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- 0:04Jen: Welcome to the So That's Why podcast, where we unpack the
- 0:07science behind everyday questions.
- 0:09I'm Jen.
- 0:10Jamie: I'm Chris.
- 0:11And I'm Jamie.
- 0:12Jen: Right, here's something that sounds completely back to
- 0:15front when you first hear it.
- 0:17Stress on its own isn't what makes us ill.
- 0:21So a little bit of stress is genuinely good for you.
- 0:25I know I need a bit of stress sometimes to help me complete those deadlines.
- 0:28But- Why can stress make us ill?
- 0:32Because a system that's brilliant in short bursts becomes a problem
- 0:37when it never gets switched off.
- 0:39Jamie: That's mildly irritating to hear, if I'm honest.
- 0:42I spent years blaming stress for everything, bad mood, lost keys, the lot.
- 0:47Now you're telling me it was on my side the whole time?
- 0:50Jen: Yeah.
- 0:50Well- But I think I'll carry on blaming it.
- 0:52Chris: Yeah.
- 0:53It's on your side in the right dose, I think, I think it's fair to say.
- 0:56So if it's the nerves before a big presentation that sharpen you up, or,
- 1:01you know, the push before a deadline that gets you focused, those types
- 1:04of stress can be really helpful.
- 1:06And in fact, there's even a name for it.
- 1:07It's called
- 1:09Jen: eustress.
- 1:09Which I am definitely gonna use that phrase in an argument.
- 1:13I'm not stressed, I'm eustressed.
- 1:14Of
- 1:16Chris: course, the trouble is, um, like most of us aren't living in these kind of
- 1:19short bursts of stress anymore, are we?
- 1:20It's kind of chronic stress normally.
- 1:22Jen: Yeah.
- 1:23Jamie: So how big is the problem?
- 1:25Jen: Okay.
- 1:26Well, we love our facts on this podcast, don't we- … and our research.
- 1:29So there was a survey of more than 145,000 adults in 144 countries, and they found
- 1:37that 37% had felt significant stress the day before they did the survey,
- 1:43and 39% experienced serious worry.
- 1:47And every one of those measures, stress, worry, sadness, is
- 1:51higher than a decade ago.
- 1:54Jamie: More than one in three people on an ordinary day, not a
- 1:57crisis week, just an ordinary day.
- 2:00Chris: I know.
- 2:01Jen: I've got to say- I know.
- 2:01It's huge.
- 2:01Yeah.
- 2:01It's really… It's sad, isn't it?
- 2:02Chris: Yeah.
- 2:03You did well to remember all those, uh, stats in one go as well.
- 2:06I mean, totally got them the wrong way around.
- 2:07Um, but the thing is, those stats, they add up, don't they?
- 2:10They stack up because the World Health Organization now counts
- 2:13over a billion people as living with a mental health condition.
- 2:17Um, so rates anxiety and depression, which are both tangled up with
- 2:20stress, as the second-biggest cause of long-term disability worldwide.
- 2:25Jen: That's huge, isn't it?
- 2:26Yeah.
- 2:26Absolutely huge.
- 2:28And, you know, the picture in the UK is just as stark,
- 2:31so some more figures for you.
- 2:33Across '24 and 2025, 964,000 workers were dealing with work-related
- 2:40stress, anxiety, or depression.
- 2:43And here's what is interesting.
- 2:45The year before, it was 776,000, so that's the sharpest single-year jump
- 2:52on record, and it actually costs the economy around 22 million working days.
- 2:59Matt: Wow.
- 3:00Jamie: 964,000 people.
- 3:03That's a city worth of workers signed off.
- 3:06And the real-life figure's probably higher because plenty of people
- 3:09just, just push through it.
- 3:09Jen: Yeah.
- 3:10I think that's a really helpful comparison, that it's a city worth.
- 3:13It gives people a bit of a-
- 3:14Chris: No, definitely,
- 3:15Jen: yeah … a picture, isn't it?
- 3:16Chris: Yeah.
- 3:16And you're right, Jamie, it's almost certainly gonna be higher, isn't it?
- 3:19For, for sure.
- 3:20Um, so around 80% of UK workers say they feel stressed regularly, which
- 3:24is no surprise, and statistics suggest that stress-related absences from
- 3:27work are up by over a third since 2020
- 3:32Jen: I think, I'll be honest, my first instinct reading those was to feel
- 3:36stressed about how stressed everyone is, which obviously helps nobody.
- 3:40Chris: Absolutely.
- 3:41And that's exactly why understanding the mechanism matters more than anything else.
- 3:45So shall we get into what's actually happening in the body?
- 3:50Jamie: Please do, because to me, stress has always been
- 3:52just a sort of vague concept.
- 3:54So what exactly is happening in your body when you're stressed?
- 3:56Chris: So when the brain decides there's a threat, whether it's, um, real or
- 4:00imagined, it fires up two systems.
- 4:03So the first is a fast one that floods your, well, floods you with adrenaline,
- 4:07so your heart rate speeds up, your blood pressure rises, and sugar pours into the
- 4:13blood to get energy to your muscles fast.
- 4:17Jen: Yeah, which obviously sounds like a good system.
- 4:19Your body needs that.
- 4:20But then after that, a slower one follows, and that releases cortisol,
- 4:25which is the main stress hormone.
- 4:27We've chatted about it in different episodes.
- 4:29So cortisol keeps your energy topped up, and to do it, it quietly turns
- 4:35down anything you don't need in an emergency, like digestion, repair, and
- 4:40even a chunk of your immune system.
- 4:42Jamie: So if you were to picture it like a kitchen, you get a text that guests
- 4:47are arriving at the door in five minutes.
- 4:49Mm. Everything urgent gets done immediately.
- 4:51The gas goes on, the hob's on full.
- 4:53That's the adrenaline, the heart racing, energy flooding your
- 4:57body to deal with the threat.
- 4:59And everything that can be is dropped, the washing up, the post
- 5:04on the mat, the laying the, putting flowers in vases on the table.
- 5:07That's your digestion and your immune system being put on hold.
- 5:11All the effort goes into the emergency, none to the upkeep.
- 5:15Jen: Yeah.
- 5:16Chris: That's a very passionate analogy.
- 5:17I'm, I'm assuming you've had some kind of house party
- 5:19recently- I just love my cooking
- 5:21… Jen: that got you quite stressed about it.
- 5:21I love the flowers on the vase as
- 5:22Chris: well.
- 5:22I know, definitely.
- 5:23Um, but the thing is, when it comes to these kind of short scrambles of, of
- 5:26stress, your body really is brilliant at coping with that short scramble.
- 5:31So back to Jamie's analogy, the hope is that the guests
- 5:34actually leave at some point.
- 5:35So once you've kicked everybody out and done the washing up, you can
- 5:38have a little sit down and a relax.
- 5:39The heart rate settles, digestion comes back to normal, and everything resets.
- 5:44Jen: But coming back to stress, the problem is the version where the guests
- 5:48never leave, so the hobs stay on full day after day, and that upkeep never happens.
- 5:55The post piles up, the washing up festers, and the kitchen, after
- 6:01a while it starts to fall apart.
- 6:02Chris: Is this Jamie's house party again?
- 6:04The flowers
- 6:04Jen: are dead in the vase.
- 6:05Well, potentially.
- 6:05I don't, I don't know.
- 6:07Chris: I want to went to the… I want to get an invite to the next one.
- 6:09Jen: But that's, that's like chronic stress, and your body's
- 6:12stuck in that emergency mode with no time to actually repair itself.
- 6:18Jamie: And you're telling me that's what does the damage?
- 6:21Not the scramble, but the scramble that never ends.
- 6:24Mm. Anyone can run a five-minute panic.
- 6:26Nobody's built to run it for a long time.
- 6:28Chris: Yeah, and that's it in one line.
- 6:30So in short bursts, this saves you, but if you run permanently, the same
- 6:34chemistry that helped you starts wearing the body down system by system.
- 6:38Jen: And the heart shows it the most clearly.
- 6:41So chronic stress is now, uh, treated as an independent risk factor for
- 6:47cardiovascular disease, and it's ranked alongside high blood pressure,
- 6:51high cholesterol, and smoking.
- 6:53I think that's fascinating.
- 6:54Wow.
- 6:54Jamie: Hang on.
- 6:55So you're putting long-term stress into the same bracket as smoking?
- 6:58Jen: Yeah.
- 6:59And- The effect on the body
- 7:00… Chris: I know.
- 7:00And it, I mean, it sounds dramatic, but there is actually method
- 7:02to the madness, isn't there?
- 7:03So, um, adrenaline and cortisol keep your heart rate and your blood pressure
- 7:07up, but over time, that damages blood vessels and builds plaque in the arteries.
- 7:13And in fact, there was, um, there was a 2023 study that found that depression and
- 7:17anxiety, which sit right next to chronic stress, they raised the risk of a major
- 7:22heart event by about 35% and brought the warning signs forward by about six months
- 7:30Jen: It's huge.
- 7:31And people with the highest cumulative stress scores, they showed roughly a
- 7:3522% higher risk of that arterial plaque and a 20% higher risk of cardiovascular
- 7:42disease independent of the usual suspects.
- 7:46Jamie: So although stress doesn't hand you a heart attack on
- 7:48the spot, it quietly moves the whole- Yeah … timeline forward.
- 7:52Chris: Yeah.
- 7:52Absolutely.
- 7:53And that's the shift that matters.
- 7:54So if you've already, if you already know you've got kinda hearth- heart
- 7:58risk factors, it's a reason to have a kind of sensible conversation with your
- 8:01GP, but it's not a reason to panic.
- 8:04Jamie: Yeah.
- 8:05So be wary of it if you're in the high risk category, but carry on calmly.
- 8:10Chris: Absolutely right.
- 8:10Yeah.
- 8:11And, um, in terms of the immune system, so the immune system's
- 8:14response to stress can be useful, but it can also be counterintuitive,
- 8:18and it depends on the timeframe.
- 8:19So in the short term, as we mentioned earlier, a burst of stress actually
- 8:23sharpens your defenses and your body braces for a possible injury.
- 8:28Jamie: So the five-minute stress version is the immune
- 8:31system rolling up its sleeves.
- 8:32Mm-hmm.
- 8:33Jen: For a few minutes, yes.
- 8:35But run it for months and it flips.
- 8:38So sustained cortisol, that suppresses parts of your immune response, so it
- 8:42slows your T-cells, and there's ev- even evidence it blunts how well vaccines work.
- 8:48Mm.
- 8:49Jamie: That's the cruel timing everyone knows.
- 8:51You're never ill during a busy stretch, and then as, as soon as the holidays
- 8:54come along, you get ill the first day.
- 8:56Jen: Oh, that's happened to me so many times.
- 8:58Chris: I know.
- 8:59Everyone.
- 8:59It's like it knows, isn't it?
- 9:00Jen: I know.
- 9:01Chris: Yeah.
- 9:01And it's a genuinely common pattern, isn't it?
- 9:03And the timing fits because, um, there's reasonable evidence that this low-grade
- 9:07inflammation feeds into some autoimmune conditions too, so things like, uh, lupus
- 9:13or rheumatoid, rheumatoid arthritis.
- 9:16Though, it's worth saying that this is an association researchers are still focusing
- 9:19on, so there's not full-on conclusions yet, just to put the caveat out there.
- 9:23Jen: Yeah.
- 9:23And that caution matters because the honest version is more
- 9:27useful than the scary one.
- 9:29The better established story is the brain, the hippocampus, which is central to
- 9:33your memory and learning, is especially sensitive to a long soak in cortisol,
- 9:39and it can actually shrink a little, which makes your memory, it can make
- 9:43your memory and focus feel foggier.
- 9:46Mm. Which is never a good thing when you're trying to live day to day.
- 9:49Jamie: So the walking into a room and forgotting, forgetting why you went there
- 9:53thing is, uh, is not you being hopeless.
- 9:55It's just chemistry.
- 9:57Chris: Largely, yes.
- 9:58And, uh, naming it that way is actually kinder, I guess, a
- 10:00bit more generous and accurate.
- 10:02Um, and th- there's even work or research that's shown that our brain's cell, um,
- 10:08telomeres, which are the protective caps that are on the end of our DNA, were
- 10:12about twice as long in healthy people as in people with major depression.
- 10:16So chronic stress does actually seem to age people faster.
- 10:21Jen: And the simplest effect of it all is the muscles.
- 10:24So under stress, your muscles brace like almost like a flinch and, you
- 10:30know, they're meant to let go once it passes, but stay braced for weeks
- 10:35and you get those, like, tension headaches, your tight neck, your
- 10:39aching lower back, and you probably don't think of stress as the cause.
- 10:43Jamie: Tight neck I can confirm, and the gut's on the same list.
- 10:47That off-your-food feeling when you're feeling stressed.
- 10:50Chris: Absolutely.
- 10:50It's de- it's definitely on the same list.
- 10:52Mm. So digestion actually is one of the first jobs that the body
- 10:55drops in order to kind of deal with a, an immediate emergency,
- 10:59um, when it's being stressed out.
- 11:02So when you are stressed, that's why you often get this kind of knotted
- 11:06or queasy feeling in the tummy.
- 11:07Jen: Oh, that's such a horrible feeling, isn't it?
- 11:09Mm. I get that sometimes.
- 11:12But it, these effects, they don't hit everyone the same.
- 11:15So there was a Mental Health UK burnout report found 9 in 10 people had felt high
- 11:22or extreme stress in the past year, and the 18 to 34s are the, are carrying most
- 11:29of it, and a lot of those stresses were tied to work, money, and working hours.
- 11:36Chris: It makes sense, doesn't it?
- 11:37'Cause, you know, the 18 to 34, you know, the age group we're all in-
- 11:40Jen: Yeah, yeah, yeah … of course, yeah.
- 11:41Chris: Yeah.
- 11:41That's often the stage of life that we've got the kinda least control, um, over
- 11:47your time, but the most uncertainty ahead.
- 11:49So the same pressure lands harder when you're rushing around or, you know,
- 11:52you can't see the wood for the trees.
- 11:53Jen: Yeah, yeah.
- 11:54Jamie: And can we kill the unhelpful myth while we're at it,
- 11:57it's all in your head, just relax?
- 11:59As if you could think your blood pressure back down by deciding to.
- 12:03Jen: Can you imagine if you could do that?
- 12:05Chris: Yeah.
- 12:05The power
- 12:07Jen: Yeah, I agree.
- 12:08You know, but thoughts are real.
- 12:10We have to acknowledge that.
- 12:11And then, but so is everything downstream of them, so like the
- 12:16raised heart rate, the cortisol, the suppressed immune response.
- 12:20None of it's imaginary, and so telling someone it's all in their head, which
- 12:25I'm sure happens a lot, it's both unkind and it's frankly wrong, isn't it?
- 12:30Chris: Yeah, absolutely right.
- 12:31And of course, it, it cuts both ways, doesn't it?
- 12:33Because, because the response is physical, the things that calm it when it comes
- 12:37to stress are often physical too.
- 12:38So you don't have to somehow win an argument with your own brain to make
- 12:42a difference, and in fact, you might get a few funny looks if you're trying
- 12:44to argue with yourself in public.
- 12:45Let's be honest.
- 12:47Jamie: Right.
- 12:48The bit I've been waiting for, what actually moves the needle, and
- 12:51what's just a nice-sounding noise?
- 12:53Chris: So by a distance, the strongest evidence is for
- 12:56movement, probably unsurprisingly.
- 12:58Mm. So research consistently shows that physical activity reliably lowers
- 13:03cortisol and improves sleep, and this has been reported in multiple studies.
- 13:08Um, importantly though, it's the dose is far gentler than most people realize.
- 13:12So you're only talking about 20 minutes or so of something moderate.
- 13:16So most days, if you do s- some kind of moderate exercise, even
- 13:20brisk walking, that makes a colossal difference to managing stress.
- 13:23Jen: Which I love this because as a runner, I'll take any excuse, um, to
- 13:29get outdoors and to move your body.
- 13:32But the real headline is consistency beats intensity, doesn't it?
- 13:36So a steady walk you keep up does far more than that occasional heroic session
- 13:43that you dread and abandon- Yeah … and then you're sore for days afterwards.
- 13:47Jamie: Yes, and without sounding like a motivational quote, the best exercise
- 13:51is one that you will actually do.
- 13:53Jen: Yeah, absolutely.
- 13:54Chris: You always sound like a motivational quote.
- 13:55Uh, but you're absolutely right.
- 13:58And, um, then we've got the kind of in the, in-the-moment
- 14:02option, I suppose we'll call it.
- 14:03Which, uh, so the fastest tool to kind of de-stress is to work on your breathing.
- 14:07So we should all do this together.
- 14:08So a double inhale through the nose, then a long, slow exhale through the
- 14:12mouth, and in this kind of exercise, it's the out breath that, which is
- 14:17the active part because it's gently putting the brakes on your heart rate.
- 14:21And so just like the movement approach, it's something really straightforward
- 14:24to do that makes a big difference.
- 14:26Jen: Yeah.
- 14:26Jamie: But a word of warning with the breathing technique,
- 14:29do it discreet, discreetly.
- 14:31A big dramatic sigh in a meeting might reflect badly on the last
- 14:35person's comment who just spoke.
- 14:37Jen: Yeah.
- 14:37Chris: That's true.
- 14:38It takes me back to the yawning episode we did.
- 14:39I, I couldn't stop yawning- … all the way through that, uh, episode.
- 14:42Yeah.
- 14:43Jen: You know, and that office sigh is a loaded gesture, but it, it
- 14:47works maybe without the theater.
- 14:49Um, but the slower tools are, are strong too.
- 14:52So there's good evidence that an eight-week mindfulness course around
- 14:5710 to 20 minutes a day actually lowers cortisol, um, and gives the
- 15:03brain a bit of a nudge as well.
- 15:05Chris: Yeah, definitely.
- 15:05And, um, there was one trial that found that kind of course held up about as well
- 15:10as a common anxiety medication, actually.
- 15:12Uh, but I need to put my Captain Sensible hat on again, as always.
- 15:16Always.
- 15:16Uh, that please don't take that comment as a recommendation to
- 15:19swap your medication for an app.
- 15:20Jen: Yeah,
- 15:21Chris: definitely.
- 15:21So if you're taking medication and thinking about changing direction,
- 15:24always speak to your doctor.
- 15:25Jen: Yeah.
- 15:26Jamie: Sensible.
- 15:27Easy to run too far with a headline like that.
- 15:29Jen: Yeah, definitely.
- 15:30Chris: Uh, yeah.
- 15:31I've always got to put the disclaimers in, you know-
- 15:33Jen: Yeah,
- 15:33Chris: um- … just, just in case
- 15:34… Jen: we love a, a Captain Sensible
- 15:36Chris: air.
- 15:36Yeah.
- 15:37I know.
- 15:37I have to fight for the Captain Sensible fit.
- 15:38In fact, where's Matt?
- 15:39Uh, Matt will sometimes try to take it off me.
- 15:41Oh, so two more points that have solid backing here.
- 15:46So the first is sleep and stress feed each other, which is no surprise.
- 15:49Mm. So we know that poor sleep, oh, sorry, poor stress makes you, you more
- 15:54reactive, and stress wrecks your sleep.
- 15:56So working on your sleep has a huge impact on stress, but indeed,
- 15:59working on stress has a huge impact on sleep Um, the other is simply
- 16:04actually being around other people.
- 16:05Yeah.
- 16:06So regular social contact measurably steadies the stress chemistry.
- 16:10Jen: That's interesting.
- 16:11Jamie: So a walk with a friend is basically a double dose, movement
- 16:15and socializing at the same time.
- 16:17Chris: Absolutely.
- 16:17Jen: Yeah.
- 16:18It ticks several boxes at once.
- 16:21Um, and diet is another one people think about.
- 16:24So just to be straight, the evidence with diet impacting stress, it's much thinner.
- 16:29Um, there is early work that omega-3 fatty acids might blunt the body's
- 16:35blood pressure response to stress a little, but it is emerging, it's not
- 16:40proven, and I wouldn't oversell it.
- 16:43Jamie: And I'm the last person who should oversell it, given that I
- 16:46co-own a company that sells omega-3.
- 16:48Our omega-3 is a good product.
- 16:51It's not a stress cure, and I'd rather tell you that plainly
- 16:54rather than dressing it up.
- 16:55Jen: Yeah.
- 16:55Chris: I think we've got to kind of flash a product in
- 16:57front of the screen, you know.
- 16:58Yeah.
- 16:58We're not trying to sell it, you know, or make any claims.
- 17:01Um, I'm gonna put my last Captain Sensible hat on again- Yeah … if you don't mind.
- 17:05Um, if stress is genuinely affecting your health, your sleep, your mood,
- 17:11et cetera, that's a conversation with a doctor, not a podcast.
- 17:14So the support out there is strong when it comes to stress, and using it is smart.
- 17:20It's not a failure.
- 17:21No.
- 17:21It's really important to
- 17:22Jen: point that
- 17:22Jamie: out.
- 17:22Mm. So why does stress make us feel ill?
- 17:26Jen: Because the body has a fast, powerful emergenc- emergency response that it's
- 17:33super for, like, a short scramble.
- 17:36It raises your heart rate, floods you with energy, and switches
- 17:40off everything non-essential.
- 17:42The harm isn't in switching it on.
- 17:45It's n- in never switching it off.
- 17:47So the heart, the immune system, brain, the gut, they all spend months
- 17:52running in a state that was actually only ever meant to last minutes.
- 17:56Jamie: So the goal was never a stress-free life.
- 17:59That doesn't actually exist anyway.
- 18:01Mm. It's actually making sure the guests at my dinner
- 18:03party- … actually leave eventually.
- 18:06Hobs back down, washing up done, the kitchen back to itself, um,
- 18:11before the next lot turn up.
- 18:13Chris: And that's the key point.
- 18:14Maybe not the dinner party, but the key point is you're not broken for feeling it.
- 18:18Jen: Yeah.
- 18:18Chris: You just need the off switch to work as well as the on switch
- 18:20does when it comes to stress.
- 18:22Jen: Yeah, definitely.
- 18:24So that is it for this week.
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