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REWIND: 2021 · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: the God. We are the Breakfast Club. Now if you
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  Speaker 1: just join us, we're talking the word bitch, the b word.
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  Speaker 1: Who are you calling a bitch? Right now? This conversation
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  Speaker 1: comes from our conversation we had with Academics yesterday where
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  Speaker 1: people were upset and believe he referred to Little Wayne's daughter,
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  Speaker 1: Regend Carter, little Wayne and uh Toya's daughter, and people
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  Speaker 1: are upset about it. So we're asking, let's talk about
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  Speaker 1: the word bitch. Yeah, I think it's bigger than academics.
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  Speaker 1: As you started, Yeah, this is this is a this
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  Speaker 1: is a That word has been a cultural staple for
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  Speaker 1: a long time. All right, So we're asking, let's start
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  Speaker 1: with you, what's your what's your doing? Well, I think
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  Speaker 1: for women, we talk to each other like that in
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  Speaker 1: a positive way, like six we'd be like bitch, you know,
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  Speaker 1: and so I feel like that's not going anywhere. You know.
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  Speaker 1: The problem is that a lot of times, like say
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  Speaker 1: Missy Elliott, she's a bitch or a train us the
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  Speaker 1: baddest bitch. But like the reason why I remember when
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  Speaker 1: Missy Elliott was talking about that song, she was saying,
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  Speaker 1: that's because a lot of times men try to use
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  Speaker 1: that word for women who are being authoritative and in
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  Speaker 1: a position of power, and sometimes you have to quote
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  Speaker 1: be a bitch, even though you're just doing the same
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  Speaker 1: thing that men do. And so I feel like it's
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  Speaker 1: used as a put down in some ways. So I
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  Speaker 1: think it's just a matter of context. Like a lot
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  Speaker 1: of times women will say that they're taking their power
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  Speaker 1: back by using a word that has been commonly used
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  Speaker 1: to try to talk about all women, and you know,
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  Speaker 1: it has been used that way, So I think for
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  Speaker 1: women using it for each other and done nowt him
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  Speaker 1: and I had a conversation about him using that word
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  Speaker 1: too much. So we've both agreed that he can only
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  Speaker 1: use it if he's saying the baddest bitch. And here's
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  Speaker 1: the thing we all know better in regard to that word.
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  Speaker 1: We know, Dan well, we shouldn't be using that word
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  Speaker 1: in any context, but we do. And it's actually a
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  Speaker 1: staple in hip hop vernacular, have been for years. And
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  Speaker 1: every eld that we've ever had from see the Lords,
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  Speaker 1: Tuck Hood and Malcolm X the minute the prior con
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  Speaker 1: every elder has told us not to use the word
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  Speaker 1: period in regard to women. But we haven't listened. So
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  Speaker 1: here we are. And it's hilarious to me to watch
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  Speaker 1: people twist themselves and the prench who are trying to
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  Speaker 1: justify who can use the word and who can't, and
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  Speaker 1: getting mad at people for using the word that if
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  Speaker 1: they haven't been using it in reference to women for years. Personally,
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  Speaker 1: it's not my thing. You know, not saying not saying
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  Speaker 1: bitch in reference to women is way easier for me
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  Speaker 1: than you know, not saying nigga in reference to niggas.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go to the phone lines. What about your opinion,
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  Speaker 1: um bige bitch? See here you go. I mean I
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  Speaker 1: think you once you get to a point where, especially
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  Speaker 1: when you have daughters and you start to evolve, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't use that word. I never lift service in Oakland.
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  Speaker 1: They kept using it during the lift service live and
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  Speaker 1: we'd be like yo, stopping and then like we just
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  Speaker 1: use that word all the time. Oakland uses it a lot.
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  Speaker 1: I mean too short that it's all what's my favorite word? Bh?
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  Speaker 1: I gonna make it right though now it doesn't make
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  Speaker 1: it right. I mean, see, I don't. I don't have to.
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  Speaker 1: I just like you said, I got four daughters, so
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I just don't. Um. But
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  Speaker 1: let's go to the phone lines. But sheelle, good morning. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: what's your thought on the word bitch and especially men
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  Speaker 1: using it? Everybody used the word bit, so I don't
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  Speaker 1: get what's the big So you're not offended by when
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  Speaker 1: when people used the word bitch, they used it so
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  Speaker 1: much and took the power out of it. Were you
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  Speaker 1: from old? No, you say they used it so much
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  Speaker 1: they took the power out of So what people mad about?
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  Speaker 1: Then that's what she's saying. She said everybody uses it.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody doesn't bother her, So for her, she believe you
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  Speaker 1: say that until somebody if my francocle on me a bit,
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  Speaker 1: Why are we offended by anybody else? You mean to
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  Speaker 1: tell me if a random scrange to walk up to
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  Speaker 1: you and say you must be asked, bitch. You ain't
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  Speaker 1: gonna be mad you've broke ass, bitch. I'm probably gonna lie. Really,
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  Speaker 1: maybe she must be no defender. I don't believe you.
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  Speaker 1: I just don't believe you. But if you say so,
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  Speaker 1: she's unbothered. So you mean to tell me not even
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  Speaker 1: musty gonna bother. You're not even gonna smell in your
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  Speaker 1: arms and nothing, because I'm not. I know I'm not
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  Speaker 1: a musty ass bitch. So most musty ass bitches can't
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  Speaker 1: smell a hello male off female? Okay, hello, hello, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: good morning. What's what's your thought on the word bitch?
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  Speaker 1: You know, my fourteen year old listened to a lot
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  Speaker 1: of rock music, and I just started listening to your
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  Speaker 1: sta and a couple of weeks ago to be able
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  Speaker 1: to embrace it. And I don't know how I feel
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  Speaker 1: about it when it comes to me compared to my son,
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  Speaker 1: compared to a man saying it, so, I'm actually I
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  Speaker 1: don't really know a man saying that, I understand its generalizing,
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  Speaker 1: a woman saying it, does she really mean bitch? And
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  Speaker 1: then to my son saying I'm really I'm very perplexed.
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  Speaker 1: About it. It is a conundrum. But I know if
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  Speaker 1: your son called you to B word, I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if you'd have a son, I think, I think you'd
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  Speaker 1: be playing in a funeral or something. You're able to
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  Speaker 1: use it in conversation, and if it's okay hey to
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  Speaker 1: use it in conversation. I don't. I don't understand how
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  Speaker 1: that's possible. I just don't. I don't know. I I'm
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  Speaker 1: fifty one years old, So I grew up in the
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  Speaker 1: eighties and there's words back then we use it, we
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  Speaker 1: can't use now. That fact. Now there's the word. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Now there's word coming up that I couldn't use before
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  Speaker 1: that it's okay to use now. I'm a little confused.
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  Speaker 1: So the question I mean Caucasian because you said you
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  Speaker 1: said listening to rap music and you don't really listen.
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  Speaker 1: So are you what are you? Man? What do you?
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  Speaker 1: What do you mean? What I'm saying? What's a white
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  Speaker 1: So when you listen to pout music town, everything is okay.
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  Speaker 1: So when you're when you're standing in music, they don't
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  Speaker 1: say bitch. In country songs, they don't say bitch and
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  Speaker 1: nothing like that. You know, I don't listen to the country.
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  Speaker 1: I listen to rock, so for me, it's every day
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  Speaker 1: from the seventies and they didn't use words like that,
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  Speaker 1: at least the songs that I use got you the
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  Speaker 1: word bitch and hole when the N word and you know,
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  Speaker 1: like it's really when you listen to that music, and
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  Speaker 1: I don't mind him listen into it. That's why I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to embrace it. N word. Are you talking about
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  Speaker 1: the N word? That's like every rap song, boy, naughty neighbor.
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  Speaker 1: I can't say it on my life. You know that
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  Speaker 1: he knows that, But I don't know about the B word.
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  Speaker 1: I know the rule about the N word, but I
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  Speaker 1: don't know the rule about the D word. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know the rule about none of That's what That's what
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  Speaker 1: we try to figure out. When you have a good morning,
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  Speaker 1: Thank you have a great day. All right, this is
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  Speaker 1: sad A hundred five A five one on five one.
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  Speaker 1: We're talking about the B word, bitch. When can we
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  Speaker 1: use it? When can we not use it? What's your
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  Speaker 1: thoughts on it? All right, let's talk about A eight
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  Speaker 1: hundred and five A five one five one at the
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  Speaker 1: Charlemagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club now for
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  Speaker 1: you're just joining us. We're talking about the B word.
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  Speaker 1: This conversation sparked from Academic stopping to do yesterday. People
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  Speaker 1: are upset with him because he used the B word
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  Speaker 1: when he was kind of not really referring to Regenate Carter,
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  Speaker 1: and people were hot about it. Yeah, they were saying,
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  Speaker 1: shouldn't talk to Little Wayne's daughter like that, which actually,
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  Speaker 1: you know, shoudn't talk to anybody that's still reinforcing patriarchy
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  Speaker 1: because you know, you're not saying, you know, don't call
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  Speaker 1: her to B word because you shouldn't call women to
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  Speaker 1: be word. You're saying, don't call her to B word
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  Speaker 1: because that's Little Wayne's daughter. So you're still respecting the
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  Speaker 1: man more in that situation than you are the woman.
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  Speaker 1: So we're asking eight hundred five A five one oh
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  Speaker 1: five one the word bitch? Is it okay to use? One?
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  Speaker 1: Is it okay to use Let's go to the phone lines. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: who's this? Yes, good morning? This just kind from Tampa. Day.
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  Speaker 1: Hey Ken from Tampa, Baker morning, how you feel like
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  Speaker 1: Wheathery're okay, there's holding out. It's gonna get a little
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  Speaker 1: worse flitter on, but you know, I'm just scrateful. Scrateful.
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  Speaker 1: You got your first honors on the show. You got
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  Speaker 1: your toilet paper and water and all that stuff and
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  Speaker 1: food can food and okay perfect. What's your opinion on
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  Speaker 1: the B word? Yea? So basically, in short, I believe
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  Speaker 1: that the only exception for using the B word is
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  Speaker 1: when you are threatened or uh in a bad positions
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  Speaker 1: like domestic bounce or something like that. Wait wait, wait,
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  Speaker 1: wait wait what do you mean if you if you
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  Speaker 1: be a threatened? What do you yeah, please explain, like
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  Speaker 1: you like just a life that's threatened. It's like a
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  Speaker 1: sense mech don't kill me, bitch, get away from me.
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  Speaker 1: So that would probably the only exception. Otherwise it's really installing.
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  Speaker 1: I would never call a woman that. That's just ridiculous. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I agree? So what term would you use it? So
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  Speaker 1: can you explain, like when you see me threatened? Like,
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  Speaker 1: how would you use it in a sentence? Go. Well,
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  Speaker 1: let's say someone comes after you with a weapon or
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  Speaker 1: something like that. Then you could probably say be please
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  Speaker 1: do not approach me wise. No, no, Now you're really
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  Speaker 1: gonna get it because you called me a bitch. Now
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  Speaker 1: you're really gonna get it. Now, you're really gonna get it.
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  Speaker 1: To watch your mouth, bitch, Please don't approach me with this.
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  Speaker 1: That ain't gonna work. You can't be polite and slanderous
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  Speaker 1: at the same time. All right, bitch, please don't shoot me.
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  Speaker 1: Don't shoot me, bitch please? What like? What's up? Man?
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  Speaker 1: What are we doing? Yeah? Yeah, don't be my own
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  Speaker 1: exception for that rule. Otherwise that's the wrong work to use. Yes, yes, sir,
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  Speaker 1: I understand, Thank you kid. Goodness gracious man. Let me
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  Speaker 1: just go to one more live. Tellou who's this? Hey,
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  Speaker 1: it's um Whitney lad on. I actually was calling earlier
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  Speaker 1: to speak about the academics. Bitch word. I'm the girl
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  Speaker 1: that the he was ulling the gun out on him
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  Speaker 1: on the podcast. That's bad. I remember that you said
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  Speaker 1: you were there, you were reaching in your bag, so
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  Speaker 1: he felt the threatened, but you said you didn't have
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  Speaker 1: a gun. Yeah, Well, you know, here's a bitch, here's
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  Speaker 1: a bit speaking on females that he's speaking on calling
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  Speaker 1: girls out their name, Like, you can't really expect much
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  Speaker 1: more from That's just what he is. It's his character.
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  Speaker 1: So I feel like all the people that you know
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  Speaker 1: holding him accountable for that, it's like doing the right
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  Speaker 1: thing because we got to start calling you stay on this.
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  Speaker 1: What about other men calling you to be worried man, Well,
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  Speaker 1: it's all about the past. Like, it's all about the
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  Speaker 1: the set up, the like how you're the intention, the
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  Speaker 1: intention and pent. Basically, if you're like you you broke bit,
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  Speaker 1: you had it, you know, whatever it is, you got
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  Speaker 1: em their tent, and then obviously I'm getting offended. But
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  Speaker 1: if you're coming at me and he's like, bitch, feel slid, Bitch,
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  Speaker 1: you'll cidy, Bitch, you'r fun of you here, Bitch, you're stupid.
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  Speaker 1: It's a context. What about this bitch? You got a
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  Speaker 1: good in your postable? Huh yeah, bitch, don't kill me
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  Speaker 1: earlier bit, don't shooper that nice? Well, thank you for
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  Speaker 1: calling me. Y'all got to invite me up here. Y'all
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  Speaker 1: seem like so much fun. No, you got guns, we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna bring you up here to pull up, pull guns
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  Speaker 1: out on nothing. Then you didn't have a gun, right,
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  Speaker 1: she said she did so when I'm going out over
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  Speaker 1: and now verbal argument, But did you have a gun
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  Speaker 1: in your pocketboat? You can't even lie. You can't even lie.
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  Speaker 1: You should say no. That's why we're not inviting you. No,
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  Speaker 1: I don't have no goods. Where are you from, man,
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  Speaker 1: You're from Florida, right from Cleveland, Oh, Cleveland. Have a
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  Speaker 1: juice bar, y'all let me know wh y'all come in town.
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  Speaker 1: Let me help y'all avance, let me do some catering.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all all natural juices. What about security? Security? Security? Anytime? Security? Man?
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  Speaker 1: I love black people so much. Man. She went from
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  Speaker 1: pulling a gun on a bit to saying, I got
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  Speaker 1: all natural juices, and y'all we are the most well
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  Speaker 1: rounded people on this planet. You hear me. Can nobody
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  Speaker 1: do it black people too? Oh? My god? Man? Oh
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  Speaker 1: all the story? I don't know. I forgot what we
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  Speaker 1: were talking about. Man, I guess you're not for me.
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  Speaker 1: It's just like this. Why you can't attempt to stand
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  Speaker 1: on a moral high ground in regards to the B word,
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  Speaker 1: because clearly in hip hop that moral high ground is shaky,
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  Speaker 1: not even just in hip hop, and in American culture,
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  Speaker 1: that moral high ground is shaking. Folks do not keep
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  Speaker 1: the same energy on who should use it and who shouldn't.
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  Speaker 1: It's based on a person by person basis, and that's
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  Speaker 1: not right. If something's wrong, you should be wrong all
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  Speaker 1: across the board. Thank you, my bit. That didn't even
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  Speaker 1: hit right. No, I ain't even hit when I say.
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  Speaker 1: When I say bend dover, bage bitch. Put that thing up, mommy,
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  Speaker 1: make it row. So if you call me bage bitch,
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  Speaker 1: what can I call you high class black bitch? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: man whose name has not been released yet because he
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  Speaker 1: has not been charged with anything. But oh, it's just
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  Speaker 1: trying to be logical about it. When we hold a
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  Speaker 1: grudge against someone, we can do it for years. That's
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  Speaker 1: why therapy is so important. Okay, so we can learn
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  Speaker 1: to let that hurt go, because if we don't, we
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  Speaker 1: will end up like this man whose name has not
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  Speaker 1: been released, but apparently he's been holding a grudge for
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  Speaker 1: forty eight years now. I don't know his astrological sign,
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  Speaker 1: but I would bet some money that is can't stand.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even gamble. Okay. See, there's a woman named
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  Speaker 1: Linda Terrello She died of canter in twenty seventeen. She
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  Speaker 1: was sixty six years old. God bless the dad, rest
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  Speaker 1: in peace to her. And she is buried just over
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  Speaker 1: the state line in Orange Sound in New York. And
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  Speaker 1: in the nineteen seventies she was briefly married to this man. Now,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell happened in this brief marriage,
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  Speaker 1: but this man is clearly holding a grudge against this woman.
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  Speaker 1: A matter of fact, holding a grudge is an understatement.
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  Speaker 1: We will discuss after we go to News twelve for
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  Speaker 1: the report. Please, and we begin tonight with the charge
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  Speaker 1: a man is now facing for continuously urinating on a
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  Speaker 1: grave in Japan. Let's get right to News twelves Darius
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  Speaker 1: Rodsias with the d tails on why and Darius, what
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  Speaker 1: have you been learning tonight? The family says that they
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  Speaker 1: shared the video with police that showed a man urinating
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  Speaker 1: on the grave here at the Tappen Reform Church cemetery.
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  Speaker 1: The family says they believe it's the ex husband of
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  Speaker 1: the woman buried here. Their daughter, Renee Berrigan, told me
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  Speaker 1: that they started to find bags of feces at the
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  Speaker 1: grave as early as April. At first, she thought it
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  Speaker 1: was trash, but then notice that the feces was being
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  Speaker 1: left here regularly, and that's why she decided to put
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  Speaker 1: up the camera every morning for forty hys. This man
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  Speaker 1: had been waking up to go see the sunset, and
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  Speaker 1: on the way to go see the sunset, he urinates
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  Speaker 1: on the grave of his ex wife, not just peeing
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  Speaker 1: on the grave, but leaving bags of poop at her
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  Speaker 1: final resting place. Whoever this person is is absolutely taking
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  Speaker 1: let that go out of context. Okay, for years, someone
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  Speaker 1: who's been telling him to let that go. So he
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  Speaker 1: decided to not just let that go, but it up
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  Speaker 1: and place it on the grave site of his ex wife.
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  Speaker 1: Not just letting this go, but it's P two. One
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  Speaker 1: of the hardest lessons in life is letting go, whether
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: it's guilt, anger, love lost, or betrayal. I don't understand
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: people who hold on the resentment towards other people, especially
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: for nothing. Okay, I wish I would wake up every
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: day and have someone else on my mind so much
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: that I think about ways to hurt them even in death.
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: Do you realize you only hurting yourself. Folks say it
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: may hurt to let go, but sometimes it hurts more
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: to hold on. This dude is clearly hurting. This is
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: one of those times where it's clearly hurting this man
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: to hold on. I mean, on a scale of one
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: to fifty cent this is petty levels we have never
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: seen before. All Right, this dude needs deep psychotherapy and
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: his ass beat. We keep acting like violences in an option.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: But if you caught a man peeing on your mother's grave,
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: how would you react? How am I supposed to not
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: beat your ass when I see you peeing on someone's grave?
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: And if the marriage was brief, your grudge can't be
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: longer in the marriage lasted, Okay, forty eight years of
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: waking up making sure someone resting piss Nah, man, Nah.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the
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  Speaker 1: consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: Please believe it, believe it, Please please give this man,
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: whose name has not been released yet because he's not
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: been charged with anything, the biggest he had what you're
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: looking at me for. I gotta hear both sides. I know,
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: I know how you gonna hear the other side. I
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: know I gotta hear both sides. I mean, you're only
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: hearing from one side. You don't you don't know what
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: happened in that relationship. I don't think we don't know
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: what she did to him. She's dead. You can't hear herself.
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: That doesn't end the beef. She's deceased, well, okay, she's
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: no longer with us. He's in a whole other dimension,
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: all right. Just her remains are here, okay. I mean,
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: I don't care what it is to get up every
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: day because of a brief marriage and p on her
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: grave for forty eight years and leave doodoo. Come on, man,
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: you ain't gonna tell me that shit. I don't that
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: I don't know the doodoo things a little far. Ain't
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: putting doom dudo's too far. And not peeing on the grave,
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: I mean about to think about the work that goes
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: into this forty eight years of bagging up DUDEO Okay,
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: I mean it was peeing on grade on the way
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: to the sunset. And shut up. Man. There's some people's
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: grave that you know. You gotta let these grudges. It's no,
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: you won't, Yes, I will, yes, I will. You gotta
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: let these grudges go. Now, this is a hell of
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: a This is a hell of a grudge from somebody.
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: I don't like. There's nobody's grave. You would pee on it. Yo,
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: shut up, man, you're wild boy. You hear me, You're
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: a wild boy. Man. I don't know what see y'all
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: people think that y'all people when y'all got beef, Like
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: when Dominicans look at black people people, the person dies,
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: the beef is over. I still have beef with you.
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: I still have that resentment. It ain't I think when
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: someone's dead, Yeah, right, what if you killed him? You
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: think he killed his wife? That's just saying. I say that,
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: I say, what have you killed them? In? What if
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: I I killed him? Then then this came over. That's right?
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: You should be do you? You won? Right? On all levels?
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: I would think. I think. I just think this is
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: a ridiculous grudge to hold on to for forty years.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: This is I can't think that nobody who would have
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: me mad for forty eight years? No, especially if I'm
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: winning it? Like, well, first of all, what races this person?
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: Do you know? He looks Caucasian from the camera, the
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: camera that set up you look Caucasian, But you know
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: everybody looks Caucasian at nighttime on them wildlife cameras, right too, right,
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: absolutely do So what's the question what are we asking
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: people right now? What's the longest you ever held on
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: to a grudge? And and and at what point do
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: you realize it's unhealthy? Well when if you still hold
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: it on to the grudge, how do you just you know,
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: determine time? Well, that's true too. Are you still holding
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: on to a long time grudge? Maybe that's the question.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: Maybe we just start show prepping before the show. But
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, I just said it. Eighty
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: five eighty five, one oh five one? How long do
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: you hold on to a grudge? Are you still holding?
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: Are you still holding on to a long time grug?
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: I'm not mad. I got to hear both side. You
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: don't know what she did, man, she's damned so she
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: can't hear both sides what she did it she still
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: hurt that man, and that man is releasing on her
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: allegedly page age page rage. Let's talk about it. Eight
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: hundred five five. Here you go, here you go. Let's
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: talk about eight hundred and five eighty five, one oh
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: five one somebody did you dirty. They did your family dirty,
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: trying to sell it. Then they die. You're supposed to
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: forget about all that dirt they did to you. Yes, no, well,
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: only to move on with your life. Let's fee on
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: you all day long. Oh my gosh, what Let's be
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: on you? Who is you? Whoever? It's the Breakfast Local Water,
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  Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club. Now if
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: you're just joining us, we're talking about somebody. Charlemagne gave
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: Donkey up the day too. Yeah. This man has been
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: holding a grudge for forty eight years against his ex wife.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: So he wakes up every day and peas on his
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: ex wife's graves or his pa, and he leaves bags
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: of poop. The mother, the kids of the mother set
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: up a camera and have have caught him. So he's
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: been doing it for forty hs. Yeah, and I gotta
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: hear both sides of the story. I gotta both side
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: the woman man, I mean you just I mean we
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: don't know what happened. We don't know what she did
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: to him allegedly or how he feels. You hear both sides,
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, and you know, and that's what you people
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: always have a problem with. First of all, Dominican, no't
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: me seeing you people. No, Because people think, hey, if
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: you have beef or you did something to me or
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: my family when you die, I just don't get over it.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: It's not like, Okay, you're dad. No, I still feel
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: the way. And if I want to drive by your
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: grave every day on my way to I have to
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: get my my freak pancakes. At sixty five years old
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: or seventy years old, I'm gonna peel on your grade.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: First of all, at sixty five years old, you're gonna
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: be paying on yourself. That's number one. Number two. I
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: feel like, um, I personally feel like, you know, you
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: gotta respect. They have to be some respect for the dead,
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: regardless of how you felt about the person in life.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: Forget him, I'm just talking about the death deceased. To
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: have to be some respect for deceased. You didn't respect
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: me or my family. I talking about the person. I'm
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: just talking about the dad in general. Dad is the
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: person like if you if you was walking through a
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: graveyard right now for whatever reason, and you had to pee,
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: you wouldn't just go pee on somebody's grade, No, because
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: I don't know them. But if there's somebody right off listen.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: Here's the thing about grudges, right, This is why therapy
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: is so important. Grudges are a part of healing. And
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: we know healing is not linear. So someday I may
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: think I'm over a grudge, and then some days I
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: may be triggered correct and I still be like, damn,
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: I'm really not over it. So it's the times when
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: you know, I can see a person here, a person
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: you know, our person still tried to do something to me,
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: and it don't bother me. That lets me know I'm
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: over say grudge, you know what I'm saying. But I'm
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: just not gonna go out of my way to put
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: myself in harm with because this dude gonna end up
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: going to jail. I'm not gonna do something to hurt
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: myself still trying to hurt you, even in death. What
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: do you think? Um? I mean, there's just certain people
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: that I don't like. I don't mess it, but I
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: don't think I would ever actively go out of my
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: way to do anything. I just mind my business. But
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: what about you? Yeah, we already know depends. I mean, yes,
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: if somebody did me dirty, yes, I will pee on
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: your grave every day. Shut up time on the scale
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: of one to Curtis Jackson, what level of petty thing
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: this is? Off? This charts? I'm just hello, who's this? Hello?
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: Oh hey, what's up? Well? What's your name? Bro? Big?
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: Then a big, big, big, big, envy big, what's big? Okay, Okay, wait,
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: what's your thoughts? Big man? Be honest? Man. It goes
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: through far with U with the holding grudges. And I'm
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: better than I used to be. I used to get
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: to the point where I hold a gruge for so
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: long and I'll see somebody and I know I'm mad
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: out of the dopel fool with him, and I get
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: even mad because I can't remember why I'm mad. That's
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: when it's time to let the grudge. Gold King, Like,
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: what am I mad for? I don't know? Or you
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: have a grudge in the presid don't even know you
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: have a grudge. You know why are you madd Hello?
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: Who's THISTI? Hey, Tomika from Atlanta? Talk to us? How
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: long you all the grudges for? She's mad right now, somebody, No,
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: it's been a twenty ten. But I'm not really holding
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: a grudge. It's just that I refused to be friends
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: a person who's still trying to this day, and and
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: my messenger and Mike and on my mentions trying to
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: get back into my life. Don't you show me? We
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: were a group of work friends that turned into like family,
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: but she was really too fasted and talking about my
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: you know, behind my back. And I'm not kind of
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: person if i'm your friend and say I'm your friend
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: behind your back, if i'm your friends to day, i'm
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: your friends tomorrow. And she wasn't that. So when you
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: show me not for me, you show me who you
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: are to believe you. And so I don't need to
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: getting friends like that. You know you don't need enemies
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: who you've got friends like that. So I'm good on
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: this end. That's really getting my mess and I'm done.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: I'm good. She's still friends with mutual friends and Nate
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: from what I heard you still to day. Okay, that's real,
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: all right, thank you. Eight on jip five eight five
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: one oh five one. We're asking how long do you
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: hold a grudge? Now? Charlemagne gave a man dounk a
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: day who pisces on his ex wife's grave every day
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: for forty h not just pee, he puts bags of
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: poor They do not show uf his dog poop, human poop.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: But he puts bags and poop on the grave every
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: day too. Eight hundred five eight five one o five one.
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  Speaker 1: How long you're holding the grudge? It's the Breakfast Club
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  Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast club. Now if
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: he just joined us, Charlemagne gave don't get a day
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: to who this man whose name has not been released
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: yet because he has not been charged. But for the
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: past forty eight years he has been waking up to
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: go pe on his ex wife's grave, not just p
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: but leaving bags of poops. Danfore he is holding a grudge.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: I think we also should be asking how long does
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: he have to hold his pe like what does that
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: ride like in the morning? Like how far away does
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: he live from said gravesite? Because according to these what
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: they're saying is he gets up to go see the
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: sunset with his now new wife and stops at that
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: grave every day and peas on day. So let me
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: ask you guys a question. If somebody hurt one of
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: your family members, you wouldn't want to pee in the
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: grave every day. No, I don't have time. No I
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: was not. Actually okay, eight time for everything else. You
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: make time for shopping. I don't have to make time
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: to go pee on some time. Who's that? Yo? Yo yo?
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Just Drey again? I mean, Drey, why are you calling
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: back here? We already got your opinion, Drake. This is
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: the one I should have called for them, Okay, Drake, Okay.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: So the time to kind of intertwines with like daddy
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: issues and then that topic like I don't wish death
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: on him, but man, I'm a I'm a father. I
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: got four years. I couldn't imagine not being there. So
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: so when he get post before me, yeah, I'm gonna
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: go there. I'm gonna drink Madello and I'm pissed on
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: his grave and be like, look, but what is he
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: talking about? Who's great? Would you be being on? I
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: guess somebody who did something to them? Are your father?
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: Are you? Okay? Let's tones in a twine with like daddy,
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: but I don't play. Hey, my brother, Dre dre, dred.
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: I got one word, three syllables the rue. Oh no, no no, don't.
• 28:15
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• 28:18
  Speaker 1: to say that. I'm gonna get it on that. But yes,
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: I feel because no, don't fit, don't fit, don't don't
• 28:24
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  Speaker 1: seek about the academics. Bitch word. I'm the girl that there.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: He was pulling the done out on him on the podcast.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: That's remember that you said you were you were reaching
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: in your back, so he felt threatened, but you said
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: you didn't have a gun. Yeah, well you know, here's
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: a bit. Here's a bit speaking on females, and he's
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: speaking on calling girls out their name, like you can't
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: really expect much more from That's just what he is.
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: It's his character. So I feel like all the people
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: that you know holding him accountable for that, it's like
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: doing the right thing, because we gotta start calling you
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: who are Yeah, if he died, would you pee on
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: his grave every day? Okay? So now this was my
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: thing about the Gregg. I got to speak foot all
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: starts cussing, I gotta speak fool bits ever again, like
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: ever again in life. But if he dies and I
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: thought a pits on his grave, I was like I'm
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: a sleeper that night. So the grave? What about other
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: men calling you to b word man? Well, it's all
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: about the past, Like, it's all about the the setup,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: the like, how you're the intention, the tent. Basically, if
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: you're like you you grow bitch, you had it, you know,
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: whatever it is you got em intent, then obviously I'm
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: gonna attended. But if you're coming at me and he's
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: like this feels fly, bitch, siy bitch. Your fun of
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: you hell, bitch is stupid. It's a context. What about
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: this bitch? You got a gun in your pocketbole, bitch,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: don't kill me, bitch at night? Thank you for calling
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: so silly? Y'all got invite you up here, y'all feel
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: like come much fun? No, you got guns? We're gonna
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: bring you up here to pull up, pull guns out
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: on nothing. Then you didn't have a gun, right, she
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: said she did when I'm gone out over the verbal argument.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: But did you have a gun in your pocketble? You
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: can't even lie, You can't even lie. You should say no,
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: that's all. We're not inviting you. No, I don't have
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: no good. Where are you from? Ma'm you're from Florida?
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: Right from Cleveland? Oh Cleveland, But I live in Florida.
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: Oh have a juice, par y'all let me know wheny'all
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: coming down, like all natural juices. What about security? Security? Security? Anytime? Security? Man?
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: I love black people so much. Man. She went from
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: peeing on somebody grave, pulling a gun on a bit
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: to saying I got all natural juices, and y'all we
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: are the most well rounded people on this planet. You
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: hear me? Can nobody do it? Black people too? Oh
• 31:39
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• 31:44
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