Death of the Pastor's Wife: What Really Happened to Mica Miller with Jennie Gage

Culture Changers with Allison Hare · Oct 1, 2026 · 59m

Mica Miller told her friends that if she died by suicide, it wasn't her. It was JP. Netflix gave Death of the Pastor's Wife three episodes, and my repeat guest Jennie Gage watched her own marriage play out on screen. She spent 24 years as the wife of a Mormon church leader, survived her own suicide attempt, and has a theory about what really happened to Mica. This one is harrowing. Trigger warnings on this one: suicide, abuse, and religious coercion. If you're struggling, call or text 988 (US).

Notable timestamps

00:00 "He makes JP Miller look kind of mild"

03:44 Born Mormon in 1974: the…