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Episode 5- Maybe I’m Not Too Picky

Apparently, knowing what you want in a relationship means you’re “too picky.” At least according to some people.

In this episode of The Middle Seat, I’m unpacking the difference between having standards and having an impossible checklist—and why I’ve stopped apologizing for wanting emotional availability, communication, consistency, attraction, ambition, affection, and a partner who actually wants to build a life alongside me.

For a long time, I was really good at being understanding. I adjusted. I stayed flexible. I gave grace. I made myself smaller. And sometimes I bent so far trying to…

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