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How Do I Stop Making Business Mean Something About My Worth? · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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  Speaker 1: Hi and Samy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio, and
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  Speaker 1: this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation, and
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  Speaker 1: metaphysical wisdom. Okay, so the question is, how do I
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  Speaker 1: stop making business means something about my worth? Good question,
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  Speaker 1: great question. Actually, well, Number one, you are always worthy
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  Speaker 1: and deserving. You're worthy and deserving. You're worthy and deserving always,
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  Speaker 1: and so you being successful in business will not suddenly
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  Speaker 1: make you worthy. If you don't believe you're worthy, you
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  Speaker 1: have to lock in that you are worthy and deserving
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  Speaker 1: because you are. You are always worthy and deserving. Number two,
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  Speaker 1: you are not your business. Even if your name is
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  Speaker 1: in your business, even if you're the only person in
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  Speaker 1: your business, you are not your business. Your business is.
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  Speaker 1: It's an entity and unto itself. And so when you
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  Speaker 1: start to separate your business success or not being successful
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  Speaker 1: from your sense of self, then it becomes less about
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  Speaker 1: your conversation about your worth, like, oh, if I'm successful
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  Speaker 1: in business and that means I'm worthy, or if I'm
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  Speaker 1: my business is not successful, then that means I'm not worthy.
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  Speaker 1: You've got to cut that tie and see your business
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  Speaker 1: as an entity and you are an entity, and both
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  Speaker 1: are worthy. And deserving because they are. Your business is
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  Speaker 1: worthy and deserving because it is so you are not
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  Speaker 1: your business, even if your name is in your business title,
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  Speaker 1: and then be curious instead of telling yourself why it
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  Speaker 1: doesn't work. So I find that people who connect their
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  Speaker 1: self worth to their business success, they're really really focused
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  Speaker 1: on all the stories about why their business isn't working
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  Speaker 1: or why not work, or that it hasn't worked in
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  Speaker 1: the past, or they're more focused let me let me
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  Speaker 1: rephrase it. We always have the choice as to what
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  Speaker 1: we focus on, and we can see our business as
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  Speaker 1: a success period not based on results, just to success
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  Speaker 1: within us right, and then our business will most likely
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  Speaker 1: ninety nine persent of nine be a success. Or you
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  Speaker 1: can choose to focus all your attention on why it's
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  Speaker 1: not going to work. This could go wrong, this could
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  Speaker 1: go wrong, this hasn't happened, this happened in the past,
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  Speaker 1: this went this way right, So you're you've got to
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  Speaker 1: get really clear about what the desired result is in
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  Speaker 1: your business and give your full attention to that as
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  Speaker 1: opposed to everything else around it. I have found that
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  Speaker 1: people who are struggling with business success, they are at
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  Speaker 1: catching their self worth to their business, and I've been
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  Speaker 1: there before, so I understand. And then they're spending a
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  Speaker 1: lot of time and energy focused on why is it working?
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  Speaker 1: Why isn't working. It's not working. It's not working. It's
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  Speaker 1: not working because of this, It's not working because of this.
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  Speaker 1: Oh this is wrong, this is wrong. Well look at
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  Speaker 1: this person over here. They're doing that and I'm not
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  Speaker 1: doing that, So what does that mean about me? When
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  Speaker 1: really you just need to be focused on you know,
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  Speaker 1: when it comes to business, businesses, you've got to get
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  Speaker 1: the sale, whatever that is for you. There needs to
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  Speaker 1: be cash flow, and so focus on on the sale.
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  Speaker 1: Focus on the sale, Focus on the sale, Focus on
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  Speaker 1: plentiful sales, Focus on plentiful sales, focus on consistent sales.
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  Speaker 1: Focus on building a relationship with your customer or your
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  Speaker 1: consumer or your client. And even the relationship is second
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  Speaker 1: to getting this sale, right, Like, you can't just spend
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  Speaker 1: all your time building relationships and not selling anything. So
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  Speaker 1: the goal is to make money, and so focus on
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  Speaker 1: that because when you really just accept that it's business,
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  Speaker 1: it's business, then all of that garbage falls by the
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  Speaker 1: wayside that's going on in your mind, all the stories
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  Speaker 1: you're telling yourself about why it can't work. And then
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  Speaker 1: number four show up into your part again. Work your business,
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  Speaker 1: work your business, work your business. Now, you can't work
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  Speaker 1: your business to the degree to which you're trying to
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  Speaker 1: prove yourself to yourself or prove yourself to somebody else.
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  Speaker 1: No A. That leads to overworking and over exerting and burnout.
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  Speaker 1: You have to decide I'm worthy in deserving because I am,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not my business. You have to stop telling yourself
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  Speaker 1: stories about why the business won't work. A matter of fact,
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  Speaker 1: don't even consider why it won't work, just don't even
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  Speaker 1: go there. Of course, my business is going to work.
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  Speaker 1: That's why I'm pursuing it. And then you got to
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  Speaker 1: show up and do your part, and do that in
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  Speaker 1: this order. I'm giving this to you in this order
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  Speaker 1: for a reason, so that you're using your energy well
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  Speaker 1: in al ways to produce the result that you desire,
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  Speaker 1: and you're leaving room for spirit to assist you. And
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  Speaker 1: then lastly, you may want to start with this one,
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  Speaker 1: but I put it last on the list. Constantly be
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  Speaker 1: blessing your business with love. Again, I find that people
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  Speaker 1: who are talking about why their business isn't working they're
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  Speaker 1: usually not showing up in their business as much as
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  Speaker 1: they they need to, and they're not doing any type
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  Speaker 1: of practice to support their success. They're not doing their affirmations,
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  Speaker 1: they're not blessing their business with love, they're not even
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  Speaker 1: praying for their business. Right, So, bless your business with love.
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  Speaker 1: Bless your business with love, and it will love you
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  Speaker 1: back one hundred percent. That love will come back. And
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  Speaker 1: it's not just oh, my business loves me. Your business
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  Speaker 1: will love you. And that means money because they you know,
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  Speaker 1: because we can. I mean there are a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people who can talk themselves out of making money in
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  Speaker 1: their business, will amy. I just love doing my business,
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  Speaker 1: so I don't care if it no, then your business
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  Speaker 1: isn't loving you back. If you're calling it a business
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  Speaker 1: and the expectation is to make money, then trying to
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  Speaker 1: create any other reality is self sabotage. You can start
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  Speaker 1: a nonprofit, but nonprofits make money too. They're constantly raising money.
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  Speaker 1: I have a core of clients who work in the
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  Speaker 1: nonprofit space, very high up in nonprofit space, and that
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  Speaker 1: is what they do. They are constantly dealing with conversations
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  Speaker 1: around money and funding. Right, So you can't get around
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  Speaker 1: that one, and if you need to do some work
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  Speaker 1: around money, I would suggest that and getting really comfortable
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  Speaker 1: with earning money. Talking about money, you have to be
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  Speaker 1: comfortable with money to be able to sell to some degree.
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  Speaker 1: And so all of this helps you start to see
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  Speaker 1: your business is good and is right for you. Listen,
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  Speaker 1: I understand, but you're listening to this show and you're thinking, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I get it, and then you get back to your
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  Speaker 1: business and you're like, holy crap. I've been working with
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  Speaker 1: business owners for years, probably as long as I've been
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  Speaker 1: in business. I've been supporting business owners and creating the
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  Speaker 1: result they desire, meaning aligning their energy with what they
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  Speaker 1: want to create. And that isn't just the spiritual wooboo stuff.
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  Speaker 1: It's the practical stuff too, and being able to have
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  Speaker 1: a conversation about it and really get clear about intention
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  Speaker 1: and releasing fears and doubt so that you can return
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  Speaker 1: to a place of inspiration. And so you can listen
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  Speaker 1: to a show like this and then be in one
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  Speaker 1: of those moments in your business where you're like, oh
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  Speaker 1: my god, right, this doesn't make any sense because it's
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  Speaker 1: connecting with you on the next show. Thank you so
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  Speaker 1: much for listening. Take care of yourself. Goodbye.