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Nons Miraj Gave Me Bad Luck After Helping  Me - Fish Pie King Cries Out · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to the episode of Bantic Lorencia.
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  How are you all doing if you're doing great for today's episode,
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  I want to talk about the fish pie guy.
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  Fish pie. Now this guy went viral.
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  He was selling fish pie, singing happy shouting, fish pie, fish
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  pie, fish pie content creator and business owner Nurse Mirage
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  saw him, helped him out, got him a place to stay, rented a shop
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  for him, gave him a car, gave him a car.
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  Guys and a whole lot of other people helped him.
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  I thinking Michi, his very dark man, gave him 1,000,000 naira,
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  not Mirage, I think also gave him some money.
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  So he started his life. He was now living a celebrity
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  lifestyle. This guy was, you know, living
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  it up. He got all his family members
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  and friends into the house that Nurse Mirage rented for him.
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  He was feeding everybody. Now it is good to help people
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  because he got help. So there's nothing wrong with
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  him helping people. There's nothing wrong with him
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  carrying his friends and family along.
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  But what comes with that is responsibility.
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  You're giving money to improve your life, to invest in your
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  business, to take your fish power from 1, you know, level to
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  the other. But what he did was he felt, you
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  know, with the fame, with everything he has, he has made
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  it. So he spent the money.
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  He was getting endorsement deals.
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  He was, you know, people were calling him to endorse one of
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  their things, you know, just shouting fish pie, fish pie,
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  fish pie. He made money, but he spent
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  money as well because now he felt, you know, he, he, he's
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  arrived couple of months later because I think it's been a year
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  since the whole thing happened. So after some months we started
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  hearing that fish pie guy is is he he's broke.
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  People said broke. What do you mean he's broke?
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  What happened? He granted an interview with
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  another content creator saying that he's broke, that a lot of
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  people that promised so many things to him never fulfil their
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  promises. And, you know, some people rode
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  on the whole, you know, wave of fish pie guy.
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  Everybody was trying to to tap into that virality that he had
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  at that point. So yes, so many people made
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  promises to him that were not fulfilled, but also so many
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  people helped him out. So many people promised and
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  fulfilled their promises. I think what had happened was
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  that because people promised a whole lot of things, he was
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  spending money based on promises that were not even fulfilled at
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  that point. So let's see if I've given you a
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  car and I've given you a house, I gave you a shop, I told you to
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  start a business and then somebody else said I will give
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  you 10 million naira. Now with the hope of that 10
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  million naira you are spending based on the fact that you have
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  10 million naira. Remember that 10 million naira
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  is not even in your account. So you're spending based on
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  you're spending audio money. Audio money was what he was
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  spending. I think Transcorp also gave him
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  a job to, I don't even know to bake a cake.
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  I don't even know what he was in, in Transcorp.
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  He literally left what made him viral, which was fish pie.
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  If he had started fish pie business, if he had started
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  deliveries or you know, I think he's not a business.
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  There's a difference between being a small business person
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  and being able to scale that business to the next level,
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  which I think was his problem. He wasn't able to scale that
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  business. He got a job with Transcorp.
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  I don't even know how much he was paid.
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  But then he said he was broke, he learnt how to make cakes.
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  And then he was granting interviews saying that Nurse
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  Mirage did not help or not. He was trying to accuse Nurse
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  Mirage. Nurse Mirage had to come out and
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  say, listen, I helped you. Don't let God punish you, don't
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  let Thunder fire you, saying that I did not help you, I
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  helped you. So he came out and clarified
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  that he was not actually referring to Nurse Mirage.
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  OK, we thought some fish pie guy.
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  Everything has died down now. Fish pie guy is back on Nedus
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  podcast, podcast, Clarity Zone. Now Nedu, Nedu is back, Nedu is
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  Nedu is on fire. After Nedu left of the Honest
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  Punch podcast, we thought very dark man had destroyed Nedu.
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  We thought that Nedu, you know, he's no longer going to be able
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  to, according to VDM, he's not, he's not going to be able to do
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  anything in Nigeria. But Nedu is was quietly
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  building. Nedu started the Honest Punch,
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  the Clarity Zone podcast. There's another one that he was
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  doing I think had a branch in South Africa or something like
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  that. But he's he's doing well.
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  He's doing well. And now Nidhu had fish pie guy
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  on his podcast. Let me just play what he had to
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  say before I get into the whole thing.
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  I started Horsley right from the age of 7.
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  I started living with people right from the day my dad died.
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  The only person that gave me 1,000,000 was VGM.
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  Every other one. Was fake.
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  Even the one that Amos came out crying that he gave me millions
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  to fake. Who's?
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  That the content creator though, he said he gave me, he gave me
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  he rented a shop for me. So the shop that he rented, he
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  said he rented, I did rented a shop before the car came in for
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  the car. OK, so the car drained my life.
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  The funniest part there is the first day that I used the car, I
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  took it to the mechanic. Oh, after it was presented to
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  you. So they gave you a broken car
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  basically that needed a lot of work.
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  But the day that I took the car to the house, the next day I had
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  to go out with the car. So I said let me use it.
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  That was when it got bad. The house we should give you, to
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  be sincere and to be frank, truly speaking, since I, I went
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  there, I've not seen anything good since you went away to the
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  house, since I've been living there.
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  The one that gave to you. How long have you been there
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  for? I've been there for a year and
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  six months now. The house, as I'm talking to
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  yourself tomorrow is my last day staying there and wow, wow.
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  My last hope is me going back to the to my hometown.
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  Be careful who you help. Some people have victim
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  mentality, some people live in victimhood.
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  So regardless of what you do, they're always going to come out
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  to be the victim. Now I empathise with him because
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  According to him, he said that his dad died and from the age of
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  seven he has been hustling. He has been, you know, living
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  from one place to the other. He talked about abuse, things
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  that was done to him as a child and things that was done to him
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  as, you know, a teenager. So you would assume that after
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  he had gone through all these things, the first helper he's
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  going to get, he's going to utilise it, he's going to
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  maximise it, he's going to, he's going to like there's nothing as
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  good as opportunity meeting preparation.
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  Sometimes it's not about how long you've suffered.
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  Sometimes it's not even about luck.
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  It's about are you prepared for that opportunity?
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  We pray for opportunity. We pray for our helpers to
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  locate us. We pray for you do that job that
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  you think is going to change your life.
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  Are you prepared? Are you ready for that
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  opportunity? Fish pie guy, in my opinion, was
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  not ready. Yes, he had had a very, you
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  know, bad childhood According to him.
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  You know, his his parents were not there.
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  He lived from one place to the other.
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  He has been selling, he was selling fish pie.
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  I think everything because he was selling in a showcase.
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  So I think everything there wouldn't even not be up to, I
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  don't think it will be up to 10,000 that he was Hawking on
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  the streets. Now you met somebody who gave
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  you a car, who rented a house, According to him, OK, she did
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  not rent a shop. He rented the shop.
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  VDM gave him 1,000,000 naira. He got a job with, I think,
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  Transcorp. He was collecting endorsement
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  deals. So he had every.
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  It wasn't about capital, it wasn't about finances.
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  Because sometimes people think money solves problems.
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  Money does not solve problem. Money does not solve a problem
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  that you don't know the solution to or you are not prepared to
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  solve. Money does not solve that
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  problem. He's blaming nurse marriage,
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  saying that since he got into the house, he has not, he has
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  not seen anything good that the car, he took the car home, the
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  car broke down. This is why people don't help
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  people because you don't know who you're going to help that is
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  going to come out and drag you. You don't know who you're going
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  to help that is going to come out and say and allude to the
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  fact that your help made them worse.
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  I learnt a very important lesson last year because I've always
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  known that giving people money does not solve problems.
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  I've always known that to give money, you have to understand
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  what they're going to use them, what, what is the money for?
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  And if the money is not going towards solving A viable
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  problem, then it's as good as, you know, lighting it up and
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  setting that money ablaze. I did.
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  I was just like, you know what, let's try, let us try.
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  And it was, it was the same story.
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  It was the same story. I think the lessons here is
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  sometimes we pray for opportunity, we pray for things,
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  we ask God to open doors. We ask God for our helpers to
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  locate us. We want we want to be like every
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  other person. People say, oh I have been doing
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  this all these years. This person just started and
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  they are successful. Why is it me?
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  Village People is following me. Oh my God, you don't know how
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  prepared. That's what a person is.
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  You look at content creators, if they show their throwback, you
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  see most of them started in churches acting, you know, very
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  active. They were very active.
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  But sometimes if we just think, OK, I just have content
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  creation, let me I need to just blow.
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  It does not work like that. If money could solve problems,
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  fish pie guy would not be in the Clarity Zone podcast talking
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  about Nurse Murad giving him a car, the car breaking down,
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  talking about nobody helped him, talking about the house rent
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  he's due, He's going to go back to the village.
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  What happened to all the money? Which is why I see before you
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  help anybody, make sure that you yourself, you're OK.
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  Because if you're OK, regardless of what that person is doing
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  you, you're fine. Just imagine if Nurse Mirage was
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  also struggling and she took the last money she could have
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  invested in herself and she gave this fish pie guy what could
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  have happened? Now she's sitting down hearing
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  everything he's saying, talking about he doesn't have a house or
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  he, he, he's about to go to the village or he is.
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  You know, sometimes we, we, we help not because we want to
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  help, but because of God, because of God.
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  What do you think? Do you think that fish pie guy
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  was not prepared for the opportunities that he got?
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  Or do you think that he's right? Maybe not.
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  Mirage took his glory, maybe those Mara took his glory and
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  used it for something and now she's very successful.
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  She she has several BBLS. She does she's done a nose job.
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  She is you know those marriage is flying around the world doing
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  a pop the balloon. So are you leaning towards the
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  fact that the fish pie guy is accusing Nosmara?
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  He's right in accusing those mirage of I don't even know what
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  he's accusing her of saying that since he got into the house that
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  she rented he has not seen anything good.
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  That on its own is an accusation of something that is open for
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  interpretation. Or do you think that he was
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  never prepared? He is never the type that would
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  be Some people are very comfortable with daily living.
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  If they get 200 naira per day, they're fine.
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  If they get 200 naira per day, they're fine.
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  But take that money to 100,000. They would crash back to that
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  100 naira. Do you think that that was
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  exactly what happens to fish pie guy?
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  Or do you think that you know, he just, he just couldn't handle
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  it? Let me know what you think.
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