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How a Pastor Stole Her Sanctuary - The $212,000 Ledger · Narcisist Psychology

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  Speaker 1: At six fifteen on a Tuesday morning in June of
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  Speaker 1: two thousand seventeen, a retired paper mill worker named Vernon
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  Speaker 1: Porter was running catfish trot lines on the Scilla River
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  Speaker 1: when something snagged the line. Not a catfish, a Navy
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  Speaker 1: blue accordion folder sealed inside a ziplock bag, water logged
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  Speaker 1: but intact. He pulled it onto the boat, unzipped the
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  Speaker 1: bag and found forty seven handwritten pages inside, two different
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  Speaker 1: hands on the same documents, one neat and controlled, one
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  Speaker 1: cramped and frantic. The top line read a woman's name,
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  Speaker 1: a phone number, and a column of numbers that summed
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  Speaker 1: to two hundred twelve thousand dollars. Vernon Porter called Borden
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  Speaker 1: County Dispatch from the Kelsey Bridge boat ramp. He did
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  Speaker 1: not know whose name was on that folder. He did
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  Speaker 1: not know that eight days earlier, a woman in Harwick
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  Speaker 1: had missed a phone call she had never missed in
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  Speaker 1: four years. And he could not have known that the
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  Speaker 1: person who dropped that folder into the river the night
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  Speaker 1: before had not burned it, had not shredded it, had
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  Speaker 1: driven to that bridge and let it fall into the water,
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  Speaker 1: still sealed, still readable. That choice to keep it is
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  Speaker 1: what this story turns on. Megan Parker was sixty three
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  Speaker 1: years old in the spring of two thousand seventeen, and
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  Speaker 1: the people who knew her described the same person in
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  Speaker 1: the same words, steady, warm, private about her losses. She
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  Speaker 1: had lived on Birchmont Road in Harwick for over two decades.
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  Speaker 1: She sang alto in the choir at Calvary Ridge Fellowship.
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  Speaker 1: She worked part time at the local library, where she
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  Speaker 1: had a reputation for remembering which patron had requested which
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  Speaker 1: book and following up without being asked. Her husband died
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  Speaker 1: in two thousand nine. The grief was real and had lasted,
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  Speaker 1: but Megan managed it the way she managed most things,
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  Speaker 1: by staying useful, staying connected, staying inside the rhythms that
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  Speaker 1: held her life in shape. She had approximately two hundred
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  Speaker 1: thirty thousand dollars in liquid savings, most of it insurance proceeds.
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  Speaker 1: She did not spend it carelessly, She did not invest
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  Speaker 1: it recklessly. She held it as security, the way a
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  Speaker 1: person holds something when they have learned that security is
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  Speaker 1: not guaranteed. She had two children. Sandra in Phoenix called
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  Speaker 1: every Wednesday morning at six ten, not roughly six ten,
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  Speaker 1: not around six ten six ten, four years without missing
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  Speaker 1: a call. Patrick, her son, lived in Memphis and had
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  Speaker 1: been estranged for reasons. The record does not specify. Lloyd
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  Speaker 1: Tilman would later mention Patrick often during their sessions that
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  Speaker 1: detail matters and it will return. Lloyd Tilman arrived at
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  Speaker 1: Calvary Ridge Fellowship in the fall of two thousand fifteen.
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  Speaker 1: He was fifty one. He held a Tennessee license as
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  Speaker 1: a professional counselor and a master's degree from a Chattanooga
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  Speaker 1: Christian counseling program. Pastor Howard Giles hired him as the
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  Speaker 1: congregation's pastoral counselor. Giles verified the license, he did not,
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  Speaker 1: according to subsequent records, contact the reference listed in Rutherford County,
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  Speaker 1: a retired pastor who had worked with Lloyd previously. That
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  Speaker 1: call was never made. Megan began one on one sessions
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  Speaker 1: with Lloyd in January of twenty sixteen. This was not unusual.
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  Speaker 1: He was the church's counselor. She was a widow navigating grief.
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  Speaker 1: The sessions were held inside the institutional structure of her
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  Speaker 1: faith community, which meant she entered them with a baseline
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  Speaker 1: of trust already in place. Trust in the church, trust
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  Speaker 1: in the pastor who had hired Lloyd trust in the
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  Speaker 1: professional credential on his wall. What happened over the following
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  Speaker 1: sixteen months is not simple to describe, as to say exception,
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  Speaker 1: because the mechanism was more precise than that. Lloyd did
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  Speaker 1: not lie to Megan about who he was. He did
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  Speaker 1: not directly ask her for money. He did not explicitly
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  Speaker 1: tell her to stop seeing her friends. Sharon Jones, the
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  Speaker 1: licensed clinical social worker with Borden County Family Services who
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  Speaker 1: later reviewed the case, would describe his method in her
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  Speaker 1: written summary as textbook coercive control executed inside a framework
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  Speaker 1: of spiritual authority. The friend Barbara Holt, noticed something first.
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  Speaker 1: She would later say that Megan seemed to be pulling back,
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  Speaker 1: not dramatically, not in a way you could point to
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  Speaker 1: and name small things, canceled plans with a vague explanation,
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  Speaker 1: a hesitation before answering a direct question, as if checking
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  Speaker 1: the answer against something. What Barbara could not have known
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  Speaker 1: was that Lloyd had already begun doing something with Megan's
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  Speaker 1: perception of the people around her, not by telling her
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  Speaker 1: those people were bad, by asking questions, gentle pastoral questions
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  Speaker 1: that made Meghan arrive at the conclusions herself. By the
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  Speaker 1: spring of twenty seventeen, Megan's daily world had contracted to
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  Speaker 1: three things, her choir rehearsals, her sessions with Lloyd, and
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  Speaker 1: Sandra's Wednesday morning call. Everything else had slowly quietly receded.
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  Speaker 1: Between March and May of two thousy seventeen, Meghan made
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  Speaker 1: five wire transfers to an account belonging to an entity
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  Speaker 1: called Shepherd's Reach Financial Services. The transfers were spaced three
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  Speaker 1: to five weeks apart. The total was two hundred twelve
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  Speaker 1: thousand dollars, nearly all of her savings. Shepherd's Reach Financial
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  Speaker 1: Services was a single LLC registered in Lloyd Tillman's name.
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  Speaker 1: It had no real assets. It operated from a post
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  Speaker 1: office box and one bank account. The letter head named
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  Speaker 1: a Chattanooga address and described an advisory board. That board
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  Speaker 1: did not exist. There was a document on Lloyd Tillman's
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  Speaker 1: kitchen table. When detectives arrived. It was a small metal box,
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  Speaker 1: or rather what had been a metal box. The lock
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  Speaker 1: had been cut clean, the box was empty. Megan Parker
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  Speaker 1: had told only one person that box existed and where
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  Speaker 1: she kept it. She had told Lloyd in session that
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  Speaker 1: detail did not surface until after the accordion folder. Vernon
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  Speaker 1: Porter pulled the folder from his trot line at six
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  Speaker 1: fifteen in the morning on June eleventh, twenty seventeen. He
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  Speaker 1: fished the Scilla River every Tuesday and Friday, same stretch
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  Speaker 1: of Eastern Bank, four miles south of Harwick. The folder
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  Speaker 1: was navy blue, sealed inside a ziplock bag, water logged
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  Speaker 1: at the edges but intact inside. He called Borden County
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  Speaker 1: Dispatch from the Kelsey Bridge boat. M Tom Fitch, a
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  Speaker 1: twenty six year old deputy with eight months on the job,
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  Speaker 1: was first unseen. He opened the bag, looked at the
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  Speaker 1: first page and called his sergeant. Inside were forty seven
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  Speaker 1: handwritten pages, and there were two handwritings. One was neat, consistent, controlled,
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  Speaker 1: the kind of penmanship that suggests practice and patience. The
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  Speaker 1: other was cramped uneven, the pressure of the pen varying
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  Speaker 1: as if the writer's hand was not entirely steady. Both
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  Speaker 1: hands appeared throughout the document, sometimes on the same page,
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  Speaker 1: sometimes in alternating columns. At the top of the first page,
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  Speaker 1: a name, a phone number, and a column of figures
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  Speaker 1: that summed to approximately two hundred twelve thousand dollars. The
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  Speaker 1: name was Megan Parker, a neighbor on Kelsey Bridge Road,
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  Speaker 1: would later tell investigators she had seen a truck near
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  Speaker 1: the bridge the night of June tenth. She recognized it
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  Speaker 1: as Lloyd Tillman's. She had not thought much of it
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  Speaker 1: at the time people stopped at that bridge. It was
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  Speaker 1: a quiet spot. Lloyd had not burned the folder that
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  Speaker 1: would become one of the most discussed facts in Sharon
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  Speaker 1: Jones's case summary. He had driven to a river crossing
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  Speaker 1: at night and dropped it into the water, sealed inside
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  Speaker 1: a plastic bag, as if preserving it and discarding it
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  Speaker 1: at the same time. Jones would write that she believed
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  Speaker 1: Lloyd could not bring himself to destroy the pages because
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  Speaker 1: they were to him a ledger forty seven pages documenting
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  Speaker 1: his influence over another person's mind. Destroying them would have
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  Speaker 1: meant destroying the record of what he had done. The
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  Speaker 1: phone records added a different kind of geometry to the picture.
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  Speaker 1: Sandra Parker had called her mother every Wednesday at six
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  Speaker 1: ten in the morning for four years, not approximately six
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  Speaker 1: ten six ten. She had never missed the call. On
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  Speaker 1: June seventh, two thousand seventeen, a Wednesday, she called and
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  Speaker 1: there was no answer. Meghan did not pick up. Sandra waited,
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  Speaker 1: called again god voicemail. She filed a welfare concern with
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  Speaker 1: Borden County Family Services that same morning. Phone records showed
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  Speaker 1: that at six oh three that morning, Lloyd Tillman had
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  Speaker 1: called Megan Parker. The call lasted twenty two minutes. It
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  Speaker 1: began seven minutes before Sandra's ritual call and ran well
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  Speaker 1: past it. He had known about the Wednesday calls. Megan
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  Speaker 1: had told him about them in session. The calls were,
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  Speaker 1: by her own description, an anchor, something fixed and reliable
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  Speaker 1: in her week. Lloyd had occupied that anchor. Whether he
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  Speaker 1: had planned the timing or simply exploited a known routine
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  Speaker 1: was not something the record could confirm. But the call
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  Speaker 1: lasted twenty two minutes. Sandra's window came and went inside it.
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  Speaker 1: The welfare concern reached Sharon Jones, a licensed clinical social
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  Speaker 1: worker with twelve years of domestic abuse experience at Borden
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  Speaker 1: County Family Services. Jones reviewed what was available, the welfare report,
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  Speaker 1: the phone records, and eventually the accordion folder. She identified
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  Speaker 1: three specific anomalies in the pattern of Meghan's behavior. Over
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  Speaker 1: the preceding eighteen months. The first was the cancelation of
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  Speaker 1: Meghan's appointment with doctor Anita Cross on June fifth, twenty seventeen.
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  Speaker 1: Meghan had seen doctor Cross biannually for eleven years without interruption.
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  Speaker 1: The receptionist who took the cancelation call noted that Megan
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  Speaker 1: had sounded uncertain. The receptionist's word in her written note
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  Speaker 1: was uncertain, as if reading from something. The second anomaly
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  Speaker 1: was the withdrawal from Barbara Holt and from most of
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  Speaker 1: Meghan's prior social contacts, a withdrawal that had no named cause,
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  Speaker 1: no stated reason, and had proceeded entirely through small acts
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  Speaker 1: of cancelation and distance, rather than any declared break. The
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  Speaker 1: third anomaly was the transfer pattern itself. Five transfers spaced
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  Speaker 1: three to five weeks apart between March and May of
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  Speaker 1: twenty seventeen. Two hundred twelve thousand dollars moved to a
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  Speaker 1: single account, not one large withdrawal, which might have triggered
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  Speaker 1: a bank review. Five measured movements, each one following the
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  Speaker 1: last by enough time to feel routine. Jones's written summary
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  Speaker 1: used the phrase textbook coercive control executed inside a framework
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  Speaker 1: of spiritual authority. She was specific about the architecture. Lloyd
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  Speaker 1: had not told Megan her friends were untrustworthy. He had
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  Speaker 1: asked questions pastoral gentle, questions that led Megan to those
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  Speaker 1: conclusions herself. He had not told her to invest in
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  Speaker 1: Shepherd's Reach. He had let her ask him. The record
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  Speaker 1: reflected that Megan had raised the topic of the investment herself.
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  Speaker 1: Lloyd's notes in the neat handwriting showed him expressing reluctance,
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  Speaker 1: then conditional support. The guidance the cramped handwriting was Megan's.
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  Speaker 1: Her entries tracked what she had understood about the investment,
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  Speaker 1: what Lloyd had told her to expect, and her own
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  Speaker 1: uncertainty about things she could not quite name. She wrote
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  Speaker 1: the word trust eleven times across the forty seven pages.
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  Speaker 1: The morning Sandra's call did not go through, she did
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  Speaker 1: not know about any of it. She knew only that
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  Speaker 1: her mother had not answered for four years. The phone
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  Speaker 1: had always been picked up. What Sandra knew and what
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  Speaker 1: she told the welfare intake worker was smaller than the
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  Speaker 1: full picture, but precise. Her mother had seemed different over
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  Speaker 1: the preceding months, not distressed. That was what Sandra kept
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  Speaker 1: returning to not Afraid, distant in a way that felt chosen,
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  Speaker 1: as if Megan were standing just slightly behind a pane
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  Speaker 1: of glass that hadn't been there before. She also knew
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  Speaker 1: that Megan had begun referencing Lloyd Tillmoth in almost every conversation,
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  Speaker 1: not dramatically, just consistently. Lloyd says, Lloyd and I were discussing.
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  Speaker 1: Lloyd helped me understand. Sandra had met Lloyd once briefly
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  Speaker 1: at a Cavalry Ridge event in the fall of twenty sixteen.
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  Speaker 1: She had found him pattentive in a way that registered
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  Speaker 1: as effort for Sharon. Jones read the welfare in Take carefully,
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  Speaker 1: then she read the phone records. Then she drove to
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  Speaker 1: Birchmont Road. Megan Parker opened the door. She was sixty
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  Speaker 1: three years old, and she had been a part time
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  Speaker 1: librarian and acquir alto for longer than Lloyd Tillman had
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  Speaker 1: been licensed to practice counseling in the state of Tennessee.
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  Speaker 1: She was polite, she was composed, and she was Jones
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  Speaker 1: would write later, oriented to a version of the last
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  Speaker 1: eighteen months that had been authored for her. The locked
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  Speaker 1: box detail came out in that first conversation, Meghan mentioned
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  Speaker 1: it almost in passing. She had kept important documents in
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  Speaker 1: a small metal box in her bedroom. She said she
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  Speaker 1: hadn't checked it in a while. Jones asked if she
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  Speaker 1: would check it now. The box was gone. It was
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  Speaker 1: found later on Lloyd's kitchen table, lock cut open empty.
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  Speaker 1: Megan had mentioned the box to Lloyd in one of
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  Speaker 1: their early sessions. She had described where she kept it.
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  Speaker 1: She had not told any one else it existed. Jones
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  Speaker 1: filed her assessment the same day. Her language was clinical
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  Speaker 1: and specific. She documented the isolation architecture, the planted doubts
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  Speaker 1: about Barbara Holt, the erosion of Meghan's medical routine, the
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  Speaker 1: interception of the Wednesday call pattern. She documented the investment transfers,
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  Speaker 1: and the structure of Shepherd's reach. A single LLC, a
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  Speaker 1: post office box letterhead that named an advisory board with
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  Speaker 1: no members. She documented Lloyd's credential a legitimate Tennessee l PC,
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  Speaker 1: the masters from a Chattanooga Christian counseling program hired by
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  Speaker 1: Calvary Ridge's senior pastor, Howard Giles, who had verified the
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  Speaker 1: license but had not called. One reference listed a retired
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  Speaker 1: pastor in Rutherford County, who had never been contacted. Jones's
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  Speaker 1: closing line in the summary read, the subject did not
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  Speaker 1: lose her home or her health, she lost the sense
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  Speaker 1: that her own perception could be trusted. That sentence became
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  Speaker 1: the axis on which the rest of the case turned.
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  Speaker 1: Picture the sessions over eighteen months, a counselor's office or
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  Speaker 1: a quiet corner of the church building. Two people, one
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  Speaker 1: of whom has a license and a framework and a
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  Speaker 1: name for every feeling the other person brings into the room.
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  Speaker 1: Megan arrived in January of two thousand sixteen carrying grief.
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  Speaker 1: Her husband had died in two thousand nine, and Patrick,
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  Speaker 1: her son, had grown distant in ways she had not resolved.
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  Speaker 1: Lloyd had the professional vocabulary Larry to receive all of it.
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  Speaker 1: The most direct reading of what followed is also the
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  Speaker 1: most obvious one. A man with access and credentials, alone
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  Speaker 1: with a grieving woman's trust, identified her savings and built
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  Speaker 1: a fictional investment vehicle to capture them. Five transfers, two
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  Speaker 1: hundred twelve thousand dollars, a letterhead with a board that
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  Speaker 1: didn't exist. On this reading, the counseling relationship was always
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  Speaker 1: instrumental The isolation was preparation, the investment was extraction. Everything
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  Speaker 1: else was staging. That reading is supported by the evidence,
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  Speaker 1: but it collapses against one detail that does not fit
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  Speaker 1: it cleanly. Lloyd dropped the folder in the river. He
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  Speaker 1: sealed it in a bag and dropped it. He did
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  Speaker 1: not burn it, shredded, or dissolve it in any way
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  Speaker 1: that would have made it unrecoverable. A man running a
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  Speaker 1: pure financial extraction has one motive for destroying records, the money.
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  Speaker 1: Those records represented his exposure. He had a storage unit
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  Speaker 1: in Hamilton County with more shepherds reached documents. He had time,
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  Speaker 1: he had access to fire. He put forty seven pages
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  Speaker 1: in a plastic bag and dropped them in the Siller River,
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  Speaker 1: four miles from Harwick, the night before Vernon Porter came
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  Speaker 1: to check his trot lines. Sharon jones Is read was
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  Speaker 1: that Lloyd could not destroy the ledger because the ledger
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  Speaker 1: was the point. The money was the mechanism. What the
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  Speaker 1: forty seven pages documented two handwritings, Megan's word trust ridden
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  Speaker 1: eleven times. The column of figures, the careful architecture of
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  Speaker 1: reluctance and conditional guidance was something Lloyd needed to exist,
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  Speaker 1: not to show anyone to have the record of having
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  Speaker 1: unmade someone's certainty about her own mind. That reframe changes
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  Speaker 1: what Shepherd's reach was not a financial scheme with a
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  Speaker 1: council and cover a control system that used money as
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  Speaker 1: its most measurable output. The two hundred twelve thousand dollars
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  Speaker 1: was the number that could be prosecuted. What sat beneath it,
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  Speaker 1: per Jones's summary could not be quantified in the same
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  Speaker 1: way and would not be returned the same way either.
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  Speaker 1: Three weeks after Lloyd's arrest, a woman named Patricia Hume
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  Speaker 1: called the Borden County Sheriff's Office from Rutherford County. She
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  Speaker 1: was fifty seven years old. She said she had seen
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  Speaker 1: a news item. She said she recognized the method. In
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  Speaker 1: twenty twelve, she said, a pastoral counselor had entered her church,
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  Speaker 1: built her trust over approximately fourteen months, isolated her from
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  Speaker 1: her close relationships through a process she had not fully
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  Speaker 1: understood until it was over, and redirected forty six thousand
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  Speaker 1: dollars to a ministry initiative that did not exist. She
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  Speaker 1: had not reported it. She had been afraid no one
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  Speaker 1: would believe her. She had been ashamed that she had
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  Speaker 1: not seen it sooner. The reference that Howard Giles had
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  Speaker 1: never called the retired pastor in Rutherford County was listed
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  Speaker 1: on Lloyd's application. Patricia Hume's church was in Rutherford County.
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  Speaker 1: The connection between those two facts was not confirmed in
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  Speaker 1: the public record, but the geometry of it sat there
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  Speaker 1: in the case file as one more detail that the
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  Speaker 1: forty seven water logged pages could not answer. On June nineteenth,
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  Speaker 1: two thousand seventeen, Lloyd Tillman was arrested. The charges were
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  Speaker 1: theft by deception and financial exploitation of a vulnerable adult.
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  Speaker 1: He did not go to trial. He entered a guilty
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  Speaker 1: plead to two counts of theft over ten thousand dollars
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  Speaker 1: and one count of financial exploitation. Then he made a
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  Speaker 1: decision that said something about him. He cooperated. He led
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  Speaker 1: detectives to a storage unit in Hamilton County, inside where
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  Speaker 1: the full records of Shepherd's reach Financial Services. The entity
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  Speaker 1: he had registered as a single LLLC in his own name,
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  Speaker 1: with a post office box, one bank account, and no
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  Speaker 1: real assets. The money Megan had transferred in five intervals
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  Speaker 1: between March and May of twenty seventeen had moved from
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  Speaker 1: that account into Lloyd's personal debts and a second apartment
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  Speaker 1: he kept in Chattanooga. Approximately eighty nine thousand dollars was recovered.
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  Speaker 1: Approximately one twenty three thousand dollars was gone permanently. Shepherd's
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  Speaker 1: reach had never been anything a letterhead, an address, a
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  Speaker 1: name that sounded like Stewardship. When detectives searched Lloyd's home,
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  Speaker 1: they found Megan's locked box on his kitchen table. The
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  Speaker 1: lock had been cut, the box was empty. Megan had
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  Speaker 1: mentioned the box to Lloyd during their sessions, she had
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  Speaker 1: mentioned it to no one else on record. The accordion
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  Speaker 1: folder Vernon Porter had pulled from the Siller River on
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  Speaker 1: the morning of June eleventh. Exhibit fourteen in the case
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  Speaker 1: file held forty seven pages. It had been dropped from
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  Speaker 1: Kelsey Bridge the night before. A neighbor had seen Lloyd's
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  Speaker 1: truck near the bridge. He had not burned the pages,
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  Speaker 1: he had not shredded them. He had sealed them in
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  Speaker 1: a ziploc bag, tucked them inside a navy blue folder,
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  Speaker 1: and dropped them into moving water. Sharon Jones, reviewing the
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  Speaker 1: case for Borden County Family Services, noted that in her
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  Speaker 1: twelve years working coercive control cases. Perpetrators who preserve documentation means,
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  Speaker 1: even when attempting to dispose of it, are frequently preserving
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  Speaker 1: something they cannot fully relinquish. The folder survived intact. There
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  Speaker 1: is one detail that does not appear in the charging documents.
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  Speaker 1: Megan Parker did not lose her home. She did not
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  Speaker 1: lose her health. The figure prosecutors could quantify was two
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  Speaker 1: hundred twelve thousand dollars. Sharon Jones wrote something different in
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  Speaker 1: her final case umery. She wrote that what Megan lost
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  Speaker 1: was the sense that her own perception could be trusted.
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  Speaker 1: That loss does not appear on a restitution schedule. It
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  Speaker 1: does not resolve when the case closes. Sandra Parker had
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  Speaker 1: called her mother every Wednesday at six ten in the
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  Speaker 1: morning for four years, without missing once. That routine was
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  Speaker 1: the thread that held when it broke. When Lloyd's twenty
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  Speaker 1: two minute call at six o three swallowed the window.
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  Speaker 1: Sandra filed the concern that brought Sharon Jones into the case.
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  Speaker 1: A ritual of ordinary love became the instrument of discovery.
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  Speaker 1: Patricia Hume had been ashamed for five years. She had
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  Speaker 1: watched a news item in two thousand seventeen, recognized the
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  Speaker 1: architecture of what had been done to her in twenty twelve,
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  Speaker 1: and picked up the phone. Forty six thousand dollars, a
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  Speaker 1: ministry initiative that did not exist, the same pastoral authority,
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  Speaker 1: the same planted doubt, the same isolation by increments. She
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  Speaker 1: had not report, did it because she feared no one
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  Speaker 1: would believe her. When she finally spoke, someone did. Lloyd
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  Speaker 1: Tilman knew the name of Meghan's locked box. He knew
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  Speaker 1: the time of Sandra's Wednesday call. He built his access
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  Speaker 1: one session at a time inside a room designed for safety.
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  Speaker 1: That is the specific thing that is hard to sit
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  Speaker 1: with after this case is closed. The room itself was
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  Speaker 1: the weapon. Megan Parker was sixty three years old when
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  Speaker 1: a man she trusted dismantled her certainty about her own mind.
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  Speaker 1: She sang alto in the choir at Calvary Ridge. She
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  Speaker 1: checked out books and returned them. One time. She called
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  Speaker 1: her daughter back. She is still here. That is the
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  Speaker 1: fact that the forty seven water logged pages could not erase,
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  Speaker 1: and the one Lloyd Tillman did not account for. This
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