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Vocal De Frag Episode 205 You Are The Greatest Person You'll Ever Meet · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: Hey, have you checked out arrow dot net yet? A
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  Speaker 1: all over the world, and one of the things that
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  Speaker 1: I've really jumped into lately is varying writing instruments and
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  Speaker 1: then coming back months and years later. I call it
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  Speaker 1: dot net. Enjoy your exploration, Hey, Saro, and this is
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  Speaker 1: vocal dfrag Dfragging is giving yourself permission to ask yourself
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  Speaker 1: questions and then question those answers.
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  Speaker 2: So often we like to hand it off. This isn't
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  Speaker 2: a football game. This is not a baseball game, nor
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  Speaker 2: is this a basketball game. Quit handing stuff off and
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  Speaker 2: deal with it the way that you need to deal
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  Speaker 2: with it. Where is that coming from? No? Seriously, though,
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  Speaker 2: how many times have you been in a situation or
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  Speaker 2: people have run up to you and said I need
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  Speaker 2: to know what I should do right here, and then
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  Speaker 2: it goes in a direction that didn't pay off for
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  Speaker 2: you or them? Was it because the person you sought
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  Speaker 2: information from didn't know you, They don't walk in your shoes? Probably? Probably,
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  Speaker 2: And that's why you've got to ask yourself the questions
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  Speaker 2: and then question the answers. This is called defragging. I
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  Speaker 2: do it in a journal. I've been doing it since
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  Speaker 2: November of twenty seventeen. And then I thought, wait a second,
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  Speaker 2: I'm missing the entire picture here vocal befragging. I can
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  Speaker 2: go back and hear the pitch, volume, and tone of
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  Speaker 2: the heart speaking and not the writing instrument, because that's
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  Speaker 2: when your mind goes this is the interpretation. Oh he
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  Speaker 2: was having a bad day that day. Now I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to compare it today, you know, baloney on that deal
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  Speaker 2: with it by doing a vocal dfrag and listen to
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  Speaker 2: your heart, big subject today and by It came to
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  Speaker 2: me right in the center of a full morning of
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  Speaker 2: really really in depth interviews for the podcast, and the
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  Speaker 2: thought was, is that I ask myself, in what you do?
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  Speaker 2: Are you the greatest one to do? It? Sounds conceded,
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  Speaker 2: doesn't it? Oh my god? A little bit too much
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  Speaker 2: courage on the left side. The right side, Oh man,
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  Speaker 2: stay away from this one. He's really into himself. Now,
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  Speaker 2: I want you to think about this. I want you
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  Speaker 2: to think about what you do in your every day
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  Speaker 2: what you do, not what your neighbors do, not what
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  Speaker 2: your job expects you to do. What you do on
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  Speaker 2: a daily basis, the grip, the grind, the tripping, the falling,
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  Speaker 2: the picking up, the victories, the losses, everything that you do.
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  Speaker 2: I believe in my heart, if you don't think that
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  Speaker 2: you are the greatest you there is, you've got reason
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  Speaker 2: to ask questions and then question answers, because in all
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  Speaker 2: things that you do, you are the greatest one to
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  Speaker 2: do it, to be you doing it. Do you know
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  Speaker 2: what I mean by that? I mean anybody and everybody.
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  Speaker 2: By the millions, people are hosting podcasts around the world.
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  Speaker 2: But do they do it like I do it? Do
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  Speaker 2: they do the planning? Do they do the editing as
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  Speaker 2: well as the research? Oh? My god? Do I know
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  Speaker 2: anybody else that does it as hard as I do? No?
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  Speaker 2: I don't. I'm sure they're out there, I just don't
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  Speaker 2: know them. And I believe that that's the way the
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  Speaker 2: real world is, is that in everything you do, you
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  Speaker 2: got to start looking at yourself as being the greatest
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  Speaker 2: one that does you because it's your shoes, it's your life,
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  Speaker 2: it's your journey forward. But if you're so, you know,
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  Speaker 2: haveheartedly just throwing jump to the side because you want
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  Speaker 2: other people to decide for you. Okay, well that's the
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  Speaker 2: best you can be because you're that one that just
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  Speaker 2: hands the ball off. But sometimes the quarterback on that
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  Speaker 2: NFL team has got to toss that ball down the
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  Speaker 2: field and create an oh wow moment, And that O
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  Speaker 2: wow moment for you is not going to happen if
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  Speaker 2: you're allowing somebody else to make that decision for you.
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  Speaker 2: I don't mean that in a negative way. I'm just saying,
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  Speaker 2: get control. Get control. By saying I am the greatest
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  Speaker 2: me that I will ever know, I mean, seriously, it's
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  Speaker 2: not a negative. It's understanding the process of the mind, body,
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  Speaker 2: and soul and believing in the foundation and the personal
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  Speaker 2: growth that you're going to require in order to reach
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  Speaker 2: a certain height in your endeavors of growing into this
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  Speaker 2: that you envision. How do you do it? Why do
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  Speaker 2: you do it? You think that person you're going to
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  Speaker 2: ask has been there before. No no, no, no, especially your job.
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  Speaker 2: You know what they're more interested in what are you
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  Speaker 2: doing of that you to make them money? And I
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  Speaker 2: run into that all the time at the essential job. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I took up a part time job at a grocery
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  Speaker 2: store because I just wanted to be with people. But
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  Speaker 2: you want to know the one thing I've learned in
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  Speaker 2: my six years of being in that grocery store, I'm
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  Speaker 2: making the general manager and all the department heads on staff,
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  Speaker 2: they're making their bonuses. Do I get any of that? No?
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  Speaker 2: Oh okay, what about your life? Okay? How about making
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  Speaker 2: that investment in you? And if you have a closed
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  Speaker 2: door policy with you, you ask the questions, you question
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  Speaker 2: the answers. You are the greatest person that could ever
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  Speaker 2: play the part of you. Nobody is going to do
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  Speaker 2: you like you ask the questions, question the answers. It's
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  Speaker 2: called vocal be ragging. I'm MARYL.