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- 0:00Okay, hello everybody, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name is
- 0:04Brian and I'm here with well, actually, I have a special episode of
- 0:10Maintaining Frame because Lauren and doctor Randa mccam are here with me at my place.
- 0:16So that's why you guys see their little avatars. And Alison is here
- 0:21as well, coming at us from the Great North. Yes, en Zoidberg.
- 0:28I don't know how we prove it unless we clap at the same time.
- 0:30Let's clap at the same time. Oh sorry, in the same room.
- 0:39Okay, yeah, we are all in the same room, but we're
- 0:42we're not feeling confident about appearing our camera. But anyway, so, yeah,
- 0:48we're here to do a video for you guys, a stream and Alison
- 0:54what what what are we gonna say? Well, I was just gonna say,
- 0:56so we're going with maintaining Friends. Yeah, I just thought, I
- 0:59mean, I know what else to call it? Well, he could call
- 1:02it is this comedy? Yeah, like authentic, accurate and hilarious in the
- 1:11titles. Oh so I guess we will find out if this is authentic,
- 1:15accurate, and hilarious. It's a particular emphasis on the word hilarious. Yeah,
- 1:22oh yeah, let's let's let's let's figure this out, because we're looking
- 1:26at a bunch of cartoons from some woman cartoonists. Cartoons are creative. These
- 1:32are just they look like trace photos. They're not they're not good drawings in
- 1:37my opinion, photos. But they certainly don't have a kind of a comedy
- 1:45aesthetic. I'll put it that way. It's like cartoons would. Yes,
- 1:51cartoons and a woman stereotype, but even from a young age, like women
- 1:57try to draw good looking women, and boys just try to draw funny little
- 2:02fat things with big eyes, master muscles and guns. Whatever. These illustrations
- 2:09as they called. Are they up on the screen there, Brian? What
- 2:14what was that? What's on the screen is the is the comic in question
- 2:17the hilarious, authentic and the first image yet but where we just have the
- 2:24headline up and scrolled the just scrolled these images crazy look here? Yeah?
- 2:35Yeah, yeah, did you see? We're not lying folks. Yeah,
- 2:39this is just this is not funny imagery. In my opinion, it works
- 2:43if you move it around and give them funny die like like looks a bit
- 2:46like it does look like Archer, Yeah, because it's got that kind of
- 2:51aesthetic, but well, we'll see if this if hilarious, authentic and accurate
- 2:57and hilarious. You know, you might be getting way get away with authentic
- 3:00and accurate, because who the hell knows what authentic really means? H and
- 3:05accurate but not the three in the same sentence, because hilarious sets up a
- 3:09standard, right, and they're saying, Okay, this is going to this
- 3:14is going to rise to hilarity. Is that accurate? Is that authentic to
- 3:21the meaning of hilarity. I'm just I'm just landing out there, just just
- 3:24floating. That means so mind blowing that it ruins your life basically, Yeah,
- 3:34it's really hysterical sort of. It's supposed to be funny. It actually
- 3:38means of the womb. So you're laughing, you're laughing, and you're having
- 3:43an existential crisis at the same time. Is that what hilarious means? Yeah,
- 3:46it's driving you crazy. It's like like laugh gas, it's you know,
- 3:55it's so it's so funny you can't contain yourself. It drives you insane.
- 4:00I know that hilarious is overused. That's that's why I think it confuses
- 4:04people, you know, But like hilariousness is supposed to be like beyond beyond
- 4:11funny, beyond reality of honey. Okay, the grim dark quality to the
- 4:17world hilarity. Yeah, okay, Well before I continue, do have proof
- 4:24that Mike and laurener here, because if you look in the upper right corner
- 4:28of your screen, you'll see there's only two little icons for who is in
- 4:32the discord call. It's just Alison and mine. It's my voice is making
- 4:36the green circle. Yes, yes, this is black magic. Okay,
- 4:43are there really good at questions that much? I think, you know,
- 4:46we just I'm just I just want to clarify some people can see it.
- 4:48I don't know. It's not a question of that much. You got to
- 4:51give the data. You got to give the facts before you can expect people
- 4:55to believe you, because it's not you know, believe all badgers. Yeah,
- 5:00okay, all right, Oh yeah, yeah, I could do yeah,
- 5:04yeah, oh shoot, I won't be able to see the jojo camera
- 5:08though, I don't. I don't have enough on the dark dank. I
- 5:13think it would show. Yeah, you'll see you see Dren, but also
- 5:18Mike's knee and Lauren's knee and their hands. See, that's not me believe
- 5:26over here. But JoJo's there, so there's that, and he's he looks
- 5:30not enthused any more. Humans. So wow, we got a super chat
- 5:39from somebody. Why don't I see that here? Do you want me to
- 5:43do the things before we go any further into this, Yeah, go ahead,
- 5:46do the thing and we could do our speculations on why this particular article
- 5:49just was vaporized from the net from orbit for some reason. Yeah, all
- 5:56right, but before we do that, let's let me do the let me
- 5:59do the necessity and necessity necessary things. Yes that word. All right.
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- 6:30the tip. I do want to remind everyone that I am doing my well
- 6:33now monthly ongoing fundraiser to get the editing of my book The Captive I complete,
- 6:42and you can help me out at feed Thebadger dot com slash support.
- 6:46That's Feedbadger dot com slash support. Uh. Really really fun project, really
- 6:49enjoying it. The guy, the guys in gal in the writer's group,
- 6:54we're all having interesting. It's interesting to go through a project like this with
- 6:59an actual editor and find out this dark process that is now being ensued by
- 7:08everybody in Hollywood. I think. I don't think a lot of those people
- 7:11have seen an editor in their entire life, because that would I mean,
- 7:16I don't even have writers though, Alison, Yeah, what do they have?
- 7:19They have mont drawings? All right, So feed the Badger dot com
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- 7:36Captive. I okay, Game of Thrones meets Alice in Wonderland If that sounds
- 7:43good. Feed the Badger dot com slash support all right there? Okay,
- 7:47Yeah, so this is authentic, accurate, and hilarious forty five must see
- 7:55illustrations that capture what it's like being a thirty plus woman in twenty twenty three.
- 7:59So I'm not going to have any opinion on anything because I am not.
- 8:03Well, actually I might be a woman. I might decide to be
- 8:07maybe, oh you can decide to be. I'm sure Mike has already decided
- 8:09to be a woman today. I'm definitely there you go. I already don't
- 8:13get the joke, right, Well, maybe this is like a joke,
- 8:18and maybe this is like loss. Maybe it's in four parts. All right,
- 8:24so here we have a I don't know how we're gonna do this for
- 8:26people who are listening on audio, but here we have what we could describe
- 8:33it. I just yeah, okay, all right, we'll describe it.
- 8:35We'll do like one. But I really want to get into why this disappeared
- 8:39because I'm really curious. If anyone has any rumors, it's probably guys that
- 8:45this link. So if you try to go to the original link, it's
- 8:48gone, Like we have to we have to dig up the archive link.
- 8:54So I don't know, idea why, Yeah, I don't know why.
- 8:56I don't know if it's like I don't think it was. I mean,
- 9:00it's probably the least offensive piece of work that I've seen in a while.
- 9:05Still offensive, but not that offensive, you know, Yes, there's stuff
- 9:09up there that's way worse. What was that? It's just like a mild
- 9:15maybe like nettle, like just just a mild burn of offence, not really
- 9:20significant if that it's more, it's more just like a I think what happened
- 9:24is people appropriated it for memes. It rapidly went into meme culture or distributed
- 9:31through meme culture. Maybe hilarious, Yeah, that would actually be hilarious,
- 9:35Actually be hilarious, right, I know I took one of these. I
- 9:41don't know if you saw it I took. If we get to it,
- 9:43i'll tell you that the story of what I did. I haven't looked at
- 9:46these. So actually, okay, So anyway, I got a promotion and
- 9:48there's a photo of a strong, independent black woman wearing a suit, a
- 9:54turtleneck which I didn't know those were still in, and apparently a lanyard with
- 9:58her with her card that she used to check in, kind of dressed like
- 10:03a pimp. And then we have another woman, a woman of a body
- 10:07positive type, saying I bought a house. Oh no, Brian, that's
- 10:13not body positive yet. That's not body positive anymore. That is uh,
- 10:16that is actually uh yeah, that's no longer enough. That's not body positive
- 10:22enough. She's she's like maybe a size eighteen. That's not buddy, You're
- 10:26not body positive until you're in the thirties. Yeah right, I got married
- 10:33and there's a woman in a wedding dress. I got out of bed,
- 10:37A woman bags on her eyes? Is it like three in the afternoon?
- 10:41Like, what is this young? Well, I don't, I don't.
- 10:46I'm sorry, I'm not female enough to get this. I don't. I
- 10:50think it's like a comparison between the two different side by side. Yeah,
- 10:56one of these things is not like the other. It's like the you remember
- 11:00joke, and it is a bit like lost. Yeah, now, you're
- 11:05actually right. The joke is told from the point of view of the women
- 11:09in the fourth panel. Yes, wait, yeah, what you're saying is
- 11:16while some women are out here doing things that are important to them, like
- 11:22having a promotion in a house or getting married, this fourth one just as
- 11:26valid just as the other ones. It's self deprecating comedy. It's it's fine,
- 11:33yes, we do that. We do that sort of thing a lot.
- 11:35Women don't be narcissist. I don't know where this is coming from.
- 11:41Maybe there's like a caption, Oh, yeah, look at this. I
- 11:43feel I feel like her eyes are drawing me in into some kind of realm
- 11:50other world. Yeah, otherworldly abyss, it's like that. I never saw
- 11:56it, but you know the Megan, like the doll like, yeah,
- 12:00you know the movie. Megan's about a dog, yes, kills people or
- 12:03something. I didn't even watch it. I don't know. God, damn,
- 12:07this woman really draws creepy shit. She's mister calling. She should be
- 12:11doing psychological horror. Okay, let me read the blurb. With over a
- 12:18million followers on her Instagram account, artist Laney Molnar is undoubtedly the most refreshing
- 12:24and entertaining addition to our social media feeds. But what's all the fuss about?
- 12:31Yeah? Really? Molnar's unique talent lies in her ability to depict situations
- 12:35that every thirty plus woman can relate to with such authenticity, accuracy, and
- 12:39humor that it's impossible not to fall in love with her work. From diet,
- 12:46yeah right, impossible. It takes is one case for it to be
- 12:50possible, and it's impossible. From it and dating to sexuality and female expectations,
- 13:03Monar tackles taboo topics with intelligence and honesty. Delivering a spot on illustrations
- 13:09that will make you laugh, cry and not an agreement. So if you
- 13:13haven't discovered it yet or discovered her yet, now is the time. Check
- 13:16out these forty five must see illustrations that showcase Monar's exceptional talent and make you
- 13:20feel seen, heard and understood. I don't, I don't. I just
- 13:28don't. I don't get women. I don't get it. I just don't
- 13:33get women. I mean, you didn't hear you know it? Just I
- 13:45don't understand women, Okay, I really don't. And so it's not enough
- 13:50that they complain that men try to control their lives and tell you how to
- 13:54be. Women do it too. Yeah, they do it to each other
- 13:58too. No, they do it to each other more than men. I
- 14:01feel, Yeah, like, did you see the thing? As an aside,
- 14:05did you do you guys see the thing about Billie Eilish, Billy Billy
- 14:09I was going everybody was talking about it. Billy Eilish was talking about how
- 14:13like what is it something like men don't have like body issues because women are
- 14:20nice or something like that, And I'm like, what are you talking about?
- 14:28Like you're you're basically worried about people body shaming. It's women doing it
- 14:35like not men like men. I mean you know, actually, wait,
- 14:37I stand corrected. The top one percent of men will be judgmental. But
- 14:43they're the only men that these women see. But they can be judgment yeah,
- 14:48because they got these average homes out here trying to police the rest of
- 14:54us. I'm like, look, don't put don't put your ship on me.
- 14:58Yeah, please, Your your best shot is getting some kind of notice,
- 15:05not notificate. I can't even talk, getting some kind of recognition for
- 15:09the little pictures that you draw. Get real. Yeah, I know,
- 15:13I know this is really funny, but so you don't feel seen, heard
- 15:18and understood, Lauren. No, oh yeah, I get that. I
- 15:26get the self deprecation of the first one, I think. But the thing
- 15:28is that this is probably the least the least I don't want to say controversial,
- 15:37but least stupid stupid the road tone death, uh, completely incapable of
- 15:43understanding. No, no, no, the initial cartoon, they start you
- 15:48off with something pretty mild self deprecation. Yeah, no, no, And
- 15:54what I'm saying is the first one, the first one one is not really
- 15:58part of the series. Okay, okay, all right, I'm introducing confusion,
- 16:03and I'm going to try to stop. I'm saying that they start off
- 16:07with the comic that is the least offensive and I don't even want to say
- 16:11offensive because it's not really offensive, but at least the least cringe cringe,
- 16:17Yes, okay, because it's just off deprecating humor. You know, you
- 16:21can be like, Okay, that's cute. Huh. I'm not going to
- 16:23laugh out loud, but I'll look at and I'll be like, I guess
- 16:26I've had those days which it is a triumph to get out of bed,
- 16:32haven't we all? You know that kind of thing. But it, let
- 16:36me just put it this way, Barron, it gets worse brought by and
- 16:40by it. I've been doing this for ten years and you don't get my
- 16:45name right. So this is the first one, right, it's my choice.
- 16:52Yes, if there's forty five of these and there's a blurb after every
- 16:55one of them, you could probably skip the Okay, it's my choice.
- 16:57Yeah, don't explain the joke. Other women, heavy makeup, fake nails,
- 17:03lip fillers, breast implants, tight clothes, me supporting her because women
- 17:07shouldn't be pitted against each other. Nobody should be shamed her personal choices.
- 17:12Yeah, oh my god, I am seen. Oh wait a minute,
- 17:15this has nothing to do with me. Women shouldn't be pitted against each other,
- 17:22you were Okay, what let's read it to this in a bit.
- 17:26Do you think that there's some sort of smoky room of men pitting women against
- 17:30each other? Yes, honestly, yeah, we're all smoking cigars and talking
- 17:34about women. Who how you can relationally aggress against women? That's literally what?
- 17:41How how can we get her and her him or her and her,
- 17:47she and her to fight? I can't even say it with women, you
- 17:49know, Like, how can we get the women to fight each other?
- 17:53Oh? I think I get it? So this okay, So the woman
- 17:57who's making these drawings, this is her. So she's also the one that
- 18:02just woke up. It's the same one. Yeah, tattoo on her arm
- 18:04there. So she has a loser, and she's basically like taking it on
- 18:10on other women because they have standards. That's kind of what I'm I'm just
- 18:14just getting me. I'ming you you are seeing loser. Okay, I'm really
- 18:23sorry. I'm used to just responding. After Brian finishes, well, I
- 18:30was just gonna say this does seem to be like almost almost like she's implying
- 18:37that this woman can be judged while saying, of course, I'm not judging
- 18:41you, darling. There is a judgment going on though, because she's saying,
- 18:47a women, you know, I'm gonna support her because women shouldn't be
- 18:49pitted against each other. So that's basically saying women who don't do this,
- 18:53I'm judging you, right, So she's she's still pitting herself against other women,
- 19:00just doing putting yourself against the women that judge, I guess, or
- 19:03against against anyone that does the secret women? What the secretall of men pitting
- 19:11women against each other? Yeah, that's what we do, because you know,
- 19:15men have such an impact. Also, is tattoos that look like a
- 19:19six year old Drea? Yeah, I thought they were. They're so random
- 19:25too. It's like if you if you got like a sticker book full of
- 19:29temporary tattoos and they were all just kind of like and you just started applying
- 19:32them. You just rolled on them, you know, like you've just laid
- 19:34them out in the bed. I just prayed yourself down and rolled on them.
- 19:40Yeah, yeah, exactly. This has s SR eyes written all over
- 19:45it. Okay, it is definitely interesting choice. Yes, uh, just
- 19:51caring for my body. Okay, if they call me lazy, I'm going
- 19:56to say thank you. I'm honoring my body's need for rest. If they
- 20:00call me insatiable, I'm going to say thank you. I'm giving my body
- 20:03the nourishment it needs. Okay, you're not. Oh there's more. There's
- 20:11more, because this is like an Instagram thing, so like there's an arrow
- 20:14here. I no, no, you see that. That suggests there's more
- 20:18images. But I guess this person is too lazy to like, you know,
- 20:22No, these are just screenshots of these were too lazy to download the
- 20:26images. Huh, they were too lazy to download the images, so they
- 20:30just did screenshots. Yeah, screenshots. Yeah. Well, from what I
- 20:34understand though, an Instagram, for whatever reason, you can't actually download the
- 20:38images at least I don't think so, So you have to take screenshots.
- 20:44That's probably what it is. So basically you can't be judged as lazy or
- 20:48gluttonous. Yeah, no, you're not allowed. I guess. I guess
- 20:52we can't have any of the sins anymore, like the Seven Deadly Sins those
- 20:57you can spride for pride, Yeah, gotta do that every year, except
- 21:03the reality is gonna come for you. So it's not you can say you're
- 21:07avoiding it or you're gonna ignore it, but it doesn't matter, like when
- 21:11you're you know, sloughful with diabetes tied to I mean like there's no amount
- 21:18of like, don't judge me, that's gonna change that. So m h
- 21:22but yeah, okay, seven deadly sins. Sure, Like I said,
- 21:26sounds like a loser. What's the next one. I'll choose what I put
- 21:32in my body? Think, oh, on my body, thank you.
- 21:34Her body, her choice, her body, her choice. Oh, I
- 21:40mean, yeah, do what you want. So there's a woman wearing I
- 21:45don't know what that is, something that they might have worn to a Madonna
- 21:48concert. Looks like a seamstresses accident. Yeah it does. It looks terrible.
- 22:00It's not just that it's the army. Yeah right, what the flax?
- 22:07I'm you know, honestly, I think they should conscript women. I
- 22:11think that would be the sharpest wake up call to women like this that could
- 22:15ever be, and they would rapidly discover that no, they do want to
- 22:18be homemakers and have a passil of kids, or they would stop be lazy
- 22:22and gluttonous. But this is not okay. I'm not offended by this shirt
- 22:30because of the amount of skin she's showing. I'm offended by the fact it's
- 22:34ugly, ugly as sin. I't know what's going on there, Like what,
- 22:42Okay, So she's wearing a bra and then she has like a mesh
- 22:47kind of half shirt for sleeves that kind of covers the rest of her boobs.
- 22:52Don't well, see that's to keep her titties up because they're not they
- 22:59can not supported. I don't know, I don't I have no idea.
- 23:04Her tits need a rest bar, you know, like they have in the
- 23:07in gyms, on the on the just a place where you can rest your
- 23:11elbows or something. Oh, they also have them an airport sometimes too,
- 23:17you can just rest your bag and your elbows and just as you're walking to
- 23:21a place that her tits need that they need like a support bar. Yeah.
- 23:26And who she's talking about when she's saying that, you know, for
- 23:33body her choice, Well, it's these two women who would complain about the
- 23:38other. Yeah, the woman in the hijab will complain about the It's nice,
- 23:45okay, nice of her to acknowledge the job is sometimes a choice,
- 23:48and I'm sure there are some regions in some countries where it's not a choice.
- 23:51But let's not ignore that there are many women of Islamic persuasion who wear
- 23:56the job because they don't want men to rape them. You just just sound
- 24:00feminist, day, Yes, I know, I agree. I think I
- 24:06don't have that much of a problem with this one because it's true, like
- 24:08most of the time, I think it is a choice or women to the
- 24:14Muslim world. In fact, head raps in like religious countries is very common
- 24:18for women, whether it's Muslim or Jewish or Christian even Okay, well anyway,
- 24:26yeah, I don't really care, just trying to figure out what the
- 24:30hell this is. That's daring. I don't know what that is. What
- 24:33people think is fat? Oh? Oh uh okay Bridget Jones so that's uh,
- 24:41what's her name? Renee Zellweger. Yes, Bridget Jones's weight whose storyline
- 24:45was hating her body, being perceived as fat and trying to lose weight fifty
- 24:48nine kilograms my weight sixty two kilograms. Yeah, but is that an accurate
- 24:53drawing of you? And how tall are you taller than Bridget Jones or Renee
- 24:59zel Wegger. Well, what she's saying is that she's well, first of
- 25:03all, it wasn't that she was fat for a normal woman, but for
- 25:08the kind of women in the society that she was sort of a part of
- 25:12because she was also a celebrity Jones's diary, I'm pretty sure it was a
- 25:19woman. And the thing is that that she's describing the very thing that she's
- 25:26doing Bridget Jones was about. You know, I honestly I don't think that
- 25:30she was really at risk of diabetes type two or any other shit. I
- 25:37mean, she just was a chubby, normal woman like you would see on
- 25:42the street. And she had two guys panting after her. What's the problem?
- 25:48Despite that there were two, it was like Hugh Grant and what like
- 25:53some you know, top tier dudes courting her. So I don't understand what
- 25:59I'm saying, Like what are you trying to say? Like what are you
- 26:02trying to convince me of? Like basically what Bridget? I'm gonna find out
- 26:11who Bridget Jones's diary? Who wrote it? I just want to point out
- 26:17that all of this is, uh, all of this is complaining about stuff
- 26:22that women do to each other, except you know they're set to it by
- 26:26that smoky cabal of men Helen uh, Helen Fielding. All right, so
- 26:33basically you're shaming Helen Fielding here. Yeah, what do you have against Helen
- 26:38Fielding? Lady? Like you? Is your problem that she was a hugely
- 26:45successful author who ended up having a series of successful movies about a woman who's
- 26:52three kilos less than you, Like you just can't get away from that competition.
- 27:00I guess. I guess it's the I think part of the problem is
- 27:03it's difficult for me to hear you, Mike and Lauren. Really yeah,
- 27:11maybe can can you guys get a little closer to the mic? Maybe that's
- 27:14what helps. I moved over a little bit to get more space. I
- 27:17think it'll be okay, Oh yeah, yeah, I guess I'm not trying
- 27:22to talk over you, Okay, I'm just I'm just pointing out, like
- 27:29this is she is. She's got a thing against Helen Fielding because there is
- 27:33a woman behind Bridget Jones, right, she's this woman who wrote this story.
- 27:40Okay, it's very successful. We already know this. This individual considers
- 27:44it success to get out of the bed. So she's a successful writer,
- 27:49and she apparently thinks that she's done something bad for women. So this particular
- 27:56competition over women who are doing things bad for other women or or supposedly the
- 28:03you know, the pickmes, the handmaidens who are making it harder for other
- 28:07women, that competition is okay because she's engaging in it right here. That's
- 28:11what I'm saying. She's basically saying Helen Fielding has has screwed it over for
- 28:15other women because she made a character that's three kilos lighter than the person doing
- 28:21these drawings. Good lord, it's a bit. It's a bit. It's
- 28:27a bit sad, be honest, Yes, it is a bit sad.
- 28:32And I'm sure, well I'm gonna move on. I'm not gonna go there.
- 28:34Okay. Hair is natural, not disgusting. Oh shit, I know
- 28:37where this is going. Oh and now here's a man. Why don't you
- 28:45shave? This is disgusting? Why don't you That's different? Mine is normal.
- 28:49It just grows there naturally, as opposed to got them. Oh god,
- 28:56lord, are you freaking kidding me? This is this is not even
- 29:03like this is the most inane childish missonry. Like, yeah, there's wars
- 29:10out there, but I think this has God, this has its own particular
- 29:14market. It's cornered and that is inane and childish. Yes it is.
- 29:22You see, you get what I'm saying, right, I mean, look,
- 29:26I just what this Okay? This makes me think like, okay,
- 29:29why do why are you doing this? Like? Why what are you trying
- 29:33to do? Are you trying to make it to where men cannot have any
- 29:37opinion on whatever you decide to do with your body. I mean, it's
- 29:41always your choice at the end of the day. But men don't have to
- 29:44like it, so you know what I mean? Like, are you just
- 29:47saying, oh, well, if I should tid to grow my leg hair
- 29:49out, men should date me anyway? I don't. I don't get it
- 29:55when women don't have to like bids, but quite a lot of them rather
- 29:57do. That's the point. I mean, men don't generally express a preference.
- 30:03Well did the preference for having shaved legs? Really? I guess came
- 30:08about when the kind of raisers that can do that, I can be bought
- 30:12cheaply by the average women sort of came about. Until then women did have
- 30:18at least hairy lower legs, and no one really gave a shit because they
- 30:21didn't walk around and miniskirts a hard time. There are people who ever looked
- 30:25at their legs where people are the men who were already their husbands, and
- 30:30they didn't really care nothing like as much as women care about a man having
- 30:33a bed. Some women women don't. But you know some men have a
- 30:37baby face when they don't have a bed, myself being possibly one of her.
- 30:44But yeah, a beard is a sign of a man who's well,
- 30:51I don't know what's the word adult. Adult, he's you know, he's
- 30:55been going here long enough for him for it to grow into because you can
- 30:59tell the difference between a bed that's been shaved a lot and a bed that's
- 31:03never been shaved. Many Muslims support that kind of bed. And yeah,
- 31:07if a man had that kind of bid that had only ever been bumf left,
- 31:10that there had never been shaved, then women would go, that's disgusting
- 31:14if they if they even had the courage to talk to such a man in
- 31:17the first place. But yeah, it's well, this guy has the right
- 31:25to find it disgusting, all right. You guys talk about how in cells
- 31:30smell and they got neck beards and stuff like that. Well, if you're
- 31:33gonna say that in cells need to use deodorant and shave their necks in order
- 31:40to have a chance with a woman. What's the difference than that? And
- 31:42I'm pretty sure that she would be this individual is part of the ideological stable
- 31:48that would would condemn in cells is not being able to get a date because
- 31:52they are smelly and hairy, and you know that's disgusting. So what is
- 31:59this actually complaining about. Men have standards of hygiene for women, Well,
- 32:02like women don't have standards of hygiene for men. Yep, uh, okay,
- 32:09you are an entitled print. Go find a man who who likes your
- 32:14leg hair, then you probably won't like something about him, though, I
- 32:19mean, because you seem to be the kind of person that wants to avoid
- 32:22judgment while being judgmental. But I want to point out that there is a
- 32:28really this is like a common thing where uh, this woman is straw maning
- 32:35a male's opinion on Harry legs by saying that when she says, why don't
- 32:40you, he says that's different. Mind is normal. It just grows there
- 32:43naturally. There are literally no people on earth that don't think that women's hair
- 32:47grows naturally. Like that is just beyond stupid to think that's what I'm saying,
- 32:53have that opinion that, like, you know, it's like it's like
- 32:57whip, it's like literally thinking that men don't think women aret and poop,
- 33:04you know what I mean. It's it's it's such a stupid presumption to work
- 33:08operate from because you want to shame men. Men know, women grow hair,
- 33:15like like, no man would say this. What Yeah, no man
- 33:19would say this, No man would say this. I mean, it's just
- 33:22illogical on the stupid face of it. Yeah, you know men, men,
- 33:27men are smarter. Honey. You know she I love how she's posing
- 33:30herself as as the intelligent one in this situation. Yeah, why don't you
- 33:37get it? I mean, it grows there naturally, as far as you
- 33:40don't wax it in order to get it off. That's a ben of a
- 33:45difference. We shave knowing that it's going to grow back into stubble and and
- 33:51still be attractive to some women. And that might be a difference. Like
- 33:57a lot of men don't give a shit about leg aroon women, but they're
- 33:59not tracted to it. I don't know any man who has a for leg
- 34:04hair on women. There are women who have a fetish for beds on men.
- 34:07You can find the Facebook group Robert That that that guy, the the
- 34:17outrageous comic guy. Why am I delinking on his name? What he he
- 34:23was like? He was like a counterculture comic, counterculture comic really loved Harry.
- 34:29Women had like a fetish for sasquatches. But I don't know what his
- 34:36name is. Oh, good lord, I Robert Crumb. Oh, Robert
- 34:40Crumb, Crumb cartoon. I see you. There's no men with leg hair
- 34:45fetishes, and I give you run. Robert Crumb. He was no,
- 34:49Yeah, he was a he was asturbed guy. All right, let's move
- 34:53on to the next one. I guess that makes him disturbed me. Well,
- 35:00no, he was too. Though is that he wasn't attracted to the
- 35:02average woman either. So that's exactly the thing, right, Like, okay,
- 35:07but anyway, men need to stop doing this. Okay, what could
- 35:12it be? Breathing? Yeah right, absolutely unnecessary, touching my waist when
- 35:16you pass telling me to smile, smile, smile, miserable. That's what
- 35:24I'm gonna tell women. Now, that's that's exactly the way you should be.
- 35:32I feel like I've done a very good job of pressing you, why
- 35:37are you smiling? Then they're gonna be like, don't tell me to not
- 35:44smile. Smile on you know. It's kind of like, uh, do
- 35:46you remember the Looney Tunes when Daffy Duck and Bugs Bunny were arguing about whether
- 35:52it was rabbit season or duck season and then like he would reverse it and
- 35:57be like duck season, and then he was it's ducks. And that's it.
- 36:01That's basically what you have to do. You have to tell them not
- 36:04to smile, and then they'll start smiling because they want to just to contradict
- 36:07you. Okay, hitting on me without previous eye contact? What what?
- 36:15Well, at least we got some kind of framework. What what is it
- 36:22hitting on me without previous eye contact? So? Men, do we need
- 36:27a manual? Do we need like instructions? Can we like go through a
- 36:31tutorial level before we start talking to women? Is that what we need to
- 36:35do? Who knows? Who knows? And then bringing up my period when
- 36:43I am upset? Only you get to do that. Huh. I'm I'm
- 36:46tempted. So when you when you drew this and I and I and I'm
- 37:00gonna use the word draw loosely because I swear these like photos that you traced
- 37:05over. Okay, so I'm gonna move on. Call out your friends on
- 37:13their bs. Okay so this female. Yeah, I told you it's gonna
- 37:16get worse. It's just gonna get progressively worse. They started with the most
- 37:20innocuous, self deprecating humor, and now we're deep into the absurdities of feminist
- 37:25thought. Okay, call out your friends on their bs. Oh, it's
- 37:31men, of course, I thought. I was like, you don't have
- 37:34male friends. Of course it's men. Men aren't responsible for their actions if
- 37:37they are drunk. Huh No again, something no man has ever said this.
- 37:44I mean, I'm sure there's some dudes somewhere, but like, come
- 37:47on, oh, but women are responsible for what others do to them if
- 37:53they choose to be drunk. Bro, No, they're just responsible. Why
- 38:00things they too drunk? That guys know what? This guy he's got a
- 38:06little coffee in his cream. He's got a little cream in his coffee.
- 38:10Sean King. No, No, Sean King's whiter than that. Who the
- 38:15hell? I don't even think Andrew Tate says stuff like this, This is
- 38:19something let's see if this passes the Andrew Tate test. Did Andrew Tate say
- 38:22anything like this? No, okayed the chat. I'm just saying, Okay,
- 38:29I'm actually using him as like the extreme end of anti social behavior in
- 38:34men. Not I'm not saying that he is completely anti social, but I'm
- 38:37just saying I know, okay, I could use Okay, how about Rollo
- 38:43ruche Fi. Okay, they wouldn't say ship like this. Men are not
- 38:47responsible for their actions if they're drunk. This is ship's feminists say about women
- 38:52that you're putting in men's mouth. Okay, again, I wonder why this
- 38:55post disappeared like he just fans. I wonder like where did it go?
- 39:01Like? What what is the story behind it? Does anybody know? Like
- 39:05what happened to this post? Story? This should say made instead? All
- 39:16right, okay, how much more do we? Well, there's like forty
- 39:21right. Let me see. Do I have any super chowds? No?
- 39:22Nothing yet? No get those superchows in guys tell us the JOT. I
- 39:28got bombarded with super chats at the beginning of the show. But I don't
- 39:30know why that happens. I don't have any in the chat itself. Oh
- 39:37it was from like last time. I guess maybe maybe Hannah maybe unhanded,
- 39:43got a whole bunch coming through. Mmm, I don't know. Okay,
- 39:49all right, well this is ridiculous. Like I said, let's let's let's
- 39:52apply the Andrew Tate or rush v standard would be or Andrew Tate say this.
- 39:58If it's no, then basically she's just put the concepts of feminism in
- 40:02the mouths of men. So she's basically gender reversed a feminist statement because literally,
- 40:08there have been anti so called sexual violence campaigns that say that women are
- 40:14not responsible for their actions if they're drunk, but men are yep, oh,
- 40:20she's drunk men and women. Yeah, Like there was a poster campaign
- 40:24she's drunk, you are drunk. If you have sex with her, it's
- 40:30rape, okay, Like, and that's a feminist poster campaign. Literally,
- 40:36if a woman consents while drunk and the man is drunk, she's raped.
- 40:43I'm not talking about a drunk sex in which she didn't want it, but
- 40:46at the time she was consenting to it. And I mean, we've even
- 40:51seen the case of this was really maybe you'll remember this, Brian, a
- 40:55case of a woman who got drunk had sex with the man who was drunk
- 41:01to the point of unconsciousness, and then the next day said he raped her.
- 41:07Do you remember that. No, it's not it's not no, it's
- 41:15not Amy Schumer. This was a college case where she her testimony was that
- 41:21she was drunk. She found this guy passed out drunk, she was unconscious,
- 41:28mounted him. No, it's not mattress girl, it's somebody completely different.
- 41:31But this was her testimony. She mounted him, had sex with him
- 41:37while he was passed out drunk, so he had no ability to initiate or
- 41:40stop her. And then the next day she looked back on it and said,
- 41:45he raped me. How bitch, that's this, that's this, that's
- 41:52this mentality, except reversed and put into men's mouths. Yeah, all right,
- 41:59sorry, all right, no, it's okay. So anyway, conversations
- 42:01that never happened. And also like men don't talk to each other about these
- 42:07kinds of things, even if it isn't in this way, but whatever,
- 42:12all right, Next is what exactly is the problem. It's almost like women
- 42:16aren't the problem. So beaten for showing too much skin, and here's a
- 42:21woman in a job punished for covering up, find for covering up here's another
- 42:29one. Wait, what's the difference between this one and this one? What's
- 42:34this? This is that is that well, whatever find for covering up,
- 42:38suspended for showing too much skin? Oh my god, how hard it is
- 42:42to be a woman living in the modern day. Who is doing this?
- 42:47Lady, who's doing it? I don't think men? Apparently Apparently that the
- 42:53implication is that men women are men are doing it up, suspended for showing
- 43:00too much skin? Okay, So essentially what she's saying is that women have
- 43:07to adhere to the standards of dress of their society. In course, we
- 43:10all know that if a man walks around in a banana hammock in a Muslim
- 43:15country, they'll just be They'll be high fiving him to the point where he
- 43:19has to go to the hospital for the sprained wrist from all the high fives.
- 43:23Like, seriously, men, men have been honor killed for having emo
- 43:30haircuts, and they sure as hell can't go into I don't know, volleyball,
- 43:37a volleyball tournament in bicycle shorts and a crop talk. Are you kidding
- 43:43me? You don't think they don't get so this basically, this is communities
- 43:50have standards of dress. Women were most affected women most affected. Yes,
- 43:55standards exist, best codes are real. So okay, what I don't get
- 44:01is the second one. So it says I got a picture of the girl
- 44:06with the soccer ball. I think it's a soccer ball or volleyball, and
- 44:09it says punished for covering up, and what happened? I don't what are
- 44:14you talking about? Like, first of all, yeah, that never happened,
- 44:16but also what do you mean covering up? What she probably means in
- 44:21France? You know, I don't know, No, I don't know it
- 44:24happened in Frances, Like, I don't understand what's what? What? They
- 44:29didn't want her face obscured because there's a certain you know, in more in
- 44:36Western cultures, you need to be able to see people's faces as a part
- 44:40of the cultural norm, because we want to be able to identify people.
- 44:45Right, does that have to do with the volleyball girl or the oh the
- 44:51volleyball girl covering up? Yes, is punished for probably because volleyball they wanted
- 44:58her to wear. I don't know. We could probably look it up,
- 45:02and really I never watched volleyball. Well that's why I have seen some volleyball
- 45:10girls. They're all over the internet. But but still, like you get
- 45:15punished for covering up. I've never heard that, That's what I say.
- 45:19It never happens. I've never ever heard of that happening. Yeah, I've
- 45:22never heard of that either. But what you're mad because people who play a
- 45:27sport that happens on the beach, out in the blazing sun were as little
- 45:32clothes as possible because that's the most comfortable attire. I mean, like,
- 45:38yeah, how is she punished? Like, I don't know what the like
- 45:42this anyway? That one doesn't make sense to me. The other the one
- 45:45with the headscarf, and this one is that a yeah, that's a religious
- 45:51thing. And I thought that this was like I thought that this was okay
- 45:55because it's your religion, it's your choice or whatever. Who's finding women for
- 46:00wearing burkas? I mean, I mean, are you in like, oh,
- 46:02this is what alse was talking about. If you're like in the European
- 46:06country and maybe they have like a different set of rules than there. You
- 46:08go. Fronts considered banning the burker, but yeah, that was just the
- 46:14burker, by the way, not the nicab that we're seeing in the picture.
- 46:16Yeah, they were only thinking of banning the Burker which we see their
- 46:21faces not even let no, it's completely covered, like it's like a mess.
- 46:27Yeah, it's like those it's like those like you know those yeah,
- 46:31yeah, like those Imperial guards in the Red from Star Wars that you can't
- 46:35see their face at all, like the Oh my god, I wish we
- 46:39could make that mandatory with these ships. Jesus Christ. Okay, and this
- 46:46suspended for showing too much skin. Thing against in school because that looks like
- 46:51a schoolgirl. There are dress codes. Everyone has to follow them, so
- 46:53I don't you know, I'm sorry, but there it is like men.
- 46:58You know, when I was in high school. I don't know if you
- 47:00guys, because you know, you're a little younger. But when I was
- 47:01in high school, we had dress code. Men could not because I lived
- 47:06in the hood and I went to school in the hood. Men could not
- 47:08wear baseball caps at all, like no hats, but girls could, and
- 47:14so they yeah, because it because the the idea was that in Chicago,
- 47:19if you're wearing a cap, it's like you're you know, it's like a
- 47:22gang thing affiliating. Yeah, you're affiliated, or you're showing your gang affiliation.
- 47:27But because the assumption from the school was that girls don't do that,
- 47:30even though they totally are too. Girls could wear hats, but guys couldn't
- 47:35wear hats. And shaved his head once and he would have got a warning.
- 47:38Wasn't actually, but he was told, no, you can't keep doing
- 47:42that, not the look we want. That's literally showing skin. And I'm
- 47:45like, the dude's ginger. Every ginger guy shaves his head at some point
- 47:51because he's fucking ginger. Doesn't want to look like it's ginger. You should
- 47:58not be ashamed of that. And then there's the shorts. Yeah, there's
- 48:00so many schools but boys aren't allowed to wear shorts. Don't. I don't
- 48:04even know what is it because they're showing too much skin. Yeah, literally,
- 48:07like girls in school have more options. I mean, if you're going
- 48:13to like a Catholic school and you're supposed to wear a uniform, most of
- 48:15the people who go to those schools are happy to wear the uniform because they're
- 48:20Catholic, right, They're like, oh, yeah, this is the appropriate
- 48:22thing to do. But like in a regular school, like you know,
- 48:28I think the restrictions on boys are actually more because girls can wear pants,
- 48:31they could wear shorts, they could wear dresses, they can wear skirts,
- 48:35boys wear pants, period, Like that's it. You know, it can
- 48:38be jeans, but like you know that, but there isn't that much flexibility
- 48:44anyway. Yeah, this is stupid. Moving on. Mos Alson wants to
- 48:47say something else. I honestly, I think we need to move on.
- 48:53Okay, it's a real struggle, too, real real comp These are both
- 49:00translations of struggle. Oh, these are all struggles someone with physical health struggles.
- 49:07Wait, so only women get sick? No, Like, honestly,
- 49:12that's not the point. Go down and see the next one. Someone with
- 49:15mental health struggles. Oh she's in a prison. Oh look, and like
- 49:21the freak of the fact that she's resentful over the fact that people with physical
- 49:24health issues get attention. And honestly, I have mental health issues. But
- 49:30this kind of retissement, retisment, whatever it is, it's just awful.
- 49:36Like, honestly, physical health struggles are devastating. Like it depends well,
- 49:43in many ways, it depends on the health struggle. But seriously, if
- 49:45you're so sick you need some you need an intravenous that itself can cause depression
- 49:52and anxiety. So don't begrudge them. The attention and care they're getting,
- 49:57Like, why would you just because you may be dealing with mental health and
- 50:00yeah, yeah, you're right, people don't really have a lot of understanding
- 50:06of mental health issues. But this doesn't help. This kind of presentation of
- 50:10resentment, narcissism, self involvement doesn't help. Don't compare yourself to somebody with
- 50:17with physical health struggles. Just just try to just try to explain that in
- 50:25many cases, mental health issues are as intractable as physical health issues, but
- 50:30you can get better and you need in some cases, you need support while
- 50:34you're doing it, Like be an ambassador. If you're concerned about how people
- 50:37with mental health struggles are treated, don't act with this kind of childish jealousy
- 50:45or envy. Right, you know, there are some people with physical struggles
- 50:51that cannot recover. You know, I was watching this video this kid,
- 50:57he's like a nineteen year old kid, and he was in construction, right,
- 51:01but on the job, something happened, A freak accident happened and this
- 51:07tractor like basically rolled over on top of him. He lost half of his
- 51:14body, and to see his mental state, you wouldn't think that nothing ever
- 51:22happened to him he was so happy to be alive. Yes, it was
- 51:25a struggle, you know what I mean. Obviously his girlfriend. His girlfriend
- 51:30stayed with him throughout this. I don't know if that's gonna last. But
- 51:35you gotta stop with this. I have the sads. Yeah, so nobody's
- 51:39coming to my aid, you know what I mean. And this is the
- 51:43other thing with mental issues is that a lot of times people will sit there
- 51:46in silence and suffer, you know what I mean. How can you expect
- 51:51people to help if no one knows that you need help? So I'm right
- 51:57there with you, Alison. This just, uh, it blows your mind
- 52:00like and it's not even just because I I I fully understand that mental health
- 52:05issues can be absolutely devastating. What I have a problem with is the comparison
- 52:10like this, resentful, envious, comparison comparison to physical health struggles like this
- 52:17is not helpful. And you look based on these freaking things that you're presenting,
- 52:24you seem like a narcissist who self involved. And if you're single mental
- 52:30health problem, yes, but it's not one that's particularly a struggle. This
- 52:35is no, it's a struggle for everyone else around you. Yes, Duxtewn
- 52:38had this brilliant Brillian routine where there's there's two different kinds of metal health.
- 52:42There's crazy people, there's retards. Like, crazy people don't generally get sympathy
- 52:49for their problems because they're they're paranoid and their OCD and they're just they're just
- 52:52generally having a bad time and it gives gives everyone else a weadvibes. Whereas
- 52:57retards it is not really a mental health struggle. They just they they seem
- 53:04to enjoy the life. They just they offloaded on every else around them,
- 53:08or in the case of narcissists, they go online and complain about how everyone
- 53:14doesn't love them quite as much as they would like to. Yeah, this
- 53:17looks like you don't get much sympathy for your mental health struggle because it's not
- 53:22a struggle. It's a way of demanding shit. It's like, you're right,
- 53:30and this does smack of narcissism, good lord, like, and that
- 53:35I'm talking about somebody who has had, you know, issues with with suicidal
- 53:40ideation, issues with depression, issues with severe anxiety, like severe anxiety,
- 53:45not the kind of anxiety like oh, I just don't want to do this
- 53:49thing, so I'm gonna no severe anxiety, and this is not helpful.
- 53:54And honestly, I would not be surprised if you had been diagnosed with narcissism
- 54:00or borderline personality disorder, both of which don't I don't think borderline personality people
- 54:06or narcissists really struggle with their mental health. I think they make everyone else
- 54:09struggle with their mental health. Okay, all right, let's keep going.
- 54:15I just want to say that, you know, if she had some friends,
- 54:17she probably wouldn't be alone. But she's a count, so she drives
- 54:22it any away. So this is probably why you have mental health problems and
- 54:24nobody's there. And also I've been through four rounds of chemotherapy and this that
- 54:30that's kind of what this looks like. And nobody came to visit me.
- 54:34But you know what, it's okay, I understand, Well my mother did
- 54:36all the time. All right, you have standards. Receiving the respect and
- 54:43treatment you deserve isn't the goal of a relationship. It's the starting point.
- 54:47The respect are you and treatment you deserve? Kidding me? Are you fucking
- 54:52kidding? Yeah? Well, yeah, you are going to get a lot
- 54:57of chirp, chirp, a lot of silence on your phone. You know
- 55:00why. I was just thinking that, but you didn't want to say it.
- 55:08Okay, I just I'm gonna point something out here. Does this this
- 55:13both ways? Is if a man says, receiving the respect and treatment he
- 55:19deserves isn't the goal of relationship, it's the starting point. So a woman,
- 55:22what what does that look like? Like? I'm using man because it
- 55:25just throws the ridiculousness into sharp relief. So if you're not cooking for him
- 55:30on the first date, like you're not cleaning up after him, of course
- 55:34you can't do that, right, That's that's uh, that's domestic slavery.
- 55:37So how would you demonstrate respect and proper treatment for a man on the first
- 55:43date? He's not He shouldn't have to earn it by being in a relationship
- 55:47with you. You should just be delivering it by virtue of the fact that
- 55:52he showed up. Like, does that work? I don't think so.
- 55:57Yeah, I want a superchow. It's kind of big, so it's probably
- 56:04not gonna fit on the screen, but let's see. Yeah it's it's it's
- 56:07too big, guys. Well, anyway, I'll display it, but it's
- 56:12gonna look awkward. So I got a super chow thank you from Zappier or
- 56:20like us five dollars and says when I started getting involved with Facebook intactivism back
- 56:25in twenty eleven, I learned that a lot of men end up with harry
- 56:30penises, and I learned that women find harry penis is gross and they don't
- 56:34like how harry dis feel inside them. That's logical in my opinion. But
- 56:37I also discovered that the reason cut men have hairy penises is because the skin
- 56:43from their scrotum and pubic area is pulled up to the penis because of the
- 56:46lack of foreskin. These This is I'm sorry, guys, but I did
- 56:51not know this. I didn't know this either, Thank goodness. These are
- 56:54the exact same women that shame men for not having mutilated dicks and shame men
- 57:00for having harry dicks because they were blade raped moments or days after birth.
- 57:04Maybe the author of this article, but I've ran into many women who hold
- 57:08both of these beliefs and are very pro MGM. So when I hear these
- 57:14genital mutilation not liking hair chicks, I can't help a cringe and feel a
- 57:19little bit of rage. Like bitch, you don't know shit. Yeah,
- 57:22that's a good point. Like in our culture, we'll cut cut off parts
- 57:24of little boys genitals because women like a cut dick better. Yeah, and
- 57:30then they turn around and say, oh my god, men want us to
- 57:32shave. How oppressive are you freaking kidding me? And I don't care.
- 57:37I'm not going to get into an argument over what's the equivalent of cutting off
- 57:43of a boy versus a girl? Like you wouldn't even You wouldn't even pop
- 57:46the toenails off of a girl at birth, would you. No, you
- 57:51just take a knife and just sever off some toenails. You wouldn't even do
- 57:53that. So I'm not gonna get in an argument of how much nerves are
- 57:57taken off or how much skin or what the relative purport versions of the Adam.
- 58:00You are cutting into a boy's penis and removing skin, right, and
- 58:07you're doing it because in part women say they like it better women. You
- 58:15have absolutely no grounds to have a single negative word towards men's standards of beauty,
- 58:22Like you just basically bombed you, Like, what is the right way
- 58:29to put this? There's no argument, like if you are going to justify
- 58:34MUTI or you're going to justify cutting off parts of men's genitals because of your
- 58:38esthetic preference. You have no grounds to complain about shaving, dieting, hair
- 58:47removal, hair dying, whatever, whatever cosmetic, reversible, cosmetic procedure that
- 58:53you engage in because you think men like it. Okay, you have no
- 58:58grounds to complain about it at all. And I want to put that out
- 59:01there and put that in that context. This woman literally lives in a society
- 59:07where her preferences about men's genitals are enforced on baby boys with a scalpel.
- 59:15Yep. And she's complaining about body hair. Oh my god, probably take
- 59:20issue with circumcision, but also blame men for it. Yeah, probably their
- 59:24problem. And women don't have preferences. Patriarchy hates eight day old boys too,
- 59:30yeah right. Patriarchy hates all men, yeah, and uses them as
- 59:36expendable in service of oppressing women through benevolent sexism, which is basically making sure
- 59:42that women are provided for and protected by sacrificed men. It just falls apart
- 59:47when you really follow it to its logical conclusion. All right, all right,
- 59:52so real quick on this one again. Women don't understand what respect means.
- 59:57It's somebody you earn. It's not something you just get. You do
- 1:00:00get the respect you deserve. It just might not be as much respect as
- 1:00:02you would like you have earned it. Yes, yes, all right,
- 1:00:08first date jitters worst? Oh my god, No, not this. No,
- 1:00:14I already know where it's going. I already know what it's going.
- 1:00:17Yes, all right. So the guy's gonna say what if, well,
- 1:00:22it says here, what if she doesn't look like her photos? That's the
- 1:00:25first date? If he kills me, Oh my god, my worries are
- 1:00:31so more real than yours. I'm a paranoid schizophrenic, and it's justified.
- 1:00:38All right, let me say, Oh my god, he's gonna dowt.
- 1:00:43He's gonna down it. Guys, it's coming. Okay, men, what
- 1:00:46if she doesn't look like her photos? Women? Yeah, you got it?
- 1:00:55Good lord? Okay, guys, you're listening to me. If you
- 1:01:00end up on a date with a woman like this, just walk away,
- 1:01:06good lord. Like this is such an unlikely occurrence and it's not going to
- 1:01:12stop there. Basically, she's saying, I am abusive. This is a
- 1:01:16gigantic red flag. I judge men by the worst minority of men. Okay,
- 1:01:23that's and it's not going to stop there. Whenever she's pissed at you,
- 1:01:30she's going to blame you for being the same sex as Ted Bundy.
- 1:01:37Like it's it's just it's it's not gonna work. And I don't even know
- 1:01:39why she'd be on a date with a man if she hates them so much
- 1:01:43or she fears them so much. This is just paranoia, it is well,
- 1:01:51it's it's propaganda like that, you mean you're buying I'm not saying that
- 1:01:54there, she's spreading propaganda, But I think that she actually believes this shit.
- 1:02:00I mean, I think it speaks to the chaotic and psychotic nature of
- 1:02:05women, right, because this chick thinks that any man can potentially murder him,
- 1:02:12murder her. But she's still so dead set on hooking up with one
- 1:02:15so she can get his resources, that she'll still date him. She'll still
- 1:02:20take the date. But oh my god, there's just this fear he might
- 1:02:25be he better pay for the check before he murders me. Oh, you
- 1:02:30know, you know what it really is. This fear is not realistic,
- 1:02:34and it's don't I don't even think it's authentic. I think it's just a
- 1:02:37way of establishing her moral authority over whoever the men in her life. Yeah,
- 1:02:43and you don't want to be in a relationship with somebody who feels like
- 1:02:45they're morally superior to you without actually having to, you know, do the
- 1:02:51meditation and do the self reflection and the prayer and the development and all of
- 1:02:57this other stuff to actually be in a more healthy moral position than or like
- 1:03:01a healthier psychological position than you. She just is by virtue of the fact
- 1:03:06that you're so threatening you walk away. Yeah, this guy's hair is amazing.
- 1:03:15Maybe he's born with it. Yeah, maybe it's just to ask if
- 1:03:22he doesn't know what she looks like, if she's different from her photos,
- 1:03:27how how's he going to know who's to kill? Yeah? Right, But
- 1:03:30if she doesn't look like her photos, does he get to kill her?
- 1:03:35Lord, I can't kill her. Now, it's a different They're gonna put
- 1:03:45your photo on the news. They're gonna put that skinny photo that like top
- 1:03:54view photo that they look up into the camera so it looks slimmer and their
- 1:04:00boobs look bigger. Yeah, all right. Next one is loving yourself?
- 1:04:05Is love too? Literally? Isn't it? Literally? Isn't Wow? This
- 1:04:15is satan Okay, celebrating love looks different for everyone. Romantic love long distance
- 1:04:23love. Okay, so romantic love is a couple and it looks like is
- 1:04:26he like giving her spaghetti? Who does that? Long distance? She threw
- 1:04:31her hand like, yeah, I know. Is this is she like an
- 1:04:35alien that eats through the back of her head. She's got a mouth in
- 1:04:42the back of her hand, yes, clearly speeded between my between my fingers.
- 1:04:48Yeah, romantic. And and this this is another thing too. I
- 1:04:51just want to do this pet peeve. Okay, guys, if you take
- 1:04:55a woman out to dinner and she just orders a fucking what is that a
- 1:04:59salad? Like just like tomatoes and lettuce, and then don't give her any
- 1:05:03of your food, okay, because she can order food, don't give her
- 1:05:10like I just want to sell. Can I have some of yours? Anyway?
- 1:05:15Longs to the consequences of her choices distance. Apparently that's a remotely controlled
- 1:05:25thing. You know that she's going to insert inside her Oh? Is that
- 1:05:28what this is? I was wondering remotely control from his phone? Dude?
- 1:05:34Is that is that really what it is? I think it is? Yes,
- 1:05:40yes, okay, I know too much about this individual more than I
- 1:05:45ever wanted to know. I know too much about this individual that did this
- 1:05:51these cartoons now more than I really want to. Oh my god, let's
- 1:05:57keep going. Let's finish it off. Cozy So you know, like,
- 1:06:01what what what does that mean? What's the difference between romantic and cozy?
- 1:06:05Like, it's not in public, it's not in public. That doesn't make
- 1:06:11sense. No, it's also that his friends, but he thinks that there's
- 1:06:15more Like, is that what this is? It's just buddies. I think
- 1:06:19these are some of the most romantic. And then there's the fourth panel.
- 1:06:31Can I just point out these men, these men and these these panels,
- 1:06:35like the men who've actually scored are like she she draws the men who are
- 1:06:42offensive, and they are really much much more attractive. Have you noticed like
- 1:06:45masculine like masculine? Yeah, probably basically women with short hair. Mean yeah,
- 1:06:56Like, but you know that the guys that she doesn't like, the
- 1:06:58guys are supposed to he doesn't like, are the masculine ones, the ones
- 1:07:01he finds offensive. You know that they are they are you know, doing
- 1:07:06her doggy style and in some closet, like in a restaurant or something,
- 1:07:14and that these dudes are not going to get anywhere with her. This woman,
- 1:07:17like every one of these. I'm sorry, but and I don't like
- 1:07:21to judge, but she sounds like a loseruse just like I know. But
- 1:07:26but what I'm saying is, look at the med in relationship. Look at
- 1:07:30how she draws the men in relationships. They are so unattractive and lacking in
- 1:07:36any manner. And look at how she draws the men she says that she's
- 1:07:40angry with, Like there is there is some you know, when she's drawing
- 1:07:45these dudes that she's supposedly angry with and calling out, I would swear there's
- 1:07:48some some hand in the pants action going on at a dog table. Uh.
- 1:07:57She's practicing self love. Yeah, and she's practicing self love as she's
- 1:08:01drawing the men that she's calling out. And that's just what I'm saying,
- 1:08:05Brian, Yeah, I believe it. Yeah, I'm sorry, but one
- 1:08:10king is not self love. There are things that can be called love,
- 1:08:14and there are things that they can be called maintenance. Like loving your car
- 1:08:18is not the same as as changing the oil in your car, driving through
- 1:08:25the car wash. Yeah, I don't I don't think. I don't think
- 1:08:30that fuck buddies is love either, That's just me. I could see these
- 1:08:34first two because you know that makes sense, but the other two, I'm
- 1:08:39sorry. You don't just get to call something love and make it so I
- 1:08:42think that's very specific, and honestly, I think I think the cozy image
- 1:08:47is probably the closest thing to love. Yeah, because these are two people
- 1:08:53who are just comfortable with themselves. They seem like they accept each other and
- 1:08:57they're happy. Look, they're both happy. Yeah, she's looking up and
- 1:09:00gazing at him with adoration. You don't see that anywhere else in the faces
- 1:09:05of these women that she's drawing. Mm hmmm, mm hmm. Yeah,
- 1:09:11she probably drew that. But Okay, I know that I'm belaboring the point,
- 1:09:14But just look at the guys she's calling out and how detailed they are
- 1:09:17and specific and masculine, and then the ones that are in relationships are very
- 1:09:26generic Hallmark. I'm just saying I think that there's some Do you remember that
- 1:09:31muppet guy Smiley a game show host? He was both of those, but
- 1:09:43both yeah, guys, Smiley, all right, next, stop making excuses.
- 1:09:48You deserve better than staying for excuses and potent staying for excuses that doesn't
- 1:09:54make sense, and potential and potential, So what what potential are we talking
- 1:09:58about in a relationship hip? For for excuses and potential? I get it
- 1:10:01now. So basically, don't get with any men and be miserable like me,
- 1:10:05don't give men time, don't help them out, don't support them,
- 1:10:09expect them to be perfect, and also make sure you get their respect before
- 1:10:14you even go on like the first first date, yeah, the first phone
- 1:10:16call or whatever it was from the earth. This is a list of how
- 1:10:20to be single for all. Yeah, yes, I know. Please don't
- 1:10:27get any pets. Okay, he just acts like that when he's upset.
- 1:10:32I assume that she's talking about the dog. Yeah, yeah, so too.
- 1:10:39I was thinking that that's that's a Jack Russell always like that. Yes
- 1:10:45they are. Jack Russell's are a bit of a pain. He's not always
- 1:10:48like that. He has a good side, Like what though he promised that
- 1:10:55he will change, he didn't mean it. He's under a lot of pressure.
- 1:10:59So basically this is good advice. Don't go with the fucking scrubs.
- 1:11:01Yeah you know about this. We keep telling you this, like we like
- 1:11:05men, but we're not gonna just blindly defend the few men that are total
- 1:11:12assholes to whom you are attracted, Yeah to to, Yes, it's nobody
- 1:11:19nobody else's fault that you're attracted to, dickhead. No. They what they
- 1:11:23want is they want to be able to be with the men that look or
- 1:11:29have what they want. But that those men should be different, right,
- 1:11:31So they're not. They're not willing to like compromise or work with men or
- 1:11:36whatever, or even like help men. You know, like like it used
- 1:11:41to be the case that if a man had the potential but he needed somebody
- 1:11:45to back him up, a good woman would do that, like bring out
- 1:11:48the best in him, and then he would be the guy they are looking
- 1:11:51for. But that that's not what this woman wants. He wants a guy
- 1:11:55that's already like out the gate, out of the box, ready to go,
- 1:11:59like you know, six figures, six feet tall, whatever, all
- 1:12:02of the all of the crosses, all the box, and is not like
- 1:12:05is kind of I wouldn't even say, not an asshole, but like he
- 1:12:10has to like walk a very tight rope of behaving in just the way that
- 1:12:15she wants at any given time. Otherwise you know something is wrong and that
- 1:12:19and that is so it's not like there's a guy here that I kind of
- 1:12:25like, and you know, he's just kind of work in progress like everybody
- 1:12:30else. No, it's got to be he's got to have it all and
- 1:12:33not be uh, you know, an asshole at the same time. And
- 1:12:36it's like, well, if you're going after the test one percent of guys
- 1:12:41that have like a bunch of you know, options, then they're probably not
- 1:12:46going to be They don't have to be nice to you like they you know
- 1:12:49what I mean, Like, yeah, they don't also see that she has
- 1:12:55to be respected and treated the way she wants to be right out of the
- 1:12:59gate, and a man has to be perfect right out of the gate.
- 1:13:01Yes, this is insane, Like she's such a freaking childish, self involved
- 1:13:09narcissist, Like this is this is the feeling that I'm getting off of her.
- 1:13:14She doesn't want a relationship with a human being. She wants a band
- 1:13:17aid to solve all of her life's life's problems. And I noticed that all
- 1:13:23of this is about how she feels. Like the world revolves around how she
- 1:13:29feels. Okay, let's let's keep going, all right, what's the difference
- 1:13:35pregnancy motherhood? Well, she doesn't have to show it off for one.
- 1:13:42Uh oh, what I don't understand. Maybe they're saying it's disgusting because they
- 1:13:47didn't want, like they didn't want Harlequin to have the Joker's baby. Bring
- 1:13:53that person too the world. Let me just read this. This picture shows
- 1:13:56what a woman's body typically looks like during pregnancy and motherhood. Now, this
- 1:14:00picture might look pretty simple, but it does address a very important point about
- 1:14:02appreciating women's bodies. You are not owed appreciation. Oh, because she's wearing
- 1:14:11the bikini and she's pregnant. This is the pearl thing, right because the
- 1:14:16the what's appropriate for a wife and a mother to wear. So she's walking
- 1:14:21around a bikini and people are pointing at her, and you go to the
- 1:14:26gym, go to the gym. Aren't these women? Aren't these women hands
- 1:14:30though, that are making these judgments hings? Okay, so though we have
- 1:14:33established that it's women doing it. Okay, good, thank you that,
- 1:14:36thank you artist. But also like I mean, I don't know, I
- 1:14:43guess I don't really often see pregnant women wear bikini. I think that they're
- 1:14:47self conscious and maybe rightfully so, you know, and it's okay, it's
- 1:14:54only nine months. He'll get it back right, some women like it depends
- 1:14:58on how they carry the though some women can pull it off, you know.
- 1:15:03But well, I think what they're saying is that the result of pregnancy
- 1:15:06on a woman's body is not appreciated. And it's like, well, Okay,
- 1:15:12you had a baby. You're no longer as attractive as you are.
- 1:15:15Live with it. Yeah, people don't owe you appreciation or finding you attractive.
- 1:15:21What's the point of people appreciating your body after you've had children? Like,
- 1:15:27what, what's what's the what? What's the point? Well, not
- 1:15:30just what's the point? You're not owed it. You're not owed this.
- 1:15:33You're not owed this consideration. You're not owed anyone's attractiveness. Like you're you're,
- 1:15:39you're, you're, you're judging this man and saying, oh he finds
- 1:15:42me disgusting because I have leg hair. Well, you're not owed his attraction
- 1:15:46mm hmm. And that I mean, this is this is throughout the entire
- 1:15:49tirety of these so called comics, which are not hilarious or even funny at
- 1:15:54all. There's the expectation that men bend over backwards to make her life better
- 1:16:00and then simultaneous with that is the is the pointing fingers at men, at
- 1:16:04being entitled or something, which is, okay, I should shut up because
- 1:16:11you got to get through this. Well no, no, no where we
- 1:16:13got time. So what I was gonna say is you got only eleven minutes,
- 1:16:16dude, No, no, I'm not No, I'm going at like
- 1:16:19six forty. I got like almost half an hour twenty. No. No,
- 1:16:27we didn't think we need to, but we could do something on Sunday.
- 1:16:30The thing that I think is odd here is that, uh, I
- 1:16:35have to think about why do women and men for that matter, make themselves
- 1:16:40attractive? Generally it's to attract a partner. What is the goal of two
- 1:16:45people coming together in most cases, like like partners to make babies? So
- 1:16:54if this woman is pregnant and has a baby, she won. She doesn't
- 1:16:58have to like still look good anymore. She doesn't need anything else. Like
- 1:17:02the approval right has has come to its conclusion. She's she's got a baby
- 1:17:11now, like you won, it's over. Who are you trying to attract
- 1:17:15your husband in you already she's trying to attract the next baby daddy. Yeah
- 1:17:19right, because she's already decided that she's unhappy and and maybe he doesn't live
- 1:17:26up to the responsibility, you know, but this is what happens, you
- 1:17:30know what I mean. And they have the first baby and then maybe not.
- 1:17:32They're so sure of the relationship, and they would to look good,
- 1:17:35they want to feel better. There's one thing you know about losing the baby
- 1:17:40weight and feeling better about yourself. Right, sure that that's totally I understand
- 1:17:44that. But then what happens is these women then go and get the mommy
- 1:17:48makeover when you got not only do you have to lose the weight, but
- 1:17:53you gotta get your tits pushed up, you gotta get the stomach tucked in,
- 1:17:57you gotta get your booty pushed out. And who wants that your husband
- 1:18:01is not asking for that. No, that's what I'm saying exactly, That's
- 1:18:04what I'm saying. Like you're you've already started a family, you found a
- 1:18:09man, he's put a baby in you. Like that whole thing about like
- 1:18:14making yourself attractive to the opposite sex. That journey that's over, Like you're
- 1:18:18done. Yeah it should. Like if I fill out a bunch of applications
- 1:18:23and then I get hired, I'm gonna stop. You got the job.
- 1:18:27You got. The job or you should be doing is looking for your parachute
- 1:18:31at the end. You won you right, you don't what I'm saying,
- 1:18:36But that's the thing. Women always have to have the option. Yeah they
- 1:18:42I know, I get it. And that's the thing that you know,
- 1:18:44this should be I think discouraged like you've again, you've got your family,
- 1:18:49Like, just make more babies. Like the guy loves you, just you
- 1:18:53know, he put a baby in you. I mean hopefully you know you're
- 1:18:56not like yeah, it's like hopefully this is something that you meant to do.
- 1:19:02So all right, give validation, not solutions. Oh my god,
- 1:19:08don't fix problems. Just let me complain. That's basically what this is.
- 1:19:13It's not about the nail, you know. And honestly, what really blew
- 1:19:16my mind is that the entire corpus of feminist theory is within give validation,
- 1:19:23not solutions. Feminists and the women who believe in feminism don't actually care about
- 1:19:28smashing patriarchy. They just care about making men recognize how patriarchy makes them feel.
- 1:19:34They don't want to get rid of it at all. They just want
- 1:19:38men to recognize how it makes them feel, and that drives me nuts,
- 1:19:43because if you're going to present this idea that we live in the evil empire,
- 1:19:46I'm gonna be like, let's form a rebel force and take it down.
- 1:19:51And then I'm like, face to face the fact that no, they
- 1:19:54really don't want to do that. I mean, even the radical feminists don't
- 1:19:58have a coherent plan as to how to get out of this horrible slave patriarchy
- 1:20:03that they live in. Because I've talked to them, I'm like, well,
- 1:20:06when the first actionable step would be to start developing the skills around maintaining
- 1:20:11utilities And they're like, it's not about smashing the patriarchy, it's about how
- 1:20:16the patriarchy makes this feel. I'm like, well that wait, we too,
- 1:20:23And even that was like the final message in the Barbie movie too.
- 1:20:27It's not about the existence of patriarchy. In fact, it's not about getting
- 1:20:31rid of patriarchy. It's not about having a solution to patriarchy. It's about
- 1:20:35how recognizing how patriarchy makes women feel. I'm like, what, that's it?
- 1:20:44Okay, So you are going to demand that men constantly cater to the
- 1:20:49feelings of a thing that you say is created by men, not caring about
- 1:20:54you, like, could you unfuck your brain? Please? Is this a
- 1:21:01thing that we can do? Because this is just a press of logic and
- 1:21:06we're talking about validation. No, not talking about logic or reason, we're
- 1:21:13talking about valid by feelix. Okay, So sometimes you don't want solutions.
- 1:21:18And the same douchey guy that was talking about leg hair, it's the same
- 1:21:21guy. He's like, yeah, with a different woman. He's just a
- 1:21:27failure across the board wherever he goes. Or it's the same woman, but
- 1:21:30he made it put on some pants because well, okay, so multiple women
- 1:21:36sasquatch legs. You know. Somebody pointed out that you couldn't really tell where
- 1:21:42he was pointing. It looked like he might have been pointing at her coach.
- 1:21:46Yeah right, Uh so I don't this might be ai art because this
- 1:21:53thing on his chest, I don't know what that is. It's a heart
- 1:21:56with with a hairpin or an a. It's an a with a heart on
- 1:22:00top, but Irish people with aids. It's the Irish people aids red women,
- 1:22:09all right. So anyway, sometimes we don't want solutions. Sometimes we
- 1:22:14just want to be seen for what we are feeling. What is that good
- 1:22:19giving her those cookies. What is that ice cream? I think it's ice
- 1:22:25cream with like a like a kernel. Way, if we could only just
- 1:22:28be honest about this, like literally, this only works, This entire corpus
- 1:22:33of feminist complaints only works in a society that cares about women. It's the
- 1:22:40classic feminist complaint, men don't care about women. Men prove that you care
- 1:22:45about women. Well, but you're using the accusation of not caring about women
- 1:22:57to tell men that they need to care about women more. It's just it's
- 1:23:01just like people with uh, you know, racism, you know what I
- 1:23:04mean, these black people that that they hate the white man, they hate
- 1:23:08whatever the white man does. But won't you please accept me because I'm one
- 1:23:13of the good ones in right, it's in it. Yeah that I I
- 1:23:17can't stand the mind. So what I mean is that there they say that
- 1:23:21society that men don't care about women, but then they appeal to the very
- 1:23:26care Yeah exactly, Yeah, okay, I gotta suit. No, I'm
- 1:23:32sorry a rumble rant. Thank you Nova f one. He gives us two
- 1:23:39dollars and says, what frustrates me about the feminist outrage over dress codes is
- 1:23:43they forget guys don't wear spaghetti strapped tops that show their cleavage and booty shorts
- 1:23:47that show their genitalia. Well, yeah, well only only female sexual organs
- 1:23:56count. I guess how does that woman say it? Why fat fat,
- 1:24:00show that pussy fat? Did you see that video's funny talk video? She
- 1:24:10has a particular women who complain about men creeping on them in the gym,
- 1:24:16and she says, here's how to get here's how to like go viral on
- 1:24:20TikTok by like making it look like men are creeping on you at the gym.
- 1:24:24And she talked about how she like places the phone a certain way and
- 1:24:28she like makes sure that does certain exercises that like, you know, emphasize
- 1:24:31her pussy fat and put it like right in the other guy's face and then
- 1:24:35calls him out. But she does it on camera. Oh, it's very
- 1:24:39funny, She's no, it's funny because she's making fun of it. She's
- 1:24:42making fun of women that do that. Basically, so good stuff. First
- 1:24:45track, the rumble rant really appreciate it, Okay, Next, so that
- 1:24:51was cringe? What is self care? Also? Why isn't anyone hanging around
- 1:24:59me and making me I loved. Maybe because you're self caring so much that
- 1:25:03they don't think you need anymore. There's a lot of self You got a
- 1:25:09girl, you got a girl. You self care into the grave. She
- 1:25:12is not just the main character in her life, she's the only character.
- 1:25:15Is not the self love, it's definitely self love. Okay. Self care
- 1:25:23can and should be unapologetic leaving a bad relationship bye, they know, without
- 1:25:31over explaining, treating yourself without an excuse. What is it that? What
- 1:25:39she's getting? I don't understand this. I think it's a kidnaps? What
- 1:25:49is this? Is that? Are those weed papers? Is she gonna roll
- 1:25:54up really big? Blunt like irrelevant? It means nothing. It looks like
- 1:25:57something expensive. And she spent a bunch of month on herself and now she
- 1:26:00feels better because it's self law, the gathering satanist. Okay, there,
- 1:26:12you judge her for what she trusts and believes in. Oh, I like
- 1:26:15how body positive those last two are. Thank goodness, I was starting to
- 1:26:18work. I bet I bet this woman would be one percent against the crunchy
- 1:26:25granola women who didn't trust and believe in big pharma for a few years there.
- 1:26:30Yeah, all right, let's keep going, all right, it's not
- 1:26:36I don't want to go too far in there. Jos self caring, Yeah,
- 1:26:40jos self caring a little bit in the background. It's you know,
- 1:26:45it's great about dogs. They self care and they don't have to talk about
- 1:26:49it. I never want to know how important. Then they just do it.
- 1:26:55I'm I I I envy that it's not a race. The artist.
- 1:27:00True. Two cartoon women who are apparently the same age. However, while
- 1:27:03they have age in common, there is one stark difference between them. Have
- 1:27:08you spotted it yet? Women my age? Oh? She's pointing at her
- 1:27:12ring finger me no ring? Right? Oh yeah, no, yeah,
- 1:27:17ring, and like these crazy nails. One is engaged, the other isn't.
- 1:27:26Society has programmed us to think that women of a certain age have to
- 1:27:30be married or else they failed. Oh okay, so yeah she's a loser.
- 1:27:33Yeah again, I mean like she's still she's trying to convince us that
- 1:27:36she's actually a winner despite all of her That's what makes so hard, right,
- 1:27:43despite all of her grievances towards being conventionally attractive according to their own illustrations,
- 1:27:48off herself, good lord, Like the problem is that this is yeah,
- 1:28:00she's she's minimizing what that is a success. The other woman has had
- 1:28:04some kind of successful relationship with an adult human being evolutionarily like, this isn't
- 1:28:11even this isn't even social success. This isn't even like our society said,
- 1:28:14Oh while, we're just gonna arbitrarily make it so that being able to reproduce
- 1:28:17and having a reproductive partner's success for a reproductive species. No friend, mother
- 1:28:25nature slap that on you. I'm sorry. That's that's an evolutionary imperative.
- 1:28:30So being able to pair bond and just being able to pair bond, everything
- 1:28:35else sort of comes out of that. Being able to pair bond is success
- 1:28:40for a pair of a reproductive species that reproduces in pair bonds. So fortunately
- 1:28:48that means you are an evolutionary loser. Okay, guess what is really said?
- 1:28:53And she has a National Organization for Women tattoo on her arm? Is
- 1:28:59that what that is? Or is that m O V or n OW could
- 1:29:02just be the word now, oh now, yeah, could you know what?
- 1:29:06I don't want to speculate. She's just why would you do that to
- 1:29:11your skin for no reason unless each one of these has some value? Oh
- 1:29:15I I yeah, it's therapy, Allison. I know, I've known people
- 1:29:19men and women who whenever they have like a a an episode of depression,
- 1:29:26they get a tattoo to feel better. They're not even tattoos. She yeah,
- 1:29:30with a scalpel, and she happens to have black blood. I mean,
- 1:29:39look, I'm not trying to be judgmental, but I'm going to be
- 1:29:43judgmental. So if you the woman on the left is someone who is able
- 1:29:49to get along with another human being long enough that they were decided they want
- 1:29:55to stay together. No woman on the right hasn't. And I mean I
- 1:30:00can I can only speculate as to what a large contributing number of factors could
- 1:30:04be to keep her narcissism. Well, I mean, she's very dedicated to
- 1:30:09her nails. If you see right, that's her, that's her bling.
- 1:30:13Bling is her nails. Her nails are her bling bling, which men don't
- 1:30:16fucking like. Men don't like these claws. Ladies, Really, why are
- 1:30:21you trying to show this as some kind of flex That's probably what's keeping the
- 1:30:26ring off of your fucking finger. Yeah, but she doesn't want to.
- 1:30:33That's a patriarchal I think it's the narcissism that leads to the nails. Oh
- 1:30:40absolutely, I mean what was? What wasn't The purpose of women having long
- 1:30:45nails suggests that they're not supposed to be doing hard work? What it was?
- 1:30:50Okay, but let's take a wider view of this. Okay, what
- 1:30:55the hell would she do with the man if she had one? She apparently
- 1:30:59doesn't view them as human beings. She don't know, she's like before three
- 1:31:03o'clock in the afternoon. Okay, Well, it'd be fair if she had
- 1:31:08like a she was a graveyard shift, right, If she's doing like two
- 1:31:11to ten, that that's fair, you know, if she has to sleep
- 1:31:15till three in the minute. But I doubt it. I'm pretty sure she's
- 1:31:17she's probably just a blogger tracing photographs. Okay, I don't know if you
- 1:31:24noticed. Well, I'm very impressed in how she fills in the lines.
- 1:31:28Yeah, it's nice line work, you know, it's it is, it's
- 1:31:33clean, but I you know, it's I don't know, all right,
- 1:31:36Number next, milestones at thirty. Take a close look at these four pictures.
- 1:31:41These are aging milestones. All right. Let's see over thirty bingo back
- 1:31:46pain. Uh yeah, men have that too. Heels you can't bear to
- 1:31:51wear again. And men have that too. If we ever did wear yeah,
- 1:31:55if it was like France in the time of Louis the fourteenth, but
- 1:32:00if women had, men don't insist women wear heels anyway. So like funny,
- 1:32:03you know, men originally wore heels, and then women appropriated it.
- 1:32:10And now if a man wears heels, he's a tranny or he's walking a
- 1:32:15mile on her shoes. Yeah, in Canada, you know, I don't.
- 1:32:18I don't want to hear women complain about wearing heels unless they recognize is
- 1:32:26it the Japanese women that curl their fucking feet up into the yes, the
- 1:32:30foot They don't even do that anymore. I don't think. Yeah, come
- 1:32:35tell me about fucking heels. I don't want to hear women complain about heels
- 1:32:41until they've been like part of the the flying you know, Hussars and taken
- 1:32:45on a battle, gone into battle. And I don't know a man complained
- 1:32:50that a woman has big feet short, right, No, we're quite happy
- 1:32:57with the hobbit. Yes, if a hub it is nice to us wing
- 1:33:05tsars, you know, because hair I'm off on my own little tangent.
- 1:33:15What I'm off with my own little tangent because you know, okay, I'm
- 1:33:18gonna explain how my brain worked. Originally, high heels were cavalry equipment to
- 1:33:25make sure that your feet didn't slip through the stirrups. So until like the
- 1:33:30the women have done a tour as a wing tasar, they can shut shut
- 1:33:36up about their their their their appropriated footwear. M h, I mean,
- 1:33:44or you just not wear shoes at all and get your barefoot ass back in
- 1:33:47the kitchen. Bitch again, I don't get it, like like women can
- 1:33:55choose to wear heels or not wear heels. Why are you complaining you don't
- 1:34:00understand when men are responsible for making sure? Am I blowing up my mic?
- 1:34:06By the way, guys, I don't know because I feel like I
- 1:34:11might be overdriving it. But anyway, they can you tell me in the
- 1:34:14comments. But when a woman, when we frame it in such a way
- 1:34:17that men are responsible for every situation like that, not just the physical situation,
- 1:34:24but the emotional situation of men of women, that all of this makes
- 1:34:28sense. The fact that she's choosing to do this doesn't matter. It's the
- 1:34:31fact that the consequences is negative for her. If there's a negative consequence for
- 1:34:36a woman. A man is to blame, period, doesn't matter if she
- 1:34:40chose it, because he should have somehow made it the world, I don't
- 1:34:47know, reversed aging, changed physics, reversed gravity to make it so that
- 1:34:55these things aren't the case for her. Yeah, all right, Next is
- 1:35:02well, this is the same image, but it says method to cancel plans.
- 1:35:06I can't go out. I'm sick again. I don't is that a
- 1:35:11woman thing? Like? I mean, I guess men would just be like,
- 1:35:14no, man, I don't want to go a nigga, I ain't
- 1:35:16going nowhere. I'm I'm an old man and don't give Yeah, exactly why
- 1:35:20are women making excuses? Just tell them I don't want to go out?
- 1:35:25They have to lie to appease the other women and offend the other women because
- 1:35:30then they'll call you names and patriarch get written all over it. Right.
- 1:35:34Well, yeah, because of the cabal of men who are secretly setting women
- 1:35:40against each other, because men love relational aggression like that in proxy violence.
- 1:35:45That's that has men written all over it and same bra and repeat every day.
- 1:35:51Yeah that happens, It happens. Yeah, yes, I mean I
- 1:35:59don't know from personal but I know it sure does. Sure sometimes men wear
- 1:36:02their boxers more than once. What, no cause for alarm. Normal things
- 1:36:09that might change throughout your life organically. Wait uh yes, of course,
- 1:36:15air density, very much of mind problem. Yeah, all of these things,
- 1:36:19body odor, no shit, skin texture, all of these are true
- 1:36:25normal. Yeah, I don't get what is this a struggle? Another one?
- 1:36:32Yeah, it's a struggle because she's defined herself by the attention she gets
- 1:36:36from others, by the sympathy, the concern, the treatment, the respect.
- 1:36:43And she knows that menopause is somewhere out there, lurking like a like
- 1:36:47a wolf in the in the in the wood, waiting to gobble her up.
- 1:36:51And she has nothing else to rely on but the opinions of others.
- 1:36:57She doesn't she she doesn't extend herself, She doesn't seem to extend herself to
- 1:37:01understand other people. All of this is basically just a plea to to be
- 1:37:08concerned for her, not just not women in general, because there's still this
- 1:37:12competition going on in her mind. After all, she called out helling Fielding
- 1:37:16for creating a female character that was three kilos less than she is, and
- 1:37:21as some kind of horrible misogynist faux pas. So there's still that competition for
- 1:37:27the resource of sympathy with other women in her mind. But yeah, this
- 1:37:31is just like this, this is sort of you really need to get off
- 1:37:36this train of expecting concern and sympathy from others without expecting to give it,
- 1:37:43especially to men, because they're really the others of women. That's how you
- 1:37:46learn to extend yourself to understand another person as a woman, as men,
- 1:37:51And it also, you know, it's how you learn to take to take
- 1:37:55action, to have goals to develop yourself. Is that aspect of of you
- 1:38:00know, having something to be appealed to, right, But she doesn't extend
- 1:38:05herself to understand men. She doesn't seem to extend herself to understand women who
- 1:38:10don't have her own problems except in a very superficial way. So it's like
- 1:38:16if your entire solution for existing is to appeal to other people to respect and
- 1:38:24care about you, and you have nothing to offer in return the moment when
- 1:38:30they're no longer going to care about you because you're old. Like there's a
- 1:38:33great line in le mis Uh the world there's there's the world never runs out
- 1:38:42of old women. There's always another old woman. They're they're They're one of
- 1:38:48the most common and completely irrelevant of creatures. And when you're at that point,
- 1:38:57the only thing that you've got left as a woman is what you do.
- 1:39:00The goals you've accomplished, the strengths you've acquired, the people you've cared
- 1:39:05about and extended yourself to understand. That's it. You don't you don't get
- 1:39:11to continue to do this thing where all I'm a I'm a cute little a
- 1:39:15cute little thing. I need to be taken care of. No, Nope,
- 1:39:17there's no end. The world can't run out of old women because they're
- 1:39:21not needed. They're not they're not cared about like young women. They're cared
- 1:39:26about like men. In fact, they're probably cared about even more than men,
- 1:39:29so they can't even complain about that. But at that point, it's
- 1:39:32your actions that save you. That's what the whole uh red riding hood myth
- 1:39:36is about. Menopause is the is the wolf in the woods and it'll come
- 1:39:43to gobble you up as a woman one day and the only thing that will
- 1:39:46be left to you is not this Yeah yeah, well yeah, The only
- 1:39:53thing that will be left of you are the goals that you've accomplished, and
- 1:39:57that you have, the skills you've acquired, the people you've cared for,
- 1:40:00and that's it. And she's she's she senses that somewhere, but in her
- 1:40:05narcissistic worldview, she doesn't understand how to deal with that except by saying,
- 1:40:13well, care about me more. What It's going to come a time when
- 1:40:16people won't mm hmm, you know, they'll say, what what do you
- 1:40:21give me? How are you gonna deal with that? And that sounds really
- 1:40:27depressing, I guess, but it's a truth of the world. Yeah,
- 1:40:33for women that you're not you're not going to be able to command the attention
- 1:40:39and the so called respect that you do when you're young. And what I
- 1:40:42see as a woman who's probably not even that old and she's already struggling with
- 1:40:45what she's lost. Okay, Yeah, I'm pretty sure we gotta we gotta
- 1:40:51hold it there, right, Brian? Uh? Yeah? I mean and
- 1:40:56what you want? Sorry, unless you want let's stop it here. Yeah.
- 1:41:00I don't even know what number one because none of these are numbered.
- 1:41:03Okay, we can, which is weird the page? You guys are okay
- 1:41:08with it? If you guys are okay with it. I was thinking of
- 1:41:10doing something on Sunday, Sunday the time you guys leave on Sunday. Are
- 1:41:18you leaving on Sunday? Yes, okay, it's a long drive back.
- 1:41:21If you get anything, it would have to be yeah, okay, and
- 1:41:27we'll be quite hung up. Yeah, yeah, we'll definitely be hungover.
- 1:41:30Well they will. Yeah, so well I can do something on Sunday,
- 1:41:36but it'll have to be later, okay, like after they leave, all
- 1:41:42right, okay, well me, me and me and Brian can finish this
- 1:41:45up. Yeah, yeah, yay, good times. Yay. Wait,
- 1:41:55it was cringe, but it was fun at the same time. Yeah,
- 1:41:58cringe can be fun. I mean, you know, it's just kind of
- 1:42:01sad. I mean, I'm sorry, but it is. It's sad for
- 1:42:05who as person. It's sad for her. I got to peek into the
- 1:42:11blackness of our soul and it's sad to me. It's you know, I
- 1:42:15feel bad. It hilarious. I don't know. Maybe I'm more of a
- 1:42:18misogynist than you are. Well. Yeah, International Men's Day weekend coming up,
- 1:42:28guys, Sunday, right, yeah, yeah, that's right tomorrow.
- 1:42:32Mike Lauren myself, maybe lindsay, I don't know, it depends how she's
- 1:42:36feeling. We're gonna be going to the Pirates sip. At least one person
- 1:42:41be bad sad. He's actually checked into his hotel here in Cave Spring slash
- 1:42:45Roanoke slash Salem. They are three smaller towns that are kind of linked together,
- 1:42:51and uh, he will be meeting us there in the afternoon, I
- 1:42:56don't know, probably two or three, yeah, something like that, So
- 1:43:00you know, if you can get out here, go ahead. I've also
- 1:43:03texted Paul Elm because he lives around here too, so he might be there.
- 1:43:06I don't know, we'll see. Can I put something out on Twitter?
- 1:43:12Like I don't not on Twitter? I guess I could have done that.
- 1:43:16I didn't really think I had enough followers on Twitter justify that my Twitter
- 1:43:21is small? We can echo, I can yeah, okay, okay,
- 1:43:27I mean if if Paul's not gonna show up, then it probably doesn't make
- 1:43:30sense to well, it depends because he's, you know, his partner is
- 1:43:35she's kind of sick, so he hasn't really been like getting out as much.
- 1:43:39But I figured if he could make a little time that would be cool.
- 1:43:42Yeah, well, okay, give me the details. I'll put something
- 1:43:45out on Twitter. Maybe there'll be a few people who can drop by.
- 1:43:49Yeah. Basically it's gonna be at the Pirate Sip, which is a bar
- 1:44:00us huh yeah yeah, okay, so meet Brian, doctor n and Lauren
- 1:44:12maybe lindsay that depends how she's feeling. Pirates Hit Bar three rs. No
- 1:44:18Virginia bar in Roanoke? No, no, no, there is one in
- 1:44:23Roanoke. There is one me just okay, so you're going to going to
- 1:44:27Roanoak? Is that what's going happening here? Yeah? Let me. I'm
- 1:44:30putting it in the thing so I can show you, okay, Yes,
- 1:44:33and that's in Virginia, right, yeah, Roanoke, Virginia. There's two
- 1:44:40Virginia's, isn't there? Like is there a West and East Virginia? There
- 1:44:44is a West Virginia state. Yes, there is a famous Yeah, there
- 1:44:47is a song about it. But you're in not West Virginia, you're in
- 1:44:53Virginia. I'm going to send it to you via d M. You can
- 1:44:58see. This is the Google maps link. But it's called the Pirates Hit
- 1:45:00Bar and Grill and Grill and uh yeah, they got you know, bar
- 1:45:05food. Everything around here is pretty straightforward. Like this isn't like as a
- 1:45:11cosmopolitan as Chicago, but it's also a lot safer so and but yeah,
- 1:45:20they also have karaoke and I'm hoping that that's definitely gonna happen. Yeah,
- 1:45:27they also got karaoke and that could be fun. Why are you grumbling,
- 1:45:30Mike, It's gonna happen. I'm gonna get dragged into this. Yeah,
- 1:45:38I hate myself. It'll be fun. It'll be fun hate just like today's
- 1:45:45show. Yeah, right here, you see how stealthily I did that.
- 1:45:49Okay, but what time? Give us a time, Brian? Uh,
- 1:45:55what time do you guys? Well, let me see what their hours are.
- 1:45:58I mean, I don't want to be there like first thing, but
- 1:46:01hours. So they open at three, So why don't we just do like
- 1:46:04four or five? Four, four pm? You have a few arrows to
- 1:46:11me tomorrow? Yeah, four pm tomorrow we'll hang around. Actually, be
- 1:46:18starting to get dark. Hat it's Salem. It's Salem. It says it's
- 1:46:21Salem, Virginia, but Salem is right next door. It's I'm gonna burn
- 1:46:26some witches while we're here. Some witches don't care. We passed Scotland on
- 1:46:35the way down here, and then we also passed because I live in Fairfield
- 1:46:40in Connecticut, we also passed a Fairfield on the way down here. It's
- 1:46:43like, did I did we make a Utah? Yeah? We can't so
- 1:46:48many languages to draw from. Yeah, it's Salem is like right, and
- 1:46:54it's basically like you you you cross from Roanoke into Salem and you don't even
- 1:46:58notice. It's literally like right there. You know. It's sort of like
- 1:47:00if you've ever been in to Cambridge, Massachusetts and Boston there, so Cambridge
- 1:47:05and Boston are touching too, you know, or the twin cities in Minnesota.
- 1:47:10St. Paul and Minneapolis. It's like that. But Salem and Roanoke
- 1:47:14are really small. It's not like dumpster fire. What's your what's your Twitter
- 1:47:18again, Lauren? Lauren? What's your Twitter's? Lauren Twitter? Yeah,
- 1:47:27I'm at just Lauren b Okay, yes, got it? All right?
- 1:47:32Do you never follow me? Allison? I do follow you. I just
- 1:47:36I can't remember all of the various ways that people twit, you know,
- 1:47:42make make their a likely story. Just Lauren? Am I spelling that wrong?
- 1:47:48Just Lauren? It's not coming up. I do follow you. It
- 1:47:53should be coming up, just Lauren, Lauren b So Allison, I wanted
- 1:47:58to ask. So I know you unfortunately were banned from the great Old United
- 1:48:05States of America until twenty twenty four, but that that probably would be till
- 1:48:13October, right, So do you know if it's after October of twenty I
- 1:48:16mean it might as well be twenty twenty five, given you know the time
- 1:48:21of year and everything. But what for the university for her band because she
- 1:48:28was banned. It'll be next year, yeah, next year, But like,
- 1:48:30is it the same time in October or well it wasn't October, it
- 1:48:34was August. August, it was August. Yeah, no it ICMI start
- 1:48:41on August first, and yeah maybe I don't remember. Well, yeah,
- 1:48:45I'm to call out, so you might end up with some very strange people.
- 1:48:48Don't make sure you do all separate tabs. By the way, I've
- 1:48:53learned this, learned this, I have learned this painful experience. All right,
- 1:49:01Well we should wrap it up, so I gotta go pick up the
- 1:49:03wife. So go ahead and do the things, and I'll do my thing,
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