Latest / The Joe Rogan Recap / Ethan Hawke (2025) - Fate, Acting and Presence
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- 0:00Welcome to the Joe Rogan recap, and before we get going, please
- 0:03follow us right here on Spotify to make sure you get sight of
- 0:06our latest episodes in your feed so that we're doing a deep dive
- 0:09into an actor's career. But this isn't, you know, just
- 0:12about Hollywood gossip. Not at.
- 0:13All this is really an investigation into creative
- 0:15integrity. How do you handle something as
- 0:17as toxic? As celebrity right and being
- 0:20hard won wisdom about what success actually cost you.
- 0:24We've got some incredible sources, really candid
- 0:26reflections on acting on failure and.
- 0:31The absolute need for mentorship.
- 0:33And our mission here is to take that journey and, you know,
- 0:36translate it into something actual for you, no matter what
- 0:39your job is. We're not just telling a story.
- 0:41We're. Pulling out the principles.
- 0:42Exactly. We're trying to figure out how
- 0:45this actors learned to filter all that noise, the public
- 0:47opinion, they're just tremendous.
- 0:48Well, the heat. The heat is not running out.
- 0:55OK, so let's get into it the whole beginning, which is
- 0:57actually surprisingly normal. Yeah, he wasn't some kid who was
- 1:02born for the stage. No, he started acting in 12
- 1:06because he's winter sport and find him up for a drama class.
- 1:13It's. Almost completely by accident,
- 1:15but he got hooked and fast. His professional gig was what, a
- 1:20one line? Part A tiny one line part.
- 1:22He was a knight with a sword in George Printer and Charlie Saint
- 1:25Joan. But the real thing, the actual
- 1:27transformation, it wasn't the applause.
- 1:30No, it was what was happening backstage.
- 1:32Right he was. Fascinated by the adults, the
- 1:35real working actors in rehearsal, they were actually
- 1:37enjoying themselves having these deep philosophical debates.
- 1:40He mentions them arguing about whether God existed just, you
- 1:43know, in the wings and. For him, there was such a huge
- 1:45contrast to his parents. He figured out what.
- 1:53Success meant him. He worked, should be joyful.
- 1:56He should be engaging with that idea.
- 1:58He got tested almost immediately.
- 2:00Oh yeah, age 14/19/84. He had thrown into the deep end
- 2:04apart in the $30 million Joe Dante movie, Co starring in
- 2:08Louisville Phoenix. He called it being sucked out of
- 2:11his intense. His mom couldn't go, so his
- 2:18guardian was his grandmother. A grandmother who had always
- 2:21wanted to be a movie star for herself.
- 2:23You can just picture the weight of that.
- 2:25You know that unfulfilled ambition on this kid.
- 2:27He even tells the story about driving to the Paramount Gates
- 2:30and she's just sitting there smoking a cigarette, basically
- 2:34living her dream through him. It's just so unstable.
- 2:40Paid off in a big way because that movie, that huge first
- 2:43shot, it was a complete flop. A big Turkey is what he called
- 2:47it, A quick and salty death to the dream.
- 2:49The premiere story is just. Brutal.
- 2:51Oh, it's awful. He and River Phoenix, they go
- 2:54unrecognized that they're in the back.
- 2:55He just he went back to. High school.
- 3:01He figured the dream was already done.
- 3:04He's just trying to like putting your hand in a flame.
- 3:07But. That failure, that public,
- 3:09painful failure, ended up being as great as weapon get.
- 3:13To the whole point, because he was, in his voice, a fully
- 3:16braced for failure. One deadpot society became this
- 3:20massive global hit a few years later.
- 3:23It didn't go to his head. He couldn't.
- 3:25He already learned the lesson most people spending their lives
- 3:27trying to figure out, right? Don't anchor yourself to the
- 3:30result. Anchor yourself to the process,
- 3:32to the joy of the work itself. Really disaster.
- 3:35It was the palace. It was the armor he needed.
- 3:38And. He really needed it because by
- 3:40the time he edition for DPS he was.
- 3:43Miserable in college and his backup plan was what to join the
- 3:47Merchant Marines? Yeah, like Jack London, he was
- 3:49looking for escape, for a real life, not for fame.
- 3:52So getting that part, it was a huge and.
- 3:54The. Environment on that film, it
- 3:56just reinforced everything the director he finded his making
- 4:00art. He will realize just how poised
- 4:10his fame can be when you're young.
- 4:12He has his analogy for this just so visceral, the.
- 4:16Concrete analogy the. Concrete analogy, he says.
- 4:18Fame completely impedes your development if the ingredients
- 4:23are wrong. When that concrete is setting,
- 4:25the foundation is and this is his word walked forever.
- 4:29It's a profound instinct. If anyone really, really huge
- 4:32success can just, it can healthify bad habits.
- 4:35It stops you from being able to hear criticism.
- 4:38He calls it a tiny drop of mercury in your brain, so.
- 4:41How did he survive it? He says it was not that he got
- 4:45famous in slow. Incumbents.
- 4:47He wasn't an overnight global star.
- 4:49He was just that kid from Dead Poet Society.
- 4:52Which let him build up a resistance to the poison bit by
- 4:54bit. It wasn't just luck though, it
- 4:56was also having these. Really.
- 4:57Powerful external anchors he talks a lot about.
- 5:00His dad. His dad provided the ballot.
- 5:02He valued integrity over everything, and he was naturally
- 5:07suspicious of people who want too much attention.
- 5:09That's the perfect safe code against the Hollywood machine,
- 5:11and it allowed him to actually listen to the wisdom from older
- 5:14men to what he worked with. Like Christmas, that story is
- 5:17just fantastic. Oh it's brilliant.
- 5:19This is first time drinking a movie and he's got this
- 5:22elaborate shot planned for Chris Anderson's character.
- 5:25He's an alcoholic. Right, the guy get the bottle a
- 5:28little bit, he delivered and the plan is for him to walk in, turn
- 5:31on the light, try on a hat, look in the mirror, all this stuff
- 5:35all. Before opening the bottle and
- 5:36Christopher just stops him. He just looks at differences.
- 5:39Are you an alcoholic? And when he gets his no, he's
- 5:42always and just gently points out the truth.
- 5:44An alcoholic who just got a fresh bottle is not going to
- 5:47miss. He's going to.
- 5:49Open the bottle and drink. Period.
- 5:51Bud's an alcoholic and he's going to get his bottle.
- 5:53He's going to open it. It's so simple but so profound.
- 5:57It cuts right through all the artistic pretension to.
- 6:00The reality of the character and that's.
- 6:03Really. Craft of acting it's not.
- 6:13Just an actor disappearing. A great film becomes a
- 6:16collective, imaginative experience.
- 6:19The audience disappears too. When you watch The Godfather,
- 6:22you're not thinking about Al Pacino.
- 6:23You're thinking about Michael Corleone.
- 6:26He non judgmental in your prep.
- 6:41Acting for him is an invitation to expand who you are to ask why
- 6:46did he make it without judging the.
- 6:49Character which leaned to his. Best acting teacher ever.
- 6:52A wolf. A wolf.
- 6:53On the set of White Fang, because a wolf knows instantly
- 6:57if you're not present, if you're self-conscious or thinking about
- 6:59the camera, it's gone. It won't engage the.
- 7:02Wolf is the ultimate presence detector.
- 7:12You have to be there, he says. Denzel is just so commanding,
- 7:19always listening, talking, asking, thinking completely in a
- 7:23moment. Which is how you get those
- 7:24legendary things like King Kong ain't got shit on me monologue.
- 7:29We all think that was just, you know, a lightning bolt of
- 7:31improvisation. That's.
- 7:32The thing it was improvised, but it was the result of months.
- 7:37It was Denzel pulling from lines and ideas that have been cut
- 7:40from the script earlier. He was magic because he was so
- 7:44prepared. The.
- 7:45Incorporation manifesting in the moment.
- 7:47Exactly. And to do that consistently, you
- 7:49have to have a beginner's mind. The Zen idea of tabula Rosa.
- 7:53The blank slate. A director taught him that
- 7:55lesson when he was 21. He started listing his resume
- 7:58and the director just cut him off and said, I need you to say
- 8:02I don't know. If you can say I don't know.
- 8:03I can teach you. It's better tripping.
- 8:05Away you go. And that's why he's always
- 8:07trying new things, like getting graphic novels.
- 8:19The. Scrutiny, he talks about reading
- 8:21the devil's red. Bad defense It's.
- 8:27A trap anyone who breeds things can fall into.
- 8:30But he's developed this, this medical defense against the
- 8:34online hate. I think it's so useful for
- 8:37everyone. He just tells himself these are
- 8:39winners. People posting that kind of we
- 8:42all, they're really talking about their own frustrations,
- 8:44not you. It's deflection.
- 8:47But the fear is still there. He admits his his fear is that
- 8:50the bad refusal from being able to do the work he loves, He says
- 8:55I know it's. Gradual.
- 8:56That never goes away. He still gets physically sick
- 8:59with nerves before a big roll. The difference is how he handles
- 9:02it now. He doesn't pretend he isn't
- 9:04nervous, he just accepts it and gets to work.
- 9:06Which is perfectly captured by. What Mike Tyson, the trainer
- 9:09Customado, used to say. So.
- 9:30For you, the listener, the goal isn't to get to some point where
- 9:34you've made it and you feel No Fear.
- 9:37That's a myth, and you probably wouldn't want it anyway.
- 9:40So. When you look at the whole from
- 9:42an accidental St. working at Stenzel, the theme is just so
- 9:46queer. True excellence comes from that
- 9:48internally for their integrity. And that early bit of failure
- 9:52gave him the validity needed to navigate everything that came
- 9:55after and completely redefined it.
- 9:59Yeah, he says. What he's chasing now isn't
- 10:01money. From it's a feeling he calls
- 10:03grace, that perfect moment of creation where his own ego just
- 10:07disappears. When my life is gone, that's the
- 10:10real chase. That's what has sustained him.
- 10:12The. Difference between a long career
- 10:14and just being a clash in the pan Which?
- 10:16Brings us to our final thought for you.
- 10:29Is your goal of reaching that level of freedom and happiness?
- 10:33Or are you just chasing numbers, knowing that beyond that simple
- 10:36threshold of company, more wealth doesn't actually lead to
- 10:40more laughter or more fulfillment?
- 10:42Something to think about.