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Mr. Celebrity · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: Hey guys, welcome to the Almost Famous podcast We've missed.
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  Speaker 2: You can't believe how time is flying. We're already in
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  Speaker 2: week six of The Golden Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise.
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  Speaker 2: Before we break down those episodes, it's time for Bachelor headlines.
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  Speaker 2: And one headline didn't actually make it out in the media,
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  Speaker 2: but it's apparently juicy and it's on our list to
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  Speaker 2: go down. Ben. Apparently you were in Hawaii with Dean
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  Speaker 2: and Kaylin and your wife and you like called out
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  Speaker 2: a sixty year old woman for her behavior. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 2: this was caught on video. This would have been a
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  Speaker 2: massive headline. Was it bachelor induced? Like as in? No, okay?
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  Speaker 2: So she didn't come to you as a fan? No, okay, okay, opposite,
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  Speaker 2: it wasn't a fan of Bennett. No.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think she has any clue.
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  Speaker 2: Who are or does that you know matter? Or is
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  Speaker 2: this expected or anything like that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I got really angry. I snapped. Jess has only
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  Speaker 3: seen me probably snap or what she called get sassy.
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  Speaker 3: I think her and Kaylen called to get sassy, So
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  Speaker 3: maybe I think she's probably seen it twice in our relationship. Dean,
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  Speaker 3: I think it's seen it once. Kaylen's never seen it,
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  Speaker 3: and so I think it shook Kaylen. You know, actually,
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  Speaker 3: I don't think anybody listened to the show is unaware
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  Speaker 3: that I have some pet peeves. I don't think anybody
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  Speaker 3: is unaware that the fact that, like some things in life,
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  Speaker 3: I feel could be avoided and probably would make everybody's
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  Speaker 3: life function a little better.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Ben, before you go on, can I just guess
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  Speaker 2: what it was about if it wasn't like bachelor related,
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  Speaker 2: because I thought that maybe she came up and like
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  Speaker 2: said something about the way that you handled yourself as
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  Speaker 2: bachelor so many years later bla blah blah blah. So
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  Speaker 2: now that I know it's not bachelor related, I'm thinking,
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  Speaker 2: is it like the way is she treated a server
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  Speaker 2: or people who worked at the hotel a little bit? Not?
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  Speaker 3: No, not not in the employee. So here's the situation.
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  Speaker 3: So Dean Kayle and I, Jessica and well Dean, Kaylen,
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  Speaker 3: Jessica and myself went to Hawaii. This is with Hilton
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  Speaker 3: Grand Vacations. It was a great trip and it was
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  Speaker 3: kind of in preparation for the big golf term that
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  Speaker 3: I love to play in that Hilton sponsors, and so
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  Speaker 3: we went down we were staying in Hawaii. It was
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  Speaker 3: kind of something Jessica and I wanted to do because
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  Speaker 3: I couldn't make it to Dean's bachelor party and then
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  Speaker 3: obviously for their wedding, they didn't get to go on
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  Speaker 3: a honeymoon, so like, hey, this will be a really
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  Speaker 3: fun time for all of us to go down there together.
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  Speaker 3: We had a great time, a really good time together.
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  Speaker 3: It's wild when you can stay in an apartment with
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  Speaker 3: four well to another couple and it just goes so well,
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  Speaker 3: and we did. So when I went to a luau,
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  Speaker 3: went to this luau and there's probably I would say
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  Speaker 3: eight hundred people a thousand people at this louau is huge,
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  Speaker 3: it's beautiful.
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  Speaker 2: How many times do I say holy moly a week.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I haven't count too many. Too many.
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  Speaker 3: So we go to this louau eight hundred people and
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  Speaker 3: it's beautiful and it's great, and it's the kind of
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  Speaker 3: the entry to the night where food is being served
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  Speaker 3: and there's somebody doing an incredible like dance on stage
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  Speaker 3: with like a guitar. It's very like slow piece of
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  Speaker 3: the evening and we as somebody comes up to us
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  Speaker 3: and they say, hey, can I get a picture? And
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  Speaker 3: of course we all go yeah, of course you can. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: we take a picture.
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  Speaker 2: So it sounds bachelor fandom related.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so we get a picture. Okay, and then another
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  Speaker 3: person comes up and they say, hey, can we get
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  Speaker 3: a picture? And I'm like, yeah, you can, you know,
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  Speaker 3: all of us like this is all of us together
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  Speaker 3: and being like yeah, that's fine, that's great, like go ahead.
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  Speaker 3: And then once that person does, you know, there's like
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  Speaker 3: a little line of now people taking pictures.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Again, the night hasn't started. Food is just being served,
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  Speaker 3: and you know, I'm at this point getting a not frustrated.
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  Speaker 3: But everybody comes up and says just one more, one more,
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  Speaker 3: one last one. It's like, well, that's not true, Like
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  Speaker 3: you can't say that there's one last one because there's
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  Speaker 3: gonna be some brand new that comes up. And that's
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  Speaker 3: fine too. Let's just you know, let's just get through this.
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  Speaker 3: Let's do this because we're trying to enjoy our dinner.
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  Speaker 3: And and I never get like angry at people wanting pictures. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: but it was kind of like it was the line
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  Speaker 3: was getting longer, right, Yeah, So this person comes up
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  Speaker 3: and they say, hey, can we get a picture? And
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  Speaker 3: it's like four ladies and they're great and they're having
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  Speaker 3: a good time on their vacation, and this lady behind
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  Speaker 3: them goes, hey, mister celebrity, how about you? How about
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  Speaker 3: you sit down? And I said, excuse me, and so
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  Speaker 3: we took the picture and then she goes, how about
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  Speaker 3: you sit down or you move to take your pictures?
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  Speaker 3: And I said, I'm sorry, it's like, do you think
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  Speaker 3: I'm asking for pictures? And she goes, well, you're the
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  Speaker 3: one getting all the pictures, mister celebrity. What And I said,
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  Speaker 3: I said, I think your logic, lady, is incredibly flawed.
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  Speaker 3: And here's why.
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  Speaker 2: Did you say, lady?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? I did? Yeah, I was mad. Yeah, And she
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  Speaker 3: was sitting right behind us, and I said, here's the deal.
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  Speaker 3: We're not blocking anything. People are asking to take pictures
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  Speaker 3: with us. If I had it my way, I would
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  Speaker 3: be sitting having dinner. But we're gonna take pictures. And
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  Speaker 3: do you want me to get up and walk past
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  Speaker 3: now eight hundred people with four other people every time
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  Speaker 3: somebody wants a picture with us, So that we can
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  Speaker 3: get a picture and then we walk all the way
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  Speaker 3: back to our seats and sit down, or would you
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  Speaker 3: rather me expedite this and take a picture as quick
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  Speaker 3: as we can so that everybody can get back to
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  Speaker 3: their evening. And she didn't say anything.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I was gonna say good.
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  Speaker 3: So then the night starts right nice times, and I'm
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  Speaker 3: fuming because she she said it twice. I was really upset,
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  Speaker 3: and I just thought in my mind, I was upset
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  Speaker 3: because I thought she was making it uncomfortable for not
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  Speaker 3: only me, but also the people asking for pictures, which
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  Speaker 3: is an uncomfortable thing to do when you ask anybody
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  Speaker 3: take a picture you. I also thought that it was
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  Speaker 3: inappropriate of her to at any level blame Dean Calen
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  Speaker 3: or myself for what was happening in this situation, because
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  Speaker 3: we can't control it and there is no navigation to
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  Speaker 3: it other than get the picture and sit down, or
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  Speaker 3: to say no, which makes you look like a jerk.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So then the night starts and the fire begins and they,
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  Speaker 3: you know, start their whole show, and she gets something,
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  Speaker 3: goes the bathroom, and I said, hey, you're missing the show,
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  Speaker 3: which probably was where I shouldn't have said anything else,
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  Speaker 3: like I probably at this point should have kept to myself.
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  Speaker 3: At that point, I felt bad.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're just Europist. It's fine.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just I'm just angry few me could not help yourself. No,
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  Speaker 3: So I'm sure somebody there that was sitting at her
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  Speaker 3: long table saw me stand at the table and tell
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  Speaker 3: her that I thought her logic was incredibly flawed and
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  Speaker 3: get really upset with her and also speak back to it.
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  Speaker 3: I don't feel bad about what I said to her,
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  Speaker 3: because I do think she was in the wrong. I
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  Speaker 3: think there is a respect level, and also you know
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  Speaker 3: her how having their wherewithal and the intelligence to know that, hey,
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  Speaker 3: this probably is an ideal for them either. And yes
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  Speaker 3: it isn't ideal for me because now you know they
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  Speaker 3: are kind of standing in my way. But this isn't
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  Speaker 3: something that they asked for or tried to have happen,
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  Speaker 3: and so getting mad at them is not really you know,
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  Speaker 3: getting to the heart of the issue. I was upset
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  Speaker 3: about that. I did lose sleep that night then because
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  Speaker 3: I felt bad for the people that were still in
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  Speaker 3: line wanting to picture because they didn't ask any longer.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm wondering if I made them feel like they
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  Speaker 3: were doing something bad, And I don't think anybody's doing
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  Speaker 3: anything bad here. I just think it's like, it's unfortunate
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  Speaker 3: that you know, we're sitting in the middle table and yes,
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  Speaker 3: there is a line of people taking pictures now to
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  Speaker 3: close this at the appropriate time, while dinner is being
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  Speaker 3: served and there is no show going on on the stage.
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  Speaker 3: What do you mean, like if this would have been
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  Speaker 3: happening while the like actual lua was being done, like
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  Speaker 3: the dancing and the singing, then then I I would
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  Speaker 3: have understood a little bit where I still would have
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  Speaker 3: liked the way she talked to us, but I would
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  Speaker 3: have understood her a frustration. The show hadn't even started yet,
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  Speaker 3: like we were just eating dinner and having drinks. So yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you know, I don't know what was going on with her.
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  Speaker 2: I thought you were going to say something that when
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  Speaker 2: she was walking to the bathroom and you said you're
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  Speaker 2: missing Michelle, I thought she was going to retaliate. She didn't.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, no nothing. I mean, I think at
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  Speaker 3: that point it was over, and I think it only
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  Speaker 3: could have got that was very dumb of me. I
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  Speaker 3: should have kept it. I should have been mature enough
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  Speaker 3: to say, Nope, the situation's done, it's over with, but
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  Speaker 3: you know, it is what it is. But yes, I did,
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  Speaker 3: did Dean and Kaylen?
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  Speaker 2: And they would they would they know, No, they.
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  Speaker 3: Didn't even say a word. They I don't even know
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  Speaker 3: if they thought I was in the right. I think
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  Speaker 3: they were just like, dang, all right, well been snappy.
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  Speaker 3: Sassy is what they called me. They said, I got sassy.
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  Speaker 2: That's sassy. That's sassy. That's not like me, and it's sassy.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean I didn't like try to. I didn't
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  Speaker 3: say anything personally to attack her.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I mean she was referring to as mister celebrity,
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  Speaker 2: like thinking as if you had an ego. I think, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: first insinuating that you were bringing all this on because
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  Speaker 2: it's like something that you were like inviting, actively inviting.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's what really set you off.
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  Speaker 3: Set me off, it did, and I think at that
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  Speaker 3: point I was a little bit frustrated either, also because
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  Speaker 3: you know, we hadn't had dinner together, which is fine,
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  Speaker 3: it's kind of expected. You know, you go to a
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  Speaker 3: big group and like Dean and Kaalin are a hot
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  Speaker 3: commodity right now, like they're freshly married. They're just in
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  Speaker 3: people like the people love them and they know them.
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  Speaker 3: So I get it. I just don't. I don't like
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  Speaker 3: to feel I don't personally like to feel bad for something.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like I couldn't control, like I had done
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  Speaker 3: something wrong, Like I felt like I had done something
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  Speaker 3: wrong in this and I had it.
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  Speaker 2: Let's also just say that please come up to us
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  Speaker 2: and take pictures. We love it and never feel weird
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  Speaker 2: or awkward.
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  Speaker 3: Just don't get mad at me during it. Anyways, we
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  Speaker 3: do have other headlines this week, and I'm hoping maybe
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  Speaker 3: somebody does have a video of me getting sassy if it,
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  Speaker 3: you know.
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  Speaker 2: I know of a thousand people you would think it.
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  Speaker 3: Hit the If it hit the web, I would. I
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  Speaker 3: would want to watch it because I kind of like
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  Speaker 3: it was so so mad. I don't remember everything. Anyways.
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  Speaker 3: The Golden Bachelor sounder Mason reacts to criticism over a
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  Speaker 3: missing daughter's wedding for the show. This is something we've
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  Speaker 3: talked about on this podcast. I'm glad she's speaking out
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  Speaker 3: on it because we wanted a little.
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  Speaker 2: Personal but we didn't talk about it last week though
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  Speaker 2: I don't think we did. Jess and I did you ingested. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: that's why it was in the week before, all right, Yeah, so.
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  Speaker 3: What was your take, because jess has a different take
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  Speaker 3: than me. So jess as Nana and I both said, hey,
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  Speaker 3: we understand like at some point in your life, maybe
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  Speaker 3: you got to be a little selfish. This felt like
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  Speaker 3: something that she wanted to try and do, and obviously
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  Speaker 3: her and her daughter had agreed to this. And yes,
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  Speaker 3: it's a big moment, but it's also a big moment
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  Speaker 3: for her mom to like step back out there and
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  Speaker 3: go in the dating world. Again. Is it ideal timing? No,
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  Speaker 3: but we understood that, like, hey, it's okay. Jessica felt
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  Speaker 3: like it was. I just think Jessica thinks about like
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  Speaker 3: the fact that her mom missed her wedding, like how
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  Speaker 3: weird that would be for her, And I think she
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  Speaker 3: was like, I just can't imagine it.
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  Speaker 2: I agree with what you said. They definitely jointly came
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  Speaker 2: up with this plan and the daughter was supportive of it.
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  Speaker 2: And here's why, I'm pretty sure the wedding and I
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  Speaker 2: think she may have said this, maybe it wasn't clear.
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  Speaker 2: It was really small. It almost like it was a
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  Speaker 2: courthouse wedding. It looked like it was like a just
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  Speaker 2: like a It wasn't like a huge party, it wasn't
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  Speaker 2: like a thing. It was like we're going to go
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  Speaker 2: sign paperwork type thing. And in that case, I think
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  Speaker 2: she was like, Mom, you don't have to be present
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  Speaker 2: when I'm just like going to the courthouse or having
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  Speaker 2: like the smallest ceremony ever. Yeah, if it was a
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  Speaker 2: wedding like your wedding or like my wedding, like that
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  Speaker 2: would have been effing weird.
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  Speaker 3: It would be weird. It definitely would be odd. I
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  Speaker 3: still think, though, there's there's a world in which like
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  Speaker 3: it would be okay because her mom is trying something
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  Speaker 3: different and her mom is doing something for herself, and
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  Speaker 3: you know, you don't know the backstory of their relationship
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  Speaker 3: and how often her mom has right. But I do
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  Speaker 3: think we're a courthouse wedding. It makes a lot more sense.
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  Speaker 3: And then I'm assuming, just like most courthouse weddings, at
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  Speaker 3: some point in the future, the family gets together for
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  Speaker 3: like a good dinner or like to have some drinks
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  Speaker 3: or whatever to celebrate, and I'm guessing her mom will
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  Speaker 3: be at that. I'm guessing her and like that would
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  Speaker 3: be See, she.
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  Speaker 2: Says, that okay, So this is what she says in
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  Speaker 2: the article. She knows she got a little backlash on it,
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  Speaker 2: but again, like, no shade. There's no shade coming from
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  Speaker 2: me because as much as it would been weird for
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  Speaker 2: one of my parents to miss my wedding coumstances, the specifics,
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  Speaker 2: we don't know. She and her daughter are cool with
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  Speaker 2: what went down. I think that there's also the question
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  Speaker 2: of if you knew that she was gonna like at
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  Speaker 2: this point where she was top six, she should have
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  Speaker 2: known or I don't know, do you know, do you
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  Speaker 2: not know whether she was going to continue on with Gary?
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  Speaker 2: Like should she have left early knowing that maybe there
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  Speaker 2: were a good couple of front runners before her.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think she has any idea, right, I mean, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: at that point, I think she's still up there.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, wells what she said. She said like she felt
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  Speaker 2: like she had like a fifty to fifty shot of
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  Speaker 2: being maybe she's She says, quote, mathematically fifty percent or
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  Speaker 2: less than fifty percent? How what does this? How does
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  Speaker 2: how is this the real? Mathematically fifty percent or less
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  Speaker 2: than fifty percent chance? Whatever that means? This is a
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  Speaker 2: quote from her. She says we had six women, that
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  Speaker 2: was her chance. So you know, in my heart and
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  Speaker 2: in my psyche, I knew that Gary and I had
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  Speaker 2: formed a deeper one of the deeper relationships. Get that.
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  Speaker 2: The bottom line here is that she's glad that she
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  Speaker 2: did this. Her son in law said, a ceremony is
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  Speaker 2: eight minutes. Our marriage is for a lifetime. He said, go.
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  Speaker 2: And then of course my daughter's response was, Mom, I've
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  Speaker 2: got my guy, you go get yours. The thought of
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  Speaker 2: me not coming to meet Gary was the wrong thing
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  Speaker 2: to do. So she said, we are all going to
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  Speaker 2: go out to dinner, and she went out and purchased
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  Speaker 2: a gift for them, and she's going to kiss them
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  Speaker 2: all over during their wedding celebration. And then she also
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  Speaker 2: has mentioned, because she's kind of active on Instagram, that
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  Speaker 2: she's had a lot of men sliding into the DMS
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  Speaker 2: and she's excited to go and respond back. She's very hopeful,
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  Speaker 2: been traveling a lot. And then she's going to get
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  Speaker 2: your inbox very soon.
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  Speaker 3: That's a piece of the Golden Bachelor that I'm excited
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  Speaker 3: to hear about as it continues and as these people
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  Speaker 3: come out public is if they are getting the DMS
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  Speaker 3: now and if they are going to get back out
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  Speaker 3: in the dating world because of this show, it's going
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  Speaker 3: to be very interesting. Well headline here, that's interesting because
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  Speaker 3: it happened in twenty eighteen, but the headline is this
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  Speaker 3: how former Bachelor Sean Lowe saved infant son's life.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so it is interesting that it's coming out now.
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  Speaker 2: I'm wondering if they're just getting out there talking about RSV.
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  Speaker 2: We've talked about RSV here on the podcast, and you
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: guys can go to be aware of RSV dot com
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  Speaker 2: to learn more, especially since it's becoming like six season
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  Speaker 2: for kids. So this is what Sean and Catherine said recently.
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  Speaker 2: She said there was a time she was working. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know if she was out of town or she's
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  Speaker 2: just like on set or something. And she said that
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  Speaker 2: that he was alone with their five five month old
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  Speaker 2: son at the time, Isaiah. They he was coughing and
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  Speaker 2: just felt like there was like something like going on
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  Speaker 2: in his chest, and he said that he goes to
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  Speaker 2: the pediatrician and they go, you've got to go to
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  Speaker 2: the er right now, and he wasn't sure what was
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  Speaker 2: going on. This is this is from Catherine. She goes
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  Speaker 2: and my husband don't even had his phone. He rushed
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  Speaker 2: to the er and he used somebody else's phone to
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  Speaker 2: call when he got there. And what had happened was
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: the baby was diagnosed with RSB, and because at five months,
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: the baby's immune system isn't fully developed, it needs time
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: to grow stronger. The RSB can actually lead to like
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: collapse lung sacks, severe breathing issues, coughing, wheezing, difficulty breathing, pneumonia,
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: all that stuff, bad things. And Catherine just said, like,
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: the whole thing is so dramatic traumatic. She looks back
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: and she can like she sees Isaiah's hooked up to
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: all these tubes, and she was like, that child was
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: just in my arms and breastfeeding, and now I can't
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: even touch him. And of course we know that Isaiah
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: has made a full recovery from that, but she just
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: said that just how having those debt fatherly instincts to
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: take them right to the doctor and then to just
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: run to the er is She's very, very thankful for it.
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a good story and one you know, during
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: as we intern into the winter time, parents should just
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: be aware of. Okay, it's kind of that respiratory issue
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: and that cough. It is not something just to push off. Well,
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: speaking of kids, just like every newly married couple, the
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: first question publicly that everybody asks them is what's your
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: plans for a baby?
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: I feel bad for them, like they're like two months
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: off their wedding.
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: Goodness gracious. Bachelor in Paradise is Dylan Barber and Hannah
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: Godwin reveal when they plan on having kids.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well, they're both so young, they're both still in
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: their twenties. So their answer is five years from now,
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: within five years, that is the goal. They say that
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: right now they are really just going to use up
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: the time to be travelers. They were even thinking about
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: living in Europe for a while, like maybe not full time,
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: but like a summer or two months here or there.
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: I feel like I felt like this early on. Whenever
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: Duode ask us, I'd just be like, I'm not playing
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: on having kids. Like so people stop asking and.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: Turn But no, Ben, that's that's wrong for you, because
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: it's just wrong for you, because like you're born to
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: be a father. So then I would I would inquire
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: further and be like, but but that, what do you mean?
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: That is maybe right?
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: You are both you two are both very much meant
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: to be parents, so this is wrong and I must
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: get to the bottom of it.
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: No, I would have been like it it's inappropriate for
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: you to ask me, and that's what and I would
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: have thrown it back on every single person that did
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: and then nobody would ever want to talk to me
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: again and I would ruin everything. But that's okay. Yeah,
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: I don't know, but it is.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: It is pretty outrageous that it happens so immediately after
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: the wedding, like please, Phily was at least a year.
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: I mean it happened like two days later. We did
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: an interview and they're like, when do you think about
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: having kids?
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: What geez? I would have like, yeah, no, I the
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: time of being newly married is one to treasure the
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: two of you. If that's I guess, so you planned
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: but that was my style.
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, uh, some people are expecting and has planned
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: on having babies, and the very next headline is is
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: about that Bachelor's Hayley Ferguson is pregnant expecting first baby
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: with husband. This is super exciting for the former Bachelor contestant,
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: who happened to also be on the same season I was.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: That's so sweet that you say, like the same season
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: you were, as if, like you weren't the bachelor, like
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: my season, you don't call it my season. That's very sweet.
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: Then it was all it wasn't about me, all right.
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: So we're so excited for Haley. She's been trying for
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: a while with her son Ula. It has been about
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: it's been over a year that they've been trying, and
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: oh my gosh, we're just so happy for them because
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: she's watched Emily be pregnant and with a twin who's pregnant,
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: and you guys are both married within the same time frame.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: It's just like, I can't imagine what she had to
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: go through being like, are you guys trying?
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: Do you want one?
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: Did you want the kids to grow up together? And
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: it's like she's like, yes, I've been trying. We've been
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: basically trying like a long side of each other. And
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: Emily got pregnant first, and she now has a baby
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: who I think is like, I don't know, over three
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: months old. I know that, And now we get to
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: say that Haley is she's pregnant and it had happened
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: via IVF. It did take them a while, so they
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: went through IUI first, which is usually recommended, and then
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: that didn't work, so then they went right and she
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: also had a poll up removed from her uterus, so
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: she's gone through a bit and we're just so happy
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: for her, and she was very considerate in her Instagram reveal.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: It's really cute. It's a very cute reveal. The two
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: of them are sitting in a cafe and they're reading
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: a newspaper. It looks like an old school like photograph,
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: and the headline says, baby Paul on the Way. I
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: hope I'm saying their name their last name correctly, Pauve
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: on the Way. And she says it's with extremely heavy
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: hearts and tons of joy that Ula and I can
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: officially share our exciting news. It's also important for me
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: to recognize that, even though I'm so happy to share this,
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: part of me aches for anyone who sees this and
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: feels pained. I know that feeling so well, I've shared
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: my story and I've been able to build a beautiful,
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: strong community of people also struggling with infertility. Please know
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: that I understand if you need to step away from
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: my page during this period and my heart is with you.
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: It is exciting for the two of them. I am
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: personally very excited to see Haley mom. Emily obviously already
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: is a mother. I have always had a question about
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: Haley and Emily though, since we did The Bachelor back
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: then they only ate like chicken nuggets and French fries,
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: and I just wonder if that's still a thing.
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: I think predominantly yes, but I do think their palette
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: has grown.
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: Okay, that's just this has been something I'm curious about.
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: And just a quick edit there, Ula is her husband,
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: not her son. Actually said son, Ula, but it's her husband.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: So if anybody's confused, just.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: Want so weird, how did that come out of my mouth?
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: I think you're probably reading about a baby, and who knows,
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: we're you know, minds are weird. I just wanted to
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: make sure everybody understood her husband my dad. Hey, it's
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: not we can cover it up. Hey. Anyways, this has
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: been the headlines this week. More exciting headlines to come.
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: We have some really great stuff coming your way. A
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: breakdown of the Golden Bachelor that made me weep, Bachelor
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: in Paradise that made me confused, and so much more.
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: Stay tuned this week listen to the episodes. Ashley and
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: I are going to stay busy, but until next time,
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: I've been Ben, I've been Ashley.
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: See you guys.
• 23:12
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