Latest / Success Story with Scott Clary / Jim Kwik - NYT Bestselling Author of Limitless | The Boy With the Broken Brain Who Became the World's #1 Memory Coach
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- 0:00Why do you believe that human intelligence will be the greatest competitive advantage in the next decade?
- 0:04Intelligence is really how do you use your brain and direct your mind to create the life you want.
- 0:09Intelligence is a muscle that grows stronger with use.
- 0:11Today's guest is Jim Quick, an American coach and brain performance expert known for helping people improve their memory, learning and mental performance.
- 0:19Through his work as your brain coach, he teaches practical strategies for unlocking human potential and optimizing the brain.
- 0:25In this conversation, he explores human intelligence, the impact of AI, and how we can strengthen our cognitive abilities.
- 0:32What your advice is for somebody who's listening who feels like they are offloading a little bit of their cognitive horsepower to AI?
- 0:38AI is not artificial intelligence as much as augmented intelligence.
- 0:42It's meant to augment intelligence.
- 0:43your superpowers.
- 0:44AI is no longer a competitive advantage because everybody has access to it.
- 0:47It's the intelligent user that's gonna get more out of it.
- 0:49What are the things that the average person can do every single day to make sure that they optimize their human intelligence?
- 0:55Number one is awareness.
- 0:57The second thing is agency, giving more influence than we think by the choices that we make.
- 1:01If we aren't conscious of it, we sort of default to moving in the wrong direction.
- 1:04And that's scary.
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- 1:23It's not rocket science, but tracking your food.
- 1:27Tracking what goes into your body is the single best way to feel better, to live a better life, to have more energy, to show up better at work, better at home.
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- 1:39It's not obsessive.
- 1:40It's not something that only fitness influencers do.
- 1:43Because when you first hear, I track what I eat,
- 1:46It can sound like somebody who weighs every grain of rice and is panicking about a slice of pizza.
- 1:52That's not what this is.
- 1:53That's not what I do.
- 1:54And I use MyFitnessPal.
- 1:56What I do is I log what I eat and it shows me what's going on with my food.
- 2:01And there's this misconception that if you log your food, it's going to take up an hour of your day.
- 2:05No, they've nailed it.
- 2:07And I've been using for context of MyFitnessPal app for years now.
- 2:10It's one of the first tools I've ever used, first apps I've ever used.
- 2:13when I was on my own health and wellness journey.
- 2:15The reason being is because it's so simple.
- 2:17So they have a couple different ways to log food.
- 2:19Barcode scanner that handles any packaged products.
- 2:22You just scan it, it'll log it.
- 2:24They have voice logging.
- 2:25So I can say what I ate out loud.
- 2:27They'll log it.
- 2:27There's also meal scan where I can point my camera at my plate and it figures out exactly what's on my plate.
- 2:33And here's where the premium version of MyFitnessPal comes in.
- 2:36It breaks down my macros by meal, breakfast, lunch, dinner, snacks, all separate.
- 2:40And that's valuable info because the distribution of my food across my day matters just as much as the total.
- 2:47So if most of your protein is at dinner and you're running on coffee and carbs until 2 p.m., well, your body is going all morning and most of the afternoon without what it needs.
- 2:57So if you feel like garbage around 3 and 4, it's going to show you that.
- 3:00So MyFitnessPal gives you meal by meal breakdown.
- 3:04And the premium also has a food analysis that shows patterns across the week where you're consistent, where things start to shift when life gets busy.
- 3:11So all of a sudden, that mid-afternoon crash is no longer a surprise.
- 3:16You understand what you ate and you understand what you feel like garbage, or rather you understand what you didn't eat.
- 3:21It also connects with 40 fitness apps and wearables.
- 3:24So if you use a smartwatch or a workout app, your nutrition and your training are all in one spot.
- 3:29Think about it this way.
- 3:30You wouldn't call someone obsessive for checking their bank account, for paying attention to their expenses, for making sure they're not overspending or have all these subscriptions that they're not using if they're trying to save up to purchase a house, right?
- 3:43It's smart to have the right data and people that check their bank account, they just want to know what's going on so they can make good decisions.
- 3:49This is the same thing.
- 3:50It's information about the one thing, food, that affects how you feel more than anything else.
- 3:55Because food is a foundation for your energy, for your sleep, for your weight, for your recovery, for your performance at work and at home.
- 4:01And you don't have to overhaul how you eat to get value from this.
- 4:05This is not about restriction or dieting.
- 4:07It's about having information.
- 4:10So do yourself a favor, start paying attention to what goes into your body.
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- 4:32Jim, everyone is obsessed with artificial intelligence right now.
- 4:35You've been speaking a lot about human intelligence.
- 4:37So explain what human intelligence is the way that you see it.
- 4:41Why do you believe that human intelligence will be the greatest competitive advantage in the next decade?
- 4:46You know, for the past three decades, you know, we've done other episodes where I talk about speed reading, memory improvement, focus, flow, brain optimization.
- 4:55I feel like all of those are pillars for building human intelligence.
- 5:00And for me, intelligence is...
- 5:03It's changed over the years.
- 5:05Most people associate intelligence to IQ.
- 5:07You take a standardized test when you're 8, and that's your potential when you're 88.
- 5:11But all the research suggests that your intelligence isn't fixed, like your shoe size, that through neuroplasticity, through challenge and change, it could grow.
- 5:19You could create new thoughts, new identity, new habits, upgrade your wisdom.
- 5:27For me, intelligence is...
- 5:30is really how do you use your brain and direct your mind to create the life you want?
- 5:35Like somebody could be quote unquote intelligent and be very book smart, be able to quote every book, but if, you know, on finance or whatever, but if their life doesn't reflect that wealth, then how intelligent are they really?
- 5:46And so in the context of artificial intelligence, you know, I feel I'm very absolutely optimistic.
- 5:53I'm hoping we're going to go around a track where AI... My big fear is where people are cognitively offloading their intelligence to their devices, you know, and not getting the exercise.
- 6:03But I think intelligence is a muscle that grows stronger with use.
- 6:08I feel that intelligence also is the things that... What makes us human, meaning that...
- 6:14For me, in the AI revolution, I'm hoping on the other side, there's a renaissance of human evolution, meaning that if AI could compute and process and do these other lower level tasks, what does that free us up to be more human?
- 6:29Because in order to be valuable in the workplace...
- 6:32We have to because we're not going to compete with AI.
- 6:36So it's going to force us to enhance our EQ, our emotional quotient, our empathy, our compassion.
- 6:41It's going to force us to increase our understanding of things, like really understanding comprehension, our purpose and our meaning behind things.
- 6:53Our adaptability is going to be such an important trait for us.
- 6:57for building our human intelligence, our ability to have cognitive flexibility, as opposed to cognitive rigidity like Blockbuster, where they didn't adapt, or something like a Kodak that created the first digital photography, but where are they now?
- 7:13So that's cognitive rigidity, whether it's for an organization or an individual or a country or a nation, it's really the same.
- 7:19And then also social intelligence, like being a nexus for leadership,
- 7:26because it's not just your neurological connections it's your social connections you know influence your ability to to coach your ability to persuade your ability to create depth of relationship and i and so like if ai is doing these fast computing and processing maybe in order to be relevant and in in the workplace we have to focus on being more human which would be which would be amazing but do you feel like
- 7:51When we offload some of our thinking and some of our cognitive processing to AI, which I feel like a lot of us are doing, that's your fear.
- 7:59And it's not a fear.
- 8:00It's like I feel it's a reality.
- 8:02It absolutely is.
- 8:03I mean, you see all the stats.
- 8:05There are even the recent MIT study where they took three groups of students, A, B, and C, and they had them write essays.
- 8:12And group A used ChatGPT.
- 8:13Group B used Google.
- 8:14Group C, no technology.
- 8:17Yeah.
- 8:17And they did mapping, brain mapping.
- 8:19They also tested before and after.
- 8:22And it was those that were spoon fed the information that they had the least cognitive engagement on brain scans.
- 8:28And also they had the least amount of recall.
- 8:31Because, you know, when it comes to learning, part of the neuroplasticity, just like working out your body, it requires effort.
- 8:37Right.
- 8:38Like you can't buy a fit body.
- 8:40You have to, you have to do the, you have to do the work.
- 8:42Same thing with mental, you know, it's use it or lose it.
- 8:45And while your brain is, uh, is an organ and acts more like a muscle.
- 8:49And if AI is taking all the friction or the challenge out of learning, you know, then it's,
- 8:55My big fear, it goes the other way, where we cognitively offload the thinking.
- 9:00Not just technology remembers things.
- 9:02We talk about digital dementia and you don't have to remember phone numbers or your to-dos or calendar or anything else like that.
- 9:07So we've lost that muscle unless it's trained.
- 9:11But the cognitive, I call it digital deduction back in Limitless six, seven years ago, where it's also thinking for us.
- 9:17I mean, think about GPS.
- 9:18Right.
- 9:20Right?
- 9:20Like now before you had to have a map or you used to exercise your visual spatial intelligence to get from here or there.
- 9:25But if technology is telling you when and where to turn, it's very convenient.
- 9:30But we don't have to exercise and build that strength.
- 9:32And I think there's a consequence.
- 9:34Because with technology, it's kind of like...
- 9:37So, you know, even you get to the studio, it's let's say it's on the fourth floor.
- 9:42The elevator is a form of technology, right?
- 9:45And it's very convenient.
- 9:46But then we didn't take the stairs, right?
- 9:48So we don't get those steps in or if you have to go eight blocks to go to the bank or whatever, and you take a car or a taxi.
- 9:54then it's very convenient, but then you get your steps in.
- 9:57So my thing is, what if we offloaded all our thinking to AI, and then we no longer have the capacity to use our critical thinking, our judgment, right, our logic, and those muscles weaken?
- 10:10I mean, imagine a society or a civilization.
- 10:13I don't want to get...
- 10:14like gloom and doom, but imagine a society where in mass we're offloading that.
- 10:18I mean, you know how susceptible we would be to other people's agenda, where we can't think for ourselves, we can't sort through misinformation, we can't use our critical thinking?
- 10:29So we're already, unfortunately, not using that as much as we should in some cases, but to offload intelligence, that creates an even more precarious situation for society, where they can be super susceptible and influenceable.
- 10:41One thought you mentioned, like there's going to be a premium on human intelligence, which are all these, I guess, soft skills is the best way to describe it.
- 10:48Like the ability to build relationships.
- 10:49And I think those soft skills are going to be the hard skills.
- 10:52Well, they will.
- 10:53Yeah.
- 10:53But the issue is, and I wonder what your advice is for somebody who's listening who feels like they are offloading a little bit of their cognitive horsepower to AI.
- 11:03Yeah.
- 11:03Because I think that if you offload too much of your cognitive horsepower to AI, then it's going to make it very difficult for you to improve those human intelligence skills.
- 11:13Because you're never challenged.
- 11:15Because with challenge comes change, right?
- 11:17With struggle comes strength.
- 11:18And I'm not saying no.
- 11:19I'm very pro-technology.
- 11:21But for me, AI is not artificial intelligence as much as augmented intelligence.
- 11:26It's meant to augment your superpowers.
- 11:28It's meant to magnify.
- 11:30But the challenge is, I mean, think about AI could amplify, it could scale things, but it only could scale and amplify what you bring to it, which is your human intelligence.
- 11:40Somebody could use, because AI is no longer a competitive advantage because everybody has access to it.
- 11:45Right.
- 11:45And, but it's the, it's the, it's the intelligent user that's going to get more out of it where somebody uses AI to create a social media post.
- 11:53Great.
- 11:53Or someone could use it to create the next billion dollar venture.
- 11:56It's the human intelligence that that has brought to it.
- 11:59It's, it's like, I work with a lot of athletes, a lot of F1 drivers.
- 12:03And so like that, that car, right, that, that, that multimillion dollar piece of technology is like AI.
- 12:10But a skilled driver who's had great intelligence in that context is going to get a lot more of it than I would.
- 12:17That's going to determine the performance.
- 12:19Right.
- 12:20And so my concern is that while AI could amplify and scale, it only scales what you bring it.
- 12:24And so if you are confused, you are incapable, you are chaotic, it'll amplify that.
- 12:30Right.
- 12:30Or if somebody is competent and they're clear, and it'll amplify that also as well.
- 12:35And so I feel like this will force us to really, I think one of the biggest conversations of our time is, and this is a story, is like, how do we remain deeply human in an age of AI?
- 12:48Right.
- 12:48I mean, it's just like, because AI, while it could process and give you immense amount of information, ultimately human intelligence, human beings have to determine what this information means, what of this, all this data is important, and also most importantly, what to do with it.
- 13:04Right.
- 13:04Like even if you look at GPS, GPS could tell you the fastest way to get from here to there.
- 13:10But human intelligence will tell you whether that place is even worth going to.
- 13:14Right.
- 13:15And so I and the thing is, is I know that human intelligence could be improved.
- 13:20You know, it could be trained.
- 13:21Unfortunately, in school, they don't necessarily teach you.
- 13:23They teach you what to learn.
- 13:25you know, what to think, but not how to learn how to think, right?
- 13:27There's no classes on meta-learning or metacognition or focus or flow or even memory, right?
- 13:33And so I think one of the most important things, like what separates people in terms of high performance, I think is our ability to adapt.
- 13:41Because that's the one constant is this change.
- 13:43I mean, who knows what careers are going to be around for next generation, you know, and what the world is preparing them for today.
- 13:50But what we know is the world is going to change rapidly.
- 13:53And I feel like my biggest concern is that natural intelligence becomes artificial.
- 14:00You know, I mean, it becomes commoditized because if we all if we're all kind of not using all that capability, then then everything we're producing is just derivative.
- 14:08Right.
- 14:08There's nothing special about it.
- 14:10It's just mediocre.
- 14:11And if our own intelligence is atrophying, then the output will continue to get worse and worse and worse and worse.
- 14:17Yeah, even just the basics, the stuff we teach on focus and memory and everything.
- 14:22Think about the consequence of too much information, not enough time to get through it.
- 14:26You buy books, they send it to your shelf, unread, become shelf-help, not self-help.
- 14:30That's why we teach people to read faster.
- 14:31It's a great exercise for the brain also because I think reading is true.
- 14:35I would exercise your body, and I'm a big advocate for more reading.
- 14:38Those stats are really scary, actually.
- 14:4051% of the populace will not read a book this year.
- 14:4551%, and only 16%, this just came out in The Atlantic, 16% of, only 16% of the populace across ethnicity, gender, age, are reading every day.
- 14:59Like something to, like a book, right?
- 15:02Very sad.
- 15:03And that's on a decline, and maybe because of digital, like because of all the things and options.
- 15:08All media, social media.
- 15:10We have all these technologies that are sort of converging at the same time to...
- 15:15It seems to sabotage.
- 15:17Very much so.
- 15:18And what I want to start with, though, is our agency.
- 15:21I just want to remind everybody that these are choices.
- 15:24There's a quote in Limitless, the original book, where it says, Life is the letter C between B and D, where B is birth and D is death and life C is choice.
- 15:33That our life is the sum total of all the choices we made up to this point.
- 15:36What are we going to eat?
- 15:37Where are we going to live?
- 15:38Who are we going to spend time with?
- 15:39All that stuff, right?
- 15:41And I believe these difficult times, they could define us.
- 15:43These difficult times, they could diminish us.
- 15:45They could distract us.
- 15:46Or these difficult times, they could develop us.
- 15:48We decide with the choices that we make.
- 15:50And I think that when we are engaging with technology, and again, I'm very pro-technology.
- 15:54It allowed us to connect in the first place, right?
- 15:57Then we make choices that we still do some effort, right?
- 16:00In terms of even like AI can give you great answers to the questions, but ultimately we have to ask the questions.
- 16:07And that's thinking.
- 16:08And we've been asking these prompts all our lives of ourselves, of this technology.
- 16:13But we spend more time upgrading to the newest form of AI on that platform or newest app or newest...
- 16:19iPhone or whatever, when's the last time we upgraded this technology that, you know, our minds has created everything.
- 16:25Well, it's sad because all these companies, whether or not it's, you know, Anthropic or OpenAI or all the trillion dollar social media companies, like, they are the ones that exploit our brains.
- 16:38Like, they know how to exploit our brains.
- 16:39They have huge marketing machines behind them that know how to capture our attention.
- 16:43They have an infinite amount of capital and also like you have the most, you know, the most knowledgeable behavioral scientists and everything to make things.
- 16:50So you have this individual, this person who is just trying to exist in life, trying to get through their, you know, their day and their job and they're getting constantly distracted.
- 16:58They're outsourcing their thinking.
- 17:00They're too stressed to pick up a book at the end of the day because they feel like they have too many things going on, too many fires about in their life.
- 17:06So it almost feels like a losing battle for the individual.
- 17:10Like there's a very small group of people that are reading your work, listening to your work that are, you know, trying to improve, read every single day.
- 17:18Like that's a small percentage of the population who are actively trying to fight back against social media, against outsourcing all their thinking to chat GPT and to, and to AI.
- 17:29But I want, I want to give people who feel like hopeless, like tools.
- 17:37Like what are the things that the average person can do every single day who, you know, they already have a million other things going on to make sure that they optimize their human intelligence.
- 17:46They don't let their cognition atrophy over time.
- 17:49They don't let their attention span decrease to like the, this infinite, you know, uh, whatever it is right now.
- 17:56Like, how do you, how do you fight back against all these, uh, cognitive behavioral scientists and marketing machines and unlimited capital?
- 18:03They're all trying to sort of, uh,
- 18:05take away your attention and control you to a degree.
- 18:08Yeah, and I think it starts, number one, with awareness, right?
- 18:12And so we can't change anything unless we're first consciously aware that there's something, a problem that exists, right?
- 18:19I think the second thing to remind us besides awareness is agency, that we have more influence than we think by the choices that we make.
- 18:26And so as intentional as we can be, like I find I get to work with if people are connected on social media, I get to work with some amazing high performers and CEOs and athletes and actors and politicians and everyone.
- 18:40And I think one of the traits that they have through line is they protect their attention.
- 18:46Right.
- 18:46That we live in the age of attention, meaning that, I mean, it's a currency.
- 18:50Like even think about the words that we use, we pay attention.
- 18:53Right.
- 18:54And if we had to actually pay attention, then imagine tomorrow.
- 18:59Here's a thought experiment for everyone listening.
- 19:00Imagine every single time you put your direct attention to something, you had to take out your credit card.
- 19:05or Apple Pay or something like that.
- 19:07And so every time you go on Facebook, you have to manually put in your credit card and you'd be charged by the minute or whatever.
- 19:12And then you switch over to Instagram and you pay all the same credit card and do the same thing.
- 19:15People would treat it differently, right?
- 19:17Because there is actually a cost to that.
- 19:19You know, it's every doom scroll and brain rot and everything that we're doing, you know, lowering our attention span and just our cognitive performance and sleep and everything else that comes through the effect.
- 19:29So I think being aware of the problem is very important to be able to change it.
- 19:32Like nobody's going to change their health unless they know a lot of times that there's some kind of, there's something that's pending, like some kind of disease or some kind of... And that's when I start going to the gym and that's when I start losing weight.
- 19:42That's when I start getting your health seriously.
- 19:44But the nefarious part about all this is we don't realize it.
- 19:48And that's where the awareness comes in.
- 19:50Like if people actually looked, and they know this cognitively, but knowledge by itself is not power.
- 19:54At best, it's potential power, at least power when we use it.
- 19:57But if people looked at their usage, the people say all the time they don't have time.
- 20:01But, I mean, we know we have time.
- 20:03And it's not, I realized that time is the one thing we all have equal, right?
- 20:08Nobody has, we don't all have equal income.
- 20:10We don't have equal education.
- 20:11We don't have equal network or contacts.
- 20:14What we all have is 24 hours in a day, God willing, right?
- 20:17Right.
- 20:18And so it's not even about time management.
- 20:20This is a conversation about mind management.
- 20:22It's about priority management.
- 20:24And part of the reason why people can't do all these different things is there's so many shiny objects and there's so many mechanisms for distraction by media, by marketing, and you name it, by machines now.
- 20:34And I would say that we would have the most important thing is to keep the most important thing, the most important thing.
- 20:40And I feel like high performers do that, that they keep the most important thing, the most important thing.
- 20:46And that is the most important thing.
- 20:48And so I would say it's priority management, right?
- 20:51Like if anyone here is listening to this and as an entrepreneur or anyone just going through the world, they feel burnt out.
- 20:57And a lot of times people think they're burnt out because they have too many things, right?
- 21:01And I think it's not always that's the case.
- 21:03Sometimes we're burnt out not because we're doing too much.
- 21:05Sometimes we're burnt out because we're doing too little of the things that matter, too little of the things that light us up, right?
- 21:11Too little of the things that give us high leverage, right?
- 21:14Like limitless is not about being perfect.
- 21:16Limitless is about advancing and progressing beyond what you're currently demonstrating or what you believe is possible, that we could redraw the borders and boundaries of our health, of our income, of our intelligence in every way.
- 21:26But I do think it starts with using your brain and directing your mind, because I think that's the greatest wealth that we have, because all the technology in the world that you see was created with your brain and your mind.
- 21:38And so, yes, you could upgrade that.
- 21:40And so some of the things that you could do is protect your attention.
- 21:44And then even if you're paying attention and you bring out that credit card to go on social media, how do you save and protect your attention, like put borders around it, around the things that matter?
- 21:55And also...
- 21:56Because for me, people say yes way too much.
- 21:59Like I'm here because I wanted to be here and I appreciate the opportunity.
- 22:02So I'm fully here even after long flights and, you know, crazy.
- 22:05New York traffic.
- 22:06Yeah, all that kind of stuff.
- 22:08But like for me, my filter is if it doesn't help me grow, glow or flow, I say no.
- 22:12Right.
- 22:13right then so i say no a lot but a lot of people struggle with fomo meaning they feel that fear of missing out right but i feel like we could do anything but we can't do everything and so i think it's important to say no and then it's just like good to great right you say no to good and so you say yes it's a great jim collins work um i quote a lot of books that people have seen the photos of me with when or bill gates or elon or oprah we it was how we bonded we bonded over books because you read to succeed right leaders are readers
- 22:40And I would say, like, even that, they protect their attention and also they engage.
- 22:44I'll give you one thing out of the new book that when I was doing research for it, Limitless, I wrote in six weeks, you know, and I don't know, you know, it did well.
- 22:54A couple million copies sold the last few years.
- 22:56And we donate all the proceeds to charity.
- 22:59We built schools in Ghana, Guatemala, Kenya, Alzheimer's research for women.
- 23:02in memory of my grandmother.
- 23:04So, you know, I think you learn to earn to return.
- 23:07This book, though, took over a year because it's a daily book, and I wrote one passage a day.
- 23:12And my goal for it is, and here's the tip that I feel like if people just listen to this, this will transform their lives or their business.
- 23:21When I say high performers, they protect their attention.
- 23:25There's a specific window that's especially important.
- 23:28So when you wake up in the morning, when I was doing research for this book, it's not just what I wanted them to read.
- 23:32You know, I wrote this book to help people with distraction, with overload, with burnout, with fear of failure, with imposter syndrome, with anything that would...
- 23:41we keep them from winning that day, right?
- 23:43And the other thing is, it's when you read it.
- 23:47So when you wake up, there's something called sleep inertia.
- 23:50And sleep inertia is where you transition from that sleeping state to the waking state.
- 23:54And certain cognitive functions come online.
- 23:56Your awareness comes online.
- 23:57Your alertness comes online.
- 23:59Your attention comes online, right?
- 24:01And in that transition of sleep inertia, the mental inputs, the inputs you put into your nervous system and in that window when you first wake up,
- 24:10has a disproportionate effect on the rest of your day.
- 24:13So this is interesting, specifically on your focus for the rest of the day.
- 24:18Like what you see first thing in the morning or think about first thing in the morning is in effect what you focus on later that day, disproportionately.
- 24:25Also how you feel throughout the day.
- 24:27Like you pick up your phone in that window, right?
- 24:30And you get a message and it puts you in a mood for...
- 24:33maybe a bad mood for hours, right?
- 24:35And that's all just coded in at the beginning.
- 24:36Yeah, in the beginning, and I'll tell you why.
- 24:38And the third thing, not only does it affect your focus disproportionately, what you're going to focus on, what you're going to feel the rest of the day, but it also gets your mental input in that window will disproportionately affect how you frame the day.
- 24:49Meaning you're at work and these conversations or a situation comes up, you might see it as an opportunity or depending on that input, maybe you're seeing it as a crisis.
- 24:59Right.
- 24:59And so that that's a huge leverage point, because while time is limited, your leverage is limitless.
- 25:05And I'm always looking for those those force multipliers.
- 25:08And it's protecting that window.
- 25:10That's why in that window, meet people that, you know, they maybe they're doing it for something more apparently.
- 25:16There's prayer in that window.
- 25:17So that's going to magnify or gratitude.
- 25:20Because that will affect what you're going to focus on later that day and how you feel the rest of the day and how you frame situations that you might not appreciate when you are doing those exercises.
- 25:29Or some people could visualize their goals and the things that they want to rehearse to be great that day.
- 25:36right and so that's why it's so important so I designed Limitless Daily as you read one passage a day like Daily Stoic but instead of pulling from Stoicism we pull on science the science of the mind so every entry has I rather reference psychology or science of the brain which is neuroscience in terms of why that works and so that use that prime and the other thing is when I said the reading you know where people aren't reading as much and I think that's it's so important to be able to read like if someone has decades of experience they put into a book
- 26:05And somebody can sit down and read that book in a few days.
- 26:07They can download decades of wisdom into days.
- 26:10I mean, there's no greater advantage than that in terms of fast tracking your success.
- 26:15And so I feel like people will change their identity and also seeing themselves as a reader.
- 26:20They wake up.
- 26:21And the thing is, you can't start a new habit without you get to replace something else.
- 26:24Right.
- 26:25And the thing you want to replace is touching your phone.
- 26:27Right.
- 26:29I saw my Facebook memories nine years ago.
- 26:31Simon Sinek and I have a video on there.
- 26:34Someone spliced it together, it has 38 million views.
- 26:36And it's just me saying, don't touch your phone the first 30 minutes a day and last 30 minutes a day.
- 26:41You want to protect your peace.
- 26:42And I always have this mantra, it's mind before media.
- 26:47Mind before media.
- 26:48Control your mind first thing in the morning before you open up media.
- 26:52When you pick up your phone and nobody would invite
- 26:55first thing in the morning, invite 200 strangers into your bedroom to talk about whatever the heck they want to talk about.
- 26:59All the problems in the world.
- 27:00That would be absolutely insane.
- 27:02But it's kind of like what we're doing, right, with our devices as we're scrolling through it first thing in the morning.
- 27:06And some people do that.
- 27:07Or they're doing it late at night, right?
- 27:09And I have this general rule.
- 27:11I was talking to somebody the other day that just they do this bedrod scrolling at night.
- 27:16And they justify it.
- 27:18And I totally get it.
- 27:19There's no judgment.
- 27:20People want to do that all day.
- 27:21Who am I to say, you know, don't do that?
- 27:24but they'll go on there because they had a hard day and this is their time to relax.
- 27:27That's all they'll say.
- 27:28And they'll go through and then two hours will pass.
- 27:31And I was just saying, that's interesting.
- 27:33And they have problems sleeping and all this other stuff.
- 27:35I'm like, wow, surprise.
- 27:36Not just the blue light, but all that stimulation, emotion, everything from the post.
- 27:41And I'm like, hey, how about this?
- 27:43You stay up an extra two hours when you're complaining you're tired.
- 27:46I wouldn't do anything.
- 27:48I wouldn't stay up any later for an activity that I wouldn't wake up two hours earlier to do.
- 27:52Of course.
- 27:52Like you wouldn't wake up at like, if you normally get up at six, you wouldn't get up at four and start like scrolling.
- 27:57No, that would be absolutely crazy.
- 27:58But it's kind of like what we're doing at night where we're spending an extra two hours doing something we wouldn't wake up two hours earlier to do.
- 28:03Right?
- 28:04But these are choices.
- 28:05And a lot of the work is taking like the unconscious and making it conscious.
- 28:09Because how are you going to change it unless you're aware that you're doing it?
- 28:12But these are choices we're making or we're just, they say Duke University came out with a study saying 40% of our behavior each day is...
- 28:20is unconscious it's habitual we're not even thinking about it because we're just defaulting to it and i feel like if you want to like by design and not default there has to be an intentionality behind it that we're doing things by choice conscious choice until it becomes that becomes a new routine or habit
- 28:36Plod is a success story partner.
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- 28:40This is the AI-powered device that captures your conversations, turns them into transcripts, summaries, action items.
- 28:45And I wanted to come back to it because I keep finding new ways that this thing is incredibly useful.
- 28:49Last week, I sat down with a potential sponsor at a coffee shop.
- 28:53And we're going back and forth on deliverables, timelines, pricing, a lot of details and a lot of numbers.
- 28:58And normally after a conversation like that, I'd open my notes app on my phone.
- 29:02I try to write everything down.
- 29:03I remembered and I'd probably get about 70% of it, but the other 30% would be gone.
- 29:09Usually the small details that end up mattering a lot later.
- 29:12But this time with their permission, I had the note pin S on my shirt and I honestly forgot it was even there.
- 29:18So after the meeting, I opened up my plot app and everything was already laid out the full transcripts.
- 29:22a clear summary, the key numbers we discussed, and the follow-ups I'd agree to.
- 29:26And I could even ask Plod, what pricing did we discuss?
- 29:29Or what were my next steps?
- 29:30And it pulls up the answer right away.
- 29:32I didn't have to reconstruct the conversation from memory.
- 29:34And that's the part that I keep coming back to.
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- 30:18Now I want to tell you something that happened to me recently that I think a lot of you will relate to.
- 30:22I was trying to send a quote to a client and this should be simple, right?
- 30:26Except the pricing was in one tool and the contact info was in another tool.
- 30:30And the last conversation that we had was in a third tool.
- 30:33And then I spent something like 20 minutes pulling it all together for one quote.
- 30:37And that's the thing.
- 30:38Each tool works fine on its own.
- 30:41The problem is that they don't talk to each other.
- 30:43So you become the person connecting everything.
- 30:46You become the integration.
- 30:47You're the one copying numbers between tabs and making sure everything matches.
- 30:51But that's what Odoo fixes.
- 30:53It puts everything on one platform.
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- 31:04When something happens in one place, every other place already knows about it.
- 31:09So you're not updating three systems every time you close a deal.
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- 31:25Links in the show notes.
- 31:26My fitness pal is a success story partner.
- 31:28So people always ask me how I have time to track what I eat.
- 31:31Daily podcast, newsletter.
- 31:33I run a full marketing agency.
- 31:34My days are super full.
- 31:35And honestly, that's exactly why I do it.
- 31:37See, when you're running that many things, you can't afford to have your energy be inconsistent.
- 31:42Food is a foundation for energy, for sleep, for your weight, for recovery, for performance.
- 31:47And the days that I'm not paying attention to it, I feel it.
- 31:50The MyFitnessPal app makes tracking what you eat a non-issue.
- 31:53It removes all the friction.
- 31:54I just say what I ate.
- 31:55I can voice log it and it's done.
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- 32:01I'm not sitting around entering ingredients.
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- 32:04And it connects with over 40 fitness apps and wearables.
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- 32:27Well, I think that's why your work and, you know, Limitless Daily and Limitless, it's some of the most important work that people can read.
- 32:34It was important six, seven years ago.
- 32:36It's even more important now when even more technology is hijacking our day-to-day.
- 32:40And we just keep, we seemingly keep accumulating all of these unconscious negative habits.
- 32:45We don't seem to accidentally pick up good new habits.
- 32:48So I think that, you know, you read this every single day.
- 32:52You pick up something that's new that's going to improve your life.
- 32:54It's going to help you architect a life by design.
- 32:57that's getting harder to do without a little bit of instruction and a little bit of awareness.
- 33:01Like we all want to live a great life, but again, we've sort of gone over this, but with social media, it's becoming increasingly more difficult.
- 33:09And everything is really, if we aren't conscious of it, we sort of default to moving in the wrong direction.
- 33:17And that's scary.
- 33:19It is, because there's a big consequence to that, right?
- 33:22It's just like if we're unconscious about...
- 33:25Any habit.
- 33:25If people are smoking or they're eating junk food all the time or they're not moving, there's a consequence over time.
- 33:30But what I'm talking about is mentally.
- 33:33Even when we talk about that sleep inertia first thing in the morning, nobody would wake up and just eat 12 cupcakes first thing in the morning.
- 33:39Because that's what it's going to do.
- 33:40It's going to disproportionately affect your focus throughout the day, your feeling throughout the day.
- 33:45you know, and how you frame the day, you know, with all that.
- 33:48But it's kind of like food is information, but so is, like, where we're feeding our mind.
- 33:52Like, and going back to reading, I would rather go a day without eating than a day without reading.
- 33:58That's how important it is to me.
- 33:59Now, I love food, right?
- 34:00And we have to eat food.
- 34:02So I'm not even suggesting, I don't want that to be clipped out and be like, oh, that's a thing.
- 34:06But I would say that, like, it's...
- 34:09Like nobody goes a couple of days and they're like, oh, it's just too busy to eat the past couple of days.
- 34:14Right.
- 34:14But people go days without reading something that can enrich their life.
- 34:18And I'm just saying reading is to your mind what exercises your body.
- 34:21People ask all the time, like, what's the best app or brain exercise?
- 34:24I'm telling you reading.
- 34:25Reading is that.
- 34:26Besides the fact that reading something actually builds your focus and where we're so short in our attention because of TikTok and everything else.
- 34:34And we use it.
- 34:35We use it.
- 34:35I mean, we have this all in our, you know, in our platform also as well.
- 34:39But the challenge is it's training us to have a very short attention span and reading is a wonderful way to grow your attention span.
- 34:46And where does that show up?
- 34:47When you're with your kids, you know, when you're in the investor meeting, when you're doing sales, you know, having holding that, having...
- 34:53strong focus muscles, you know, where you give folk a focus at will.
- 34:57Also reading besides that, it's a novelty.
- 34:59Like they did a study for longevity and it was on the cover of Time magazine.
- 35:03Some people might have seen it.
- 35:04It's with these nuns that were living like 80, 90 and above.
- 35:07And they wanted to find out what was the key to their longevity.
- 35:10They said half of it was their emotional faith, their gratitude.
- 35:13But the other half, they were lifelong learners.
- 35:15They're always reading.
- 35:16They're having spirited knowledge.
- 35:17uh, debate and discourse and everything.
- 35:19Um, and they're keeping their minds active and because it added years to their life and not only that, but it added life to their years.
- 35:25They called the study, uh, aging with grace.
- 35:27But I think there's so many benefits to reading and not just, uh, nonfiction reading, fiction reading too.
- 35:33So I'm, I, I actually read more fiction reading now than I do or biographies.
- 35:38Then I do non-creativity and.
- 35:40Creativity, imagination, EQ, empathy, and storytelling, your ability to sit and see something from another point of view, which also increases your cognitive flexibility, which is so very important.
- 35:51Like, you know, like reading is like mental parkour.
- 35:53And I also like reading things outside your industry.
- 35:56Like, I think that's one of the keys to innovation.
- 35:58You know, like, so what is AI not going to easily replace as more human that we should lean into?
- 36:03Curiosity, creativity, critical thinking, emotional intelligence, understanding, meaning and purpose, adaptability.
- 36:10you know, learnability, our ability to learn, to unlearn, to relearn, our ability to create social bonds and connection.
- 36:16Like AI could feign empathy, right?
- 36:19But it's not.
- 36:19But it hasn't, it's never consoled like a grieving child or had to give forgiveness or, you know, or sit in the mud with somebody who's been through a hard day, you know.
- 36:31So it could feign it, but I feel like the human qualities are going to have to, are going to evolve.
- 36:37that we're going to, by necessity, because we can't compete with AI in the categories that they're strong in, that we're going to have to lean into those categories, our critical thinking, our judgment, meaning, purpose.
- 36:49How do we use AI as a tool and not let it sort of hurt our thinking ability, our cognition?
- 36:57What's the way to use it properly?
- 36:59So you could use your AI to enhance your HI.
- 37:01And so there was a whole chapter in Limitless Expanded where I talk about how to use AI to enhance your HI.
- 37:06Because everything we teach, all the principles of accelerated learning, like, you know, so people see me on stage, I'll memorize 100 people's names or anything else like that.
- 37:14But a lot of people who have seen me before know I had a traumatic brain injury, I had learning disabilities, I have Alzheimer's in the family.
- 37:20I couldn't read for three years as a kid.
- 37:22So my teachers would have been surprised if I ever read a book, much less wrote books.
- 37:27But it's interesting that your struggles become strengths.
- 37:30And I just want to honor anyone who's listening or watching that's going through a tough time right now.
- 37:35I commend them for their grit and their grace.
- 37:38And with struggles come that strength.
- 37:41That adversity can be an advantage.
- 37:44Scott, do you need one strong person that had an easy life?
- 37:47Never.
- 37:47Never.
- 37:47No, right?
- 37:48So adversity, and that's the thing.
- 37:50It's just like, I did a talk for the family office.
- 37:53There was 44 billionaires in the room.
- 37:55And it's like, you know, then we're talking about generational wealth, like where the wealth came from, and then what the second generation looks like, and the third generation, and what happens to that wealth.
- 38:03You know, and maybe part of it is the mindset.
- 38:05And part of it is they didn't, you know, the people who created the original wealth, the first generation, you know, the other ones didn't have to.
- 38:12Right.
- 38:12Because they had it really easy.
- 38:14And, you know, and so I think it's very important.
- 38:15And, you know, we had on our we have a podcast and, you know, on YouTube and we had Michael Easter on and talking about comfort crisis and deliberate discomfort.
- 38:26And learning is deliberate discomfort any more than doing deadlifts or deliberate discomfort.
- 38:31Right.
- 38:31Or saunas, deliberate discomfort.
- 38:33But notice like.
- 38:35I talk about in Limitless Daily, because it's interesting because I mentioned, I haven't shared this before, but I'm 53 and I have a three-year-old and a one-year-old.
- 38:46So I started really late.
- 38:48So it's really, you know, so I'm a different phase of 34 years of my career.
- 38:51And now, you know, I feel like I've grown mostly.
- 38:54Right.
- 38:54Thank you.
- 38:55I've grown mostly in my, I feel like the biggest growth I've had is, you know, my personal relationship, like with my wife is big growth, right?
- 39:05And it's mid relationship where, you know, the person's like a mirror for all your like weaknesses and insecurities, everything.
- 39:10Number two, entrepreneurship, big growth, right?
- 39:14In order for your business to grow, you have to grow.
- 39:17especially when everything's on your shoulder and payroll and job all this responsibility.
- 39:21And now as a father, you know, a fairly new father, it's just big growth, right?
- 39:26And so when my daughter was born, she's one and a half now, we're in the hospital.
- 39:32And one of the things I've always done
- 39:35is I write every morning.
- 39:36You know, I have this process of not task switching, because I think multitasking is a myth.
- 39:41We actually have, we actually, it's, we're task switching, right?
- 39:44It takes up more time.
- 39:45When we're multitasking, we make more mistakes, like texting and driving, we're having more accidents.
- 39:49And also, we use a lot of more energy when we go from one task to another.
- 39:53And so people have brain fog or mental fatigue.
- 39:55Sometimes they're doing too much at the same time.
- 39:58So I have a way of saying,
- 40:01segmenting my day as much as possible it's never perfect where i create in the morning i consume in the afternoon i clear at night and uh i so create in the morning i'm writing right i'm i'm doing and i'm scripting a podcast and just like every all that uh in the afternoon is what i'm consuming i'll listen to podcasts i'll read books i'll go through all the research i'll prepare for a podcast interview and then at night i want to clear
- 40:27Meaning that when I'm creating, I'm pulling out.
- 40:29When including, I'm pulling in.
- 40:31When I'm clearing, I'm just like resetting.
- 40:34And so, because I'm going to sleep, right?
- 40:36So everyone, I think it's important, like whatever, you know, I'll talk to my wife and it's kind of like talking about my day and it's like me clearing.
- 40:42Or I'll journal and I'm clearing.
- 40:44Or I'll plan out my day for the next day and I'm clearing.
- 40:46or yoga nidra or some kind of, and it's just clearing, right?
- 40:49So I could just sleep.
- 40:50And so I do that.
- 40:51So every morning I write for as long as I can remember.
- 40:53And I always just write, you know, whatever's on my mind, maybe some gratitude, maybe some things I want to do today or something that was on my mind.
- 40:59But when my daughter was born and I was in the hospital, I was looking at her.
- 41:03And because I am in my 50s, I'm just thinking about, like,
- 41:07If I wasn't here when she's older, you know, what kind of words I want to give her, you know, as I'm watching her in her mother's arms.
- 41:13And I started writing to her.
- 41:16And, God, you're emotional.
- 41:17I haven't talked about this.
- 41:18I started writing to her as if I wasn't there, like how to get to a hard day.
- 41:25And then the next day I started doing the same thing for her and her three-year-old brother.
- 41:30And for them to be when they're older.
- 41:32And things that either I was going through or clients are going through or just things that our community is going through.
- 41:38And so I started writing passages on what to do when you can't focus or what you want to do when you don't believe in yourself or what to do when you have a fear of looking bad or failing or trying something new or you're burning out or you feel like you're an imposter or imposter syndrome.
- 41:54And then after doing that for a few months, I was like, wow, this is a...
- 41:59This would have been a great book.
- 42:01And I started putting the science behind every single one of these entries.
- 42:03So every page is written, you know, in an inspiring way with a new idea, with a small two-minute implementation thing you could do to create momentum, and then a new identity statement.
- 42:14Those four I's, inspiration, ideation, implementation, and a new identity statement.
- 42:19And then we invite people where they can join like this for free.
- 42:24So they'll part of it as part of the book.
- 42:25This companion where they actually get an email or a text with an intention about that passage.
- 42:33Like a question to direct yourself to focus on throughout the day that makes that passage come alive.
- 42:38and it's my, I get goosebumps.
- 42:39I call them truth bumps, but it's, it was the biggest thing when people read limitless, it was like an order's manual for your brain.
- 42:45It was like, well, I don't even know where to start with this memory.
- 42:47You speak like all this stuff.
- 42:48And I was like, here, two minutes, three minutes a day.
- 42:50First thing in the morning, replace your phone time, do this.
- 42:53And, uh, cause it's one page to, to win the day.
- 42:57And then you win enough days.
- 42:59And then I think you win life.
- 43:00That's what I wanted.
- 43:01That's exactly what I wanted.
- 43:02I wanted that because, and this is why, like, I mean, I love how you wrote this book.
- 43:08I think that we are in an age, it's interesting.
- 43:10It's interesting.
- 43:14our attention is getting hijacked by all these different tools and platforms and whatnot.
- 43:18But on the other end of the spectrum, a lot of people that listen to some of our work who are actively trying to improve themselves.
- 43:24It's like, it's not the majority, it's the minority of people that are constantly trying to read and podcast and do like, we're used to it, but it is a smaller group of people
- 43:34compared to the general population.
- 43:36But these people have a different problem.
- 43:37They have too much information, and they don't know where to start.
- 43:40So it's almost like it's become a, it's almost like a hobby to collect information and more podcasts and more books, and we don't actually do anything with it.
- 43:51Which is like the wrong way to do it.
- 43:54So I even find myself sometimes, I buy new books.
- 43:58I don't read them all like you mentioned before.
- 44:00They're not self-help, they're self-help.
- 44:03But this is, I think, in our busy lives for high-performing people, which a lot of us, especially people who are listening to this podcast are,
- 44:10We need simple.
- 44:11We need what to do today.
- 44:14It would be nice if we all had the luxury of reading an entire book and revamping our entire life and doing nothing for the next two months but figuring out how to improve our focus and attention and cognition.
- 44:26But it's not the reality for the executive or the entrepreneur or it's not.
- 44:31Yeah, I really feel like success doesn't come from just one breakthrough.
- 44:36It comes from consistent and like literally little by little because consistency compounds, right?
- 44:42Like if you're persistent, you could achieve it.
- 44:44If you're persistent, you can lose that weight.
- 44:45You can make, you know, a million dollars or whatever.
- 44:48But if you're consistent, you get to keep it.
- 44:50And so I feel like consistency will beat intensity all the time because little by little, little becomes a lot.
- 44:56And so even if people feel overwhelmed by too much information, because that's the thing.
- 45:01We all have access to AI.
- 45:02That's no longer an advantage.
- 45:03We all have access to everything.
- 45:04bit of information that's ever, you know, been known nowadays.
- 45:07So that's no longer a better advantage.
- 45:09So I think that the sharpest mental performers are going to ones that could be able to filter through the noise, find out the signal, the things that matter most to them.
- 45:17And that's human intelligence, our judgment, right?
- 45:20Our ability to use logic, our ability to prioritize, to find out what's most important in this moment.
- 45:26And I also think part of it is also creating an identity that you're not doing mental masturbation.
- 45:33You get no points.
- 45:34Somebody who reads a book, outside the benefits of reading, like the mental exercise, somebody who buys a book, reads it, and doesn't implement anything from that book, their life is no better off than somebody who's illiterate.
- 45:48who couldn't even read the book to begin with.
- 45:50Because the truth is that nobody wants to talk about, and I'm glad we're having this conversation, is that none of the podcast courses, books, teachers, mentors, none of it works unless we work.
- 46:03And I have a general rule.
- 46:04For every hour I spend learning something, I spend an hour applying it.
- 46:07At least a time we have to do it.
- 46:09And then I think our greatest asset that we have for that is our calendars.
- 46:14Like, you know, if it's not scheduled, like people are scheduling their, their investor meetings or sales calls, their team calls, their workouts, even maybe, you know, and maybe they're even scheduling their personal growth.
- 46:25Like I'm going to read for 15 minutes a day.
- 46:27They do.
- 46:28But they're not scheduling their, the application time.
- 46:31You know, when are they going to actually use it?
- 46:33Like I would even, a dominant question I would say that even when you're listening to this episode or reading or studying something for your growth or your business, your brain, your body, whatever, your bank account, is ask yourself, be obsessed with this question.
- 46:45How can I use this?
- 46:46Until it becomes second nature.
- 46:47Put it, like write it in your book.
- 46:49Put it on a post-it.
- 46:50Put it on your phone.
- 46:51Like how can I use this?
- 46:52Every conversation, how can I use it?
- 46:54I'll actually give you three things to ask.
- 46:56to take knowledge and turn it into real power.
- 46:59Be obsessed by asking yourself when you're learning something deliberately, how can I use this?
- 47:03Why must I use it?
- 47:05And then when will I use this?
- 47:07Because it has to go from your head to your heart, to your hands.
- 47:10If you visualize KPI or goals in your head, you're not acting with your hands, you're procrastinating, you're putting it off, check in with the second H, which is your heart, right?
- 47:17Because without reasons, you won't get results, period.
- 47:20And you have to feel it, right?
- 47:22And so people always look at the cost of a $30 book
- 47:26or a course, or a coaching program, or going to a conference, whatever.
- 47:29I don't... That's the price.
- 47:30The cost is really... What if it would have worked and you didn't do it?
- 47:36You know, what's the cost of saying the same?
- 47:38Because...
- 47:40life is uncomfortable for one of two reasons.
- 47:42Either you're leaving your comfort zone, you're starting that business, you're having that difficult conversation, you know, you're talking to that person you're attracted to, whatever, right?
- 47:50Or life is difficult because you're staying in your comfort zone.
- 47:52Like, that's very, very, very difficult.
- 47:54Because while the comfort zone is a nice place to visit, nothing grows there.
- 47:58Right.
- 47:58So we need that struggle.
- 47:59We need to be able to face certain things because if it was easy, then everyone would do it.
- 48:03And the truth is nobody wants to hear when we're talking about just learning something as opposed to applying.
- 48:07You can't be upset by the results you didn't get from the work you didn't do.
- 48:11If we're just going to be really straight up with people and we call people on their BS, their belief systems, you can't be upset.
- 48:17We can't complain.
- 48:18And sure, we all have stories.
- 48:20Like, my parents immigrated here.
- 48:22I didn't speak the language.
- 48:24You know, we lived in the back of a laundromat.
- 48:26We had no money.
- 48:27Like, we all have...
- 48:28I had a brain injury when I was five years old.
- 48:30I was put in special education.
- 48:31Like, we all have stories.
- 48:32You had every excuse to not succeed.
- 48:35And mine is just parallel to everybody else.
- 48:36And some people have a way worse, right?
- 48:38Like, but I'm saying that we all have reasons to say that we are in this situation.
- 48:42And...
- 48:44So what?
- 48:45Like nothing changes because literally, because then we waste all, you know what changes?
- 48:48We waste all that time, all that energy.
- 48:50People who are listening to us complain probably don't even care or they're maybe even happy that we're going through it and it's not them or whatever.
- 48:56But we're all like, and when we can put that energy, that focus into something that would make us better.
- 49:01Right.
- 49:01And so I feel like, you know, the goal here is like, here's another truth that I talk about in the book.
- 49:08Like.
- 49:09Change can be scary.
- 49:11Because that's true, right?
- 49:12Our amygdala is firing because it's unknown.
- 49:14We're reacting like a saber to tiger, but it's not our survival.
- 49:18But, you know, doing something new is unknown, right?
- 49:20And so change can be scary.
- 49:22Growth can be hard, right?
- 49:24You have to feed your business until it feeds you back, right?
- 49:26It's hard.
- 49:26But nothing is as scary and hard as being stuck somewhere you don't belong.
- 49:30Right?
- 49:31And I feel like until people get to that point in their life, then they're not going to make big, consistent changes because they don't have the reason.
- 49:38So I would say when you're learning something, listen to this podcast.
- 49:41Ask yourself, how can I use this?
- 49:44How does this relate to what I know?
- 49:47Is this true?
- 49:48Use your critical thinking.
- 49:50Why must I use this?
- 49:51So you feel it.
- 49:53And my thing is I would do more for people I care about than I'll ever do for myself.
- 49:56So a big motivation for me is who's counting on me to be at my best today?
- 50:02Who's counting on me to apply what I'm learning right now?
- 50:05Who's depending on me to do that?
- 50:06And that gives me a lot of reasons.
- 50:08Even when I'm exhausted, I'm on three continents in a week speaking.
- 50:11Who's in this audience needs to hear this came just for this?
- 50:16Right.
- 50:16And I'll show up for that.
- 50:18And so that the reasons will get you the results in your life.
- 50:22And then the other reason why people don't apply is either they don't have purpose.
- 50:26They don't have the energy, which is why I say the best brain, the stuff we talked about last episode, the best brain foods, how to optimize your sleep, how to reduce your stress, which takes up a lot of energy.
- 50:34how to exercise for more energy and so on.
- 50:37And then somebody can have a limitless purpose to let everyone think about something you're putting off.
- 50:42All right, let's make this really practical.
- 50:44What should you do, but you're not doing it?
- 50:47And your future self hates you because you keep on giving that responsibility to them.
- 50:51And so like, what's your purpose?
- 50:54How does it make you feel if you're here to do it?
- 50:56Are you optimizing your energy?
- 50:57Because sometimes some people, if you're exhausted, you're not going to work out.
- 51:00You're not going to follow through, right?
- 51:01If you ate a big processed meal or you didn't sleep for a few days, you know, because of whatever stress, then you're not going to be able to do that hard thing.
- 51:09And then finally, the third thing, sometimes people don't do it because they have no purpose that they feel.
- 51:13Maybe they don't have the energy.
- 51:14And the third reason people don't follow through is because that thing is too big.
- 51:17Because it's too abstract and you have to break it down.
- 51:20And I always say S3, small, simple steps.
- 51:22And how do you find your S3?
- 51:24Whenever you feel stuck or you feel stalled, ask yourself this question.
- 51:28I asked myself this question a dozen times today.
- 51:30What is the tiniest action I could take right now that will give me progress towards this goal where I can't fail?
- 51:35What is the tiniest action I could take?
- 51:37So let's say your takeaway, how can I use this?
- 51:40Oh, I'm committing to read 30 minutes a day.
- 51:42Okay, but that's too big of a jump for somebody who doesn't read, right?
- 51:45Because they're not part of 16% that read every single day.
- 51:49They're part of the 84%.
- 51:49So I'm saying, okay, then small, simple step was a tiny section you could take that would be progress as a goal where you can't fail.
- 51:56Can we all open up a book?
- 51:57That's a tiny step, right?
- 51:59Can we all read one line, right?
- 52:01You can't get your kids or family member to like floss their teeth.
- 52:03Can you get them to floss one tooth?
- 52:04Nobody's going to stop with one tooth, right?
- 52:06Like you can't get, you know, exercise as your body moves, your brain grooves.
- 52:10So good for your brain.
- 52:11You create brain-derived neurotropic factors like fertilizer for neuroplasticity.
- 52:15When you exercise, you create earned dopamine, serotonin, endorphins, right?
- 52:20And that's where it happens.
- 52:21But that small, simple step, by taking a small action, then you get the dopamine that you earn.
- 52:25But we live in this dopamine situation where we get dopamine from not earning anything.
- 52:30We could doom scroll, you could binge watch, you could go on a website, you could snack, and you get this dopamine, and you don't have to do anything, right?
- 52:38And so dopamine is a molecule of motivation.
- 52:40By doing a small, simple step, like you can't work out, put on your running shoes.
- 52:45You know, what's the hardest piece of equipment, you know, in the gym?
- 52:48The front door.
- 52:48Just get through the front door, right?
- 52:50Like small, simple step.
- 52:51And then you earn the dopamine and that molecule will keep you moving, right?
- 52:56So many people think like I need motivation to do this action.
- 52:59No, you need to take a small action so you get the dopamine that will give you more motivation.
- 53:03It's created a little bit of a flywheel towards...
- 53:05Completely, right?
- 53:06But my whole thing with Limitless is that when you understand how your brain works, you can work your brain better.
- 53:11Like this stuff should have been like back in school 101.
- 53:15But it's like going to somebody, even when we do memory training and stuff like that, some great memory tips daily in here too, in Limitless Daily.
- 53:25But if you look at like somebody in your team, memorize this, study this.
- 53:28That's like going to somebody saying, play the ukulele.
- 53:31who's never been to any training on how to play the ukulele, but where's the classes on focus and flow and all these other areas when they should have been taught in school?
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- 57:00I think the last thing too that I always try and remind people is to give yourself grace when you're trying to change your life.
- 57:07Like this is 366 days of lessons that you can...
- 57:12apply to your life.
- 57:14But keep in mind it took you 20, 30, 40, 50, 60 years to build a life full of negative habits that you have right now.
- 57:21So yes, be urgent about it, take action, but also give yourself a little bit of grace in the process.
- 57:27And studies done in self-compassion, because there are a couple entries on here also.
- 57:31We break it down by seasons, winter, spring, summer, and fall.
- 57:34Because I didn't want to do all a month of January as focus.
- 57:39And February is all motivation because after a few days you'll be like, okay, I got it.
- 57:45So we break it into seasons because we all go through a winter, the spring and summer and fall where we're reaping through business, those same business cycles also.
- 57:53So I love the way, even on the cover, if you're watching this video, it's in purple.
- 57:57And I don't know how many books you have on your shelf, but I guarantee you, you can't count more than on one hand how many purple books you have.
- 58:04I have a lot of books.
- 58:05I don't have any purple books.
- 58:06And it's not for branding.
- 58:07I did it for branding.
- 58:09I did it for who you become.
- 58:11Purple and color psychology.
- 58:12And I don't know how much white I put into this, but purple has long been associated with sovereignty and wisdom.
- 58:18And that's what I want people to have.
- 58:19Sovereignty, like you are the pilot of your life, not the passenger.
- 58:23You're the author of your life, right?
- 58:25It's just the reader and that sovereignty and wisdom is just like usable knowledge that's been garnered through experience, right, and that you want to be able to pass on.
- 58:34Purple also, because I want people to read this first thing in the morning.
- 58:38If you look at the sky when it's transitioning from, you know, when it's purely dark to the sunrise, the sky is often very purple.
- 58:45Also, purple...
- 58:47that for thousands of years purple was the most rare color to bake because in Mediterranean, around the Mediterranean, they would have to find these snail shells and extract.
- 58:57It was such a tedious process.
- 58:59That's why it was associated with royalty.
- 59:00Yeah.
- 59:01Because it was so rare.
- 59:02Exactly.
- 59:02So I wanted people to remind people how rare it is for people to be intentional about their own life.
- 59:07But it is still available to us, you know, as sovereignty as we have, that we don't have to give up our sovereignty to our devices and to other people.
- 59:15Like, I think a big part of this book and just even the shared work that we do is about transcendence.
- 59:23Part of the work is about transcend, ending the trance, right?
- 59:26This mass hypnosis, the marketing or media that we're broken, we're not enough, we need to be, well, all this stuff, right?
- 59:31That we're limited and everything else like that.
- 59:34Or self-hypnosis, the stuff that we're telling ourself.
- 59:36I'm not that smart.
- 59:37I'm just too old.
- 59:38I'm not, you know, I'm a great member, whatever it happens to be.
- 59:41Because your mind is always eavesdropping on your self-talk.
- 59:44So I'm just saying first thing in the morning, takeaways are like mind before media, right?
- 59:49Like, you know, intention before interference, direction before distraction, right?
- 59:54This is just common things just to, because also when you wake up in the morning, so it's called attentional priming.
- 59:59When you're using that window, sleep inertia, you're attentional priming.
- 1:00:03And whatever you're priming first thing in that morning will determine what you're going to see more that day.
- 1:00:07in terms of feelings and focus and how you frame the day.
- 1:00:10And again, because that's such a magnifying effect, disproportionate, I would say like, you know, I have a morning routine video that has like 10 million views, everything else like that.
- 1:00:18I was doing all this stuff before I had kids.
- 1:00:19I'm like, okay, now my morning routine is like 12 minutes.
- 1:00:22Because this is like realistic, I can do it anywhere, I don't need any equipment, it doesn't cost a penny to do, I can even do it with my three-year-old son.
- 1:00:31And I just try to get the four elements.
- 1:00:35Part of what I wrote in Limitless Daily was in Greece, and there's some ancient memory techniques that we talked about in previous episodes.
- 1:00:41I want to know what people did before printing presses, how they remember things, how they passed on history, and through parables and stories and everything.
- 1:00:49Um, you know, so, but it was there also in ancient Greek times, Babylonian times, everyone would think that everything was made of four elements, air, fire, water, and earth.
- 1:00:58Like that was the magic of everything.
- 1:01:00And so my, my morning routine outside of when I first wake up and, and, and, you know, do my prayers, read this.
- 1:01:06And then I just want to get those four elements in my body.
- 1:01:09So I go outside and I have the sun, right.
- 1:01:12which helps you reset your circadian rhythm because your eyes are only part of your brain that's outside.
- 1:01:15You'll sleep better at night, you know, not through a window because that could filter out certain spectrums of light.
- 1:01:20Even if it's foggy or hazy, you'll still get benefit out of it.
- 1:01:22So the sun is fire.
- 1:01:23I'm barefoot, you know, I'm on the grass, so I get the electron transfer.
- 1:01:26I could talk about the science of that, but I get earth, right?
- 1:01:30And then what I do, I do some deep breathing.
- 1:01:32And people have their Wim Hof or fire breathing or alpha breathing or box breathing, whatever it is.
- 1:01:36because it's just a great way of clearing, you know, getting, you know, fresh air into your body.
- 1:01:41You know, a lot of people have mental fog because they're not breathing because their posture is broken down.
- 1:01:45That the lower one-third of your lungs absorbs two-thirds of the oxygen, but even when we're sitting, we're not breathing.
- 1:01:50And then finally, water, you know, have some kind of lemon water, electrolyte water.
- 1:01:55And we can lose up to a pound of water when we sleep through respiration and perspiration and urination, all that stuff.
- 1:02:00Yeah.
- 1:02:01And so if you're on podcast, we had Dr. Lisa Moscone, who's a neuroscientist and nutritionist, which is an interesting match.
- 1:02:08And she was saying if you're just dehydrated 2%, it could affect your cognitive health and cognitive performance.
- 1:02:12If you stay hydrated, it could boost your reaction time.
- 1:02:14Your thinking is beat upwards of 30%, just staying hydrated.
- 1:02:17But that's the water.
- 1:02:18So I get water, earth, fire and air.
- 1:02:21And all that's like 12 minutes.
- 1:02:24including reading this book like you know so it's like that's my morning routine and if you want to win today what is tim ferris who says this but it's like you want to win today at the win that first hour of the day and this is part of it yeah for 12 minutes i mean when you were writing those by the way it's a beautiful story about you writing these letters to your children i love that what was the most surprising lesson that came from this process
- 1:02:46You know, I feel like that if you're, and I don't know if I'm talking to, maybe you need to hear this.
- 1:02:50If your mind is empty, you want to read, right?
- 1:02:53But if your mind is overloaded, you want to write.
- 1:02:56You know, like, again, Limitless, I wrote in six weeks just because I had 30 years of, like, curriculum and content.
- 1:03:01And we had our learning center.
- 1:03:02And, you know, I just had everything about a chapter on speed reading, a chapter on focus, a chapter on brain optimization, a chapter on habits, a chapter on flow.
- 1:03:09It was really, you know, mindset, changing your limiting beliefs, all that.
- 1:03:13You know, for this, I feel like when I write, I, um...
- 1:03:17I think introspection is really important.
- 1:03:19Like one of my favorite movies in The Matrix, it's the one movie I saw six times in the theater when it came out in 99.
- 1:03:25I've never seen a movie more than like twice in the theater, but that one I was just like, this is like the wheel of the Matrix and I'm definitely taking the red pill.
- 1:03:33But when Neo, when Keanu Reeves goes to see the all-knowing wise oracle in the kitchen, she's baking cookies, remember that?
- 1:03:40Most people don't see this.
- 1:03:41On top of the kitchen door is a sign and it says, know thyself.
- 1:03:47And I was just like, wow.
- 1:03:49I think that's why people, I think the success in life or the fulfillment in life comes from two things.
- 1:03:55Having the curiosity to know yourself.
- 1:03:57And then once you get to know yourself, like, you know, some people do it through meditation, some people do it through therapy.
- 1:04:02I do it through writing because I feel like I get to know myself.
- 1:04:05Like, how do you know what you know unless you could put it out there, you know, take the invisible, make it visible outside.
- 1:04:10Some people use plant medicine, some people, everyone has a different way of knowing themselves.
- 1:04:14But once you have the curiosity to know yourself, the other part of the,
- 1:04:16life is having the courage to be yourself.
- 1:04:18I mean, like, you know yourself now, you have the courage to be that person.
- 1:04:22Because so many of us, we- That's the action.
- 1:04:24Yeah, that's all action.
- 1:04:26It's embodying that action.
- 1:04:27It's like where everything gets, it's where your ideation and your inspiration and your implementation becomes your integration.
- 1:04:36It's like who you are.
- 1:04:36Because I feel like my goal for the limitless, because I put the identity statement is there, I want people at the end of a year to be unrecognizable.
- 1:04:45that they won't even notice that little percent adding up.
- 1:04:49What is James Clear?
- 1:04:50We had him on the podcast.
- 1:04:51It's 1% daily.
- 1:04:52It's 1% daily is a multiple of 37.
- 1:04:54Yes.
- 1:04:54Yeah.
- 1:04:55Isn't that outrageous?
- 1:04:56It is outrageous.
- 1:04:57But it's just a small incremental amount.
- 1:04:58Yeah.
- 1:04:59And that's why consistency compounds.
- 1:05:01So my goal here is like read for three to five minutes in the morning, first thing.
- 1:05:05Don't touch your phone.
- 1:05:06It helped to record all that.
- 1:05:07And become unrecognizable after a year.
- 1:05:10Because, I mean, this is, imagine this a year from now, which is going to come regardless.
- 1:05:15And like one of the entries here is a visualization exercise that I do, where I imagine, you ever watch a movie or a television show and the main character you kind of like connect with, but you know what they need to do to win.
- 1:05:28Of course.
- 1:05:29You know what they need to say, what they have to admit, what they have to realize, you know, anything.
- 1:05:35And you're frustrated that they're not doing it.
- 1:05:36And you're like shouting at the screen.
- 1:05:38Yes.
- 1:05:38One of the entries in here talks about the science of that and the default mode network and everything in your imagination.
- 1:05:43and empathy and mirror neurons and everything.
- 1:05:45And then I, because I always explain the science, because I think some of our community wants to know why this was so effective.
- 1:05:51But then it says, like, imagine there's been a film crew watching you your entire life.
- 1:05:57And what's the audience screaming at you to say or to do or to follow through on or to realize?
- 1:06:03And so it's little brain gems like that first thing in the morning.
- 1:06:07It gives you a different perspective on your life.
- 1:06:09And it gives you hope.
- 1:06:11And it gives you some help.
- 1:06:12And I feel like these kind of conversations are more important than ever in a world that is being driven a lot by AI slop and other things that are competing for our attention.
- 1:06:22And so, yeah, I believe truly...
- 1:06:26One day for the course of, I put 366 there too, because I don't want to give people an excuse for missing like February 29th.
- 1:06:33But it makes it a habit.
- 1:06:34And going back to your question about grace, the studies done on self-compassion, because I totally agree.
- 1:06:40Studies done on self-compassion says that like some people will miss their reading or they'll miss their workout or whatever, and they'll beat themselves up, right?
- 1:06:48And they'll have guilt and shame or whatever.
- 1:06:51And in actuality, when you are kind to yourself and you give yourself grace, you're more likely to follow through as opposed to if you're negative and you beat yourself up in studies and self-compassion.
- 1:07:02So, you know, this is absolutely like sometimes life happens and we have emergencies and things are going on.
- 1:07:07We can't do everything we do.
- 1:07:09And I think part of self-care is not just, you know, doing all that biohacking and, you know, like, you know.
- 1:07:16treating yourself to whatever is looking in the mirror and looking at the reflection back and showing love for that reflection.
- 1:07:22You know, that person who's been through so much, but is still standing.
- 1:07:26You know, I think there's grace in that.
- 1:07:28So when people pick up this book, so Limitless Daily, it's available September 8th.
- 1:07:32LimitlessDaily.com, they could go there.
- 1:07:33We have all amazing free bonuses for people as to thank them.
- 1:07:38And then we start the expedition together, actually, at Limitless Live.
- 1:07:42LimitlessLive.com is our annual gathering.
- 1:07:44We have everyone from Stephen Collar, the master of flow.
- 1:07:49I've had him on too.
- 1:07:50He's a great.
- 1:07:50Dave Asprey, talking about a biohacker brain to Michael Easter actually also as well.
- 1:07:55It's going to be great.
- 1:07:58It's like the start of the expedition.
- 1:08:00You don't have to come to our gathering.
- 1:08:04I'll put the links in the show notes.
- 1:08:05If you're listening, click the links in the show notes.
- 1:08:07Your Instagram's at just Jim Quick, right?
- 1:08:09Yeah, I would challenge everyone.
- 1:08:10And the book is at limitlessdaily.com.
- 1:08:12But I would challenge people, here's the action.
- 1:08:15Because here's the thing.
- 1:08:15If you want to learn something best, one of the fastest ways to learn something is to teach it.
- 1:08:19And so I would say screenshot wherever you're consuming this right now.
- 1:08:23And tag Scott's, tag myself so we get to see it and share one thing you're going to do different because of this conversation.
- 1:08:30Or one of your big aha.
- 1:08:31And that way you're...
- 1:08:33When you post it, we get to see it, and I'll repost a bunch, and then I'll gift out a couple copies of the book.
- 1:08:38But more importantly, your fans, your followers, your family, your friends get to see that, and you get to share it with them.
- 1:08:44And I feel like that's why we're here is to pass on.
- 1:08:47You learn something to proud benefit to you, and then you learn how to benefit people you care about.
- 1:08:51What's the, if people pick this book up, they take one thing away, the most important lesson, what you want that lesson to be and why.
- 1:08:57I would say this, and there's so many lessons here.
- 1:09:00I would say that remember the knowledge is not power.
- 1:09:02It's potential power.
- 1:09:03It's power when we apply it.
- 1:09:05And, you know, and the ultimate goal is not to get the goal, is who you have to become to reach that goal.
- 1:09:12And we could change who we are or any fear.
- 1:09:15I feel like we're scared that we're a certain person and we're scared we're not going to be this kind of person.
- 1:09:20And I feel like
- 1:09:21There's a version of yourself that's patiently waiting, all of us, a year from now.
- 1:09:26And I think the goal is we show up every single day for ourselves and others until we're introduced.