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A narcissist will never forget you · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  What is going on? Beautiful people.
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  Welcome to another episode of deed narcissist code.
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  I'm your favorite self-aware. Narcissus mr.
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  Lee hammock better known as mental illness across all social
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  media platforms. This your first time seeing my
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  face are hearing my voice, I'm a clinically diagnosed narcissist,
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  and I use my platform on social media to raise awareness for
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  MPD. Get more people into therapy and
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  also validate the victim survivors and thrivers.
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  Ah, of said disorder said, toxic people say toxic traits.
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  Today's episode is going to be entitled The know.
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  Nurse assist will never forget you because they don't be cut
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  new energy. I need new energy out, but Have
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  been today's, today's episode, the narcissist will never
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  forget, you see, seems Grimm, doesn't it?
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  It seems very Grim when I tell people that like the narcissist
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  will never ever forget you. Oh no.
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  I mean, that could be a very bad thing because he's some people
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  want the narcissist to leave them alone and they want to just
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  like, we don't ever. Leave me alone with ever forget
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  me. Yeah.
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  Most narcissist will never forget you.
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  Of course, a lot. Of course, a lot goes into that
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  y'all. And I'm not saying this looks
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  like he'll get his. Let me let me.
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  Rewind a little bit. Look memory running.
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  I'm Batman quick. Just because the narcissist
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  doesn't forget you, or might not have food forgotten, you doesn't
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  give you a reason to go back into a toxic relationship
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  because some people will use what I'm saying, right here, as
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  a reason to go back into toxicity.
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  He's I'm saying some people will use this at, don't do not
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  absolutely do that. They will try to find a reason
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  to go back. Oh, they never forgot me.
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  I'm gonna go back. No, no, no, no, no, no.
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  So if of course the narcissist, it depends on your relationship.
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  Dynamic. If you are a one night stand, it
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  just got your cheese cloth, or they'd just y'all, just clap
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  some chicks, or whatever. They probably will forget you
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  sooner or later. Yeah, this is how this is the
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  way life goes. You me.
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  If you're a one night stand or outdated for just a month, they
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  might forget you, but if y'all were married, you'll have kids.
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  Y'all haven't had a long-term relationship.
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  Y'all had a lot of relationship first together.
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  They probably won't forget you. You see?
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  I'm saying if you got a love-bombing phase that was
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  super intense, they probably won't forget you.
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  I still remember people who I remember.
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  I remember every woman I've loved bomb, of course, again,
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  relationship Dynamics do matter. I was in long-term relationship
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  with these people that I love bomb.
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  I didn't, I didn't, I love bomb with intent, you don't say, I
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  don't love bomb with the. I don't love them.
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  Just we love but I hate you. You going to?
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  I'm not, I'm not digging, I'm not the damn.
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  Irwin free of narcissists. You get a love bomb.
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  You get a little bump, everybody gets a damn.
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  I'm not no no no no no row that you've made this for you guys,
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  you got to drop a bomb in the comment section and be funny.
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  But yeah, everybody doesn't get love Mommy.
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  I mean, but everybody doesn't get love Bomb by me, but they
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  won't forget you yell. I still remember people that I
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  dated for years ago. Yeah, I've been married for my
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  anniversary of President Biden versus in two days, in America.
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  Eight years. I still have been told like this
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  big as won't forget you. There's not a sometimes it's not
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  a good thing though because narcissistic people, some of
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  them become super obsessive, if the narcissist was obsessed with
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  you, they won't forget you. I would say I put it like that.
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  If I had some type of obsession for you, then I will not forget
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  you you're in my mind, you're part of you.
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  A part of my being, you helped shape me.
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  Could you be the one? Could you be that narcissistic
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  persons One That Got Away? Maybe.
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  Yeah. Maybe you could be all right.
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  Do I like used to have that feeling for the people?
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  Back in the day. Yeah, I thought I had a one that
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  got away. I thought I had a couple
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  together way honestly because I was I wasn't a good man.
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  Let's be realistic. You mean my wife could have been
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  wanting one of the people that got away, you know.
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  But she came back, we working on things now but yeah.
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  Narcissistic people have a One That Got Away.
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  I'm not saying this you, but could it be you possibly?
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  But I know people can say, believed that lie.
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  That's Malarkey, that's bull hockey, whatever cuss word shall
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  be using nowadays. I'm out of the timeout, I'm not
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  hip enough you, I'm Bobby. 38. Years old next month but they
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  like that they if they won't forget you, like I know people
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  gonna say yeah but lie, they seem so happy in the new
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  relationship. They are look two weeks after I
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  moved out two weeks, as we broke up a month after we broke up,
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  they're already in love with someone else.
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  So they seem so happy. I'm pretty sure they forgot me.
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  Why do you think they're in love with somebody else so quickly?
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  Why do you think they are in love with somebody so quickly?
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  Why do you think something narcissistic people have a
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  tight? Why do you think the new person,
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  the north, The Narcissist, new Supply?
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  Why do you think? They thought start to act like
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  you? It's not the dress, like you
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  sometimes, it's not the, maybe behave, like you take on your
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  personality characteristics. If you even if you haven't met
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  them because that narcissistic person is so obsessed with you,
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  they're trying to find you and somebody else.
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  They're trying to find you in someone else or they're trying
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  to create it. If they're trying to create you
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  in somebody else, damn, this person's got away from me, I'm
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  going to make you this, you know, it's a common name.
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  Ashley got away from me but I meet Ashley, got away from me,
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  but I meet Shannon. So, as we got away, but I meet
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  Shannon, but I miss Ashley damn actually episode badly, but
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  Shannon act, I can make it. I will more time I will make you
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  her I'm going to make you her. I'm going to, I'm not going to
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  talk bad about my ex I'm going to hyper up.
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  That's why he's that's why you see some narcissistic people.
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  If you were the new Supply, if you were the narcissist new
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  Supply, that's why, sometimes they don't talk junk about their
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  exes, they talked them up, they talk good about their exes to
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  make you feel like you have competition.
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  I can go back to this x if you don't act.
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  Right. My ex like this.
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  She dressed like this. He dressed like this.
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  He did this. He like this.
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  He didn't do this. You see, I'm saying now, you saw
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  the act and behave. Like somebody, you don't know if
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  you were to new Supply you might know what you might not know.
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  You might know exactly what I'm talking about.
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  If I was obsessed with you, I will never forget you.
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  You are, you are, you have left an indelible mark on my brain.
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  I will never forget you. That doesn't mean I'm going to
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  come back to you though. Let's get this right up.
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  Just because I won't, I won't forget.
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  You does not mean, I will Hoover you.
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  You know, I have people that I will never forget that.
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  I won't go nowhere. I won't go anywhere near.
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  They might be under who verbal. He's only saying you might have
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  moved on, you know, believe it, okay, go back to the part where
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  you say, why did they move on quickly?
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  Because they like, the one reason a narcissistic people
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  move on quickly and because we don't know how to self-soothe If
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  you break up with us, you break up with her.
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  You discard us. We don't know how to
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  self-soothe. So we need this.
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  We other people, help, soothe us.
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  We others other people to help heal, we can't heal our own, our
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  own, yo, we can't heal it our own.
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  So we throw ourselves into something.
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  We throw ourselves into another relationship to try to get over
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  you to try to forget about you. But while we're doing that, we
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  think about you more. You said I'm saying.
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  Yeah, it's a very, very unique crazy as Dynamic sometimes.
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  You are a narcissistic person like myself.
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  Like when you I have a, I'm a narcissist, I personality
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  disorder, I'm not just narcissistic, but that's how it
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  goes to you. I have people in my life that I
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  will never forget, but I wouldn't try to go back to him.
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  I wouldn't try to go back to them either.
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  You see, I'm saying the nurses and sometimes y'all you get the
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  crazy ass once. You know me the super obsessed
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  ones that they don't forget you and they don't want you to
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  forget them. So they try to stalk you, they
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  try to stay in your life. You don't mean just because they
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  don't forget you. Like I said just because they
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  will never forget you or might not ever forget you doesn't mean
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  that they will come back to you but sometimes it gets sometimes
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  they do go overboard. Yo Sometimes some of these are
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  60 people. Absolutely go overboard with it
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  with the stuff that they do. They start stalking.
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  They start harassing. They saw pop a job.
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  They don't want to, they don't want you to forget them.
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  You I'm obsessed with you. I need you, I want you to be
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  obsessed with me. He said I'm saying I needed
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  Obsession from you. I need it back and need you.
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  I need you in this situation right here, I need you to match
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  my energy. I see the sun is rising.
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  It was not, I need you to Matt in this situation right here.
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  I need you to match my energy. I'm turn this way.
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  Like I'm just like I'm soaking up some stuff and I'm getting
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  more energy right here, y'all. I'm Joe.
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  But yeah, I need you to match my energy right here.
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  So, if I'm obsessed with you, I want you to be upset with me,
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  or, or, or I'm going to keep popping up or you you get, you
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  do get the obsessive just wild ass.
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  Narcissistic people, they will not leave you alone.
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  They don't forget you, they will not leave you alone.
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  I'll talk to people who this is, this has been going on for years
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  and some people are scared to call the police and like, but I
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  do but I don't want to call the police because I don't want to I
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  don't want to ruin their life. Yeah it's somebody is stalking
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  and harassing. You you are not ruining their
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  life. They are doing it to themselves.
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  They are the ones who are actively, stalking and harassing
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  you. You're not ruining their life.
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  You don't mean you're not ruining our life and I again.
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  Yeah. I'm not saying that I have to
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  keep repeating this. Can people take it the wrong
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  way, just because a narcissist, you said, I'm saying, just
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  because a narcissist doesn't forget you.
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  It's not a good thing, y'all. I know people just like, oh, I
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  know anyone, I know that we had the way I beat you with the way
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  we used to do it and clap cheeks.
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  I know that I don't forget me, they don't have any, how could
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  they be a part of it? Yeah, but like, that's
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  replaceable. That's that's but blow my mind.
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  The cheek labid, I can get it up and cheeks.
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  All right. All right, you see I'm saying
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  the narcissistic person in your life will never forget you.
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  Most of the, some of them want y'all most some, ah, it's a wild
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  number. Let's just say, plenty, plenty
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  of them won't forget you, but there's not not that.
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  But that's not necessarily a good things again.
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  Because if they don't forget you, like if I was obsessed with
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  you, if I was in love with you I probably won't forget you.
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  But again, the obsession go overboard and turned into
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  something, very very dark out. So it turned into something
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  very, very scary. So be very careful when you're
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  dealing with narcissistic people.
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  Talk to people whatever because in the end of the day
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  narcissists are self-serving people.
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  They're going to try to serve themselves and just because they
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  find a new Supply does not mean that there, they won't come back
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  to you. Some of them absolutely use a
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  new Supply as a placeholder you babe.
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  Some of them use the new Supply as a placeholder, just to keep
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  you guys just, you know, just to keep trying to keep trying to
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  come back to you. Again, that's just part of it,
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  that, that part of the dynamic, y'all that happens in toxic
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  relationship we did with toxic. People, toxic narcissistic
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  people. But anyway, Joe Tommy, I have a
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