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Setting the M'fn Vibe for the New Year · All In with Allie

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Happy New Year, Happy twenty twenty four. In this episode, we are
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continuing to set the freaking tone and the vibe for the new year, and
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I decided that one of the best ways that we can do that is have
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a conversation on energy and how we can manage it and curate it and just
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go forward in our best energy. So I'm going to do that today by
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answering some of the best questions that I've been asked lately related to energy.
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This is going to be a very powerful and inspiring episode. Let's go.
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Welcome to All In with Ali podcast, the podcast for online business owners and
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entrepreneurs who are ready to create the life and business of their dreams. I
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am so happy you are here in the new year. Ah. We freaking
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made it. We made it, We made it. We made it.
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Oh? Thank god? Am I right? Thank god? You know it's
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cool? Okay. So, first of all, happy birthday to All In
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with Ali. It has been exactly a year that the podcast has been All
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In with Ali. So if you are new around here or you forgot,
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my podcast used to be called six Figure Influencer and we changed the name to
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All In with Ali because that's just a lot more accurate with the vibe of
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conversation lately. And I launched All In with Ali, the rebrand of the
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podcast January first, twenty twenty three, so it's been a year. I
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and this is also really funny, so I'm actually recording back to back episodes
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today. I just recorded the Christmas one, so if you haven't listened that,
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please go listen to that episode. I'm so proud of that one.
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And honestly, this episode and wind goes so well together, so there if
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you were busy last week and haven't had a chance to listen, listen to
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both of them. But I just recorded that one and I didn't want to
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wear this same shirt because that's boring, and I ran downstairs to pick out
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a different shirt to record in for like, you know, social media content,
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and I don't know why, but I was like, I kind of
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want to wear it, just a comfy sweatshirt. And as I pulled for
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the one that I'm wearing now, I realized that this was the sweatshirt that
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I was wearing on the January one episode and launch of this podcast last year.
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So that's kind of cool. So maybe this can be like my little
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tradition. But uhy, happy birthday to all in with Ali and we got
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the same shirt, but woo is just a different vibe and a different me.
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Thank goodness, because that episode, it was very raw, cried in
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it. I think that was my year in review podcast, So of course,
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like I talked about a lot of amazing things, but I also had
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to talk about losing my mom and a ton of regrets that I had around
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that whole situation and like our relationship, and it was very, very raw
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and there were tears. I think that's the only episode I've ever cried on.
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So yeah, if you want to throw back, go listen to that
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one. But I'm very thankful, Like it is not lost on me the
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difference of energy that I'm recording this episode, and I'm very thankful for that.
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So I hope you're doing well. I hope you had a beautiful holiday
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season, and I'm really hopeful that you are feeling fired up and hopeful and
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inspired for a brand new year ahead of us. Remember we're co creators.
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We have a lot more say in what happens this year than we probably give
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ourselves credit for. And even I mean one, we can't even be sure
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anyway, So why not just hope and expect and speak into existence the best
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anyway, right, nobody wants to be a bummer. That's lame, so
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it'll have fun. So, like I said, I wanted to I wanted
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this to be an inspiring and uplifting episode, and I also wanted this to
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be helpful. Obviously, while all my episodes be helpful, but when I
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think of going into the new year and again this this is such a great
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episode to listen to with the previous episode, the Christmas episode or again,
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I don't know when we're either gonna release it on Christmas because that's Monday when
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I normally release, or we'll do it the day after. I don't know
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what we're gonna do. I'm gonna talk to my team about it. But
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anyway, that episode in this one, I just wanted it to be something
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that you listen to and that just it reminds you who you are and it
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just helps you make your most powerful step forward. That is my intention for
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this conversation. So naturally, I want to talk about energy because that's it's
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more than half the battle. Action is so important, Strategy is so important.
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I said on the last episode that if you're dreaming big enough. It's
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not just gonna happen accidentally. You have to one actually want it and put
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it on the map. But to move toward it, you have to take
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action. But if you don't believe that you have what it takes to make
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that thing happen, you'd be insane to move toward it. Right like,
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you're not gonna see me try and qualify for the Olympics. There's not a
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sport that I that I can play at all versus anything at the Olympic level.
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So you're not going to see me practicing and prepping for the Olympics.
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That would be time to put me in the looney bin. But what you
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will see me doing is taking action toward creating one of the best podcasts on
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the freaking planet and impacting thousands and millions eventually of women through online business.
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I do that every single day because I believe that I'm going to do that.
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I'm on the path toward making those things happen. So action so big
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and critical. But if the belief isn't there, you'll never take the action,
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or you'll take the action for five whole minutes and then revert back to
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whatever it was that you were doing prior to that, you'll just knock yourself
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back down to the level that you're used to. That's habitual for you.
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So do I need to tell you anything before we get started? Oh?
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Okay, So in the last episode I talked about Rebel and I'm doing this
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thirty one day. It actually starts today, as this goes live, it
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starts on January first. So if you've not heard about Rebel, or if
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you've heard about it and you forgot to sign up and I want to get
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in, I think we're keeping it open for a couple more days so that
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you can get in. And when you get in, you get access to
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everything. So even if you get in January, second, third, fourth,
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however long we decide to keep it open, you'll get access to everything.
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So if you're interested in that, I'll put the link again in the
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show notes. Get in there. Get in there. It is like inspiration,
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mindset, everything that you want to carry into twenty twenty four on steroids
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for a whole month. It's to die. Okay. I think that's all
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I need to tell you, So let's get into it. So these are
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questions that I've been asked just randomly. A couple came through my membership,
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all in the membership, and then I sometimes we'll get questions for you in
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the DMS as well, which I always love because I can answer them here
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or you know, I'll love to riff on them. And I'm always just
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honored that you think of me and want to pop in the DMS and ask
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me a question. So these are questions that I've gotten recently, like in
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the past month, related to energy, and every single one of these questions
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when I got asked, I was like, that's a great question. So
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I would love to expound on these here in this episode. Okay, the
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first question that we're going to dive into is what is the difference between high
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energy and high frequency? This is such a great question, so she mentioned,
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I don't have the question in front of me, but she this is
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somebody who is in my membership and she had done one of my programs.
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I want to say it was destined, and in there I talk about the
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power of your frequency, right, and the power of like being a match
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for what it is that you want to create in this world, you have
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to be a match of frequency, and that's an energetic conversation. But a
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question was what's the difference between being in high energy and being in high frequency?
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And my answer was this, even when I'm in a bad mood,
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I'm still a badass and worthy of everything that I've come here to create and
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experience. That's high frequency. That's low energy and high frequency. Right,
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that's like or even I mean, even a bad mood, you can have
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high energy. Anger is is high energy sometimes, but you feel the difference
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of that. So what I mean by that is there's this common misconception,
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I think, especially when you start learning about the power of your energy and
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getting into these type of teachings and conversations. And I used to get confused
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about this too, but there's this common misconception in order to be a match
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for big things and good things and positive things, that you have to be
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positive and high energy all the time. You can't be in a bad mood.
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You can't get mad, you can't get sad, you can't get tired.
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You need to be quote high vibe constantly, otherwise you're going to start
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attracting in a bunch of crap that you don't want and that could not be
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further from the truth, couldn't be Think of the person that you look up
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to the most. Are you telling me that they're bouncing off the walls,
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constantly happy all the time. No, are you telling me that they don't
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experience excruciating situations and challenges. No, are you telling me that they don't
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get angry or sad or doubt themselves, or periods or even seasons of low
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energy and low vibe. Of course they experience that. That's human nature.
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So what I always say with this is are we were given emotions for a
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reason. If God didn't want to feel our emotions, he would not have
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she she, the universe would not have given us the emotions to feel.
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We have those those are They're messengers to us. That's what makes us human.
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That's what separates us from freaking cows. So we're meant to feel.
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That's that that makes the journey sweet, right Like, you don't know what
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happiness is until you have felt the deepest level of sadness. You don't know
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what inspiration and what confidence feels like unless you have felt scared and doubted yourself.
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The duality makes everything sweeter, It makes good so much better. But
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we're not meant to hide from the quote unquote bad or the dark or whatever.
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If it's there for you, if it's in your experience, there's a
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reason why. And as a matter of fact, the fastest way to get
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through that is to feel it holy and to experience it. The fastest way
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to the other side is through it's when you resist it because you feel like
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that's wrong and you're not supposed to that, it actually prolongs the experience and
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it can manifest in other things then that you really don't want. So,
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yeah, the difference is the difference between high energy and high frequency is I
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can be at a high frequency as a human regardless of what I'm going through,
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whether I'm sleeping, whether I'm I'm in a fight with my partner,
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I'm frustrated with my day, I'm confused, I'm whatever. I can still
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be at a high frequency. I can still believe in myself and what I'm
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here to do and create an experience regardless of outside circumstances. That is how
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you hold a higher frequency. And actually that was the next question, so
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we'll go deep into that in just a second. But that's the difference there.
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We're not meant to again be bounced off the walls or be happy all
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the time, that's insane and that would be very annoying. And you have
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to remember too that it's the hard things, it's the sad things. It's
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the contrast in life where we get the true wisdom from. That's what makes
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us great. It's often those challenging things and experiences and frustrations that take us
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from good to great. So we need those things. But it's that underlying
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vibe of like no, no, no, I'm going through it right now,
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but I know I'm gonna be okay, even if I'm not certain I'm
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gonna be okay, Like I know I'm gonna be okay. And by the
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way, you can still fall off that right like you you're not always going
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to stay this super high frequency. You're going to bump yourself down a few
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times, that doubt will creep in the law. Or actually, let's just
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go into the second question, because here's how we hold it right. The
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second question is how do you hold the energy? You hear a lot of
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people talk about that all the time, like, just hold the energy,
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believe you know, think of what you want, what is the energy of
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that, what's the feeling of that? Now? Just hold it? Hold
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the energy? What the hell does that mean I'm gonna tell you that means
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acting as if. That means deciding I want that I am worthy of that,
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I'm gonna make that happen, and keeping that energy as consistently as you
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can. So that's where acting as if comes from. Because if you truly
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believed that you were insert whatever the thing is that you want. Let's say
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you truly truly believe that this is going to be your You're gonna what would
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be a good example here, Okay, let's say like you're launching a business
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and you fully believe that it's going to be a success. You just know,
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you know, you believe in yourself. You may not know every single
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thing that you need to know, and you know you've never done anything like
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this before, but like you're just like, if I build it, they'll
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come. You know, I believe in myself. I know I can make
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this happen. If you really believed in your inevitable success, then you would
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build the thing right. You'd build the brand, you'd have the presence,
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you put out, the content, you put out the offers, you maybe
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hire a team. You would take action toward that inevitable result as if that
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thing was coming as if that thing was coming. So if you believe that
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there's a giant snowstorm coming because the news people and the meteorologists say there's a
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snowstorm, what are you gonna do. You're gonna rush to the store.
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You're gonna buy up all the bread, all the toilet paper, and all
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the milk. Why, I don't know, because that's what we do.
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And you're gonna go sit at home and wait for snow. The snow's not
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there yet, there's no proof of snow yet. That's just you. You
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believe in some person on the TV that says that they're coming. It's coming,
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so you act as if. So that is what we need to do
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when it comes to the things that we're creating. That is how you hold
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the energy. Now, like I said, there are going to be times
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that you fall off track. There's gonna be times where you're at that frequency
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of like, yes, I believe I'm the one, I'm it. I'm
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gonna make it happen. It's only a matter of time, right, like
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raw that that badass I could run through a freaking wall energy and then something's
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gonna happen, or you're gonna see something or whatever. It doesn't even matter.
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Some circumstance is gonna happen, and it's gonna bump you down a couple
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of notches of frequency where you're not quite at the level of like it's done,
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that level of it's done. Like there's a difference between I think I
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can do this, Yeah, I think, yeah, I'm pretty sure this
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is gonna happen, versus like, bitch, we're this. It's just a
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different time. Like literally, I can see the timeline where like it's it's
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already, I've done it, I've done it. Okay, I'm I've already
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have the millions in the bank, Like yeah, yeah, my account's overdrawn
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right now. Literally, it doesn't matter because we're just time. What's time.
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It's an illusion, different timeline. I'm a billionaire, you know.
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Like there's a little difference in those energies, different level of frequency, different
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level of belief. You are going to wobble, why, because you are
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a human and if you're not wobbling, I feel like that's probably a sign
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that you're not dreaming big enough. Because if you've never done the thing,
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it's the thing's big enough, then yeah, you're gonna have moments where it's
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the run through the wall moment. You're the one and you fully believe that,
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but then you're also a human and you're gonna have moments of doubt too.
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So that's we've stopped holding knee energy. That's where the fear might be
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taking over a little bit our current reality. That's where we're a little too
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focused on current circumstances versus the future circumstances that we're creating. So that's the
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same as, Okay, I know a snowstorm's coming, so I'm going to
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the store and I'm gonna buy up all the ingredients. I'm gonna come home
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because I know, like it's only a matter of time the snow's coming,
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versus you get ready to get in the car to go the store and they're
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like, wait, wait, what if it doesn't come? Shoot, I
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mean, they say the snow's coming, but like what if it doesn't?
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And I get to the store and I buy all this stuff that I don't
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even need, and then I feel stupid. I don't want to be the
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stupid person with extra toilet paper and extra bread. I don't even like bread,
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but we buy bread and snowstorms. That's what everybody else does, and
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what if it doesn't even snow. How many times have meteorologists told me it's
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gonna snow and I think it's going to snow, and I act like it's
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going to snow, and then it doesn't snow. That's the fear taking over.
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We do this all the time. So that's you saying, I believe
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I'm going to be the most badass whatever in this space. And you go
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to take action, maybe you go to invest in the mentor or you go
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to build the website, or you go to create that piece of content or
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whatever the thing is, and then you have that moment of pause and that
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fear thought kicks in and you're like oh, And instead of saying oh,
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it's a fear of thought like that's normal, I'm going to keep it moving.
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What do I want to take action toward faith or fear? Do I
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move in faith or do I do I move in fear? Do I act
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as if what I want is going to happen? Or do I act as
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if the worst case scenario is going to happen? What do I choose to
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pour energy into right now? Instead of thinking about it in that way,
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we think to ourselves, oh, wait, this is a thought I haven't
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thought of in a while, or I've never thought of before. Let me,
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let me contemplate this, let me overthink this to the point that now
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I'm wasting my time, and now I'm about to take action as if the
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thing that I don't want to happen is going to happen. Instead of taking
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action as if my success is inevitable, I'm going to take action as if
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my failure is inevitable. That is when we have lost, We've let go
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of the energy and guess what, It's normal, Totally normal. Everybody at
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every single level, no matter who it is, no matter like, give
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me any example, everybody's dealt with this. The difference is between the average
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person and the person who is great in their own regard is they experience this,
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they have a level of self awareness where they're able to catch it and
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when they're ready, they course correct. Not saying they do it instantly,
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but they take a beat, they do inner work, they talk to a
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men tour or somebody that they trust, somebody who's created what it is that
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they want to create. They realize, oh, it's normal to feel these
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things. Okay, I'm not the only one. Okay, I see what's
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happening here. Okay, Now, how do I choose to act? What
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action do I choose to take for what outcome that I want to create?
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So you decide, and then when you forget, you redecide. Not with
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your thoughts or not just with your thoughts, not just with your energy,
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but with your action. It means nothing. If your energy and your actions
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are a mismatch, means nothing. I can say all day long that I'm
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going to be one of the best podcasters on the planet, but if I
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don't record podcasts, that's not going to happen, right, Like Joe Rogan,
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Alex Cooper, like who you know, the podcast that you look up
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to. They didn't become who they are by not recording podcasts. They became
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who they are by going toward the thing that they wanted and believing it and
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actually acting as if their success is inevitable and playing really freaking big. You
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think they didn't have doubts, of course they did. So when you forget
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and you notice, ooh ooh, I dropped my energy a little bit,
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I dropped my frequency a little bit. Okay, okay, cool, Why
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did I do that? What was the thing that shook me up. Okay,
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do I believe that? Is that? What I is that, what
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I choose? Is that what I choose to, you know, write in
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the sand, you know, take from the sand to the concrete. Right
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now, your fear is just like something written in the sand. You can
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easily go blow it away. But if you act on that, you're taking
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that thought from sand to concrete. Meaning we're turning it into something tangible.
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Okay, So that is how we hold our energy. It's a level of
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self awareness. Oh okay, two more questions. Next question, what are
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my favorite rituals to set the tone for the day or if I need an
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energy reset? So in the times that I forget and I feel like I've
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had a dip in my frequency, is there anything that like? Is there
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a go to that helps me get back on track and raise the vibe.
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So I have tested everything under the sun. I've done every ritual you can
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imagine, from meditating to journaling to unit I mean, I've done it all,
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and everybody's different. I've noticed that I can't do the same thing every
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single day. It becomes too routine and it defeats the purpose. This isn't
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meant to be like, the point isn't the ritual. That doesn't matter.
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It means nothing that you meditate every single day. Literally, you're not going
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to get to heaven or you're not going to be more favored to make your
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dreams come true because you meditate every day. That means nothing. It's about
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how you feel during and after the meditation. So if you're getting into meditating,
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or you see successful people who meditate and you're like, Okay, in
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order for me to be great, I need to meditate. But every time
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you sit there, you're miserable or you get nothing out of it. Not
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to say that we can't practice things and get better at it, because meditation
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is one of those skills that you know, for some of us it takes
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definitely some time in practice to get the benefit of it. But it's not
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serving you right, Like you can want to improve something and work at it
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like any skill, but just because you're doing it means nothing. It's all.
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It's not about the routine. It's not about the journaling, it's not
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about any any ritual anything. It's not about the oil, it's not about
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anything. It's about how you feel about it and how you come out the
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other side. Of the thing. So all that to say, I switch
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this up all the time. It's all about how I feel in the day,
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what time of day it is, how I've slept the night before.
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It's all about, like, what can I do for myself right now that's
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going to set my vibe at a level where I know that I want to
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be in order to attract and create the things that I want to create?
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What does that look like? So sometimes or often I will say, the
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thing that helps me the most with this is some sort of movement, something
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about moving. I don't know what it is. I mean if there's a
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ton of science behind this, obviously, like working out, especially like the
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endorphins and all of that obviously or something to that. But I'm talking about
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even just like getting in the car and leaving the house can be a vibry
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set for me. Something about like getting in a car, putting on songs
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that fire me up, or listening to something, just like the movement of
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getting out of the house. Sometimes you just need to change of scenery of
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environment. So movement's huge for me. Working out is huge for me,
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especially and especially when I don't want to that just the endorphins are game changers
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obviously music. Taking a nap, right, Like anybody who knows anything about
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energy, you'll hear them say this, like if you're having a really shitty
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day or you're in a really really bad mood and you know it's one of
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those things like Okay, a little journal, Sesson ain't gonna do, like
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it's I'm deep in this mud. Take a nap. It's one of the
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best things that you can do. Like, there's no sense enforcing a bunch
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of actions on a to do list unless you absolutely have to do them.
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You're much better off taking a nap because that's going to reset your energy,
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reset your vibe. But you're gonna wake up anew. That's like literally why
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we sleep so napping praying about it. This can be like the best reset.
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When's the last time you've been feeling like oh and you pray like God,
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take like, thank you for shifting my energy, thank you for sending
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me the reframe that I need to see this differently, Help me see this
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differently, help me feel different, help me. Thanking God in advance for
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how you want to feel works like a freaking charm. And then the last
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thing I'll say here is deep, deep, self compassion and remembering that you
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are human. If you were meant to be again this high energy, high
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frequency freak of nature, you would have not been made a human. You
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would have been made a robot. But you're not. So give yourself a
27:57
break. There. There's a like, if you're playing a really big game
28:03
in addition to everything else on your plate, like if you're a parent,
28:08
or you have a relationship, or you have family drama or friend drama or
28:15
just human drama. In addition to playing a big game in business, you're
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going to have a lot to deal with, a lot of things that are
28:25
going to be fighting for your attention, that are going to be fighting to
28:30
help you, to make you want to look at a situation darker than what
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it really is. This is the human experience. So give yourself a break,
28:40
give yourself some grace and taken them and then redecide again who you are,
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what you're capable of, and what you're here to do and go do
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it. And then the last question that I want to dive into for this
28:56
episode, and this is so good. So she said, I want to
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believe that I'm made for big things. I have dreams that are what I
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would consider bigger than anyone in my life and my family. But I also
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fear that I'm fooling myself. I've never accomplished anything remotely as big, and
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she gave more specific I rewrote this to make it more general, but she
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said, I've never accomplished anything remotely big at all. And I know that
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it's silly and counterproductive, but I still have that little voice in my head
29:32
that says, who are you to want that you are not one of them,
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meaning the type of person to do the thing that she wants to do.
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And I don't know about you, but I could not resonate more with
29:48
any idea, any question in my life, like who hasn't felt that?
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I still feel that when I say things like I want to be and I
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will be like one of the greatest podcasters on the planet, the voice in
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my head is like, you idiot, You're gonna have to answer for that
30:07
one day, Like people are gonna be like remember that time Ali said blah
30:11
blah blah, and look at her now, she's still number two hundred and
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three in Russia. Loser, you know, like duh, that's everybody,
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guys. Everybody feels this way, whether they admit it or not, whether
30:29
they're aware of it or not, this is normal. This is the game.
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If everybody came out the womb believing in their power, believing that they
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had what it takes to do something great, never doubting themselves, we would
30:44
all be superhero billionaires, every single one of us. It is the ones
30:51
of us who are able to have a human experience, see different things in
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life. They're available to us, realize that our choose the type of life
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that we want and say, Okay, I could go left, but I
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choose to go right. No, nobody in my family's gone to the right.
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Everybody has gone left. I'm going to go to the right anyway.
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I may be the first, but somebody has got to be the first.
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Anybody that you look up to, anybody that's done anything big, if you
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look at their background, nine times out of ten the odds were stacked against
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them. That's what makes them so great. That's what makes their story so
31:30
inspiring, because you're like, how with those parents, with that upbringing,
31:37
with that you know, unique situation, how did that person believe in themselves
31:42
to get up every single day and pursue that that thing, that that massive
31:49
mountain that nobody believed that they could top. That's what makes the person so
31:56
great anyway, go anyway, most case, there are examples where yeah,
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you know, they had incredible parents that spoke belief in life into them.
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That's going to be all of our kids, right I feel like our generation
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raising kids right now, they're going to be the most like ego inflated kids
32:14
in a good way, right, Like, because we're all I think we're
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all so much more aware of the power of our words and parenting and we
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just we it's not that we care more, but we were just more aware,
32:29
is the word for it. So our kids are all like growing up
32:34
to believe that they can pretty much do anything, and it's going to be
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really interesting to see what it is that they do. But they still have
32:40
to decide for themselves. Right You can speak life over somebody all day,
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but you still have to be the one to pursue the thing. So anytime
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you get the thought like I've never done this before, how many things in
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your life have you done for the first time? Take like the most you
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know overused example is like there was a time you never took a step,
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or you never rode a bike, or you never swam in a pool,
33:07
or you never had a healthy relationship, and then you did. You went
33:14
from the girl who like for me, I was the girl who couldn't have
33:19
a healthy relationship to save my life, who was destined to repeat what I
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witnessed as a kid, which was abuse and trauma and all the things right
33:30
like that, That's what I was, you know, brought up or I
33:32
saw for the most part, until I didn't, until I changed, until
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I now have like one of the healthiest relationships that I even know. That's
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crazy. If you had told me that ten twelve years ago, I would
33:46
have left in your face, like I grew same thing in this business.
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You know, you didn't believe you could go to college, and then you
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went to college. You didn't believe that you could do you know, everybody
34:00
has the first, and if you don't let this be the first. Do
34:07
you believe in yourself? Like it's enough to believe in yourself that you can
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do something somebody else has done, But can you believe in yourself to be
34:15
the first to do the thing? Ever? Like four minute mile person,
34:21
imagine the level of self belief when everything every person was like that's physically impossible
34:29
scientifically, physically absolutely impossible. There's no way somebody can run of mile and
34:36
four minutes until whoever that person was was like but and then guess what.
34:45
So many people do it. Now that is a crazy level of self belief.
34:51
But somebody's got to have it. Somebody's got to have it. And
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I truly believe that's why we're put on this planet and the way that we
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are as co creators. We cannot control all the outside circumstances, that is
35:07
by design. We cannot control the environment that we were raised in, that
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we were brought up in. We cannot control certain things that happen in our
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life that we genuinely, genuinely to have no control over. But what we
35:17
can control is what we do with those cards. With the cards that you're
35:22
dealt, you get to play them to me. I believe that's literally the
35:28
game. Are you going to take a stack of cards, shit cards and
35:35
fold them and say this game sucks, I'm out because a lot of people
35:37
do that unfortunately, Or are you going to take those stack of cards and
35:43
say these are shit and I'm about the bluff the f out of everybody and
35:52
full all y'all till I get some better cards in my deck because that's an
35:55
option too, or I'm going to play these so stratgically, I don't even
36:00
have to bluff until I'm winning the game, because you get to do that
36:05
too. And there are going to be times that you play to your best
36:07
ability and you still lose. But if you're still alive, you still get
36:14
to play the game. So how do you choose to play it? So
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that voice in your head is normal, everybody has it. But just like
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I answered in the previous question or the one about holding energy, do you
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take action on faith or on that fear voice? Because something gave you the
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idea of the dream. There is a part of you, your higher self,
36:45
believes in your capability to make that happen. Do you choose to act
36:50
as if you believe that voice, your higher self the voice of God?
36:54
Think of it that way? Do you think God is whispering in your ear?
36:58
Who the hell do you think you are? You little fool? What
37:02
a dork? You think you can do that thing? Bitch? Please?
37:07
You think God is like listen, I did not put you on this planet
37:12
to do anything cool. You need to be this little, tiny minion.
37:15
You need to play small like maybe in your next life you can do something
37:19
cool, but not this one. Hello, whose voice do you think that
37:24
is? God or Satan? But the crazy thing is is people hear the
37:30
voice of Satan and they say, you're right, Okay, I'm gonna take
37:37
action as if I'm the little dork who's never gonna make anything in my life.
37:42
Thank you, Satan, thanks for putting me back in my place.
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That's literally what we're doing when we listen to that voice and we take action
37:52
based on that voice. That's what it means to move in faith or fear.
37:58
God believes in you. God put you on this planet to believe in
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yourself, like nobody can believe in you for you. That is an inside
38:08
job. You get to decide that nobody else can. So what are you
38:15
gonna do? Whoo? I don't know about you, but I'm fired up
38:24
and I think my computer is about to die. So I'm gonna shut this
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down before I get shut down. Thank you so much for listening. I
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feel I think I think this year, I think it's gonna be a little
38:37
crazy, but I think it's gonna be okay. I think, like if
38:39
we survived last year and we're still standing and we're we're conscious enough to realize
38:47
the power of our thoughts and our energy and give it a fair shot anyway,
38:53
and move as much as we can in faith and fear. Then we're
38:58
we're gonna come out the other side of this. You're really proud, really
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excited and doing really big things. I know it, I believe it.
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I'm speaking that into existence for me and for you. I love you,
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I believe in you. Happy freaking New Year. I'll see you next week. Bye.