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Episode #204: The Power of Holding onto Hope · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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  Right off the gates. Hey, everybody, welcome to tea time with Amy
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  and Bev. Good day, Good day. So we were talking ahead of
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  time about your fulfilling schedule, which reminded me why we tell you guys the
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  same thing. We talk about some things and we talk about it in a
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  different way, and we bring it up again. And it's because you said
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  that last time we were having a conversation living you know, you have a
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  fulfilled schedule, and I said to you, I haven't had that in my
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  practice. So we repeat it to get it into our practice. I repeat
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  it so I keep constantly saying, if I'm making the dog's food love,
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  I'm thinking love at this at that time, because if we can be in
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  a space of love at all times, that's my reminder. Then it's like
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  life is different if you everything is processed differently, Your journey's different, the
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  flow is different. So it's we talk about these things. We refer to
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  things that we've spoke about before, and it's just because it's a good reminder
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  because a lot of us haven't gotten into a practice of it. It sounded
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  like a great idea when we heard it the first time. I'm raising my
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  hands but on the other side of that, it's just just remembering and implementing
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  those tools or even asking yourself, how can I get better than this?
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  Regardless of where you're at right at this moment, and those those three things
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  love, how can I get better than this? And having a fulfilling schedule
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  don't right there is a great practice to say to practice every single day if
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  you didn't do anything else, but you just did one of those or all
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  three of them, like it's it's gonna you're gonna see an effect. And
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  you know what just hit me too, because they've talked about this several times,
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  is overwhelmed by me saying I have a fulfilling schedule that keeps me from
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  focusing on being overwhelmed. Isn't that interesting again, just to play on words
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  because I'm viewing it differently, And that just hit me just as we were,
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  as you were talking that these when I say I'm a fulfilling schedule,
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  I did that. I scheduled these things. I committed to these things,
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  and I get to do these things and each thing I get to do today
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  today right now, my purpose is to be here with you, to focus
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  on our conversation, to make it as beneficial as possible, not only for
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  us, because that's the way, that's why we show up for our own
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  selfish reasons, just saying, but to show up in a way that could
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  be beneficial collectively for many people. Then when I get done here, I
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  get to go teach a class about card reading and affect people's lives in a
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  different way, to help guide them in other ways using Oracle cards or Turo
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  cards to use that as a tool for themselves or for others, which is
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  also making a positive impact on people's lives. And then after that, I
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  get to go do a fundraiser with an organization that I'm part of, and
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  that's going to be playful and fun and laughter, and we're raising funds because
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  we take that money and we give it back into the community through awards for
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  women and girls to continue their education. I get to do all these things
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  today. That is joy, right. I'm contributing to joy in different ways
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  today, and not only for out in the public, but for me.
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  This is this. I love showing up with Bev and doing these conversations.
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  I love teaching classes and I love to go have fun too. So what
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  an amazing day I get to have and so saying again using the words I
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  have a fulfilling schedule, schedule, there is no overwhelm in that. Do
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  I have laundry? Do I have dishes? Do I have all these things
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  I have to do? Yep, sure do, and you know what they'll
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  get done, not worried about it. Do I have a full time job,
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  yep, sure do. It's all gonna It's like divine timing. This
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  is what I lean into a lot. I have all the time, space
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  and energy I need to complete the task that needs my attention today. That
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  is my mantra. I say it so many times as a reminder that first
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  of all, we're not We're not going to get it all done. We're
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  not going to get it all done in this lifetime. It's not it's just
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  not gonna happen. And that's okay. I give my perer self permission to
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  be okay with that. I'm not going to get it all done, but
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  I get to do so much of it. So that is that is a
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  mindset shift for us to see things differently. And the dishes, I appreciate
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  them because it shows I have food to eat and somebody else is in the
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  house to have that food as well. Right, I have water lectric,
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  Like I have all these things to be grateful for. So I'm okay with
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  the being full of dishes. I'm okay with that, and I know it's
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  going to get done at some point when what else? What eli you're done
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  in divine timing is when it'll get done. That's when it gets done.
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  Yeah, that's awesome. But that's the way to live our lives, honestly.
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  And it is changing those words because when you say I have to go
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  to a job, and then everything you talked about was we're really like celebrating
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  all the things that you have passions for. I'm in the bathroom getting ready
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  for this, but I also get to go to my grandson's tee ball game,
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  which is awesome. And I thought about that for a second. It's
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  interesting we're having the conversation, but is it really you know, it's typical,
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  but I'm thinking about it. It's like I get to go watch him
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  play. Yesterday he came out and Freeman and I practiced with him and played
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  with him, and it's like he loved it. I had a blast and
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  we made it fun. And now we get to go watch him play today.
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  However, he plays right, and it's just because it's fun to watch
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  him enjoying the things or fun to watch them kind of connecting things or you
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  know, things making sense to them and also at the same time showing up
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  and giving a different delivery system. We're not being demanding, We're not.
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  I left it up to him. Are you ready to quit yet? No?
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  And even though he was getting frustrated, I'm just letting him know,
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  like, okay, but notice that you're kind of getting a little bit frustrated.
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  How do you feel right now? So it's an opportunity right to pay
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  attention to check in with himself. Am I feeling a little bit frustrated?
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  I could probably walk away from this for a little bit and then come back
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  and play it and have more fun. And so we had the conversation,
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  but it wasn't like it was Nope, we're done. You're getting frustrated,
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  that's it, We're out. Nope, not doing it anymore, because then
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  it just takes it to not fun place. And have I ever done that
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  before? I don't know, Povo, probably probably because I would say I
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  would. I have a different perspective on things, so I would probably say
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  that I did have as that as an experience in my life, but I'm
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  not that same person anymore. And it was I sat and watched Freeman and
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  Colton and like he's talking to about how to do things, and he squatted
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  down, and then Coulton gets over and squats down when he's talking to him,
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  like he's you know what I mean, He's just and I just loved
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  it. I'm sitting over there and I'm outside. My eyes are wagering because
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  it's like I'm just my heart's so full, yeah, in a moment to
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  watch that, and it's like I was telling Freeman too, it's like,
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  you know, when I see how you interact with the grandkids too, it
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  just my heart just like melts. It's it's the most blissful thing in the
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  world to me, just to see that that connection and and them both having
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  joy and sharing wisdom and information with the other and the other one like gobbling
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  it all up, like just wanting to absorb it all. But because he's
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  appreciating the attention that he's getting, but it's also the way it's being brought
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  over to him, the way he's being shown, so it's different. So
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  it's just life, is I get to and just so you know, as
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  as the audience, FEM and I don't plan our conversations. We show up
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  and we just start talking. So it's always divinely guided, it's organic.
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  So I want to add to this because I had, I consider it.
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  It was divine timing. It was a time for me to actually acknowledge something
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  in a way that I've never acknowledged it before. We've showed up. We've
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  been doing this for most four years. Right. That amazing. Every time
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  I said, I'm like, has it been that lot? I always said,
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  I know, I've said it many times, like I didn't want to
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  be here. I didn't want to be on this planet. I thought about
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  I had suicidal I had ideologies from the age of fourteen to my mid thirties,
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  and I was like, daily people would be better off if I wasn't
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  here. Nobody would miss me? Does anybody even care? Like? I
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  had all the thoughts, all of them. And so I received this message
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  the other day that says, good morning. I just wanted to think to
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  thank you for all you do. I'm so happy to work with you and
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  I appreciate you more than you know. The very first thought I had after
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  reading that was if I would have taken my life, I would have never
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  received That gave me goosebumps, and that why like the first thought I read
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  that, and I thought immediately, if I would have taken my life,
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  I wouldn't have had the opportunity to have this relationship with this person. Who
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  I get to work with, who you get to give a different perspective to,
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  who you get to make their life feel a little bit lighter for who
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  you get to feel like they're not alone, like all those things, like
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  so many things. That's awesome. And then my mind started going to the
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  all the other people that I've you know, had an packed with their life
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  and help them and guided them and the friendships and the like I just start
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  it was, you know, I think your life flashes before your eyes.
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  It was like kind of like that, only with all the can the joyful
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  moments just start going through my mind and I was just like and I like,
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  I didn't cry, but I got very close to it because it touched
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  me that much in that moment. And then it's like coming here and saying,
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  you know, I get to do these things because I'm here. I'm
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  here and I get to do these things and that's like fills me up with
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  so much love and I'm just seeing it's like how could well. A lot
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  of times people don't make a major shift in the way they perceive life until
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  something major happens, like almost losing their life, right, they get in
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  an accident or something happens, it gets their attention. They're like, oh
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  my gosh, now I want to live, and they change their ways and
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  there's just a big, huge revelation. For me, it was like a
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  very It was a subtle moment, but it was a powerful, impactful moment
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  where I didn't have to have that major experience to be laying in a hospital
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  bed on my deathbed thinking I want to live, I'm gonna appreciate life.
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  No, it was like in that moment of receiving a message from somebody who
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  was expressing a their heart to me and I'm like, oh, I get
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  to I get to show up today. Yeah, And then it's almost like
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  spirit took you on a journey to show you all those things. Yeah,
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  because that who would have ever thought from that from that person that was in
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  a space of struggle and suicidal tendencies or you know, desires for a way
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  for freedom from what you were experiencing at the time, could have had the
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  experience to touch so many lives, and it reminds me of like how many
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  near death experiences. I know you've listened to a lot of them. I've
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  listened to a lot of them. Not in there as many probably as you
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  have, but I have listened to enough of them to see that they have
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  those the same experiences that you experienced, but with a near death experience.
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  And that's what we keep talking about. I don't think it's I don't think
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  you have to go. It doesn't have to be that severe. And it's
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  interesting because I was mine's not so in depth and everything, but I was
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  being shown by spirit like I was going backwards all the way down. I
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  don't know what my question was at that time, but I was going backwards
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  and they were like flash It was so fast. They were like flashing images
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  of me all the way down to a certain age, like super fast,
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  all these different versions of myself. Really and it was and not to have
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  an attachment to any of them, but to love all of them. It
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  was just it was it was quite the experience, not as profound as watching
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  Freeman and the grandkids playing together. Not as profound as that, but it
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  was still profound. Right, We have all these great moments, and those
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  are the things to kind of talk about, to kind of express yourself,
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  to feel to kind of milk, and to remind yourself constantly that, yeah,
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  because I understand where you're coming from, because I for a long time
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  didn't want to be here. My only reason for being here was for my
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  kids. That was the one thing that kept me. So it was like
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  God said, oh, she better have some throats and kids in the mix.
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  She'll want to stay around protective forever. Right. Yeah, But with
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  all that process, I would never have Gosh. I just remember being that
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  high schooler and thinking I am never having kids. And now it's like I
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  am so grateful and thankful that I had those kids and that I have these
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  grandkids, and that we still have each other all in these other's lives and
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  we love each other and we have great conversations and there's a connection and a
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  bond between all of us. That's it's just like full. It's just fulfilling,
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  right, All that is full filling. And you hear other people talking
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  about it, and I've heard other people say which we haven't talked about Alex
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  Frory for a long time, but talking about like, you know, where's
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  all the people that are that have ascended that had children, because they challenge
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  you and they and you get into karmic what they would refer to as karmic,
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  and it's just because you have lessons when you're going through that whole process,
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  and it's not a good thing or a bad thing. It's just part
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  of the process, kind of part of the process that we signed up for.
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  And I would joke around and say, well, next lifetime, Now,
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  next lifetime, I will totally have kids again. I will totally have
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  grandkids again. I would And if I don't have my own, I will
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  raise the freaking cities, you know what I mean, I'll do that because
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  it's like it's to me, it's important for kids to get, I don't
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  know, just a different perspective, just like it is everybody that's watching this,
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  a different perspective that feels lighter and freer, and you don't feel like
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  you're so trapped and the world's so heavy on your shoulders. That's that's awesome.
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  And I love how you said all that stuff too, because it gives
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  me a different perspective of how I get to show up even though I may
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  not always be doing everything that I feel passionate about, but while I'm doing
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  it, I do feel love, I feel connection. It's an opportunity.
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  I'm with a person and it's bringing for whatever healing that they need at that
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  time, and it's like, it's not up to me to decide, just
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  like when if anyone does Ricky, the healing energy knows where to go and
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  what to do. It's not up to us. We can try to direct
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  it all we want to, but it's better when you just allow that to
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  flow through you instead of you trying to control it. Welcome to life,
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  Welcome, Let everyone look through you instead of trying to control it. It's
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  more fun that way. Yeah. And you know, just just leading up
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  to that moment where you got to witness this man and this child having an
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  interaction that touched you so deeply, all that everything that led up to that
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  moment, every single thing that led up to that moment, the sucky shit
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  that happened, the trauma, is the joy, the laughter, every single
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  piece of your life led up to that moment to witness these two people interacting
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  and touch you so deeply right, and it's it's like I'm just I'm having
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  you know, what I think of awakening. It's like some oh, like
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  the sky's opened and this big, huge light shining through and the angels are
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  singing. But I don't feel like it's like that deep of a level of
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  awakening. But like my eyes have were opened in that moment when I had
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  that thought about that message, and and it's just it's enough. It's a
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  deeper, a deeper connection and meaning to life to be able to see through
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  different eyes like my my eyes keep changing, right, the eyes I'm seeing
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  through keeps changing, And it's just one more And I'm gonna use words level
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  up because that's kind of the way I feel like, one more level up,
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  Like it was time for me to see and feel and acknowledge something on
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  a deeper level. And that's how it came through. And so just and
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  it just comes back to just loving ourselves. And then when we love ourselves,
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  we love everything, We love everybody. And are there very difficult and
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  trying times with people, Absolutely, yes, Sarah, not gonna lie about
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  that one. But I get to choose how I show up in it so
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  I can still love them I can still send love to them. I can,
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  you know, send that those in energetic words of that whatever their spirit
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  came to experience in this lifetime, that they received that lesson, they receive
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  the guidance, they receive the love that they desire, and I move on
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  with myself. I don't need to get hung up on where they're at with
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  themselves, what they're doing, what they're saying, how they're behaving, because
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  that's theirs. It doesn't have to be mine. It's mine if I take
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  responsibility for it. Meaning I get angry, I get judgmental, I get
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  critical, I get you know, I get sucked into it. But it's
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  not mine. So just yeah, just and and you and I in different
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  ways have had these like parallel lives, and we come together not talk right
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  for a week, well, Bev hardly Bev and I hardly ever talk during
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  the week. Seriously. We show up on typically on Sunday, but we
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  show up, we do tea time, and then a week goes by,
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  we show up, we do tea time. Like her and I. We're
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  not texting and calling each other through the week or nothing like that, but
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  we show up. And we've had similar experiences and we talk about it,
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  and it's like, no way you're going through that. In no way I'm
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  going through this too. So it's not like, well, you had that
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  moment with this man and this child that touched you, do it so deeply
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  for you to feel that love and get teary eyed and feel that connection.
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  And here I receive a text message that basically did the same thing, but
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  it was a different way. Right, similar experiences received in a different way,
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  And it's it's up to us to acknowledge those moments. I really sat
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  with that and relished in it and was just like feeling it, and it
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  was like it had such a powerful impact on my heart that I probably would
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  say I haven't hadn't really felt something like that deep in a very long time.
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  And this is somebody like I've known him for years and they've said kind
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  words to me before. But spirit, it is not me, is not
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  amy as human. It was my spirit that said, you gave me the
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  opportunity to read that message, that particular message at that particular time in a
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  different way and get a different message from it. My spirit has always been
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  greater than me, and I know that because the human side of me,
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  like I said, didn't want to be in this body, didn't want to
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  be on this planet, was like ready to check out, like just I'm
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  out, can't do this no more. This sucks. But my spirit since
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  since I can't even remember, has it just my mantra has been keep going,
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  just keep going, you know the you know you think about uh was
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  the door of the fish. Just keep swim mean, just keep swimming.
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  Yeah, that was my spirits, like just keep going, keep going,
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  keep going like that has what has this has told me for years and years
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  and years? And I'm so glad I did. I am so glad I
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  did two I'm glad you did too. Thank you. So now I get
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  to be here and I'm good to be here and having these experiences. And
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  that's such an opportunity because like, if you're not appreciating things, you could
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  overlook that stuff. Even if you had that moment, you could overlook it
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  and just move on to the next thing. And not ever, you know,
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  you get caught up in all the other stuff and it's like it's not
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  even necessary, it's not even necessary. That's that's too much doing right there
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  and not enough being. And so even with your schedule, you're being probably
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  almost all day. Oh man, I be so much. I can't even
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  tell you. I can't even tell you, like I'm right here, right
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  now with my stuff, you know it in my office. I'm right here,
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  right now with whatever I'm doing. If somebody will if I'm doing something,
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  somebody walks into my office and wants to talk to me, they know
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  I'm not kidding. They know to just stand there until I acknowledge them.
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  And if if I'm going to like if I'm having a thought, you know,
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  you're typing or something, you're gonna thought, you gotta get that thought
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  out, Yeah, I will acknowledge them by like holding my finger up,
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  like just just give me a second, like I'm just type it away,
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  and they'll just stand there. Way, they don't walk into my office and
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  just start talking to me, because I I will not stop what I'm doing,
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  just and they know it, because otherwise, you you know, you're
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  not You're no longer in that mind space. You get taken away from that
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  whole energetic information that download. But the biggest piece of that is I want
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  to give them my full attention. I have attempted that. I'm not kidding.
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  I just did like yesterday somebody was talking to me and send in my
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  office talking to me, and I went to do something else, like on
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  my computer or grab my phone or something, and I thought, what are
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  you doing? Stut down? Put it down, and I sat there and
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  I gave them my full attention, Like uh yeah, it's like this person
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  wants your full attention, and if I want your full attention, then I
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  have to practice at myself, which I've been doing for a long time.
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  But it was interesting that I even went to try to do something else while
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  they were talking and I couldn't do it. Twice stop whatever I was trying
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  to do on the side, and I just sat there and I gave them,
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  you know, came back to the conversation. So it's really interesting when
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  you notice these things about yourself. How like this would not add a ten
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  different things going on at one time trying to give my attention to all of
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  it and try to have a conversation. And I mean, study show and
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  we already know this multitasking is not multitasking. You're just giving your attention to
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  one thing for a brief moment and then moving to the next, moving to
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  the next, moving to the next, and then you come back to the
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  first thing, and then you just keep repeating that pattern and you're really not
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  You're actually not as accomplished as you think you are saying. You know what
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  it sounds like. It sounds like watching TV from your peripheral vision. Only
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  do you know what I mean? Because you're not really one hundred percent present.
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  Yeah. I was watching a video the other day and I shared it
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  with the kids, not to say that they were doing anything wrong or anything
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  like that, but it was a video of a person talking about how important
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  you feel when someone's got like, and this is just a recorder, but
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  someone's got their phone in their hand all the time, so when you're on
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  your phone. And it started out with the person on their phone and their
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  child next to them and how they feel, and then it's like and then
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  he's now standing on stage and he's like talking like, how do you feel
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  when I'm you know, I'm waving my phone around and I'm talking to you
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  and everything else. Are you feeling like you're important? Do you feel like
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  I'm paying attention to you? Probably not, because you're holding onto this lifeline
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  waiting for it to buzz bring whatever it's going to do to get your attentions
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  and you can respond to it like being tethered to a device, and then
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  you're missing out on what's important around you. That's all. And it's not
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  good or bad to do it one way or the other. You're learning something
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  either way, your learning how to be with you later on in life.
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  And and maybe when they're when you're talking to them, maybe they're gonna be
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  doing the same number. They're gonna be sitting there doing their stuff and not
• 25:41
  really giving you much intention they're not. That's the that's the relationship you're just
• 25:45
  now created. So it's not good or bad. It just is until we
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  learned that I don't need that anymore. And you know what, just add
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  on to that, even though your body knows what to do and holding that
• 25:56
  phone, there's a piece of your brain that does not fully focused here because
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  it's focused on holding that phone. Uh huh. So there's stood off even
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  though you're talking and you're just holding it over here. You are not fully
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  present because you got to your subconscious mind has to focus on holding that phone.
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  Don't drop the phone. Not interesting. Like as you were saying that,
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  I'm like, yeah, but you're still not fully present because you're still
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  holding the phone. You gotta focus, absolutely not. My hand has to
• 26:26
  grip this phone and hang on to it and I don't drop it. Yeah,
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  your attentions potentially on that majority of the time, it's not even on
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  anything else around you. So you're missing You're missing out on watching you know,
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  Freeman and Colton playing, You're missing out on laughing with your granddaughter and
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  holding her hand, or you know, you're you miss out on all those
• 26:48
  little moments because it's not in this. It's not in any of that stuff.
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  It's right here right now. Yeah, so good, it is what
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  I mean. We I'm Eve, been talking for thirty minutes and that's been
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  a powerful conversation. And I don't know, I think leaving this where it's
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  at is giving a lot of people some stuff to think about and to and
• 27:15
  to take inventory. I don't know if that's the right words, but it's
• 27:22
  gonna be the words of the moments that are available to you and how you're
• 27:33
  choosing to show up in them, because I mean, really, it doesn't
• 27:40
  matter what's going on in the moment. It doesn't matter. It could be
• 27:44
  super fun, see a lot of laughter, a lot of connection, a
• 27:47
  lot of community, could be amazing, right, that moment is amazing.
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  Those are the easy moments. Those are the moments we need for our spirit
• 27:55
  to raise its vibration and all that. But you know what, it's those
• 28:00
  uncomfortable moments there are more powerful. Those are the moments to really take in
• 28:07
  the inventory. What am I thinking, How am I feeling? How judgmental
• 28:14
  am I being right now? How critical am I being? How how angry
• 28:17
  am I getting? How frustrated? Those are the moments they're most powerful.
• 28:21
  I was listening to a podcasts and the guy said, you know, I
• 28:25
  don't really remember the teachers in school that were easy on me. I remember
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  the ones that pushed me. I remember the ones that that challenged me to
• 28:36
  do to do better in my school work. Those are the teachers I remember.
• 28:42
  And you know what is those powerful moments of people who are assholes that
• 28:47
  give you the opportunity to grow and learn and to be and do better within
• 28:52
  yourself. Those are the people you remember. But remember them through that light,
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  instill the light of oh they made me angry, Oh they did this,
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  Oh they did that. Oh this is what You don't see them in
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  that from that perspective, You see them in the light, because that light
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  that they're bringing is a different kind of light to help you, help me,
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  help us be and do better within ourselves. Those are the moments to
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  give attention to in a way to grow and expand. The easy moments are
• 29:32
  great. That's like those moments to take a breath, right, It's like,
• 29:37
  Okay, we made it through some challenging times. I get to take
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  a breath. I get to have some time to laugh and joy and play
• 29:44
  and have this amazing time. Okay, just know we can do that and
• 29:52
  it's great. But when spirit knows it's time for you to step up your
• 29:57
  game, keep your arms and legs in the vehicle at all times because here
• 30:03
  we go, and keep your eye on you know, like you were just
• 30:08
  saying, it's finding all the things that you can appreciate, finding all the
• 30:12
  ways that you should had shown up. Maybe asking spirit for you know,
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  help you to do a life review, but show you the things that how
• 30:19
  you've shown up and you've had an impact on other people, how you've uplifted
• 30:23
  them, and thankful that you are here. You know, there's a lot
• 30:27
  too, there's we can appreciate all day long, really, but we've just
• 30:32
  been trained to look at things different. So now we're just teaching you guys
• 30:34
  how to, you know, train your mind to look at things a little
• 30:37
  different again, find the positives and the daily stuff and all the amazing moments,
• 30:44
  because that's where you find your passions and that leads you on your path
• 30:45
  if you feel like you're lost and confused. So it's it's all an opportunity.
• 30:49
  You don't have to do it, but I can just tell you when
• 30:52
  we do do those things, it does kind of pull you along in this
• 30:56
  path and you start realizing where your passions lie. It's important to you how
• 31:00
  you want to spend your life while you're here, how much how important it
• 31:04
  is for how you show up because of the people that you do care about
• 31:07
  so much, because you want to show up in the best way possible for
• 31:11
  yourself but also for them. Yeah, and it's all an opportunity. There
• 31:15
  really is so good So good showed up today? Yes, me too,
• 31:22
  and I just so okay, so before okay, so conversation kind of like
• 31:27
  over there, thank you for showing up for that side note, people are
• 31:36
  bed and I got on I was like and talking about our hat and and
• 31:40
  that I just bought a hat. And I almost wore it, but I
• 31:41
  had other things going on, so I decided not to do it. Decided
• 31:45
  to do my hair the name and I set. But that would have been
• 31:48
  super funny if I would have showed up in a hat too. However,
• 31:53
  if you have not noticed yet, we both have black on, which I
• 31:59
  actually had had a different shirt on. It was a lighter color and like
• 32:04
  pink colors. We both have blue, so in her hat she has blue.
• 32:08
  It's probably more of a turquoise, but cameras change colors and stuff.
• 32:14
  So anyway, we got the black and the blue going on the silver.
• 32:19
  I have silver studs in my white fingers. Here's an interesting thing. You
• 32:24
  can't see mine, but Bev has a butterfly on her hat. We know,
• 32:29
  but butterflies represent transformation and all that. And I have a dandelion on
• 32:35
  my shirt. Nice. It says, dream it, wish it, do
• 32:38
  it? Nice? Doing that fun. I love it. This is like
• 32:45
  because I pay attention to that. I pay attention to how we show up
• 32:49
  and what colors we're wearing and things like that, and I just find it
• 32:51
  a lot of fun. We do that a lot at the office, and
• 32:59
  not just you know, like solid colors, like somebody, I'll be like
• 33:05
  six people wearing Paisley oh in the same color pattern. Nice. Paisley is
• 33:13
  not something you wear every day, right, Nope. So so just it's
• 33:17
  really funny that when we show up each day at work, we're all looking
• 33:22
  at each other, what do you wear? You know, It's amazing.
• 33:25
  That's how tune we are. We're all in tune with each other. And
• 33:30
  so the more we can can see through new eyes, see life differently,
• 33:37
  have a different perspective, be in our joy more often, love more.
• 33:43
  It's just it just it's a continuous changing of the collective consciousness, which is
• 33:46
  so beneficial. And that's every day I'm choosing more and more to show up
• 33:52
  in that way. And so that's you know, my prayer and my hope
• 33:58
  for others is to do do their best. We only do the best we
• 34:01
  can in the moment, but each moment can be better and better. So
• 34:06
  and we changed our world and then we also change the world. Yeah by
• 34:12
  doing that. Yeah five, such a good conversation. I'm glad we showed
• 34:19
  up on Saturday instead of Sunday for this, because who knows that we would
• 34:23
  have had the same conversation tomorrow. Right that interesting? Yeah? So all
• 34:30
  right, my friends, we love you. We appreciate your time and energy
• 34:34
  for being here, for taking this time, this whatever thirty forty minutes that
• 34:40
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• 34:45
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  see you next time. Bye,