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The Eds: Let’s Talk About Sex · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: This is the Eds with Eddie Judge and Edwin Aoyavi.
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  Speaker 1: The husbands know best too Cheese Production.
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  Speaker 2: We are back for episode eight and we're going to
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  Speaker 2: talk about a topic that a lot of ladies would
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  Speaker 2: like to hear or get a male perspective on. This
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  Speaker 2: is sex and intimacy. Yes, I said it, sex and intimacy.
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  Speaker 2: And when do men not want to talk about sex?
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  Speaker 2: Do you know? What do you think? And when?
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  Speaker 1: Because we get in trouble if we talk about it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm actually so fearful right now. I feel like I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to get in trouble talk Come on.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I love talking about sex with my wife. Although
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  Speaker 2: I got to say my wife is a conservative one
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  Speaker 2: in the relationship. So you know, when the kids are
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  Speaker 2: around and I kiss on her and I love on her,
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  Speaker 2: the kids are like ew, she pushes me away. I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: it's natural. This is what couples do. And intimacy is
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  Speaker 2: so important in my opinion when it comes to relationships, right.
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  Speaker 1: It's very important. I mean, it's it's a big deal.
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  Speaker 2: Here's here's our first question. Okay, what do sex mean
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  Speaker 2: to you before marriage? Before you were married, when you
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  Speaker 2: met someone new, how quick did you know you wanted
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  Speaker 2: to sleep with them?
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  Speaker 1: Interesting question. I can tell you this. The the women
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  Speaker 1: that I loved and I really really liked, the last
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  Speaker 1: thing on my mind was having sex with them. Now,
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  Speaker 1: if I was just physically attracted to them, but that
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  Speaker 1: was it.
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  Speaker 3: Because there's some girls I was physically attracted to, but
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  Speaker 3: I just knew that they weren't the relationship type or
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  Speaker 3: as I called it, girlfriend material or wife material. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: like those girls I wanted a break in first night,
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  Speaker 3: let's go.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I was a very visual person. So you know, if
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  Speaker 1: if I was very physically attracted and that's all I
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  Speaker 1: cared about, I I that's all I thought about. But
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  Speaker 1: what I found, the awareness of it was the girls
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  Speaker 1: that I really really wanted to like have a relationship with. Really,
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  Speaker 1: for me, the last thing on my mind when I
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  Speaker 1: went on that first state was having sex with Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And I think I have to clarify something because growing
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  Speaker 2: up as a young man and full of hormones, especially
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  Speaker 2: in your teens, you want to hump every chick you meet,
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  Speaker 2: especially a hot chick or you know, a check that
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  Speaker 2: you're very attracted to. So it took me, you know,
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  Speaker 2: going through relationships where I was in love and it
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  Speaker 2: was intimate, and learning what intimacy was for me, you know,
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  Speaker 2: what does it mean to be physically in bed with
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  Speaker 2: a woman and what are we doing here? Is it
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  Speaker 2: just a physical act or is there a love or
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  Speaker 2: a connection there? Right? So I think I had two
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  Speaker 2: deep intimate relationships, maybe three before I met Tarma, and
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  Speaker 2: then I've had a few relationships where it was just
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  Speaker 2: strictly sex, you know, like they make movies of it,
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  Speaker 2: just friends and it's just a sexual thing, no intimacy.
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  Speaker 2: And I learned that the just sex relationships didn't mean
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  Speaker 2: anything and they felt kind of empty, right. I just
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  Speaker 2: didn't feel good about it. But I wasn't ready to
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  Speaker 2: get into an intimate relationship, but I wanted to be physically,
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  Speaker 2: you know, physical with this relationship. So there were a
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  Speaker 2: couple of relationships like that in my life where you know,
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  Speaker 2: it was just a sexual thing. Yeah, we'd go out
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  Speaker 2: to dinner, but it was not love, it was not intimate.
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  Speaker 2: And I think what happened with Tarma is there was
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  Speaker 2: instant attraction, instant love that and by then when I
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  Speaker 2: met her, I had already figured out that I don't
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  Speaker 2: want to be in a just plain sexual relationship. I
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  Speaker 2: want to be in a loving, intimate relationship, but deep connection.
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  Speaker 2: That was really important to me. Right. That was like, like,
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  Speaker 2: when you're going to get into a relationship, you got
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  Speaker 2: to make sure that there's chemistry. You're not just physically
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  Speaker 2: attracted to this person. You are like deep down in
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  Speaker 2: love and in your heart connected with this person. Because
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  Speaker 2: there's been, you know, instances in my life where I've
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  Speaker 2: had sex and you roll over and you're like, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: get off my bed, get out of my life. I
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  Speaker 2: don't want anything to do with you, right, And it's
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  Speaker 2: so dirty, it's so empty, and I don't like it.
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  Speaker 2: So I never wanted to experience that. And I just
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  Speaker 2: love being connected with Camera. I love the connection I
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  Speaker 2: have with her. And it's like you said, the last
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  Speaker 2: thing I thought about, Well, maybe not the last thing.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe the second thing I thought about with her was
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  Speaker 2: having sex. But the connection I had with her initially
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  Speaker 2: was overwhelmingly attracted to her. And then I found out
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  Speaker 2: she was married, so that kind of shut down everything. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and I said, well, you know, I'm not going to
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  Speaker 2: go there. But when we started spending time together and
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  Speaker 2: in the same parties, in the same rooms, and talking
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  Speaker 2: to her and just having conversations with her. That's what
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  Speaker 2: really led me to really get to know her and
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  Speaker 2: see there's more to this woman than just a sexual attraction.
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  Speaker 2: And it wasn't until you know, she was divorced that
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  Speaker 2: I got the opportunity to take her on her first date.
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  Speaker 2: And I don't even think we had sex on our
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  Speaker 2: first date, our official date. It was just like, let's
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  Speaker 2: go out, get to get get to know each other.
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  Speaker 2: We go to La Jolla and nobody knows what's there
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  Speaker 2: and hopefully nobody knows her. And you know, we came
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  Speaker 2: home and I dropped her off, and it was it
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  Speaker 2: was a very respectful in my book, what I call
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  Speaker 2: respectful when you go on a date and you and
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  Speaker 2: you take the girl out and you take her home
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  Speaker 2: and maybe you give her a kiss, but you know,
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  Speaker 2: for the most part, you just show her that I'm
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  Speaker 2: in this for just the sexual part of it. I'm
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  Speaker 2: in this because I am connected with you and I
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  Speaker 2: want to get to know you and everything about you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, to clarify right when you for me,
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  Speaker 1: when you when I really like someone, the last thing
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  Speaker 1: on my mind was having sex with them. But if
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  Speaker 1: they wanted to have sex the first date. I was
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  Speaker 1: all game. Yeah, I mean that's how I met my wife. Yeah, right,
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  Speaker 1: So we ended up, you know, hooking up the first day. Now,
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  Speaker 1: funny enough, I remember that night we hooked up. You know,
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  Speaker 1: we're both sort of kind of drunk wasted that night
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  Speaker 1: and I was giving her a kiss, saying goodbye to her,
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  Speaker 1: and I was putting her in the taxi, and then
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  Speaker 1: she grabbed me and pulled me into the taxi. So
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  Speaker 1: I was like, all right, I guess we're going home.
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  Speaker 1: But I wasn't even planning on it. I was just like,
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  Speaker 1: all right, we'll see you tomorrow. And anyways, I'm glad
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  Speaker 1: she pulled me in because you just never know. Things
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  Speaker 1: happen in life, and who knows what the next day
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  Speaker 1: would have looked like. We probably would have forgot about
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  Speaker 1: me and we wouldn't be here today. So you just
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  Speaker 1: never know. You know what's interesting too, So funny story
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  Speaker 1: since we're talking about sex and partners and all that.
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  Speaker 1: So I don't know if you went through this, But
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  Speaker 1: like whenever I was intimate with someone or I had
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  Speaker 1: sex with someone for whatever reason, whenever I would ask
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  Speaker 1: them how many men they slept with. They always told
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  Speaker 1: me three, so I was always number three. So then
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  Speaker 1: I'm just like, at some point I'm like, are these
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  Speaker 1: girls lying to me? Or my ego was like maybe
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  Speaker 1: I am the third because I was. I'm just so
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  Speaker 1: good they couldn't help themselves. And I guess they slept
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  Speaker 1: with me the first night and I'm their third guy, right, So.
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  Speaker 2: They read that off of US magazine or one of
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  Speaker 2: those stupid magazines that tells you how to you know,
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  Speaker 2: make a guy happy and lie to him.
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, say we shit. Every girl would tell
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  Speaker 1: me three, right, so you know when I sleep when
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  Speaker 1: Teddy and I hooked up, of course I go and
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  Speaker 1: ask the question. And I'm thinking I'm going to be numbers,
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  Speaker 1: I think, I think. So I'm like, how many men
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  Speaker 1: have you slept with?
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  Speaker 2: Right? And yeah, I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Thinking she's going to tell me three, because that's what
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  Speaker 1: every girl has always told me.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Man, when she told me that number, I was like, what,
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  Speaker 1: I like, want to go to the doctor right away?
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, what, by the way, she told
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  Speaker 1: me I could share the number? She did? Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: asked her, I can, oh, okay, do you want to
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  Speaker 1: guess what her number was no, because I'll get in trouble.
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  Speaker 1: I just tell me it was seventeen.
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  Speaker 3: Seventeen, Okay, I was like what I was like, But
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  Speaker 3: you know now, I'm like, it's a lot more than seven.
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  Speaker 1: I know there's a woman out there that it's a
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  Speaker 1: lot more than seventeen. But all I heard was three.
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  Speaker 1: So when I heard seventeen, I was shocked.
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  Speaker 2: That's funny.
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  Speaker 1: I think they're funny. Yeah, maybe the most had heard
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  Speaker 1: a girl tell me before it was four. But the
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  Speaker 1: flip side of that, I'm like, all right, she's honest.
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  Speaker 1: Girls wouldn't have told me that, so it actually earned
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  Speaker 1: her a point being honest.
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  Speaker 2: Well, that's a good positive way of looking at it.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, you know, it's all how you look at it.
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  Speaker 2: I asked those questions when I was younger, and I
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  Speaker 2: paid close attention on how it made me feel, and
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  Speaker 2: the women that were honest, you know, I was like,
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  Speaker 2: oh shit, you've had ten guys, I'm eleven. You know,
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  Speaker 2: it didn't feel good. It didn't feel good at all.
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  Speaker 2: So I learned quickly. You know what when that conversation
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  Speaker 2: comes up, because inevitably it always came up, right, It's
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  Speaker 2: kind of like what do you do for a living?
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  Speaker 2: You just got to ask how many guys have you had?
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  Speaker 2: I learned not to ask those questions, and when they
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  Speaker 2: did come up, I just said, you know, I don't
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  Speaker 2: want to know. I really rather not know and think
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  Speaker 2: that I am the first guy that you've ever been with,
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  Speaker 2: even though you got four kids behind you know, I
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  Speaker 2: want to be the first guy that you've that you've
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  Speaker 2: been with, and and just you know, be in my
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  Speaker 2: denial world and be in love with you, and and
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  Speaker 2: and that's all that matters to me. I don't care
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  Speaker 2: how many guys you've been with it because honestly, it
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  Speaker 2: doesn't matter. You know, it's what's happening today.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly. Do you use any kind of is it just
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  Speaker 1: eddie all the time? Or do you do you bring
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  Speaker 1: in like toys and stuff to the relationship.
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  Speaker 2: No, we've we've bought toys into the relationship. We recently
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  Speaker 2: purchased a sex chair where we call it a sex
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  Speaker 2: chair officially it's a yoga chair, and you know, we've
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  Speaker 2: used it once or twice since we've bought it, and
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  Speaker 2: it's just it's really comfortable. It makes for a really
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  Speaker 2: incredible sexual experience. And I I would love to use
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  Speaker 2: it more. But what I've what I've recycled it for is,
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  Speaker 2: like I said, it's a yoga chair, so I like
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  Speaker 2: to use it to stretch my back. It's our sex
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  Speaker 2: chair turned into a back chair recently. And she's like,
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  Speaker 2: what are you doing. I'm like, I'm stretching my back.
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  Speaker 1: It feels good. Yeah, you know, it's interesting about the
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  Speaker 1: whole toy thing. So, you know, Teddy and I have
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  Speaker 1: been together, you know now, I think going on fifteen years,
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  Speaker 1: we're about to celebrate thirteen years, and we've never used
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  Speaker 1: any kind of toys, right, So about six months ago,
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  Speaker 1: I think it was, she's like, hey, do you want
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  Speaker 1: to start using these like ring you know, I think
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  Speaker 1: they're called cock rings or whatever they're called. Yes, And
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  Speaker 1: I kind of got offended. I was like, what am
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  Speaker 1: I not good enough anymore? Like you're bringing in some
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  Speaker 1: toys here, Like, do.
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  Speaker 2: You not say you might never use the cock ring?
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  Speaker 1: Never? I'd never used the cock ring before.
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  Speaker 2: Oh dude, it's crazy. That's a big old bulge hard
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  Speaker 2: on for hours. It's like you don't even have to
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  Speaker 2: try to keep it hard. It's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Right, So it's like my first time using it. But
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  Speaker 1: it's it's funny how the ego works sometimes. I was like, yeah, what,
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  Speaker 1: like I could do just fine. I could satisfy you
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  Speaker 1: just fine by myself. What are you talking about that
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  Speaker 1: I need to throw something on. But we've actually been
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  Speaker 1: having a pretty good time with it actually, so yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it took us. Funny, it took us a long time
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  Speaker 1: to use some toys. So she.
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  Speaker 2: Teddy, I think sent my wife those cock rings for
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  Speaker 2: us to try. And it's funny because I don't know
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  Speaker 2: if they're going to air it, but we were we
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  Speaker 2: were filming at the house, just sitting on the on
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  Speaker 2: the bed talking and all of a sudden, my wife
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  Speaker 2: pulls out the cock ring and it's it's it lights
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  Speaker 2: up and it's got a little vibrate right, and and
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, this is not going to be tight enough
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  Speaker 2: for me. You need a smaller one. We started playing
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  Speaker 2: around with it and just joking and it was it
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  Speaker 2: was I hope they air it because it was such
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  Speaker 2: a funny scene, funny awkward scene, but yeah, the ego
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  Speaker 2: jumped in. I'm like, I'm not putting this thing on.
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  Speaker 2: I don't need it. And then plus, what's a little
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  Speaker 2: vibration gonna do.
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  Speaker 1: All right, So so check this out. So so, I
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  Speaker 1: we probably have a lot of single women that that
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  Speaker 1: listened to this show, right, and some of them might
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  Speaker 1: want to date younger guys. I mean, you've been seeing
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  Speaker 1: it more and more and more. Right, So, when you
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  Speaker 1: were younger and you met maybe somebody that was older
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  Speaker 1: that had way more experience than you did, did that
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  Speaker 1: intimidate you?
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  Speaker 2: No, that attracted me more. The funny thing about my life,
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  Speaker 2: in my relationships with my girls, is that I've always
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  Speaker 2: been attracted to older women. And I used to wonder why,
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  Speaker 2: but I always thought it's because there's so much to
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  Speaker 2: learn in life, and particularly was about, yeah, how to
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  Speaker 2: how to make a woman happy in bed, you know,
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  Speaker 2: sexually intimately, And I learned it. I mean I think
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  Speaker 2: I was eighteen and a girlfriend at the time was
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  Speaker 2: like twenty five years old, and she taught me a lot.
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  Speaker 2: You know, most of the older women's made the first
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  Speaker 2: move and they taught me, you know, how to pleasure them.
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  Speaker 2: So I think it's a good thing.
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  Speaker 1: That's awesome. By the way, what how many dates did
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  Speaker 1: it take you to have sex with town? I know
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  Speaker 1: you guys had to wait because she was married. But
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  Speaker 1: how many dates do you think you went on before
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  Speaker 1: you were into.
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  Speaker 2: I think it was after the first date. Yeah, it
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  Speaker 2: wasn't too long after. Like I said, there was a
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  Speaker 2: physical attraction as well. But if I'm to go back
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  Speaker 2: to the initial reason I fell in love with her,
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  Speaker 2: I literally open up the front door of my house
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  Speaker 2: because they came to film at my house and we
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  Speaker 2: got eye to eye contact and it was love and
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  Speaker 2: birds and hearts and.
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  Speaker 1: It was bizarre.
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  Speaker 2: It was love at first sight. And then after I
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  Speaker 2: got past her eyes, I saw her body and her
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  Speaker 2: phys and then her personality and everything just was like,
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  Speaker 2: oh my god, this woman is amazing. And then we
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  Speaker 2: find out she's married. Dab it. So that was that
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  Speaker 2: was literally the first experience with my wife. And it wasn't,
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  Speaker 2: like I said, it wasn't until seven or eight months
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  Speaker 2: later that we actually got a chance to explore that
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  Speaker 2: that initial feeling, that that solidified. Okay, this is this
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  Speaker 2: is the one. This is who I'm going to spend
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  Speaker 2: the rest of the time my life with.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so after thirteen years, don't tell us what we
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  Speaker 1: want to hear, tell us the truth here. How many
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  Speaker 1: times a week do you guys have sex.
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  Speaker 2: We probably average once a week, you know, we we
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  Speaker 2: we obviously, And I remember when we first started filming.
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  Speaker 2: We used to have six hour sessions. It was incredible.
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  Speaker 2: But I was younger, had a lot more stam you.
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  Speaker 1: Know, a lot less stress back then too, Probably less stress.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I also felt probably that I had to perform,
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  Speaker 2: you know, because it was so important to me to
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  Speaker 2: have such a solid intimate relationship. I think mostly because
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  Speaker 2: I knew that eventually it's got to be more than sex.
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  Speaker 2: It's got to be more than this. So there's got
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  Speaker 2: to be something other than just the physical act of
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  Speaker 2: having sex that's gonna give us longevity in our marriage.
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  Speaker 2: And I want to say it might have been two
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  Speaker 2: or three years ago when that transition started happening, where
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  Speaker 2: sex wasn't the biggest priority anymore, maybe even four years ago,
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  Speaker 2: where it was like, Okay, you're working hard, I'm working hard,
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  Speaker 2: where you know, we have very little time. And I
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  Speaker 2: don't know if she felt this way, but I felt like,
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  Speaker 2: you know what, I'm I'm solid. I am confident that
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to be with this one for the rest
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  Speaker 2: of my life because every single time, and I'm talking
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  Speaker 2: every single time we make love, it's like the very
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  Speaker 2: first time we made love. I just and I tell
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  Speaker 2: it like it's incredible, and I know that when the
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  Speaker 2: act happens, we're going to have that same for the
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  Speaker 2: first time experience for the rest of our life. Right,
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  Speaker 2: So it doesn't have to happen every day, and it
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  Speaker 2: doesn't have to be a chore, right, it just it
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  Speaker 2: just has to happen when she feels it and I
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  Speaker 2: feel it, and we make it happen. But we don't
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  Speaker 2: force it. We don't make it happen. And lately it's
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  Speaker 2: it's I mean, I've gone even two weeks without having
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  Speaker 2: sex with her.
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  Speaker 1: But I was going to say, what's been the longest
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: have you ever gotten in a rut? Or what's been
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: the longest that you've gone without.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: I probably would say I've gone without maybe two to
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: three months. And that was during my heart issue. That
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: was when I was having heart issues and I my
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: life was upside down. I couldn't exercise, I couldn't do
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: anything that brought any joy to me physically, mentally, emotionally.
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: It kind of took a back seat, right it was.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: It was tragic.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: But then again, like I said, I still had the
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: confidence that she's going to be there for me regardless
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: of whether we have sex or not, because she's here,
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: she's helping me, she's going to the doctor visits with me,
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: she's here, you know, living through this with me. So
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: it kinda just it was one of those things like
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: it's not a big priority, it's not the top of
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: mind that I want to think about right now. And
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: that was a long time because I think that was
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: probably also around the same time I experienced about of depression,
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: which I've never experienced before. I'm a positive guy and
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: I like to spend every negative situation into a positive situation.
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: That's always helped me be who I am. And that
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: was the very first time where everything was just coming
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: down on me and I was didn't want want to
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: do anything, didn't want to I couldn't go to work,
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: I had to hire a manager to run the gym.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: I couldn't work out, I couldn't ride my bike, and
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: riding my bike was second to having sex with my wife,
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: you know, it's like the best, my favorite thing to do.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: And I realized this is this is not me, man.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: I don't like being like this. I don't look I
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: don't like who I am. So that's probably the longest
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: I've ever been without with her, you know, being intimate
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: with her. But but yeah, it's to me, it's it's
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: it's there. I know it's always going to be incredible.
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: We've I don't think, no, we've never had a bad
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: sex session. Honestly, it's always just been great. And and
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: there's no insecurities about that, right And and I think
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: that's probably why I you know, we we we tried
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: some toys. We tried some we tried the sex table
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: or the bed I bought her, you know, I went,
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: I went to a sex shop by my self to
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: go check it out. And that was a pretty interesting experience, like, okay,
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: tell me about all these things here, and and the
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: lady was very you know, ANIMI animated and excited to
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: tell me and educate me on all how all these
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: things work. And uh, and that's when I learned about
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: butt plugs. People use butt plugs.
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: For I don't know, arouse them.
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: And it looks like like a spaceship that's about this
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: big and it goes up your butt and and that's it.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: I guess that's that's what it does. Like I don't
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: see any pleasure in that. So I know that people
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: have been telling me before that, uh, there's an orogen
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: and sown and men.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: Like I was gonna say, is that for female or
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: for male?
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: It's it's for both. But apparently men have it too,
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: where you could reach climax by you know, tickling this
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: certain part, like to call it the clitoris of the male.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: I mean, I mean that's I guess why gay guys
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: yeah like it, right, I mean they don't. They don't
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: deal with coltaoruses.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: I have a friend who's single who swears by it.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: He's been trying to get me to do it. I just, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: it's the best thing ever.
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: I have no interest in it.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: I always say there's there's a tattoo, the only tattoo
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: I have, and it'sprked by my asshole that says exit
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: only that's all it says. But yeah, I mean toys
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: are they could be fun.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: I learned that you can use these what otherwise look
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: like dusters that you know, the house cleaners used to
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: dust your your house. You can use that to arouse
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: the body, you know, just light touch. So there's a
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: lot of different ways to explore our sexual life that
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: I'm open to except butt plus and nothing's going on
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: my butt.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Sam, I agreed on that. You know, Teddy and I,
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: I was going to say Teddy and I we were
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: probably two a week. We go twice and when it's
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: scheduled too, which I'd love because she's busy, I'm busy,
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: and we're both attracted to each other, so it's not
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: like we have to feel in the mood. And you know,
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: when you have children, you kind of have to schedule
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: it right, And I get in my head, like I
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: hate being intimate with my wife if the kids are home.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, me too, Like I.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: Gotta like try to stay quiet and my back. In
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: the back of my mind, I'm like, what if they
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: walk in? Yeah, So it's it's like I got a
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: window from twelve to three to make that happen. The
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: kids get home at three. Once the kids are home,
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: and then I have a son that like walks in anytime.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: There'll be nine thirty, we're thinking he's asleep, and he'll
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: just open the door. Like last night it was ten thirty,
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: ten o'clock, he'll just open the door. So I'm just
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: like the only time if we want to enjoy, it
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: has to be from this time to this time, and
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: usually twice a week is good enough for both of us.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: Sometimes if if we're lucky, if we can fit a
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: third one in, well we'll three. You know. I hear's
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: couples that say they say they do it every day
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: at our age, and I'm like, oh, man, uh because
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: and and my my doctor says my testosteral level is
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: pretty good. So I'm like, I don't know if you
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: because even if I wanted to go all day with
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: all the stuff that's in my mind and I got
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: to deal with, Like, yeah, I think two to three
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: is more than enough. Like I'm we're happy with the two,
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: and but we definitely have to schedule it. And it's
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: been you know, some people say, well, let's you have
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: to schedule it. I'm like, well, something's important to you
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: kind of do because if you don't, you can go
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: weeks without, you know, And Teddy and I did go.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: We were in a bad rut one time we went,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: I want to say we probably had it took us
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: six months to have sex. We had sex one time
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: in one year, and it was during our dark time
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: where I was going just through like she had just
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: had a baby. So, you know, the first you know,
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: four years that we were together, I mean we didn't
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: it was the best, right, it was all the time.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: And then I think it was around the time the
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: Cruise was born that we just we were apart and
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: it was mainly me as far as my mind, and
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: I just I wasn't attracted and I just but then
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: I couldn't get it up. So then I was in
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: my head about it because I'm like, oh, what is
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: she going to think? Blah blah blah blah blah, and
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: I just started overthinking the crap out of it. Well,
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: then I got so scared that I just didn't even
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: want to try it because it was so awkward, right,
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: and like how do you tell your wife that you're
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: not as attracted to her anymore?
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: You know?
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: And again she had just had the baby, So it
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: was just all this stuff, and I was going through
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: a rough time myself, and I mean it got bad
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: to the point that like how did I get out
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: of it? I literally started praying to God. I'm like, God,
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: I need to be attracted to my wife, Like yeah,
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: just I this needs to happen, because intimate is very
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: you know, sex is important. Yeah, And it was crazy
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: because I kept praying about it. And then one day
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: out of nowhere, just one day, she walks by the
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: by the TV and she had a I still remember,
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: like it was yesterday. She had a long shirt and
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: it was sort of you know, covering her. She was
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: underwear and just a shirt on, so all I could
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: see is the legs. Yeah, and then all of a sudden,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: thing boner. I was like, oh shit, like let's go,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: and then it's and then great things after that. But
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: I basically got in and all it was is a
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: mental thing. I let it get in my head and
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: then I got so scared about it, and again it
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: wasn't a really good time in our relationship because of it.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: So do I think it's important one thousand percent? Yeah.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: I've heard many stories like that, and hearing the those
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: kind of stories like you can't get it up for
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: your wife, it's it kind of makes you think, right
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: like and by the.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: Way she was, I still thought she was beautiful. Yeah, Yeah,
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: and it was. All it takes is a couple bad
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: fall starts, if you will, ye, and then you start
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: getting in your head about it.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, you know, let me. Let me say this,
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: because there's two instances where I want nothing physical to
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: do with her, Like I don't want I don't want
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: to have sex with her, I don't want to touch her,
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: I don't want to be intimate with her. And that's
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: when we fight and she's being a bitch, and you know,
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: there's this whole makeup sex thing that has never worked
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: for me. I know that has worked for a lot
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: of people, or like it's just this ravishing crazy let's
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: just fuck the hell out of our brains out and
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: make up that's never worked for me. If I'm mad
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: at her or she did something that really offend me
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: or pissed me off or hurt me, you know, and
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: it's not often, but you know, relationships happen. I want
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: nothing to do with there. I don't want to be
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: around her, I don't want to be intimate with her
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: or anything that also goes with drinking alcohol, like drunk sex.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: I do not like drunk sex. And to me, it
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: just feels dirty, right because especially she's really thrashed, she
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: might not remember what happened the next day.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: However, I've mentioned this on the show before, which is
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: okay for me to mention again. There was one time
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: where she got drunk, not so drunk that she was,
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: you know, stupid and falling all over herself, but drunk
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: enough that she was relaxed and loose and she says, okay,
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: let's do it. Do what we're doing it. It's like, no,
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: let's let's do anal I'm like what. And it was
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: because she was drunk that she said let's do anal right,
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: So I didn't like it. She didn't like it, but
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: that only impressed upon me, like, Okay, when she's drunk,
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: she's doing she wants to do crazy stupid shit right.
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: So it's not the right frame of mind, and I
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: don't like it. You know. It's it's like it's like
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: pretending you're somebody you're not.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: I like to be real.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: I like real emotion and real feelings. And if you
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: don't feeling when you're sober and you're feeling when you're drunk,
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: they're not they're not sustainable. You know, you're not you're
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: not really in love, like you're pretending to love me
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: and you only it's it's kind of like a young girl,
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: you know, being in a relationship with an older guy
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: because he's got money. I assume it's like that, right.
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: You know, she's just closing her eyes and she's just
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: thinking about his bank account, and this guy is just going, oh,
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: she's the hottest thing ever. And you know, if he's smart,
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: he knows he's paying for it. See.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: It's funny because I don't even like alcohol, you know,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: but I always drank. I've said on the on the
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: show before for women. Right, it just it got me
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: a little loose. It got me, you know, just a
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: little bit more. It got me in trouble. You got
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: me a little confident, right, But I like, does it
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: rarely happens now? Because I rarely get drunk, It's rare.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: And I'm not saying like drunk where you're just wasted.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: I never get wasted when I'm just throwing up or
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: anything like that. But to me, like, I kind of
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: like the drunk sex it it. I don't know. I
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: just I First of all, my stamina goes up quite
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: a bit. I've become a machined. I like that part
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: of it, right Whereas wheen I'm a little too sober,
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, a couple of bad moves here,
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: I could be done pretty quick. I gotta be a
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: little more exactly. No, not yet, not yet, right, So
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: I guess that's the part I like about that part.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: You know. In fact, I think some of the best
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: sex that Teddy and I have had we were both
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: a little tipsy, you.
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: Know what about angry? Have you ever fought and had
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: makeup sex?
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: Not as much, not with Teddy?
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: That that was makeup sex is cool too, Yeah, not
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: as good as drunk sex, I think. But but again,
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: my my, I guess to clarify, like, I still know
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: what I'm doing, right, It's just you're just a little
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: more loose. You're just a little more you know, not
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: in your head about it. So that's the part I
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: think I'll like about it.
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: I could see that, I could definitely see the benefit
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: of that.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: Have you ever role played?
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: No, I have not, And I always wonder or what
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: it would be like, you know, because you've seen I've
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: watched porn before. I've seen movies where they role play
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: like that, and I always wonder what that would do
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: to the psyche, and if it would be like something
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: you like so much, like a drug that you want
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: to have it all the time. And then your regular
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: sex life is boring and you never want to have
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: that again. I don't know. I have never done it,
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: and I wouldn't be opposed to trying it, but I
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: would be concerned that. Okay, you know, she's in a
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: little made outfit or cheerleader outfit or whatever outfit you know,
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: and from now on that's what she has to do.
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: Are you a talker when you're having sex?
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: No? No, no, I do? I do? You know? Reminder,
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: I whispering earier. I love you, I love our sex life.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: And you know, we've tried the dirty talking before, but
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: it didn't work. It got too dirty, and then it
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: wasn't dirty enough and we just picked it all up like, okay,
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: we're not gonna do that. I don't know what to say.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: I love it. Well if you if you have a
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: little drunk secks, the dirty talk becomes a little easier.
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: So yeah, a lot of things happen easier. Hey, before
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: we wrap this up, I want to play a little
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: game called rapid Fire round it and it's it's basically
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: hot or not is the answer. So it's a quick
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna say a word, then you can
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: say a word and we'll say yes. I mean hot
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: or not? Okay, So starting off, for example, red lipstick,
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: is that hot or not?
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: Hot?
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: For sure?
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: I like I like it? Yeah, it stands out great.
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: Do you have a word nightgown?
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: Nightgown hot? I love nightgowns.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna go with hot as well, awesome, lingerie,
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: lingerie hot.
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: I have to say hot. Yeah, I like to play
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: with that.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: Not a big deal for me. No, no, I mean
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: it's not a bad thing, but not a big deal
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: for me.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: You can do without it, yeah, okay, role play, fantasies, fantasize.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say fantasize depends on fantasize about somebody else,
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: of course, not role play. I mean Teddy and I
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: have tried wigs, but I'm still thinking to her. Yeah,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: like now she's a brunette versus a blonde, so it's
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: still her, but we're just it's a different look of her.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: And I think Teddy's pretty hot as a brunette, even
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: though I'm more into blondes. But having her change it
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: up to a brunette is good. What about you so
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: hot or not hot?
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: Hot?
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: I think hot. I think it could be really hot.
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: Toys we talked about this already hot hot yeah, yes,
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: hot hot yeah, I agree. Scheduling set. I think it
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: could be hot when you have to. But if you
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: don't have to, I would say not right, But if
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: you have to, I think it makes sense being sexually
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: adventurous and spontaneous, like having sex at the park hot.
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: I agree. I would love to do that, and hiking
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: and actually we've done that.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go. Waxed or unwaxed, unwaxed.
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: Waxed, waxed.
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: I don't like hair.
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: I was gonna say, okay.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, I don't like hair.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: Waxed. Yeah, no, I'm gonna say waxed all day long,
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: dirty talk yes, hot.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: Hot, yes, daytime or night time sex.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: Daytime, all day long. I got way more energy nighttime
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: for me, my energy is all depleted. It's tough for me.
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: But unless it's I'm drunk. But daytime, all day long.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: I agree. I agree, one hundred percent.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: Shower sex hot hot, very hot, very hot.
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: Lights on or off?
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: On for sure, on.
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: I love the lights on, although I mean, does Teddy
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: ever like close the curtains and did the night shades
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: and all that when you guys are gonna no.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: I mean if again, we don't really have too much
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: nighttime sex anymore because of the kids, so it's it's
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: lights on for sure.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: As she close the curtains.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: We don't because we have all this like wrapped around
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: green trees that cover everything, so no one could really
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: see inside. But man, when we lived in Hollywood Hills,
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: I was like, man, if people want to see, let
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: them let them see, let them see. This one's not
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: even on here. But I think, uh well, anyways, let's
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: go with for play hot, do or not for play hot?
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say hot. Yeah, I'm gonna say for sure
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: hot unless you're you're running out of time, you.
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: Know, right, unless you have no time?
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: Right mirror or no mirror. Mirror, mirror all day long,
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: all rday long. Yeah, that's why I like the Encore
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: in Vegas. That mirror. Yeah, that is I know, we
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: always like the Encore. I'm like, yeah, man, I get
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: to do mind. Have you ever watched the movie American Psycho? Yes,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: got you gotta have the mirror once in a while.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: You got to see yourself.
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: Man, you gotta see yourself. It's awesome, awesome work well,
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: that's the end of our episode eight, and if you
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: guys want us to talk a little bit or elaborate
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: more on our rapid fire a round, let us know
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: on the comments or give us some feedback. If there's
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: any anything you guys want us to talk about, give
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: us some feedback. We really are enjoying this and we
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: appreciate you all listening. Thank you so much.
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, we can't thank you so much for
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: all the support. And as you can see, we're very
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: transparent about everything and just ask away and we'll answer away.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: So thanks guys, See you guys next time. M hmm.