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Embracing Mediumship Challenges: Turning a No into a Yes · The Unity Code - Where Science Meets Energy, Consciousness, and Spirit.

• 0:01
  Speaker 1: Welcome to Empower your Soul with Nicole.
• 0:03
  Speaker 1: And today I want to talk about evidence in mediumship readings or really any spiritual readings could be psychic, could be Akashic Records, could be any sort of intuitive reading that you're pulling information through the clairs or channeling, and why things can sometimes be wrong but they're not.
• 0:24
  Speaker 1: And I think this is going to be a little bit of a confidence boost for a lot of the professional or learning mediums or other, again, spiritual avenues today, because I want to talk about how no's are often yeses in disguise and maybe not in the way that you think it would.
• 0:43
  Speaker 1: And this is all coming from me watching the Netflix series.
• 0:49
  Speaker 1: Where was it?
• 0:50
  Speaker 1: Tyler Henry is going live on Tuesday nights right now on Netflix.
• 0:55
  Speaker 1: If you haven't checked it out, check it out.
• 0:56
  Speaker 1: It's really interesting for me to watch it.
• 0:58
  Speaker 1: And little sidebar for the mediums out there you can tap into the spirits too and, if you're not already and get the information before he says it.
• 1:09
  Speaker 1: It's really fun.
• 1:11
  Speaker 1: It's like a game, it's like it's like Jeopardy for me.
• 1:14
  Speaker 1: Did I get it right?
• 1:14
  Speaker 1: I think I know the answer before he says anything.
• 1:16
  Speaker 1: So it's really fun for me.
• 1:17
  Speaker 1: I just want to sidebar that, but his readings have been really interesting to me because it's just, it's live right, like this is exactly what I have been talking about in my little circles and on social media that usually mediums that are on TV are very scrubbed and usually if you go back and I dare you to compare Tyler Henry in his original Netflix series, which is produced like a typical TV show, they cut out the nose, they cut out the things that don't make sense.
• 1:50
  Speaker 1: And if you watch his series before, everything is, yes, everything makes sense, right and it flows flawlessly.
• 1:58
  Speaker 1: And it is the stuff of developing medium nightmares, because you look at him, him, and you realize everything's right and you're like I'm nowhere near that, this isn't good, I'm not good at what I do, I should quit.
• 2:12
  Speaker 1: And, by the way, it also not only implodes the mediums I'm going to say expectations or self-confidence really but it also sets very unrealistic expectations for clients or people receiving the reader readings that everything is going to be perfect all the time, when in reality it's not like that at all.
• 2:33
  Speaker 1: So I'm actually really thrilled about Tyler Henry's new live series where he sits down and if you haven't seen it, check it out but he sits down on the couch with five different celebrities or their friends and he literally gives them a live reading for about an hour, which is, you know, the typical length of my sessions, which is great, and what's so cool about it is it's uncut right.
• 2:57
  Speaker 1: So you're seeing him live in an action and I'm trying to figure out and receive the information from Spirit and interpret it.
• 3:05
  Speaker 1: And you know, what I'm seeing is he's getting a lot of no's and he's getting a lot of no's in the session.
• 3:12
  Speaker 1: And again, it doesn't mean that he's wrong.
• 3:15
  Speaker 1: He's getting the information correctly from Spirit.
• 3:18
  Speaker 1: It's just taking a little bit of time for him to land it in the right place.
• 3:22
  Speaker 1: And I think what's really interesting about the way they've formatted or maybe it's the way Tyler reads, because every medium reads a little bit differently, which is why I always tell you if a medium doesn't like do a good job, or the session's a little wonky, go check out another medium, because they might be better suited to your energy.
• 3:40
  Speaker 1: We all have different strengths within this energetic space and just because one person didn't do it well, like, it doesn't mean they're all not going to do it well.
• 3:47
  Speaker 1: It just means that maybe it wasn't the right medium for you.
• 3:49
  Speaker 1: Very important lesson.
• 3:52
  Speaker 1: But what's interesting about him is he has these five people here and he bounces back between all of them with random evidence.
• 3:59
  Speaker 1: He seems to lack a story.
• 4:02
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm going to be honest with you, this is a skill that mediums need to learn is telling the story of the evidence and the message and bringing everything together.
• 4:11
  Speaker 1: He seems to just bounce back and forth between evidence.
• 4:13
  Speaker 1: There's very little messages or advice or feedback.
• 4:16
  Speaker 1: Very little I found with him, and he, more so, is just there giving evidence of all these different people coming through.
• 4:23
  Speaker 1: And it's just interesting because let's be like I'm going to take this from a medium perspective and then, like for those of you that aren't mediums, that are that are just interested in mediums or you're learning about it, or your clients, like I want to take it in a different perspective, but like, first for the mediums I want to call out, pay attention to his evidence.
• 4:39
  Speaker 1: Pay attention, because he's not giving names all the time, like he's not calling out, like the number of family members, he's not calling out relationships, right, he's not doing the typical checklist thing that most of us have learned to do in mediumship, especially from the evidential perspective.
• 4:57
  Speaker 1: He doesn't have the checklist he starts with I'm seeing a horse right or I'm seeing this right, what does that mean?
• 5:04
  Speaker 1: And he kind of opens it up to the audience to figure those five different people, to figure out who is it and how is it placed.
• 5:10
  Speaker 1: And not only that, but he'll give one piece of evidence and then he'll turn like he'll get another piece of evidence.
• 5:16
  Speaker 1: He'll get a no and he's confident that what he's receiving is correct.
• 5:21
  Speaker 1: It's just he's placing it on the wrong person.
• 5:23
  Speaker 1: Someone else can take it on the couch.
• 5:25
  Speaker 1: So pay attention to how he does it.
• 5:26
  Speaker 1: Like I know, it's really fun for all of us to watch it and really be invested and feel the energy and watch him.
• 5:32
  Speaker 1: It's like entertainment, right, but like take a step back and take that critical view and pay attention what's going on.
• 5:37
  Speaker 1: It's like ask your team to take the emotion out of it and instead, like pay attention to what messages he's delivering.
• 5:45
  Speaker 1: How is he going?
• 5:46
  Speaker 1: Is he bouncing from person to person?
• 5:47
  Speaker 1: How great would you rate this evidence, like you know, in terms of specificity and because sometimes he's freaking specific and it's really good and sometimes he's really vague.
• 5:58
  Speaker 1: Right, and this is how our mediumship readings should be.
• 6:01
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying he's the best professional medium to emulate by any means.
• 6:06
  Speaker 1: But he gives a very real perspective on the wonkiness of evidence, how it can be arranged from very vague to very specific, how sometimes it's all over the place and sometimes the spirits freaking bounce around on you.
• 6:20
  Speaker 1: So, even though you can't take it for a specific spirit that we're currently talking to, that might be another one popping in to say hi all the time.
• 6:28
  Speaker 1: And, by the way, this happens in my demonstrations and it drives the shit out of me, like literally drives me crazy.
• 6:33
  Speaker 1: Sorry, that probably wasn't an appropriate utilization of the word shit, but it drives me crazy because I'll be in demonstrations and I will have, I'll be in the middle of a conversation with somebody reading their dead, dead person already pulled out.
• 6:52
  Speaker 1: This is the evidence, this is a specific thing.
• 6:54
  Speaker 1: And then they'll get something.
• 6:56
  Speaker 1: That's a no.
• 6:56
  Speaker 1: And I was like but it's right there, I know it's right there, like, I understand you can't take it, but it's, it's something.
• 7:02
  Speaker 1: And then somebody else will be like oh, that's for me.
• 7:05
  Speaker 1: So I can't remember a specific example.
• 7:08
  Speaker 1: I can remember the energy of the night, but calling out that somebody's you know I'm talking to somebody's brother and all of a sudden I'm like who's the bald older guy that's with him?
• 7:18
  Speaker 1: And the person's like I have no idea who that is.
• 7:21
  Speaker 1: And it turns out it's the person who's sitting in front of them in the demonstrations uncle that's coming in right Like it's.
• 7:26
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about.
• 7:27
  Speaker 1: This is the weird stuff that happens.
• 7:30
  Speaker 1: So for mediums, I want you to pay attention to when you're getting yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, and then you get a no, because it doesn't mean that you're wrong.
• 7:38
  Speaker 1: Especially if you're that far into a reading and you're solidly in your power, connected to spirit, the no is valid, right, the information that you're getting from the no is accurate.
• 7:51
  Speaker 1: You just haven't placed it correctly.
• 7:53
  Speaker 1: So an example I want to give is I just did a very, very quick, just consult call with a dear local person yesterday that's looking to set up a mediumship session.
• 8:03
  Speaker 1: But she had some questions and I'm giving her information and it's just a consult, I'm not even reading her, but I pulled in her loved one anyway doing this really quick thing and I'm like da, da, da, da, da.
• 8:13
  Speaker 1: Okay, hey, by the way, your mom's mom, your grandmother, is watching out for you.
• 8:17
  Speaker 1: And she's like Okay, and I'm like she's departed right.
• 8:20
  Speaker 1: And she said yeah, and I said it's the French one, right?
• 8:23
  Speaker 1: And she said no.
• 8:24
  Speaker 1: And here's the thing my mom's mom is French.
• 8:28
  Speaker 1: So that was spirit telling me.
• 8:30
  Speaker 1: You got it right, it was the French one, so it's her mom's mom.
• 8:34
  Speaker 1: So, even though she couldn't take the French, that was evidence.
• 8:39
  Speaker 1: Spirit is using information through me to validate it's mom's mom.
• 8:44
  Speaker 1: I don't need to prove it to my client, they're giving me the info.
• 8:47
  Speaker 1: Oh, there we go.
• 8:48
  Speaker 1: Hang on.
• 8:49
  Speaker 1: Oh, there's the big.
• 8:50
  Speaker 1: There's the big boom from from spirit.
• 8:53
  Speaker 1: Did you just feel that energetic people?
• 8:55
  Speaker 1: Did you just feel that mic drop from spirit?
• 8:57
  Speaker 1: It was right there.
• 8:58
  Speaker 1: It was right there.
• 8:58
  Speaker 1: I want to rewind and listen to this now.
• 9:02
  Speaker 1: Spirit sometimes gives you information so that you get it right for the client, but you don't need to prove it to the client.
• 9:10
  Speaker 1: Did you get that?
• 9:12
  Speaker 1: I said it was mom's mom.
• 9:15
  Speaker 1: I always want evidence that goes with this is mom's mom.
• 9:19
  Speaker 1: Spirit gave me French to prove to me that it was mom's mom, but my client, believe me, I don't need to provide any other evidence than saying it's mom's mom.
• 9:29
  Speaker 1: Do you hear that?
• 9:30
  Speaker 1: Are you getting goosebumps?
• 9:33
  Speaker 1: I'm getting goosebumps too.
• 9:34
  Speaker 1: So pay attention when the evidence doesn't land for your sitter.
• 9:39
  Speaker 1: But you understand it and just stick with it.
• 9:42
  Speaker 1: You do not need to explain every single thing and provide evidence for every single thing.
• 9:46
  Speaker 1: Sometimes you just know and you just need to go with it.
• 9:46
  Speaker 1: You do not need to explain every single thing and provide evidence for every single thing.
• 9:47
  Speaker 1: Sometimes you just know and you just need to go with it.
• 9:50
  Speaker 1: So for those of you and I feel like this is the beginning of channeling for a lot of you in knowing that, shifting away from using all of your clairs and moving into your just channeling, your knowing, this is how it's going to transition for you.
• 10:11
  Speaker 1: Spirit is telling me in my head right now because it's going to come to you.
• 10:16
  Speaker 1: Spirit providing information for you to get the information right that not necessarily your client can take, and you just have to roll with it.
• 10:23
  Speaker 1: And you don't have to explain everything.
• 10:24
  Speaker 1: You just have to say what you're getting.
• 10:26
  Speaker 1: So pay attention when you get that knowing, the channeling information, and just roll with it.
• 10:28
  Speaker 1: And you don't have to explain everything, you just have to say what you're getting.
• 10:28
  Speaker 1: So pay attention when you get that knowing, the channeling information, and just roll with it.
• 10:30
  Speaker 1: Moving away from the evidence and moving it to knowing is perfectly fine.
• 10:33
  Speaker 1: Perfectly fine because you've already probably given a boatload of evidence before you got to that place.
• 10:38
  Speaker 1: Okay, I kind of went off the deep end.
• 10:42
  Speaker 1: I want to bring it back to why evidence can be wrong and how it's not actually wrong.
• 10:49
  Speaker 1: And I'm not going to talk about the beginners out there, because I think there are beginners out there where there are legitimately getting it wrong in the beginning of your mediumship journey.
• 10:58
  Speaker 1: And for clients, if you're going to mediums that are beginners, I don't want to say time right.
• 11:05
  Speaker 1: When I say beginners, I want to say people that haven't practiced a lot.
• 11:10
  Speaker 1: It doesn't mean that they're new, because if you use me as an example, I was taking clients after six months but I work my tail off in those six months.
• 11:18
  Speaker 1: I was not new.
• 11:20
  Speaker 1: I was very accurate six months in because of how hard I worked to understand my energy, understand spirits energy and how I interpret spirits energy, understand my energy, understand spirits energy and how I interpret spirits energy through my energy.
• 11:31
  Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying.
• 11:32
  Speaker 1: When I'm saying new, it's somebody who hasn't quite gotten a consistent understanding of how their energy is, interprets spirits energy, which leads to misunderstandings because they're not sure, if it's them, they don't know if it's their brain or not.
• 11:47
  Speaker 1: Is it spirit or is it my brain?
• 11:48
  Speaker 1: When I see an apple, is it a teacher?
• 11:51
  Speaker 1: Is it just an apple Like?
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: They're working through understanding the language of spirit.
• 11:56
  Speaker 1: So if you're working with someone who's new, who tells you point blank I'm a beginner, I'm still learning this, I'm going to get things wrong.
• 12:03
  Speaker 1: They're going to get things wrong.
• 12:06
  Speaker 1: This, I'm going to get things wrong, they're going to get things wrong.
• 12:08
  Speaker 1: This isn't what I'm talking about here.
• 12:09
  Speaker 1: This isn't.
• 12:10
  Speaker 1: It's a.
• 12:10
  Speaker 1: It's a, yes, but it's misplaced Absolutely not.
• 12:11
  Speaker 1: Sometimes at the beginning, most of the time at the beginning, that's when you're getting things wrong.
• 12:15
  Speaker 1: But if you have been through this journey and you're working with an experienced medium, or if you are an experienced professional medium, a lot of what you get is actually accurate.
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: It just hasn't found the right home yet.
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: So what I like to tell clients at the beginning of my session is this is just like any other form of communication.
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: So I am talking with spirit.
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: Spirit is giving me information that my energy is interpreting through my own experiences and I'm going to relay that to you.
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: This is like a three-way conversation, right?
• 12:53
  Speaker 1: So this is really complicated.
• 12:55
  Speaker 1: So if there's something that doesn't resonate, does not resonate for you, just let me know, because nine times out of 10, and it's probably higher than that I have just misinterpreted what I have received from spirit.
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: This is no different than any other communication.
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: Do you ever get a text where you misconstrued the meaning of it?
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 13:16
  Speaker 1: Do you ever, like, take someone way seriously and it was just a joke?
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: Like it's the same exact thing?
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: It's just a different style of communication where messages can get crossed and mixed up.
• 13:27
  Speaker 1: So when I say that to my clients, they relax, I relax.
• 13:31
  Speaker 1: When they tell me a no, I'm like okay, hang on a second, let me go back.
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: And I asked spirit to show it to me in a different way.
• 13:37
  Speaker 1: Show it to me in a different way, use different words, what did I get wrong?
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: And then sometimes spirit will say that was your brain making it up.
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: And I tell them that in the beginning.
• 13:47
  Speaker 1: Sometimes my brain makes this up.
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: I am human.
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: It is impossible for me to turn it off.
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: Sometimes it's my brain, like today in a reading I saw a cat.
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: She doesn't have a cat.
• 13:56
  Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, well, it must have been my brain, because I felt like something small come in.
• 13:59
  Speaker 1: Maybe it was a mouse, I don't know.
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: But, um, I saw a cat.
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: There was no cat.
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: I had to let it go.
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: Probably my brain.
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: That's okay Other times.
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: Oh, this is where we're going to get fun on this topic.
• 14:10
  Speaker 1: Other times I'm just going to write down something super quick.
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: Don't mind me, do do there, we go Um.
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: Other times I see I got another nugget from spirit right there.
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: I got to write it down, but I'm not ready to talk about that that yet.
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: Other times I'm just using the wrong word.
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: I'm using the wrong word.
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: When I say someone is mischievous, they might think of diabolical.
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: When I'm just saying they like to play little tricks on people, right, maybe they would call that fun or funny or tricky instead of mischievous.
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: Maybe they think mischievous is like Jafar, you know, like so sometimes I just use the wrong word and they can't understand it.
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: So when that happens and they can't take something and I know that I heard it right and I know that I heard it from spirit the right way then I just like literally stop.
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: Okay, hang on.
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: This is exactly what I'm getting from spirit.
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: I'm going to break it down for you, because what I'm seeing is they like to hide around the corner and scare you when you jump by, or to scare you and make you jump when you walk by that corner, and they'll be like oh yeah, that's right, that's exactly what happened.
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: I'm like that's why I said mischievous, because I feel like they're fun.
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: And they'll be like oh yeah, they like to play tricks on me all the time.
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: And that's when I know I just got the word wrong.
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: I just so.
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: Again, it wasn't a no, it was a yes in disguise, right, I just had to kind of turn it around, look at it from a different angle and say the right word.
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: But I always always, if it doesn't land and I'm very confident when I'm receiving from spirit I just say exactly what I'm getting.
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: Here's exactly what I'm getting.
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: Can you understand it now?
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: And sometimes I can't get exactly what's going on.
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I can, sometimes I can't.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: Right, sometimes I'll be like I don't know.
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: This is the feeling.
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: It feels really weird.
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: It's just a feeling.
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: I'm not seeing anything with it.
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: Can you understand this?
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: And they'll say yes, even though it makes no freaking sense to me, it will make sense to them.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: So, again, you don't have to have the basis of for the knowledge or the knowing exactly what happened.
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: In order for you to tell them what you're receiving Like, you don't need to know the why or the specific circumstance or the who, the what, the where, right, you just need to say well, I'm feeling like this type of thing happened and it made you feel like this Would you understand it?
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, cool, let's move on.
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: So let let go of the need to be again perfect.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: Let go of the need to know everything, because that's holding you back in your readings and that's why you're getting a lot of no's is because you want to know the full scenario of the evidence or the memory or the information that you're getting from spirit, and you don't need to know it all.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: You just need to know the most important part.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: So that was very important for somebody listening in.
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: Um, the last thing I want to say there's I could go on for days about this, this topic.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: Um, let me just check in.
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: No, I need to go there.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: I was like is there any other examples?
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: If you're getting no's, come at it from a different angle, use different words.
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: If you can't use different words, just explain it and stop trying to and be so accurate.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: Or when I say be so accurate, stop trying to like use your ego because you need to know everything in order for you to feel confident about you.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: Do stop stop leaning into that and just trust spirit and what they're giving you at that time.
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: That it's enough.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Something that's very new for me, but spirit has been showing it to me, is that sometimes spirit gets it wrong.
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: Yep, you heard me.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: Sometimes spirit gets it wrong, and this is like a big undoing in my brain, a big reversal from what I previously thought, because I was under the impression that spirit is perfect.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: They know exactly what I need to do, they can see the future, they can see how I receive the information, how I interpret it, and they're going to know exactly what they need to send me in order for it to land the right way.
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: This is a load of shit and I know I'll probably have some professional mediums come at me, but I want to call this out because this is not my experience.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: This is what my experience was, I'm going to say early on in my journey, and a lot of the trust that we tell you to do is because spirit knows what to do.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: They'll give you the information that you need to know, right, and I literally just said that earlier in this podcast.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: But sometimes spirit gets it wrong.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: Spirit does not know everything about how you receive information and how you're going to best interpret the information.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: You are the hidden puzzle piece of the whole spiritual communication.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: So spirit does their best to know exactly what they want to say to you, how they think they can get the information to you in the best way, because they know them and they know their loved ones best.
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: But they have to send that information from you through you, their loved ones best.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: But they have to send that information from you through you, right?
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: So put your, put your hat on as if you were spirit and I'm going to go, so I'm going to here's.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: Here's the scenario.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: So this, I think, is going to be really helpful for anyone that's clients or receiving these readings, because it's like imagine that you and I'm going to say your grandma, I'm going to say that you're dead and your grandma's alive, all right Cause, I got to put it on your, your shoes, right?
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: So say, let's just say you died young, you died you.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: You died last year.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: Your grandmother is so distraught about you being dead, or your mom is so distraught about you being dead, um, and I'm just going to like I'm going to, um and I'm just gonna like I'm gonna.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: This is exactly what I'm talking about.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: You, as the dead person, can speak every single language, right, like it doesn't matter.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: Language doesn't matter.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: You can give the information to the medium and deliver it to your grandma.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: But here's the thing the medium speaks Spanish or a whole other language that you don't Russian.
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: What's what's a really unique, like Yugoslavian, right.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: The medium has no way to receive language from you in a way that they can understand it.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: So you have to essentially do this energetic charades, to get this information, to make them realize what you're saying in a whole different way, without being able to see you, because it's almost like they're.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: You know they can't see you, right?
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: So you have to send the information in some format to a person that had there's no Google, there's no Google translate here.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: They have to receive your energy, figure out within their energy what the energy means and then give it to your grandmother.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: How do they do that?
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: How do they?
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: How do you?
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: How are you going to do that?
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: Because you know you.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: You know the memories, the experiences, the love, the feeling.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: Your grandmother knows the memory, the experiences, the love, the feeling.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: Your grandmother knows the memory, the experiences, the love, the feeling.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: But you need to figure out how to get that information across to somebody who doesn't know you, doesn't speak your language, does not have the same memory shared experiences, may not have been anywhere where you lived, does not know what your hometown looks like, does not know your address, does not know your car right Like.
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: You need to send that information through them, to interpret, to deliver correctly to your grandmother.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: Now, can you?
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: Can you be appreciative of how freaking difficult this has got to be for the spirits?
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: Can you like?
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: Can, and this is why it's such sacred work, because if you think spirits just show up and drop shit in your head, you're lying to yourself, because what spirits do is they work and they train, and they train with your guides and they train with your departed loved ones, all because they want this one chance to deliver the information to their person that they love still on planet Earth, the information to their person that they love still on planet earth.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: They're going to make me cry, sorry if I start being a blubbering mess.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: This is their one chance to get the information across to their loved one, and you are the one that they need to get that information through.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: And they have worked really freaking hard, which is why most of the readings go really well.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: And that's also why some of the readings don't go so well, because maybe that spirit hasn't put in the work, right, I doubt that, but maybe maybe that spirit, you know, just wants likes talking in a certain way, because we all are unique souls, right.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: Well, we're all part of God's source, universe, energy source right, but we all have unique souls and we all are unique souls, right.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: Well, we're all part of God's source, universe, energy source, right, but we all have unique souls and we all communicate a certain way.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: So part of the way they communicate to you is part of the personality of the person, part of the message, right?
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: So I feel like I just want to end based on that, like I need to go, like lay down, like with a tea and a, a candle, to think about how much work our loved ones go through to deliver the messages for their loved ones here in this world, right, and that sometimes they don't get it right, they don't know how to get the information to you.
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: They don't know how to send you the right energy.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: So this is an experiment for them too, and they're desperate to get it right, because there's only one chance right, unless you book another session.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: Then there's multiple chances.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: So, again, like, the moral of the story is that the spirit can get it wrong.
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: And when I saw that cat at my session earlier today, do you know what I heard?
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: After?
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: I saw the cat and she couldn't take it, I heard the spirit say my bad, I tried, it didn't work.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: I literally heard them say my bad, it didn't work.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: It wasn't me, it was them.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: They were trying to get information to me and it didn't land the way they thought it would.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: My brain interpreted that energy as a cat, didn't land the way they thought it would.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: My brain interpreted that energy as a cat.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: That explains a lot why I repeatedly, repeatedly get cats and people can't take it.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna have to go, uh, with my spirit team and be like what are they trying to send?
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: What?
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: What are you?
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: What's the miscommunication going here?
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: Because anything that doesn't land apparently is ending up as a cat.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: So I don't know if you also have like a thing that just repeatedly shows up in these readings that you're like what the fuck?
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: Like what the fuck?
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: Because that might just be like something that's just not landing right and they keep trying to do it.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: And maybe that spirit passed that test with my guides, but there's a backlog of them that haven't learned the new way.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: I hope that helps.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: I mean that immensely just helped me and put a lot of things in perspective.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: But again, if you're a seasoned medium, that is accurate most of the time and you get like a couple things wrong here or there, I bet you, 99% of the time it's a yes, and either you placed it wrong, you use the wrong name, maybe there's a new spirit that popped in in the middle of your session and it was not that it was wrong, it's just that a new spirit came in to say hi, right, and that's okay.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: And then also, you know, just just know, that you're also not going to be perfect.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: And I say that over and over again, like the whole point of this is not to be perfect.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: So I always, always, always, always tell my spirit team give me something new every reading.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: And I tell my client you're going to give, I'm going to get something new this reading, so let me know if it doesn't make sense.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: Let me know if it doesn't make sense and then I write that down After the reading.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: I write it down and then it's like my, my book, right of my symbols, my signs and everything like that, right?
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: So write things down If you're getting it wrong.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: Your, your team is trying to give you one more thing every reading so you can continue to grow on your symbols and knowledge, etc.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: But trust yourself more that what you're doing is the right thing, that the information that you're receiving is accurate.
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: And just once you trust more and once you know that your nose are not actually knows maybe they just have, maybe it's a sign they haven't seen yet right?
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: Like, just be confident in in the information that you're getting and wait and see how much of it actually turns into a yes.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: Don't shy away when you get to know.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: Lean into it and say why did I get it wrong?
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: And watch how the session dynamic changes.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: You're not so nervous, you don't.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: You don't lose your power.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: Like, lean into it.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: Lean into it and watch the magic happen.
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: This went way longer than I thought it would be, but thank you for being here.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: As I uncover more things about the nuances of spirit, let me know like I'll be doing more podcasts about it.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: And then, yeah, I like in my head there's about seven more things I want to say, so I'm just going to record another one, but I hope that helps.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: Thanks so much.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: Go out there and turn your no's into yes's.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: I know you can do it.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: Take care.