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Surrender Over Control: The Missing Piece in Adoptee Healing

Discover how surrender, rather than control, can transform the adoptee’s healing journey. In this episode, Julie explores the deep psychological and somatic stages of adoptee awareness and how embracing surrender leads to genuine self-belonging.

In this episode:

The misconception that mastery and control are the core issues for adoptees

How early trauma impacts our response to loss and control

The adoptee consciousness model: five pivotal stages of awareness

Key somatic cues associated with each stage

The importance of surrender as a radical act of self-trust and agency

Practical prompts for…

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