Latest / The Breakfast Club / J Lo says she’s never been “truly” loved and claps back + NLE Choppa says Jonathan Majors is jealous
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- 0:01Speaker 1: The toys.
- 0:02Speaker 2: I'm the homegirl that knows a little bit about everything
- 0:04Speaker 2: and everybody.
- 0:06Speaker 3: You don't know if you don't lie about that, right Lauren, Hey, y'all.
- 0:09Speaker 1: What's up.
- 0:10Speaker 2: It's Laura l Rosa and this is the latest with
- 0:13Speaker 2: Laura la Rosa. This is your Deli dig on all
- 0:15Speaker 2: things pop culture, entertainment, news, and all of the conversations
- 0:19Speaker 2: that shake the room. Baby Now, Miss Jennifer Lopez has
- 0:24Speaker 2: been on a press tour of sorts. J Lo has
- 0:29Speaker 2: been running around presenting her or presenting it. Has been
- 0:33Speaker 2: running around having conversations about a new movie that she
- 0:36Speaker 2: is starring in, A Kiss of a Spider Woman. And
- 0:40Speaker 2: during these press tours, you know, there's a lot of
- 0:42Speaker 2: conversations that are being had about her dating, her marriages
- 0:45Speaker 2: and all the things.
- 0:46Speaker 1: You know.
- 0:47Speaker 2: She recently real recently it has been divorced from Ben Affleck.
- 0:52Speaker 2: They got divorced back in February, and this was their
- 0:54Speaker 2: second time trying to do this whole thing.
- 0:57Speaker 1: This was ben a for two point oh.
- 0:58Speaker 2: This was supposed to be the one, This was supposed
- 1:01Speaker 2: to be Okay, she finally got it together.
- 1:02Speaker 1: They doing the things. It was so beautiful. The love
- 1:06Speaker 1: story we kindled and Dune Dundune it did not work.
- 1:09Speaker 2: So as she's on this tour, of course these conversations
- 1:12Speaker 2: are coming up now. She sat down with Howard Stern,
- 1:15Speaker 2: and Howard Stern began talking to her about dating and
- 1:19Speaker 2: her dating life, and Howard Stern acts as Jlo. You know,
- 1:25Speaker 2: how are you even doing this at this point because
- 1:26Speaker 2: you're Jaelo, Like what does love look like for you?
- 1:28Speaker 2: And how do you even you know, y'all know that
- 1:31Speaker 2: conversation because you're.
- 1:32Speaker 1: Super famous, like how are you dating? What is that vibe? Like,
- 1:35Speaker 1: let's take a listen.
- 1:36Speaker 4: As soon as you hook up with a guy. Yeah,
- 1:38Speaker 4: I don't know how a relationship could survive.
- 1:41Speaker 3: It's difficult to be under that, you know microscope.
- 1:44Speaker 4: Yeah, does it seem like everything is doomed from the beginning?
- 1:48Speaker 4: You know what?
- 1:48Speaker 1: I no, No, I don't.
- 1:49Speaker 3: I don't feel that. I feel that I lived my
- 1:52Speaker 3: life very out loud, even though I was in the
- 1:55Speaker 3: public eye, and I wanted to share my life with someone.
- 1:58Speaker 3: I want someone to be there when I'm having my
- 2:00Speaker 3: big important moments on the red carpet. I want someone
- 2:03Speaker 3: to be there, you know, when I'm doing whatever, or
- 2:05Speaker 3: when I'm going to the store. Whatever it is, like,
- 2:08Speaker 3: I wanted to share that, and so I didn't hide
- 2:11Speaker 3: from it, and I spoke about it. And I think now,
- 2:14Speaker 3: after what's happened in the past few years to me
- 2:17Speaker 3: and to my children, I just feel like I want
- 2:20Speaker 3: to keep that part so much more quiet in my life.
- 2:24Speaker 3: And it's hard because these are big moments in your life.
- 2:26Speaker 3: You want to share them with everybody, right, and you
- 2:28Speaker 3: think that's okay. But the truth is, when you're in
- 2:31Speaker 3: this type of career and you have the type of
- 2:33Speaker 3: level of fame that we're talking about, there is a
- 2:36Speaker 3: compromise you have. There are adjustments that you do need
- 2:39Speaker 3: to make because it is a very blessed life.
- 2:42Speaker 2: But then, and this is what got one of j
- 2:44Speaker 2: Lo's exes pretty pretty upset. Her first husband, Oh, Johnny, no, no, Haii.
- 2:51Speaker 2: I'm probably saying this last thing wrong. I say names
- 2:53Speaker 2: wrong a lot.
- 2:53Speaker 1: She was married to him in ninety seven. They divorced
- 2:56Speaker 1: in ninety eight.
- 2:56Speaker 2: They were only together for about eleven months, and then
- 2:59Speaker 2: she started dating Diddy, So that ex husband was pissed
- 3:03Speaker 2: about these comments. She says she's never been truly loved.
- 3:06Speaker 2: Let's take a listen.
- 3:08Speaker 4: Do you think you've truly been loved?
- 3:11Speaker 3: No?
- 3:12Speaker 4: No? And do you think you really have experienced loving someone?
- 3:15Speaker 4: Yes you have? Yeah, And when you can't get that
- 3:18Speaker 4: love back.
- 3:18Speaker 3: What I learned it's not that I'm not lovable, is
- 3:22Speaker 3: that they're not capable. They can't love, they don't have
- 3:25Speaker 3: it in them. They need to appreciate the little person
- 3:28Speaker 3: inside of them. They able to give them relationships, and
- 3:31Speaker 3: they gave me what they had, but they gave me
- 3:34Speaker 3: all of it every time.
- 3:35Speaker 4: But it's this much.
- 3:36Speaker 3: All the rings, all the things I could ever want
- 3:39Speaker 3: try to give me, the houses, the rings, the marriage,
- 3:42Speaker 3: all of it.
- 3:43Speaker 4: But they didn't love you.
- 3:45Speaker 3: They didn't and didn't know you, and I didn't love myself.
- 3:48Speaker 4: Right, It's tough. This is just some journey, right it is.
- 3:52Speaker 4: And you know, I was thinking about your music. Most
- 3:53Speaker 4: of your songs are about love. They really are.
- 3:55Speaker 3: They're all about love.
- 3:57Speaker 1: I'm not gonna hold all.
- 3:58Speaker 2: When I saw the clip like the not never been
- 4:01Speaker 2: truly loved clip, I knew I'm like, of all of
- 4:07Speaker 2: the relationships we've watched with j Lo and the ex husbands,
- 4:11Speaker 2: somebody is gonna come out and be like girl, what
- 4:14Speaker 2: because to me, there isn't a lot of accountability in
- 4:19Speaker 2: her answer, and we don't know the inside details of
- 4:22Speaker 2: the marriages. We don't, so I mean, who's to say
- 4:25Speaker 2: that she was the one in the right and they
- 4:28Speaker 2: were in the wrong every single time. It just doesn't
- 4:31Speaker 2: seem realistic, Like as a human being, as a person
- 4:34Speaker 2: who you know, relationships, they're always fifty to fifty. You
- 4:38Speaker 2: got sometimes somebody's right, sometimes somebody's wrong, all the things right.
- 4:43Speaker 1: And granted it.
- 4:44Speaker 2: Is totally her choice to say I feel like I
- 4:47Speaker 2: was not loved correctly, and I'm standing on that, and
- 4:50Speaker 2: that is why I am choosing to, you know, do
- 4:53Speaker 2: me and focus on me and love me right now.
- 4:56Speaker 2: I totally love that for her. But it just didn't
- 4:58Speaker 2: seem realistic. I don't think that there is ever in
- 5:01Speaker 2: my opinion, I've never heard someone talk about a divorce
- 5:04Speaker 2: or a marriage in general where one thing didn't like
- 5:09Speaker 2: not one thing didn't.
- 5:10Speaker 1: Cause the other.
- 5:10Speaker 2: But we're you know, there just wasn't things on both sides,
- 5:13Speaker 2: like when you're with somebody. I mean, in eleven months
- 5:15Speaker 2: is not a long time, you know, but it's still
- 5:18Speaker 2: some time. But there's been multiple different marriages following oh, Johnny,
- 5:21Speaker 2: you know she was married to Chris Judd in two
- 5:23Speaker 2: thousand and one, Mark Anthony in two thousand and four,
- 5:26Speaker 2: Ben Affleck in twenty twenty two, and then dating and
- 5:29Speaker 2: stuff in between that. I thought that there would be
- 5:32Speaker 2: a little bit more and I think a lot of
- 5:33Speaker 2: us were waiting to see. You know, where does she
- 5:36Speaker 2: come into play in this at all? People have always wondered, like,
- 5:39Speaker 2: what's the issue and is it jaylove? We've always wondered that.
- 5:46Speaker 2: But he came out and he had a lot to say.
- 5:48Speaker 2: So in response to that, oh Johnny says, stop putting
- 5:52Speaker 2: us down. Stop putting me down with your victim card.
- 5:54Speaker 1: The problem. It's not us, not me, the problem. It's you.
- 5:58Speaker 2: You're the only one who could who couldn't keep it
- 6:00Speaker 2: in your pants. You have been loved, and he put
- 6:03Speaker 2: loved in quotation marks a few times. You've been married
- 6:05Speaker 2: four times and have had countless relationships in between. You
- 6:10Speaker 2: have had good relationships dot dot dot me. For example,
- 6:13Speaker 2: I was in love with you. I was even moving
- 6:16Speaker 2: out of state, leaving my job. So when they were dating,
- 6:18Speaker 2: they were in different places. So he was in one state.
- 6:21Speaker 2: He was a waiter at the time that him and
- 6:23Speaker 2: Jlo met. Jalo was like on her way up and
- 6:26Speaker 2: figuring it out. But the start it wasn't like Jlo,
- 6:29Speaker 2: so she I mean, she was Jlo, but she was
- 6:31Speaker 2: still on her way up. So she had just godcast
- 6:34Speaker 2: at Selena. And then you guys know around the time
- 6:37Speaker 2: of selenas when she started working on her first album,
- 6:39Speaker 2: you know, she got the big record deal and all
- 6:41Speaker 2: the things. So they were kind of in the beginning
- 6:43Speaker 2: stages of their career. His dream was to open up
- 6:45Speaker 2: a restaurant. She was doing the entertainment thing and they
- 6:48Speaker 2: were going to do it together. So they were in
- 6:51Speaker 2: various states at the time, so he's saying, I was
- 6:53Speaker 2: going to move out of state, lead my job, my family,
- 6:55Speaker 2: my friends behind and support you, to love you, protect you,
- 6:58Speaker 2: and to care for you.
- 6:59Speaker 1: I'm an amaze.
- 7:00Speaker 2: He's in loving person, a great human being, honest, faithful
- 7:03Speaker 2: to you. I'd never lied, never misbehaved, never cheated, and
- 7:05Speaker 2: he put cheated in all caps on you.
- 7:08Speaker 1: I was too good for you.
- 7:09Speaker 2: I'm too good of a man for you, and I
- 7:12Speaker 2: will say around the time of their separation and even
- 7:16Speaker 2: years after, Oh, Johnny has always spoke out and when
- 7:20Speaker 2: he spoke out. He's always said, I might be saying
- 7:23Speaker 2: his wrong name. I believe it's O Honey, not Oh Johnny. Yeah,
- 7:26Speaker 2: it's oh Honey. Dang, I'm saying oh Johnny, it's oh Honey.
- 7:31Speaker 2: But even around that time, he was always saying that,
- 7:34Speaker 2: you know, when he alleges that when j Lo got
- 7:37Speaker 2: the big record deal and Diddy was brought in to
- 7:40Speaker 2: produce some of her songs, that's when everything kind of split.
- 7:43Speaker 2: So it sounds to me, and I think he's actually
- 7:45Speaker 2: said this before that Diddy was the reason for them,
- 7:49Speaker 2: because at that point, now she becomes j Lo and
- 7:51Speaker 2: and the fame hits and all the things, and she
- 7:54Speaker 2: decides to move on. And I've also seen reports too
- 7:57Speaker 2: that there were some like, you know, paperwork sent to
- 8:01Speaker 2: him so that he could stop talking about the relationship
- 8:04Speaker 2: in the past with them and all the things.
- 8:06Speaker 1: But he talking now.
- 8:08Speaker 2: That was supposed to be via his Instagram story, and
- 8:10Speaker 2: of course you know, the people picked it up could
- 8:13Speaker 2: not wait.
- 8:21Speaker 1: Now.
- 8:21Speaker 2: In other relationship news, Nli Choppa, So y'all remember we
- 8:26Speaker 2: talked about Nli Choppa and he did to sit down
- 8:28Speaker 2: on Kirk Franklin's Den of Kings.
- 8:30Speaker 1: He was with ray J keV on stage.
- 8:33Speaker 2: Doctor J who does the Just Heal podcast on the
- 8:36Speaker 2: Black Effect Network with Doctor J, and they were having
- 8:40Speaker 2: conversations about so many things, relationships, self harm, suicide, just
- 8:46Speaker 2: being black men, being vulnerable, you know, being happy, not
- 8:50Speaker 2: being happy, grief, death and n La Choppa really got
- 8:55Speaker 2: mixture reviews about his role in the conversation. And when
- 9:00Speaker 2: I reported this on the Breakfast Club, I said that
- 9:02Speaker 2: I believe in Nli Choppa.
- 9:03Speaker 1: Meant well and his input was valued.
- 9:07Speaker 2: You know, I think the point of the discussions that
- 9:10Speaker 2: Kirk Franklin has is that he brings people from all
- 9:13Speaker 2: different places, all different walks of life, different ages, different experiences,
- 9:18Speaker 2: and it's like come as you are and.
- 9:20Speaker 1: They get together.
- 9:21Speaker 2: They eat good, they talk good, and it's a great
- 9:23Speaker 2: interaction to see. You got Ray J in the room,
- 9:25Speaker 2: so you know there's some comedic relief, not even on purpose,
- 9:27Speaker 2: but it was a good interaction.
- 9:29Speaker 1: It was a good conversation.
- 9:30Speaker 2: But Nli Choppa got pushed back, even you know, from
- 9:33Speaker 2: Ray J in the actual dinner because a lot of
- 9:38Speaker 2: people felt like Nli Choppa just wasn't listening and you know,
- 9:42Speaker 2: he was only there to rebut what was being said
- 9:45Speaker 2: and not actually take in and you know all of
- 9:48Speaker 2: that stuff. But there were some pretty you know, crazy moments,
- 9:54Speaker 2: not crazy, but there were some moments between Nli Choppa
- 9:57Speaker 2: and Jonathan Majors. One of the ones that picked up
- 9:59Speaker 2: the biggest well when Nlie Chapper began to talk about
- 10:02Speaker 2: reading the Bible and you know, just everybody being able
- 10:06Speaker 2: to walk the same and you know how people look
- 10:08Speaker 2: at God versus you listen, let's list.
- 10:11Speaker 5: And Christianity.
- 10:16Speaker 1: It's a thing.
- 10:16Speaker 6: Where people praise the son more than they praise the Father.
- 10:23Speaker 6: And that's what I don't like, because if we are
- 10:28Speaker 6: man made in the likeness Jesus is our brother. You
- 10:35Speaker 6: get what I'm saying, why would I drop down and
- 10:39Speaker 6: praise my brother instead of praising my father? And it
- 10:44Speaker 6: goes back to honor in your parents.
- 10:46Speaker 5: I just gotta say, sorry, what, oh, have you read
- 10:51Speaker 5: the Bible?
- 10:52Speaker 4: Read? I read the Bible.
- 10:54Speaker 6: I listened to the Bible I received from sources.
- 10:58Speaker 1: I would say, read it again.
- 11:00Speaker 2: The mess your question right, chat that go read the
- 11:03Speaker 2: Bible again went crazy online?
- 11:06Speaker 1: Okay, and I just think that, I mean, listen.
- 11:09Speaker 2: I watched the full interview when it came out we
- 11:11Speaker 2: broke it down here on The Latest with Lauren le
- 11:13Speaker 2: Rose of the podcast.
- 11:14Speaker 1: If you guys have not listened to the episode, please go.
- 11:16Speaker 2: Take a listen. It'll give you some more context into
- 11:19Speaker 2: the full conversation. I didn't feel like there was tension
- 11:23Speaker 2: between Jonathan Majors and Nli Choppa. I felt like a
- 11:28Speaker 2: few people in the room were getting to the point
- 11:30Speaker 2: where they were running out of patience for Nlli Choppa
- 11:33Speaker 2: and just how he was responding and you know those things.
- 11:36Speaker 1: But I didn't feel like there was tension.
- 11:38Speaker 2: But Nli Choppa said to TMZ they caught him out
- 11:41Speaker 2: at the airport over the weekend, and he says he
- 11:44Speaker 2: believes there was sension because he shot his shot at
- 11:47Speaker 2: Megan Good, who is now married to Jonathan Majors. Let's
- 11:50Speaker 2: take a listen to Nli Chapa on the alleged beef
- 11:53Speaker 2: with him and Jonathan Majors.
- 11:55Speaker 1: I feel like it's not an issue with Majors.
- 11:57Speaker 7: I never had one.
- 11:58Speaker 5: I do feel like it was tension going into the
- 12:00Speaker 5: interview on his behalf because I've publicly said man's compliment
- 12:05Speaker 5: and Meghan Good about how you look, so like during
- 12:09Speaker 5: the interview.
- 12:10Speaker 1: It was like certain moments to where like I.
- 12:13Speaker 7: Just felt like he kept trying to use the Meghan
- 12:16Speaker 7: game to like you know how people are as kids,
- 12:21Speaker 7: people waved up in your face like hey I got this,
- 12:23Speaker 7: you ain't got that.
- 12:24Speaker 5: Yeah, But it wasn't even that, bro, It was like,
- 12:26Speaker 5: you know, I respect whatever you know, union y'all have,
- 12:29Speaker 5: But it was like he kept during the interview, it
- 12:31Speaker 5: was moments where it just felt forced and it felt
- 12:35Speaker 5: unnatural with how he was bringing her into the equation.
- 12:39Speaker 2: Yeah, so let's not to listen to the you know,
- 12:41Speaker 2: NL E shop of shooting his shot. Now, can I
- 12:43Speaker 2: preface this was saying Meghan Good was single at the time.
- 12:46Speaker 2: She wasn't with Jonathan Majors that we knew of. She
- 12:50Speaker 2: was recently you know, divorced from Devon Franklin, who you know,
- 12:54Speaker 2: she had a very public relationship with a lot of
- 12:57Speaker 2: people were shooting their shot, even if just on social
- 13:00Speaker 2: media because it's Meghan Good, She's gorgeous. Let's listen to
- 13:04Speaker 2: Lli Chopper though he was sitting down with Jason Lee,
- 13:07Speaker 2: shout out to Jason Lee.
- 13:08Speaker 1: Hey, Jason and Jason Lee actually called Meghan Good for
- 13:12Speaker 1: NLL because he had been shooting his shot so much.
- 13:14Speaker 8: It's next was she's recently single? Megan Good Way on
- 13:20Speaker 8: her yes, like yes, man, like, listen, let me call Meghan.
- 13:24Speaker 5: We got Meganova.
- 13:26Speaker 8: Come on, Jason Lee.
- 13:27Speaker 3: Oh, she gottaut.
- 13:28Speaker 4: I could be appreciate all that.
- 13:30Speaker 3: What else you want me to be?
- 13:33Speaker 8: Meghan? Hey, this is Jason Lee. This is my other phone.
- 13:38Speaker 8: But I'm literally sitting here filming my show right now.
- 13:41Speaker 8: I'm filming right now with a rapper who just said
- 13:44Speaker 8: your We're playing a game called smash her pass. I
- 13:46Speaker 8: put up Megan Good and he almost fell out his chair.
- 13:49Speaker 8: Everybody else has been getting passes? What say hello to
- 13:54Speaker 8: NLLI Chopper. He hasn't given me this minch energy the
- 13:56Speaker 8: whole interview, but now I see every tooth in his mouth.
- 14:00Speaker 3: Hi, Hey, how you doing?
- 14:03Speaker 4: Meg?
- 14:05Speaker 8: I'm good?
- 14:05Speaker 1: How are you doing?
- 14:06Speaker 3: I'm extremely blessed.
- 14:08Speaker 7: Oh I was just telling she hung up, let me
- 14:11Speaker 7: say it.
- 14:13Speaker 1: Phone die now.
- 14:14Speaker 2: The phone got disconnected, you know. And of course that
- 14:17Speaker 2: was that went viral as well. But NL Chopper says
- 14:20Speaker 2: that Meghan Good called back, and Meccan Goood actually talked
- 14:23Speaker 2: about calling back as well, but I don't think she
- 14:25Speaker 2: was interested. She said, you know Nli Chopper was a baby,
- 14:27Speaker 2: he's a little young for her. I don't think she
- 14:29Speaker 2: was really interested. I think she was just being polite. Now,
- 14:32Speaker 2: let's also a preface. This was saying the whole NLL
- 14:35Speaker 2: shooting is shot and Megan Good phone call thing. That
- 14:38Speaker 2: was back in March of twenty twenty three. It's October
- 14:40Speaker 2: twenty twenty five. I don't think Donavan Majors would still
- 14:43Speaker 2: be upset. But let's take a listen to Megan Good
- 14:45Speaker 2: because back you know, in twenty twenty three, she did
- 14:48Speaker 2: address the phone call and the phone called, you know,
- 14:51Speaker 2: dropping or her hanging up and her calling back, and
- 14:54Speaker 2: I guests she was interested.
- 14:56Speaker 1: I mean, so he kind of shot his shot.
- 14:58Speaker 3: So what happened in that congress?
- 15:00Speaker 1: Oh, I'm just I'm very old. I'm just kidding.
- 15:04Speaker 2: Okay, he's a little okay, but I mean it was
- 15:09Speaker 2: still still flattered, you.
- 15:10Speaker 1: Know, No, always definitely flatter. So y'all, let me know
- 15:14Speaker 1: what y'all think.
- 15:15Speaker 2: Is it real beef in these streets with Jonathan Major's
- 15:17Speaker 2: and Nli Choppa. I never thought I'd be putting those
- 15:19Speaker 2: two names together and asking is there beef? You know,
- 15:23Speaker 2: take it to the streets and the tweets. Let me
- 15:24Speaker 2: know what y'all think. Outside, We outside.
- 15:28Speaker 1: Outside, outside, every other page.
- 15:30Speaker 2: I really think that Nli Choppa misread the energy from
- 15:38Speaker 2: Jonathan Majors. I don't think that it was intentional from
- 15:42Speaker 2: Jonathan Majors, but we have not heard from him on this.
- 15:45Speaker 2: But I watched the full interview and there were points
- 15:47Speaker 2: where I think everybody was kind of, you know, growing
- 15:50Speaker 2: a bit impatient with Nellie, even Kirk Franklin. There was
- 15:52Speaker 2: a moment where Kirk Franklin had to ask an Lli
- 15:53Speaker 2: chopping himself like hey, you know, and.
- 15:55Speaker 1: Elie hold on for a second.
- 15:56Speaker 2: And it wasn't impatient where they it was like in
- 15:59Speaker 2: discuss It was brotherly, it was out of love. It
- 16:02Speaker 2: was we love you. We want you to hear us, y'all.
- 16:06Speaker 2: Let me know what y'all think. Okay, I'm Laura la Rosa.
- 16:09Speaker 2: Everywhere I want to hear from you guys. At the
- 16:11Speaker 2: end of the day, there's always a lot to talk about,
- 16:14Speaker 2: and y'all, I love it and I appreciate it every
- 16:16Speaker 2: single time you guys are here with me to talk
- 16:19Speaker 2: about it.
- 16:20Speaker 1: I'm Laura l Rosa. This is the latest with Laura L.
- 16:22Speaker 2: Rosa, and I will catch you guys in my next episode.