Latest / Creatures of the Wind / Day 8 𖦹 GRANDMOTHER
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- 0:00SPEAKER_00: Today is day eight.
- 0:04SPEAKER_01: I mean free tea but famous denies 30 days of free tea in Mary Hernandez Park.
- 0:18SPEAKER_00: It's a chill morning.
- 0:29SPEAKER_00: Do you have any one week post reflections?
- 0:34SPEAKER_02: I I think more than anything, it's we can totally do this.
- 0:45SPEAKER_03: I participate in like food distribution a lot, but there's such a different energy that the tea stand has and such a softness that people approach the tea stand with that just feels so unique.
- 1:03SPEAKER_03: Or barley tea.
- 1:05SPEAKER_03: The barley does have gluten in it.
- 1:08SPEAKER_03: Even though it's just providing free tea, it feels reciprocal.
- 1:13SPEAKER_03: I guess someone stopping to get tea feels like they're doing me a service of having a use for being here.
- 1:26SPEAKER_00: It's good.
- 1:29SPEAKER_02: Well, I'm reading a book right now.
- 1:31SPEAKER_02: One of the main characters in the book is Jiko, who is 104 years old and is Buddhist.
- 1:40SPEAKER_02: One of the other main characters is like a 16-year-old Japanese girl.
- 1:45SPEAKER_02: The way that she describes it is her grandma is in the elevator, but is holding the door open for everyone for as long as she needs to.
- 1:56SPEAKER_02: And she's like, hey, you know what?
- 1:58SPEAKER_02: I've actually never asked my grandma where the elevator's going.
- 2:03SPEAKER_02: Let me text her right now.
- 2:04SPEAKER_02: And so she texts her.
- 2:06SPEAKER_02: And Jico responds, up, down, same thing.
- 2:34SPEAKER_02: It doesn't matter.
- 2:36SPEAKER_02: It's the same.
- 2:37SPEAKER_02: It's it's not this like ascension or descension uh to to a higher state of being or whatever.
- 2:44SPEAKER_02: It's just a way of experiencing all of it.
- 3:10SPEAKER_00: Tell me about your grandmother.
- 3:12SPEAKER_02: I interviewed her maybe ten years ago, and two like questions and answers really stuck with me.
- 3:21SPEAKER_02: One is I asked her what the happiest part of her life was, and she said, right now.
- 3:35SPEAKER_02: Um and the other thing that she said is I asked her uh like what makes her feel most alive, and she said helping people.
- 3:43SPEAKER_02: Hey, would you like some perpetual brew?
- 3:46SPEAKER_02: Yeah, absolutely.
- 3:50SPEAKER_00: Um do you think about intergenerational relationships?
- 3:57SPEAKER_02: You know, I was just thinking about that.
- 4:00SPEAKER_02: I feel like it's like the most important thing.
- 4:02SPEAKER_02: It's like that's the only way for knowledge to really be transferred is human to human.
- 4:08SPEAKER_02: It's like all of that life experience, any anything that can kind of push you in a certain direction to see the world differently, I think is good, and especially when it's coming from people in your neighborhood.
- 4:22SPEAKER_03: I think I'm gonna do the green tea.
- 4:23SPEAKER_03: This one's really good.
- 4:25SPEAKER_03: Oh, you know the dude that I was telling you about a while ago?
- 4:30SPEAKER_03: There's a dude a few blocks away who's probably in his like early 50s, and I talk to him like three to four times a week.
- 4:38SPEAKER_03: Um, wouldn't say he's like my friend, but I would say he's very much community to me.
- 4:43SPEAKER_03: Maybe to other people like people outside New York, like what is like a 20-something-year-old queer person doing chatting with like a 50-something year old man?
- 4:53SPEAKER_03: Like, what do you have in common?
- 4:54SPEAKER_03: And it's like nothing and everything.
- 4:58SPEAKER_03: He gave me a kiss on the cheek earlier and was like, I love you, it's so good to see you.
- 5:03SPEAKER_03: And just so sweet.
- 5:05SPEAKER_03: I feel like that's all it's honestly one of the most beautiful relationships in my life.
- 5:13SPEAKER_03: Uh, because it feels so uncomplicated.
- 5:17SPEAKER_03: When his mom passed, he like cried on my shoulder.
- 5:22SPEAKER_03: He's shown me some really dope Venezuelan songs.
- 5:26SPEAKER_03: Like, he feels like a Bushwick staple to me.
- 5:30SPEAKER_03: Like it wouldn't feel right to be here without him.
- 5:33SPEAKER_03: We need those those interactions, that community, the the consistency of people always showing up.
- 5:47SPEAKER_01: Like when he first popped up, I was hesitant because you never know who just moved here.
- 5:51SPEAKER_01: But I observed this situation for a long time and it just kept growing into something positive more and more.
- 5:56SPEAKER_01: It's like I recognize this person at this point.
- 5:58SPEAKER_01: This feels like this is part of what Bushwick's about.
- 6:01SPEAKER_01: Showing up and doing some odd fucking shit that everyone likes, honestly.
- 6:09SPEAKER_02: The consistency and the familiarity is so essential.
- 6:15SPEAKER_02: Like doing this once is cute and fun, but but doing it on a monthly basis or on a daily basis for perpetual brew, that's a real that's love.
- 6:45SPEAKER_02: What time is it?
- 6:47SPEAKER_02: It's six.
- 6:52SPEAKER_02: Another day in the books.
- 6:54SPEAKER_02: Another day in the books.
- 6:56SPEAKER_02: We did it.
- 6:56SPEAKER_03: How are you feeling?
- 6:58SPEAKER_03: Feeling good.
- 6:59SPEAKER_03: My feet are frozen, but I'm feeling good.
- 7:04SPEAKER_03: Okay, tomorrow.
- 7:06SPEAKER_00: It's you serving the tea?
- 7:07SPEAKER_02: I'm back.