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FULL SHOW: Terrell Owens Reveals He Doesn't Date Black Women + More · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Just d your should any other mainstreams media outlet breakfast clubs.
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  Speaker 2: Don't taken tick, I'm gonna get you, gonna take it,
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  Speaker 2: break up Lean Cay you then come here when this
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  Speaker 2: stay DJ Envy and Charlamagne the guy being here.
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  Speaker 3: Next to all of you guys. It's really this.
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  Speaker 4: It's one of my favorite shows to do, just because
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  Speaker 4: you're always keeping one.
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  Speaker 5: Hundred y'all keep it real. But what better place then
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  Speaker 5: than here?
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  Speaker 6: I think everybody should go on the Breakfast Club and
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  Speaker 6: start out.
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  Speaker 5: Y'all want to shake it up?
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  Speaker 7: Ray right, Ray yo, Charlomagne, Daffy, what up are we?
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  Speaker 1: Lies?
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  Speaker 5: This is your time to get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 5: I got an indoor pool, door pool. We want to
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  Speaker 5: hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 8: Get on the phone right now here, tell you what.
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  Speaker 5: It is we lie? Hello, who's this?
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  Speaker 9: Here's it going?
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  Speaker 5: Man? God, God, what's up? Get it off your chest?
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  Speaker 5: Why it sounds so damn brother?
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  Speaker 1: No, I ain't done.
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  Speaker 9: Just woke up man by.
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  Speaker 5: The tum your uber ship.
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  Speaker 10: What you do we're at?
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  Speaker 9: I thought? He said?
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  Speaker 8: He.
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  Speaker 9: I was like, God, damn, you gotta get your life together?
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  Speaker 5: He said, Uber, Yeah, what do you do ober at
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  Speaker 5: bro in Brooklyn on Brooklyn. Okay, is it is it
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  Speaker 5: true that Uber takes like what of what you make?
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  Speaker 8: Nah?
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  Speaker 11: I don't think once the ride popping up on your screen,
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  Speaker 11: you just accept it and you get all the money
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  Speaker 11: to pop up on the screen.
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  Speaker 9: I don't know anybody be complaining about And we appreciate you, brother.
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  Speaker 11: No doubt, I appreciate you too. But yeah, I just
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  Speaker 11: want to let all the drivers know when they'll be
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  Speaker 11: on the road stop with these emotional terms. I'll be
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  Speaker 11: making the bike lane is to the right every time
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  Speaker 11: you drive. Every time is a driver in front of
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  Speaker 11: another driver and they're trying to get around. They always
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  Speaker 11: make these emotional turn try to get around the driver
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  Speaker 11: in front.
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  Speaker 9: Of them, and I'm always to the right.
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  Speaker 12: Drivers, we are to your right. Stop with the emotional turns.
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  Speaker 12: They're gonna hurt somebody.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, Oh, thank you man.
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  Speaker 8: No doubt.
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  Speaker 9: Man, have a good day, please.
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  Speaker 10: Sir, you too. Hello.
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  Speaker 8: Who's this?
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  Speaker 13: It's your boy KP from the bro KP.
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  Speaker 7: For the b X.
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  Speaker 10: What up?
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  Speaker 5: Get it off your chest, bro, I'll.
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  Speaker 13: Telling man, listen, I'm calling because I want to be
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  Speaker 13: positive this morning, like in the next like five six hours.
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  Speaker 13: I'm getting ready to get on the Carnival cruise and
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  Speaker 13: go on an eight day trip to Turk, Saint Thomas.
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  Speaker 9: And Puerto Rico a dam.
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  Speaker 13: I know it's gonna be a good vibe.
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  Speaker 9: That's right, man, set the vibes early. I like that.
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  Speaker 9: Who you taking your wife? Now?
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  Speaker 13: I'm going with the family. I'm going one of my
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  Speaker 13: my close dusk friends and mom. Everybody like that, my
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  Speaker 13: extended family.
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  Speaker 9: Oh that's right. Well the enjoy bro enjoy that. Man,
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  Speaker 9: put your put your feet.
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  Speaker 13: Hot again, I.
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  Speaker 4: Said, put your feet in the sand of Turks and
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  Speaker 4: Kko's Man, it's a beautiful place.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Nah.
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  Speaker 13: In fact, I've been there one time, but only when
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  Speaker 13: I was younger. So I know it's gonna be great
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  Speaker 13: now that I'm gonna go.
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  Speaker 5: Have you been on the cruise before?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah?
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  Speaker 13: Probably like nothing.
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  Speaker 12: Nothing.
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  Speaker 13: It's like my ninth time cruise and I'm been on Carnival, Caribbean, Disney.
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  Speaker 10: Okay, all things.
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  Speaker 5: So you're a professional. You know where you need to go,
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  Speaker 5: what time you need to go to lunch and dinner,
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  Speaker 5: and how to book all a little sturgeons and all that.
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  Speaker 5: You are pro.
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  Speaker 13: That's not after sack my grandmother taught me a long
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  Speaker 13: time ago. We've been going on for years, so you
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  Speaker 13: know she's not with us no more. But it's something
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  Speaker 13: I like to keep doing because you know, it makes
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  Speaker 13: me remember her.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, Bro, I have a going Hello.
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  Speaker 10: Who's this?
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  Speaker 7: Hey? This is Sean. What's up?
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  Speaker 5: Showing?
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  Speaker 7: What up?
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  Speaker 5: Get it off your chest?
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  Speaker 8: Hey?
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  Speaker 7: As a founding member of the congregation, we are about
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  Speaker 7: to revoke the membership from charlam Man if he don't
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  Speaker 7: change his era, change my what sharp girl era? We
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  Speaker 7: don't want that anymore.
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  Speaker 9: I am in my soft girl era?
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  Speaker 7: Bro, No, we will revoke your membership.
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  Speaker 9: Why are you you a soft girl?
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  Speaker 7: No? We're true. We don't like to hear you like that.
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  Speaker 9: What membership are we talking about? What club am I in?
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  Speaker 7: Ye? You're in a real man club.
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  Speaker 5: You don't know what he identifies as, sir.
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  Speaker 7: We definitely do.
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  Speaker 8: No what here?
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  Speaker 7: I dentify as I'm in.
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  Speaker 9: My soft girl era.
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  Speaker 5: He's a soft girl right now?
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  Speaker 9: Sir?
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  Speaker 5: He looks good.
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  Speaker 7: Man, you got twenty four.
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  Speaker 9: Look at that. You ain't even got a good You
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  Speaker 9: can't even be in the highphone family.
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  Speaker 5: You still got an android? Get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 5: Eight hundrednk five eight five one oh five one. If
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  Speaker 5: you need to vent something on your mind, call us
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  Speaker 5: up right now. It's the Breakfast Lugan morning.
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  Speaker 14: The Breakfast Club. Wait, this is your time to get
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  Speaker 14: it off your chest. Eight hundred and five eight five
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  Speaker 14: five one. We want to hear from you on the
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  Speaker 14: Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 5: Hello.
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  Speaker 8: Who's this wald?
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  Speaker 1: This is Prince Free from Virginia Beach seven five seven
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  Speaker 1: What I'm brother, Junior Beach? What's club's family? Look? Look, man,
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  Speaker 1: let me get this off my chest real quick, man,
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  Speaker 1: because I got a daughter. She's twenty. She's at North
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  Speaker 1: of State. Sorry about that envy, but anyway, in Norfolk State,
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  Speaker 1: and you know I went in went up there to
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  Speaker 1: go get her. And all these kids walking with their phones,
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  Speaker 1: they're not even paying attention. So every morning I'll send
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  Speaker 1: my daughter this text message ABC, always be checking, Always
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  Speaker 1: be careful. And I want to send that out to
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  Speaker 1: folks man, because there's a lot of evil going out there, man,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of evil lurking, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: So my message this morning is to tell these young
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  Speaker 1: folks man, get out of them phones while y'all walking
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  Speaker 1: no place outside, you know, understanding the outside. It's not safe.
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  Speaker 1: So I just want to send that. Man came out
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  Speaker 1: man on my favorite.
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  Speaker 4: You're absolutely right, But shouldn't you call your daughter if
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  Speaker 4: you're trying to get her to stop looking down at
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  Speaker 4: her phone?
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  Speaker 9: Why would you text her? Why would you contribute to
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  Speaker 9: the problem.
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  Speaker 1: Now, now I send that to her before our classes.
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  Speaker 1: But it's because I'm shouting man, totally right, bro, I
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  Speaker 1: do call her. One of the things is with with
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  Speaker 1: with my mental health thing is that we don't call them,
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  Speaker 1: we don't talk. We're not humanizing things anymore. But you're right.
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  Speaker 1: I text and I called, but I know that she's
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  Speaker 1: being class So that's why I.
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  Speaker 5: Text, as you should and shout to everybody heading the
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  Speaker 5: college out to Norfolk State, Shotahampton of course in Virginia State,
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  Speaker 5: Virginia Union, all the colleges out in Virginia slot to
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  Speaker 5: the same five to seven.
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  Speaker 9: All right, brother, no doubt, no doubt, he's right. I
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  Speaker 9: can't yeah, I can't stand that either.
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  Speaker 4: I hate like I pull up, you know, to pick
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  Speaker 4: my daughter up from cheerleading, and all the girls are
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  Speaker 4: outside looking down at them, and pay attention to your
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  Speaker 4: damn surrounding, you know, what I mean, you can't even
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  Speaker 4: see nothing coming.
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  Speaker 10: Hello.
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  Speaker 9: Who's this?
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  Speaker 8: Hey? Nor truck. I just want to say, you know
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  Speaker 8: what I said about the car show man, it was amazing.
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  Speaker 8: My family had a good time. I was, I was all.
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  Speaker 8: I was amazing to see how your kids were able
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  Speaker 8: to walk around, you know, play with other people kids.
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  Speaker 8: And it was, like you said, it was nothing bad happened.
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  Speaker 8: We had a great time.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Nah, my kids had a great time. I mean they
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  Speaker 5: love the car shows because it gives them an opportunity
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  Speaker 5: to really just enjoy themselves. And like I tell everybody,
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  Speaker 5: that's what it's about. It it's your kids playing with
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  Speaker 5: my kids. And you know, we have enough security and
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  Speaker 5: safety there to make sure all the kids are straight.
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  Speaker 5: But also it's a big community. Everybody's looking over each
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  Speaker 5: other kids and just everybody had a great time. And
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  Speaker 5: it's a loutle t bringing your family up. Brother, appreciate you.
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  Speaker 8: Hey, thanks, Hello, who's this?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 8: Good morning? But this is Blue from the Bronx.
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  Speaker 5: Blue from the Brons. Getting off your chest, brother.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, I just want my hand for Charla made you
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  Speaker 8: know how you always said flat people are crazy. The
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  Speaker 8: Bronx people are crazy. It a little slick. He is
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  Speaker 8: makeing flick of remark, but then he don't let nobody respond.
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  Speaker 8: He hang up the phone. I just want you to
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  Speaker 8: stop hanging up the phone. Get the man a chance
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  Speaker 8: to respond.
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  Speaker 4: I don't even I don't I don't even control the phone, sir,
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  Speaker 4: But that respond to him.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, I just want him to go that there's some
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  Speaker 8: frazy people in the Bronx. Yeah, but I understand you
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  Speaker 8: don't never get nobody a chance to respond. So what
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  Speaker 8: I'm telling you is all this click stuff to be saying,
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  Speaker 8: it's give a man a chance to respond.
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  Speaker 4: In fact, the craziest people in America come from the
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  Speaker 4: Bronx and all the Florida.
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  Speaker 9: There is science, sir, Why are you arguing with science?
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  Speaker 7: No?
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  Speaker 8: No, I mean here, what all I wanted you to
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  Speaker 8: do when you make your slick remark it said it
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  Speaker 8: just hanging up.
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  Speaker 4: I'm letting you respond and you're not responding.
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  Speaker 9: Just crazy this morning, sir.
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  Speaker 5: Try to let him respond. He just said, I just
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  Speaker 5: want you to let me respond. I let him respond,
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  Speaker 5: and he just said, I just want you to let
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  Speaker 5: me respond.
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  Speaker 9: He's just showing how crazy they are.
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  Speaker 5: Eight hundred five A five one five one get it
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  Speaker 5: off your chests. Call us up. Now, it's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 5: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 15: It's topic time called eight hundred five A five one
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  Speaker 15: five one to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 5: Morning everybody. It's DJ n V Charlamagne the God. We
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  Speaker 5: are the Breakfast Club. We got our guest co host
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  Speaker 5: Kiki here. Hey, friends, Now we're asking eight hundred five
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  Speaker 5: A five one o five one, what are some signs
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  Speaker 5: you are getting old? This conversation comes from Kevin Hart.
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  Speaker 5: We reported in the rumors early that Kevin Hart was
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  Speaker 5: trying to uh, I guess, raise somebody in a in
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  Speaker 5: a foot race and got himself injured. Let's hear it
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  Speaker 5: right fast. So we're asking eight hundred five A five
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  Speaker 5: one oh five one. Let's start with you, Kiki.
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  Speaker 16: Okay, Now, for me, when I knew I was getting older,
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  Speaker 16: and I'm I'm an early thirties, so I'm still, you know,
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  Speaker 16: a little young. But what tells you is when you
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  Speaker 16: hang around younger people. So like my sister in law
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  Speaker 16: is younger than me. Shout out to Queenland. Well we
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  Speaker 16: go all vacation. I want to go to the spot
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  Speaker 16: and lay down right she want to go to the club.
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  Speaker 16: We gotta turn up, we gotta pop bottles. And I
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  Speaker 16: also know when I go over somebody house and they
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  Speaker 16: music real loud, Like why is everything so loud? That's
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  Speaker 16: what I know I was getting old. And also when
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  Speaker 16: I discovered baseboards in my house, like I don't know,
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  Speaker 16: I was just living life and apartments. I didn't realize
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  Speaker 16: I had to clean a baseboard. And I've finally figured
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  Speaker 16: out what that was. I was like, yeah, you're getting old.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah. For myself, this there's a couple of things. One
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  Speaker 5: when I drive now, I listen to traffic report that yeah,
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  Speaker 5: yeah yeah. And also I watched the news to see
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  Speaker 5: what the weather's gonna be.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, okay.
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  Speaker 5: That that Also if I'm going somewhere, like I'm touching
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  Speaker 5: a long flight, I watched what I ate up meeting,
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  Speaker 5: Like if I know, if like let's say I like
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  Speaker 5: cheesecake and I want cheese before I catch a flight,
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  Speaker 5: the person sitting next to me is going to have
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  Speaker 5: a bad flight. Like there's certain things I know when
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  Speaker 5: I drink too much, I know it, like I'm gonna
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  Speaker 5: have to go to the bathroom. Like there's certain certain
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  Speaker 5: things the nap thing is always one. I do the
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  Speaker 5: old man basketball. So you know, I got six kids, yes,
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  Speaker 5: two boys, four girls. And when I play my kids
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  Speaker 5: in basketball, I no longer am competitive real like I
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  Speaker 5: back them down like my dad used to do me,
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  Speaker 5: just old man style and just kind of just do
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  Speaker 5: like a hook shot to feed them. Come tired, don't.
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  Speaker 5: I don't want to play with them the more I'm tired,
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  Speaker 5: like I just want to win and then go those
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  Speaker 5: are those are a lot of them. And then I
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  Speaker 5: got tennis elbow, and I haven't played tennis in twenty years,
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  Speaker 5: and I think that's an old man's injury tennis elbow. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: so I got tennis elbowt right now, Charlamagne.
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  Speaker 4: I was born in nineteen hundred and seventy eight. So
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  Speaker 4: thought the question is, what can we do anymore? After
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  Speaker 4: a certain age?
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  Speaker 5: Your memories messed up? I can see it right now, okay.
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  Speaker 5: And he was just struggling with Instagram, certain instagramm I
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  Speaker 5: tag Michael, somebody, where're my niece? Can my knees help me?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah?
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  Speaker 9: When you get frustrated, what can not doing any more?
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  Speaker 4: Damn near everything and especially everything I don't want to
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  Speaker 4: do and it'd be the littlest things, Like I realize
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  Speaker 4: now while our parents you know, used to be in
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  Speaker 4: like the living room, and they would call us no
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  Speaker 4: matter where we was at, in the apartment, at the house.
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  Speaker 9: Or the trailer, just to get them some water control.
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  Speaker 4: Literally right there, I'm talking about, like right there, a
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  Speaker 4: foot away from you. But boy, when you be on
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  Speaker 4: that couch after a long work week or after a
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  Speaker 4: long day, you don't feel like getting up to.
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  Speaker 9: Do it, So come use your little young legs and
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  Speaker 9: get it for me.
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  Speaker 4: Another thing I can't do anymore at my age small talk.
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  Speaker 4: I don't want any small talk. I have no problem
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  Speaker 4: either sitting around in silence, or if you're talking to
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  Speaker 4: me about something I don't care about, I might tell
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  Speaker 4: you shut the f up right in the middle of
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  Speaker 4: the conversation because I don't have time.
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  Speaker 9: For the small talk. I don't care in no way,
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  Speaker 9: shape or form.
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  Speaker 5: And you know another reason why I knew I was
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  Speaker 5: getting older. I started wearing crocs. Oh yeah, I started
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  Speaker 5: wearing I look at my glass old ass people shoes.
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  Speaker 9: Now you ain't mentioned had died. You ain't realize you
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  Speaker 9: was getting older.
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  Speaker 4: You had to start dye in your bed and painting,
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  Speaker 4: your painting, your faith envy.
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  Speaker 16: You be out here leaving them little things on T shirts?
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  Speaker 9: Yes you did, did you? Definitely you put it? It
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  Speaker 9: was no you know what he had on himself.
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  Speaker 4: He had a hoodie on one day and it was
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  Speaker 4: all on the neck of the hoodie, the little black paddle.
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  Speaker 10: You want kick.
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  Speaker 9: Just actually just observing, laughing at me and sorry, I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 9: You don't do that no more, you stop because I
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  Speaker 9: keep calling.
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  Speaker 1: You on.
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  Speaker 5: And the wal Greens ran out of just man. So
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  Speaker 5: I've been stuck for a little bit. But I got
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  Speaker 5: a new delivery coming today. Don't worry about Okay, you
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  Speaker 5: hate it? Kick it those laugh I know, I know
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  Speaker 5: you ain't die your hair before, Kiki babe.
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  Speaker 10: You know what not.
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  Speaker 3: I don't die my hair, baby, it's not.
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  Speaker 17: I put a whole wig on.
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  Speaker 16: So it's a.
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  Speaker 5: Chico.
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  Speaker 9: Trust me, he would too if they made beard wigs.
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  Speaker 5: Hello, who's this? He KD from a walk, a KD
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  Speaker 5: from a wall. We're talking about signs of getting on.
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  Speaker 12: Well, I know I'm only thirty and it's a bad
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  Speaker 12: example for sure. I got to carry a kit around
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  Speaker 12: with me.
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  Speaker 8: They got bio freeze ice.
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  Speaker 12: Packs and all of that.
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  Speaker 17: Why what was you doing in your twenties?
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  Speaker 9: Word?
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  Speaker 12: Well, I was always a sport head. So I mean recently,
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  Speaker 12: like probably like a year and a half ago. I
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  Speaker 12: was at a track meeting. They had like a little
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  Speaker 12: parents relay, and I was like, you know what, I think,
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  Speaker 12: I still got it. I started running. I got fifty
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  Speaker 12: meters of the one hundred meters and all I know
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  Speaker 12: is I was on the ground there.
• 13:34
  Speaker 9: How old are you?
• 13:35
  Speaker 12: My hairstrag and I ain't doing the same thing.
• 13:37
  Speaker 9: How old are you?
• 13:38
  Speaker 12: I just turned thirty in February.
• 13:40
  Speaker 9: Now you know it's babies.
• 13:41
  Speaker 10: Man.
• 13:41
  Speaker 5: If y'all don't cut it out, I won't tell you.
• 13:44
  Speaker 5: Another sign is always going to the doctor. If I
• 13:46
  Speaker 5: get a pain of injury or any funny feeling, I
• 13:49
  Speaker 5: go straight to the doc.
• 13:50
  Speaker 4: Just having good health insurance, I have plenty of people
• 13:55
  Speaker 4: who would love to just go to the doctor whatever
• 13:57
  Speaker 4: they feel.
• 13:58
  Speaker 5: I'll go. I'll go to the ear if I if
• 14:01
  Speaker 5: something hurt too much, I go straight.
• 14:02
  Speaker 4: To the l I tell you, I'll tell you what
• 14:03
  Speaker 4: a good Another good sign is when you go through
• 14:05
  Speaker 4: the doctor and you get a good report back.
• 14:08
  Speaker 5: Happy man.
• 14:08
  Speaker 4: I got one Monday, Okay, says, Overall, my results are
• 14:11
  Speaker 4: excellent despite a high calcium score for your age, there's
• 14:13
  Speaker 4: only minimal.
• 14:14
  Speaker 9: Plaque in your heart arteries.
• 14:16
  Speaker 4: Furthermore, your cholesterol profile is excellent and well below goal
• 14:19
  Speaker 4: on your current stat of medication and aspirin, which I
• 14:22
  Speaker 4: would continue. Your blood pressure and heart rate are those
• 14:25
  Speaker 4: of a man twenty years younger. All these factors contribute
• 14:29
  Speaker 4: to a very low ten year cardiovascular risk only three
• 14:32
  Speaker 4: point five percent optimal. Optimal for men of your age
• 14:36
  Speaker 4: would be three percent. So you are in very good shape.
• 14:38
  Speaker 5: What about your button?
• 14:39
  Speaker 9: To doctor Puma and everybody at sore in medical.
• 14:41
  Speaker 5: About your butt?
• 14:42
  Speaker 7: Do man?
• 14:42
  Speaker 8: Shut up?
• 14:43
  Speaker 5: Colon kolonosko be that's a mesking.
• 14:45
  Speaker 4: I did that already. I got no polyms, no redness,
• 14:47
  Speaker 4: no nothing.
• 14:48
  Speaker 5: I think you need a second opinion.
• 14:54
  Speaker 9: I can think about what.
• 14:55
  Speaker 5: Sexy ray step that?
• 14:59
  Speaker 10: Hello?
• 15:00
  Speaker 8: Hello?
• 15:00
  Speaker 5: Ain't Stephanie? Good morning?
• 15:02
  Speaker 18: Good morning?
• 15:03
  Speaker 5: How old are you Stephanie?
• 15:04
  Speaker 18: Fifty?
• 15:06
  Speaker 9: Okay, now you're talking?
• 15:08
  Speaker 16: Now?
• 15:08
  Speaker 5: What are some signe you getting old? Stephanie?
• 15:10
  Speaker 18: They listen, I've been like five six years ago. Had
• 15:14
  Speaker 18: to go back to the missionary. I can't do the flips,
• 15:18
  Speaker 18: the tricks and the turn so yeah, we're back on missionary.
• 15:22
  Speaker 5: No more backshots for you, no more. You ain't right enoughing.
• 15:27
  Speaker 18: They riding a knee and I ain't doing nothing.
• 15:30
  Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, okay, I need I need to know
• 15:34
  Speaker 4: the measurements. I need your height, girl, don't don't do it, girl, don't.
• 15:39
  Speaker 9: I think there's other factors involved, other in age.
• 15:41
  Speaker 18: Yeah, well, I'm so so serious missionary, and it's not
• 15:46
  Speaker 18: for long gonna get you oney in and let's I'm.
• 15:49
  Speaker 5: So serious to how how old are you, Stephanie?
• 15:53
  Speaker 9: How much do you weite? Don't do it?
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: Girl?
• 15:55
  Speaker 8: One sixty?
• 15:56
  Speaker 17: Okay, now, what's the excuse?
• 15:58
  Speaker 8: Nothing?
• 15:59
  Speaker 4: A little I mean a little round, but nothing crazy,
• 16:01
  Speaker 4: you know what I mean? She just lazy, lazy.
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: I'm to be bone right.
• 16:08
  Speaker 5: Damn Well, how old is your boyfriend?
• 16:11
  Speaker 9: Her husband?
• 16:11
  Speaker 18: Fifty?
• 16:13
  Speaker 17: Sorry to that man?
• 16:14
  Speaker 5: Were you sixty? He's fifty fifty fifty?
• 16:18
  Speaker 9: Might be time to tack somebody else in?
• 16:22
  Speaker 18: I got go ahead.
• 16:26
  Speaker 4: I'm just saying, interesting, what's going on when she can't
• 16:30
  Speaker 4: do nothing but missionary? It's time to tag somebody else in,
• 16:33
  Speaker 4: especially if he is able to do other things?
• 16:35
  Speaker 9: Is he able to do everything?
• 16:36
  Speaker 18: That's right? I'm not sitting up with that gone.
• 16:39
  Speaker 5: You are, y'all a little bugging. That's y'all married, y'are
• 16:42
  Speaker 5: supposed to look, you're supposed to go all the way
• 16:44
  Speaker 5: to the end. Y'all been together, y'all been together a
• 16:46
  Speaker 5: long time?
• 16:47
  Speaker 13: Oh twenty years?
• 16:48
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, No, no, no, he's supposed to take that.
• 16:51
  Speaker 5: This is just like if he lose a legs, she's
• 16:52
  Speaker 5: supposed to still stay with him regardless, be like, let
• 16:55
  Speaker 5: me go get a man with some legs.
• 16:56
  Speaker 10: No, she got that.
• 16:57
  Speaker 18: I don't want nobody else.
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: I don't want nobody.
• 17:01
  Speaker 10: That's right, girl.
• 17:01
  Speaker 5: You stay with your man, and he probably and you
• 17:04
  Speaker 5: can always get a vino lotion. You can make miracles
• 17:07
  Speaker 5: happen with a vino.
• 17:09
  Speaker 10: All right?
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: With my mom and.
• 17:11
  Speaker 9: Asy, she don't even know. Ve don't know Jergon. You
• 17:17
  Speaker 9: know what I'm saying.
• 17:17
  Speaker 4: She thinks gold On is where you go when you
• 17:19
  Speaker 4: get locked up? Oh my god, what's what's the morell
• 17:22
  Speaker 4: of the story. The more of the story is aging
• 17:24
  Speaker 4: beats the alternatives. So I enjoy it, all right.
• 17:28
  Speaker 5: The breakfast club you want to everybody is TJ add Charlamagne,
• 17:34
  Speaker 5: the guy. We all the breakfast club. We got a
• 17:35
  Speaker 5: special guest in the building. Yes, indeed, brother Malcolm Jenkins.
• 17:38
  Speaker 10: Welcome, brother, appreciate y'all having me.
• 17:40
  Speaker 5: How you're doing blessed Black and Holly favorite?
• 17:42
  Speaker 9: How you doing doing well?
• 17:43
  Speaker 10: Doing well?
• 17:43
  Speaker 4: Malcolm got a new book I'll called What Winners Won't
• 17:46
  Speaker 4: Tell You. I love that title. Break that title down.
• 17:48
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 17:48
  Speaker 15: I mean, you know, a lot of the times we
• 17:50
  Speaker 15: see people who have a lot of success, who are champions,
• 17:53
  Speaker 15: and we hold them up high, but oftentimes we don't see,
• 17:56
  Speaker 15: you know, what makes them that way.
• 17:57
  Speaker 8: Uh.
• 17:58
  Speaker 15: And oftentimes we kind of glorify that that process and
• 18:01
  Speaker 15: look at the end of you know, the end result.
• 18:04
  Speaker 15: But for me, I've always been a bridge a bridge builder,
• 18:06
  Speaker 15: and wanted to make sure that I can textualize the
• 18:09
  Speaker 15: thirteen year career that I've just finished, you know, all
• 18:11
  Speaker 15: of the things that I've kind of accomplished by showcasing
• 18:14
  Speaker 15: that that journey, that process, that evolution of you know,
• 18:18
  Speaker 15: a man into what you see now. And really, that's
• 18:21
  Speaker 15: to me, that's what you what you want to do,
• 18:22
  Speaker 15: that's what you want to live. You want to have
• 18:23
  Speaker 15: impact on things, you want to leave people with breadcrumb
• 18:26
  Speaker 15: to that success.
• 18:27
  Speaker 7: Uh.
• 18:27
  Speaker 10: And so I kind of open up.
• 18:28
  Speaker 15: The reason I don't have a shirt on on the
• 18:30
  Speaker 15: covers because it's it's a very vulnerable memoir. It's one
• 18:33
  Speaker 15: of the things I showed, kind of the failures, the process,
• 18:36
  Speaker 15: how I developed, you know, into the person I am today.
• 18:41
  Speaker 5: He played in the NFL former NFL play You got
• 18:43
  Speaker 5: drafted with New Orleans and then you play for the Eagles.
• 18:46
  Speaker 4: Whoa you got congoy?
• 18:50
  Speaker 10: No, not at all at all. We know what's gonna
• 18:55
  Speaker 10: happen at the end of the year.
• 18:58
  Speaker 5: He said that every year. Every year he says that.
• 19:00
  Speaker 5: But you said that last year, said that last year. Now,
• 19:07
  Speaker 5: what made you want to write this book? Now you
• 19:09
  Speaker 5: talk about the winning and losing and being so open
• 19:11
  Speaker 5: and vulnerable. What made you want to write the book
• 19:13
  Speaker 5: at this time?
• 19:14
  Speaker 15: So, you know, one of the things is an athlete
• 19:16
  Speaker 15: your your your life is usually documented by other people.
• 19:19
  Speaker 15: Everybody else writes about you, talks about you, and we
• 19:22
  Speaker 15: rarely get to hear the athlete talk about their own
• 19:24
  Speaker 15: experience and contextualizing for themselves.
• 19:26
  Speaker 10: I got two young daughters, like you know that.
• 19:28
  Speaker 15: I think a lot about what they what I want
• 19:30
  Speaker 15: to leave to them, how I want them to view me,
• 19:33
  Speaker 15: And so I figured it was better for my story
• 19:35
  Speaker 15: to be told from my own words. So I ended
• 19:37
  Speaker 15: up writing the book myself. You know, cover the cover
• 19:39
  Speaker 15: is all me, and it's and it's one of those
• 19:42
  Speaker 15: things that I'm always involved in everything I do, so
• 19:46
  Speaker 15: you know, for me, it's it's one of those things
• 19:47
  Speaker 15: that again, everybody doesn't get to see what goes into
• 19:50
  Speaker 15: the process, that goes into the mindset, the cerebral parts
• 19:54
  Speaker 15: of not only football, but life, the failures.
• 19:56
  Speaker 10: And I think that that's.
• 19:57
  Speaker 15: Always been important for the people I know who are
• 20:00
  Speaker 15: watching me to see that part of it, because that's
• 20:03
  Speaker 15: the difference. You know, most of the time, you'll see
• 20:05
  Speaker 15: somebody at the top and you you think you can't
• 20:07
  Speaker 15: get there. You seem so different, you know, so far
• 20:09
  Speaker 15: from your example. And hopefully this kind of closes that
• 20:13
  Speaker 15: gap for the reader to see that, no, these people
• 20:15
  Speaker 15: who have success are just like you that go through trials,
• 20:18
  Speaker 15: they go through tripulations. It's those who continue to fight,
• 20:20
  Speaker 15: those continue to play, you know, the idea, you know
• 20:23
  Speaker 15: that life is this journey. You don't especially with sports.
• 20:25
  Speaker 15: I think life is like a game. We tend to
• 20:28
  Speaker 15: only enjoy life or the game after we've won the victory.
• 20:32
  Speaker 15: Is when you get to enjoy life. But really the
• 20:34
  Speaker 15: winners will tell you that you enjoy playing the game.
• 20:38
  Speaker 15: In life, you have to enjoy where your feet are,
• 20:41
  Speaker 15: enjoy the process regardless of the results. And really that's
• 20:44
  Speaker 15: how I've lived in my life. That's how I've grown
• 20:46
  Speaker 15: to have success, and I try to live that every day.
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: I love in the book you talk about a lot
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: of the things you did as far as than the
• 20:52
  Speaker 4: social justice space, because you were the head of the players.
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: When it comes to social justice and being an athlete,
• 20:57
  Speaker 4: what's the balance.
• 20:59
  Speaker 10: Man's you know.
• 21:00
  Speaker 15: One of the things we had to do was find
• 21:02
  Speaker 15: what our role was, you know, because we're not the experts.
• 21:05
  Speaker 15: We're not we're not devoting our lives to be activists,
• 21:08
  Speaker 15: but we do have a role, you know, as as
• 21:10
  Speaker 15: role models in a platform to do something. And I
• 21:12
  Speaker 15: think one of the things that we found to be
• 21:15
  Speaker 15: very useful was to place ourselves as conveners. We can
• 21:19
  Speaker 15: bring you know, communities to politicians, to police, we can
• 21:24
  Speaker 15: use all of the intention that we get to drop
• 21:26
  Speaker 15: to put pressure on you know, those who are in power,
• 21:29
  Speaker 15: especially in our local markets. And that's really how we
• 21:32
  Speaker 15: formulated InCom Boldaan myself formulated the Player's Coalition as a
• 21:36
  Speaker 15: vehicle for athletes all over the country. If you say
• 21:38
  Speaker 15: I want to get involved, you know, with the things
• 21:41
  Speaker 15: going on in my community, you want to get involved
• 21:43
  Speaker 15: with politics in whatever you want to lobby, here's the
• 21:46
  Speaker 15: education on the issues locally, here's who you need to
• 21:49
  Speaker 15: push on, here's people are power, and here's some resources
• 21:52
  Speaker 15: to put those things together. So, you know, we we
• 21:54
  Speaker 15: kind of worked through that on our own, and then
• 21:56
  Speaker 15: once we figured out the plan or figured out what worked,
• 21:59
  Speaker 15: we just held the door for anybody who wanted to come.
• 22:02
  Speaker 15: It started with a group of about twelve athletes and
• 22:04
  Speaker 15: now is expanded to twelve professional leagues of sports, which
• 22:08
  Speaker 15: is far greater than anything I could imagine when we started.
• 22:11
  Speaker 15: It have an impact with you know, grassroots organizations all
• 22:14
  Speaker 15: the way up to you know, politics.
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: What's all of the accomplishments that the Players Coalition did
• 22:19
  Speaker 4: that we didn't hear about.
• 22:20
  Speaker 15: So the majority of the work was like, hey, all right,
• 22:23
  Speaker 15: talking about the negotiation with the league and things like that.
• 22:26
  Speaker 10: But what we were able.
• 22:27
  Speaker 15: To turn that into, you know, so specifically, and my
• 22:30
  Speaker 15: focus was in Pennsylvania. One of the things I was
• 22:33
  Speaker 15: most proud of was. We pushed for a bill to
• 22:36
  Speaker 15: get pass called the Clean Slate Act. And most people
• 22:39
  Speaker 15: don't know one in three people in America have some
• 22:41
  Speaker 15: kind of criminal record, and so what this did was
• 22:45
  Speaker 15: roll back or explunge those records after ten years if
• 22:48
  Speaker 15: you hadn't violated for non violent offenses. And we were like,
• 22:51
  Speaker 15: you know, that's a low hanging fruit, let's get that
• 22:52
  Speaker 15: out of the way. But that ended up affecting like
• 22:55
  Speaker 15: over three million people across the state of Pennsylvania. So
• 22:58
  Speaker 15: that's that affects how you know, what jobs you can get, where.
• 23:01
  Speaker 10: You can live.
• 23:02
  Speaker 15: And it's just that's a very low hanging you know,
• 23:04
  Speaker 15: low hanging fruit when it comes to the policy and
• 23:06
  Speaker 15: New England guys were doing things. They lobby to get
• 23:08
  Speaker 15: a bunch of millions of dollars put into the school
• 23:10
  Speaker 15: system to close the digital divide, you know, computers and
• 23:14
  Speaker 15: things like that. So these are happening all over the
• 23:17
  Speaker 15: country Louisiana, Florida, Ohio, all the way to Cali, and
• 23:22
  Speaker 15: it's being done not only by me, but obviously by
• 23:25
  Speaker 15: athletes all over.
• 23:26
  Speaker 5: Now when players with kneeling at one time, how did
• 23:29
  Speaker 5: you guys support the players if at all.
• 23:31
  Speaker 10: Yeah, well I was raising my fist and I was one.
• 23:33
  Speaker 15: That's how the player coalition kind of came to a
• 23:35
  Speaker 15: bout And I talk about it in the book, just
• 23:37
  Speaker 15: about like that moment, everybody wanting to figure out what
• 23:40
  Speaker 15: to do but not quite agreeing, which seems to be
• 23:43
  Speaker 15: over the time and history, a common threat like people
• 23:46
  Speaker 15: having you know, the same ideas a bunch of people
• 23:49
  Speaker 15: want being very passionate about, you know, pushing black people
• 23:52
  Speaker 15: forward or getting involved, but having differences, you know, differences
• 23:55
  Speaker 15: of opinion and strategy. But my biggest thing was always
• 23:59
  Speaker 15: about the world. I'm like, whoever is about you know,
• 24:02
  Speaker 15: making a change and putting in the time and effort
• 24:05
  Speaker 15: to do it. Let's let's collaborate, let's work together. And
• 24:07
  Speaker 15: we've been doing that over you know, over the course
• 24:09
  Speaker 15: of now, coming up on a decade.
• 24:11
  Speaker 4: I feel like you took a lot of heat back then. Yeah,
• 24:13
  Speaker 4: you know, Eric re called you a sellout. You know,
• 24:15
  Speaker 4: y'all had y'all if you watch football, your famous confrontation
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: you know, during the game before the game as well,
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: Like have y'all been able to have a conversation since then?
• 24:24
  Speaker 10: Nah, you know, and a lot of people.
• 24:25
  Speaker 15: You know, even in those times we're like, hey man,
• 24:28
  Speaker 15: you need to reconcile that, you need to squash that.
• 24:30
  Speaker 15: But I've always maintained that, you know, I never wanted
• 24:33
  Speaker 15: to be besides that. And I was very disappointed after
• 24:36
  Speaker 15: that game and myself because I gave the media that image.
• 24:40
  Speaker 15: Last thing I wanted was two black men fighting over
• 24:42
  Speaker 15: trying to say that people were trying to help the
• 24:43
  Speaker 15: people are just counterintuitive.
• 24:45
  Speaker 10: It doesn't work.
• 24:46
  Speaker 15: And so for me, I've always maintained that, like, I'm
• 24:49
  Speaker 15: proud of the work that they did. I'm proud of
• 24:51
  Speaker 15: you know, all of us were trying to figure it
• 24:53
  Speaker 15: out at that time, but it's not me. It's not
• 24:55
  Speaker 15: on me to reconcile the situation. Like, I never had
• 24:57
  Speaker 15: a problem. I don't hold any gripes. I was always
• 25:00
  Speaker 15: focused on the work. I knew that regardless of how
• 25:03
  Speaker 15: you know, I was feeling the things that were coming
• 25:04
  Speaker 15: down to me, that things, what people were saying.
• 25:06
  Speaker 10: My focus was always in the people.
• 25:07
  Speaker 15: I got into this, not you know, to lift myself up,
• 25:11
  Speaker 15: So my feelings didn't matter. It was like, Okay, what's
• 25:13
  Speaker 15: the what's the goal here, and it's to help, So
• 25:15
  Speaker 15: all of that to me was distractions and I had
• 25:18
  Speaker 15: to stay, you know, stay focused on the goal. Why
• 25:20
  Speaker 15: I was there, why you know I put myself in
• 25:22
  Speaker 15: that position, and just maintain all right.
• 25:24
  Speaker 5: We got more with Malcolm Jenkins when we come back,
• 25:26
  Speaker 5: his new book, What Winners Won't Tell You It's out
• 25:28
  Speaker 5: right now. It's the Breakfast Club in the morning wanting
• 25:30
  Speaker 5: everybody's dj MV. Charlamage, the guy we all the Breakfast Club.
• 25:34
  Speaker 5: He's still kicking it with Malcolm Jenkins's new book, What
• 25:37
  Speaker 5: Winners Won't Tell You, It's out right Now. What was
• 25:39
  Speaker 5: your thoughts on everything that's going on with Colin Kaepernick
• 25:42
  Speaker 5: and everything that's happening right now, what's your thoughts on that?
• 25:44
  Speaker 15: I mean, it's you know, it's confusing at this time,
• 25:46
  Speaker 15: it's seven years. The way you know, it's you almost
• 25:50
  Speaker 15: want them to just kind of like stand on his legacy.
• 25:53
  Speaker 10: I think.
• 25:53
  Speaker 15: Any the way that it's being approached now and the
• 25:55
  Speaker 15: way that it's being kind of laid out, it almost
• 25:58
  Speaker 15: you know, it's like worries.
• 26:00
  Speaker 10: It makes me makes me a little worried.
• 26:01
  Speaker 5: What you mean.
• 26:02
  Speaker 15: I mean, you know you're talking about, you know, somebody
• 26:04
  Speaker 15: who wants to play in the super Bowl. That's down
• 26:06
  Speaker 15: like begging to be on a practice squad seven years
• 26:09
  Speaker 15: after later.
• 26:10
  Speaker 10: It's you know, forget the politics or who he is.
• 26:13
  Speaker 15: Any athlete that's out of the game for seven years
• 26:15
  Speaker 15: and it's still begging to being a practice squad.
• 26:17
  Speaker 10: It's concerning to me.
• 26:18
  Speaker 15: It's that now being on the other side of retirement
• 26:21
  Speaker 15: and having to deal with that's that identity change myself,
• 26:25
  Speaker 15: you know that that's that's it's a strong thing that
• 26:27
  Speaker 15: he's dealing with, and you worry about, like, Okay, how
• 26:30
  Speaker 15: does one handle transitioning into the next phase of life,
• 26:33
  Speaker 15: the next chapter, because that one's done, like you can't
• 26:36
  Speaker 15: play football forever, so we need to see, you know,
• 26:39
  Speaker 15: what that next example is. And it's with so many
• 26:41
  Speaker 15: people following them, I think we all want to know, like,
• 26:43
  Speaker 15: all right, what's that?
• 26:44
  Speaker 10: What's that next move?
• 26:45
  Speaker 5: You know? Some people would say that, you know, he's
• 26:47
  Speaker 5: been playing similar to you, I'm shaw since you were
• 26:49
  Speaker 5: three years old, so that's all that you know and
• 26:51
  Speaker 5: love and maybe on the bucket list, what's playing in
• 26:53
  Speaker 5: the super Bowl or winning the Super Bowl? I should
• 26:55
  Speaker 5: say so for some people who say maybe he hasn't
• 26:57
  Speaker 5: got that off yet, And then some people would say,
• 26:59
  Speaker 5: you know, like even Charlamage has mentioned that he feels
• 27:01
  Speaker 5: like that letter was kind of like an embarrassment and
• 27:04
  Speaker 5: it issgrace that, you know, you go from pro athlete
• 27:07
  Speaker 5: to super Bowl contended to practice squad.
• 27:09
  Speaker 9: No, I don't.
• 27:10
  Speaker 15: I don't think anybody want to win a super Bowl
• 27:12
  Speaker 15: that bad. I don't think it's about the super Bowl
• 27:14
  Speaker 15: because that's not what we're talking about, right, We're talking
• 27:16
  Speaker 15: about just getting on a roster.
• 27:20
  Speaker 10: But you know who knows.
• 27:21
  Speaker 15: I think that's the That's the one thing that that
• 27:23
  Speaker 15: that leads the concern is we don't know what the
• 27:24
  Speaker 15: motivation is. But I don't. I don't know that you know,
• 27:28
  Speaker 15: one is chasing super Bowl. I think it is. I
• 27:31
  Speaker 15: think it comes down to you and I'm watching it
• 27:34
  Speaker 15: in many teammates of mind, like even I don't know
• 27:36
  Speaker 15: if you saw Kelsey. Jason Kelsey did a documentary about
• 27:39
  Speaker 15: his life last year. He was trying to decide if
• 27:41
  Speaker 15: he wanted to play or not. At the end of it,
• 27:43
  Speaker 15: he goes through all of these things that he loves most,
• 27:45
  Speaker 15: his family's wife, his health, but he is so afraid
• 27:50
  Speaker 15: of moving on to something else. He says, I can't
• 27:52
  Speaker 15: imagine myself being the best in the world of anything else,
• 27:55
  Speaker 15: and so he decides to come back. He's obviously playing
• 27:57
  Speaker 15: again this year, and I watched it. Most people applaud it.
• 28:00
  Speaker 15: I watched it in fear, because here you are saying
• 28:02
  Speaker 15: all the things that you value most, you're willing to
• 28:04
  Speaker 15: sacrifice because you're afraid to step into the unknown.
• 28:07
  Speaker 5: Dang.
• 28:07
  Speaker 15: And I think that's one of the things that, like,
• 28:09
  Speaker 15: I know, for me, the opening chapter in my book
• 28:12
  Speaker 15: is fear. I've learned to always like step into the
• 28:14
  Speaker 15: things I'm afraid of. And that's how I knew I
• 28:16
  Speaker 15: was ready to step away from the game is because
• 28:18
  Speaker 15: the only thing that was holding me there. I had
• 28:20
  Speaker 15: made enough money, my body was healthy, I was I
• 28:23
  Speaker 15: was focused on other things, But the only thing really
• 28:25
  Speaker 15: keeping me there was the fact that I was afraid
• 28:27
  Speaker 15: to step into the unknown of You know, I've been
• 28:29
  Speaker 15: playing football since I was seven, same same type of thing.
• 28:32
  Speaker 10: But for me, my response is to lean into that.
• 28:34
  Speaker 10: So it's I think there is a.
• 28:35
  Speaker 15: Lot of that going on with athletes right now, and
• 28:37
  Speaker 15: I think with Kaepernick being who he is and what
• 28:40
  Speaker 15: he means to especially our people, I think, you know,
• 28:42
  Speaker 15: we always want him to be the example. But I
• 28:45
  Speaker 15: think it's a great kind of reminder that everybody's human,
• 28:48
  Speaker 15: everybody's dealing with the human.
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: Stuff and oftentimes too when you when you're when you're
• 28:52
  Speaker 4: when you don't let go of something, you block a
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: lot of your blessing. You never know what the future
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: is hold if you keep holding onto the path.
• 28:58
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 28:58
  Speaker 15: I never thought I would write a book. Never, never
• 29:00
  Speaker 15: in my life thought I would write a book.
• 29:01
  Speaker 10: Wow.
• 29:02
  Speaker 15: And it wasn't until like, yeah, you start to let
• 29:04
  Speaker 15: go of these ideas of who you're supposed to be
• 29:07
  Speaker 15: and these limitations we've kind of put on ourselves, and
• 29:10
  Speaker 15: you lean into the unknown and say, well, okay, I
• 29:13
  Speaker 15: can't tell myself I can't do this until I've proven myself,
• 29:17
  Speaker 15: you know, until til life proves that I can't do something.
• 29:20
  Speaker 10: I have to always assume that I can.
• 29:21
  Speaker 15: And for me, it's just always about like trying to expand,
• 29:25
  Speaker 15: you know, the human experience as much as possible.
• 29:27
  Speaker 10: Forever learner, I'm curious about everything, and.
• 29:30
  Speaker 15: The more and more you learn, the more you do,
• 29:31
  Speaker 15: you start to realize, you know that there are no
• 29:34
  Speaker 15: limitations that any of the problems that you have in
• 29:36
  Speaker 15: your life. You are going to be a base of
• 29:38
  Speaker 15: that solution. And that's a journey. It's not easy to
• 29:41
  Speaker 15: get there that that takes a lot of trial and error.
• 29:43
  Speaker 9: I love why you started chapter two.
• 29:45
  Speaker 4: You started with a quote, we must all suffer one
• 29:47
  Speaker 4: or two pains, the pain of discipline or the pain
• 29:49
  Speaker 4: and regret regret.
• 29:51
  Speaker 9: Which one did you do you suffer?
• 29:52
  Speaker 15: The more I think I suffered both until I learned,
• 29:55
  Speaker 15: you know, the pain of discipline. I think I've gotten
• 29:58
  Speaker 15: so much more comfortable in the pain of discipline than
• 30:01
  Speaker 15: the pain that regret. Both hurt, though, and I think
• 30:04
  Speaker 15: you know, especially when you talk about like even love
• 30:07
  Speaker 15: is one of those things. Is I've come to find
• 30:09
  Speaker 15: love is like an action word. I take love out
• 30:11
  Speaker 15: as a noun in my vocabulary because we often love
• 30:14
  Speaker 15: in feelings. But to really love somebody, or even love yourself,
• 30:18
  Speaker 15: it looks like discipline.
• 30:19
  Speaker 10: It doesn't.
• 30:19
  Speaker 15: We'll look in the mirror and say, I feel good
• 30:21
  Speaker 15: about myself, so I love myself. I feel confident, so
• 30:23
  Speaker 15: I must love myself, and so we love everybody else
• 30:26
  Speaker 15: with feelings. But when you start to just look at actions,
• 30:29
  Speaker 15: like how what are the things you do to love yourself? Okay,
• 30:32
  Speaker 15: do you have discipline with what you eat, how you
• 30:34
  Speaker 15: work out, how you take care of yourself. You know,
• 30:36
  Speaker 15: do you go places you don't need to? Are you reading?
• 30:39
  Speaker 15: Are you cultivating these parts of yourself? Those things are uncomfortable,
• 30:42
  Speaker 15: They take discipline, but they always expand.
• 30:45
  Speaker 10: Who you are.
• 30:45
  Speaker 15: They help you grow, They help you go to where
• 30:47
  Speaker 15: you're trying to get to. And I think a lot
• 30:49
  Speaker 15: of the times we try to avoid that discipline and
• 30:52
  Speaker 15: end up just still being uncomfortable with the results because
• 30:54
  Speaker 15: we regret it not having that, you know, not taking
• 30:57
  Speaker 15: advantage of those times. So for me, I'm always trying
• 30:59
  Speaker 15: to focus on, you know, the end goal, doing those
• 31:02
  Speaker 15: small things daily that starve yourself. Maybe sometimes it's some enjoyment,
• 31:06
  Speaker 15: but at the same time, you know you're moving in
• 31:08
  Speaker 15: the direction you want to go.
• 31:09
  Speaker 5: Now, you mentioned earlier you had two daughters, and I
• 31:11
  Speaker 5: always ask athletes when they come up here, if you
• 31:13
  Speaker 5: did have a son, would you want your son to
• 31:16
  Speaker 5: play in the NFL.
• 31:17
  Speaker 10: I don't think I would have a desire for the
• 31:18
  Speaker 10: play if he wanted to.
• 31:19
  Speaker 15: You know, for sure, I got all the keys to
• 31:21
  Speaker 15: show you how to get there and stay there. You know,
• 31:24
  Speaker 15: it's a dangerous sport, but everything is dangerous, and I
• 31:27
  Speaker 15: think one of the things about me my first the
• 31:30
  Speaker 15: first half of my career, I was I would get
• 31:32
  Speaker 15: these nagging injuries my neck. I talked about in the book,
• 31:34
  Speaker 15: I had to get a bunch of everidor shots in
• 31:36
  Speaker 15: my neck. I'm like, I thought those were just for women. Yeah,
• 31:39
  Speaker 15: I was getting them in my neck to play football.
• 31:41
  Speaker 15: You're on heavy kind of anti inflammatories things like that.
• 31:44
  Speaker 10: So they are the negative things.
• 31:45
  Speaker 15: But when I stopped trying to hurt people in the game,
• 31:48
  Speaker 15: I stopped trying to punish my defenders, I stopped getting
• 31:51
  Speaker 15: hurt and I played eight seasons straight with no injury,
• 31:54
  Speaker 15: which is absurd in the NFL. So there is a
• 31:56
  Speaker 15: way to play the game. There's a way to kind
• 31:59
  Speaker 15: of move about it, take care of yourself that is safe.
• 32:02
  Speaker 15: But obviously it's it's a violent sport. But the things
• 32:04
  Speaker 15: that I've learned from playing football are things that, you know,
• 32:07
  Speaker 15: have made me who I am. I think they give
• 32:09
  Speaker 15: me an advantage in any situation. You know, you talk about,
• 32:12
  Speaker 15: you know, stepping away from the game and being Since
• 32:15
  Speaker 15: seven years old, you've been trained to be a leader,
• 32:16
  Speaker 15: You've been training a problem solve. You've been trained to
• 32:20
  Speaker 15: go through processes to evaluate yourself, to evaluate your opponent, fail,
• 32:24
  Speaker 15: do it all over again, like live on routine. Like
• 32:27
  Speaker 15: all of those things are things that when you get
• 32:29
  Speaker 15: out into the world you see regular people CEOs all
• 32:31
  Speaker 15: the way down struggle with Yet we've been equipped to
• 32:35
  Speaker 15: do this and been kind of trained to do that,
• 32:36
  Speaker 15: so you know, it's a trade off. You know, I
• 32:38
  Speaker 15: think some of those things are good, some of them bad.
• 32:40
  Speaker 15: It's just up to If I had a sign, it
• 32:41
  Speaker 15: would really be up to him.
• 32:43
  Speaker 10: All Right.
• 32:43
  Speaker 5: We got more with Malcolm Jenkins when we come backs.
• 32:45
  Speaker 5: New book, What Winners Won't Tell You, it's out right now.
• 32:48
  Speaker 5: It's the Breakfast Club for the morning morning everybody is
• 32:50
  Speaker 5: dj NV Charlamage, the guy we are the Breakfast Club
• 32:53
  Speaker 5: is still kicking it with Malcolm Jenkins is new book,
• 32:56
  Speaker 5: What Winners Won't tell You. It's out right now, Charlamagne.
• 32:59
  Speaker 4: You know Tom Brady the forward of your book, he's
• 33:02
  Speaker 4: playing that relationship because I would never have Tom Brady.
• 33:05
  Speaker 15: Yeah, I mean, you know we were looking obviously we
• 33:08
  Speaker 15: titled it, you know what was gonna tell you Lessons
• 33:09
  Speaker 15: from a Legendary defender. We're kind of like, all right, well,
• 33:12
  Speaker 15: who do we get to write the foreword? And Tom's
• 33:15
  Speaker 15: name came up, and I'm like, guys, like I've been
• 33:17
  Speaker 15: trolling Tom about this super Bowl for a few years now.
• 33:20
  Speaker 15: I don't know Tom's gonna write it, but you know,
• 33:22
  Speaker 15: and I think about as a defender, who was my
• 33:25
  Speaker 15: favorite opponent?
• 33:26
  Speaker 10: It was Tom Brady. Love playing Tom.
• 33:28
  Speaker 15: He always brought the best out of me as a player,
• 33:30
  Speaker 15: and you know, he's the greatest of all time. So
• 33:32
  Speaker 15: I just kind of shot my shot shot in the
• 33:34
  Speaker 15: text and he obliged.
• 33:36
  Speaker 8: You know.
• 33:36
  Speaker 15: That was and it was kind of the cherry on
• 33:38
  Speaker 15: top of the book, definitely, you know, a stamp.
• 33:40
  Speaker 10: I appreciated him for that.
• 33:41
  Speaker 9: Did you'll have a relationship before that?
• 33:43
  Speaker 15: Really just a mutual you know, relationship respects like an
• 33:46
  Speaker 15: opponent being peers in the league.
• 33:48
  Speaker 10: But no, we're not like friends. We don't hang out.
• 33:50
  Speaker 15: So this is really just based off of like I
• 33:52
  Speaker 15: see you, you see me type of thing.
• 33:54
  Speaker 5: Now.
• 33:54
  Speaker 4: You said he's the greatest of all time. I did, Yeah,
• 33:56
  Speaker 4: so you stand by he's the greatest quarterback of all time?
• 33:58
  Speaker 15: Yeah, okay, why as he does the ordinary better than everybody,
• 34:02
  Speaker 15: Like I look at Aaron Rodgers, and I'm looking at
• 34:04
  Speaker 15: his skill set like, Okay, Aaron Rodgers is probably the
• 34:06
  Speaker 15: tougher one to play because he has a skill set
• 34:09
  Speaker 15: that really nobody else has, Like on the fields hard,
• 34:11
  Speaker 15: but Tom, he's not fastening. Everybody's people have better arm talent.
• 34:16
  Speaker 15: He you know, there have been other cerebral quarterbacks. But
• 34:19
  Speaker 15: it's like, well, why is he having a success he has?
• 34:22
  Speaker 15: And it's because of his process. He does all the
• 34:24
  Speaker 15: ordinary things better than everybody else. And I think that's
• 34:28
  Speaker 15: that to me, is like the cheat code of life.
• 34:30
  Speaker 15: Like you can there's always gonna be people with God
• 34:32
  Speaker 15: giving talent, but you master the things that don't take
• 34:35
  Speaker 15: talent and watch how far it goes.
• 34:37
  Speaker 9: I feel like, man, what you just said makes so
• 34:38
  Speaker 9: much sense.
• 34:39
  Speaker 4: When you look at the people who have God given talent,
• 34:41
  Speaker 4: they usually do the basics better than everybody. Like they
• 34:44
  Speaker 4: usually do something as simple as practice harder than everybody.
• 34:48
  Speaker 15: I mean, think about you look at Steph Curry, Jordan,
• 34:50
  Speaker 15: all these whole like Kobrey, they talk about practicing like
• 34:55
  Speaker 15: they don't talk about like, ah, yeah, I gotta you know,
• 34:57
  Speaker 15: I can jump high, so that's I just jumped over No,
• 35:00
  Speaker 15: so they doing the very simple things over and over
• 35:02
  Speaker 15: and over again, and we only see it in the game, like, oh,
• 35:05
  Speaker 15: this is crazy. You don't realize he's just been doing
• 35:07
  Speaker 15: the same drill since the age of seven, right, and
• 35:11
  Speaker 15: so now it's like clockwork body, you know, it's a
• 35:13
  Speaker 15: muscle memory. And I think that's that's something I've always
• 35:15
  Speaker 15: been fascinated in and try to do myself. Is like
• 35:18
  Speaker 15: instead of trying to be the best at some guy
• 35:20
  Speaker 15: giving talent or do these amazing things, like how do
• 35:22
  Speaker 15: you just do the ordinary better than everybody else?
• 35:24
  Speaker 5: Absolutely, Now, you were just inducted into the Ohio State
• 35:27
  Speaker 5: Hall of Fame, So congratulations that. Now, just if you
• 35:30
  Speaker 5: could go back and change it, because you know, we
• 35:31
  Speaker 5: talk about all the things you stand for. Now, would
• 35:33
  Speaker 5: you prefer or would you rather went to HBCU.
• 35:36
  Speaker 10: Both my parents went to.
• 35:39
  Speaker 15: Nokolina A and t I think going back, no, it
• 35:43
  Speaker 15: was a different time, right, I think right now, the
• 35:46
  Speaker 15: way that there's a tension on it, there's people willing
• 35:48
  Speaker 15: to put resources behind the programs.
• 35:50
  Speaker 10: And all that's happened.
• 35:51
  Speaker 15: Of course I would now, you know, I think back
• 35:53
  Speaker 15: then you would have just kind of been selling yourself
• 35:55
  Speaker 15: short it's like you you need the entire environment, you
• 35:59
  Speaker 15: need the coach it to come because one player coming,
• 36:01
  Speaker 15: you need the coach. Like what Dion was doing, you
• 36:05
  Speaker 15: know for HBC users was a movement and that's the thing.
• 36:09
  Speaker 15: What is what we wanted to see, That's what would
• 36:11
  Speaker 15: have made it, you know, appetizing for me as an athlete.
• 36:13
  Speaker 15: And you know, but I do look at these athletes
• 36:15
  Speaker 15: now who are doing it like I wish I had.
• 36:18
  Speaker 10: I wish the environment was like that when I was
• 36:20
  Speaker 10: coming out.
• 36:21
  Speaker 4: We have those conversations, man, But I keep thinking, I
• 36:23
  Speaker 4: want people to remember de anomaly, man, like Dion was
• 36:26
  Speaker 4: one of the biggest stars in the world.
• 36:28
  Speaker 9: Because it's not like Eddie George.
• 36:30
  Speaker 4: Is coaching right like we could be supported to It's
• 36:34
  Speaker 4: because it's Dion, Like that's what It's not.
• 36:38
  Speaker 10: Huge Jackson's in Hugh Jackson's coaching too.
• 36:40
  Speaker 15: R believe Yeah, yeah, I mean, like I said, he's
• 36:42
  Speaker 15: not the only one. But it is the Dion effect
• 36:45
  Speaker 15: for sure. It's the It's not just the on field
• 36:47
  Speaker 15: stuff and coaching. It's the attention you're bringing, the message
• 36:50
  Speaker 15: that you're bringing, the pride and kind of the showmanship
• 36:54
  Speaker 15: that you bring to it too.
• 36:55
  Speaker 10: You gotta make it cool.
• 36:57
  Speaker 4: How did your trip to Ghana influence your advocacy, Yeah,
• 37:00
  Speaker 4: I just changed your life period.
• 37:02
  Speaker 10: It changed everything.
• 37:03
  Speaker 15: You know, you start to I think all of us
• 37:05
  Speaker 15: have a bit of an identity crisis at some point.
• 37:08
  Speaker 15: You know there if you're African American, you want to
• 37:10
  Speaker 15: know where you came from. And at the lowest point
• 37:13
  Speaker 15: in my life, it was like one of the most
• 37:14
  Speaker 15: critical moments in my in the book, I needed to
• 37:17
  Speaker 15: get away, and I was like, I always wanted to
• 37:18
  Speaker 15: go to Africa. So I went to Ghana and it
• 37:20
  Speaker 15: was just to be around something, you know, a place
• 37:24
  Speaker 15: that's all black or a week and a half. I
• 37:27
  Speaker 15: didn't realize how much I needed that until I came back.
• 37:30
  Speaker 15: I was like, I hadn't I hadn't even thought about
• 37:33
  Speaker 15: being black for a week and a half. And I
• 37:35
  Speaker 15: was like, that must be what white privilege feels like.
• 37:38
  Speaker 5: Man.
• 37:39
  Speaker 15: And I'm like, oh, you know, it's like you didn't
• 37:40
  Speaker 15: realize you needed those spaces to get away. And so
• 37:43
  Speaker 15: just going to the lake, slave castles, the door, and
• 37:47
  Speaker 15: the return, you just feel this this connection with your
• 37:50
  Speaker 15: ancestry that I hadn't had before. And so and even
• 37:54
  Speaker 15: just nature and all of those things. So for me
• 37:56
  Speaker 15: it was it was life changing and change my perspective
• 37:58
  Speaker 15: of like what's in and what's my role here? Like
• 38:01
  Speaker 15: you don't I don't strive to have success in this
• 38:05
  Speaker 15: kind of like American society. It's like, I'm here for
• 38:08
  Speaker 15: a purpose and i'ma live here. This is what I
• 38:10
  Speaker 15: call home. But I don't have to buy into the ideology.
• 38:12
  Speaker 15: You have a you have something before slavery now to
• 38:15
  Speaker 15: tap into a history, to to to explore. And I
• 38:19
  Speaker 15: think that that that was mentally liberating for me. Do
• 38:21
  Speaker 15: you think your daughters, No, they haven't been yet. We've been,
• 38:24
  Speaker 15: We've been to the continent we were in like Northern Africa, Morocco, Americas,
• 38:28
  Speaker 15: but they haven't been a gane yet.
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: Y'all took off for mine and my seven year old
• 38:32
  Speaker 4: she's eight now. She she literally was like, where are
• 38:35
  Speaker 4: the white people that.
• 38:36
  Speaker 10: I talk about in the book.
• 38:39
  Speaker 15: The only white face I saw it was Jesus and
• 38:42
  Speaker 15: they have him white Jesus is everywhere. It was crazy,
• 38:45
  Speaker 15: But I did bring. I brought my two brothers, UH
• 38:48
  Speaker 15: brought some of my frat brothers. I've been there like
• 38:49
  Speaker 15: four times. The last time and we closed out the
• 38:53
  Speaker 15: book with it is uh the time I bring my parents.
• 38:55
  Speaker 15: They always wanted to get to the continent, and so
• 38:57
  Speaker 15: I bring them with them, bring them with me, and
• 38:59
  Speaker 15: they have had a blast.
• 39:01
  Speaker 5: You got to pick up the new book that winness
• 39:03
  Speaker 5: will tell you what tell you you appreciate you, Thank
• 39:05
  Speaker 5: you for joining us this morning.
• 39:06
  Speaker 10: Appreciate your having me for sure.
• 39:07
  Speaker 5: Pick up the book right now, Malcolm Jenkins, it's the
• 39:10
  Speaker 5: Breakfast Club.
• 39:11
  Speaker 14: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be
• 39:15
  Speaker 14: the same.
• 39:16
  Speaker 5: Make sure you're telling the watch out for Florida, Lord Orda.
• 39:21
  Speaker 4: The craziest people in America come from the Bronx in
• 39:24
  Speaker 4: all of Florida.
• 39:25
  Speaker 9: Yes, you are a donkey.
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: The Florida man A taped an ATM for a very
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: strange reason.
• 39:32
  Speaker 3: It gave him too much money.
• 39:33
  Speaker 6: Florida man is arrested after w stag he rigged the
• 39:35
  Speaker 6: Dolordia his home in an attempt to electric hit his
• 39:37
  Speaker 6: presnant lights.
• 39:38
  Speaker 16: At Lease arrested and Orlando Man we're talking to from
• 39:41
  Speaker 16: Meado with the Breakfast Club bench Donkey of the Day
• 39:44
  Speaker 16: with Charlam heyne to gud.
• 39:45
  Speaker 10: I don't know why y'all keep letting him.
• 39:46
  Speaker 4: Get y'all like, well, do all this your own people, Okay, Donkey,
• 39:49
  Speaker 4: Today goes the Renee don Skogland. I know I pronounced
• 39:53
  Speaker 4: their last name wrong. Okay, but Renee is from Florida,
• 39:55
  Speaker 4: ladies and gettlemen. And what does your uncle Shawa always
• 39:58
  Speaker 4: say about the great state of Florida. The easiest people
• 40:00
  Speaker 4: in America come from the Bronx and all of Florida,
• 40:03
  Speaker 4: and today is no exception.
• 40:04
  Speaker 9: Okay.
• 40:04
  Speaker 4: Renee is thirty years old and she will spend two
• 40:07
  Speaker 4: years under community control which is a form of house arrest,
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: eight years on probation, and will have to pay a
• 40:11
  Speaker 4: fine of more than seventeen grand And personally, I don't
• 40:14
  Speaker 4: think that is enough. In fact, I think she should
• 40:17
  Speaker 4: get actual prison time. Why Uncle Shawla, why are you
• 40:20
  Speaker 4: wishing Printon time on this woman? Well, let's go to
• 40:22
  Speaker 4: Fox thirteen Tampa for the report.
• 40:24
  Speaker 6: Please, South Dakota resident Rede Skogland is far from home
• 40:28
  Speaker 6: an illegal hot water that even surprised the judge.
• 40:33
  Speaker 18: This is really unbelievable.
• 40:35
  Speaker 6: Skogland's trail of lies started was she decided to come
• 40:39
  Speaker 6: to Tampa Bay and cheat on her husband.
• 40:42
  Speaker 15: That she felt guilty about this due to her marital
• 40:45
  Speaker 15: status and she wanted to get checked for her sexual
• 40:47
  Speaker 15: transmitted diseases.
• 40:48
  Speaker 6: But she wanted to get tested for free, so she
• 40:51
  Speaker 6: decided to call nine one one. Cogland made up a
• 40:55
  Speaker 6: story about having car trouble and pulling over on the
• 40:58
  Speaker 6: side of the road.
• 41:00
  Speaker 18: Approached her.
• 41:02
  Speaker 6: Because her face was covered, she couldn't describe her attacker.
• 41:05
  Speaker 6: When police checked her cell phone and found this Walmart
• 41:09
  Speaker 6: surveillance video, Skogland find the rope herself. She confessed to
• 41:14
  Speaker 6: making the whole thing up. She was charged with making
• 41:17
  Speaker 6: a false police report and decided to take a plea deal.
• 41:21
  Speaker 4: She not even from Florida. She from South Dakota, came
• 41:23
  Speaker 4: to Florida and became a Florida fool because it was
• 41:25
  Speaker 4: in the water, all right, This woman made up a
• 41:27
  Speaker 4: false rape report in Florida to get a free STD test.
• 41:31
  Speaker 4: Let's just sit here for a second and take that
• 41:33
  Speaker 4: in me, like my Paula Santo. Just think about that.
• 41:36
  Speaker 4: Renee made up a false rape report in Florida to
• 41:40
  Speaker 4: get a free STD test. Huh believe all women? Huh
• 41:44
  Speaker 4: define all? Okay, that's what we should have asked when
• 41:46
  Speaker 4: that foolish ass slogan became part of our lexicon.
• 41:49
  Speaker 9: What do you mean by all?
• 41:50
  Speaker 4: Because women like Renee can't possibly be under the umbrella
• 41:53
  Speaker 4: of all correct.
• 41:54
  Speaker 9: I have so many questions. Why didn't she just go
• 41:56
  Speaker 9: through the clinic? Okay?
• 41:57
  Speaker 4: I did some research, and by research I mean Google,
• 41:59
  Speaker 4: and all I did was type in free STD testing
• 42:02
  Speaker 4: in Florida. It's a whole website called saye for STD
• 42:05
  Speaker 4: testing dot com. It tells you all the clinics that
• 42:07
  Speaker 4: are near you. It says right here, if you're looking
• 42:09
  Speaker 4: for cheap STD testing clinics in the state of Florida.
• 42:12
  Speaker 4: To get an HIV, herpes, committee a gonnery, a, syphilis,
• 42:16
  Speaker 4: a hepatitis screening for yourself or your partner, you can
• 42:18
  Speaker 4: get tested today by selecting an option below to find
• 42:21
  Speaker 4: an affordable STD test clinic near you. Same day STD
• 42:25
  Speaker 4: testing locations also available with results in one to two days.
• 42:28
  Speaker 9: Why didn't you just go to a free clinic?
• 42:30
  Speaker 4: Now, Renee at the time was married, and she lied
• 42:32
  Speaker 4: about this sexual assault in attempt to get a free
• 42:35
  Speaker 4: STD test After she had a one.
• 42:38
  Speaker 9: Night stand in Tampa, so she.
• 42:41
  Speaker 4: Cheated on her husband, felt guilty about it, so she
• 42:44
  Speaker 4: decided to go get checked out for an STD and
• 42:46
  Speaker 4: instead of just going to a doctor or a clinic,
• 42:49
  Speaker 4: she decided to lie about being a rape so she
• 42:51
  Speaker 4: could get a free STD.
• 42:53
  Speaker 9: Test forne What was your plan? B? Okay? If that
• 42:57
  Speaker 9: was planing A? What was planning B?
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: This couldn't you've been the only plan not to mention
• 43:01
  Speaker 4: you lied about a rape claim so you could get
• 43:03
  Speaker 4: a free SDD test.
• 43:04
  Speaker 9: So clearly you hard.
• 43:05
  Speaker 4: On money, but you had money to buy rope. We
• 43:08
  Speaker 4: looked it up. The hollow braided rope that she bought
• 43:11
  Speaker 4: is twenty two dollars.
• 43:13
  Speaker 9: Okay? How much is an STD test in Florida?
• 43:15
  Speaker 5: According to Google, the.
• 43:16
  Speaker 9: Cost of it. STD tests will vary by location and
• 43:18
  Speaker 9: test type.
• 43:19
  Speaker 4: Some clinics, usually community or nonprofit clinics, are for free.
• 43:22
  Speaker 9: Are low cost testing labs.
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: Clinics and at home testing companies may accept insurance to
• 43:26
  Speaker 4: cover all lower your cost of testing and lab testing
• 43:29
  Speaker 4: fees ranged from eight dollars to one hundred and fifty dollars.
• 43:32
  Speaker 4: You had money for an STD test?
• 43:34
  Speaker 9: Okay?
• 43:34
  Speaker 4: I saw Other sources say that the STD test in
• 43:36
  Speaker 4: Florida it's fifty five dollars. The test cover syphilis and
• 43:39
  Speaker 4: HIV Committia Gonnerhea Herpe's test forty five dollars. All I'm
• 43:42
  Speaker 4: saying is if you had money for ROPE, you could
• 43:44
  Speaker 4: have gotten some money for STD test. Hell, you had
• 43:47
  Speaker 4: money to travel from South Dakota to Tampa to creep
• 43:49
  Speaker 4: in the first place. Okay, Renee, what about condoms, which
• 43:53
  Speaker 4: you too can get free from the clinic? All right,
• 43:56
  Speaker 4: two words for you, Renee, planned parenthood. They can help
• 43:59
  Speaker 4: you get condoms and other birth control methods for free.
• 44:02
  Speaker 4: If that where inflation is taking us now, where people
• 44:05
  Speaker 4: can't even afford to cheat. What happened to the good
• 44:08
  Speaker 4: old days? When you know you got an STD and
• 44:10
  Speaker 4: blamed it on your significant other. We used to be
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: a country. We are getting away from traditional values. Not
• 44:16
  Speaker 4: to mention you, nasty Renee, Not only are you a
• 44:19
  Speaker 4: despicable human who would lie about being raped.
• 44:22
  Speaker 9: You slept with your little side piece unprotected.
• 44:26
  Speaker 5: Bad back.
• 44:27
  Speaker 4: Shimmy, shimmy, y'ah, shimmy, yeah, shimmy yan. You fought bad
• 44:30
  Speaker 4: knuckle in the club and thought you lost. That's why
• 44:32
  Speaker 4: you went to go get in that ste test. Okay,
• 44:35
  Speaker 4: Lock this woman up, all right, put her under the jail.
• 44:37
  Speaker 4: There's too many women out here who are real victims,
• 44:40
  Speaker 4: who actually are dealing with the real trauma of being
• 44:42
  Speaker 4: sexually assaulted. And you out here lying simply because you
• 44:44
  Speaker 4: cheated on your husband and did the raw Dog Roulet
• 44:47
  Speaker 4: with another man.
• 44:48
  Speaker 5: Huh.
• 44:49
  Speaker 4: Please give Renee Dawn starg Lawn the biggest he hull.
• 44:59
  Speaker 9: What a world living man.
• 45:02
  Speaker 5: Wild?
• 45:03
  Speaker 9: You want to play a game I do? All right,
• 45:06
  Speaker 9: Let's play a game of guess what.
• 45:08
  Speaker 4: Rac Ise Don's Godlawn from South Dakota traveled all the
• 45:15
  Speaker 4: way to Temble, Florida, so she could do the raw
• 45:17
  Speaker 4: Dog Roulette with a side piece. Thought she called an STD,
• 45:20
  Speaker 4: so she lied about being raped so she could get
• 45:23
  Speaker 4: a free STD test.
• 45:24
  Speaker 9: Mona, guess what race is?
• 45:28
  Speaker 17: She is a Caucasian from the Coffeest Mountains.
• 45:32
  Speaker 9: One of your Coop's finest creations.
• 45:34
  Speaker 4: Mona says, Jesus, okay, dj NB, well don't call me
• 45:45
  Speaker 4: white girl and dj NB, yes, sir, you're both correct.
• 45:49
  Speaker 9: Renee and Cau. She got made by yall Coop on
• 45:56
  Speaker 9: her ass.
• 45:57
  Speaker 5: She Jesus right, what did I win?
• 46:01
  Speaker 9: Nothing?
• 46:02
  Speaker 5: Nothing? Anyway nothing. It's the breakfast Club Morning, the Breakfast
• 46:06
  Speaker 5: clubdj MV Charlamage the God we are the Breakfast Club.
• 46:14
  Speaker 5: We got a special guests in the building, the legendary
• 46:16
  Speaker 5: TOAGP Henson.
• 46:17
  Speaker 9: Well, come, how long are you?
• 46:19
  Speaker 5: How are you feeling?
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: I feel great? I feel great.
• 46:22
  Speaker 16: You know, whenever I come to New York, and especially
• 46:25
  Speaker 16: when I'm coming for Boys Lawn Tension Foundation, you know,
• 46:27
  Speaker 16: we're coming to.
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: Spread joy, spread a message that it's okay not to
• 46:31
  Speaker 3: be okay.
• 46:32
  Speaker 9: That's right.
• 46:32
  Speaker 3: You started that conversation.
• 46:34
  Speaker 9: For people who don't know what the Boy's lawnce Tension
• 46:36
  Speaker 9: Foundation is.
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: Okay, Yes, Bory's Lawrence Henson Foundation.
• 46:40
  Speaker 16: We launched in twenty eighteen, and it's really to eradicate
• 46:44
  Speaker 16: the stigma around mental illness in the black community and
• 46:47
  Speaker 16: to bring more awareness to mental wellness and the Black
• 46:50
  Speaker 16: communit because you know, we don't talk about it. We
• 46:52
  Speaker 16: suffer in silence, We isolate, and we try to be
• 46:55
  Speaker 16: strong and we're dying. So out of my own necessity
• 47:00
  Speaker 16: for my own help mental wellness and my son, I
• 47:05
  Speaker 16: realized there was no real help out there for us.
• 47:08
  Speaker 16: So I had to do something about it. So my
• 47:10
  Speaker 16: best friend since the seventh grade, Tracy J. We launched
• 47:14
  Speaker 16: the Boards Lawntenson Foundation to hopefully help an underserved community.
• 47:21
  Speaker 5: How's your son doing.
• 47:22
  Speaker 3: He's so great, great, Yeah, he's so great.
• 47:25
  Speaker 16: He's maneuvering through you know, trying to become being a
• 47:27
  Speaker 16: young black man in America. You know when those rose
• 47:30
  Speaker 16: colored glasses come on. I'm sure you remember those days.
• 47:33
  Speaker 16: But he's maneuvered through it pretty well.
• 47:35
  Speaker 9: Did he have a moment, Oh, he had a huge moment.
• 47:37
  Speaker 16: But I was he picked the right mother, because you know,
• 47:41
  Speaker 16: and it's interesting because I had an older gentleman tell
• 47:44
  Speaker 16: me years ago when I was on the television show
• 47:47
  Speaker 16: called The Division. It was my first series regular, and
• 47:50
  Speaker 16: I came in upset about something with Marcel. He was
• 47:52
  Speaker 16: little at the time, and this guy said, don't you
• 47:55
  Speaker 16: ever give up on him, don't ever give up. I
• 47:57
  Speaker 16: don't even know if Mark is still alive to this day,
• 47:59
  Speaker 16: but I just remember him.
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: I never forget him saying that.
• 48:02
  Speaker 16: Every time I would have these issues with my son,
• 48:05
  Speaker 16: I was wanting to choke him, I would hear his voice,
• 48:07
  Speaker 16: don't ever give up, and you can't give up on
• 48:10
  Speaker 16: your kids. You just gotta pray. Tracy sent me something
• 48:13
  Speaker 16: or was it you a Pam? Somebody sent me something
• 48:15
  Speaker 16: about I think it was a pastor who was saying,
• 48:18
  Speaker 16: don't give up on your baby.
• 48:19
  Speaker 3: I don't care if they strung out on.
• 48:20
  Speaker 16: Drugs, whatever their problem is, you wrap them up in prayer.
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: Don't ever give up on your children.
• 48:27
  Speaker 9: So what if you have to? Damn?
• 48:28
  Speaker 5: Can you set?
• 48:29
  Speaker 9: Maybe think?
• 48:29
  Speaker 5: Can you set boundaries with your kids that you need?
• 48:31
  Speaker 16: You have to set boundaries. You must set boundaries.
• 48:34
  Speaker 5: What type of boundaries?
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: Boundaries?
• 48:36
  Speaker 8: Like?
• 48:37
  Speaker 16: What are you willing to accept and not accept? You
• 48:39
  Speaker 16: have to because these kids nowadays come so privileged. They're
• 48:43
  Speaker 16: not like us now. I was talking to somebody the
• 48:45
  Speaker 16: other day. I was like, I don't even think. I
• 48:47
  Speaker 16: can't remember the last time I saw a group of
• 48:49
  Speaker 16: children playing outside real. Yeah, you have to because they
• 48:54
  Speaker 16: have these devices now, which is not good for the mental.
• 48:58
  Speaker 3: So these kids are they don't even know what fresh
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: air is anymore. I don't think. You know, it's just
• 49:04
  Speaker 3: a weird time to.
• 49:05
  Speaker 5: Be a that's true.
• 49:06
  Speaker 9: You don't even tell you smell like outside. They don't
• 49:08
  Speaker 9: go out there.
• 49:10
  Speaker 16: I can't remember the last time I seen girls playing
• 49:12
  Speaker 16: double Dutch, or or just riding bits or anything.
• 49:16
  Speaker 4: I guess the scariest thing is you don't want them
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: to like make any mistakes that's going to really cost
• 49:21
  Speaker 4: them while they're coming on us.
• 49:22
  Speaker 16: Correct absolutely that that was your mother's fear. That's every
• 49:26
  Speaker 16: parent's fear, that was your father's fear. That's all of
• 49:28
  Speaker 16: our fear forever. Like my mother to this day, she
• 49:32
  Speaker 16: tracks me. I'm fifty three, she tracks me. She's like,
• 49:34
  Speaker 16: I just feel so much better knowing where you are,
• 49:37
  Speaker 16: and when I see you're not moving, I can sleep
• 49:39
  Speaker 16: at night.
• 49:39
  Speaker 3: It never ends, It never ends.
• 49:42
  Speaker 4: What you know, we don't talk about enough the resources
• 49:44
  Speaker 4: that are available for the friends and family that have
• 49:48
  Speaker 4: to deal with folks who have mental health issues.
• 49:51
  Speaker 16: Exactly, you know, because it takes a toll on them,
• 49:54
  Speaker 16: especially parents, because you feel like I can't fix my child.
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: It's something that I did wrong.
• 49:59
  Speaker 16: It's really hard because that's your job to protect your
• 50:04
  Speaker 16: kids and save them from the you know, mishaps, and
• 50:06
  Speaker 16: when you can't, you feel inadequate or you feel like
• 50:11
  Speaker 16: if you're not.
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: Doing your job. It's hard.
• 50:13
  Speaker 16: Parenting is not easy, and then being a single parent,
• 50:16
  Speaker 16: I promise you I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: I wouldn't. I just wouldn't.
• 50:21
  Speaker 16: It's it's first of all, children need both parents boy,
• 50:25
  Speaker 16: boys and girls, I don't care. You need both of
• 50:27
  Speaker 16: your parents. If you're not living in the same household,
• 50:31
  Speaker 16: you still need both. I mean, you know, regardless of
• 50:34
  Speaker 16: whether your relationship works out, that has nothing to do
• 50:36
  Speaker 16: with the kid. You still have to show up both
• 50:38
  Speaker 16: parents for that child. Unfortunately, my son's father was murdered,
• 50:41
  Speaker 16: so I didn't have an option. But yeah, it's hard.
• 50:45
  Speaker 16: It's tough, especially me being a boy mom.
• 50:50
  Speaker 3: I need the man. I can't teach him how to
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: be a man. I don't know how to be a man,
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: you know.
• 50:55
  Speaker 16: And that was the that was the hardest struggle for us,
• 50:58
  Speaker 16: because when he was becoming a man, he's looking at
• 51:00
  Speaker 16: me like, you can't tell me anything.
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: What can you tell me your girl?
• 51:03
  Speaker 16: You know? It's just the dynamic is it gets a
• 51:05
  Speaker 16: little difficult in the young adult years.
• 51:07
  Speaker 5: Like Chelomy was, you're saying, you know, so what do
• 51:09
  Speaker 5: you do to make sure your mental is good?
• 51:11
  Speaker 16: Remember when I went to BALI you there for a
• 51:14
  Speaker 16: long time too, for a whole month.
• 51:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I had to.
• 51:17
  Speaker 17: I had to.
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: I was coming apart.
• 51:19
  Speaker 16: At the seams and I didn't realize it because I
• 51:22
  Speaker 16: was working and God is God is amazing. Because God
• 51:26
  Speaker 16: will put you in a situation where you have to
• 51:28
  Speaker 16: sit down. And I have been working, and it's doing
• 51:33
  Speaker 16: this for over twenty years. I have been working NonStop
• 51:36
  Speaker 16: my entire career, right, And it was just this past
• 51:40
  Speaker 16: year where I didn't have a lot. You know, I
• 51:42
  Speaker 16: did color purple when I was just kind of like
• 51:45
  Speaker 16: sitting around and not sitting around. I had other stuff
• 51:48
  Speaker 16: to do, but as far as like a call sheet
• 51:50
  Speaker 16: and showing up and knowing lines and that kind of
• 51:52
  Speaker 16: work acting gigs. And it was for a reason because
• 51:56
  Speaker 16: I needed to. I needed to take care of me.
• 51:58
  Speaker 16: I was not in a good place mentally. I just
• 52:01
  Speaker 16: really wasn't. And thank God I had that time to
• 52:06
  Speaker 16: take care because Lord knows where I would be if
• 52:08
  Speaker 16: I didn't have the time to really listen to myself
• 52:13
  Speaker 16: and take time for myself. And I think we live
• 52:16
  Speaker 16: in such a grind society. It's all about grinding it.
• 52:19
  Speaker 16: You can sleep when you're in that box. Well, if
• 52:21
  Speaker 16: you don't sleep now, you might get to that box
• 52:23
  Speaker 16: a little sooner than you're playing.
• 52:25
  Speaker 4: When you finally slowed down, you were you surprised that
• 52:28
  Speaker 4: you weren't happy?
• 52:30
  Speaker 8: Uh?
• 52:31
  Speaker 16: I was at first, but then I wasn't because once
• 52:34
  Speaker 16: you sit down and you go, well, how did you
• 52:37
  Speaker 16: expect to be happy if you weren't paying attention Like
• 52:39
  Speaker 16: I wasn't tracking my feelings.
• 52:41
  Speaker 3: I was just working. And when you finally make it,
• 52:43
  Speaker 3: you have this dream. I don't care what it is.
• 52:45
  Speaker 4: You could be.
• 52:45
  Speaker 16: It could be to be a chef or whatever, but
• 52:48
  Speaker 16: you have this dream and it finally comes true. It's
• 52:51
  Speaker 16: like I can't stop now because what if the phone
• 52:53
  Speaker 16: stops ringing?
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean.
• 52:55
  Speaker 16: So you're not really paying attention to you're not doing
• 52:57
  Speaker 16: a mental check. And then, like I said, God did
• 53:01
  Speaker 16: it for me. I didn't have the jobs piled up,
• 53:03
  Speaker 16: and I literally had to stop and check myself. I
• 53:07
  Speaker 16: wasn't doing well, and I knew because I was looking
• 53:10
  Speaker 16: at the people around me, and they were like walking
• 53:12
  Speaker 16: on eggshells and I'm a cool person, like I'm I'm
• 53:15
  Speaker 16: I'm the most fun person, but they were concerned because
• 53:17
  Speaker 16: I was a short fuse any little thing. I was like,
• 53:19
  Speaker 16: I'm so annoyed. I was annoyed about every little thing.
• 53:22
  Speaker 16: And it was like like I could even feel myself
• 53:26
  Speaker 16: wanting to get into like arguments on the streets and
• 53:29
  Speaker 16: you know, nowadays, that's not safe.
• 53:32
  Speaker 3: It could be the end of your life, you know.
• 53:34
  Speaker 16: And so it was things like little things were triggering me,
• 53:37
  Speaker 16: little things that once upon a time would just you know,
• 53:41
  Speaker 16: be water under the bridge, water off my back, but whatever.
• 53:44
  Speaker 3: But I was literally everything was.
• 53:47
  Speaker 16: Just just I felt like I could just run through
• 53:50
  Speaker 16: a wall.
• 53:54
  Speaker 4: A lot of people, don't you know a lot of
• 53:55
  Speaker 4: people woulody else.
• 53:57
  Speaker 3: No, no, no, no.
• 53:58
  Speaker 16: I'm the type like if I don't feel I stay home.
• 54:02
  Speaker 16: I don't put my own other people, Like if I'm
• 54:05
  Speaker 16: not in the best move, I want to be the
• 54:06
  Speaker 16: type of person when I come into a room and
• 54:09
  Speaker 16: I leave, everybody's much better after my presence, right, And
• 54:12
  Speaker 16: if I can't give that, then I need to stay home.
• 54:16
  Speaker 5: We got to Roger p Henson when we come back,
• 54:18
  Speaker 5: don't move. It's to breakfast club. Good morning morning. Everybody
• 54:20
  Speaker 5: is dj en v Charlamage the God. We are the
• 54:23
  Speaker 5: breakfast club.
• 54:27
  Speaker 9: What is joy joints?
• 54:29
  Speaker 3: Joy joints?
• 54:30
  Speaker 16: Okay, this is what I love because this is a
• 54:33
  Speaker 16: time for us to really celebrate us and to find
• 54:39
  Speaker 16: that joy and remind ourselves that that joy is our birthright.
• 54:43
  Speaker 16: It's something that we were born with and it's something
• 54:45
  Speaker 16: that is ours and so across the nation. We want
• 54:49
  Speaker 16: people to if you have if you're at work, it
• 54:52
  Speaker 16: can be an office group, it could be friends. Remember
• 54:55
  Speaker 16: how I said, we don't see people playing outside anymore
• 54:57
  Speaker 16: that we're trying to recreate that. Get the kids have kickball,
• 55:00
  Speaker 16: you know, go outside and play kickball or spades games,
• 55:04
  Speaker 16: double dutch, whatever it is that brings you joy, get
• 55:07
  Speaker 16: a group of people and do it.
• 55:09
  Speaker 3: And we're all.
• 55:10
  Speaker 16: Connecting through the Boris Lawrence Henson Foundation to raise awareness of.
• 55:15
  Speaker 3: Just finding your joy, tapping back into.
• 55:18
  Speaker 9: Your joy like a party.
• 55:20
  Speaker 16: Oh, it's a huge party, and a nationwide party on this.
• 55:25
  Speaker 9: Yes.
• 55:25
  Speaker 16: Kate Spade has been our partner since twenty a twenty
• 55:30
  Speaker 16: twenty two, and they have really just been incredible partners.
• 55:34
  Speaker 16: Case Bade New York justs been everything. They are the
• 55:37
  Speaker 16: reason why we're able to erect these wellness pods.
• 55:41
  Speaker 3: At HBCU campuses.
• 55:42
  Speaker 16: They've been our partners in that and just in our
• 55:45
  Speaker 16: partners and getting the message of mental wellness.
• 55:47
  Speaker 5: And talk about that what you're doing on those HBCU campuses. Okay,
• 55:50
  Speaker 5: and the first campuses you're started.
• 55:52
  Speaker 16: With, Yeah, we started with Alabama State University. We erected
• 55:56
  Speaker 16: the first pod back April and it's been a huge success.
• 56:01
  Speaker 16: We're interested in the universities that have who are very
• 56:05
  Speaker 16: serious or invested in their student body mental wellness, because
• 56:10
  Speaker 16: it's one thing for us to bring the pod, but
• 56:13
  Speaker 16: now we need your help to keep it going and
• 56:15
  Speaker 16: make sure that the kids are getting, you know, the
• 56:18
  Speaker 16: help and the.
• 56:18
  Speaker 3: Resources that they need.
• 56:20
  Speaker 16: And our next stop is Hampton and we're doing this
• 56:23
  Speaker 16: one in November, and this is our second university.
• 56:26
  Speaker 9: We are you allowed to do it at Hampton.
• 56:30
  Speaker 16: I knew he was gonna bring something. He got trying
• 56:34
  Speaker 16: to give me back because he missed me.
• 56:35
  Speaker 3: On his wall.
• 56:37
  Speaker 9: Wow, people think.
• 56:41
  Speaker 5: Lost last weekend? You know, was it HAMPTONWI game. It's
• 56:44
  Speaker 5: kind of like.
• 56:44
  Speaker 3: Y'all number one on in anything.
• 56:46
  Speaker 16: Damn joy joy we have we're here, just bread joy.
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: He tried his helmet, helmet, get.
• 57:07
  Speaker 17: That water bucket out of it.
• 57:12
  Speaker 16: Anyway, he threw me off My joys exactly. Oh, they're
• 57:19
  Speaker 16: like these containers, you know, those containers that everybody's making
• 57:22
  Speaker 16: into homes now. So we found a company that's side
• 57:26
  Speaker 16: container bills and they are amazing. We had a student
• 57:30
  Speaker 16: from Alabama State University who's a visual artist and she
• 57:34
  Speaker 16: made the whole mural which is so beautiful. But in
• 57:38
  Speaker 16: the respite pod, you can have meditation, you can do yoga.
• 57:43
  Speaker 3: We have two actual rest pods.
• 57:46
  Speaker 16: We're student because you know, when you're in college, you're
• 57:49
  Speaker 16: always around people. You know, you have roommates, it's study
• 57:52
  Speaker 16: halls to students, and sometimes you just need to get
• 57:55
  Speaker 16: away from all of that, and so we have these
• 57:57
  Speaker 16: rooms where you can go respite.
• 57:59
  Speaker 3: You can you can.
• 58:01
  Speaker 16: Meet with a therapist virtually or in person, or you
• 58:04
  Speaker 16: can just go in there and just relax and chill.
• 58:07
  Speaker 9: Sometimes you need.
• 58:09
  Speaker 16: Yes, yes, yes, So it's a safe space for students
• 58:12
  Speaker 16: to go when they feel stressed, well, when it's too much.
• 58:14
  Speaker 5: How many HBCUs are you going to for this? That's yes,
• 58:18
  Speaker 5: that's dope. The students need that because because it gets stressful,
• 58:21
  Speaker 5: and especially for students that's never been alone, going to
• 58:25
  Speaker 5: those schools and not knowing people gives you anxiety having
• 58:28
  Speaker 5: to pass and knowing that if you get a lower
• 58:30
  Speaker 5: grade than a certain you lose your scholarship, and to
• 58:33
  Speaker 5: meet a new friends. So I think that's that's amazing.
• 58:35
  Speaker 16: Yeah, And it's also for students to feel like they belong. Correct,
• 58:40
  Speaker 16: The dropout rate is insane, and it's I think it's
• 58:44
  Speaker 16: a lot of it is.
• 58:45
  Speaker 3: It's you know, it's a lot on these students.
• 58:47
  Speaker 16: And now throw all social media in the mix on
• 58:50
  Speaker 16: top of all the other things.
• 58:52
  Speaker 3: You know. So we're just trying to help.
• 58:54
  Speaker 16: We're just trying to save us and save our future
• 58:57
  Speaker 16: by saving these kids.
• 58:59
  Speaker 9: I feel like you should come out with a line
• 59:01
  Speaker 9: of pre rolls called Joy Joints.
• 59:02
  Speaker 16: George Joints, Yes, okay, Joy Joints, a lot.
• 59:07
  Speaker 9: Of pre rolls. I got it based medicine for the anxiety.
• 59:12
  Speaker 5: Depression and stuff like that.
• 59:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, they are.
• 59:14
  Speaker 9: That'd be dope. You also have the women I was
• 59:17
  Speaker 9: Joy Challenge.
• 59:18
  Speaker 3: Oh absolutely, yeah, you.
• 59:19
  Speaker 9: Started that last bring. How did somebody join that?
• 59:22
  Speaker 3: Bors Lhenson Foundation dot org. And you can find out
• 59:27
  Speaker 3: how you can sign up for the Joy Joints or
• 59:29
  Speaker 3: how you just if you just want to donate.
• 59:31
  Speaker 5: You know. Tyler Perry spoke about something a couple of
• 59:34
  Speaker 5: days ago.
• 59:41
  Speaker 9: Can you talk about your Broadway show?
• 59:44
  Speaker 8: That?
• 59:45
  Speaker 9: Okay, okay, I.
• 59:46
  Speaker 16: Am so proud to be a producer of a Broadway show.
• 59:50
  Speaker 16: What I love about this show is it because it
• 59:52
  Speaker 16: showcases these women, and I love bringing life to hidden figures.
• 59:57
  Speaker 3: You know, I grew up in d C.
• 59:58
  Speaker 16: I used to get my hair braided, but but it
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 16: was always over somebody's house, a friend's house. I never
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 16: really knew about the hair braiding salons hung out millions
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 16: of times in Parlem and I would walk past the salons.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 16: I just walked past them, you know. But this play
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 16: brings such a light to these women. And another thing,
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 16: when you think about Ice and deportation, you never think
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 16: about us because the only images they always show are
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 16: the Latin community, right, But this play showcases that these
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 16: women are undocumented. They're in this country and they're trying
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 16: to make a living. This is how they're doing their
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 16: braiding hair. And in the play you see that they
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 16: have an issue with Ice and their documentation. I never
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 16: think about that. Do you think about that?
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 4: No, one time when they I think it was was
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 4: it the Haitian migrats who they say were coming over.
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 9: That was a couple of years ago. It was like
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 9: a mention.
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 3: It It was just a mention.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 16: But whenever Ice shows up, you never see it's always
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 16: they're coming down on a Latin community.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 3: So I never even thought about that.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 16: I never even thought about undocumented black people in the US,
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 16: you know what I mean. And these women literally just
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 16: trying to make a living, and so that was very
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 16: interesting to me.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 3: Not only that, yes, bringing life.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 16: To their their story and their lives and these incredible women.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 3: But I love hair. I almost became a cosmetologist.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 16: I mean I almost went to school for cosmetology, but
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 16: I missed it by one year. And I have a
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 16: hair care line, so it really makes it was a
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 16: no brainer for me to produce the show.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 5: And congratulations on the haircairline won a bunch of awards.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah, are you using it at your household?
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 5: I did try some my kids as well. You know what,
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 5: my daughter had a problem with Boyd.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 9: And Hampton People's live for.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 5: Because I actually had to go and get everybody's hair
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 5: product because my daughter had I don't know what it was,
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 5: but she had something in the hair and we went
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 5: and got everybody's here. I mean I didn't got the Brat.
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 5: I didn't even know the Brat had a hair products.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 5: I got picked up the Brat hair products. Porscha has
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 5: hair products. I picked up because my wife sent me
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 5: to the store and I just looked for anybody black
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 5: and I just got on the products.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 3: But you love TPAH. But anyway, that's what you forgot
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 3: to say.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 5: I will hold up whole lot of thought. We got
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 5: more with Taraji p Henson when we come back. It's
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 5: the Breakfast Club, Good Morning, wake up, good morning on
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 5: the Breakfast Club, DJ MV, Charlamagne, the Gods. We're still
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 5: kicking it with Taraji p Henson.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 16: Makes stand off for everybody else because t p A
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 16: specializes in scalp care. Honey, you gotta clean your scalp first,
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 16: and you have a head that is naked.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 10: You can see.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 5: Do you have anything?
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 17: He has a scout doesn't it.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 5: You still got to clean.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 9: And moisturizers don't get dry.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 3: That's what TPS.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 5: You got something for him? Boy, that one.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 3: This is what I came.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 9: But that but that's another way to bring joy.
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 4: Oh.
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 3: Absolutely, I believe self care.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 16: Hair care is self care, especially for women from ethnic
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 16: backgrounds because we have curly, thick, big hair and we
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 16: look at doing our hair as a chore and so
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 16: with the TPH line, it's more of it's like a
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 16: spa experience, so you pamper yourself from scout to toe
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 16: that's you do not have a body line too.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 3: So the whole line was created to change.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 16: The narrative of you know, taking care of yourself as
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 16: a chore and look at it more as self care.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 3: Like take yourself to the spa. And the reason I came.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 16: Up with that is because my care care line launched
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 16: during the pandemic. People were afraid to go to salons
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 16: and be around other people. So it was more like
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 16: bring the salon home to you at an affordable price. Absolutely,
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 16: you have a scout right.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 4: Yes, But I'm talking about guys that use like the
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 4: just for men in the Beijing, like will it wash
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 4: it out?
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 3: It'll wash it all off? Damn Yeah, I think I
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 3: hear soap and rain.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 16: Yeah, you try to be funny.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 4: We had a whole conversation about this because I think
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 4: a lot of gods they're doing this not they're getting
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 4: their transplants into Beijing and the gentlemen, and I'm like,
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 4: I'm like why, like who are y'all doing this for?
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 9: And so a lot of women call them fires. They
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 9: don't even like that.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 4: They rather the guys just just bed be bald or
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 4: go to the salt and pepper bag.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 3: Would rather us. Just wear our hair and not wear
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 3: weeds and stuff.
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 16: Oh I don't care, you know, but I hear that,
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 16: you know a lot of minutes.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 3: Just just be natural.
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 4: They don't believe that. I think they just I think
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 4: you should do whatever it is that makes you happy.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 4: It makes you happy unless you're a man. If you're
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 4: a man, you should let the salt and pepper.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 8: Girl.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 3: Men can't do.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 9: Because it looks ridiculous.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 3: That's terrible.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 9: They haven't learned how to blend it in, like it don't.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 17: Look natural good.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 16: You don't mind if it looks if it looks good,
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 16: because some of those wigs look really good.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to say this with a straight face.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 16: I'm really not trying to be funny because I believe
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 16: people should do what makes them feel good. And if
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 16: if women can't wear laceron, men can to.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 5: Baby hair. They've been going crazy with the baby.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 16: Hair is a little out of control. The baby they're bangs,
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 16: they're not baby baby.
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 5: Going down to your mouth like this, your nod, like
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 5: your cheeks.
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 16: It's getting crazy now, you know what you know what
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 16: it is when the baby here meet the eyebrown.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's getting crazy now, Judge some people like it.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 16: And if that makes you happy, wear that baby, bang baby,
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 16: because that that is a.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 3: Bang on your forehead.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 16: But if that makes you feel good, wear that bang
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 16: baby and get you some TPH products to slick it down.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 4: That's right, that's right now. World Mental Health Day is
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 4: coming up. Yeah, what are some things people could do
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 4: in their community to create their own joy joints and
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 4: joy challenges?
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 3: Get the best group.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 16: If you like space, you like oh no, whatever it
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 16: is that brings you joy. It could be sitting outside,
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 16: sitting on the stoop talking, whatever it is, whatever brings
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 16: you joy.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 17: I can't tell you.
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 3: What brings you, Joe, I know what brings me joy.
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 17: I want to play.
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 3: I want to do double dutch. I want to jump
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 3: double ducks.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 9: You still doing nothing?
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 16: Play jacks? I haven't in a while, but I would
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 16: to bring myself joy. I'm willing to do any thing
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 16: people do. Child Absolutely never let your in a child die.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 5: People don't double dust, nor do they know how to
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 5: double dutch and know and that which is crazy because
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 5: when we do the events, I bring this double dutch team,
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 5: husband and wife, and they teach people how to double dutch,
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 5: men and women, and they teach you the easy way
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 5: how to how to? You know, because I'm double handed,
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 5: so I don't know how to. I don't know how
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 5: to do it. But but it teach you because it's
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 5: funny and it's an exercise. And a lot of people
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 5: that they don't know how to do it.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 3: No, they don't because people aren't playing outside anymore.
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 5: That's correct.
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 4: I like what you said about that, because you know
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 4: a lot of people are afraid to do that because
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 4: they're in a child still needs so broken. Yeah, so
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 4: what do you do when you're in a child still
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 4: needs to be loved?
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 3: You have to nurture it.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 16: Have to nurture that little child, pay attention to it.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 16: That child cries out for attention all the time. I
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 16: play still to this day.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 3: That's what my salon is about.
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 16: I'm a salon in my house and I get my
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 16: friends tease me all the time because I have a
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 16: square like a register. It's just I used to play
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 16: register when I was a kid, and as I grew up,
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 16: I was like, I'm going to always purchase the things
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 16: that I couldn't afford. When I was a kid, I
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 16: was told no so much because we couldn't afford it,
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 16: and when I can afford, I'm going to get it.
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 16: And so my salon is more like my playroom, and
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 16: that's where I go when things become too much.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 3: I go in there and I tell people, don't call me.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 3: I have clients.
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 9: And what do you do do you go through a whole?
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 16: Like ye have an appointment book and I make up appointments.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 3: I go there, I let my.
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 16: Inner child play, and I have these dolls, these heads,
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 16: and I do their hair like one may have a
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 16: wet set appointment, one may have.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 3: A die, I may have to cut.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 5: You do by yourself.
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah wow.
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 16: I went to the University of YouTube and I learned
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 16: a lot. I graduated magna cum lati, so I know a.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 5: Lot of things. Over your house, Oh yes, bring the
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 5: boat drop off.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 3: I was like that, Why did I have a girl?
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 3: It was a hard man like miss me. With all
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 3: of that, I'm not interested.
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 5: Girls are hard. I got four of them.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 4: And my oldest is at that age where she don't
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 4: want nothing to do with daddy.
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 5: She's fifteen. Oh my god, and that's heartbreaking.
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 3: Your put your seatbelt on.
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 9: My wife says, it'll it'll go away. But how long though, Jez,
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 9: you never know.
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 5: Yeah, she gonna get a boyfriend.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 16: About five years, it could be tens, usually a ten
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 16: year pretty much.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 5: Wait till she's twenty five that she's gonna get married
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 5: or not.
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 3: Yes, because it's true she got a baby. It's just
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 3: like hang it up for the twenties.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 16: Just don't watch, just wait for her to come back,
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 16: like twenty eight, twenty nine.
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 5: Stop crying out.
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 9: Yeah, I don't think people realize how heartbreaking.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 4: That's something that fathers don't talk about it enough, Like
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 4: that's heartbreaking when you're your little girl all of a
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 4: sudden don't want nothing to do with you and act
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 4: like they don't even like you. Would you would you
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 4: say that the boy Thorntento Foundation is your life's work.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 16: Yeah, definitely my life a life purpose, a purpose, a
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 16: clear purpose. Like I thought it was acting I'm going
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 16: to touch the people through my work, and of course
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 16: I did, but I just felt like that was to
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 16: bring me here because this feels really fulfilling, like I really,
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 16: because you could do a performance, will you touch somebody?
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 3: Will you change my I don't know, I hope.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 16: So, but this is the work that is really changing
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 16: and saving lives and I feel good about what I'm doing.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 16: I feel important important, I know, I know, but this
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 16: really makes me feel like I have a life purpose
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 16: beyond vanity and being pretty in front of a camera.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 3: Or what does she have on?
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 9: Or you know, are you almost Hollywood?
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 3: Almost is anyway? But I still got some jobs to complete.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 16: I have some things that I'm working on, but I know, yeah,
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 16: it's it's getting to the point where I'm ready to
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 16: let these kids have it. You know, I'm looking for
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 16: my exit stres ategy. I don't want to be doing
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 16: this one, not on a grind now, you know. I
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 16: want to dip back in when I'm ready, when it's
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 16: a project that I feel so inclined that I will
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 16: come out of my.
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 3: Retirement, you know.
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 16: But I'm literally ready to go stick my toes and
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  Speaker 2: Hey, no period, get that water bucket.
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  Speaker 5: Club watering the breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be
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  Speaker 5: the same morning. Everybody's dj n V Charlamagne gud We
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  Speaker 5: are the Breakfast Club. We got some special guest joining
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  Speaker 5: us this morning.
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  Speaker 9: Yes, indeed we have Queen.
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  Speaker 5: Of Four welcome back, so glad to be back. And
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  Speaker 5: Stephanie mcral welcome.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you so much for having us.
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  Speaker 19: You've always supported the wellness for our communities, and thank you.
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  Speaker 19: And I'm welcome to see you old. I'm welcome to CEO. Together.
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  Speaker 19: We are partnering in warm, a work of warm as
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  Speaker 19: we're coming forth to bring awareness to Domestic Violence month,
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  Speaker 19: you know, and within that in October. It's happening right now,
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  Speaker 19: Thursday the fifth. We're coming to us spectacular work today
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  Speaker 19: of Haarlem healing.
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  Speaker 10: What is that?
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  Speaker 5: Tell us what that is?
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  Speaker 19: Well, we're coming together and we're going to share ways
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  Speaker 19: in which to protect ourselves, to heal ourselves. And it's
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 19: a family affair. Although the women, you know, you have
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  Speaker 19: all the women that have been challenged that they've been
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 19: murdered basically in their own homes, so there's violence in
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 19: our homes and we have to heal as people, as family.
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  Speaker 19: So it's not we're pointing to finger at our men,
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  Speaker 19: but we're looking at us as a community. What can
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  Speaker 19: we all do collectively to protect one another? Because when
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  Speaker 19: you take a woman's life in your own life and
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  Speaker 19: then the children are highly in danger. So we're coming
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  Speaker 19: together as me a holders to killer for the last
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  Speaker 19: fifty years, and you're doing your work in community building
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  Speaker 19: and not for profit and Warm. But it's been over
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  Speaker 19: twelve years, and it's been.
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  Speaker 17: Actually thirteen years is thirteen.
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  Speaker 2: I gave birth to Warm in twenty ten, coming out
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  Speaker 2: of this cycle of domestic violence. And when I came
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 2: back to Harlem, I didn't see any women that looked
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 2: like me. I didn't see any representation of women of color,
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 2: and I certainly didn't see any lived experienced women. Where
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 2: I come from, it is you are to be quiet
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 2: and it is a shame. And we're saying that domestic
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 2: violence is not a shame, it's a crime, and we
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  Speaker 2: want to expose it for what it is because women
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  Speaker 2: are dying. This book right here, Every woman in this
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  Speaker 2: book has been murdered. Did the candlelight Visuals did the
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  Speaker 2: funerals for mother and children. So it's a critical issue
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  Speaker 2: here and I'm so honored to you to have us here.
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  Speaker 2: And one of the things that we want to talk
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  Speaker 2: about it is important to feel. You gotta feel first,
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  Speaker 2: then you got to deal, and then you got to
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  Speaker 2: come to that table of healing our body minus spirits.
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  Speaker 17: So that's what we're going to do in Harlem this year.
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  Speaker 2: We in Harlem on October fifth is bring our community
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  Speaker 2: together because we've been devastated.
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  Speaker 5: Let me ask you a question. When you deal with
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  Speaker 5: people that's been affected by domestic violence, right especially now
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  Speaker 5: culture black men, why don't you think people shun them
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  Speaker 5: enough or shove those cases enough. A lot of times
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 5: you see a lot of domestic violence cases get swept
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 5: under the rug. A lot of times you see domestic
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 5: violent cases people get plead out to lesser charges. Why
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 5: do you think that happens so much in our community?
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 5: And why don't you think it's spoken about more in
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 5: our community?
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  Speaker 2: Well, the first thing is it is an uncomfortable conversation
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  Speaker 2: and a lot of times, because you're dealing with women
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  Speaker 2: and children who are still considered to be second class
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  Speaker 2: citizens in the world.
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  Speaker 17: So they don't take it serious enough.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, Okay, well it just happened that brother got
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  Speaker 2: a little upset.
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  Speaker 17: It's not that bad, but we're saying that it is bad.
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  Speaker 2: It is a human right issue now because women and
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 2: children are being murdered. This book right here. All these
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  Speaker 2: women didn't make it out. And one of the things
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 2: that you know in our community, there's just so much
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 2: there's a lack, there's no resources there. So that's why
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 2: I came back to Harlem, because there wasn't anything in
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 2: Harlem for women like me that looked like me. So
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 2: we opened up the floodgates and God has sent hundreds
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  Speaker 2: and thousands of his children.
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  Speaker 19: In some people at the event, Oh we're gonna have well,
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 19: both of us are gonna be there, Yes of us there,
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 19: and then we're.
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  Speaker 3: Gonna have China.
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  Speaker 19: China is the CEO of doll House Cosmetics, and we
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  Speaker 19: invited her because she's she overcame domestic violence and as
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 19: a result, she became an entrepreneur to let you know
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  Speaker 19: that there's a future even though you've been beat down
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 19: and heard wounded in your own home, that you can
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  Speaker 19: rise up, you can overcome. And she has a healthy
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 19: relationship now, So that's an example. Then we have a moderator,
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 19: BB Smith's I'm going to moderate everything. And then we
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 19: have doctor Jeffrey Gernard. So he's going to be there
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 19: and he's going to talk about the psychology and the
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 19: emotions of it. I'm going to be talking about a
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  Speaker 19: way to bring medicine in our own homes. Buddhas medicine
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 19: is my specialty. And a lot of the anger and
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 19: the stresses is what we're eating and what's eating at us,
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 19: and so we're acting. One of the things I had
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  Speaker 19: asked you, I said, well, what time when does this happen.
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  Speaker 17: The violence?
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  Speaker 19: And you said on the weekend. So that's after having
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 19: some alcohol and some you know, something to numb the hurt.
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 19: Women and men are numbing a lot of the hurt
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 19: and so but then it doesn't numb out, it actually
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  Speaker 19: expresses itself further out. So I have a whole campaign
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  Speaker 19: of detoxing. We can detox the woundedness, the hurt that
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  Speaker 19: we're bringing attention that we can distress. We can release
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 19: our anger in a positive way, maybe walking, maybe you know,
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  Speaker 19: working together, fasting and cleansing. So I'm doing a seven
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  Speaker 19: day at.
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  Speaker 3: The end of October.
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  Speaker 17: End of October.
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  Speaker 19: Yes, we're gonna come together. We're gonna launch at warm
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  Speaker 19: at your location on twenty sixth Streel in Harlem. Yes,
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 19: and we're gonna launch our seven day detox, not seven
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 19: too much, not twenty one days.
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  Speaker 3: Help me do seven days.
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  Speaker 19: And every night we'll be talking to the women, encouraging them,
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  Speaker 19: strengthening them, because I always see the women as the
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  Speaker 19: healers of the home. The women can heal and if
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  Speaker 19: they raise their vibrations strong enough and we all come together,
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 19: then our men will respond to us differently because we'll
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  Speaker 19: be able.
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  Speaker 17: To help them.
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  Speaker 5: We're being to walk them off.
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  Speaker 19: The edge, walk them over the bridge, help them to detox.
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 19: Just something a green juice. Every day was stressed. Bring
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  Speaker 19: the stress of us all the way down, a heell
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 19: in barefloors. Have you not fight against yourself, but go
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 19: inside and see what are my issues? What did I
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 19: carry over through my mother and father fighting? And I'm
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 19: bringing that into my house in this generation. And then
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 19: it just keeps going from generation to generation. Because you
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 19: talked about the digital cycle with your own family, you
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 19: know that we're gone through that. We have a passion
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  Speaker 19: for this because we went through it ourself.
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 5: Know, somebody might say, well, you know, why should we
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 5: have to help the men that are going through their
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 5: own problems and beating us? Why should we have to
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 5: be the person to stop them from doing that. What
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  Speaker 5: would you say to that woman and people out there listening,
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  Speaker 5: You know.
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  Speaker 2: I would say that it is our duty to help
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 2: our men. It is our obligation to help our men.
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 2: It is what we've been called to do to help
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 2: our men. You know, everything is birth from a woman.
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 2: Everything comes from a woman. So we are talking about
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 2: if we are getting ourself right and we are doing
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 2: all the healing and eating right and fastening and praying,
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 2: and if we don't bring our men into this equation
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  Speaker 2: of healing, then who.
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  Speaker 17: Are we going to turn to.
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  Speaker 2: So it is our obligation to tell our brothers. Look,
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 2: and it is your obligation to tell your brothers, your
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  Speaker 2: brother that's domestic violence. For thirty something years, I'm into
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  Speaker 2: living in this world, and I didn't have the identification.
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  Speaker 17: It wasn't talked about, so we just thought that's what
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 17: happened in the household, right, That's what my mother and
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 17: my father do.
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  Speaker 2: So what our job is to bring our brothers into
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  Speaker 2: this equation.
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  Speaker 17: So yes, it is my obligation.
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  Speaker 4: You're not saying that if a woman is in that
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 4: situation and she's receiving abuse from the man, she should
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 4: just stay there and try to help the man.
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  Speaker 17: No, no, we're saying, get out.
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  Speaker 3: We can get you out.
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  Speaker 2: Let's get you out so you can get you some help.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 2: And thank you brother for bringing that around.
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  Speaker 17: Get you some help.
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  Speaker 2: What they said, when you get on a plane, put
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 2: your acciden on first. Okay, if I'm not breathing, then
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 2: nobody's brieving. So I got to breathe first. Then brother,
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 2: let me come back and help you. I had to
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 2: get out.
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  Speaker 17: I wanted to.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 2: I had a conversation with one of my abuses I'm
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 2: not mentioned in no names, and.
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 17: I asked him, why were you violating me like that?
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 17: And he said he was beating his mother.
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  Speaker 3: Oooh he just passed.
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  Speaker 17: I just like, okay, God, yeah you right now that statement.
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  Speaker 2: I got to go back and be available for our
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 2: brothers because they are hurt and it's deep.
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  Speaker 17: It ain't just happened. I get an abuse relationship.
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  Speaker 9: It just happened.
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  Speaker 17: That thing happened when I was five years old. It
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 17: was planned and.
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  Speaker 9: It was in depth.
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  Speaker 17: It was birthed in me because I've seen it.
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  Speaker 2: You know, when you spill something on the sofa, you
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 2: see the little stained, but you don't see it.
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 17: That thing is steep down in me.
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  Speaker 5: We have more with Queen of Four and Stephanie McGraw.
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 5: When we come back the event day of Harlem Healing.
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  Speaker 5: It's happened in Thursday, October fifth at the Harlem Hospital.
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  Speaker 5: We'll discuss with the more. So don't move. It's to
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  Speaker 5: Breakfast Club. Good morning morning everybody. It's DJ Envy Charlomagne
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 5: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We're still kicking
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 5: it with Queen of four and Stephanie McGraw Charlomagne.
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  Speaker 9: If somebody wants to get involved, how can they.
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  Speaker 17: Thank you for asking that question?
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  Speaker 2: So Warm is a five OC domestic violence organization. We're
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 2: at eight West one hundred and twenty sixth Street, that's
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 2: between Lennox and Fifth. We are open a nine to six.
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 2: We work on Saturdays from nine to two. But if
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 2: you want to get involved, you can reach out to
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 2: us that we are really matter at gmail dot com
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 2: or you can find us on Instagram. That's Warm and YC.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 2: We need everybody involved. Like I said at the top
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 2: of this segment, this is a human issue. This is
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 2: not just a domestic violence issue or man. It's a
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 2: human issue and it's affecting us from around the world.
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 17: So we just encourage everybody.
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  Speaker 2: You can reach out to us at nine one seven
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  Speaker 2: seven three six sixteen twenty one or nine one seven
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  Speaker 2: seven three six zero six eight zero.
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  Speaker 5: A lot of women, I'm sure feel like like you
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 5: said earlier, like you know, I mean, if this is
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 5: my family, I don't want to do this to my kids,
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 5: I don't want to break up the family. So what
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 5: would you tell a woman out there that's listening right now,
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 5: that might be going through similar situations, might be being
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 5: abused mentally, might be abusing, being amused, abused physically. How
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 5: would you tell them how to get out if they
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 5: don't know how?
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  Speaker 19: Well, it's not just we do one thing, it's a
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 19: multitude of things. First, you have to say no more.
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 19: He's standing for yourself and your own quiety soul and
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 19: said I'm because my children will be damaged from this.
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 3: When we spoke of them.
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  Speaker 19: One of the last cases, you said, the husband took
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 19: his life first took his wife's life, then he took
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 19: his one year old, and then he murdered his three
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 19: year old. So it goes to and he hinted his
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 19: life at the end of that. So it is something
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 19: that we have to act now. There is someone right
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 19: now who's listening to us and who's feeling I don't
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 19: know how to get out. You go to your mother,
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 19: you go to your friend, you come to warm you
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 19: come to Queen of four. We will will because everyone's
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 19: case is not the same, and sometimes you have help
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 19: that you're not even realizing. Sometimes women are fighting with
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 19: their own mothers, so they can even go to back
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 19: to their mother's home for help. So we as the
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 19: people must begin to heal. So every case is a
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 19: bit different. We're saying everyone come out on Wednesday on Thursday,
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 19: because it's going to be around the world. Everyone can
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 19: see it. It's free those who can get into the
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 19: building at Harlem High. The fact that Harlem Hospital open
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 19: up your doors for us to be able to do
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 19: something like this, it's saying that we need the community
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 19: to be the healers too. It's not just the hospital's
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 19: going to heal us. We as a people are going
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 19: to have to heal us. And that's why it's not
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 19: about fighting the men or fighting when we need families,
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 19: and you cannot have family of just women. You can
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 19: not have family with just men. You have to have
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 19: men who are healed up. You have to have women
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 19: who are healed up and prevent. Don't wait and tell,
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 19: because everyone's going through something. Sometimes yelling at someone will
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 19: breaks someone's self esteem. Someone just pushing them. It seems
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 19: so harmless, it's nothing to it. Sometimes they'll yell, they'll
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 19: fight all of this. Probably everyone who's coming out, they'll say,
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 19: it happened to me at least once in my life.
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 19: But maybe we can stop that when we start talking
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 19: about it and we move to shame. And so if
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 19: we move to shame and said this is what we're
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 19: going through, let's work it out, what I have is
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 19: it says black women are in a stead of emergency,
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 19: but families are instead of emergency. And the spirit of
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 19: Domestic Violence Month, I'm saying, get out the trap, overcome.
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 19: Now be the change that I'm a change making. We'll
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 19: all have the change making to do our poor. So
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 19: on the October twenty seventh, this is like part one.
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 19: Part one is just get all to Harlem. The drums
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 19: will be playing. You know, Bob WA's coming out. Who
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 19: else is Erica Porter's coming out. We are unifying. It's
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 19: not like one organization or one group of healers. And
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 19: it's where United Breakfast club saying I am supporting us.
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 19: This is a big deal because we respect you, we
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 19: love you, and we honor you and you honor us
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 19: as the people. So you're allowing us to be here
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 19: now it's going to help to stop some of the violence.
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 5: We're talking about the event and the time and where
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 5: people can come and how they can get involved. Absolutely,
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 5: thank you.
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 2: So it's going to be at Harlem Hospital. The doors
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 2: open at five point thirty. We're actually everyone come make
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 2: it a date night with your girlfriend, with your children,
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 2: with your man, you know, with your grandmother, with your aunt,
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 2: come out as a community. It's going to be at
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 2: Harlem Hospital. That's five six Lenox Avenue again. The doors
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 2: open at five thirty. It will be in the auditorium
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 2: on the second floor. If you need more information, you
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 2: can go to warm we are Really Matter at gmail
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 2: dot com, or you can rich reach out to us
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 2: on Instagram. That's Warm and YC and we will be there.
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 2: We will be offering some of Queen's amazing tonics and
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 2: detox And because for myself, you know, I didn't know
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  Speaker 2: how to grieve. I did not because they told us,
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  Speaker 2: you know, you get the little shot of alcohol, get
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  Speaker 2: you a little joint, that's how.
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  Speaker 17: You should So I didn't know how it was.
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  Speaker 9: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: I put on ten pounds of betrayal because I didn't
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  Speaker 2: know how to get in touch with what betrayal felt.
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  Speaker 17: Like, how to process it out.
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  Speaker 2: So what I did a hargandized ice cream chocolate cake
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  Speaker 2: every night because I didn't know how to until I
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  Speaker 2: got in touch with Queen in twenty sixteen. I crawled
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  Speaker 2: into her broken down and I got into the Queen
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  Speaker 2: of Food sacred room and train. I graduated as a
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  Speaker 2: sacred woman in twenty sixteen, and my whole life was
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  Speaker 2: shifted and changed. So I promote healthy eating because I
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  Speaker 2: know for myself, I can't get what God got me
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  Speaker 2: if I'm clogged up. I got to keep this vessel
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  Speaker 2: clean to receive the messages. It's serious like that. What
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  Speaker 2: we're dealing with now is spiritual nature. A good old
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  Speaker 2: steak is not going to fix me from getting getting
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  Speaker 2: out of a bad relationship. But I know if I
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  Speaker 2: get on my knees and ask God to guide me out,
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  Speaker 2: you can't take something spiritual and fix it with something material.
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  Speaker 17: It's just not going to work.
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  Speaker 2: So working with Queen has been one of my greatest gifts,
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  Speaker 2: and I give that what she gave me to the women.
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  Speaker 17: It's all gravy. I love it. I love what I do.
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  Speaker 4: Well.
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  Speaker 5: We appreciate you guys so much for joining us this morning.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 19: But those who want to change their lives now and
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  Speaker 19: they see they're in trouble, they can join us in
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  Speaker 19: a seven day detox and making the community of wellness.
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  Speaker 19: So the women are coming and getting well, but also
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  Speaker 19: our men are getting well, our people getting well. So
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  Speaker 19: check out Queeneford dot com. You can register for the
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  Speaker 19: seven day detox that's coming up and be a part
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  Speaker 19: of the change. And if you have an organization that
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  Speaker 19: the women are stressing out, you know it's time to
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  Speaker 19: bring those women together. They can help the other women
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  Speaker 19: and help our families in our community to build up.
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  Speaker 19: So we're just so grateful that you have us today.
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  Speaker 19: We're going to pass the word. You're passing the word
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  Speaker 19: globally high respect.
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  Speaker 5: Stephanie mcgrough, thank you so much and don't forget the
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  Speaker 5: events This Thursday, October fifth at Harlem Hospital and it's
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  Speaker 5: the Breakfast Slub. Good morning, Breakfast club business you don't
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  Speaker 10: Finish for y'all done,