaker 2: You have to look at your beliefs whatever you believe.
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  Speaker 1: You're going to make it real. And when you believe
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  Speaker 1: you're going to do something amazing, whatever you believe, you'll
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  Speaker 1: make it real. So you've got to think about your beliefs,
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  Speaker 1: because first you make your beliefs, and then your beliefs
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  Speaker 1: turn right around and met you. And then there's something
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  Speaker 1: called confirmation. Bi us, I believe.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not smart. I believe my mind isn't very quick.
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  Speaker 1: I believe people don't really like me, and I've made
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  Speaker 1: that believe and it's definitely making me because now I'm
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  Speaker 1: kind of shy, I'm insecure, and now I'm looking for
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  Speaker 1: proof of what I believe is truth. If I wake
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  Speaker 1: up and I think I'm not enough, what kind of
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  Speaker 1: feelings would I feel?
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  Speaker 2: I give you a clue. There'sn't a single good one
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  Speaker 2: in there. Listen behaviors.
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  Speaker 1: I wake up and think I'm not enough, I feel
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  Speaker 1: sad or I feel angry.
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  Speaker 2: How am I going to behave? Pick anything again, here's
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  Speaker 2: a clue. None of them are good. I don't take
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  Speaker 2: any risk. I'm risk averse.
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  Speaker 1: I stay at home, maybe I cry, maybe I act out,
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  Speaker 1: maybe I start bullying people. The emptiness you feel inside
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  Speaker 1: is always because of the needs.
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  Speaker 2: That weren't met.
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  Speaker 1: And one of your needs is to believe in yourself.
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  Speaker 1: And if you don't have that, you feel this emptiness.
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  Speaker 2: Here not enough. If I'm not enough, guess what I need?
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  Speaker 1: More more food, more praise, more followers on my feed,
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  Speaker 1: more alcohol or something. If I said I'm enough every day,
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  Speaker 1: what kind of feelings would I feel? Here's another clue.
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  Speaker 1: This time they're all good. You can't say I'm enough
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  Speaker 1: and feel terrible.
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  Speaker 2: See words are like balm. If my skin was very
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  Speaker 2: dry and I put loation, my mind doesn't.
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  Speaker 1: Go as that from Prada or did you get it
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  Speaker 1: free on an aeroplane doesn't care. Balm soothes dry skin,
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  Speaker 1: and words soothe something as words are nourishing.
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  Speaker 2: If we think we're enough.
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  Speaker 1: And we feel happy, powerful, love to secure, you'd work
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  Speaker 1: on your goals of the belief I can achieve my goals.
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  Speaker 2: Because I'm enough, I'd commute. I talk to people. They
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  Speaker 2: can't reject me. Nobody can reject me except me.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm never going to do that because I'm enough.
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  Speaker 1: I would take some risks that you can tell yourself
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  Speaker 1: whatever you like. You know, Mohammad Ali said, I told
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  Speaker 1: myself I was the greatest.
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  Speaker 2: Before I was. You know what what happened?
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  Speaker 1: In everyone's eyes? I became the greatest. What a concept?
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  Speaker 1: Tell yourself you're the greatest. I want to show you
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  Speaker 1: how to manifest. There are three ways to manifest. One
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  Speaker 1: is just sitting there thinking, I'm going to manifest everything.
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  Speaker 1: But you have to manifest in three ways. The first
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  Speaker 1: is you must believe you are worth it, whether you
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  Speaker 1: want love or a great career, or promotion or money
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  Speaker 1: or your own business. If you don't do step one,
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  Speaker 1: which is believe you are worth it, you won't be
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  Speaker 1: good at manifesting.
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  Speaker 2: The second is you got to really know what that
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  Speaker 2: looks like. And then you've got to do the work.
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  Speaker 2: So oh, I thought I could just manifest. No, it's
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  Speaker 2: still got to study.
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  Speaker 1: It's still got to write your program, open your business work.
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  Speaker 1: Eighty percent of your success is now to having a
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  Speaker 1: success mindset.
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  Speaker 2: If you believe you're worthy, that will take you further.
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  Speaker 1: Belief without talent takes you further than talent without belief.
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  Speaker 2: We will watch reality DV.
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  Speaker 1: We will see people with no talent, but they have
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  Speaker 1: amazing self belief. If you have belief and no talent,
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  Speaker 1: you probably will do better than's on with huge talent
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  Speaker 1: and no belief. If you have both, you can go anywhere, impress, instruct,
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  Speaker 1: install into you what you require, and you're going to
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  Speaker 1: say in a powerful voice, I insist on this, I
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  Speaker 1: require this, I'm giving this to myself. Then you're going
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  Speaker 1: to open out your hands and you're going to code
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  Speaker 1: it in by really focusing on what does it look like,
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  Speaker 1: feel like, sound like a little voice that goes, oh,
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  Speaker 1: you're not going to do that. Then you're going to
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  Speaker 1: move from side to side. It's a little movement, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to help you eraise and erat. Okay, let
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  Speaker 1: go of those blocking thoughts.
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  Speaker 2: So let's go.
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  Speaker 1: Close your eyes, touch the area right in between your eyebrows,
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  Speaker 1: and I want you to repeat these words out. I
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  Speaker 1: want you to think of what you really want and
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  Speaker 1: what do you require for yourself?
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  Speaker 2: What do you want? What do you require? What do
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  Speaker 2: you need? What are you prepared to give yourself?
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  Speaker 1: And I want you to say with unshakable confidence, what
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  Speaker 1: I require for myself is say it. What I require
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  Speaker 1: for myself is confidence. What I insist on for myself
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  Speaker 1: is knowing, radiating that I'm enough. Open out your hands
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  Speaker 1: and I want you to notice what does that look like?
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  Speaker 1: What does phenomenal success.
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  Speaker 2: And know and your enough look like?
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  Speaker 1: I want you to feel it, Feel that feeling of
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  Speaker 1: knowing that you radiate confidence from your very pause.
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  Speaker 2: Notice what that looks like? So see how would you move?
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  Speaker 1: How would you talk if you had unshakable confidence and enoughness?
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  Speaker 1: Feel the fee feeling of radiating unshakable confidence. See what
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  Speaker 1: it looks like. Notice what it sounds like. How do
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  Speaker 1: you dialogue with you? How do you dialogue with others?
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  Speaker 1: And how do they dialogue back?
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  Speaker 2: See?
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  Speaker 1: One of the marks of self love is how do
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  Speaker 1: you talk to yourself? Because if you love yourself and
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  Speaker 1: I've got I'm an idiot. I got that wrong, you go,
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  Speaker 1: I did something.
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  Speaker 2: It wasn't quite right, but I learned.
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  Speaker 1: So I want you to notice what it sounds like
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  Speaker 1: when you dialogue with you in.
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  Speaker 2: A powerful way. Don't just hear it, do it.
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  Speaker 1: This technique won't self implode. You have the power to
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  Speaker 1: impress upon yourself, to install and instruct your mind with
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  Speaker 1: how you want to be. Call it in code it
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  Speaker 1: in Notice what it looks like, feels like in that
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  Speaker 1: little voice that goes mm, just erase it, stay in
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  Speaker 1: the rightly used powerful words, powerful languages, make your mind
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  Speaker 1: your best friend. Self esteem doesn't mean what I think
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  Speaker 1: of you. It means what you think of you. If
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  Speaker 1: I said I hold you in.
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  Speaker 2: The highest esteem, that's what I think of you.
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  Speaker 1: But self asim is what you think of you. And
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  Speaker 1: when you have self esteem, you're not arrogant, but you're
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  Speaker 1: also not insecure because you understand that it comes from
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  Speaker 1: in here and you have the power to change in
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  Speaker 1: here massively.
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  Speaker 2: When you learn how to dialog with yourself