Latest / Reformed Thinking / Eye for Eye and the Cross: Kingdom Righteousness and the End of Personal Vengeance (Matthew 5:38-42)
Transcript
- 0:00Welcome to Reformed Thinking. We're glad you're joining us for
- 0:02another deep dive. And today, well, we're opening
- 0:05up a part of Scripture that I think really demands some
- 0:07immediate and pretty radical self examination.
- 0:10It really does. It's one of those passages
- 0:12that's famously difficult and often misunderstood.
- 0:16We're going to be in the Sermon on the Mount looking at Jesus's
- 0:18teaching on revenge, justice and mercy.
- 0:21Specifically, Matthew chapter 5, verses 38 through 42.
- 0:25Right. And it's these few verses that
- 0:27seem, you know, on the surface to just completely overturn one
- 0:31of the most famous legal ideas in history, an eye for an eye.
- 0:35The lex talionis. So our mission today is pretty
- 0:38ambitious. We want to understand how Jesus
- 0:40is working with the Old Testament law here.
- 0:43He's not destroying it, but he is doing something new.
- 0:46Something that restores it in a way.
- 0:49He puts proportional justice back in its proper public box,
- 0:52you could say. And at the same time he demands
- 0:55this, this really difficult, surprising ethic of non
- 0:59retaliation for the personal life of a disciple.
- 1:02And that's the tension, isn't it?
- 1:04A lot of people read this and they just see a contradiction.
- 1:07Yeah, you hear it and think, OK, is Jesus promoting a kind of
- 1:10lawlessness, or is he asking for this impossible, almost
- 1:15self-destructive passivity? Right.
- 1:17Justice on one hand, mercy on the other.
- 1:20And they seem to be at war. But what we want to get into
- 1:22today is how the rule of God is whole.
- 1:25It's unified. The Kingdom of Heaven calls us
- 1:27to live in these two distinct spheres at the same time.
- 1:31And that perceived tension, that idea of justice versus mercy, it
- 1:35almost all comes from how we've misunderstood that phrase eye
- 1:38for eye. How so?
- 1:39Well, when you hear it, your mind probably jumps straight to
- 1:42personal revenge. You think of, I don't know, a
- 1:44movie scene or some historical blood feud?
- 1:46Sure, getting even. Exactly.
- 1:48But as we dig into the original context, we're going to see that
- 1:52Lex Talionis was never, ever given to an individual as a
- 1:55permission slip for private revenge.
- 1:57OK, so let's start there. Let's talk about the true
- 1:59function of that old law. Where does it come from?
- 2:02All right, so the formula eye for eye and tooth for tooth, it
- 2:05shows up in a few places. Exodus 21, Leviticus 24, and
- 2:10Deuteronomy 19. And the context is key I'm
- 2:13guessing. The context is everything.
- 2:14In every single case, it's found inside the legal judicial codes
- 2:19of Israel. This was a judicial principle,
- 2:21It was a specific guideline for judges, for the elders, for the
- 2:25appointed authorities, so. It's for the court system.
- 2:27For the court system only, it was not a motto for a private
- 2:30citizen. So if an ancient Israelite got
- 2:32his tooth knocked out, he wasn't supposed to go find a rock and
- 2:35knock out the other guy's tooth. No, he was supposed to go to the
- 2:37court and the law told the judge how to handle the case.
- 2:42And it actually served three really essential functions.
- 2:46And when you understand these, it totally changes how you see
- 2:49the law. OK, what's the first one?
- 2:51The 1st, and I think you could argue it's the most important,
- 2:53was restraint on vengeance. Restraint.
- 2:56Yes, the law was literally offense built distinct,
- 2:59escalating violence. Before codes like this, the
- 3:02common practice in that part of the world was the blood feud,
- 3:05the vendetta. Right, someone from my clan
- 3:08hurts your cousin, so your clan kills two of my brothers.
- 3:11Exactly and the violence just spirals and spirals and it
- 3:14destabilizes the whole community.
- 3:16Lex talionis, stop that cold. It set a legal limit.
- 3:20The punishment cannot exceed the harm done it.
- 3:22Puts a ceiling on it. A ceiling on retribution, Yes.
- 3:26If the damage was the loss of an eye, you were compensated for
- 3:29the value of an eye. You would not, under God's law,
- 3:32demand the man's life or the ruin of his entire family.
- 3:35That reframing is it's huge. It means the law wasn't
- 3:39barbaric, it was fundamentally merciful in its design.
- 3:43It was. It protected people from their
- 3:45own worst instincts, from that natural human desire to overpay
- 3:49a debt of harm. It shows order over chaos.
- 3:53OK, that's restraint. What's the second function?
- 3:55The second is proportional justice.
- 3:57This made sure that the penalty actually fit the harm that was
- 4:00done. It held the integrity of the
- 4:01whole judicial process. So the judge couldn't be too
- 4:04lenient or too harsh. Right.
- 4:06A judge couldn't let an aggressor off with a tiny fine
- 4:10if the injury was really severe. But just as important, the judge
- 4:14couldn't give in to a victims demand for excessive vengeful
- 4:17punishment. It was all about measured,
- 4:20righteous recompense. And did this mean they were
- 4:22literally, you know, gouging out eyes in the courtroom?
- 4:26That's a really critical point. The Jewish tradition, especially
- 4:29among the sages and rabbis, had long interpreted the law not as
- 4:32literal physical mutilation but as monetary damages.
- 4:36So financial compensation. Yes, the sources talk about
- 4:40calculating the value of an injury based on five categories.
- 4:43The actual damage, the pain suffered, medical costs, loss of
- 4:48earning power and even the shame involved.
- 4:50Wait, really? So this idea we have of Old
- 4:52Testament courts being these brutal places might be, what, a
- 4:55bit of a caricature? It's definitely not the whole
- 4:57picture. For example, in Exodus 21, it
- 4:59says if two men fight and one is injured, the one who struck the
- 5:01blow has to pay for the man's lost time and make sure he's
- 5:04thoroughly healed. The payment is financial.
- 5:07So the goal is to make the person whole again, justly, but
- 5:11not necessarily by inflicting the exact same physical injury.
- 5:14Exactly. The point was full just
- 5:16recompense within the Community's legal framework, and
- 5:20that usually meant paying the equivalent value of what was
- 5:23lost. OK, so we have restraint and
- 5:25proportionality. What was the 3rd function?
- 5:27The third was equality. Before the law, the standard was
- 5:30the same for everybody. Rich or poor?
- 5:32Rich or poor, powerful or weak, the penalty was proportional to
- 5:36the deed, not to the social status of the people involved.
- 5:39And that reflects God's character.
- 5:41He's impartial in how he administers justice.
- 5:44When you look at it through those three lenses, restraint,
- 5:47proportionality and equality, it really does stand out as a
- 5:50pretty amazing piece of ancient law it.
- 5:52Really does. So how does this connect to our
- 5:55theological framework, specifically in the Reformed
- 5:57tradition? What do we do with these old
- 5:59civil laws from Israel? Well, we hold to that classic
- 6:03distinction between the judicial, the ceremonial and the
- 6:05moral law, the specific ceremonial laws and the judicial
- 6:09statutes that applied only to Israel as a unique theocracy.
- 6:12Those have expired. Right, We don't run modern
- 6:15courts based on the rules for ancient Jerusalem.
- 6:18We don't. But, and this is the key, the
- 6:21general equity of those judicial laws continues to be morally
- 6:24useful. General equity?
- 6:26What does that mean practically? It means the underlying
- 6:29principle is still binding, the principle that a government must
- 6:33execute justice that is impartial, that is measured, and
- 6:37that is proportional. That's a timeless truth.
- 6:40The idea that the punishment should fit the crime, not too
- 6:43soft and not too harsh, that reflects God's ordered world.
- 6:47OK, so the law itself was good. It was just.
- 6:49But Jesus starts his teaching here by pointing out that
- 6:52something has gone wrong. How did this good public
- 6:55principle get so twisted? The distortion happened when the
- 6:59law was basically ripped out of its judicial context.
- 7:01It was taken out of the courtroom.
- 7:03Exactly. And it was handed over to the
- 7:04individual. People took a guideline meant
- 7:06only for a judge and they turned it into a personal motto.
- 7:09The authority that belonged to the court was seized by the
- 7:12individual for themselves. So they started to think they
- 7:14had a divine right to pay back in kind.
- 7:18And that blurred the absolute line between legitimate public
- 7:22justice, which restrains chaos, and forbidden private revenge,
- 7:27which is chaos. So they were doing the very
- 7:30thing the law was designed to prevent, seeking their own
- 7:33satisfaction outside the system. But now they could claim they
- 7:36had a Bible verse to back it up. Precisely this popular way of
- 7:40thinking, which was often encouraged by the religious
- 7:43leaders, let people indulge their own private resentments,
- 7:47their demands for personal vindication, while dressing it
- 7:50all up in the language of justice.
- 7:51I'm not being spiteful, I'm just upholding the law of Moses.
- 7:55Exactly that. And Jesus saw right through it.
- 7:57He saw that the external demand for payback was just a symptom
- 8:00of a poison, unforgiving heart. And that's why he confronts this
- 8:03misuse of the law so directly. And that really sets the stage
- 8:06for Jesus's counter statement, which is still shocking to hear
- 8:09today, He says. But I say to you, do not resist
- 8:13the one who is evil. That phrase, but I say to you,
- 8:16is always a signal. Jesus is about to restore the
- 8:19law to its true, deep intention and cut through all the popular
- 8:22corruptions of it. So let's break down the
- 8:24language. What does do not resist actually
- 8:26mean here? The Greek verb is anti stoni.
- 8:29It means to stand against, to oppose.
- 8:32To set oneself against is a very combative word.
- 8:35So it's not a passive term. Not at all.
- 8:38When Jesus says do not resist the one who is evil, he is
- 8:41zeroing in on the specific impulse to retaliate.
- 8:45When you yourself are the one who has been wronged.
- 8:47He's forbidding that knee jerk reaction to stand up against
- 8:50your aggressor just to get your own back.
- 8:53So this is a command about the heart.
- 8:54It's about the vindictive heart, that internal engine of
- 8:57vengeance that demands immediate satisfaction when you're
- 9:00insulted, when you're hurt. The default setting of the human
- 9:03heart is to want the person who wronged you to feel the same
- 9:07pain they inflicted on you. The natural person demands self
- 9:10indication, but the Kingdom command says to crucify that
- 9:13deep desire to answer evil and kind.
- 9:16Yes, the call is to get out of the debt collection business for
- 9:19ourselves. We're commanded to crucify that
- 9:22specific desire to avenge ourselves.
- 9:25We can't let that internal need for personal satisfaction, that
- 9:28need to feel respected or paid back, be the thing that drives
- 9:31our actions. And that requires a supernatural
- 9:34change of mind, doesn't it? To see that it's just not my job
- 9:37anymore to maintain my own honor or settle my own scores.
- 9:40It is. It's a total shift.
- 9:41OK, I get that conceptually, but this is where it gets hard in
- 9:44practice. How can we be sure Jesus isn't
- 9:46just saying never fight back ever?
- 9:49If I'm commanded not to resist evil, where's the line between
- 9:52protecting my family and seeking vengeance?
- 9:54That line feels really blurry sometimes.
- 9:56He does, and that's the essential challenge.
- 9:58We have to be theologically rigorous here to hold the line.
- 10:01We have to immediately clarify what this command is not
- 10:04prohibiting, because misreading this verse has led to some
- 10:08pretty serious errors over the centuries.
- 10:10OK, So what is not forbidden here?
- 10:12First, this is not a blanket ban on all resistance, and it's not
- 10:15the abolition of all punitive justice.
- 10:18If we take a radical pacifist view that says all forces wrong
- 10:21always, we immediately crash into major contradictions with
- 10:25the rest of the New Testament. Especially when it comes to the
- 10:27government. Especially then, we have to
- 10:30affirm the continuing God ordained role of the magistrate.
- 10:33So Jesus is not getting rid of civil justice.
- 10:36He is not. The sources are crystal clear on
- 10:38this. You just have to turn to Romans
- 10:4013, where Paul says the governing authority is the
- 10:43servant of God, an avenger who carries out God's wrath on the
- 10:47wrongdoer. An Avenger.
- 10:48That's a strong word. It is, and Paul says the
- 10:51magistrate bears the sword, the symbol of the state's legitimate
- 10:54use of measured force to maintain order and protect the
- 10:57weak. Peter says the same thing, that
- 11:00rulers are sent by God to punish those who do evil.
- 11:03So if the government is God's appointed agent for
- 11:05administering measured retribution, which is basically
- 11:08the principle of lex talionis, then Matthew 5 can't mean we
- 11:12should abolish courts or police. It can't.
- 11:15The spheres have to stay distinct.
- 11:18God commands the state to enforce justice in the public
- 11:20square, and He commands the disciple to practice non
- 11:24retaliation in their private life.
- 11:26The moment I try to do the state's job, I step into sin.
- 11:30That's the key distinction. When I seek personal revenge,
- 11:33I'm usurping God's authority. Yes, whether that's God's direct
- 11:36authority in the final judgement or the authority he's delegated
- 11:40to the civil magistrate right now.
- 11:42As Paul says elsewhere, beloved, never avenge yourselves, but
- 11:46leave it to the wrath of God. We trust God to settle the
- 11:49accounts. And that takes a huge weight off
- 11:51our shoulders, really, the burden of securing our own
- 11:54vindication. It's a massive burden and we're
- 11:56freed from it. But let's push on this a little
- 11:58more. What about lawful appeal?
- 12:00If I'm insulted and robbed and I know who did it, am I forbidden
- 12:04from calling the police or suing them in court to get my property
- 12:07back? No, the command doesn't forbid
- 12:10you from exposing injustice or from using lawful means to
- 12:13protect yourself or others from harm, especially the vulnerable.
- 12:17Do we have a scriptural example of this?
- 12:19We do look at the Apostle Paul. When he was illegally arrested
- 12:23in Jerusalem, what did he do? He invoked his Roman
- 12:26citizenship. He demanded justice from the
- 12:29Roman system. He cited his rights to avoid an
- 12:32unlawful beating and later appealed his case all the way to
- 12:35Caesar. He wasn't being passive at all.
- 12:38Not least. But his motive wasn't personal
- 12:41spite. He wasn't trilled to inflict
- 12:43financial rumen on the magistrates out of hatred.
- 12:46He was using the God ordained system of justice to secure his
- 12:49legal rights and to stop an unlawful harm that would have
- 12:53shut down his ministry. So that confirms that appealing
- 12:56to the state for justice or protection is OK.
- 12:58It is provide the heart is in the right place.
- 13:01The motivation has to be the restraint of evil and the
- 13:04protection of the innocent, not personal hatred or desire for
- 13:07the offenders ruin. The heart posture is everything.
- 13:09It's the critical distinction. Can you pursue a legal case
- 13:13which is designed to bring about justice and restoration, while
- 13:16at the same time genuinely praying for the repentance of
- 13:19the person who wronged you? That's a high bar.
- 13:21It is the believer must never, ever cloak personal hatred or
- 13:25pride with the language of justice.
- 13:28The goal, even when we appeal to the authorities, should be the
- 13:31restraint of evil, not the fulfillment of our own spite.
- 13:36And Jesus doesn't leave this as some abstract principle.
- 13:38He immediately grounds this massive command, crucified the
- 13:42vindictive heart in four very specific, very practical
- 13:46examples. And they're brilliant because
- 13:48they target the four things we tend to cling to the most our
- 13:52honor, our property, our freedom, and our resources.
- 13:55They show us what a surrendered life actually looks like in
- 13:58practice. Let's start with the one about
- 14:00honor the insulting slap. OK the scenario if anyone
- 14:04slapped you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.
- 14:07To really feel the force of this, we have to understand the
- 14:10culture of insult back then. It wasn't just a physical act.
- 14:13Not primarily. In that 1st century context, to
- 14:16be slapped on the right cheek, the aggressor would almost have
- 14:18to use the back of his right hand.
- 14:20A backhand slap. Exactly.
- 14:22And that wasn't a punch intended to cause serious injury.
- 14:25It was a calculated act of public shaming.
- 14:27It was a gesture of utter contempt.
- 14:30So it was about humiliation. It was the backhand slap was
- 14:34what a master did to a slave, or a nobleman to a peasant.
- 14:38It was designed to assert total dominance and strip the victim
- 14:41of their dignity, of their personal honor, right there in
- 14:44public. And the natural response would
- 14:46be to explode, to hit back twice as hard, to regain that honor.
- 14:50Of course, immediate violent retaliation to seize back your
- 14:54lost honor. Jesus demands the exact
- 14:57opposite. He says refuse the cycle of
- 15:00insult and counterinsult. You willingly absorb the blow.
- 15:03And then you offer the other cheek.
- 15:05And by offering the other cheek, you do something astonishing.
- 15:08You force the aggressor into a dilemma.
- 15:10Now to strike you again, he would have to use his open palm.
- 15:13Which would be a blow between equals.
- 15:15Precisely. You transform his attempt to
- 15:17shame you into a spiritual confrontation.
- 15:20You're entrusting your honor, your reputation, your standing
- 15:23to God. You're refusing to grab it back
- 15:25by human force. It's a statement that says my
- 15:28identity is not defined by your contempt for me.
- 15:31That requires an incredible amount of emotional and
- 15:34spiritual self-control. OK, so from honor, let's move to
- 15:39property and legal rights, the lawsuit over clothing.
- 15:43Jesus says if anyone would sue you and take your tunic, let him
- 15:47have your cloak as well. So now we're in a lawsuit.
- 15:50The conflict has moved into the legal arena.
- 15:52And what's the difference between the tunic and the cloak?
- 15:55The tunic was the inner garment, kind of like a long shirt.
- 15:58It was common, necessary, but the cloak was far more
- 16:02essential. The cloak or the outer garment
- 16:04was often the single most valuable thing a poor person
- 16:06owned, and crucially, the Law of Moses in Exodus actually
- 16:10protected it. How so?
- 16:12The law said that if a creditor takes a man's cloak as
- 16:15collateral for a loan, he had to return it by sunset because it
- 16:18was the man's only blanket to protect him from the cold at
- 16:20night. So the person suing you in Jesus
- 16:22example isn't just taking property, they're using the law
- 16:25to strip you of something that's necessary for life and is
- 16:28specifically protected by God's law.
- 16:30Yes, the aggressor is using legal loopholes, probably
- 16:35unjustly. And what does Jesus command?
- 16:37An action that seems completely foolish.
- 16:39Surrender the legally protected, more precious item as well.
- 16:42Why? What's the point of that?
- 16:44The point is a radical willingness to let go, to not
- 16:48fight tooth and nail for every single legal right and every
- 16:51last possession. It's a direct challenge to what
- 16:54we could call the idolatry of my rights and my stuff.
- 16:56It forces you to hold everything loosely.
- 16:59Exactly. It makes sure your identity and
- 17:01your security are not anchored in your possessions or in
- 17:04winning legal battles. If we fight to the bitter end
- 17:07for every penny and every piece of property, we're showing that
- 17:10we don't actually trust in God's provision.
- 17:12So Jesus is forcing a choice. Do I trust God enough to absorb
- 17:16this legally protected loss, or is my real security in my
- 17:19material rights? That is the spiritual test right
- 17:22there. Refusing to fight for the cloak
- 17:24is an active demonstration of faith in God's sovereignty.
- 17:27It shows the disciples willing to endure personal loss for the
- 17:30sake of their witness to the Kingdom.
- 17:31OK, the third discipline. This one feels very specific to
- 17:35its time dealing with freedom and, well, government
- 17:39oppression. The conscripted journey.
- 17:42Right, the instruction is if anyone forces you to go one
- 17:45mile, go with him 2 miles. This is a direct reference to a
- 17:49Roman practice called Angaria. Military Conscription.
- 17:52A form of it, yes. A Roman soldier had the legal
- 17:56right to compel any civilian to carry his equipment, and that
- 17:59was a heavy pack for a fixed distance, usually one Roman
- 18:02mile. Which, for the Jewish people
- 18:04living under occupation, must have been just a constant,
- 18:06bitter reminder of their situation.
- 18:08It was a humiliating reminder of their lack of personal freedom,
- 18:13their subjugation. The first mile was compulsory.
- 18:16You did it with sullen, resentful compliance.
- 18:18But Jesus says to transform that moment.
- 18:20Yes, he says, the disciple must turn this imposed humiliation
- 18:24into an opportunity for voluntary generosity and
- 18:26service. By willingly offering to go a
- 18:28second mile, which the soldier has no legal right to demand,
- 18:31the disciple takes control of the situation.
- 18:33The power dynamic just flips. It flips completely.
- 18:37In that first mile, the soldier is the master, but in the second
- 18:41mile the disciple becomes the generous server.
- 18:44He's no longer acting out of compulsion, but out of free
- 18:46choice. He's showing an inner freedom
- 18:48that the external authority can't touch.
- 18:50It's a profound spiritual move. You're saying you can compel my
- 18:54body, but you can't compel my spirit.
- 18:56My service is a free gift. It breaks the cycle of
- 19:00resentment. It turns a moment of public
- 19:02humiliation into a personal act of self giving love.
- 19:05So the lesson is learning to serve even those who unjustly
- 19:08use their power over us, turning servitude into willing ministry.
- 19:12That's it. All right.
- 19:13The 4th and final scenario. This one deals with our
- 19:16resources, and it shifts the focus from a hostile aggressor
- 19:19to someone who is simply in need.
- 19:22Jesus says give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse
- 19:25the one who would borrow from you.
- 19:27Here the challenge isn't so much hostility, but our natural
- 19:30reflex for self protection. The fear of being taken
- 19:33advantage of, or just the inconvenience of it all.
- 19:35Right, and this is a call to adopt A genuinely open handed
- 19:39posture with our resources. Now this doesn't mean we
- 19:42abandoned all wisdom. We shouldn't enable destructive
- 19:45behavior, but the main thrust of the command challenges that
- 19:49calculating hard heartedness that closes our hand out of
- 19:52greed or fear of personal loss. It's a call to reflect God's own
- 19:56generosity. It is disciples are commanded to
- 19:59refuse to be dominated by fear of poverty or by a constant
- 20:03calculation of self advantage. We're called to be ready to
- 20:06share, ready to land if we hoard what we have.
- 20:09We're basically saying we don't trust the father who closed the
- 20:12lilies of the field. Our resources become tools for
- 20:15ministry and neighbor love, not just instruments for our own
- 20:18personal security. That's.
- 20:19The Kingdom perspective. When you lay out all four of
- 20:22those disciplines together, surrendering honor, property,
- 20:24freedom, and resources, a clear picture starts to emerge.
- 20:28It's a picture of a person who is entirely surrendered to God.
- 20:32And it shows. This Kingdom ethic isn't passive
- 20:34at all. It's an aggressive, active
- 20:37choice to love your enemy by willingly yielding the very
- 20:40things the world screams at you to fight for.
- 20:43Which brings us back to that central theological problem.
- 20:46How can the same God demand both retribution from the state and
- 20:51non retaliation from the disciple?
- 20:53It feels like we need to synthesize these two ideas.
- 20:56We do, and the answer is in recognizing the dual governance
- 20:59of God. He has distinct responsibilities
- 21:01that He gives to distinct agents.
- 21:03So we have the civil sphere, which is governed by the
- 21:05magistrate, and then the covenantal or personal sphere
- 21:08which is occupied by the disciple, and that distinction
- 21:11has to be kept clean or the whole thing falls apart.
- 21:14It has to be clean. The same God is ruling over
- 21:16both, but with different mandates in the public arena.
- 21:19God demands justice. That's where the principle of
- 21:22lex talionis is applied by the magistrate to execute God's
- 21:25wrath and restrain evil. That's what maintains civil
- 21:29order. OK.
- 21:30And in the private arena? In the private arena, the
- 21:32disciple is called to display mercy.
- 21:34The disciple crucifies the desire for vengeance, absorbs
- 21:38the injustice and entrust the final accounting to God.
- 21:41This demonstrates the sacrificial, self giving nature
- 21:44of Christ's Kingdom. And for our listeners who are
- 21:46familiar with the reformed confessions, this idea of dual
- 21:49governance is pretty standard, isn't it?
- 21:51Oh, absolutely, absolutely. The Westminster Confession of
- 21:53Faith is very clear that God has ordained civil magistrates for
- 21:58the execution of justice and judgement.
- 22:01It affirms that while the specific civil laws of Israel
- 22:05expired, their general equity, that principle of impartial,
- 22:09proportional justice for the state, is enduring.
- 22:12So we see this not as attention, but as two different tools God
- 22:16uses to govern the world. Exactly.
- 22:19God uses the state to keep the world from descending into total
- 22:22chaos, and he uses the Church, the body of his disciples, to
- 22:27demonstrate the radical, supernatural mercy that flows
- 22:30from the gospel of Christ. This distinction is so helpful
- 22:32because it helps us navigate that really hard question.
- 22:35Does non retaliation mean I have to be passive if someone is
- 22:37harming me or especially if they're harming someone else?
- 22:40And that's the ethical tightrope we have to walk.
- 22:42We have to be clear that the command to yield your own rights
- 22:45when you are wronged is different from the command to
- 22:48love your neighbor. So this passage does not mean a
- 22:51victim has to just quietly endorse serious ongoing criminal
- 22:55abuse. It absolutely does not.
- 22:57For instance, if you as a disciple see someone being
- 23:01attacked on the street, your duty to love your neighbor might
- 23:04require you to intervene. That could mean using necessary
- 23:07physical force to stop the evil, or at the very least, calling
- 23:11the authorities. Because love for your neighbor
- 23:13sometimes requires you to involve the authorities to set
- 23:16firm boundaries to protect the vulnerable.
- 23:18It does if a believer is facing domestic violence or is the
- 23:22victim of criminal fraud. Seeking help from the police or
- 23:25the courts is not a violation of Matthew 5.
- 23:28It's a righteous use of God's delegated authority to restrain
- 23:31evil. So seeking legal help to defend
- 23:33others or even to defend myself to stop an ongoing harm is
- 23:37righteous, but seeking legal help just to inflict maximum
- 23:40pain or satisfy my own pride is sinful.
- 23:43It all comes back to the heart. That's the critical axis.
- 23:46A believer can pursue legal action to stop an injustice
- 23:49while maintaining a heart that genuinely longs for the
- 23:52offender's repentance, not their ruin.
- 23:55We appeal to the magistrate as God's servant for justice, not
- 23:58as our personal hitman. The danger Jesus is targeting is
- 24:02when we cloak our own deep seated resentment or pride in
- 24:05the beautiful language of justice.
- 24:07That's the sin we have to constantly ask our own hearts,
- 24:11Am I doing this because I want the harm to stop or because I
- 24:14want that person to suffer? The cross shaped life allows us
- 24:18to pursue legitimate justice while still praying for the soul
- 24:21of our aggressor. We've established just how
- 24:23difficult this command is. It demands a supernatural change
- 24:27in us. But the gospel never just gives
- 24:29us commands we can't follow. It gives us the power to obey
- 24:32them. So we have to anchor this ethic
- 24:34in the cross. Why is non retaliation only
- 24:37possible for someone who is united to Christ?
- 24:39This is the theological bedrock that sets the disciple free.
- 24:43The principle of lex talionis, that demand for measured
- 24:46righteous payment for wrongdoing.
- 24:47It isn't abolished by Jesus. It is satisfied by Jesus at the
- 24:51cross completely. Justice demands a price for sin,
- 24:55life for life. The ultimate price demanded by
- 24:58divine justice for all of human rebellion was paid by the life
- 25:01of the sinless Son for guilty sinners.
- 25:03He became the substitute. He did.
- 25:05Christ received the full measured retribution of God's
- 25:08wrath that should have justly fallen on us.
- 25:11And this is so central to Reform theology.
- 25:13The cross is where God shows how He can be perfectly just.
- 25:17He punished sin to the full measure of the law and at the
- 25:19same time be the justifier of anyone who has faith in Jesus.
- 25:23All of God's righteous demands were met, fulfilled, and
- 25:26exhausted in Christ's suffering. So if the ultimate debt that I
- 25:30owe God, the highest demand of justice against me has already
- 25:33been paid in full. Then you are free.
- 25:35I'm free from the burden of debt collecting.
- 25:37That's the daily practical spiritual benefit.
- 25:40The believer is freed from the burden of securing their own
- 25:43vindication because their ultimate vindicator, Christ, has
- 25:47already taken the ultimate penalty.
- 25:49We are liberated to live this radical ethic because the
- 25:52accounts are already settled. Paul has that powerful image in
- 25:55Colossians of Christ canceling the record of debt that stood
- 25:59against us. It's a perfect illustration when
- 26:01a debt is paid and the record is canceled, the creditor has no
- 26:05claim left. If we who have received such a
- 26:07massive cancellation, infinite mercy, then turn around and
- 26:11demand the full pound of flesh from someone who owes us a tiny
- 26:15debt by comparison, like an insult or a small loss.
- 26:18It shows we haven't really grasped the gospel.
- 26:20We haven't. It's like the person whose
- 26:22$1,000,000 debt was paid off, but he's still chasing down his
- 26:24neighbor for 10 bucks, screaming about his rights and demanding
- 26:27payment in full. The ultimate pattern for this is
- 26:30Christ himself. He is the perfect pattern.
- 26:32The Son of God had the absolute right to resist.
- 26:35He could have called down legions of angels, but he chose
- 26:38not to. He perfectly obeyed the command.
- 26:40Do not resist the one who was evil.
- 26:43He suffered unjustly. And as Peter says, when he was
- 26:46reviled, he didn't revile in return.
- 26:49When he suffered, he didn't make threats.
- 26:52Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly.
- 26:55So when a disciple turns the other cheek or goes the second
- 26:57mile, they're actually reflecting Christ's own
- 26:59character. They're reflecting his cross
- 27:02shaped character. This isn't just self help
- 27:04morality. This is the Holy Spirit
- 27:06reproducing the character of the obedient Son inside those who
- 27:10are united to Him by faith. We don't turn the other cheek to
- 27:13earn salvation, but those who are saved by grace find that the
- 27:18Spirit begins to enable them to overcome evil with good.
- 27:21The power to live this radical life flows entirely from the
- 27:24settled account of the cross. Non retaliation isn't a sign of
- 27:28weakness. It's a visible, costly
- 27:30declaration that divine justice has already been satisfied and I
- 27:33no longer need to seek my own revenge to feel safe or
- 27:36vindicated. That's the freedom of the gospel
- 27:38lived. Out So today we've seen how
- 27:39Jesus restored Lex Eliones to its proper place, the public
- 27:43courts, where it serves as a vital principle of measure
- 27:45justice. And at the same time, he
- 27:48commanded the crucifixion of the vindictive heart and his
- 27:50followers, showing us what that looks like by the radical
- 27:53surrender of our personal rights, our honor, our property,
- 27:56our freedom, and our resources. And it's all made possible
- 27:59because the demands of God's justice have been fully met in
- 28:02the substitutionary death of Christ.
- 28:04The world around us measures strength by how fiercely you
- 28:07defend your rights and how effectively you punish those who
- 28:10cross you. But Jesus demands a totally
- 28:12different kind of strength, one that's rooted in humility and a
- 28:16deep confidence in God's ultimate justice.
- 28:19So here's a thought to take with you.
- 28:20When you face an insult, an inconvenience, a financial loss,
- 28:23or some act of malice this week, how will your response reflect
- 28:28the magnificent fact that the ultimate debt against you has
- 28:30already been canceled and your vindication rests securely in
- 28:34the hands of a just and merciful God?
- 28:36That right there is the measure of the Kingdom ethic.