Connecting With Family This Thanksgiving - Jogen Salzberg, Sensei

Zen Community of Oregon Dharma Talks · Nov 26, 2025 · 26m · transcript

In this talk, Jogen explores how our relationships—especially with family—can become genuine fields of practice. He challenges the assumption that practice only happens on the cushion, offering instead a vision of relational life as an arena for choosing “the bigger heart.” Through principles such as breaking through indifference, pausing when triggered, cultivating curiosity, and listening with an empty, receptive mind, he shows how connection requires intention, not luck. Jogen emphasizes that we’re not fixed beings and that every moment offers a chance to shift out of self-protection and…